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| 32 | [Discuss]Men who strongly believe that their manhood must be earned and can be lost exhibit more pronounced cortisol reactivity when their masculinity is threatened, according to research published in the journal Psychology of Men & Masculinities. | I_like_the_word_MUFF | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/19 12:29 PM |
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| 9 | I can’t help but envy how easy women have it in the dating scene.Plenty of ugly fat folks have crazy sex and fun in and around sex based communities like swingers and bdsm. Have you even been to a polyamory meet up? It's like an ad for lowered expectations dating service....but you know what? Those folks aren't judgemental fucks and so they don't let that shit stop their good times. Y'all out here talking about other people having fun, on discord and reddit... Well that's your problem you're thinking about living life not actually living it. But you do you. J… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/23 01:53 PM |
| 14 | Why do women dislike/hate online dating if they hold all the power there ?OLD for women is like having to dig through 1 ton of warm dog shit barehanded to find a 1 caret diamond. Not worth it because I can buy my own diamonds with my own cash. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/23 08:58 PM |
| 6 | When they say women have it easy, it makes me laughYes that's a totally normal and healthy response. Hahahahahaha.... | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 04:59 PM |
| 7 | Is being an omega male unattractive to females? Is being financially unstable a turn off for a lot of females?If you're thirty and can't hold a job down for more than a week, you need intense therapy and both occupational and psychological because that's definitely a cognitive/emotional issue that you'll never resolve on your own. You need to go to your Primary care doctor and literally request a referral to a mental health person who can evaluate you and set you on course. Not for nothing, but you're going to have to do work to get over that, but unless you want to maintain your status quo through the … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 11:42 AM |
| 84 | I feel like being the casual sex guy is better than being the relationship guyHonestly, nobody cares what you want to do with the 70-80 years of life you potentially have. Want to never be in a relationship? Good. Own it. Nobody cares. Want to get married? Good. Own it. Nobody cares. You do you. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/22 01:29 PM |
| 12 | Do women really freak out if they're still single into their 30's-40's?Compared to young boys turning in their virginity cards? Vastly less. Compared to guy's getting laid in their 20s? Significantly less Compared to guy's looking for a girlfriend in their late 20s? Much much less Compared to men who are single in their 40s? About the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/22 01:20 PM |
| 4 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)You're parroting the conservative lines that make you sound like a clown. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)It was my right since the day I was born. It doesn't matter to me where it came from. It was my right and now 5 people took that right away from me. When one of your rights is taken away completely after having it since the day you were born, we can talk. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 6 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)This goes beyond abortion at this point. If you are European you'd recognize the "go after women and reproductive rights" playbook of facists. It was the European fascists that perfected that playbook. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 01:11 PM |
| 5 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)You have never seen cultures influence each other? How old are you? I mean that's historically common even in the last 20 years. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 01:09 PM |
| 7 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)Yeah... But unlike a vast majority of nations, what happens in this country effects a lot of people globally. If you think it doesn't, then you're a fool. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 12:50 PM |
| 8 | The manosphere played themselves (US politics)Anything that remotely sounds, looks, and smells like conservative values on women's is in for a hard time and I would argue that's the manosphere right now. That's 50% of the population that was effected.... We haven't seen the storm yet. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 154 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?In some ways, men are even more vulnerable than women in this scenario. No. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 04:13 PM |
| 0 | girl I'm seeing still wants to stay in contact with ex who's married to someone else.Yes... YOU'RE THE ONLY PERSON IN ALL HISTORY THAT HAS FEELINGS FOR OTHER PEOPLE.. none of us can help you. Do you hear yourself? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | girl I'm seeing still wants to stay in contact with ex who's married to someone else.Apparently enough to get you on Reddit worrying about an ex she's talking to. Dude... Don't play chill when you're out here sweating your girl because she's still talking to a married ex. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | girl I'm seeing still wants to stay in contact with ex who's married to someone else.You're about to lose your girlfriend because you are jealous and controlling. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/22 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Listen, I didn’t like Kevin Samuels either but the comments saying: ‘good he’s dead’, ‘lol’, ‘finally’, are all so disheartening… Can no one forgive the man? Or let his family mourn peacefully?Nothing of value was lost... It's like mourning or celebrating garbage being picked up. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 12:25 PM |
| 28 | Hello to all of you ladies. I want to ask you a question, but I want all women who see this to at least give an answer. And be honest, no one has the right to judge you for your choices.Yes but YOU JUST INSULTED SHORT MEN RIGHT HERE and then have some balls to point the finger at FDS? Wow. The absolute denial and lack of self awareness on your part is far more unattractive than whatever height you'll eventually grow up to be. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 05:32 PM |
| 21 | Hello to all of you ladies. I want to ask you a question, but I want all women who see this to at least give an answer. And be honest, no one has the right to judge you for your choices.Lol Men always treat other men worse than women will ever do. Thanks for that. It's why men are so desperate for women's company, we're the only ones who actually will care for them and not call them names for being who they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 05:27 PM |
| 19 | Hello to all of you ladies. I want to ask you a question, but I want all women who see this to at least give an answer. And be honest, no one has the right to judge you for your choices.I've dated Cubans shorter than 5'. If you judge me for dating short ethnicities, you definitely don't know how well a Cuban man knows how to please a woman and maybe you should find out because it might help you get over this weird height self confidence issue. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?I like to say, "This is not our final form" 😉 | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?If women do not enjoy sex they should stop having sex instead of blaming men. Apparently nobody is having sex in red pill and that is the problem. 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?no i didnt try to make you the bad guy. . its just that youre from a shitty place where youre still retarded enough to cut your babies. 😂 Both these quotes are yours. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?You're making it out to seem like I'm pro circumcision. I'm not. My family was born in Europe where it's rare and religious based. I take issue with any genital mutilation without consent, especially in children. That being said, in all cases of why we circumcize boys it is men that created that social device. Jewish women rarely have control over if their children and spouses are circumcised. American doctor's decided for women and pushed the propaganda of which the governing body was entirely … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?Lol... That's the thing though, the thing that RP doesn't talk about, is how absolutely normal it is for guys to have issues. That erection comes and goes for so many guys for so many reasons like medication, hormonal imbalance, psychological issues, stress, health issues like cardiovascular disease. Also that for many guys it's normal to come out of the issue with support, therapy, meds, and an overall healthier lifestyle. It ebbs and flows, like women too. What's also not taken into account wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?Why does it even matter given that most women don't orgasm from PIV? It is well-established that women end more marriages than men (Braver, Whitley, and Ng 1994; Brinig and Allen 2000; Hewitt 2009; Hewitt, Western, and Baxter 2006; Kalmijn and Poortman 2006). Most women don't orgasm from piv, not that they can't. Which speaks to the subpar sexual performance of their male partners, doesn't it? More women than men will end a relationship and sex is as good a reason as any to end one. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 21 | Where does this idea that men get better as they age?Men statistically who have experienced erectile dysfunction: 40% by 40 50% by 50 60% by 60 ... So forth and so on. There's a reason why Viagra is a top seller on the market. As another comment said, there are some uncomfortable truths out there but the problem is rp doesn't actually confront them all. One of those is sex and the hard truth that men lose function over time... Women do not. Women may often times lose lubrication but not sexual function. So hard reality is that men sexually peak wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 03:01 PM |
| 9 | Question for mods/admins: Jordan Peterson?Jordan Peterson was taught in my Anthropology classes as how not to science. He may be ok as a psychologist, but some of his "work" is wayyyy outside his wheelhouse and he doesn't acknowledge that because he's suffering from expertise bias. There's been plenty of actual criticism, Robinson, Thiegard et al of Peterson's loosey goosey use of history. There's also plenty of criticism of Functionalism, which is Peterson's ideological focus, in Anthropology. In your profession he may be worth somethi… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Ex-redpiller but still MGTOW?So this is an earnest question for OP. You're MGTOW because of an abusive ltr. I get that. Almost everyone who ends up in r/divorce usually gives up on relationships for a small period of time. What makes it permanent for you? I mean, a lot of people come out of abusive relationships and manage to move on, cope, get help, rebuild, and step forward. I mean, my divorce just destroyed me but I never once believed that the problem was bigger than just my ex. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I Wrong to be mad at my single mother for raising me without a dad and doing such a poor job?At some point in our lives we stop worrying about what our parents were and focus on what we are becoming. You're still stuck in reverse, playing out your own personal chess game with people in your life over and over and over again trying desperately to assign blame or worse, some projection of how the world is from your narrow, child view. When you get right with your frame of reference, you'll see nothing you rationalize here matters. Chasing ghost rabbits down holes. Screaming at clouds. Til… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/22 08:25 PM |
| 20 | I lose respect for girls with high bodycounts.You may call me insecure but at the end of the day it would be more productive to attack my argument rather than me, the arguer. There's no logic to your position. No argument to attack. You have an opinion and you want people to debate you like it's a fact. It's not. Debating you would be like debating a person who believes the moon is made of cheese. Worthless and pointless. How many men care or what “most men” think is also irrelevant, the popularity of a viewpoint doesn’t speak to its validi… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 16 | I lose respect for girls with high bodycounts.You can feel anything you want to feel, the truth is NOBODY who has a "high body count" will care. You do realize that, right? Women are judged on everything from age to hair color, the fact that you're another guy judging on another random reason doesn't make a ripple in that ocean. It also doesn't effect them in life, making you appear even more impotent for even caring about it. The truth, most men don't care or even have a better opinion about women with sexual experience... That's been my e… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 11:06 PM |
| 22 | Do men prefer women without much of a sexually promiscuous past?My husband married me because I was sexually experienced... He didn't want to commit to a woman who didn't understand that sex was an important part of relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 3 | TRP always tells us question where you get your information from and that social media isn’t a reliable news source, but what is Rich doing? Shamelessly supporting a twitter comment about the vaccine. Who the hell is “Dr. Malone”? I doubt he fact-checked.Taken from the wiki link above: "Malone received criticism for propagating COVID-19 misinformation, including making unsupported claims about the toxicity of spike proteins generated by some COVID-19 vaccines;[2][17][4][29] using interviews on mass media to popularize medication with ivermectin;[30] and tweeting a study by others questioning vaccine safety that was later retracted.[2] He said that LinkedIn temporarily suspended his account over a post stating that the Chairman of the Thomson Reu… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Massive blackpill dropped by my own auntHe would be a nightmare for any girl his age and I wouldn't wish that on anybody. Women are not a reward for anything. Women are not born in any way to be the caretakers of men. He needs a lot of therapy before anyone should date him. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Massive blackpill dropped by my own auntYeah .. You've made it abundantly clear you need psychological help. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Massive blackpill dropped by my own auntWhat hellscape do you think this world is... Everyone is supposed to have their fun in their youth and settle down later on. Even the Amish have their year(s) of freedom to run around and play before committing themselves to God and community. Nobody expects guys to be celibate until marriage and it's been a long long time since that was expected of women. In some cultures it never was a requirement to be a virgin at marriage. It's not plan b... It's the natural progression of life for all peopl… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Massive blackpill dropped by my own auntWhy do you have such a poor outlook about being a husband? Statistically speaking: Married men live longer. Married men have better relationships with their children. Married men are healthier and happier. There are a lot of positive reasons to get married, that's why people do it en masse, in nearly every culture, and why pair bonding is a human characteristic. Your frame is skewed because you've bought into the bottom 15% and made it, in your own head, a 100% guarantee. You're a victim of the … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/21 04:44 PM |
| 9 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoIf you're entire concept of a relationship is transactional, you might be right. But that's the crayon coloring book version of why people pair bond. If you want to live the crayon coloring book version of a life, go ahead. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Considering how their most Gorgeous women are white passing and their culture shares many of the same stereotypes about East Asian girls........ Why do so many redpillers and other incels lack a Latin American fetish and even openly hate them?I've had plenty of rp guys spout progressive gender roles at me as the reason why guys don't get laid. Which is it? You seem like an outlier in that regard. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Considering how their most Gorgeous women are white passing and their culture shares many of the same stereotypes about East Asian girls........ Why do so many redpillers and other incels lack a Latin American fetish and even openly hate them?Traditional gender roles forces red pill to the conservative side of the spectrum. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 12:07 PM |
| 8 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoI have no dog in the fight. I don't care what ridiculous things anyone wants to believe in. However, if you pull back the lens on what you just wrote, it's amazingly pathetic that anyone has to travel that far for the sole purpose of getting laid. Most people can get laid in their own backyard. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 11:26 AM |
| 5 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoAgain, you're drawing out a strawman argument that I never made. Just so you can argue. For no reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 03:15 AM |
| 4 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoYou're overblowing my comment because you're expecting a fight. You're not going to get that fight. You're just going to be a victim all by yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 10 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoI'm nearly 50. I've retired early. I'm an Anthropologist, cannabis grower, and I volunteer because I no longer have to work but I am too young to just swill martinis and play golf. I don't have the priorities you do. I am just here to provide clarity regarding humans and human behaviors. You can take whatever you want from what I say. I have no dog in this fight. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 12 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoThis is a lot of cope. That's it. Rationalizing to make it seem like somebody could hit the lottery when you outright know the lottery is rigged. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 11:19 PM |
| 12 | *Sigh* is this what red pill is turning intoJust to be clear, there's plenty of ethnographic material on sex tourism and the women are well aware foreign men are there for that reason and they use them as a means to an end financially and to get visas to better countries. Men who think they're finding women who they can be assured won't take them for all they got are lying to themselves. These women do this for profit and nothing else and that's as transactional as red pillers describe Western women except the women in their own communiti… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.If you're living by the assumption that all our behaviors are biologically based and our (men and women) number 1 biological imperative is to reproduce and live long enough for our offspring to reproduce... And You're telling me you're a male with issues pair bonding when there is about an even 50/50 split of men to women (china and india being socially engineered not to be).. Then you are telling me you're presenting as a poor genetic, social, economic, and political mate. You literally have to… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:27 PM |
| 3 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Hey! My minor is in Philosophy! It was my major when I first went to college. Second time I swapped out for anthro. Lol Thanks. I appreciate the love. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Thanks. It's a fun hobby. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:35 AM |
| 4 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Do you know Romans didn't care about homosexuality, but blowjobs were considered incredibly taboo for all genders. In the modern world blowjobs are not taboo. Just because something exists doesn't mean it's biology based. Sometimes it's a cultural thing. That's why universal truths and humans are rare. We exist to change. Change is our survival strategy. If you can't change, you're a piss poor human. That's a truth. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:34 AM |
| 2 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.No man I know... Almost all men I know wouldn't care. How many men do you know in real life? Feels like that's limited if you speak in such generalizations. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:24 AM |
| 2 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Good luck in your academic career in Anthropology. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:23 AM |
| 2 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.That's your mental illness, not humans as a whole. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:20 AM |
| 4 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.You have not actually looked into it's merits, sitting here taking it on face value and using it to prove some made up theory. Do you not see how silly you look. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:20 AM |
| 3 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.1979 paper... Lol That's what you get when you cite Wikipedia. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Children | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:09 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Lol Giving up so soon. Maybe consider that when you go back to red pill. That your ideology isn't strong enough to compete with science. If you want to be red pill, be red pill, but at least admit it's a cult of ideology and not even remotely based in science. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:08 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.I asked you to cite work in the beginning and you gave me a wiki page that disproved your theory. That's the dots you haven't connected. Show your work next time. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:06 AM |
| 3 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Sex takes little time... What are your women doing when you're busy hunting? So unless you're with your woman 24/7... You'll literally never know. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:04 AM |
| 4 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Just because you don't know many doesn't mean they don't exist. Some ancient cultures have multiple genders in their language. Why do they have the words for it when it is supposed to not exist normally? You're showing your naive self when you speak of minorities. You're saying YOU'VE never been around it. A whole world exists outside your room. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:03 AM |
| 4 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.You've not connected anything. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:01 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Other than this is doesnt really matter that the father has no concrete evidence its his, as long as he hasnt seen his women sleep with another man he is convinced its his child, which explains the resentment men feel if they see their women sleeping with another man So men's nature is to be a stalker? Lol You're reducing yourself to the ridiculous at this point. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 11:00 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.So polyandry is cool with you? Multiple men one wife because that exists in human pair bonding. Walking marriages where no man ever raises their own child? That exists too. Polyamory exists. Multiple partners both male and female. Gay marriage exists too... Always has. That's a path for humans. You can't say it's a universal if it's not actually a universal. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:58 AM |
| 4 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Lol You keep bringing up theories that go again your own truth. Human males have no guarantees the offspring is thiers. What does that say about your synergy theory? What does that mean about women's nature? It means the exact opposite of what rp is. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:55 AM |
| 3 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Yes. Women biologically fool men into raising offspring not theirs. It's biology. You know what's not biology, men needing to know if they're the father. Which is your argument. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:53 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Outliers are one and two examples. There are thousands of cultures without paternal lineage. You haven't cited any science and calling me silly? That's rich. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:48 AM |
| 6 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Then why do cultures have no synergy commonality. There's plenty of cultures who don't stress monogamy and plenty others who don't stress paternal lineage. If this was a biological truth it would be universal. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 7 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Firstly, women that sleep around are looked down upon by alot of men, regardless if they associate with red pill communities, this is apparent without needing science. Not in every culture. So again, wrong. Also this is not an argument from biology, this is a cultural perspective unique only to some human cultures. Nothing you've said here is true yet. Not even the egg theory which has been disproven. Nobody uses the egg theory anymore. Why? Because it doesn't even make sense in the rest of the … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:44 AM |
| 3 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.men and women evolved to synergise Btw, while I wait for your citation. Wtf does this even mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:41 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Then cite it. I'll wait. Then we can discuss that science. If it's well known, it should be easy to find. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:38 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.You know we can trace our genetics back to about 12 female human mothers. We can't be that certain about what men were involved. Isn't it curious. Men can't be certain of their genetic lines because women have no outward expression of ovulation. Why would biology omit this with humans? Why would evolution choose to omit something that exists in lower order primates? Something you say matters? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:27 AM |
| 7 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.You made an argument from biology with no actual proof, but you didn't say that in your argument. Why don't you actually admit that to start. Big cats? We are nothing like them. Apes? Really? Did you even read gorillas in the mist? There's actual science out there and you just want to spout out your opinions dressed up like facts. Here's a fact. Humans don't advertise their menstrual cycles like most every other species on the planet. Ever wonder why? Why do women biologically not show their ovu… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:22 AM |
| 5 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.You cite your "science" first. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:08 AM |
| 9 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.You made the claim without any actual science. You make your proof and I will tell you how you're wrong. Until then, you're just like an anti vaxx person, screaming your truths on the internet without any real basis in reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:07 AM |
| 3 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 6 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.It is due to biology, think about It this way, nature has made men to compete over women, they want to be the ones to produce offspring to continue their genes, if a man sees a women sleep with another man he will be less inclined to sleep with her on average due to the decreased chance that he’ll produce off spring that is genetically his own. The ideas of subconscious desires and dislikes men share uphold this idea Hey... Me the Anthropologist. Wrong. Try again. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 16 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.. Men inherently dislike women that sleep around due to biological and evolutionary reasons, also fuelled by sociology. Anthropologist again. Also wrong. Try again. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 27 | I am red pill I would love to answer any questions and have a healthy dialogue from an outside perspective.Biologically men have the capacity to impregnate multiple woman and have shared women through history. It’s not that men are never satisfied it’s that are sex drive usually doesn’t match are significant other sex drive Anthropologist here. This is factually wrong from a biological perspective and a cultural perspective. Try again. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/21 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Do men become red pilled bc they're delusional about the kind of women they can get or do they just want help period?I think if you pull back on the issue, almost all incels have an entitlement issue. If you sit and just read, you'll find opinions that always stem from rejection, too challenging scenarios, or just plain laziness. They nearly universally have expectations that no normal person would have on women, on life, and on just about anything they want to rage on. Most people learn how to accept challenges, work on things that they want badly, and have grace in rejection... Incels never learn. They don't… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/21 12:15 AM |
| 6 | How do I unswallow the Black Pill?I wanted to expand on Nietzsche for a moment. As a self professed black pill, somebody who looks down on the nature of modern women and of whom have come here expounding on the red flags of educated women...you quote somebody who held none of those beliefs. "Stupidity in a woman is unfeminine." Friedrich Nietzsche "Marriage as a long conversation. - When marrying you should ask yourself this question: do you believe you are going to enjoy talking with this woman into your old age? Everything els… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/11/21 12:38 AM |
| 6 | How do I unswallow the Black Pill?You don't need empathy to relate to every other human being on the planet. All you need is the ability to see the logic in the variability of humans. There is no philosophical "right" answer to every single human being's problems on the planet. If that were the case humans would share one single culture, or at least have come single commonality. In truth, the only commonality that we share is survival in whatever ecology we are born into. So, to relate is only to understand what a person's ecolo… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/21 08:57 PM |
| 25 | How do I unswallow the Black Pill?I have always had very radical views on politics, finance and programming styles, to the extend, that it even caused some friendships to end. Which turned me to despise society and their implementation of political concepts even more. So you're unable to have opinions without alienating people, that's entirely on you. Everyone has opinions that are contrary to others, but most people recognize that life is a lot more than having an opinion. You can have all the money in the world, be the best lo… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/11/21 02:22 PM |
| 25 | From woman hater to trans woman.I think a lot of people underestimate how their internal emotions effect the ways in which we see the world. My degree is in Anthropology and let me tell you, nearly every class I took in my field began with understanding how many filters we see through when we look at the world around us. How those filters effect the science we do, even what we consider the 'hard' sciences of math, chemistry, and biology. You're very courageous in the way you spoke to the jealousy being this underlying current.… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 03:40 PM |
| 4 | How do I even find friends , let alone a girlfriend?Volunteer. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/10/21 03:52 PM |
| 4 | thanks mgtows for shooting yourself in the foot thanks mgtows for shooting themselves in the foot, mgtows just want to go back to a fantasy past r/exredpill - thanks mgtows for shooting yourself in the foot thanks mgtows for shooting themselves in the foot, mgtows just want to go back to a fantasy pFeminism is way older than 60 years. Elizabeth Cady Stanton died in 1902 and she and Susan B Anthony were pushing for the vote for women for a long time. That's just the USA, other countries started before us. I can't take anyone seriously who doesn't know basic history. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/10/21 09:50 AM |
| 3 | “Men without women is school shooters”-The roommates podcastEveryone hates themselves. Everything you see people do is a coping mechanism for hating yourself. Literally EVERYONE is insecure about something in our lives. Rich people hoarding money? Coping mechanism. Making fun of other people? Coping mechanism. Work a holic? Coping mechanism. Fat? Coping mechanism Anorexic? Coping mechanism Working out obsession? Coping mechanism Can't commit? Coping mechanism Cheating? Coping mechanism Religion? Coping mechanism Love bombing? Coping mechanism I mean just… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/10/21 12:01 PM |
| 3 | “Men without women is school shooters”-The roommates podcastAlienation, is my best guess. I do believe that kids are making it harder and harder on themselves through peer pressure and social media etc. I see kids alienating themselves for stupid reasons that, in my youth, just didn't exist. That is a pressure cooker for kids who don't have an ability to see that life is long and ages 1-25 blow by in an instant and life is more than just hs and college. I don't mean to sound old.. I went back to college at 40 and fucking had a blast with kids more than h… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 09:24 PM |
| 3 | “Men without women is school shooters”-The roommates podcastThese men don't know what love is, That's a blanket statement I would refute. A vast majority of school shooters and incels come from moderately privileged backgrounds with families. These aren't people who've never been hugged in their lives; those people end up in recovery and not spree killings. A majority of these types of personalities that promote these ideas of boys and men requiring women and sex do so because they are privileged, spoiled to excess psychologically and socio-economic. Who… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 09:08 PM |
| 17 | “Men without women is school shooters”-The roommates podcastIf men can't stop themselves from shooting innocent people alone, then this is a problem that "adding a woman" cannot possibly solve. He's basically saying men are not evolved without a woman. He's insulting men. All men. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Does the average person know or have RP values or is it just weirdos and losers who buy into it?Truly nonexistent in the over 30 population, not even in pop culture references. I have met a total of 0 people, men or women, over 30 who even understand 'chad' or 'manosphere' let alone trp. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?I guess with that attitude your options are limited. Nobody finds victim complexes attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?Well, no I said skilled lovers. I mean if you have to fuck 500 people to get good, you're a slow learner and probably have some mental issues. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?From experience, so do guys. The only guy who wants an inexperienced lover is the guy who's trying to hide they're not a good lover. I guess you are right in that way, women do select for better sexual partners not virgin or inexperience men. The sex is just better. Are you selecting for bad sex or good sex? Sounds like bad sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 11:53 AM |
| 2 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?Hot or not to you doesn't matter, what does matter is that dating for older women never slows down. Women at 50 complain about men swarming their OLD profiles as much as 20 year olds. What wall? If I can still pick and choose at 50 which men I can date... Where's the wall? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 11:50 AM |
| 4 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?Btw the wall doesn't exist. Just sayin'... | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 11:41 AM |
| 2 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?I'm not asking that... I'm asking do men lose value the more people they sleep with? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 11:40 AM |
| 2 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?Does that count for guys too? Like value goes down for guys the more women they sleep with? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 11:01 AM |
| 0 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?Don't matter? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 09:46 AM |
| 5 | How many Chads do women sleep with before going for beta and is it true that they do it?Do women count as a body? Or is it just guys women have slept with that you worry about? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/21 09:33 AM |
| 5 | Most men are already trying hard or working hard and are confident. All of these have no guarantee that they will secure a partner nor give any type of progress in anything.I feel like 2/3 of the posts here can be answered with this question. Life is an absolute crap shoot. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Would most older men hook up with a younger woman if they could red pilled or not?In my own personal experience, younger people fuck badly...so is it the sex or the status of having sex with younger women? Why would you expect a person who has little or no sexual experience to have a good skillset? That's the general consensus among older people I live and work with, that sex with younger is only good for the ego boost. The sex itself is crap. Because there is a difference. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/21 02:45 PM |
| 6 | Is hitting the wall even a thing?Why does nobody discuss how men's penises stop working with age. Nearly universally, men's physical ability to actually have sex decreases exponentially from about 30 years onward. Then there's prostate issues and some prostate surgeries actually end men's ability to get an erection. Nobody wonders why male impotency pills are some of the most prescribed medications in the world? It's not all swingers and sex parties. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 13 | I'm guessing this is a redpilled girl I came across but no matter what you think of someone's sexual past, comparing it to murder is absolutely gross as someone who has lost a family member to murderI'm pretty sure at the end of everyone's life, when your dicks stop working and vaginas get dried up, that NOBODY thinks back and says "I'm glad I had less sex when I was younger". But that's just me. Could test that theory over at "ask old people". | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/21 11:21 AM |
| 3 | If anyone is hypergamous its probably men not women.So chosing attractiveness would be "dating up"? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/21 11:36 AM |
| 4 | If anyone is hypergamous its probably men not women.So attractiveness would be "dating up" too. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/21 10:57 AM |
| 8 | If anyone is hypergamous its probably men not women.That is literally "dating up" when you leave a sick spouse for a healthy spouse... Also here is an article in Discovery magazine about it | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/21 10:56 AM |
| 3 | If anyone is hypergamous its probably men not women.Can you cite your sources. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/21 10:52 AM |
| 4 | SolopismNo but they project it in IMAX quality. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 26 | how many women in this sub?I'm an Anthropologist and also a woman. I subscribe to subreddits that use false arguments on "human nature" to base their world views and try to offer a more balanced view of humankind. The manosphere subreddits tend to have that distinction. You'll usually only find me posting in that capacity, however when appropriate I will also provide context from my own life. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/09/21 11:26 AM |
| 5 | Yeah but social sciences don’t really count…🙄Microsoft and Intel employ more social scientists than the government. As an Anthropologist, I was recruited out of college to work for Intel in R&D. The second place most social scientists find themselves is in military intelligence building predictive software to use against hostile demographics. There's nothing more lucrative than a social science degree with a GIS certification. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/09/21 11:44 AM |
| 8 | The Texas Anti-Abortion Bill has made me infuriated and I'm extra glad I got out of the Red Pill cult.Yes, However the culture of dehumanizing women has caused our collective democracy to legislate in a way that dehumanizes women. So no matter the for or against abortion debate, the truth is all those beliefs about women influence the general opinion. Especially since misogyny is a historical fact, the truth is dehumanizing comments about women is just reversing course on the status quo. If the government can legislate away body autonomy in women, what makes you think that the government would c… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/21 11:13 AM |
| 12 | TRP didn't "change your life" let alone saved it and thinking otherwise is a mere sign of pure brainwashFear is the mind killer. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 10 | this is the type of shit that got me into TRP. it makes me want to cry, man. i want to believe people in the world are good and people will love you for who *you *are but then again, this stuff happens. i know that the girl didn't owe the guy sex or love, he wasn't entitled to it but still, cmonSounds like your bros are hoes. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Do women only want alpha men?You think people are born self aware? 😂 So, I guess that you are not self aware enough to realize that using Alpha regarding human behavior un-ironically is, outside of TRP, a social and academic faux pas. No humans are "alpha" and commonly, using that term makes one look like an idiot. Self awareness, however, is exactly what you described which is a very well understood scientific term for a set of human behaviors and psychology. You are not self aware enough to see that I was correcting you s… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Do women only want alpha men?There's no Alpha creeps? No loners with girlfriends? I mean what is the criteria for loner? Or Creep? Or Alpha anyways? Your personal opinion? You build a subjective reality and then try to fit objective truths into like a square peg in a round hole. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Do women only want alpha men?Or one could say women prefer self aware men. Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Do women only want alpha men?Yea but you're measuring using arbitrary and capricious standards that don't comport with anything real... All people have things they are better at and worse at than other people. Whoop de doo... I guess that makes us all Alpha in our very special way (as long as we use arbitrary standards like you). | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 6 | Do women only want alpha men?You're un-ironically using "alpha" like it's not a totally made up term. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Do women only want alpha men?Self awareness is an acceptance of who you are. Confidence is an acceptance of who you are, no matter what. I see no difference. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 01:00 PM |
| 6 | Do women only want alpha men?It's called self awareness, not Alpha male. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?Original comment has study. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?Clearly you didn't read my entire comment.. I've never argued for evolution, biology, nor pedophilia. The study shows that pedophilia gaze is antisocial, not the norm at all. The study also suggests that even across sexual preferences, preferences for under the cultural age of consent is rare and even wide age range pairings are rare . You literally haven't read anything I wrote. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?I don't understand why you are assuming I am making an argument for evolution when I have said again and again there are a whole host of reasons beyond biology. There's an attempt to normalize it by people who are already anti social by definition. Sexualizing children is not the norm anywhere at anytime, I've stated that.. To debate it is moot, all the data says that it isn't even possible because it is summerly rejected by nearly everyone. The debate is what social penalties should exist for p… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?Yes, the edit. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?I'm not sure "right now" is a fair description. I think cultures go in and out of these things and, tbh, it was as long back as I can remember and I'm 50. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?Btw: The one study you link is "volunteer" people self reporting. No way that even gets close to being accurate. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?Why is youth a preference? Oh a shit ton of reasons from just simple nostalgia to biology and everything in between. How do you separate thoughts out when it comes to aesthetics? I think what you're asking is why some cultures overly sexualize youth while other's don't despite an overall appreciation of youthful aesthetics across the cultural board... And that is where a sociologist would come in. It could be economics or it could be some ecological advantage, depends on the society. As far as p… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?I think there is a vast divide between aesthetics and bond pairing. People like to look at youthful aesthetics a lot. I mean we all are young at some point and there is something to be said about the aesthetics of the physical form in our youth. I mean the Olympics just happened and that's basically the entire world looking at young people's bodies doing amazing things. Aesthetics like art is a thing. However, pair bonding is a whole other ball of wax and as the study points out, what one looks … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?It's posted at the top. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 11:18 AM |
| 9 | How "normal" is the sexualization of teens/young women by men?An interesting study: Age Limits: Men’s and Women’s Youngest and Oldest Considered and Actual Sex Partners Edit: please actually read what I wrote before going off about pedophilia. My first sentence literally says "below a certain age is not normal at all". That's literally evolutionary psychology saying that pedo/hebo philia is abnormal. Honestly, some of you all want to argue before you understand, taking something that supports the abnormalities of pedophilia and immediately assuming because… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/21 11:14 AM |
| 12 | Red pill is the most depressing shit ever lolThis is like telling alcoholics White Claw is a good beverage to drink as an alternative. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 4 | An alternative to The Red PillSee your monologue as proof. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 01:14 PM |
| 5 | An alternative to The Red PillThat's like saying we need to give every cult an alternative to the cult for us to end cults. The alternative is a life not inside a cult. Any other life, but cult membership. The fact that you're in a cult should be the warning sign that you're chosing an alternate reality that most people don't choose. There is no "alternative" to cult behavior but life itself in all its freedom and responsibility, beyond whatever philosophical rouse some charismatic people have whipped up to soothe your socia… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Being a player/womanizer is overratedLying to get people to like you is a terrible way to live. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/21 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Updating beliefs on women's sexualityDid you even try to google biocultural anthropology? There's a wiki about it. Try New Directions in Biocultural anthropology by Zuckerman and Martin. You can probably find a pdf somewhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Updating beliefs on women's sexualityLike I said, it's a degree field so there's entire text books. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Updating beliefs on women's sexualityBut, culture cannot induce desires that don't exist. Do you know that for certain? Can you not think of ways in which culture effects biology? Do you know they've done research on that very point? Do you know my degree field is in specifically the ways in which culture effects biology and biology effects culture so you saying it doesn't shows you are missing a WIDE swath of knowledge that may change your viewpoint. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 01:26 PM |
| 5 | Updating beliefs on women's sexualityHow do you feel about culture effecting the way people behave over simple biological responses? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/08/21 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cultDon't yell at a descriptivists because your prescriptivist mind can't wrap its head around words. Is this how you act in casual conversation? A bit off putting to be so rule based in a social media platform. You're literally stuck on two words which are easily defined but you can't answer my original question. You're hostile at me, but it is you who has purposefully refused to answer my simple question. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cultYou're intentionally being obtuse. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult"but at it's core, TRP, to me, is simply understanding how men and women fundamentally view things differently sexually." I think you need to explain what you mean because: Most RP folks don't think this is the core. What TRP is teaching you could be cultish, and it also may not be depending. I mean, FGM is a religious practice with cultish tendencies but not all people who follow the religion practice that. Can't judge one sect over another, it's specific. You adherence to it could be what illu… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cultSo you want people to discuss TRP with you and you don't want to discuss the important (to you) parts that speak to you regarding TRP. Weird. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cultWhat is different between how genders see sex? I'm interested in your thoughts.... | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/21 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cultHow do men and women see sex differently? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/21 11:28 PM |
| 9 | Summary of the academic consensus on the impact of sexual history on infidelity and divorceSelf reporting anything is frequently unreliable. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 4 | MGTOW's defending AWALT stanceThere's a good book where Briffault and Malinowski debate each other. Malinowski is considered one of the founders modern anthropology and his work is peerless in its attention to detail. The Book on Amazon From the book '"Briffault was a special pleader, and this greatly mars the presentation of his case ... Furthermore, Briffault is often inaccurate... He was a brilliant, and often prejudiced, thinker." | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | I've fallen into the thinking of AFBB, it seems somewhat true. So why is it not true?Come on... "My nuanced view is that women in their 20s tend to fuck hot men who don't offer good qualities for a long term relationship, whilst not dating less attractive men. However, once they reach their 30s, and some become in a rush to have children, they are more likely to "settle". This doesn't mean that they are unhappy in this relationship necessarily, but they would consider guys that they wouldn't have given a second look when they were 22." You actually say that ... You never say "so… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I've fallen into the thinking of AFBB, it seems somewhat true. So why is it not true?Half are less than 28 and the median never hits 30. Yeah it's not uncommon, but it's not at all close to the norm. You're now hedging your bets because the numbers don't support your theory of ALL WOMEN do it. If ALL WOMEN do it or even a majority, that number would be in the 30s. The chart says clearly first marriages..why would the amount of marriages matter if women are trying to play guys for their support? Clearly a divorce would be an obvious red flag no matter the gender and if you procee… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I've fallen into the thinking of AFBB, it seems somewhat true. So why is it not true?So where in this chart does it show women in large groups marrying after they turn 30? Chart shows average age of men and women's first marriage from 1890 to present in the USA. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Aren't some RedPill ideas in line with science/psychology?Btw on the book request, your best bet right now is to hunt down a text book online. Amazon prime reading often has a few solid Anthropology books for free loan and pdfs abound on the internet. Look for something having to do with primatology and human evolution. What you're asking for is literally an entire academic field. Use that to your advantage and audit the class through text books. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Aren't some RedPill ideas in line with science/psychology?I don't mean to be the person who does this, but seriously, you should always Google the critical analysis of every study you want to hang your hat on. It's easy... Just search critique, critical analysis, response to and the study name or main authors. In most scholar articles online, they will also show all the cites and who cited the research, look at those. And finally, the scientific journal it was originally published should carry a response either in that issue or in a follow-up. Learn ho… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Aren't some RedPill ideas in line with science/psychology?Most gorilla males stay within a range close to their birth kin which can cause genetic degradation (bottlenecking) so to counteract that, females tend to swap out of their natal troops often before reproducing. Females also swap out if their hierarchy often, suggesting that while single male dominated packs maintain a harem of females, those females are constantly changing and leaving the Alpha males for different genetic males. This is the part that I don't understand with the whole push for a… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Aren't some RedPill ideas in line with science/psychology?Not necessarily shockingly different. Nearly all of them mate for politics and social soothing. Instead of me giving you an answer straight out, because there's a few different ideas, let me broaden your question and have you rethink it. What is it about each one of those specie's ecological niches that would influence their social order behavior and mating? You don't mention Orangutans. In my opinion, Orangs actually have the closest social order to humans, solitary but social, small family pod… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Aren't some RedPill ideas in line with science/psychology?Absolutely. EP is fairly new. Darwin himself suggested looking into psychology as a pathway for evolutionary study and we have in so many ways to great success, especially with animal behavior. Animal behavior research has informed human behavior in a lot of ways. You cannot get an Anthropology degree without touching on primate social order. However, humans are complex and have biology that doesn't mimic itself in other species, culture being one and our bipedalism is two, and our massive brain… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Aren't some RedPill ideas in line with science/psychology?Honestly there's so much in academia from multiple fields of study that it's hard to throw you one or two articles. To start, there's an actual Wikipedia page on just the criticism Most of the major studies that gained popularity have each been critically reviewed from Art to mate size/shape to rape to the one in OPs post. EP asks great questions, but fails often to incorporate already existing research in other fields of study, like evolutionary biology. You'll find a lot of critical work comin… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 9 | Aren't some RedPill ideas in line with science/psychology?The original study was a joke among Anthropology circles. I'm surprised they had the audacity to try it again after the hit evolutionary psychology took on the chin for it. Preference and actual selection of mate still hasn't been resolved. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/21 11:16 AM |
| 1 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPAll of this is your opinion. I'm not going to argue your opinion, because opinions are like assholes. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPLol Look how complicated you make everything. You're upset that there isn't a single set of behavioral characteristics that appeal to every man ever, I didn't say that. I gave two scenarios, one which illustrates an ideal and the other who actually believes it's a biological marker for hypergamy. Nobody in their right mind believes there is a single ideal for every man. You pulled that argument out of thin air. As far as being condescending... Well, I am not the one arguing something that just i… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPAnd? Is all art supposed to be an ideal? Or is it supposed to imitate life itself within a microcosm . In your world all movies would be public service announcements. How absolutely boring. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPIs hypergamy an ideal or a belief? An ideal would be the first group, men stating they prefer sexually confident women. The second one is a belief that ALL women perform, and I quote, "the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background." because of some biological or social construct. What is not normal is not knowing that ideal is defined as "satisfying one's conception of what is perfect; most suitable." and not a belief d… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/21 07:18 PM |
| 19 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPI love how red pill and non red pill men have diametrically opposed viewpoints on women's sexuality. If you post on r/askmen about how they would feel about their woman being sexually dominant, knowing and communicating what she wants and wants from you, and has a high libido they would scream YES PLEASE!!!! If you put that same question to redpill they say it's proof of hypergamy and that women are always immoral. Basically saying HELL NO. Damned if you do, damned if you dont. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 14 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPIt's not that people can't see this is adding fuel to a fire... It's that life happens and cheating happens, on both sides, and art will imitate life. You want everyone to live in your Disney land, but we can't because we (the rest of society) enjoy life and how it represents itself in art. Not always, not every piece, but some will always draw themselves to certain kinds. Nobody makes this stuff up, it's happening and all they're doing is framing a story. Like In Cold Blood, the novel, frames m… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/21 12:42 PM |
| 16 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPDo you want people to stop making art because it triggers you? Are you fascist leaning? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 44 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPIf men don't leave their wives for porn stars then why would you think women will suddenly get up and leave their men over a show? What the show is actually illuminating is your absolute belief that women are always going to chose to be immoral. You believe that so hard that a tv show will set you off meanwhile ignoring that this type of show has existed forever and that porn is equally as prolific and yet... Life goes on like before. This isn't the first show to portray women cheating. Men have… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 42 | that new Sex/Life show got me FUCKED UPI'm trying to figure out why porn doesn't freak you out but this does? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 3 | What makes people believe that there're magic pills that can fix all their problems like redpill or any kind of cults.It's like this: Nearly nobody is born with any innate talent that would be considered at the level of expertise. Musicians that appear to be prodigies have some talent, but honestly they put in more time than you can imagine practicing, rehearsing, and playing for some kind of audience. It's rote practice, muscle memory that makes them great. Why would you think anything else in life would be different? Social interactions are all rehearsals for when it really matters. Learning to lose with grac… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 23 | What makes people believe that there're magic pills that can fix all their problems like redpill or any kind of cults.I think it's two things. Like many people already commented, they want to substitute a scapegoat for their own failings. But also, there's a subsection of people who see the world like a game and want the "cheat codes" to winning. They want to "game" the system, be it dating or money or status. They want the bare basics of how to win and that's it. However, the truth of it is that life isn't a game, these are not missions, you cannot game this. Why? Because it's complicated and there is no set c… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/21 12:39 PM |
| 20 | How do women sense ambition in a man? And how much ambition is attractive?TBH, most women have their own ambition and their own goals and YOUR hustle is only going to be one facet of why they would find you attractive or interesting. What's the good in having a successful bf who is never around, doesn't find interest in your passion, has a passion that doesn't interest you, and doesn't meet any of your morals or ethics? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 12 | If the RP is true and our behavior is indeed somehow constructed by society, then why is it so natural and pleasing to have LTR and to be monogamous? To love your partner? If you take ppl from ancient times, there is still same behavior, this is what god intended us to do and the way we created.If you pull back your critical gaze to encompass all of human history and all human culture you end up finding a seemingly infinite amount of thematic variations on a few core universal needs. Pair bonding is one of those universal needs for most humans. Now how we do it is completely variable. If you can imagine a social pair bonding example, it's probably been done from open marriages, multiple partners, strict monogamy etc. Even the cycles of intensity towards the social norm is predictable, … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 8 | Coach Red Pill only goes after women under 25 and you should to lol.That's a lot of words to say "i get defensive when called out on my claims." | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 7 | Coach Red Pill only goes after women under 25 and you should to lol.There's nothing personal about it, except for your story about your uncle. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/21 05:10 PM |
| 18 | Coach Red Pill only goes after women under 25 and you should to lol.The rates for older women aren't worse though at the same ages and also go up over time. Also, you look like an idiot using a narrative over actual citations. I know two people who have been attacked by sharks, that doesn't make me surmise that you have a risk swimming in the ocean. Who cares what your supposed uncle did. It is statistically irrelevant. Put your citations in and let me review them. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/21 01:30 PM |
| 25 | Coach Red Pill only goes after women under 25 and you should to lol.Anthropologically speaking younger mother's don't have an easier time raising children as much as slightly older women who have a learned skillset, education levels, and a network of solid relationships to help. One of many research studies Also, older men are as likely to contribute to birth defects as older women. In fact Autism traits are seen in a much higher level in men over 30 than women of the same age. Cite 1 cite 2 cite 3 | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/21 12:41 PM |
| 4 | I don't think there will ever be equalityI think a lot of fathers will take issue with the idea that women are more "caregiver" than them. It is that kind of manosphere logic that feminism actually has been speaking to for a generation. Men do themselves NO FAVORS by declaring that women are better caregivers because that sentiment is what gets judges to deny child custody to men. For once, stand up and say you are as good as a caregiver as a woman and not just abdicate the position to women. Everytime a man comes here and rails about … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/21 12:55 PM |
| 46 | How I feel about the “wall” as a girl.What do you actually think happens at 30? Like, honestly? Do you think you'll be ignored by people? Never get a date? None of that is real. Barely anyone cares about age and the only guys who want younger women are the ones who are way creepy. If you're totally into the way creepy guys, then turning 30 sucks for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/21 11:24 AM |
| 9 | Is it me or..."You should realize manosphere isn't a hivemind where they all share the same viewpoint." Wallow with pigs, don't be surprised mud gets on you. I mean seriously the big bad "feminists" word is thrown around like it's a single hive mind. You did it. But honestly, most manosphere rubes can't name one feminist of note. "Sucked in by feminists" you say, but never once named. Just the "feel felt found" sales technique. You can't stop doing it. The fact that they're getting paid is enough, but let's n… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Is it me or...Any ideology that requires you to see any group of human being as of lesser value is contrary to basic biological survival. However, they are always are around. Always. Why? Because it's the most lucrative scam to run. Why dupe one person, when you can dupe a hundred, a thousand, or a million suckers. I honestly don't care what silly ideology you use, I personally am here to study human behavior. Sometimes to just use my life as the contrary narrative. I watch and I comment because it's an inter… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 19 | Is it me or...Probably for the same reason that men's domestic violence shelters and men's rape crisis centers are mostly run and funded by feminist women. The same reason why Planned Parenthood provides free reproductive health services to men as well as women. The same reason why Movember, a massive international men's suicide and health organization, is half run by women. If you want to know that reason, maybe you should volunteer for any of those noble causes and ask the women there why they go out of the… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?But that's not society, or culture, or women's fault. Again, it's a lack of imagination. I already admitted I was ugly in this thread. I mean my mom use to say it to me all the time when I was growing up. I lost a promotion due to the fact that I "didn't look the part." You dismiss this as if your own flaws are more significant. Plenty of people have crippling problems and still build strong identities from it. It's not like there isn't a well worn path from social misfit to happiness, there's a… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?but more often than not it's because of generational issues that the family hasn't worked on and you got caught up in it too due to a lack of knowledge and wisdom to help you OUT of that framework A lack of imagination covers almost everything you say here. An inability to imagine oneself as broken, one's family as dysfunctional, or even one's beliefs as biased. That's why the #1 step in AA is admitting that you are an alcoholic, because not admitting is admitting that despite all the signs, you… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?It’s not like everyone is born with a high sense of self-esteem and self-worth or loves themselves. You need to actively work on them. That's why just going through the motions, like going to the gym, doesn't always work. If that is not your identity, it will both come off as "inauthentic" to those who do identify in that way and for those who aren't gym people, they won't care. Better to find an activity that speaks to you, like mountain climbing, biking, running, or team sports like soccer. No… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?You only make judgments when it adversely effects you in a relationship and that's usually a sign that a conversation needs to happen. Mostly, it's a package deal, you are with them because the totality of who they are is interesting, pleasing, or adds value to your life. You don't go around judging them because that's counterproductive and also throws doubt on yourself for chosing to be with them. (Self esteem again). I'm ugly but very personable, pretty smart, and successful. I've never had an… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?Why would somebody date you if they looked down on you? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?Fragile egos and low self esteem. I mean to even be offended that somebody is "better" than you, you have to first admit you're not as 'good' to begin with. People who are well adjusted understand that there is an infinite amount of reasons why somebody might like you and just take that at face value. People with low self esteem come to the table already believing they have no worth, which is just a lack of imagination. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Even if people generally want a partner similar to themselves, is it common that women find it attractive for men to be more experienced, knowledgable, worldy, smarter than themelves?Counter question: Do men find it attractive for women to be more experienced, knowledgeable, worldly, smarter than themselves? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Need your thoughts on TRP/MGTOW resentment of and entitlement towards womenThis whole post is a screaming Oedipus Complex... Because remember what Freud said, "If it's not one thing, it's your mother." | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 12:24 PM |
| 4 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?Abandoning your progeny is counter intuitive, but whatever you want. It's your life. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?For guys, if you're not married your rights to any children could be forfeit. I know more than one woman who chose to leave "father" blank and with no legal marriage, the men couldn't even bring a case in court. Some did and lost. So if that matters, and I hear many men complain about father's rights, marriage is the way to go. Professional women shouldn't. If you like a party, get married... That's my take. I'm honestly not bitter, ex and I had good years. Wished him well. He's a single dad now… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?Just go to r/divorce and spend a month reading the posts, everyone gets a raw deal just depends on the perspective. For me, knowing what I know now, I would have gladly paid the restocking fee to get out of that marriage. My ex was a house husband for all intents and purposes for the last 10 years of my marriage. Go to r/deadbedrooms and see how equal the problems and between the genders. It makes me laugh, because none of the people here who bring up divorce has ever been married. Most haven't … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 10:59 PM |
| 10 | Divorce - a raw deal for men?I'm a woman and my ex-husband sued me for alimony, half my retirement, and the house. He also managed to stay in the house, sold all our 18 years worth of things, including trying to sell my dog and give away my cats. The police did nothing. He got the house even after admitting he got another woman pregnant. Tell me again how unfair it is to men? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 09:25 PM |
| 11 | TheRedPill: Enslavement through the promise of freedomSo what you're describing is a cult. A cult that abuses its people for reward and claims some secret knowledge that isn't secret or very knowledgeable. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 12:31 PM |
| 4 | About the “wall”I'm close to 50 and I have yet to see this wall. I have divorced, graduated college, started a new career, dated, and am in another LTR all after the age of 40. I was married for 18 years and had a 25 year career prior to 40. I'm not even particularly good looking, so I am not sure why people are so crazy about aesthetics. You're afraid of nothing if you're afraid of the 'wall'. It's just something young boys like to tell themselves to make them feel better about striking out with girls their ow… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 0 | What natural or sexual selection have to do with humans?Does that smug bullshitty attitude work for you? Seriously I literally apologized because I didn't understand you were talking about very specific people. You just still had to be a douche. Looks like that's totally working for you. Ffs. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 0 | What natural or sexual selection have to do with humans?I was referring to prudish people who won't even discuss premarital sex and look down upon those who do get divorced. I'm sorry, I don't read minds. I didn't know your point of reference was so small. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What natural or sexual selection have to do with humans?If a majority of people date and have sex before marriage, nobody is making any claims of virginity unless they have to for familial or religious reasons. That's not hypocrisy, that's self preservation. Maybe you're taking people too seriously. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | What natural or sexual selection have to do with humans?A taboo by definition is "a social or religious custom prohibiting or forbidding discussion of a particular practice or forbidding association with a particular person, place, or thing." If people are doing it everywhere and there is no social penalty for it, by definition it's not taboo. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 5 | What natural or sexual selection have to do with humans?Just because people have multiple partners in a lifetime doesn't mean they aren't monogamous. Very few people, in fact very few cultures, have a taboo on premarital sex and divorce is nearly universal in all cultures. It's just the big three religions that make it weird. Not all monogamous relationships end up with kids. Sex, everyone does it. No big deal what reason, honestly. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 4 | What natural or sexual selection have to do with humans?Social animals tend to mate with multiple partners for reproduction, pleasure, and politics. Humans are social animals. Therefore we also mate with multiple partners for reproduction, pleasure, and politics. There is no standard because ecological variability changes the individual needs for reproduction, pleasure, and politics. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/21 05:29 PM |
| 25 | Have any of you went against the advice of TRP/MGTOW and dated a woman they hate, considered undesirable or advise other men not to date and how was the experience?I'm sure you're sweating the loss of RP guys from your dating pool... Like how I'm sweating hitting the 30 year wall at 46. I'm apparently a late bloomer because it hasn't got here yet. Maybe with menopause. Who knows. 🤔 | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 6 | I have my life in order, but I dont think I can stop being a Peter Pan(vent)Honestly, your description of life is about as far away from my own, and most everyone I know, experience. In short bursts, it often sucks ass, but in the long arc it's kinda fun. Nobody actually "grows up" on the inside, we all carry our younger selves along as we go. That's why a lot of people will compare their lives as they age to the hopes of their younger selves. Dreams don't end at 30, 40, 50, or even 60 years old and you find yourself turning chapters in your life. We old people still pa… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/21 05:24 PM |
| 9 | One more for the ladiesBecause in the end, people who swallow ideologies like this can't handle the world the rest of us have no problems living in. We date. We love. We get dumped. We move on. Sometimes we marry and divorce. Sometimes it lasts forever. This has been the human condition since the start and a majority of us are ok with it. We know that life comes with ZERO guarantees. These folks in these ideologies want to game an un-gameable societal system. You can't win at this. There's no winning. The best you get… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Current redpiller here.What is it about you that needs to know? Maybe just learn to let it go. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Current redpiller here.All this to tell me that I'm playing the game wrong. Like I said, not here to change anyone, prove anything, sell anything... I could honestly care less if some boy wants to throw away the first quarter of their life to what boils down to a cult. There is no "right way" to life. There are only a couple of billion imperfect people living imperfect lives trying desperately to build imperfect relationships using imperfect communication skills in an otherwise completely imperfect world. But if spinn… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Current redpiller here.People who want something from you will tell you what you want to hear. I'm just telling the truth. If you're buying into TRP, you're just a stooge to clever marketing. You're no different then the clowns at Scientology believing that we evolved from clams and we are cogs in a space war. No different than that chick who is selling leggings and vaginal steaming as a "lifestyle choice". No different than white nationalists desperately trying to convince people that they are the "master race". You … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 11 | Current redpiller here.The same happiness can be measured in cult members, MLM members etc. What's your basis of comparison? What age weren't you trp and what age were you? I mean, did you put in two decades of life or were you 13 and now 16 and suddenly the world makes sense. There were no traditional values in the 1950s, unless you think you need the advantage of making sure women don't compete with you in everything. That's the only real difference, women are competing with men more in all aspects of life but that … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/21 01:25 PM |
| 9 | Current redpiller here.All this and you haven't figured out that your basically just like a middle aged soccer mom stuck in a MLM. That's all TRP is, a marketing plot. That's all PUA has always been, a way to make money on gullible, desperate people. Look at you, just running around advertising for Rollo and getting no "stan" money for it. He gets paid everytime you manage to send a pair of eyeballs towards his content. Kinda just like insta girl influencers, you're being manipulated to think that you're a part of a s… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/21 12:45 PM |
| 11 | Why 'body count' is so important in TRP culture?Because it makes them feel better. It takes the dating pool down to only a handful of people which they then use to justify their lack of success. If they want to believe that it matters, then they have to drop the evolutionary argument for everything because humans, especially human women, are built for social sexuality. Why do you think human women are one of the few species that doesn't have outwardly visible fertility nor can human males tell with any accuracy when women are fertile? It's be… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 01:58 PM |
| 3 | You have to admit getting married in society is a huge riskI was married for 18 years and then divorced. You guys make it seem like it'll kill you. It doesn't. It was a good marriage until it wasn't and then it was over. That's life. You can sit in your room all day and be scared of everything or you can live life, chaos and all. But you'll never game life and it will always blindside you. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Men, what do you think about Red Pillers calling every non-red pilled guy a simp or beta?Like I said, some people never grow up. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/21 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Men, what do you think about Red Pillers calling every non-red pilled guy a simp or beta?All of it sounds like jealousy. Women jealous of other women. Men jealous of other men. Men jealous of women. Women jealous of men. You know who doesn't get jealous? People who are self aware and well adjusted. So all these things are just red flags to avoid while looking for a self aware and well adjusted partner. Jealousy is something that we usually put away when we grow up, but some people never grow up. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/21 11:58 AM |
| 8 | Ladies and gentlemen, redpill in a nutshellI'd like to point out that dominant and submissive isn't a binary thing. Humans are complicated and live very long lives with an extraordinary amount of personality facets. I have dated powerful men who enjoyed being submissive in the bedroom, loved being taken control of, because they craved letting go. There are plenty of strong women who are submissive in many ways including sexually. We are dominate in many things, submissive in others and if you're not, you have what many people consider a … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticLol money and ass. It's amazing what alters we worship to. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/20 04:32 AM |
| 3 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticNobody is owed somebody else's time, attention, energy, or body. Rejection is not incivility, it's life. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticGiving up appears to be your M.O. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticBullshit. If you can't be beautiful, be intelligent, charming, and dynamite in the sack. Just because you lose the genetic lottery, which 99.9% of the world does, you still have plenty of options on being attractive. Positive reinforcement has nothing to do with completely shutting down your options and chosing to blame everyone else. That's an individual choice. But don't go around bitching about how your life sucks when you're chosing to make it that way. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticYes and all this is the wimminz fault so guess be misogynistic because Bruh, what else. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 2 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticYea and all that is the wimminz fault so you must be misogynistic. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 4 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticYea, you assume everyone but OP is mentally healthy Including me. I have CPTSD from trauma in my childhood. Telling OP that a mental health disorder is going to end his chances of success, however he defines it, is NOT healthy advice. We all can have a purpose in life if we choose it. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 5 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticWhen you run out of excuses, you're life will begin. Until then, I hope these excuses keep you warm. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 7 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticYea... So does most people out there. You think everyone's life is peaches and regalia??? I was supporting the bills in my parent's house between 16-18, working two jobs. I still managed to save money and travel the world. I was raped as a child by my neighbor. I still managed to put myself together to try out relationships and sex. By the time I was 25, I was married. My parents were immigrants, I didn't know english when I started school here in America. I got into University at 18 but because… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 7 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticThe amount of regret for not seizing the day in one's youth is exponentially greater the longer one lives. Instead of standing on ideology, they should be running on empty doing as much as possible before life brings everything to a halt in middle age and doesn't free up until retirement. By the time I was 23 I had travelled alone in Europe twice, hitchhiked halfway across the USA, spent a summer protesting on land 100 miles from my home, owned 3 cars, had one serious relationship, was arrested … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 16 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynistic21 and already planned your life right up until your grave. How utterly sad that at 21 it's over for your growth in your own head. You will probably live another 60 years, but a stagnate 60 long years it will be. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 5 | I want to be like you guys - but can any of you seriously debunk the redpill without just saying its misogynistic?They're still here after 100k years of human history. Plenty of cultures and other species have gone extinct, including the Roman empire. But this is your response to my evidence of your false logic, to be snarky about what constitutes success??? That's why misogyny is a dead horse that's been beaten for 1000 years longer than necessary. But you, you keep beating it while the rest of us evolve. And red pillers wonder why nobody wants to sleep with them? Maybe it's because you are not ever going … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 10:08 AM |
| 5 | I want to be like you guys - but can any of you seriously debunk the redpill without just saying its misogynistic?No it's not"our better angels" and saying that is offensive to the human race. Our biological strength is variability. Meaning: we change when pressure forces us to for survival. That's why Inuit tribes have wife sharing, Tibetan's have polyandry, African herders are polygamous, and American Agriculturalists are monogamous. But you disregard that because it doesn't suit your world order. You disregard the truth that humans have no social order that manifests everywhere, with everyone, simultaneo… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 09:45 AM |
| 6 | I want to be like you guys - but can any of you seriously debunk the redpill without just saying its misogynistic?We ARE NOT just mammals. If you believe that, then pray tell me which other mammal has a space program. Tell me which mammal has full global range? Tell me which mammals build schools for their young? Which mammals have thousands of cultures that include language, clothing, rituals, religions etc? Which mammals have less infanticide? Come on now, you can't blame misogyny on biology and then ignore the infinite amount of ways humans constantly overcome their biology. Besides Misogyny was a produc… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 09:22 AM |
| 5 | I want to be like you guys - but can any of you seriously debunk the redpill without just saying its misogynistic?Isn't that enough? I mean seriously, do you actually want to evolve as a species, or just return to being primates in trees? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 08:55 AM |
| 6 | Science, n-count and divorce risk: when the red pill abuses statistics to further its narrativeIt also discounts the 4% or more married couples who participate in consensual non-monogamy. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 9 | You know why most men don't get sex? Because they spend the day in their computers! There has never been the need to join a cult and read tons of crazy material. If you GET a social live and you areput yourself out there, you will have a natural sex life . (Obviously Covid Warning included)Like I said, mine is small too. In winter, it's a very dark and lonely place. Has been since around 1700 when we were founded. That's why there's so much social going on, because it's lonely. Most of the groups are just a handful of people, maybe 20, in winter. In spring, summer, fall more people arrive and the town grows to 45,000 people. The thing is, in the winter it's the time to get in on the ground floor, get aquatinted because your social life will ramp up as the temp gets warm. Every pla… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/20 01:46 PM |
| 14 | You know why most men don't get sex? Because they spend the day in their computers! There has never been the need to join a cult and read tons of crazy material. If you GET a social live and you areput yourself out there, you will have a natural sex life . (Obviously Covid Warning included)Since OP literally probably thinks you're trolling because this is honestly what most normal people do, but because I know almost all red pillers, mgtow, and incels don't socialize here's my local list: The three local bars that are the hangout for anyone under 30. There are about 20 nights a year where the local charities throw huge parties to raise money. Several I go to are actually themed parties. .Volunteering A. Historical/museums, we have two museums and one historical board all run by vo… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/20 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Do redpillers/incels lurk here?Yes and if you're really lucky they follow you around and comment on everything you post because they're mad and have no life. Which should be proof enough for anyone here considering these modes of ideology; eventually you end up alone and so mad at life you'll follow a woman around reddit and scream at her about topics like menstruation, weight loss, and politics because she hurt your feelings on hypergamy and 'the wall'. Is that the life you want? Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 20/12/20 01:12 PM |
| 11 | Why women like "bad boys" ?!You know one thing I have noticed in my 4 decades of life, boys call other guys "bad" when they want to go out with their girl. "Good" guys will find every reason under the sun to hate the guy with their perceived girl rather than just move on with their lives. Why? It's safer to pine for a girl you can't have then to go out and find your own. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 11:33 AM |
| 9 | Has anyone heard of TFM (Turd Flinging Monkey?)No doubt! My mom owned a restaurant with her name on it. She woke up every morning at 3am to open the restaurant at 4am. Never came home before 4pm and would still clean house, cook dinner, and make sure we all were doing our homework. My dad worked the evenings at a catering hall as the head chef. The both of them, before the last restaurant, had opened, renovated, and sold 5 other restaurants during my childhood. All this bullshit MGTOW bases it's "advice" on is buried way back before the 1970… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/20 11:15 AM |
| 5 | Do you think that sex robots will replace women/men?First TRP says biology is paramount to our gender behavior. Then think that robots would satisfy our primary genetic directive to mate and see our progeny to adulthood. Which is it? Can't have both. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 7 | What are some of the worst mistruths spread by redpillers, particularly ones that would be useful to share with someone who is "redpilled"?The wall. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Do women try to shame/limit men from accessing their sexual options whilst they expand their own?Consent is something that isn't discussed enough. There's a whole philosophy sub category that speaks and discusses consent ethics. If you've deep dived all the manosphere and haven't come across any actual consent ethics philosophy, you have your answer. Please do yourself an actual service and deep dive consent ethics outside the manosphere. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Just as triggered5 years ago I was nearly homeless and went back to university, dumpster diving my way through two plus years so I could graduate, with fucking honors. Maybe re-evaluate your ability to "read" people and how that clearly effects your ability to communicate and receive information. Lol floundering all the way through that comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Just as triggeredWhy? Listen, if boys want to spend all day building an intellectually lazy world view based on social media platform content, let them. My only intention is to, perhaps, make them realize that 90% of the world exists off social media... Out there, in the real world, with real people, who will have the exact same reaction as I did, male or female. Do you think for one moment that OP would get any traction in a board room, class room, or even cocktail party with jibberish nonsense like his post or… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Just as triggeredSo OP is intellectually lazy. Which was my point. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Just as triggeredSo men are intellectually lazy? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Just as triggeredSo, like I said in a comment on the thread, OP is a gender conspiracy theorist, using only random online crap as the basis for his world view. Tin foil hat and all. I mean really, that's all RP is... | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Hitting the Wall When She Turns 30 🔴 WOMEN HIT THE WALL (Is there a Wall for Men)Does this make boys feel better about themselves? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 11:14 AM |
| 6 | So why no Jordan Peterson on this subreddit?Well there's a reason why they don't teach Dr. Phil in psychology or Dr. oz in nutrition, except as a warning. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 10:49 AM |
| 3 | So why no Jordan Peterson on this subreddit?Sounds exactly like my local soccer mom talking about whatever guru Oprah has on her book of the month club... ... horseshoe theory in effect. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Just as triggeredYou're floundering. You should just take the L and learn from it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Just as triggeredAsking for clarity is triggered? Being frustrated by idiots is triggered? Yea paint me "triggered"... It means nothing coming from you. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 03:16 PM |
| 8 | Just as triggeredAnyone can make a video or a claim. I'm asking for names of actual published Feminists. You can't. Not one. You're uneducated. That's a fact as it stands right now. You're the equivalent of a flat earther, getting everything you know from people on the internet, gossip, bad science, moronic logic, zero peer reviewed garbage and coddling together a world view based on that and that alone because, clearly reliable, testable, observable and peer reviewed information is "corrupted by the enemy". You… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Just as triggeredJesus Christ, You write a lot of bullshit for somebody who can't even answer a simple question of sources for your ire. Are you feverishly googling right now? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 02:30 PM |
| 7 | Just as triggeredYes the one you agree with.. But you said you don't agree. With whom? Which one. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Just as triggeredI'm asking who. Who. Which feminists. I mean there are writers and theorists. Every person that posts here knows 10 different youtube TRP/MGTOW folks, bloggers, websites. Nobody ever can name a feminist. Fine, give me a third wave feminist that argued what you say in print or media and we can have a conversation. Otherwise you're just creating a straw man argument that you can easily dismantle. Name the women... We have fucking names, degrees, we write books, theories.. There's a whole academic … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Just as triggeredI'm sorry, which feminist? Was that Elizabeth Cady Stanton? Mary Wollstonecraft? Bell Hooks? Angela Carter? Nawal el Saadawi? Patrician Collins? Margaret Atwood? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 01:15 PM |
| 15 | So why no Jordan Peterson on this subreddit?Jordan Peterson is taught in universities as "how not to do science". That should be enough information to understand why he's not allowed on this sub. It's the same reason why flat earthers aren't invited to publish their research. It's not that it's a dissenting opinion, it's because it's no opinion at all. It's completely imaginary. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Question for Females, do you actually place men in Alpha & Beta boxes ?There's no alpha and beta. There is only idiots and everyone else. Attraction is taste and like ice cream, people like a lot of flavors. They also rank them in order of what is #1 but also top 10 favorites. Not all those lists are going to look the same, but some flavors just always end up on the list, because they're generic and basic. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 9 | TRP Community thinks Trump is the last masculine president in forever?I find him incredibly effeminate for a man of his age. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Ex RP Woman. Don’t repeat my mistakes, please.I'm trying to figure out how specifically third wave feminism, which is very specifically defined as "to question, reclaim, and redefine the ideas, words, and media that have transmitted ideas about womanhood, gender, beauty, sexuality, femininity, and masculinity... " is related to " women good, men bad" in your mind. You can't quote one feminist theorist or writer... So I can't triangulate what your thinking. You haven't been forthcoming with the reason WHY you went to red pill which is really… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/20 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Ex RP Woman. Don’t repeat my mistakes, please.Most equal... Isn't full equal. So you admittedly don't believe anywhere is equal. Do you not think reddit and red pill are international? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Ex RP Woman. Don’t repeat my mistakes, please.So you just don't believe in systemic Misogyny at all. Do you believe it never existed? Or just right now? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/20 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Ex RP Woman. Don’t repeat my mistakes, please.Which 3rd wave feminist theory states "man bad, women good" and who wrote it? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/20 01:24 PM |
| 7 | It is not surprising or alarming that we see a lot of radicalizationI know of several men's domestic abuse shelters and rape counseling centers funded and run by women. I know of no Red Pill, MGTOW etc that exist. So let's just put our money where our mouths are, if anyone wants to convince anyone that feminists don't believe in male rape but men's rights do, ask where their support centers are. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/20 12:33 PM |
| 30 | I might have ruined a really good relationship.Some people pray their whole lives for one person to believe in them as much as that girl believed in you. And you missed it because you got convinced that what she was giving you was nothing, when it reality it was priceless. You'll remember her when you're 50 and still wonder, I guarantee it. I've seen in happen a dozen times. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/20 01:30 PM |
| 20 | they are rightSelf-fullfilling Prophecy, the confirmation bias | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisDefo,.. I'm going to keep busting you chops until you launch. But now I'm going to make breakfast. Be loved | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:33 PM |
| 3 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisYou know why I didn't fail? I never gave up. Never gave in. Never took no as an end to a dream I had. I've been homeless and flush with cash. You just keep going. Wake up. Move on. Move into something better. Hussle. You never get anything sitting on a sofa. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 6 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisI am talking jumping partners... You don't think sex is a need? Lordy, I love sex. Being alone doesn't mean you have to be celibate. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 8 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisI'm a woman. I think many of us don't want to be distracted by relationships when we are putting our all into our careers. So to fuck around and not settle down is just a life choice. Some of us are happiest doing what we love and don't need somebody to keep us company. Thinking a relationship is everything you need for happiness is unsettling as an opinion. Women are more than relationship fodder. Don't you have a life outside your relationships? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 3 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisGood. Bad. Happy. Sad. Married. Divorced. Single. Not single. 2 careers. 1 degree, at 42. 25 year career. Wife. Friend. Daughter. Sister. Owned three businesses, restaurant, trucking company, glass studio. Lived in 7 states, coast to coast. Owned 3 houses. Sold two. Currently just hanging out being a trophy girlfriend and outstanding housewife to my BF whom I met on reddit. Which is nice because I was the primary breadwinner in my marriage. My ex-husband was an artist and I supported us. He sued… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 5 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisWhat did I say. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:12 PM |
| 6 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisDo you think people who fuck around don't have down time? You know we women live by ourselves. It's allowed now. I even owned two houses at one time. Plenty of alone time. Some people prefer to keep relationships at a distance to not distract them from their life's purpose, whatever that is. Some people don't like living with other people. I'm not alone now, but for stretches of time I was. Life happens. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:12 PM |
| 5 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisAll that is for you.... ... Not me. I don't care if you motivate or not. I'm telling you that worrying on reddit is stunting your growth as a human being. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisI'm 46, I'm rarely surprised. I don't have the luxury of not knowing how life turns out, like you. I already know how mine turned out. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:08 PM |
| 6 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisPeople who care still have emotions and won't lie to you. I care and I'm not lying. Take that for what it's worth. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisToday, defo. You're in a dead end job. No clubs. No healthy shit. No school. A lot of no. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:06 PM |
| 11 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisSome would suggest the only validation you need is self contained. Most people don't care enough about you to actually validate you. That's all in your head. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:04 PM |
| 14 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisBecause of two things: You post enough here to make me care. You post enough here to be an annoying cunt that I care about enough to want to make you see how annoying a cunt you are so you can move on and find your happiness beyond being an annoying cunt on reddit, because damn sure you are not finding happiness here. Does that square? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:03 PM |
| 3 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisSo how's your career? Buy a house yet? 401k? Got a degree? Skill? Have a trade? Got a hobby? Joined a club? How's your workout game? Are you eating healthy? All these things are more important than fantasy. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 21 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisDefo, You're stuck. Get off that girl. Get off reddit. Go find a life. That's my advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:57 PM |
| 2 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisOr your dad is manipulating you to believe what he wants you to believe. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisExactly. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:54 PM |
| 4 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisOr they do and you don't. You have to learn how to be ok with people having more than you or you'll be miserable every day of your life. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:54 PM |
| 9 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisWhy do you care so much... Maybe she's just placating you so you fuck off? Consider that? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:53 PM |
| 7 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisSo because you have multiple partners you don't deserve respect? What about spinning plates in TRP? Much respect over at TRP for having multiple women. Seems what's good for the goose is not good for the gander. Let me tell you, I was 18 in 1992. We fucked as much, if not more, than our younger counterparts today and we did it during an AIDS epidemic. In 1992, we didn't care about body counts except when it mattered, which was avoiding AIDS. Your parents were just trying to make you think they d… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisWhy? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:39 PM |
| 32 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisMaybe she is happy, loved, appreciated, supported, and mentally healthy. Maybe how many partners you have doesn't make or break a life. Either way, requiring the validation of women you don't respect is actually the mentally unhealthy activity. Why does it matter? Why do you need to believe somebody is unhappy for you to be happy? I mean seriously, that's some fucked up shit. Needing to know, with certainty, that women who sleep around are unhappy for you to be ok with YOUR misery. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:39 PM |
| 14 | After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept thisWhy do you need to be validated by women? Why does your self worth hinge on women you clearly hate because they choose to be with multiple partners? Why does it matter so much how many people she slept with after you? She's not coming back. Why is your not dating her fault? Why is it women's fault? Why isn't it just you? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Male Sexlessness Is Rising, But Not For The Reasons Incels Claim (Article)This research was funded by conservatives to promote anti gay politics. https://www.sourcewatch.org/index.php/Institute_for_Family_Studies | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Male Sexlessness Is Rising, But Not For The Reasons Incels Claim (Article)This article was written by a koch brothers funded conservative think tank that had a controversial article about gay families being less successful than het families. They write research for politics. https://www.sourcewatch.org/index.php/Institute_for_Family_Studies | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/20 11:28 AM |
| 6 | Male Sexlessness Is Rising, But Not For The Reasons Incels Claim (Article)know your sources This article was written by people with a purpose. They are a conservative think tank and they bend research to their needs. These people already have a black mark for research that attempted to prove gay parents are not as good as het parents. They are a Koch backed research firm. I would toss this out on face value alone. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/11/20 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsWhat's the first thing I said? You're being marketed to. What's the last thing you said? Used a marketing term (blackpill) to describe your situation. Nahh.. you only heard what you wanted to. You can't pick and choose your way through life. You're already feeling that result. That's why you are where you are. You don't listen to hear, you listen to respond. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsYou have not read anything I said. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsIt's better and worse. When you accept things about yourself, you let go of things you'll never be. You think a blind person opines everyday for sight? Maybe some, but most go on living. Same with any handicap. Lose a leg? Learn to not have a leg. You just recognize that as a part of your identity, neither bad nor good, just life. You have to accept yourself. When you do, truly stop framing your identity with your flaws and start using your super powers, life will change. People will change. You… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsHasn't changed how I feel or my success in dating. These things are related. If you remember, I said that I believed people connect with me because I am real. However, we have to be honest with ourselves. You have to ask the question, "Would I want to date myself?" Most people stop there, as if it was something you can't change. The truth, our skin suits and rank on the genetic lottery matters little to our happiness. What does matter is how we frame ourselves in the world. How we write ourselve… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsYou can't be traumatized if you sit home alone and isolated. Depression is valid, but not doing anything about your sickness is on you. All this life is on you. Your choice. Not making a choice is still a choice. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsI didn't start that way. I was bullied in school and emotionally abused at home. Really I said that and you glossed over it to reframe it so you feel better?? Jesus christ, that's trying to gaslight me on my own life. Completely glossed over being raped. Glossed over physical assault. Glossed over my mom repeatedly telling me I was ugly. You just saw outgoing and BANG, you can go back to your world view. That's a sickness you have. It's no wonder you struggle. It's insulting to people who talk t… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsLooks? I was bullied most of my life because of my body. My mom use to continuously insinuate and outright tell me I was ugly. I actually struggle with CPTSD because of it. The only reason I can think of is because I am incredibly real. When I allow people into my inner circle there is no doubt you are getting the raw unfiltered me. I've been practicing radical honesty for decades. I think people, when they get a glimpse of somebody unabashedly themselves, it's attractive. I'm also very outgoing… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsI've had ups and downs. Been lonely. Been fruitful. Been married. Been divorced. Been old and exceptionally successful, more so than in my youth. Been hurt. Been cheated on. Been non monogamous. Been monogamous. Been physically and sexually assaulted more than once in my life. Went long stretches of sublime happiness. I've had more sexual partners than relationships. I've had lovers of all genders. Handicapped lovers and lovers who went on to model and act in movies and television. Tall. Short (… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsWhy? I can guarantee you and I have had completely different life experiences. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsNotice how you immediately assumed that the answer to losing the genetic lottery (not being attractive within your specific culture) was inceldom. As if that was a given, not an assumption. Like in your brain, you can perceive no other pathway, cannot iterate any solution, nor recognize no misfire in your logic to get there. Instead of plying for more information like you did all along this thread. That's what perspective looks like and that's why nearly half of all platitudes contain the sentim… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsStruggle isn't a bad thing. All rites of passage include struggle. Struggle is the human condition. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsThe idea is this: Many academics have proven, many papers written, and many opinions given about the power to market a problem to sell a product to fullfill a need. The need: safe companionship. The marketing: It's hard and unsafe. The product: whatever sells, trp-fds and the like. The truth: It's not hard nor unsafe. A vast majority of people live entire lives without ever requiring anything to find safe companionship. However, in these circles, the mantra is the exact opposite of reality. They… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsYou think that society hasn't already dealt with the vast experiences of the human individual? That's what Culture is, the language we share coming from vastly different experiences. That's my point, we have all this baked in. It's the money that makes those who choose this (coaches, fds, trp) feel special. Unique. Individuals. That's the drug. We are not unique. We are a random collection of FINITE perspectives on a FINITE scale of experiences. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic Standards50k years of human evolution and culture and you think this problem was overlooked? Nah. We just do it in all sorts of different ways. Matchmaking is probably an older business than prostitution. What is interesting is that we've designated a job and payscale for what use to be built into the social fabric. The fact that people have made awkward dating an "anxiety" instead of a rite of passage. That we've completely lost our social order regarding matchmaking in general. Many cultures actually h… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 02:30 PM |
| 13 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsWhich makes them susceptible to being fleeced by people claiming expertise who just want to bankroll their lifestyle. I mean seriously, trp, mgtow, fds... They're all money making ventures. Every one making money on men and women dating. It's like Senior citizens and reverse mortgages or unnecessary insurance. Fleecing old people and sad people is probably one of the oldest scams in human history. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Dating Coach Quits Because of Women's Unrealistic StandardsDating coach.. Lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/20 01:37 PM |
| 3 | I found this r/incelsinaction, what do you guys think of this?Generational effects of trauma has been studied both from a psychological perspective and from a wider Anthropological perspective. In the above citation, studies were done on large cultural groups (jews/holocaust, African Americans, Cambodian survivors of political genocide) which shows broad brush strokes of what happens when a trauma is passed down generationally. These effects are not solely cultural, but also personal, taking on the flavor of the kinship units involved. Victim parents tend … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/20 02:13 PM |
| 11 | I found this r/incelsinaction, what do you guys think of this?Evidence of generational emotional trauma in this picture. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/20 12:49 PM |
| 7 | The female dating strategy and the red pill have subreddits have a lot in commonIt's a toxic subreddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/20 10:23 AM |
| 4 | Advice Needed: The Red Pill Made It Impossible for Me Trust WomenI also like to believe the high we get from being loved and loving somebody, risks and all, is very worth it. Even if it's for one day, one week, one year... Who knows. There's always another lover, another friend, another reason to get over the past. A million platitudes codify this part of the human experience but this one suits this comment: Some people are in your life for a moment, some for a season, and some for a lifetime. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 19 | Advice Needed: The Red Pill Made It Impossible for Me Trust WomenDoes TRP matter at this point? I mean you have given yourself only two choices: forever alone or risk pain. For a vast majority of people, the potential of a relationship going south is not crippling. It's not panic inducing. It's not keeping them alone. In fact, most people accept that as a part of life. One thing in an endless amount of things beyond our control. Now you can sit back and call all those people names, tell yourself they're stupid sheep, or whatever comforts you in the middle of … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/20 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Womyn r stupid thots. For sex *only*This assumes a lot of things, primary being anything he says is logical or rational. Looking at the post, both are suspect in this individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/20 11:28 PM |
| 2 | study shows that 1 in 3 male in 2018 have never had sex in the 18-24 age group. Are we slowly approaching the 80/20 rule? is tinder the cause of this (having come out in 2014)? Have women raised their standards in the intimate years?but the human being by nature is not monogamous, but society benefits this type of relationship Here's where you say it is better.. "society benefits" And as far as teaching me evolution, Anthropology is my academic field, so in reality what I am doing is getting you to prove yourself wrong. I already know you're wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 5 | study shows that 1 in 3 male in 2018 have never had sex in the 18-24 age group. Are we slowly approaching the 80/20 rule? is tinder the cause of this (having come out in 2014)? Have women raised their standards in the intimate years?But you claim global statistics don't matter and yet you say biology does. If biology matters we should see this effect across the board (80/20) or a movement toward it as a trend. Moreover, you're wrong on arranged marriages a plurality are also polygamist. You haven't cited anything on poly v mono in human behavior nor any cited evidence that monogamy is better. You are trying to have your cake and eat it too.... A cake made up of false conclusions. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 6 | study shows that 1 in 3 male in 2018 have never had sex in the 18-24 age group. Are we slowly approaching the 80/20 rule? is tinder the cause of this (having come out in 2014)? Have women raised their standards in the intimate years?So you are admitting that everything regarding gender politics is completely outside biology, which is contrary to RedPill and MGTOW as well as most gender role and control ideology. So defining what is "female" and what is "male" is completely arbitrary and capricious. In short, one's experience is completely driven by how much you buy into the dominant culture or "you're doing it to yourself." | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/20 05:11 PM |
| 6 | study shows that 1 in 3 male in 2018 have never had sex in the 18-24 age group. Are we slowly approaching the 80/20 rule? is tinder the cause of this (having come out in 2014)? Have women raised their standards in the intimate years?Can you cite global statistics. If we are going to talk about biology, gender, and universality there should be supporting data across cultures. If not, then it's just American boys who are late blooming. Then it's a cultural issue, which is driven by the most powerful stake holders, who happen to be white men. Maybe instead of considering that it's women doing this, consider that it's men doing it to themselves to insure only some of them are successful. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies of exredpill, do you like the strong, sensitive type of man?Keep putting out that energy and you'll find somebody who will really appreciate it. In the meantime, just enjoy it all. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 12 | Ladies of exredpill, do you like the strong, sensitive type of man?I have a real emotional connection to nature. I don't cry a lot, but for some reason when I am standing in some majestic a.f. place it sets me off. On one of our early dates, my BF and I went to watch the sun set over the Pacific up in Oregon. I'm an east coast girl, so it was majestic a. f. for me. Cue tears. Breathing gets shallow. I try to play it cool. I look over and he's welling up too. I knew it. Soul mates. Never be afraid to be moved by life. Life is pretty amazing and worthy of feeling… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/20 02:49 PM |
| 5 | I think fundamentally men just want to be loved by the opposite sex and not having that leads to groups like incels, MGTOW, TrueForceLonelinessWhy is pleasure considered degenerate? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/10/20 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Appeal to Evolution FallacyBiology has shaped us in cognitive biases. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Appeal to Evolution FallacyAbsolutely we are always moving into new ecologies and new arrangements predicate on resources. I'm not asking to predict, just pointing out that no matter where we roam or not, we are swapping social strategies constantly for collective survival. No doubt we have traits of animals, we are animals. As aggressive and as territorial. We aren't even unique animals because even our closest clade cousins have social order and often slightly variable on resources based on ecologies. At minimum each sp… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/20 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Appeal to Evolution FallacyIt's not a fallacy when outliers fit a pattern of ecological pressure, which was the full point of my comment. Polyandry exists because of resource pressures driven by unique ecologies. Matrilineal hierarchy exist because of resource pressures driven by unique ecologies. What everything has in common is that humans will create any social arrangement because survival, for humans, means infinite variability in the face of infinite ecologies in which to exist. If that is our species strength, which… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Appeal to Evolution FallacyThe best way to counteract an evolutionary argument in regards to humans is to consider every culture we find humans in. For every claim that somebody makes you can always find two or three cultures who do it the exact opposite. Examples would include: Women hunters, matriarchies, matrilineal hierarchies, polyandry, walking marriages, multiple named genders (2-7)... Why? Because humans have not "evolved" in a very very long time. Why? Because we evolved into having culture and culture is just th… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/20 10:49 AM |
| 5 | RP man works in the same building as me and he's scaring the children I work with.Always announce you feel threatened before you knee them in the testicles, that way they know why you crushed their reproductive spirit. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/20 12:18 PM |
| 1 | So, maybe we need to talk about the blue pillIf you wanted that conversation you could have posited it in any of a dozen subreddits, but you chose to post here in a clearly designated "red pill" forum. So either you wanted to utilize the already established foundation of TRP to have it or you misunderstood this forum. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 6 | So, maybe we need to talk about the blue pillUnless the red pill and the blue pill are framing the trans experience in its totality, it missed the original metaphor from the film. Both Wachowski sisters have spoken at length about the pill metaphor within the matrix reality and fact that it's been taken out of context to actually define gender roles and behavior instead of its original intent is, to be blunt, idiotic. The entire allegory was to posit the matrix was a lie and gender roles are arbitrary and capricious only to be used to enha… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 6 | So, maybe we need to talk about the blue pillI think the Wachowski sisters should get more royalties for the amount of times people misunderstand their metaphors. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/20 09:17 PM |
| 5 | The red pill talks about how bad an idea it is to open up to a girl. From personal experience it made sense. However now that I've moved on from I'm wondering if there's another explanation?There is something to be said about personal discipline as a character trait we probably all should be participating in. We modern folks like to talk a good game around the purpose of religion, but much of the framework of religion is an accounting of what happens (or doesn't) when you stray from being disciplined in thought and act. The entirety of David Foster Wallace's speech "this is water" is based on what it means to be a disciplined thinker. The liberal arts education of teaching how to t… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 17 | The red pill talks about how bad an idea it is to open up to a girl. From personal experience it made sense. However now that I've moved on from I'm wondering if there's another explanation?In conversation people will refer to women and men having different brains, different ways of thinking and seeing the world hard wired. In reality any neuroscientist will tell you it's nearly impossible to tell gender from a brain scan. Yes there are male dominant and female dominant traits, but a vast (I mean VAST) amount of people's brains work inside a very large indistinguishable middle. So to say women glean information that men don't is a completely fabricated ploy that maintains the statu… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/20 01:24 PM |
| 7 | A Red Puller's Valuation of WomenBecause if TRP/MGTOW actually solved problems they wouldn't have customers. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/20 11:06 AM |
| 1 | What Are Your Opinions on Dan Bacon?Well yeah... The tried and true method of trial and error works. Everyone has to go through it. Learning how to navigate the social construct of their culture and their regional dating flavor. It's not universal. Not by a long shot. Guys in China have to date differently than a South African or Swedish or American. It's all trial and error. What they lack is either courage or energy... Or both. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Opinions on Dan Bacon?Where have I been an asshole about it. Quote me. I have no idea why you feel so submissive. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Opinions on Dan Bacon?You don't read social cues well. I'm not even close to excitable. I literally have been stoned all morning. Second, you fell back into the response of "there seems to be a lot of" which I have already responded to. Why isn't the tried and true method of trial and error not working? You think that suddenly now there are ill equipped social primates and never before? Ha. Not during a population explosion globally over the last two decades. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Opinions on Dan Bacon?Yes, there seems to be. But actually there isn't. Why? Because the laws of statistics in big numbers. You're all aggregating in one place so it "seems" to be a lot. Of course where you can pull people together, you can sell to them. I mean your post is basically an advertisement for that guy. Eyes on videos makes $$$. You advertise for him. What's your wages from this transaction? You get to feel like you belong to a special group that "seems" larger than it is and that's easier than having to d… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Opinions on Dan Bacon?I have a better answer: The internet distilled a certain demographic of people who have always been a constant in human society, the ill equipped social primate, and created a marketable demographic. That's it. Now instead of a tiny fraction in any given regional market far too small to turn a viable profit from, you have aggregated them all in one place online to sell product to. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What Are Your Opinions on Dan Bacon?Certain men as much. Not all men. We literally are peaking at the high water mark of human population and you are here trying to sell a line that "men are having a hard time getting laid". Ha. What has happened is that those who are unable to socialize for whatever reason and unable to play within that social construct now have become a market demographic for salespeople because of the distillation of information on the internet. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/20 01:37 PM |
| 3 | What Are Your Opinions on Dan Bacon?I have a counter question: For a majority of human history, neither males nor females required the help of a PUA to date. One could claim a matchmaker might have been involved, but that's distinctly different from a PUA. Yet! Humans have managed to survive and reproduce exceptionally well. Why are they so necessary now? For you? For anyone? I mean there are a shit ton of egalitarian cultures around and throughout history that went about fucking and dating just fine without a library of videos. T… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/20 12:31 PM |
| 3 | The reality behind evolutionary science, and why TRP/PUA actually don’t understand itOne might even conclude that because socializing is hard wired into human behavior, inherited from our closest clade lineage, that lack of ability in being seen as social is more important than physical fitness. Especially in climates where networking for resources is essential, like modern western civilization. Much like how often redpill gets female fitness wrong, positing youth as more important than age, when in reality to insure your offspring reaches reproductive age, a female with resourc… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 9 | The reality behind evolutionary science, and why TRP/PUA actually don’t understand itIt's survival of the 'good enough' not fittest. That's it. That's evolution. Simply reproduce and be assured you offspring will reproduce. If only the fittest survived we would have a lot less living things on the planet. For humans we have genetic variability as one of our evolutionary strengths, along with bipedalism and our "demented primate" frontal lobe. Genetic variability is what has allowed is to walk out of Africa and across the globe, by providing variability for all environmental cond… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women don’t love the way men do?First define love. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Does anon have a point? I don't want to be bitter, but what do we do about the role men are still forced to occupy in society?I was the primary breadwinner by a lot in my marriage and my husband sued me for support. He ended up with the house I paid for in cash that we owned free and clear. Nowhere in my divorce paperwork was there an opt out for females when it came to splitting the marriage finances. The truth, in America, the person who makes the most money in the marriage is going to get banged. So just marry somebody who makes more than you. Then again, it's a little bit more work because people who have their shi… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/20 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Eilliot Hulse ???... they had a flag. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Nice Guys Finish Last. But Don't Force Yourself To Be An Asshole.This was an excellent point to make. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/20 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Why am I listening to what red pill guys have to say when I've never even had a girlfriend? LOLNot denying your experience but I am actually surprised. Maybe it's because I am older and run with an older pan/bi crowd because it isn't my experience. In truth if you look back at my own dating history you'll find I lean masculine females and feminine men; I'm a gender centrist. Lol So there's something to be said about aging into you're 'tribe' of people. I'm happy to see you aren't taking it too personally. I had that issue too. It wasn't until I went to college (at a uni that was voted 'ga… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Why am I listening to what red pill guys have to say when I've never even had a girlfriend? LOLHave you been introduced to the pansexual community? I only ask because gender (and their roles) have no impact on pans because they're not attracted to gender as much as to the individual. I'm a pan myself and most of the pans I know are Non-binary in some way, many are CD both male and female presenting. Just a thought. At minimum you'd find a lot of people who just don't think what you are is anyway outside the norm. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/20 09:28 AM |
| 11 | I need your opinion about certain TRP conceptsIf divorce laws favor women why did my husband claim alimony and received compensation from me while I received nothing from him except the bills? The only thing that makes divorce complicated is children. So don't have them. Otherwise judges rule against the primary breadwinner and in my case, that was me. If you want to complain about child laws in divorce,go vote and get off the internet. Most states have passed equal custody after being targeted by voters. As a woman I support it. Also, rega… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Why do some women get disinterested in the men they find intellectual and smart, whom they like previously ?What if it takes some time to realize those same guys aren't as intelligent as previously thought. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 4 | 80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they doTrp just says women, no matter what they look like, will get laid because sex is their commodity. It's a logic circle jerk, nonetheless. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 27 | 80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they do.. and then jack off to porn with women with fake boobs, all sorts of plastic surgery, makeup, fake hair, fake nails. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 9 | What is up with the other pills?r/bropill is the only worthwhile pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/20 04:11 PM |
| 19 | Those who are not in favor of redpill... what do you wish redpill types understood better?That anger is a symptom of unresolved trauma and courage is being able to face it directly. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/20 03:29 PM |
| 18 | RedPill womenInternalized misogyny is real. Just like how girls trash each other about looks and older women treat child free women as if they're incomplete. Men do it to each other too. "A real man..." The only answer to that is "does whatever the fuck he wants." Gender roles are a part of the human experience, but limiting people to those roles is pure social power dynamics. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipNo worries ☺️ I get the whole screaming into the internet void thing. I do it for different reasons. The best thing is to get a paternity test while the fetus is in womb. It's about $600 but it's worth it to set yourself at ease. Requires blood from both parents. Totally can be done without insurance or government involvement. You can put it on a prenup that the child must be genetically related. (Fetal paternity test) The law is your friend. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipIn modern America you can, and often it's required, to have a paternity test. How do I know? When my exhusband's baby momma left him and declared he needed to pay child support, he was forced to take a paternity test. Those results were entered into public record where I was able to pull up on the state website without any issues You're working with outdated laws. If your state doesn't require it, get political and campaign for the change. It would be more effective than screaming at women on th… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipThere's no reason why a man can't cut and run too. Plenty of guys walk out on their kids. Plenty of women too. Both even, that's why we have orphans and foster care and adoption. Do you not know about these things? You can be unnamed on a birth certificate. I know a woman who deliberately left the father's name off the birth certificate so nobody could claim her kids. When he didn't claim his kids he lost all custody forever. Women can't do that in a hospital, she's clearly automatically the mot… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipA man can always walk away. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipYour partner is their own autonomous being capable of error and bad decision making. Sorry, I didn't even trust my husband of 18 years that much. Not with a 20 year investment. Take response for your own life, no matter what the other person does. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 04:15 AM |
| 1 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipNone of that matters if you take personal responsibility for your own actions. You can go through life blaming every little thing for all your follies. Or. You can just move past all the problems by slowing down and considering all the possible issues and take steps to mitigate unwanted outcomes. 30 seconds would have been all it took for him to pull out. 10 minutes out of every 6 months to buy some condoms. 1 hour of self reflection on what it would mean to be permanently tied to this person. A… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?Absolutely. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?Don't have kids if you can't get over the anxiety of the costs of having them. Don't get married if you think you can't get over the anxiety of having to pay for the divorce. These are easy questions to answer. You're putting these decisions on a pedestal. You know how many babies are born every day to people who have no plans and half the anxiety as you? You know how many people get married every day with less anxiety then you have just thinking about it? Seriously, my divorce happened 5 years … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?I think having children is a waste of time. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 3 | What does TRP get right - if anything?I think that encouraging young people to date a lot of different people for a length of time, instead of committing to one person right out of the gate is a good idea. Unfortunately they use that same belief to beat women over the head with regarding body counts. Complaining endlessly about over sexualized women as is these guys are too meek to admit it scares them because they see it as competing against a woman's past. Getting to know a lot of different people intimately, if not sexually, is g… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/20 01:09 PM |
| 4 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?Yes, she looses valuable skill development in her own career so you would have to pay to recover that. If you were the stay at home, would you be ok with sacrificing 15 years from your career and get nothing in return? Even a job has severance. What if you cheat? What's her recourse? Same as yours in a no fault state. Nothing. You don't understand divorce law very well from your responses. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/20 08:39 PM |
| 5 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?I don't think that biological parents always make good child rearers. Isn't that why we hire teachers? What part of divorce laws are you talking about? Alimony is just back pay and severance. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 5 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?Sometimes a spouse puts their growth potential on hold to maintain a lifestyle that both agree on. There should be compensation for that sacrifice. You have you decide what is important to you. Money or a lifestyle. You can have all your money, but choose a spouse who is equally dedicated to their career. Farm out your household chores to paid employees and split the costs. Or. You can decide that it's more efficient to sacrifice one career, take on the entire workload, and then pay into a fund … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/20 04:14 PM |
| 9 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?Also realize that the sah spouse has to hang up their career to take care of the house/family and that in itself is expensive for somebody. Put your career on hold in your 20s and good luck finding a good job comparable to your peers in your 40s. There has to be a restocking fee if you choose that lifestyle. Not admitting that makes one a bit self centered and narrow sighted. Don't choose that lifestyle if you can't pay the costs associated with it | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/20 03:43 PM |
| 11 | I’m not red pill, but looking at the divorce laws makes me lean to MGTOW?I'm a woman and I was sued for alimony and half of everything by my exhusband. I was the primary breadwinner. We didn't even have kids. The only reason why I ended up not losing half of everything was because he had put a baby in another woman and was hiding the fact from the courts. When I rectified that bit of missing information, the tables were reset. As far as kids are concerned, most state courts start at 50/50 custody. If yours doesn't, start supporting candidates that want to rewrite the… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 8 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipSeriously though... I can teach my dog to sit and stay. I can even teach him to not take his favorite treat off the counter. But these 'masters of the universe' men can't put 1+1 together and wrap their dicks or maybe, just maybe, be less impulsive than my dog and just not fuck when conditions are not optimal. And then, as if like magic, these 'Proud Men who should be kings over all they survey', 'captains of history', and genetically superior to all others can't see their way past a pair of tit… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/20 01:37 PM |
| 16 | It’s hard for me to believe that many women don’t use a baby to trap a man in a relationshipMy momma told me if you don't want a baby, don't have sex. If you can't manage your own life, your own protection, your own birth control... Then maybe you shouldn't have been fucking. He played himself. No matter what. He had the option of using a condom or pulling out or not having sex. He choose not pulling out, not using a condom, and still having sex. He didn't make one mistake. He made 3 big fucking mistakes. But yeah... It's the girls fault. Can I ask a question? Is it always everyone els… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/20 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Is this true?You have a problem reading people if you think I was being political. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Is this true?But was this one? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/20 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Is this true?Was this a political debate? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/20 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Is this true?So you're use to being combative. Hmm. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/20 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Is this true?Defensive. Must have hit a nerve. You know what, it's cool if you want to ask advice and then reject it. But don't rationalize it because you're defensive. If this is a normal reaction for you, we may have nailed why you're having problems. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/20 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Is this true?"I don't put up with bullshit" is usually code for ' I am not at all casual or relaxed about anything I deem important to me. '. That is to say most people who say that have a problem letting shit go, which makes them petty as fuck. That's just me being honest with you. People get insulted when you insinuate yourself in repetitive and unwelcome ways. That's why you can open your mouth and say something nice and still get shut down. You probably can't read the room. You miss read people and peopl… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Is this true?If you're constantly getting "venom" and "nastiness" back from compliments you need to reconsider your approach. If I was getting negative reactions constantly for doing something, my first reaction wouldn't be blaming everyone else... it would be me re-evaluating myself. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. Humans have been social mating since we started walking upright... This is hard coded into us. I know, I am an Anthropologist and I focus on cognit… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 11 | Is this true?No. It's not. Actually most smart and capable women don't want to be sexualized. Consider this, a woman who is average looking will get hit on all the time. Totally sexualized. But, rare is the man who appreciates her for her talents, intelligence, even style and personality. That's the unicorn. That's the stand out guy. That's the guy I want to keep talking to because he 'sees' me beyond the superficial. Every other guy is just another number in a sea of numbers. In fact, that attention to deta… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 13 | Do women lack respect for their male “friends”Actually I find men who can't be friends because they want sex or have some issue with sex to be idiots. Even if I had some internal attraction to that person, the moment they start acting weird about it because of some perceived injustice, I'm out. To me it's like saying "She has a boyfriend so you can only talk to him. Not her. " And that's some ancient ass logic there. What are we in Biblical times? Should I hide myself in a tent when I have my period because I am "unclean"? Do I need a man t… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/06/20 12:15 PM |
| 7 | The terms Alpha Male and Beta Male in regards to dating originally come from a small segment of a book writen in 2007 by a batshit-insane ex-biologist looser who never had any proven sucess in life. He was comparing humans to gorillas. (LONG READ).I'm an Anthropologist. Nowhere in my academic career has anyone used Alpha and Beta in conjunction with humans. (And not been laughed at) | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Woman on this subreddit, I want to ask why a lot of female audience loved 365 DNI. They found it hot and romantisize this relationship which seemed to me a toxic and controlling one. I think it takes feminism back to ages and now I have conflicted thoughts on this.The holy grail is a dominant cis man demanding a pegging. When you find it you'll live eternal life. Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/20 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Woman on this subreddit, I want to ask why a lot of female audience loved 365 DNI. They found it hot and romantisize this relationship which seemed to me a toxic and controlling one. I think it takes feminism back to ages and now I have conflicted thoughts on this.Tbh, I would love me some male submissive movie type porn... But men don't make movies like that. You want to know what most adult woman like sexually? Change. One day submissive. Next week dominant. One week tie me up... Next week your turn. Imagination. Enthusiasm. Now that's fucking sexy and attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/20 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Woman on this subreddit, I want to ask why a lot of female audience loved 365 DNI. They found it hot and romantisize this relationship which seemed to me a toxic and controlling one. I think it takes feminism back to ages and now I have conflicted thoughts on this.It's still just a movie. You're equating it with feminism like women think about that when they're thinking about getting off. Do you think about politics during sex? There are male slaves in BDSM. You don't get many movies about it. Why do you think? Because of women or because of men? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/20 09:17 AM |
| 7 | Woman on this subreddit, I want to ask why a lot of female audience loved 365 DNI. They found it hot and romantisize this relationship which seemed to me a toxic and controlling one. I think it takes feminism back to ages and now I have conflicted thoughts on this.You don't understand that women have sexual fantasies? I would say if you can not understand why, you haven't really been with a woman. There's no way to explain that to somebody who hasn't. Women like to fuck. Just like men. We all have all sorts of fucked up fantasies... Just like men. Guess what? Some of us want to be submissive and some of want to be dominant.. just like guys. And most of us change what we want as fast as we change our clothes... Just like guys. At the end of the day, who th… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/20 09:07 AM |
| 2 | You guys should block this user from your sub, he seems to be frequent poster.No doubt, if just to continue whatever cycle of abuse he's trapped in. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 2 | You guys should block this user from your sub, he seems to be frequent poster.A lot of people with childhood trauma present as personality disorders when they're really suffering from cPTSD/PTSD. Fight mode is exactly what this guy is exhibiting. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | You guys should block this user from your sub, he seems to be frequent poster.When I see somebody like this I just feel sad. He's a sad, angry boy living in a man's body. He's so hurt by the world he's pushing it away and in very true fashion, burning the bridges as he goes so NOBODY will get close. This is what people, not just men, do when they can't accept themselves as they are. They see everyone as the enemy. They think everyone is out to get them. They hide behind a wall of anger and rage so nobody can see their vulnerable side. They are so small, invisible...yet so… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Is paying for sex hindering my progress?So, what I think you're saying is that you can't find somebody to share time with. That's the loss you've given yourself by chosing paying for sex instead of learning how to be natural around women. Sorry to say, you're starting at square one, the place everyone starts at. The place most of the people you see dating normally outside the "hook up" culture. You gotta start somewhere and take your lumps and learn how to be yourself with confidence. Learn how to be somebody worth hanging out with on… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/20 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Is paying for sex hindering my progress?Lol... I'm 45 and lived through the years of illegal weed. If you're rationing sex, I honestly think that's weird, especially if you're interested in it enough to pay for it. The benefits of having a stable partner is the free sex. The only drawback is time. Emotional investment isn't always required in a stable partner, just a well communicated intention. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/20 03:01 PM |
| 9 | Is paying for sex hindering my progress?I'm sorry, I didn't mean to say you are totally lazy or totally without courage. Sometimes reddit makes me inarticulate. I'm saying in this case.. Do not forget we all are very complicated. I see everyone as being incredibly complicated. I mean, I was married for 18 years and when it ended I even said to myself, "I didn't know them. I didn't expect this." 18 YEARS!!! Lol You have to let go of your hs years. It is not relevant anymore. The older you get, the less relevant it becomes. At my age, t… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Is paying for sex hindering my progress?The short answer is yes. The long answer is there is nothing wrong with seeking sex as a commodity. Sex workers are people making a living. Other than the systemic human rights issues, on face value, there is no problem. But there's is a problem with always seeking the most efficient way to a solution. It shows you have no want to challenge yourself. It shows a lack of courage. It shows a lack in an ability to be vulnerable. It shows a certain laziness. It's a crutch you use but you've got no br… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/20 12:40 PM |
| 2 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.None of this is real or true scientifically. It's all just opinion driven conclusions. I'm an Anthropologist btw. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 02:00 PM |
| 3 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.But none of this is happening because you have no real world success. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.If it worked it would still be working. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.Again... It's a theory. A theory that hasn't worked. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 3 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.So no real world applications. All of this sound and fury for what? You can't provide one real world application of your ideology in action. Not one example of it helping a guy out in real time in the real world. Signifying nothing. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:41 PM |
| 3 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.Can I get a real example, men decide en mass to not date sluts and shame slut culture. ... Hasn't happened. I'm looking for a real world example of this working in a real relationship with actual people. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:28 PM |
| 4 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men."the more men get, the less women get." An example of this | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:18 PM |
| 3 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.Can you cite an example of this in action. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:13 PM |
| 6 | The other side of hate against red pill. It gives power to men.Not only it reduces power from females, but it gives power to men So you're powerless unless women give it to you. Maybe we should talk about your lack of Self-esteem instead of your ideology. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Redpill Breakdown of ridiculous gynocentric show that is the epitome of modern men's internalised misandry and females' solipsism and hypergamy that wants to eat all the pies and keep em too.This feels like a cry for help. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/20 12:44 PM |
| 56 | The ugly truthI've been told I was damaged goods because I was molested as a child by a guy who tried to date me. This goes both ways. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/20 09:46 AM |
| 5 | You are an actual MGTOW when you don't participate in MGTOW"hey look, i bought doom eternal, not gonna waste money on dating evil wamen gonna play all day, hahahaha, take that wamen!!1!1" It's fine to love something so much you're willing to exclude other parts of life to enjoy it. Sometimes work, for me, is so interesting that I forget to eat, sleep, and interact with people. I love what I do. I don't do that to punish someone lol... But do they really think women out there care? Like they're crying because game guy won't come out and play? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/20 02:11 PM |
| 16 | Connection between Red Pill ideology and NeoliberalismSince almost everything is related to modern economics and neoliberalism is a common theme in modern politics(economics)--one might suggest everything is connected to neoliberalism. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/20 10:05 AM |
| 14 | Femaledatingstrategies is a toxic sub for womenYup, totally agree and I am a woman. I think I am banned. Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 12/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Not sure where I fit in with all thisOne of the things I have learned is that kids of dysfunctional families often downplay our trauma because nobody wanted to hear it, it would be used against us as a sign of weakness, or just gaslit out of existence. I have a lot of ptsd rage problems because of it. I hold it all in and then somebody says something dismissive and I lose my shit. Red rage. Throw things rage. Say things that end relationships rage. It was uncontrollable for awhile. The rest of the time most people saw me as a reall… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Not sure where I fit in with all thisWell, just from a stranger's perspective, finding yourself detoxing from red pill et al, is not usually where healthy people find themselves. Maybe consider that. It's like finding yourself at a bar at 11am, most healthy people don't do that. Most, not all. Some people work a night shift. But, tbh, when you find yourself surrounded by unhealthy people in a place most healthy people wouldn't be... It's a good time to reevaluate yourself. But either way, I'm still sorry you're home life was so rou… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/20 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Not sure where I fit in with all thisSame with me. But when I was homeless, my community helped me and that was made up of real people in front of me... That counts for something. I'm sorry you never have been helped before. Have you considered that to be your poison? You're welcome to join us childhood trauma people at r/cptsd to talk that shit out. It took a long time to get over the abuse of my childhood and the learned dysfunction that had become a part of my personality. When I finally saw it for what it was and worked on reco… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/20 08:03 PM |
| 9 | Not sure where I fit in with all thisYou have to start thinking for yourself. Start figuring out what kind of human being you want to be and what your purpose is in this life. It's easy to get hooked on ideologies because is solves a lot of psychological needs. It creates a tribe in which you are a member and that gives you a false sense of community. In truth, if your world went to shit, who would be there to help you pick up the pieces? Your pill brothers? Or the people who occupy the world around you in real life? Ideologies mak… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Everyone is an asshole to someone. I guess I'm yours... | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/20 10:27 PM |
| 3 | What is causing boys' decline in academia?It's been edited. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/20 09:14 PM |
| 9 | What is causing boys' decline in academia?If men were so smart, why did they end up abandoning academia if it was so important to their son's success? Seriously. If it's because of women, why not start a men's rights drive to install more male teachers throughout the education system. I mean there's a guy at the bottom of this comment thread that thinks education is unimportant, but you think it's women. Then go be a teacher and do something for your fellow men instead of hand wringing on the internet. It can't be that hard, I mean wome… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/20 01:03 PM |
| 8 | What is causing boys' decline in academia?So you don't care if your doctor or surgeon has no education. Sounds like you're setting yourself up for a Darwin Award. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/02/20 12:55 PM |
| 12 | Feeling lostDo you think you are so important to them that you could overwhelm their bond as sisters??? Lol I know a bunch of sisters who would watch boys try this game on them. Then they'd regale us on their stories as we'd laugh about it. It always amazed me how young guys think their the best thing in the world. So much so that they'd truly believe that a family bond would be weaker than the silly flirting with boys relationship. You need to recalibrate. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Exactly... And my point is to show that it's gotten better since feminism, but he doesn't see it because he can't contextualize being a black man in the 1950s or earlier. First wave feminism came before black men could vote. Feminists supported that. He wants to be a house husband, prior to 1950s he would be hard pressed to find a woman who could support a household, those jobs were not available to women. Now, those women are everywhere. But that's not enough, now he wants to be pursued and cou… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.You're not getting the context. He says feminism is at fault. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What do women think of the whole alpha/beta male concept?Do you think calling a woman 'beta' is an insult? It's here, not hear. Answer: depends on what the culture deems important in leadership. Do you think the Tibetans named the Dalai Lama as a small child their leader because they knew he was going to exhibit alpha traits? "Every day, think as you wake up, today I am fortunate to be alive, I have a precious human life, I am not going to waste it. I am going to use all my energies to develop myself, to expand my heart out to others; to achieve enlig… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.I don't. I believe in a thing called radical honesty. You should look it up. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Check my post history. I don't hide behind throwaways. Lol Adults usually don't need to hide. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.You project yourself with your word choices. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Seriously, a bot answered for you Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 02:04 PM |
| 4 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Yes it does matter... You can't be anything without time and effort. You can't be a great painter without putting in the time. You can't be a great friend unless you're experienced in being a friend. You can't be a great lover without loving many people. You'll never make a good partner without the experience of being one to a few people first. Are you saying you were born just brilliantly talented in art and you've never had to learn anything... You've never failed? You do it for you... Nobody … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.I was talking about you personally... You seem to want some kind of recognition for being a good guy. Like I said, life isn't fair. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 01:57 PM |
| 3 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.Ask women just had a post asking for women who pay alimony. I wasn't the only one who was sued for it and many women pay alimony. You've barely had a relationship and you're discussing marriage like an expert. Slow your roll.... | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.We are all imperfect people living in an imperfect world trying desperately to make imperfect connections with other imperfect people. And you're mad people are imperfect? Maybe cut people some slack and they'll cut you some as well. Sounds like you're asking a lot from people and you yourself aren't willing to see that you're not putting effort in as well. Life isn't fair for anyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.And how is that feminisms fault? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 10:40 AM |
| 2 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.If it is okay for women to live that lifestyle why is it not okay for a man to be a stay-at-home dad? My husband of 18 years was an artist and I made all the money. He sued me for alimony in our divorce. He would have gotten it if he hadn't already gotten another woman pregnant. Now tell me again how it's so hard for men to be stay at home? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 10:39 AM |
| 4 | I'm jealous of female mate choice. I want this to stop.All of your complaints would have been amplified two fold in the world before let's say 1950s feminism. We could go back to Susan B Anthony times, but as a black man you can see how it wouldn't have been better for you specifically. So 1950s era feminism. You think sensitive men was what should have gotten you a date? Lol. Artist? A woman literally NEEDED a man who was strong enough to support her and children without any financial help from her. Women were rarely expected to work. You, with all… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/20 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Question to EXredpill men- Did TRP appeal to your thinking style?Somebody has to eventually correct you, right? Or would you prefer to just walk blindly along completely devoid of self awareness?? I mean all I am doing is pointing out the rhetorical "toilet paper" you have trailing behind your thoughts. I was being polite by pointing it out before you really made a fool of yourself. Btw, you're welcome. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Question to EXredpill men- Did TRP appeal to your thinking style?You're the one that was compelled to respond to the bait. Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/20 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Question to EXredpill men- Did TRP appeal to your thinking style?It's actually a cognitive bias. When we have no clear explanation for our behavior, we choose a substitute and make our argument a reaction to it. It's Hegelian Dialectic in action in an individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/20 03:20 PM |
| 15 | Question to EXredpill men- Did TRP appeal to your thinking style?You know your response is in itself an answer to OPs question. By avoiding the question, choosing what seems like to you to be a equal replacement, and then responding to that is just projecting yourself in IMAX quality for all of us to see. Thank you. You've been quite illuminating. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/20 01:25 PM |
| 7 | The red pill's "High n-count = lower pair bonding" argumentIs pair bonding important? Seems to me that being obsessed by pair bonding ability is a sign of lack of confidence and possible codependency. Wouldn't the only question that mattered be "how many partners have they had while pair bonded?" I mean you could have 10 partners in 2 years then be married for 20 and monogamous. Widowed. Add 10 more partners then be monogamous for another 20 years. Is that person bad at pair bonding or just looking for something specific and passing time until they foun… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/20 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Is this Red Pill or Not?As a woman who made the entirety of the money in my marriage and was sued for alimony and half my retirement during divorce, I laugh at your "for a man" comments. The truth, if you are blessed to be successful you're going to pay alimony and your genitals aren't checked by the judge to insure only men have to pay. Oh and to finish the story... My exhusband tried to hide his baby and baby momma from the courts so he'd get alimony. Unfortunately, his best friend ruined his plan by outright telling… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Is this Red Pill or Not?My thoughts are: Why do you need this advice? Do you not trust yourself? Do you pick bad friends? Why do you feel like you have to pay some random on the internet for it (in viewing eyes on ads and clicks if nothing else)? You know they're selling a product right? So what makes you their consumer? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Green Pill?r/trees | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Giving upGood and bad. But that's life, right? I loved university and studying. My family always treated me like my intelligence was a flaw and so it took all those years to finally push everything away and do it for me. Turns out, I'm really good at that science stuff, graduated summa cum laude. But then I moved to a place where job prospects in my field are non-existent. It's a balance. I moved for love and I had always wanted to live near the beach. I had one dream, college, in the bag and I was reach… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/20 12:41 PM |
| 31 | Im having troubles getting rid of the mindset that all heterosexual women unconsciously want to be treated roughly during sex.I get it, but it‘s only a small minority of women that are actually into heterosexual fem-dom and by all other women it‘s seen as disgusting. No it's not. No we don't. If you are going to cite some general opinion, you better come with a citation. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Feeling dread over graduating collegeI don't know your major but for me, my graduating year most of the people in my classes were in my degree field and I kinda recognized all of them from other years other classes. Last year was filled with a lot of big projects and it was there I finally met a core group, helping each other across the finish line, so to speak. Long hours in labs and libraries make a good place to just talk casually. Plus, you'll have a good reason to stay in touch, you all are going to be doing the same job searc… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/20 11:36 AM |
| 7 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.Lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 08:52 PM |
| 14 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.He thinks mounting a virgin is like climbing mount Everest. So much to unpack. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 8 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.Why would you lead with that? Seriously. Look at it objectively. Why would you start some monologue that you want somebody to read seriously, with that statement? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 15 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.That's a lot of words to simply say "maybe me but not all guys". Your business skill doesn't do anything for me as a man. That's perfectly fine, my life's been pretty cool without you in it up until now. I'm sure I can do another 45 years without you. It's cute though that you opened with that statement, as if I cared and that somehow you were stopping me from pursuing you. Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 05:01 PM |
| 9 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.Be impeccable with your words then. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 04:23 PM |
| 13 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.Then why does it matter to all men? Debt that is? Edit: I'm showing you the circular logic of it all. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 04:13 PM |
| 15 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.When I was 24 years old I took out a building loan to build my first house. I had purchased the land for $45k, on top of a mountain overlooking a really beautiful geological feature. I used that land to leverage the $150k loan and started building my house. I owed a shit ton more than I owned. When I was done my house was valued at $100k over the loan. Right after, I leveraged a part of that in a loan to start a trucking company and bought my first freightliner. My first year, one truck, I gross… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 20 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.The act of creating more than one consumes is a very moral thing. But there are some caveats here: One shouldn't mistake the outward signs of wealth for wealth (see my next point), but I'm not sure I'd completely disagree with this. Not my intention when I said that. My intention is that material wealth doesn't add weight to the measured value of a human being regarding their moral life. A poor person can live their entire life causing no harm and doing good where they can. A poor person can sav… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 03:34 PM |
| 61 | “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.Everything we say is a projection of ourselves. What does that say? Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos Debt free: money means a lot to these people. They've bought into the western world view that fatter wallets equals better morality. Debt happens when we invest in ourselves. So you can't find a debt free Phd candidate, a debt free business owner, and a debt free house owner (generally speaking unless you are a trust fund baby). Basically they're saying, don't date people who invest i… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Giving upSeriously, i get your lack of faith in humanity. It's not easy being outside the norm, by choice or not. Honestly, my entire childhood up to 17 years old was a god damn nightmare. I'm 45 now and every once in awhile I will get a flash of something horribly awkward or embarrassing that happened to me when I was young and I can feel my chest tighten with anxiety. The thing is, life is strange. There's a massive group of people who toe the line on the status quo. They care about everything having t… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/20 12:40 PM |
| 1 | I feel like meeting someone / dating has become something superficial, calculated and non-natural.So, I will leave it up to you. I post a lot in the self help subreddits. This was my last response to a female OP complaining about her male partner. https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/ey4ixg/i_didnt_think_it_was_possible_to_feel_worse_but/fgfdlsy?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share What do you think about my ability to try to remain objectively gender neutral while still honoring the genders themselves? That's at least my best intentions, but, like everyone, I am imperfect at be… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/20 04:37 PM |
| 3 | I feel like meeting someone / dating has become something superficial, calculated and non-natural.So the first thing you did is recognize you don't have faith in yourself. OP apparently hasn't taken that leap yet. Didn't need a broken home to get pummelled by life as a child. Dysfunctional families exist in all socio, political, religious, economic demographics. Their men and they're women and every gender in the middle. The thing is, you have to recognize you're broken first. Most people don't have that self awareness, so they see everything and everyone in the world as broken and not thems… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 2 | I feel like meeting someone / dating has become something superficial, calculated and non-natural.You're stuck because of curious google searches? All of this worry you have in OP all over a google search? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/20 12:02 PM |
| 4 | I feel like meeting someone / dating has become something superficial, calculated and non-natural.We are social as a species. We learn everything using our social tool kit: language, symbolism, body kinetics, mirror neurons. (Etc) The only way to be adept at socializing is to do it, often and frequently. The more faces, narratives, and experiences you put in front of you, the better you get at it. It requires no ideology. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I feel like meeting someone / dating has become something superficial, calculated and non-natural.So why did you? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/20 11:53 AM |
| 1 | I feel like meeting someone / dating has become something superficial, calculated and non-natural.You must have had no faith if you felt compelled in the first place to substitute 75k years of biological reality regarding pair bonding with a bunch of YouTube videos and blogs. Most people don't need that much advice for something that comes naturally. So again, why do you lack so much faith in yourself? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/20 11:34 AM |
| 1 | I feel like meeting someone / dating has become something superficial, calculated and non-natural.Why do you have such little faith in yourself? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/20 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Destroyed some friendships. What can I do?When you do something wrong you are not really supposed to get over it quickly. That's what your brain is doing, keeping it present because you yourself don't think you've 'made up' for the wronging. When you actually feel like you've changed and learned how not to do that again it'll go away. When you "pay forward" enough truths to match the lies... Your conscience clears. That's why in addiction recovery, making amends is one of the later steps... Not the first. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/20 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Not a troll, but what about Redpill or MGTOW is objectively bad?So no, I see.... Lolol | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/20 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Not a troll, but what about Redpill or MGTOW is objectively bad?You didn't answer my question. Unless you do that, nothing happens because you appear to defensive to do so. I asked you a very specific question. Answer it or not, but don't think you're obfuscating anything... You're just coming across as too afraid to answer and beating up on strawmans you make of me with zero actual proof is considered poor form in public discourse. If your next response isn't an answer to the primary question, you'll appear even more the coward or fool. Your choice. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/20 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Not a troll, but what about Redpill or MGTOW is objectively bad?So you wont answer my question. Ok. It was simple, what are those lionized bad traits of women. But instead you want to do this thing and make it about me, which is sad because you actually were interesting to read and I was interested in knowing. But defensive people, like you, cut off anyone who they see as threatening. I guess my question threatened you. My bad. Have a great day. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/20 02:36 PM |
| 10 | Not a troll, but what about Redpill or MGTOW is objectively bad?Im a woman and I am not trp. I was asking a question of you. If you want to assume everything about me, you should have read my post history first. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Not a troll, but what about Redpill or MGTOW is objectively bad?MGTOW is the actualization of a man's life in a society that lionizes the worst parts of female nature. What are those worst parts? And could you also list the worst parts of men as well before we actually have a conversation because this part of your post is intentionally vague and yet hinges on that question. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/20 01:43 PM |
| 5 | I was a one day red piller, but I've been into PUA and self development for yearsDo you actually enjoy it though? Do you actually enjoy women, or do you enjoy the game? It's ok to enjoy the game. We all do at one point and another, but don't obfuscate what it is you are enjoying. If you actually enjoy the game, you should stop attempting to frame short relationships as long term and just see it for what it is. If you actually enjoy women and enjoy their company then all this game theory you are labor under is moot. Enjoying somebody isn't game, it's not. It's like enjoying f… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/20 09:34 PM |
| 15 | I was a one day red piller, but I've been into PUA and self development for yearsSeems to me it's actually not working for you if you continually need a coach. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on this?We are all imperfect people living in an imperfect world trying desperately to make imperfect relationships with other equally imperfect people. Suicide is a big blinking red sign that a person was broken... Imperfect. But so is the guy... Imperfect. And so are all the commenters. And so are all of us. ...... And you wonder why TRP fails.... Because expectations on what is expected, the perfect girl or guy, doesn't exist. That's the fucking point of being with somebody.. To be in love, is the re… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/20 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Does texting ruin attraction?I've broken up with a lot of men who don't communicate. In fact it's one of the things that will make me stop pursuing them. It will make me no longer find them interesting because silence is boring. Silent partners are boring partners and I am not attracted to boring. Texting is one of those avenues of communication that I would have appreciated. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/20 12:24 PM |
| 4 | What do women think of the whole alpha/beta male concept?Ok... So you want to know why concepts of alpha beta don't translate to human behavior? Well, we aren't pack animals for one. "The vast majority of primates lives in bisexual groups with ≥3 adults, which sets them apart from other mammals in which permanently bisexual groups are much less common (van Schaik and Kappeler, 1997). Moreover, an unusally large and detailed number of field studies of Primates versus other Mammalia, revealed an additional level of diversity with respect to the size, se… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 7 | Here's one for you..Of course they don't want you to leave... You're a cash cow of clicks, eyes on advertising, blog reading, video monetization, and junk purchasing . You think a business wants it's best customer to find out they don't need the product your selling? Ever try to quit comcast? Verizon? Satellite radio? Insurance??? Yea, they'll give you all the same reasons. Probably better thought out excuses too. "Are you sure you want to quit our subscription? Often our customers aren't aware of all the benefits … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/20 01:55 PM |
| 50 | What do women think of the whole alpha/beta male concept?It's actually a laughable concept in my field of Anthropology. Whenever I hear somebody use it to frame human behavior a part of me loses respect for the person's intelligence. Whenever a person tries to out debate me on the concept, it's usually somebody suffering from a severe case of expertise cognitive bias. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/20 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced?See... Look how awesome your reaction was... I'm sure you're an excellent listener during dates. Lol Also, I didn't downvote you. Somebody else did. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/20 03:13 PM |
| 11 | Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced?Forever self improvement sounds like hell. At some point you have to stop making this about you. At some point your ego has to stop making decisions for you and you come to realize that it's not about this skin suit body or even your genetic lottery ticket. A slut for the right man is exactly it. The right man for her. Not you. Not some bs list some pua gives out. Not some bs ideology of the 'perfect man'. For her. The right man for most women is none of that shit you read on trp. It's laughable… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/20 02:53 PM |
| 12 | Why some PUAs believe their method works on all women despite some rejections they've been experienced?Because there's an endless supply of people who want to sell that product, each having to one up each other's "unlock a secret to having women." That means year after year, PUA have to make up another reason for you to buy THEIR product. Honestly, back in my day... Before I hit their proverbial 'wall', young guys were selling "charisma" classes to other young boys. Now, they have to sell an ideology and a 'lifestyle' choice to even be considered relevant. Their product does not work, for the rea… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/20 01:19 PM |
| 4 | [Discuss]Men who strongly believe that their manhood must be earned and can be lost exhibit more pronounced cortisol reactivity when their masculinity is threatened, according to research published in the journal Psychology of Men & Masculinities.No worries. That's why I was asking. Feel better. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/19 07:38 PM |
| 6 | [Discuss]Men who strongly believe that their manhood must be earned and can be lost exhibit more pronounced cortisol reactivity when their masculinity is threatened, according to research published in the journal Psychology of Men & Masculinities.You don't understand that list is all of the symptoms and potential problems with high Cortisol levels? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/19 06:20 PM |
| 5 | [Discuss]Men who strongly believe that their manhood must be earned and can be lost exhibit more pronounced cortisol reactivity when their masculinity is threatened, according to research published in the journal Psychology of Men & Masculinities.Even if it is making them happier, the results of high Cortisol are telling: Weight issues. Specifically weight gain around the core of the body. Acne. Brain fog. Depression. Anxiety. Diabetes. Osteoporosis. May increase chances of Alzheimer's and dementia later in life. Fatigue. Irritability. Low libido. Sexual dysfunction. Just google it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 4 | I just got bashed by this subreddit all day yesterday.You should read this article, it will explain the entire reason why women won't have sex with you and also why people bashed you here. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/19 12:15 PM |
| 9 | Should introverts even bother with relationships?We're just better trained for social engineering so we hide it well. Look for the woman who isn't shy in social situations, but doesn't invest too much of herself into others' problems and isn't afraid to set boundaries and say no. Who tells people the truth even if it sounds harsh to them. She might have a reputation as a bitch. Not for nothing but this is a genius level tell in recognizing introverted women. Nicely done. I see myself in it. I refuse to play reindeer games and all the poor rein… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/19 02:20 PM |
| 18 | Should introverts even bother with relationships?Nobody needs a relationship. You want one or not. If you do, you make time for it because you want it and want that person in your life. They add value to your world. Or they don't and you don't have a relationship. This isn't rocket science. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/19 12:11 PM |
| 11 | Seduction in Feminist timesThis isn't a dating advice subreddit. Women aren't some robot with default settings and neither are men. There is no one way to do anything with human beings. To be a great lover and a great seducer you have to be a person who loves people, all kinds, in all ways. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/19 11:50 AM |
| 12 | Redpill men are men who can’t move forwardThis is what my 59 year old boyfriend says about redpill etc... "They want to go backwards!!???!!" Going back means: More alcoholism for men because being emotionally unavailability is untenable so you drink your emotions. Oh and then no real addiction recovery either, you're just a failure. Get ready for war. Considering the fact that it is because we had women fighting to be in the military through the 60s and 70s, the military gave up the draft in 1973, moved to a volunteer military in which … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/19 01:10 PM |
| 12 | Can't get over dick sizeJust to add some perspective on how strong penis size worry is connected to anxiety. This is what anthropologists call a culturally bound syndrome. It's rather interesting because, first nothing physical is actually happening to their penis and secondly it's actually virulent. Whole communities have come down with Koro being psychologically passed from one person to another. Women get variations of this, nipple retraction. Why do I bring it up. Because your fear is mostly irrational. You admit, … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/19 05:58 PM |
| 32 | The fear of turning 30 as a woman really messes with meLife got better after 39ish. Your thirties feel like a building and maintenance decade in your life. A lot of existential pressure to be "an adult". Mixed messages on what that looks like and everyone you know gets married or pregnant. If you do or don't, doesn't matter. Life isn't defined by those things and you'll realize that by mid 30s, with or without kids and spouse in tow. By decade end, you'll feel awesome about getting older and you'll have defined yourself against the world. You'll hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/19 06:30 PM |
| 12 | How do you guys deal with hypergamy?Have you engaged the r/polyamory and r/nonmonogamy communities on Reddit about how they see "hypergamy"? I mean, they're out there sharing their partners with others and I rarely see the angst riddled posts of "red pill" ideology in action on there. You'd think they'd be seeing your issue over and over. I mean, honestly, why don't they? Why are they not crushed under the same truth you are seeing? Maybe because emotionally self aware people don't make "demons" up to explain quite simple human in… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 0 | All women are submissiveIf you are so interested, why not go to university and study it. You could study anthropology, which is a broad study of humans. (That's what I did). You could study sociology, humans in groups. You could study psychology, humans as individuals. You could even just go in and get that Gender Studies degree and really get specific on the female experience. There is no point in just posting research. Why? Because a research study or even a dozen, still only represents a drop in a bucket of actual k… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Curious about Jordan Peterson?Sooooooo much space. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/19 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Curious about Jordan Peterson?You have all the answers... So smart. So edgy. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Curious about Jordan Peterson?You're funny. Absolutely letting me rent space in your head and then acting like I'm the weird one. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/19 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Curious about Jordan Peterson?You should learn your value, instead of making fun of people who already have. Maybe that's where the red pill fails. Nobody here seems to have any idea of what it means to carry a sense of worth. When somebody does, it apparently is a bad thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Curious about Jordan Peterson?The argument has already been made by established academics. It's been codified in lesson plans. There's been distilled pop-level science articles written. The fact that you need me to inform you that it exists in the ether already shows this is a bad faith inquiry. Moreover, several other's have touched on some of the issues, you may have read on but failed to follow up in curiosity. The truth is probably that you've put copious amounts of hours into studying JP enough to feel the need to engag… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/10/19 02:03 AM |
| 5 | Curious about Jordan Peterson?Jordan P was taught as an example of how NOT to do social science in classes at my university. He and Jared Diamond (guns, germs, and steel) are examples of how trying to squeeze data into a preconceived idea is not seeking Truth but simply trying to sway the conversation for personal interest. There's nothing more to say than that. To argue would be to lend credence to it, which I won't do. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/19 08:12 PM |
| 7 | I was raised to be an RPW and it was not a good road to travel.My parents ended up moving in with me after i initially tried to run. Lol they're like locusts of my soul sometimes. I do love them though, it's just their way and no getting around it. I was too young and at the time, managed to pick a spouse who was just like my parents, expecting me to take care of him too. Another 15 years went by. Life is long in the rearview mirror, short looking out the windshield, and fucking eternal when your inside the car. All in all, it was still a life worthy of liv… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/19 01:56 PM |
| 37 | I was raised to be an RPW and it was not a good road to travel.You should know, your wealth was not a significant part of your story. Truth be told, poor girls are raised like that too. In fact, in many cultures, that's the status quo growing up. Unless you were ugly like me. My poor parents didn't have a winning breeder in me. So they raised me to take care of all the elderly and disabled in the family. My whole purpose in life was to take care of my parents when they got old. I was an extra employee for them that never clocked out. 24/7. In fact I get pus… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/19 12:52 PM |
| 2 | All of these groups (MGTOW, incel's, PUA's, Redpill)Primatologist you are not.... Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/19 10:50 AM |
| 6 | All of these groups (MGTOW, incel's, PUA's, Redpill)And anthropologically incorrect... On all accounts. There is no universality regarding this and human behavior. Moreover, if you step one clade back you don't find this type of universality in our closest, socially relevant, evolutionary relatives. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/10/19 01:31 AM |
| 2 | The blackpill is destroying my life and i really don't know how to get out of it.I empathize. I honestly do. Halo effect is a cognitive bias and also culturally linked. One cultures halo is another cultures horn effect. It's a throwback to having to live out on the savannah, trying to figure out whose going to eat you and who can you eat. Since we can't completely evaluate a threat in the time it could take for a preditor to kill us, our brains filter things we see into simple categories. Modern brains create modern threats. Here you are citing a pretty significant biologica… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | The blackpill is destroying my life and i really don't know how to get out of it.Can you cite some science or is that your personal experience and narrative? Because even in caste system cultures, those at the bottom don't just sit around and 'vent' to each other. They build lives with each other. They make due, out in the world, with each other. They endeavor to make a life, to find a modicum of joy. Sitting alone, on the internet, venting is actually just self gratification. Especially hate fueled rhetoric. Swinging wildly and making no impact. However, sitting online tryi… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/19 07:16 PM |
| 4 | The blackpill is destroying my life and i really don't know how to get out of it.True, but they already self ostracized themselves. The only way to reconnect is by connecting. The fastest way to learn how not to behave in polite company is to be impolite. I think OP has come to that conclusion. BP is loneliness. Impolite behavior in public spaces is met with consequences. People have to learn how to be social. We're not born with it. A therapist will not help you learn to socialize, they'll help you with learning to process the hits you talk about getting when socializing im… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/19 01:39 PM |
| 20 | The blackpill is destroying my life and i really don't know how to get out of it.If i may ask you a question: If you're lonely, why is the first place you head to the lowest common denominator of subreddits? Clearly there are other subreddits. r/photography, r/geocaching, r/hiking, r/cooking, etc etc. I could go on and on with subs that are good skills/hobbies where people love to talk about it. Maybe you can head to your local subreddit and discuss local politics and things to do. Maybe you're suddenly interested in other lifestyles, curious, so you hang out in r/bdsmcommun… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 9 | What are some really bad or worst advice the red pill gives?It assumes that people are perfect in their actions and language. Nothing is perfect. Not a one of us. Not women. Not men. Nobody is perfect. In fact we are so imperfect that our eyes see perfect things as flawed. Too perfect. The architect of the Acropolis in Athens built the columns to appear perfect from a person standing below looking up. But the columns themselves are not straight at all. Why? Our eyes see imperfectly. Perception effects us. We think imperfectly. Why do we have entire acade… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about this omission? their true nature, or not?Absolutely, in fact there's a few disciplines that study ONLY marriage within or between cultures in Anthropology. It's a big marker in what type of culture we are looking at because it's often linked to certain types of resource availability. So, as i like to, here's the counter point to my point provided by summery via NYT: a quote "While finding that romantic love appears to be a human universal, Dr. Jankowiak allows that it is still an alien idea in many cultures that such infatuation has an… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/19 05:15 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about this omission? their true nature, or not?Being both enm and mono in my life and being cheated on in both... By men. My opinion is a certain subset is too cowardly to face their own emotions and too cowardly to confront their partners so they play in the grey. Plenty of people cheat for all sorts of reasons. I know db folks who are forced celibate by their partners but both don't want to give up their status quo because of kids and money. People are complicated. We are all imperfect. Why would we expect perfection from partners when we … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/19 01:09 PM |
| 9 | How do you feel about this omission? their true nature, or not?Ok. What about r/polyamory Or r/swingers Or r/nonmonogamy Those are all places where couples who love each other and are committed to each other, still choosing other people. Totally legit. Maybe it's not women that's the problem. Maybe it's monogamy. Love is a term that's only been used for 600 years in regards to marriage and relationships. (Courtly love movement) Most people married for all sorts of reasons before. Some cultures don't even have monogamy. Some are polyandry. Some are polygyny.… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/19 12:21 PM |
| 5 | i made all the girls who treated me with cruelty regret it (by improving) but now im lostIf i may give one more piece of advice: Figure out what you want in life. Not vague shit like "i wanna make money and drive expensive cars" but instead " i love cars and working on them as a hobby but i want to be a software engineer so i can make a good living and afford my hobby. " Now consider all the things you need to protect to insure your joy: your job, your education, your tools, your network of car friends who help you out..Your uncle who has a mechanic shop. You need all those things h… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/19 12:49 PM |
| 31 | i made all the girls who treated me with cruelty regret it (by improving) but now im lostI lost 260lbs in 15 months going from almost 400lbs to a low of 135lbs. My own parents didn't recognize me. The whole world changed for me. I was socially invisible before and suddenly the volume on life went up exponentially as people suddenly wanted to talk to me. It was bizzare. Fucked with my head. Even my own friends suddenly treated me different (and also allowed their fat jokes to come out now that i was no longer fat.) I started to be able to date anyone i had eyes for. But then i couldn… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/19 12:06 PM |
| 5 | RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal levelMy point being you rhetorically became defensive when i was actually agreeing with you. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal levelWe are hardwired to see faces that look like the faces of the people who raised us as 'safe' and those that don't as 'suspect'. There's a whole subset of Anthropology that looks at tribalism and related behaviors in regards to our biologically hard wired cognitive biases. But what if the people who raised us were abusive? Would we then associate people who look like us and exhibit abusive behaviors and psychology as 'safe'. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/19 05:23 PM |
| 3 | RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal levelI thought we were having a conversation. Sorry. When a question is posed and an answer provided often it begs for another response from an equal but different perspective. Perhaps more than one response is offered, showing multiple equal but different perspectives. From there participants can discuss the merits of each point in relation to the original posed question. That's what conversation looks like and what i was attempting to recreate. Is the genesis of trp-esque ideology in response to an… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/19 02:07 PM |
| 3 | RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal levelExcluding people from access to resources doesn't always equate to eradication. Like I said... Labor is a resource. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/19 01:09 PM |
| 4 | RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal levelIn Anthropology and other human studying fields, resources is seen as things required for human life. Now that changes depending on where you are and what geographic/cultural area you happen to be standing in. For example, a boat is a resource but only for people near water. Growing a beard might not be a necessity for life but in some cultures it makes life easier if you can. Money is a resource because it gets you things but only in places that use money. Water, food, shelter... All resources.… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/19 12:55 PM |
| 13 | RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal levelSo you don't think it was about resources but about emotional trauma. So is racism emotional truma? Homophobia? Nationalism? Honest question. To me it looks more like trying to exclude people from resources. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/19 12:40 PM |
| 17 | The Red Pill lead me down a dark path and I don't like the person I've becomeYou became the thing you feared most. Usually happens when we fear and 'other' human beings of a type. What you realized was we are all human, living imperfect lives in an imperfect world trying desperately to be in relationships with other imperfect people. So welcome to the world. You're imperfect and so are the rest of us. First order of business, cut everyone as much slack as you would like us to do hearing your story of cheating. Seriously, we all fuck up. The difference between the good on… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How to get those "red pill lessons" out of my head?Just remember chicks like me are just people. The people, men and women, you bring into your life should add value to your journey, emotionally and intellectually, so take your time in bringing them in. I can guarantee the women you meet are doing that to you. It's not for gain, it's to protect ourselves from the hurt. Time is a beautiful thing. We always think we have too little. Then you end up 50 years old and realizing there was so much of it and still a long way to go if you're lucky. So ta… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/19 07:28 PM |
| 12 | How to get those "red pill lessons" out of my head?You can chalk this up to being a 45 year old woman's advice but I feel this needs to be said. Fear, not women, is your challenge. Courage is what you should have been cultivating, not pick up lessons. A hard truth is that life for nearly all of us is fucking insane and horribly unfair at times, over and over. Nobody gets out of life unscarred. The good news is, most of that insane and unfair bullshit that happens doesn't kill you. In fact, it sometimes makes the long and often boring stretches o… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/19 07:00 PM |
| 8 | MGTOWs views on marriage are probably the only thing left that might still make me believe in the red pill? Can someone help me out of it?Consider it this way... A marriage needs to be 3 things to be successful. You need to be friends. You need to be lovers. And lastly you need to be business partners. You need to be able to move between those three personas fluidly. Now that being said... Would you rather go into business with someone with a contract that is validated by laws that attempt to be neutral to all parties? Or are you just going to throw your entire life and its worth down on a handshake and a kiss? If it's the latter.… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/19 02:54 AM |
| 34 | MGTOWs views on marriage are probably the only thing left that might still make me believe in the red pill? Can someone help me out of it?I made more than my husband and when he divorced me he sued for alimony, half my retirement, and the house. He got the house. He would have gotten everything, except for that baby his girlfriend was carrying, which I used as leverage. I have no kids so I can't speak to that, but financially, my experience with divorce is that no matter if you're male or female, if you make the most money you're going to pay the restocking fee on your stbx. Five years after... I'm doing fine. Struggle is life, bu… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/19 10:46 AM |
| 3 | Found this on medium. I think it belongs here.Lol Seriously you got that out of my comment, that I don't have awesome female friends? Listen just because there is an absence of information provided, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. It simply means I didn't think it was relevant to the comment. I simply described my own feelings about men in groups having fun. I'm 45 and I've lived all over. My closest female friends are scattered across the world. For that reason, we don't carouse. However, in hell and high water, it's those women i always tu… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/19 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Found this on medium. I think it belongs here.It's an amazing read and a very self-reflective piece. I think it's very real the perspective shifts we have through life when something big happens (like the birth of a child). However, where are those men who honorably talk to other men? Where's the guys in the bar calling out infidelity for what it is? Even the author defies his own honor definition by writing to his daughter instead of speaking to men themselves. I think that's what is missing from this equation. Women are not looking to def… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/19 12:51 PM |
| 10 | Now what. How to move on.So I'm a 45 year old woman...for transparency. I wanted to hit on a point you made and why you're feelings (opinions) may be right and wrong all at the same time. I still respect women but I am compelled to admit that I saw them as less than men ie shallow.I didn't fall into the rabbit hole off mgtow and being an incel. Take gender out of this thought for a moment and consider why we all feel people are shallow/stupid/fake or any other related feeling we get when getting to know anyone. Is it be… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/19 03:39 PM |
| 11 | Catch 22. Chicken or the egg type of situation with virgin men.Honestly... You're way too uptight. Guys first time they cum fast (sometimes) but it's like 5 minutes and you can go again. Find time to do something for five minutes with your woman until reset. If you've cleared all the bases but PIV, youre basically there... There's nothing between fingering a woman and putting your dick in that same hole you just had your hand in. If you haven't, then play ball. Tell your dates you move slow and do as many dates as you need to get there. Don't introduce your… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/19 07:42 PM |
| 3 | How to 're-enter' the game?Just remember... Anyone worth knowing will give you all the time and patience you need...As long as you are honest (to your comfort zone) about why. It's cool... You'll be fine. Let people surprise you. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/19 03:25 AM |
| 7 | How to 're-enter' the game?Courage, that's all you need. You think you just invented the broken heart? You think people who move on from breakups must not feel? You think a couple of millennia of poetry, music, art, film etc about love didn't get it like you? Nahh we all get gutted. Sometimes a dozen times, sometime once. Becoming a real fucking adult is doing it with grace and being courageous enough to do it again. What's the fucking alternative... Your life, alone, or at best a cold, transactional relationship. That's … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/19 03:11 AM |
| 12 | I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't changeIts not... Actually there's a whole subsection of Pansexuals who aren't visually attracted. Im one. We don't find people attractive on looks, it does not compute. We are attracted to people, personality and kinetics. I have a heavy audible attraction, that is i am turned on by people and the way they talk. Saposexual people are attracted to intelligence. Demisexuals are attracted to connection and looks doesn't alway play a part. See how your experience in the world is so limited. You don't even… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/19 08:37 PM |
| 11 | I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't changeYou talk about the superficial nature of women (people) in another comment... But you fail to see how superficial you are regarding your assumptions about women. Another cognitive bias. You should study cognitive biases... You clearly have not had any education on how our brains work and why we are wrong more often than not. Get a handle on your cognitive biases because they are giving you a false reality. It's apparent in your words. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/19 08:29 PM |
| 18 | I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't changeDo you think that's the measure of a life? The sex and relationships they have. Is that how we should measure yours? But... A life is measured in their day to day toiling. How they order themselves. How courageous or cowardly they are. Who they meet and how they deal with those people. What do you know of the challenges of a woman? You haven't even lived with one, even as a roommate. You haven't had a glimpse into their world and how the world treats them. You assume. You fall back on other peop… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/19 08:22 PM |
| 16 | I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't changeNot in the way a person"knows" somebody's intimately... all of my friends know nothing about a whole section of my life that only my lover's have known. And only my boyfriend's know what it's like to be me everyday day in day out... They see the effect of social order on me. Not my coworker or friends. How long have you ever lived with a woman? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/19 07:55 PM |
| 29 | I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't changeSo the guy who admitted he doesn't have experience with women... Knows women enough to extrapolate. See your Dunning Kruger effect. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/19 07:49 PM |
| 15 | I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't changeAnd you know this how? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/19 07:41 PM |
| 27 | I absolutely hate women and I hate that I can't changeDo you think that this only happens to men? Or Do you think that only men deserve to be treated better by women? But women should put up with it? Because im pretty sure all you complained about has happened to women. Women with acne. Women who are fat. Women who are awkward. Women who aren't feminine. In fact if you took out gender, this would read like a seventeen magazine article for girls.... | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/19 07:23 PM |
| 17 | How is r/Redpill wrong?Eighteen year old girls grow up into women. So do boys.. What you are seeing is people searching for identity. Eventually we grow up, get lives, get hurt, get bent, get jaded.... And we realize that life isn't as neatly packaged as we thought at 18. People, no matter the gender, are good, bad, indifferent. There is no universality. As far as relationships... Learn to get hurt gracefully. Learn to pick better partners by picking lots of friends. The diversity will give you more experience at read… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/19 11:11 PM |
| 14 | One thing TRP gets right.Of course, because the lesson isn't actually learned. The only way you can feel validated is by dragging somebody else down according to most people who even think about agreeing with trp ideology. The truth is you don't need the validation of anybody to do what you're doing. That's courage. Everything else, like having to believe that women hit a wall, is just bullshit cowardice and an inability to validate yourself. At the end of the day, when these same men hit 35 and realize that there wasn'… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/19 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Is Toxic For Relationships Becuase It's A Wrong Interpretation of Game Theory (defections are the norm instead of exceptions)Yeah but they clearly talk in universalist terms... So it doesn't matter because every culture has stratification. Every woman you meet comes from a different socio-economic-political background and therefor game theory requires specifications. This is game theory 101... I can tell you from experience that game theory can provide a lot of information from social media platforms that predict socioeconomic challenges in a certain demographic. But this version of game theory is so watered down and … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 07:32 PM |
| 17 | Red Pill Is Toxic For Relationships Becuase It's A Wrong Interpretation of Game Theory (defections are the norm instead of exceptions)If you want just one silver bullet flaw in the whole argument it's this: There is no universal culture across the human population. In anthropology one of the most important motivators of human cultural behavior is resource gathering. None of these theories are specific enough to quantify each location's resource gathering needs. Even in Western culture there are stratifications in society because of resource gathering challenges. Each stratification has their own unique sensibility and pragmati… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | what the red pill is REALLY aboutTheir beliefs that women are controlled by their biology is laughable. do you think that we wake up everyday wondering about when we are going to find a man to impregnate us and make children? Lol ...day in ...day out? For 40+ years?? And yet they have no self-awareness about all the biological cognitive biases that are written over all their comments and posts. None. Zero. In fact even your comment has a cognitive bias or three. The emphasis on female biology is exactly what women are arguing a… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | what the red pill is REALLY aboutWell, Let me explain something that happens when you get older...you gain confidence and experience. Physical beauty is nothing without the soul operating the vehicle. Why do I, a seemingly average looking aged woman, feel sexier and am pursued by men of all ages? Because I wear my skin suit well. I move in my skin suit with confidence and I use my assets to have fun with people. That confidence and knowledge of self goes far. A younger me was too inexperienced to drive this skin suit well. The … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/19 10:33 AM |
| 3 | what the red pill is REALLY aboutOmg... If this is expired, why didn't I do this sooner. Seriously, I'm a princess and I'm not even married. We both don't believe in that b.s. Want advice red Pillers? Here it is. "Don't be afraid to fall in love and get wrecked completely by it. Learn how to move on gracefully from it. Do it often and deeply."--muff 10:18 Life's too fucking short, grow a pair and go fucking live it. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | what the red pill is REALLY aboutLol... What wall? I'm 44 and none of that has happened. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/19 01:24 AM |
| 10 | what the red pill is REALLY aboutI'm 44, female and in the best shape of my life and fucking guys from 28 to 60... I guess I just have a sparkling personality. Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/19 01:23 AM |
| 7 | what the red pill is REALLY aboutWhat age was I supposed to hit the wall?? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/19 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Is this true?So what's the issue? Early sex women: More likely to get STDs. Yeah. So? More likely to get pregnant? Yea, so? There's also a man involved with that equation. For every single mother there's a single father, either in the equation or completely outside of it. Why is that the woman's fault? More likely to get divorced? Yea. So? In that equation is also a guy who now is also divorced. Why is that the woman's fault? Poverty? So? Seems like an economic problem not a gender problem. If it's so common… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/19 10:47 AM |
| 10 | to anyone that could use a laugh right now"As a subtle but elegant statement, it shows that you can not be shamed or intimidated. You are proud of who you are and the pure precious metal serves as a constant reminder of your value as a free man. " ...but still a pawn to capitalism. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/19 10:31 AM |
| 0 | my problems with red pill ideology - please add yours!Here clearer. Are you a fucking moron? There is no such thing as exception to the rule in adult land. There is precedent. That's it. Yea. Everything else is just you acting your age. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | my problems with red pill ideology - please add yours!Socially..all positions are required for it to work, pay aside. Generally speaking there's always going to be one out of two that makes more. Lol The system is egalitarian, the social construct is not. That makes the system work. There is no argument....if men want to work their passion instead of their wallet, maybe they should. I happen to have a skill set that pays...my gender is not an issue. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | my problems with red pill ideology - please add yours!I made all the money... I am a woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | How to get over a red pillerAs we say in the polyamory community: "Don't be sad it's over...be glad it happened." Live. Learn. Move on. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/19 06:53 PM |
| 19 | TRP beliefs destroying a beautiful relationship - need helpAnthropologist here just to say that this post is correct. No Anthropologist worth their weight in salt would ever consider evolutionary psychology a discipline worthy of following if it existed at all. My field of research has to do with biology and culture and the effects of both on each other. For example most of our cognitive biases have a biological source but the effects of cognitive biases can be seen across cultures and in the way we socialize with each other. Anyone who talks about alph… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/19 07:40 PM |
| 5 | What about infidelity?So... what if they cheat? So what. This fear of yours is so irrational it's keeping you from being loved. Your fear is controlling you. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/19 11:22 AM |
| 7 | my problems with red pill ideology - please add yours!It dispelled the myth that women are never sued for any of these things. That it's always women who are looking for the payout. That women want to tie a man up with kids. That hypergamy women don't effect other women. It proves a lot especially in an ideology that exists as a platform for universality. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/19 12:44 PM |
| 10 | my problems with red pill ideology - please add yours!Well to dispell any MGTOW myths: I am a woman. My husband got another woman pregnant. Sued me for divorce. Sued me for alimony. Sued me for half my retirement. Sued me for the house I bought in cash. Took all our things from 18 years of marriage and sold it. I made all the money in the relationship. This is the exact opposite of what MGTOW says happens in court and in the world. So much for universality...... | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/19 12:25 PM |
| 5 | I am the "reddest flag" to any TRP guy.About 7-10 of my followers are TRP folks who downvote me all over Reddit.. One chased me across social media platforms.. Lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/19 11:04 AM |
| 1 | debunking more bullshit part2Clearly still holding a little tight to the pill. Just the fact that you have to quantify "quality women" is just stupid. All people have good qualities and bad. ALL PEOPLE. When you say "quality" you mean a person that fits your niche of lifestyle. All the other women, and men for that matter, still are quality just not yours. That type of linguistic bullshit is what rp is built on.. And on another note, a 20 year old may not want their future wife to be fucking 5 guys at once... But that same … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/19 10:05 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Hypergamy is real and activeQuestion: Any proof this effects people over 30? 40? 50? Most people settle into relationships by 30, globally. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_age_at_first_marriage) Even China with a more males scenario find age of first marriage below 30 with a 2 year age Gap. So. If this is real why do a majority of people seemingly overcome this great problem before 30? In fact people who marry after 25 and before 32 are most likely to stay married longer. The average age of a first marr… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/06/19 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Have always been on the fence w.r.t TRP and haven't read the sidebar totally yet, just read posts often. Looking for some insights :")And another screed that doesn't actually answer my response. You invalidate yourself by conflating everything and then separating when inconvenient to your own set of beliefs. My point. Everyone goes through this. Men. Women. Black. White. Brown. Tribal. Modern. Aboriginal. First world. Everyone. You're the only who needs a manual. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/19 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Have always been on the fence w.r.t TRP and haven't read the sidebar totally yet, just read posts often. Looking for some insights :")And women too Why do people conveniently always forget women when it's detracts from their argument. Infertile women were often cast out of their community and family. Traded in by husbands. This pretty much invalidates your whole screed. You mix time and space and culture when convenient and then deny them when not. Again, doesn't matter anyways. We don't need a handbook. Period. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/19 06:58 PM |
| 7 | Have always been on the fence w.r.t TRP and haven't read the sidebar totally yet, just read posts often. Looking for some insights :")You know... At one time humans didn't need a handbook on how to socialize with the opposite sex. In fact, there were wide swaths of human history where there wasn't even a handbook to survive life. Maybe a book that blamed it all on some mystical force in the universe, if you were lucky. The only handbook I ever got was my 6 page pamphlet on menstruation when I was in third grade, right after we all watched a video on sex. The boys got a blue book that explained their penises to them. That's abo… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/19 10:49 AM |
| 7 | "Macho tokens" theoryAll the men I have been close with, be they friends, co-workers, family, lovers, and spouses have all cried in front of me. My boss once cried in front of me. The only thing that happened was I felt closer to them all for it. Sometime those friends became lovers, but overall nothing but comforting happened. Nobody woke up the next day feeling less of themselves, nor did I of them. Maybe it's me, as a woman. Maybe it's age, younger men have a harder time due to proximity to enculturation. Maybe t… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?I'm 44.. I am old. And you're still a moron for being a keyboard cowboy with zero intuition for masochists. Lol You couldn't have pegged me more wrong. Kinda like your life I guess, just winging it on your intuition and failing miserably. Yeah...I'm a masochist and I just got you mad enough to lose your shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 09:27 PM |
| 13 | [found in r/MGTOW] According to this; what is wrong with hairdressers, redheads and girls named Tiffany?Because women are androids who all have only one of maybe 10 personality types and never change at all...no matter what. No evolving. And that's why they're always going to be rejected because they are always left standing there with their dick in their hands when a woman suddenly does something different... Unexpected Error!!!! | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?Low tolerance for stupid insults. You wouldn't know an intelligent one if it was addressed to you. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?Maybe I'm use to harder swings from actually intelligent people. You always self own? Or is my fancy footwork and enjoyment of watching you struggle effecting your ability to think clearly? I say both... unfortunately for you, you're not even flicking my hate clit right now and that's something since I'm a masochist. You can't even turn me on by hating on me, and this is reddit! wtf is wrong with you, son. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?I guess you are too weak to be judged the same way you judged me. Like I said, you revealed yourself and I see your weak, sad, existence. Try Better. Fail better, sweetheart. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?You must think a lot of yourself to feel the need to dole out advice to strangers who aren't asking for it. But while we are at making assumptions about each other, here's mine. You're a lonely and sad person who doesn't give advice to people who need it but chooses to give advice to those who don't. Why? Because there's not an empathetic bone in your body...you only do this to make yourself feel big in a world that is built to make us all feel small. You need your validation and since nobody in… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?That's all you had to say... "I'm a judgemental asshole" But Because your a sad sad person, you had to rationalize your judgemental nature by saying all those other words. What you really wanted was to 'prove me wrong' All you proved was your weakness. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?If that's your definition of a slut, that's exactly what people do when they enjoy casual sex. Fuck whatever comes along. You just don't like no strings attached sport fucking and so those people must be bad. Just say it out loud "I am a judgmental asshole" and leave it at that. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?Casual sex equals sluts. What if I don't want your fucking relationship? Or anyone else's? What if I am ok with who I am? What if I fuck who I want? What if I don't need a man or woman to 'complete' me? I'm a slut. Here I thought I was exactly what a successful man would be, financially stable, requiring zero validation, confident, apparently decent looking enough to have a pick of partners, and at the top of my game. But I'm a slut because some butthurt asshole thinks that casual sex for a woma… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/19 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?Whenever something really bothers me I try to turn the perspective and see things from everyone's pov. Most of the times it's how we are raised, culturally. My parents were European and did not hold the taboos that many Americans hold, despite me being born and raised in that country. My bf was raised in a very strict socially rigid family. We meet in the middle a lot. Sometimes we laugh at each other about it lovingly. We change when we don't mind and the stuff we don't like is balanced with th… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/19 08:49 PM |
| 20 | Can someone help me sort this out in my head?Your beliefs are yours regarding modesty. They are not hers apparently. Both are ok. Both are reasonable to yourselves but unreasonable to each other. It's because you have different perspectives on it. Morality is something very personal and you can't change it if a person doesn't want to. So, either find a modest woman or accept that she's not modest. You labeling somebody a slut is just ignorant. People are allowed to live as they please and just because they may act to you permissive or sexu… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/19 08:40 PM |
| 4 | The red pill fucked my life upWe are all imperfect humans trying to make meaningful connections to other imperfect people in a messy, chaotic, imperfect world. When you accept that and everything it means, from your own mistakes to the mistakes of people long removed from your world, you learn that no one philosophy covers the infinite range of human experience. It only fools us to believe in a perfect world with perfect people. Perfect people, like the women you so badly pursued. The Parthenon in Athens is an amazing thing.… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/19 11:35 AM |
| 5 | A questionPeople ask things like this all the time about a lot of things: philosophy, religion, politics, history minutia, theory, and statistical grey areas. 'Can I take A from this and B from that..." My answer is...life is pretty subjective in the long arc of time. You can believe what you want. Example: redpill take care of yourself, workout etc. Perfect advice. Do you think they invented that concept? Be your own advocate for what you want, need, desire. Awesome! You think MRA or MGTOW or even Femini… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/19 11:25 AM |
| 2 | A questionYou can believe whatever you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/19 10:31 AM |
| 10 | HELP! OCD, Mormonism, and lack of dating success have caused me to become blackpilled and I want OUTSo you seem like the kind of person that might be interested in the science of sex and sexuality and also in just the basics of human behavior. You are as observant of it as an Anthropologist, like myself, when you're out experiencing the world. First thing I would suggest is learning to observe without bias. It's an actual learned behavior, we have to take classes in it. Pick up or look up a book at the library on 'ethnographic' research. Keep observing, it's a great skillset to have. But, you … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/19 11:40 AM |
| 9 | 21yr virgin male struggling with redpill ideasVery much this... I'm 44 and I have recently had dates with and close proximity to guys in your age range. (Late 20s date, finished degree recently at uni) The one thing that gets me to stop communicating and eventually push away from is the amazing speed they think getting into my pants is going to take. It doesn't come off as "aggressive" either, it comes off as desperate. As if they think they have ONLY ONE SHOT with me and they take it the first chance they get. The truth, y'all are so beaut… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/19 02:08 PM |
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