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MINDSET SHIFTGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:26 PM
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LVM MYTHSGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:16 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:35 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:17 AM
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Story time ☕GreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:08 AM
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DISCUSSIONGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:50 PM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS11/08/21 01:14 AM
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DISCUSSIONGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:04 PM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS07/08/21 05:02 AM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS11/07/21 04:58 AM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS15/08/21 10:42 PM
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DISCUSSIONGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:28 AM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS13/06/21 11:49 PM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS22/08/21 12:52 AM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS01/05/21 06:53 PM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS04/08/21 09:41 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:31 AM
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GreatOrchidAmbition/r/askFDS06/08/21 11:51 PM
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DISCUSSIONGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:03 PM
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DISCUSSIONGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:05 AM
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DISCUSSIONGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:04 AM
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DISCUSSIONGreatOrchidAmbition/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:48 PM
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What an apt comparison. It's like when the post the Taliban eating ice cream that went viral and people pointing out see? They're not evil like you guys said! Like I say this as someone who votes D but liberals always seem to cannibalize themselves to appear woke. It is so frustrating. Like okay the Taliban are eating ice cream but they're also murdering and raping thousands of women amongst other atrocities. You have to remember and remind what is actually important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:37 PM
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I'm not sure how to help other than raising awareness right now. China needs to be punished for their genocide and concentration camps. The most you can do is for fucks sake, not praise them for what, banning video games? Like I saw in another thread? You should criticize them often and LOUDLY because their own victims cannot do the same thing. And spread the word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:35 PM
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Okay someone explain this to me because I know several people who do this? Why is it looked down upon? They look ten times happier than people I know in prestige medical schools because they're living the island life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:50 PM
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Without that medical degree he's never going to pay it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:50 PM
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Neurosurgeon with family money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:49 PM
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I always find it so funny that they think they're more obedient. To who???? Eastern European women don't take shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:49 PM
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What if I wear a mask? Would I always have to cover up when I'm outside to avoid this? This is starting to sound really close to some of the more oppressed regions... that are forced to cover up... because of the mal egaze...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:44 PM
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This is one of the most powerful things I've read and I keep coming back to it. You can't reason with your oppressor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:42 PM
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adderall addiction is no joke. they need to stop making it sound like it's a cool drug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:49 PM
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I think that's in AUD. someone tell me if i'm wrong though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 03:48 PM
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russia?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:25 PM
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I don't want a doctor. I think that profession is extremely overrated. I want a finance guy. More money, less debt, more prestige, ironically less ego. And YES. I will be talking about guys like they're build a bitch because that's what they do to us anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:56 AM
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Looking at it now, I don't want doctors. They have overly inflated egos from "saving lives" while having crippling debt and not making money until their 40s. NO thanks. There are a lot of traditionally sought after careers that I am so not interested in. Lawyers? Scammers. Dentist? Less prestige than a doctor with more of a chip on their shoulder. Ironically I'm interested in people in finance (ib NOT vc, thanks, because VC gives me scam vibes) because their jobs are hard as hell but they have l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:55 AM
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I disagree. That stuff is strange and it puts me in a bad mood. I am starting to feel like I'm exposed to MORE male depravity on this subreddit and that is the last thing I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:31 AM
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I think stuff like this should be autobanned. There has been a lot of strange stuff on this subreddit recently, including a horrible account of literal JOHNS AND THEIR DESCRIPTIONS. Why the hell would we need to see that? Sometimes I think people are posting sensationalist things for ulterior motives instead of the benefit of actually helping women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:24 AM
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i don't really buy that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 01:11 PM
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failing to see what you're saying but okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:47 AM
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Breaking this down, do they start panicking because they think they're missing out on The One which is somehow now you, or is it FOMO, or is it just let's see if this girl well say hi for a quick ego boost? Also, what if you cursed them out and called them a loser who didn't make enough money and would never be at your level and that's why you dropped them because you knew you could do better? What would hurt more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:10 PM
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The thing about FDS is that my fuse is so much shorter when it comes to men. The block is coming quick. I don't tolerate this madness anymore. I just remembered one date the guy ran super late. Like an hour late to COFFEE. I wandered around the shops as it was a new area and purchased something new, and this creep looked at me with a little smile and asked if I had been waiting around for him. EW. And even pre-FDS i became annoyed and said no, I didn't care about you I went shopping at this amaz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:36 AM
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At this point if a guy ever says that to me I'm going to block. Who do you think you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:34 AM
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So I remember making plans with new friends and one, halfway through hanging out and confirming meeting up at a new club later, decided that she would rather... go on a date with a guy instead? I was annoyed and told her to go, she told me that she would just go to the club with me later, and then she blocked me? At first I thought I was too harsh, but now I'm realizing that that is super out of line. That's why I love FDS. I don't gaslight myself into thinking things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:33 AM
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This is giving bj novak vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:09 PM
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I'm failing to see how these things are on askFDS sub. This is not even close to sounding like an FDS user.
/r/askFDS25/08/21 07:33 AM
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I wasn't making a commentary on what MBAs were like, I was making a joke that this man clearly did not even get an MBA. All men of all types, especially successful ones, have an ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:35 AM
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masters in finance with that small ass apt? sounds like he didn't get an MBA. reminds me of when michael scott would tell girls he was a bank teller because Ryan told him to tell girls he was in finance lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:59 AM
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masters in finance? sounds like he couldn't get into real business school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:44 AM
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sorry but this set me off. i'm dying right now lmfaooo. take those guitars while you're at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:43 AM
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tbh if you've NEVER been in a relationship despite wanting one there are probably some glaring issues that you are not addressing. Mabe you aren't taking care of yourself need to go to therapy, etc. Your mom cannot hold your hand forever. A lot of what you wrote sounds very infantile, no offense to you, and I think it has to do with the fact that you're living at home. I think she is just done. Not that that makes it right but clearly there are a lot of issues that aren't being addressed.
/r/askFDS24/08/21 09:40 PM
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Your comments is super strange and I don't think it aligns with FDS values at all. Also it's very evident you know I'm right. When they can't argue with the facts, they argue with the tone. Bye. No need to respond! I don't argue with people who clearly haven't read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:00 PM
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Of course I don't know Mads Mikkelsen. But he's given off certain cues in interviews that indicates high value behavior. re: "you don't know your own partner and how they will change over 20 years", sure, but character is pretty consistent over a lifetime. re: your "country strong" comment, I have no idea what you mean by this. Again, you do not know how celebrities are behind closed doors. And no, character is not. There are many men who fake HVM traits and then drop them the moment a woman get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:48 PM
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I think it's strange you say everywhere celebrities are not. Mads Mikkelsen is literally a celebrity. Also you don't know him? My point is that you don't know even your own partner and how they will change over a ten year, twenty year period, so why would you look at a celebrity and think you know him when there are TONS of "wife-obsessed" celebrities who are being outed? I don't know what you're talking about but your description of a HVM is really... country strong, unlike them city folk. Ther…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:32 PM
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I deleted the apps and swore I'd rather die alone than ever subject myself to that dehumanization and abuse ever again. me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:45 AM
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let me guess. the answer is whatever book he read in high school he liked most. or fight club
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:44 AM
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ok but like...where are these good men? Even "good guy" reputation people like Bill Gates have literally been caught with Epstein. I think that good men with principles are almost impossible to find because you don't know the nature of people fully until YEARs down the road. And men normally do not become successful until later in life, when you've been married for years and are a bit older. It's very scary and extremely vulnerable for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:42 AM
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No, I sadly believe this. I don't think there are any unicorn men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:41 AM
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Block them.
/r/askFDS23/08/21 10:05 PM
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"the way he looks at you awwweee" huh? he's glaring with his beady eyes while fiddling with his wheelie and headset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:06 AM
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embarrassed to post? i would have chucked the phone at his head as i left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:05 AM
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Excuse me? That's irrelevant to what I was saying, that was literally the intro to my concept about soul ties. Very rude and xenophobic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:31 AM
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I have a friend who is such a pick me that she doesn't really have friends outside of whatever her bf hands to her. She just is always hanging out with his friends. He's super rich and controlling and it became a huge problem when he decided he hated me so that friend group he was hanging out with ... included my ex. That was the moment I realized I can't be friends with PM because they are only out for themselves. The friendship disintegrated and it's really her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:40 AM
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Their favorite movie is probably 500 Days of Summer, thinking they are even a quarter as attractive as the main character is self delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:13 AM
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I can play the numbers game by strictly vetting people from far away, not hooking up with hundreds of women and then wondering why i'm looking like a melted popsicle a decade out. It's like they self destruct from within
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:11 AM
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It definitely does. My NVX wouldn't stfu about exes from literally 5,6,7, years ago who wouldn't give them the time of day. Idiot. That's why he always had to feed on fresh supply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 11:58 PM
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I place my mental and physical health above finding a relationship though this is what people don't understand. I know that if I enter another narc relationship I'll be set back for literal years. I value my peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:05 PM
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I think the reason why so many men are broken is because they have soul ties with hundreds of random women 99% of whom hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:03 PM
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When they can;t refute your argument, they refute your delivery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:01 PM
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...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:04 PM
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a lot of guys took it as invitation to touch them and caress it gently while “inspecting” i'm barfing at this "move."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:17 AM
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I remember I had fake tattoos on my arm for halloween and then left them on and went about my day as I secretly thought they were very cute. I was getting LOOKS from all sorts of guys that I normally do not attract and I felt uneasy and then scrubbed them of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:16 AM
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i'm confused by this statement?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:13 AM
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Lol OMG thank you for reminding me of one date where a guy told me his hobby was visiting different elite college campuses and he wanted to visit more in America. GIRL WHAT kind of hobby... he was singularly ambitious about making it as a consultant or whatever but wow that was a mess. Also I caught him following a new friend that was 19 and the man was 27 or so. Ick Point is, men are actually randos who don't have anything going on and will make yourself feel bad no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:18 AM
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Great question. I think you date the guy, marry the family. I think it would be important how accepted I would be by both. To be honest, I have extended family I DON'T get along with at ALL and I always feel sad because they were jealous of me and hated on me a lot. I would not want to marry into a family like that.
/r/askFDS19/08/21 03:10 AM
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Yup. This is true for me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:54 PM
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If they’re sympathetic and offer their own failed family dynamics, we have something to bond over Everything you're saying is literally the antithesis to the point of this post. What you're describing is TRAUMA BONDING. And 99% of the time, you just handed them something on a golden platter to attack you with later. Also I'm not going to offer up my trauma and then "laugh it off" hoping they also will laugh it off. Also NOBODY is entitled to know the relationship you have with your family, and m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:52 PM
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Ew what the literal fuck? AVOID
/r/askFDS18/08/21 05:27 AM
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<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:33 AM
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Along with the Gods Lol I watched both the same day. I thought it was just me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:51 AM
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If it's clear that they're trying to manipulate you there is no point in "being up front" about not "letting" them manipulate you. You should just leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:42 AM
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I would just lie, honestly. What are they going to do, grill you about your relationship with your mom? If you show them that you are isolated they will try to take advantage of you. Even supposed HVM will turn around in an argument and try to hurt you with what they perceive as your weak points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:24 AM
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This comment is missing my point. "Relationship built on honesty and trust" is why I think SO many women have been fucked over. It makes it feel like women who went through bad situations need to be open about them because they're not being "honest" when in reality, NOBODY, not your mother, husband, whatever, needs to know the stuff that happened to you. NOBODY. Also, you don't KNOW who is truly a HVM or a LVM until many months of vetting. edit: a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:24 AM
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I'm feeling very healed from these comments. I was raised not to lie because that was "Bad." Okay and? So I feel guilt whenever I do, when in reality it's a self protection measure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:54 PM
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This is the advice I wish I had had during that time, but better late than never. I always felt so vulnerable in relationships and it was because I was sharing information they were NOT entitled to and that overstretched what I was comfortable with. In the end, it really is the information I didn't share that makes me shake my head in relief. Thank GOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:55 PM
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Thank you! edit: brilliant! I'm going to start doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:51 PM
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Even a perceived "HVM" might treat you differently if you talk about the trauma that you've gone through in your life. It's not worth it. During a fight they will bring up this or that trauma to attack you. They'll throw it back in your face like, "this is why you have no friends!" or "this is why your family doesn't like you!" or "maybe you should stop eating so damn much!" or whatever they think will hurt you the most. It's just ammunition they're storing away for a later date. Also 100% about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:49 PM
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Could you share what that is? Is it in the handbook?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:45 PM
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I can actually answer this one! I actually had my NVM ex ask me point blank if I "had no friends." Because I was in a new city, alone, and wouldn't mention a friend group ad nauseum the way he would. (I was never a friend group girl, after like... summer camp, especially mixed with guys because I'm not going to be a pick me for sporadic male attention). I was actually shocked as I was known for being social and having lots of friends, but at that point I was in the process of fighting/blocking a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:12 PM
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Are other societies as hellbent on punishing women? As someone who grew up confused about what I was supposed to be, I read as what I assume must look crazy. I'm extra boisterous and extroverted and the next moment I'm silent. On the other hand, I must put scrotes into a tailspin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:10 AM
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nervous women often act bubbly and talkative to mask their shyness. bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:02 AM
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At this point, I've deleted mine and thought to do that to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:02 AM
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Smh it's super fucking annoying that other than FDS, there aren't really places in the internet where I feel safe. He was entirely inappropriate and intrusive and creepy as fuck, asking me extremely inappropriate questions to try to figure out who i was. I made up a bunch of stuff but still. Wtf
/r/askFDS16/08/21 06:59 AM
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What's more annoying is that this personality thing, I think he was using it to try to manipulate me by attacking me weak points and its made me really shook up as I am clearly trying to HEAL and this freak now knows way too much information about me (with obviously 100s of lies I peppered in because my instinct made me atleast do that)
/r/askFDS16/08/21 06:58 AM
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Also negging me by saying "That's a consequence of having no close friendships. You have no one who believes in you, and you have nobody you trust, so you can't trust or believe in anyone" What the fuck like who says that. Super weird. Like he tried it
/r/askFDS16/08/21 12:43 AM
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Because this person is "helping" me and as a girl I feel like I am conditioned to be nice to strangers, especially helpful ones. I needed a second opinion.
/r/askFDS15/08/21 11:58 PM
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That's what makes me laugh. Don't you think a well groomed young woman could like ... come from money you idiot? Cringelord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:33 PM
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No, he didn't. He straight up broke up with her while there is another roster of girls that are the rotators. I think, for other people that aren't you but are reading this, he had gotten literally every crumb of emotion he could out of her and no longer thought it was worth it. This is a perfectly reasonable thing to think about because clearly we are here trying to prevent a cycle of occurances that keep happening.
/r/askFDS11/08/21 08:18 AM
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oh my god did i just get a live action play of my last break up? 🤯 What about, as a spin, if you cheat on them back? What happens? He was blatantly cheating and I threw a little spin on it, as a treat, because by that point it was clear he didn't desire exclusivity. He had a complete meltdown and tried to drag me down with his friends as well. ​ Also why do guys sometimes full on break up with girls, while with other girls he does the ole FWB trick? and how exactly do you win these situations?
/r/askFDS11/08/21 05:47 AM
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I don't understand how this has been normalized? Instead of breaking up with someone formally they think this is appropriate? Is this when they weren't serious about the girl at all? Why and what type of girl is downgraded from GF to FWB? I'm thinking about my ex, who broke up with the girl before me but didn't with me.
/r/askFDS11/08/21 04:16 AM
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Right? This is stuff I can find in any major city. They're trying to make us settle and panic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:19 AM
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I was raised like a princess growing up (private school, car for 16th birthday, etc) so I absolutely refuse to settle in any capacity for anyone that is less than my standards. My parents didn't raise me with this much love and care for me to even talk to a random scrote who will try to neg me/use me/take advantage of me. HELL NO. I want my future children to have the same opportunities/lifestyle but better so why would I settle? That is a smack in the face to all the hard work my parents and I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:18 AM
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And to think all this time before FDS I thought that was "us circling back to find each other because you're the one" because of shows like SATC instead of what it actually is: "i couldnt' do better than you so I'm hoping our established rapport will mean easy access to you." I'm SICK
/r/askFDS11/08/21 03:06 AM
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srs what is with this phenomena? I noticed my last ex kept a roster full of exes that he had downgraded but tried to rotate/text all the time. 80% of them would ignore his messages (I saw them, how embarrassing) but the other 20% were hooked for what seemed like life. He attempted to do the same thing to me but I blocked on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:22 AM
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don't waste your time and move on.
/r/askFDS10/08/21 12:38 AM
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He is confident he has you and doesn't think you'll leave. I would really, really listen to FDS and try to learn more about it because this man won't ever change. He's taunting you and waiting for you to leave. He lowkey probably hates you as well. You CANT LEAVE THE HOUSE? I mean come on.
/r/askFDS10/08/21 12:37 AM
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I feel exactly the same way. Thank you for making me (and others) not feel alone. Hugs to you ❤️
/r/askFDS10/08/21 12:36 AM
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Thank you for your kind words ❤️
/r/askFDS10/08/21 12:35 AM
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Clearly you are having doubts about your bf. Moreso than the crush, I think that lack of attraction is something you should pay attention to. If you feel that way about him when he's 32... it's not going to get any better. I would examine whether or not you want to be with him. Because it sounds like you're in a forever gf with this guy who doesn't take care of himself. I would break up but that's just personally me.
/r/askFDS10/08/21 12:34 AM
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I'm not good at cleaning and I know I won't love taking care of kids in the future. There's no way I'd be a stay at home mom. That's like 10 jobs in one and you don't get paid or respect. LAZY????? that's literally a 24/7 JOB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:21 AM
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I've been in those scenarios where I am clearly the jockey to be compared to. My face the entire time 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:21 AM
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i love her energy!!1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:34 AM
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Honestly I think I'm going to look for other friends to level up. Even in uni all the attention was on me while people ignored her/didn't like her, and I think it bothered her. At this point she's weighing me down. I can't keep justifying her behavior or her delusions anymore. It's just really hard to find people who are even this level of loyal. Thank you ladies.
/r/askFDS04/08/21 07:01 PM
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I give her advice every time we talk and I think she was upset that I told her she needs to improve herself in order to be accepted into a social club she desperately wants to be a part of. I don't think she'll even be accepted because her field is tech and she puts zero effort into her looks and this club prioritizes influencers/famous people/literal CREATIVES. Mind you this is very mentally draining for me because it's very awkward to be "real" with someone and tell them they aren't going to g…
/r/askFDS04/08/21 06:59 PM
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Tbh this is my honest opinion, and I've tried everything out there that isn't this, but you need to put yourself out there again and find someone new.
/r/askFDS04/08/21 09:23 AM
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this reads ignorant... lol did you not read Little House on the Prairie growing up or anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:08 AM
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why do i find this cute D: it's so earnest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:44 PM
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I'm not following this relationship at all... is he really your bf? "Haven't been intimate" but have been together one year? But he wants to move in? It sounds like he isn't that into you or is going to make you a forever gf. Sorry but this is my honest opinion. Maybe if this is a more conservative country or you are very religious but this is a very, very long time for him not to make a move on you.
/r/askFDS20/07/21 07:25 AM
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Go to corporate with all of those messages. He should get fired
/r/askFDS17/07/21 02:16 AM
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Disgusting
/r/askFDS17/07/21 02:16 AM
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'if you were so talented, why'd you have to come to our asian cities and mooch off our economic system and our weaker currencies'. lol yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:24 PM
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QUEEN SHIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:52 AM
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"I called her a cuss word and now I need people make me feel better about it" 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:52 AM
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Listen. I just don't want to be looked at by not attractive men. I just want to pick out my vegetables or go to the gym in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:09 PM
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It clicked with me a while back. THEY DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:33 PM
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wow, this is very timely as I was talking to my own mother about this. Both she and my grandmother married "nice" seeming boys who were beneath their social class and then toiled for years while tolerating their husband's late-blooming narcissism/psychosis/whatever. Here to break the cycle. I refuse to date below my social class. I only look up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 10:07 PM
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I have yet to see anything about domestic abuse on FDS and when I saw this I knew I had to post it. Thankfully I have not in my life experienced this, but there are many silenced women who have. Hopefully we can raise more awareness about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 07:00 AM
19

I linked the reddit thread because the comments were as shocking as the video. Everything from "she deserved it," "he was protecting himself," "it's like a movie..." From comments: Domestic violence is legal in Russia as long as "no substantial harm is caused," but even then police rarely respond to calls about it. Women are usually left to fend for themselves, which has resulted in an epidemic of both men killing their partners and women killing their men in self defense. See IC3PEAK's Boo Hoo.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:34 AM
1

It gives me the heebie jeebies, though I can't exactly articulate why. me too. i think the person who posted it might be OP lol she deleted it. every girl that ended up being psychotic in uni kind of had her exact vibe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:55 AM
3

her latest tweet: "No healthy relationship recipe calls for a spoiled woman or a bitter man. Or a hard woman and a soft man. Learn the recipe and play your part or stay on the the shelf and get even more bitter. she sounds pretty bitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:23 PM
22

sorry i find these types of tiktoks cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:20 PM
-16

Yikes. Everyone else, please read Gift of Fear. This is how you end up dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 08:15 AM
5

"love and take care of you" i have yet to see this in action. like, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:54 AM
-11

are you seriously advocating for her to continue to live on the same street as what looks like a predator? no that's weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:51 AM
7

Tbh at this point I would just try to move. These would all be short term things. OP, if you're listening. Also interesting about gossip. Never thought of it that way, but I realize I gossip for the most part about anachronisms. What's pinging my radar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:24 AM
71

Wow the extent you have to go through to deter these freaks is so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:23 AM
43

100% wants to put spycams in your house. wow I didn't even think of this. wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:22 AM
95

What sane 16 year old would want a stranger on their special day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:22 AM
40

I would always write a "who is this???" to people who did me dirty then realize their lives were boring and irrelevant without me. Watch who you're calling bestie, acquaintance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:56 PM
0

Didn't I write that this was from two years ago? Weird, this is giving me pretends to be a friend to women but comes here to feel moral superiority vibes. Blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:24 PM
2

Wow that is so upsetting, genuinely, as I didn't know narhwal meant people who have struggled to lose their weight. That's why I brought this here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:53 PM
-1

Sounds like you're on FDS a lot to be seeing so much of this. Feel free to block me so you don't see anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:52 PM
7

He could also be trying to learn how to mask his LVM behavior. 1005% this.
/r/askFDS11/07/21 06:02 AM
1

go to therapy.
/r/askFDS11/07/21 06:00 AM
1

This is happening to a friend now. It's only been two years but the youth is being sucked right out of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 05:56 AM
19

Exactly the dissection I came for. The "challenge" should not be "he is an asshole"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:57 AM
19

Why are you guys so funny? This is sending me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:51 AM
13

Ew I am so sorry that happened to you. For some reason this one triggered me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:43 AM
5

Sandra L Browns “women who love psychopaths” goes over the traits that these predators look for when choosing women. LVM often try to drag you down to their level if you weren’t already there, but NVM often look for high-performing, high-energy, conscientious, high-executive function women with an unfulfilled thrill-seeking side. If they want to exploit, there needs to be something there to exploit. YES. They think it's a game to break down women who are too good for them, then discard once they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:37 AM
11

do NOT need to be friends with women’s boyfriends/significant others. I've noticed women who are insistent about being friends with your bf are normally pick me's and they are not your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:35 AM
4

Literally all my besties NVX were low key attracted to me. I would catch them looking me up and down and trying to get as close as they could to me physically at parties and I would literally have to run away. She was a severe pick me although she's gotten better but damn those men were trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:34 AM
29

"my mom thinks he's an abusive narcissist" -- sounds like he's an ABUSIVE NARC THEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:32 AM
79

That's his uber rating, it said he was a top uni grad from the information I cut off. I said this before but for some reason scrotes love to flex their uber rating, while I've noticed women have low ratings because sexism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:27 AM
9

I think that's his uber rating... not that he's an uber driver. This is a common thing I see on scrote's profiles when I used OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:26 AM
187

This is something I cannot stress enough. THEYRE LITERALLY TELLING YOU WHAT THEYRE THINKING. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:14 AM
13

Would it help you to see a real meme he included as a picture in his profile that somehow is also condescending and hateful to women? real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:11 AM
74

THIS IS WHAT I CAME TO FDS FOR. You are the LVM whisperer!!! I didn't even understand that narwhal reference... this is so much worse than I could have imagined. Inspired by you, my interpretation: Confident: I will also destabilize you at every turn and leave you a shell of who you are, because that is what i love to do, break down strong women over time as a challenge. Honest: I will cheat but I don't want you to! Intelligent: *not any smarter than me Classy: Spend a LOT of time and money on y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:07 AM
28

What do you mean? Don't all classy broads love open relationships? The fact that open relationship was a throwaway line buried right before uber rating just is the WORST thing I've seen on OLD in a minute. Sadist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:55 AM
49

I tried to read that rambly horrible book so I can know how they think, but gave up because it was illegible. I watched a few interviews with them so I know what to look out for. A few: Why is someone like you single? = please explain what's wrong with you Is she always like that? = triangulating you with girls to make you feel weird I think you have food stuck in your teeth/ chocolate on your face/ etc = to disarm and embarrass you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:51 AM
35

“Oh hEyYyYy gIrL; wIsH yOu WeRe DeAd. GoOd LuCk FiNdInG sOmeOne LiKe mE.” why am i laughing so hard at this lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:46 AM
63

Why do they think it's so important to tell us how they feel??? we don't care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:45 AM
82

This is a good time to add... all my girlfriends have low Uber ratings. All the guys in my life have high uber ratings. I think there is a skew amongst girls where if you aren't falling over yourself being nice aka FLIRTY a lot of the uber drivers give girls/women shitty ratings for "being a bitch." Creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:32 AM
38

The scary thing is he's a handsome, tall, well educated man from his profile... what the hell is so deficient in these men that they feel the need to cheat??? I don't for one second believe "open relationship." Is this a european thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:31 AM
43

OK WOW I didn't understand that "unicorn" meant that. YIKES. This is why I gave up OLD for good. *also i would like to add i opened up tinder to delete the app and perused matches from years back. I gave up OLD when i found FDS 🙏 also he's so much older than me idk why my settings were even that high woof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:30 AM
36

Also.. I was nice because I cut out his very specific name/education but the man is 33. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:20 AM
9

block
/r/askFDS07/07/21 05:48 PM
15

I've noticed people who just date back to back have no standards. That's why they just say yes to anyone who wants them to feel desired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:43 AM
6

Not even romance... but hookup culture in general. My ex was like this, extremely morally bankrupt and it was definitely because he didn't think we would become that rich or successful. He told me as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:42 AM
5

I feel so seen. ALSO scrotes who just try to fuck a bunch of people... so instead of trying to BUILD a life you're okay with getting to step 1 over and over again until you can't get anyone anymore? How destructive. I've noticed while tv might tell us that ~players~ are also successful, barring the most successful men who were going to be successful anyway or trust fund babies, guys who play around are also bad at business and careers. How is that for karma?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:41 AM
16

I need to know - is being a publisher at Vogue a big deal? To the point that the real Mr. Big had a Ferrari, country club, car and driver, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:19 PM
60

And then she meets her divorce lawyer, sleeps with him even though she finds him unattractive, then changes her entire life and religious belief for him Right? I never bought the whole rhetoric that "Harry is the best." He's an unattractive dumpy man that was more exemplary of the fact that women like Charlotte will drop their standards to the floor to try to get married instead of waiting for a better guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:16 PM
50

I don't even like to cook or clean for myself. The moment I can, I'm going to outsource those things because they drain my energy from doing important work. To do it for someone ELSE? For FREE? Because of "love?" hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:09 PM
3

It shouldn't have quoted avoidant attachment, but I meant why was it so traumatic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:25 PM
10

ugly man candle mandle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:22 PM
2

avoidant attachment why??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:21 PM
42

because so many people peaked early on with nothing to look forward to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:40 PM
2

plllleeease link me!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:40 PM
88

4 times a year, a realistic script: You've finally moved on from them and their LVM spidey senses start tingling You're now in a happy relationship, and they've decided to fuck it up after stalking you excessively, thinking they just have to say a magic phrase to get you back They have gotten disgusted at their now pregnant pick me, for daring to gain weight during the process of giving life You've gotten a promotion at work and are thriving, they saw that through the vacation pics you posted an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:39 PM
16

YuuupppPPPPP he's putting out the cheaty feelers while also using her as an emotional abuse doll. Fuckery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:26 PM
16

I need to say, and I literally cannot stress this enough, this is the most CRINGELORD thing I think I've seen on the internet in months. What the hail was that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:24 PM
3

I wanted to do this and I thank every day I didn't do it. Sis, just drop the whole situation. Your NVM ex will think that that is you being "obsessed" with him, because it WILL get back to him and you'll be left looking crazy.
/r/askFDS24/06/21 08:02 PM
8

Daughter aside, if my future son's prom date's dad acted like this, waving a gun around, we will have problems. They are not going to prom together. That is not a funny joke, it's creepy and fucking weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:59 PM
26

Your friend sounds like a pick me idiot. 100% he is doing this to triangulate you, destabilize you, and make you accept lower and lower things until you accept literal crumbs. I've been in a similar situation and you know where that ended me? Let's just say I found FDS and never looked back.
/r/askFDS24/06/21 07:56 PM
62

Sorry but stuff like this makes me think that members here are not reading the handbook. Like at all. BLOCK AND DELETE.
/r/askFDS19/06/21 07:48 AM
2

please make a post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:30 AM
7

Wait I want to hear more about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:29 AM
7

LITERALLY. This wife was like "that's nice honey!" and he was taking it to mean that she was falling over herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:27 AM
4

Clearing 6 figures in SF is literally poverty level. SF's housing market is bonkers and literally a random hovel will clear 1 million dollars, easily. I've seen average, small homes go for 4million+ and all my friends who live there complain about how insane the housing market is. A plate of pasta there is like $35! SF cannot be serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:26 AM
15

I think he went screaming for the hills looking for the opposite of me in every way, which he found. He would say I was classy then complain that I was too conservative... his next gf was literally an onlyfans girl. Yuuuuup. The poor girl, she had no idea. I was also a reaction from his previous gf too. These men do nothing but just bounce from one end to the next over and over. Pathological.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:23 AM
32

The only thing I disagree with is that 50 Shades is in any way "sexy." It was a cringe snoozefest It was the least sexy book/movie/concept I've ever seen in my life. No chemistry amongst anything. I think the only selling part was that every woman wants to "save" a young rich billionaire who is obsessed with only them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:34 PM
10

I don't think maturity is the issue, it's anxiety. I think you're anxious because you feel like you haven't had enough experiences. I would talk to a therapist about anxiety.
/r/askFDS18/06/21 07:31 PM
4

he sounds shady. money discussions are one thing but goals and plans for life are fair game. If he doesn't want to discuss future life goals with you its because he sees you as a plaything for the right now before something presumably better (lol they always think there's better) comes along. I would distance myself and try to find new men in the meantime otherwise you'll be dragged along for the ride with someone who isn't serious about you. Tbh I would just give this up/drop entirely. I know w…
/r/askFDS18/06/21 06:47 PM
13

I wish I could upvote more. My mental health was ruined as was my physical health by the end of my horrific relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:31 PM
27

this is what makes me feel very discouraged. I want to marry, I want the whole picket fence situation, but I have literally been disgusted/disappointed by 99.999% of men. I literally have never seen a HVM who passes both my physical requirements and isn't a complete psychopath patrick bateman type. I feel like I never will unless I myself become insanely successful/famous/whatever and I bag someone STILL below me who just feels lucky enough to be a part of the ride. ie. The Ariana/Dalton effect …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:29 PM
28

I did this too. During the worst of it I was crying in the bathroom and I actually took pictures of it/sent myself crying to my best friend explaining the situation... I got emotional hearing how upset I was. I like to remind myself of what rock bottom looked like. So I never return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:28 PM
3

not fall for the shit-tests and delete and move on, I hate narc men and pray I will never ever see another for the rest of my life.
/r/askFDS18/06/21 05:24 PM
106

Thinking about the time my ex said "he could do a bit better" to a friend who was clearly attracted to me and told him HE WAS LUCKY. THE CLOWNERY OF IT ALL. And yes I looked at his next girlfriend lmao no hate to her but she was not an upgrade. Oh, and he told me he said that to his friend and then got upset that I said I could do a bit better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:23 PM
178

Like, they consider a woman to be attractive if they would have sex with her, so they assume that women feel the same; "if woman sex me, I am sexy man". i'm screaaaaaming. This is btw why you cannot give ugly losers a chance. They will start thinking they are hot shit. I've noticed ugly short losers that are given chances treat their women worse than nice tall attractive men because of their insecurities they project onto women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:16 PM
112

A guy thinking he makes 160k vs 130k cannot seriously believe the extra 30k is going to make women flock to them lmao they are INSANE. I AM TIRED OF IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:15 PM
3

sometimes i can't even read the stuff here because it irks me so much. Why are they truly like this? From someone who's consistently been called gloomy, negative, dour, rude by men for not putting up with their negging bullshit.
/r/askFDS18/06/21 12:57 AM
4

You can tell someone at a later date that you have a bad relationship with your father without telling them why. If they ask, tell them you’re not comfortable talking about it to anyone except your therapist. They will either respect this or not. I don't think this is appropriate to talk about out loud either, a narcissist man will suss it out and think you are extra vulnerable because you don't have someone to hold him accountable. But does anyone have thoughts about how to handle this?
/r/askFDS18/06/21 12:55 AM
0

this is an FDS sub but I'm not hearing where you read the handbook at all. FDS states that crushes are a waste of time, and the general consensus at FDS is that friendship with men is highkey a waste of time because they can never be chill about it and think there's a chance.
/r/askFDS18/06/21 12:52 AM
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This is a recipe for disaster. You don't even know this man, have never even met him, and already have anxious attachment. At your mental health level I think you should honestly focus on yourself and maybe talk to a therapist. Even within 3 paragraphs you had so much anxiety, self doubt, etc and it is way too much to spring onto another person in another relationship and when it ends badly you'll be further behind where you would be if you just got help for your attachment issues. The good news…
/r/askFDS18/06/21 12:50 AM
3

Thank you!!! Best thing I ever did. If I delete the message chain on IG then he still sees the messages while they are lost to me forever. But if I want to delete my personal messages to him, I would have to go and manually delete each one. He might get notified or not, I'm not entirely sure as sometimes they do get notified. I don't know if this is worth it or makes me look more insane aka more fodder for stalking me. But I really want to let him know that this is just beyond over and will neve…
/r/askFDS14/06/21 12:08 AM
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sorry not understanding the point of this post. you did not and do know what their relationship was like as a child from another family. i find this odd, truly one of the oddest things I've read on FDS. Also you obviously don't have any clue what their inner marriage was like but covert narcissists often do a big showing of being a perfect hubby to get reactions like this. Because their house was neat and tidy according to your 8 year old opinion and he chopped vegetables you think that he's hvm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:57 PM
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lol logged in just to say this is the most accurate thing i've ever read. an ex started aging super fucking fast literally overnight. his lifestyle caught up to him and he started getting scared. it was amazing to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:05 PM
5

This is why I cut men out the second they make a comment about my body or eating habits. This. So much this. I saw a comment below that made me realize that they're trying to poke and prod to see what they can get away with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:10 AM
9

He knew my past issues with eating disorders wow. my narc ex literally specifically asked me about this. He was 100% trying to break you down by finding your trigger points. Also wtf I'm also reading the next paragraph I am literally so so sorry that happened to you. I hope you're better now ❤️he's definitely getting his karma!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:09 AM
9

nothing can touch these women anymore, especially them. I TAKE NO SHIT NOW. It was almost worth it to get to this point. Almost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:07 AM
4

I went through a really dark period where I couldn't see the end of the tunnel and he ended up bouncing right back to a random instagram model but I'm much better now, thank you so much! Hugs ❤️ Oh and in the meantime, I found out about fds because of him, so I think I came out ahead. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:06 AM
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I wish I could upvote this more. The moving of goalposts. Suddenly we're model skinny but we don't have a fat ass. When I have a fat ass I need to lose weight. He was projecting his insecurities onto me. I'm so sorry you went to a plastic surgeon but thank goodness they had the foresight to tell you you were fine!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:05 AM
4

she literally saved my life. i love her so much. when i was going through the worst of it feeling crazy she made me feel soothed and understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:03 AM
1

And was that ex even CUTE??? My ex dragged me out of bed to weigh myself, telling me I must atleast be 125 lbs. I prayed at that time, afraid I was going to be over 125, hell even 127! I was 110. ONE TEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:49 AM
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And, interestingly, the one guy I hooked up with who never said anything negative about my appearance/body is very physically attractive and pretty muscular. SO MUCH THIS. The hottest guys are secure and supporting imo. The ugly guy is kind myth is a fucking lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:29 AM
17

babe you made me feel insecure so i cheated. its your fault!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:28 AM
35

THIS. Lets be real. Your boy's boys have considered hooking up with you they just haven't acted on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:28 AM
7

see this is where I don't understand why women don't get more savage. i would call him a cloutless loser and then tell him he's too cloutless to talk to me. it's always the haters that are doing the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:27 AM
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After watching her for a while, I don't think she's capable of being anyone's friend. Not that she's a bad person, she's just so genuinely self protective and self interested that she is incapable of being a friend to anyone, and that's why she only has me to talk to about these issues because she is just always so self protective. I'm not even that close to her honestly. I was when I was with my ex but not anymore. I agree with the Max situation. I think she's using him to try to make me (and s…
/r/askFDS11/05/21 08:40 PM
2

Trying to! Thank you <3
/r/askFDS11/05/21 08:39 PM
4

She is causing me emotional stress. Not in that she's hurting my feelings, she's pissing me off! I would never hang out with someone's ex boyfriend wtf. Even if I did know them as an extended friend of friend prior. I guess she is a frenemy. She is not even smart enough to be fake honestly I think she's just so genuinely self interested she just does whatever will benefit her the most.
/r/askFDS11/05/21 08:39 PM
9

i have a friend who's dating someone absurdly rich but i'm 99% sure he's cheating on her. as in, she came to me crying about this and that like every single day. He's going to marry her because she's super pretty but he hates me because i told them they need to break up before she's left crying at every family dinner of his because he's a psycho with her. did she listen? no, she told him when times were good and he uses me as a weapon to keep her in line. and now we don't even talk. also the fun…
/r/askFDS11/05/21 06:10 PM
17

a crumb of attention please? a crumb? he gets 200 likes on 67k followers. bots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:40 PM
9

"need me a 21-24 year old up and comer to help run my kingdom" some guy who probably works in real estate oh actually he is an "artist" which makes this so much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:39 PM
10

my favorite is when they try to keep you as a friend to triangulate you, make you do emotional labour, and for what? so i can be around someone mediocre? no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:05 PM
12

I would drop this so fast.
/r/askFDS06/05/21 01:43 AM
2

The way I've become radicalized by this sub has me feeling things. I WISH I KNEW ALL OF THIS EARLIER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:07 AM
1

car/bike guys are usually lv yup
/r/askFDS01/05/21 09:36 PM
2

You sound very sorted thanks for the compliment! I've had a long time to square away my feelings about her so I'm quite organized about my thoughts. I guess I was holding onto my feelings about this whole situation for a reason.
/r/askFDS01/05/21 09:31 PM
5

Thank you for your words! I'm going to reflect on everything you've said. To quickly add, I will also say I haven't seen her since the breakdown of our friendship and it's almost been like 7+ years since she "dropped" me. So I've been grey rocking but she's still fixated on me. She wished me a late happy birthday for example this year and when I didn't immediately reply, she made a late happy birthday post for a girl who allegedly hates me (who i didn't care about, but she thinks that I did). I …
/r/askFDS01/05/21 07:18 PM
4

thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:40 PM
15

i don't talk to men if they don't initiate literally everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:11 PM
11

off topic but what is this song?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:10 PM
15

AITA because my hubby is a little bitch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:09 PM
17

can't stress this enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:32 AM
4

I am so, so sorry this happened to you. That man is going to get his karma, believe me you. In the mean time I hope you've been able to find peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:22 AM
11

i would be the worst onlyfans girl in the world. $10,000 TO BE ALLOWED TO LOOK AT MY PUBLIC INSTAGRAM. END OF LIST.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:24 AM
4

i love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:24 AM
4

i LOVe her energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:36 AM
24

I don't know about her looks (not my taste but not my focus) but her attitude gives me insanely rude mean girl vibes. Like never grew up after 16. I thought she would be fun but something about her social media really put me off. Like the worst of social media has to offer. idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 03:46 AM
55

I liked this until I checked out her instagram. She gives off off vibes and stuck in high school regina george mentality. as in refers to herself as regina george
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:31 AM
2

God where was this post when I dated my scrotey ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:40 AM
27

I am actually aghast at the level of delusion this man holds. Tiny pp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:04 PM
18

Okay your boss sounds literally insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:41 PM
4

I literally could not read through this horrifying ugly man drivel without gagging. Why is it so obvious they wear a fedora
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:41 PM
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you are extremely rude. troll!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:17 PM
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IM DYING. This is true and I will not hear otherwise. All my former pickmeisha friends are exactly that. dumb. They don't have a critical thought in their brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:33 PM
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i don't care if someone i don't care about compliments me. please stop looking at me, i am not here for you to admire and suck my energy out of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:30 PM
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I actually think its the opposite. She posted a tiktok of her at 17 vs 22 for her "glow up." It looks like she was a late bloomer who is now fighting for crumbs of all the male attention she couldn't get before. Also she talks about hooking up with her male friends. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:16 AM
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repost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:49 PM
26

This sounds like the beginning of a romantic comedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:24 PM
33

wow pick me hall of SHAME. SHAME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:20 PM
3

Right? He creeps me the fuck OUT i had to scroll really quickly because I didn't even want to look at his creepy face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:52 AM
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right? he is so hideous if he blind approached me I would run screaming. wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:52 AM
5

ew he's so fucking ugly lol i'm horrified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:44 AM
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I don’t care🤮 who are you? THE WAY I LAUGHED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:40 AM
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im in on this. i just switched off after a bad breakup. why bother, you know? i'd rather meet someone at a higher level by being on a higher level myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:22 PM
3

paying her leech boyfriend a salary the inside of my brain is record scratching. DOES. NOT. COMPUTE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:35 PM
3

its not porn, its more the poison coming from things like nonstick sprays, pans, water microplastics, etc. written below but i recommend a documentary on the topic on netflix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:36 AM
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I think its majority contaminants in our food/poor diet. Highly recommend documentary the Devil we Know, which talks about how the du Ponts have basically slowly ended all of our lives with the chemicals contaminating our water supply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:35 AM
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Right? This is literally not making any sense at all. Something isn't adding up. She sounds very alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:01 AM
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This situation was actually so bizarre that I actually thought that at this point it might be a troll, then I thought that she might have issues computing things we find obvious like mild aspergers, now I think she might have those issues but is also Asian from the mainland. The way she was speaking was so cold and detached about trying to have a baby and it literally wasn't making any sense. She reminds me of some sheltered mainland friends I have that did nothing but study and are gonna get fl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:00 AM
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THANK GOD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:28 AM
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yep. it says "no longer available"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:27 AM
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I read a good comment the other day about a woman who's on a date with a man who's beaming because he thinks it went well while she's waiting to take a silkwood shower and zig-zagging back to her house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:59 PM
15

According to them, its a murky 18 (even younger if they're allowed) to 23 🥴 the absolute clownery luv 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:57 PM
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I would cosign all trusts if I were them. it just makes plain sense. I would assume my kid wouldn't mind my guidance either as its to make sure the money keeps going and away from the hands of golddiggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:44 PM
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you don't hold it against her that she talks to him? girl she is NOT your friend. i have a similar situation, he doesn't give a fuck about your bff he's just pumping her for information to know every detail about your life to still feel like he has control over you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:37 PM
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UGH. I want to delete all the messages I sent to my ex on instagram but you get notified and i dont want him to get 5000 notifications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:35 PM
8

we even have a child and STILL haven’t and won’t combine finances). how does this work though? for me i thought I'd have a separate bank account and then a combined bank account that I would marginally put money into lol. Who pays for what, is it 50/50, commensurate to financial levels, etc?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:13 PM
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Now that I think about it I think the baby would bring purpose into her life and prevent them from getting divorced? thats the subtext i'm reading in the fact that she is "reprioritizing life" doesn't work, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:08 PM
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it genuinely makes me sad that we have to protect ourselves by overthinking so many things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:05 PM
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"depreciation asset." its depreciating asset you literal pterodactyl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:04 PM
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brent you have 800 followers and negative net worth she isnt gold digging you or using you for clout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:02 PM
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women ruin gay bars it's not talked enough about how gay men treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:02 PM
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😩😩😩 the woman was obviously coddled and needs to grow tf up! And i say that being younger than her which is scary. This is not behavior you should see in a woman with millions and married. She'll be on her ass if something like that did happen to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:57 PM
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Oh keep in mind, it's not even a 4 million inheritance... it's almost $14 MILLION. In the right hands, that could easily become generational money. Her reaction? Cool I'll quit my job and also my husband who has no net worth will quit his job. That money will be gone before they're gone, and faster if he leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:55 PM
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see but the assumption that academia = family money means academia itself is a problematic career/trap which I think should be avoided. Also to be avoided in my opinion: people in transitional schooling/time where they are bettering themselves. Including: guys in medical school, law school, process of mba. After doing a bunch of emotional labor, sleepless nights, even HELP WRITING PAPERS I've seen so many girls get dumped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:45 PM
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100%! When you hear their accusations carefully, its always a projection. Gold-digger? So you're a gold-digger. I just flip it around no matter what it is. My bottom feeder ex was always cheating so he assumed i was cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:31 PM
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Men's sperm count has literally fallen by half since the 1970s and has not shown signs of slowing down. they could all literally be infertile in 30-40 years. They're always projecting. EVERYWHERE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:27 PM
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My ex told all of his friends that I cheated. He was cheating on me literally the whole time with like a dozen girls and I assumed that meant we were not exclusive. They all hated me after that and talk about me to this very day. Stay salty losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:57 PM
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wait what am i even reading?????? this is just atrocious. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:57 PM
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Another one wrote drivel about how I'm a female incel because this or that. I didn't bother to read. But it really just showed me that men are SHOOK by rich women and are truly the real gold diggers. I also had an ex that spiraled because what? My dad pays my credit card balance? While his dad gave him a 4000 monthly allowance. They HATE to see us have options. HATE it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:54 PM
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Tbh, I wouldn't end up with someone in academia, ever, and especially not if they don't have family money. For one, the field of academia (meaning non-MBA) doesn't have money. You don't make money in that area, it is all built on prestige, merits, degrees that are in effect worthless provided you don't straight up leave academia with it to do something else. You know what that breeds? Insecure scrotes who are overeducated and then make you feel bad for this and that. I know from experience. MBA …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:51 PM
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I think she thinks its frugal because her husband is straight up not working. That's not one person she's supporting, it's two. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:47 PM
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I told her to join us at fds in dm and she got snippy with me and kept responding to scrotes about how she needs to get a baby soon to facilitate... what exactly? not really sure and she didn't seem sure either. the pick me-ness was unsaveable. truly a hall of shame pickmeisha throwing her mental health, money, stability, future, to the wind for a gold digger. I would feel bad about saying this but if even ONE woman sees this and realizes how bad this situation is, hopefully they'll prevent them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:47 PM
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would it make you feel better to know that the scrote who wrote that says he is a doctor worth 7 figures so is obviously lying an expert? "Most of the redditors are 25 year olds with no net worth, I’m a doctor with kids worth 7 figures so I understand"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:44 PM
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a fool and his money are easily parted. family money doesn't normally last beyond three generations and she's living proof of it. she's the second, her kids will be the third, and then poof! there's nothing left. and that's if her husband doesn't run off with half as soon as she gets prego. this is like the beginnings of a cautionary tale, completely terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:00 PM
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FINANCIAL FREEDOM IS THE ONLY FREEDOM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:33 PM
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oh and as a treat, another loser berating her in the comments for...being born rich? unlike her por hubbie The fact there is another hand means you don't understand the meaning of marriage and ultimately are a rich bitch that I hate. Go to hell. You deserve to be in 3-4 marriages and ultimately fail. People like you suck and make the world a worse place and you shouldn't be posting here with your problems. This is about money management working towards FIRE. Not people born into money who need f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:18 PM
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in the words of cardi b.... BROKE BOYS DONT DESERVE NO PU$$Y I KNOW THATS RIGHT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:51 AM
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If my man doesn't spoil me I don't want him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:50 AM
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I would report to the police. He's threatening you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:17 AM
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Thats funny because we all thought all british guys were like prince william from 2005 and it turns out they're basically toothless and oy i'll fuc u up chap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:16 PM
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btw this movie first came to my attention because Carrie Mulligan was attacked by a scrotey reviewer who said that she wasn't believable in the movie because she wasn't attractive enough. He called her hair bad and said Margot Robbie would be a better fit because she was more believable as a femme fatale. Bro did you WATCH THE MOVIE. Carrie's voice alone is a revelation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:10 PM
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I think it was realistic but whoever made that damn TRAILER deserves ALL the awards. Easily one of my favorite Trailers of all time. The music, editing, pacing, all so fucking good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:08 PM
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The trailer with Nothing's Gonna Hurt You Baby was also an amazing touch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:07 PM
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I died laughing because Bo Burnham thought he was filming a Harry met Sally-esque movie. Definitely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:07 PM
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100%, I wish I could upvote harder. They want someone they feel they don't deserve, aka someone out of their league. Doesn't matter who the guy is, he will always treat you like shit if in his scrote little mind he thinks he can do better. They don't give a fuck if we get emotionally attached, they actually HATE that because that must mean that something is wrong with us to like something so broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:58 PM
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My ex asked if I would ever get an ab*rtion if I ever got preg. I said of COURSE, with no hesitation. I could tell we weren't feeling each other anymore. He had the audacity to get insulted and say, "even if it were my kid?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:12 PM
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Was with you til the last line. Not sure why you think Brits have a "higher" level of English. It's like a weird leftover classist thought from a hundred years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:29 PM
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emotional support teenage girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:54 PM
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I was with her until the last line. And then I was like wait what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:51 PM
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what i've realized is that you must never, ever tell men why you've decided to stop speaking to them. i told a pick me friend who still talks to my narc ex that I thought he couldn't meet a decent girl in the country he's in, because most of the educated class move to my country. The next WEEK he literally found someone who matched my exact description, so I'm presuming that my friend told him I said that lol. Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:50 PM
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Thats the #1 thing I realized, the hardest lesson i've ever learned. Don't waste time crying over some guy. Focus on yourself, focus on your goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:48 PM
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I hope she gets a nobel prize for this. I've been losing faith in the nobel prize. Jared Kushner was nominated by Epstein's lawyer for the peace prize. Yeah okay edit: turns out that the nobel committee has no control over who gets nominated. faith remains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:07 PM
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in the book, holly talks about how she got dressed up as Marilyn one day, down to the famous hair and red lips. He looked at her and threw a fit and called her a cheap and hard looking prost*****. She was so shocked and cried and later realized that he has a weird thing about red lipstick. Which is weird considering that Marilyn his obession was known for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:46 PM
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the sure i read. have you heard of chuck palahniuk or bret easton ellis? crowd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:34 PM
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oh he's lucky he's never met me. i can be a real BITCH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:33 PM
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Thats why I had an ex who would just rotate through exes in a neverending circle. The work is already put in, in his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:22 PM
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This is for sure his line of thinking: My WiFEE is dumb and a drag but I DATED A LAWYER! HA! I will use her for free to TRICK my wife out of everything she's entitled to. ... are you still out there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:19 PM
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He needs to be in jail. This makes me FURIOUS. he tried to KILL HER!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:59 PM
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I am always wary of personal assistants and the like that pick up your food. This confirms it for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:58 PM
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JAIL. He needs to be in JAIL. I would pursue legal action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:57 PM
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Mercifully I didn't talked to like that when I used to do OLD but after a year of using it my profile gradually made me seem terrifying, extremely closed off, and viciously mean. So closed off it seemed I was never seeing any HVM? ANY sort of vulnerability or smiliness seemed to be an invitation to be a literal psycho toward me. I gave it up OLD now obviously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:25 PM
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good morning beautiful not even 10 minutes later: ok bitch you're not even all that you think yabettathanme????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:22 PM
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Ew I can tell he is so ugly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:21 PM
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most women i know have low ass uber scores like 4.1 while all men seem to have a 4.9. I don't think ti's a coincidence. I used to feel bad until I realized this was a very normal thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:03 PM
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I'm learning so much from this one thread. My wig is flying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:53 AM
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I felt this so hard wowWOWOWOWOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:52 AM
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i felt this with my whole chest wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:52 AM
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That sounds like a lot to put on your son at a young age...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:34 AM
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It's not even to be "friends." Its to know that they can get you whenever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:15 PM
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She edited her comment that was extremely nasty because she was triggered. this is NOT a place to attack women. No need to respond to this, she clearly has issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:48 PM
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Hm that is a very very good point. He was an extreme narcissist at every level. The thing was though he liked it and without thinking because I got a notification I opened it up and I couldn't find because he had immediately blocked me on his alternate? Does that make sense? Like my phone popped up with jack0219 (not real name), I click on it, and immediately it says person not found. I wished I got a better look at it but because it was a name and a string of numbers I couldn't look it up on an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:52 PM
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You were triggered because I said h3 followers were lower income ugly incels. Lol thats on you. I have full control over you but there's not space for you here. This is giving me.... ugly male incel cosplaying as a wimin for fun. And yes, reported you! Blocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:05 PM
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i found one!!!!! i don't like either. but you're not a woman. get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:42 PM
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I only walked by during the day but I avoided looking at them. I just felt so terrible and I didn't want to embarrass anybody because my immediate thought was that they were trafficked against their will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:25 AM
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This doesn't bother me because h3 followers are lower income ugly incels. Nobody listens to them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:13 AM
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He's just so ugly and fat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:12 AM
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hm. I think having kids early is for lower income women. i have never associated it with being very rich. most of the rich women i know get married far later in life. ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:12 AM
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i cornered him and lit the f out of him with the meanest words i've ever said to anyone to destabilize him exactly where i knew it would hurt. then blocked! :) he deserved all that and more for cheating. even now he stalks me. i caught him stalking me because he liked on an alternate that HAD HIS NAME IN IT. thats how stupid he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:11 AM
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tell him to cry more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:08 AM
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i once talked to a guy who bragged about going to the rld. he's going to hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:07 AM
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lol not him using philosophy 101 wrong to try to get you wicked kewel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:07 AM
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Me! I hate 99.99% of men. My friends are all conventionally "pretty" and some are fortunate to make it their career. ALL of us have come to an understanding that only like 0.00001% of men are worthy of talking to and in the meantime we're working on careers and getting our degrees and getting rich. You know the scrotes hate it!!! muahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:17 AM
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I wasn't 100% on board with what you said here but to hear him say "you owe me one" umMM???? what a psychological manipulator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:17 AM
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I think I am perfect and will only settle for a rich man. Settle is an emphasis because he is lucky to talk to me and should remind himself that everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:38 PM
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we should do a breakdown of demographics because she sounds poor and clinging to her beer gut brow beating man who makes 50k a year. FDS users seem high income, highly educated, etc. They're not "working" at a pick-me blog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:37 PM
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Ew these types of men need to kts. For real. I wish ugly poor scrotes would jump off a bridge so they wouldn't clutter up the earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:10 PM
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Not even lying but if ugly men act up like this they should stop existing. Ugly men are a danger to everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:09 PM
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Which one of those fugly old men who is still nursing a rejection from 45 years ago made that rule??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:40 PM
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Planet Fitness makes me laugh because they give out free pizza... they know what they're doing. Which is why I actively avoid it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:16 PM
5

By gelatin... do you mean... collagen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:39 PM
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Why are they always so weird wit hmoney lol. Their projection is astronomical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:40 AM
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Yeah hes an actual freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:37 AM
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wtf is this? mods please delete this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:34 AM
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don't even post this dumb sh i don't want to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:15 PM
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The fact that these men would rather spend their time and energy trying to infiltrate this community than stick to the communities that already exist for them YES. This is 100% how i feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:03 PM
3

a man wrote this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:02 AM
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WheRE arE my TenNiS ShoES???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:32 AM
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1000%. FDS has made me so much more aware of the subtle abuse that goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:32 AM
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"designed to get deleted" yeah because i'm waiting for raya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:47 PM
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code: i don't have much going on and i have a bad sense of humor. when i gaslight you you'll get angry but i'll tell you to calm down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:46 PM
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I am so sorry this happened to you. This is most girls worst nightmares and you are so strong for being able to understand what happened to you and hopefully heal from the process as you are shedding that defense weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:11 PM
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I have to wonder if Diana has something to do with this. Harry always seemed way more broken up about her death and he wants to protect Megan like he couldn't do for Diana.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:18 AM
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I firmly can tell you we prefer guys who look like Brad Pitt from Troy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:17 AM
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It's always really ugly guys with weird fetishes who are super into beards and man buns and that whole hipster manly man thing. Remember that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:15 AM
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Saving this comment lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:15 AM
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Point blank I don't feel safe even walking around a park in broad daylight 100%. You don't understand where people are at mentally. It's just shitty because it limits what I can do and where I can go by myself and its extremely restrictive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:44 PM
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? this doesn't even make sense. there are hundreds of people there. Also William contacted her first no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:09 AM
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Super interesting that I always thought Will would be more of a typical head over heels lover and Harry was the party boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:08 AM
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<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:13 AM
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SCMP is a propaganda website. Please don't post this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:17 AM
1

Uh you can if you want to lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:06 PM
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I love Pierce because he refused to "trade up" "trade in" etc etc when his wife gained some weight. She's still as beautiful as ever but there are nasty comments about her all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:38 AM
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There really is no "crazy exgf" from what I've observed. The girl was disrespected and decides to leave then gets branded as "crazy". Okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:21 AM
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No I meant I'm seeing a lot of ads on this subreddit that I have to scroll by including g-shock watches (?). Are they fake ads or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:19 AM
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This prime btw only pertains to guys like Brad Pitt, Steve Caroll, etc who turn into silver foxes. For some reason mediocre men like to see themselves in these 10/10 guys. There is a reason these guys are IN MOVIES AND TELEVISION.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:18 AM
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Also I really doubt she's getting "death threats" or whatever lies she claims is happening to her. We're more like seriously dude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:12 AM
3

She's a Serena Joy, with none of the power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:12 AM
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Also lol... I wrote this before but she's not exactly someone to call another woman ma'am like that when she literally gives me never been kissed 30 year old teas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:11 AM
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I think we might have seen the first professional pick me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:10 AM
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Btw, let me tell you, that nerd will probably be meaner than the cute popular guy. Turns out if you're treated well by everyone around you ALL THE TIME you're probably going to end up nicer and in a better mood and better to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:16 AM
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His hair looked greasy af. No thanks dawg. With the silver rings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:15 AM
7

I will attest. The only thing is the fit guys I know are very strict with themselves and expect you to keep a baseline of health which I don't mind at all. But the average dadbod guys drink a shit ton, are mean, and feel down all the itme so you ahve to fluff up their ego. Like sorry your genes are shit dude but STOP taking it out on me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:14 AM
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Also, the "average" looking "dad-bod" having men are the ones who were the most narcissistic, low value, and arrogant from my personal anecdotal experiences. A man who is confident in his appearance, takes care of his body AND his mind, and lacks arrogance is the most attractive. These men are SCARCE. 1000%. The dadbod average guys had god complexes about their "looks" lol and the 5.3/10 was praised by his 5.1/10 friends as the "goodlooking" one. The hotter guys are fairly boring and strict with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:13 AM
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Lol I lost brain cells listening to his brattle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:12 AM
9

Dragon collection? I'm thinking swords. Excuse me, I meant katanas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:11 AM
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People set up splinter groups, websites, and online shops either to gather personal information (shipping addresses upon buying something, for example) or some bizarre divide and conquer strategy. wait explain this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:06 AM
2

Changed it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:42 AM
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Her entire article is coloured by the experiences she brings into it. You can't really comment on the content in an effective way without references to her frame of mind, beliefs, and prejudices she obviously brought into an in-objective article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:17 AM
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YES. Also, beyond the manic pixie dream girl trope that these men inevitably want us for because they think we can "save" them, their mental instability makes them dangerous. Hurt people hurt people, I can speak for myself firsthand about those horrid experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:09 AM
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I just wrote a comment with this gist. I get the vibe that she has a lot of internalized shit to work through regarding being a looked-over woman. a LOT of FDS users (myself included) find this place after being in abusive relationships with losers and vowing to NEVER be in that position again. FDS users are more "experienced" in life, in my opinion. My vibe from her after I looked at her IG is that to be quite honest she was never that popular with guys and now has this kinkycool persona she th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:33 PM
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