At a time before FDS, I dated a NVX who was always talking about his former flings/exes from 5,6,7 years ago. He was obsessed with almost all of them and literally would talk about them in the middle of dates. I found this weird, but brushed this off in people-pleasing pick-me behavior.

What I'm realizing now is that this man, who had hooked up with a self professed 90+ women, probably more now, had definite soul ties with nearly a hundred women that hate him, who he is technically not "allowed" to talk to anymore. Imagine how awful that is! I saw his messages to these exes (again: pre FDS) and they literally would rebuff or ignore him 99% of the time because they couldn't be bothered. Women have a tendency to recoup, recover, and then move on much more fully while guys just jump from relationship to relationship to run away from their problems. It was literally pathetic. I think his whole free time was devoted to finding new soul ties and then obsessing over his roster over and over again. I am horrified to know I'm included. UGH.

But seriously, I can't imagine having soul ties with hundreds of people who I know hate me. I think this is why most scrotes look like a melted wax figure by the time they're 30. They're literally rotting from the inside out.