Is this true?

TheMadWoodcutter · 2020-06-17T17:02:53+00:00

Stop reading those communities. You’re literally just killing your brain cells and ruining any shot you have at a healthy relationship with a woman, romantic or otherwise.

Stargazer1919 · 2020-06-17T17:24:54+00:00

No. Why ask a man (who has no idea what it's like to be a woman) what women think, when you can go straight to the source and actually ask a woman?

Go out and experience real life. Quit reading these posts that fry your brain. Why is it that these men seem to have all the answers and they understand women completely, but they can't get laid and can't get a girlfriend? If this cult was actually correct in their thinking, they would have the results to show for it.

Carloverguy20 · 2020-06-17T18:13:55+00:00

Mgtow is full of bitter losers who are coping and projecting their failed experiences, by spewing misogynistic posts, memes, saying "Women are bad" "Feminism destroyed woman". Lots of these guys are salty over the girl that rejected them in grade school, it seems like. Don't take anything they say seriously.

CitrusyDeodorant · 2020-06-17T17:55:54+00:00

No. Also, these communities are toxic af, stop reading them.

I_like_the_word_MUFF · 2020-06-17T18:48:39+00:00

No. It's not. Actually most smart and capable women don't want to be sexualized.

Consider this, a woman who is average looking will get hit on all the time. Totally sexualized. But, rare is the man who appreciates her for her talents, intelligence, even style and personality.

That's the unicorn. That's the stand out guy. That's the guy I want to keep talking to because he 'sees' me beyond the superficial.

Every other guy is just another number in a sea of numbers.

In fact, that attention to detail will trump a high value career and a big bank account anyday of the week. I can afford to make up for my partners income shortfalls, but being loved, genuinely for who you are is more precious than money. I can always make more money.

cherrypeachleaves · 2020-06-17T17:58:21+00:00

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Merom0rph · 2020-06-17T17:25:28+00:00

It's a blanket and absolute, binary, statement, about a very general and interpersonally mutable characteristic, namely self-esteem. What does your reason and experience tell you, as to its literal truth? The answer is very plain indeed, from a rational perspective. The statement, on the face of it, is close to a category error.

Do some people, of all strands, use attention as an external locus of self-actualisation, to varying degrees depending on time, place, but mainly just who that person is, in a way we can't see simply by looking at them? Of course. And that sounds vaguely like the post to which the OP referred, but seen clearly, it is radically different, almost opposite. One is a position of nuance and shades of grey, like a sharp photograph, a representation of the complexity of lived reality. The other is monochrome, a gross distortion more different than it is similar to its substrate, like a distorted, flickering shadow offering fleeting suggestions of ethereal faces in the contours of its darkness.

That's just my opinion, of course, but it appears clear cut to me. Sometimes I find it's hard to see clearly when in pain, or working very hard to maintain and progress in life, because we are so close to what we are looking at, and it's enormous.

Vaporwave_addict · 2020-06-17T19:37:26+00:00

a lot of these communities just aren't based in evidence - mgtow is a coping mechanism for a person who's experienced the worst of life, they aren't based in rational thought. its displacement.
i believe in you man, keep pushing through.

Inareskai · 2020-06-17T17:48:36+00:00

No, it is not true.

onlyforsex · 2020-06-17T20:39:41+00:00

Those guys don't know what objectified means

Artichoke19 · 2020-06-17T17:38:16+00:00

Won’t load. What did it say?

2020-06-17T19:00:01+00:00

Did Marie Sklodowska want to be objectified? Though maybe she did who the fuck knows

Title	Is this true?
Author	dddeeeeddddd
Upvotes	2
Comments	37
Date	June 17, 2020 3:54 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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