I'm just getting back into the dating game. I lost a ton of weight and get the most attention I ever have in my life. I'm going out to nightclubs, social events, fitness classes, etc and with my new and improved appearance, sense of humor, and social skills I feel like a kid in a candy store...

I swore off dating apps but just before I went out on Friday to meet women irl I got a notification that a girl liked me on tinder and she was beautiful and we clicked really well and went on a date Saturday...

The date felt textbook perfect... she seemed extremely into me and we had the best chemistry I've ever felt in my life... only 1 date but it felt different almost "magical". I was kinda disappointed because I wanted to keep dating new women and now with my self improvement it was super easy to do so... but she seemed really special and she was swooning over me too... I actually didn't go out the next night because I assumed I'd see her again soon and I felt guilty about meeting new people...

... then it happened... she unmatched and ghosted me out of nowhere. Not the first time it happened to me but given how great things went I was shocked.

TL;DR: keep meeting new women unless you are actually in an exclusive relationship with a girl. I've been meeting lots of women recently, found one that seemed pretty cool and she was super into me so I didn't want to hurt her and then she ghosted me instead.