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1

when your balls are bouncing off her butthole.
/r/seduction27/11/15 08:54 PM
4

I don't think NintendoPilot was trying to be confrontational; he (like me) was just asking for more details on the progression. Hey I'll try anything that improves my chances of getting my dick in some chick's mouth.
/r/seduction06/11/15 08:41 PM
9

"girls as cute as you deserve to have two"
/r/seduction26/10/15 08:21 PM
1

a condom won't stop crabs. You'll need a condom and a Hazmat suit.
/r/seduction20/10/15 08:23 PM
-3

idk; this sub is about pick-up and other than asking for her number, it seems like she picked you up.
/r/seduction10/08/15 08:09 PM
0

not that funny
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:46 PM
3

this is a bad FR, you should be the first to ask
/r/seduction04/04/15 10:56 PM
1

It's up to you man, how can anyone advise you? You are either OK keeping it casual in which case you accept you are doing tag-team banging of the same woman with a bunch of other dudes, or your not OK with this. If you're not OK with this, then either eject or see if she wants to make it exclusive.
/r/seduction02/04/15 07:49 PM
1

No one in the mall will give a shit that you're asking 5 girls for directions to similar stores. Rather than asking for directions which is somewhat difficult to progress from, go into a clothing store where a girl is shopping and start with something like: "my sister is about your age and size and I need to buy her a birthday gift, she said she wanted a sweater/pair or jeans/whatever can I get your opinion on this?" This has a lot more potential than "go down there and turn left at the escalato…
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:09 PM
3

things that make you go "hhmmmmm"
/r/seduction02/04/15 03:00 PM
4

I'm thinking of taking her rock climbing keeping things fun suggestions thoughts ? yea, those harnesses they make you wear make your package look massive
/r/seduction01/04/15 07:11 PM
5

congrats man!
/r/seduction01/04/15 07:04 PM
0

I guess maybe you were not meant for seduction in the first place and I am wrong. Absolutely nothing wrong with getting the urge to exercise and acting on it for you and I; but this is not who my boss was.
/r/seduction14/03/15 12:59 AM
-1

but seriously...I had a boss who said he sometimes got the urge to exercise, and when it happened he'd lay down until the feeling passed. Like him, you are having these temporary feelings that are out of character with who you really are; so just keep banging chicks until the feeling passes, and it will!! If you continue to let your mind entertain these ridiculous ideas, you may go insane.
/r/seduction13/03/15 07:59 PM
-1

I don't know; try /r/lostmynards or /r/readytodie
/r/seduction13/03/15 06:45 PM
2

IMHO the coffee shop date is the first step in "slow game". Slow game gets a lot of down-votes here, so take that for what it's worth. Personally I would try to relocate before escalating (bar, her place, your place, or even a walk) once she cooperated with the relocate, then I would escalate with more confidence (but maybe that's just me)
/r/seduction13/03/15 06:39 PM
1

don't fucking do this; its like fishing with dynamite; it should be illegal.
/r/seduction13/03/15 06:29 PM
1

this is not a playlist, so unless you are going to seduce, escalate and bang her in 4 minutes, 30 seconds (kudos to you if you can actually accomplish this) this is NOT "Enough said".
/r/seduction13/03/15 06:25 PM
2

the cons are simple logistical issues; use a gym that has a shower; eat a few hours before the gym or take her out for food right after. I'm pretty sure my wood is harder and my loads are bigger after working out. I'm also sure I come across way more alpha to them after working out (with or without a shower)
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:39 PM
0

wrong sub buddy; this one's about getting laid!
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:33 PM
6

I agree with this 100%!! Either ignore him or don't; be his friend or don't. Just keep putting the meat to your girl and if shit happens its on her; not you; not him. Cheaters will cheat; move on.
/r/seduction13/03/15 05:31 PM
1

IMHO a woman uses shit-tests to make a rapid determination about a guy she doesn't know that well (i.e. just met). IMHO your current girl is much more mature/secure than the ones you are comparing her to.
/r/seduction12/03/15 06:17 PM
1

So she initiated while you were checking email?......"hey, I'm busy checking my email, so unless you have an 'in-box' leave me alone" re girl#1: so you just banged her in the hall and told her to go home?
/r/seduction12/03/15 05:57 PM
2

she is only out of your league if you tell yourself she is. But it sounds like you are getting oneitis. Promise yourself you will ask 5 other girls out before you contact this one again.
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:20 PM
2

I think we need a few more details on interaction with girl #2; i.e. between "checking emails" and "had her in my bed and closed" Also did you change/wash your sheets between Thursday and Friday night?
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:16 PM
1

It's all good
/r/seduction12/03/15 12:20 AM
14

well said
/r/seduction11/03/15 06:12 PM
1

This!! I was going to be a bit more explicit: nothing "got you laid"; you fucked her brains out, she enjoyed it; next.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:56 PM
1

At least she didn't make you wear a domer just for a HJ.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:48 PM
1

Yup, any improvement is great!! More follow-up when you start getting the BJs.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:44 PM
1

I guess that's the problem when she's doing the aiming; better pulling out for the money shot at the end of a BJ......or just leaving it in.
/r/seduction11/03/15 05:41 PM
1

awesome man; did you blow your spooge all over her face and tits?
/r/seduction10/03/15 08:20 PM
1

she ended up finishing and returning the favor for me more details required here.
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:32 PM
2

but I did praise her skills. What skills are you referring to? Something like "I hear you give great head" would have made your intentions clear.
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:22 PM
1

"You can make it up to me by speaking directly into my microphone"
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:18 PM
4

Would this be a viable pretext to meet under? yes Since it's not really relevant to the one we first met in? shows your interest in dancing extends to the horizontal mombo...make your intentions clear.
/r/seduction10/03/15 07:01 PM
1

2 comments: don't shit where you eat. You may think working in a nail salon gives you an advantage, but most people(women) will think a guy working in a nail salon is gayer than a bucket of rainbows.
/r/seduction09/03/15 08:34 PM
1

what does that mean?
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:41 PM
1

I'd go for the blow-job. Lets her know you respect her enough to wait for date 3 for the f-close. And if she doesn't swallow, you can cut your losses right there.
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:24 PM
2

any volunteers wanna give this a try for scientific purposes?
/r/seduction04/03/15 05:51 PM
1

follow-up??
/r/seduction02/03/15 04:47 PM
1

You didn't say what happened immediately after she stuck her tongue down your throat. If you "played it cool" instead of sticking something down her throat, I think you fucked-up hard, should learn from the mistake and move on.
/r/seduction25/02/15 09:06 PM
1

this!!
/r/seduction25/02/15 09:01 PM
2

that's right! ISOLATE and ESCALATE....or masturbate.
/r/seduction25/02/15 08:56 PM
1

sound straight forward; good for you! My only suggestion would be to hold one of those plastic wrapped English cucumbers in your hand so she knows you're pro protection. You could hold it in your left hand, or you could hold it in your right hand when you extend it for a shake. Her reaction from that would tell you volumes.
/r/seduction24/02/15 06:23 PM
1

what the F does this have to do with seduction?
/r/seduction24/02/15 06:12 PM
3

I think I can be a bit more optimistic than the other responders. Not saying I disagree with them, but I have seen two separate situations where the guy was deep in the friend-zone with what appeared to be no hope. Yet within 48 hours of the guy going out on a date with another girl, Miss Friendzone was riding his Johnson like there was no tomorrow. In one of those cases I set the guy up with "date girl" (not expecting Miss. Friendzone to do a 180). I was keeping her on the back burner while I p…
/r/seduction24/02/15 06:04 PM
1

Why not put fresh gas in before the joy ride? Fuel stabilizer is expensive and lowers the volatility of the fuel.
/r/seduction19/02/15 07:48 PM
1

haha
/r/seduction19/02/15 06:26 PM
1

Right after sex. Why, isn't that like putting gas in your car after you have smashed it up.
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:12 PM
3

FWB?
/r/seduction18/02/15 04:07 PM
1

Just put yourself out there; tell all the girls in your vicinity how other women say your man juice tastes a lot better now you got new artificial nards.
/r/seduction16/02/15 12:31 AM
1

I agree you don't want to her to look back and think "he got me drunk and took advantage (or worse)" But a bit of alcohol for lubrication will help. I agree with the other advise you received in this thread, don't do it verbally
/r/seduction13/02/15 08:32 PM
1

why not give her face for a few minutes? you don't mean plant your face in the mess you just made do you?
/r/seduction29/01/15 07:12 PM
1

Sorry you live in Norway bro. IMHO moving immediately from approach in a high school caf to isolation is a bit ambitious. Maybe an intermediate step is sitting together in the caf?
/r/seduction28/01/15 06:13 PM
-1

"Let's be adventurous and try B; if it sucks or smells too much like my last girlfriend, we can do C next time"
/r/seduction28/01/15 06:01 PM
1

This!!
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:54 PM
0

Kissing a girl's ass kills attraction. Well it depend how close to the hole you are, and how much tongue you are using.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:54 PM
1

congrats man; and not to try and take wind out of your sails, but based on the fact its only Wednesday and where you got these dates from (Tinder and OKQ) I would say you should expect one or two of them to cancel or flake. Tinder in particular works best for "tonite". In my experience future planning off Tinder has a low percentage. Girls use Tinder because they're horny right now. After three days of flicking the bean they get second thoughts.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:46 PM
1

So fucking what!!!! - get out of your head!!! I know I'm going to sound like an asshole, but IMHO any girl that sits in a bar waiting for a guy to hit on her and take her home for meaningless sex has issues, who cares! If you walk down the street and see a $20 on the ground do you lose sleep wondering if the one who lost it is starving? If something good is presenting itself to you just pick it up and/or stick your dick in it; stop thinking and just do it.
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:37 PM
5

way more often guys error on the side of "moving too slow" than too fast. Once you have her attention just engage her in convo; but not while the prof is lecturing lol. As long as the convo moves along well; simply say something like: " hey we need to continue this, let's go for a coffee after class/school"
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:29 PM
1

I guess they need to do something to get their population up
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:27 PM
6

I like your thinking: "fuck first; ask questions (over coffee) later"
/r/seduction26/01/15 09:15 PM
3

please post a follow-up
/r/seduction26/01/15 08:07 PM
1

OK, if you are looking for an explanation here is my theory: Once a girl has been in HS a year or so she knows the "lay of the land" and she has her old primary school friends to fall back on and beyond that her family to fall back on if necessary. She is confident in trying to improve here social status by getting in with the "cool" crowd; whatever that means in the context of her HS. All of a sudden she is thrown into UNI and she has nothing, and to some extent she is scared. Now it's not an i…
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:59 PM
1

you've never banged any women older than 25 in the backseat of a car?
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:48 PM
1

agreed, but again I reiterate, there is very little seduction in this FR, you saw she was a 3rd wheel; you introduced yourself; you touched her knee; she decided she wanted the/your D; you got laid <EOF>
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:46 PM
0

If she wants it, she will make it happen. true, but if she wants it, it's not seduction
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:51 PM
-1

"yea, my dick's been growing about an inch a year since I was your age, I guess it too big for you now."
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:40 PM
1

what does that mean?
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:33 PM
3

I remember when I stated UNI; it was a game changer. Two guys I knew from HS that were considered total dweebs is HS were social dynamos in the first semester at UNI. Others, usually the popular HS jock types, didn't do so well at UNI. My advice: be sociable, get out there and be friendly.
/r/seduction21/01/15 08:28 PM
1

anything that gets her used to the idea of using her mouth is bonus.
/r/seduction21/01/15 05:48 PM
2

Assuming she doesn't live with her parents, this is a no-brainer..... Pick her up!!!! You've already started the date at her place so there nothing weird about ending it there.
/r/seduction21/01/15 05:30 PM
1

I think this is a bit "high risk"; some, like me, will think it is stupid. Better to stick to something tried and true like "Jerry Maguire" or "The Notebook". The Notebook may make you have to get up and hurl; but if the objective is to get her lubed, it's a solid choice.
/r/seduction21/01/15 05:21 PM
0

There are cruises and then there are cruises. Unless your dad specifically booked a “singles” or “party” type of cruise, be prepared to be massively disappointed. The majority of these ships are filled with people who will make your dad seem young. If the cruise does not have a theme and it’s not Carnival then maybe it’s just a good time to bond with your dad, eating your face off and playing bingo.
/r/seduction20/01/15 07:31 PM
1

Now that makes sense! i.e. you should totally forget about her until such time as you have reason to believe she may be available. What made no fucking sense is the idea that disappearing from her life for a couple of months will make her realize how much she misses you and that as soon as you re-appear she will jump from her current boyfriend’s bed into yours.
/r/seduction20/01/15 06:25 PM
1

does that make sense? no
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:22 PM
1

did he end up aceing her?
/r/seduction16/01/15 07:58 PM
1

ya cars are smallish these day so full-on intercourse is a challenge, but there's nothing I love better than getting a BJ in the car. Especially in a beach parking lot; I can watch all the bikinis going by while some ONS works my wiener.
/r/seduction16/01/15 06:50 PM
2

Very well written report
/r/seduction16/01/15 06:43 PM
2

search on "apocalyptic opener"
/r/seduction16/01/15 06:26 PM
2

ya really; I thought this was going to be something useful like: "women in marketing give better head than the ones in finance" which could save us all a lot of time after grad.
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:34 PM
1

This isn't a real date, that's why I just gave you a blow job instead of letting you fuck me. hhmmmm
/r/seduction13/01/15 08:22 PM
1

I think we are in agreement i.e. don't just randomly pick a cruise.
/r/seduction13/01/15 07:33 PM
2

very very important...must be a singles cruise (probably Carnival). If you just randomly pick a cruise you will end up with nothing but old couples..and I mean OLD.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:36 PM
1

don't miss the subtlety in SalsaR's reply "the day after" NOT "the day she returns"; I would go so far as saying the day after that.
/r/seduction23/12/14 08:52 PM
124

I think the consensus on here, and I agree with it, is that hitting on employees at their place of work is lame.
/r/seduction23/12/14 08:41 PM
1

one solidly in the bush is worth 2 iffy handys
/r/seduction17/12/14 12:05 AM
2

Flirting is like a muscle if you don't "stretch" it you're gonna pull something. awesome!!
/r/seduction15/12/14 08:49 PM
1

It's never a bad thing for your target to see another woman show interest in you. If I were you (but this is just me), I'd bang the one that's making it easy for you, and then pursue the ones you really want another time. I'm not saying say "yes" to every swamp donkey that comes along, but leaving with someone reasonably attractive who is not your target may actually help you land your target later.
/r/seduction15/12/14 07:25 PM
2

I think I’m somewhere between the extreme red-pill beliefs of neo and the somewhat idealistic beliefs of allnose. (I think your point would have been made much more credibly had you not called OP and A-hole). The reason I chimed in here is because I’m significantly older than most on here, and I can attest that the ridonculous overuse of the word “creepy” is relatively new phenomenon. Back when I was in my prime PU days, not only was the word not used in its present day context, but there was re…
/r/seduction12/12/14 08:22 PM
2

not sure about the details, steel mill etc.; but yes
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:22 PM
3

What does He have to do with it?
/r/seduction12/12/14 06:13 PM
1

so what are you going to do?
/r/seduction11/12/14 10:57 PM
2

yes, one possibility is that she's looking for a relationship (and on some levels she probably is), but I think she would have dropped enough hints that you would know if this was the blocking issue by now. Have you considered this is just some LMR you need to push through? And the fact you haven't yet means you are failing a quazi shit test? Not trying to sound rapey here, no means no, but when she said "Something's not right.." what was your response? was it something like "yea, you're right, …
/r/seduction10/12/14 08:24 PM
2

The interesting thing is that a women's fantasies of a man are not of what the man is, but of what the man will become. They do not love you for who you are, but for the spark inside that will drive you on to greatness. This is one of the most interesting and thought provoking things I have read on this sub. Do you have a reference for it? Or is it a conclusion you have drawn yourself? I do agree with Jesper however that your examples that follow it are weak.
/r/seduction04/12/14 04:10 PM
5

it's awesome to have a girl really open up emotionally, get turned on, and return the energy to you. In the form of a BJ
/r/seduction04/12/14 03:42 PM
2

this is classic AA; no different than a million others; lots of advise on this sub.
/r/seduction04/12/14 03:39 PM
1

For a newbie, giving a straight up complement may seem like a good idea, but it is frequently a conversation ender. You should always be thinking “is what I am going to say make it easy for her to respond”. I like to start with questions, but try to escalate to a regular conversation. If it gets to “interview mode” with her replying with short answers, it’s time to move on.
/r/seduction01/12/14 06:03 PM
1

Never, ever, talk about it in those terms before you've actually nailed her. Make references to sex in general, OK, talk about fantasies or past exploits, OK. But anything that smacks of "so are we going to fuck tonight?" or even "I'll let you decide if we're fucking tonight" is bad news. You may as well tell her you have a one inch pecker.
/r/seduction29/11/14 08:37 PM
1

I would agree except for one thing: It works!
/r/seduction29/11/14 08:24 PM
2

did you read the same FR that I just read?
/r/seduction29/11/14 08:20 PM
1

It's more challenging and unexpected. Then why not go with: “who the fuck are you?” Just like that song by The Who.
/r/seduction26/11/14 04:42 PM
1

While I agree that this is going well, I think there might have been a shit test aspect to it…she is challenging him on the fact he complemented her looks and not her personality. I would have gone with “not sure if it was your personality shining through or your nipples popping through that I noticed most”
/r/seduction25/11/14 05:13 PM
3

Don’t blame CB!! Everyone’s responsible for getting their own pecker wet. IMHO it was the way you reacted to CB that caused you to lose her. Should have bounced out of there a lot earlier. You didn't mention if her place was an option? If not, back to the pub, more kino and maybe a quick BJ in the loo.
/r/seduction25/11/14 04:55 PM
9

take a cab
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:57 PM
1

this!
/r/seduction21/11/14 06:55 PM
2

I told her to bring PJs this is fucking brilliant on a number of levels (I’m definitely going to use it): Allows you to gauge her initial reaction to the suggestion. Lets her know that after dinner your intention is to get comfy and chill; not go out to a bar/club and not be her dancing monkey. Unless she totally ignores the suggestion, should lead to sexual convo Subliminally set her thinking about spending the night. Allows you to gauge her intention by what she brings as PJs.
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:30 PM
3

You got some great advice here, but I wouldn't over-think it. You invited her to dinner at your place; she knows she’s coming for wiener. Unless when you said “old friend” you mean deep in the friend-zone.
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:05 PM
5

just curious, you have a 6 YO daughter and you refer to your targets as "girls"; are we talking a significant age difference here?
/r/seduction20/11/14 02:56 PM
5

personally I prefer day-game anyway; why not try that on the nights the bars are empty.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:10 PM
20

I’m confused, bars are not heated where you live?
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:01 PM
2

She told me I have to move on and that there are a million girls out there So you have already confessed love for her, and this was her reply? You are fucked; move on. Oh and I hooked up with her friend that she brought to my school... Unless this friend tells your target how awesome you are in the sack, you are totally fucked, move on. Can I still get her back It's possible, try re-connecting with her in about 20 years, in the mean time move on.
/r/seduction19/11/14 06:57 PM
1

yea, I've been called a creep; it was slightly indirect (one girl talking to another, but definately in my presence). I wonder if the girls that get frustrated that they are not getting approached are the same ones that pull this crap.
/r/seduction17/11/14 07:52 PM
1

Also, is calling girls aged 21-26 a good idea? Not if you are 83
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:58 PM
5

Seems like you are trying to run before you can walk; go there with only one objective: have fun.
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:31 PM
-2

If we assume it is by the same people who up-voted "Woosh" then I guess it's because they didn't get the context.
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:49 PM
2

Need way more detail…are you saying you can’t bring yourself to try? Or you have tried and gotten blocked? If the second, then describe the situations in detail. Are you saying you don’t even try until after the 3rd or 4th? In this case she may have friend-zoned you. Again, need way more detail.
/r/seduction14/11/14 04:46 PM
2

"of course I like you....on the end of my dick"
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:33 PM
2

It sounds like you did great up until the point when you knew you should kiss but didn’t. When I read “You can come to my place..” I knew you were toast. When the girl has to take control to move the date along you may as well bend over and kiss your ass goodbye. From her perspective she was probably excitedly looking forward to a hot date based on the build-up and then was massively disappointed with the execution. The good news for you is that most guys have difficulty getting girls out on a d…
/r/seduction14/11/14 02:30 PM
2

As a guy I use soap as a FAP lube all the time; it works great! So ya, a lot of us would think it would work there too; until a HB tells us otherwise.
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:14 PM
1

"thanks, it covers my junk"
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:12 AM
0

I'm trying to take an extended holiday from LTRs.
/r/seduction13/11/14 09:52 PM
1

You're thinking to hard. You are right!
/r/seduction13/11/14 07:58 PM
1

just to get her to think you're boyfriend material. probably end-up friend-zone material
/r/seduction13/11/14 06:51 PM
1

Ahhh, that makes sense; at least to the extent we are talking about women.
/r/seduction13/11/14 06:48 PM
1

There were a few replies that suggested “a shower together”. In my experience once you are naked and in the shower together things move quickly from there such that getting her back on a bed so I can go down on her becomes moot. I an ONS situation my mind has moved on to “how do I eject or get her to eject”. Maybe I’m impatient and need to slow things down.
/r/seduction13/11/14 05:00 PM
-2

your first answer said "BEFORE things get sexual", so now I'm confused. I didn't say I was making out with her for 4 hours; just that she has been at the club stinking up the hooha for the last 4+ hours.
/r/seduction13/11/14 04:16 PM
-17

If you think you smell good after 4+ hours of dancing and she'll enjoy that taste, you better rethink things... I was not suggesting anything like that…my question was about me going south NOT her going south. So my usual MO is not to initiate, or even hint at, any oral. But as I get older I find that if a woman wants to please me this is usually the direction she goes in.
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:53 PM
-3

This was a great answer and I think it would work great on a second or third date. But, as guys, we are supposed to come across as “outcome independent”. If I suggest something like that BEFORE the physical seduction haven’t I blown (pardon the pun) the “I’m just here for fun; I don’t care if we have sex” facade?
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:46 PM
1

This flies in the face of a lot advise to the contrary on this sub. Josh Sway comes to mind but there were others. Prevailing wisdom here has been: “women commit after getting the D; best to get it into them ASAP”
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:30 PM
1

the girls will come automatically. you mean they don't even need the D?
/r/seduction12/11/14 07:33 PM
1

I'm glad you took it as a compliment, but the other part of what I was trying to say is that I don't think you approach is solid: yes it shows confidence which is great, but a simple "hey" shows lack of imagination, and if you follow that up with silence expecting her to swoon, it may come across as arrogant. It worked for you, but I wonder if it would have worked for an average looking guy?
/r/seduction11/11/14 07:42 PM
1

I'm a 23M …. I'm 6' 1" and I weight 185 lbs with approx 13% body fat … and bodybuilding enthusiast To be honest I think this had way more to do with your success than the approach. My suspicion is that when you took her by surprise with a simple “hey” she was thinking “how do I get out of this” until she noticed how good looking you are.
/r/seduction11/11/14 02:55 PM
3

My goal is to get a ONS, or ... Change your goal!! Your goal should be to have as much fun as possible. Chicks have an amazing ESP for figuring guys who are just looking for a quick hit, and unless you are just looking for cum dumpster, this rarely works in your favor.
/r/seduction11/11/14 02:12 PM
23

sometimes when a girl calls you a player she is actually asking: "so when's my turn".
/r/seduction09/11/14 07:39 PM
2

variation on a theme... "I bet you $5 I can touch your boob without taking your bra or even your top off" If she takes the bet (a little alcohol helps here) you feel her tits on top of her clothes for as long as she'll let you and hand over the fin.
/r/seduction31/07/14 08:02 PM
1

It sounds like this happened once. Thousands of guys spend thousands of hours perfecting these techniques, the fact that you ended up in a ONS when your guard was down doesn't make you easy. "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me"
/r/seduction31/07/14 01:47 PM
1

Seriously? You learned this from RSD?
/r/seduction30/07/14 05:05 PM
4

Greater Toronto Area.
/r/seduction14/07/14 04:03 PM
1

I suggest you just lost context
/r/seduction08/07/14 06:19 PM
1

you should have said that up front. I think he did: "So I have one of my kids today."
/r/seduction07/07/14 08:30 PM
1

It's not clear to me whether you are saying the overlap is large or small? I think it is huge, thinking quickly on your feet to come up with the best thing to say to keep the interaction escalating (while working within a framework of rules and guidelines) is something both improv and PUA have in common and I can't think of anything else that is so similar.
/r/seduction07/07/14 08:28 PM
2

why didn't you take a serious run at her friend? you had awesome social proof
/r/seduction03/07/14 12:05 AM
1

thanks
/r/seduction01/07/14 12:58 PM
1

You've gotten the "I've got a bf" even after F-ing them a few times? And this has happened to you more than once? I think this is more interesting than the original post
/r/seduction26/06/14 08:47 PM
1

It might have been a shit test; but it might also have been her venting frustration that op wasn't pounding her yet. "It's 5am, why are we still chatting in the car, I need some D!!"
/r/seduction26/06/14 08:30 PM
1

I have always believed that approaching from behind is bad form. On the other hand I hate it when they see you coming, and you get a bad vibe even before you have opened you mouth, so the idea of "taking by surprise" has always had a bit of appeal for me. Could you elaborate a bit more, maybe with examples.
/r/seduction26/06/14 08:10 PM
1

Is collecting phone numbers always as far as you take it?
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:34 PM
1

Winging is a 2-person team. Was this one bad night of many great nights? You need to figure out a communication system and agree in advance what the rules of engagement are and what the rules for ejecting are and how to signal. He sounds a little selfish based on your account, but other than physically pushing you out of set; I don't see that he was deliberately trying to screw you over; and even then if he honestly thought they had bfs its hard to blame him. If you set some ground rules and he …
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:29 PM
2

OK, not so bad then. Just ask her out in a way that there is no doubt you are asking for a date, and then greet her with a hug or a kiss. On the date continually assume she is massively attracted to you no matter how awkward it feels or how much your brain is telling you otherwise. If at the end of the date she invites you inside; you tell yourself she invited me up for a steamy makeout session that could end well, and act accordingly.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:12 PM
1

It sounds to me like you have some solid plans to improve things; just follow-through and I'm sure you'll do great!! In terms of "working out", there are some gyms that are more conducive to meeting people than others (eg. some have an apres work-out juice bar). If the one your at isn't working for you switch.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:01 PM
1

I agree, don't be down on yourself for not approaching in this context. I don't know the logistics in that particular gym, but next time, maybe approach on the way out, after you both showered
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:32 PM
1

She invited me inside. And then what happened??? You said "no" to that and you think you'll get another shot? There are some girls that are kinda turned-on by awkward shy guys, but I think you deep in the friend-zone.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:24 PM
1

North Bay Ontario?
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:16 PM
14

I figure it's time to explore the canals Good forboding
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:14 PM
2

askseddit was the correct place and I think the advise you got there was bang on.
/r/seduction24/06/14 02:59 PM
1

Date 3?
/r/seduction24/06/14 02:55 PM
3

cool analogy, does that mean you stuck something in when you were 12?
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:30 PM
3

Good for you man; progress is progress!! Bars are good for pulling women and having fun, but I feel you need to get some friends and IMHO the best way for that is through some type of affinity. Do you have hobbies, interests, or sports that you play?
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:39 PM
2

In that case I agree with The_Hunt; you did nothing wrong
/r/seduction23/06/14 04:36 PM
1

My suspicion is that having sex was something more to this girl than just something "fun" to do, and probably felt you were deprecating it
/r/seduction23/06/14 03:26 PM
1

w.t.f. is a "latter"?
/r/seduction23/06/14 03:10 PM
1

really liked the article; made a lot of sense; except for one small point... Once you decide that you don't want to pursue (2 or more flakes) what wrong with leaving it in her court? I base my actions largely on the how the flake goes down; one extreme is getting stood-up, and the other extreme is the apologetic flake with a really credible excuse. From reading your article; you don't seem to suggest that this is even relevant?
/r/seduction16/06/14 08:56 PM
1

there is a ton of evidence that excessive jerking off fucks you up sexually. It may not be logical or explainable, but it is a reality. Maybe there is a "happy" middle ground between complete abstinence and excessive
/r/seduction16/06/14 07:37 PM
2

Montreal is considered the party capital of Canada; but how do you feel about 5 months of winter? You will love Montreal in late June, do you speak any French? Try visiting Montreal for a couple of weeks at the end of January.
/r/seduction10/06/14 06:50 PM
1

she started telling me about how she contracted strep throat you: from strep dick?
/r/seduction05/06/14 09:02 PM
1

what about going for the 20-24 YOs?
/r/seduction20/05/14 08:53 PM
1

After reading your post, I was left with two thoughts: So, what’s an example of the wrong kind of complement? “you look nice” – hmmm. You asked this girl out on a date, so I think she must assume there is some sort of attraction; and then she probably spent 45-90 minutes doing her hair, make-up and picking out the right clothes, to make herself look the best she can for you, and she’s supposed to swoon at “you look nice”? I guess I don’t understand women.
/r/seduction16/05/14 02:46 PM
3

Sounds like your problem is psychological; I would get help asap. But don’t single thread your life, keep up seduction in the mean time. If you are pulling from clubs and bars, and your equipment lets you down, just blame it on the alcohol and go down on her; I can almost guarantee she won’t be disappointed.
/r/seduction16/05/14 02:09 PM
1

That is interesting. My lab is not attention seeking from strangers, but he's definitely not aggressive. In my experience it is the boutique dogs that much more likely to have unpredictable dispositions. she swooned as I ran him, giving him commands maybe she was eagerly waiting to receive a couple of commands herself? Nothing better than ending a day in the country with a night at Pound Town
/r/seduction16/05/14 01:54 PM
1

and dildos. I assume the girls are too stupid to realize your machine needs an original to work from; in which case why would they need two?....oh wait, never mind.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:40 PM
1

and you find the pug more conducive to getting laid than one of your hunting dogs with its big tongue and powerful physique?
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:35 PM
2

even your link says "toy dog"; this is like "toy gun" vs. "real gun". If it gets you laid, more power to you, just don't take it hunting.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:20 PM
1

I have a Black Lab; but I would say anything that weighs more than 40 lbs, barks and has a snout is a real dog.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:18 PM
5

I think "Omg what are you doing here" was her way of saying "when can I get your D?". I wouldn't be that proud, I think that was a slam dunk. Pls provide follow-up
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:13 PM
1

yea, I'm sure this helps a lot with plausible deniability.
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:07 PM
1

call me stupid, but how is she supposed to know to follow? Particularly if you were in her car, or her car is in the same parking lot.
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:04 PM
4

that's a misnomer. Everyone loves Pugs. I hate pugs; real men have real dogs.
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:03 PM
1

"let's make a copy of my last gf's sex toy she left here"
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:01 PM
1

A friend of mine takes this one step further (btw I'm not recommending this) and throws it down like a challenge: "so ya wanna come back to my place to fool around or do you need to get home?"
/r/seduction15/05/14 01:50 PM
2

do something to take your mind off it; don't give your brain the opportunity to go there
/r/seduction15/05/14 01:13 PM
3

I agree and I would add: It depends on why: If she is really into you but is just shy then who cares, plough through; but if it is her way of showing ambivalence then "next" her.
/r/seduction15/05/14 01:10 PM
0

"didn't your mom tell you it was impolite to talk with your mouth full?"
/r/seduction14/05/14 07:38 PM
2

I’m in IT and I don’t get that. It has been suggested on this sub that you side-step this question by being cocky-funny even if you have an enviable job. Eg. ”Pirate astronaut”, “fingernail model”, or my favourite: “I’m a sex therapist to the severely mentally challenged”. I think the reasoning is to thwart gold-diggers.
/r/seduction14/05/14 02:06 PM
5

but do send her a text or leave a card on her desk apologizing for anything you may have done to cause her distress for legal reasons do not do this. she obviously re-wrote history in her mind; would not be the first time a woman has turned regret into a rape charge.
/r/seduction05/05/14 04:36 PM
3

"Well make me a sandwich"
/r/seduction02/05/14 07:54 PM
1

90% of the girls in malls near me are high-school; so if your too old for college girls....
/r/seduction28/04/14 08:57 PM
1

neat that's the best you can do? Sounds to me like the hunt was way better than the kill
/r/seduction22/04/14 06:54 PM
-1

I agree, when a girl out-escalates me, I kinda freeze for a moment or two. And to be honest, I find it a bit of a turn-off.
/r/seduction22/04/14 05:38 PM
2

listen to what she is saying; empathize; get her to talk about herself; draw her out; make her think the conversation is about her; I'm not an expert; it may be as simple as timing
/r/seduction18/04/14 10:30 PM
1

I think you missed what I was trying to say....I don't think your problem is attraction. But perhaps not building enough comfort before starting kino. And this could be just timing, check out the kino escalation ladder, and be sensitive to cues as to whether you are moving too fast
/r/seduction17/04/14 11:27 PM
1

I go with: "Wouldn't it be great if people could check each other out this easily?"
/r/seduction17/04/14 07:52 PM
1

OK, I’m no expert, and this is just a feeling I was left with, but here goes: You may have been starting the kino too soon. It’s been said seduction is really a three step process: attraction, building comfort, and then seduction. Kino is part of step 3, but if you haven’t accomplished steps 1 & 2, it’s just what girls call “creepy”.
/r/seduction17/04/14 06:40 PM
1

We are all. dogs
/r/seduction28/03/14 10:44 AM
2

friend of a friend? why not just ask the common friend??
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:45 PM
-3

Thread dismissed. you are an arrogant asshole
/r/seduction27/03/14 05:41 PM
1

but she does go out with a lot of guys; our older sister thinks she's loose
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:50 PM
1

We can agree to disagree; but a couple of points, she is very out-going and friendly, so she doesn't come across as an unapproachable “ice queen” (which is why she gets a lot of cold approaches). Also she would be very polite about it (should not have used the expression "blow off" previously) or maybe even give her number so the guy could “save face”. IMHO it is impossible to build comfort in a 2-4 minute exchange and if the girl has options, she would rather say yes to someone with whom comfor…
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:26 PM
2

I've only ever noticed 4 kinds of smells from women: perfume BO diet-enhanced sweat (like garlic) south of the border feminine smells I have never experienced: "none of the above; it's just the way she smells". Seems like I am missing something.
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:12 PM
1

as long as this took place all at once and it didn't end there, I think you did fine. if this took place over hours/days, then one of you needed to get to the point (meeting/fucking) sooner.
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:01 PM
4

And it doesn't tell you before day 5 NOT to get oneitis?
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:28 PM
4

move on
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:25 PM
1

Yea, I remember travelling around the mid-west and thinking girls were way friendlier than what I was used to (waitresses, store clerks etc.), was on vacation with family so wasn’t lookin’ to game. Had a chance to re-locate to Minneapolis; still kicking myself for not doing it; I think I live in the bitchiest city on the continent, Toronto. Is it just Wisconsin or is most of the mid-west this great?
/r/seduction26/03/14 07:06 PM
2

I like shaking things up a bit sometimes. right, but usually done by being provocative and cocky; I'll take your word on the NL thing; a lot of dykes in Holland. On her backing away, as I wrote, she sat right against me and put her arm in mine. If that wasn't a sign, I don't know what is. I get that, but did you do the slow approach or the triangle gaze? I'm just wondering if maybe she really wanted you to kiss her; but you inadvertently took her by surprise, and she would not have backed-away i…
/r/seduction26/03/14 05:39 PM
4

Really? To combat LMR? I have trouble seeing how this wouldn't come across as “thinly veiled needy”. Don’t get me wrong, I can see that it could work, but at the cost of your frame.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:30 PM
0

This is like a girl who says “I just want a guy who’ll respect me” BULLSHIT!!! They want to be ravished, and you want to conquer!!
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:12 PM
0

Should girls being playing a different game then guys? Yes, radically different; see fPUA Should I reduce my confidence level or just not put in effort? NO! Am I just dating the wrong guys? Likely; but the question to ask is why am I attracting the wrong guys.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:08 PM
2

I didn't reciprocate so much in that area, not because I was afraid of doing it, but because she was being physical anyway. Unless you tell us that you knew she was a dominatrix, this is the stupidest excuse I’ve heard. I think the banana thing was a bit weird/creepy: “please let me watch you put this phallic thing in your mouth” walk around aimlessly…. lots of indecision about what I'm going to do This sounded really bad; you gotta be thinking at least two moves ahead until the close. agreeing …
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:59 PM
1

I look all the girls in the we Smooth! I find this a bit high-risk; all you need is to get one or two bitches who don’t appreciate their education being interrupted by some guy who is not even hitting on them. I have a friend who, upon getting the I have a bf excuse, would have instantly said something like “Oh do any of you not have a bf?”. I winged for him once where he got totally rejected by one girl in a 2-set, immediately went for the friend (they were both 6s imho), and f-closed her the d…
/r/seduction25/03/14 01:48 PM
2

OK, I agree; but let's face it you ejected way too early last time.
/r/seduction21/03/14 08:33 PM
2

this suggestion is a bit risky, but given you may get to the point where you don't know how to proceed... Consider ending the date on a high-point rather than burning it to the ground. If things are going really well and you are quite sure she wants more, then consider something like "hey, I'm in this squash ladder and I'm scheduled to play at 6:15 tomorrow morning, I'd love to see you again, but I really gotta get some sleep; how about we meet-up at Starbucks Sunday after lunch for some coffee …
/r/seduction21/03/14 07:56 PM
2

I dont see too much wrong with this unless it comes across rehearsed. the: "So, tell me about what you like to do when you aren't killing people, sucking people's blood or stealing loot.." is fine if you say it with a shit-eating grin to let her know you are not really expecting a complete answer. and this is certainly not what I mean by an open-ended question. Don't fixate on the "random high-fives"; she may not be the "high-five" kind of girl in which case it would be awkward. Go with my sugge…
/r/seduction21/03/14 07:42 PM
1

You’ve gotten some good advice; some of this will overlap: Don’t open with random jokes, this looks desperate. You could try and open with a hug. Starting in interview mode is OK, you just need to transition it beyond that, ask open-ended questions like “tell me about your thesis”, if it’s hard to get more than a short answer then answer the question as if she had asked it, but end in another open ended question If she talks about herself most of the time, take this as a good sign, NOT a bad sig…
/r/seduction21/03/14 07:20 PM
2

Brilliant idea; shitty execution. After you pushed it a couple of times why not: “wow, then it must have been you; what’s your number?” And maybe to step it up after a couple of pushes say “ya, she totally eye-fucked me, but I had to take a leak”
/r/seduction21/03/14 05:40 PM
2

You don’t say whether this is part of a bigger context like a party or if it’s just the three of you. If it’s just the three of you then unless the two of them are already planning a 3-way, this is not going to be good
/r/seduction21/03/14 03:23 PM
2

Everyone has an internal desire for love, connection and physical intimacy; it would be just as easy to ask the question “why doesn’t sex happen way more often?”, even the ONS kind. I think the answer to that question is societal (but don’t ask me how it started). If you are familiar with the story “Mutiny on the Bounty”, one of the reasons they mutinied is that they found a paradise populated by people with no inhibitions, when their prior frame of reference was “Victorian” England.
/r/seduction20/03/14 02:24 PM
0

That’s another reason why I think she was into him from the beginning (i.e. no seduction); if she started out being neutral about the guys in her study group; I think she would see this as OP being a bully.
/r/seduction19/03/14 04:03 PM
1

ya, reminds me of Alpha Russian
/r/seduction19/03/14 03:55 PM
143

I just turned around and pointed at him and said 'not you.' I think this was risky; could have back-fired, but obviously it worked for you I'm also not convinced there was any seduction here; she may have been into you from the start.
/r/seduction18/03/14 07:11 PM
1

better, public service, some days I honestly try to keep busy, but its just fucking impossible.
/r/seduction18/03/14 06:49 PM
0

Fellow Torontonian here. (for the rest of you, Toronto does have an accurate rep as being one of the most unfriendly cities). I don’t disagree with ARealSocialIdiot, but my advice will be quite different. Lose weight. Get your doctor to write you a referral to Dr. Poon’s weight loss, this way it’s covered by OHIP. Follow it; you’ll lose weight fast and you’ll be preparing food several hours a day so there will be no time to wallow in self-pity. While you are at your doctor’s, ask him if it’s saf…
/r/seduction18/03/14 04:34 PM
1

ya, well at work I am fucking the dog.
/r/seduction18/03/14 03:46 PM
1

OK, I see your point, I guess part of it is the definition of "will fuck". My defn is "a reasonable likelihood of fucking" under said circumstances, whereas I think the defn you are going with is: "has or will fuck under these circumstances at least once in her life". Anyhow, we should both get back to fucking.
/r/seduction17/03/14 07:09 PM
1

One of the most original ideas I’ve read on this sub for quite a while
/r/seduction17/03/14 05:10 PM
1

but given the thrust of this post, maybe someone should?
/r/seduction15/03/14 04:28 PM
1

right, you are a mPUA and you live in NYC, sorry if I don't see this as credentials for what the average first date looks like. Jevs say "a lot" which I can accept because its subjective, but "most" => ">50%"
/r/seduction15/03/14 04:25 PM
1

thanks, thought I might be missing something.
/r/seduction15/03/14 04:18 PM
1

I take off the condom and check her vitals to make sure she's not about to die. Are the two part of this sentence in any way related?
/r/seduction14/03/14 07:21 PM
3

MOST GIRLS will fuck on the first date maybe this is your experience; but I highly doubt it is a statistical truth.
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:56 PM
16

do not use the "free meal"
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:53 PM
3

nice screen name; do you use that on OKCupid?
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:50 PM
3

throw it in
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:50 PM
1

OK, that was a bit harsh, guys come here for help, not to be kicked in the balls when they're down.
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:46 PM
1

agreed; should change his name to EdgarAllanWanker
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:28 PM
1

while I agree with the sentiment of what you are saying here; if alcohol makes the difference between approaching and not approaching, then clearly it helps.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:18 PM
0

how old are you? some of this sounded like junior-high
/r/seduction03/03/14 08:20 PM
1

I went to University of Toronto, it has several.
/r/seduction03/03/14 07:56 PM
1

The difference between IOIs and displaying nervousness are subtle. Maybe she was just nervous from the beginning: “why the fuck is this guy I don’t know always sitting beside me”
/r/seduction21/02/14 08:47 PM
1

I think we need more specifics on the LMR; what was actually said? how did you try to overcome?
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:55 PM
1

My analysis: 2 & 3: bad luck; shit happens 1 & 4: You didn't move the interaction along fast enough. They were dtf, but you didn't close.
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:43 PM
1

And that comment you made after his saying you attract what you are proves it He called himself a beautiful man; so I don’t get your comment, please explain
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:30 PM
0

I would say about 15% of girls have an imperfection on their nose. eg. hook, ridge, flat spot, too big etc. And I would have to guess that at least half of these are at least somewhat self-conscious about it. Would you still use this method even when there is a high probability the girl is self-conscious about her nose?
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:16 PM
1

Not sure what your expectations are of this post. This is clearly a case of “you snooze, you lose” (why were you late for class, when you supposedly had a plan?). It’s still recoverable; you only approached for FWB anyway; give your head a shake.
/r/seduction12/02/14 02:41 PM
1

this was close to useless: - a few what not to dos - a few what to dos, but no how tos, and no examples.
/r/seduction12/02/14 01:35 PM
1

ditto
/r/seduction10/02/14 09:45 PM
1

did you say "bye"?
/r/seduction10/02/14 09:30 PM
1

Just proceed as if “going slow” means 36 hours instead of 4. You both obviously want the same thing, stop over-thinking it.
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:48 PM
1

you mean I can't watch when she gives me a "handy"?
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:47 PM
2

I think you need to do some research; you could be the exception, but there is now a lot of evidence out there that masturbating to porn messes you up sexually
/r/seduction07/02/14 07:09 PM
1

Doesn't matter how well the rest of the date went, you went for the F-close and it didn't happen; game over!
/r/seduction05/02/14 06:47 PM
1

agreed!
/r/seduction05/02/14 06:12 PM
1

yea, seriously, this post needed a lot more details to be useful
/r/seduction31/01/14 09:10 PM
3

give the guy a break, he's in High School
/r/seduction31/01/14 08:37 PM
3

this exact topic was covered well in the last month or so. try to find it. 2 things I remembered: a lot of girls will be more comfortable going back to theirs than going to yours, particularly after a first or second date. drive/walk them home; ask them if can use their washroom; yell out form inside the washroom "hey babe it's so hard I can't get it back in my pants".
/r/seduction31/01/14 08:33 PM
2

I would just pretend she didn't say any of that shit, actions speak louder than words. Backing-off a bit is probably a good idea so she remembers that you're the prize; don't let her shake your frame.
/r/seduction31/01/14 07:35 PM
1

You are asking for advice about a trend you are noticing; but I think this may be a poor example. First impression: she’s a total bitch; and in my experience the standard deviation with French women is high; also the logistics sucked in that you were time-boxed; not only with the machines becoming available, but also she had a friend waiting for her in a car. Even the best PUAs in the world get blown-out and I think this approach may have been doomed. You didn’t have enough time to build enough …
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:29 PM
1

check this out: http://tomenunite.blogspot.ca/
/r/seduction23/01/14 09:22 PM
1

I think you are way too hard on yourself; you were able to pull and get'r done. Don't think you should put too much stock in what they say afterwards. A lot of it could be just after-the-fact ASD called "plausible deniability". Variations on "I'm not really this much of a slut, you just caught me: when I was vulnerable on the re-bound after I'd had a few etc etc etc "
/r/seduction23/01/14 09:03 PM
1

no, but I think the point is it may not take you too long to transition to whatever you were hoping it was slang for
/r/seduction23/01/14 08:30 PM
2

not to mention the harness really enhances your package
/r/seduction23/01/14 08:24 PM
0

I'm pretty sure I only wrote one paragraph, and there was no wit intended
/r/seduction22/01/14 06:12 PM
1

I really thought your first paragraph was simple and right on the money. Too bad you had to follow it up with douchery
/r/seduction21/01/14 09:31 PM
7

there are probably some details you are leaving out...but...why would you expect HER to take off her shirt or pants? That's your job!
/r/seduction21/01/14 08:51 PM
1

A great city for so many reasons (like our mayor) but I do think it has more than its fair share of ice queens
/r/seduction21/01/14 07:51 PM
1

Thank-you, sounds like solid advice, exactly what I was looking for. In the case where we got into IM, she initiated, would you go so far as to ignore the pop-up?
/r/seduction21/01/14 07:10 PM
2

The three responses I received were: Does that mean you are 3 for 3?
/r/seduction20/01/14 09:22 PM
1

If he would have said "I'm probably the second coolest guy..." I'd be totally with you. But I think there has to be more to "funny-cocky" than just going out and saying "Hey, I got a big dick", which is pretty much the equivalent of what he did.
/r/seduction20/01/14 09:20 PM
1

I always thought most women in Toronto were less friendly (more stuck-up) that other cities I have visited, but I'm amazed at how many PUAs are from here and got their start here.
/r/seduction20/01/14 08:47 PM
11

eh? OP had something unique, inventive and provoking; yours was just arrogant.
/r/seduction20/01/14 07:51 PM
1

Didn't you read the post? He just got out of an LTR and he wants to bang as many skanks as possible.
/r/seduction18/01/14 02:27 AM
2

Once she realized she wasn't the prey anymore, she had to take corrective action; she prolly wanted the D from day 1.
/r/seduction17/01/14 08:34 PM
2

Viagra? Even if just to break out of the cycle?
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:48 PM
1

I'm left wondering who seduced who
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:43 PM
1

If I have already been intimate with her, I don’t hold back at all. It’s in the “just getting to know” phase that I think this requires some discretion. As with most things here: escalate, gauge reaction, hold your frame and proceed accordingly.
/r/seduction16/01/14 07:28 PM
1

Get some help buddy, and not the kind you're asking for here. Nothing wrong with loving and wanting to spend time with her, but going down the sex/seduction road with her as the target is just so wrong on so many levels.
/r/seduction15/01/14 09:07 PM
6

to be honest this sounded more like a rant than a useful post for this sub. Yea, I know that being too much of a nice guy is a legit topic here, but the tone was RANTish and not insightful. I glad you feel better after finding your nards.
/r/seduction15/01/14 09:02 PM
2

but I still don't want to get hit on is that because: a. you are in a LTR? b. you are asexual? or c. you have pre-determined that people who shop at your place of employment are not worth your time? I can give you one tip though that has got to be the most vague, time-wasting tip I have ever read
/r/seduction14/01/14 09:47 PM
5

how about "I'll let you know tomorrow morning"
/r/seduction09/01/14 10:01 PM
11

Start by sitting where you're touching her What the hell does this mean? If I'm touching her face, I should sit on it?
/r/seduction06/01/14 08:34 PM
1

great story; great read, but still amazed you would settle for ending the night without getting your D wet.
/r/seduction20/12/13 09:37 PM
3

would love to hear how that transition unfolded
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:37 PM
5

If you think any of this was a “hint”, I’d like to hear your definition of being hit with a sledge hammer. Can't wait for chapter 2
/r/seduction27/11/13 05:24 PM
1

Don't do it! You have oneitis. Oneitis is bad, go ask out 5 other girls instead.
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:45 PM
3

I couldn't feel shit There is something known as the orgasmic platform that makes the vag tight. If it ain't happening, then you ain't going to feel much (unless she's small or you're huge)
/r/seduction26/11/13 04:13 PM
1

Did you read the initial post??????? He said he doesn't want to be perceived as just a nice guy. This is a classic case of "don't ask a fish"!! I must have read dozens of posts and articles that say it is way harder to get out of the friend zone than not to get into it in the first place. "When you cook, make..." and "If they're having a bad day, ask them what's wrong", are you serious??; the room-mates are going to think he's gay and tell all their friends the same.
/r/seduction22/11/13 09:45 PM
1

go in store after them. Pretend to be looking at shit near them. Ask them for help picking out something for your sister for Christmas. If it's a clothing store and you have really big cojones, tell her that her build is about the same as your sister's and ask her to model some shit to see how it would look on sis. good luck!
/r/seduction22/11/13 09:17 PM
3

this is good!! DO NOT indicate that you are in any way unhappy with this! Remember you are a fun guy, the more the merrier, this could be a shit-test, don't come off as a beta, remain outcome independent. Hopefully the friend will bail, but if she doesn't, maybe offer up a friend of yours (more SP) for a double date. If he's a good wing he will help you isolate. The PUA gods gave you a second chance, don't f-it up.
/r/seduction22/11/13 09:06 PM
1

What the fuck is wrong with funerals?? These could be a potential gold mine. You start talking with an HB about the good times you each had with the deceased...suggest you go to a bar and hoist one in his honour...you say you are really feeling the loss and you don't want to be alone right now...back to your/her place...badda boom badda bing!!
/r/seduction22/11/13 05:04 PM
2

agreed. You definitely fucked-up; you had the SP, you had the attraction, you had the isolation, you had her pushing the kino; fuck I'm confused, I can't imagine what she's thinking. But like anhtice says you got nothing to lose by pursuing; I'd do it ASAP.
/r/seduction22/11/13 05:02 PM
1

I tried to hold our stance, but she drew back, and there was not much I could do. always try and pull-back first.
/r/seduction21/11/13 09:56 PM
1

Hey Josh, I don't think anyone here is really disagreeing with you. The ones that may appear to be are really just saying they are up for the challenge; and for so many, the hunt is way more enjoyable than the kill.
/r/seduction20/11/13 09:23 PM
1

OK, my esteem for you as a PUA guru just went down a couple of notches. Being a PUA in NYC has got to be like being a fisherman in an aquarium.
/r/seduction20/11/13 08:42 PM
1

agreed
/r/seduction20/11/13 08:29 PM
2

What happened to all the intellectual capital in this sub? You all sound like a bunch of pussies. Does this guy sit around with one hand on his cell and the other on his dick waiting for her to text, or does he make another move?
/r/seduction19/11/13 06:33 PM
3

Sorry Wildman, but "hey you look a little lonely" has got to be one of the all-time worst openers (unless she is with dozens of friends obviously having a great time - sarcasm); what were you thinking?
/r/seduction17/11/13 03:52 PM
1

OK, so there was a specific context to it, not a starting point, got it thanks! PS. I'm not the guy in college (I wish!!), but I wondered how someone still in the approach phase could use the advice, I now understand it was meant for a different phase
/r/seduction15/11/13 11:21 PM
1

it was meant as an example, sorry
/r/seduction15/11/13 11:07 PM
2

I agree with you, and I should take your advice more often myself (old habits die hard). But here's a thought for everyone giving unsolicited advice: define the audience. In your case maybe it should have been explicit it was for newbies. In my case (I am older than most here) I sometimes need to know that maybe a specific piece of advice really only works on relatively immature girls/women, but for my targets it would be a f-ing disaster.
/r/seduction15/11/13 06:40 PM
13

what you say is true, but in my experience it goes triple for the aussie accent
/r/seduction14/11/13 03:19 PM
3

Yea, the accent alone will have you laying so much pipe your schwantz will be sore by the end of week one!. I have seriously considered trying to cultivate the accent myself.
/r/seduction14/11/13 03:15 PM
1

Shit tests are extremely rare Are you kidding me?? I am sure I am getting "shit tested" all the time, even in day game where I'm the only option there. Maybe we are using different definitions; this is what happened to me recently: Noticed a HB with her cell in her back pocket just as she was going to sit down(fast-food restaurant). I opened with "excuse me, do you know your cell is in your back pocket? wouldn't want you to break it accidentally" Her reply: "Are you telling me I've got a fat ass…
/r/seduction13/11/13 09:05 PM
2

In really awesome news, #2's cousin (HB 9) added me on Instagram and liked some pics. Most of them selfies. How should I proceed? Wow this is the toughest question I've seen yet. Blowing off #2 to go for the cousin could really backfire, but moving forward with #2 could cause the cousin to back-off. Love to hear with the experts say?? Maybe try and get invited to something they are both going to and play it by ear?
/r/seduction13/11/13 06:00 PM
1

Great simple instructions, and I agree with you it beats the shit out of sitting at home and reading forever. One comment though: if someone took your advice 100% verbatim they would keep talking until it got very awkward 98% of the time (awkward is bad). I prefer picking an appropriate time (before it gets awkward and before you ask for #) and say something like "I wish I had more time but I need to get to_____, give me your number so we can continue this later". I know this eliminates the inst…
/r/seduction13/11/13 05:46 PM
3

Not big on the "waiting for her after class" approach; it may appear a bit stalkerish. 3 suggestions: Try and walk out of class with her and invite her for coffee/etc If she doesn't sit with a group of her friends, sit down beside her in class. There was a post a month or so ago about a guy that did exactly this and it was going well until he F-ed it up somehow, can't remember. How big is this college? Try to "accidentally" run into her in a different context and simply approach her with: "Hey a…
/r/seduction13/11/13 05:27 PM
2

that's a tough call, but I think you did the right thing. A 16YO who can't tie a shoe lace and is wearing lace-up shoes??? If it's true, there are probably a few other issue lurking around and if you pissed her off; oh well. My guess (but I wasn't there) it was a shit test and you passed. Besides: you give a woman a fish, you feed her for one day; you teach her to fish and you feed her for life. I'd say "well done"
/r/seduction13/11/13 05:11 PM
1

Been there too (at approx. that age), makes me cringe!! Girl asked me to take her clothes off behind a doctor's office and I totally pussied-out. Should start a thread dedicated to these sad stories.
/r/seduction12/11/13 05:35 PM
0

she was sitting on top of me, and she kept kissing my face and putting our foreheads together, and yet I didn't make a move. If this girl comes anywhere near you again after this I would be amazed. There can only be one of two things going through her mind in regards to your interaction: 1) this guys just not into me - rejection, or 2) this guy is a major pussy
/r/seduction12/11/13 05:31 PM
2

and asked me to talk to her in her room. "I'm hard of hearing these days, you'll have to talk right into my microphone" And if she gives you that "all you want is sex" bs again, just say: "no, you can start with a blow job"
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:48 PM
1

Don't know for sure, but she may have set it up to test you. She may have been trying to assure herself that you interested in her for more than rutting.
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:35 PM
1

Me: "lets play on monday then. no school. :)" did I do something wrong? Yes, should have suggested something specific! At best "lets play on monday" sounds like you have no plan, and at worst that you just want to F her.
/r/seduction11/11/13 08:21 PM
1

I'm probably the most oblivious and easily-distracted person in the world Ritalin
/r/seduction11/11/13 06:57 PM
2

there is basically TWO conversations going on at the same time: the apparent one with words; and a sexual overtone that uses mainly body language well said
/r/seduction09/11/13 08:47 PM
1

Call me old fashioned Right, that's what my grandpa did.
/r/seduction08/11/13 07:32 PM
0

To meet her pet you mean "to pet her pussy"?
/r/seduction08/11/13 07:30 PM
1

The "going cold" technique can be very effective if you execute it properly; it should be done with a "I don't give a fuck if we fuck or not" attitude. Using it three times in a small window of time makes it ridiculously transparent to the target, and hence appear sulky/needy. This didn't sound like LMR, it sounded like a struggle. I think you a) needed to build more attraction and comfort, and b) make your intentions clear.
/r/seduction07/11/13 08:38 PM
1

$200/month??? Really, I hope you are getting a lot more than just hosting for that kinda coin.
/r/seduction07/11/13 07:19 PM
1

gotta go with Mr. Happy here; if it was that random and incidental; why bother posting about it? First thought after reading the initial post was: "shit test".
/r/seduction04/11/13 08:31 PM
1

OK, I'm sold, go for it!! Have fun
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:05 PM
2

knees down in front of me to open the box is this like a premonition?
/r/seduction30/10/13 04:11 PM
1

I had the exact same thought
/r/seduction29/10/13 06:40 PM
1

But how to reframe?? Next time she tells you about a problem, you pull out your magic wand?
/r/seduction18/10/13 06:46 PM
1

thank-you, didn't say you were wrong, just giving my initial reaction. I intent to read "no more Mr nice guy"
/r/seduction18/10/13 05:32 PM
1

interesting; sound selfish to me, as opposed to "pick something we'll like"
/r/seduction16/10/13 06:14 PM
1

I don't know how accurate this is or if it will help him, but the compassion and thought that went into it, almost brought tears to my eyes. Well done Abby!!
/r/seduction13/10/13 01:30 PM
9

was this post in English?
/r/seduction13/10/13 12:32 AM
1

not unless you are trying to send her subliminal messages by playing pocket-pool; or just trying to keep Mr. Woody from being too obvious
/r/seduction10/10/13 06:18 PM
1

I agree, if you are lucky enough to get another ride home, you need to make a powerful move
/r/seduction10/10/13 05:40 PM
10

most of the time all you need is a big pair of balls and the ability to walk over solid gold
/r/seduction10/10/13 03:50 PM
1

I get the feeling you are assuming the date went poorly from her perspective. She might think it went great! "2 hours", "made her laugh", this sounds like a solid first date to me. Not going for the hug at the end after you started the date with a hug is the only obvious mistake I saw. Set up date 2 ASAP before she mentally puts you in the friend-zone, and do something fun and keno conducive. I don't know what's in your area but bowling or mini-put are good "go-tos"
/r/seduction10/10/13 03:35 PM
2

Thanks, not sure I have the cojones to stand there and keep trying after an obvious snub, but maybe I will. Often times, the ones easy to open are the hardest to pull...theres just no way of knowing. This I understand, because there are still some girls out there who are very friendly, but really have little interest in the D, and are too naive to realize that you're intending to take this beyond idle chatter.
/r/seduction10/10/13 02:01 PM
1

Here's a question for you. Is there no relationship between level of difficulty in opening and difficulty in escalating? I mean if it take a lot of effort to open then isn't going to be almost impossible to get them to spin on your D later in the evening? Guess I'm more of a "low-hanging fruit" kinda guy.
/r/seduction09/10/13 07:04 PM
1

don't wait to see if you "might" run into her, use your mutual friends to make sure you run into her
/r/seduction09/10/13 06:57 PM
1

I think we are going in circles; if there is another context in which you "know" her, then use that to go for it.
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:50 PM
-1

The way you respond to a shit test is to act like it didn't affect you; not to get angry and "scold" her. Getting angry and insulting the girl is by definition the way to lose a shit test. That goes back to my earlier point; if she does shit that is actually unacceptable you need to just get rid of her; not yell at her like a beta faggot. I agree with these points and if you read all of what I said before answering with your erroneous assumptions it was obvious. You show somebody that you won't …
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:26 PM
2

what you are suggesting takes massive cojones !!
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:19 PM
-1

When I read the title I agreed with it but because I have a certain image in my head around the word "scold". But when I read the text, I mostly disagreed with you. Two reasons: 1. Sometimes disrespectful behavior is a kind of shit test; the girl is seeing if you are a beta and are willing to put up with it. If she senses you are willing to put up with her shit, you're not getting your D wet; and 2. If she disrespects you in front of other women you definitely need to man-up. I'm not saying get …
/r/seduction08/10/13 05:18 PM
1

that changes everything....girls that work in bars are sometimes expected to flirt with customers; move on.
/r/seduction08/10/13 01:37 PM
1

I think your only hope at this point is to go 100% honest: "Sorry but I was high before you came over and it totally fucks me up socially/sexually, wanna feel the real me?"
/r/seduction07/10/13 07:28 PM
1

Sounds like you are trying to use her flirting as a segue to a "date". Next time she does this, go with it, escalate, and f-close the same night.
/r/seduction07/10/13 07:14 PM
3

after reading a few of these, I am now convinced that when you are on a roll, don't take a break. Most guys on here would take "having to work the next morning" as very mild LMR
/r/seduction07/10/13 07:03 PM
1

you don't need an opener!!!! one guy opened with "butt cheese" and it worked out for him. One huge problem with "openers" is that they are frequently difficult to follow-up on. Just go up to the girl and if you can't come up with anything contextual like "hi, I noticed you are you reading the Kama Sutra; I had to read that for my Indian Anthropology class; really boring!", then just say "hi I'm Audizine, I noticed you are cute and just had to come and say hi". Either way do it with a shit-eating…
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:55 PM
13

And it felt good to take that dive the "dive" right before the f-close will feel even better
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:44 PM
1

Her: "can you hold my bag?" Me: "can you hold mine?"
/r/seduction06/10/13 06:21 PM
1

Proceed as if the ex didn't exist. Worrying about "what ifs" is not helping you man!
/r/seduction04/10/13 07:22 PM
1

I can't think of many things more difficult than undoing the "friend zone" and it sounds like you are in deep. I mostly agree with the others here who say forget the oneitis, but I think your best chance is to pay her as little attention as possible while pulling as many girls as possible. See if you can get a mutual friend to arrange a "night out". Give her a quick "HI" and go game/dance with as many other women there as possible. If she asks you to dance, I would go with "I'd love to, but I'm …
/r/seduction04/10/13 07:14 PM
1

my bad; guess I read it a month ago; didn't realize it wasn't current.
/r/seduction01/10/13 08:27 PM
7

There was an excellent FR on exactly this a month or so ago. Asked girl to watch his laptop while he stepped out. Try and find it, it was gold.
/r/seduction30/09/13 10:43 AM
4

Next time a girl comes up to you and asks about your feet, simply say "I need your help to confirm of deny a theory I have heard"
/r/seduction30/09/13 10:39 AM
2

I'm not trying to be someone I'm not. I'm trying to be better at attracting and keeping those I'm interested in. It can be a fine line; the title of your thread is "how can I be that girl?" I just get the impression you are looking for a LTR and most guys your age are not, so the outcomes you experienced are very common. Do you really think the girls who "stole" your boyfriends are going to live "happily ever after" with them?
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:18 PM
2

human being are far too complex for one to be "better" than another. At your age relationships are not meant to last; don't take it personally! IMHO trying to be someone you are not is a recipe for long-term unhappiness
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:39 PM
1

no expert here; but I have to believe that the girl isn't expecting you to "game" her all night; relax. As log as you can make her laugh occasionally you'll be fine from her perspective. Dinner dates get down-voted on this sub, but if not too awkward try to sit beside her (not across from her) to kino, kino, kino!
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:05 PM
1

"not sure, you better investigate"
/r/seduction26/09/13 04:08 PM
1

sounds like you are saying you have had more success with the indirect game, OK go for it.
/r/seduction25/09/13 06:55 PM
8

"can my dick get in on some of that?"
/r/seduction24/09/13 07:39 PM
3

I'm proud of you Man!!
/r/seduction22/09/13 02:49 PM
3

It sounds like you are looking for opening experience and forgoing closing experience. Like a fisherman who is fishing for small rock bass and lands a giant pickerel. Who cares who picked up who, as long as she ends up wrapped around your wiener, it's all good.
/r/seduction18/09/13 08:26 PM
2

You only needed to stand your ground about 20 seconds after she turned around; if she intended to grind you, she wouldn't wait longer than that.
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:51 PM
1

I do now
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:43 PM
1

Does you friend know of other opportunities (other than her store) to "meet" her? I would have pushed your friend for an introduction, but that's water under the bridge now. I won't say not to give it another shot, some women respond to tenacity, some don't.
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:43 PM
1

I agree he should have bought something, and I hope he did. But other than that, I think you are being a dick for being so hard on him.
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:38 PM
1

I have plenty of girl friends who are overweight, but have the most bubbly, friendly and attractive personalities. I suspect you are a lot younger than I; but I find a problem at this end of the spectrum; once the woman gets beyond 30. If they are single and not particularly attractive (i.e. not had much success with men) they get jaded and cynical and this is really unattractive!!
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:01 PM
1

Foursome!!
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:45 PM
1

Not saying your wrong here; just wanted to give a different perspective. A very successful salesman, who claimed to also be successful selling himself to the ladies told me about the "keep them saying yes" technique. Admittedly, he and I are probably a generation older than most on this sub, but it goes like this: Start with questions that make it easy for the target to reply "yes": Hi, are you having fun? Do you like doing new and exciting things? May I hold your hand? May I put my arm around y…
/r/seduction11/09/13 03:46 PM
1

I still can't believe you can be 0.5/30 without doing something fundamentally wrong. The whole point of this sub is to help you identify what it is and correct it.
/r/seduction10/09/13 09:13 PM
2

I would like to try it with someone I hadn't been talking with for too long: "I'm thinking that if you don't come home with me tonight, you may have no other option than to go home alone, pull out the battery-operated ya-ya inducer having to imagine what it would be like if I was actually there ravishing you, while I'm home plowing one of those babes at the other side of the bar" please excuse the run-on sentence
/r/seduction10/09/13 09:03 PM
1

I guess that's one perspective; I guess I look at it like "keep your opportunities open"; if the evening continues at the destination with greater opp for escalation and isolation, why not. I don't think it is in the same league with: "Can I buy you a drink please"
/r/seduction10/09/13 08:51 PM
2

and if she asks you what you are thinking about; do you tell her??
/r/seduction10/09/13 06:20 PM
1

I would normally never ever do this why?
/r/seduction10/09/13 06:16 PM
1

Fortunately or unfortunately the Bikram poses are very strict so continued glaring (and blood flow) would have been very obvious; I am shy so I stopped looking.
/r/seduction10/09/13 04:18 PM
1

She's not going to resent you for that. Well she might, but that's her issue
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:22 PM
1

"My class is in _____ Hall. Are you heading that way as well?" Maybe, is there any place to make-out along the way?
/r/seduction29/08/13 06:04 PM
2

I'm impressed how up-beat you sound despite no real success. Keep 'er goin' you'll hit it eventually!
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:44 PM
27

zero for 30?; you must be doing something terribly wrong. do you know them at all? do you sneak up from behind? are you always hitting the HB9.5+s?
/r/seduction21/08/13 08:30 PM
1

If you’ve been on this sub more than 10 minutes you already know the advice you are going to get: Remain outcome independent Have abundance mentality; not scarcity mentality Stay in the social circle to increase the probability of being introduced to an HB who won’t FZ you.
/r/seduction20/08/13 08:17 PM
1

even before I got to the cock block part I thought: but I ignore them and maintain eye contact with HB7. was going to get you in trouble. I think it is best to engage the whole set, at least at the beginning.
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:54 PM
1

wonder what % of girls that would start this kind of shit test would understand this comment?
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:47 PM
1

awesome!
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:45 PM
1

my toe still being all fucked oh, so you call her "toe fucker"?
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:57 PM
1

I agree with your assessment as it pertains to your situation, but there is a difference between some guy hitting on your gf to take advantage of a temporary weakness and your gf hitting on some guy because she’s horny/drunk and getting bored of the ldr. I would not be guy1, but I’d be happy to be guy2 assuming outside of social circle etc.
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:52 PM
2

Never been there, but if you had a choice, I would say: Montreal (helps if you speak French), Toronto or Vancouver.
/r/seduction14/08/13 03:28 PM
9

agreed, this was useless; the only part where there may have been seduction is when he was speaking German to her, and OP provided no details. Yeh, 2 good looking people, who both want sex, get it on; less than useless in this forum.
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:02 PM
2

Agreed, totally been in your shoes, if you don’t sexualize the conversation fairly quickly, you will get friend-zoned. Good news, you are 95% further along than the guy who has AA and won’t even approach.
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:54 PM
1

too bad they were both on the same weekend
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:51 PM
5

For a second there I wondered if “and we cooked noodles together” was a euphemism. Well done
/r/seduction13/08/13 01:47 PM
7

IMO this is a classic case of “oh shit, I let this guy go too far with me on the first date” remorse. You are in her social circle; she doesn’t want to come off as easy. You don’t say if you just wanted an f-close or a relationship. If you were just after an f-close, I think you better move on, her guard is up. If you are still interested in a relationship, you could try back-pedalling and admit to her that things went a little fast on the first date, but you really want to see her again. I know…
/r/seduction12/08/13 06:03 PM
23

I can second the yoga class idea, I was once in a Bikram yoga class behind this HB9 in sheer yoga pants and she may as well have left the pants in the change room and just spray painted her Brazilian.
/r/seduction12/08/13 02:58 PM
1

you would be looking for the 2014 offering; Google has heard of them both
/r/seduction12/08/13 02:38 PM
7

On a certain level I agree with you and personally I never take advantage of the fact I have a captive audience with an employee, but I think your reaction is way over the top. Here are my reasons: Good looking girls working as waitresses in the right bars can make more tax-free money in tips in one night than a guy who has been sweating his balls off all week working construction. Getting hit on “comes with the territory”; and from OP’s account he was not abusive or even insistent. You could hi…
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:54 PM
2

there are some good answers to this in http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1hm22s/i_got_rejected_for_the_first_timefield_report/
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:29 PM
1

True, but B&H is a four day camping festival which opens up more possibilities (; I'm not a Country fan myself, but this ain't about the music!!
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:19 PM
1

You got that right!
/r/seduction07/08/13 01:45 PM
1

3-8 weeks is a good reset time this depends on the girl; she slammed her books down; I know some girls where 3-8 decades would not be long enough.
/r/seduction06/08/13 06:50 PM
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My fav replies to “I’ve got a bf”: If I wanted to continue the interaction: “Would that be a human bf, or one of the battery operated ones? Because I think I can compete with the human kind , but those battery ones can go forever!” But if she was just blowing me off as quickly as possible: “Would that be the battery operated boyfriend you keep under your bed? You know the one you have to wash frequently or it starts to smell funky”
/r/seduction04/07/13 05:42 PM
2

OK, so if I am just looking for a fun time I should say: "I really just want to take you home and screw your lights out, so what we do on Monday really doesn't matter" ?
/r/seduction27/06/13 07:06 PM
2

with a bad taste in my mouth not sure that's related to how good looking/sexy the girls is
/r/seduction27/06/13 03:46 PM
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