Approaching

daddy01 · 2014-12-04T15:39:32+00:00

this is classic AA; no different than a million others; lots of advise on this sub.

TissueReligion · 2014-12-04T18:20:43+00:00

Here is the best strategy I've come up with for going from being lame and doing no approaches to at least initiating some worthwhile interactions.

Ask the next 5 girls you see if they know where the closest starbucks is. "Excuse me, do you know where the closest Starbucks is?" Then walk away.
Ask the next 5 girls you see if they know any good pick-up lines. "Excuse me, do you know any good pick-up lines?"

:0. I'm just saying, you can ask strangers for directions, right? So go do step (1). Easy. Anyone can do this. Now, step (2) is the same sentence with 2-3 words different. Easy. Boom. You can now approch. Just be nice, you might startle people.

See what I'm saying? Going from not approaching to "I THOUGHT YOU LOOK CUTE AND WANTED TO SAY HI" is a bit steep, but if you can already "open" by asking for directions, doing the same thing with "pick up line" instead is obviously also doable. Is it a world-class opener? No, but it is opening.

jacksrdtt · 2014-12-05T02:29:35+00:00

I think honestly, what really works for me. Although I have to be in a good mood it's weird. Like I have to get up early. Take a shower. Get a whole bunch of errands done that day for me to be in the zone. BUT when I'm in the zone, I usually just don't give a fuck. I am always respectful of anyone I approach or talk too, so don't get me wrong. My point is, who cares if she laughs, who cares if she lets you down easy. It's not like she knows you personally. It's not like she's going to even remember you by the end of the day. Unless you make a good impression that is.

TL:DR; Think of it not as you are approaching this woman to gain her approval. Think of it only as you need practice and your bored with nothing else to do. You are approaching her in order to gain experience. It's a game to you. You don't give a fuck about what she thinks of you later, only thing you care about is how well you've improved from the last approach.

Title	Approaching
Author	DanniBoi101
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	December 4, 2014 3:36 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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