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It’s not just that we have debtor’s prison for so-called “deadbeat dads,” but back in the 80s or 90s they would give the fathers’ mug shots and their cases’ particulars (number of kids, how much owed etc.) to local newspapers who would then run a monthly “rogues’ gallery” of fathers who’d fallen behind. Compounding this madness is the fact that Family Court judges usually calculate their alimony and child support dollar-amount decisions on the dad’s highest-earning quarters over the life of the …
/r/PussyPassDenied06/09/21 10:28 PM
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I remember about a decade ago when I first started reading up on the real nuts and bolts of academic feminism I came across an article that argued roughly the same point—that even men who aren’t physically violent to their female partners need to be prosecuted for the emotional/psychological “violence” most men are guilty of. Reading it, I was in my late 40s with two finished divorces and a bunch of ex girlfriends ALL of whom I left for their regular emotional and psychological abuse of me. I re…
/r/MensRights27/08/21 02:56 PM
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It’s a standard feminist talking-point/lie. Just like the 74¢/$1.00 “wage gap”, the “80% of college women are raped” and I could go on and on with their exaggerated litany of uniquely female suffering, along with their open enjoyment (and even promotion of) uniquely male suffering. Modern Western women have the cushiest, most coddled lives that anyone of the species has ever enjoyed outside of royalty. And what do the feminists do with that? Organize against “man-spreading” or whatever, lol. Com…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/21 05:41 AM
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The Empathy Gap.
/r/MensRights19/05/21 05:07 AM
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“Hopefully she got help” followed immediately by an admission of the likelihood that the male victim could have been falsely (and successfully) accused of being the perpetrator. That cognitive dissonance shows exactly who the nutjob is.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 04:06 PM
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The word we need to use is “envelopment” or “forced envelopment” if necessary. “Made to penetrate” makes as much sense as that bully’s game where they grab your wrist and hit you with your own hand. “Stop hitting yourself man,” and, “you should really stop hitting yourself, dude”. The big problem is overcoming the falsity that erections are always voluntary. Somebody needs to make a catalogue of citations where female arousal (wetness etc.) was used to excuse rape of women, particularly in court…
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/21 12:55 AM
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I suspect you’re a man-hater but I’ll spend a moment anyway. What this is about is the massive pass that women get for their bad, even criminal behavior. Feminists claim to want equality but it’s a very selective kind of equality they want. Bottom line is that being male or female both have advantages as well as disadvantages. We need to work together to create a more gender egalitarian society to eliminate all those advantages and disadvantages. The cultural ones I mean. The biological ones we …
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/21 04:30 PM
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Dexter’s doing at least thirty of his forty-five years but this psycho will be out in two and have monitored visitation rights to the victim, her son, before he’s an adult. Situation normal for our insanely sexist criminal justice system.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/21 03:29 PM
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I’m going to assume you mean gendered violence is an equality problem and yes you’re correct on that. Men are vastly greater perpetrators and sufferers of violence, both criminal and “legal” (think governments, police, wars) violence. Public violence by men against women is by far the rarest sort of violence but of course it’s the only one society cares about. Domestic violence? The biggest aggregate studies show that women give as good as they get. In fact, instigation-wise, women are more like…
/r/MensRights09/03/21 09:52 PM
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Yeah, I’m with you most of the way, just “don’t start none won’t be none” in general with cops but I’ve also simply been the wrong-looking guy in the wrong place at the wrong time often enough to know that LAPD DGAF about the constitution on some days and they beat hell out of my white ass with sticks simply for existing more than once. And that is simply unacceptable. I marched with CAPA (Coalition Against Police Abuse) back in the early 80s and I recognize that innocent blacks get beat up or s…
/r/MensRights27/09/20 11:46 PM
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What’s extra funny about the “virgin” accusation by feminists is that it’s the most blatant validation of the core transactionality of sex with women. “Do as I say or you’re not getting any,” they screech, completely oblivious to what prostitutes that actually makes them. And as usual, to the best liar go the spoils. “Of course I’m a feminist! Bitches love guys who’re feminists.”
/r/MensRights27/09/20 11:25 PM
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Liar
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/20 02:55 AM
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“Stopped reading” you say? Couldn’t make it through the brief paragraph I wrote about my personal experience of how EBT cards work to get fast food here in California? Then you go ad hominem, calling me a fool as if I’m not understanding your more educated and worldly belief that only a few EBT recipients even qualify for a Big Mac? You really are the best of reddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/20 02:50 AM
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Actually I’m far from a conservative but was shocked to see all the “EBT Welcome” signs that started showing in all the local fast food places in my neighborhood (LA, CA) about a decade ago. Did a bit of research and was surprised to learn that the categorization firewall you mention was the result of a question or two about living/cooking arrangements. My ex-wife (shared custody, abandoned our daughter to me for most of her childhood) enjoyed many fast food meals even as I paid for the bulk of …
/r/PussyPassDenied23/09/20 01:59 AM
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You, and feminists like you talk about this all the time. And feminism controls society so much that the deadbeat dad narrative is the dominant one. Like the Duluth model of domestic violence, it’s all, “men bad, women good” in those courtrooms. But you need to come to this tiny place on the internet where men can share how much harm women can cause and get away with in our society, and you act like nobody talks about deadbeat fathers.
/r/MensRights09/09/20 06:56 AM
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I recently came across this article by a guy I’d consider to be a staunch leftist still: https://taibbi.substack.com/p/the-left-is-now-the-right
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/20 09:55 PM
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Very small rocks.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 06:54 AM
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Chief reason I’ve experienced is that dad WAS DRIVEN OFF BY PSYCHOTIC FEMALE ABUSIVENESS. Now that we’re done pretending it doesn’t exist, maybe we can start to notice its far less uncommon than the reverse because horrifically outdated gender roles dictate that men are evil monsters and women are always primarily victims. Even when they initiate (sometimes fatal) violence: its always because a man made her do it. Go ahead, downvote me to hell. I’ve divorced two psycho women and have already bee…
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/20 06:35 AM
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🎃😹😹/
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/20 01:57 PM
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Obvious to the point of uselessness. 1. Men can never hit women. Ever. 2. Women can hit men however often they like. It will be received by any onlookers as hilarity. 3. This is hilarious because any man’s pain (especially kicks/punches to the testicles) is a guaranteed laugh on screen. 4. Imagine a world where female genitals mattered so little that any harm that came to them was a stock-in-trade punchline. 5. And again, we’re shocked by the staggering sexism on TV. Oh wait, is that a male CEO?…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/19 09:30 PM
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I followed this back when it was news but what I only recently learned is that UK pays gov’t cash to crime victims so she got over £11,000 pounds from the Queen for these false accusations. Ass-fucking-stounding.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/19 04:59 PM
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Can I get an Amen! Only two kids here and they’re both adults now but I wouldn’t trade those single-dad years for the world. It was basically the silver lining to my work-related disability: I got to spend as much time with my kids as most mothers do (and loudly complain about at almost every opportunity). Personally it felt like a walk in the park compared to the average 70-hour weeks building movie sets before my spine gave out along with my patience for being bitched about as if I left the ho…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/19 01:40 PM
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Title IX protections are only for females. Get with it man.
/r/MensRights19/09/19 09:24 PM
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Jaysus man, I feel for you. The cards in general (criminal justice system, public and private support) are sooo stacked to protect women and blame men. Astounding how anti-male this “patriarchy” we live in really is.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/19 09:01 PM
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Point taken. I’m no expert on the DSM but I suspect that a mental break of that magnitude would warrant a stronger diagnosis than mild depression. I mean if she had a history of such monstrous delusions okay. No such history and it looks all too convenient to me. Then again I’m not a feminist so I don’t believe we live in a rape culture.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/08/19 03:01 PM
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So using your example, with falsely accusing someone of rape being a most extreme crime to be charged with (i.e. murder), what on earth could be the lesser (i.e. manslaughter) charge those two jurors might think she was actually guilty of? My guess is there is no such charge and the two “not guilty” jurors were “bleev all waminz” type feminists. Also this false accuser’s claim that she doesn’t understand how her wildly fabricated and destructive accusation is irreconcilable with the tracker data…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/19 10:45 PM
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Stories like yours in this sub always make me happy and give me hope for my own future as a twice-divorced (both initiated by me) 55-year-old man. I’ve thought long and hard about why the women I’ve loved have generally had control issues that resulted in nagging and picking fights with me for what appeared to me to be invalid reasons. I suspect at its core it’s a residual struggle based in biology. For much of humanity’s existence the mothers who were unable to get their men to provide for them…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 10:05 PM
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Weird, this one works fine and the other still won’t for me. If I understood more I might be able to hazard a guess as to why but I don’t so I can’t. Thanks for this second link that works for me! Very helpful.
/r/MensRights21/07/18 02:10 AM
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Link doesn’t work here in US. Is this a geographical block by YouTube?
/r/MensRights20/07/18 05:34 PM
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This was used as a defense for rape since forever. “She got wet so it wasn’t rape.” Now of course those dark days are past us and pretty much everyone (Joe Rogan for example) knows the truth is really, “Well, he got hard so it wasn’t against his will.”
/r/PussyPassDenied27/06/18 03:24 PM
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OMjayzus. That last song she posted. I couldn’t hear all the lyrics but it’s a paean to an ex-bf from what I could tell. “I wish nothing but the best for you”, so lol. The “best” in this case being forced machete sex. Interesting too is her claim to loving Ozzy and how his music helped her and her family get through so much. And all I’m hearing in my head is the “All aboard!” laugh from “Crazy Train”
/r/PussyPassDenied27/06/18 03:19 PM
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It’s a fine line there, the choice between sticking your dick in boring and sticking it in crazy. A very fine line. And it moves.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/06/18 03:07 PM
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I hope you’re right but what I’ve seen more of frankly is the few men who came out with #metoo tales of being harassed by women were mocked and accused of “derailing”.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/06/18 03:05 PM
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Yes, thank god that era’s finally over. Now only women can legit slap men in public and men can’t even defend themselves. “He bruised my wrists, officer! When I was trying to keep hitting him he grabbed my wrists! Arrest him! Toxic violent masculinity!”
/r/PussyPassDenied27/06/18 02:59 PM
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Funny, her hiring and being proud of her 96% female work force comes across as mean-spirited and petty to me. At least she doesn’t hide her disdain for men. It’s right out there for all to see.
/r/MensRights13/06/18 12:59 AM
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Jewelry, hmm. I have to wonder how much of her products’ gross income is coming either directly from men’s wallets or from purses whose monetary contents come directly from men’s wallets. This is the biggest hole in the wage-gap nonsense I keep hearing. Exactly how much of that “surplus” that men earn goes directly to pay for “gifted” women’s luxury items vs how much female income goes for stuff women buy with their own earnings to make the men in their lives feel appreciated. Stuff they don’t p…
/r/MensRights12/06/18 12:49 AM
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Here comes the Handicapper General. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harrison_Bergeron
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/18 04:49 AM
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Both men and women have suffered, greatly. In many ways different, in many ways the same. It’s a product of the human condition. The way we solve these problems is through communication and empathy. Bravo. And this is why I’m no longer a feminist. Because once I realized that history wasn’t actually just one long Orwellian male boot on a female face, forever, I realized I’d been propagandized into this belief by feminism. Feminists believe that instead of evolving for complex sociological reason…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 10:49 PM
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Yes, it’s utterly fucked up. The reason she was chosen to speak at the Women’s March was because of her post-prison feminist activism that (surprise, surprise) pushes the party line that horribly criminal women are always victims of men first and we should therefore close all the women’s prisons. To Women’s-March feminists she’s a brave woman and sexual assault survivor who served an unjust amount of time because she’s a woman and not because she was part of a kidnapping plot that ended with her…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 10:15 PM
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There’s way more straight-for-pay male work in the industry than gay-for-pay work for men. Source: old friend who is Joe Blow (of Hookers and Blow series) and is now retired. Fucked several thousand women for pay, claims that porn industry AIDS panic (based on several real on-the-clock infections) was all about gay stars doing straight-for-pay.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/18 03:43 AM
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Elon Musk raped me. No, really. Women (especially those with both the concern and the exceptional funding) *who’re saving the planet, they need to be exceptionally believed. See how I worked my favorite contraction “who’re” into that mix? You better fukn believe it.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/18 03:29 AM
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Doug Stanhope is probably the most honest man alive. I’ve been a fan for years and there is simply no way he gets up and says or writes anything that isn’t searingly, gut-wrenchingly honest. His criteria are truth and hilarity and the ofttimes painful intersection of the two. Do not fuck with Doug. Or his friends.
/r/MensRights13/01/18 08:49 AM
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You’re onus-shifting. The important message of his post is not that women can be rotten human beings, or even that many of them are. The point is that the rotten ones not only get away with it but the system is designed to switch the blame to the man, not matter how clearly he is the victim.
/r/MensRights28/12/17 08:33 AM
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I first misread your comment as “if I met this idiot in prison” lol.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 06:55 PM
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I’m sorry, it was a couple of years ago. Googling “wikipedia apex fallacy” now reveals several old discussions from both this sub and the ever-popular pro-pedophilia anti-MRA site manboobz. Interestingly, Apex Fallacy is still there but only as a sub-heading for the Fallacy of Composition: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_composition
/r/MensRights09/12/17 09:54 AM
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When feminists brigaded to have Apex Fallacy removed is when I stopped donating to them.
/r/MensRights08/12/17 02:51 PM
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I’ll take my 185 upvotes in this thread over your zero any time. Here in “your” subreddit where you defended a feminist’s nonsense claiming FGM is the equivalent of castration.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 06:46 AM
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The only liar with an agenda I’ve seen so far here is you. And you have been all over this thread so yeah, you’re right. Now run back to double-X with your tiny heart pounding and brag about how you shit all over a thread where a proud murderer got the standard issue pussy pass and those crybaby MRA neckbeards don’t like it even though they get free viagra and you have to buy the birth control you need even less than we need viagra.
/r/MensRights10/11/17 07:40 AM
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How did I not know this? I’m guessing some paywalled content has a $ deal with Google not to archive their content? Because if all paywalls can be defeated this easily I’m shocked. Happily so, but still. Thanks.
/r/MensRights09/11/17 04:50 AM
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You’re right. I couldn’t find the entire show but this has the minute that precedes OP’s link. It starts out as a theological argument. https://youtu.be/BEbgTdCvdbk What I wanted to see is how he responded to the second woman’s argument that women suffer similarly to black Americans. Ali’s reply seems cut off after he called her a hypocrite, or maybe he was done.
/r/MensRights09/11/17 01:56 AM
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Very interesting. Any chance of a link to the entire show? I don’t recognize the host and don’t know what to search for.
/r/MensRights09/11/17 12:19 AM
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This article and much of the absolutely horrifying comments thread is a decade old and most of us here know it well but I think it bears repeating. If you’ve been here all along you know that this was the feminist article that spurred Paul Elam to write his eternally taken out of context parody reply proposing a “Bash a Violent Bitch Month”. I remember reading the original comments thread and it being another reason I’d never claim feminism again. One comment in particular, by a proud feminist w…
/r/MensRights08/11/17 10:09 PM
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Found the article but it’s paywalled. Anyone have a working archive? I’d like to see the 56 comments. http://www.adelaidenow.com.au/rendezview/these-mens-rights-groups-need-a-reality-check/news-story/555c0cd261cc25568f168eeb5e5404dd
/r/MensRights08/11/17 09:58 PM
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You are consistent. I appreciate that. I thought you might be one of those with a double standard on unwanted pregnancy. My mistake.
/r/MensRights29/10/17 05:05 PM
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You must be against access to legal abortion too then, right?
/r/MensRights29/10/17 03:55 AM
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So Germaine Greer said, “women have very little idea of how much men hate them”, but I can’t find her quoted anywhere with the second claim. Lacking context I’m guessing it wasn’t any real expression of loving men who hate women. Possibly something about preferring open misogyny for its honesty? It would follow from her preposterous claim that men (all men? Most men?) hate women more than women know they do. Personally I think this is one of the most pernicious things feminism has taught women, …
/r/MensRights28/10/17 08:49 PM
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Good talks, thanks for posting. To the community: if you’re like me and found the first speaker mostly unintelligible due to the bad audio please hang in there, the second woman speaks much more clearly and I could understand her words over the terrible amount of room noise. I’ll admit I might also be having trouble partly due to Australian not being my native flavor of English.
/r/MensRights28/10/17 08:34 PM
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I am not disgusted by male strippers or the women who enjoy them openly. What disgusts me is hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights28/10/17 05:36 PM
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There is never anything to be won by boys or men competing athletically against girls or women. If the guy wins he’s an asshole for beating a girl because everyone knows that guys have unfair advantages everywhere and being bigger and stronger is just one of those advantages. If the girl wins then he’s a vanquished bully and girls can do anything boys can, only better. I better not forget my /s tag here. What I really can’t figure out is why chess is separated by sex. I mean, there’s nothing phy…
/r/MensRights26/10/17 01:11 PM
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Excerpt from this article, “Fucking While Feminist”, an interview with professional feminist Jaclyn Friedman: http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/columns/the-sexist/blog/13118803/fucking-while-feminist-with-jaclyn-friedman Interviewer: So do you meet guys who pass the feminist test but then turn out to be disappointments for other reasons? Jaclyn Friedman: Oh God. There is a type of feminist guy who is so eager to fall over himself to be deferential to women and to prove his feminist bona fides a…
/r/MensRights25/10/17 10:28 PM
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That’s the rub. What I personally try to do is make it crystal clear that I’m not a traditionalist or even much of a conservative (socially libertarian at most) but that I’ve finally realized that—here in the west in particular—both female privilege and male disadvantages are real and that to ignore them is inegalitarian, unjust and sexist.
/r/MensRights25/10/17 09:29 PM
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Wow, just wow. I think I’ve assembled all the links in chronological order from Finkelstein’s blog pertaining to this. There are other posts on there and various translations of some of these posts so I’ve assembled the pertinent English ones here for those of us interested. I think it’s an amazing story and could do us a world of good if well publicized. Because even after all the red-herring tone-policing that’s going to come of Finkelstein’s involvement in his friends’ divorce proceedings, we…
/r/MensRights25/10/17 07:20 AM
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I was a 7. I was having misgivings as far back as the Lorena Bobbit case, where I couldn’t understand the widespread support she enjoyed from institutional feminism, but it took many more years to really start reading all I could find by feminists. Had a lot of time off work due to back surgeries and after all the standard websites I went back to the sources and I became more and more disgusted by Dworkin, MacKinnon et al. I finally started encountering the research information made available to…
/r/MensRights25/10/17 05:14 AM
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I’m not going to bother finding the whole show but it wasn’t clear to me if she was talking about her largely female audience “being single” or men who suggest going dutch. Context would help a lot but if the topic was say, “Men and why we hate dating them,” then even what appears to be her pointing into the gallery might just be a “hold on and pay attention to me” kind of gesture. Because as someone else mentioned I am quite surprised to see her apparently attacking her own people that way. Eve…
/r/MensRights25/10/17 04:53 AM
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Very true and I’m sorry if my comment came off as ignorant of that fact. And I finally just watched the video and it was impossible for me to see whose hand grabbed him. I didn’t even realize it was a crowd. His being gay, if that’s true even, has absolutely zero to with the attack and I’m happy to see there is some outrage and pushback coming in the form of a hashtag.
/r/MensRights24/10/17 05:59 PM
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I don’t follow pop culture so I don’t even know who Harry Styles or Ms. Seymour are but now I’m wondering if he was assaulted by a man or a woman. I’ll sympathize either way but any exposure his fame might shed on the attack would be better for public awareness if it was a woman. Male victimhood causes very little cognitive dissonance in feminists unless the perpetrator is female. They’ll still do their best to minimize it or find another man to blame for her actions but each time another story …
/r/MensRights23/10/17 06:37 AM
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The memes write themselves. https://imgur.com/gallery/X98p2
/r/MensRights23/10/17 05:48 AM
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I’m not going to take that as snark because I agree, that I was brainwashed by the feminist narrative. So thanks.
/r/MensRights23/10/17 04:07 AM
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Training, pure and simple. It wasn’t even that long ago that I recall being among the several men who would always leap up to offer our seats if a woman entered the vehicle. It was just normal in the society I was raised in.
/r/MensRights23/10/17 03:42 AM
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It’s weird huh. It was just how my generation of men was raised. Male self-sacrifice and stoicism are at the core of chivalry. I still believe those first two are often admirable traits, I’m just much more selective in choosing to whom and why I make sacrifices (without complaining = the stoic part) of any size. And gender only barely comes into it any more.
/r/MensRights23/10/17 03:39 AM
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Sorry, I thought I made it clear that I no longer believe that. It is still an extremely widespread societal belief though, that women are overall disadvantaged and men aren’t. Yes, in my unexamined but well-taught and assumed feminism I believed that for decades. I might still if my second ex-wife wasn’t so abusive and feminist, causing me to finally start reading what feminists write, say and believe. The MRA community here and elsewhere in the internet also had a lot to do with my abandonment…
/r/MensRights23/10/17 03:26 AM
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My guess is that such fraud is rarely discovered or prosecuted. It’s just too easy to a tool to make a boyfriend “man up” to the bigger commitment of moving in together or marriage even if that wasn’t his plan. This situation of the woman wanting more commitment has been a recurring theme in almost all of my own relationships with women and a majority of those I’ve witnessed among friends. The guys who aren’t getting what they want from a relationship with a woman are unhappy because they aren’t…
/r/MensRights22/10/17 10:55 AM
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That’s even better.
/r/MensRights22/10/17 08:18 AM
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I did it for years. I didn’t run around with a “This is what a feminist looks like” t-shirt or talk to strangers about feminism but it was a core plank in my overall belief in helping the disadvantaged. If anyone asked I would dutifully identify as a feminist same as I would identify being anti-racist. I honestly believed that everything was and is harder for women. I hadn’t ever really examined it but I’d heard that I had all these privileges that women didn’t and being a decent guy I should do…
/r/MensRights22/10/17 05:23 AM
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I can’t believe you just used the word nigger. Outraged in fact.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 05:33 PM
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What color would you use for colon cancer then? The prostate makes semen and has zero to do with the lower GI tract except that’s the easiest way to access it for exams and some other procedures.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 05:29 PM
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Wast ever thus. Feminism is simply a society-wide recapitulation of how individual women have always made demands of their men, and had them largely met. The ahistorical narrative that women have always been slaves and chattel to men is the biggest lie they tell and almost nobody questions it.
/r/MensRights14/10/17 09:08 PM
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Here I am, making a massive fucking complaint about being circumcised against my will. There you go, you’ve heard a complaint from a circumcised man. Seconded.
/r/MensRights14/10/17 08:44 PM
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One of the Vice founders was Gavin McInnes. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gavin_McInnes
/r/MensRights12/10/17 02:26 AM
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Is this thread where I get my free Viagra™? Because I keep hearing that evil old white men like me get free Viagra™ whenever a woman gets denied free birth control.
/r/MensRights10/10/17 11:54 PM
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Linked In was the most difficult platform I’ve ever tried to disconnect from. This was more than a few years ago but it was literally an email harassment campaign with all their spam coming with someone’s name from my contacts in the header so I’d have to check and make sure it wasn’t legit. After doing everything possible to delete my account I wrote them several times asking them to remove me from everything and still the torrent came. I even vaguely recall there was some privacy-based lawsuit…
/r/MensRights09/10/17 06:54 AM
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The link in the image https://lnkd.in/e9SngBD took me here: https://business.linkedin.com/talent-solutions/blog/diversity/2017/50-ideas-for-cultivating-diversity-and-inclusion-in-the-workplace What a great bunch of ways to drastically reduce productivity! I’m not surprised that wealthy corporate America can underwrite this nonsense but for how long? I just can’t see most of this stuff doing much (besides the feels) but decreasing profitability. And the “guy’s jar” idea is particularly offensive.…
/r/MensRights09/10/17 05:57 AM
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It’s another new category of rape: ghost rape. The biggest problem is so few ghost rapes get reported and even when they do they’re almost never prosecuted. Something about the normal tools society uses on those accused of rape not working on apparitions. Handcuffs and the like.
/r/MensRights08/10/17 09:32 PM
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Obviously this is sexist bullshit but really I bet it’s mostly men who save the $42 because this sounds more like, “Honey, we should go to this!” than, “Hey, I’m a single guy, I should go to an erotic Halloween costume party alone, or better yet, with some of my bros!” So when you’re buying two tickets having one of them be 50% off isn’t the worst thing that could happen. Yeah, I’m straight and your mileage may vary but I’ve been to similar events and it was always a woman’s idea for us to go. S…
/r/MensRights08/10/17 10:13 AM
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Everyone's saying he should go after the ex and not the clinic and that makes perfect sense from what little we know about the situation. Obviously the guy lawyered up so I can't see how the option of pursuing either criminal charges or a civil suit against the motherforger wasn't at least discussed between him and his attorney. So that leaves only a few possibilities I can see. Maybe he simply didn't want to go after his ex. Maybe his only option there was the criminal forgery charges. Or he wa…
/r/MensRights06/10/17 09:08 PM
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This is one of the most exaggerated of all the explanations in the feminist narrative. Nobody likes abusively entitled hypocrites. It's just that when women are such—often at least partly through their learned feminist ideology—they get to pretend that the men who don't like them for their attitudes and behavior are really just scared little boys before their goddess power.
/r/MensRights06/10/17 03:59 PM
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I wish the Reddit thread hadn't been deleted. The link on your pro-life site led to a Metro UK article which led to the original Mirror article about the Reddit post. Scariest things are the several other quoted mother's "commiserating" posts about how they hated their own children. And then Metro UK pretending it's post-partum depression (after over three years?! give me a break!) and encouraging like-minded mothers to get help. Yes, as pointed out above, get help from an adoption agency as soo…
/r/MensRights05/10/17 01:45 AM
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Yes, and some men would be very angry if you accused them of being slutty. I'm talking about a generality here.
/r/MensRights04/10/17 03:14 PM
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You're generalizing mental illness but there are actually a wide range of conditions under that umbrella and some of them are very gendered. https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/news/20110822/risk-mental-illness-varies-gender
/r/MensRights03/10/17 08:04 PM
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This woman, shaming a man in an effort to goad him into violence against other men is unique only in its blatant and open (and racist and sexist) nature. This happens all the time without the racial politics and public shouting. https://youtu.be/sn463qwtIbA Usually it's a woman telling her boyfriend that another man at the bar or wherever had said or done something disrespectful. "That guy gave me a really creepy look when I was walking back from the restroom," is all it takes. It doesn't even h…
/r/MensRights03/10/17 07:48 PM
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This case also "feeds into the stereotype of the jilted girlfriend," she said. "It plays into well-worn stereotypes of revenge-seeking women." And why do behavioral stereotypes exist? Because we all know and have seen the behavior. To be a decent human being you don't use stereotypes to rush to conclusions about anyone, but to pretend that because a stereotype exists therefore all accusations of stereotypical behavior must be false? That's being willfully dishonest. Angry resentful people exact …
/r/MensRights02/10/17 05:30 PM
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Jesus, the comments there. Every other one blaming her actions on her white skin. Yahoo! Now I get whose portal you've become. I put Yahoo in the rear view mirror back in the 90s because it was the spammiest, ugliest site/free-email service but now I know to stay away for the staggering amount of racism. The comments were like reading Stormfront comments if the article's newsmaker had been Jewish. Ugh.
/r/MensRights02/10/17 04:15 AM
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Again, ive never heard of a Christian crying oppression. You are going to have to give examples. The "War on Christmas" ringing any bells?
/r/MensRights01/10/17 03:02 AM
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Meanwhile in China: http://www.latimes.com/world/asia/la-fg-china-parking-20160531-snap-story.html I've seen female-only parking spots in Germany for many years. They aren't larger but they're all closer to the exits, right after the handicapped spaces. I think feminists were behind that on the assumption that it would decrease the rampant crime of parking-structure rape. Had they been made 50% wider like the Chinese ones apparently are I'm sure they would have figured out some man-blaming reaso…
/r/MensRights27/09/17 08:56 PM
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Pot, kettle. Please go take your anger issues out on someone else. For you to seize on my clearly qualified (some women, in my experience) generalizations and fly into a bolded rage really puts the lie to your opener, "In general, your comment is a lot of good observations and useful pondering, and I agree with much of it". As I recall I was replying to someone else's comment and I certainly wasn't writing a paper for you to grade. You've accused my speculations of being reactionary and sexist a…
/r/MensRights26/09/17 05:37 PM
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I said, "In my experience". Something I have over 50 years of. Thirty of them spent claiming feminism. My gf no longer claims feminism either. We're just egalitarians now. You're tone policing me with your assumptions about my use of the term red-pilled making you a perfect enforcer for the implicit belief that "negative generalizations about feminists and/or women are misogyny but negative generalizations about MRAs and/or men that's just being observant."
/r/MensRights26/09/17 04:56 PM
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I'm not finding the second stat you cite, the 80% of IPV being initiated by women. I admittedly only skimmed it (and searched for keywords "initiate" and "80%"—even searching for all instances of the % sign to see any numbers close to 80%), but is it possible that stat was from another paper? I'm familiar with the fact that women do the vast bulk of unidirectional DV but that women are the ones initiating or picking such a vast majority of violent domestic fights, that's really interesting. I'm …
/r/MensRights26/09/17 11:01 AM
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What you're identifying in this thread is mostly male resentment against the feminist/traditional narrative that women are more innocent and harmless than men. That narrative is very strong for the same largely biological reasons that gave us the societal gender roles we're in the process of restructuring. When feminists use these roles to their advantage (let's empty all the women's prisons, for example) while claiming to be about equality many of us get disgusted and abandon feminism. It took …
/r/MensRights25/09/17 08:30 PM
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I just googled "domestic violence poster" and found these: https://www.dropbox.com/sh/kc9q3ldye3d6t75/AADbPbP7YtxnL9yspZRptGNta At least half the ones on the first page were gender-specific with either abused/fearful women's faces, male hands/fists, the words "he/him" or "she/her". The few I saw—out of dozens—that had any mention of male victimhood or female perpetration either used old stats showing it as a smaller subset of DV than it is or they were simply art projects by individuals that I'm…
/r/MensRights25/09/17 07:23 PM
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Thanks for posting. Happy to see you are correct. There are still far too many such campaigns here in the US that are designed to reinforce the feminist/traditional view that only men perpetrate such abuse.
/r/MensRights24/09/17 11:31 PM
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Please post these. And if there is such an egalitarian mix of these posters why would they put up two man-blaming ones next to each other instead of one of each?
/r/MensRights24/09/17 07:50 PM
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A poster implying a woman could be an abusive control freak and women shouldn't do that? Where? I've seen hundreds of anti-DV posters and can count the ones admonishing women not to abuse on one hand. And a couple of those were simple gender swap parodies of man-blaming ones that were probably never funded to be put up all over the place as these "normal" ones are. "Don't be that girl" instead of "Don't be that guy" springs to mind. And those were met with feminist fury if I recall correctly. Pl…
/r/MensRights24/09/17 07:46 PM
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This twisted bitch forces her own son to lie and claim his own father raped him? She should never see that kid again. Or the son should at least be given the option of a decent life away from her. And dad takes the high road, talking about fixing the system she abused. Imagine a woman coming out of seven months of prison for a crime she didn't commit making it about preventing others from suffering a similar fate. Oh wait, women don't get falsely accused by men and go to prison for crimes they d…
/r/MensRights24/09/17 12:25 AM
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Even though it doesn't mention different fathers I suspect a greater hatred for that boy's father.
/r/MensRights22/09/17 04:26 AM
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Kicking him in the genitals until he bled and it has nothing to do with him being male? You suck so hard at being human it's blinded you.
/r/MensRights22/09/17 04:23 AM
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No, you're the one going a mile out of her way to come to a men's rights sub to defend this woman's highly suspect accusation of rape. By all means take a shower, even though what I think you mean which is go have a gripe session with your other feminist friends about how MRAs all support rape because we notice and point out when a rape accusation falls apart under any serious scrutiny. If you have any doubt about her story ("she could be lying" I think you said) you might need a refresher bit o…
/r/MensRights21/09/17 07:46 PM
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You've never been in the sex position where the girl stays still on top while you work from the bottom? I've been in that position plenty of times. I've just never been in that position with a sleeping and/or passed out woman and it sounds frankly impossible. Even if she wasn't upright with her "tits flopping around" as you say and she was prone on top of me it is seriously the least probable position by which any man would (or would try to) be able to gain entry to her regretful "sleeping" vagi…
/r/MensRights21/09/17 05:49 PM
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A judge allowing Karen Straughan to move away with the kids from a non-contributory and/or disinterested—at the time at least—"deadbeat" father is apparently what got her interested in men's rights. The fact that the judge had no problem with her financially-necessary move (something the father could have done something about by paying child support?) really opened her eyes to how little rights fathers have. Caveat: I'm not 100% sure I remember this correctly but it was in an old interview with …
/r/MensRights20/09/17 12:41 AM
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I'm simply amazed that the NYT would mention the UVA hoax right in the lede. I'm guessing no feminists were involved because it just seems like such an easy fact to omit rather than highlight among all the normal lamenting over the passing of print media. The Gray Lady is way off the script here, nice to see for a change.
/r/MensRights18/09/17 05:53 PM
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Good thing you're tall then. If my generality came off as denying that the roles could be reversed then my mistake. Is your personal story being offered as evidence that my generality is wrong—even as just a generality—or do you think your situation is an outlier? I'm certainly not trying to deny your own opposite experience. But tall, that's an odd singularity. I mean it's pretty well-documented that most women prefer taller and slightly older men. But to the exclusion of having any other desir…
/r/MensRights18/09/17 08:47 AM
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Good point about "nice guys" complaining about the "friendzone" are the equivalent of "attractive, successful" women (they always seem to need to add that) who complain about the topmost shelf in the cupboard being bare. Then they deny that they were only looking in the top shelf, lol. Your essay brings to mind how differently men and women are attracted to and approach each other. Over five decades on this planet now and I've concluded that this is one of the most important differences between …
/r/MensRights17/09/17 07:59 PM
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International Men's Day? What better day to be told more about my inherent masculine toxicity? Thank god feminism is there to save us all from such evil. All we have to do and believe is exactly what those women tell us to. Hey, I know, let's have an MRA conference "celebrating" International Women's Day. We could discuss all the things women and feminists need to understand and change in order to eliminate all the male disadvantages and female-only privileges in our society. Because it's Intern…
/r/MensRights17/09/17 06:08 PM
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I find it disgusting how hesitant many people are to acknowledge men can equally be victims. Actually I think this is the smaller part of the problem. That male suffering doesn't matter like female suffering is clear and a bad thing but the real vitriol is against the fact that women can be perpetrators against men. It's one of the most well fortified blind spots in all of our gendered asymmetries. The empathy gap covers both ends though, with greater empathy for women calling extra attention to…
/r/MensRights17/09/17 03:49 AM
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Imperiously means like a king. Fukn A right.
/r/MensRights17/09/17 01:58 AM
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Also interesting is what it says at the bottom of the article: Originally published as Wife killed husband, found not guilty So I guess someone got upset and had the original more accurate headline changed.
/r/MensRights16/09/17 11:54 PM
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That's fine, she isn't one of mine and I'm American as well. The point was that she prosecuted at least one war where men died and feminists blaming war on men alone when women have been sending men to die in wars since they were building the pyramids, it's a bit stupid.
/r/MensRights15/09/17 05:32 AM
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I made this one a while ago. So much blood on those delicate little hands. http://s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com/humann/QueensOrig.jpg
/r/MensRights15/09/17 02:55 AM
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Lol, I love the last line in her description: "Stalk her at alexialafata.com." Time to play red light, green light again gentlemen. You better not be tired of it because it's the ladies' favorite game.
/r/MensRights15/09/17 01:14 AM
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What women's group did they designate a hate group?
/r/MensRights14/09/17 06:48 PM
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Interesting example of female privilege. Not archived because I don't know the site and it seems by posting this article they might not be raving SJW types.
/r/MensRights14/09/17 04:57 AM
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I think you've made a positive contribution here most of the times I've read your comments. Thanks for those. Here, with this call for more moderation though, I have to ask: Why can feminists express far more actual man-hating simply by the sheer size of their pool of adherents and never be dismissed overall for such hate? Because among the tiny in comparison MRA community the subset of truly misogynist voices is the only concern you (apparently) and most other people have. Why does NAFALT work …
/r/MensRights13/09/17 10:47 PM
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Mystery solved. Thank you.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 10:02 PM
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Hahaha, outstanding. A trifecta of mistaken, misunderstood and misapplied. Enjoy your ethically challenged scar sucking you clever boy!
/r/MensRights13/09/17 05:03 PM
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Lol, your rape joke is as funny as your "joking" misuse of the word mutilated. And I find few things funnier than a good rape, dead-baby or holocaust joke. I already addressed why you're also wrong about adult circumcision being more complex. You're cute but if you keep acting like any online disagreement you encounter is a first-person shooter, one of us grownups just might ground you off your console.
/r/MensRights13/09/17 02:07 PM
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The surgery when done on an adult after the foreskin has completely separated from the glans eliminates the complication of glans cells being torn away with the removal of the foreskin. A serious complication for those paying attention. I don't care that you're a purple belt with the grammar police. What I don't like about you is how you put your personal esthetics ahead of basic ethics. It makes you a bad person in my book.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 05:33 PM
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Nah, I know that color brown from the ruddier brown of dried blood. Did mention it was on the underside of the seat at the very front edge of the toilet? Also it was in a V-pattern, indicating having been jetted from exactly where a seated woman urinates. I was initially puzzled too but when I showed it to my daughter she said, "Oh gawd," and cleaned it right up. As I said it's only happened a few times.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 05:22 PM
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Thanks! My German is clearly sub-par.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 05:13 PM
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Some other types of feminism: ONLY FEMALE SUFFERING MATTERS! feminism. EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS HARDER FOR WOMEN! feminism. ALL EVIL IN THE WORLD IS DONE BY MEN! feminism. DISAGREEMENT WITH ANYTHING I SAY IS MISOGYNY! feminism. ANY UNWANTED MALE ATTENTION IS RAPE! feminism.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 04:11 PM
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But will you stand or sit? My dad's gf put this stupid but popular German sign over her toilet back in the 80s: Männer die biem pinkeln sitzen Weniger da neben spritzen (Men who sit when they pee spray less nearby) So below that on the glass of the sign's frame I added in easily removable Sharpie™: Aber Frauen die biem pinkeln stehen Wollen wir alle sicher sehen (But women who stand when they pee, we all want to see) While visiting their place I refused to remove my pants and sit to pee but I ha…
/r/MensRights12/09/17 03:43 PM
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About 75% of US divorces are initiated by wives. Why keep the bull when you can get the fruit of his labors for free? Edit: And please show me just one case where a mother has been jailed for non-support of her children being raised by the father. I'm a single dad and don't get a dime from my ex but if it was the other way around I'm sure she'd be trying to get me locked up. Until recently many county governments posted pages of fathers' pictures if they hadn't paid.
/r/MensRights12/09/17 02:14 AM
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Perfect example of LALALA-NOT-LISTENING! feminism.
/r/MensRights11/09/17 04:40 PM
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Interesting that only her mother appeared with her. Single-mother upbringing plus feminist miseducation perhaps? I'm a single father and if my daughter did something this stupid and criminal I'd go stand by her side in shame. Of course my daughter is an egalitarian and neither a feminist nor a narcissist. She's also not a liar and respects men so I doubt she'd ever do anything like that.
/r/MensRights11/09/17 01:07 AM
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Dammit, lol. Nobody believes me IRL either when I claim to be triggered. (sniff)
/r/MensRights10/09/17 11:45 PM
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The first time I went to Tucson my band played a biker bar and at least half the guys in there were open carrying and drinking beer. The bad part was that there were only about 3 bikes out front and at least 25 bikers inside when we arrived in the early afternoon. There are few unhappier creatures on the planet than a biker whose bike is down. Actually it was a good crowd and a great show, which wasn't always the case when my own punk rock subculture crossed paths with bikers. I suspect the pres…
/r/MensRights10/09/17 06:42 PM
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Yes! A murder culture! I have actually used this argument against feminists claiming "rape culture" in the past. "I've actually had several friends who were murdered and your casual use of the word killing is extremely triggering to me." I've also used this argument: The idea that we live in a rape culture has as much merit as the the idea that we live in a Mommy Dearest culture. More children are abused and neglected by their mothers than women are raped by men in this country every year. Now i…
/r/MensRights10/09/17 06:27 PM
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Excellent points. Thank you.
/r/MensRights10/09/17 03:59 PM
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This is male disposability writ large. Absolutely disgusting, the way people can rationalize your suffering.
/r/MensRights10/09/17 03:57 PM
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I'm fully aware that the same embryonic cells that become the skin of the scrotal sac in males become the labia minora in females. Get back with me when ovaries start dropping into those labia and are removed during FGM. The main reason so many of us have become ex-feminists and support many MRA positions is precisely what this quoted "expert" and you are doing. That is simultaneously exaggerating any female suffering and downplaying, even mocking any male suffering. Feminists do this with all o…
/r/MensRights10/09/17 03:52 PM
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100% of the people who read your comment agree that you're a terrible person. Also that you're a bit stupid for using words like complex and mutilated when you clearly have no idea what they mean.
/r/MensRights10/09/17 04:47 AM
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Dammit. I guess I have that kind of testosterone that makes your hair fall out but leaves you bad with math. I was thinking the 16% female victims stat from u/William_F0ster was for Honduras and that I could just treble it to get almost 50%. Two mistakes then, and I stand corrected.
/r/MensRights10/09/17 04:25 AM
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Hilarious: "We fought to get here, and CAFE needs to fight to be at the same space." So because feminists "fought" traditionalist society and government now men's rights activists need to fight feminists as well as the rest of society? Talk about pulling the ladder up after yourself once you've sucked up all the "gender-equality" funding available. What a disgusting bit of lip service from a Red Pill movie protester.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 11:28 PM
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Except when a man made them do it.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 11:07 PM
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Good thing her baby wasn't male. She'd have probably gotten probation.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 11:06 PM
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I'm glad for your post and happy you didn't delete it. I'm learning new things about circumcision all the time and the legal ramifications, some of which were clarified in this thread, are a valuable part of this new information. Thank you for posting, in particular for sharing your personal trauma. I'm absolutely horrified that anyone would still support routine infant circumcision after hearing of even a single case such as yours.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 11:04 PM
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Even if your own taste runs to mutilated penises wouldn't you agree that it should be the penis owner's choice to cater to you only after reaching the age of majority?
/r/MensRights09/09/17 09:27 PM
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I am Politeness Man here to scold you for your hatefully spittle-flecked misogynist comment. My Kill All Men earrings are however just a joke, and the twelve online vendors you can buy your Kill All Men swag from, they have nothing to do with feminism. You and your neckbeard are no match for my internalized misandry. Just kidding. Here, have my contrarian upvote for your ugly-ass and unhelpful comment.
/r/MensRights09/09/17 08:46 PM
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Oh dear. "Type one FGM would be like removing a male’s testes, type three is equivalent to removing both the testes and the penis. There is no way that would be deemed acceptable," says Taina Bien Aime, director of the Coalition Against Trafficking in Women, who adds that comparisons between male and female circumcision are unhelpful. So comparisons between male and female circumcision are unhelpful but your absolutely ridiculous anatomical comparisons between FGM and castration or complete emas…
/r/MensRights09/09/17 08:26 PM
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This post made me recall another and the link posted therein. http://www.gendercide.org An excerpt from the intro page: "The difficulty with Warren's framing of gendercide, though -- and this is true for the feminist analysis of gender-selective human-rights abuses as a whole -- is that the inclusive definition is not matched by an inclusive analysis of the mass killing of non-combatant men. Gendercide Watch was founded to encourage just such an inclusive approach. We believe that state-directed…
/r/MensRights09/09/17 05:35 PM
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So, no male musicians then either?
/r/MensRights09/09/17 04:06 PM
1

Coke Zero. The feminist "this is now a Spider-Man thread."
/r/MensRights09/09/17 04:01 PM
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If there was gender equity in Honduras' murder rate then three times more women would be murdered there. I obviously condemn war, particularly gang wars, but pretending that life in a war zone—where the criminal justice system is for sale to rich criminals—is a uniquely female issue, that is garden variety feminist sexism. How about we make drugs legal in the west and gut the murderous cartels' cash cow? The 21st Amendment repealed the proto-feminist 18th (Prohibition) here almost 85 years ago. …
/r/MensRights09/09/17 03:42 PM
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"Women are always the primary victims of war."
/r/MensRights09/09/17 03:26 PM
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She just wanted the baby, not him. From my own experience it sounds like losing him was plan A. Women complain about being objectified but this is the ultimate objectification of men. After my last divorce I stayed single for the first seven years of my 40s and two childless women during that time literally begged me to get them pregnant. One even offered to disappear forever with no responsibility for me. As if that's what I wanted. She also told me that her mom and sister had counseled her to …
/r/MensRights08/09/17 03:00 PM
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In my experience the anti-feminism among MRAs is positively mild compared to the wide-spread feminist hate for anything related to men's rights. Robin Morgan, noted feminist author and activist and former editor of Ms. magazine said it best: "And let's put one lie to rest for all time: the lie that men are oppressed, too, by sexism -- the lie that there can be such a thing as 'men's liberation groups.'" Find me a leading MRA saying any such thing about feminism. We're mostly egalitarians and inc…
/r/MensRights08/09/17 01:42 AM
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And weaponized is the perfect term for it. White-knight gynocentrism has always facilitated the weaponization of women's unhappiness but feminism has now anonymized it on campus and expanded the definition of sexual assault to such a ridiculous degree that a man's unwanted word or glance is tantamount to rape. If feminists wanted rape to be taken more seriously their first mistake was calling everything rape. I just wish DeVos' deputy hadn't apologized for her statement about most college "rape"…
/r/MensRights07/09/17 10:33 PM
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I made it as far as his unanswered next-day text. Too much cringe. I always tell young guys to learn an instrument. If you're in a band and you get comfortable playing in front of crowds you automatically have the confidence women crave. Even though your music might suck and you really might not be doing much up there you project significance and that is the most powerful female aphrodisiac in the world. Source: personal experience. I made a few records in my distant youth and I actually bedded …
/r/MensRights07/09/17 10:20 PM
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You seem to agree there is a category of financial "products" that are beyond the pale but I'm not sure what your criteria are to be included. I'm far from a financial expert but for me the criteria are based on potential harm. Are there people who think their money is safely invested being defrauded by those they trust to protect that money? Are so many such funds being put into these black boxes that if the mechanisms are exposed to be something like a Ponzi scheme do we have massive market de…
/r/MensRights07/09/17 02:56 AM
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I see posts here I don't agree with either. I don't however try to tone-police the sub with generalizations like yours, that the entire sub is "fucked" because you didn't like OP's implication that family court discriminates against men. And your claim that noting that fact about family court is "pointlessly attacking" women, that's just silly.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 02:41 AM
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Ex-feminist white male in my 50s here. I'm socialist to the degree that I believe in a progressive income tax, fire departments, public libraries, schools and Social Security. I believe that capitalism in the form of basic mercantilism through industry and technology is—even with all its warts—still chief among the engines advancing our civilization. That said, black-box investment banking games such as derivatives are pure chicanery and should be illegal. It took me a long time but I finally tr…
/r/MensRights07/09/17 12:21 AM
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I have a 16-year-old blonde haired blue eyed daughter who I've raised in a white-minority neighborhood here. She's attractive enough to model for several local clothing companies so she gets cat-called with some regularity and I've discussed it with her many times. I told her to ignore it—and start looking for avenues of escape—if there isn't anyone else around but if there are then you're quite safe to return the verbal abuse. She carries pepper spray and has gotten pretty good at insulting suc…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 05:45 PM
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Why are you here again?
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:11 AM
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My own story is very different from both yours and OP's but I really related to trying to have compassion for my narcissistic sociopath father. I was fortunate to have a new stepfather from age three and both he and my mother were saints about protecting me as much as possible from my father while still allowing me to form my own relationship and opinions of him. At this point I know the main reason he denied their request for my stepdad to adopt me is so he could manipulate me with lies to try …
/r/MensRights06/09/17 01:06 AM
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I love the selection of tweets. "Girls would never be vicious like toxically masculine boys are!" "We already have Heathers and Mean Girls showing how vicious girls can be!" Pick an argument and stick with it, feminists. Otherwise you look like you're just frantically throwing stuff hoping some of it will stick.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 10:44 PM
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We definitely need the support of women MRAs. They are the only real weapon we have against mischaracterizations that we're all just bitter misogynist crybabies. The fact that such mischaracterizations still have so much traction despite all the great work of the various honey badgers is ironically another excellent proof that we live in an inegalitarian women-first society. Feminists got tired of feeling made to conform to "patriarchal" expectations and unshackled themselves from those expectat…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 10:14 PM
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Fine, that's a start. Now you just need to understand that being against 3rd-wave feminism is not misogyny, internalized or otherwise.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 06:22 PM
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You're right, I don't need to conflate misogyny with toxic masculinity. Feminism has already done that. Maybe the women you accuse of "internalized misogyny" don't really hate women. Maybe they just have a low tolerance for hypocritical bullshit ideologies like 3rd-wave feminism that pretend that misogyny is so rampant it's in our air-conditioning and every image of attractive women that a man might enjoy or even have a shirt decorated with such. And the woman who made and gave him the shirt? Ye…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 06:16 PM
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Perfect. So when men are toxic it's their masculinity that made them so. When women are toxic it's them being toxically masculine (misogynist). Oh look, here come the better people (women, feminists) to fix everything! Your naming scheme tips your hand something fierce. Enjoy your "Misandry Don't Real" tattoo.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 02:15 PM
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That really nails it. Bookmarked. Thank you.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 04:10 AM
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If this isn't a statutory rape then a 52-year-old male teacher having an "affair" with a 17-year-old female student isn't rape either. It's the double-standard that women offenders alone enjoy that drives us crazy around here.
/r/MensRights04/09/17 04:33 AM
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Fringe CEO says all this stuff is "to get conversations started. To inspire debate and questioning." Yeah right. When any debate or questioning is labeled as misogynist hate speech you aren't really inspiring any reaction that doesn't support the narrative.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 06:38 PM
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Glad her accusations were ignored. I was at a club last night too and this extremely drunk woman was hugging, groping and generally crawling all over my friend. He was doing his best to disengage—they know each other—because he knows she has a boyfriend. A boyfriend who wasn't present but had coincidentally just booked a gig for his own band to play with my put-upon friend's band. I was thinking about all the "terrible male" proxy violence women cause with this bullshit as my friend asked me to …
/r/MensRights03/09/17 06:19 PM
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I'm in the US and had never heard of him or Sp!ked Online. Extemporaneous brilliance. Thanks for posting.
/r/MensRights03/09/17 05:55 PM
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Only the starving aren't full of shit.
/r/MensRights02/09/17 10:59 PM
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Not a Linux guy but was happy to see I can use it at the router. Thanks for link! My only question is how often I might need to disable it. Seems I need to disable my current ad-blocker software with some regularity as more sites somehow manage to serve their actual content through blocked (advertising?) domains. Or at least I think that's what's happening.
/r/MensRights02/09/17 06:35 PM
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Yes, I'm familiar with your view that feminism has had a net negative impact on our society and I still think the equal opportunities we all share today are worth the downsides. Increasing human potential by removing unjust barriers will also increase the potential for harm, but that's always the risk in a society that holds liberty and freedom in high regard. I think this is an issue worth discussing and clarifying among MRAs because our logical anti-feminism here costs us a lot in political ca…
/r/MensRights02/09/17 06:16 PM
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Stephen Colbert made an in-character joke (something stereotypically Asian about Ching Chong something or other) that was funny because he was actually mocking those who would make such a joke. Being typically thin-skinned and incapable of grasping the humor of his character—which was about making conservatives look ignorant and racist—she took it at face value, decried it as racist and called for his show to be canceled. He made short work of her, again using humor, the following week. What was…
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/17 11:57 PM
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That distinction is noted but with SJWs being the people most vociferously against the notion that men have any societal disadvantages—or even if they do they don't matter—any time SJWs prove their bigotry is a good thing for men's rights. That makes it a valid post here in my book.
/r/MensRights01/09/17 11:21 PM
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Every stripe of crazy committed by SJWs is a men's rights issue. Every time they discredit themselves is another victory on the road to their hatefully racist and sexist conspiracy theories being exposed for the trash they are. Do you think any of those students who surrounded and screamed at that white leftist professor who refused to leave campus when they banned whites for a day aren't also man-hating feminist activists? Please go try to police some other sub.
/r/MensRights01/09/17 11:13 PM
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I can't believe how he made her do this to him. He needs to be "thoroughly investigated".
/r/MensRights01/09/17 11:03 PM
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Thanks for that concise breakdown.
/r/MensRights01/09/17 09:37 PM
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Friendly reminder that feminism was good for society and to watch out for the many modern western 3rd-wave feminists on reddit and elsewhere who pretend their important battles aren't over and they've not reduced themselves to hunting for microaggressions in order to perpetuate their false "patriarchy" narrative.
/r/MensRights01/09/17 07:53 PM
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My watershed moment, when I realized that SJWs can be as racist and sexist as the people they're complaining about was Suey Park with her cancelcolbert hashtag. Did you see her ideological implosion in that Salon interview? Where she stated that, "Whiteness will always be the enemy"? It's here: https://archive.fo/NWLh2 Up to that point I'd never seen better proof that identity studies, while founded with the noble idea of elevating various minorities, have become factories for turning out their …
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/17 07:30 PM
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I always thought the book was more about the "thin veneer of civilization" idea earlier explored by Edgar Rice Burroughs' Tarzan for example. Apparently now it's about masculinity. For some reason the Lord of The Flies wiki hasn't gotten the feminist makeover so many other entries have because it still reads: At an allegorical level, the central theme is the conflicting human impulses toward civilization and social organization—living by rules, peacefully and in harmony—and toward the will to po…
/r/MensRights01/09/17 03:31 AM
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Great. Mentally disabled children are no doubt even easier to rape.
/r/MensRights01/09/17 02:30 AM
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Thanks for link to full paper!
/r/MensRights01/09/17 01:09 AM
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I love watching these extreme feminists burn their own houses down. And props to that news site for assembling such a fine collection of candid photos of her.
/r/MensRights01/09/17 12:16 AM
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Just picture your "thoroughly investigated" situation with the genders reversed. Grieving mother interrogated due to possible involvement with husband's murder of their children and suicide. Yeah, that's how it should go. Of course in this situation the police would talk to the surviving father or if reversed, the mother, but we all know that only a father would be suspected and negatively implicated. A surviving mother could show the cops home movies of herself violently abusing her dead ex and…
/r/MensRights01/09/17 12:07 AM
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Neither gender is more to blame for domestic violence of which this murder/suicide is an extreme example. Feminists (and traditionalists, feminism's strange bedfellows) are however absolutely at fault for pushing the man-blaming women-good-men-bad narrative that is the central tenet of their stupid hateful religion. Dumas' expression cherchez la femme has become cherchez l'homme.
/r/MensRights31/08/17 11:38 PM
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Men are far more likely to be violent with strangers but a lot of that is woman-instigated proxy violence. Women are somewhat more likely to be violent with their male partners and considerably more violent with their own children. The standard excuse is because mom spends more time with the kids. That reasoning holds about as much water with me as the notion that the few men who rape women do so because they spend more time without pussy.
/r/MensRights31/08/17 11:19 PM
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Yeah, I think more highly educated means more highly miseducated when you look at what men and women tend to study. The big flaw I see skimming it is that they appear to be assuming that women's greater level of education these days is why they're making more money. Really they're making more money because they've convinced society that the only reason they used to make less money was because of sexism so everyone has bent over backwards to give even under-qualified women good jobs. So now only …
/r/MensRights31/08/17 07:12 AM
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Very interesting. Feminist men's studies, but isn't that redundant? Every man-blaming conspiracy theory they push over there is a result of feminism's single-minded pursuit of "evil male" data to confirm their misandrist biases. We do some of that here too but I don't think most of us are the raging misogynists they think we are. Personally I research and promote examples of both female privilege and evil to simply show that feminism is wrong about men. Because if like the bumper sticker says, "…
/r/MensRights31/08/17 01:59 AM
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Jaysus. That woman's voiceover about him having to lie on the bed he made. I wonder if she wrote that herself, to be read in her best "concerned" voice. So disgusting.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 08:31 PM
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I wish my name was Mr. Godfree.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 05:44 PM
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I think he means Tim Hunt. https://archive.fo/V0L17
/r/MensRights30/08/17 05:31 PM
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I'd change that to "We helped to create this monster." Women have always pushed to increase their advantages and demand more sacrifice from men in order to be in their company. Edit: But yeah, I'm the one at fault for all the extra sacrifices I've made for women and women alone in this life. I suppose it all comes down to being my mother's son because she's the only woman who ever sacrificed herself greatly for me. Great series of questions.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 05:23 PM
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I think it's barbaric no matter who does it or what their excuses are. tl;dr excerpt from Sam Harris' book, The Moral Landscape: As it turns out, to denigrate the Taliban at a scientific meeting is to court controversy. At the conclusion of my talk, I fell into a debate with another invited speaker, who seemed, at first glance, to be very well-positioned to reason effectively about the implications of science for our understanding of morality. In fact, this person has since been appointed to the…
/r/MensRights30/08/17 07:49 AM
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You're right, a lot of causation/correlation problems in there. I posted it though because I'd never heard from any women that claimed they fared better with uncut men. Maybe that's partly because I'm cut myself, lol. In my long and varied quest to make women orgasm I've found the key is patience, undivided attention and a willingness to ask questions. Who knows, it might have been easier sometimes if I still had my foreskin.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 01:09 AM
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Absolutely disgusting. I'm so sorry for you and all the other boys who've had to go through this feminist madrassa stuff.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 12:38 AM
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There is an extremely unlikely possibility that it's fake so nothing to see here? Babies die from routine cosmetic penis surgery. It's not news because the babies are male. When it becomes news, even just through a FB fundraiser for funeral costs, demanding an autopsy report smacks more of disbelief in the societal problem than in this one case. There are enough peer-reviewed studies that cite enough of these deaths for me not to immediately cry, "Could be a fake!" I'm not sure why that's your i…
/r/MensRights30/08/17 12:24 AM
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Yeah, and imagine how many fewer people would have athlete's foot if we just chopped off babies' feet when they were born. Circumcision's popularity among U.S. goyim is because Dr. Kellogg and others pushed it to curb masturbation. The studies that claim reductions in STD transfer rates in Africa are nowhere near as conclusive as the agenda-driven authors claim they are.
/r/MensRights30/08/17 12:04 AM
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My only son will be 31 this week and I left the decision up to his mother and her stated preference for sex with circumcised penises. I regret being ignorant and allowing that more than any other mistakes I've made as a father. I'm lucky he's no angrier at me than I am at my parents, which is not at all. I think people here in the west today really have no right to be ignorant of the harm caused by male genital mutilation. Lately I've been showing this article to women who snort derisively and r…
/r/MensRights29/08/17 11:56 PM
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Thanks for assembling these. Good god, I just made four new social media accounts didn't I. Hahaha.
/r/MensRights29/08/17 05:43 AM
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Good bot.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 11:43 PM
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Oh no! This sub has "gone to shit" again! They're "unsubscribing" in droves again, lol. Somebody posted something that mocked feminist dogma clearly hates women! The day I see a similar bunch of virtue-signaling "unsubscribing" outrage posts following yet another humor-free men-are-trash post on any of the feminist subs, that will be the day I start to believe any of you ever gave two shits about men or their rights.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 11:41 PM
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"Red light, green light" is the favorite game of control freaks. More than anything, modern western feminists are control freaks.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 05:54 PM
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A guy screaming at me in my home gets thrown out physically with an ass-kicking if he resists. A woman screaming at me in my home gets told to leave immediately and is reminded that if she were a man I'd have already put hands on her. One exception: that woman is my wife in which case I apparently put up with it for years before I divorce her.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 06:21 AM
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Now we just need more women like her speaking out about these issues. Yep, that's all we need. And it will happen just as soon as soon as hell freezes over. Women who think like she does are extreme outliers and will remain so. Feminism at this point is a religion and religions don't just go away, no matter how overwhelming the evidence against their dogma is. Belief is simply too comforting.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 04:45 AM
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This sub and others deemed by that crowd to be "hate" subs are chock full of posts by people who discover on their first attempt to post there that they've been auto-banned for having a history of posting here.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 04:06 AM
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Lol, yeah. Three paragraphs would be too long for you. You must be terrified that some idea might penetrate your ideological fortress. Help! Rape!
/r/MensRights27/08/17 09:20 PM
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Ah, my mistake. Despite the fact that your reply was just a single sentence when I responded to it I thought you were responding to me and I said no such thing. And what you guys are all freaking out about, what TheJazzProphet said about avoiding liability for a rape accusation, I simply read that as liability for a false rape accusation. His position of requiring "affirmative consent"—in the form of waiting for women to re-engage after token resistance—is exactly what you want. You feminists ha…
/r/MensRights27/08/17 06:05 PM
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Like he says, more bodycams. And penalties for failing to record interactions with the public. Not saying they should be fired, but a week off with no pay would stop a lot of the whoops-my-camera-was-off incidents that are happening now.
/r/MensRights27/08/17 05:02 PM
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In the 1950s here in the US it was, "Are you now or have you ever been a communist?" Please stop with the witch hunts and purity tests.
/r/MensRights27/08/17 04:58 PM
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I've always found it odd that the US census separates out white-identifying Hispanics from the rest of Hispanics. No other racial category they count gets such an odd set-aside. I'm guessing it has something to do with the breeding "apartheid" still practiced by umpteenth-generation descendants of the conquistadors all over Latin and South America.
/r/MensRights27/08/17 04:11 PM
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Amazing. Thx.
/r/MensRights27/08/17 03:33 PM
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Why do you say "or"? I stated that I stopped because she said no. And I stayed stopped when she started kissing me again and was glad when right then the others came back to camp and interrupted her. Because I didn't want to play "red light, green light" with her all night.
/r/MensRights27/08/17 03:31 PM
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What's the charge?
/r/MensRights27/08/17 03:11 PM
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That's what I've always done the times I've encountered resistance that turned out to be token in nature. Because you never know. Decades before the insane climate we live in now I remember I stopped kissing a Finnish girl once when she said no to my hand. It was no big deal to me but she was clearly disappointed when I rolled over and sat up on my sleeping bag. "You aren't French then I guess," she said. I asked her what she meant and she said a Frenchman wouldn't have stopped. I think this lon…
/r/MensRights27/08/17 06:30 AM
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Wasn't it something like 40% of 600 women polled admitted to saying no when they meant yes? I can't find the original study but this one references it: https://page-one.live.cf.public.springer.com/pdf/preview/10.1023/A:1007080303569 The extent to which women use token resistance in sexual encounters, their reasons for employing this form of ambiguous communication, and the effect of token resistance on sexual coercion have been explored by a number of studies. Muehlenhard and Hollabaugh (1988) w…
/r/MensRights27/08/17 01:53 AM
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Tons of people his age have tattoos these days. Unless he has face tattoos or swastikas that look like they were done with a fork his problem is being male and 6'4" with ordinarily sexist cops following their "primary aggressor" training. Most of the cops I see these days have tattoos as well.
/r/MensRights26/08/17 02:50 AM
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I have an idea for a screenplay that I'll never write. Imagine an obviously dystopic alternate reality where instead of women rising up through feminism a century ago men had risen up demanding the support, protections and relative immunity from the consequences of their actions that have always been afforded women alone. Everything would have broken down by now and we'd have been back to building huts and herding sheep so the women could cook them and make the wool into clothes.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 09:37 PM
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Feminist sources include 2nd-wavers like Andrea Dworkin and Catherine MacKinnon. I read as much of them as I could stomach anyway. Man-blaming 3rd-wavers are all over the web with Amanda Marcotte and Jessica Valenti being prime examples, Australia's complete psycho Clementine Ford as well. I've also spent a bit too much time on various other sites like feministing, everydayfeminism and the bigger news sites' women's issues columns like Slate's DoubleX and whatever The Guardian's is called. Pushb…
/r/MensRights25/08/17 09:23 PM
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Smells like bait from a feminist but I'll bite just in case you really want to know. I've literally carried tons of things for women over my life. My mother is the only woman who's carried anything of mine. I've helped at least a dozen women move with my truck. No woman has ever helped me move. Four spine surgeries later it really sucks being told I'm part of some patriarchy that thinks I'm a potential rapist and believes I'm "entitled to women's bodies." Sure, my back issues are mostly due to t…
/r/MensRights25/08/17 07:52 PM
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You can tell she's got an IUD in because she will taste coppery, like pennies. That was a joking response of course and wasn't a real reply to your thoughtful and correct post. I myself have a 31-year-old son who is the result of a girlfriend discontinuing her pill without telling me. I helped raise him and love him unconditionally but it was really tough trying to explain to him when he was five years old why his mom told him that I'd tried to have him killed before he was born.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 05:20 PM
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Red looks like a perfect candidate for the Alamo Theater's upcoming "clowns only" showing of Stephen King's movie It.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 05:11 PM
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I don't know. Hilariously fat people with loud clothing, garishly died hair and pancake makeup? Sounds like they could get a lot of feminist self-described "wonder women" to attend.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 05:01 PM
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I was in Germany a few years ago and was surprised to see many of the parking structures had the first dozen or so best spots simply labeled with the female symbol. Fathers with babies? Old men with lots of things to carry? Tough luck, you're part of the oppressive patriarchy and probably a rapist to boot.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 04:54 PM
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Conversely why should living men be blamed for the actions of dead men? I'm in my fifties and was raised by feminists as a feminist. I've spent most of my life sacrificing myself for women in ways—excepting my mother of course—they've never sacrificed themselves for me. It took me three decades to start noticing what it's become. Now that I've read up on what they teach in their Gender (née Women's) Studies departments I'm horrified at how long I claimed and believed the lies. Chief among them o…
/r/MensRights25/08/17 04:42 PM
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Because mothers are more nurturing and better parents they should get custody in the event of divorce.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 04:14 PM
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I've done it for years. I've also done years of breadwinning. They're right, there's no comparison. I'm guessing you're the one who hasn't done any real bread-winning. Waking up at 4:30am and coming home at 7:30pm, scrambling for extra hours of overtime to afford the things your spouse and kids want. Your notion that your job is super hard is part and parcel of the too-common wifely lack of gratitude that is often at the root of the fact that women file between 70-80% of US divorces. Why keep th…
/r/MensRights25/08/17 01:59 AM
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If you've had other jobs then you might know how much more difficult they can be. I don't know, maybe you've only had easy or part-time jobs or maybe you have a dozen kids but this sounds like the standard women-have-it-so-hard arguments feminists make.
/r/MensRights25/08/17 01:33 AM
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I've been Mr. Mom for years through mama being in the nuthouse then divorce/full-custody and my own work-related physical disability. You're right. It's way easier than my old 60-80-hour weeks plus commute. Easier even than the 40-hour-week jobs I had earlier. Female to male ratios of daytime TV and social media consumption bear this out. It wasn't always like this. The advent of man-made technologies like the washing machine, vacuum cleaner and now pre-packaged foods were applied to what is a s…
/r/MensRights25/08/17 01:29 AM
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This. Not sure what the big train deal is here in a country known to have more feces lying around on any public block than some US tweaker-with-4-pit-bulls' backyard.
/r/MensRights24/08/17 11:51 PM
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Let this be a lesson to false accusers. Stick to under fifteen false accusations and you'll be fine. Probably safer at around a dozen.
/r/MensRights24/08/17 03:33 PM
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My, my, aren't you reactive and defensive. Says the guy who accused me of dragging the issue into an estrogen swamp.
/r/MensRights23/08/17 04:27 PM
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u/Imnotmrabut Hey, thanks for archive links. No idea why they won't work for me on iOS with Alien Blue or Safari even with an Australian proxy/vpn. The page loads, then goes to subscription page even as an archive link. I've actually never seen this before, an archive linked page being repopulated with a paywall nag screen. I'm just not enough of an expert to try to figure it out. I've basically read the article at this point anyway, because the slow paywall load time is long enough for me to re…
/r/MensRights22/08/17 04:24 PM
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The problem with rape accusations is they require no evidence but the "victim's" word to get somebody arrested. If that "victim's" word says the man is armed then it can become a SWAT arrest. If there are injuries or other real evidence of a violent rape by a known violent and or armed convict or gang member that's when it will justifiably become a SWAT response. The problem with SWAT teams in the US is that most of them in smaller cities have nothing to do so they leap at any chance to make an …
/r/MensRights22/08/17 03:44 AM
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Can somebody post an archive link? It's paywalled here and wants a credit card to start a "free" month trial.
/r/MensRights22/08/17 03:09 AM
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All of us here think about these things—maybe even occasionally too much—but really well written comments like yours stand out. Kudos, and there's a Beck's in the fridge. The pool and the air mattress you have to supply yourself.
/r/MensRights22/08/17 03:01 AM
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This is a devastatingly clear and concise indictment of everyday female sexism. Thank you.
/r/MensRights22/08/17 02:52 AM
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David Futrelle used to be a bit of an MRA himself. I don't recommend the site but nobody else has assembled his internet trail-of-the-dead-wrong like encyclopedia dramatica. His defense of Salo and other exploitative imagery of nude young boys is particularly revealing. https://encyclopediadramatica.rs/David_Futrelle
/r/MensRights21/08/17 08:26 PM
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Yes it is that complicated. My moral calculus has too many feels for you? What if I think it's important to note that mass shootings of the deranged loner type are a feature—much like feminism—of a society with so much less pain and suffering than in the past it's ridiculous? And what is your obviously uncomplicated solution? You may be in a bit of a swamp yourself.
/r/MensRights21/08/17 07:06 PM
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You're absolutely right. Which is why I'm happy that my daughter is aware that there are both advantages and disadvantages to being either male or female. And she heckles her hardcore feminist girl friends relentlessly. Back when she was 15 she had three friends over and they were playing some game where they wrote everything they didn't like about each other on some square 1-liter plastic water bottles. I don't know the rules of the game but when emptying the trash I found and read these bottle…
/r/MensRights21/08/17 04:15 PM
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I've resisted temptation every other time I've run across a thread you're in here but what the heck, I really want to thank you for your work. You've been such a huge part of why I stopped claiming feminism after thirty years. I was so well programmed, both biologically and culturally that I was simply ignoring my own experience, until I encountered you and the other MRAs who were able to intellectually articulate and vigorously defend my gut feelings about anti-male gender injustice. I have a t…
/r/MensRights21/08/17 06:21 AM
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Wow, that article and apparent book will be getting some hate. I understand their point but my sympathy for any shooter is utterly dwarfed by my sympathy for their victims. This is the Charles Manson defense of, "I'm a product of your society." Clarence Darrow was an early proponent of such thinking and I agree that the modern "felt" meaninglessness of our lives is an issue but it shouldn't be considered exculpatory evidence at the trials of those who make the choice to go shoot unknown innocent…
/r/MensRights20/08/17 09:15 PM
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I'd change that to, "You cannot revoke consent after the fact." Anyone can change their mind and discontinue most things they've consented to previously. Drop a class? Quit a job? Those are both revocations of consent. Contractual agreements are specifically designed to make this difficult for a wide range of agreements made among people and people-based business entities for example. Jumping off a bridge or taking a hit of acid, these have points of commitment where the coming consequences are …
/r/MensRights20/08/17 08:28 PM
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Interesting site. Particularly this: At least one in three victims of family violence is male. Men who have experienced partner violence are 2 to 3 times more likely than women to have never told anybody about it. From that I'm guessing that their first stat is an underestimate.
/r/MensRights20/08/17 06:57 PM
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Actually rape-shield laws, designed to prevent a woman's previous sexual history from being used by the defense also cover the "victim's" previous and often serial false accusations too. Thanks feminism.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/17 07:21 AM
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Even if we had a set point beyond which one is impaired and can't give consent (say, like a DUI at .08% where I live) and we all started breathalyzing each other there is still way too much subjectivity to the idea of consent. Feminists have pushed for and won the right to prosecute as rape something as simple as changing positions or thrusting one more time after women withdraw consent with a whispered "No". The old joke of, "Don't (,) stop," makes the simple pause expressing a comma the distin…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/17 12:38 AM
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Thanks for link. It's worth mentioning that media articles' authors almost never get to write their own headlines. The dissonance between many stories and their headlines is stark evidence of this.
/r/MensRights19/08/17 07:43 PM
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I don't know what country you're in but these are the considerably higher stats I was looking at for the US. Table 5 shows parents in prison by gender: https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/pptmc.pdf It says 51% of male prisoners in the state system are dads vs 62% of women are moms. In federal prison it's 63% of the men are dads and 56% of the women are moms.
/r/MensRights17/08/17 05:24 PM
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Here in the US the percentage of incarcerated women who are mothers is about the same as the male prisoners who are fathers. I have to wonder how much more than 7% of our prisoners would be women if this mommy loophole could be closed. It's really only one facet of the big fat pussy pass all women are afforded in the criminal justice system so it probably wouldn't change that ratio much.
/r/MensRights17/08/17 07:08 AM
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I'm assuming you believe in some sort of age of consent? An acceptable upper limit to the gap between ages maybe?
/r/MensRights16/08/17 10:28 PM
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So brilliant. You make me miss broadcast TV. Or cable, whatever.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:51 PM
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Would you ask this question of a 40-year-old male teacher having sex with his 15-year-old female student? Consent is immaterial to the charge of statutory rape.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:46 PM
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I just had another disagreement here about the meaning of the term virtue signaling. Both you and the other person see it as lying about one's beliefs but I don't think it requires deceit. I see it as a way to identify shared values. For example, I've voted 3rd-party progressive since 1996 and I find myself needing to bring that up every time I try to discuss men's rights or feminism. It's a, "Hey I'm really a good guy here," bunch of (true) crap I have to bring up so I'm not accused of bigotry.…
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:29 PM
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I'm not going to label it as hateful in intent, but the question I was answering was about perceptions. Thank you for explaining your prejudices. I hope I've explained my own. And I mean prejudice in the denotative sense. There's a variously attributed quote, “There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all argument, and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance. This principle is, contempt prior to examination.” You've investigated this sub…
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:14 PM
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Populism is a shifty word. You just made me read this populism wiki https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Populism and although it doesn't mention The Klan it has an interesting later definition of populism that I think works: an ideology that "pits a virtuous and homogeneous people against a set of elites and dangerous 'others' who are together depicted as depriving (or attempting to deprive) the sovereign people of their rights, values, prosperity, identity, and voice"
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:30 PM
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I don't see why that's relevant? It's relevant in that you called my post hateful. The problem with that defense is the reasoning is non-obvious. If you're trying to combat this bias and raise awareness you need to actually bring up the bias. People looking at your sub are only going to see you tearing down feminists, they can't look into your mind and see why you're doing it. That feminism endlessly demonizes and vilifies men isn't obvious? That all men are the born-privileged oppressors of all…
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:24 PM
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As the one who posted the Feminists (not women) of The KKK article you might want to know that the article is excerpted from a book by Linda Gordon, a historian who also cowrote Feminism Unfinished. I'll leave mikesteane's valid defense of my post belonging in a men's rights forum but your attack is typical of those with your belief system. "Believe and virtue signal like me or you're literally Hitler." Run along back to your subs where all dissent is auto-banned with that. Edit: When a signific…
/r/MensRights16/08/17 06:42 AM
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Watching her edit herself was astounding. After her expressed sympathy for white men was received in silence she spent the rest of the interview looking fearfully at the crowd like a deer in the headlights. Not to mention virtue-signaling all over the place about Trump and Schwarzenegger sucking and her being arrested at leftist demonstrations. We seem to be drifting closer and closer to a new kind of McCarthyism.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 04:49 AM
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https://areomagazine.com/2017/08/09/assessing-female-mate-preferences-answers-to-ten-common-criticisms-of-evolutionary-psychology/
/r/MensRights16/08/17 04:03 AM
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I found this interesting and look forward to at least a couple of the feminists who've lately been commenting here so often to explain to me how men are still always to blame for everything bad.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:35 AM
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Feminists posted snark in the men's rights sub again today. So unlike the feminist subs, where any hint of opposition is immediately banned.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 12:36 AM
1

Everyone is obviously free to practice their advocacy however they wish but my personal take on whether or not Google does a doodle for IMD—and actually whether we even have an IMD, sorry—is a non-issue. It's unlike the other places we go sometimes in reversing the genders on the various feminist "offendedness" statutes where playing what's-good-for-the-goose has a chance (by virtue of being ridiculous) of getting the whole concept thrown out. IMD doesn't measure up (as an issue) to the myriad w…
/r/MensRights15/08/17 10:54 PM
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This could work, right up until someone notices any disparities between the output of female teams vs. male teams. Um, yeah—that there could be disparities is a sexist assumption huh. I'm not a programmer and all I really have to go on is Zoe Quinn's game but can I admit to being curious about who would generally write better code? Also, I've worked among women as a student nurse (I dropped out) and it really sucked. I had to "flop" all the patients on the floor every shift I did, while the othe…
/r/MensRights15/08/17 02:53 AM
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Which in my experience has little to do with feminism. It is macho alpha males that enacted the idea that a boy having sex with a woman isn't rape, it's just him becoming a man faster than his peers, it's these men that taught their boys not to cry, to be stoic and not show their feelings. The point is that you are shoehorning feminism into the problem that has little to do with feminism, this isn't the fault of feminism and if you truly want to help the problems that boy's aren't expected or al…
/r/MensRights15/08/17 02:24 AM
1

I was told by a friend that Google has a large office near where these were put up in Venice, CA.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 03:43 AM
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Yet another societal disadvantage claimed by feminist women as uniquely gendered when it isn't. Add that to DV and sexual violence and the house of cards really starts to collapse. What feminists turn out to be actually insisting is that all the stuff they complain about only matters when it happens to women. Same as those things have always only mattered when they happen to women. There's always been an unholy wedding of modern "egalitarian" feminism to the traditional values and gender roles o…
/r/MensRights14/08/17 03:40 AM
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Here in the US men go to jail every day for not paying child support. Even if they can't pay due to a layoff or something else beyond their control. I don't know if it's the same for alimony but it wouldn't surprise me. My county even has a shaming website of the mugshots of men sentenced to jail for non-payment of divorce settlements. There were no women on the several pages of it I looked at a few years ago. It's ironic to me how the "strong independent" women who act like they personally suff…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 07:06 PM
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This is at the core of why I abandoned feminism after decades of claiming it. The hypocrisy. Honest people will admit that some women are capable of doing to men all of the nasty criminal stuff some men do to women. It's how insanely differently we as a society view both female perpetrators and male victims. And feminists, who claim to be about equality bask in this discrimination, promoting it at every turn to advance their man-blaming agenda. Jim Goad, who has a few other political views I dis…
/r/MensRights12/08/17 06:48 PM
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I wish the women I've dated who believed in this girlfriend "Bill of Rights" would have had the courtesy to write it all down like this early on. This stuff usually comes out over time, once you're invested and have had a lot of good times together to cloud your judgment and instinct for self-preservation.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 11:48 PM
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And that bruise on her face is clearly where the defendant punched her while he was raping her.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 10:28 PM
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JigSaW. I see what they did there. It's an acronym for SJW GAI. And Zoe and Anita really "work" there?! Somebody said something about badges, does that mean they get to phone their poison in? Do you think they applied for those jobs or Google is so evil that they called them up during gamergate and offered them key positions? Talk about privilege, the mind boggles.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 10:23 PM
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You're very right. In that video he looked much younger than 28 to me.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 05:08 PM
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I'm happy he's just a kid. He'll get some sympathy out of that at least. But yeah, going to Molyneux decreases that.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 01:08 AM
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I'm imagining it's more common that middle-aged fathers are done with kids and mom still gets to "accidentally" fob another one off on him. There was actually a HuffPo article a long time ago that was a new 5th-kid mom getting all misty-eyed that she'd "overcome" her husband's strong objections to more children and now he loved the new baby so everything was wonderful. Forced parenthood, what's good for gander is for the goose to decide.
/r/MensRights10/08/17 12:50 AM
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Wow, what an angel. https://imgur.com/gallery/MRvRr Not surprisingly she has a blog post listing the things one is never supposed to say to a woman after she miscarries. http://totallythebomb.com/5-things-not-to-say-to-someone-who-had-a-miscarriage Clearly a control freak, her circumcision article is really her announcing she doesn't want to hear any complaining about penis cutting. But woe unto those who ask if she's going back for more IVF after miscarrying. Those unacceptable words need to st…
/r/MensRights09/08/17 01:14 AM
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Wow, thank you so much.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 11:41 PM
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Thanks, I know I really need to switch to the newer Reddit iOS app and I have it installed even but I'm a creature of habit.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 11:26 PM
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Not only that but FEMALES SUFFER DISEASES and MEN ARE CRIMINALS. I really want to see the real study now. I mean, not bad enough to spend €28 but that's only because I'm currently between fortunes.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 03:54 AM
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The source was OP's linked study. I was quoting part of the introduction that didn't jibe with the headline OP wrote for OP's linked study. I believe the 60% number—from my quote of the linked study—was referring specifically to shelters that open up there in Canada only when the temperature drops below a certain point.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 12:34 AM
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I forget who said it but obviously life has no meaning outside of the ones we create. So make yourself a good one. Several in fact. I'm 53 and know from experience that worrying too much about your choices can sideline you. Your choices e.g.: career, hobbies, friends and partners are all engines that will pull you in various directions. Just keep checking and modify those choices if you end up places you aren't proud of. It sounds like you aren't proud of your current immobility so get out and d…
/r/MensRights07/08/17 06:57 PM
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More frosting on her depravity cake.
/r/MensRights07/08/17 05:54 PM
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Didn't know there was a civil suit. Hope they win and she spends her life broke.
/r/MensRights07/08/17 05:53 PM
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Really nice work. As a graphic artist I appreciate how hard it is to be explanatory yet concise.
/r/MensRights07/08/17 05:14 PM
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Yes, the introduction (edit: from OP's linked study) states: The climate in Ottawa which includes cold nights during three seasons of the year requires use of emergency shelters. The one-year prevalence rate for shelter use has been approximately 7500 individuals per year in the last two years (ATEH, 2010). About 60% of shelter users are single men with the other part of the population including single women, youth, and families with young children. Gender disparities in government assistance fo…
/r/MensRights07/08/17 04:21 PM
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Those bruises though. Speaking as someone who's been in more than a few scraps and surveyed the damage received, how in hell?
/r/MensRights07/08/17 04:13 PM
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Doh! I didn't spot it in half a dozen rereadings. Ugh.
/r/MensRights07/08/17 04:02 PM
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I've never learned to reddit properly. What was your mistake? Naming the sub you found it on?
/r/MensRights07/08/17 03:56 PM
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Huge tl;dr but this was my Facebook response to a similar headline a woman I know posted there about the 800% increase in female prisoners over the last 30 years in the US. Many defriends as usual. :-) Somebody posted this article and I had a little too much to say about it over there so now you can ignore it here. http://theantimedia.org/female-prison-population-800-percent/ Where to start. First off I'm 100% for both prison reform and the elimination of mandatory sentencing. The only problem I…
/r/MensRights07/08/17 03:39 PM
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Great song! Funny most of the music I have of that era is male sung and a sort of bawdy inverse of your Wilson sisters' recording's sentiments. Such as this 19th-century sea shanty recorded in 1960 by Ewan MacCool and A.L. Lloyd. https://www.dropbox.com/s/lkwwwhlv84htwt6/While%20Cruising%20Around%20Yarmouth.mp3
/r/MensRights07/08/17 07:41 AM
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Confused young mostly-white man wearing a dashiki, hates his penis. https://areomagazine.com/2017/07/07/why-we-all-love-minorities-and-want-to-be-one/ Edit: Jaysus, almost 20K likes and they're definitely not all women. A lost generation of young men who if they ever broke a hymen probably cried more than the girl.
/r/MensRights07/08/17 07:21 AM
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Except that movies, football, French and judo lessons aren't really amenable to being interrupted with phone calls on any kind of phone. Mom needs to schedule the kid's life around those phone calls just like dad does his own.
/r/MensRights05/08/17 05:46 PM
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Anybody have a non-paywalled link to the actual study?
/r/MensRights04/08/17 09:51 PM
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Sorry, I was paraphrasing. The study is behind a paywall but I got access somehow several years ago. The extent to which women use token resistance in sexual encounters, their reasons for employing this form of ambiguous communication, and the effect of token resistance on sexual coercion have been explored by a number of studies. Muehlenhard and Hollabaugh (1988) were the first to provide data on the prevalence of token resistance, on potential reasons for its use, and on the link between token…
/r/MensRights02/08/17 09:45 PM
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Do you disbelieve that this graffito is emblematic of modern western feminist thought? NAFALT much?
/r/MensRights02/08/17 07:07 PM
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Combine the Pornhub stats with the study that showed 40% of 600+ women admitting to giving men token resistance to their advances and you can start to see a bit of evidence for the "rape culture" they're always going on about. Token resistance was measured by a question something like, "Have you ever told a man NO to his sexual advances while fully intending to acquiesce to his persistence if he provides such?"
/r/MensRights02/08/17 07:04 PM
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It worked here in the US. Country thing maybe? I've only read it but I really hope there's a video of her saying (paraphrased) that she didn't abandon feminism because she learned about men's issues, she abandoned feminism because of what she learned about feminism. Meaning the backlash she's received. I hope she really said that. Even though she said she no longer called herself a feminist in the movie which was before the huge backlash even started.
/r/MensRights01/08/17 03:21 AM
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Writes an entire review that boils down to some feminist saying, "I get what you're saying, but..." Unironically writes: "If (this movie) was one of your friends, it would be the one who starts his sentences with "I get what you're saying, but..." Just stfu. Stop breathing too if possible.
/r/MensRights30/07/17 08:38 AM
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40% of 610 female college students admitted that they had given men token resistance to their sexual advances while having every intention of having sex with them. Second page, second paragraph. https://page-one.live.cf.public.springer.com/pdf/preview/10.1023/A:1007080303569 It's just one of many shit tests women feel licensed to administer to men constantly.
/r/MensRights29/07/17 10:18 PM
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"The adversarial nature of our criminal justice system also ensures that rape myths will endure..." Yes they will. Starting with the myth that women never make false rape accusations. Also this other even more pernicious myth, as spelled out here by Catherine Comins, Assistant Dean at Vassar College. From Time magazine: "Comins argues that men who are unjustly accused can sometimes gain from the experience. 'They have a lot of pain, but it is not a pain that I would necessarily have spared them.…
/r/MensRights29/07/17 01:47 AM
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For those who can't see it. I'm in the US but I used a U.K. proxy to watch this without problem. I did have to click a dialog claiming I have a BBC license, lol. Sorry but my phone has no screen recording software for video. It's the last 20 seconds of the show and I'm honestly not clear that host Evan Davis is smirking so much as nervously wincing. Grinning and bearing it maybe, as we men so often have to do to keep our jobs and/or not stir the pot. He's definitely making some faces and even pu…
/r/MensRights27/07/17 08:22 AM
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I'm not sure if you're saying simply that OJ and Zimmerman's not guilty verdicts show that Blackstone's Formulation works for both male and female defendants, or that this defendant's gender must have had nothing to do with the prosecutor's decisions. Because if you're even hinting that the latter is the case I'm going to disagree. How defendants present in court is a key part of how the system "works" and presenting as female when accused of a violent crime, is always advantageous. Always.
/r/MensRights26/07/17 11:54 PM
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I captioned that pic of your son on FB that you were requesting captions for. Hope you like it and don't delete. He looks very fierce in that image so I gave him some words to go with that.
/r/MensRights26/07/17 11:44 PM
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Okay, wow, that's you? I guess my comment should have been written to sound more supportive with just one minor quibble. I'm aware of the barbarity that is FGM but your signs looked to be addressing male circumcision so I um, yeah, I'm wrong. You go do you. I think you're doing a fantastic job. 🆗😀
/r/MensRights26/07/17 11:32 PM
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I will use circular reasoning to make curly fries now.
/r/MensRights26/07/17 09:14 AM
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Of course. And yet in my experience nobody but the born rich can match women for a persistent false belief that they're self-supporting and independent. "Oh, I wasn't counting the house I got in the divorce." Or, "...the house my parents bought me."
/r/MensRights26/07/17 09:12 AM
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Fuck The Blaze. I got three different 30-second unskippable Verizon ads just trying to watch the first 30 seconds of this video.
/r/MensRights26/07/17 09:04 AM
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Yeah, I don't know anything about her hearings but if her attorneys were able to get her admissions to the police excluded on the grounds of Miranda-warning errors the prosecutors may really have thought she'd get off if they didn't offer her a deal. But also yeah, the potential failure of making murder charges stick is definitely a huge pussy pass.
/r/MensRights26/07/17 09:00 AM
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Yes, admirable stance and clearly shows more dedication than the couple of donations I've made but I think her wearing the bloody crotch pants as the intactivist male protestors do, that looks a bit unhinged. They make her look a bit confused and I'm concerned it will confuse the public we're all trying to convert. A bloody crotch means a completely different thing on a woman.
/r/MensRights26/07/17 08:53 AM
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Sounds like good work. Wish I'd seen it.
/r/MensRights25/07/17 12:48 AM
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Interesting. The link says her story is now that she did it to fend off a rape attempt. I find that to be extremely less likely than him being asleep when she did it. I'm absolutely sure that if I was awake and on my feet fighting back that very few people, particularly women, would be able to cut off my penis. Even if I was naked. Sounds like the standard bullshit Lorena Bobbitt defense.
/r/MensRights25/07/17 12:35 AM
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Agreed. One could even look on that line as a mild criticism of those who would criticize the movie for lacking any fictional gender diversity. Put away the pitchforks guys, there are plenty of real targets for our anger.
/r/MensRights25/07/17 12:24 AM
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No video of it either?
/r/MensRights25/07/17 12:19 AM
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The various data in that article range between 1997 and 2012. I can only imagine that the backlash has grown since then but newer numbers would be nice.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 07:42 PM
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My reply to u/dusters below addresses what I see as a distinction between paternity and the other types of civil cases where a failure to appear constitutes a default judgment.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 05:25 AM
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You seem extra angry so I'll respond to the cooler heads who've replied to my comment. If you've experienced down-votes or name calling it wasn't from me. Unless my saying you sound like a feminist or a family law attorney counts as name-calling.
/r/MensRights23/07/17 05:23 AM
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Except it is. Family law judgments are technically civil yet for some reason non-compliance puts dad—or not-dad in this case—in jail. I'm not a lawyer but I think that takes it out of the civil arena on some level and people pointing out it's like small claims court (at $65K?) seem to be missing not only how much greater the stakes are but also how much more important it is to eliminate frivolous accusations like this woman's before the full weight of the justice system is brought to bear agains…
/r/MensRights23/07/17 05:18 AM
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You keep posting comments saying basically that everything's fine and he's going to win on appeal and the system is designed to protect him too and I call BS. What if he was properly served and he didn't understand the import of the paperwork or flaked on appearing for other reasons? What if one of those other reasons was misplaced trust in a family law "justice" system that didn't include knowing that a simple failure to appear could result in 18 years of expensive servitude to an ex and a chil…
/r/MensRights22/07/17 07:24 PM
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Apex fallacy. Because affluenza only works for the accused if they're male and the rest of the criminal justice system isn't already stacked enough in women's favor. Fuck off with that no-comments opinion page shit, Ms. Wiener.
/r/MensRights22/07/17 12:29 AM
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Hmm. Lessee here. From recollection because this screen is really small. A. Anti-male meme. B. Who cares, memes don't real. C. But memes show real bad thinking. B. That's what feminists say when they use rape memes to prove rape culture. C. Um, there is no rape culture. But there is real bad feminist thinking which is behind a bunch of real attitudes and laws. B. Quote, quote—you're being obtuse. C. No actually you are. If the distinction between a meme signifying or otherwise leading to somethi…
/r/MensRights21/07/17 11:37 PM
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Shit, you just made me go read a bunch of stuff I didn't encounter when I studied this years ago. You are very correct and OKW Directive 13 of May 24th seals it. My bad. http://der-fuehrer.org/reden/english/wardirectives/13.html
/r/MensRights21/07/17 09:42 PM
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exact same principle Wat? Except that there actually is a lot of anti-male legislature and a decidedly anti-male criminal justice system. As opposed to there being a rape culture.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 09:29 PM
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My uncle was in the XXIV Panzer Division on the eastern front from '43-'45 so I've studied a bit about 3rd Reich armored tactics and kill ratios under far more constrained supply situations. Those facts in conjunction with what Hitler said and wrote about and to the British both before and during the war shows your theory to be the more far fetched one. It doesn't take away from the evil of the Nazis to notice when they gave quarter.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 09:24 PM
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Like any crime committed inside it has the potential to become an additional charge that goes in your corrections file, affecting your level/housing-status, your discharge date and/or the possibility of parole.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 08:09 PM
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Have you seen any of Cassie Jaye's post-Red Pill interviews? An exceedingly strong woman—but watching her break down and cry over the threats and hostilities she's endured for making that film—it makes me hate feminists like never before.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 07:22 PM
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Many too-popular memes and sound bites betray the same bad thinking that is behind so much anti-male sentiment and legislature.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 07:18 PM
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true liberals I like that. This fukn regressive authoritarian SJW left is ruining it for those of us who are and wish to stand with the working class.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 07:16 PM
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In prison the only place where you have any hope of the few minutes of camera-free privacy required to masturbate is in your cell on your rack. It never was an issue until women started becoming prison guards in male prisons and a certain twisted subset of those women made it into a sport, accusing men masturbating in their cells of sexually harassing them!
/r/MensRights21/07/17 07:11 PM
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Any real historian knows that Hitler let the Allies escape at Dunkirk out of both his respect for the British and their empire as well as his desire not to have to fight them on his way to Moscow. Your article however is Goebbels-grade Nazi propaganda.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 07:04 PM
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Trolling and tittering. You feminists are far too clever for this sub. Personally I don't care if they make Julie Bindel the next Dr. Who but I like that you aren't banned here like you would be for saying similarly sexist but anti-female shit in feminist subs.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 06:56 PM
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You mention gender-reversing the situation. The only reason that the thought experiment of you cat-calling her is the potential crisis it is nowadays is because of feminism's relentless fear-fear-fear-of-men drumbeat pounding in all our ears for decades. The ugliest most unapproachable (and unapproached) women honestly believe there is a toxically masculine rapist just behind every fresh tub of Haagen-Dazs™ or bag of chips they get out of their kitchen. I think it has more to do with them ration…
/r/MensRights21/07/17 05:10 PM
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Losing friends was never the goal for me. Discovering and exposing the truth, that's always been my primary goal despite the hostility it tends to engender. Deliberate pun is deliberate. Welcome aboard, Jillian. We'll always need more thoughtful women.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 04:52 PM
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Nah, you do you. To me your sympathy is welcome here. Now go do some non-internet legwork and post about how you challenged a sexist/feminist assumption that was floated at your work or a dinner party or wherever. We will eat that stuff up. You aren't really one of us until you've lost at least half your friends, lol.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 04:43 PM
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Not really. I was trying to obliquely point out that these kinds of positive affirmations give a lot of us some degree of discomfort. They sound maternalizing and woo-woo even when not intended as such. I just noticed for example how feminized Al Franken made his character in that video, bringing the stereotype into sharp focus. Feminist liberal Senator Al Franken. Maybe we don't want a Band-Aid™. Maybe we want to build a truly gender-egalitarian society completely unlike the sexist one feminism…
/r/MensRights21/07/17 04:31 PM
1

Aw, you're too kind. I'll take it as well-meaning and sincere but here's a powerful US Senator you remind me a bit of: https://youtu.be/6ldAQ6Rh5ZI
/r/MensRights21/07/17 03:00 PM
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They know exactly what men need. They need to have their freedom decided by vengeful feminist bureaucrats. /s Actually, I'd like to see women out of the male prison-industrial complex altogether. If men are being voted off gynecology island I'm fine with that, but we should do the same for our male prisoners. At least we need to get rid of the female COs like the one who just busted OJ beating off. They like to creep the tiers with their flashlights off until they hear someone going at it then b…
/r/MensRights21/07/17 02:53 PM
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stop framing every issue as "feminism vs men" As Gandhi was rumored to have replied when asked what he though of western civilization: "I think it would be a good idea."
/r/MensRights21/07/17 12:10 AM
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Nope. I'm a feminist, Toxic femininity confirmed.
/r/MensRights21/07/17 12:04 AM
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And in the US women apparently initiate something like 75% of divorces? The number I'm curious about is how many girlfriends harass and badger their boyfriends into proposing like my second wife did. I mean as opposed to women who are nagged into marriage by men. I'm aware it was my own fault but my second marriage in retrospect was just a string of demands that I acceded to in the hopes that each new thing would finally be the thing that would make and keep her happy. From moving in together to…
/r/MensRights20/07/17 08:32 PM
1

Not shocked. Yes celebrating it while thinking a gender-reversed version is a horrible crime, that's standard issue hypocrisy. Still not shocked.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 06:23 PM
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I've needed multiple epiphanies in order to completely shed my feminist tendencies. After thirty years of claiming feminism as a logical plank in my overall progressive politics I was hidebound in my belief that women always have everything harder than men. It simply came with the territory, where any perceived underdog was accorded a wide range of extra assistance in the form of handouts, leg-ups and forgivenesses. I think the first chink in my feminist armor was probably Lorena Bobbit's trial.…
/r/MensRights17/07/17 04:35 PM
1

Lol at me googling big words. Which of my words was too big for you? You're just grabbing at straws now.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 10:38 AM
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I'll leave the others here to decide whether your distinctions' extremely minute accuracy here (against vs. anti, etc.) is in any way germane. I'm sure you know it isn't, and that your imposture of triumph here is more about your overwhelming conceit than any real or rhetorical standing in the community. That's what posting a string of non sequiturs earns you. I'm reminded of the old adage about playing chess with a pigeon.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 08:53 AM
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Strawmen everywhere. You must buy them in bulk. First somebody said that OP's story was unfair to the mother who had to pay child support. You replied something about him being new here and only scratching the surface of the hypocrisy here. I went and clicked a few of your comments from r/antimensrights and got your number. Since then you've been making ever loftier claims for yourself to me about just being here to weed out the poor arguments that are lacking in data, implying that the MRM is m…
/r/MensRights17/07/17 06:17 AM
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My argument that your being tolerated here—as you vociferously smear the entire sub—doesn't give you any moral highground is somehow "lacking useful data"? Where's your own useful data? Oh yeah, you're a feminist, I shouldn't ask. Seriously, what have you brought here but your own personally conceited vandalism?
/r/MensRights17/07/17 05:12 AM
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Worry about yourself for a change. I've been to your various houses here and seen the utter lack of any meaningful policing of hateful feminist extremes. Any even slightly countervailing or questioning post in those places is instantly deleted and the poster banned. Here you're welcome to sling your delusional mud and you end up merely starting a conversation, no matter how many passive-aggressive sobriquets you call me. And yet in your mind we're the monsters and you're fighting the good fight.…
/r/MensRights17/07/17 04:51 AM
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Lol at me slinging mud at your "difference of opinion" which was you slinging mud at this entire sub.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 04:22 AM
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Happy to have amused you. Your mockery and shaming tactics are familiar to me and haven't worked in years. Your next gambit will probably be to tell me that no woman will ever fuck me. Funny how that's the feminist go-to, revealing as it does the feminist-denied transactional nature of female sexuality. Enjoy your crumbling ideological edifice, as the men who built it for you wise up and start dismantling it. We've already begun and your desperation is palpable. Real equality is going to suck fo…
/r/MensRights17/07/17 04:12 AM
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It's a drop in the bucket compared to the insanely more hypocritical subs you frequent more often. I claimed feminism for decades before I really looked into it, something you clearly refuse to do. You are a typical feminist with a huge blind spot for both male suffering and female privilege including female criminality and the resulting pussy pass it gets. I see this from your history and how you come here and cherry pick the few low validity threads here to try to further malign men as your id…
/r/MensRights17/07/17 03:24 AM
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Terrible things said about women. I will worry about that once there are a dozen major websites selling hashtag-killallwomen swag. I've been here for several years myself and the day I suspect there's even a tenth as much woman-hating among MRAs as there is man-hating among feminists I will start to share your concerns.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 06:30 AM
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How about you start by breaking your bad habit of excusing nasty female abusiveness as a "trap" women "fall into". Would you ever excuse an abusive husband by mischaracterizing his abusiveness as him having been the victim of falling into a trap? Nah, I just really can't picture that.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 06:12 AM
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So the poor female victim here fell into the trap of being abusive, huh. That is the most outrageous bit of wagon-circling femsplaining on this whole white-knighting trainwreck of a thread. Good night.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 06:08 AM
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I see your point but I don't feel it applies to this case. And in this small forum people are more concerned about the crime of false accusations. Primarily because almost all of the rest of our society is either feminist or traditionalist and doesn't give a shit about false accusations. Because to them female suffering will always be more important than male suffering.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 05:45 AM
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Yes. And not just as you said "more ready" but the vast bulk of empathy's follow-through actions that we do individually and as a society—understanding, forgiveness and generosity—are accorded to females alone. Criminal justice systems here in the west are a good place to start noticing this empathy gap. The scales really fell from my eyes when I learned that all the big feminist drums they pound such as rape and domestic violence are statistically much closer to gender parity between perps and …
/r/MensRights12/07/17 05:41 AM
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Fair enough. And I think one of the "societal norms" most in need of being corrected is they way women are assumed to be honest and men aren't. I don't mean you, as you've already stated that your benefit of the doubt is genderless. In our current feminism-dominated public sphere suspecting female meretriciousness is sexism but men who lie are just being the dogs they are. Same with crime, where the hallowed presumption of innocence is somehow significantly more robust for women. It all flows fr…
/r/MensRights12/07/17 01:19 AM
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You wrote "she lied about being sexually abused by her father". Sorry I took that at face value. I don't know anything about this case other than what you've written.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 12:28 AM
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IANAL but I'm pretty sure that a history of lying about being sexually assaulted can and should be considered evidence when a claimed victim makes new claims of having been sexually assaulted. Same as a history of any perjury is germane to future testimony. I guess boy who cries wolf gets what he's got coming but girl who cries wolf should always be believed.
/r/MensRights12/07/17 12:16 AM
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What I see is a staggeringly obvious non sequitur. A: Husband comes home beat to shit from overwork. B: Wife gets angry at him. Has "a go at him". Subsequently makes him sleep on the couch. C: Wife claims it was her deep concern for his well-being that caused her to abuse him in this way. My own confirmation bias tells me she's lying her ass off. Yours tells you she's telling the truth. What I don't get is why you'd be in this sub if your own bias is that women don't lie about their own abusiven…
/r/MensRights12/07/17 12:07 AM
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The highly suspect and completely unverifiable claim that she threw him out of his bedroom because he was "working too hard" jibes with some of our own relationships with abusive women. Your assumption that she saw him as a "human being" is no more valid than my assumption that she didn't give a damn about him outside of what resources he provided her with. This story belongs in this sub because feminism and traditionalism work very hard together to erase both female abusers and male victims.
/r/MensRights11/07/17 11:14 PM
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It's only offensive to you because you've never been an abused husband or boyfriend. Those of us who recognize the pattern do so from personal experience. As a feminist you should know better than to deny someone's experience.
/r/MensRights11/07/17 10:56 PM
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So there was zero evidence for a rape having happened outside her word? And there was zero evidence that it didn't happen outside of his word? That is a more rare than not type of rape case you're presenting. And you're presenting it as if you know that she was really raped and to question her is disgusting. Not sure if you're a damsel or a white knight but there is no third option with the information you've given.
/r/MensRights11/07/17 10:53 PM
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She honestly admits she "had a go at him" then lies by claiming it was over how hard he was working for her and their kids. Yeah, right. I was in a similarly abusive marriage for years, doing 60-80 hours a week (plus commute) but I got a divorce and survived. My daughter being the most important person in my life I ended up sticking around years past that marriage's expiration date. I normally hate the expression, "He's in a better place now," but in this case it might just be applicable.
/r/MensRights11/07/17 10:41 PM
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This is the real space issue. By requiring a couple of square meters every time they pee while men only use a quarter of that, women are taking real space away from men. Not to mention their inferior smaller bladders requiring to be drained more often. /s
/r/MensRights10/07/17 05:51 PM
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Fleshlights are for unfuckable neckbearded mom's-basement-dwelling autists but dildoes are the coolest most empowering things ever.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/07/17 07:33 PM
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The study: http://journal.frontiersin.org/article/10.3389/fnbeh.2017.00120/full
/r/MensRights04/07/17 02:29 PM
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Okay, howbout 6.01827% ya niggling cunt. Still significant, unlike you.
/r/MensRights03/07/17 07:45 PM
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6.1% total. Seems significant to me.
/r/MensRights03/07/17 03:32 PM
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Murderers are part of society.
/r/MensRights25/06/17 01:39 AM
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You have made a strong case for the use of the word coincidental and I cede the field, despite preferring the idea of unrelatedness to coincidence. As for my sloppy conflation of women and womanhood, again your logic has bested me. Upon review I believe my hastily lazy response to you was probably due to my connotative misreading of "coincidence" as "happenstance". So you win, except for those 1776 and 1812 things. :-D
/r/MensRights06/06/17 08:39 AM
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It was an overreaction and I apologize.
/r/MensRights06/06/17 04:25 AM
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I hadn't thought of it that way. I was imagining a world map showing huge swaths of (western, feminist) hypocrisy where female cutting is illegal (the horror!) but male cutting is fine. The map? I'll take a stab at it myself (so to speak) if my afternoon opens up like an old mohel's mouth watering at the prospect of twins! Twins I tell you! But who was that other guy who was so into twins?
/r/MensRights05/06/17 05:27 PM
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I agree that confusing women with feminists is dumb. Women are a majority of the population and feminists both male and female are a minority. Where I think you went off the rails is in your second claim that any potential relationship between womanhood and feminism is mere coincidence. I'm with you if you're trying to show how false feminism's claim is, that to speak against feminism is to speak against women. But I'm not clear that's what you were trying to express.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 07:25 AM
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Don't confuse women with feminists. Check. The rest of that shit is a bunch of used food. Go away with that.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 03:51 AM
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Doug Stanhope said this word for word about Mel Gibson's anti-Semitic tirade. https://youtu.be/V4qMbWRzCRA
/r/MensRights05/06/17 02:06 AM
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Can't you make a by-gender overlay? That would tell much more to me.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 01:43 AM
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I just wrote two lengthy replies to threads there and they were both rejected for the threads being too old. My first reply was to about the 12th comment down and my second to about the 5th. Caveat poster: start a new thread or risk all your work being wasted.
/r/MensRights05/06/17 12:46 AM
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You've obviously never been falsely accused by a woman in divorce or any other kind of court. And your lack of empathy for those many men who've been there speaks volumes about what kind of person you are.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 11:55 PM
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Yeah, feminism isn't a monolith by any means, but men definitely are. And they're all bad. Even those "allies" who contort themselves into David-Futrelle-style eunuchs are still participating in and benefitting from the eternally ongoing oppression of the first-world wimminz, all of whom are endlessly being ground to a pulp by the evil patriarchy.
/r/MensRights04/06/17 08:27 AM
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Thoughts: men are societally conditioned (shamed) to think of their having been raped by a woman as having gotten lucky. Same as their female rapists are conditioned to believe they're bestowing their priceless sexual favors on even unwilling men. Women on the other hand are conditioned to believe that their vaginas are sacred and any treatment thereof, no matter how consensual, is in fact a potential assault. Even long after the fact, a change of attitude is easy to transmogrify any sexual enco…
/r/MensRights02/06/17 08:27 PM
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I love modern western feminists being anti-war as they sit in luxury atop the bodies of the millions of men who fought and died to build their comfy spot at the least-suffering apex of our modern society. "Oh but that was in the past," they say. "Well so was all your mythical oppression, babe. You want current oppression you benefit from? How about all those man-made electronic gadgets you use to write your man-hating Tumblr blogs with? They're all full of conflict metals that, as usual, a vastl…
/r/MensRights27/05/17 09:33 AM
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Wow, applause and everything. Shocking. Now as long as they don't try to co-opt it and pretend they were there all along, that feminism really is about equality, I'll be really surprised. Feminists admitting they've been wrong—about so many things wrt men—that will truly amaze me.
/r/MensRights27/05/17 04:44 AM
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I'm a Nazi but I don't hate Jews.
/r/MensRights27/05/17 02:14 AM
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Hey thanks! I'll go back and edit them.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 10:09 PM
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It's what we used to call late-70s stoners. Too young to have been hippies and too old for the 80s metal resurrection. I probably should have put "metalhead" in there instead. We also called them loadies, dirtheads, hair farmers and stoners. They called us punk rock fagits. It was pretty much a war for a bit in the late 70s and early 80s, Los Angeles area.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 04:29 PM
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Saw some younger hesher musician-looking kid with that t-shirt on the other day. Carrying an infant while his young, obese and scowly partner pushed another in a stroller. His shirt might as well have spelled out "pussy-whipped" because I could just read the sadist in that scowl. Sure, I'm only idly speculating but his life—not to mention the kids'—already looked ruined to me.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 05:23 AM
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"It's a woman's right to change her mind." #retractedconsent
/r/MensRights26/05/17 12:20 AM
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"Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." #momslicensetoabuse
/r/MensRights26/05/17 12:18 AM
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She must've already been nutting up for the person filming to be so full frame with her. Maybe she'd already attacked the extremely passive Asian man once. He fucked up though by following and re-engaging her after she turned away from the scene. He should have fucked her up as soon as she laid her crazy hands on her. And nobody stands up for him! He's thrown to the ground and nobody speaks up! Fukn people.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 12:15 AM
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Any woman that would deliberately attend a women-only showing of any movie is a sad case and deserves our empathy more than our mockery. Or let's make it 50/50 empathy/mockery. No, you're right, mockery wins.
/r/MensRights26/05/17 12:04 AM
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Good God when I end up reading a comments thread on Jezebel or the like. The hateful feminist gloating is what—more than any other single thing—is what caused me to go MRA after decades of claiming feminism. The pro-Lorena Bobbit demonstrations with the cocktail weinies served with ketchup on the courthouse steps, that was probably my first indication that something was gravely wrong with these women. How Gloria Allred successfully painted a mutually physically abusive relationship as rape—after…
/r/MensRights25/05/17 11:37 PM
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On small tasks—like modern American dinners for example—it's better that one person do the job. I mean, we don't kill our own chickens or grow our own carrots anymore. All that stuff comes pre-seasoned and ready for the stove/oven. The other partner can support by taking care of any distractions that come up during that 20 to 45 minutes that it takes to heat up the Trader Joe's whatever that you bought with the money your man made while he was at work and you were watching Oprah. I remember my l…
/r/MensRights25/05/17 08:59 PM
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I don't understand why verbal "enthusiastic" consent has any more value than no consent. All she has to do is deny having given it and we're back to square one. She said, he said. And we know how that turns out in court.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 09:36 PM
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Feminists: climbing the pile of still-warm bodies to plant their flag. Same as ever. Elliot Rodger etc.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 07:06 AM
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Thanks! And yeah, immediate rehire like I thought. I suppose the biggest impact on her was having to relocate to Gonzaga, which is in Spokane, WA unless they have a satellite campus in Oregon. I was thinking she'd probably be in SJW heaven if it was Portland but Spokane sounds like more of a side-grade from Columbia, Missouri. Probably about the same ratio of MAGA/Trump swag rolling around to increase her ire.
/r/MensRights23/05/17 05:21 PM
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I wonder what ever happened to that professor/organizer at the UMiz mess who was calling for "some muscle" to get that photojournalist out of their public-space protest zone. Didn't she get fired and then immediately get rehired elsewhere? Can't remember her name but she looked like that "comedian" Carrot-top.
/r/MensRights23/05/17 11:48 AM
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Yes, the ones who pick up the glass. Not to mention the @75%-male homeless population, many of whom would love a job picking up the glass. If they were even allowed in the building.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 01:58 AM
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What really gets me is that these mass circumcision ceremonies are sold as tourist attractions. Edit: It also gets me that the Guardian prefers the term "botched" circumcisions to the reality that what they're talking about are very often penis amputations. Ask any man whether he'd prefer death or his penis amputated and you'll get an idea of how much our genitals mean to us.
/r/MensRights21/05/17 09:13 PM
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I like and share most of your views (congrats, whether you want the label or not you're firmly in the MRA camp on many important issues) but I find it interesting that you think feminism needs a facelift when facelifts are a cosmetic surgery that many more women than men opt to have. Feminism might be saved by medical intervention but I'd say chemo and radiation therapy are better analogies for what's required. Also, your other point about males being in more positions of power is what's known a…
/r/MensRights21/05/17 08:43 PM
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I've been waiting on these numbers for years. I'm also curious about the relative size of the "luxury item" industries for women vs. men.
/r/MensRights21/05/17 05:01 PM
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You're right of course, about gender studies graduates and published "professional" feminists. My mother and my sister are both what I consider to be "unexamined" feminists. I was one too for many years, because I had the vague idea that feminism was about equal rights for women. Once I found the MRM and did the research I found out that wasn't true and I stopped claiming feminism. I've been working on my friends and family who still consider themselves feminists for about 8 years. At this point…
/r/MensRights21/05/17 04:53 PM
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Can you please post an archive link to the original article? My gf says the #menaretrash article author is an outlier and I think she isn't. If it's from a tiny personal blog—and not Jezebel for example—I may have to cede a bit of her notion. By the way she's an egalitarian and is in general horrified at what I've shown her about feminism. This article too, which is why she's NAFALTing so hard.
/r/MensRights21/05/17 01:29 AM
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You're fishing hard for implications but there's just no water in that TYT lake.
/r/MensRights20/05/17 08:02 PM
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I didn't hear anything about female privilege. I heard about a case of "affluenza" where the beneficiary was female and the hypothetical poor people posited as perpetrators of similar crimes (one black one white) were referred to as "guy" and or "kid" I think. That's a massive stretch, calling that a mention of female privilege. Being familiar with both of those commentators I can safely assume that if they'd had a guest who had mentioned the undeniable female privilege angle, they would have sh…
/r/MensRights20/05/17 07:57 PM
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Go watch The Red Pill documentary. I read it's on YouTube now. Made by a feminist who also lost her fear of and gained respect for the MRM. Also she no longer calls herself a feminist. Really worth it.
/r/MensRights20/05/17 07:13 PM
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Exactly what I immediately thought too.
/r/MensRights20/05/17 07:09 PM
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Feminism = sexism. If you don't know that you're in the wrong sub.
/r/MensRights17/05/17 08:19 PM
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Disgusting. Except for the "We may have to shut down" pleas for money.
/r/MensRights17/05/17 08:02 PM
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"I don't hate her because she's beautiful. I hate her because hate's beautiful."
/r/MensRights16/05/17 07:33 PM
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This is about the sanctity of the vagina. Male-on-male harassment has a much higher amount of threats of physical violence. This is how men threaten each other, and if in person we often follow through. Rape threats, particularly over the internet, are as empty as a feminist's heart. Men are at risk of suffering violence to such a greater degree than women, it's a joke how all we worry about is the women. I've been beaten up so bad I couldn't see, on more than one occasion, and I'll tell you tha…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 07:23 PM
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Hypocracy, n. Government by hypocrites. Often used to describe the United States in the latter part of the 20th and beginning of the 21st centuries.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 06:04 PM
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Specifically the part with all the fuck yous? Got it. I guess what I said about cynicism being the easy route wasn't enough to trigger your sarcasm alert system. My mistake. What I was trying to say (and I did it poorly) was that I'm not going to do any immediate backflips over her claimed exit from La-La-La-I'm-Not-Listening Land. It took courage to do that only because the club she's in and has advocated for (with an incredibly patronizing, annoying and insulting style, for years) eats its own…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 05:57 PM
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Looks like others have your answer already.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 08:25 AM
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flak (n.) 1938, "anti-aircraft gun," from German Flak, condensed from Fliegerabwehrkanone, literally "pilot warding-off cannon." Sense of "anti-aircraft fire" is from 1940; metaphoric sense of "criticism" is c. 1963 in American English. Flak jacket is by 1956. Germans did these weird acronyms under the 3rd Reich (maybe before and/or since as well) that contained not just the first letters of the phrase but also a second or third letter of some or all of the words. E.g., Gestapo for Geheime Staat…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 05:15 AM
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It's easy to be cynical about Ms. Green so I'm going that route. With the door still held open in case of consistency. What I hope is the vicious smearing (not as bad as a male feminist reversing himself would get) she's already undergoing will help her see the light on the heart of darkness of her (hopefully) former comrades from the sisterhood. She's so girly too, it's only going to escalate as more of the beast awakens to what she appears to be doing. Women are more socially vicious to each o…
/r/MensRights15/05/17 11:53 PM
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I don't disagree with you about the overall quality of male vs. female Human Resources personnels' work, but sexual discrimination cases are a small subset of "managing people" and it is only to be expected that women would side with their own gender when given the authority to do so in he-said-she-said cases. Edit: Max splodge, dammit. Two Pints of Lager and a Packet of Crisps, Please. And I was born and have lived about 90% of my life in California. Loved that record.
/r/MensRights11/05/17 09:33 AM
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I was a feminist and claimed feminism for close to 3 decades. It was simply another unexamined plank in my whole progressive platform. During those years I held the innate feminist position that everything was harder for women and as a man I should run to assist any woman with a lot of suitcases for example. Then I realized (and read up, through the nascent MRM) that feminists were perfectly happy to take all the perqs of chivalry while simultaneously decrying a mythical patriarchy, bent on adva…
/r/MensRights11/05/17 03:52 AM
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"Toxic masculinity"? Such a dishonest term. I wonder if you have the honesty to add feminism to the list of reasons that men's experiences can be "shrugged off" as you say. Because I'd put it tied for first place with traditional gender roles aka "The Patriarchy". And that is the unholy alliance that I finally saw after claiming feminism as a logical part of my overall progressive politics for several decades. Feminists want all the traditional benefits of womanhood (provision, protection, etc.)…
/r/MensRights05/05/17 09:00 PM
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<i>Being taught by society is one way to perceive how it came about, but how is that any more reasonable or valid than the patriarchal society structure that feminists always yell about?</i> You sound like you're making an argument against nurture in the age old nurture vs. nature debate. The key distinction between what I said about gender roles and what feminists say is that feminists blame everything wrong in the world solely on men (and women with "internalized misogyny"). "Patriarchal" soci…
/r/MensRights01/05/17 03:20 AM
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But "real" men will never avail themselves of the opportunity to file a complaint. Too humiliating. Heck, we wouldn't even have those CDC numbers showing that women engage in "forced envelopment" (rape) of men if the questions weren't posed after the fact and anonymously. What I found most interesting was how massively the numbers dropped off after five years prior compared to women's claimed rapes. I'm guessing that has to do with men being taught they "just got lucky" vs. women being taught to…
/r/MensRights30/04/17 08:28 PM
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And that's the rub. She gets to call it harassment or fun. And she can change her mind about it at any point in the future. Best not to touch any women you aren't already in an established relationship with. Worst of all, that's not even complete protection should she get mad at you at some future date. Consent is now retractable ex post facto.
/r/MensRights30/04/17 05:49 PM
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TRP and PUA have about as much to do with the MRM as those sugar-daddy/gold digger sites have to do with feminism.
/r/MensRights30/04/17 05:26 AM
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The only "men's rights" I've ever seen feminists arguing for are the rights for men to be more effeminate—cry and wear dresses etcetera. Because "fighting" for those rights is still attacking masculinity, the thing they really hate. I'm fine with defending effeminate males for their chosen identities; what I dislike is when that minor concern is focused on instead of the many far more serious negative impacts of being male. Family law and criminal justice for starters, both areas where feminists…
/r/MensRights25/04/17 09:13 AM
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Me too. When they (feminists) managed to get the term "Apex Fallacy" removed from Wikipedia completely I was shocked at both their power and their deceitfulness.
/r/MensRights25/04/17 01:59 AM
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Unfamiliar. Something I should see?
/r/MensRights25/04/17 01:54 AM
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Wha? They coasted on biology and traditionalism to make ever more ridiculous anti-male claims to the point that no reasonable person can do anything but hate them.
/r/MensRights24/04/17 05:28 PM
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Gandhi had his days as a Nazi. That stuff he wrote about blacks being indolent and how the greatest English whites' offense was Indian Hindus being lumped together with the animal blacks of S. Africa.
/r/MensRights24/04/17 05:24 PM
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And 75% of U.S. divorces are initiated by the wife. Edit: The only way to get a number on how many people cheat on their spouses is by asking them. The statistic should reflect that and read, "45% of women admitted to having had affairs." The real number must be much higher. In my experience of 53 years women have more affairs than men but men get caught more because women talk more. I've never cheated on any of my partners (women) but I'm not sure that none of them cheated on me. What was amazi…
/r/MensRights24/04/17 03:36 PM
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Yep, and my son is 30 now. I tried to "man up" at 22 but was never able to forgive her for secretly discontinuing her birth control pills when the relationship started to sour. Years later I realized that I myself was also the baby that was supposed to "fix the relationship" between my parents. Too bad I wasn't up to the task. I don't know why some women think these things could possibly work out. I suspect the completely mercenary aspect (pay me alimony or go to jail) is always plan B in their …
/r/MensRights24/04/17 03:18 PM
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Yes, the economics are a big factor, which is why I'm pretty sure I specified "western" women. I live in a neighborhood with lots of Section 8 housing and several street gangs and all of the poor women here can be seen at the laundromat. Those washing machines may not be in the next room like a wealthy person might have, but even on the corner they sure are easier than taking clothes and a washboard to the nearest water.
/r/MensRights24/04/17 06:27 AM
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Women in the west have worked less than men since the (man-made) inventions of the washing machine, refrigerator, vacuum cleaner and dishwasher. The thing about housework is that it is a static amount of work and each new technological advance that made the job easier gave homemakers more free time. Time spent watching television and social media use measured in hours by gender clearly bears this fact out. Other technological advances—the ones that were invented and built for male workplaces—mea…
/r/MensRights24/04/17 05:47 AM
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Women can't be cowards. I mean obviously you're right but their grinning utter lack of shame shows all too clearly how society views them. "Coward" is as much of a gendered slur as "slut" is. Meaning you can call a single guy a slut and a woman a coward without it hurting. A guy "slut" will grin and be proud of the appellation the same way these women grin at their own deceit and betrayals.
/r/MensRights24/04/17 03:16 AM
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You can fuck and be MGTOW can't you? I mean I'm sure there are extreme "vegan" flavors of MGTOW where you can't even look at women. Just never make a legally binding contract with one. Those put your balls in a vise that she can crank while literally pretending that her hands are tied. Like in the movie Antman, his ex is presented as innocent. The storyline is that the big bad State is who's making all those onerous financial demands, when the truth is that at any time she could drop the case an…
/r/MensRights24/04/17 03:10 AM
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You remember that TV ad from a while back for some kind of laundry freshener product? The stay-at-home woman is relaxing in the couch when she hears her family (dad and two kids as I recall) arriving home. Dad from work and the kids from school, guessing from what they're carrying. She quickly jumps up and grabs said product, giving a half dozen quick squirts around the room, under the seat cushions etcetera. and hides the bottle before flopping down on the couch again right as the door opens. "…
/r/MensRights24/04/17 02:48 AM
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You're right. I like "then-wife" too.
/r/MensRights23/04/17 10:20 PM
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I can't find it right now but I remember reading that girls and women make up over 70% of social media traffic. I think it was on some big data chart from Consumer Reports. The question of course is why? Is it that men simply prefer to spend their free time doing other stuff? Or is it that coupled men just have less free time. From my own experience I suspect the latter.
/r/MensRights23/04/17 10:17 PM
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"Feminists use sexist and poorly constructed studies due to insecurity over their weak ideology, claims ex-feminist of three unexamined decades."
/r/MensRights23/04/17 04:22 PM
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I gathered that :-)
/r/MensRights23/04/17 03:56 PM
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I've changed thousands of diapers on both my kids. I can't count the number of times I'd come home after a 14-hour day at work, only to have my wife thrust our kid into my arms almost before I'd even put my tools down. "He needs a change and it's your turn." As I'd silently note that he was several hours past due for a change (you can tell), I'd ask her who'd Oprah had as a guest today. She wouldn't even get my point as she launched into a description of all the interesting stuff she'd seen on T…
/r/MensRights23/04/17 03:53 PM
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So the women's prisons are nicer with more amenities but the women in them are mean ungrateful wretches compared to the male inmates in their worse prisons. Hmm, I suppose you mean in personal interactions with prison staff. Sounds like the pussy pass to me: women are licensed to say and do whatever they want—in or out of prison—without fear of the physical beatings men know to expect if they get lippy with authority. And I don't just mean prison guards. Among men there is a degree of "authority…
/r/MensRights23/04/17 03:40 PM
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And in that entire horror show of a paper, gender is mentioned once: "The vast majority of the images were of young men most likely between the ages of twenty and forty, with a minority more likely to be up to sixty years old. There were no children. Within the images seen there was only one female body and this was clothed and showed no evidence of injury. The bodies were mostly unclothed or minimally clothed." So out of an estimated 11,000 murdered people in the photographs—most of them starve…
/r/MensRights23/04/17 03:10 PM
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Wow, great link. And his gendercide.org site is great too. An excerpt from the intro page: "The difficulty with Warren's framing of gendercide, though -- and this is true for the feminist analysis of gender-selective human-rights abuses as a whole -- is that the inclusive definition is not matched by an inclusive analysis of the mass killing of non-combatant men. Gendercide Watch was founded to encourage just such an inclusive approach. We believe that state-directed gender-selective mass killin…
/r/MensRights23/04/17 02:47 PM
1

I was in the original comments thread on the Bainbridge Island Review (I'm sure they were surprised at the number of responses) and I was surprised at some of the feminist hatred I saw there. It was like SRS but without all the MRM comments removed. Sure, there were some—to my mind—unnecessarily ugly MRA comments too, but the fire-breathing man-hate was on full display from several feminists with dozens of comments each.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 07:51 PM
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What's typically godawful about this is that this Title IX goosestepper, who was way less of a victim of Rolling Stone's smear cover story than for example the members of the falsely accused fraternity, she's the one who gets all the money/attention/sympathy. Ugh, I hate our society and the female privilege that steers it.
/r/MensRights13/04/17 05:45 AM
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What I want to know is why professional chess is gender segregated.
/r/MensRights12/04/17 06:47 AM
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I agree that this sub has too many "look how women suck" posts but the idea that feminists or feminism should be hands-off when so much of it is actively working together to lie about and marginalized the MRM—not to mention all the in$titutional femini$t anti-male activism and legislation—that's pure white-knightery and needs to go elsewhere. I don't mind horror stories about individual women but they should be tied to the resulting sexist pass given to them, preferably with an example of how a …
/r/MensRights09/04/17 01:51 AM
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Just google how many feminist online vendors are selling "Male Tears" mugs. Or search the "masculinitysofragile" hashtag. Women have always used shaming as one of their most powerful weapons to make men do whatever women want. Don't you think a claimed "egalitarian" ideology would want to give up this powerfully sexist pro-womyn/anti-male tool? Nope, they just double down on their sexist double standards. I would argue that "coward" is as sexistly one-way an insult against men as the much decrie…
/r/MensRights07/04/17 07:43 PM
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This. ^ I've long said the same: When has any feminist ever spoken out against the sexist double-standards that really hurt men? No, feminists claim they are fighting for men’s rights too but when you look into those rights they’re fighting for they all just boil down to the right for men to cry and wear dresses. I’m not implying that men shouldn’t have those particular rights but to willfully ignore far more serious problems that men suffer in far greater numbers is sexist in a very ugly way. A…
/r/MensRights07/04/17 07:22 PM
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That was beautifully done. I need to do more of this when I encounter that sort of (what did you say? sexist, ageist, racist? more?) hate against old white men. The cost, though. Socially or even worse, all the punitive tools that these SJW authorities wield. Please report back here when grades come out.
/r/MensRights07/04/17 05:51 PM
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75% of arrests made by the Gestapo were based on information given in phone calls from "good" Germans.
/r/MensRights01/04/17 08:19 AM
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...and violence against women is rape.
/r/MensRights01/04/17 08:13 AM
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I'm sure in 203 comments a few have already mentioned the offensiveness of hu-MAN-ity but I'm throwing it in just in case. I suggest hupersonity. Just for the lumbering lack of euphony if nothing else.
/r/MensRights01/04/17 08:10 AM
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They should put all the academics responsible for this nonsense in re-education programs themselves. Nothing extreme, just eight hours a day like what they're putting their young male charges through. Except the theory would be egalitarian instead of misandrist.
/r/MensRights29/03/17 06:46 PM
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This is a good point that works on so many conspiracy theories. Fervent determinist belief in an org (Illuminati, patriarchy, Bilderbergers, tri-lateral commission, Jewish banking/media control, etc.) is like a religion but without the benevolence. The important thing, among these true believers, isn't that anyone's saved, it's that you and I, no matter how mutually exclusive and incompatible our separate descriptions of the truly-in-control cabal might be, the IMPORTANT fact is that we know who…
/r/MensRights18/03/17 06:42 AM
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Maybe add in a clause taxing women for each egg (menstrual period) that goes to waste by not making a baby with it. A true "tampon tax". Then they could come back with a per-sperm-cell law. Funny thing is, despite all the feminist lying about—for one example—free government Viagra, like it's dispensed in candy bowls wherever evil old white men congregate, I'm strongly against any retrograde Christian/conservative anti-abortion legislature such as Texas' latest offerings.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 05:21 PM
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I wish you were right. Circumcision is one of the easiest issues for both feminists and MRAs to embrace but the rest—shared parenting etc.—are in fact zero sum issues and feminists are working much harder against men in those areas than they are in any few issues where male suffering costs then nothing to decry. Or better yet, even gets a few digs in at the "patriarchy". Come to think of it, the only men's issues I've ever seen a feminist give a shit about is a man's right to wear a dress and cr…
/r/MensRights12/03/17 05:39 AM
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I think we should start chopping off babies feet too then. That way they'll never get any of those dirty foot diseases.
/r/MensRights12/03/17 05:22 AM
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It's Americans that do it the most. We can thank Mr. Kellogg for that. Yeah the cornflakes guy. He promulgated it to reduce the sin of masturbation. Because yeah, it decreases pleasure to cut those 15,000 nerve endings off and leave the glans exposed to constant rubbing against clothing and ultimate desensitization.
/r/MensRights12/03/17 05:04 AM
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There are 4 types of FGM. The most invasive and criminal type where the "clitoris is removed" as you say shows your ignorance of female anatomy—most of the clitoris is impossible to remove due to the fact that it encircles the vaginal canal—is the least common type. Even with much of the glans removed there are far more"pleasure" nerve endings in what's left than if the glans penis (the head) is removed from a newborn boy. Something which happens with some regularity in the far more popular (mos…
/r/MensRights12/03/17 02:55 AM
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Repeating the feminist lie that Elliott Rodgers was an MRA here makes you the worst sort of shill. In reality he joined an online PUA (pick-up artist) group and was promptly banned for his hate speech. And in case you aren't aware of it, online PUA groups have about as much to do with men's rights as sugar-daddy gold-digging sites have to do with feminism.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 04:20 PM
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But "preventing it on the streets" isn't the goal in a "rape culture" is it? /s The goal is to demonize and vilify anyone with a penis. Preferably if he's white. The goal of "rape culture"—as a figment of the hysterically anti-male feminist zeitgeist—is to make all men guilty until proven innocent.
/r/MensRights02/03/17 07:14 PM
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My problem with the divorce rate—no matter how you calculate it or what numbers you get—is that there are so many miserable marriages that should be in the "failed" marriage category but they're held together by a host of reasons that have nothing to do with happiness or compatibility. Despondent wives and husbands stay together in grinding, torturous (and contractually binding) relationships for financial, child-rearing, and want-of-happier-options reasons all the time and counting those marria…
/r/MensRights26/02/17 07:52 PM
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As a 195th-generation survivor of the Neanderthal Holocaust (2.8%) I'm deeply offended that you would use my people as a cute little pejorative for your insulting ableist comment, you inter-species racist you. Never Forget!
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/17 03:52 PM
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Ha, first post I see after I just used the toilet at my girlfriend's house (residents: 4 females, no males) and ended up cleaning so much gross off the underside of the seat and the rim that I was glad there were cleaning supplies under the sink. And disinfectant soap for my hands. How they got so much spattering all around without thinking to lift the seat—just wow. And the blood on the underside of the very front of the seat, whoever did that was so dgaf it must've been one of the teens.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/17 03:36 PM
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Can't find it now but I recall reading about a case of a female prison guard catching an inmate masturbating (in his rack, under a blanket) and having him charged with sexually harassing her. Edit: what kind of sick POS would even seek employment at an opposite sex prison. Either way you're a fukn perv, but women in particular who seek out these jobs where they can "supervise" caged naked males in ways that the men who work in women's prisons are never allowed to, them're some sick-ass man-hater…
/r/MensRights23/02/17 08:20 PM
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Cue the tone police. After a lifetime (I'm 53) of listening to women hate "men" or the fictitious "patriarchy" I think it's cute a.) that you have a husband that you claim to listen to, and b.) that you're still demanding the right to control the dialog. To me feminism is simply a society-wide recapitulation of what women have always done to their men: made demands, controlled and held connubial happiness hostage to their wants and "needs", which, as ever, are an eternally moving set of goal pos…
/r/MensRights20/02/17 09:38 PM
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A march that "galvanized" millions of people she said. Dictionary says synonyms are: jolt, shock, and startle (as in to action). I think she really nailed it without realizing what she was implying. I certainly suspect that more people were galvanized by the march to learn just how irrelevant modern western feminism has become. Another thing I've noted for a while is how when feminists claim their "rightful" share alongside men as the creators and inventors of our modern world, how they should a…
/r/MensRights07/02/17 08:58 AM
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You pay/paid your ex-husband? You, madame, are a double unicorn. First you're a unicorn for being "sentenced" to pay your ex a dime. Second you're even more of a unicorn for actually paying him. These are simply the statistics behind divorce court settlements. Don't make me go look them up for you.
/r/MensRights07/02/17 01:09 AM
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"This is what an ex-feminist looks like."
/r/MensRights06/02/17 05:29 PM
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I subscribe to several "dating-advice" e-lists for women and this is a typical headline: https://imgur.com/gallery/2eGSu
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/17 11:02 PM
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"Homocide". C'mon, graphic artist, use a spellchecker.
/r/MensRights01/02/17 10:18 PM
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They aren't exclusive to women, true. The pass women get on their tricks though, that's what's unique. Men who trick women in a dirty fashion are universally reviled; women who trick men always have excuses made for them. They have their troubled childhoods examined and promoted and their male victims are laughed at for not being smart enough to avoid them. It's all about cultural views of male hyper-agency and female hypo-agency. No matter what evil women do there is always a man to blame. Cher…
/r/MensRights29/01/17 06:56 PM
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I have dated these baby-crazy middle-aged women and know first hand how fast they take off once they don't get the pregnancy they vociferously denied wanting throughout the early relationship. How old are you I wonder?
/r/MensRights29/01/17 06:43 PM
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This. So much this. It's not only an admission that the judiciary sentences men and women very differently, it's an admission by that particular judge that he himself would ordinarily sentence them differently. Otherwise why bring it up?
/r/MensRights28/01/17 11:59 PM
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You forgot the /s at the end there.
/r/MensRights28/01/17 08:45 PM
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"We are rising and when we take back control, I'd really hate to be a liberal feminist or anything like them. Feminists only care about control—not equality—and for this reason I am not hiding my ambitions." So your ambitions are for male control? Not equality? I say pot, kettle, etc. I'm pretty sure by male control you mean that feminists should stop demanding equality of outcome when they already have equality of opportunity. But I'm not sure. You may really be a "get back in the kitchens" kin…
/r/MensRights28/01/17 06:02 PM
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I just got to upvote a Karen Straughan post here and I am honored. You've personally done more to help me understand the true lay of the land in the minefield that is modern western gender relations than any other MRA. Your being a woman is soooo important to my ability to share your ideas with those among my friends and family I'm attempting to wake from their unexamined support for feminism. I myself spent 30 years claiming feminism aka sleepwalking through my own demonization, denigration and…
/r/MensRights28/01/17 05:25 PM
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I land in the bottom bracket as well and if either of my kids tried to introduce any information about either of these celebrity's lives or "work" I'd be putting all their stuff out on the lawn. I'm kidding of course. Both of my kids have introduced to me a wealth of good new music and movies.
/r/MensRights28/01/17 05:05 PM
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That this could be considered rape is outrageous but did you notice the other interesting admission that this woman couldn't feel the difference between sex with a condom vs without? What if the most common form of birth control was a device that left men unable to tell it was being used and therefore fully enjoying every nerve ending designed for pleasure? And this device simultaneously deadened all the female nerve endings related to sexual pleasure? OMG, the howls of male-designed oppression …
/r/MensRights12/01/17 08:41 PM
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Women slap men to goad them. Men slap women to make them shut up.
/r/MensRights12/01/17 08:02 PM
2

I think it's "hell hath no fury".
/r/MensRights12/01/17 01:31 AM
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I think the legal term sodomy in Georgia means pretty much any kind of sex outside of two consenting adults. They might even have to be married, I forget. It definitely means more than the anal sex connotation it has for the world outside of Georgia law.
/r/MensRights12/01/17 01:12 AM
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A "sneering" compliment about your hair. Sounds more bungled and clueless than all the hateful you read into it.
/r/MensRights12/01/17 01:03 AM
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Robin Morgan, feminist author and former editor of Ms. magazine, had this to say about MRAs: "And let's put one lie to rest for all time: the lie that men are oppressed, too, by sexism -- the lie that there can be such a thing as 'men's liberation groups.' Oppression is something that one group of people commits against another group specifically because of a 'threatening' characteristic shared by the latter group -- skin color or sex or age, etc." The hate is strong in this one.
/r/MensRights08/01/17 05:37 PM
1

You're right.
/r/MensRights07/01/17 04:16 AM
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So you're not a fan of blaming mental illness for school shootings because you already know it's either testosterone or the "toxic masculinity" of male culture. Your civility here doesn't mask your adherence to the ugliest beliefs about men that women hold. What if testosterone is what drove men to invent all those countless things both men and women enjoy in our modern world? Nearly everything we know from science was discovered by men and it was men who went on to create things like modern med…
/r/MensRights07/01/17 12:34 AM
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What's that protuberance on the base of the skull behind the ears called? I'm a huge fan of that part. Hmm, just learned that makes me a temporal bone man. Which is connected to the zygomatic bone, man. Because I love those high cheekbones too.
/r/MensRights07/01/17 12:04 AM
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What I like best about the ♀ and ♂symbols is that they have been known since antiquity as the Mirror of Venus and the Shield of Mars. There's a whole lot of sophistry out there that tries to deny that these are in fact pictographs, or that if they are the female one isn't a mirror but a distaff, a stick or spindle around which wool or flax is spun. As with the Trident of Neptune symbol, these planetary symbols were mostly pictographs long before there was any need for illogical contortions like …
/r/MensRights06/01/17 09:13 PM
1

I'm going to consider my typo an homage to those two amazing career women, driving their shared fifty-bucks-a-month Adobe™ Creative Cloud™ suite like a bus off that cliff just as Thelma and Louise did in their seminal feminist performance. God speed, ladies, god speed.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 08:56 PM
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I thought it had to be a shoop of the real cover. Now I'm sure somebody very clever in their graphics apartment got fired. https://mobile.twitter.com/WaPoExpress/status/817033716593790976 Edit: didn't see above comment about female designers!!! Oh em fukn gee. So I guess nobody's getting fired.
/r/MensRights05/01/17 10:17 PM
1

Blackstone's formulation was 1:10. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blackstone's_formulation
/r/MensRights05/01/17 07:48 PM
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On the subject of the debt of gratitude men (in general) owe women (in general) for the bloody, painful misery that is childbirth: In case you haven't noticed, the planet has way too many people as it is. 16 years ago I was working 70+ hours a week, below the line and running a crew on a 1-hour-episodic TV show. It was very stressful and I was trying not to let it get to me. What's always made me angry about those jobs is when I start dreaming about them. Trying to solve interpersonal and logist…
/r/MensRights30/12/16 08:52 PM
1

Unbidden and unwanted erections were the bane of the entirety of my teens and for some time into my 20s, peaking at probably 14 with maybe a dozen a day. Even at 53 now I still get a couple a week, usually while seated and not from being stimulated or oddly, even thinking about sex or women or their flashing eyes and eager willing faces. Sorry. Damn, I'm so old now I just realized at this point the involuntary ones are probably better than the rest. "Wake up, Honey, dammit, hurry! And don't brea…
/r/MensRights27/12/16 12:55 AM
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"No liar thinks they're a liar" is a good point but my conjecture is that most liars know they're lying, most often for their own benefit. False sexual assault accusers (almost entirely women)—as a subset of liars—are either lying to hurt someone (almost always a man) or to get attention. Either way these lies are unique in that they have widespread societal support, both feminism-taught and traditional, that keeps them easy to make. They also still uniquely lack in much of a law enforcement dow…
/r/MensRights24/12/16 07:00 PM
1

Wow, you may be right and now I feel foolish. Hmm. My clearest memory (maybe not so clear) of using one was many years ago at an Italian football match. I thought I'd seen them in other public bathrooms too but you could be right, that these were sinks being used as urinals in an overcrowded football stadium at half-time. If that's what they even call a scheduled break in soccer. I was taken there by friends and know nothing about the game. Now thanks to you I've learned it's possible I may know…
/r/MensRights23/12/16 03:11 PM
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Short answer, no. Modern western feminist thought extends far beyond those who claim the label feminist. That's because it overlaps so much with traditional ideas about female weakness and need for special treatment. I think feminism is a society-wide recapitulation of most women's relationships with their male partners. Everything is always a negotiation for better terms in the form of more male work, special treatment and free stuff. I'm 53 and have had plenty of girlfriends in addition to two…
/r/MensRights23/12/16 09:50 AM
1

So with some proper government training men will learn not to attempt to restrain violent attacks on their person by women? Or am I misunderstanding you maybe. I hope.
/r/MensRights23/12/16 12:33 AM
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"He said 'I didn’t realise it was domestic violence to hold my wife’s arms by her side'." Wow, just wow. Because we all know that when men attack women (as they always do apparently), the first offensive male move is to hold the woman's arms by her side. Well, that's what I do anyway, when I want to physically abuse a woman. /s
/r/MensRights22/12/16 06:38 PM
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I can't find a pic online but the weirdest public urinals I've ever encountered are those large stainless steel circular trough-style urinals. As I recall they're about 8 ft. In diameter and can accommodate maybe ten guys all peeing towards the center of the fixture. In a crowded situation there's no way to avoid seeing the guys opposite you with their dicks in their hands and all the usual animal weirdness of eye contact is an order of magnitude weirder. Granted I've mostly seen these in Europe…
/r/MensRights22/12/16 06:10 PM
1

Ugh, that was the most intellectually blighted bunch of feminist false assumptions I've ever sat through.
/r/MensRights08/12/16 12:09 AM
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Do you live any of those places? Are you doing anything actively to help those women? Or are you just using their suffering as a fig leaf for your anti-male work here in the west where you already have every equality on top of all your traditional female privilege and protection (that men have never enjoyed)?
/r/MensRights08/12/16 12:04 AM
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A wise man, your brother. May he rest in peace and be well remembered by those whose lives he touched.
/r/MensRights07/12/16 07:29 PM
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Personally I think all women should live under the same rule we men share: talk shit, get hit. One of the biggest reasons that boys and men learn early to use words that they can stand by is there is a line that we're all well aware of beyond which physical education (violence) is imminent. I believe that is a civilizing fact and after spending 53 years watching women traverse that line with impunity (many even choosing to spend most of their lives past that line) I think it's high time that sor…
/r/MensRights07/12/16 05:19 PM
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Wise. That's the difference between him and so many of the rest of the comics out there. You nailed it. Wisdom, as funny as it sounds.
/r/MensRights23/11/16 11:43 PM
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"Over time it's going to be important for nations to know they will be held accountable for inactivity," he said. "You're either with us or against us in the fight against terror." http://edition.cnn.com/2001/US/11/06/gen.attack.on.terror/
/r/MensRights23/11/16 05:41 PM
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Great work. Next time maybe outline the font in white for better legibility on the part over her dark clothing. It shouldn't affect the part over the light background but would be much better on my phone's screen.
/r/MensRights11/11/16 09:55 AM
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It's funny that they have time still for such individual responses. Virality kicking in slowly here i guess. Can't wait for cherry-picked (and/or planted) hate-mail in the standard pay-the-rent "MRA badguy" voice to be "gathered" and posted in a trigger-warning-happy page somewhere with support group links and gender discounts as well. "Special! This week only! Tin-foil moon cups for the bloody upcoming holidays of The Patriarchy!"
/r/MensRights11/10/16 07:37 PM
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ugh. couldn't make it through that first mangina's "issues". fukn Phil Donahue, finding a guy who perfectly expresses all the standard "patriarchy hurts men too" bullshit feminists always trot out. like it's a good thing. can't imagine the end having anyone more rekt than masculinity itself. as usual.
/r/MensRights24/09/16 09:45 PM
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It's a long complicated process, our criminal justice system, and women have a staggeringly unjust advantage at each stage of the process. Police officers' initial decisions on whether to detain a suspect. Women get the benefit of the doubt in he-said-she-said offenses where LE didn't witness the actual event. Prosecutors' decisions on if and what charges to file. These are very much based on what they think they can win. Something which is in and of itself partially a metric of the well-known f…
/r/MensRights03/09/16 09:19 AM
2

I remember this case and how the judge immediately issued a gag order so she wouldn't be tried in the court of public opinion. you know, so she'd get a nice fair hush-hush trial. her being allowed to even see her son again ever is a travesty of justice only made possible by the commingled evils of traditionalism (women can do no wrong) and feminism (women can do no wrong).
/r/MensRights01/09/16 03:03 AM
1

Of course, and there's the rub. We know that women commit physical violence against their male partners at about the same rate as vice-versa but we only know that from looking at abusers' survey data i.e. "How often do you hit your partner?" Crime data don't show this gender symmetry because men are far less likely to report such assaults because there is neither sympathy nor any material benefits as there are for women. Reporting a female partner however, for the emotional abuse they often comm…
/r/MensRights21/08/16 01:42 PM
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This reminds me of an article I read on a feminist blog years ago, about the need to expand DV law to include emotional abuse. My comment then still stands even though it was deleted there immediately. Basically I said that they might be opening a can of worms that could end up punishing women more than men. If only because in my middle-aged personal experience women commit far more emotional abuse against their male partners than vice-versa. This holds true for not only all of my own relationsh…
/r/MensRights20/08/16 09:11 PM
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"It was just too hard and stressful having to deal with what I now know as sexual harassment on top of my studies." Of course "what I now know" means "feminist theory offered me a victim narrative that allows me to accuse and blame men for my own learning deficits". Maybe if your terminal narcissism's endless search for male creepiness could be back-burnered momentarily you could have benefitted from the doubtlessly helpful and generous studying assistance that was being proffered by your awful …
/r/MensRights20/08/16 04:35 PM
1

Having wasted years in the cult of 12-step I know very well the intoxicating power of being near the top of the negative-experience-hierarchy in a group that trades in such experience. In those rooms one is listened to and respected not only for how long one has been clean and sober but also according to bad it got "out there". This leads to a sort of one-upsmanship with many people borrowing and/or enhancing their own tales. I can't doubt that the same happens in feminist circles where abuse by…
/r/MensRights18/08/16 07:21 PM
1

"Top psychosexual therapist Angela Gregory" is the most bizarre claim to authority I've seen in a while. So Ms. Gregory got herself a bit of a degree and selflessly chose to hang out a shingle saying, "Tell me everything about your sex life, boys". Because she wanted to give of herself, to give back. Imagine a man her age pursuing the same career and speaking out against vibrators, claiming that young women who use them are destroying their vaginas for normal penile intercourse. Because more and…
/r/MensRights16/08/16 03:31 PM
14

even with an HR department men are fucked. HR is about 75% female at this point, with most of those women having their judgement clouded by several generations of feminist lies about "male privilege" being the only thing we need to combat to attain an egalitarian society.
/r/MensRights14/08/16 01:06 AM
1

this. so much this. the gender-swap thought experiment is one of the most valuable tools in the conversion process. it was for me anyway, after decades of idly and ignorantly claiming feminism as an obvious part of my generally progressive social-libertarian politics.
/r/MensRights12/08/16 05:39 PM
1

Have you looked into how many men kill women vs. how many women kill men? It's not as cut and dried as you (and I used to) believe. Here's a good primer on the relevant data: http://fathersforlife.org/fv/murder1.htm
/r/MensRights07/08/16 09:22 PM
1

Wow, this is perfect. I salute you and your clarity. Cutting and pasting and attributing.
/r/MensRights07/08/16 07:12 PM
13

Why keep the bull when you can enjoy the fruit of his labors for free?
/r/MensRights03/08/16 07:28 PM
1

You saw Ghostbusters twice. And tried to compliment a sexist and racist actress for her work in the movie. Now you're attacking OP for noting that Bojack has creepy feminist creators. Admit it, you never thought this sub was any good. You've hated it since you first saw it.
/r/MensRights26/07/16 10:38 AM
8

I was in that thread with the viciousness, arguing as I do on this subject without ad hominem. There was the usual ugliness from teenagers who think they're in a FPS but that was all deleted very quickly. All the hateful ad hominem comments from the rabid feminists however, all that stayed up.
/r/MensRights24/07/16 06:45 PM
1

I looked at all your imgur images earlier today. Now it 404s in the imgur app. your account get deleted?
/r/MensRights20/07/16 05:37 AM
-4

yes, I thought I was bi for about a year when I was a kid in the late 70s. an ordinary teenager on the street picked up by older men with money and drugs in Hollywood story. we called it fag-bashing but maybe that was because we were punk rock. different era, less politically correct.
/r/MensRights18/07/16 03:12 AM
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I thought it was the fag-bashing murder rate. edit: I can say that without hating homosexuals because I've seen a bath house or two.
/r/MensRights17/07/16 09:24 PM
101

I hate this graphic because it misspells homicide as homocide. so lame.
/r/MensRights17/07/16 07:07 PM
2

I want to see what it says if you click true. Probably something like: "Also correct! Don't spread it around, but feel free to operate on this principle whenever you get the chance. Point out his white male privilege if you are ever challenged for discriminating against your oppressors. As if that's even possible!" /s
/r/MensRights09/07/16 02:56 AM
2

Okay, I'll agree that her shittiness has nothing to do with feminism. What has everything to do with both feminism and the MRM is the fact that she clearly not only got away with the money but also a boatload of sympathy just for crying a little. As a man who's seen and allowed himself to be manipulated far too often by "adult" female complaints and tears, I want women to give up that privilege if they really want equality, particularly in the workplace.
/r/MensRights08/07/16 01:18 AM
3

IMO there are several in here as well.
/r/MensRights08/07/16 12:40 AM
2

Pretty sure Kiva herself was going to be the artist. She apparently did the self-portrait on her KS and considers herself a feminist cartoonist. Something of a redundancy to me, as feminism is about as prone as any ideology (or religion) to making caricatures of a perceived enemy in order to scapegoat them.
/r/MensRights08/07/16 12:24 AM
5

This is a feminist scam artist who used her female privilege to get away with $31K. And the other feminists whom she robbed don't even realize they were robbed because at its nasty and resentfully clueless core, almost all modern western feminism thinks men have everything easier and women have everything much harder. This story is the empathy gap writ large, as the eternally avoided but equally simple gender-swap thought experiment will tell you.
/r/MensRights07/07/16 11:15 PM
4

Headlines not matching the article? Who ever heard of such a thing? Sounds like a minor quibble. The important information about Kiva's actions for me was in the unanimous commentary that forgave her debt because she was depressed, presumably because all feminists know that women are so oppressed here in America that a little $31,000 price-tag depression is totally understandable. I'd have more sympathy for her if she came out and said she spent it all on crack over the summer. Or if a bus hit h…
/r/MensRights07/07/16 10:58 PM
5

So NAFALT then. Please, I wish someday someone would tell me who the hell represents feminism if not these professional feminists. "It's not a monolithic ideology," they tell me, even as they treat the other gender as a monolith of rapey, violent evil unless we spend our lives virtue signaling feminist messages to them. Feminists did 1000x worse when they flooded the media with claims that Elliot Rodger, a mentally ill murderer who couldn't get laid and was even thrown out of a PUA forum shortly…
/r/MensRights07/07/16 10:43 PM
15

and suddenly homelessness matters.
/r/MensRights02/06/16 07:57 AM
1

I have to wonder how much direct feminist activism that pair could have been a part of. I somehow doubt that they've lived apolitical lives. Why can't they be smeared with any card-carrying feminist associations they're sure to have? If they have been active feminists it would certainly be a more correct and direct connection than the feminist lies that tied Elliott Rodger to the MRM.
/r/MensRights02/06/16 07:54 AM
5

Aren't high-ranking feminists still pushing for "no female prisons" over there in the UK?
/r/MensRights01/06/16 09:25 AM
3

what's a former vet?
/r/MensRights22/12/15 06:50 AM
8

Here's a good book on the man-hating rot that permeates those places. Written by a mangina who worked in one for years before becoming too disgusted to continue. A Man In A Woman's World https://www.amazon.com/dp/1905706081/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awd_-jmDwb8PWW26Y
/r/MensRights19/12/15 02:38 AM
10

I've lived in the city in a white-minority neighborhood for decades and whenever I see stuff like this, whether in person (yeah, with some regularity) or on video it gets harder to maintain my core anti-racist beliefs. It just sucks that this widespread black ghetto bullshit can never be factored into the blacklivesmatter complaint without the accusation of racism.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/12/15 11:46 PM
3

same.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/15 08:44 AM
1

I claimed feminism for decades before I ever really looked into it. Seemed legit through the lens of my ingrained chivalry towards women simply for being women. I think there are many others out there like me who just need to see the actual data instead of the nonsense feminist "researchers" with an agenda have taught as fact for decades with very little opposition outside of religious fundamentalists.
/r/MensRights28/11/15 08:10 AM
2

The only "men's issue" feminists have ever cared about is a man's right to wear a dress or otherwise be effeminate. Because caring about that is still an attack on the "toxic" masculinity they believe in as an article of faith like the "patriarchy" and our "rape culture". Not that men who want to should suffer for wearing a dress but to pretend that any opprobrium they get is even primarily male in nature is just another of their howling lies.
/r/MensRights27/11/15 10:23 PM
1

what is this "excessive sexual experience" you're talking about?
/r/MensRights27/11/15 10:13 PM
2

A subset of male MRAs do indeed hate women. A subset of feminists do indeed hate men. Feminism is the overwhelmingly dominant paradigm and will remain so for the immediate future because they have brilliantly commandeered the "patriarchal" instincts of men to put women and their needs first. The hypocritical combination of "equality" and special entitlements that feminist women say they deserve rarely gets questioned because to question anything they say is immediately branded as hateful and tha…
/r/MensRights27/11/15 09:04 PM
1

This is an amazing form of pride you have. Looks like extreme self-debasement from here. Hey, are you that fat guy I saw getting his balls beaten black and blue on pornhub? You really do represent the future don't you. How could there be any other way to respect women?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/15 06:12 PM
0

I don't think they're better at it, I think they get a pass for it. Had she murdered her father I'm sure she'd have concocted a story about his abusiveness and gotten away scot-free. Because the other half of the pass women get in the criminal justice system is that male victims count less.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/15 07:53 PM
1

It's funny how a male abuser is called a wife-beater but a female abuser is described as "being in an abusive relationship."
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/15 07:47 PM
2

OC https://s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com/humann/Washroom_Misogynists2.jpg
/r/MensRights19/11/15 09:51 PM
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Absolutely. This is the "equality" feminists want. We could call it Equality+™ because it's equal parts coddling, entitlement and "equality".
/r/PussyPassDenied19/11/15 05:00 AM
3

I don't follow her but I seem to recall another time when Ms. Yoffe took a stand for decency over feminism and was subsequently lynched online. Something about a sensible response she gave to someone who wrote her column with a question. Good for her, continuing like this after earning so much hatred for not toeing the party line.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 07:20 AM
2

fingers are rapey little phalluses. pointing them is an act of patriarchal oppression but only if they're on male hands. on the other hand they can be used as gang signs which is OK unless the hands are white, in which case it's cultural appropriation, another form of rape.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 07:01 AM
2

I was thinking of the list, in addition to the actual prosecution/conviction required to get on it, as being a deterrent to future false accusations. Because currently attempting the crime has very little downside. I'm sure most of the few women who've been foiled in their desire to ruin an innocent man's life never admit to themselves or others that the entire thing was cut from whole cloth. Especially when the motive is primarily based on attention/sympathy seeking. As for changing your mind a…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/08/15 01:53 AM
3

so you think rapists would target a list of false-accusers in the belief that when he gets caught and charged with rape of a woman who lied in the past she won't be believed and he'll go free? that is a strange and tenuous causal chain there. particularly because the plan includes being caught. I really don't know how rapists select their victims but in the cases I have studied it seems far more often to be a crime of opportunity with victims the rapist already knows. I'm guessing that the relat…
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/15 11:51 PM
1

Rubing Past Out Chicks is going to be the title of my next album.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 04:23 PM
2

"the other stuff shouldn't matter"?? if carrying heavy boxes is anywhere in the actual job description (as opposed to the job's title) then of course it should matter.
/r/MensRights20/08/15 04:22 PM
8

this. exactly this. maybe even make a specific subset of sex crimes for false sexual accusations. but I still don't agree with the common argument that false accusations should be punished with exactly the same sanctions and sentences as rape itself.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/15 04:14 PM
1

I agree. except for the bit about false accusers being stupid. some of them, just like the entire population of sociopaths out there, are brilliant and prepare themselves much better for the eventualities of their false claims.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/15 04:08 PM
5

I'm pretty sure that the sample was all the men and women she interacted with during those 18 months. She was researching how they treat men. No, it's not a double-blind study but those are very hard to do with public behavior. As a single person's experiment it won't get published in any scientific journals but confusing one researcher with a sample size of one in order to dismiss what she discovered is dishonest. The most salient point for me was that she went in with preconceived feminist/fem…
/r/MensRights13/08/15 07:15 PM
3

first time I've heard of her as well. thanks OP.
/r/MensRights13/08/15 07:00 PM
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