This is just sad

djburokas · 2021-04-11T16:59:07+00:00

Women really need to stand up and do better for themselves and leave these trash scrotes to die alone.

2021-04-11T18:22:06+00:00

So if you call him your fiancé but he calls himself single...you’re single too, sis.

SnooPickles4103 · 2021-04-11T18:39:40+00:00

Watch him lose his shit if she were to tell men that she’s single. Watch. Men like this are the ultimate hypocrites.

Important_Page_6846 · 2021-04-11T20:05:35+00:00

I hope she aborted the baby as well, we need to normalize women taking control of their bodies.

Lavender_flow · 2021-04-11T19:10:47+00:00

At least she kicked him out. She needs FDS

level_up_always · 2021-04-11T18:45:50+00:00

That’s why you’re singled until you’re married as in like literally... until the ink has dried you’re single sis that’s what your tax return says that’s why you are we need to stop deluding ourselves!! Even being a “fiancé” doesn’t mean much can still leave at any time

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-04-11T20:17:27+00:00

How is this any sort of upgrade from being single?

This is an objective life downgrade from being single

ceramicunicorn · 2021-04-11T18:48:53+00:00

Oh my heart. This poor woman.

Women who think they need their “forever”, they’re in for a long, hard road. Either by the pain of being alone or the pain of accepting poor treatment.

I suppose I’m in the minority here, in that I do believe most men (enough to go around for women who are equally committed to being high value, anyway) can collectively improve as partners if women collectively demand it (as I’ve seen done via pressures on our legislature, as a union member putting the heat on management, etc.), but it’s going to take a long time.

I feel like we’ve mostly moved out of the mockery/dismissive stage- that’s progress!- and are just seeing the anger/retaliation stage starting to whip up as women are waking up and demanding that even being “neutral” isn’t enough from their partners, they must be vocally pro-feminist, or they will be left behind.

As we’ve seen historically, this stage where the group is fought against is the hardest...and draws out the longest...depending on how well the group works together and shares the values of gaining respect as a whole. There are still many women under that patriarchal thumb, so this work could take decades.

That means that for those committed to high standards, who still feel the pull, it’s going to be tough. I know that for many women, nothing can replace a man, but I am hoping that we can fill each other’s lives with enough support and encouragement (as much as emotional bandwidth allows- I know pickmeism can be so exhausting), to where we can delay gratification for a better pool of men who understand we are not fucking around here. And if it never happens in our lifetime, to take comfort in that we are creating better futures for young girls, by setting standards for them to look up to.

IllusionOfColours · 2021-04-11T20:18:01+00:00

Breaks my heart, all women go through shit with men, and I can’t even bring myself to call them men because they act like immature boys, they are scrotes. I wish for all us fds ladies to find our forever and hope this gal does too. Better yet, I want her to find fds, level up, and be a queen with all of us! She’s already on the path by dumping her ex.

sybildb · 2021-04-11T21:23:13+00:00

She should’ve tried communicating with him more, maybe he’s depressed. /s

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-04-11T20:52:47+00:00

I wonder how much he spent on her engagement ring, or if she even received one? I’ve seen men shitting on them recently but I think we all know that men put their finances toward things that they value. I’d be surprised if she received a ring comparable to 3-6 months of his take home if he’s going around calling himself single.

RecordingImportant94 · 2021-04-11T22:38:15+00:00

The more women can realise there is no such thing as 'forever' the better.

Especially no 'forever' with men.

Saitschik · 2021-04-11T22:37:22+00:00

That smells like breaking mom. So I suppose she had the baby of this loser and flushed her life down the toilet for a man who's thirsty and creepy on instagram. Let that sink in.

GreatOrchidAmbition · 2021-04-11T20:57:05+00:00

wait what am i even reading?????? this is just atrocious. 😕

Technical_Moth248 · 2021-04-11T20:25:09+00:00

I want to hug her, it sounds like she probably doesn't have any supportive family or friends :( I'm glad she left at least.

sveji- · 2021-04-12T16:32:29+00:00

It was nice reading that "ex fiancé" at the end

Title	This is just sad
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	518
Comments	52
Date	April 11, 2021 4:52 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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