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Red Pill TheoryTheMadWoodcutter/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 08:36 PM
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This is a woman with piss poor communication skills. They fantasize about having a partner that innately knows what they need when they need it, but can’t understand that that level of intuition doesn’t happen by accident.
/r/MenSupportMen30/01/25 07:58 PM
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You’re being deliberately obtuse I think. First, your incredulity is noted and baffling. Second, my point is that obsessing about the fact that reality isn’t the way you want it to be is pointless. You should be looking deeper into why things are the way they are instead of pissing and moaning about the fact that life just isn’t fair. You do what you can with the tools with which you are afforded. That’s the human condition.
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 07:54 PM
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Humans are basically no better than animals in terms of how we choose mates. Yeah, when we have the luxury of a wide choice, we’re gonna get arbitrary about selection, but most of us don’t have that luxury, men and women both. Further, women have tended to be judged much more harshly about their weight than men tend to be about our height, so yeah, it’s gonna be considered impolite to mention it.
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 07:27 PM
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Whether or not women generally pick taller men rather than shorter ones. Sure, it’s a desirable trait. There’s lots of desirable traits out there, it’s far from the only one. The guys who obsess over it are literally shooting themselves in the foot.
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 07:03 PM
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All other things being equal I prefer women who can shoot lasers out of their eyes. It’s irrelevant. There’s so so much more that goes into the mechanics of attraction than any given physical attribute.
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 06:09 PM
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You’re reading the wrong research. Saying “all women want taller men” is ridiculous. Plenty of couples out there where the women are taller.
/r/MenSupportMen08/12/24 04:01 PM
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If you ever want to be happy in your life you need to cut that manosphere shit out asap. Its just teaching you to be a malignant narcissist.
/r/MenSupportMen02/09/24 06:39 PM
1

Like… t posing?
/r/MenSupportMen17/08/24 04:29 PM
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Anyone pushing an extreme viewpoint ought to be looked at with extreme skepticism, regardless. Feels like society as a whole has forgotten that, if they ever knew it to begin with.
/r/MenSupportMen12/08/24 08:43 PM
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You’ve got some hard choices ahead of you. Even if you pick the “right” ones, it still may very well all fall apart. Just brace yourself and do the best you can.
/r/MenSupportMen09/07/24 03:13 AM
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Sounds like you’re caught between a rock and a hard place. No matter what you do you’re going to be in for a bad time.
/r/MenSupportMen09/07/24 02:58 AM
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This guy isn’t interested in solutions, he only wants people to agree with him. He’s going to ignore or dismiss everything else.
/r/MenSupportMen02/07/24 12:44 PM
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Yup. 20 years in construction left me with a thoroughly busted up body and very little to show for it. I can’t even use the skills I learned anymore because I’m so fucked up!
/r/MenSupportMen05/06/24 08:28 PM
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Yeah that’s not enough. Maybe it’s fine when you’re 18, but once you get truly into proper adulthood it starts to get crucial to sleep properly.
/r/MenSupportMen05/06/24 07:28 PM
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Are you using it consistently?
/r/MenSupportMen05/06/24 07:25 PM
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You’re not getting enough sleep in general, but it might be worth looking into whether or not you have sleep apnea, as that will impact the quality of the sleep you do get as well. Your wife sounds incredibly insensitive, however it might be worth sitting down with her to try and help her see things from your perspective.
/r/MenSupportMen05/06/24 06:58 PM
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Dudes just venting. He’s not actually saying women ought to be doing that. It does suck to be misunderstood. Regardless of if there’s good reasons women do it or not.
/r/MenSupportMen01/06/24 01:17 AM
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Completely rewrite it and add context? Like I can’t even figure out what it is you’re looking for with this.
/r/MenSupportMen02/11/23 02:12 AM
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This post is so confusing.
/r/MenSupportMen01/11/23 11:46 PM
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Something to keep in mind is that historically women have had their sexuality suppressed for generations. It’s not surprising to me that in a day where women can freely be as sexual as they want that some of them would choose to take it to extremes. If it’s working for them then more power to them.
/r/MenSupportMen01/09/23 01:19 PM
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Dude, no…
/r/MenSupportMen14/04/23 12:34 PM
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I’m going to be careful how I word this because I don’t want to be misunderstood. Human beings are all objects. Men, women, and everything in between and outside those confines. There’s nothing wrong with objectifying. The problem comes in when you objectify someone at the expense of being able to see that they are also a human being, with unique thoughts, feelings, drives, desires, etc… Women are not “nothing but tools for pleasure” but there’s no reason they cannot be “also tools for pleasure”…
/r/MenSupportMen05/12/22 02:32 PM
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Sounds like a narcissist to me.
/r/MenSupportMen26/10/22 11:34 PM
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Who gives a crap what’s going on in FDS anyways? If you’re dating someone who subs to that you probably have bigger problems to start with. It’s basically the female version of TRP, just as toxic, just as nonsensical.
/r/MenSupportMen13/08/21 02:44 AM
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I think people often get confused about their gender and think that it needs to mean something in terms of their identity. I think the far more important question to answer is “what does it mean to be me?” To that end I’ll share something I wrote a while back to someone asking a similar question: “Discovering who you are and becoming the best version of that person is a journey with no end, and is the most rewarding adventure you could possibly undertake. The movie Moana actually is an excellent…
/r/MenSupportMen05/08/21 01:29 PM
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It’s not supposed to address systemic issues men face. It’s very blatantly obvious that it’s targeting the systemic issues women face. For the record, I’m 38 year old male divorcee with 2 kids and yes, patriarchy hurts men too, a fucking lot, but to suggest that it hasn’t hurt women worse is just fucking insanity. This sub is bananas. Men’s issues definitely need advocates but you lot ain’t it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/21 12:01 AM
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What do you mean by smokescreen? I don’t see why that would be the case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/21 11:43 PM
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It’s funny how you talk about considering people as individuals instead of as members of hegemonic groups, and then in your last paragraph you dismiss this sub as being full of members of hegemonic groups.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/21 12:52 PM
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This is disingenuous I think. It completely ignores the fact that, on average, men are much more physically strong and dexterous than women. Instead of asking the question you asked, a more appropriate question would be, why not just teach everybody to protect those that are more vulnerable or weak than themselves?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 07:05 PM
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Because you’re a concern troll. You’re not interested in debate. You’re just looking to flex on somebody you think of as an intellectual inferior. I’ve checked your comment history and I know your type. I’m not interested in your weak ass questions that you won’t even listen to the answers to before launching into your next disingenuous bout of “questions”.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 01:23 AM
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This sub is called exredpill. If you’re not here because you’ve ditched it or you want to then you’re just trolling. Which are you?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/20 11:02 PM
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You keep talking and all I hear is muffled gurgles because your head is still up your ass. I genuinely used to be more patient and would be willing to talk you through your bullshit but I’m bored of it because people like you aren’t interested in learning anything. You only want to drag out the conversation and exhaust everybody involved. You think your irrational hatred of women is justified and you can’t imagine why anybody would think otherwise, so you sling your shit all over the room and th…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 02:38 AM
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I’m being insulting because I’m sick of this disingenuous bullshit being veiled behind supposedly polite language. You’re just like all the other red pillers who come in here thinking you’re the shit and all you have to do is reject all the evidence we give and we’ll just come running back. I’m not going to waste my time debating with you. You’re diseased. You’re unwilling to listen to evidence unless it agrees with your preconceived notions. I say again. Fuck off asswipe. Go back to the red pil…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 02:17 AM
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You should probably get banned anyways, for declaring “there’s no data” when a cursory google search reveals reams of it. In fact if you finish reading this comment thread you’ll see where I shared a really good example of it. Fuck off asswipe.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/20 12:24 AM
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You can say that all you want, but...
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 10:12 PM
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Your religion is a cancer that has destroyed far more lives than it’s saved. Quit with the “it’s a relationship” bullshit. It’s an obvious distraction attempt.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 08:19 AM
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I don't think red pill did, but it's possible MGTOW did. I cannot confirm this though as I'm unwilling to do the fact checking.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/20 02:31 AM
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Lots of groups started with noble aspirations and were corrupted by less scrupulous members. On reddit it takes absolutely ruthless moderating to make sure this does not happen.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/20 08:47 PM
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Live by the anecdote, die by the anecdote mother fucker.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/20 11:51 PM
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You picked one point that you thought you could argue against and you act like that disproves my entire rebuttal. Weak sauce my friend. Weak sauce. Try again.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/20 09:54 PM
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She’s the wrong sort of person to be taking life advice from man. You need to get out into the world and meet more people.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/20 09:04 PM
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What’s up with the rash of pro red pill trash posts lately? Are the mods asleep or something? Seems like there’s something funny going on. Basically you’re assuming that all women are the same when really only small percentage of women actually fit into the box you’ve stuffed them into. Let’s go through some of this point by point: That women like physically attractive men - are you suggesting men don’t like physically attractive women? Come on. It’s human nature but only the most immature and s…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/20 09:00 PM
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Your mom is fucked up.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/20 08:43 PM
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Confirmation bias looks like. There is a subset of women that conform to red pill ideas, but it’s not nearly as many as they would have you believe.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/20 08:05 PM
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I don’t go to that sub because the whole point of it is punching down. Seriously, it’s bad form no matter how deserving the victims are.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 08:38 PM
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Either way, punching down is weak sauce.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 08:33 PM
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Bad content.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 08:27 PM
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Oh I’ve already been divorced once. I initiated it. Never been redpilled. Got laid plenty in between marriages. Go ahead and tell me again how sad my life is you useless anal fissure.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 08:34 PM
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Oh the irony is steaming on this comment. If you weren’t trying to be satirical you ought to consider it, you’re very funny.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 08:24 PM
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get fucked shitbag. I spent plenty of time single and banging whoever I wanted. It got old and I met someone that blew my mind. You’re living in a dream world and one day you’ll wake up and realize your life is a smoking wreckage and nobody loves you. The way you speak is a dead giveaway. Not an original thought in any of your comments. Just regurgitated bullshit you heard your con artists tell you.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 08:20 PM
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Dude I’m married and I get plenty. You sound like a fucking 12 year old. Get some life experience and then come back.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 08:11 PM
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I didn’t need to. That’s not what this is about. Sure women can be shitty humans but that doesn’t change the fact that the vast majority of them who initiate divorces do so because they just can’t take the bullshit anymore. No pedestals, no rose coloured classes. Red pill is absolutely wrong on this point.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 07:07 PM
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Don’t be a fucking moron. You really think you can come in here with your half assed arguments and just hand wave away the responses that don’t agree with your pre conceived notions? You’ll notice (or maybe you won’t) I didn’t say a damn thing about what women are or are not responsible for. It changes nothing.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 06:56 PM
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The vast majority of women who initiate divorces don’t do it in some vain attempt to trade up. They do it because they’re sick of being abused or taken for granted or manipulated or neglected. More often some combination of those. We men as a gender have a lot of shit to answer for when it comes to the way we treat women.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/20 06:51 PM
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Still confused.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/20 01:23 AM
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Wut
/r/ExRedPill29/08/20 10:25 PM
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The answer to your question is Yes. It is a cult and people are not allowed to point out their flaws.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 04:28 PM
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Specifically, it works on some emotionally compromised, immature women with weak support systems. This is why RP nut jobs hate older women, because most of them have matured enough to not put up with their bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/20 12:39 AM
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Did you make a new account just to get banned from ex red pill?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/20 12:28 AM
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Humour is for the weak of mind and seminal emission. I haven’t laughed in 10 years and I could fill a 2 litre bottle every time I cum.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 05:39 PM
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I think it depends on what circles you travel in. I know that anti red pill sentiment is at an all time high, which naturally is unfortunately going to lead a lot of immature disenfranchised young men to discover the philosophy and think they're being edgy by dabbling in it.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 04:42 AM
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Still incorrect. Stop thinking like a red piller.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/20 04:45 AM
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Absolutely. The trick is to treat women like people who have the same sorts of desires and motivations as men do. Some of them want relationships, some of them want to get laid, some of them aren’t really sure what they want. Be up front about what you’re looking for but don’t be overly vulgar. It’s ok to tell someone you’re looking for sex, it’s not ok to assume they want to have sex with you too without engaging in some light flirting first to test the waters. Treat women as equals, think abou…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/20 02:40 AM
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Incorrect. Social skills will take you further than you think.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/20 02:30 AM
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What we have here is called pseudoscience. It takes a little bit of real truth extrapolates it way beyond what makes sense or is reasonable. If you were to speak to somebody who genuinely understands neuroscience they would tell you that it doesn’t really work like that at all. What you’ve done here is twist the facts to fit a pre determined conclusion rather than actually examining all available evidence. Anecdotally, my wife and I both have counts in the mid 20’s and there is zero evidence tha…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/20 11:28 AM
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What's different about this from male infidelity then? Seems to me men and women cheat for more or less the same reasons.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/20 06:42 AM
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Honestly I think that any dating related community that only includes one gender is doomed to gradually slide into extremism. Having multiple viewpoints around to play off of each other helps keep things balanced, along with an active moderation team.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/20 11:06 PM
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A lot of the advice that gets discussed in /r/dating_advice is valuable. They put a hard clamp down on any red pill or Pua nonsense. Plus, most really good dating advice is applicable to either sex.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/20 10:46 PM
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Seems like you have the entirety of your self worth wrapped up in what other people think of you. That's an extremely dangerous way to be, and could have terrible repercussions for you down the road. I suggest therapy, but in lieu of that, try finding things that make you happy but don't involve other people. The goal is to learn to love who you are (warts and all) independent of what anybody else might think of you. Spend time thinking about things you've done well. What are you good at? What c…
/r/ExRedPill22/07/20 10:22 PM
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Rule of thumb: if you can't stomach the idea of no for an answer, you probably shouldn't ask until you've done more self work.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 05:04 PM
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Honestly your GF sounds unbelievably insecure. Why are you with her in the first place? My gut tells me she's using you (she probably doesn't even realise this herself) as a buffer so she doesn't have to grow up and develop some self assuredness and maturity.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/20 03:03 AM
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I like the idea. There’s definitely been a large influx of new users in need of guidance and I think adding to the moderation team would probably be beneficial in order to keep this sub pointed in the right direction. The last thing we need is to get taken over by closet (or even open) misogynists.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 03:22 PM
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As long as we can also agree that many men and women are NOT like that as well. That's the whole point, isn't it?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 04:45 PM
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Many men are like that. What's your fucking point? People are dumb when they're young.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 03:03 PM
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Like red pill thinks all women are.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 02:39 PM
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Specifically, emotionally wounded women with weak support systems and poor coping strategies can be like that. Sometimes.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/20 02:25 PM
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You are operating from the assumption that women as a group do not have the experience of being self conscious and afraid of rejection? Have you ever met a woman before? That's basically the number one thing that women as a group are afraid of. Why do you think women as a group suffer so much more than men from eating disorders? Or that they spend so fucking much of their resources on make up and clothes? They're taught from a young age that they need to be thin and pretty or no man will want th…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/20 07:05 PM
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Stop reading those communities. You’re literally just killing your brain cells and ruining any shot you have at a healthy relationship with a woman, romantic or otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 05:02 PM
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You haven’t the faintest idea what you’re talking about. This article doesn’t even say what you think it does. You’re waving it about like it’s somehow supposed to change everything. You’re a fool and you won’t be missed after you’re banned.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/20 04:41 AM
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What a fool.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 08:26 PM
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Leave her the hell alone you self important judgemental asshat.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/20 01:54 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ if your friends are calling you a deadbeat loser then you need new friends. That’s a terrible thing to tell someone. That’s not the sort of thing a good friend tells someone.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 12:29 AM
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I suppose my comment must have come across more combative than I intended. I’m all for helping people, and I don’t necessarily think that your way of going about it is necessarily bad, but I do go about it a bit differently. You probably see more short term gains than I do.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 02:42 PM
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99% of teaching people to be better at dating is just helping them become comfortable enough in their own skin to feel safe revealing vulnerability to virtual strangers. Everything else is basically window dressing and perhaps even actively detrimental. “Game” is a misnomer at best and potentially even toxic.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/20 02:18 PM
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This just keeps getting better. I haven't had a laugh like that in a while. Thank you.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 06:28 PM
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That’s the dumbest thing I think I’ve heard all week. If only you could hear yourself. If I had more time on my hands I’d post this on /r/iamverysmart
/r/ExRedPill29/05/20 06:10 PM
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Gross. As if human beings can be equated to merchandise.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/20 01:21 PM
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There’s a small percentage of women who fit the RP “mold” and they get held up as examples of AWALT, while they hand wave away all the others who don’t fit. The women who do fit are generally emotionally immature, with deep unaddressed wounds and weak support systems. Get to know more women on a human to human level vs male to female. They’re more like you than you realize.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/20 06:47 PM
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Your eyes ever light up the moment you notice a pretty girl you haven’t met before? Or one you have that’s just done herself up nicer? It’s the same damn thing. Humans are hardwired to notice them. Men and women are no different in this. Similarly, men and women sometimes like to “trade up” so to speak. The self made millionaire who divorces his middle aged wife and marries a 22 year old art student? It’s a trope for a reason. Men and women both are equally capable of being shitty human beings. …
/r/ExRedPill07/05/20 06:25 PM
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They only make sense in a vacuum. You can prove almost anything if you spend enough time making YouTube videos that cherry pick and misinterpret data and don’t allow for easy rebuttal. Pick any crazy conspiracy and there will be a whole YouTube rabbit hole that conclusively proves how it must be.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/20 06:13 PM
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The trick is to stop looking for ways in which women are different from you, and start looking for the ways in which you are the same. Men and women, in the grand scheme, are far more alike than we are different, and the more time you spend talking to women on a human to human level rather than a man to woman, the more you will see that. Generally speaking, female motivation and male motivation come from the same human desires. The desire for companionship, the desire for validation, the desire …
/r/ExRedPill07/05/20 04:37 PM
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You’re preaching to the choir here son.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/20 01:10 PM
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I fail to see how this is any different than any other form of overly aggressive marketing?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 03:06 AM
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If it was my daughter (and yes I have one, soon to be two) I'd want her to do whatever made her happy and I would be proud of her for that. You're still operating with the base assumption that sex work makes women inherently less valuable as human beings or that it ought to be something to be ashamed of. I see it as being no more demeaning than any other form of service, in other words, not at all.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 02:25 AM
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I believe women shouldn't be shamed for doing what they want with their bodies. You don't like it? Don't pay for it. I spent 16 years working construction and I came out of it with a pretty broken body and very little to show for it, doesn't feel much different to me. The only people who don't get fucked in the end are the owners.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/20 04:48 PM
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"Being a blunt asshole and lieing to trap someone are two very different things." They both come from the same place. I never said anything about you eventually finding a woman who won’t treat you that way. In fact, I’m pretty sure you won’t. You’ll keep dating the same kind of woman over and over because they’re the only ones who are attracted to guys like you.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/20 12:44 AM
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"In an asshole because women lied to me to be with me" You got it the wrong way around buddy. You're attracting assholes because you are yourself an asshole, and assholes tend to behave this way.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/20 12:11 AM
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"value" doesn't enter into it. You're just an asshole who dates other assholes. You deserve each other.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 11:51 PM
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Dude which sub do you think you’re in?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 11:16 PM
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The venn diagram of redpill men and pick up artists is very nearly a single circle.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/20 04:33 PM
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“Women are exceedingly manipulative creatures when it comes to sex.” Let’s look at this sentence right here. There’s a lot of really loaded words here. “Exceedingly manipulative” for one, implies that women are far more manipulative than men, which is a notion that’s easily disproven with even a cursory glance at the available science on the matter. To state that you believe such a thing reveals that you've never really given much thought to the myriad ways we men can (and frequently do) manipul…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 03:13 AM
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Ok now you sound red pilled.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/20 12:34 AM
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That’s not really a red pill idea. It’s pretty basic human psychology, really. People are far more emotional than they are logical, so if you can elicit a particular emotion from someone that they desire, they’re far more likely to ignore what their logical brain is telling them. This principle can certainly be corrupted in the pursuit of red pill ideals, as they will use it to manipulate the emotionally immature or injured, but emotionally healthy women with strong support systems in place are …
/r/ExRedPill18/04/20 11:51 PM
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You spent a long time typing that to only say nothing of consequence.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/20 02:17 PM
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You are absolutely utterly wrong. Ignore this person OP.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 05:50 PM
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How selfish is it to insist a partner or family member live a miserable life just because you can't stomach who they really are? Have you ever heard the phrase "it's impossible to properly love another person unless you first love yourself"? It's absolutely true. If a person refuses to embrace who they truly are inside then every decision they make will be colored by that and they will be utterly unable to be nearly as effective a partner or family member.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 05:49 PM
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There’s no surer way to live a miserable life than to deny your true self to please somebody else.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 03:34 AM
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I'm certain there are, however the venn diagram of gay men who hate women and straight men who hate women doesn't really have much overlap that I can see.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 12:53 AM
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I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt but I’m not actually certain I’ve ever encountered anybody like that. They certainly could exist, but homosexuality doesn’t really normally manifest in anti female sentiment.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/20 07:49 PM
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It’s more effort than you’ve put in so far.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 07:42 PM
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Yeah of course they are. That doesn’t mean that nobody ever considered that during the course of studying rates of mental illness. Your masters degree isn’t worth much if you think a statement like that is enough to rebut me. I’m not exactly uneducated either.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 07:06 PM
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No I didn’t. Perhaps you worded it incorrectly.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 06:32 PM
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“Women are two to three times more likely to be diagnosed with General Anxiety Disorder (GAD) than men and have higher self-reported anxiety scores.[6] In the United States, women are two times more likely to be diagnosed with Panic Disorder (PD) than men. Women are also twice as likely to be affected by specific phobias. In addition, Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) occurs among women and men at similar rates. Obsessive-compulsive Disorder (OCD) affects both women and men equally.[7] Anxiety can o…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 05:26 PM
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Did I say that men don't also have serious mental health problems? You're creating a false equivalency.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 05:12 PM
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You literally just said “that’s impossible for me to quantify therefore it doesn’t exist” Can you even hear yourself? Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it isn’t real. Just because you’ve struggled to unpack and deal with your own bullshit standards doesn’t mean women’s aren’t worse. Let’s just say that there’s a reason women suffer from mental illness at a rate far greater than that of men. They’re under a LOT of pressure in general.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 01:54 PM
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Beautiful men and beautiful women have pretty much the same ability to get away with making social mistakes. Science has shown that we’re more likely to let an attractive person off the social hook regardless of the persons gender. I think you’ll find, however, if you take the time to understand them, that women in general are held to far more rigid social standards than men are. You just notice it less because you’re so focused on the standards you’re attempting to hold yourself to.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 01:43 PM
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I didn’t say anything about the dating world not being unfair or painful. Don’t put words in my mouth. Life is unfair and painful, why would dating be any different? There’s nothing for it but to accept it and do our best within the limits we have. In any case, I myself am borderline autistic so I’m not talking out of my ass. Being personable can be a struggle but it’s not impossible. It’s a necessary endeavour in order to build relationships and worth the effort.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/20 02:16 PM
1

Genetics plays a role, sure, but anybody can learn to be personable if they take the time and look at themselves honestly.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/20 01:56 PM
1

He’s a security guard. Money certainly isn’t his good luck charm. He’s just really good with people.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/20 01:26 PM
1

There’s two ways you can go with nihilism. You can either lapse into selfish hedonism and just serve yourself and your own needs until you die lonely and unfulfilled, or you can build lasting relationships with the people around you. You can enrich the lives of others, and in turn be enriched by them. It’s a long term investment, but it will always pay off bigger in the end. What do humans do that animals don’t do? We work together to achieve long term goals. Even the smartest animals don’t real…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 05:51 PM
1

Shit happens man, you're looking at it like it was two years invested and only two weeks of sex gained. That's bullshit. You were friends with the woman for 2 years. You didn't gain anything from that? They way you talk about it seems like you think it was all for nothing. It wasn't. Now you're going for sex up front and it's still not working for you. You can learn something from that too. Listen, you're still young and you have a lot of growing up ahead of you. I'm trying to point you in the r…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 05:26 PM
2

What purpose? If life is meaningless then nothing has any purpose, even reproduction. It's just an impulse built of hormones we evolved to have. Nothing more. What makes us what we are is that we have brains capable of overriding those impulses. Are you nothing more than an animal? Or do you aspire to achieve true humanity, and invest that energy into something with a more long term payout.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 05:20 PM
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The friendzone isn't real anyways. Besides, there are SO many women out there. Is it really that big a problem to invest some energy into being friends with some of them instead of investing that energy into finding bad sex? I promise you, it's an investment that will pay out big in the long run. Think of it like elementary school for dating. Gotta start with the basics before you can graduate to the more advanced topics. Fundamentals, fundamentals, fundamentals. Learn to be a better person firs…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 05:17 PM
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You don't have a good understanding of what they want because (drumroll please) YOU DON'T WANT THEM FOR ANYTHING BUT SEX! How could you possibly understand the female mindset if you aren't willing to actually engage with a woman in a meaningful way other than with your penis? You're not treating them like people (starting to feel like a broken record) you're treating them like a fleshlight that can talk. Nobody wants that. Why would a woman believe that you give a shit about her needs or desires…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 05:09 PM
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Life IS meaningless, by itself. There's no rhyme or reason to any of it. That's no reason to kill yourself though. Relationships are what give our lives meaning, and it's a meaning we have to build over time by showing ourselves to be a good person to be in a relationship with. Friend, acquaintance, lover, whatever. This is what you're fucking up. You've zeroed in on sex being what it's all about. It's not. It's relationships.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 04:59 PM
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They maintain a dynamic of distance from you because they know all you want from them is sex. You're bad at hiding it. You don't really see women as people, not fully, and they can tell, because they ARE people. Its not that you can't put yourself in a womans shoes and really think about why they might or might not want to fuck you, it's that you're not really willing to, because a part of you sees that idea as disgusting.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 04:56 PM
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Keep talking like that and it'll stay that way. It's not that hard. You literally just need to start with keeping an open mind and respect people where they're at. I told you earlier that you're an asshole, and I'm pretty sure I'm right. You don't treat people like people, you treat them like things you can use, and that comes across, sooner or later. You're going to have to work on changing the way you see others and recognizing the value of selflessness if you want women to start seeing you di…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 04:51 PM
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Looks comes mostly down to how you carry yourself, how you dress yourself, and how you groom yourself. Beyond that it’s mostly down to the preference of the particular woman, because no two women prefer exactly the same kind of man. To go back to my car analogy, you don’t have to look like a sports car to have appeal. Plus, personality is a huge part of the equation, and being the kind of person that people feel good being around will get you laid at least as often as a strong jaw line and a was…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 02:50 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with a woman, but women aren’t tools to be used for your pleasure. If you want them to consent to it you need to build a relationship of trust. Doesn’t even need to be romantic in nature, but why the fuck would a woman consent to have sex with someone who could hurt them badly (as most men can) unless they decided they could trust the person? The best way to establish trust is to show them you see them as human, that you care about more than just yo…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 05:32 AM
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This right here is one of those moments you’re going to look back on in ten years and go “what the fuck was I thinking.” Kid gloves off. You sound like an asshole. Red pill tells you otherwise but the real world will show you that most girls aren’t really into assholes. If you’re hot or at least not super ugly you’ll still get laid every now and again, but the only girls who will stick around with an asshole (even a hot one) are the emotionally damaged sort. Work on your personality. Stop treati…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 04:19 AM
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Spending time on your own to really get to know who you are as an individual is an admirable thing. MGTOW however, is not that, and is far more concerned with navel gazing and finger pointing at women. It's pretty hard to experience any meaningful personal growth if you still think other people are the cause of all your problems.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/20 05:58 PM
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The rule of thumb on this is that if attraction wanes that badly after moving in together, then your emotional connection was weak to begin with. A lot of people commit to a partner because they tick a bunch of arbitrary boxes, or because they're so swept up in New relationship euphoria that they can't imagine anything could possibly be wrong with the other person. Living with a human being is a profoundly sobering experience. You will see them at their worst, and they will see you at yours. If …
/r/ExRedPill14/03/20 11:20 PM
2

Has the main subreddit been banned now? I thought it was just under quarantine.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/20 07:23 PM
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The healthy medium is learning to love yourself, not in spite of your flaws, but perhaps even because of them. Every character trait you have can present in a negative and a positive way, creating both strength and weakness. Power and vulnerability. You cannot love yourself without acknowledging both, and recognizing that they come from the same place. You can’t eliminate one without also eliminating the other. Those who present as being without weakness create an imbalance that will eventually …
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 04:42 AM
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That’s the thing though, nobody can be like that all the time. Everybody has ups and downs. It’s not healthy to act like you’re always on top of everything. True human connection comes from allowing somebody to see us in a vulnerable state and know that they’ll support and love us anyways. It’s when you’ve been through the shit with somebody that the true bonds form, not just superficial attraction or interest. Frame is nothing. Frame is bullshit. "I dont need you. You are lucky to be a part of …
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 03:39 AM
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“Frame” is bullshit. If you have to hide who you really are in order for your partner to like you then you have a shit partner. Pretty much every part of RP that is valuable can be found elsewhere without the toxic baggage.
/r/ExRedPill29/02/20 03:04 AM
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You are utterly incorrect. This sub is clearly not for you. Please refrain from commenting here unless you’re actually ex red pill. Your comment history shows a disturbing lack of awareness of your own misunderstandings.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/20 02:56 AM
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There’s no truth to it. None whatsoever. The idea that women are cold hearted self centered monsters who only think of their own self interest is a blatant fallacy. It might be true of 2% of the female population, but at least 2% of the male population are sociopaths too. Most women are normal human beings with the same drives and emotions as men. Safety, companionship, and validation. Those are the core emotional needs of every human being, men and women alike.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/20 07:26 PM
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Men generally have an easier time allowing themselves to be vulnerable emotionally with women because women are far less likely to dismiss or mock a man for his emotions, as males, particularly males steeped in the manosphere, tend to do. It’s such a prevalent paradigm that the womanosphere memes about men using them for free therapy frequently.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/20 03:08 PM
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"all women are like that"
/r/ExRedPill14/02/20 10:39 PM
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Dude you’re literally programming yourself to think a certain way by using this bullshit jargon. In any case, you’ve admitted you’re 18 so you can be forgiven for not having the most nuanced understanding of the way the world works. My advice to you is to stop worrying so much about what women think of you. 18 is a terrible time to set your self worth in stone. I had my first sexual partner when I was 19 and I didn’t have another until I was 28, then between 28 and 32 I had 25 more before I met …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 02:54 PM
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There’s a reason dudebros with low emotional intelligence all seem to prefer skinny blondes with fake tits, and the same stands true of women with low emotional intelligence preferring muscly meatheads with tattoos and shaved heads. With emotional maturity comes an appreciation for more varied body and personality types, but the immature generally are interested in only one thing. OP seems to be spending time with a lot of emotionally immature people, and thus, he’s seeing a lot of confirmation …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/20 12:20 AM
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Perhaps all the women you’re talking to prefer the same type of man because you’re only spending time around one type of woman?
/r/ExRedPill05/02/20 11:02 PM
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Good.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/20 04:02 AM
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TRM and TRP are basically the same in that some of the conclusions are valid (the urge to improve, value, and love the self being chief among them) but the logic they use to get there is extensively flawed and brings a long with it enough incorrect baggage as to render the valid conclusions practically meaningless.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/20 01:06 AM
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Trash belongs in the garbage, not my reading list.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/20 12:27 AM
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Honestly it seems like you're so focused on sex that you've forgotten that women are people too. Here's a tip, women tend to want to have sex with men (or women) that they feel safe with and enjoy being around. Physical attraction matters too, but you'd be surprised how much an engaging personality that feels good to be around can make up for.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/19 07:39 AM
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Those people aren’t generally thought of as sex positive.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/19 03:19 AM
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“Unorthodox” presents the generally accepted view of the sex positive community.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/19 01:52 AM
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Red pill isn't like a drug. Men aren't doomed once they find out about it.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/19 03:08 AM
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Except that the concept of hypergamy is bullshit invented by insecure men to explain away why their women kept leaving. Plot twist: it's because they're assholes that weren't worth sticking around for.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/19 04:54 AM
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Keep telling yourself that.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/19 12:39 AM
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Oh you're so confused 😂
/r/ExRedPill01/12/19 04:47 PM
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I was going to ask you to show me the research but a quick browse of your history shows me that you're actually just an asshat.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/19 03:33 PM
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Hypergamy is a cross cultural phenomenon because men being bigger and stronger is also a cross cultural phenomenon and bigger and stronger people have historically had a penchant for taking what they wanted from people who could not defend it. Women, not being stupid, naturally figured naturally figured that cleaving to such men was wise. As far as men preferring the same female physical standards, I'm not sure what you're talking about. Historically many different female forms have been espouse…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/19 02:42 AM
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I mean, you could say that the desire to improve one's lot in life is genetic, though I think you'd have a hard time proving it. Humans have a genetic drive to live and a genetic drive to find comfort. That's about the closest you could get imho. How humans choose to go about serving those needs would be 100% sociological and varies wildly from culture to culture.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/19 02:25 AM
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Yeah and men tend to marry based on whoever gets their dick the hardest because they tend to control all the money/property. Trophy wives. It’s not psychological, it’s sociological. 100%. Everybody tries to better their lot in life. Can you blame the sex that doesn’t hold all the money/opportunities for trying to use the one thing they do have?
/r/ExRedPill01/12/19 02:19 AM
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Yeah I don't really know what he feels about hypergamy, but I tend to tune out anybody who uses the word seriously.
/r/ExRedPill30/11/19 11:44 PM
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Hypergamy is a theory that doesn't stand up to even the most minor of scientific scrutiny. Young people are horny. It's pretty normal to want to have sex with attractive humans no matter what your gender. Women and men are identical in this. We tend to go about it differently but all those differences can be shown to be sociological in nature. Hypergamy as a theory relies on a view of women as being primarily sociopathic and unable to emotionally connect with men, which is a trait which is prima…
/r/ExRedPill30/11/19 08:44 PM
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People say it because people see it, not the other way around.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/19 05:42 PM
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I don't think that's what they're suggesting.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/19 05:40 AM
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Here's something that might help. TRP didn't turn you into anything. You turned you into what you are. TRP is the tool you used to do it. It happens, no need to beat yourself up about it. The good news is this: this means that if you find the right tools, you can turn you into something else instead. You have the power to make yourself into the sort of person you want to be, all that remains is for you to put it into practice.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 07:16 PM
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The problem I see with your way of thinking is that what is male and what is female isn't nearly so clear cut or universal as it would need to be for your view to make sense. I think that this article is actually a really good illustrater of that. Time and time again when researchers have attempted to define "male" and "female" they've been stymied by the fact that human beings simply can't be neatly compartmentalized like that. Any universal definition that you come up with will have outliers t…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 06:50 PM
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What constitutes an attractive person varies from person to person within gender as well. So much so that, while there are commonalities that seem to be more frequently considered attractive, there's almost no person who is universally considered unattractive. Sure there's a bit of biology in there, but what human beings consider attractive is so unbelievably nuanced and the vast majority of it is influenced by environment and sociology rather than biology. For example, some women find men who p…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 05:26 PM
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Nah, your assumptions are mostly incorrect. I think all humans are capable of being both oppressors or oppressed. I suppose women do tend to get the short end of the stick more often than not, and, of late, so have Muslims, though not necessarily Arabs, unless you're speaking specifically about the ones Israel has been trying to eradicate, or the ones Russia and the US have been competing to grind into the ground. Some Arabs, conversely, are doing quite well. I don't excuse shitty actions by any…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 05:13 PM
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Hypergamy, as trp attempts to sell it, is complete bullshit. All humans are attracted, on some level, to attractive people. Whether or not we pursue them is a factor of life situation and character, among other things. Women are no different than men in this. To suggest otherwise is delusional.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 04:42 PM
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What exactly am I, then?
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 04:13 PM
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I'm not going to attempt to justify Jews being violently attacked in Europe or other places, but neither am I going to act surprised, after the way the Israeli government has been treating the Arab nations around them.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 03:28 PM
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Calling it a “marketplace” and categorizing the individuals therein is wildly misleading and the only possible result of such talk is to lead people to incorrect conclusions about the nature of human attraction and bonding. This is a red pill theory, through and through, and yep, they got that one wrong too. Sure, a cursory examination of first world dating and mating patterns, might lead one to this conclusion, and the data might even seem to support it at first. However the deeper one dogs and…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 04:35 AM
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I don’t know about you but I think part of the problem is some people’s misguided insistence on categorizing human beings as “high value” or “low value”
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 02:30 AM
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Western men are pretty good at being misogynistic all by themselves. The issue is that bringing up specific sub groups just muddies the waters and gives people the wrong idea.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/19 02:28 AM
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You dramatically overestimate human beings ability to overcome internal biases once they’ve been identified. Particularly if that identification comes from outside ones self.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/19 11:01 PM
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The third alternative you’re not considering, and that has been already explained to you, is that the reason women do not make the same as men in comparable jobs is that there is a prejudice that women are not able to do those same jobs as effectively as men, regardless of data to prove otherwise.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/19 10:24 PM
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Men and women, statistically speaking, typically earn different wages when working the exact same jobs, and even when factoring in job performance. This is not a disputable fact, the data backs it up. This is called sexism though, not racism. Men and women do indeed have biological and psychological differences that lead to different behavioral patterns, but science has shown that when social factors are removed, they are nearly inconsequential. The vast majority of why we behave the way we do i…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/19 08:12 PM
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For starters, stop calling them uncomfortable truths and recognize them for what they are. Lies and half truths at best, being sold as truth for the sole purpose of making you hate yourself.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 02:44 PM
3

What?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 01:37 PM
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Whether they want it or not, they're not going to get it, not really. Validation that comes from other people doesn't last beyond the moment.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/19 04:50 AM
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Wrong. If red pill is just a tool, then its a bad, broken, abusive tool, that deserves to be thrown out and replaced with something better. I've done my homework, I know what I'm talking about.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/19 08:11 PM
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Bullshit man, red pill is toxic and always will be. Nobody is blaming our mistakes on anybody else, but that doesn't mean red pill is a healthy or reasonable way of being. For every tenet that is halfways true, there are nine others that are complete fabrications.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/19 01:50 PM
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Every human being has a time when they want to have sex with beautiful people. This is not exclusive to women. Getting over it and learning to appreciate people for more than their looks is part of the maturing process. Red pill philosophy is nothing more than a highly rationalised excuse to never grow past adolescence.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/19 01:16 AM
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If you figure out that your personality is a problem, take the hint and do something about it. People exude a kind of energy, they can't really hide who they truly are, not unless they're a truly masterful actor. When two people have energy that resonates with each other, that's called attraction. It's not spiritual. It's in every tiny little tell you have that reveals the real you, even if you're trying to hide it. People can change, but it doesn't really happen by accident. It takes time, and …
/r/ExRedPill30/09/19 06:05 PM
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Find someone with whom you connect with on an emotional level. Doesn't matter how. Online dating or in person, your method of meeting is irrelevant. Plenty of relationships fail because the people involved never really connected with each other. Not really anyways. They just look at having a partner like a fashion accessory, or some sort of validation of their personhood. Your partner is a thinking, dreaming, burping, farting human being, and if you can't really connect with them on an emotional…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/19 10:29 PM
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Whoever they are, they are crippled emotionally and have little to no support system outside of their partners.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/19 01:32 AM
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It's so cute when you think you're making sense.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/19 03:05 PM
2

Get the fuck out of here troll.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/19 02:57 PM
1

Here's something I wrote a while back to someone who was wondering about how to build self love. Maybe it'll help: "That's an excellent question indeed, and a challenge to answer properly. The easiest answer for that is "experience", but I realise that's not terribly helpful without context. Discovering who you are and becoming the best version of that person is a journey with no end, and is the most rewarding adventure you could possibly undertake. The movie Moana actually is an excellent disti…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/19 07:28 PM
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Sounds like the both of you have some growing up to do.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/19 04:00 AM
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Get your shit straightened out. Get your life in order. I promise you, for a woman you're ACTUALLY properly compatible with, your so called smv won't matter one bit.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/19 01:56 AM
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Ditch language like smv. It's bullshit and it's just holding you back. You have bigger problems right now besides finding a mate anyways. Did you get this day off approved first or did you just not show up for work?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/19 01:44 AM
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Where are you from? In any case, it's not mathematically possible for women to have more partners on average than men. On another note, when I was 30 I found 20 year old women to be painfully idealistic and immature. That sort of person is easy pickings for someone who knows how.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 04:59 PM
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Typically speaking, older men go for younger women because they are immature and easy to manipulate. The fact that they are in their physical prime is just a bonus. Older women tend to mature enough to see past the bullshit and won't put up with being controlled, that is, assuming they haven't been abused to the point of submission. You say youth is valued in a wife. Why is it that we should only value such a fleeting and uncontrollable trait? Women have so much more than that to offer. A man wh…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 04:40 PM
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Older men who go for younger women tend to have serious personality flaws. They'll figure out sooner or later why older men who date younger women tend to be looked down on.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/19 03:16 AM
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A really good way is to try and be real actual friends with some women. Before long, you start to see that men and women aren't so different after all.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/19 08:33 PM
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Maybe... Don't.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/19 01:46 AM
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That's because there anyone offering you concrete steps is probably just trying to sell you something. There are lots of ways to do it and everyone has a different path. We can offer suggestions about how to get started but that's about it. Honestly, the fact that you recognize the way you've been programmed to behave is broken is a great start. Nobody ever solved a problem they didn't know was there. Edit: I wrote this elsewhere to someone wondering how to "find themselves". Perhaps it might be…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/19 08:10 PM
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Let me put it this way, it wasn't until I managed to untie my self worth from validation from women that I really started to understand how to be successful with them. It really is a wonderful feeling to be able to validate yourself and not need others to do it for you, and makes you a shit ton more attractive to boot.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/19 05:48 PM
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My first thought is this, if you're surrounded yourself with assholes, maybe you need to look in the mirror. If you're not an asshole, you need to make an effort to make sure the other people in your life are not assholes. The job is easier if you really are actually not an asshole. Assholes have a way of pushing away good people and vice versa as well. Good people attract other good people.
/r/ExRedPill30/08/19 06:48 PM
2

You basically just agreed with the meme in its entirety.
/r/MensRights29/08/19 10:34 PM
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Didn't take long to find a few different options. Yes, it's easier to manipulate people if you're a sociopath, particularly emotionally traumatized people with weak support systems.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/19 11:24 PM
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There will always be a certain percentage of women who are primarily interested in looks and/or money. There is also a certain percentage of men who are only interested in looks and/or money. The rest of us understand that an engaging personality and an open mind is a lot more fun in the long run. Bottom line is that EVERYONE, men and women both, likes fantasizing about being with extremely attractive people, but the reality of the matter is that extremely attractive people rarely have pleasant …
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 12:52 PM
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I'm mid 30's, average looking at best, and don't make all that much money and in the span of roughly 2 years of using tinder I slept with roughly 25 women, probably 75% of which were one night stands, and the others mostly being FWB for a while until I met my current wife (also on tinder). Take from that what you will.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/19 03:24 AM
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I've been a member of that community for over a year and I've yet to see anyone even mention voting democrat. In any case, rational feminism IS good for the well-being of men.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 06:42 PM
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/r/Menslib is the best mens community on reddit. Full of real talk. Red piller's and MRA's hate us because we own up to our shit and don't blame women for all our problems.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/19 01:09 PM
2

Entitled young shit who thinks he's owed the adoration of women in spite of his atrocious personality.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 11:33 PM
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Dude please get some help before you take someone else down in this dumpster fire you've created.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/19 02:42 AM
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Lots of people are attracted to people with fit bodies, not just shallow people. There's nothing wrong with this. Be the sort of person who has a personality to go along with a fit body, and eventually you'll find a woman who appreciates both, not just one or the other.
/r/ExRedPill02/08/19 07:19 PM
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I've been with women all across the spectrum of attractiveness. By far my favorites have been the bigger/less attractive women. They just fuck and suck with reckless abandon and don't worry about how they look in bed. Definitely my favorite sexual experiences overall.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/19 02:08 PM
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I didn't read it all and maybe you touched on this but I think an important point is this: Red pill philosophy is really effective at controlling and manipulating a certain kind of women. The highly insecure, emotionally damaged woman with unhealthy coping mechanisms and a weak support system. You won't help her with red pill though. All you'll do is continue her cycle of abuse and reinforce her negative coping strategies. Strong, emotionally secure and healthy women with good support systems ar…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/19 04:49 PM
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Authenticity. Vulnerability. Compassion. Empathy.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/19 03:16 AM
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Older women are way better. More self assured. More intelligent. Way better in bed. Less insecure.
/r/ExRedPill11/05/19 01:19 AM
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Just because he's not a red piller doesn't mean his brand of philosophy isn't dangerously toxic. Besides, if you really want to discuss him there are plenty of other places to do so.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/19 10:40 PM
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You are what you surround yourself with.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/19 04:12 PM
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This is not repairable. You need to ditch him now, it's really not worth your time. He's shown no indication that he has any inkling about how toxic and abusive his behaviour is and you cannot make him change if he doesn't want to. If you stay he'll continue to manipulate and abuse you and eventually your mindset will break down and you'll truly become a pure victim. Stay strong. Don't let the darkness in. Value yourself.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/19 01:36 AM
3

lifegoals
/r/ExRedPill13/04/19 01:13 AM
4

Also, what difference does it make if you're an ethnic minority or not?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/19 12:53 AM
6

This isn't an argument.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/19 12:49 AM
12

Hell yeah man. It's never too late to turn your back on toxicity. Just be the best person you can be going forwards, and you'll create new, healthier relationships.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/19 07:31 PM
7

Keep that shit in T_D and the other alt right garbage pits where it belongs.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/19 02:16 PM
10

Boy you've got a lot of fucked up ideas man.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/19 01:35 PM
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Sounds to me like you might have a legitimate chance to get back together, but you're going to have to shed that red pill bullshit fast and hard. Furthermore, be absolutely clear with her about where those ideas were coming from, why they were wrong, and why you no longer believe it. Red pill is very much like a cult, and it is more to blame than you are. Yes, you made those choices, but that wasn't "you", you know? Absent the red pill influence you absolutely would have made different, better, …
/r/ExRedPill09/04/19 04:26 PM
10

Attraction can be thought of like an appetizer, but personality is the main course.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/19 06:38 PM
10

For an emotionally stable woman with a strong support system and a healthy worldview, a man who is comfortable with being his authentic self and is compassionate and kind to those around him, is sexier than all the strong chins and 6 pack abs in the world. Red pill philosophy is utterly bankrupt. The only women who are vulnerable to its manipulations are already vulnerable and emotionally damaged. AWALT couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/19 06:07 PM
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That's the thing though, guaranteed 100% of the time, if you try to fit someone into one of these categories, you'll discover that something is not quite right. Furthermore, when people try to fit themselves into these categories, they end up suppressing parts of themselves that are necessary for healthy functioning, and forcing other attributes that don't really work well in the context of the whole person. This creates emotional instability and leads to depression and other mental health issue…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/19 03:32 PM
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The concept of alpha/beta is deeply flawed to begin with. Humans cannot be categorized this way. We all have so many different personality traits that present in different ways and they all exist on a spectrum, rather than any sort of clear, definable way. Even the researcher who coined the idea in the first place eventually gave up on the idea as crucially flawed.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/19 03:11 PM
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Most of red pill theory is just ham fisted justifications for selfish, abusive, narcissistic behaviour.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/19 06:22 PM
14

Well, why don't you share these fears with her? If you continue to let it bother you, shes going to pick up on the fact that something is wrong anyways. If you share it with her, it gives you two an opportunity to bond further. You have literally zero reason to expect that she will respond negatively, save for the opinions of people you *know* are full of shit anyways. If it turns out she *does* respond negatively, that won't be your fault, it'll be hers, and you'll know she's not a good match f…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 12:15 PM
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I've cried in front of my wife plenty of times, and it's only ever brought us closer together. If a woman pulls away from you when you express emotional vulnerability, that's a sign of immaturity in HER, not in you. Emotional vulnerability is critically necessary for healthy intimate relationships, from both partners. If she draws closer to you when you open yourself up, you've got a good woman. Otherwise you need to rethink your relationship. All that bullshit like holding frame and being hyper…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 11:56 AM
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Yeah I'm interested. Male, 35. PM for more.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 12:57 AM
2

Don't ever let anybody tell you you think too much. The world was built off of the backs of great thinkers. Nursing is indeed an excellent career path for anyone interested in self improvement. I've been a carpenter for the last 16 years but this year I'm starting a 4 year university degree program for addictions counselling, and I'm definitely excited. Best of luck to you. You've got an excellent start at finding your way. You won't be the most fun at parties, but that's ok. You'll still collec…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/19 09:20 PM
3

That's an excellent question indeed, and a challenge to answer properly. The easiest answer for that is "experience", but I realise that's not terribly helpful without context. Discovering who you are and becoming the best version of that person is a journey with no end, and is the most rewarding adventure you could possibly undertake. The movie Moana actually is an excellent distillation of the process, the title character confidently singing "I AM MOANA" near the end is a moment that brings me…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/19 08:41 PM
3

That depends, are there any ideas you're struggling with? I could go on all day, this is a subject I've educated myself on a great deal, but it helps to have a focus. I should probably clarify that I'm not going to suggest that there's anything inherently wrong with waiting until marriage for sex (though I wouldn't recommend it), I just wanted to stress why the cow milk free argument doesn't hold water in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/19 07:21 PM
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"have the milk without buying the cow" is a pat answer that suggests multiple toxic worldviews. Firstly, women are not cows, and marrying one does not make her your property, and vice versa. We ditched slavery a long time ago and for good reason. The idea that a married woman is property is equivalent to a vestigial organ. It's a leftover from a time when things were different. We know better now and it's time we amputated that idea. The second toxic idea is that it suggests that being able to h…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/19 04:56 PM
2

The whole "don't have sex before you're married thing" feels like such a non-sequitur to me. The bible makes it clear that no one sin is any worse than another, why would pre-marital sex be any different? If there's one thing that has been clear time and time again, it's that young people are going to fuck one way or another, no matter how much you shame them for it. You may want to consider that the reason you're having a hard time figuring out what to believe is because Christianity is interna…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/19 02:35 PM
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Lol, ok. Listen, this is the *ex* red pill sub. GTFO if you're not actually ex red pill. I didn't come here to debate that toxic mindset. Go back to your quarantine.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/19 01:41 AM
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Redpill teaches values that leave people shallow, judgemental, and emotionally crippled. No wonder everyone who participates in it winds up feeling hollow inside. Redpill also teaches AWALT, which is definitely not the case.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/19 01:34 AM
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Specifically, I'm somewhat overweight, only average (maybe above average, depending on taste, and/or my given weight) in terms of looks, I'm 35, 5' 9", I've been bankrupt twice and I work a minimum wage job (though I am going to university in the fall to be an addictions counsellor, which my wife wholeheartedly supports). I have very little in the way of assets, and my primary career (carpentry) is no longer available to me due to injury. Theoretically, no woman should want me whatsoever, and ye…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/19 11:42 PM
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How do you know any of those things? I actually have lots of experience with women. I've been in 3 long term relationships, had dozens of shorter relationships in between, and several of my closest friends are women. In addition, while I'm not precisely a professional social scientist, I take it seriously as a hobby, much more seriously than you probably think I mean by that. I'm very qualified to render an opinion on the matter. If you'd like I can elaborate on any of those points at length, or…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/19 10:53 PM
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If you could only see me and my wife together for a while you'd throw red pill out the window. We're living proof that it's all bullshit. By every redpill rule that exists, my wife should not want to be with me, should never have wanted to be with me, and yet here we are, happy married.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/19 01:11 PM
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Looks only matter when it comes to getting the first date, and you've had plenty of those. Sorry to break it to you dude, but looks are not your problem.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/19 10:03 PM
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Stating some obvious stuff. Scientifically speaking, men and women in general, have different brains, and these brain differences have affected us as a species behaviorally. In the study of gender differences and how they affect us socially, there is fact and there is theory. I get where you're coming from, but to my knowledge this is based on inaccurate data. Modern research indicates that most major differences between male and female behavior is primarily due to sociological causes, and while…
/r/ExRedPill13/02/19 06:13 PM
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delete
/r/ExRedPill05/02/19 05:46 PM
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A lot of the process of "detoxing" from red pill philosophy comes from identifying the cognitive dissonances in it, recognizing how they've been affecting your thought processes in unhealthy ways, and then replacing those processes with better ones. One of the best places to start is to recognize that all women are unique. There are certainly patterns, but there is infinite variability within those patterns and you cannot rely on any given strategy. Another thing to recognize is that red pill ph…
/r/ExRedPill05/02/19 05:45 PM
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In a sense, it might be both. However it's mostly the former.
/r/ExRedPill05/02/19 03:41 AM
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It's fascinating to me when we realise just how deep our biases go, and how much work it's going to take to root them all out as replace them with a healthier worldview. It's a process that can take decades, but is so so rewarding.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/19 04:17 AM
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There's no such thing as alphas or "alpha mindset" anyways. It's all just bullshit that they cling to. Even the guy who invented the theory has dismissed it as foolishness. Real life is just so much more complicated than all that, even for *actual* pack animals like the original wolves in question. ​ The concept of "what is or is not alpha" is at the center of what drives the most toxic behaviors of TRP in the first place. They spend so much time obsessing over whether or not they're acting alph…
/r/ExRedPill29/01/19 08:28 PM
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In other words "any woman who would fuck me must be a degenerate".
/r/ExRedPill29/01/19 03:35 AM
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In short, its core distilled aims are somewhat admirable. However the strategy used to achieve those aims is toxic, and results in women being torn apart in order to build up men. There are better strategies, ones that result in both men and women being strengthened and supported.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 04:26 PM
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Absolutely not. Happiness comes from taking ownership and responsibility for yourself, your decisions, and their consequences, and choosing to value and love yourself instead of neglecting yourself or actively harming yourself. You could absolutely be happy in a homemaker role, but it would be from taking ownership of your decision to be that, instead of assuming the role itself will make you happy. In other words. Happiness comes from deliberately making decisions that are consistent with your …
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 04:16 PM
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Yes. Entitlement is a huge part of it. The reason why is that as a culture we push the idea that everybody has the right to be happy (not entirely incorrect). The problem comes in where we ALSO push the idea that happiness is something that other people give you (entirely incorrect). Then these people conclude that other people owe them happiness, and by not giving it to them, they are bad people. Combine this with the standard social paradigm that males are only happy when they're getting laid …
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 02:27 PM
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Come spend some time in /r/MensLib It's a good place to start to heal.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/19 01:36 AM
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I understand the tactics. I understand the power dynamics. I am not mindlessly trashing TRP for the sake of feeling good about my choices. I've explored TRP with an open mind, well before it became as famous (infamous) as it is now. This subreddit is not blind to how it works (or doesn't). We've all been there. That's why this is called ex-red pill, and not never-red pill. I'm telling you that you that the only bits of validity there is in TRP are the bits that tell you to take responsibility fo…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/19 01:26 AM
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The tactics themselves are damaging, and reinforce the warped mindset of it's victims, exacerbating emotional wounds, thats WHY they work in the first place. If you just want to get fucked and don't care what twisted wreckage you leave in your wake, by all means, take advantage of TRP. If you actually care about the well being of other human beings (ie. not the people you stand to gain anything from), you'll stay the fuck away. Your cock is not that important. TRP is akin to using a battle tank …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/19 11:51 PM
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Red pill philosophy is inherently abusive and misogynistic, and relies on the women involved to be either inexperienced, immature, or emotionally damaged in order to succeed. Preferably more than one of those. It's a philosophy that creates a male centric mating strategy (not dating strategy, in the end, red pill is only about sex, not love) that focuses on building ego at the expense of others. It is not sustainable long term, as it causes far more damage than it is worth. Anyone caught in red …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/19 10:50 PM
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A lot of people have confused stoicism with simply not feeling, however in my opinion, it's not that true stoics don't feel, it's that they understand their emotions are a teacher and a tool, and neither good nor bad. Emotions can be used to acheive greatness, or to destroy. Stoicism can harness emotion but it is never controlled by it. Stoics understand what they are doing and why. They do not simply react. If their actions are driven by emotion, it is because they have considered their options…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/19 05:58 PM
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I didn't even need to read those comments to be honest. Simply your response to OP here is more than enough to conclude where your mental state is at and what you value. You have far more in common with red pillers than ex red pillers. Sure, you'll be able to find others like you here, but you're the minority. In any case, I don't hate you like you suppose. Maybe you really do just want to be a good person. Maybe you've just got some growing and learning left to do. I don't know. One way or anot…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 05:58 PM
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I read enough of your comments to know what kind of person you are. If you really don't consider yourself red pill you're fooling yourself.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 05:46 PM
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A quick browse through your comment history shows that to be a lie. Gtfo.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 05:29 PM
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Did I say it wasn't sexual assault? I said nobody has ever been convicted for it. Stop changing the goalposts.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 03:28 PM
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The worst thing op describes here is an unwanted kiss. Nobody has ever been convicted of sexual assault for an unwanted kiss.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 03:23 PM
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This place gets trolled by psuedo ex red pillers sometimes. Maybe they think they're ex red pill, but the way they speak and think sure doesn't show it.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 02:39 PM
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¯\_(ツ)_/¯ shrug
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 02:36 PM
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Not really, no. Nobody could reasonably hope to convict anyone based on the events described here. Furthermore, all the names have been changed anyways, and nothing more than unwanted kissing and generally lecharous behavior was actually described. Seriously dude. What the fuck? Who's been teaching you about the legal system?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 02:31 PM
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Might be an automod situation. I'm not sure why they'd do that. Maybe send them a message asking for a reason. Probably something to do with self promotion. Check the posting rules on the sidebar.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 02:19 PM
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Overthinking is better than underthinking.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 02:17 PM
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Nah man, this is an important conversation to get out into the world. People need to be thinking about this stuff. Not talking about it is a good way to make sure somebody else makes the same mistakes.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 02:16 PM
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Don't let the nay sayers get you down. This is a great article and you should be proud for getting this all out. I've had very similar thoughts and experiences myself. Repost this in /r/menslib. You'll probably get a better response.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/19 01:08 PM
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She only stays with you because she doesn't know any better. Eventually she'll figure out that she doesn't have to put up with that abusive shit.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/19 02:07 PM
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You're an abusive asshole and I pity your poor girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 07:59 PM
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Glad I could help! Honestly it helped me too. I've had all the concepts floating around in my head for a while but I've never forced myself to collate them like that before.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 12:10 PM
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Honestly when it comes down to it I think we hurt each other in pretty much exactly the same ways and for the same reasons. Unless you're a psychopath who just likes hurting people (imo < 1% of the population) we're all just looking for safety and comfort in the end, and our strategies for acheiving that might look different on the surface, but in the end its all about building and protecting ego in the pursuit of protecting that so called safety. That's the core of red pill philosophy and its d…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 11:52 AM
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Men do not need to be taught what is bad behaviour in women. All people need to be taught what is bad behaviour in all people. What constitutes bad behaviour does not change because of what your gender is. Why define it like that? Bad behaviour is bad behaviour is bad behaviour. Self respect, compassion, and ethical decision making are important traits that also do not change depending on gender. Men and women aren't nearly as different as the red pill crowd supposes. Separating behaviours based…
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 11:33 AM
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For me it was when I got banned from TRP for asking questions about some things that didn't really make sense to me. Since then the more I examine the philosophy the more it falls apart.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 09:18 AM
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Bottom line is that not only are not all women like that, when you get down to it and really get to know them, almost no women are really exactly like that.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 09:17 AM
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Doesn't bother me all that much. I trust her and she's never shown me any reason to believe I shouldn't. Why should I feel insecure just because some other guy is more attractive than me? I've got everything I want.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/19 02:58 AM
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If you want to save your marriage you're going to have to research red pill rebuttal information and present it to him and explain how his behaviour has been hurting you and damaging your relationship. If you cannot help him see past the lies, you may actually need to leave him, perhaps only for a time, perhaps forever. The cognitive dissonance is strong in red pill, and they have pat answers for most criticisms of the philosophy. It's very much like a religion or a cult that way, and requires d…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/19 05:12 PM
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This is a good place. /r/menslib and /r/thebluepill are also good resources.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/19 12:08 AM
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Pills are pretty much nonsense anyways. The only pill that I find is consistently accurate is this one: ALL PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS UNIQUE There are patterns but they are complex and impossible to consistently define or predict. Much better to treat everybody well and learn to define your own personal value rather than relying on others to define it for you.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/19 06:09 PM
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Numbers are hard. Feels are easy.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/18 02:29 AM
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I can't upvote this enough. Feel those feelings man. If you refuse to they will eventually kill you.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/18 01:06 AM
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Lol @ 27 being "older" You're just hitting what I consider to be proper adulthood.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/18 05:01 AM
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"women have a reputation for being Machiavellian" is a pretty biased statement, and I would argue one that is probably more or less false. However, I do think that the strangest part of your argument is where you say "This isn't to say I trust all Men either, but Men tend to share the same struggles so it's easier to relate." So, one could say that the problem isn't that women are less trustworthy than men, but simply that you understand women less, and in that lack of understanding, find that y…
/r/ExRedPill13/12/18 02:45 AM
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Can you elaborate on what you mean by that? Are you referring even to simple statements or whatnot? How could you possibly ever connect on a human to human level with someone you intrinsically feel you cannot trust?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/18 11:17 PM
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I love how this moron implies that TRP was quarantined as some sort of thought control policy instead of because of the insane violent abusive misogyny there.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/18 08:59 PM
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Op has been trolling all day. I'm pretty sure someone dumped him yesterday and he's trying to blame feminism instead of taking responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 10:37 PM
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It's time for you to admit that this isn't about feminism at all, it's about you, and your pain, and your refusal to accept that you might be at fault.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 08:29 PM
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This guy has been trolling the sub all morning. I'm guessing something happened that triggered this outburst. Seems like he's hurting pretty bad right now, to be so desperate to lay blame on feminism.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 07:26 PM
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Who dumped you? This outburst today was triggered by something. What was it?
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 07:11 PM
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You're not an alpha, don't kid yourself.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 07:05 PM
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Seriously. Who dumped you? Your behavior today is indicative of psychosomatic emotional pain avoidance.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 07:04 PM
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Boy you're prickly. Can we try to keep this civil? You've been spouting your mouth off at everyone who's been replying to you, with no indication that you're actually here to do anything besides piss people off. You're arguing in bad faith. You're being rude. You're refusing to respond to any arguments of substance, instead, zeroing in on any minor weaknesses while completely ignoring the vast bulk of sound logic. In short, I no longer believe you ever intended to let anyone sway your opinions. …
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 06:26 PM
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"an intentionally misrepresented proposition that is set up because it is easier to defeat than an opponent's real argument." You absolutely are using it as a straw man. You're zeroing in on the aspects of feminism you don't like and claiming that's all there is.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 06:20 PM
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Psychosomatic childbirth avoidence is the outlier. Most feminists are feminists because they're tired of getting the short end of the stick every time they try to live as something outside the very small box that patriarchy tends to stuff them into. Do you agree that people ought to be free to reach for whatever goals they set for themselves? Goals that would result in harm to self or others notwithstanding.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 06:06 PM
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Feminism is a straw man in and of itself. There is no clearly defined "Feminism", every person has their own ideas about what it means. To say that "feminism" means any one specific thing other than the idea that men and women ought to have equal standing and rights in society at large is to seriously misrepresent the primary aims of the movement. Beyond that there are as many variations as there are stars. Sure, some of them may exist as you paint it, but they are a minority, and one the bulk o…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:41 PM
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Grass is always greener is it? Men and women both have their set of struggles. I envy my wife some of the advantages she enjoys, just as she envies the ones I do. It's a balance. Life is pain, princess, anyone who says differently is selling something. Nobody wins. Nobody has it easier. Everybody simply trades one set of problems for another. Some sets are arguably more lethal than others, but I defy you to find even one person on the planet who would say they've lived a categorically easy life.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:35 PM
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Fuck alpha and beta and all that shit. It's garbage and it doesn't stand up to scrutiny. Humans don't fit into your neat little categories. I've met plenty of outspoken feminists who have had, and plan to have, children, and feel no shame or fear of it, indeed who take joy in motherhood, as much or more than their careers. The way you talk, you don't sound like someone who's educated at all, you sound like someone who read a few webpages and now thinks you know everything just because Roosh is g…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:29 PM
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Nobody "wins" because in the end it's not actually a game at all. It's just everybody slogging through shit trying to find something that tastes a little less like shit. Men and women both have advantages and disadvantages in that pursuit but in the end, the only way to balance everything out and live a happy life is to keep in mind that life isn't about winning or losing, in the end it's all meaningless. The only thing that really helps in the end is finding a little piece of joy you can call y…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:22 PM
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Neither do you.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:15 PM
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Capitalism is a framework that allows for a lot of things. A mating game is certainly part of it, but to look at it that way is overly simplistic. The most obvious of examples why this is not the case is that there are many cases of people rising to the top of the capitalist ladder and even upon arrival at the top, feeling no need to complicate their life with introducing mating to the equation. These examples are infrequent, to be sure, but numerous enough to be impossible to overlook. Other re…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:12 PM
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Yeah and Jordan Peterson was a teacher at one of the best universities on the continent. That doesn't make him any less provably wrong.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 05:00 PM
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They would be wrong. She had many opportunities to be with men who had greater means than myself.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 04:58 PM
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It's not psychology 101. It's back alley, drunken conspiracy theorist psychology. Go take some actual classes somewhere before you comment about psychology again. You don't have the first clue what you're talking about. You've never been a feminist. Maybe you talked the talk for a while, but you've never actually gotten it, or understood why it's necessary, or even really figured out that women are exactly the same as men, save for relatively minor (in the grand scheme) biological and sociologic…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 01:19 PM
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He's saying that if that's what you're hearing when you read feminist theory, you're definitely full of confirmation bias and thus are probably not worth debating with until you take your head out of your ass, because there are plenty of feminist resources out there and very few of them show the signs you speak of.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 01:14 PM
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The fun thing about science is that it teaches us the fallacy of simple explanations. They are almost exclusively oversimplified at best, and completely misleading at worst. Case in point: my wife has a decent job and married me in spite of knowing full well that I'm bankrupt and years away from holding a decent job again. I'm not even particularly conventionally attractive, nor do I work out. She really does love me for my personality, and my values.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/18 01:11 PM
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This should be the top comment. A lot of other commenters are validizing evopsych, when it's actually been properly debunked.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/18 12:52 PM
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That might be part of it, but honestly most people groups end up developing some kind of lingo in order to short hand commonly discussed subjects. It's not really designed to keep outsiders out, but more to enable a more fluid communication of ideas among people who are already "in the know".
/r/ExRedPill05/11/18 11:25 AM
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That's the blue pill man. Welcome.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/18 08:32 PM
3

All good points. What I personally mean when i tell people to be themselves is simply to stop pretending to be something they're not for the sake of other people.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/18 04:07 AM
4

Don't feel bad man, this shit is hard, particularly with all the misinformation out there. You've still got a lot of growing up to do. The process never really stops, in reality.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/18 01:24 AM
3

I get that. Maybe she thought she was ready and then something scared her? It's hard to say. People are crazy complex and we don't even know ourselves half as well as we think we do, let alone other people. Bottom line is she bolted, and that's all that really matters in the end. She's not every woman, so doing start thinking like she is.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/18 11:16 PM
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Ugh. This is such terrible advice. OP, heathy relationships are built on mutual love, respect, and understanding. A woman (or man) is incapable of properly doing any of that for you if she doesn't really know who you are underneath. Immature humans want perfect partners. Mature humans know that everybody is only human and we all have weakness and vulnerability. If you set someone up to believe otherwise you WILL end up disappointing them when they realise they've been played. Be yourself. You'll…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/18 11:14 PM
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Don't question what you know about women. Question what you know about her. She's only one woman. There are no fucking rules man. EVERYONE is different. You thought she was ready, you were wrong. So what. Move on. Be yourself. Eventually someone will come along who is ready when you are ready.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/18 10:51 PM
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My point is that there's no such thing as a universally accepted "too fast". Too fast is something that every person has to decide for themselves, and will be different from situation to situation as well. She felt that things were moving too fast. That's her choice and there's nothing wrong with that. Another woman may have felt differently, and there's nothing wrong with that either. That's what I mean about every relationship being unique. Throw out the rules. There are no rules. There is onl…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/18 10:22 PM
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Every relationship is unique. It's really as simple as that. You need to decide what's right for you, and you need a partner who is at the very least willing to work with that.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/18 09:37 PM
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Meanwhile there are literally nuggets of wisdom strewn about everywhere else that are easier and less messy to find. Red pillers really are masochists at heart.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/18 01:39 PM
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I understand why they might take steps like this though. Giving them a platform with the same rights and privileges as everyone else offers them a sort of illegitimate legitimacy. Reddit is under no obligation to maintain an equal platform for all people and they've really given them far far more rope than they had to in order to hang themselves with to deserve this. This is basically reddit saying "we think you're toxic and if you want to you can keep using our platform but don't expect to get …
/r/ExRedPill03/10/18 03:07 PM
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Being an asshole is a very specific tool that only works in very specific circumstances. If you expect this group to actually do any good for anyone, you're going to need to expand your toolbox. You need a lot more than just "someone to play the good cop". I urge you to reflect on this song and consider that you may still be your own worst enemy.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/18 07:49 PM
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Not everybody feels like the way you do. I love that my partner has been intimate with other people and I love hearing her stories about those experiences. It doesn't make what we have any less special at all.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/18 07:49 PM
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People see what they want to see. There's plenty of scientists and psychologists who see exactly the opposite. I think you'll be hard pressed to find more than a few well travelled individuals, though, who give red pill philosophy any credence. There's just too many different kinds of people out there, and red pill philosophy only works on a few of them, and the more damaged ones at that. Capable, confident, self secure people don't need that shit. It just doesn't make sense to them. When it com…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/18 08:35 PM
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Take a good hard look at Nick Offerman, he's a great example. A man can be respectful of others and also not a pushover. A man can be loving and compassionate and still be strong. Learn to see the value in qualities that aren't traditionally male. Maybe stop using the word "pussy" to describe weakness. Strength takes many different forms, and so does vulnerability. Expand your worldview as much as possible so you start to recognize where these other forms lie, and how they affect you. Your emoti…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/18 04:44 PM
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Men and women have far more in common than most people think. Our brains function in pretty much exactly the same ways, with the only difference being relatively minor hormonal variances, and socialization differences. This is the major hipocrisy of the red pill. They glorify traits in men while simultaneously villifying those same traits in women. THEY ARE JUST LIKE those people that they hate. The red pill really just serves as a rationalization and cover up for their own self hatred, using wo…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/18 12:13 AM
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Incel got banned for glorifying and advocating for murder of women. Red pill doesn't go that far, they only want to manipulate and abuse women. Its a fine line I suppose.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/18 05:01 PM
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I wouldn't worry too much about it. You're still very very young, basically still a child, to be honest. Life doesn't begin for real until you get out into the world on your own, and you're right on time for that. Time to build some awesome, supportive, respectful relationships with women, and if you happen to get laid along the way, so much the better.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/18 05:30 PM
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Basically it's mostly a bunch of guys who don't want to take responsibility for being assholes and so they blame it on women instead. All the stuff about improving yourself is just a smoke screen that they use to hide the fact that they don't see women as actual people and just tools to be manipulated, small wonder they think that that's all women see men as too. I guess when you're dead inside its easier to assume that every one else is too.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/18 10:10 PM
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Trying to understand how men think by reading the red pill is like trying to understand how to build a house by watching HGTV. Every now and again something useful will show up, but most of it will be misleading if not downright false.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/18 09:37 PM
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I'm going to give it to you straight OP. If you insist on suppressing your emotions in order to try and appear to be some immovable rock, you'll end up dying inside and eventually it will come out anyways. You need to be real with her and with yourself. In all honesty, it's possible you simply cannot be what she needs in a boyfriend right now, or that she simply cannot be what you need in a girlfriend right now. There's nothing wrong with that if it's true, that's just life. But you need to not …
/r/ExRedPill22/06/18 05:58 PM
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Some people use shit tests. These people are not worth your time and should be avoided. Most people (women included) think of the idea of using "shit tests" however they describe it, as being detestable.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/18 07:05 PM
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Big husky man with a beard here: my fiancee visibly swooned the first time she saw my hairy dad bod.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/18 04:26 PM
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http://www.salon.com/2014/11/01/the_sad_twisted_truth_about_conservative_christianitys_effect_on_the_mind_partner/ You can google "conservative child abuse" to find many more such articles. As I said, child abuse is a human issue, not a political one. Stop using it to push an agenda.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 09:00 PM
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Conservatives and liberals both have a long history of using children as experiments to test their most fucked up ideas. It's a human problem, not a political one.
/r/MensRights28/08/17 03:07 PM
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I'm unclear on exactly what it is about the fact that she's an ex-porn star that precludes her from being a worthy partner now?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 03:04 PM
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Exactly. I figure 90% of weight loss comes down to watching what goes in your face hole. If you want to lose the weight you don't have to sacrifice time in order to do so, you just have to eat less. It's not rocket science.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 07:42 AM
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How you choose to define those words is your problem, not his. He could have been more clear, but you chose to assume the worst. His point was correct, but he never once said anything that implied that the resulting social dynamics (or "side effects") would be worth it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 07:33 AM
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And I found this randomly on the internet. Small world.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 08:47 PM
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Depends, is it interfering with you achieving your goals? Then it might be something you need to look at more honestly.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 09:55 PM
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Correct, and to many people, including some here, this appears to be a deficiency in effort, rather that a cognitive incongruency. Attempting to live a "normal" life can make it appear to be a disorder, but really it's simply that people with ADHD have a different set of biological strengths and weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 09:52 PM
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A high percentage of people with ADHD end up in creative jobs, acting, writing, directing, music, etc... Those that don't have a stable creative outlet tend to have poorer life outcomes.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:14 PM
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That depends on what you want to do, and how severe it is. Medication can help, but it's not a solution. I'm a carpenter and if I rely on my strategies and self discipline alone I invariably go through periods (sometimes days or weeks long) where concentrating on my job is as possible as flying to the moon by flapping my hands. My medication is just a step up that enables me to be productive and effective on a more consistent basis than I've ever experienced before. Drug side effects are nearly …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 07:07 PM
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The problem is far more nuanced than that. Everybody has sad days or even weeks, but not everyone is depressed. Take a spin though /r/adhd if you're curious. Also, calling adhd a disease is wrong, its a difference in cognition. People with adhd also tend to have creative and flexible minds sometimes far beyond what other people tend to possess.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 06:19 PM
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That quote actually reveals a fundamental misunderstanding of how ADD works. Edit: I should clarify. I explain it like this. Telling someone with adhd that they should be able to focus because they can read and memorize a stimulating novel is like telling someone with depression that they should be happy because they laughed at a joke. It doesn't work like that. People with true adhd actually are able to focus, and quite well at times, but at a more limited range of stimulus, and if the stimulus…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 05:09 PM
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Thinking that you "need" a girlfriend is also holding you back, methinks.
/r/seduction18/03/12 05:26 PM
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Last time I tried to close a girl with a gamecube it did not go well.
/r/seduction10/03/12 09:29 PM
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It's not so much about "what you can do for them" but more like "what value are you bringing to the table?" Everybody NEEDS to be at least a little selfish. If we go around all the time trying to find the things we can do for other people we will end up empty and depressed. The idea is to find a happy place where you're doing nice things for other people, not because you want them to like you, but because it makes you feel good. This natural altruism is far more attractive than the alternative.
/r/seduction10/03/12 12:01 AM
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