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| 23 | Slow and steady. If you keep relapsing into old bad habits try focusing on slowly building longterm habits instead of quick fixes. | Lifestyle | HyperByte1990 | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 03:15 PM |
| 9 | PSA: never feel guilty about dating multiple girls at once | Fundamentals | HyperByte1990 | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:50 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else notice this weird pattern on Hinge boosts? | Resources | HyperByte1990 | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 01:07 AM |
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| 2 | How do you men feel about compliments from women?Always good. But depends what it is. I've been the class clown funny type most of my life so when people tell me I'm funny it doesn't mean anything because I get told that by everyone. But when I get complimented on my appearance it's more memorable and ego fulfilling (basically most guys are the opposite of most girls in the types of compliments they get the most often, people prefer compliments they get less often) | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Muslim girl Rejected me ( I'm an atheist)If girls follow their religion that closely they tend to not put out anyways | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Sure champ. Whatever helps you cope better 😘 | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 08:07 PM |
| 11 | Dating apps, what's the point?I also do a million times better irl. Few things... I've dated some attractive women from online dating and they all say they got over 8k likes in their first week on just one of the apps. This means MOST of your success will be pure luck due to timing and if the algorithm happens to show you to her. One of my first successful tinder matches a while back turned out had almost 70k Instagram followers and after we went on a few dates and I discovered that I reverse image searched her pics and disc… | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?I just got back into clubbing at 34 and I'm doing well. Most people assume I'm a decade younger than I am. I'm basic and honorary gen z | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 12:25 AM |
| 2 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?🤣 apparently you don't get approached. Mid chicks are more insecure so the girls who do approach are the super hot ones because they're confident that the guy will be attracted to them. I once dated a girl from tinder for a few months and when Instagram recommended me who to follow from when it uploads your contacts it turns out she had almost 70k followers as an Instagram model and was in the top 5% of onlyfans so I think i know what a 9 or 10 looks like. I had ugly duckling syndrome as a kid s… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Tell me you live in a small town without telling me. In cities there's endless 9s and 10s | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 10:10 PM |
| -3 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Have you tried diet and exercise to improve your appearance or are you exclusively only taking copium | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:41 PM |
| 1 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Very true. But my mental health goes to shit in the winter and it's easy to procrastinate and make up excuse us that "its too cold and rainy tonight so I'll just stay home and go out tomorrow night instead" | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:40 PM |
| -1 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Like some guy | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:21 PM |
| 5 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Sort of... Toronto | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:58 AM |
| 12 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Because I live in a city that's cold and dark at 4pm half the year | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:56 AM |
| 3 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?Truth. I'm a good looking, funny af, great career having dude. Meeting girls irl is insanely easy... the ones online are clinically insane... it's like pulling teeth try to get them to actually meet up to on a date even when they send me 50 texts a day | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:37 AM |
| 79 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?As a guy who gets eye fucked constantly and gets approached by 9s and 10s multiple times per week.... trust me... every time I pay to see who liked me... it's literally always just whales... like Brendan fraiser stunt doubles. Zero exaggeration. Edit: for guys who don't get approached... the thing is that most guys are too shy/scared to approach women. Women are even more nervous to approach and just assume they aren't expected to. So when you do become attractive enough to get approached it's 8… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Assuming attraction sounds crazy to meI live in a major city. My chin and jawline aren't impressive at all but I do have a very symmetrical face and amazing eyes. Eyes are the most attractive facial feature on both men and women so if your eyes are attractive enough that overrides most other shortcomings | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Assuming attraction sounds crazy to meYes I'm 5'10. Weightloss is 90% of it. I already had well above avg muscle before so if you don't then work on that too. Also getting a better hair cut and using high quality moisturizer with retinol | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 0 | The economics of dating as a man: when you should be paying for the girlI'm good looking, funny, and successful so I check off all the main boxes. I always pay on dates and pay for their ubers because I want to. It's like a primitive urge. I don't need to buy her affection but there's a primitive desire to provide for her and I can afford it. I personally find it's about 50/50 of women who don't even try to pay and the ones who argue over paying themselves or splitting the bill. If they do offer to pay I do respect them more because I view them more as an equal and … | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Extreme flakiness from girls on the appsNah... they paywall the hot girls so guys need to pay to see them... at least that's what hinge does. On hinge for the normal feed it's 90% very unattractive women and they have a section for "top picks" that only shows you a couple per day and you need to pay to see 10 a day and they're the super hot ones and most of my matches come from there | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Extreme flakiness from girls on the appsUnfortunately it just is what it is. Many girls on there aren't super interested in dating. Many women on here complain about the same thing that guys are also boring and bad at communicating and just act like pen pals and don't actually want to go on real dates. The ones you do vibe with and are eager to send you messages and meet-up are the one's to focus on. It really does depend on what stage of dating they're in. I've had very average looking girls who do one or two messages then unmatch an… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Assuming attraction sounds crazy to meYep. I had a huge "glow up" this past year and got an absurd amount of attention from women and get approached all the time now. Even still I'll get rejected by women who keep staring at me. I was at a street festival and I chickend out approaching 2 girls and moments later a better looking dude who looked super charismatic as well opened them instead and they rejected him within minutes too | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 02:21 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with going from unattractive to attractive?I had the same thing multiple times. The past few years I got fat and ugly af and then this year I lost the weight again and started getting the most amount of attention from women that I ever have. It honestly took me a while to realize they were approaching me and not just randomly asking me stuff. I get approached and checked out very often by the types of women that I'd be too scared to approach because in my mind they're out of my league... but reality says otherwise. I recently just matche… | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | How is the dating world after 30?I'm 34 and got the most female attention of my life this year. But full disclosure I look young for my age. Most women guess I'm low to mid 20s before I tell them my age. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 04:05 AM |
| 8 | Is there a women equivalent to this sub?There's one called howtobehot... I had some of the highest rated posts on there during the summer but got banned because app guys aren't allowed on it even though my advice was universal | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 01:39 PM |
| 14 | Is there a women equivalent to this sub?True women have really bad game lol. I had a "glow up" this year for the first time in years and started getting approached by women almost every time I went out... but it took me a while to realize it because their openers are unbelievably bad lol They usually just come up with generic excuses to ask questions (like asking where a Starbucks is... at 2 am). Then they maintain their "alien smile" and will stand there longer hoping you continue the conversation. I think women definitely do need ad… | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Dating while improving on yourself: the ultimate double-edged swordI had a new glow up over the summer and massively improved my appearance and dating life... another thing I'll add to the list is it creates a decision paralysis and procrastination towards approaching. Over the summer the amount of stares, smiles, double takes, etc I got from women walking down the street I couldv gotten dozens of numbers per day even if i had a low success rate. You get stuck in the fantasy of "look at all the women who want to fuck me. I'm a god" but that gets broken when the… | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Checking out female tinder to see the competition. Holy shitMost of it is timing and luck. I've dated some very attractive girls on dating apps and they all said they got 8-10k likes on the first week on just one of the apps. no way in he'll they went through all of them before getting to me. I'm a decent looking dude who gets approached by very attractive women in real life most nights i go out... but i struggle at matching with even ok looking women on apps. It's literally a numbers game. Stick to real life | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Gents, give me your best covert/subtle ways to make a woman hornyStop watching porn and stop jacking off | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Gents, give me your best covert/subtle ways to make a woman hornyTap into the primal frame that she's a woman and you're a man. Last night I was messaging a girl and she was talking about how strong I was (I'm in good shape) and then we started talking about how there was a rabbit where she was camping. And we joked about it being dangerous. I jokingly said about it "I'll protect the fuck out of you"... and she replied saying it that was extremely sexy and she got super turned on by it. Also stop jacking off and practice holding eye contact. If you're attract… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 08:10 PM |
| 8 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?Why? Weight is one of the easiest things to control | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 04:08 AM |
| 7 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?Yes it is. I've been back and forth between sexy and fat multiple times and being fit is by far more attractive to women. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Share your BEST resources"Interesting life" sounds like it's going on an expedition to the rainforest or something... calling it a "social life" is probably the better description. Most of the time you'll meet and talk to women in places that aren't exactly "interesting" | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Share your BEST resourcesYou're only explaining half the equation... how to be more attractive You also need to be able to meet and talk to women which is what OP is asking for. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Should i cold approach if i am overweight?17? If you successfully cold approach most women they'll be arrested 🤣 | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that the answer to a man's inceldom is, 99.9999% of the time, to "just work on yourself bro," even if its for the next 50 years, "just work on yourself bro?"Get off dating apps. Even hot girls hate them now. I've dated some very attractive women from dating apps and they all say they got 8k to 10k likes on the first week on just one of the apps... it's mostly random luck that we matched they sure as hell aren't going through all 10k dudes and picking me after they compare me to everyone else. I worked on myself a lot recently to the point where most nights when I go out at least 1 or 2 super hot girls will be the ones to approach me and I'll get eye… | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 02:32 AM |
| -1 | Have you ever recovered from what felt like a missed opportunity?Cope. Hit the gym and do skincare bro | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 04:51 AM |
| -1 | Have you ever recovered from what felt like a missed opportunity?I've had times where I bitch out and don't approach... then the girl is gone... and then 30 mins later she approaches me | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere?I've dated attractive women from dating apps in a city of 3 million and they say they got 8k to 10k likes on their first week on just one of the apps. Lots of it is just lucky timing. I'm not better than all the 10k other guys I was just good enough at the right time | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:09 PM |
| 3 | I have lots of experience but rejection still gets to me.Same here. I recently became attractive again and started cold approaching again after a long hiatus (to the point where each time I go out I'll get super hot girls approaching me on a regular basis and tons of stares, double takes, eye fucking)... but when I get rejected I feel like shit and my ego and self esteem crashes... but that's not logical... other women find me attractive so it doesn't actually matter if some of them aren't interested because others definitely will be | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Could we all be less attractive than we think?I get checked out cons and even approached by hot women on a regular basis when I go out... on OLD I get shit results compared to irl. Mt photos aren't great and when I have dated attractive women from old they all say they got like 10k likes in just one week on just one of the apps... it's like how in the bad economy hundreds of people will apply to low wage jobs | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Keep getting “I didn’t feel a spark” after the first dateMy personal reason for getting this lately (since I'm newly back into dating) is lack of escalation... too many lunch/coffee dates where it feels awkward to be more touchy... I'm working on fixing that. Otherwise I'm a good looking dude who's super funny and knows how to have a fun conversation. But you're problem seems different. Are you making her laugh and having interesting convos? Are you being needy and texting her a bunch of times right after the date? Are you drinking too much on the dat… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 01:42 PM |
| 22 | I can get numbers but then no replyDon't double text. Women have tons of options also they ghost often. Only solution is for you to also get many options | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | You need to spend money to get laid!You're talking about "not everyone has internet and a bed"... most people here aren't living in some 3rd world slums | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 09:16 PM |
| 2 | You need to spend money to get laid!You're free to save money by living with your mom and buying as many batman action figures as you want champ | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | You need to spend money to get laid!Bro maybe get your life together in other areas before coming into a subreddit about dating.... | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 3 | You need to spend money to get laid!Dating apps are shit these days... but they do still work a bit but all the attractive women I've dated from them say they get 10k likes a week on just one app... free users literally won't be noticed by them | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:06 PM |
| 0 | You need to spend money to get laid!Facts... op is a clown... just fuck a crackhead on the streets to save 10 bucks on cover charge | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:03 PM |
| 4 | You need to spend money to get laid!Yes... but if people get out of college and are too cheap to put in money for cover charges and dating apps they probably aren't cold approaching in free places either | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:02 PM |
| 3 | You need to spend money to get laid!Yes! Thank you! I have 2 friends who constantly complain about how they can't get women... and they refuse to spend any money on boosts/super likes in dating apps and are too cheap to pay for cover to nightclubs that have lots of hot women in them... even though they make very good money. They honestly just want to save all their money for retirement so they can be miserable for another few decades. Ultimately people spend money on what they care about so if guys aren't spending money to improve… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:00 PM |
| 0 | What's exactly charisma?Rizz The it factor | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Controversial Opinion: Approaching women is easier than using dating apps **proof**Yep. I just got my shit together recently and became attractive again and I get more matches on dating apps and get hot girls approaching me irl on a regular basis now... girls I meet in real life tend to be in their 20s and are more attractive and fun and chill... ones on dating apps tend to be in their 30s and have a stick up their ass and take it way too seriously and it ruins the vibe | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching in MallsExactly... but there's still lots of fucked up weirdos that don't do that and make it creepy af | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:44 PM |
| 8 | Cold Approaching in MallsMaybe if someone is an extreme creepy weirdo and spam approaches every girl they might. There's lots of guys on here that actually are hopeless creepy weirdos that ruin it for normal people... but we just need to ignore them | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:35 PM |
| 17 | Girl im talking to say she wants me to be more vulnerable…."My greatest weakness is I work too hard" | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 02:29 AM |
| 3 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?Who in the seven circles of fuck was calling you attractive at 4 and are they still in jail? | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 12 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?When I was in my university years and was getting lots of positive attention from the ladies the one approach I did was I saw a girl from behind walking down the street wearing a top hat like thing... so perfect opener I thought... walk behind her and take off her hat and wear it... My only thought was "I hope she's hot when she turns around" and not that it was creepy lol... I grab her hat and put it on... she turns around confused for a second and then when she saw me her face lit up like a go… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 4 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?Rules 1 and 2... be attractive... don't be unattractive I've been back and forth between being fat/ugly and fit/attractive multiple times... I'm currently the most attractive I've ever been by far and it's a night and day difference. Not only do I get approached by very attractive women on a regular basis now but the more common difference is that when a cute girl catches you looking at her she'll smile or give this kind of look like her ego just got stroked and you made her feel good about hers… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How To Go Out Alone (And Why It’s Better Anyway)Lol that's the million dollar question. There's no one size fits all. You just need to practice because each woman and situation and conversation will be different. Depends on the woman too some are more cool and better at talking than others who can't hold up their end of a conversation | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 06:48 AM |
| 0 | How To Go Out Alone (And Why It’s Better Anyway)What do you mean? It's work not wiring | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | How To Go Out Alone (And Why It’s Better Anyway)Exactly! Most of the people who say it's over by 30 is propaganda by women and married dudes who are coping because they peaked at 25. I got super depressed and let myself go to shit during the covid lockdowns because all the social dating places shut down and I desperately longed for my "glory days" of being 22ish... but now I blow that out of the fucking water. Plus there's a reason why "the sexiest woman alive" contest each year is a chick in her 20s and series man is a guy in his 30s or 40s | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 02:03 AM |
| 17 | How To Go Out Alone (And Why It’s Better Anyway)I almost exclusively go out alone now. I live super close to the best nught life district in my city so it's an easy part of my weekly routine. Always remember: a bad wingman is worse than no wingman at all. I love my fellow single friends... but they suck with women. When I used to go out with them they'd be super boring or creepy and they didn't take care of their appearance so they scared away the types of women I get now... they were also cheap as fuck and boring so they never wanted to spen… | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 06:16 PM |
| 2 | What were some cases where you guys had a feeling a woman were receptive to an approach, and you ended up being either right or wrong?Lmao... perfect question for me right now. I "looksmaxxed" a ton lately to the point where perfect 10s approach me at least once or twice a night... and I get tons of interest normally and approaches are easy. There's a new arcade bar that opened recently and I would notice women sitting alone looking over at me multiple times... so common sense would be she's into me and it's an arcade so asking her to play a game with me is a shoe in... when I approach they aren't as good looking as I thought … | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 03:33 AM |
| 35 | How do I break out of beginner hell as fast as possible as a 23yo who just lost his v card 5 months ago and has never been in a relationship?Stop with the deadline shit. Take your time. Just live life and try to be better one day at a time instead of looking for magic fixes | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Cocky&Funny or Calm&Relaxed, which one is more attractive to women?Depends on your style. I'm a cocky and funny type ... and self deprecating and funny type... just don't be boring | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Why? | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 06:39 AM |
| 0 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Now that I got my shit together and "looksmaxxed" and got social again... I have too many options. I don't want a girlfriend. I just started seeing a girl recently who's gorgeous and a decade younger than me who would be my gf in a second if I asked her to be... but I don't want that. It wouldn't be fair to the other 2 million women in my city | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 01:59 AM |
| 17 | How to lose your virginity in 2024Or you could... you know... improve yourself and meet women | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 09:03 PM |
| 20 | She liked my message when I asked her out?1% chance she's busy, 4% she's playing hard to get, 95% chance she's not interested | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Why LOOKSMAXXING Will Get You NOWHERE!Oh yes... exfoliating, cleaning, and moisturizing your face is 15 steps and does nothing.... cope 🤡 | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 12:40 PM |
| 9 | Why LOOKSMAXXING Will Get You NOWHERE!Anyone who thinks that looks don't matter to attraction is delusional | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 12:36 PM |
| -4 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.Pathetic. Improve yourself instead of complaining | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 05:22 AM |
| 20 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.It's sad how many upvotes this is getting... I think you guys fundamentally misunderstand the entire point of this subredit and game in general. Let me guess you're an avg looking guy who just goes up to random girls and says "hi you're cute" and has no real game or interesting/funny things to say after that. You can ALWAYS improve your odds by bettering yourself. You'll never win them all but thinking it's purely random is absurd and a loser mentality. Next time you get rejected by a girl in a … | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Women ghost me just because I ask for a phone callSounds like scammers. Bots do that when caught | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 03:35 AM |
| 11 | Feel kind of boring because I haven't done that much travelling...Should I be?I've barely traveled at all. I went to Brazil by myself and got robbed so it makes for a dope story. But I'm naturally super funny so even if my life seems boring I'm always entertaining to talk to. You don't need to travel but you need to be interesting | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Best way to overcome feeling creepy/intrusive?Confidence is number 1 but also work on your physical appearance as best as you can. I recently got back into super good shape and now the way women react to me when I approach them or they see me looking at them is verrrry welcoming | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 06:03 PM |
| 5 | PSA: never feel guilty about dating multiple girls at onceMy advice is to learn from my rookie mistakes. I've been out of the dating game for a while and forgot about this part. Is Julien still around? He was big back in the day | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:18 PM |
| 0 | PSA: never feel guilty about dating multiple girls at once"Hurt" is a strong word lol. We just had super good vibes and she even said the classic "you're probably going to talk to new girls after I leave" type guilt trip joke thing. The point is even if it feels "different" keep meeting new ones. Makes me feel guilty sometimes... kind of like working for a small mom/pop company that's treats you really well while you're job hunting else where. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it?I'm 33 now and recently got back into shape... I get WAAAAY more attention now from women (all ages) than I did in what I used to think was my prime of my early early 20s. I was out of shape for a while from depression so coming back to being fit and sexy again feels like I got a decade of life back. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Seems to me talking about exes on first date is a great idea"Let's not talk about my exes... let's instead talk about girls who would've been my exes if they hadn't rejected me" | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Seems to me talking about exes on first date is a great ideaShhh it's the only way he'll learn | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Cold Approach will SAVE you.I live in Canada and the job market is shit... 1000s a day is literally a real statistic. Look it up | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 04:35 PM |
| 3 | How to use use money to improve my attractiveness?Username is a strong hint | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 02:20 PM |
| 6 | How to use use money to improve my attractiveness?I pay 300 a month to go to a high end fitness club that's entirely classes. It makes me sexy and the number of super hot women staring at me there makes me feel like a god. It's like shooting fis in a barrel | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 05:17 AM |
| 10 | What kind of social interactions with women do you enjoy the most?I'm currently in a kickball league and I'm naturally a funny extraverted guy. I love being on a base and making the cute girls laugh on the other team when they are on my base. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Complimented my eye doctor on her hair and eyesGood man. All progress is good progress. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?I've gotten hot girls on it a bunch of times too. Doesn't change the fact that it's like applying for a fast food job when your overqualified and there's thousands of other applicants | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:57 PM |
| -1 | Which Is The Best Pickup Artist Bootcamp?Women literally get 1000s of likes per week. The paid members are shown to them first. Without paying you'll be at a the bottom of the pile | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:25 PM |
| 46 | Cold Approach will SAVE you.I'm an engineer with a super impressive resume... I couldn't get a job at a fast food place even if I wanted to because they get thousands of applications these days I'm an attractive and funny man and online dating doesn't work for the same reason. I've dated some gorgeous women from tinder/bumble and they all say they got 8 to 10 thousand likes in just one week on just one app... it's literally statisticaly impossible to get the same results as I can get meeting women in real life. The McDonal… | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Being in shape, body game is the foundation to "seduction"I was a scrawny kid in high school but I was the best class clown in the school so being funny/popular let me attract girls way out of my league... but when I started uni and working out... the way women look at you hits very fucking different than attracting her via being funny. I've been called funny and "you should be a comedian" by 99% of people I've met since I was 13 but being physically fit/attractive feels like waaaay more of an ego boost | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Being in shape, body game is the foundation to "seduction"Better litmus test is to live in a large city and see how many women stare at you and/or smile when you walk past them | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Being in shape, body game is the foundation to "seduction"I got back into shape recently for that exact reason. Lost the weight and joined a high end fitness class club... the number and attractiveness of the women eye fucking me there is something that was impossible in my fat phas. I've experienced being fat/fit multiple times in my life and the way women look at you when your fit makes it feel like you truly belong in the tribe, like you really can have almost anyone you want | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 02:31 AM |
| 7 | A quick guide: why you should never try to win back an exAs a guy in my 30s it fucking kills me how many times I was too sad about an ex leaving me to move onto other girls when I was younger | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | How to make seductive eye contact?They need to find you physically attractive and then you need to HOLD eye contact while having the idea in your mind "I'm a sexy guy, you're a sexy woman we should fuck each other's brains out". Takes some practice and you won't win them all but when you do it'll be some deep primal shit that can't be faked and you'll both feel an insane amount of sexual tension | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 02:45 AM |
| 5 | How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe?Not directly the same but try watching less porn and jacking off less. Being horny and confident hits different and women will view you more sexually | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Any good book to reattract an ex?Move on amigo. I know it's not what you want to hear but it's the truth. I've been there many times before. The only way to win back an ex is to actually move on and start dating other girls. It's win win because she'll be jealous and possibly want you back... and you'll be over her and dating other women | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 01:15 AM |
| 21 | I banned dating apps from my lifeGood man. Dating apps just become a crutch and random pay off. I've dated attractive girls from it and they all said they got 8 to 10 thousand likes in just one week on just one app... it's like applying to a fast food place when you're overqualified and there's 1000s of other people applying... pure luck Based on the amount of female attention I get in real life I should have literally drowned in pussy on tinder... dating apps simply don't work well compared to real life they just give girls an… | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps suckYep it's literally like being overqualified to work at a fast food place but still not getting the job because of the literally thousands of applicants. I've dated some super attractive women from dating apps and they all said they got like 8k to 10k likes in their first week on just one app. They aren't looking through all 10k lol. Timing and luck matters too much so it's like gambling vs meeting women in real life | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to female attention.These homeless creeps are a different level. This dude had a black eye and covered in dirt and kept gesturing with his thumb to go to some alley way... but I also got checked out by about 3 dozen women during that walk so it balances out. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:37 PM |
| 2 | I’m addicted to female attention.It literally just happened again and creepier this time... I can't even imagine what hot girls experience. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Is it over for me? 33 y/oLol fuck no. Move to a big city and take care of your appearance. Most people who think it's "over when you're 30" are uggos who live in the middle of nowhere | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:56 PM |
| 10 | I’m addicted to female attention.Same here. Maybe it's because I was the middle child and didn't get enough attention. But I was a class clown in high school and climbed the popularity ladder to the top because I wanted attention and validation. Then in my university years I was obsessed with being physically attractive too to get even more attention and validation | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:50 PM |
| 11 | I’m addicted to female attention.He's just a hater | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:48 PM |
| 4 | I’m addicted to female attention.He's gay for liking women giving him attention? | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:45 PM |
| 3 | I’m addicted to female attention.Same. It's very easy to procrastinate and be like "wow I can have any girl I want... no rush to pick one out today" | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:45 PM |
| 10 | I’m addicted to female attention.Sounds like we are the same guy lol. I've been in and out of my "sexy phase" multiple times. I re lost all my weight again and was jacked before so I'm back to getting checked out and smiled at constantly. I went to a new nightclub last weekend and the number and attractiveness of the women staring at me felt like a VR simulation of being a celebrity or something. I live in a major city so walking down any busy street and getting checked out by countless women is fucking intoxicating... even tho… | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do i pull only fat girls?Nah it's worse than that. I get checked out constantly in real life but struggle on dating apps. I've dated many super attractive women from dating apps and they all say they get 8 to 10,000 likes on just one app in the first week. Dating apps are like trying to apply to a McDonald's even when you're overqualified because they get endless applicants | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do i pull only fat girls?"Weird op... this must be everyone else's fault but yours" - what op is secretly hoping to hear | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Why do i pull only fat girls?Lol exactly! I'm just a tad under 6 feet and if all the girls I dated started saying "uggh why can't I date a tall guy" I'd be confused and pissed off too | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do i pull only fat girls?If you find them attractive then go for it... but personally if I'm not physically attracted to a girl then why would I date her? I'd rather be alone and masturbate than fuck a girl I wasn't interested in. View yourself with respect like a fancy French restaurant with a dress code... you could get more customers if anyone can dine there but then what's the point | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | 10 steps on how some men build resentment towards women due to ego, lack of patience, and not getting the hint.Lol I had a woman do this to me recently. We met on a dating app and she had recently moved to my country. She said she was super busy with starting a new life here that she didn't have much time and just wanted to be friends... so naturally I matched with several other girls from her same country and sent her screens of them (showing I used the exact same lines on them) and asked her for restaurant recommendations... she got furious and said sending screenshots of conversations is illegal 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | 10 steps on how some men build resentment towards women due to ego, lack of patience, and not getting the hint.Lol I had a woman do this to me recently. We met on a dating app and she had recently moved to my country. She said she was super busy with starting a new life here that she didn't have much time and just wanted to be friends... so naturally I matched with several other girls from her same country and sent her screens of them (showing I used the exact same lines on them) and asked her for restaurant recommendations... she got furious and said sending screenshots of conversations is illegal 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 08:47 PM |
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