| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | If your man isn't supporting your hobbies, it's time to move him along and replace him with a woodworking shop that does.That’s lovely. Everyone would love someone like that, someone adoring, generous and thoughtful. Such a wonderful gift, I bet that’s the least he’s done for her as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 01:50 PM |
| 108 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoYou know what, it’d be interesting to see but just as shocking probably😱🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 540 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmao🤢🤢I can’t deal with this. You don’t bloody clean his bathroom, you leave the bathroom, him and make sure you never step foot on his road if that’s what lurking there. Safety hazard level 1000. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upSo true! Plus, anyone of HV would be able to empathise with us, and at least have some respect for what we are saying and what we stand for. This one can’t even make a valid point, just pushing his opinion onto us like any other lvm🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 10 | but women are the gold diggers 🙄She needs either needs to a. leave or b. leave. Or c. charge him for all her time and money and then leave. She’s already seeing it’s not right, and it really isn’t right. I feel for her, even though my ex lvm was a shit, he still paid for everything we did and never asked me for anything. The first time a man tries to charge me for food that’s for BOTH of us, will be the last🙅🏽♀️And he won’t see any of that food, it’ll be mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upUghhhh, obviously this one can’t spell or empathise well. Oh just go and get your version of a hvf and we’ll go and get our HVM. Now leave us alone.Next please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 7 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡Couldn’t read it all, cringed at most of it. He wasn’t in a relationship, she took him and it became a parent/child relationship. He honestly sounds delusional🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 17 | Her pornsick cheater will send her to an early grave and she's still internalizing all of his abuse...This was painful to read. Honestly the only way for her to get better would be to just leave. It’s hard to leave someone you’ve known for a while but if you leave, a day you’ll feel heartbroken, 1 month a little less but moving on, and 1 year you’ll be living your best life wondering why you went through all that pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 5 | The level of animosity I am feeling right now for this person is indescribable... my blood pressure may never recover.Someone needs to tell him to grow tf up. Cannot believe this, she won’t be in this condition for long and he should be taking care of her while she’s feeling this way?! Just another lvm scrote with an entire worlds worth of audacity. Oh my lord someone put him in the bin, where he belongs🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:34 PM |
| 10 | Blocking and Deleting Closes the Drawbridge to Your CastleI loovveeee the title, closing the drawbridge to my castle, absolutely true💯 It’s always a struggle at first to block and delete. Some find that he might still be interested and that’s they they don’t block and delete but girl, if he was interested, he WOULD be talking to you. If he stops talking, he ain’t worth it. If he talks shit, he’s going to keep talking shit if you keep talking to him. If he is disrespectful, he ain’t going to suddenly stop because you told him he’s being disrespectful. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:37 PM |
| 89 | Let's NOT even think of this, let's normalize not feeling like a victim for buying the love of your life a decent ring and proposing in a good manner, let's normalise that.Ladies please see what not to do, exhibit A above(picture) We do not do this, EVER. Never ever. Ever. But like seriously, whenever I see pictures like this I’m like oh nooo she’s gone to the damn floor, she ain’t ever coming back now. Just no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 19 | This is just sadBreaks my heart, all women go through shit with men, and I can’t even bring myself to call them men because they act like immature boys, they are scrotes. I wish for all us fds ladies to find our forever and hope this gal does too. Better yet, I want her to find fds, level up, and be a queen with all of us! She’s already on the path by dumping her ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 37 | 50/50Don’t have sex if you don’t want to pay then🥴Honestly, he’s making it sound like he doesn’t have a choice but to get a woman pregnant and he can’t wrap it up or not have sex. I can’t stand these men, my god someone shatter their egos please😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:18 AM |
| 4 | He made me cry last nightOh so wholesome, I love these sort of posts, always make me smile! So glad he is taking care of you, especially the way you need it. Makes me hopeful for a man like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Ladies who have gotten the vaccine: Did it mess with your monthly cycle at all?I’ve had both doses of the pzfier? (I can’t spell it gahh!) but my period was fine, maybe a little bit heavier but that’s normal some months! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 06:54 AM |
| 7 | "CoMmUnIcAtE"Has someone told her to run? She needs to leave ASAP. Like now...this is atrocious, I feel for this woman. I felt disgust reading this, at how he treated her and her bleeding after, made my skin crawl. She needs to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 34 | Update: I dumped him!Congratulations! You’re moving onwards and upwards honey! Honestly, the audacity he had is ridiculous. To try and trap you, he obviously severely underestimated you. You’re a courageous and strong Queen who deserves nothing but the best. Welcome to FDS👑❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Cassie - Long Way 2 Go 🎶🎵Absolutely, such a great song, and totally fds worthy!🎶💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Cassie - Long Way 2 Go 🎶🎵Love it❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 6 | Cassie - Long Way 2 Go 🎶🎵💯👏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 5 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡That whole story is just like ??? Why is she doing this to herself? She KNOWS he’s lied, he admitted to it and throughout the days she snooped he kept lying and lying and lying, like? He’s cheating too and probably doing everything else under the sun... So much denial, that’s all she’s doing, denying it all. I feel sorry for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:33 PM |
| 55 | We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏Block & Delete immediately👋👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 12:04 PM |
| 22 | Guys on OLD who write “Message me first” 🤡Omg I despise these bios on OLD. As well as “not on here much, message me on @username for insta/snap” my eyes roll into the back of my skull ughhhh🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 12 | Gross! 🤮I was thinking about this the other day! From another post though not this one (which shows it happens often🤢🤢)It’s actually disgusting men make these sort of jokes after a woman has just gone through IMMENSE pain and he’s going “stitch her up nice and tight” f*ck off. Hope she leaves because I would run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:48 AM |
| 11 | A reminder for the recovering pick-me girls❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 17 | What is your all-time favorite FDS post?Omg my favouriteeeeee ever, badass Queen💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Please tell me I made a right decision to leave my ex.Oh my love, I only read the title and immediately said “yes”. You didn’t deserve this treatment at all. Know that he is absolutely disgusting! He used you and your kindness and that is wrong. I want you to know, you are worthy, and lovely and deserve kindness and happiness. It’s going to be hard because you were with him for a little while but trust me, it’s better than years and years of unhappiness and sadness. Remember your worth, and how precious you are <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:58 PM |
| 14 | I'm relapsing into pickmedom.You’re already realising, that’s the first step. Second step is remember, he is not worth your thoughts, feelings and most importantly, your time. Let him go, he’ll treat the other woman all the same as he did you, and you’re 100% better of without. It will feel horrible at first, like you’re a failure, but it’s NOT you, it is HIM. You are worth it. Your time is precious. Don’t waste your precious time on some who will happily waste it. Remember, you are worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:47 PM |
| 128 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).The sheer audacity of this scrote is out of this world. Reimbursing him? I think a slap will be enough reimbursement. Always block and delete ladies💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Know your worth - "The longer you're on the market, the more people wonder what's wrong with you" "Some properties stay on the market because they're too expensive 🤷🏼♀️"I needed this tonight💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Reminder lovely ladies! Know your worth🌸Omg Yaassssss👑💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:00 PM |
| 11 | Reminder lovely ladies! Know your worth🌸💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:27 PM |
| 11 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.Girl, I am in awe of your badass😂😂 Well done, take no shit and keep it up😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:33 AM |
| 28 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Thank you mods! Much appreciated ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:57 PM |
| 55 | LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATERI am so happy for you! Such a strong woman, and moving onward and upwards. Realised your value and worth, which is 1000% more than what he should've got. Glad you got rid of that joke and are taking back your power! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:41 PM |
| 18 | How many red flags can you spot in this 1 tinder bio? From start to finish, all sorts of wrong, yuck🤮It really is just cringe. I feel sorry for the girls that get sucked in by scrotes like these, thinking his profile is funny/quirky. Yuck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 07:50 PM |
| 15 | How many red flags can you spot in this 1 tinder bio? From start to finish, all sorts of wrong, yuck🤮Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 07:48 PM |
| 26 | How many red flags can you spot in this 1 tinder bio? From start to finish, all sorts of wrong, yuck🤮I always count it as a red flag too! Not only do they lie, but it also sorta makes them seem insecure if they have to put their height, like they have nothing else to give but that if that makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Get Stronger Boundaries - Your Moral Philosophy Will Protect YouThank you for posting this! It was very beneficial and has definitely opened my eyes into finding ways into challenging external boundaries and your internal boundaries/monologue (superego). I think I'll try the exercise he mentions regarding writing down what is good, evil and reality! That seems like a good way to find your own boundaries and challenge yourself and others (in a kind but assertive way) if you feel they don't resonate with your own. Thank you again <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 02:32 PM |
| 34 | The Ten Types of Men on TinderGym Bro Jim😂 so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 11:14 AM |
| 21 | Putting on all your favorite things on a [home] date for a man you just met is a quick route to disappointment - aside from this guy being a nope.I died of laughter at the tantric breathing exercise bit omg😂 Who does that, who is this guy, where did she even find him?! Must've been on a farm lmao. Oh this poor woman, at least she saw through him and his bullshit - hopefully she picks herself up/levels up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:26 PM |
| 8 | Being blocked/ghosted by a LVMI'm new to this FDS so take this lightly and any other girls want to weigh in please do! I think first and foremost definitely talk to your therapist about everything that's happened. There are some underlying issues there that you need to deal with and work on. With regards to this LVM you need to block, forget and move on. You got his stuff, chuck it out, sell it etc. It obviously isn't important to him to come and get it, so bin it, sell it, whatever is best for you. Stop trying to communicat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:04 AM |
| 63 | Unmatched, hard pass, NO!!!"You won't even see her" "She has her own friends too" Ughh he doesn't even stop even after you stated a big fat no. What a desperate creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!Omg lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 21 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!I always ensure to report when I see something like that. It's not funny, it's uncomfortable and worrying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:14 PM |
| 23 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!Isnt it! He thinks he's being funny but its so cringe and disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 23 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!I know right, what an idiot. Done us a favour letting us know what he is though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:07 PM |
| 53 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!Agreed! When I see this type of profile I'm like "Oh dear - Next!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | No does NOT mean try again later!Happens all the time with me on OLD. I can see they have liked me, but either they rejected/stopped talking to me or I wasn't interested in them and they still want to talk, ummm no, that's not how it works! I just swipe left or ignore, no time wasters, on to the next! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, take note.I cannot stand these stupid bios that men come up with! I'm glad they do it so I can swipe left but ugh, makes me go🤮✋! It's like these ones - "I'll probably love my dog more than you haha" or "Don't know why I'm on here" - to the left to the left you go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:05 PM |
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