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Easy enough
/r/seduction18/03/15 01:00 PM
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Not seducing 16 year olds, they always initiate with me.
/r/seduction10/01/15 03:25 AM
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This is the obvious information but jeez, that's kind of a dead end street for a few years.
/r/seduction09/01/15 04:31 PM
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Yeah I simply did some Kino, when we were skating she was showing me some moves she learned in figure skating and skated back to me and almost fell and I put my hand around her hip, then she was kicking my feet later and we had a foot war and then when she left I hugged her and put my hands on her hip, that classifies as doing some Kino. Nothing was happening that night since we were all going home that night so I had no chance to get it in, but I'm asking about flirting, verbally flirting and p…
/r/seduction05/12/14 02:53 PM
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Did it go as planned? I hope your trash didn't flake on you. Going up to that aluminum can, total approach anxiety, amirite?
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:09 AM
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Coffee? Beer in a hotel? Your house/her house?
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:06 AM
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I was trying approaches at a mall and after a while I got bored and decided to leave, on my way to my truck i saw a girl that I wanted to approach through some bushes and up a hill, I jumped through the bushes and chatted her up and got her #!
/r/seduction27/10/14 05:10 AM
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No I have defined it that way because it is, not the other way around. I dropped out of highschool when I was 16 and went into the trades and got picked on there too for my personality which is when I started acting how I thought would make people like me. You don't understand, I was a weird, judgmental, rude, clueless, socially stupid asshole and telling me to own that isn't far from telling me to not have a social life. I cannot help that I was that way but it made everyone hate me. I'm pretty…
/r/seduction16/10/14 08:43 PM
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No way man, I think I am funny as fuck. But nobody else seems to understand my deadpan humor and sarcasm so I have this as my username as a self depreciating joke.
/r/seduction16/10/14 07:30 PM
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Could be, I'm seeing a therapist in a few weeks and could probably shed some light on the situation.
/r/seduction16/10/14 07:19 PM
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I am not lying to you or anyone else, I have fucked a fair amount of women since I started PUA. It could have something to do with the fact that we're always drinking. It could be because I have a fake personality that is hard to maintain all the time. It could be because lots of these girls are rebound girls. It could be because all these girls are 18-21 and aren't wanting a boyfriend. It could be a million things, but one of the things isn't that I'm a liar. I just want to know how to form a r…
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:45 PM
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It comes off like you think you understood the concepts of "be yourself," and "be confident," but to be clear, if you did understand those ideas, it really would have helped you make a move or show interest. Well I was myself, I was genuine but I had no idea about making moves or touching women, I thought if I had conversations and made them laugh they would "reward" me with affection, that isn't how it works, I understood the concept, yet I didn't know how to apply it. you're running the kind o…
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:38 PM
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Because they were forced?
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:22 PM
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I never said long term, I just want a girlfriend. I miss having a connection with another human being.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:22 PM
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I want to find a girl like me, reserved, quiet, and relaxed. My persona attracts horny wild loud annoying chicks.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:20 PM
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I've read it. Maybe I need to read it again.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:19 PM
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I'm lonely, I've had no strong relationships for the past year other than with a girl I dumped almost immediately for being so clingy. I'm only human, man.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:19 PM
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Well I know all this man, but before I put on this fake ass personality I never got any attention from women, my personality is needy and validation seeking, and I've read on here way too many times "fake it til you make it" to just turn around now. So I prefer the latter, seems like the only advice I have gotten that can be applied is to build myself as a better person with new experiences/hobbies and self improvement that I won't need this persona anymore.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:18 PM
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How is getting a girl to be your girlfriend any different than getting a girl to fuck you, both require seductive skills just in a different skillset. Honestly, most people on /r/relationships hate the guys on /r/seduction immensely and I have been called out on it before, I do not like asking those people for advice because all their advice is generic and isn't helpful, this sub knows a lot more about women than them.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:15 PM
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Always Be Closing.
/r/seduction16/10/14 06:13 PM
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I'm 19, I have a few interesting hobbies. I meet girls by cold approach and through friends \, not partying but usually invited over for some drinks.
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:55 AM
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Yeah but my normal "real self" is a pretty unattractive weird observant type personality. The only way I have kept myself from being bullied and abandoned from society since I was 16 was to mask my true self. Trust me I used to go through a lot of shit for things I said and did. Pretty much my entire surface personality is a facade.
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:53 AM
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I figured out what I had been missing all along, I had no self esteem and dismissed any time girls shot me signals, I never made a move. I came here and with the top rules being assume attraction and ABC I started actually getting somewhere, I stopped dismissing myself because I finally broke my barriers of self esteem intimacy wise. I talked confidently, held eye contact, assumed every girl in the room liked me and it started to show every girl in the room did start to like me. But this is all …
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:24 AM
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Bus is good, you get to sit close, maybe bring some headphones and listen to music with her. If you can go over to her house maybe try taking a walk. I used to get my parents to drive me and my girlfriends around, they usually don't mind because they understand that you're building relationships.
/r/seduction28/09/14 05:16 AM
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Someone posted a drinking guide a while ago, I can't find it now. basically he said grab some beer or mix drinks, whatever you drink normally, then drink it alone, eat bread and greasy food like pizza,and pretty much see how many drinks it takes you to get to that good level and don't drink more than that. If you don't know how many drinks it takes you to get drunk you can easily drink too much. My limit is 8 beers max so I never buy more than that.
/r/seduction14/09/14 06:32 PM
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Escalation isn't as much what you say as much as it is what you do. With my most recent hookup I started the night by sitting next to her in my cousins truck and he likes to wingman for me so he took corners sharp and made sure she had to lean into me, I kept my legs spread out far to make sure ours were touching, these things are considered the accidental kino touches, I always start with these. Then I just talked with her over a drink and had rigorous eye contact, when I caught her staring I'd…
/r/seduction14/09/14 07:01 AM
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Understand English baby.
/r/seduction11/09/14 05:13 PM
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AOMG and Alpha ARE NOT THE SAME, OKAY? Why can nobody understand fuck.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:07 PM
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Not saying he is, I was pointing out being an Alpha male and being an AMOG are different things and AMOG's are usually just the douchebag of their little circle of friends.
/r/seduction10/09/14 08:50 PM
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I guess it mainly stems from the fact that I'm so alone. I have aspergers and have lived in BC for a year where I knew nobody to start off with, I know this feeling, join some clubs or a sports team. And yet, women don't even look my way. Probably how you carry yourself, confidence and lack of both show through your body language also how you dress and look, try working on your wardrobe and look up some guide to confident body language. I try and talk with a girl in class about homework and stuf…
/r/seduction10/09/14 08:32 PM
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Yes but "Of the Group" are the keywords, they usually aren't alpha at all, they're just the most Alpha out of their little circle.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:31 PM
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Well I apologize too, I know you're just trying to help. I sought out advice after breaking up with my girlfriend of three years and got a lot of "Just get over it" "just move on" and it made me incredibly depressed, personally I don't think the tough love route works very well.
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:14 PM
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She says: you ask, "hey what days are you off this wk...(or even next wk).... Cause I'd like to take you out to do something" But really if you did say that she'd probably think you're too avaliable and not want to do anything. Girls are fucked, when I act outcome independent they tell me they wish I cared more and was more attentive, well guess what, I spent 3 years being a nice guy and that got me nowhere.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:56 PM
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Listen man, you're suicidal, clearly have no self esteem and no goals or ambition in life at the moment. Read the book "Models" by Mark Manson then read the book "No More Mister Nice Guy", work on your inner game too, one that helped me was "What to Say When You Talk to Yourself". Work on your outer appearance, are you fat? Go to the gym and start dieting. Are you scrawny? Start eating more and hit the gym start lifting. Do you smell like shit? Start showering every day and washing your clothes.…
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:50 PM
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It really doesn't help saying if you were a girl you'd never sleep with him, some people get down on themselves sometimes when they feel like nothing is working, and adding more onto that doesn't help at all. I think what he needs is to really work on his life, Fashion, fitness, career and once he's built up some self esteem then try to get women.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:45 PM
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Whoops, misread.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:43 PM
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Being an AMOG usually isn't a good thing, typically means you're the douchebag just of your little circle of friends.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:41 PM
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Sure, thanks dude
/r/seduction07/09/14 04:29 PM
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How about kino, its covert and doesn't sound like we're rapists!
/r/seduction07/09/14 12:59 AM
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I like Jaketallica, cheesy as it may be, that will stay :) I will get rid of the picture, but lots of nerdy girls like Legend of zelda why would I remove that? Edit: forget it, it did sound a little childish; deleted. And yeah the suspended license part probably doesn't look great. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction07/09/14 12:54 AM
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Hmmm I'll try but I'm not a very social person, my friends circle isn't all that big. Any ideas?
/r/seduction07/09/14 12:31 AM
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It sounds creepy.
/r/seduction06/09/14 10:06 PM
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That is a perfect example of the straw man fallacy, do some research. There's no point in arguing with you if you're not going to play by the rules.
/r/seduction03/09/14 02:58 PM
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Wow classic straw man fallacy, really changing my words and then saying I'm into slavery? No dude, just no. Its as old as time, this isn't my moral compass this is humanities, one doesn't enter a relationship to just cheat unless they're pathetic, cowardice people and it doesn't take a genius to know that. Sure you could become a better man and not get cheated on, but that will never ever make it right or acceptable.
/r/seduction03/09/14 05:27 AM
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Dude we understand you're a mod and you obviously are not changing your mind at all but at least try to consider that maybe they're right. You're getting stupid amounts of downvotes just because you're so adamant, just because you're a mod doesn't mean you're right. The point they make is that if you're in a relationship you SHOULD. NOT. CHEAT, no this isn't a legal order, no this isn't against the law, and no it isn't always the man's fault, some women cheat. It isn't right morally and it isn't…
/r/seduction03/09/14 04:19 AM
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Well I guess it's a pride thing, knowing you were the first to take a girl seems pretty cool, while the actual sex is horrid.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:20 PM
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Read escalation ladder and implement.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:01 PM
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I agree with this, why start drama if you don't have to and why get everyone hurt? I've been cheated on and I can tell you it fucking hurts, ever since then I thought twice about fucking girls with boyfriends or cheating on someone. How would you like it if it happened to you?
/r/seduction25/08/14 02:40 PM
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INTP, which makes the social aspect of game really hard, but I also like to view it as sort of a theory, I test which aspects work well towards women and embellish and embody those qualities. I'd say at this point 5/10 for Kino and escelation. And 4/10 for conversation and rapport building. I have a long way to go but I am only 19 and have improved from before, I used to be a 1/10.
/r/seduction20/08/14 02:53 PM
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I just laughed so hard at this comment. there's little to no chance that you can connect well enough with 500-600 girls in an hour Clearly he meant 5-10 and everyone is taking him seriously, as if he could approach 600 women in an hour, that's 6 girls a minute at 10 seconds an interaction.
/r/seduction20/08/14 03:37 AM
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That's 5.9 rejections a minute at 610 approaches an hour!
/r/seduction20/08/14 03:35 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction16/08/14 08:12 PM
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Well in high school I had no idea about body language or pickup at all. One time this hot girl I liked asked me to bus with her to the mall I did, we were talking to two of her friends and she put her hand on my thigh, I didn't even know what to do so I just kept talking and thats all, totally blew it. Another time this girl always insisted I came and sat with her and she would smile at me and kick my feet and I just thought she was being friendly, god damn it. I literally had girls fighting ove…
/r/seduction16/08/14 07:58 PM
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He's obviously just a salty nice guy that can't get women. He doesn't know anything.
/r/seduction16/08/14 12:49 AM
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Hence the name.
/r/seduction15/08/14 06:41 PM
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You sound like a moron. You're all just seeking feel good bullshit A big step in seduction is not to seek validation but rather get women to seek your validation, so no we're not all like this.
/r/seduction15/08/14 06:25 PM
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Okay, thank you.
/r/seduction10/08/14 05:12 PM
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I am INTP, know the pain bro.
/r/seduction10/08/14 06:37 AM
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Ah well I chose seduction because I like the community, the guys here are always more motivating and get me motivated, whereas other subs I notice people being more negative and hard ass and not as helpful. Also approach anxiety, fear of failure, they go hand in hand.
/r/seduction10/08/14 06:00 AM
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Thanks man, I know this is how to overcome it I just thought there might be some affirmation or routine I could follow or some trick to make it easier and not fear failure so much. Good advice regardless.
/r/seduction10/08/14 05:55 AM
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Ah yes you can but a doctors visit costs 80$, and a therapist could possibly be a few hundred per session.
/r/seduction05/08/14 12:35 AM
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This could be very true, more sex will ensue.
/r/seduction04/08/14 10:43 PM
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Perhaps you, like many men, link their feelings of worth to their sexual performance. Some men live and die by their ability to please a woman. This could be a big factor, definitely. The virgin mind makes sex into this lofty idealized fantasy. I am far from a virgin friend :D
/r/seduction04/08/14 10:42 PM
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Thanks dude, after my LTR breakup I started masturbating more for obvious reasons, I'll cut that out/cut down. More foreplay is a must I suppose. Thanks for your suggestions.
/r/seduction04/08/14 10:40 PM
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You have a provincial healthcare, I had Alberta healthcare, after I moved I could no longer use my Alberta healthcare card in BC. I am thinking of moving back so I do not want to apply for BC healthcare card and have to reapply for Alberta healthcare. Understand?
/r/seduction04/08/14 10:38 PM
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Yeah I did, I went limp during sex. This could be why?
/r/seduction04/08/14 02:26 PM
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No Canada, in the middle of a province move and currently have no healthcare.
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:32 PM
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I kinda dealt with the same thing, twice. The problem was when I converted into a relationship both girl got REALLY needy and drove me up the fucking wall, I have my own life I ain't gonna text you 24/7 bitch. First time I fucked up, I just stopped replying for hours on end hoping she would get the drift and break it off with me so I didn't hurt her too bad, she cheated on me and started fucking my best friend and turned into a slut. Second time went better but still awfully, she started getting…
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:24 PM
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No money, no healthcare :(
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:21 PM
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Your goal shouldn't be 10 numbers, your goal should be like 25 approaches or some shit, you will beat yourself up if you don't get all your numbers and it might make it harder on you.
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:20 PM
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I was escalating, always escalating, what do you think I just put my finger in my ass? Maybe i didn't mention it in my post but in my FR I got to grabbing her ass and making out with her and grabbing her tits but couldn't get the F close.
/r/seduction30/07/14 06:05 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/seduction30/07/14 12:11 AM
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Yeah okay, thanks man.
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:04 PM
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Ah like 3/6 times since I started seduction. I like the idea of "when do I get to see you again" though, I will start using this.
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:00 PM
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Well I do build comfort, I talk to them very genuinely and they usually end up confessing to me how great they think I am, so I believe they are comfortable. I may be messaging them more than I should, I say that I had a great night and I was glad to meet them (so they know I actually like them) and then I try to hold off as much as possible until setting up next meeting time (unless them message me).
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:47 PM
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Usually through my cousins or friends, they'll come over or I'll meet them going out for drinks.
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:28 PM
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How did I, one day I decided I wanted to meet more girls so I grabbed my sack and pulled it out of whatever hole it was hiding in and did it, stop being a bitch.
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:22 AM
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Ah it was playful bro, plus it led me to kino, so all good.
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:14 AM
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Sure man, I wasn't going to ask her anyhow, that would be a very awkward conversation. But yes yes yes, next weekend I'll invite her over, have any movie suggestions?
/r/seduction27/07/14 09:20 PM
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I understand all your points and will make an effort to improve my situation next time, thanks very much moderator!
/r/seduction27/07/14 09:14 PM
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Well it could have already been past the point of no return at this point, could have been multiple things, like the fact her best friend and boyfriend were fighting in the next room, or that she actually was tired, or maybe she wasn't wearing any panties to begin with and I took that as a sign that wasn't. I guess I'll never really know unless I ask but she made it clear she wanted to come back over, so next time my FR will hopefully end with an F-close, and I won't be as pushy.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:56 PM
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Why are you adding extra meaning to what she said? Well she was unsure about staying the night, until I made out with her on the bed, then she was sure of it; I could be wrong but it seemed like a pretty clear signal that she wanted me. Paired with the fact that she straight up told me she was single with no context. Only touch her face or other non-blatantly sexual places. If you were grabbing at her tits or playing with her below the belt, you were doing too much. I understand this, I never we…
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:53 PM
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Could be, I felt a little blow to my ego when it happened, I thought I did everything right but I didn't really assess it like that.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:29 PM
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Well she did have a really pretty face and body, but her teeth were a little crooked and I didn't fancy her choice of wardrobe. I'm being modest and not trying to put anyone on a pedestal ya'know?
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:19 PM
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Yeah I've read it, which is what I was doing, she just didn't seem into it.
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:19 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction27/07/14 08:05 PM
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So did I :)
/r/seduction14/07/14 01:50 AM
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Good job man, i bet you feel a lot better than before.
/r/seduction13/07/14 09:52 PM
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Oh i see okay, that makes sense. I agree with that, don't make it your life but be serious with it, you gotta put your balls on the table.
/r/seduction11/07/14 08:15 PM
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Do things that add value to yourself, watching TV, no value at all! Why not work out, see a friend, read a book, clean the house, have a shower, play a sport, work on a hobby, play an instrument, go approach some women, clean your car, pick up a new hobby, listen to an e-book, do some yard work, go for a jog, walk the dog, write a poem?
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:47 PM
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or take seduction too seriously, you will fail and fail hard. I disagree, the people who have the most luck are people who take seduction seriously, these are the people who do approaches every day, improve upon them self the most, make the most effort to be the best man. The people who half ass it are the people who go on tinder or POF, maybe go on a date in a week or two span and generally dont get much better at seduction. Be serious!
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:43 PM
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Read your own name, then reevaluate. Nobody should care if you want to better yourself, if they do cut them off. And lastly you shouldn't care what other people think, it's about what YOU think, do you respect yourself for this, do you like yourself for this? GOOD!
/r/seduction11/07/14 04:54 PM
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Sure dude, I never thought of it this way before, but you could be totally right. I'll try sparking up a few conversations before I approach next time.
/r/seduction11/07/14 01:44 PM
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Thanks dude, its something I actually have been trying to wrap my head around, how exactly can I go about not worrying about what other people think about me?
/r/seduction03/07/14 06:44 PM
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I don't use anything except my own self worth and love to boost my confidence, and my current self improvement development has been focusing on eliminating my ego altogether. So no I don't believe so, but I suppose it really depends on the point of view, it may not seem like it to me but to someone else it may.
/r/seduction03/07/14 05:27 AM
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Well don't say brah to begin with.
/r/seduction03/07/14 04:55 AM
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I am not a jerk I guarantee you.
/r/seduction03/07/14 04:54 AM
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Okay, sound advice man, thanks. I am definitely not trying, just has been happening.
/r/seduction03/07/14 02:23 AM
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Okay well on dating and shit I have no advice, because there is so much here already just waiting to be read, but self improvement I can tell you what I did. First make a reddit account and unsubscribe from every sub, resubscribe to /r/selfimprovement /r/seduction /r/confidence /r/howtonotgiveafuck. Secondly, wardrobe! Go to H&M and buy a bunch of 7$ t-shirts, v-neck or crew, buy like 10 in different colors and some casual black or blue pants to match, I added a little touch with a silver chain …
/r/seduction03/07/14 02:21 AM
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If you don't have a learners or an L, go and fucking get one. If you have a learners or an L and need to wait the year before your road test, suck it up and do approaches but don't date or anything yet because its hard. If you have your learners or L and can take your road test stop being a lazy bastard and go do it. If you have your license but no car stop being a bitch and save the fuck up and buy one, they're not that expensive.
/r/seduction03/07/14 02:14 AM
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Well other than regular stuff like self esteem and abundance mentality, I have worked a lot on my cocky-funny attitude and not putting women on a pedestal, basically I'm just more out of my shell than I used to be with a few seduction traits.
/r/seduction16/06/14 04:58 AM
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I've always been semi attractive, but I used to never be able to pick up women, now I can pick them up fairly easy even though my appearance hasnt changed very much, definitely personality based.
/r/seduction15/06/14 08:40 PM
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You know, I can't speak for everyone, but when I started in the seduction and looking how far it has taken me I had come to realize all I wanted was to be accepted. I was always rejected by girls, bullied and treated like shit because I am not the smartest guy and I was chubby and had acne, and now that I've come this far it feels fucking good; people just treat me better. I don't put up with people walking on me anymore or treating me like shit because I finally got some reassurance that I am a…
/r/seduction11/05/14 06:25 PM
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Great idea man, I hope you can be the best you, that you can be!
/r/seduction11/04/14 01:41 AM
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Is there anything stopping you from getting braces so it can be corrected? Like its no big deal as long as you can keep them clean, but I have this belief that whatever you can make better about yourself, do it.
/r/seduction11/04/14 01:07 AM
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You added "Kinda similiar interests". I find that with most people, not only just women, you do not need to share ANYTHING in common with them to be able to connect well. This most recent girl I'm seeing doesn't like any of the same music, movies, shows, or ideals and yet our connection is good because we are both interested in each other.
/r/seduction03/04/14 09:19 PM
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Half serious though, having a drink or two in you will help, being drunk AF will not.
/r/seduction03/04/14 08:54 PM
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It's actually pretty easy to go for it, if you're unsure of it get a friend to dare you two to kiss and if she's into you she won't have an issue at all. One little sign to watch out for is if they look at your lips then back at your eyes, if they do this they definitely want you to kiss them, then just go for it. Put your hands on her hips or back and just start kissing her.
/r/seduction03/04/14 08:53 PM
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Dude, craigslist and kijiji. Lots of people wouldn't mind renting out one bedroom for 300-500$ a month and neither would friends parents. But I don't know, I'm not in college and we aren't in the same boat. I am a 1st year electrician but I'm in between jobs at the moment working for shit pay and you could be on your way to something better. I hate to say it but maybe its best if you do stay until you have a better opportunity ya know, saving money is literally the best thing you can do.
/r/seduction03/04/14 05:37 AM
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When I was 16 my mom broke it off with my ass hole step dad and got a new boyfriend, three days later he threw me into our fax machine so I noped the fuck out of there and have been on my own since then, unfortunately working to pay rent and going to high school doesn't work well so I had to drop out and get a GED instead of diploma, but whatevs. Manning the fuck up really sucks though, I feel like I lost a huge portion of my more immature fun side because of it, I would have rather weened into …
/r/seduction03/04/14 05:27 AM
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Well this is the perfect place to start my friend. I actually started working on myself due to a breakup with my ex girlfriend of three years, I had no experience with women at all. My ex pretty much gave it all to me for free because we were both desperate but I never truly earned any sort of good fortune with women until recently. Areas you should look at: Inner-game, possibly the best way I have improved, I had a very verbally and emotionally abusive step father, called me a stupid piece of s…
/r/seduction03/04/14 05:17 AM
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But I have worked very hard on my looks, and self improvement is also a HUGE part of seduction, no? I've lost 10 pounds, got biggers pecs and better abs, tanned a lot, changed my whole wardrobe and started doing my hair in a fashinable way. I don't understand why you're writing this off so much. Meet 18 year old me one year ago today, wears skater clothes and has a combo over, is chubby and is very shy and awkward and also has bad acne and can't hold a conversation for shit. All of this I have c…
/r/seduction03/04/14 03:53 AM
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Uhh sharing my experience using things I've learned here. I used Physical Escalation Eye contact Flirtatious teasing Confidence Sexual mastery (sort of) Self esteem I pretty much wouldn't have ever gotten there without the help of this sub and did use everything I've learned. I started this off with "So I'll try to keep this brief." and left A LOT out, but that's because I didn't want to go into every specific detail, just cover the important stuff.
/r/seduction03/04/14 02:59 AM
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Lol, shes picking me up for dinner tomorrow!
/r/seduction03/04/14 01:19 AM
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Best starting point for me was working on INNER-GAME, and I cannot stress it enough. Read through this, use it as your bible. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gjqim/the_definitive_seddit_inner_game_collection/ And read this book, don't even lie and say you're going to and then not actually... DO IT. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlq7a/notes_on_the_six_pillars_of_selfesteem_by/
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:45 AM
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Making pallets, very physical, I am in great shape :)
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:33 AM
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Lol, or maybe you should come take a hit, "yolo".
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:24 AM
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Yeah, maybe I am going a little overboard here, sorry. I personally do not like what that phrase has done to some people, and yeah you're probably not one of those people and you probably mean it in the best way possible. It just makes me so angry, I hate it.
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:17 AM
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Man, I see 12 year old kids smoking because YOLO, I see them picking on each other and bullying because YOLO, that phrase has been ruining a generation giving them this sense that they don't need to give a fuck about life, or other people or their parents or going to jail or their own health and safety just because they're going to die one day. That phrase is fucking garbage, and doesn't encourage any sort of positivity. Instead of doing things because you don't give a fuck get self esteem and c…
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:10 AM
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Wow, way to take an analogy literally.
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:02 AM
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No, it's a stupid phrase invented by a shitty hip-hop artist that stupid teenagers use to justify their stupid actions. Do things because they make you happy and feel good, not because you're gonna die so fuck it.
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:01 AM
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Dude, I got worked up the first few times this happened, then another girl decided to not have any interest with me after I K-closed, it might sting but the best thing you can do is just brush it the fuck off as fast as humanly possible. "There are more women on this planet than you will ever be able to game in your entire life", someone on this sub said that and its so true. Too many to worry about a few.
/r/seduction02/04/14 03:46 AM
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Well honestly, very important. But be casual, go buy some casual clothes. H&M sells 7$ plain black, white, brown, blue, grey T shirts, and 14$ pullovers, easy, they also sell 35$ jeans that come in many styles, buy a dark blue pair, and black pair. Boom now you have a wardrobe for any occasion, you wont look over dressed, and you won't need to worry so much about finding a nice outfit.
/r/seduction02/04/14 03:44 AM
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Fuck that, so since I'm only living once should i go do some heroin wouldn't want to miss on any experience. How about do shit because it makes you happy and not because you will die.
/r/seduction02/04/14 03:41 AM
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Check your inbox!
/r/seduction02/04/14 03:27 AM
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Check out my other post that I posted in /r/fitness, some pics in there. But remember, beauty is subjective.
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:53 PM
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Thanks buddy, I didn't have as much fun with her as I could have anyways, I'm 100% sure other girls would be a better match for me. I'm curious about how you can properly respond when an ex tells you she was cheating on you/doing stuff with other guys soon after the breakup Well I handled it very poorly, seeing as how I lost all my validation + lost a "good" friend and now made an enemy of a person I loved for most of my teenage years. In hindsight there's two ways I could have handled it to be …
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:36 AM
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Okay, no more measurements about myself just the best me I can be. It is really hard to take in that the first and only person to ever really care about me doesn't actually, I took much of my pride in having an attractive girl who loved me so much and now that's gone. It feels like I have no reassurance; should I even need it?
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:13 AM
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Shes 22, and other than that I couldn't give any more info, how did it come up with a 50% herpes chance?
/r/seduction10/03/14 02:22 AM
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It said the girl I was seeing had a 50% chance of having herpes? This is dumb.
/r/seduction08/03/14 06:10 PM
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Kinda just sounds like you're bragging. This isn't the place man.
/r/seduction08/03/14 05:43 AM
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Do you have a vehicle?
/r/seduction08/03/14 12:47 AM
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I'm in Canada, legal drinking!
/r/seduction05/03/14 12:22 AM
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Oh it's not my friends at all, random parties, people I don't know very well and acquaintances. And I am 19. I try not to surround myself with these people but I cant always. It seems like these people are really shallow and insecure themselves and that makes them feel better.
/r/seduction04/03/14 12:18 AM
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Dude thats awesome, something that I've been looking for. It's a bit pricey at 25$ but I think it's worth it. Thanks bro!
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:52 AM
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Not really, this might be because I too have sweaty hands but when I meet a girl and she has clammy hands it totally puts me at ease and reminds me that not everyone is perfect. As for those people with regular desert hands I can't speak for though.
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:47 AM
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Well I actually am very broke at the moment. I can't afford it :/
/r/seduction27/02/14 05:53 PM
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Hmmm, what do you mean by this? I get a lot of "the man needs to take the initiative" in this sub. She reciprocated everything I did that night and seemed to enjoy having my physical attention.
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:30 PM
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Okay, I guess I'm not crazy.
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:02 PM
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It's actually quite amazing, I wasn't really aware of how many steps there were. 9/10.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:57 PM
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I actually already downloaded the pdf and am reading it at the moment.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:40 PM
1

Self diagnosis I assume.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:11 PM
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Okay, okay. I guess this seemed like one of those things that you wouldn't ask for, like a kiss; or maybe I just watch too many movies.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:06 PM
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Probably shouldn't jump from her neck straight to her pussy. If only it was that easy.
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:50 PM
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i just don't know if i should bother to reply Dude listen to yourself. Of course you want to reply and of course you want to see her again, it's clear that you're beating yourself up inside by assuming she doesn't want to talk to you and doesn't like you, STOP THAT! People always say to get women be confident right? What this actually means isn't just walking over to her and not being anxious but a bit deeper down it means you have to tell yourself that you can get with women, they WANT to talk …
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:45 PM
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Seems a little needy, maybe you should have waited a bit longer for a reply rather than accusing her of not being interested. Sometimes I wouldn't text back girls for a few days, not because I wasn't interested but rather the fact that I was busy with life and cant be checking my phone so much.
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:33 PM
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Asking for sex, that seems odd. Do people actually do this?
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:26 PM
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Well I have to say I just tried this on a girl I used to have a crush on (over facebook) and out of the blue when I said I was going to bed she sent me a picture of herself in her underwear. Good advice.
/r/seduction18/02/14 11:57 PM
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I guess he thinks me working on self love is my attempt at faking a self esteem :) It's true I did have little self esteem, but I've improved so much in the last 2 months.
/r/seduction14/02/14 07:40 AM
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So I attract beautiful men? Not last time I checked.
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:08 AM
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If you act happy (and you really have to put effort into enjoying your life) then you'll connect more, and they'll know they can be with you and still feel good. That's good advice in general, have and will be putting more effort into it. Thanks man.
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:07 AM
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When you say criticism, remember it's supposed to be constructive, without that it's just pointing out what you already know. First off you sound like someone who was having the same problems as me, and I may not be 100% right about this because some people are just a little more quiet than others, but what it comes off as in your post is low self esteem. Learn to love yourself, everything about you is exactly the way you made it. If there is something about yourself that you think should go, th…
/r/seduction05/02/14 09:42 AM
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These aren't the kind of things people want racing around in their head, that's how you lose confidence and let them get to you. I don't believe this is a good thing to ask.
/r/seduction05/02/14 09:23 AM
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Please edit out the "Le". If you're bringing home girls you shouldn't speak like you're 13!
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:46 PM
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I find it hard to come up with things to say when first approaching women, everyone tells me "talk about anything" "its about the confidence", I have the confidence, but it doesn't mean shit when I'm standing there not knowing what to say and there being an awkward silence. I don't want specifics, but what kinds of things should I talk about, how could I find ideas of things to talk about?
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:53 AM
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Well I didn't mention, but I had talked to her a day earlier when I went to buy greek food and was talking to her about her ear rings, so we already knew each other.
/r/seduction06/01/14 07:48 PM
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Thanks for the advice man, and thank you for the congratulations :) I would usually not use the word creepy, but at the moment, I practically had to sneak up from behind because she was in a corner looking at the Wii-Us. Would there be a better way to say "I'm not trying to creep you out, since at this very moment this seems creepy"? Or maybe should I just forget it altogether, creepy or not?
/r/seduction06/01/14 08:19 AM
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How i was dressed? Super casual, since I've been working on self improvement I bought a silver chain, and 7 plain ass T shirts as well as a long sleeved shirt, and two pairs of slim fit jeans. I was dressed in only some black slim jeans, and a dark blue long sleeved shirt from American Eagle and my silver chain. And the greek food girl, I know. She seemed very flattered but all-in-all people have boyfriends, it happens.
/r/seduction06/01/14 06:08 AM
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Not really, usually takes close to an hour. Plus I don't own a vehicle until February.
/r/seduction03/01/14 06:08 PM
1

Well actually I lied, I turn 19 is 3 days. I was legal in Alberta though.
/r/seduction03/01/14 06:06 PM
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Thanks man, having just turned 19, which is legal age, I feel like I'm just starting my adventure. I have a few friends at work that'd probably take me to a club. I'm definitely going to try UFV campus.
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:43 AM
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I live in Abbotsford, MUCH smaller than Van :(
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:41 AM
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Usually sex comes after knowing if she likes me or not, haha.
/r/seduction30/12/13 11:58 PM
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Thanks man, I suppose assuming attraction would also be a confidence boost.
/r/seduction30/12/13 10:19 PM
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