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"What should I do?" What the fuck do you think. Your boyfriend would rape you if the society he lived in found it more acceptable. What else do you need to know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:29 PM
19

Nah don't bother with the playing dumb, cause what's the goal there anyway? Nothing he says is gonna change that he enjoys that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:13 AM
22

God, I was seeing this dude who'd constantly misunderstand and correct me. After I'd established that, I said I don't want us to see each other anymore, and he'd say something like "ahh but the disagreements is us getting to know each other!" Dude, I don't know you and I'm ALREADY essentially fighting with you. No thank you. Oh yeah, and he also forgot to tell me he had a roommate, but insisted he'd told me. "I sent you a message and told you", so naturally I doubted myself, combed through all o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:02 PM
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Unfortunately that lifestyle is a self fulfilling prophecy- the more they introvert themselves & consume that content....the weirder they become & the less women or even men want to be around them. I was just thinking, considering incel boards etc are kinda like a support group for these lonely fucked up men... how fucking bad does your "support group" need to be for you to just feel worse about yourself and everyone around you the more time you spend on there? Until finally you kill yourself an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:32 PM
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"Too fat and too ugly", dude you look like every other man, stop thinking you're special. Moron. I swear these cunts just radiate "I AM DANGER" with everything they do and say, because they're terrible misogynistic fuckos (QED), and that's why women avoid them. Then they wonder how their hArD WoRk doesn't give them the rewards they deserve!!!!111
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:58 PM
14

Right? Baby, have some smidge of surival instinct, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:49 AM
8

Boohoo my wife won't have the type of sex she doesn't want to have, how dreadful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:11 AM
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The fucking grin in his face. I hope someone kicks him in the nads so hard that this madness ends, permanently. "I doNt LiKe wOmeN wiTh bAbY dAdDiEs" dude you've made HALF A DOZEN WOMEN THAT TYPE OF WOMAN YOU ARE THE DISEASE NOT THEM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:59 AM
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Yeah let's be real, my fat ass can barely feel it. This guy sounds like someone who preys on women like this. Why anyone would imply to a stranger that they're into bdsm is beyond me, even the ones you know might end up really hurting you, a stranger is straight up gonna murder you and if they're slick about it, nobody's ever gonna know what the hell happened. Or alternatively, "yeah but she wanted it though, it was her idea" and they get away with it cause you were "kinky".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:31 AM
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It's so hard to realize those things when you're in those feelings. And often things can seem COMPARABLY better to a previous relationship/loneliness/whatever previous life situation, which messed up one's judgment even more. You're smarter now and that's all that matters. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:29 PM
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-____- Of course he said no to the thing that you would've actually wanted. Of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:29 PM
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EX CUSE ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 10:31 AM
1

Ohhh my God, I had one of these "those pictures are mine now" scrotes years ago, when we broke things off, and a while after that I politely asked him if he could delete whatever pictures he had of me, cause I didn't feel comfortable with him having those anymore. At first he ignored my request completely, as if I'd just drop it if he changed the subject, but when I brought it up again, the guilting, blaming and calling me crazy started. He said he deleted them, and called me names again after t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:19 AM
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I bet he's also bitter abt the fact that she dated other ppl, and is now piling that on top of this other stuff she despises her for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:02 AM
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A whole 40 days, you are cured for sure. I wonder how he survived! The fact that he needed to keep exact count and thought 40 days was a lot says it all. Addicted as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:17 PM
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Right!?! As if the purpose of that image is to give something to look at for both men and women, come on. EVERYTHING about that picture is for men to imagine themselves as, and imagine themselves fucking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:54 PM
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This happened to me! First guy I eventually stopped talking to when he got jealous of a sex toy I'd bought (it was an online thing). He said "but I wanted to be the first", and that ICKED me so much that I lost all interest, good riddance. Second guy like this was the first guy I'd ever end up sleeping with, unfortunately I was quite gullible about him being so nice to me initially, we talked for three months before I felt ready to have sex, and only later realised that he probably found my virg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:14 PM
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Yeah, it was in that tiktok video (with the annoying beep) recently too. Not just "attractive" though, I think it had smth to do with the less clothing they were wearing/the more sexualised the woman was that activated that part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:10 PM
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It's the same mistake they make with super muscular, powerful shirtless men in video games and films etc: no, they're not comparable to objectified female characters, because both the objectified female and the ripped male are A MALE FANTASY. Same with sex: The man-whore who gets all the women is a male fantasy, not anything women have ever particularly wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:08 PM
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Seriously. I wish people who want to film a video would have the decency to not destroy my ears. Made even worse by the fact that she speaks kinda quietly, so I raised the volume and BEEEP, actual pain. Also I want to share this point /video as well, but like hell I'm doing that to someone else's poor ears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:27 AM
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This is when they have notifications on for Instagram dms. So the notification containing the original message will turn into no longer available, at the top of the screen or in the lock screen etc. They don't get a new notification if they open the message notif and leave it on read, and then you delete it, or if they don't have their ig notifs on in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:46 AM
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Right? I gave them the chance to redeem themselves, and they just disappointed me again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:43 AM
6

Are you saying cheat on your husband cause he'll cheat on you? Just trying to understand the logic, I think I'd just stay single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:40 AM
8

I agree with everything you said, and yeah, been there, done that. It is what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:41 AM
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She posted an update because I requested she clarify what she means by withholding sex, because of all the men in the comments being suddenly convinced that their gf and wives were just manipulative rather than disinterested. How do we feel about her clarification? https://www.tiktok.com/@mariajacob89/video/6948797435464453381?sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=6892946527889098246&is_from_webapp=v1&is_copy_url=0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:21 AM
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Oh god, this reminds me of a guy I was seeing. The dude was completely convinced, and no doubt still is, that he's some sort of female ally and feminist. This is gonna be TL;DR. I talked to him for three months before we first had sex, during those three months we only met a few times because I was terribly anxious and shy about myself. He was very attentive originally, listening a lot, initiated chats, wanted to talk on the phone, wanted to meet, go to the movies. He convinced me I could trust …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:49 PM
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Could give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she's saying "stop wasting your time, energy and effort on someone who doesn't give their time, energy and effort to you", but tbh I'm not sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:07 PM
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Agreed, besides, just because he's doing something nice for someone new and shiny doesn't mean shit, just means he's putting in minor effort to trick her into the same situation that the original wife was dealing with, not that she was "wrong" for him or not good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:05 PM
5

Stick to it. Glad you're in therapy. Didn't realize it was so recent, but now I know you'll get past this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:01 AM
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Eh, I do it for myself too, just to learn that no I don't need to say "sorry, but...", to learn assertiveness and being less soft with men. I also like it because the reasons for why I'm not interested don't matter, it doesn't matter if they were being manipulative, doesn't matter if it was because of red flags, all that matters is that I'M not interested. It doesn't matter if they are, or if they want to keep chatting, or if they ask me to explain myself. I like to repeat myself to get it throu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:43 AM
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Man, that's so painful to read. The most painful thing about it is the desperation of wanting someone to want you, and doing that via having to pretend that you don't want them. And him specifically wanting you at those times, when you were at your least enthusiastic about it. And then when you express desire, they turn you down just for the sake of it. That's truly fucked up and painful, and must've been, so, so, SO fucking confusing. I'm getting anxiety just thinking about trying to maneuvre t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:32 AM
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No I didn't know that, but that's so gross that I'll never want to get married now. Thanks, no really, just one more reason to absolutely fuck that institution to the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:01 AM
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Most recent one that was slightly like this, albeit not quite as behaviour oriented, was a guy complimenting my name, and saying it's not common, "it's not like X, I feel like every other woman is named X! I've met so many of them“, and each time saying a name in a way that emphasized how boooooring it is. You've just made me sympathize with those women cause I never thought anyone would judge them for something so stupid, oh and BTW you're an asshole. Neeext.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:58 AM
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Yea honestly. "I'm not interested in you", and if they keep arguing, "that doesn't matter, I'm not interested in you". Couple times of repetition should do, then stop replying and block if necessary. At that point you've already said everything you need to say, clearly and understandably. Nothing to misunderstand or interpret as you wanting to talk to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:50 AM
6

You owe them, can't you see that??? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:45 AM
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I love the constant up and down, insult to Flattery. Just smashing all the buttons to try and get a reaction, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:43 AM
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Insecurity. They might not want to admit it, but it's so fucking clear. Wouldn't even be an issue if they didn't view women as inferior and thus someone that men should ALWAYS be better than. Just accept that women can be good at things you like/respect, better than you even, just like guys, and you won't have to throw a tantrum and lash out when it MIGHT happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:37 AM
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For sure. And if you don't do it for them, or expect more effort from them, you're kind of a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:53 PM
6

Oh God the haircut one, sssssnap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:48 PM
21

Man that's depressing :( Just out of interest, are you American? I'd imagine the tipping culture over there would make this more common, whereas if you're all paid the same by hour, you could just do your job in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:33 PM
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"I didn't know you were gonna do that" "me neither" Lies. Lies. Lies. Fucking lies. Men assault and abuse and then when anyone people refer to what they did, it's nothing but "huh? What thing? I don't remember, it was probably nothing. Maybe you misremember? Either way, you're overreacting."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:23 PM
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Oh my god, the thought of "after care" always bothered me so much. If I need "after care" after sex because it's so traumatic or painful or humiliating or whatever, then I'd rather not have the sex at all. That said, maybe these people consider gentleness and emotional connection after sex to be "after care", rather than a normal, non-abusive relation with another person. It doesn't matter how "vanilla" the sex we have is, if you then act cold or distant or ignore me afterwards, I'm gonna feel h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:29 PM
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That, and saying you enjoy missionary position. Cause being able to grab and kiss and pull my sexual partner closer is truly incredibly dull and a major turn-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:23 PM
5

Very interested in hearing this too, did he actually do anything, ever?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:14 PM
5

Yeeeep. And going on about how gross vaginas are, or attempting to use gayness as a trump card so that they can talk over women, cause they're not like other men or cause "we're both oppressed". Like it "doesn't count". No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:03 PM
7

Yea no honestly, visible abs haven't ever done much for me in the arousal department. Wide shoulders and strong arms, absolutely, but abs, meh. I fully agree with you saying that missing one doesn't guarantee the other, in my experience both physically fit dudes and unathletic guys are equally capable of being useless, brainless sacks of shit. Edit: and this absolutely isn't to say that that can't be someone else's standard!! Absolutely demand abs from a guy if that's what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:57 PM
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I love the guilt tripping. Not the way to approach wanting support, btw, lol. I went and looked at that subreddit, and wow, never again. Immediately saw someone calling women whores. Fucking yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:40 AM
6

Oh man, your whole message has reminded me of the first guy I ever slept with. Oh and of course he's also a proud "feminist", bwaahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:32 AM
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What the fuck? What the actual fuck is ANY of this? Jesus. "It was only the tip OR SO", "LITTLE to no resistance", what the fuck is wrong with this guy????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:22 AM
5

Yep, I've gotten better, but I still have to edit out so many "sorry"'s from messages etc. when I just want to say "no".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:03 AM
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Right!? That's just rude. If you can't afford to pay for the whole thing right now when you've asked them out, let them know so they can cancel the date or at least affect the choice of restaurant, and won't get a huge surprise bill. Geez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:41 AM
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I'm very sorry you went through that. Remember that you're not the one who should be ashamed, he is. You'll recover, I can already see it. Just cause you feel low now, doesn't mean you're not gonna experience much, much better things sooner than you even realise. For now, take your time, and live life for yourself. Have you seen the film "An Education"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:51 AM
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