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Story time ☕MadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:52 PM
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RANTMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:39 AM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:41 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:47 AM
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RANTMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:51 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:26 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:03 AM
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Mama SaidMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:06 PM
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#KickHimOut2020MadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:16 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:29 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:51 PM
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 REDDIT HATES WOMENMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:01 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:30 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEMadamLeFay/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:34 AM
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I was hit on at the gas station by a kid (20 yrs. old?) working there. I was hot, my antibiotic was giving me gas pain, my messy bun was crooked and I was dealing with personal shit and had no patience left. He started asking questions like, "just getting off work?", "what do you do?", "oh so it's an easy job?" and all I did was grunt at him, I didn't even engage and he didn't take the hint. I'm shoving my debit card into the machine to pay for my stuff and he's just standing there, stupidly, st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:43 PM
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I bought myself a new vehicle for my birthday- any man gonna top that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:47 PM
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The bus, y'all... she'd have to take the bus... Pray for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:29 PM
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I just posted about him being 5'4" before I read the comments! I think we must have the Height Judging Super Power!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:39 PM
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Please, I beg you, don't eat anything he "makes" for you. In fact, don't accept any gifts. Throw them away if you feel you can't refuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 01:57 PM
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My ex-husband couldn't spell my maiden name and we were married for at least 5 years before I found out he didn't know the color of my eyes. He thought they were brown. They are light gray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:56 PM
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Bag Bacon 💀 Eating his mother 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:58 PM
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Thanks!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 12:56 PM
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Just ignore them and block the numbers. They want a reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:33 PM
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Why am I more freaked out over the fact that he brought over two slices of bacon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:15 PM
105

True crime got me giving out fake names so I can't be stalked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:14 PM
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Nope! Fully omnivore with a side of Celiac disease... and I happen to love carrots!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:12 PM
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Men are faking stupidity. I use Instacart for my groceries and whenever I have a male shopper, I watch that dude haul ass all over the store and he can find everything, including my weird organic, gluten-free stuff. These dudes get my groceries shopped in under 60 seconds, like they're playing Grand Theft Auto or something. All I can picture is the guy knocking over children and shopping carts while clutching my carrots closely as he races to the register. Anyone who needs this much "help" doesn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:46 PM
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I haven't dated in 5 years. His math is very wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:12 PM
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Not that I'd have answered him but: "Would you say you're needy?" "If you think "that's a lot", would you say you're lazy?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:01 PM
28

I would like to tell her, "Whatever your son does to my daughter, I will do to him", but that sounds nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:06 PM
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When I read "baby dick", "ED dick" and "two pinkies", I feel compelled to ask: Was his name Mike, by any chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:22 PM
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I installed some media equipment in the middle/high school and also had to drive a new school bus up there for some reason that I can't remember. Driving from the Springfield area, you feel like you've gone into Canada when you go up that way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:28 PM
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I just want to chime in that I have heard of and have been to Ashburnham for work. I am from western MA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 06:13 PM
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Thinking back to guys who acted like this creeper, they didn't approach me because: 1) They weren't single 2) They had erectile dysfunction 3) They had some deep, dark creepy shit going on in their lives that you wouldn't want to touch with a stolen hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:09 PM
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I'm actually capable of eating at least 450g of dead cow, but they end up drinking more money in craft beer... anyway, I'm not paying for shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:54 PM
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(sniffles) "But the doctors have taken out my uterus!" (collapses into a heap of sobs).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:22 PM
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I must look good for my age because when I was 45 years old, a customer asked if I had kids. I told her I didn't. She suddenly got a sympathetic, almost tearful look in her eye, grabbed my hand, patted it and said, "Don't worry- you still have time!". First: I DON'T WANT KIDS! Second: I was 45 and starting perimenopausal symptoms. Third: Why was she wishing that shit on me??? What if I couldn't conceive? Did she ever think of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:18 PM
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A ring that is made of his smegma and a dingleberry...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:51 PM
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I have something better. How about: "If a woman says, 'NO!', then don't rpe her"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:28 PM
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And as a grand finale, I would've urinated on the ashes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:50 PM
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A former friend had incontinence during sex due to childbirth. Her boyfriend was convinced she was squirting. I quietly chuckled to myself thinking, "Dude, it's pee." I was also grossed out that he brought that up with me, but of course he was being all braggy about his sexual prowess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:03 PM
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Yeah. In other words, "Your poor planning by not having a stockpile of tampons is your fault! How dare you get a sinus infection that rendered you unable to walk, let alone drive a car to the nearest Walgreens! I should not have to buy these icky, girly things for you and I will never do it again!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:32 PM
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Thanks for the review! This is in my reading queue and I look forward to reading it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:53 PM
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One time I had a really bad sinus infection and my period at the same time. Just sitting up made me dizzy. I had to BEG, seriously BEG my husband (now ex-husband, thankfully) to go to the store for tampons. BEG, I tell you. So there we were, arguing while I'm doubled-over with cramps and my head was pounding and we're yelling at each other over a freaking box of tampons! To top it off, he was going to the store, anyway!!! He did end up getting the tampons, but naturally he got the wrong absorben…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:49 PM
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"Kink Health"??? That's a place on the Internet? What the fuq??? NO SUCH THING! There is NOTHING healthy about that shit!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:44 PM
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Ewww....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:34 PM
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Funny how their Inner Demons cause them to cheat, but it never causes them to kick another man in the nuts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:31 PM
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"You'll be alone forever." Gawd, I hope so! Or at least until I find a man who can act like a damn adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:21 PM
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The former UPS driver at work made comments about what I ate and how much I ate! Back then, I was still too nice/ timid to nip that shit in the bud. He finally said, "every time I come in here, you are always eating!". I replied, "Then stop coming in everyday at lunchtime!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:12 PM
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"He used it as a way to completely separate and detach from his emotions and our relationship even more than he naturally did"- you have just explained my ex-husband's behavior. He was "faux-Buddhist" as a way to seem deep, introspective and calm, when in reality he was a shallow, selfish turd who was full of rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:03 PM
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I ended (2) 20+ year friendships a few years ago and boy oh boy, has it been liberating! I realized I not only outgrew them, but they were using me, which is why they hung around me for so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:58 PM
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What We Do in the Shadows is one of my favorite shows! I can't wait until next season!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:56 PM
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As a professional driver (CDL-B, air brakes, passenger & school bus endorsements), I cannot stress this enough. Men who drive like that are selfish, irresponsible and dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:24 PM
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Howdy neighbor!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:18 PM
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That Fat Tony dressed in stylish mafia suits. The Fat Tony Neighbor wears swim trunks and waddles around topless all summer. His man bewbs slide into his pits. My friends all want a picture because, well, it's a sight to behold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:06 PM
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Umm, ladies- That dude looks EXACTLY like the guy who lives across the street from me. I'm not kidding. I can't stop looking at the pic. He is identical to "Fat Tony". "Fat Tony" is a much better name for him than his real name. If so, he's married, his wife works and he is home all day. He prances around outside topless. If you tell me he is in Connecticut, I'm gonna squeal right here at my desk...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:21 PM
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And don't forget the Mr. Burns liver spots and three hairs sprouting up from his otherwise bald head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:43 PM
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My mother was a psycho, too. I wasn't safe at home and I wasn't safe at school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:19 PM
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If you could see the face I'm making right now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:36 PM
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In second grade, I was forced to sit next to the worst kid in class (in the back of the room, at that) because I was so quiet and well-behaved. This asshole kid was constantly bothering me, making weird noises, hitting me, poking me, pinching me, etc. Why was I so quiet and well-behaved? Because I was terrified of everyone and never spoke up, so I had to endure this kid's abuse. A few months ago, he was on the news for murder. He was 47 years old. THEY DON'T FUCKING CHANGE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:31 PM
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Vans... and mans, but mans in vans are not a good combo. Vans have side doors that slide open and swoop you inside. You never know who/what is in the van.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:42 PM
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He did this because he was a jealous little bitch. He did this on her special day because he knew it would take the attention off her promotion and onto him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:40 PM
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I'm sorry your mom dismissed you like that. You can never be too careful. It doesn't matter what time of day it is or what kind of town you're in. NEVER TRUST VANS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:12 PM
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What a man! What a hero! He has now created a standard that all men would be hard-pressed to reach! What a bunch of crap. My first thought was, "I ain't eating food a stranger hands me, wtf???". My second thought was, "Dude wouldn't even have got out the first sentence because I would have slayed him where he stood with my resting bitch face and Banshee scream." Get away from my bench, Nugget Boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:01 PM
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It makes you want to douche with bleach and get an STD test everyday for the next ten years. Then you get to go through every memory you had of him, supposed "good times" together and wonder if all those times he was actually cheating on you while you passed him the Easter ham..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:38 PM
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Phrases I'm going to try: "What's up, saggy nuts?" "What's up, midget dick?" I will report back...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:17 PM
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My ex-husband didn't consider blow jobs cheating. Unfortunately, I did not know this until the end of our marriage when he finally admitted to blow jobs and still denied "cheating". And I quote, "It was just a blow job, it's not like I cheated!"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:57 PM
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He says it was a "joke", but doesn't explain why it was supposed to be funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:46 PM
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Ignorantly aware???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:38 PM
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Am I the only one dry heaving over here? If men, on average, only change their sheets every three months at best, then they really aren't changing their underwear, are they? Guess this will be a new vetting question, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 05:36 PM
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Looking back over the years, I have never been trash-talked or insulted about my appearance by an attractive man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 04:54 PM
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What in the Confederate Hillbilly Hell is that??? Yikes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:15 PM
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If this guy is so stupid that he doesn't even know that whole ass frozen meals exist, he deserves to starve! What a waste of oxygen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:39 PM
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I just did a Google Image search and it seems this pic is very popular on Pinterest...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:54 PM
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He is "on a break"? On a break from what? I bet his wife does every fucking thing! I wish his wife would "take a break". He'd lose his shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:32 PM
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Holy shit! ALL of the above happened when I was dating/ married to my ex-husband. Ugh. I knew it was all wrong and made me uncomfortable, but I kept getting told by "friends" that that was what a "normal relationship" looked like! Bullshit!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:33 PM
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Not only are men not funny, their "humor" and "jokes" are usually copied from movies, tv shows and social media. Their humor is not original.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:26 PM
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Because they can fake everything else, even only temporarily, except for their height.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:05 PM
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Ouch. What a scumbag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:48 PM
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I'm actually glad now because he was a loser, but dang it hurt at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:47 PM
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...or he's gonna dump you by ghosting and you'll find out he married his ex. Ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:15 PM
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Modern and empowering my ass!!! When I was in my early 20's, I asked two guys out. I got stood up twice. I never did it again. I didn't want to in the first place, but my pickme friends convinced me it was a GREAT idea! I felt desperate. I felt like a loser. It was awful. Also, don't throw yourself at guys, either. Show interest and if he doesn't respond, back off and go on your way. I cringe at my younger self. I blame the media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:14 PM
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To quote Rick James, "Cocaine is a helluva drug"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:21 PM
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Ehh, he's just throwing words at the wall to see what sticks...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:21 PM
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His wife has a baby, he leaves town for "work" and only calls every few days? Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:38 PM
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He's love-bombing you, you're a rebound and he'll always be comparing you to her. If he's telling you you're out of his league, believe him. When you write that there are many more green flags than red flags, that worries me. ONE red flag is a reason to bail. You don't need to collect 'em all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:57 PM
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They like hanging out with women because they don't have to compete with men for our attention. They know they couldn't hold their own in a mixed company group, so they weasle into a women's group to be "the cool boy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:33 PM
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I'm 48 and those guys look mid-60's to me. Maybe when I'm in my 80's I'll find them attractive. They do look clean, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:16 PM
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You'll be going into this knowing the guy has health problems and could have many, many more. I'm 48 and I'm not signing up to be anyone's nurse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 04:16 PM
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They are trying to sell you their little man because no one else wants him. If he was so great, they would not need to try so hard to pressure you. Also, short men are very angry men. He's "polite" now because he has to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:58 PM
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Shit, if I was her I'd have been sleeping with one eye open for the past 26 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 08:58 PM
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Yep, just come right out and ask him for one and also stipulate that he must be holding up today's newspaper with the date clearly visible so you know it's recent. Otherwise, Mr. Quarantine Eighty will just use an old full-body pic. If he puts up a fuss, tell him you don't want to be catfished by FaTtIes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:37 PM
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In my state, you are able to get 50% of his 401k earnings that were contributed during the marriage... I think you have to be married for about 6-8 years, I can't remember how long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:56 AM
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Is this for real?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:35 AM
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I never thought I'd see the day when I'd type, "well I guess it's better than a random dick pic".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 06:23 PM
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That shaded out girl in the pic is probably his live-in girlfriend and he only contacted you after 11pm because that's when she went to bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:36 PM
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Please accept my Internet Standing Ovation!!! I am tired of seeing TikTok videos of 18 year olds being pickmes. We get it. They're out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:58 PM
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You accurately described my ex-husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:40 PM
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"How dare you not let me abuse you any more!!!" You are doing great!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 05:10 PM
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I saw that post earlier and my first thought was that she had to bribe him with money like he was a 12 year old boy, just to get him to clean up his accumulation of shit. I can't believe over 200 people upvoted it, but then again, I can. I love this sub. It's a warm, safe, cozy world of common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 10:48 PM
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I bet the husband wrote this because he wants to have a second wife. He will show this post to his current wife as "evidence" that it is a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 09:34 PM
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I don't date guys with kids because I don't want to get suckered into "babysitting", getting put last and now discovering these scote-dads would steal my bacon...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:01 PM
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Anyone who takes food off my plate (unless it's a cat), gets stabbed with a fork. You have been warned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:54 PM
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It's that whole attitude of "I may be a turd, but that guy over there is an even bigger turd!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:35 PM
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If this is real, this is going to end badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:45 PM
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Why do I get the feeling Guy #1 was not sick and never had any intention of paying for an actual dinner? I get the feeling he was using this as a quick meet & greet to see if he was interested without spending money. He faked being sick so he wouldn't have his bluff called and have to pay for two nice dinners. You passed the "test" and that's why he contacted you again later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:50 PM
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The thing I was married to remarried and had a Beauty and the Beast-themed wedding. I kid you the fuck not. Complete with The Beast mask. He was over 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:28 PM
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He looks like those creepy, scrawny dudes who repair cars in their backyards in exchange for meth and crack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:21 PM
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The nipple pinching is just too fucking real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:48 PM
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It makes them hypersexual. If he was on meth, he could actually have the high sex drive she brags about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:00 PM
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If this is true, the guy is on meth. That's the only thing that makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:40 PM
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I was in the height of my teen pick-me years, so happy anyone wanted to date me. Luckily, my family did not see his balls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:08 PM
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And note the text at 3:15 a.m.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:27 PM
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When I was in my late teens and living at home, a guy showed up at my door to pick me up wearing ripped jeans. His balls were hanging out. His. Balls. Were. Hanging. Out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:54 PM
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Just getting ready for the date alone is more money and effort than most men put in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:27 PM
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I don't think guys like that suddenly turn into pervy skankballs. They've always been like that. Maybe they hid it better when they were younger or because they were younger, it was less obvious. You can't tell me that dude never cheated on his wife. I don't buy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:32 PM
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No one named after a biblical character or a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:19 PM
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This guy got married around 23, right? So that's the age he thinks he still is in his mind. He's in for a (really freaking hilarious) rude awakening. Hopefully, after one glimpse of his saggy, wrinkled, old man balls, this young lady is going to come to her senses. But I seriously doubt this woman even thinks of him in that way, if at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:07 PM
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Another thing people don't consider is even if you were married, the husband could die before you and you'd still end up alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:46 PM
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Why is it that the woman always has to lose a shit ton of money and be inconvenienced and the man does not???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:47 PM
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Considering how most women are very polite and considerate, it really makes you wonder how fucked up this guy is for a woman to just ghost on him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:32 PM
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Every time I think I might be ready to put my toe back in the dating pool, I read something like this and decide to just buy some cheese puffs and watch reruns of The Golden Girls and Intervention with my cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:47 PM
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As a 48 year old women, I can vouch for this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:44 PM
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We need this story! Please tell this story!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:07 PM
105

Why waste time and energy by responding? Most of them want attention. They don't care if it's positive, negative or neutral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 05:23 PM
5

She sounds like my conscience... it makes sense now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:55 PM
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I either get that feeling of familiarity "oh, he's an alcoholic. I got this", or I get intrigued to see if I'm right about how dark they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:50 PM
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I'm able to profile someone so well that by the time I'm done, I've found out so much crap, I've lost interest. I understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:25 PM
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Is anyone besides me going to pronounce "embarrassing" in a totally new way now??? And that background music cracked me up for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:21 PM
289

What is he, like 14 years old? Who the eff masturbates at work? At work???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:11 PM
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I got three paragraphs into this when I realized it was a joke... I was like, "went to go pee in the what now? Oh, she's not serious! Lemme take my finger off this 'report' button' then."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:39 PM
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And don't forget to put your education, career and dreams on hold so you can build with him and then play nurse to an elderly man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:37 PM
11

He had no intention of taking you out to dinner/ making reservations. His "plan" was a $3 food court all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:05 PM
12

Am I missing something here? Why doesn't the stepdaughter & grandchild move into the camper? Why does she have to "hide out" in a camper while those two run her house???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:19 PM
5

I'm glad you asked because I was about to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:27 PM
7

Well do you think if he doesn't have any teeth, he could afford to pay for her meal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:18 PM
14

Oh now I feel bad. I didn't realize she bought him the car. She shouldn't have destroyed it. She should have taken it back and made him walk home without his pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:15 PM
32

No, honey! You can do much better than a dude with a Toyota!!! Meanwhile, dude is probably upstairs bonking a hooker, totally clueless that this is going on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:26 PM
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She is telling him he looks better with hair covering 2/3 of his face. He is taking this as a compliment. This tickles me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:07 PM
16

May I ask what you're listening to now? I'm in the middle of cleansing and upgrading my musical palate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:01 PM
77

Ugly men are just ugly. That is all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:00 PM
105

I thought the boxing gloves were for us to punch the guy in the balls as hard as we can?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:22 PM
162

I just scrolled through the list and realized I liked nothing on the menu. I'll go back to my regular life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:15 PM
20

I haven't had a date since I got sober... hmmm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:43 PM
37

Weed gave me anxiety. I had undiagnosed ADHD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:42 PM
7

Too much work. I'll stay single and use all that extra time I'd spend training him on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:34 PM
40

Me: Why do you love me? EX-husband: I love your silly ways Just what in the actually fuq????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:01 PM
7

The last straw for me at AA was finding out the King of All Scrotes was high on belladonna when he wrote the B.B. and cheated on his wife constantly and left all his money to his mistress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:12 PM
17

I am very "anti-AA" because it did me an enormous amount of harm when I was first getting sober. It is very emotionally abusive and destructive to women, placing the blame of everything on us. If we all accepted reality "as is", no one would ever try to change anything for the better. No one would every grow as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:34 PM
93

One time, some total stranger commented on my weight. I told them I was pregnant. Then I looked at them and asked, "what's your excuse for being fat?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:32 PM
126

I have added 10-20 years to my real age. Try it, it's fun! They totally freak out! Or, when they guess, then add the 10-15 years if they are guessing high (they do that to be insulting). So if you are 30 and they say you look 35, tell them you just turned 50 and watch them fall over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:31 PM
36

"He couldn't control himself"- does that hold up in court after he murders her???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:57 PM
435

And she's still not going to get those things, either...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:24 PM
78

And if he didn't pay for anything, she'd be a free prostitute then???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:38 PM
15

I work with all men, so this is going to be my new hobby for the time being!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:59 PM
31

So "girls his age" don't know what they want. Does this mean he knows what he wants? If so, does he have "it", whatever "it" is yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:38 PM
7

This is the best version of him that you're going to get. He sounds crusty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:10 PM
27

and there aren't many of those, either...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:35 PM
210

The only problem with bleeding all over everything is that she'll be expected to clean it all up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:35 PM
228

Saying, "hurry up and get off me" three times is not an orgasm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:56 PM
26

I used to say that back when I was a Cool Girl Who Was Not Like Other Girls... oy vey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:35 PM
54

These cards keep getting bigger and bigger... it's looking like a demented trip through Candy Land now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:32 PM
8

It seems that the only problems men have is women, so maybe they should leave us alone. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:30 PM
22

My brain kept chanting, "armpits? armpits? ARMPITS?" the entire time... Considering it's eleven thousand degrees outside right now, I am dry-heaving thinking about this. And you know you've been desensitized when you say to yourself, "well at least he didn't choke her".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:01 PM
355

and notice the dude she is with did absolutely nothing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:07 PM
1

"Umm, Fred, I've been meaning to talk to you about the noises we've been hearing coming from your place. It sounds like you're trying to take a shit in your garage and it's coming out sideways. Are your feces impacted, bro? "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:02 PM
4

Does anyone else want to interviews the neighbors, or is it just me???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:47 PM
5

You just summed up my entire former marriage in one paragraph.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:46 PM
2

I never thought of it like that before, but this makes so much damn sense. I had a friend who's boyfriend claimed to have had "over 100 women" and I couldn't understand how, because he was a hideously ugly crackhead. Now I understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:25 PM
97

He's crying for himself, not for losing her or their relationship. Now the poor thing has to find someone new to string along for years...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:41 PM
11

I like how they always have entire conversations with themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:11 PM
197

He's lucky he didn't marry into my family- someone would've punched him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:27 PM
102

But notice that if men are into spirituality, they usually have a harem of women hanging on their every word because they are so "deep"... barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:07 PM
14

My ex-husband always talked highly of his mother and sister. Turns out, he was afraid of his mother, resented his sister and basically hates women. Men know how to act like they respect women until they let it slip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:58 PM
53

Sounds like he should learn to give a compliment instead of saying whatever that was... Wonder what he'd say if you responded with, "thanks, Musty Balls"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:50 PM
120

He's only 51? I'm 48 and he's way too old-looking for me. Wow. He looks like a moldy potato.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:45 PM
82

He doesn't seem to understand that he hit the wall right after he was shot out of the birth canal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:19 PM
19

My life is so much better now without him!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:17 PM
104

I forgot to add that after my marriage ended, I always got the feeling he was using me for "practice" for the next one. When I uncovered his "final act of cheating", he immediately made public his affair with someone over 10 years younger than him who was also married with a kid and married her as soon as the ink dried on our divorce papers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:14 PM
392

It doesn't matter if they want to marry you or not. You have to question why they want to marry you. My ex-husband hid his porn addiction (until he couldn't), secretly cheated constantly (until it was discovered) and little by little, used me to be his mommy, secretary, cook, housekeeper, cheerleader, therapist and tried to turn me into his very own pornstar (that failed miserably, by the way). I have reached the point where if someone wants to marry you, that doesn't really mean shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:12 PM
3

I did last week. Now I am convinced it was the right decision!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:05 PM
172

I think I have officially gone WGTOW...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:44 PM
129

Imagine your child seeing this turd in that shirt asking, "Mommy, what does that man's shirt mean?". Totally crude, inappropriate and classless. I wonder if he wears that to his family's house for xmas dinner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:44 PM
169

Could it be because UNICEF is full of pedophiles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:00 PM
143

Men are lying liars who lie. Treat all men like STD Super Spreaders until proven otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:35 PM
15

I came here to ask the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:12 PM
62

My first thought was, "so his mother can steal the child???". I hate how this is how I have to think. Always side-eyeing the shit out of people, all day long...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:48 PM
17

If they were secure in their masculinity in the first place, they wouldn't care...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:46 PM
78

We just need to start saying things like, "That bastard is crazy, he must be on his period, that's what happens when you give men the right to vote, he needs a woman to put him in his place, if that were my man, I'd beat his ass..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:41 PM
283

Cheerleader needs to have it's own slice on that pie chart. They all need endless, adjective-filled praise for every. effing. thing. they. do. Then they ask you ten more times after you've already complimented them/ boosted their egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:38 PM
3

Won't it be the same in some kind of round mold? Or square one???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:08 PM
17

Well, they rarely wash their hands, so their filthy hands touch their filthy dicks and it's all downhill from there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:07 PM
9

Or when they name their pp.... or when they keep calling that damn thing a "he"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:04 PM
57

Same. FDS has explained all the behavior of my exes. I didn't realize how trusting/naive I was. In most cases, I had no clue this crap existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:16 PM
42

OMG, I am going to use that line the next time one of them rambles on about their pp!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:07 PM
15

...and as an afterthought, why do hot dogs look like penises? Even Oscar Mayer was obsessed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:49 PM
62

Funny how the "love language" all my exes had was "Selfishness"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:11 PM
24

He'll have a new victim by the end of this holiday weekend. Count on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:09 PM
762

"...he has never done anything to make me doubt him..." Because this is the first time he's been caught. If she or her sister never found out, she'd still be convinced she had no reason to doubt him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:44 PM
149

What a twerpy, impotent-looking little weenie of a manchild... Notice she's barely Mrs. Legoman for 10 minutes and she's already drinking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:28 PM
77

They ended up losing everything due to the father's shady financial dealings- the family had to go from being filthy rich to below-poverty level overnight and they divorced. They remarried a few years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:25 PM
144

As far as I know, he didn't lose any teeth over it. He was actually bonking their maid. She had come from a very wealthy family and they had a maid at the time. Imagine that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:56 PM
193

I want to say it was gonorrhea. That sounds right. She went years without getting checked out. There was also an issue with her spine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:34 PM
460

In high school, I had a friend who's mother lost all her teeth and ended up with a lot of health issues due to an undetected STD from the father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:22 PM
86

That is genius! And unfortunately, accurate...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:21 PM
9

GAH! WHAT IN THE HILLBILLY HELL??? He looks like a wife-beating white supremacist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:44 PM
90

The only kink that shouldn't be shamed is the kink of kink shaming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:56 PM
28

Oy vey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:35 PM
27

As if men are actually insecure! Puh-leeze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:03 PM
29

I believe it did earlier in the week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:38 PM
408

I wonder if she knows they're in an open relationship? Anyhoo, he does he think he's gonna get? From the mouth down, he looks like my junior high science teacher...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:29 PM
60

"We need to normalize men wearing tight dresses for each other so that they will leave us the fuck alone." I love you, OP. That just made my whole damn life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:20 PM
34

Why can't he just stay home and play with his own boobs and leave women alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:29 AM
39

What a pompous ass. He'd be embarrassing to be around. Also, why does it look like he has boobs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:50 PM
60

There is no amount of alcohol that would make him look good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 07:42 PM
41

I came here to comment and realized all I can do is shake my head...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:56 PM
7

My ex-husband did all of the above AND he was cheating...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:15 PM
26

Same here. I think it's harder in your 40s, especially when you don't have spouses/kids in common. My workplace is male dominated and I wouldn't be friends with any of those men if you paid me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:57 PM
16

I always thought something was wrong with me for barely, rarely finding a man attractive. I could never understand how some girls/ women went from guy to guy to guy when these guys were all fugly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:37 PM
13

I'm straight and I don't find men attractive...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:36 PM
13

And he also looks thrilled to be there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:47 PM
44

As pathetic as their attempt is, at least they smelled good. Post-covid, the dudes around here seem to have forgotten that being maskless means we can smell them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:34 PM
61

My father died when I was 2 years old and my mother never remarried. All of my exes used the lack of a father in my life to treat me like absolute garbage and also make me feel bad about myself. My ex-husband actually said, "the reason you are the way you are is because your father died and I grew up with two parents who raised me right!". This was said during an argument where I was trying to explain that cheating was wrong and I was tired of doing everything to keep the marriage afloat. He was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:11 PM
26

Decades ago, I had a boyfriend who spoiled the crap out of me. He was controlling and I ended things when it seemed like it was going to escalate to physical abuse. I was married to a piece of shit who spoiled me as well. Turns out he cheated on me with anything with a hole, the entire time we were together. Sometimes this "spoiling" stuff is just a cover because they're trying to hide something or they're trying to buy your silence. Spoil yourself and that way, you get exactly what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:43 PM
4

Please tell me you're taking the dog, too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:22 PM
7

If it's any consolation, I think that was the sub that banned me for "triggering" someone's special sensitivities or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:43 PM
24

So this is how it starts...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:08 PM
85

I instinctively knew this in my teens and 20's, but instead listened to the opinions of my friends, family, neighbors, co-workers and the cashiers at the grocery store. "He's a guy, all guys go to strip clubs". No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:00 PM
91

I don't see how being anti-vax and not being on birth control is a sign of 'pick me' behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:12 PM
37

Hygiene = Scrote Repellant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:02 PM
5

Could you elaborate on this? What does this style look like? I think you might be solving a problem of mine...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:22 PM
93

One has finally married his forever girlfriend of 20 years. He has gained 200 pounds. No lie. One ended up marrying Baby Mama #2 after being apart for almost 20 years. He needed a place to live. I only found out this stuff by accident. I don't care what any of them are doing now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:57 PM
36

The last time I confronted a neighbor, it turned out she was involved in human trafficking and had her pimp try to make my life a living Hell. Don't ever underestimate someone's mental instability or connections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:28 PM
30

Not to leave out the announcement on the bulletin board in the breakroom of her company. They're sick of listening to her bitching about him and overhearing her arguing with him on the phone all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:40 PM
41

I almost spat out my Oreo...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 05:43 PM
15

And I'm sitting here on my couch, basking in my home's lavender vanilla aroma, grateful that I'm single...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:38 PM
3

Well, she got what she paid for...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:17 PM
13

I had a friend (and I stress "had") who's crackhead boyfriend claimed to have had over 100 women. She thought this was- like something to brag about- ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:53 PM
22

and that the breast milk that was meant to feed her child is getting shipped off to some perv???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:40 PM
7

When I found out my ex-husband cheated on me, this is what he said: "I don't need to get tested! She looked clean!!!" And that is the epitome of scrotedom...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:31 PM
8

My gawd, they're in matching wife beaters... I just can't...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:19 PM
46

Is anyone else disturbed that it's ketchup? As in, he's pretending to fuck a murder scene? And I third the small dick comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:38 PM
27

You just made me remember how much I hated watching movies/ tv with my ex-husband. It was all that stoner-bro-dude-stupid men-toilet humor-garbage. To this day, I cannot go anywhere near South Park/ Family Guy/ Adam Sandler stuff. Edit to add: And I was forced to watch The Big Lebowski and it sucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:24 PM
11

I love this term!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:56 PM
61

I personally like "eunich" and "micropeen"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:45 PM
83

My ex-husband had every.single.sign. Every.Single.Sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:39 PM
250

Actually, their life gets easier- they get their food bought & cooked, their house cleaned, their laundry done, their appointments made, reminded of their schedule and a warm, wet hole in their bed every night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:16 PM
3

Even if this guy was suicidal, he needs the help of a professional, not an ex-girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:32 PM
22

This was my cat during lockdown! And he's never once missed the litterboxes- not once!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:52 PM
4

This is what I came here for...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:46 PM
31

My neighbor across the street is in his mid-thirties and I eyeball his chest to be a 54G. He struts around topless all summer and I swear I don't understand why there isn't a law against that shit. I don't want to see those bouncing man-tiddies every time I look out the window.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:44 PM
2

Let's look at where it originated (in modern culture): It's a "prison thing" that made men other men's bitches. That's why only a rare few of them want to be pegged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:35 PM
2

I'm a middle-aged woman with refined taste... bring on the hot young men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:11 PM
1

Cesaro! Hell yeah!!! I actually saw him at a gas station once... long story, but I was so stunned (once I figured out it was him), that I missed a shot at him- he was totally checking me out and I just stood there, drooling... he's tall as fuck and fine as Hell in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:11 PM
79

As a wrestling fan, may I nominate Roman Reigns and Drew McIntyre? Can I suggest "Man Meat Monday"??? (I'll show myself out!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:55 PM
74

You're dropping nothing but pure FACTS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:41 PM
4

oh, barf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:48 PM
37

Could someone tell her he calls every woman he's messaging "babe" so that he doesn't get the names confused?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:35 PM
17

Say what now? (runs off to Google) Dear gawd... men are designed to kill us...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:45 PM
110

Absolutely. In fact, she just had another home health aide quit this morning. The girl claimed my mother yelled at her and it scared her and she felt threatened. My mother denies all of this. She weaved a pretty good lie of denial to the home health aide agency, too... she's 87
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:34 PM
160

I can empathize- this was my mother...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:26 PM
118

I just wanted to swoop in there, kick his nuts up into his tonsils and bring her somewhere safe!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:06 PM
42

Louder for the scrotes who are lurking here!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:22 PM
46

Yup, I don't want some dudes dick that's been in someone else's ass (probably a male because men who want anal are usually gay or bi) to go into me. He's "ruined" in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:07 PM
28

What a lot of women don't realize is they already ARE doing this alone... just with a lot more housework, laundry and bills...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:01 PM
13

I like your version of the bible better... I'd definitely read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:08 AM
41

If he was up since 3:45 am, that's his big boy problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:58 PM
261

Why can't you just drop it?!?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:33 PM
249

Don't do it! I beg you! When I got married, I had to drag my marriage license around with me to change my name with social security & get a new card, then bring it to the RMV to get my license changed, then change my name on everything like car loan, lease, etc. When I got divorced, I had to go through it all over again to change it back. It seriously implies "ownership".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:08 PM
9

I'm dandy! I refuse to allow any drug users/ drinkers into my home. I don't want that energy around me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:55 PM
29

My ex-husband was a pot head. He stunk and was absolutely useless, especially if I had to discuss anything with him. I can't deal with an addict. It's like talking to a martian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:58 PM
63

It's always supposedly "empowering" to take clothes off... why isn't it "empowering" to keep clothes on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:48 PM
18

I just turned 48 and was convinced there was something wrong with me because 99.99999% of the men I've encountered in my life have looked like steaming piles of shit. Most men my age look 20 years older than me. I don't want to be seen with an old-looking fart. I have come to the conclusion that I'm only attracted to men in their 20's and since even that idea is creepy to me, I'll just continue to stay single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:33 PM
39

This is a whole new level of disgusting and terrifying that I never knew existed. Can you imagine if women went up to passed out homeless dudes, boyfriends, brothers, etc. and poked at them? Oh wait- we don't do sick sh*t like that. Just WTF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:15 PM
21

Hair transplants, dick enlargements, ball reduction, waxing, exfoliating, deodorizing, beer gut tucks, ass lifting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:48 PM
34

Coming from a guy with more hair on his face than on his head...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:14 PM
27

Think of it this way: at least she wasn't out too much money when both marriages ended!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:42 PM
58

A former friend bought her first engagement ring from Walmart. The diamond was the size of an ear mite. She put it on layaway (I can't make this shit up) and I believe it was around $60 back in 1998. Onto her second marriage in 2007, she bought herself another engagement ring at Walmart (again, on layaway) for around $200. Third times a charm, right? Well with this guy, she has been "engaged" since about 2013. I have never seen a ring on her finger in pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:25 PM
2

Two! I just adopted a second little guy a few weeks ago. It's been an absolute pleasure to take care of him and he lets it be known he's so happy here! He came from a hoarding situation, so this must be like a 4 1/2 star resort in his world. I received my ultimate peace by getting a divorce. Something to chew on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:48 PM
1

No apology needed. It's hard to read intended tone and I tend to be very blunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:45 PM
111

These are the same dudes who buy mail-order brides...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:56 PM
25

I'm sorry for going totally off-subject, but how would you say La Mer is versus everything else that's out there? Is it really that good? I like collecting opinions before I take the plunge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:50 PM
35

I always got the feeling he was using me to take out all his "mother shit" on. He was afraid to stand up to her, so he dumped all over me, exerting the control her couldn't exert over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:47 PM
14

This also explains why every time I got a decent-paying job, my ex-husband sabotaged it! He also ended up getting remarried and she was a single mother who only had fast food restaurant experience. She probably thought he was made of gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:11 PM
15

I don't wish to be in your situation and it's not ingnorance, it's sarcasm. I'm amazed that if he's on disability that he is allowed to work. The only people I have known on disability have worked illegal side jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:36 PM
78

I love your criteria and it further solidifies why I will never co-habitate/marry/whatever ever again! I am firmly set in my ways and lifestyle and don't want anyone upsetting that lovely balance that I have going on. Rule #1 will always send men running and I love it! If they agree to it, you better personally supervise that vasectomy or they will lie. You know they will lie. I have two male cats: They both instinctively know where the litter boxes are and how to use them. They groom themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:34 PM
89

Wait- he's on SSI and has a job? I'm doing something wrong by working 6 days a week here. Anyhoo, he sounds unwashed. I can smell him from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:25 PM
12

Every man at my job and every ex I ever had needs this. It's an epidemic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:25 PM
9

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:29 PM
140

I just hope the culprit isn't "pyromania-shamed"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:23 PM
12

This is so childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:21 PM
37

For the safety of all women, I hope it turns green and falls off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:24 PM
368

Because if you're not a wife and/or a mother, your time is all yours. Most people are jealous of that, so they they try to degrade it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:22 PM
28

He is a disgusting piece of steaming shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:34 PM
103

I know I can't be the only one making the same faces as those women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:16 PM
5

Men who won't wash their asses or haven't changed their sheets for six months and have food molding into their neckbeards have no room to talk...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 05:37 PM
140

I have ended up single with cats! If I knew how good it was going to be and how much fun and peace I'd have, I'd have done it sooner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:27 PM
343

Have to have sex before they leave the house... can't change their appearance without permission... can't touch their own pubic hair... Jaysus-gawd, what kind of backwards, backwoods, tyrant bullshit is this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:05 PM
67

A lot of them dump their shit on you just to unburden themselves, knowing you'll "carry it" for them. Then you end up caring about their issues more than they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:58 PM
55

I had a "friend" like that, too. I made excuses for her and said, "well, that's just the way she is", until I figured out she was always on time for things that mattered to her: her job, events she wanted to attend, going out with other people...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:04 PM
19

I almost spat out my muffin with #2!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:49 PM
47

I once worked with a guy who was a former male stripper. He had the intelligence of a Q-Tip. He barged into the HR office one day, demanding they "turn on" his insurance because he reached the 90 day probationary period. He was in there for 20 minutes while they explained you can't just "turn on" insurance. He still didn't understand. I totally lost all attraction to him that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 12:15 PM
57

Paranoid: you have reasonable evidence (including gut instinct) that he's cheating on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:44 PM
37

Thank you so much for posting this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:45 PM
251

When I used to vape, I would order my supplies online. I had to provide the online companies with my driver's license and it had to match the billing and shipping address. Amazing how inhaling flavored steam was more heavily regulated than exposing children to gangbangs and rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:39 PM
30

I don't do OLD, but I apply a tight-lipped policy to anyone who asks me personal questions. I get very rude and invasive questions from my clients at work and I'm careful not to divulge any info because you never know when a crazy, angry customer will come knocking on your door! In a dating situation, I use my mother's maternal grandmother's maiden name- it doesn't exist if you Google it because it's a name that died out long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:08 PM
39

My first thought was, "yep, that's what you get when you choose the Build A Man Starter Kit!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:58 PM
10

Scrotes are why we can't have nice things...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:07 AM
14

I actually received an "offer" like I wrote above He also generously offered to bring weed. I don't do drugs. In fact, drugs and alcohol are not allowed in my home. I don't invite/ let anyone into my house except the landlord. I don't need people disrespecting my property or checking out how I live. My condolences on your chair and bed. That is just beyond nasty and disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:19 AM
44

Most of them actually want to invite themselves over to YOUR house so they can inconvenience you, make a mess, eat your food, dirty up your bed and pee on the floor around the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:01 AM
148

I can't even find the words I want to type right now. I'm just sitting here shaking my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:56 PM
111

This "free meal" stuff cracks me up. I'm sure many, many, many of us here can order anything we want from any restaurant we want, pick it up, take it home and eat it in the peace and quiet of our own company. It beats having to endure their self-centered (and more than likely creepy) monologues about how their ex-wife (supposedly) took everything in the divorce, their freaky kinks, their mommy issues and how wonderful they are and then throwing in some negging about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:50 PM
52

It always made me feel worse because they still didn't care or accept any responsibility or apologize or grow up or turn into a decent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:42 PM
115

FDS is right: It IS all about their pee-pees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:15 PM
44

The "reason" is because they need to keep the door open in case one day he magically transforms into Mr. Wonderful and wants them back. They're still living in a fairy tale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:12 PM
68

Run fast and run far! Same as when you hear they idolize Joe Rogan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:06 PM
52

Dear gawd, he gave you an exit interview! I'm glad I read this because now I know that by being more "positive", I can cure my ADHD symptoms. What a dumb shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:03 PM
2

I'm surprised he didn't make a PowerPoint presentation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:58 PM
54

Even if you're married, the guy can still pull crap like this... a lot of people didn't even know my ex-husband was married to me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:57 PM
107

Why do their girlfriends tolerate this shit and act like it's cute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:54 PM
31

I just recently had to "opt out" AGAIN from White Pages and Radaris. Every single time I have had to do this, I have checked the "I am being stalked/ harassed" as a reason to opt out, yet they keep updating my address! Every time I move, I have to keep checking until my new address shows up, then swoop in get rid of it. If you can handle the inconvenience, get a P.O. Box in a different town/ city. They get your info every time you change your address through the post office. As insult to injury,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:51 PM
7

I'm surprised they haven't found a way to get exams at the gynecologist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:57 PM
49

This proves that men have no sense of humor unless it's boob and poop jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:33 PM
128

"I am so far from being an escort, I am a sex artist..." Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:30 PM
80

I'm done with society now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:41 PM
110

I wonder if anyone actually has a happy marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:24 PM
217

So she had a Pagan ceremony to avoid "living in sin" as a christian??? Whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:23 PM
123

I can't believe he lives like that and she let him put his dirty dick in her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:52 PM
135

Just like when Anna Nicole Smith died, they had to bring up every single weird, drugged-out, humiliating thing she'd ever done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:12 PM
1771

I don't understand what he is expecting the court to do- force her to take care of the kid??? "...the court won't do anything and is forcing me to struggle as a single parent." He CHOSE to be a single parent. She is not a "deadbeat"- she is paying child support. Fuck this loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:19 PM
27

The best part of wearing that shirt is the illiterate scrotes asking, "HUH? What does that mean???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:19 AM
279

She needs help, ASAP! She's acting like he's some "creepy serial killer" because he is or soon will be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:12 AM
118

After I typed a giant wall of text about my personal stories, I realized I could just get to the point instead. Men who either marry quickly or do every single thing they wouldn't do for you are in it for something. Money, place to live, access to someone's children because they're a pedo, etc. A lot of them put on a great big show because they have to prove that it wasn't them, it was you that was a "problem".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:10 AM
1

Actually, she was stalking another member yesterday and blaming them for what I wrote. Then she brought my username up in another sub and accused ME of supporting rape!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:33 PM
18

I just got an image of a butt penis and tried to figure out how that works...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:58 PM
69

He's that dense because you bothered to respond. He figures if he continues to harass you, you'll continue to respond. When people I don't want to talk to/reconnect with message me, I just completely ignore them and block them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:14 PM
89

My ex-husband always spoke well of his mother and seemed to love her. He was a lying, cheating, drug & porn addicted narcissistic misogynist who had an explosive temper. He wasn't a momma's boy at all, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:12 PM
84

I think what bothers me so much is that if she has made her story public, how many other women are out there in the same boat and don't even know it??? The fact that she was vulnerable with her physical and psychological issues with him and he not only used them against her, he did it in the sickest, most psychotic ways possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:16 PM
114

Why do I keep reading these??? GAH!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:03 PM
150

He wouldn't have written that if he had a decent-sized penis...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:02 PM
386

He got a wife and then promptly let himself go... heaven forbid a woman do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:45 PM
31

Thank you for re-posting what I was replying to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:40 PM
53

So foreplay is now sexual assault? I don't understand. I am not advocating going up to a guy you're interested in and grabbing his junk out of nowhere. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:46 PM
3

It is not the vegetable itself, it is the fact that he found a dented can and demands to be compensated for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:38 PM
96

Let's hope DJ B wasn't fired. Maybe he quit out of disgust?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:12 PM
166

This is going to sound crude, but after my surprise micropeen experience, I will not be surprised (read: disappointed) again. You're going to need to do your due diligence by feeling him up before hand, fully clothed, so you can cut & run the second you realize that that is as big as it's gonna get. Just nope the fuck out. Never give pity sex, it just encourages them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:11 PM
159

I forgot to include the best part: He was short, bald, skinny, missing most of his teeth, had some kind of green mole on his face, reeked of weed and I believe he was high on meth at the time... All because I rejected HIM! So, I guess a guy like him should have been my standards, according to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:28 PM
255

A few months ago, I was basically told that since I'm overweight, divorced and pushing 50, I shouldn't have any standards at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:17 PM
10

You should have stayed for the poetry reading!!! I imagine it would include the emotional and thought-provoking masterpiece entitled, "Ode to My Foreskin"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:32 PM
52

He looks like the kind of jackass a cashier would have to deal with because he wants a dented can of peas for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:29 PM
24

His girl arms are really what does it for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:17 PM
147

Yet when I didn't act like Alex, Beverly and Cheryl, I was told I was boring, prudish and timid. Can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:48 PM
51

I was once told, "if only you liked all the things I like, we'd have the perfect relationship and I'd be happy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:43 PM
85

You have just gained insight into the narcissist's internal monologue: I, ME, MY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:10 PM
35

He cried you a river with his scrote tears. I hope you didn't get any on you. And you're right- it makes way more sense when you replace all the thank yous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:59 PM
153

He wants you, but proceeds to give you a list of all the reasons he doesn't want you in the same sentence. My brain looks like a pretzel right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:46 PM
28

"sensual" just means he's gonna ram his tongue down your throat and twist your nipples really hard and call it foreplay before he jabs at your inner thigh with his micropeen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:00 PM
47

Yes and that he is a liar. My grandfather used to say, "you're full of beans". He's definitely gonna attract the young ladies with his old-timey jargon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:51 AM
91

What 46 year old man refers to himself as "cute"??? This guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:46 AM
152

Well she's survived his cheating, weed addiction, porn addiction & crossdressing- I think she may be in it for the long haul!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:09 PM
98

Having the responsibility of the entire household on your shoulders drains the shit out of you. Then the resentment builds up because while you've worked all day, came home to start dinner, cleaned up after dinner and did housework, you know he's in the other room playing video games, goofing off on the internet or watching reruns of The Simpsons. Upon confronting them, their excuse is they are "tired". "Tired" from WHAT???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:58 PM
455

This was my ex-husband. I had to do everything just to keep from living in something that resembled a crack house. Ironically, his new wife isn't much of a housekeeper, so they're both marinating in their own filth...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:54 PM
23

Shrek-looking Scrote is unfortunately, a very accurate description of most men these days. Even the most stunningly beautiful woman is not beautiful enough for them, even though they themselves don't shower, brush their teeth, wear deodorant, trim their nails, wear clean clothes and weigh 318 pounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:52 PM
22

Did y'all just hear that noise? That was me sliding in here all cartoon-style while screaming as soon as I read this. My ex-husband lasted an entire 82 seconds on a good day unless he was high af on weed. Porn addiction isn't flattery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:56 PM
45

Are you kidding???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:46 PM
11

I saw something similar to this, only I think it was for a landscaper! Wonder if it's the same guy or...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:40 PM
19

Ex-husband: Pretended he didn't know how to do the simplest of household chores. Grew up with both parents who seemed to be functional. Always acted like every chore was beneath him and too complicated to figure out at the same time. Ex-boyfriend: Kept an immaculate house with all of the necessary items. Parents abandoned him as a teenager, he basically had to fend for himself. Was meticulously groomed, even with a drug and alcohol problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:39 PM
13

Oddly enough, I AM a crazy cat lady who has indeed had a man make her cum. I am not a lesbian, however, I AM selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:26 PM
70

OMG what did I just read? I don't think I can remember ever reading anything so disgustingly inhumane. Saying she was catatonic and felt like he was abusing her, then goes on to give her a bad review due to her totally checking out and making HIM feel bad??? Universe, thank You for continuing to give me signs that my celibacy and singlehood is the right path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:36 PM
182

I"m ashamed to admit that I rarely liked them back...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:06 PM
14

I'm in the exact same situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:37 PM
14

Glad to know I'm not the only one who feels this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:37 PM
17

The exact words my ex-husband gave me when I confronted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:20 PM
15

And it ended, as all things of this nature do, with a declaration of herpes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:52 PM
7

"I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than tolerate an ugly man in my home". I'm adding this to my mantras.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:23 PM
23

Just enough to look "normal" to the next one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:16 PM
15

That would have got me to delete my profile & cancel my account
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:48 PM
154

A lot of the times, the shy/ reserved thing is an act. They want you to pursue them because they are lazy and you will have to drag them by the ear through the entire relationship. If they really are shy/ reserved, they are usually boring and have the personality of a blank wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:31 PM
66

"inner demons" is always code for: "disturbed beyond your imagination". It also makes them sound very tortured and can only be healed by the love of a good women. But not you. They will dump their all of their ugly and evil onto you and once cleansed, happily run off with the one they really wanted to date but couldn't because of all those pesky "inner demons".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:28 PM
13

I shall! I shall!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:29 PM
36

I vote "gas lighting". He clearly does and says things that he later denies, thus, making you feel like you imagined it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:37 PM
30

You have inspired my Inner Weirdo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:31 PM
76

THIS is what happens when a woman even barely acknowledges a fat, creepy, ugly man! I used to wonder what I did to make these guys think I was interested. I ended up asking a male friend why these guys got the wrong idea and he said, "because you said 'hi'". That's all it takes. Just look in their general direction and they take it as a sign you are interested. As a result, I am no longer nice or polite to men like that. It seems rude, but it saves me from awkward situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:29 PM
183

I just can't be attracted to a dude who looks like a melting whale. I don't want some bald, obese blob with more hair on his ass than on his head, sweating & grunting on top of me. I fell for that "don't be so shallow" crap when I was younger and never again! Attractive men take care of themselves and from my experience, have better personalities and interests because they're active in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:21 PM
135

It makes them think only their preferences/fetishes are important. If you bring up something you want to try, they avoid it or do such a bad job of it, you no longer ask again. There's no intimacy. Can confirm you are viewed as property. My ex-husband has remarried years ago and is still stalking me and trying to contact me. Even with a divorce decree, he still thinks I belong to him. It's sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:32 AM
264

This is the mailman at my job. No lie. I feel like I'm under a microscope with that scrote. "You colored your hair.", "You cut your hair.", "You got a new sweater.", "I noticed you were off yesterday; playing hooky?", and the most offensive comment so far, "You got a package? What did you buy?". Just shut up and deliver the mail, you turd. I find guys like this creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:47 PM
191

I'd walk around him, sniffing him. I have no chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:39 PM
403

Of course he got downvoted- he mentioned 'deodorant'!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:13 PM
9

But Myron is "aesthetic AF now"!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:59 PM
57

I came here to say exactly this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:38 PM
67

Well her first mistake was "co-worker". That never ends well. Her second mistake was believing he was shy and reserved. A lot of guys play that game to get women to do all the work, which she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:33 PM
6

Why are they always Chris or Mike???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:20 PM
3

Romani here- I think we should form a committee...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:16 PM
51

They don't do any damn "after care". These are the same dudes who won't even put up a new roll of toilet paper when it's sitting right next to the toilet. "After care" implies that they're doing something for a woman...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:08 PM
19

"if he opens up to you about how it turns him on to cum up your nose..." I just spat out my Diet Dr. Pepper...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:55 PM
25

And where are these kids going to be if they make it to 50 and their money is gone? No skills, no nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:18 PM
4

If he was a pot head alcoholic, I did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:30 PM
11

"If his name is Chris"- can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:04 PM
25

I knew a Mike. He had a teeny peeny. I nicknamed him "Mike-ropeen"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:04 PM
16

I am 47 and do NOT want a 50 year old. They start falling apart around 35 and by 40, they're totally trashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:38 PM
77

"Submissive" just means, "Service my dick while I'm tied up and can't touch you back."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:20 PM
192

You'd be surprised at how quick these men get jobs and homes when they need to get jobs and homes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:57 PM
24

When I was 17, I was babysitting for a woman who kept trying to fix me up with her 28 year old brother. I told her he was too old for me and she kept insisting, saying, "I think you two would be great together! He likes younger girls!". I was totally squicked out by the idea and I kept refusing to meet him. Read below to count the red flags: Then one night at 1130pm, when my entire family was asleep, I got a call from her brother. He sounded drunk, high and/or mentally slow. I was so naive and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:20 PM
16

She cares more about his feelings than her child's life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:03 PM
16

I hollered at your first sentence and scared the cat. Then I continued to laugh much quieter at the rest of your comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:39 PM
90

I got a $10 bill on him being 5'3 and a half... in shoes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:51 PM
17

I've been sitting here, trying to imagine if that happened in the Northeast. Men here wouldn't know what to do with their free time... or their hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:14 AM
40

The look. OMG, I didn't know it was related to porn, but I know exactly what "look" you're talking about. Jeebus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:13 PM
9

I always thought "looking for a woman who can keep up" meant "keep up with my drinking"... I learn something new here everyday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:03 PM
87

I mean, I hold my cat in my arms and he's a sweet angel, but he's only like, 15 pounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:23 PM
310

This was written by a man. It had to have been written by a man. Please tell me y'all found out it was written by a man! "once you can hold a man in your arms they become this gentle angel of yours". What now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 10:08 PM
3

I think this is it. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j4ngss/no_a_laundromat_is_not_a_date/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:09 PM
144

I agree. And considering how most men are bad drivers, that gives you a heads-up on their sexual skills...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:37 PM
11

I don't remember much about my marriage, either. We were together about 12 years from start to finish. Looking back, I realized there just wasn't much to remember. He gave practically nothing of himself. It was all shallow surface stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:26 PM
58

I think the alley date was part 2 of the laundromat date. The girl invited herself to do laundry with the loser and they ended up in the alley in her car and a bj was implied. Someone correct me if I'm wrong, these situations are all starting to blur together now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:16 AM
130

We've had the field date, the alley date, the laundromat date and now we have the parking space date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:27 PM
238

right off the damn highway, too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:24 PM
20

Because homie had ball cheeks!!! Or cheek balls!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:18 PM
76

This is reinforcing my celibacy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:38 PM
69

Holy Hell, I thought those were enlarged testicles for a second there... or are they???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:12 PM
2

Exactly this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:54 PM
2

I was in a 3rd grade class with a boy who kept a booger collection on papers inside his desk. Was this guy's name Gary?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:53 PM
96

He has just told us he has a micropeen without telling us he has a micropeen...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:15 PM
2

This is letting you know he has skid marks on his underwear, farts and thinks it's funny and will pinch your nipples like he's popping a zit and thinks it's foreplay...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:08 PM
7

Haha you might just need to grow the fuck up. You haven't matured since college and I bet you're 45 years old lmao. xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:57 PM
3

Sounds great! I actually think this could turn into something cathartic for a lot of members here. We've all had similar experiences and the material is very relatable. Putting a humorous spin on it can be very healing. Are we gonna be like Rodgers & Hammerstein, or the female version of Waldorf and Statler (the old cranky men in the balcony from The Muppets)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:20 PM
3

This is so freaking fantastic! This needs to be a thing... How can we make this a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:38 PM
3

I see the opening scenes in Act I as your typical love-bombing and him doing and saying all the right things to make you think he's a HVM. By the second act, it all begins to unravel. The end is a dramatic swerve where his porn addiction has rendered him permanently impotent and throws himself to the ground, wailing and sobbing for his limp dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:23 PM
4

Aww, the things are so uncomfortable, not because they regret what they wrote, but because they know that everyone now knows they are pieces of shit and that she could probably win in a fist fight. Not so tough now, huh scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:18 PM
38

A couple of months ago, I was (disgustingly) sexually propostioned by a co-worker. I wrote a post about it. Anyway, when I told him I wasn't interested, he called me "jaded" and told me I "must've given up on men". It's how they handle rejection. He couldn't possibly believe I didn't want a skinny, no-toothed, broke, overly-aggressive, bald, (possible) meth addict. It's called standards, bro. We're tired of what y'all are made of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:18 PM
140

Geez, sometimes I'm slow. I figured that since he was reasonably attractive, he did gay porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:02 PM
8

Be careful of WHO you tell, also. I told my two closest "friends". We had been friends for over 20 years, so I thought they had my back. Turns out, they both ratted me out to him, so the day I left and planned to withdraw the money out of our account, he had already beaten me to it and emptied our account! They also told him where I was moving to. He proceeded to spend the next 6 months vandalizing my car. I later found out that one of the "friends" had an affair with him about a year before I l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:55 PM
8

OHMYGOSH! Thanks! That was so kind of you to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:50 PM
6

Whoever you are, dearest Redditor of The FDS, I loveth you! I was howling at my desk! So far we have a soundtrack and screenplay, we need to make this a thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:47 PM
10

I've been looking to adopt another cat and have noticed the same phrases for cats, too! Also can confirm the same thing about dogs because I read the dog profiles as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:29 PM
48

I'm 47 and not menopausal yet, but what made me not GAF any more was realizing the poor treatment I experienced my entire life up until around age 40. Shitty family begat shitty friends which begat shitty relationships. I suddenly saw how I treated everyone as more important than myself. I shut that shit down. Once I put myself first and cleaned house of all the losers, users and abusers, things miraculously started to improve. I figured I was onto something, so I started speaking up more. And m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:28 PM
56

It's inspired by the Scrotes Greatest Hits album. Track 1: Not All Men (intro) Track 2: You'll Like Anal Track 3: It's All About Muh Peenis Track 4: Porn Isn't Cheating (erectile dysfunction remix) Track 5: Not All Men (instrumental)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:38 AM
47

They age like flat Great Value grape soda...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:46 PM
74

That is just cruel. His liver will punish him!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:52 PM
199

I say this because of my ex-husband who wouldn't stop badgering me for anal. It was "analanalanalanalanal" like a little kid perstering you for a cookie. I call it, "Anal: The Musical". He never let it drop. He even tried to do it by "accidentally" aiming at the wrong hole. I loathe him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:35 PM
535

In my experience, any man who tries to break your boundaries will continue to try to break your boundaries. By saying "no" 99 times, they are hoping you'll get worn-down and finally give in and say "yes" on the 100th attempt. The fact that you are still sticking around them shows them they might get that "yes" eventually. Noping the fuck out of that situation at the get-go shows them that you are enforcing your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:00 PM
76

Don't bother explaining yourself to them. It's a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:14 PM
19

I had severe bronchitis and the doctor wanted to admit me to the hospital. I refused and had to sign a waiver to go home. Anyway, I called my (ain't shit) husband at work and told him how sick I was and should have been hospitalized and his response was, "So I guess you're not making anything for dinner?". Then he came home with Burger King for HIMSELF and nothing for me. He said, "I figured you'd be too sick to eat. Do you want one of my french fries?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:20 PM
3

WTF did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:17 PM
6

Let's look at the list of "do not need" and then tell me why I should even bother? Just the fact that we ALL have practically the same "do not need" list tells me that is 99.999% of the men out there. If we only live once, why waste time trying to find a needle in a haystack? I guarantee a man's list is TOTALLY different...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:14 PM
11

I also believe this was written by a dude, but... Maybe his bedroom is dead because his wife knows he's paying for sex elsewhere?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:50 PM
12

His small hands are the perfect size to hold his tiny penis...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:22 PM
2

Please be careful with this guy. He's a whack-job. There was some kind of "scandal" with him a few years back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:35 PM
374

"She had no reason to be frightened. I wasn't gonna do anything." You were exhibiting all the signs of "stranger danger", you dumb ass psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:52 AM
42

Anxiety, panic attacks, insomnia and substance abuse that all magically disappeared after I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:03 AM
25

"I was just having the time of my life with him and having experiences I didn't get to have as a child". This just explained my entire life. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:30 PM
55

I still cringe at how I used to pride myself on being "low maintenance".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:26 PM
96

This is the best comeback ever. I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:45 PM
80

A few months ago, I was cat-called by a (drunk? drugged up?) creepy guy as I got out of my car in my apartment parking lot. I did the whole "uncomfortable smile, keep walking" thing and then he got verbally abusive. I didn't cuss his ass out because my parking space has my apartment number on it and I live alone and didn't want any trouble later on. A couple of days later I was looking at my local news channel's website- and there he was!!! He was arrested on weapons charges at a motel in the ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:34 PM
31

Strap? I have a baseball bat my friend!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:43 PM
90

Very generous with lies, gaslighting, manipulation, blame and wearing a false face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:42 PM
239

This was how I felt when I was married. Turns out, he was addicted to porn (anal! anal! anal!) and also cheated constantly. No wonder he had no energy left for our bedroom. I had married the community dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:57 PM
26

Why thank you! I am feeling particularly sassy today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:31 PM
185

Maybe the reason the sex was "mediocre" was because his dick was like his Jaguar: fast and unreliable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:25 PM
18

Indoors there shouldn't be a problem. I'm not lugging a big can of Raid in my purse outside! It's more of a heavy stream and you can only operate the can one way, so you can't accidentally spray yourself in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:47 PM
148

I have two heavy-duty baseball bats that will knock someone's block off. They are called Brooklyn Crushers. I wanted its big brother, The Brooklyn Basher, but it was out of stock at the time. I keep one in my car and one next to my bed. I also keep Raid Wasp & Flying Insect Spray nearby at home and at my desk at work. It has a further reach than bear spray or mace and it will permanently blind a person. I ain't playin'. If you live in a multi-apartment dwelling, please lock you door every time y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:35 PM
32

I'd secretly replace the candy with X-Lax... do they still make that stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:21 AM
22

This is what I basically told him when he was LOUDLY strutting around work like a peacock about it. I said, "So you want a medal for doing what you were morally and legally required to do?" and he just went into another rant about how wonderful he was. It was unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:32 PM
27

I work with a scrote who wanted all kinds of praise for raising HIS SON who his wife abandoned when she left him. HIS SON! I'm sure he wanted praise when he impregnated her, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:59 PM
91

He was projecting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:32 PM
243

So he really painstakingly numbered the sheets with his dirty manhands and then she's gonna touch her genitals with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:42 PM
143

I don't know who either one of them is, but he looks like he'd shank you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:02 PM
113

This is coming from a guy who probably has a dingleberry tree hanging from his ass... I'd just tell him he has a small dick and move on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:17 PM
169

All the men I see look like busted garbage bags, whether on a date or not... I don't think they bother peacocking any more because they know someone will be desperate enough to take them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:59 PM
44

Two words: geezer peen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:37 AM
82

I'm a mean old lady, but if I responded, I would have exclaimed, "EWWW! What is wrong with it? Go see a doctor or something!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:39 PM
31

Oy vey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:26 PM
407

aaaaaaaand thank you for reminding me of another reason why I'm grateful to be divorced. My kitchen is a pristine temple of sanitary righteousness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:27 PM
15

So do I! Now I don't feel so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:04 PM
262

... you left out "wrinkled, saggy balls". I have older (60s/70s) female friends who tell me this is true. I don't want to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:08 PM
5

Thank gawd I've been sober for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:03 PM
34

The whole thing is just gross, but what really disturbed me was the rapey advice to "keep filling her glass".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:36 PM
13

Here's another word of warning about "grand gestures": Narcissists will use them to show off to other people how wonderful they are. It helps their case in the final discard where they paint you as being the bad one/ crazy one. When everyone finds out you've broken up, they automatically take the guy's side because of how "good he was to her, always buying her things and taking her places", etc. These gestures are not for YOU, they are for HIS public image.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:33 PM
2

"Her husband does weird shit". Unlike you, who is sitting there wanking to your cousin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:30 AM
74

After I was done laughing my ass off, I realized you are right! ALL of that stuff he bought her could be found at Dollar Tree! Clothes, you ask? Yep, socks and mittens count as clothes. Shoes, you ask? Yep, they have slippers and flip flops. Gift cards, you ask? Yep, they have Dollar Tree gift cards in case he left anything out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:56 AM
189

And was this "gift basket" comprised of Dollar Tree items, perhaps? He is a cheap s.o.b.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:20 PM
104

What a waste of shelf space. You know men won't buy it, let alone use it. They don't want any pimply-faced cashier to know they touch their asses with anything, wipes included. And why is it "unscented"? Some male asses need industrial-strength Febreze, the grease-cutting power of Dawn and whatever stuff crime scene cleaners use to deodorize the smell of dead bodies...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:22 PM
6

You'd think PlantMan would be a lot more mellow...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:20 PM
6

I just read that as "butt cucumbers" and tried like Hell to figure out what that was...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:19 PM
288

"I gave Jenna some lovin'". Translation, "I finally got laid, y'all!" And he'll be posting on AITA after she gives birth because he finds her post-pregnancy body disgusting and has lost interest in her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:18 PM
50

Not gonna lie, that's me... only I'm a middle-aged white woman carrying a rotisserie chicken, bag of peanut M&Ms and a Diet Dr. Pepper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:33 PM
37

But he's NOt LiKE oTHEr GUys and uses big, flowery words and tosses it all into a messy word salad! Surely he can woo you away from your beloved! (gag, cough, gag)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:11 PM
98

He found you "worthy" of talking to! OMG! Don't let this one get away! Why aren't you hopping up and down on his crooked, flaccid, micropeen already? Offers like this don't come along everyday...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:05 PM
27

Why do I feel that this is just the beginning of stories like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:53 PM
353

He has custody of two of his four kids. He sees the other two on weekends. He is looking for Wife #3 and these women can sense it and are running for their lives. Plus, he's too damn fertile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:28 PM
76

I bet a generic compliment is all the effort he would make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:04 PM
240

Okay, I finally stopped laughing... If his dick was really that big, he wouldn't be posting about this. He's just trying to make her look like a sex-crazed degenerate who shoves large objects into her vajayjay... Kind of like, "See? I have a huge schlong and it still isn't enough for women!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:14 PM
62

I just typed a giant sarcastic comment and deleted it because I can't stop laughing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:49 PM
12

I think I've now heard everything... I just have to ask: you weren't by chance underage 5 years ago???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:44 PM
191

Considering if we all rated men, we'd have to use negative numbers...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:16 PM
2

Google is your best friend. Search their full name, address, check your state's court records, your area's arrest records...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:35 PM
3

I"m going with the "work from home" story when I start dating again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:34 PM
58

He's absolutely scrote-tacular! Hubba, hubba, barf, barf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:17 AM
38

At this point, they're not even getting my real name. I doubt they'd be able to spell my last name, but I'm not taking any chances. They're also not going to know where I work. No way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:15 AM
13

I was curious as to what he considers a "little thing" to be... like cheating or punching her in the face...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:00 PM
68

He doesn't want someone "broken" because you'd quickly find out that he is broken enough for two people...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:19 PM
47

Imagine what his balls look like...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:18 PM
36

She looks ridiculous. I'm embarrassed for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:42 PM
40

What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:39 PM
39

Is anyone else hopping up and down yelling, "you're, not your!!!"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:26 AM
100

Also, you might want to check out their record if you know they've lived in other states. I broke up with a different loser years ago who had a clean record in my state, but after I left him I found out he had domestic violence and drug charges in his home state, which is probably why he fled here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:07 PM
34

It was just a Google search of his name, but I used his full first name and not his nick name that he gave me. I already knew his address, so I put that into my search. The news articles of his arrest had mentions of his wife (she was brought up on charges because I guess she covered for him or hid evidence). From there, I went on my state's sex offender registry and figured out that he had recently moved in across from his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:03 PM
89

I couldn't believe it!!! I had the news articles staring me in the face, as well as his mug shot! And the fact he moved in across from his wife made him seem like a stalker or something!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:02 PM
77

If he knows where you live, he's probably going to show up anyway and try to embarrass you in front of your entire neighborhood until you let him in. This is where "nice for what???" comes into play. Block and delete. Otherwise, this guy is NOT going to stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:42 PM
27

The list isn't wrong, though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:14 PM
194

I met a guy who wanted to be a "sub". It was all about what I would do to him. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:34 PM
5

A lot of men ask if we're married because it's like giving them a green light to harrass us, thinking we'll be flattered. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:34 PM
13

Alright, how many of us replayed that tackle 82 times to memorize how it's done in case we need to do it in the future? Please tell me it isn't just me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:24 PM
25

I'm saying "wow" at his Donnie Osmond teeth and the fact that this guy has no pets...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:44 PM
16

Imagine if it showed you how many partners and stds he actually had???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:32 PM
14

And then we Google Image Search and find out he copied them from a home decor catalog!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:32 PM
113

"How dare you have firm boundaries and not let me come into your life and make a mess with my bullshit!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:24 PM
75

Every single man I've ever been with found his "forever home" after me. I didn't figure this out until last year. It's unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:43 PM
100

I would need to perform an on-site inspection of his house, including, but not limited to his bathroom and kitchen. I would also need to see contact info from his last 3 girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:43 PM
513

"I'm just checking to see if the door is still open, but don't get any ideas that I might actually want you because I live far, far, far away. But I want you to respond to feed my ego, so let me toss you a worthless, generic compliment and then back-track by feigning ignorance as to why I complimented you"- Jaysus, it's still too early in the day for this crap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:05 PM
5

OMG- I remember that story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:51 PM
119

The thing is, "high value" doesn't have anything to do with looks. It's behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:24 AM
63

I was a Cool Girl turned Cool Woman. It only gets worse- you have to be cool around the demands of their ex-wives, children and other former serious relationships. It's a whole mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:38 AM
210

And you know if they did make a killing, they would've kept the profits and not tell their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:33 AM
46

How old is this kid and is he a virgin? He has no clue. How many woman have barfed at his touch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:25 AM
50

That's my problem- I'm never expecting comments like that so it takes awhile for my brain to get righteously offended. I usually just stand there staring and think of a witty comeback 17 hours later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:15 AM
37

These men all have such high opinions of themselves. They must look in the mirror and see Mr. America or something...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:38 AM
83

OMG! So him still being old enough to be your father is okay, as long as you're not close to his daughter's age? If we started going after young men, we'd be stoned in the center of town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:11 AM
36

He probably spent all his money on hookers and he couldn't afford his OnlyFans subscriptions...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:08 AM
124

For real! Same thing's been happening to me since I turned 40. Every guy who hits on me is fugly and age-inappropriate. Now that I've discovered FDS, I look at ALL men like porn addicted pedos with filthy buttholes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:04 AM
21

Unfortunately I was at work, so there's that fine line between cussing his ass out and getting reprimanded and not being assertive enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:02 AM
26

Was his name Mike?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:11 PM
303

I swear, from now on, I'm going to pretend that I have ZERO past trauma and just act like they're the only ones on earth with issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:57 PM
152

And if the situation were reversed, the man would say she was needy, jealous and clingy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:28 PM
42

OMG! My ex-husband liked to wear women's panties and pantyhose. I don't know if he graduated to the rest of the apparel because I left shortly after he dropped that bombshell. Well, I actually left because he tried to punch me in my face when I told him he didn't like women. He thought I was calling him gay. I was calling him a misogynist. Anyhoo, he idolized actors who had sex addictions (Charlie Sheen, David Duchovny, etc.). I should have trusted my instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:36 PM
18

This ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:28 PM
6

...and they'll all be supporting his broke ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:35 PM
85

Sleep deprivation is an abusive tactic. My ex-husband snored and wouldn't get the sleep apnea surgery. He didn't give a shit if I slept 2 hours every night. He got the surgery after I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:30 PM
15

He didn't give you a choice when he shoved the pic in your face. Report him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:25 PM
3

It is as fascinating as it is repulsive. It changes color depending on the lighting. It's green/black. Sort of like mold. MOLDY MOLE!!! Now if it was on a woman, you know damn well every single man would be dragging her about that mole, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:16 PM
2

I think that they shouldn't quit their day job...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:45 PM
17

I got the identical message a few minutes ago. He sent a few more, but I deleted without reading and blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:34 PM
11

This was the final straw working there. I'm going to start the job search.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:50 PM
84

That's exactly what I thought, I even caught the neg the second it was out of his mouth! This group has really helped me read them like a damn book. Probably because they're all using the same book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:16 AM
73

Hey, that's a perspective I never entertained! Makes sense, especially the part about "I'm not going to see her again...".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:45 PM
26

Basically, he wants it legal to stalk someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:20 PM
107

It's glaringly obvious why she gained 110 pounds while being married to that jackass. I wonder if she knows she can easily lose about 180 if she leaves him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:23 AM
67

I got rid of one weirdo by adding 10 years to my age!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:22 PM
23

the only thing worse than men who use emojis are the ones who end everything with a "ha ha"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:42 PM
1

Funny, I had 5 cats when I was married, but only one now... I don't drink alcohol, order take out, subscribe to Netflix or have a sinkful of dishes. Maybe I need to see their "over 40" starter pack???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:33 PM
117

He moved in with her. She got rid of her things to make space for his shit. Guarantee this would not be the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:44 PM
11

Run. I'd rather be safe than sorry. Normal people don't joke about things like that. Replace psychopath with: child molester, rapist, etc. Scary, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:18 PM
13

His entire face gives me the creeps...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:36 PM
3

The expressions on his face when he's playing the woman had me rolling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:25 PM
15

I just ran off to see who this guy is. I think he had jaundice in the video I clicked on! His face was patchy yellow and so were his fingers and knuckles. I skipped around the video and he seems like a pretentious turd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:46 PM
1

I'm laughing so hard I'm crying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 06:41 PM
42

My ex-husband got all the friends and married the married woman he was cheating on me with. Everyone thinks he is wonderful because he started launching a successful smear campaign before I knew what was going on. I will never remarry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:42 PM
20

Be careful of going into detail about your family dynamics. They look for women with toxic families. I don't care if you've gone no contact with your entire family, don't let them know!!! They want to see if you have a lot of people in your life that would "back you up". If you come across as having come from a bad home life with few friends, you will be prey. Make shit up if you have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:50 PM
3

I realize the pics are mainly MA sports teams, but I now live in CT and the same guys live there, too. I'm from Western MA, so add a neckbeard, dirty clothes and dead eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:45 PM
5

Same here. I was so naive back then and there wasn't any info out there like what I've learned here. It all made sense once I came here and started reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:57 PM
2

You nailed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:20 PM
6

So you know my ex-husband??? LMAO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:19 PM
40

His Twitter states: "experienced, early 50's, happily married" I shiver at the thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:01 AM
8

Done! Not much to see. Alcohol, sports & sitting at a computer, but the guys in the pics are what's out there in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:51 AM
93

NOTE: The guy in the lower bottom pic is claiming to be 25 years old!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:47 AM
8

Thank you very much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:46 AM
17

What kind of magic do I need to use to get the pic to post inside the text box? I can paste it or insert as a link, but either way, it doesn't show up in the preview on the main page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:37 AM
90

Ouch! It isn't any better in my area, either. I'm in the middle of creating the Over 30's New England LVM Starter Pack unless someone beats me to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:14 AM
70

Welp, that just made my ovaries shrivel up...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:30 PM
3

Yikes! If this is what's out there, I'm going back to my book. Do we have a New England/ Northeast one yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 10:25 PM
2

It reachers farther than pepper spray, mace and bear spray. Plus, it will blind them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:43 PM
2

Well he seems like a really sweet boy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:37 AM
5

I'm glad I'm an atheist- this list won't work for me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:35 AM
17

I'm not tempted to talk to him about anything, ever. There is nothing he could say that I'd be interested in. Something happened that led him to see if my door was still open and I don't care what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:24 PM
12

This is totally true. And he didn't count on New Me hating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:21 PM
16

I work alone in a satellite office. Plus I have security cameras.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:01 PM
36

...but did you take the egg slicer though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:31 PM
122

My 86 year old mother said he was trying to make me feel guilty. She said, "Tell him to go take a shit for himself!". She is very wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:18 PM
210

Normally, I would. However: She cheated on her husband to be with my husband and he cheated on me to be with her. I wish them both a shitty divorce!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:38 PM
182

Romance novels are like that, too. A cowboy from the 1800's who has a dark past and has bonked 297 frontier women finally grows a heart when he meets the (virgin) daughter of the town's rancher or whatever. I'm done with men who have problems. I was a Goth kid, don't give me your issues, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:59 PM
71

My ex-husband would go into the spare bedroom, shut the door, get distracted by 9,000 other things, tune his guitar, fart out a chord or two and come back out an hour later because he didn't want to miss a new episode of Family Guy. He also couldn't practice until he ordered MORE expensive shit for his guitar and when that would come in, he'd need to order other stuff to go with the stuff he just got or he wouldn't be able to "play" correctly. Needless to say, he had a ton of $$$$ sitting in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:45 PM
164

Don't date "wannabe" musicians, even if they're like 58 years old because they are trying to live the "rock and roll lifestyle" even if it's only in their head! They will cheat. They will also shove you aside to practice whatever instrument they play and make it look like they are dedicted to this music hobby. They barely practice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:22 PM
14

What kind of Goodwill/ Salvation Army/ Tag Sale shit was that???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:52 PM
97

I second this! You wrote he had to look you up to get that number- he didn't use it for work reasons. He also asked again after your ignored him the first time. It's not appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:23 PM
36

I don't date guys with kids and that's one of the reasons why. This won't be the last time this happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:47 AM
102

If it wasn't for FDS, I wouldn't have learned this dangerous, nasty stuff was "main stream"- you ladies have saved the life of this middle-aged woman. Much love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:44 AM
93

How can someone like him possibly still be single?!?!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:49 PM
122

I'll bet this is just one of many abusive incidents that she's had to endure...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:32 PM
120

He wouldn't happen to be a 49 year old man who's first name starts with "t", would he? Your ex is a special kind of selfish- one who future fakes gifts! Wonderful gifts! Thoughtful gifts! He gives you no gifts! My ex-husband gave me a card on my birthday and said "make an appointment to get your car detailed and I'll give you my credit card to pay for it."- Notice he didn't even write in the card, pick a place, get a gift card, etc.? All left up to me. If I wanted my car detailed, I could do it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:14 PM
49

I see someone got a dictionary for christmas...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:56 PM
12

Gawd, that was funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:46 PM
1

Oh okay, lol! I try to collect as much info on warning signs as I can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:45 PM
18

And those are also the ones who complain constantly or try to one-up someone else's misery or success. I work with a guy who has made it has mission in life to have a pissing contest with me over every word that comes out of my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:02 PM
5

Right? I was like "how did they know me so well?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:52 PM
6

Could you give me some pointers, besides the smell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:52 PM
14

They are parasites, feeding off the energy of a working woman's car! I think they hate women so much, they go out of their way to use up/destroy anything the woman has. I've noticed that men who treat all cars like beater cars are abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:47 PM
16

Lots of future faking, too. They claim to have a life plan, but when you ask them to be specific, they get very vague and change the subject or they get angry to deflect from the fact that there is no plan. Everything is always, "when I get a job/settlement/loan, we can move in together/get a new car/buy a house. They usually try to use your money in the mean time. They will use up and break your shit. They're always waiting on something like a job offer, someone to pay them back, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:45 PM
20

I like your style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:28 PM
26

"I'm a simple man" = he had outrageous expectations and I could never do anything right in his eyes. "I'm just trying to be fair" = to himself. It was only fair if it benefitted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:21 PM
9

I think I'll just continue being celebate... gawd only knows what the 40 year olds have out there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 04:16 PM
3

You know when they say they're 6 feet tall, they're really 5'9...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:23 PM
62

Why am I not surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:45 PM
130

So he abused her until she broke. Imagine if she was a real woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:29 PM
14

This is very wise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:14 PM
36

Silent rage. That is phrase I've been looking for to describe my ex-husband's behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:48 PM
446

He was expecting you to contact him in a state of depression. When you didn't, he figured something must be wrong! You showed him! I bet this "concern" for your well-being was the most concern he's ever shown, am I right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:13 PM
35

I would NOT be flattered...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:55 PM
6

I should have stopped there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:01 PM
8

I watched it and will give you the highlights: "Whaddup, pimp"- I instantly know that this video is going to be full of quality and introspective, deep thoughts . "No, I'm not gonna lose weight because I don't give a shit"- That much is obvious. He compares himself to WWE wrestler Shawn Michaels. How dare he compare himself to The Heartbreak Kid??? The wrestling fan in me is not amused. He rambles and makes boxing references. He continues to ramble. Life has not worked out for him and he is gonn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:01 PM
34

Just an Elder Goth chiming in: CONGRATULATIONS! GOOD RIDDANCE TO DEAD WEIGHT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:31 PM
39

"if he posted a pic of you and its that one where you blinked (and that's what he chose) the dude is trying to make you look bad..." Every single pic my ex-husband ever took of me or me and family/friends, he always cut off part of my head or face or I had a weird expression. I knew what it meant, I just didn't want to admit it to myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:05 PM
7

"he'd fondled himself to the point of impotence"- I don't know why I'm cracking up. It's so funny and poetic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:44 PM
78

When he typed "Master's degree", he thought it meant masturbation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:49 PM
2

Yeah, he accidentally outed himself to me as a swinger...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:54 PM
2

I see you met my former boss... blech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:50 PM
189

I caught the ick with my ex-husband when I realized I did EVERYTHING in the house and relationship, while holding down a full-time job. When he'd make the moves for sex, I wanted to throw up because I'd have to endure a groping, grabby, clumsy attempt at foreplay, along with constantly dodging his attempts at anal. And, as if you couldn't already guess: yes, he was also porn-sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:57 PM
44

I can't understand why she can't see he's not worthy of a gift or anything else for that matter. If he never leaves the house, what does he get HER???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:39 PM
14

I'd love for you to write that post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:48 PM
81

If all women only procreated with attractive men, then maybe even the ugly ones would shower more often...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:44 PM
12

Does he shave his chest? Is that stubble or is puberty not finished with him yet? And his nipples are weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:48 PM
11

So she spent $50 that she didn't really have and he bought her nothing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:00 PM
5

You need to observe. Just observe. Make a game out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:02 PM
10

it's sort of a weird confidence because even if they're rejected, they know they go home to someone either way. Does that make sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:43 AM
14

I can also tell who's single, taken or taken but looking to cheat. It's definitely the vibe they give off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:12 AM
122

My first thought about the dogs: He didn't want them there because they'd be able to protect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:06 AM
48

I have noticed there are two types of porn sick dudes: 1) The ones who stare so intensely, they scare the crap out of you 2) The ones who can't even make eye contact with a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:33 PM
67

I like how he makes up his own version of events. "She was unable to find a good husband"- like how would he know? Anything to cope, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:20 PM
87

I think men want to see how much pain & torture & humiliation a woman will put up with. It wasn't like this when I was dating in the 80's/90's. It wasn't like this after my divorce in 2012. They are trying to make abuse and perversion totally normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:41 PM
120

"I don't kink shame"... that's okay, I do. But I digress... If a woman doesn't do what a man wants, he finds someone who will and it becomes the woman's fault. Yet if a man isn't satisfying a woman it becomes the woman's fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:31 PM
6

He's really a 5'10" obnoxious neckbeard and has zero clue how he looks and comes across to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:06 PM
27

He's cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:29 AM
178

Why doesn't she just buy herself presents and not buy anything for anyone else? I don't think this will teach them a lesson since there are no consequences for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:32 PM
16

The projection is strong in this one... What he's saying is he looked his best at 24, fell further apart this past year, has aged 3-4 years and now he looks 52.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:13 PM
284

but... but... but... wouldn't that make her The Dreaded Gold Digger though???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:47 PM
434

Rescheduling is "bad behavior" that must be "punished"??? Who does this dingaling think he is? He can stay by himself with his bald head, skinny ass and two-for-one Applebees coupon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:45 PM
18

He's asking for "time"? He's stalling. He hopes you'll forget about it or he'll let enough time go by and see if he can call your bluff. You already told him how you expect to be treated. He's either on board or he isn't. Why does he need "time" to adust his behavior to treat you properly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:09 PM
5

"Vanilla" means I'm a boring prude because I don't like pain. They can f*ck off with that "vanilla" sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:34 PM
107

And when you send paragraphs (and in some cases, entire books), you are giving them a detailed report on how badly they hurt you. I imagine them checking things off and grading themselves like it's a report card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:34 PM
40

From what I pieced together, he's broke, wants a blow job and likes choking women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:56 PM
192

So this is an OK Cupid success story, huh? I'll pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:14 PM
26

I wonder what his wife skills are like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:20 PM
4

Why do I picture this dude all sweaty and twitchy behind his monitor chanting, "boobies, boobies, boobies"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:20 PM
26

#3 is a very dangerous idea, especially if you're getting the guy drunk. #2 isn't so hot, either. My ex-husband had scars on the back of his hands from self-harm. I didn't know it until after I married him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:25 PM
38

At first I thought it was a troll, but when you really stop and think about it, is something like this that uncommon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:16 PM
12

If I had listened to and trusted myself instead of my "friends", I would have left my ex-husband years sooner... they made me feel like I was expecting too much of him and had no clue how relationships worked. In reality, they liked seeing me miserable like they were...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:18 PM
13

He isn't very "devout" if he is having premarital sex. Also, he'll never marry you, he'll marry someone within the church.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:36 PM
39

I re-read and see that I originally read it sideways! OOPS. Well, the guy shouldn't be dating, he's a mess. If a women wrote that, someone would tell her to get over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:14 PM
27

The fact that he is still hung up on someone he broke up with almost 3 years ago is creepy enough for me. Sorry to sound so jaded, but if she was still alive, would he still be so obsessed with her? It sounds like a pity ploy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:58 PM
4

and little boys will be playing this shit???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:42 PM
49

I do have issue with "do not pay his rent long term". It should be NEVER!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:37 PM
26

Well at least it's nicer than the threat of physical harm I got last week...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:09 PM
153

If she ran his pic through that thing, I wonder what it would say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:58 PM
35

My vagina lily just wilted after reading about their vagina lily...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:13 PM
7

That was my first thought!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:00 PM
24

I see you both met my ex-husband! He had the same lines, too!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:55 PM
282

Arts & Crafts "gifts" like they made in school when they were 5 years old to give to their mommy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:54 PM
53

Why do I get the feeling he did it to intentionally humiliate you? Just a feeling I have...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:23 PM
1

They're all blending together at this point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:43 AM
443

My ex-husband used to say, "I work a PHYSICALLY DEMANDING job!!!!" at that time, he was a retail manager who basically sat in the office or helped little old ladies find plumbing supplies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:44 PM
186

Why wasn't he ashamed? He needs to feel shame. Shame, shame, shame! Are those apples in a bag on the right side of the second shelf???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:00 PM
7

I'd love to hear more gems from your mom! She spoke pure truth!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:13 PM
9

Could we please have this post as the FDS Handbook Intro???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:57 PM
8

It just shows that when she has a man in her life, she lets her life fall apart...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:24 PM
5

Since The Golden Girls is my favorite show and I practice Witchcraft, I'd gladly join The Golden Girl Coven!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:17 PM
3

I need to keep a list. I remember that laundromat date! Isn't that the one where she sat in a parked car in an alley with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:59 PM
5

I didn't know that is a cause of DID. Psychology fascinates me so I'll have to check that out. It makes sense, though- I mentored a group of teens/young adults with mental health issues and they really couldn't separate reality from fiction. Interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:58 PM
1

Do I have to remember that? LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:56 PM
34

But those Cheddar Bay Biscuits though!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:34 PM
13

He was very slick, but there were signs that I ignored because I didn't want to seem paranoid, untrusting and suspicious. There are too many to list, but ALWAYS trust your gut. You don't need "proof".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:58 PM
11

I'm sorry for being confusing. They quit working for my mom. It probably wasn't because of her (but it could be!), but she'd tell me stories of their personal lives and how she pointed out how these guys were mooching losers and I still don't think that advice sat well!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:56 PM
138

We have had coffee dates, field dates, parked car in an alley date and now the public assistance date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:05 PM
121

Great catch! I missed that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:02 PM
117

This almost happened to my mother. Her "best friends" were over-heard plotting to see which one could take my dad away from my mom. They were only dating at the time. Their plan failed. It DID happen to me. My "best friend" of over 25 years was (at the very least) giving my ex-husband blowjobs at the end of our marriage. I didn't figure it out until after the divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:52 PM
35

Thanks! If I remember any more, I'll edit my post or create a Part 2. Lately, she's been schooling her young home health aides about the loser men these girls are with. I'm pretty sure that's why some of them quit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:40 PM
7

but-but-but porn is normal and healthy and natural and all men watch it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:25 PM
7

Jerk off buddies? What in the ever-loving f*ck??? Not only is everything about their dicks, but everything is about everyone else's dicks, too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:23 PM
136

Social media is turning them all into psychopaths- I don't think they can comprehend what human life is any more. He continued to broadcast while she was dead and after the paramedics came? Zero empathy. Zero soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:25 PM
26

Makes me wonder if there's more to the story... Yep, I'm sure there's more to the story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:20 PM
28

I won't remarry, I don't care how "great" the guy is. It was a long and exhausting battle to get out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:19 PM
13

I just posted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 05:18 PM
22

It doesn't sound like she likes him very much...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:52 PM
30

So he equates being inside a woman to being nurtured by his mommy? Sounds like he wants to crawl back into the womb. Ewww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:49 PM
85

I'm considering writing a post of all the quotes my 86 year old mother says about men... I wish I had listened to her back then, but I thought she was old-fashioned and she was almost 40 when she had me, so I thought she was out of touch with the times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:35 PM
136

My mother always said to hide your own money because men are hiding theirs. When my dad died, he had hidden an entire BOAT from her! I wish I had listened to my mother back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:08 PM
183

You really can't tell, that's the thing. But you need to be prepared to walk out if he turns into a shithead. I wish FDS existed 20+ years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:19 PM
111

I hear my 86 year old mother's voice in my head, "Sure, they're ALL nice in the beginning." The posts are too optimistic (in my opinion) and they seem blind to what could lie ahead...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:42 PM
569

My ex-husband didn't display LV behavior until after we were married. We were together for about 3 years by that point. Once it was legal, his true colors came out. Never stop vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:17 PM
101

The pill bottles and Amazon boxes are a nice touch. This entire picture is projection. I'm sure the "artist" lives in a dump. Or he's hoping this is what single women live like. Obviously, he's never been to a woman's house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:16 PM
23

Former heavy smoker here as well. I believe this is not the first time this has happened. There's one scrote in the comments section that is standing up for the dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:51 PM
18

After his expression of love, I would have shut that shit down. I don't encourage crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 12:30 AM
1

There is no "karma". Besides, the word has totally deviated from the original meaning here in the west. Saying someone will get it in the end is just a way to pacify you. Besides, if they "got it" in the end, how is that "karma"? How is getting hit by a bus when they're 80 years old going to teach them anything? Meanwhile, they will have spent 80 years being a dick. There is no justice, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:10 PM
2

How could she do that to herself? Just... what???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:57 PM
25

This is so damn true, every word of it. I used to try to put my foot down with my ex-husband until I no longer had the energy to even care any more. No matter how "strong" or "tough" I tried to be with him, he would come up with a brand new plan to flip the situation around on me. I ended up "floating" through life until I left him. The whole "why bother trying?" attitude of learned helplessness sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:21 PM
342

My first thought was, "why would you even want to have sex with that?". She's dealing with a teenage boy who hates his mommy (her).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:10 PM
90

You didn't miss a thing! Every time I wanted to cancel a date and din't, I ended up regretting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:12 PM
121

This has to be written by a guy. It has to be. Please tell me this is written by a guy. If not, we must vote her off our island...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:17 PM
200

"How do I get this to stop??" By leaving him. She's already asked him to stop repeatedly. There is no "magic" sentence that is going to make him suddenly stop. He knows what he's doing and continues to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:58 AM
150

I tried rating men and could never get past "0"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:14 AM
64

And all the "inner work" and personal growth we should be doing, only to improve ourselves through introspection and these men do nothing to "improve" themselves and reap the rewards of our self-improvement. All they have to do is sit on the couch and fart. We can do all the "healing" we want, but what good does it do when all that's out there are damaged men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 12:09 AM
155

Someone needs to warn her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:07 PM
1

I'm thinking, "who talks like that???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:25 PM
149

He's confusing his aching heart with his aching weiner...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:24 PM
4

Ten bucks says you'll get a dick pic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:23 PM
87

Does anyone else find the name "Pretty Mike" a little bit too precious???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:06 PM
104

"Pandemic Holiday Dick"...BWAH-HA-HA!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:01 PM
18

I'd do the same thing to his picture and maybe even add a dick in his mouth and send it back to him. Dirtbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 06:26 PM
46

May I also add that if you had a substance abuse problem, a lot of LVM will use that against you. You'll be degraded for it and more than likely, they will try to get you to relapse or prevent you from reaching out for support. And then they'll call you crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:14 AM
142

And if she gave in this time, it would never end and HER balance would be -$200.00.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:29 PM
79

Rick needs to build himself a fort and stay in the damn woods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:38 PM
24

I like how he said HE is choosing his brother over her sister like he had the FINAL say in this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:27 PM
85

Welcome to the Celebate Side! It's peaceful and STD-free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:12 PM
20

Oh darn! He's only looking for a gold girl named Christen. He sounded like such a keeper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:41 AM
7

My "vaggingin" is also Sober Country- I don't want to encourage that guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:39 AM
28

This is like one of those children's "find the hidden objects" books!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:55 PM
104

"My vaggingin is now closed for the season."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:42 PM
20

Thanks! I figured there were ladies products, but didn't recognize the brands!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:40 PM
56

help me, I don't know what I'm supposed to be seeing. Forgive me, I'm middle-aged!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:34 PM
204

Oh this was my entire relationship with my ex-husband. Everyone knew but me. I had suspicions but could never get any concrete proof because everyone was covering his ass for him. I no longer talk to anyone who was involved in that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:10 PM
258

He's just checking to see if you're still an option. I'd ignore him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:08 PM
12

Well that's one badass chicken sandwich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:07 PM
50

Funny, I'm always told I wear too much make up. We can't win can we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:05 PM
20

but since it's 2020, he would end up only paying half of what she charged!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:04 PM
66

Wow, he's a bossy scrote, isn't he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:16 PM
20

I've heard that story before (it might have even been on here), but it wasn't the friend's coworker, it was a first-person account of the story...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:14 PM
154

I can't think of any more off-hand, but here is my story: The last few years of my marriage, my clothes were mysteriously producing tiny holes, almost like someone took scissors and stabbed my tee shirts with the pointy end. Crotches of sweatpants and leggings coming apart at the seems, but in a ripped kind of way. My CLEAN panties and pantyhose would be stretched out like someone twice my size wore them (I later found out he had been WEARING my panties and pantyhose- he decided it was a "fetish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:34 PM
24

Y'all know we will never walk past the ice cream aisle totally composed ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:26 AM
217

He got what he deserved. If he has a family to provide for, he should have thought about that before he was inappropriate with a young woman who was old enought to be his daughter. This is all on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:58 PM
70

but, but, but... he needs to get free nudes in order to respect her!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 08:55 PM
2

Oh no apologies needed, I hope you don't think I was shoving it at you! I just figured you could see some of the responses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:47 PM
3

It was posted here last night. I vote that we rescue her. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jxcsr8/adult_toddler_wants_chocwit_ice_cream_i_cant_with/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:04 PM
168

He told you the truth: he's a hoe and not to catch feelings. If you caught feelings, he'd blame you . You called his bluff. He wasn't expecting you to have some standards and dignity. Don't give him any more attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:43 PM
6

He asked you what you wanted and then gave reasons why you couldn't have it? It's block and delete time on this fine Friday afternoon...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:11 PM
29

I'm stunned at her saying "fuck you, bitch" to her mother. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:13 PM
65

I tried to come up with some kind of funny, witty zinger about this and I'm totally empty. I re-read it and tried to picture being in her shoes. I'd send him home to his mommy and let her deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:38 PM
31

I'm sure he continued to do it to for her after that. I never asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:17 PM
138

I worked with a guy who made a "gift basket" of "pampering products" from Dollar Tree for his girlfriend for christmas one year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:02 PM
32

I can smell the skidmarks from here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:18 PM
10

I'm crying I'm laughing so hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:03 PM
133

This gets me mad because how do they know she falsely accused him??? I want to see the proof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:43 PM
38

Everyone is going to die alone, even if you're surrounded by your friends and family. It's one of those solo journeys. The last thing I want is to have to be an old lady taking care of an old man. Let that image sink in if any of you are afraid of being alone in your old age. I have seen very sick elderly women who end up having to take care of their sick spouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:28 PM
221

Some form of erectile dysfunction where he needs turbo hand jobs/ lube/ a magic spell to get it and keep it up. Has a history of frequenting strip clubs. Tries to get you into weird/uncomfortable positions that normal human being wouldn't even think of. Brings up threesomes, anal, public sex in casual conversation to see how many of his "fantasies" you're willing to play out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:37 PM
47

Why does "you're free to come and go as you please" not sound comforting???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:16 PM
40

He comes back because he is going to destroy what you re-built.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:52 PM
15

This is some scary shit. I'm glad you got away from that psychopath. If this is how he took a "no", what would he do if he got a "yes"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 02:51 PM
68

I have a doozy for ya: "I'm not good at compliments". That means, "I'm not even going to waste my energy coming up with faux compliments."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:11 AM
2

Is he even straight???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:26 PM
19

10 days though? Did I read that right? If a man did this to me after typing back and forth for 10 days, I'd get a restraining order!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:05 PM
26

"My ex is crazy" is true in this case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:44 PM
201

Plants give their environment oxygen, scrotes suck oxygen out of their environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:32 PM
92

I was going to translate this line by line, but I got too angry. Let me just condense it by saying: HE's NOt liKE OThER BoyS. No wait, he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:30 PM
42

I wish this wasn't true, but... yeah. Every single time for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:27 PM
91

A walk in the park with alcohol! Great! No chance at sexual assault in that scenario!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:26 PM
11

If that's the case, I want the entire Harry Potter Lego collection... wait, I can just buy it my damn self...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:23 PM
15

Why are women buying grown men toys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:36 PM
12

I want to add to be careful if he's a "regular" at this restaurant- if he knows any of the employees well or has friends who work there, it's very easy for them to help him slip something in your drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:34 PM
107

It's too familiar- he's acting like you are close but you don't even know him. Plus, he calls everyone "honey", that way, he won't have to remember their names!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:06 PM
69

So we're not supposed to do that? Oops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:32 PM
25

He'll get her a cake to "celebrate" her first fart, but I guarantee he won't even mumble, "congratulations" when she gets a promotion or degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:05 PM
10

They were so not The Crow!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:00 PM
12

Since Goths were scarce in my area in the late 80s, I only ended up attracting "normies" who had The Elvira Fantasy" and wanted to "have a Goth" but didn't want to go out in public with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:58 PM
137

As a former Goth, lemme just say they'll never love you like Gomez...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:20 AM
38

Came here to post the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:37 PM
167

And marry the new one in two weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:24 PM
207

I had to read your post 3 times. I might have to read it 3 more times. My brain is smoking. My eyes have crossed. I hear circus music playing. You just can't make shit like this up. Reality writes itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:23 PM
29

Maybe he wants you to read to him because he can't read...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:16 PM
104

Drinks/ Lounges = Alcoholic Harry Potter= Thinks he has a magic wand Lots and lots of sex = He will barely get it up once due to his whisky dick and then blame you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:35 PM
33

My ex-husband always cut off parts of my face, my entire head and the camera would be out of focus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:11 PM
30

I don't have Facebook, but I got that ad from an app on my phone! I just sat there staring at it- I couldn't believe it was real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:15 PM
62

They just want you to redecorate them for the next girl. My ex-husband had a closet full of NICE clothes thanks to me. When we went out in public, he only ever wore concert t-shirts and cargo shorts. In all the pics of him and his new sucker wife, he's wearing the stuff I helped him pick out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:44 PM
79

Wow, what a big bowl of word salad. He's just throwing stuff at the wall to see what sticks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:43 PM
21

Miss me with that "love language" shit. You could be fluent in their "language" and they'll still screw everything up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:53 PM
34

It's a foot with a foot-eating disease. I'm done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:38 PM
48

You already know everything there is to know about him: he is rude, greedy and will end up taking everything you have because what's his is his and what's yours is also his. Please tell me he paid for the dinner. Not that it even begins to make up for his behavior, but you barely got any dinner... I am 47 and no one has ever pulled this low-class shit on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 08:29 PM
56

I doubt he'd extend the same charity if she fed him peanut butter sandwiches and destroyed cooked meals from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:17 AM
48

He actually didn't apologize at all. If he were truly sorry, he'd be specific about what he was apologizing for! This is the cousin to, "I'm sorry you feel this way". If you cornered this twatwaffle, he wouldn't be able to tell you exactly what he thought was hostile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:14 AM
4

If he was "actually legitimately looking to have a conversation", he would have left out the demeaning "haha"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:39 PM
68

I'm so old and out of touch, I actually had to Google "fishhooking"- what is going on out there??? My heart breaks for young women who have to endure this shit. I remember when the only injure you could get from sex was a hickey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 07:18 PM
248

This post hit a BIG nerve with me. I'll try to give you the short version of the story because it's so long and makes me too mad to talk about. I once worked with a guy who not only destroyed the mens room, but when he totally putrified it, moved on to destroying the ladies room. I complained to my boss and was told that it was MY job to keep both bathrooms clean, even though the employee handbook clearly stated that whoever worked that day was responsible for keeping both bathrooms clean. I als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:17 PM
8

That is seriously a thing, I notice it too with men like that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:56 PM
9

They messaged me with "dumb ass", too! I angered my first scrote !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:56 PM
25

He does not have PPD. He did not give birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:04 AM
74

Thank you! I corrected it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:19 PM
536

You: must meet this list of criteria that needs to be printed out on a roll of toilet paper.Him: I'm short, fat, old and live with my parents. Edit to add: and racist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:22 PM
28

We are a nomadic people who lived off the land...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:26 PM
39

Trust me, you don't want an older man- the older you get, the older and sicker they get... only date an older man if you want to be his nurse and give him an ego boost because he landed a young thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:36 PM
63

As an actual Gypsy, I'd like to say that we do have emotions and feelings and really hate it when people use our culture like that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 02:57 PM
70

OMG, that is abuse! And everything is "I, I, I". It's all about how HE feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:14 AM
3

That was my thought, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:58 PM
69

She doesn't know what title to call him, but she agrees to "hang out" with him. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:22 AM
10

Just be grateful you don't have to talk like that on a daily basis with one of those losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:32 PM
22

But if he peed on the potty, you know he's gonna miss...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:23 PM
50

I like her. She is down-to-earth and tells it like it is. Bonus: her titles aren't "click baity"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:20 PM
130

But did she serve it to him in a sippy cup with a handful of animal crackers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:15 PM
50

I happened to see an episode of Lockup last night that this reminds me of. The guy had a statutory rape conviction. He had relations with a 14 year old when he was 32. He said that she was- wait for it, drumroll please... "mature for her age and an old soul". She was a friend of the family and he claimed he never did that before... I have concluded that just because they're not in prison (yet), men are a bunch of sick fucks...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:52 PM
5

this was years ago...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:12 PM
207

...aaaaaaaand she's being cheated on again! She needs to take a time-out from dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:29 PM
184

They take your energy and use it to improve their life, while your life goes to shit. Tell me I'm wrong, I'll wait...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:27 PM
25

Oh gawd, I think I dated one of those and he was 39 years old at the time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:36 PM
1

It's so easy to weed out 95% of these losers by their appearance these days. I bet he rarely showers, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:20 AM
87

She'll just blame herself and think that maybe if she gave him more anal, he'd have stayed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:34 PM
67

Imagine his disappointment when he realizes I am not going to heal him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:33 PM
62

Show of appreciation for what? What does this guy do to earn this shit? She's gonna do all this crap for him and he is going to be cheating on her with everyone while she's busy warming up his towel, tying his shoes and cutting his steak into bite-sized pieces. I already have a full time job, so I'm gonna pass on this display of desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:03 PM
91

I was a little scared for her because his behavior seemed very unstable. THIS IS WHY WE DON'T GO TO THEIR APARTMENTS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:26 PM
178

I used to be "soft & smiley" and got screwed over, taken advantage of and treated like a performing circus seal. I'm blunt and edgy now and much happier. This is me and if they don't like it, fuck 'em- I'm not a happy go lucky golden retriever for crying out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:03 PM
41

This is why I will never date a guy with kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:22 AM
48

And now that she's set the standard, he will expect it from everyone who comes after her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:19 AM
398

She doesn't charge him for content and talks to him about her life... she's setting him up to pay the big money, like sob stories about needing rent money. Watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:01 PM
196

So now she's 41 and he's 57? He's right at that age where it all falls apart. I hope she is prepared to be his nurse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:42 PM
19

I'm in the 40+ age bracket and men my age are gamers. It's cringey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:28 PM
158

...and he will offer her: absolutely fuck all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:53 PM
97

She's giving concrete examples of why she's scared. I wonder what the responses would have been had she not mentioned her mental illness? Probably not much different; they'd just tell her she was mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:29 PM
87

She's complaining about this, but she'll end up marrying him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:22 PM
6

Eww!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:39 PM
3

Same here. Focused entirely on being June Cleaver when I was married in my 20's & 30's and now it's me in my 40's and my cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:01 PM
60

He seemed to harp on his "gentlemanliness" a lot...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:54 PM
163

I'd love to hear her side. I bet he took out his peepee and she freaked. I bet he left that part out of his sob story. If all those women are on his side, they should go out with him. I bet they'd change their tune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:05 PM
17

My ex-husband had my engagement ring custom made. He designed it and it was one of a kind. My proposal even had a heart-felt, original poem that he wrote, for crying out loud! He only went through all that trouble so he could tell that story to impress everyone we met. Designing the ring was a way to make him look like a thoughtful, caring, romantic guy who loved me so, so very much. It was a cover for all the shit he was about to put me through. It's hard for the public to believe a guy is an a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:07 PM
12

...and because everyone in your life treats you like ass, you try even harder with them. It's a horrible cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:53 AM
5

I would buy that book just to do the opposite of what it says!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:19 PM
85

That last line: "The house isn't in my name, but it's my house too". No, it isn't. Keep telling yourself that shit. I love how she also says she had total control over what went into it, because her putting money and work into the house was an "investment" in their relationship. Again, keep telling yourself that shit. When you guys split up, he gets to keep not only the house, but all the elbow grease that you put into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:18 PM
5

It looks like her pimp is behind the camera, making her say this stuff. He's trying to recruit more hoes for his stable... All these naive young women will be hittin' the clubs, getting drugged and waking up chained to a radiator. I don't trust videos like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:13 PM
131

Because the man is so cheap, he ordered a side salad for himself and expected to finish your plate. I see you, you cheap bastard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:57 PM
7

My ex-husband tried to take presents his MOTHER gave to me! He successfully took a cookbook that My mother gave to ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:47 PM
3

OMG- that never would have occurred to me! That's it- I'm getting a taser. I'm tired of these assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:45 PM
120

Something very similar happened to me a few days ago. A guy on the street called to me, "excuse me, ma'am?" like he needed directions (my neighborhood gets a ton of deliveries/ food orders). I turned to look at him and he asked, "can I give you a smile or a joke?". He was incredibly creepy and looked like a crackhead. I'm thinking, "dude, you are the joke". When I realized he didn't need directions and was just duping me into paying attention to him, I turned and kept walking and he started yell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:37 PM
200

There is no reason why straight men can't look that good. The only thing is, the straight men I see in my travels have cold, dead, cruel eyes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:11 AM
4

And I'm sure this jackass let's her dictate his style and what he looks like, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:04 AM
116

He cheated on his first wife and there are local rumors he actually has kids (he lived in my area) with a woman he's been keeping on the side for 20ish years. He also had an eleventeen page "relationship contract" with Nikki that detailed how insane, controlling, asinine and personality disordered he is. One example was something like if they broke up, she had to give him back all the designer shoes he bought her or something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:57 AM
10

She was against it. She gave in to what he wanted. He got mad. He "forgave" her for doing what he wanted in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:53 AM
83

What's with his struggle mustache though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:53 PM
75

My ex-husband. The face he made looked like a constipated, scrunched-up, newborn baby wailing as it tried to take a shit, but it was coming out sideways or something.... it was just so creepy and repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:53 PM
174

I look at all the shitty relationshits people are in, just so they won't be alone and that reminds me how grateful I am to be single. My time is mine and I'm rarely lonely now. I would like to add that if a guy figures out you don't have any friends or aren't close with your family, you'll be a target. Make sure you aren't going into dating without outside support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:21 AM
16

Right? He coulda gone on Amazon and got her a 20 pack and had Prime Delivery ship it to her house!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:30 PM
11

I can't even buy Brawny paper towels because the hairy lumberjack dude on the package reminds me of all the guys in my area...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:59 PM
96

She just emanates class and refinement! Anyway, I'm cracking up over her crying over a 2 pack of Bounty. I just bought myself 3 tubs of disinfectant wipes and a 3 pack of Puffs Plus. I am my own sugar daddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:57 PM
131

He willingly and knowingly destroyed a living thing- he is cruel and dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:51 PM
60

There is nothing "empowering" about having an overweight old man with sagging balls and a smelly dick grunting over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:07 PM
46

Why is she on the couch? He'd be on the couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:58 PM
245

That is the most helpless feeling in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:09 PM
2

Seems like your post hurt him in his empty wallet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:04 PM
61

And his idea of "communication" will be groping and grabbing you in the field...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:41 PM
7

...then bury your body in the woods 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:37 PM
19

I can smell him from here... *shudders*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:02 PM
68

Well this is some fresh, new douchery!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:07 PM
16

But it's a different tune when men whine about how their exes took them for every cent they had in the divorce and were all crazy, etc.?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:03 PM
39

There was an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond that this reminds me of. When I saw that episode, I realized that my ex-husband intentionally effed up every "domestic" chore I asked him to do, including ruining my favorite dress the first and only time I asked him to do my laundry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:06 PM
37

and consistently happier!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:14 PM
141

And these same "low maintenance" women will be the first ones bitching about their loser husbands. Give it time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:06 PM
54

Yeah if a man goes from having no ass to a saggy diaper ass, we will know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:57 PM
11

I am so glad you found your way here!!! My heart broke for you and what you are going through. Your dad sounds like a really great guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:45 PM
39

OMG- I am going through a similar thing right now, only this neighbor is unemployed, bald and weighs at least 400 pounds. I wish I was exaggerating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:13 PM
1

I bet he didn't even make that. It looks like something made by his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:35 PM
66

He must have left his balls at the gym and is over-compensating right now... He needs something and I don't think it's testosterone. He's a greasy, weasley-looking thing with jacked up teeth. I bet he is about 5'4" with a crooked micropeen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:51 PM
156

So they're implying that the older you get, the more desperate you are? Not this 47 year old!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:45 PM
90

I hope she doesn't take him back because that would let him know she backs down. I'd be afraid he'd pull more stunts to destroy her self esteem to get revenge on her for hurting his poor widdle ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:39 PM
70

I came here to say the same things. And she just gave him a reason to propose now. She planned her own murder out for him. I had to facepalm when she told him her parents would be "very comfortable" if she died. Men NEVER let women know exactly how much they really have- ever. Why do women need to blab these things, especially when they're not even married to the guy? When my father died, he had a damn BOAT my mother knew nothing about!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:35 PM
5

I hope the Laundromat Date joke never gets old... it's been around for less than a week and already a classic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:17 PM
9

I can't get passed his eyebrows. It's like two caterpillars about to have a head-on collision. If this is what she does the first time she sees him, he is going to expect her to top herself every time. She's screwed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:25 PM
48

As someone who is sober, let me just leave you with this: "They'll get you drunk before you get them sober". Don't risk your sobriety on this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:43 PM
461

She lost her f*cking fingertip and is still with him??? He thinks this is all funny??? I think I'm done Redditing today...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:35 PM
33

You got it! If this really didn't bother her than why is she posting 842 paragraphs about it? And notice it isn't even about her current situation, she has to go down memory lane and pull out more disappointing proposals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:25 PM
27

"Spiritually married"? Well looks like she found herself a sensitive, woke boy! NOT!!! If I was still drinking, I'd sit here on a Friday night and just chug to some of these posts. Good stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:57 PM
212

Men: women are stupid Also Men: I was manipulated by a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:48 PM
145

"I've never been one for huge diamonds or grand romantic gestures, but..." And that explains why she keeps getting disappointed on the rings/ proposals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:12 PM
8

By "quiet games" he means mind games...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:42 PM
23

I think this "straight" dude just outed himself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:36 PM
38

I don't even want to try to figure out what it could mean...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:48 PM
13

There isn't enough money in the world to make me suck a vomitous dick, even if it is my vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:59 PM
76

Plus, she didn't know what to do because he was threatening to go to her house. He threatened a 13 year old girl with rape- what 13 year old can "handle" that properly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:57 PM
159

The ones who ask if they can hit back are already hitting and usually hitting first. They just want it to be totally legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:43 PM
10

This is good stuff! Thanks for taking the time to write it all out for us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:15 PM
27

While we talk a lot here about vetting the man, we also need to stress the importance of vetting the peen. One time I didn't do my due diligence (I was arrogant and assumed his size 13 shoe would measure up, so to speak) and uncovered something that can only be described as a shrunken, frightened cocktail weenie that no amount of coaxing could make bigger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:08 PM
56

Deep down she knows what they "are"- she is just hoping she's wrong...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:52 PM
17

I had to go look... yikes!...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:17 PM
107

I wonder if the car was parked "in an alley behind a garage"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:27 PM
302

Am I the only one who is thinking that she took over doing his laundry, paid for the coffee and gave him a blowjob in the car???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:10 PM
10

I'm just gonna pull up a chair here and sit my Witchy ass in it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:56 PM
52

He's one of those pompous asses who over-complicates simple things to make himself look smarter. I had a headache trying to follow all that. Imagine looking down on someone because they don't understand math the way you're teaching it? The problem seems to lie with him, not her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:44 AM
11

"Alley behind a garage" is the new "Van down by the river"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:17 PM
9

If she gained 32 pounds, he would leave her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:49 PM
55

I wish FDS was around for me 30 years ago. This was how I thought when I was young, only to be told I was wrong by the Pickmes I hung around with. Grrr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:11 PM
36

"never deliver yourself like a pizza!"- truth!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:41 PM
4

Why do there always have to be children involved in this messy crap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:49 PM
2

This is why I don't date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:29 PM
7

Just wait until his beer belly is bigger than hers...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:23 PM
3

OMG, give that girl a round of applause for catering to pedophiles and diverting their attention from underage children to her! BARF! Doesn't she realize that they will end up acting on it because she is opening the door?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:06 PM
1

In addition to getting screwed on the rent (and screwed in his bed), she is going to have a longer commute to work and she's going to "help out" with buying furniture? Gawddamn, where is her brain?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:05 PM
17

Notice there is nothing in his post that says how much he loved her or cared about her? It is all about him! I, me, my... That post is calculated. He will probably now get a flood of women who are going to try to soothe his broken, now-woke heart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:00 PM
74

He looks like he beats women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:17 PM
26

It means he was able to keep his crazy contained until the end of the date and then the flood gate opened. Or he figured you'd let him grope you because he was so well-behaved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:41 PM
1

He can't be that sick then. No sympathy from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:41 PM
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