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| 11 | Fit the profile of a piller and unsure what to do? It's toxic but I love self pity and being the victim. | ICQME | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 12:07 PM |
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| 26 | Off my chest: I finally stood up to my sister todayHey bro, I think we have the same sister. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/05/26 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]what do you mean? I don't understand. What do you consider often? | /r/BlackPillScience | 13/11/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Women’s sexual desire rapidly declines once in a relationship and continues to decline over the course of the relationship, while men’s desire remains constant. [Graph In Comments]how often is often? I'm not sure what these numbers mean. Often to me is more than once a month but for other people that might be everyday. | /r/BlackPillScience | 04/09/25 09:39 AM |
| 5 | What happened to Coach Red Pill?He died in prison | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/25 09:11 AM |
| 3 | I talked to the DEI officers at work about men's issues - Part 2Can you start/run the mens DEI? My workplace has a document/template which can be used to charter a new DEI group as long as someone on the executive team will sponsor it. Unsure if that's how it works at other places. Sounds like anyone can attempt it. I joined some of the DEI groups at work and it's like 90% women and a social hour meeting for them. Men don't seem interested in DEI other than maybe the veterans group. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/02/25 11:34 AM |
| 37 | Why aren't there more bisexual men?How am I going to control my man with sex if he can run off and get it easy from one of his buddies? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/09/24 08:16 AM |
| 8 | Obesity Is Strongly Associated With Low Testosterone and Reduced Penis Growth During Developmentletting your kids become obese is child abuse and neglect | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/06/24 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Gender Disappointment in 2024 is Almost Always About Boys. "A shameful secret kept from the public eye but omnipresent in online mom spaces"You're right, there's nothing wrong with different hairstyles on men. if I had nice hair I'd grow it out too. His hair was a little longer than shoulder length and now it looks more like a young Justin Bieber type of haircut. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/05/24 10:15 AM |
| 130 | Gender Disappointment in 2024 is Almost Always About Boys. "A shameful secret kept from the public eye but omnipresent in online mom spaces"I know a woman who cried when she learned she was having a boy. Encouraged him to wear dresses as a toddler and grew his hair out. Even did those things in Kindergarten but by 1st grade he started pushing back and I think he dresses like the other boys now. I don't know her very well, got divorced recently, think the kid is doing well. I wonder if he'll ever learn how disappointed his mom was in him. I remember my mom complaining about men and acting like I was another man oppressing her as a ch… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What unique experiences do you face as an autistic man and how do you deal with them?I have a lot of problems with IBS/Digestive issues. I also struggle with sleep problems. Sharing a bed with someone would make it impossible to sleep. I also find it extremely difficult to deal with the noise at bars/parties. I can't understand what people are saying there and I have to look away and almost close my eyes to focus on their words due to audio processing issues. People probably think I'm cold and uninterested or rude but I'm struggling from the pain of overstimulation. Then when I … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How to exit redpill when I had to learn about biological human attractiveness at uni?I'm curious about what features are attractive in men. I imagine being short, baby faced, recessed chin, balding, poor vision, pear shape instead of V shaped, small hands, and a nasally voice is universally attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/09/23 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Are “incels” bad?the word means whatever one wants it to mean | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/09/23 07:56 AM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts about "Thinking Ape" from YouTube?I've been a subscriber of his for like 10 years(he used to be stardusk), he has been around a while, earlier videos were interesting but new ones are mostly boring and depressing with his monotone voice which is getting harder to listen to. I don't even listen to some of them now because I'm trying to cut negativity out my life. He seems kinda odd. Born in the US, never learned to drive, didn't like US life, moved to Korea and worked as a translator, had a girlfriend but it didn't work out, thin… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/23 11:21 AM |
| 5 | Another thing that disproves every single redpill talking points is the show “my 600lb life”.my personality is worse than I thought | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Therapy was useless for me. What are your stories with therapy? [vent]how expensive is therapy? I have insurance but a huge deductible. been afraid to go due to gear of financial hardship will probably make my overall life worse. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/08/23 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Is adolescent bullying an evolutionary adaptation?just roll a better character next time bro | /r/BlackPillScience | 09/07/23 07:46 PM |
| 2 | "women hold up half the sky" Or why I stopped dating cis women and identifying as a man.The vast majority of poly folks have 2+ romantic and sexual relationships are there poly folks who only have 1 partner but that partner has multiple partners? I've been thinking about entering a poly relationship with a married man but I don't have the energy or interest to manage more than 1 relationship at a time. my sex drive is low so I'd like my partner to have other outlets for it. wondering if that's a thing for some poly people. I'm looking at it as as like a part time relationship. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/23 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Can we ban the use of the word “females” instead of women on here?if the word gets banned then it's going to get confusing when talking about male women or female men | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/23 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Women view taller men as more physically attractive, more masculine, and having a greater fighting ability. Higher shoulder-to-hip ratios were rated as more attractive in taller men but did not influence attractiveness ratings for shorter men.I'm a normal weight but my hip bone is wide. I'm 40-30-38 5'7 pear shaped man and it's hard to find clothing which is flattering not having a V shape. I imagine an unmasculine body shape is a turn off to most women. | /r/BlackPillScience | 08/04/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Trans and autistic, can't seem to find a way outI feel similar. pill content became a special interest. initially it was just to figure out what I was doing wrong and hoping to learn a formula for finding a relationship. I could get a date but rarely a 2nd date. one woman i went on a 2nd date with said i might be gay because i wasn't trying to get in her pants. later on i transitioned and started dating men and there were a lot of aggressive creeps and i remember hanging out with one guy who tried to hold me down. thankfully i managed to brea… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/23 11:43 AM |
| 3 | I recently found out that a guy I’m talking to has a high body count and I am repulsedI wonder if he plans to stop seeing prostitutes when he gets married | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Starting in the late teens, the parental age of both sexes positively correlates with de novo mutations in offspring, with paternal age providing a stronger correlation.what age is considered to be an older parent? 30+? | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/02/23 01:59 PM |
| -2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?1/3 that of a man | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 04:04 PM |
| 20 | Women view taller men as more physically attractive, more masculine, and having a greater fighting ability. Higher shoulder-to-hip ratios were rated as more attractive in taller men but did not influence attractiveness ratings for shorter men.So as a short man this means my wide birthing hips aren't an issue for women? Excellent news. Thank you. | /r/BlackPillScience | 15/02/23 09:16 AM |
| 2 | In a traditional African population, indigenous religion enables males to achieve a significantly lower probability of cuckoldry (1.3% versus 2.9%).Just move into an indigenous African village bro | /r/BlackPillScience | 11/02/23 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Afraid to accept Im straightI'm sorry you're straight. That's rough. At least you gave the gay pill a try to be sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/22 08:23 PM |
| 0 | At what point do you give up finding a girlfriend?i gave up at age 33 and i'm 40 now | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/22 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse.who has the time or energy for sex everyday | /r/BlackPillScience | 06/10/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Autistic people are disliked because of their unvaried affective facial expressionsthere are some people like this at my work and they seem popular with co-workers and have lots of relationship history but it always felt fake and annoying to me. i try to be a little friendlier and say hi to people, smile, and say hi. seems to help | /r/BlackPillScience | 27/09/22 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Autistic people are disliked because of their unvaried affective facial expressionstend to perceive autistic people as less likable and more socially awkward within seconds, presumably long before one can get an accurate reading of these said traits. Thanks for posting this. I feel like most people instantly dislike me before I can even say anything. I use to think it was simply due to being unattractive but I'm starting to think my facial expressions/body language are just a bit off and I'm in the uncanny valley. My voice is also monotone/boring. I try to act normal/mask and … | /r/BlackPillScience | 27/09/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How do I not go down the negative loopHave you tried being attractive? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/22 07:03 PM |
| 61 | Young male gang members (between 14 and 18 years old) were 5.7 times more likely to have had sex and 3.2 times more likely to have gotten a girl pregnant than their peers reporting no gang involvement.Just join a gang bro | /r/BlackPillScience | 08/08/22 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Skin exposure to UVB light induces a skin-brain-gonad axis and sexual behaviorThanks, interesting study. I wonder if the benefits of measured sun exposure is worth the risk of skin aging and damage. Two months ago I started getting full body sun exposure for about 10 minutes a day every other day and believe I'm sleeping and feeling better but I'm still in terrible mental and physical health so not sure. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/08/22 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenI agree. I'm not a woman but I barely escaped being raped by a man who tried overpowering me. Since then I've been a lot more careful. I imaging that true for women and might explain why if they get any sort of iffy vibe from a guy they nope out of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 8 | Why is it easier for men to get with other men vs womenI believe women are more selective and choosy when it comes to men for both hooking up and long term relationships. I think there's also the aspect of men being initiators and escalators of sexual encounters. I was talking to a bi sexual woman friend about the differences between men and women and she said it was annoying sometimes to date women because she would have to be more assertive and escalate things and couldn't count on the other woman to do it. I've dated both men and women and found … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 11:33 AM |
| – | [Trigger Warning: Abuse] How many of you who got caught up in Red Pill are abuse survivors?my mother was on disability for BPD and had nothing better to do than torment me | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Question: If BlackPill is true...can you link the data you're talking about? I'd like to see it. In 2018 the rate of change went down but it still still moving in the same direction? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Question: If BlackPill is true...How much does the data change each year? I would think there would be a certain amount of noise and variation year to year just by chance. Based on the subscriber and view counts of blackpill content creators I'd say they're a fringe minority not representative of most men. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 10:37 AM |
| 2 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?i have a boyfriend but i don't feel like we're really compatible in many ways even though he's really nice. he's about my only support. i don't have any friends. i mostly felt pressure from my mom to start having kids. she was mad that i had a 'good job' but wasn't dating. i remember when I still lived at home she would say stuff like if I didn't start using my dick it would fall off. i have some cptsd trauma issues. thankfully she died young from alcoholism. i've been in a relationship with a m… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?I also found it exhausting and mostly have put it behind me. I'm trying to get into other interests like biking rail trails and home improvement projects. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 02:52 PM |
| 3 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?I use to think I needed to follow the 'life script' but now I'm not sure. I'm too old to start a family imo so maybe it doesn't matter. i've lost a lot of interest in the whole thing but I still often wonder what went wrong and why do i see so many odd/ugly people in relationships but i can't be in one. makes me think i'm significantly worse and unlikeable than like 95% of people. makes me feel defective. at this point all that's left is copes too keep me motivated to keep moving forward. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 10:14 AM |
| 3 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?my interests are solo-nerd hobbies like antique computers and ham radio and I also believe in conspiracy theories but i keep that shit to myself because no one wants to hear it. I also consider myself bi sexual and have had more encounters with men. i feel like all these things are major deal breakers for women. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 09:59 AM |
| 7 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?I got into it because I kept failing at dating and wasn't sure what I was doing wrong. I think I'm autistic and/or mentally ill so finding some sort of of How-To guide gave me a bit of hope that I could figure out how to attract and keep a partner. I failed and got into blackpill for a while but not I'm not really sure about that either. I'm 40 now and have given mostly given up on dating/relationships. I'm unattractive and too weird and even if I try to act normal.. it's just an act.. and I can… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't even know if I'm capable of change. I'm going to be an incel for the rest of my pathetic excuse of a lifeI hear you. Sometimes I meet a guy who I think is worse than me then discover he has an ex-wife and kids which I find baffling. Looking back I try to figure out where things went wrong and what I could've done differently but never really figure it out. All that's left is to cope and accept it and try not to be bitter. I'm sorry for the pain you're in and hope you find a way to deal with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Why did you leave redpill?I finally admitted to myself I'm a gay and got a boyfriend. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/22 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Can Childhood abuse make you an incel?I think so. Do you have any siblings? I'm one of 4 children(2 girls 2 boys) and we're all damaged to the point where none of us are ever going to have kids/get married. my mother died from drug abuse around age 60 and dad moved away when I was in my teens. Think I give off bad vibes even when I try to be friendly and outgoing I can't hide the pain, sorrow, and hyper active nervous system which keeps me on edge. Sometimes I just kinda stare off and retreat into my head unless I remind myself not … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/22 02:51 PM |
| 8 | I just watched Rocky, are Adrians out there?Rocky was written by and starred Sylvester Stallone so I'm going to have to say the entire thing was male fantasy. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 04:19 PM |
| 6 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI've been trying to write something but it's difficult to respond. I think a lot of it is just evo-biology? Men are less choosy with a higher sex drive. Rejection hurts but it also feels bad and awkward to reject people. Women might be annoyed by being put in these awkward situations with friends. I don't know what a man can do if he is unattractive other than try to be more attractive and meet/know more people. when guy has zero options it can be difficult when maybe women have bad options and … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 09:56 PM |
| -1 | Men who escaped the Redpill or Inceldom, what's the biggest advice you would give for the ones who are still struggling?chemical castration | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/22 12:51 PM |
| 3 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?my mom use to talk to herself a lot, but more like whispers so it was hard to tell what she would always be saying to herself, I do too but to a lesser extent. We're both kinda odd without many friends. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | What hairstyles would fit my chubby baby face the best?I have a fat baby face and went bald at 16, my mom says I'm very handsome. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 10:10 PM |
| -2 | What hairstyles would fit my chubby baby face the best?chubby baby face looks best with a bald head. shave it. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 08:40 PM |
| 0 | What's your take on balding ?My take on balding is that it makes people look older and it's more suitable for people with more masculine looking faces. The 2nd picture you posted... they guy isn't bald.. he has a shaved head. It's a lot better if it looks like a personal choice because the hairline is visible even with a shaved head than someone who was forced to shaved their head. He's also the most masculine looking man I've ever seen. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 10:50 AM |
| 3 | I drove uber last night for few hours..so many couplesdoes that mean men who struggle to get any relationship are considerably worse than average? I suspect there's some sort of mental illness and not looks which are causing these men trouble. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 12:19 PM |
| 5 | We found that people attributed more moral traits to attractive than unattractive people. The Beauty-is-Good stereotype particularly skews in favor of the attribution of moral traits | n = 1254I noticed nearly every movie you can tell who the 'bad' person is instantly based on how attractive they are. Unattractive people are always up to no good and can't be trusted. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/12/21 02:25 PM |
| 6 | where/how to find promiscuous women?guess it depends where you are, think it's mostly swingers clubs which don't take single men. I mostly go to bi typed events, or use to, lost interest in it after a while. could try local munches, I never been, had a friend who I would go to events with and got to know a lot of people and hooked up several times. It felt a lot like going to meetup groups if the meetup group was about doing fetish/kink things. It was the only thing I could think of about uninhibited women interested in doing thin… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 09:56 AM |
| 11 | where/how to find promiscuous women?A fetish/bdsm club might be a place to checkout or other events on fetlife. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/21 09:46 AM |
| 3 | Do y’all hate when men use the words “female” instead of women?yes. I have an uncle who says 'females act like this' or 'females do this' followed by some negative stereo type. It's super gross and makes my skin crawl. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | The matrix was a metaphor for being transit can be about anything you want it to be | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so difficult for RP/Incels to understand that attractive women like attractive men?what I'm going to do with my life when I'm older? The older you get the faster time seems to pass so maybe it wont last too long? Sometimes I get to watch kids for a little while and start wanting kids but then I see how tired and broke their parents always are. I'd probably have them if I had a good LTR and good genes but between struggles with dating and my terrible genes it's probably best not to pass on genes but like you I worry about growing old without family. I have siblings but none of … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/21 09:15 AM |
| 5 | Why is it so difficult for RP/Incels to understand that attractive women like attractive men?You're right, I'm sure there are some who can't/wont lower their standards in both genders and would prefer to be single than with someone they don't find attractive. Probably in prior eras they would've been in unhappy marriages or joined a convent or monastery. Today there's more freedom to stay single which might be good or bad depending on ones perspective. I don't think my mom was attracted to my dad but she was pressured into marriage by her parents which led to a very unhappy marriage but… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 05:23 PM |
| 8 | Why is it so difficult for RP/Incels to understand that attractive women like attractive men?I was under the impression these guys had zero options not that they were turning down options which don't meet their standards but I mostly follow black pill content creators so maybe they're different. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Do older men legitimately try to hit on younger women and how does that go?My boyfriend is 15 years older than me and I initiated things because I liked him. I've had other much older guys try to talk to me when I had no interest and I usually give one word answers and not look at them much trying to find some sort of exit. Don't think the age matters too much(if she's over about 25) if you get some signs she's interested. Think it would be weird if she was like a teen and he was pushing 40. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Women who have dated redpill, what are the red flags?You will see insecurity, vulnerability and signs of low self-esteem that they manage to hide before. Are these bad because he was trying to conceal them or is it bad for a guy to have these traits? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How to cope with being undateableMaybe you'll have more success dating someplace else, another city or state, if you believe you're undateable where you are. You could also cope with hobbies, gym, career, church, guy friends or something like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with being undateablemove to greener pastures? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 8 | Facial attractiveness only impedes reproductive success for ugly men, all other groups of men show little varianceI wonder if this study shows women operate more on a pass/fail system instead of a 1-10 scale men use. | /r/BlackPillScience | 01/04/21 12:27 PM |
| 27 | Facial attractiveness only impedes reproductive success for ugly men, all other groups of men show little varianceonly impedes reproductive success for ugly men, all other groups of men show little variance Just don't be ugly bro. | /r/BlackPillScience | 01/04/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Gender dysphoria?Interesting, gender dysphoria and also consuming redpill/mgtow type content, hope more comment if they have experience with it. I've been gender transitioning for about 5 years and was subscribed to a mix of redpill/mgtow type content because I really struggled with life and finding a place in it. I was lonely and never had much success with dating. Did date some but it was a struggle and never managed to form a relationship. One woman I dated for about two months thought I wasn't interested bec… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 10:11 AM |
| 9 | Are you in a relationship, dating, or single?I took the gaypill and have a loving boyfriend now | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/20 08:52 PM |
| 6 | Opinions on Mail Order Brides?It's a lot of work and there's no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. You'll have to figure out how to meet perspective spouses IRL by visiting and dating. You'll then have to document that the relationship is legit and not a visa scam, then you'll have to fly her back home and get married within 90 days. You'll be interviewed by immigration a few times to verify the relationship is real. You'll likely have little in common with her and have a language barrier to work on. The guys in the show… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/10/20 12:51 PM |
| 7 | The Ultimate Goal of MRAs, MGTOW and TRPThe strong career woman sounds like he would be the ideal mate for a MGTOW or RedPiller. He's independent, not needing the money or security provided by a man, he may even offer to pay for some dates. He's conservative minded, pays his own bills, manages his own finances, invests in his own future. He's strong willed and independent minded and wants a man that has similar attributes. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Do you even find red pill situations to actually occur in real life?I use to go to a meetup group and it was mostly the same people each month. One time a new guy came and he was very charismatic and decent looking, everyone wanted to be around him. Felt like he mocked me in subtle ways so I stopped going shortly after that experience. Edit: I was mogged | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/20 11:32 AM |
| 6 | A question about MGTOW/Redpill Demographics.I believe it skews younger, it's easy for a young person looking for answers to stumble in and get swept up in a belief system. Looking at some of the channels it's apparent the older content creators are some combination of mentally ill, weird, ugly, suffered from child abuse. They will always struggle with themselves and interacting with others. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/20 11:27 AM |
| 18 | Men are more likely to wear beards in countries where they have to compete more vigorously among each other for women.Dimorphism more attractive than androgyny? | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/09/20 01:43 PM |
| -2 | I'm a 30 y.o. man and haven't dated ever (or done anything sexual) due to trauma issues from childhood. What sort of reactions could I expect to this if I do start dating?In my experience it doesn't come up and nothing good can come from bringing it up. After several dates and things might be moving towards some sort of relationship she might ask or say something. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Honest question, how can I avoid building resentment against women after bad dating experiences?You are in control of who you date in the future. What if someone goes months or years between dates because there aren't many options? Should they try working on themselves to be more attractive so they can have options, control of who they date? think about what red flags or weird things your intuition told you that you ignored There are red flags but acting to avoid them would mean zero dating options. Maybe only ignore the smaller red flags to get a date maybe once a year? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/20 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Trauma/PTSD Sufferer having a realisationYes, my mother would beat me often when young then neglect me as I got older. She fought with dad who was very passive and absent eventually leaving for good. Parents often told me they didn't want me and were very critical of me. The blackpill/mgtow content really appealed because it confirmed my belief the world is unsafe and people are bad so it's best to isolate, avoid, to protect myself. Wanted a relationship but was unable to connect with or attract anyone and felt defective and went in lo… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Fit the profile of a piller and unsure what to do? It's toxic but I love self pity and being the victim.It's funny, in a way I'm doing really well but I'm still miserable. I own a home, have a decent job with benefits, no debts, in the best shape of my life, money in the bank but it all feels so pointless. I still worry constantly and feel like something bad is about to happen. Wish I could just enjoy the good but seem stuck in a vortex of negativity and hating myself and the world. Maybe life is too easy so nuerotism has run amok. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Fit the profile of a piller and unsure what to do? It's toxic but I love self pity and being the victim.I've read a couple of books about CPTSD and while they feel immensely validating and explain a lot about childhood and why I ended up like this they always seem to be missing solutions. I'm unsure if I expect something simple or if my attention span wanes by the end of the book so I miss the epiphany. Think there needs to be some sort of core work and address the feelings of shame and self loathing but not sure how to do it. Every time I get a self help book I think I'll really stick to this and… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Fit the profile of a piller and unsure what to do? It's toxic but I love self pity and being the victim.I'm going to have to re-read this several times and try to absorb it. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Fit the profile of a piller and unsure what to do? It's toxic but I love self pity and being the victim.You're right. I exercise 1-2 hours a day which helps a lot for my mood and I'm trying to declutter my house, adding art work and nice things so it's a sanctuary but it also feels sort of like a tomb where I'm waiting for it to finally be over. I like gardening and I go hiking, boating, and mountain biking with my boyfriend but it all feels kinda pointless and empty. Can't shake the feeling that it's all pointless and hopeless like why bother. Sometimes I wonder if I'm BPD like mom, everything fe… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Fit the profile of a piller and unsure what to do? It's toxic but I love self pity and being the victim.I have a good job but I feel like I'm overpaid and a fraud like I'm just winging it everyday and always feel like I'm about to be in trouble or fired despite having been there for 10+ years. I own a paid off home and car. Didn't really try dating until I felt established enough financially which was a mistake. I should've tried to have been more social in school. Did date one woman in high school but then ghosted her when she told me she was a cannibal... I wasn't sure if she was serious or not … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Those who are not in favor of redpill... what do you wish redpill types understood better?I'm too damaged for therapy even if I had the energy to find and go to one. Don't even know where to begin or what issues to deal with and a vent session about a bad childhood would be unproductive. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Those who are not in favor of redpill... what do you wish redpill types understood better?Have you seen a professional for help? Feel like it would be a waste of time and money. I'm aware of my cognitive distortions and issues but don't think there's anyway to be free of my issues, only better coping strategies to make life tolerable. Thank you for the book suggestions. Like many failed broken people I love self help material trying to fix/understand myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 7 | Those who are not in favor of redpill... what do you wish redpill types understood better?My mother is a diagnosed borderline, she was fired by her psychiatrist and untreated, and I'm strongly drawn to red/black pill content. Believe there's something to your hypothesis and I wonder how many others come from similar backgrounds. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Men are willing to engage in relationships with attractive women high in Borderline Personality Disorder traits, While women compensate low attractiveness for wealth in long-term dating, and do not desire secondary psychopathy in any relationshipBorderlines fear abandonment and will settle for men below their looks level if they believe they wont be abandoned. These men will put up with a lot of crazy, are easily controlled, and are unlikely to leave the woman. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/06/20 11:01 AM |
| 18 | The Importance of Physical Strength to Human Males: Males and not females have evolved for combat (Sell, Liana & Pound 2012)Modern homosapian males mated with neanderthal women which is why some of their genetic material is found in humans today. | /r/BlackPillScience | 17/11/19 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Penis size interacts with body shape and height to influence male attractiveness (bigger penis on short men does not help)Thank you for the explanation. Very helpful. | /r/BlackPillScience | 12/11/19 12:13 PM |
| 6 | Penis size interacts with body shape and height to influence male attractiveness (bigger penis on short men does not help)hip to waist ratio was also important How important is this? I skimmed the study but I don't understand how much of a factor this is. | /r/BlackPillScience | 11/11/19 10:55 AM |
| 4 | Men with more masculine digit ratios are partnered with more attractive women (Kuna & Galbarczyk, 2018)I'm getting ring finger lengthening surgery | /r/BlackPillScience | 18/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 21 | The female rate of facial aging is higher than the male rate (Figure 7). Before age 50 and also after age 60, female faces age—on average—about twice as fast as male faces; between 50 and 60 years, this sex difference in aging rate is even more pronounced (up to three times faster).Women have thinner softer skin with less collogen than men, it's more prone to damage, wrinkles, and loss of elasticity. If a 30 year old male was to take cross sex hormones so their skin became less oily, softer, with smaller pores, they'd look significantly younger than a woman of the same age. | /r/BlackPillScience | 14/06/19 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Have you incorporated any Black Pill research into your life?Yes, the Black Pill taught me it's over. I'm hopelessly unattractive in both looks and personality. Decided being a guy wasn't working out so I gender transitioned and got a boyfriend. Being a short, babyfaced, effeminate guy with a .7 hip to waist ratio became an asset instead of a liability. I'm interested in studies about the differences between the genders in social and sexual behavior which is why I'm here. | /r/BlackPillScience | 16/04/19 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Women prefer taller height, broader shoulders+narrower hips, larger penises, even in the upper extremes (really tall, really large penis, really broad shoulders+narrow hips)It was a gift from a FWB so I wore it when with them. Here's another picture of my hips https://imgur.com/PUzqg9L They're hopelessly wide for a male so I did the only thing I could do, gender transitioned. A curvy figure looks fine on a woman and really terrible on a guy. | /r/BlackPillScience | 06/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Women prefer taller height, broader shoulders+narrower hips, larger penises, even in the upper extremes (really tall, really large penis, really broad shoulders+narrow hips)Just auschwitzmax bro, that will change your bone structure. | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/04/19 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Women prefer taller height, broader shoulders+narrower hips, larger penises, even in the upper extremes (really tall, really large penis, really broad shoulders+narrow hips)Hips don't lie - They shout to the world I'm of low quality genetics. | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/04/19 04:48 PM |
| 15 | Women prefer taller height, broader shoulders+narrower hips, larger penises, even in the upper extremes (really tall, really large penis, really broad shoulders+narrow hips)My hips are extremely wide for a male. I've always had poor athletic performance and they make me look shorter/fatter no matter my weight. In form fitting clothing I look like a woman and in looser clothing I look fat and frumpy. It's not a good look. | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/04/19 02:59 PM |
| 7 | More Women Than Men Care About A New Partner's Sexual History, Says New Study, And Over A Third Want To Know About It In The First MonthWhy do you believe this might be? I believe women control their men with sex and while a man could find sex with another women outside of the relationship it's much more difficult and higher risk of getting caught than finding sex with a guy. Grindr is full of looking for discreet. | /r/BlackPillScience | 21/01/19 11:27 AM |
| 5 | More Women Than Men Care About A New Partner's Sexual History, Says New Study, And Over A Third Want To Know About It In The First Monthhur dur.... no. I'm not an incel but I am interested in BlackPillScience. | /r/BlackPillScience | 21/01/19 11:24 AM |
| 25 | More Women Than Men Care About A New Partner's Sexual History, Says New Study, And Over A Third Want To Know About It In The First MonthI'm wondering which is a bigger issue for women, a man who is a virgin or a man who has had sex with other men. If their guy turned out to be bi would it be a deal breaker. | /r/BlackPillScience | 20/01/19 10:22 PM |
| 8 | More Women Than Men Care About A New Partner's Sexual History, Says New Study, And Over A Third Want To Know About It In The First MonthNo but I've had sex with men, trans, and threesomes with married couples. | /r/BlackPillScience | 20/01/19 10:01 PM |
| 19 | More Women Than Men Care About A New Partner's Sexual History, Says New Study, And Over A Third Want To Know About It In The First MonthI wonder what would be deal breakers when it comes to sexual history | /r/BlackPillScience | 20/01/19 08:21 PM |
| 10 | [UK] Average woman will kiss 15 men and be heartbroken twice before meeting 'The One', study revealsmentalcel? | /r/BlackPillScience | 13/12/18 04:14 PM |
| 13 | Interracial divorce rates compared to white couples (Yellow=Asian)Interesting read, always noticed Asians had less dimorphism which is why they make great traps. | /r/BlackPillScience | 04/12/18 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Any studies on testosterone relegation to attractiveness?Prenatal testosterone exposure is related to sexually dimorphic facial morphology in adulthood https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4614768/ Look at transition timelines of trans men and trans women, T will definetly change faces to look more sexually dimorphic even after puberty. I had very low prenatal T levels based on my digit ratios( index finger is longer than my ring finger on my girly little hands), I look androgenous/womanly for a male and women are not attracted to me which is … | /r/BlackPillScience | 12/11/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Online Female Escort Advertisements: The Cost of Sex ["higher fees were associated with female escorts who advertised a waist-to-hip ratio near 0.7, lower weight and body mass index, younger age, and photographic displays of breast and buttocks nudity."]I'm a male with a wait-to-hip ratio near 0.7 FML. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/11/18 03:18 PM |
| 9 | Does personality matter after minimum looks threshold?so being an awkward neurotic spaz is bad? | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/11/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | The StruggleAnythings possible if you just believe hard enough | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The only girls I've ever liked ended up gay or trans. What is wrong with me?are you sure you're straight and a guy? Maybe you'd prefer being a woman and you're attracted to masculine personalities. | /r/MGTOW | 01/08/18 06:48 PM |
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