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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 68 | 18 year old man from Maine looking for a wife in 1865. Better than most OLD profiles.That was so interesting!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Pregnancy and Its Discontentsand now my new kink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:59 AM |
| 25 | I really hope there aren’t women nodding in agreement to this.He gets off on violating boundaries duh. No person in their right mind would go up to someone and ask to see them naked. This is the same thing but digital form. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:01 AM |
| 14 | Straight men are faking their deep voices 😂Omg I on the first watch I thought he was wearing a black T-shirt under his hoodie!! Damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:53 AM |
| 1 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisYou could take the children with you or initiate divorce and not choose to have custody - that wouldn't constitute as child abandonment. Welfare - if you are too ill to work, and I assume you are in the US, I know they have have disability payments. It's not much but it's enough to survive. You can leave if you want. You are miserable where you are now and that isn't going to change. I managed to estrange from my abusive parents when I was 21 while I was suffering with a crippling eating disorde… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisuhhhh why haven't you left? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:35 AM |
| 4 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisThis is very interesting! I have a question though, what is the difference between authoritarian and authoritative? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.Ovarit.com DM me for invite codes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornHopefully people will wake up, I'm sorry to hear what you are going through. You aren't alone though. I've lost so many friends to this cult. Boy will they be embarrassed when this blows over (if, rather). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 13 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape Porncome join the sane ones at Ovarit.com your friends are in a science-denying, woman-hating cult | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:46 AM |
| 2 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornYou need to join Ovarit.com DM me for invite codes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:44 AM |
| 5 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornDm me for Ovarit.com invite codes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:38 AM |
| 5 | We're like a small city!omg I want to come I fantasise about this all the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 10:16 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know what’s going on anymore I don’t know how to handle it please help meomg you needed to dump him yesterday. What if you ever had daughters? Or sons? They may grow up thinking it's okay to be treated this way/treat other women this way | /r/RedPillWives | 11/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 80 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.clever!! I went to an all girls school and a strategy of mine is if I tell them, and they start asking if I 'lezzed out' with anyone, they go in the bin porn sick, fucking limp dick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:14 PM |
| 62 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.Oh, he knew it was predatory. Sometimes men 'play dumb' when they are caught out doing depraved shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | A sub titled 'WhereAreAllTheGoodMen' that spend their time shitting on single mothers (and showing their faces), making fun of women for being fat, and old. They post that 14 year old girls are the 'prime'. They have flairs such as 'Bitch' and 'Tramp'. Thus proving, there are no good men.It's interesting that our subreddit gets so much attention for calling out all of the abusive, creepy and downright absurd behaviours we experience. We get called 'toxic' and full of 'incels'. So let's turn it around - let's have our turn! Let's make fun of all these depressed losers who can't get a date, so all they can resort to is making fun of women that would never even look twice at them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:05 PM |
| 8 | LVM out here “cooking” dog food and frozen broccoli on “dates.” I’d literally rather go to the field.🤣😂🤣😂🤣 you speak too much truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 10:39 PM |
| 89 | When your dress lasts longer than your marriage to a LVM.FREE BRITNEY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:19 AM |
| 14 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.interesting 🤔🤔 my mom never talked about her biological dad, and just like me, was estranged from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:16 AM |
| 31 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.estrange | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:03 AM |
| 69 | Father of teenage girl/stepfather of 2 additional teenage girls is a whole-ass-depraved-creep. Tries to gaslight wife by calling her a prude. Cringe with me.one thing that has disturbed me for life is that I’d be shouted at for walking around in a long top and underpants as a teenaged girl (as pajamas mind you) because “it makes my dad uncomfortable”. Wtf kind of man did my mom marry? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 03:01 AM |
| 58 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒absolutely horrifying 😵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:06 PM |
| 41 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒600%?!? Those numbers are staggering. I’m in the UK too and I just can’t believe there aren’t mainstream sources blasting out this information. It just feels like we’re being silenced all the time. All we can do is hope we get organised, the parents of the victims too. Would be even worse if they too are being silenced. Personally I think children should not be using the Internet at all, but of course everyone I speak to disagrees. Even a friend I have who works in social services and gets cases… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 226 | Serial killer Ted Bundy admitted porn prompted him to dehumanise women, but MUH PEEN ain’t ready for that conversation 😒I’ve been reading that kids these days can be as young as 4 when they start watching porn 😩😩 What an absolute disaster. I also read another study that said we should expect an increase in sexual predators and serial killers because of this fact! Girls as young as 3 are getting raped by these porn-fried boy kids, girls are getting raped in school. And everyone is just ignoring it!! Shame on us!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 12:27 PM |
| 77 | I can't imagine how this will go down 😂omg this is genius!!! can’t believe it was taken down though that is so typical 😤😠😠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:14 PM |
| 5 | A post about men exposing themselves: I saw on FDS about the importance of radio silence, and I agree. Look at these men’s responses and tell me they don’t look like idiots. Let your silence speak louder than words; let men tell on themselves without you doing shit.This is also very true. I think because this was a leftist sub I wanted to point out their hypocrisy. Also if I hadn’t commented I wouldn’t have approached another radfem in the wild. I think I’m conflicted on this because on one hand it’s certainly not my responsibility to explain feminism to man children. On the other if I broadcast my views and they expose themselves it may peak other women who lurk on the sub. I’m a staunch believer in recruiting women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 32 | "I only go down on women that are special to me".I’m from UK and most guys hate going down here. But I have noticed when I slept with men from countries in Europe they always went down no questions. I wonder why there are differences? I think black men are more likely to do it too (at least in my experience). I have a wild bush too lol so maybe that hinders it overall. Doesn’t matter now as I’m voluntarily celibate but it is interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:01 PM |
| 2 | I need advice. After finding FDS I am having trouble at home with narcissistic father.Idk what to say to help. I tried sticking out abuse “for the sake of the family” but my tired ass estranged. Twice. The second time was for the last time. I’m poor as fuck and everyone in town thinks I’m evil but I’m so much happier. So much more ‘me’ too. My dad is a narcissistic, chauvinistic piece of shit, and screw my pickme mom for always siding with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:52 AM |
| 4 | Women are finally allowing themselves to admit that they do not support the porn industry and they do not want their partners to do so eitherexcellent subreddits i participate in them quite often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:07 AM |
| 57 | OC: I decided to do a little gender swap on that horrible meme. I’m not a cartoonist but I hope you enjoy it! 🥰They aren’t used to it when it happens to them. Because it never does. I think that’s why they have 😭🍼mantrums😭🍼 when it is turned around on them. Watch them twist this and say it’s worse than the 1000 cases of misogyny we see daily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 04:14 PM |
| 99 | Ladies, how has FDS affected or improved your family dynamics?My life has changed completely. I started being more unapologetically assertive with everyone around me and I have lost a lot of friends because of it. I think I’m better off though. When you stand up for yourself and assert boundaries with someone either one of these things will happen: you will either get punished for it or you will be more respected because of it. I think this is a good way to choose who to hang around with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 145 | When they complain about being expected to provideThis is why we women have so much power. Never before have we lived in a society (at least western) where we can work, create wealth, get credit and have our own property. Now on top of this we even have access to sperm donors - we no longer need men to provide for us and we no longer need men to be fathers. I reckon if I want children this is what I would do, and if I ever settle for a man at least he could never use my children as a weapon against me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Sends nudes to a random because of low effort meme, gets upset because somebody advises them not to. It’s super sad to say that at a low point in my life this could’ve been relatablepornsick I’m so glad I have tiny tits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:26 AM |
| 13 | Pickmeshas be likeI’m anorexic. If I ever encounter people with views like this, I will ask them “what if guys got turned on by throwing food at me, force feeding me while calling me a disgusting, fat whore? Does it matter how obviously degrading that would be for me? What if I did like it and I told my therapist about it, what would they say?” Wouldn’t surprise me if many kinkmeishas don’t get any therapy ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:42 AM |
| 5 | "If she hits you, you better fucking hit her back"Exactly. It’s impossible for men to be feminists because they are not females. I always take it as a red flag when men say they are, especially really soon. They’re almost always into kinky degenerate shit, libfem bullshit and at the very worst are abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 3 | NGL some of yalls really don’t support womenMy mom was a stupid pickmeisha bitch who stood by and watched her TWO DAUGHTERS be abused by a pathetic scrote of a dad. She’s a coward, a failure of a mother. Was she still a victim? Yes, but she constantly sided with him. In the same way I scoff at people who say trauma bonding in depraved “relationships” is an acceptable healing method, I scoff at the idea of supporting women who certainly won’t support you when you need it most. They often just play victim too as a way to silence you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Is having a Snapchat a red flag?🚩That is an excellent point. I’m Gen Z too and lads who would NEVER send me unsolicited dick pics on facebook etc did on snapchat. It’s definitely because of disappearing messages so now I avoid Snapchat like the plague. In fact I avoid all social media it’s not safe for women. Mental health effects, stalkers, revenge porn/deepfakes and digital flashing. Been social media free since 2018 and I haven’t looked back since. I also haven’t had a dick pic in ages so that feels great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:54 PM |
| 105 | Legal and moral obligation of Tinder to vet rapistsAll dating apps should absolutely vet men. If uber can do it (albeit not excellently) I don’t see why Tinder can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:50 PM |
| 18 | how do we get rid of toxic friends?I'm literally shacking up with my neighbour because I left my home. I was living with my 'best friend' but we are no longer friends. I'm so glad for this sub, because even though it focuses on LVM it was really helping me realise I was being taken advantage of by my low value friend. I stood up for myself and told her I basically wasn't gonna be her personal maid/bank account any more, and in retaliation she had my cat taken off me :( If I ever encounter a pickmeisha again, I will be putting in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂I enjoyed reading that so much. I feel like I’m glowing I just love reading about strong women standing up for themselves and embarrassing the hell out of the men. For real this subreddit has made me crazy confident and has actually helped my self esteem so much! Just reading about queen shit! I wanna be JUST like that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:52 AM |
| 4 | Never let them get comfortable!i keep thinking about this too! Honestly we women don’t realise how much power and control we have over our reproduction and the way we can reproduce. I always think being a single mother and choosing a good candidate with good genes through a sperm donor is more and more viable with each passing day. I remember insecure men whining at me because “they can’t choose to have babies even if they want one”. Womb envy is real. Pretty sure with sperm donors we can choose what sex the baby can be too L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Male med student wants to be able to examine female patients against their will. LVM are everywhere.girl I see what you’re saying and I think your username confirms. As someone who has a gyno appointment tomorrow this is the sort of shit that keeps me up at night. 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:27 AM |
| 2 | My experience as a 33 old woman on Tinder - The wall is a lieHonestly run far away from men who think women hit the wall in their 30s. I really wouldn't be surprised if they were pedophilic and crush on only teenagers anyway. I bet they say 30s because they'd really expose themselves if they said 20s, which is probably what they actually think. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:59 AM |
| 7 | Stay awareOMG YES! This has happened to me so many times!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Girl this is not it.omg I would cringe at this but now I've read this comment my heart just breaks. I think you're spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:50 PM |
| 4 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsI want to see this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Scrubs: Does anyone else hate Turk and Carla's relationship?Oh man I aspire to be at least half as badass as Jordan is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Scrubs: Does anyone else hate Turk and Carla's relationship?Ahh!!! I remember watching that I was practically screaming at the TV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:42 AM |
| 22 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?I've been wanting to go to an all female commune too!! Let me come I'll cook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 34 | It’s always the little guys that need all the validation they can get 🤷🏻♀️Don't they understand what flaccid dicks are? I don't think I've ever seen an erect one in an ancient Greek painting. If anyone does know of any though lmao feel free to prove me wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 8 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfOH but the moment we don't want to be near any man because we've been traumatised from being beaten/raped/abused we're misandrists. 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:45 AM |
| 13 | Smh, all you had to do was be on time for work , and you can’t even do THAT!This is heartbreaking! I already knew about the impact Covid has had on women but reading it first hand just does something else 😥 I hope she leaves him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 22 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?so damn true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:17 AM |
| 26 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?omg definitely cease contact!!! He sounds like a creep!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Not a gamer myself, but I thought this was interesting...my thoughts exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:24 PM |
| 2 | What guys on online dating really mean by causal is essentially is fuck buddy.I also once did this after hearing an ad on a radio for 'secret escapes'. Me and my friend thought it'd be funny to spontaneously join (we were drunk). Joined as a woman, no profile pic, nothing in the bio, yet I had tons of messages begging me for sex lmfao. It's men who have no standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | If i could pass any knowledge for future generations is this. Lowering your standards is never worth it.Yep I was complaining of this too before I found this beautiful, beautiful subreddit. I would always date guys who were MUCH less attractive than I am and it was literally all "oh, attraction isn't important" and "he'll appreciate me more!". Such bullshit. They're insecure, whiny and annoying at best, or downright abusive at worst. They find cunning ways to undermine your personality, while making you feel like you're shallow for being attractive. I promised myself NO MORE. To quote Quinn Morgen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 09:04 AM |
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