Why does it seem that I only attract girls with lower self esteem?

Poeticstuff · 2014-02-13T06:58:53+00:00

In my experience, girls with low esteem get attached quicker than other girls. Nothing wrong with it, but it can make for sticky situations if you're not careful.

Those girls probably flock to you because you project an empathetic and caring nature that makes them feel appreciated. You just have to get well versed in knowing when to see the red flags sooner so you can know not to take the relationship too far, resulting in somebody getting hurt. But speaking from experience, it's going to happen. Just distance yourself and move on, and trust that they will too.

As for the other girls, who knows. I just broke the pattern a few nights ago and I think it's because she thinks I'm fun. High self esteem girls are generally happy, and will want to know that you're a happy guy too. If you act happy (and you really have to put effort into enjoying your life) then you'll connect more, and they'll know they can be with you and still feel good.

I don't know, complete stab in the dark, but it's what I got.

FlashGordonn · 2014-02-13T21:00:40+00:00

Girls with lower self esteem want validation. They'll flock to a wide range of guys.

thehigheststatusmale · 2014-02-13T06:57:34+00:00

You attract what you are.

MrADHD · 2014-02-13T11:56:36+00:00

High status is right I used to be the same. Low se chicks are easy and you "attract them" because you subtle for them fast. Y afraid to put yourself out there for the higher status women. Why Bc your low se too. And that comment you made after his saying you attract what you are proves it

Don't be ashamed of where you are face facts and build.

Title	Why does it seem that I only attract girls with lower self esteem?
Author	I_am_not_funny_
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Date	February 13, 2014 6:26 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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