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0

You’re a champion nice guy and you’ll get walked over
/r/seduction12/06/20 04:05 PM
3

Say nothing and go for it and admit it afterwards . Unf your first time probably will be a bit of a cluster but don’t worry you’ll get into it!
/r/seduction12/06/20 04:02 PM
1

Don’t over invest in one girl. Get a lot on the go. They should be chasing you.
/r/seduction11/06/20 10:03 PM
1

Ok props for having the balls to hit her up well done. Mistake was to ask her a closed question or you Said she could say yes or no. You could have led with an assumptive close i.e. suggesting let’s get a coffee over there right now come on and lead the way
/r/seduction11/06/20 07:18 PM
1

If you’ve banged her then that’s better but she’s still using you for attention. Ignore her until you can break lockdown and get back to banging her Then arrange logistics No more texting - they’ll waste your entire life with that shit
/r/seduction11/06/20 11:09 AM
1

Get a boyfriend with enough balls to spit out what he wants and not beat about the Bush... 😏
/r/seduction11/06/20 11:07 AM
1

There’s a lesson here - she’s banging the alpha Male that’s treating her like shit and moaning to you about it. You’re too much of a nice guy and this turns women off. Tell her you can’t be friends anymore because you’ve decided not to hang around with women you’re not fucking - wish her well but say bye. Move on to women that are attracted to you and go and read mystery method to properly understand seduction etc..
/r/seduction11/06/20 11:04 AM
1

Could work if you say “there you go you got my number now” smirk and then walk off. There are so few men out there with any balls that you could probably slay a lot that way
/r/seduction11/06/20 11:01 AM
1

It’s not as difficult as it seems but you need your shit together and an understanding of attraction. So look at Myster.y M.ethod. And read it at least twice
/r/seduction11/06/20 10:57 AM
2

Nah. Ignore it, it’s all in your head. If they’re adult and up for it then it’s their choice. I’m 52 and don’t touch anything over 40. Preferably mid 20’s
/r/seduction11/06/20 10:55 AM
1

She’s just attention seeking and she’ll waste your whole day. Cut it short and escalate to a meeting or tell her to fuck off and get rid of her
/r/seduction10/06/20 01:02 PM
1

Yup you’re right.
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:39 PM
2

Nah - get that shut out of your head. Own yourself. Go lift some weights and improve yourself and you’ll pull women if you get your shit together. It’s down to you to own it. No ones gonna deliver women to your door .
/r/seduction10/06/20 11:56 AM
2

This guy is exactly right. For a phone six breakdown of how this works read mystery method
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:59 AM
1

They branch swing - so they keep hold of the old guy bc they don’t want to be single. Ignore it when they say they got a bf and proceed as usual.
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:56 AM
1

Read Myste.ry Me.thod.... at least twice!
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:29 AM
8

Did it years ago. It’s a waste of money because you can’t buy what you want. Which is intimacy. Own the loneliness, it’s part and parcel of being a man and get back out there when this shit blows over
/r/seduction09/06/20 09:11 PM
1

You got this - it’s all about proximity and what they call plausible deniability. You could invite her for an ice cream at the park / help with your homework etc.. you need to get her and you on your own together in order for you to make it happen.
/r/seduction09/06/20 07:56 PM
1

I mean give back 2 things for every 3 she gives you. Pull her to you. Make her make the effort. If she sends you 3 texts you give her 2 back. Rule of 2/3 across all interaction Yes that included words. If she gives you the long “I love you” speech, then you give her less back.
/r/seduction09/06/20 07:52 PM
1

^ if you’ve never been laid then you’re a virgin. I’d cut yourself some slack and just try to have more fun in your interactions.
/r/seduction09/06/20 04:41 PM
1

If you want to get laid but can’t then you’re an incel. But I wouldn’t let that bit bother you. If I were you I’d focus on having more fun with the women and avoid serious topics which turn them off.
/r/seduction09/06/20 04:40 PM
1

Use rule of 2/3. For every 3 things she says does or gives. You give 2
/r/seduction09/06/20 04:51 AM
1

Well done my son plays hockey, I’m a bit old for it now. In the meantime read Mystery Method.. you’ll probably have to read it 3-4 times. I did
/r/seduction08/06/20 11:14 PM
1

Yeah, take up a contact sport like karate or rugby. Also sort your diet out and start lifting weights. Your confidence will improve and you’ll totally change as a young man.
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:57 PM
1

Ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer.
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:45 PM
1

You’ll find it at the end of the rainbow!
/r/seduction08/06/20 06:38 PM
1

You might have to deal with underlying confidence as well. Take up some type of self defence / fight class like karate or anything like that. It’ll be difficult to start with but it’ll build your confidence and the speech thing will probably just fade away.
/r/seduction08/06/20 05:42 PM
1

You’ve got to improve what you can to deal with the inner confidence. Hit the gym and improve your physique. Deal with your diet and lose any excess weight. Good news is that guys that would be considered butt ugly get with women all the time. It’s down to you to make it happen. Good luck
/r/seduction08/06/20 05:40 PM
6

True mate. They’ve all had boyfriends before and will probably have another one in the future you just need to own it and be the best man you can be. Don’t put them on a pedestal and don’t defer to them. Take what you want from the relationship.
/r/seduction08/06/20 05:35 PM
1

You’re right - never take dating advice from a woman. It’s designed for them to attract the Alpha makes they want and to weed out the rest. It’s like asking Bin Laden where his terrorist hide outs are. It’s basically the sisterhood Uber alles. Unconsciously they’re siding with other women over and above you. It’s the Feminine Imperative in play.
/r/seduction07/06/20 03:09 PM
2

Any approach - even one you fu** up is better than no approach.
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:23 AM
1

You do with practice. And that’s what you need, a lot of practice actually talking to women.
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:22 AM
6

That’s all about practice and interacting with women generally. Start to talk to women you have no interest in. For instance ones that serve you in a coffee shop or in the supermarket, get used to conversation in general.
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:21 AM
5

Firstly you’re not a gentleman - you’re falling into nice guy paradox and the girls sense this hence you getting butthurt about rejection. Don’t worry about it. Talk to more women. If one rejects you then don’t reply any more to her. There’s nothing more to say and no reason to continue the interaction.
/r/seduction07/06/20 07:04 AM
2

I’m not sure if you need to re think - giving away a complement is an IOI they haven’t earned so will lead them to believe they’ve got more value than you. How about opening with something indirect like asking if there’s a coffee shop locally and spinning it up from there?
/r/seduction07/06/20 06:59 AM
3

The problem is you not making an approach within 3 seconds of seeing her interest
/r/seduction07/06/20 06:54 AM
17

It’s a rejection.
/r/seduction05/06/20 08:06 PM
2

She’s bored and fishing for attention. She’ll waste your entire evening with bullshit. Call it and say “come over and bring wine” Don’t engage past that and get more girls to talk to so that you’re not too invested in any one in particular
/r/seduction05/06/20 08:04 PM
1

I don’t care, for me it’s about femininity and personality. Why would I care what her job is?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:11 PM
1

Get more women on the rotation - so many that you don’t have time to think about any particular one
/r/seduction05/06/20 04:04 PM
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Ok in simple terms you’re acting like a pussy not a man and it repulses women. At a core level they seek dominance and masculine traits.
/r/seduction04/06/20 02:51 AM
-2

Yup. It’s that simple.
/r/seduction03/06/20 08:45 PM
1

You just got to break through it
/r/seduction03/06/20 08:45 PM
1

You need to be a man and not a woman. That’s if you want to attract women..
/r/seduction03/06/20 08:35 PM
-3

No. It’s a buffer. Your long term going to be best served by more discipline now. Clear out all women you’re not intimate with and you’ll be a lot clearer about where you are.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:09 PM
1

There’s nothing outdated about the fundamentals of attraction. It’s the same as when we were living in caves. MM is still the best info around. It’s not actually PUA material. He’s just put into print what people like me have been doing for the last 35 years
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:07 PM
2

Stop double guessing yourself - if you’ve improved yourself and you’re getting what you want there’s nothing wrong with that. Women put make up on and get boob jobs etc to get with the men they want and all that stuff is fake.
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:15 PM
5

Man - you are in the friend zone. She’s banging someone else and just using you as an emotional tampon. Clear her out and get with women who are interested in you... and not just using you.
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:12 PM
1

Women should be an addition to your life not the focus of it. Get your own mission. Don’t put them on a pedestal. The world is half full of them and there is no “one”. Plus - don’t do women “friends”. You’re either fucking them, trying to fuck them or stay away. It’ll clear down any confusion.
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:01 PM
1

Make a habit of talking to older and ugly women you’d never be interested in. Get practice at chit chat and just general conversation. Then when there is a woman you like approach indirectly as opposed to directly. Read Mystery Method for more guidelines
/r/seduction03/06/20 04:53 PM
2

She got a better offer. Say you’ll get back to her about next week and don’t agree a date. Then don’t call or text her. Now hit on other women and forget her. She’s more likely to come back if you walk than if you chase her. To do that you need genuine options.
/r/seduction03/06/20 04:51 PM
1

You’re right. But just avoid politics. Right now it’s all the rage to be virtue signalling and woke. But it will turn. There are women out there who are either apolitical or actually conservative.
/r/seduction03/06/20 11:52 AM
1

In my case I’m an older guy with an N of over 200 so I’ve managed to get it together with women fine over the years. It’s only now I want to get with younger women that I’ve had to tighten up my game. What it did for me was make me realise what I’d been doing naturally which was effective and also realise where I was making mistakes. It does lay out the fundamentals of attraction and if you follow it you should more or less be able to seduce on demand (assuming everything else is equal) You’ll n…
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:26 AM
2

Get other women on the rotation so you’re not so dependent on a particular one. Read Mystery Method about 3 times
/r/seduction03/06/20 06:48 AM
105

IRL is streets better - scrap tinder
/r/seduction02/06/20 05:29 PM
1

Mystery Method
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:49 AM
1

It means nothing, he stopped to take a call. It was nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:48 AM
2

No it’s a good way to get your best option.
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:47 AM
1

Hey mate I’m in the UK too. Take a look at Mystery Method to properly understand seduction. You’ll probably have to read it 2-3 times to fully consume it. Good luck!
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:45 AM
2

Like me, He’s probably banging someone else that wasn’t so uptight about lockdown.
/r/seduction30/05/20 07:42 PM
1

You sound very young. Get hold of Mystery Method - and read it at least twice. It will teach you a lot about women and seduction
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:55 PM
0

Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you’re not fucking her you’re her girlfriend. Get over the oneitis and go find a woman that wants you or seduce one that you want.
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:17 PM
1

Don’t do it. Get her in real life and bang her properly
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:14 PM
1

Don’t do that. Don’t comment on her looks and don’t give her an unearned compliment. If you want to understand properly then go and read Mystery Method
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:13 PM
1

Nah. Just bump into her by accident or something while you’re not looking where you’re going and start to talk about something random
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:11 PM
0

Don’t apologise to women- and move on and talk to another one.
/r/seduction30/05/20 12:09 PM
2

Move on and find one that does like you
/r/seduction29/05/20 07:22 PM
1

Pull away from her and be seen talking to / hanging fun with other women
/r/seduction29/05/20 05:29 PM
8

Swingers club
/r/seduction29/05/20 03:59 PM
1

Yeah she wants to bang again but she wants discretion and no strings while she gets over the ex. Societal programming says she “can’t just bang for pleasure” She sub consciously wants you to lead that way so “it isn’t her fault - it just happened” etc.. Key to this is discretion and smooth escalation to making a move on her when you’re alone
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:40 AM
1

She’s got you in the fukboi category. Well done! She wants you to bang her sister so her sister can get over her ex. Loads of women have told me, best way to get over the last bloke is to get under a new one She may also want to fuck you in the side while she looks for a “nice guy” Don’t be judgemental- just say “yeah we all just enjoy sex” and go for it
/r/seduction28/05/20 04:12 AM
6

Just start to make out with your wife next time the friend is there and escalate all the way to sex and see if the friend comes along for the ride.. bet she will!
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:46 AM
1

Don’t crush on women. Go talk to ten more.
/r/seduction25/05/20 07:19 PM
3

About 2 hours. I’m M52 she was F35
/r/seduction25/05/20 02:00 PM
1

Don’t actually be overt in asking for it. Even if women want it they will refuse it if you go overt. Learn game. Mystery Method is a good start.
/r/seduction25/05/20 01:59 PM
1

She’s not in the friend zone. Men only hang out with women they want to bang. Unless they’re gay. Women know this and keep those men in the friend zone as a reserve
/r/seduction25/05/20 12:36 PM
1

Why would you go if it isn’t?
/r/seduction25/05/20 12:34 PM
1

You’re taking too long to escalate and caught in the conversation trap. Once you’ve banged them you can always “forget” what you said etc.
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:12 AM
3

Depends on how old she is. By my age she won’t get pregnant, if she’s young she often will. Some girls also lie about being on birth control to get pregannnt on purpose. Watch that.
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:09 AM
3

Pull her to you. Every time.
/r/seduction24/05/20 08:28 PM
1

You’re too available - kick her back and chase other women. If she wanted sex she’d jump your bones. Sorry to say it but you’re her girlfriend.
/r/seduction21/05/20 02:30 AM
3

Read mystery method
/r/seduction20/05/20 07:34 PM
1

She wanted to be hit on you didn’t step up and she got frustrated and blocked you. If you want to learn a lesson it’s next time step up!
/r/seduction20/05/20 08:53 AM
1

They probably dont. And I’m not saying it’s gonna be easy but I am saying that it can be done and men do it.
/r/seduction19/05/20 09:31 PM
4

Ignore it. Don’t do online. Act in real life. Learn game and lift. It won’t be easy but it’s quite possible to be very successful with women. I’m 5’7” and have got hold of much taller women loads of times. You can too.
/r/seduction19/05/20 09:03 PM
1

Couple of girls
/r/seduction17/05/20 11:05 PM
1

I’m feeling it myself - I’m in the U.K. and managed to get to the beach yesterday and hit on a couple. Couldn’t escalate and wasn’t really in the mood to be honest but online is a suckers game. All the chumps will be hitting them up and it’ll come to nothing.
/r/seduction17/05/20 07:22 PM
2

Yeah. It’s a ball ache doing it online. Better in person through social circle or something.
/r/seduction17/05/20 07:09 PM
2

Too much effort. She wants the attention which you’re giving her free. She’ll talk on and off for months until she gets bored with you. Drop it. Work on others
/r/seduction17/05/20 06:05 PM
1

Don’t try to attract them with money it’s a bad mindset and if they really like you and you’re young then money doesn’t matter to them. As you age you need your shit together to earn a decent living or you’ll struggle more and more with women.
/r/seduction15/05/20 08:51 PM
1

Nice try.
/r/seduction15/05/20 06:40 PM
2

Chill out about it and don’t panic you’re gonna be fine. Just get together with her again and practice.
/r/seduction15/05/20 05:46 PM
1

We do turn down free sex. I’m a lot older than most here at 52 and have a very high n count and have been married and divorced twice. You should see the state of most women my age, you really wouldn’t want to touch them. And yes, I have turned down an awful lot later in life. The balance of power changes if you keep yourself in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:14 PM
18

They don’t like anything that upsets their worldview or narrative.
/r/seduction15/05/20 12:08 PM
1

You can pay for it if you want. But that’s not what this forum is about.
/r/seduction15/05/20 09:26 AM
0

I’ve no issue with escorts, just issues with escorts in a seduction forum. Bye 👋
/r/seduction14/05/20 09:46 PM
1

You’re lying by the way. Everything you do is for money - especially the podcast
/r/seduction14/05/20 09:11 PM
1

I’m pushing back on a THOT that charges for sex that’s hanging out in a seduction reddit which is for men who don’t pay for sex. Because you think you can monetise. But you can’t.
/r/seduction14/05/20 09:10 PM
0

Doesn’t seem you’re getting much traction. And you’re not making any money. Sooner or later you’ll have bills to pay and you’ll resort to type. Then you’ll have to stop wasting time in here. You’re welcome 😉
/r/seduction14/05/20 09:06 PM
-1

If you’re not here for money or attention then you’ve got nothing to lose by getting lost. So just do that. Then we can get on with our sub. Which is men only really. Now piss off
/r/seduction14/05/20 08:41 PM
1

Well go use your degrees then and stop exploiting vulnerable men. Your game is up and your broke. You know it and I know it. That’s why you’re here.
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:43 PM
0

Yeah. And I hang out in here to pass that on to younger men so they don’t have to be manipulated into spending money by women like you who are just using their weakness against them. Your trade has dried up - learn to code.
/r/seduction14/05/20 07:04 PM
1

My sex live is fine I’ve got an N of over 300. And I’ve never paid.
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:13 PM
1

Nothing is free - especially from an escort
/r/seduction14/05/20 05:41 PM
1

No you don’t you’re an escort and you take money off men for sex / companionship. The point of this sub is we don’t pay. Get lost.
/r/seduction14/05/20 05:41 PM
-3

This is seduction - we don’t pay for it in here get lost
/r/seduction14/05/20 04:03 PM
1

She already had the last guy waiting as a “reserve” - I’d guarantee he was already in her orbit somehow. If you got to then I’d go back and bang her but I wouldn’t girlfriend her up again. Keep it as an FB
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:28 AM
3

Don’t do it online until you can meet them in person. Disengage - the only thing you’re gonna do is blow it right now. Let all her other chumps blow themselves up and slay it when things open up again and you can meet up in person
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:42 AM
6

Well that’s the problem with doing it online. It’s useless because you can’t escalate and one false move and you’re fucked. Chalk it up to experience and wait til you can get out and do it properly Women will want to virtual date all day because it’s attention but men get nothing from it because it can’t lead to sex - which ultimately is what most men want.
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:00 AM
1

🤷‍♂️whatever
/r/seduction11/05/20 08:05 PM
1

No we’re not we’re talking about two women banging the same guy - not each other. I’ve got friends that have done mothers and daughters, and I’ve personally been to swingers clubs where all sorts have happened. It’s down to the op to make his move
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:45 PM
-1

Well it can be. Just depends how you play it. Swingers clubs exist and are very popular and this stuff does happen. It’s a minority of men that have the balls to take the shot. But you gotta be in it to win it and OP has a good chance if he plays it right.
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:03 PM
-9

Ouch someone’s jealous he’s never had a threesome 😂
/r/seduction11/05/20 01:00 PM
2

Yer - just do it and don’t talk about it. Let it just happen naturally. If the sister doesn’t want to play she’ll see where it’s going and she can just get up - go to her room etc... no need to say anything just escalate with your own girlfriend and let it run
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:49 PM
5

I’d make out with your gf and escalate to the fuck in the living room when her sister is sat there. If your girlfriend pushes back then you know it’s not on. If she goes along with it then keep going and when you’re well into it you can beckon the other one to come over and join in.
/r/seduction11/05/20 11:59 AM
1

They might just both want to share him.. it’s happened many many times before.
/r/seduction11/05/20 11:01 AM
3

Just go for it with your gf in front of her sister and make the move
/r/seduction11/05/20 10:56 AM
4

Don’t - get a life
/r/seduction10/05/20 07:58 PM
1

No. It’s a bad idea.
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:57 AM
1

Totally correct
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:57 AM
1

Don’t worry about what she wants - just say “I’ll be over at x o’clock” go over and fuck her
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:29 AM
1

It’s a waste of time for men. Women like that free attention but most men end up spending hours giving free attention and get nothing for it. Wait until lockdown is over.
/r/seduction09/05/20 08:06 AM
2

Did she buy a drink or were you paying?
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:58 AM
4

You don’t need advice you’ve judged correctly that women use texting for attention and validation and so it’s a pointless game until you can get the interaction on track for a 1:1 Meetup. All the other men will be super needy blowing her phone up and she’ll be super bored and frustrated. Refuse to play a game you can’t win. When lockdown is lifted just hit about 5 up “Hey I’m going to xyz bar on Thursday at 8.. let them all show and buy you a drink
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:09 AM
1

I’d dump her until you can escalate to a meet as you are almost definitely gonna run out of road texting. Something along the lines of “look I’m throwing in virtual stuff until lockdown breaks. I’m just gonna focus on exercise and training - see you on the other side” Then ignore Let all the other chumps blow her phone up and inevitably they’ll bore her to tears or wrong step and she’ll block them. The when things lift just hit her for an insta date ..
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:06 AM
1

Get into a social activity that gives you proximity to women in real life and get down the gym and put in some muscle. Get to the point where your shoulders are wider than your waist and strip off excess fat and your success with women will totally change no matter how “technically ugly” you are facially
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:01 AM
0

There’s a narrow line between being an arsehole and just not putting up with their shit. Own your life on your own terms and do what you want rather that putting her up on a pedestal and you’ll be half way there. If she wants to go out but you don’t, then don’t go. Etc. That’s not being an arsehole although a lot of feminists would say it is
/r/seduction08/05/20 10:05 AM
1

Scrap Tinder ... any real life contact is a better idea than that shit.
/r/seduction08/05/20 10:01 AM
1

Most of the time it’s subconscious on their part. But when you do call it out or take the piss out of them they realise that you’re not like all the other chumps and they do indeed like it that you stand up to them.
/r/seduction08/05/20 10:00 AM
5

I’m old school too and I think it’s over for months - might as well forget it for the time being
/r/seduction07/05/20 10:37 PM
1

Up to you. If I were you I’d up your game or she’ll walk
/r/seduction07/05/20 07:17 PM
2

She can’t make it any clearer - she wants to be dominated in bed If you don’t do it she’ll find someone that can
/r/seduction07/05/20 04:18 PM
1

You’re better of holding the high ground - let all the other chumps hit her up and bore the shit out of her. Give her the gift of your absence and re hit it after lockdown
/r/seduction04/05/20 04:16 PM
1

I’d act as normal and ignore lockdown
/r/seduction04/05/20 03:50 PM
1

Don’t hit her up again. If she hits you up then ignore the fact there was a break in communication and invite her straight over for the bang. Treat her as a fb
/r/seduction04/05/20 02:41 PM
1

Yeah - avoid texting - every text is another chance to blow it. Get her on a 1:1 meet and pull back from texting. Don’t get drawn into chit chat. Just ignore chit chat
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:51 PM
-4

Why do you want him to see your tits? You got some validation issues?
/r/seduction04/05/20 05:57 AM
1

Don’t bother until you can meet up
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:21 PM
1

They fancied you - next time give them your number and tell them to hit you up if they’re going out. Note - do not take their number
/r/seduction03/05/20 01:35 PM
0

She’s petrified bc of the Kung flu. Go see her in person and bang her but tell her you’re not into “exclusivity” at the moment and keep your options open
/r/seduction03/05/20 11:11 AM
1

Sack her and speak to another one. It’ll be good for you mentally
/r/seduction02/05/20 05:09 PM
1

It’s difficult by text . Because you should display higher value whilst showing her and IOD - indicator of disinterest. But you’re totally right chasing her is just gonna turn her off. He should basically have so many options that it doesn’t matter and he’s got others to deal with.
/r/seduction30/04/20 06:38 PM
3

A week isn’t too long if you’ve already been sending too many texts and made yourself look too available. Definitely wait at least a week. You should have other options anyway
/r/seduction30/04/20 08:20 AM
2

The op asked an opinion and I gave it
/r/seduction29/04/20 08:24 PM
2

They’re generally an insincere attempt at manipulation. Most flattery has a motive. You can come to your own conclusions but that’s my experience.
/r/seduction29/04/20 07:18 PM
-6

Ignore compliments from women. Don’t reply and just talk about something else. It’s neediness bait..
/r/seduction29/04/20 06:14 PM
4

This bloke is an idiot. If she’s not interested leave her alone.
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:48 AM
1

Ok so texting is free validation and attention for women. So don’t give it to them. Your aim is to bang her right? So don’t text until you’ve done that at least twice. She has hundreds of chumps texting her all day. Your aim is get get 1:1 with her in person and escalate attraction from there.
/r/seduction28/04/20 03:23 PM
1

Because it’s framed as “women are attracted to men with money” in a seduction reddit. Not a lifestyle reddit.
/r/seduction27/04/20 09:34 PM
1

I do have the money and no I wouldn’t. I’d go sailing in the med or skiing in the Alps. And I wouldn’t take a woman on either trip.
/r/seduction27/04/20 08:44 PM
2

Nah the boyfriend was just a shit test.. it’s all about spiking the emotion and getting her at a different venue somehow out of work time. You had her flirting about packages it’s about getting away to a bar or a different location while keeping her comfortable that she’s “safe” And I don’t mean safe that you’re not gonna bang her back out lol... I mean safe that she can bang you and you’re not gonna blow up her world with her boyfriend because you’re needy and clingy. He can have her you just w…
/r/seduction27/04/20 03:07 PM
3

You’re not. Your whole emphasis is on money and that’s linked to the woman. It’s a misleading article that ignores or just doesn’t understand the basis of attraction between men and women
/r/seduction27/04/20 09:43 AM
1

You’re not, it just feels like it. Society expects you to be subservient and as you’re getting better at game you’re getting more af what you want on your own terms. Weak men who can’t attract women despise and shame this bc they’re jealous and don’t have the balls Women shit test it to check if you’re the real deal If she’s calling you and arsehole you’re in the right lines. We both know if she was saying what a lovely guy you were you’d be in trouble. Those women asking to buy you stuff was te…
/r/seduction27/04/20 08:29 AM
4

No. You’re on wrong foot. Money has nothing to do with attraction. Broke men are banging women that are married to rich men. You haven’t got a clue what you’re talking about. By all means make money but do it for you not women and don’t get confused.
/r/seduction27/04/20 08:20 AM
3

If you don’t want to text then just don’t. I hate it for the most part. If you lose her you lose her. Seems like she’s got self esteem and validation issues anyway. I’d bet you won’t lose her if you stop texting UNLESS you apologise for it. If you just own the not texting thing “to be honest I’m bored with it” she might go ape shit initially but she’ll back off and be fine if you don’t back down.
/r/seduction27/04/20 08:15 AM
2

Open with something cocky funny and don’t make it blatantly obvious that you fancy her
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:40 AM
0

The age gap is nothing to do with it, I’m 52 and 5’8” and white and I still get hold of 25 year olds after my divorce. It’s a different game - secret society. Also ignore the boyfriend talk. Picking up on her vibe she wanted that black pipe but couldn’t be overt about it. You need plausible deniability and you need logistics. When they give you the “I got a bf” they’re notifying you and that puts off most chumps, but look at her actions and ignore her words. Good luck!
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:35 AM
1

It’s something along those lines. She wouldn’t want any type of proximity if he grossed her out.
/r/seduction26/04/20 01:14 PM
1

Women are never just friends. Look at Briffaults Law - she perceives a benefit or no association would exist.
/r/seduction26/04/20 01:13 PM
18

A wingwoman indicates pre selection to a certain extent and the better looking / cooler she is the better. I’d bet though she’s got a crush on you. Bottom line just go for it and see how it plays and have a laugh in the process
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:04 AM
6

“Your sister feels bad for him” I bet she thinks “he’s a lovely guy” That’s all you need to know. She won’t go anywhere near him in a romantic capacity. The above book suggestions are good - especially no more Mr Nice Guy. After he’s internalised that and the others have a look at Mystery Method. It’ll be a difficult journey for him.
/r/seduction25/04/20 07:35 AM
3

Ugly blokes get to getter with girls all the time. Sort your head out - sorry your fitness out and stop looking for excuses.
/r/seduction25/04/20 06:46 AM
2

The fact you hate it means your invested in her. Men’s and women are not friends, they’re either banging or the man wants to bang. Honestly - own it, she doesn’t want to know about you like that and move on. The cleanest way is to tell her you can’t be friends and wish her well. Tell her she’s a great girl and deserves to be happy. Then get rid.
/r/seduction24/04/20 10:26 PM
9

Just get rid of her completely and move on. Own the rejection and go get one that is interested
/r/seduction24/04/20 07:12 PM
1

I’ve no idea ref revelations but mystery is the way to understand the dynamic. Looking back over my whole life it’s the way women have worked throughout
/r/seduction24/04/20 01:40 AM
1

Think through your escalation strategy befor you even start. She’s probably gagging to get out anyway. You need to provide fun and excitement - you should be looking for IOI’s and not be needy. Have you read mystery method?
/r/seduction23/04/20 04:55 PM
1

Think of some type of joke in advance - are you in lockdown? Can you actually deliver on a date out of the complex?
/r/seduction23/04/20 03:02 PM
3

Exactly this. Men are totally wasting their time until lockdown lifts.
/r/seduction23/04/20 06:43 AM
2

She’s down to fuck - just say yeah and proceed as usual ..
/r/seduction22/04/20 09:36 PM
2

It’s all about lockdown - she’s lining up options - ignore her
/r/seduction21/04/20 06:50 PM
3

They’re following you because they want your attention which is the same reason they’re giving you shit. Change your social circle.
/r/seduction20/04/20 07:47 PM
3

Ignore them
/r/seduction20/04/20 07:10 PM
6

If you can’t escalate it’s gonna be a waste of time they’ll just take the free validation and it’ll burn out
/r/seduction20/04/20 01:48 PM
3

Any approach is better than no approach but a direct opener implies they have more value than you. Try and think of indirect approaches. Difficult in lockdown
/r/seduction20/04/20 01:46 PM
2

Primal attraction has not changed since cavemen, and mystery method recognised this. Read and thoroughly digest mystery method and your life will change if you’ve got the balls to do the work
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:30 AM
1

That’s a neg. not the same thing.
/r/seduction19/04/20 08:16 PM
1

Hilarious - id tell you but I think I’m banned!
/r/seduction18/04/20 09:47 PM
1

If there’s true desire and attraction then everything else is a social construct. There’s no need to wait or waste time. Anyway above you said you’re not offering it. Make your mind up.
/r/seduction18/04/20 07:06 PM
2

Without sex it isn’t a relationship. All men will want that as part of a relationship so if you don’t want sex then get a cat perhaps
/r/seduction18/04/20 07:03 PM
1

Apart from sex what do you bring to a relationship? Why would a man want you around long term? Those are the questions you need to answer.
/r/seduction18/04/20 06:50 PM
1

Keep your chin up and keep going. Survival is about mental strength.
/r/seduction18/04/20 06:35 AM
2

Ignore and move on with other options
/r/seduction17/04/20 08:30 PM
2

Ignore it and don’t answer the question. Pick something from her bio and question it
/r/seduction17/04/20 08:29 PM
2

That is a problem - I’m in isolation as well, but honestly pursuing women virtually right now isn’t a good use of time because they will be literally bombed out by thirsty chodes, you’re much better off to get out and talk to them when it’s lifted. Plus if you can’t bang them then what’s the point t anyway?!
/r/seduction15/04/20 11:01 AM
6

Focus on other women that you have access to right now. Don’t get hung up on one woman. They occupy 50% of the planet. Talk to them all.
/r/seduction15/04/20 04:57 AM
4

Well she needed a piss / but I like your “can do” attitude 🍆🍆🍆
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:38 PM
21

If she dropped her pants in front of you then you should have hit for the make out instantly she got off the job..
/r/seduction14/04/20 11:44 AM
2

No_ kick it out. She’s got plenty access to men this is a trap. Wait til lockdown is over and find another girl
/r/seduction14/04/20 08:52 AM
1

You don’t let them know. You just get on with it. If you’ve enough of a mission and a business or successful existence then they’ll smell it on you
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:23 AM
2

“Give you a chance”.. grow some balls man. Who is the prize here? Get rid of her and go get a better one.
/r/seduction13/04/20 07:23 AM
2

“Likeable” = thanks but I’m not interested in banging you.
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:32 PM
1

You’re not being an arse. She blagged a free trip to the airport and she could have taken them with her in her luggage. In be highly suspicious. Either way you owe her nothing. When these things happen, just ask yourself if you’d do it for a man. That’s your answer
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:06 PM
1

Watch what she does with her ankles If she puts them behind her ears - she likes you :-)
/r/seduction11/04/20 03:41 AM
2

Just throw the packages away and delete her number. Move on. You don’t know what’s in them, and she could have posted them to herself just before the flight. You could be getting into all sorts of shit here.
/r/seduction11/04/20 03:34 AM
1

The rule is ignore, agree and amplify or reduce to absurdity. So “after practicing water skiing across my bathroom floor well discuss vegetable rights and free world love”
/r/seduction10/04/20 10:48 AM
1

Someone else has moved in faster than you - move on
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:48 PM
1

It’s nothing to do with you. Just tell her you’re not interested and block.
/r/seduction07/04/20 02:38 AM
1

Ok good decision - move on. If she takes herself that seriously she’s a next
/r/seduction07/04/20 02:03 AM
2

Yep good idea. The point is to reduce it to absurdity.. and don’t whatever you do apologise. Make the laugh on her and move on like nothing has happened
/r/seduction06/04/20 10:10 AM
3

Counterintuitive - double down - re use the wrong name and make a joke out of it - DONT apologise
/r/seduction06/04/20 08:10 AM
1

Move on - if you didn’t escalate to sex someone else probably did
/r/seduction06/04/20 08:09 AM
2

Learn to code if I were you mate
/r/seduction04/04/20 01:16 PM
1

^ this
/r/seduction03/04/20 03:58 PM
5

Don’t bother. They’ll be hitting you up soon
/r/seduction02/04/20 07:19 PM
1

Ship her out
/r/seduction02/04/20 02:40 PM
2

Ignore compliments from a woman. Just hit her up to meet in person and take it from there
/r/seduction02/04/20 12:06 PM
2

She wants to fuck you but she needs confidence that you’re not gonna go stalker on her and blow it up with her bf. Next time she gives you the IGABF line just say “that’s cool you can go back to him after” Smile at her and proceed as usual. Key here is non neediness and her feeling secure that you’re not gonna judge her or shoot your mouth off and get her in the shit with Mr dependable boyfriend
/r/seduction30/03/20 05:17 PM
1

They’re bored shitless because they’re in quarantine which is the only reason you’re getting long texts. Bat them off and say you’ll hook up with them In person when lockdown is over. Don’t indulge anymore. It’ll exhaust you and you won’t get anywhere.
/r/seduction29/03/20 10:54 AM
2

See if he can annul the marriage - that’s void it.. and find a woman that does want sex with him
/r/seduction28/03/20 10:48 AM
2

It was non needy and no one ever says no to a woman so you’re calling in your self respect - well done
/r/seduction26/03/20 07:13 PM
1

She’s pushing you back for sex - get the message and get rid of her and find another girl that does want sex with you
/r/seduction26/03/20 11:31 AM
1

Ok- DONT be friends with her. That’s your problem right there. Tell her you only do men friends but you’re sure she’ll be fine but see you later - you’re not interested in being friends with her. She’ll go batshit. But stick to it. It good discipline. You don’t want to be friends with her, you want to bang her. You fundamentally must understand women and desire. Get hold of mystery method and read it.
/r/seduction23/03/20 05:51 AM
2

She’s got you as a backup. Sorry mate. If she gets a better offer she takes it, and she keeps you on the hook just in case the other guy doesn’t pan out. Good luck
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:01 PM
1

Well I’m 52 and I’ve been married twice and had an N of well over 200. But the biggest takeaway is that attraction isn’t a choice. I had to go back to it so I could become successful again with younger women. (I mean 20-30)
/r/seduction21/03/20 12:10 AM
0

It’s not luck, read mystery method at least 3 times and re try. Lockdown should be excellent for that!
/r/seduction20/03/20 10:05 PM
1

I suppose there is that!! So am I! Lol
/r/seduction20/03/20 09:54 PM
1

Don’t waste your time
/r/seduction20/03/20 09:24 PM
27

Honestly mate, if you can’t get to the bang or any intimacy I can’t see it as even being fun and they’re just gonna toy with you for attention. Let the other chumps give them that and focus on yourself - fitness - lifting - Reading - studying game etc...
/r/seduction20/03/20 09:23 PM
5

What’s the point if you can’t get with them? Give it up and work on other areas of improving yourself perhaps.
/r/seduction20/03/20 09:11 PM
1

She hasn’t because she doesn’t want to. If she wanted to she would. Find another girl that does want to.
/r/seduction19/03/20 02:45 PM
2

Theres no point in bothering if you can’t Meetup, so take some time out.
/r/seduction19/03/20 08:47 AM
1

Too much texting and not enough escalation in real life. Get with either of them and make it happen
/r/seduction17/03/20 03:01 PM
1

Yes and you should say no to at least one in your life
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:47 PM
1

Hey- ignore the naysayers on mystery method. It’s on point and if you internalise it’s and the key attraction levers then it works.
/r/seduction11/03/20 09:27 AM
2

Might not be the case she ghosted for that reason. I’m 52 and pulled a 35 yo Japanese mature student on a FNL from a social event. She came back and we were at it all night, then she went and nothing for a month. Nil. Then a month or so later she pings a text out of the blue and comes round for me to “cook”. So I cook for her then we’re in bed again. Rinse and repeat once a month for a year until she goes home to Tokyo and her bf.
/r/seduction10/03/20 05:01 AM
1

Kick it out. You want more and she doesn’t. Find a woman that wants what you do from the relationships
/r/seduction09/03/20 11:07 PM
2

Perhaps he just busted a move and you didn’t. Just ignore it and get the date and proceed as usual
/r/seduction09/03/20 05:24 PM
8

Don’t. Do it face to face when you see her. It might not translate and she’ll think you’ve gone creepy - or at least that’s the risk!
/r/seduction08/03/20 02:37 PM
2

That’s a problem. Even though an older man might want to hang out with a younger woman, one that looks like a child is going to be a no go zone.
/r/seduction06/03/20 05:06 PM
1

You probably will have to do a bit more work because most wont believe they’re in with a shot!
/r/seduction06/03/20 07:34 AM
1

Mystery method
/r/seduction04/03/20 08:57 PM
1

You need to change your life to get proximity- yoga or something
/r/seduction04/03/20 08:47 PM
1

Op has been removed - but complimenting on looks is usually a bad opened. Automatically puts you in a position where you’re qualifying yourself to her
/r/seduction03/03/20 03:32 PM
1

Don’t move on necessarily but follow it up next week. You’ve got other options so don’t sweat it
/r/seduction03/03/20 09:24 AM
1

Ok proximity is the number one IOI. Just think upside down - if they thought you were a creep - they literally couldn’t get away far enough from you. They wouldn’t be in the same room never mind looking in your direction. They probably are looking at you. All you need now is plausible deniability to engage in some small talk.. “did you see my water bottle?” Oh yeah there it is - silly me. So I haven’t seen you here before are you focusing on cardio?
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:30 AM
3

Wait and talk to other girls. Find another that likes you enough to text when she says she will.
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:42 PM
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