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10

Yes, but then fumbled on the date lmao
/r/seduction26/07/26 02:43 PM
2

WP bro
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:39 AM
3

Maybe, just maybe this new thread will save my self esteem
/r/seduction16/07/26 05:33 AM
1

But comments hide some gold tho
/r/seduction24/05/26 07:08 AM
1

Exactly, good example. Social awareness is zero.
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:38 PM
1

You are really twisting this man. No, I did not say that. Everything I said above is about guys who are attractive yet unsuccessful.
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:30 PM
0

No, we as men can pick up on energy also. But I assumed we are talking about guys seducing women here. It’s the eye contact, your movement, how you carry yourself, are you rigid, lightened up, calm, nervous, fidgeting?These things scream anxiety and insecurity when you are not relaxed. It shows without you ever saying a word.
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:24 PM
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I think it would fit for the majority. Rest is bad luck, timing, bad situational awareness etc
/r/seduction19/05/26 07:04 PM
0

Im assuming those men already made the door shut just by their energy in a social setting.
/r/seduction19/05/26 06:53 PM
1

Well its not in your favor then, but manageable. Try to maximize your small interactions, some compliments, some situational jokes, dont show that you are desperate for their company. Usually in the first 2-3 hours, you throw out as many small interactions as you can with a good vibe. Then comes the night, everyone is tipsy minimum, easy when you see each other, bump into each other. Dont be afraid to be alone with the girl, hell you could also take her back to her group and hang out with them. …
/r/seduction18/05/26 02:50 PM
1

Is it an overnight festival or like ends on the same day?
/r/seduction18/05/26 10:24 AM
1

Very big upvote
/r/seduction17/05/26 06:58 PM
1

Ahah beautiful
/r/seduction18/04/26 06:49 PM
11

Lack of vulnerability? Id say its the opposite
/r/seduction17/04/26 06:22 PM
1

Mine is empty, maybe I put my instagram there.
/r/seduction30/03/26 06:49 AM
1

Yeah that sounds viable. Im only thinking it could have been many other things too,she already had someone prioritized at the time and did not want to send that kind of signal, maybe she wasnt even looking to have anything at the moment, maybe she just lost the attraction by me swiping on her instead of talking in real life. But yes, I was not on the priority seat thats for sure. I wont be fixated on her, could be a little side quest in the office tho. Thanks man for the reply.
/r/seduction30/01/26 07:11 PM
1

No fixation here, maybe now yes because the contact has been re-established. I did not care for a year. Just giving context. But I agree, now I kinda start to fall into the same trap as previously. You are right. But hey, I shared here instead of doing some stupid shit. I agree, irl is the only way. Thanks!
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:42 PM
7

I think it doesn’t matter based on your description
/r/seduction19/11/25 05:41 PM
27

Oh bro just dont do it, I know you will and probably already invested emotionally, but I still have to say dont. Avoidant girls are the biggest cannon events for guys. I have been through this for at least 10 months straight. I almost went insane and then eventually heart broken.
/r/seduction19/11/25 01:51 PM
5

And you mean it would be okay If a guy does this? Lmao what
/r/seduction15/09/25 06:45 AM
5

Bro, just dont. You will develop a serious oneitis with this girl, or maybe you already have. Avoidants will absolutely date someone they are interested in. I had a pleasure to try this ride, after 6 dates she just got overwhelmed and left saying she wasnt good enough for me. My mental health took the toll as I could not understand the why’s. Just dont.
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:57 AM
1

Then ask you questions more precisely, I aint a mind reader
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:23 PM
1

Okay. So I feel more secure with myself. Therefore the sense of independence got stronger. Meaning I can let go of myself, my jokes, my sarcasm, my topics, my body language. Because i just don’t care what she thinks. I use the same methods mostly for day-game too. No issues so far. Some tweaks here and there but pretty much the same.
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:17 PM
1

Yes, mostly within myself which resulted in better connections with women which translated into better time spent together including sleeping together. I think it goes both ways, night and day game.
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:01 PM
1

Yeah well the strategy comes down to this simply: I seen 3 women that are showing me interest and I also find them interesting. And thats it. I trust that life will give the opportunities. You are just taking notes and move on with your vibe. You dont start planning every approach, that puts you out of vibe and more into your head which then gives off energy that others find hard to connect to most of the time. I am not sweating to get close to someone. It is not labor heavy if you do not overth…
/r/seduction14/07/25 10:44 AM
1

Exactly. I mostly approach women around me. If she is really that super good, then I will find a way to be next to her if need to be. But that takes a bit of time. Also, you are not gathering backup plans, you are discovering the room.
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:59 AM
2

Good points. My dude your first objective now is to either find or create value in your life for your own sake.
/r/seduction14/07/25 08:07 AM
1

Eye contacts are formed naturally, you don’t necessarily look for them. They just happen. She could leave in five minutes: Yes she could, but in my experience I would not cut through 10 people right after the first contact just to make an approach. That is like a real gambit which I do not make. But each to their own.
/r/seduction14/07/25 07:58 AM
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Talked about it perhaps?
/r/seduction14/07/25 07:56 AM
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I see. Kinda makes sense yeah. Btw I am getting better ever since this festival. Last week I met a 10/10 girl for the weekend, with her I just stated I could really kiss you right now. She said then do it. We ended up sleeping together. So it is still a learning experience and it is slow. But I am making progress with it. Thank you man, yes, probably when the vibe is right for me and apparently for her to, I should just go for the kiss, cuz thats the point. Im glad you found inspiration from my …
/r/seduction13/07/25 10:44 PM
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Thanks bro! Yes, that was one take away for me. I realized when I was forcing a situation. You are definitely onto something. I am trying to expand my boundaries in this regard. For example, I tried to kiss that girl who came back to the crowd before. She said “not like this”. Fuck, maybe you are right. Why else she would have came back? I thought she rejected the kiss earlier, whats the point of trying again?
/r/seduction13/07/25 09:45 PM
1

Have you guys already expressed mutual interest?
/r/seduction13/07/25 09:31 PM
2

Well I would not suggest dinner as a first date, but if you have experience with that then go for it. Otherwise, what is the question? Could you be more specific?
/r/seduction13/07/25 09:19 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction13/07/25 08:31 PM
2

YW
/r/seduction13/07/25 08:30 PM
4

Bro what is wrong with you
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:28 PM
2

Ahah okay thats a new perspective
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:40 AM
2

Yeah it is surprisingly easy if the crowd is right
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:40 AM
2

Thanks bro
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:29 PM
1

Thank you Obi Wan
/r/seduction26/06/25 05:46 PM
8

Oh gosh my favorite. They give excellent cannon events tho
/r/seduction16/06/25 06:15 PM
80

Jesus man I am sorry. Thats a cannon event right there
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:45 PM
8

No, but it started to build up from there. But chemistry, yes. But lets say after an 8 hour date, I was dancing while walking back home.
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:44 PM
1

Bro just reached the wall
/r/seduction31/05/25 04:52 PM
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Nah, kept myself busy to get a 2 day window for myself to calm down. So Ill text her today after work.
/r/seduction26/05/25 05:31 AM
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We were busy this week and I saw no point of setting up a date 1 week in advance. We have already agreed informally to go out. Just when I was about to ask her to finalize she ghosts and I didnt get a chance. Hence why Im asking the question.
/r/seduction25/05/25 09:02 PM
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Yeah the problem is we were busy for the whole week. Im not sure if its a good idea to try to secure a date 1 week in advance or something
/r/seduction25/05/25 04:45 PM
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Yeah this one is great advice bro. I do have other options atm I just made her my priority sadly. Yes, I do feel I try to do damage control and the mindset is currently set to neediness. Good insight. Probably the best way to approach the situation is to spark up some new vibe without the asking out part for now. Thanks bro
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:06 PM
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Well obviously to ask her out directly this time with some inside joke that we have already established. Like proper when and where not some imaginary role playing, fantasizing shit that we did before. With that we just established the fact that we would be open to see each other. But man, I cant set up a date in like a week in advance. You think I should be doing that?
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:01 PM
20

The art of not giving a fuck
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:14 AM
1

Yeah definetly she is a player from our perspective. I have never encountered a Female player before. Or they just did not get to me on an emotional level. I think either her issues and me wanting to fix things or my own traumas that seek connection. I usually don't have trouble with judging clearly but there are rare occasions where a girl can get to me on a deep level and I loose my shit. Thanks man, I may have to bash my head against the wall one more time I feel like but I will give it a cou…
/r/seduction02/04/25 09:02 PM
1

Yeah its also a valid option but also carries a risk of the most bitter end. I will think on it in the next couple of days. Anyway, thanks man!
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:59 PM
1

Wym?
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:56 PM
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Xddddd
/r/seduction21/02/25 09:17 PM
1

Have you used these since? I heard by just waiting to get back, they usually lift the bans
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:25 PM
1

Ellaborate pls
/r/seduction14/01/25 04:56 PM
2

Do you set your profile to public in this scenario?
/r/seduction13/01/25 12:22 PM
4

Yes! I mostly do the same, sometimes when I instantly feel the vibe, I tend to pay more on the first date and I dont mind. But the fact she offers to pay the next round is an absolute green flag.
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:21 AM
24

Survival of the fittest mindset
/r/seduction25/12/24 09:56 AM
4

What does IOI mean?
/r/seduction23/12/24 05:16 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/seduction22/12/24 09:33 PM
1

XD
/r/seduction17/12/24 03:14 PM
2

Or just start believing that you already won her over, its essentially the same but with a positive mindset
/r/seduction17/12/24 03:06 PM
2

Exactly
/r/seduction16/12/24 06:16 AM
1

I think we live on a different continent ahah
/r/seduction04/12/24 06:56 AM
1

Ahah thanks. No, I dont think so cuz I havent given her any.
/r/seduction03/12/24 02:31 PM
3

Yes, and on dating apps you gotta work 100x times harder lol exactly because of this
/r/seduction03/12/24 07:39 AM
1

Well not outright but yeah.
/r/seduction03/12/24 07:29 AM
2

What do you mean irrelevant? On dating apps you mean?
/r/seduction03/12/24 07:28 AM
0

What?
/r/seduction03/12/24 07:28 AM
2

Well you have to objectively differentiate between her being nice to you as with a customer or as with a person she is interested in
/r/seduction03/12/24 07:27 AM
5

Ohh you mean the apps ahah, I thought you talk about the ppl there. Okay
/r/seduction02/12/24 06:16 PM
9

I wouldnt say that they are out there to milk your money. But its kinda lacking emotions. Edit: I thought you were talking about the ppl on there jesus xd
/r/seduction02/12/24 06:13 PM
6

Omg dude even though I laughed you gotta chill out man
/r/seduction28/11/24 05:54 AM
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