Creepy guy I ghosted, never dated, still mad months later 😂

outward_hand · 2021-04-07T17:08:14+00:00

As if his opinion on you matters more than the peace of mind his absence provided. So much for "respecting you" but the moment he lost access, he went apeshit. Block and delete as always.

moshfox · 2021-04-07T17:24:01+00:00

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ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-04-07T17:06:38+00:00

Translation: Please, please, please, give me attention! 😭

HottPinkSlug · 2021-04-07T17:40:33+00:00

"I RESPECTED YOU, FUCKFACE!!"

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-07T17:11:08+00:00

Lool so had tried online dating about a year ago. I was talking to this one guy and we exchanged instas (big mistake). Before we were supposed to go on the date he did some rude things so I was like forget this guy, I'm not going on the date with him and ghosted him. Tell me how for almost a year this guy kept going on about how I ghosted him and he's losing all the respect and trust he had for me since I won't answer. Pretty much just kept having a convo with himself since I never answered. I started getting irritated and just blocked him all together. Like wtf, we never even met? It's amazing how hurt men get when they are ghosted even if they barely know you.

Lool "see you around fuckface" will definitely make someone answer. 😂

moshfox · 2021-04-07T17:34:42+00:00

"YoU ReaLLY SHoulD sAy gOOdBYE"

"FUckfaCe"

I'm gonna faint

FrequentPoetry · 2021-04-07T17:21:18+00:00

he wants a reaction out of you. dont give him. people like this guy, the thing they hate the MOST is when people dont fall for their games. the moment you reply ANYTHING, you validate him.

moshfox · 2021-04-07T17:25:58+00:00

What a charmer. I think maybe you should give him another chance /s

They just love to tell on themselves, don't they? Years ago I told irl girlfriends I like to ask dudes a lot of questions and just let them talk. They usually reveal all. I got looks like I'm some alien, but I think it holds true.

Bullet. Decidedly Dodged.

gutsandgorey · 2021-04-07T17:06:38+00:00

Is this a 14 year old boy? Scrotes are always so emotional.

Dense_Cattle · 2021-04-07T17:49:23+00:00

jumped off my fucking balcony

Is that a threat or a promise? Lol at the scrote-tasticness of this whole email.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-04-07T17:42:56+00:00

They really hate it when women are the busy ones, even though LVM weaponize being "busy" any chance they get.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-04-07T17:48:37+00:00

Lmao he wants a good bye, but then says gotta go? Buddy where are you going? Back inside a trash can? Like why do you think OP cares? You call her a fuckface cus she moved on....have some self respect. Embrace the silence, that is a goodbye...

shelballama · 2021-04-07T17:48:37+00:00

Ew, I hate him

"you really owe me this, fuckface, wink"

Gross

spinsterchachkies · 2021-04-07T18:05:41+00:00

I have a visual image of him and it’s a slimy, greasy, rough as fuck looking white male with nasty yellow teeth that dresses like a bum, and smells like a foot.

Minniemum · 2021-04-07T18:41:04+00:00

“Petulant”

Riiiight nothing screams maturity like writing uninterested strangers essays begging for their attention. Not to mention the vindictiveness.

It’s a shame this man has passed his halfway point and still not grown up

MadamLeFay · 2021-04-07T17:10:05+00:00

You have just gained insight into the narcissist's internal monologue: I, ME, MY

shelballama · 2021-04-07T17:50:03+00:00

Also did he come at you out of the blue with that first sentence, the "AND ANOTHER THING I HATE ABOUT YOU"?

purasangria · 2021-04-07T18:19:54+00:00

I love that he's so pressed that you are ignoring him, please continue.

Yet more evidence that men crave female attention, even negative attention. I hope you block this loser so that he no longer darkens your inbox.

stillcantsee · 2021-04-07T18:18:21+00:00

Lmfao this email is so pathetic. I wouldn’t even fart in this idiot’s direction!

SeaNegotiation8 · 2021-04-07T21:03:04+00:00

Judging by his age and the way he’s speaking to you, I’m willing to bet he has a criminal record.

This is the way older men speak when they’ve spent some time in prison.

kalina95 · 2021-04-07T18:10:13+00:00

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SortFree · 2021-04-07T17:59:31+00:00

How very nice guy and fedora-ish of him lmaoo

ihaveafunnyname71 · 2021-04-07T17:54:47+00:00

Gotta go,

Signed “petulant gaslighting narcissist”

MsXxSelfDestructxX · 2021-04-07T17:43:19+00:00

I'm really really curious what the above conversation was. This looks like he was talking to himself for a good hour lol

January_Rain_93 · 2021-04-07T17:57:00+00:00

This is a gem 👌 As if an actual, human being wrote this out and thought it appropriate to send to someone.

linabliu · 2021-04-07T17:57:44+00:00

Aww, his ego his wounded!

Delusional men smh.

veruscka · 2021-04-07T18:37:59+00:00

I am lonely and miss you but i don't understand my emotions, pay attention to me please fuckface!!! ;)

thesedamncavities · 2021-04-07T17:36:34+00:00

EEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWW oh my god please no

2021-04-07T17:49:25+00:00

Do men just never grow up? Because this looks like it was written by a high schooler? I honestly cannot believe this man is in his fifties, you didn’t dodge a bullet, you dodged a massive freight train of patheticness

SometimesJacka · 2021-04-07T19:10:06+00:00

This is why you always go the ghosting route. Men are unhinged. Stay safe everyone!

Yogacat4 · 2021-04-07T20:04:44+00:00

“Jumped off my fucking balcony”

No. Stop. Come back. /s

awkchihuahua · 2021-04-07T20:54:51+00:00

Damn, he's MAD mad. I can tell by the way he called you serious, fuckface, and respectable in the same email.

He's doing anything he can to get a response. It makes me so happy to think about you not responding to him, and him punching air hahahahahaha.

moshfox · 2021-04-07T21:55:53+00:00

oh, wow, he literally begged you to acknowledge him.

Under no circumstances should you.

Also I would be livid by how liberally he is cursing and insulting you. He never respected you.

TellCerseeItWasMe · 2021-04-07T18:11:29+00:00

So gross

winterbird · 2021-04-07T18:17:47+00:00

He had respect for being given attention. Not for you.

triiiiiico · 2021-04-08T00:25:03+00:00

"If I had to hear about how busy you were one more time I would have jumped off my fucking balcony" = pretending like he's actually the one whose life is improved from not talking to you anymore.

"Some of the chats we had were fun" and "you're such a serious girl" = negging in the hopes that you message him back to prove him wrong (The Gift of Fear describes this phenomenon well!)

"if you do read this, you really should say goodbye, or that you hate me, or I smell bad, anything. It's tough" = hoping you will take pity on him and at least give him an explanation, which he will proceed to argue with.

"Gotta go." = pretending like he's the one walking away first, and has plenty of other things to do with his time (he doesn't, or he wouldn't be writing this!)

"See you around fuckface ;)" = hoping to provoke *some* kind of reaction - any sort of emotion would feel better than the apathy you have for him.

It's a doozy. He's throwing word salad at the wall and hoping that *something* will stick.

Theboredshrimp · 2021-04-07T18:41:02+00:00

indeed, he seems very busy

DontAskTwice-A-Roni · 2021-04-07T19:42:58+00:00

But they say women are clingy 😂😭

dembar126 · 2021-04-07T19:51:14+00:00

Fan mail! Lol

2021-04-07T23:12:57+00:00

This is why blocking and deleting is the way to go. If you had sent him a clap back he would’ve felt satisfied in himself because all he wants is attention. This is how LVM operate.

relationship_reddit · 2021-04-08T00:27:37+00:00

"You're such a serious girl"

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

HlGHFIVE · 2021-04-07T20:28:20+00:00

He is so cringe for that.

Honestly, the fact that he's so riled by your silence just means you got the job done right and in the most graceful way possible.

Go you!

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-04-07T18:21:54+00:00

Wow haha what a handful! Glad you stopped talking to him.

waddamelone · 2021-04-07T19:52:38+00:00

That one tiktok sounds starts playing in the background.....

You wouldv’ve jumped off your fucking balcony?

So what’s stopping you then?

Do it.

Jump.

her-vagesty · 2021-04-07T19:59:55+00:00

Such a serious girl... Lol

2021-04-07T20:40:13+00:00

"See you around"... lol, no you won't 🤡 face

Lazy-Design1979 · 2021-04-07T18:53:18+00:00

Awwww. That's a lot of words to say "I want attention".

2021-04-07T19:04:18+00:00

oh lol. yeah i'd totally give closure to someone who literally just called me fuckface. dodged a major bullet there, wow.

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-04-07T21:20:15+00:00

So did he smell bad or did you avoid getting close enough to find out? 😅

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-04-07T19:03:11+00:00

I ghosted my ex best friend 6 months ago, and recently got a similiar message from her. They haaaaate radio silence. They insult us, so we would give up and give them attention they're craving, but not getting. So pathetic.

CardPuzzled · 2021-04-07T17:29:10+00:00

Oh wow lmaooo he loves her .

Gambit12345 · 2021-04-07T21:02:58+00:00

Lmao! Block and delete gets under their skin so badly to the point he’d accept your insults to him if that meant he got attention. Wow

alien665 · 2021-04-07T23:15:58+00:00

Ha you definitely dodged a bullet with this POS

souredskittles · 2021-04-08T00:55:43+00:00

Oh he’s big mad. See y’all, silence will always be the best clap back 👏🏻

lvoncreek · 2021-04-07T20:42:37+00:00

Hope you didnt respond

Maingurl · 2021-04-07T20:45:54+00:00

You dodged a bullet!

EmilyEggplant · 2021-04-07T21:03:31+00:00

yikes, looks like somebody didn't get enough of mommy's attention when they were growing up

basuragoddess · 2021-04-07T21:30:24+00:00

I actually laughed out loud, thank you for that

randowordgenerator · 2021-04-07T21:53:52+00:00

asshole needs to be alone for awhile.

Kittycaramackarel · 2021-04-08T01:43:05+00:00

I love the constant up and down, insult to Flattery. Just smashing all the buttons to try and get a reaction, lol.

Not_a_throwaway_acnt · 2021-04-08T02:04:07+00:00

Honestly, the sign out and the wink at the end make me really uncomfortable. I'm a little sensitive to that kind of thing based on some bad experiences, but please stay safe and don't just laugh it off if he escalates. That is not a normal, healthy individual to send that message.

But good for you leaving him!

slight_sapphire · 2021-04-08T03:34:28+00:00

Aww the poor baby wants attention 👶 someone get him his bottle 🍼

CandidKick · 2021-04-08T14:02:27+00:00

Wow. Really selling himself, here. Can’t say life wouldn’t be. . .interesting with him around.

The adorable negging nicknames: Serious Girl, Petulant Mute, Fuckface😉

And, like he said, it wasn’t ALL doom and gloom. So maybe, if you try really hard and carry the weight of the relationship, he will throw you cookie crumbs now and then so you feel like it is not all for naught. Doesn’t that make you feel better?🥺

You see, he is just an adorable, bumbling man child and your standards and boundaries really hurt his feewings🥲

After all, we can’t have women with healthy standards or all women will get the same crazy notion🤪

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-04-07T20:56:22+00:00

Tell him you're busy one more time. Hopefully his balcony is a penthouse in a skyscraper.

JesusisKingisLord · 2021-04-08T03:24:48+00:00

Wow this is all kinds of gaslighting and tomfoolery

GreatOrchidAmbition · 2021-04-08T18:21:41+00:00

Ew I can tell he is so ugly lol

Title	Creepy guy I ghosted, never dated, still mad months later 😂
Author	moshfox
Upvotes	683
Comments	132
Date	April 7, 2021 5:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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