IAmAtlasGrey Archive

Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
Looking for Brainstorming and Perspective on a Few Points of Frustration		IAmAtlasGrey	/r/seduction	10/07/16 05:45 PM
Good Flow Lately, but Looking for Perspective on Next Moves		IAmAtlasGrey	/r/seduction	05/07/16 11:50 PM
[FR] Sacrificed a Social Night for a 1 on 1 Opportunity; Seeking Perspective for Self-Improvement	Field Report	IAmAtlasGrey	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/16 12:03 AM

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2	4 Rules for a good conversation Use emotion and body language together with straightforwardness. Something like "oh, shoot! I actually have to go/stop you there/other cancelation action. Pair the interrupt with an immediate, natural body language to break the conversational pattern and draw attention, and then just say what you need to happen. Have to leave, have to do whatever. As a script attempt: 1. Conversation gets too long 2. Context-appropriate interrupt (hate to cut you off, sorry to interrupt, and other definite langu…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/17 04:17 AM
2	Red Pill "shower thought" 'Do one thing every day that scares you.' Advice I took from the "Sunscreen" graduation speech by Kurt Vonnegut, I believe. I don't manage it every day, but this is a key to understanding your limits, which can include the time you've been given.	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/17 05:13 PM
7	Girls before and after swallowing the pill Red flags, man. She's deflecting blame/guilt onto you for a situation she is more the cause of than you. You're essentially asking her to demonstrate trustworthiness and she seems to be responding like a cornered animal. However, it's a tricky situation you're in because you have a lot of ways to lose and few ways to win. If you don't hold frame, you're encouraging her excuses and defensiveness and potentially her loss of interest because of the demonstrated insecurity. On the other hand, if you…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/16 10:18 AM
1	Do you ever get rejected for physical escalation by a girl even though she's into you? Why does it happen? Lots of reasons for this, some have been mentioned, but I didn't read every single reply. She wants to make you want it more (she's building value in a coy way)... read body language She spotted someone watching or is worried someone is watching and for some reason doesn't want PDA (public displays of affection) The moment wasn't right (conversation sent her thinking about an ex/bad moment in her life/awkward thought/responsibility she has to take care of/anything else that would create cognitiv…	/r/seduction	30/08/16 12:29 PM
1	[FR] Sacrificed a Social Night for a 1 on 1 Opportunity; Seeking Perspective for Self-Improvement Update: for those who care, this situation has evolved further. We got together again a week later and it's definitely more on. Since I've known her a longer term, there is less of an imperative to rush/pressure outcomes, and my instincts appear to have been good. Of course, if I were set on closing earlier, I think the signals were there, but in this specific situation, it's been advantageous to move it along as I have. Here are the keys I have been displaying to keep it interesting: don't hold…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/16 09:56 AM
1	[FR] Sacrificed a Social Night for a 1 on 1 Opportunity; Seeking Perspective for Self-Improvement Thanks for taking the time to answer! Everything you said is helpful, and I'll use it to slay my whiny internal pussyman. Much respect, and big ups for the perspective. Any insight on the female perspective on cheating? Is she basically most likely to hamster herself (and therefore me, too) into the free and clear? I guess I'm interested in learning to prevent/avoid bf backlash, which probably ought to be directed her way, but might be directed mine (due to basic male vs. male competition instin…	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/16 08:08 PM
2	[FR] Sacrificed a Social Night for a 1 on 1 Opportunity; Seeking Perspective for Self-Improvement Thanks for your feedback. I knew I wasn't finishing, too, and I know it was because of my boyfriend block... mentally berating myself when I ignore her situation, which she and I both know is clear to me. This is totally new territory for me. We've actually had an ongoing interaction for weeks now, so I am still optimistic that it's escalating and in the region where something could happen, but I'm taking note that IF I do 'pass', it's with like a C- grade, and that decisiveness is the #1 step t…	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/16 08:04 PM
2	Learning the Importance of Holding Frame Embrace them! Those "-ould've's" are your retrospective clarity, which is a very quick and informative teacher. Take care to stay self-positive and eager for your next opportunity, rather than despair about "chances missed". Abundance mindset.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/16 10:33 PM
2	Life is good: you are a man This was important to say. It's also important to note that no sperm has an "ass". Also that even the fastest sperm cell only travels about 8 inches in a few days post-ejaculation. Because my point completely changes now that we know even a baby mouse crawls faster than all of us swam as sperms.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/16 10:17 PM
1	Life is good: you are a man Not sure what you're getting at, because it is most definitely the sperm cell that gives either an X or a Y, whereas the egg gives only an X. If you're being scientifically literal in some way, you're overthinking my meaning.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/16 10:13 PM
7	Life is good: you are a man I wanted to say something like this, but I like how you said it better. Don't fall into a trap of complacency, JUST because half of you was a speedy-ass Y sperm. Yes, society is built by men, but that's not a ticket to anything except waking up to your POTENTIAL. And POTENTIAL is its own word that is not spelled A-C-T-U-A-L-I-T-Y for a reason. That's YOUR task. Slay it :D P.S. My request is to do it in a way that makes the world better and more responsible.	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 07:19 PM
4	Learning the Importance of Holding Frame To OP: nicely done making progress and achieving a personal benchmark! Keep that momentum. I agree here... as your comfort zone expands (by pushing its boundaries, NOT by passively waiting), get creative with opportunities like this. What if the story could have had you saying something to the effect of "Hell no I won't kiss your foot... I have no idea where it's been..." [she crumples and plays victim, you move on], and then later on when you have some privacy with her, "...so I'm not one for k…	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/16 07:13 PM
26	FR: Girl At The Park Congrats OP on a dream of an experience! Wow. You touched on a really important point... Just by immersion in self-development material you are influenced by it. The work was already done ahead of time by guiding your mindset toward certain behaviors and away from others subconsciously. When you trusted YOURSELF and not A BUNCH OF ADVICE, it worked out. Of course the 'self' you put forth is in part a result of what you've been absorbing, but at the end of the day, it was you that you relied on a…	/r/seduction	17/08/16 09:05 AM
2	Looking for Brainstorming and Perspective on a Few Points of Frustration You gave voice to my thoughts, thanks for the feedback! I haven't really acted on this principle much before, so it's less familiar territory, but I'm sure every caterpillar has that kind of experience when it one day has wings. To go with what you said, I figure the totality of humanity benefits from the kind of competition here mentioned... I mean, we really should always improve ourselves (game and in all ways), so it's good to keep each other sharp. Plus, I know first hand what it's like to …	/r/seduction	11/07/16 07:54 PM
1	"Sort of" an FR: You know how everyone says rejection isn't that bad? Yeah, about that... Hey, so I'm not some pickup OG by any means; I'm entirely new to Reddit altogether, so my creds are what they are. My thoughts: you did a great job of being resourceful in the situation by identifying some solid common ground when you saw her sticker. You also identified just having a total weakness for her hair. I want to make one point about each of these things that might have given you some more room to both embrace your congruency as you work toward being the best you possible and also save…	/r/seduction	14/06/16 09:53 PM