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LVM LOGICanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:38 AM
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Muh PENISanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:20 AM
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How-To High Valueanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:28 AM
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LIES MEN TELLanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:05 PM
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How-To High Valueanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:55 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:18 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:03 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:09 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:55 PM
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LVM LOGICanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:37 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:28 AM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:40 PM
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PORN SICK, LIMP DICKanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:56 PM
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LIES MEN TELLanywaysheresrational/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:53 PM
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😭☠️⚰️ Burnt, cremated, buried. yoU sHouLd bE hApPy fOr tHe atTeNtiON. Make your aTtEnShiOn monetized transactions into my bank account, then we can talk. 💁‍♀️💁💁‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:20 PM
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mUh, pEniS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:15 PM
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Trust me, I speak from experience. Worked manual labor AND service jobs for almost a decade. Nothing but bullying and harassment, attempts at the very least. Filed my complaints, defended myself physically where necessary, told men to get fucked, and levelled up with a masters degree so I can cut out at least a large percentage of the utter bullshit that is called misogyny (still rampant in white collar jobs, ofc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:48 PM
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I read all comments. I want names. And an MMA fighter to torture and humiliate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:15 PM
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Next time this comes up, ask the LVM who gags this bullshit: "So you think women are physically as capable and strong as men ?" ☺️🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:13 PM
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I had to stop when I saw her going down, and I'm nauseous. SICKENING. I have no words. None.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:09 PM
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Also: the worst women do to other women is throw them under the bus/backstab them figuratively. the worst men do to other man is throw them under the bus/backstab them literally. 💁‍♀️💁‍♂️💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:33 AM
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LVM: wOmEn nEvEr dO tHe diRtY jObS LikE pLumMinG. First of all, Tim. Women are sex workers, toilet cleaners, home aides, nurses, cashiers, laundry maids (you go and be told to sMiLe and be NiCe 25hrs, 8 days a week). Out of the 25 lowest paid because unskilled service jobs in the U.S. 18 are performed by a woman in 2021. Not to mention the millions of entirely unpaid therapistbangmaidnannymommies for their husbands who get to check the dad title and all sorts of financial and social status simpl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:52 AM
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Hm. Yeah ? 😅 I guess ? I'm genuinely confused that there's people who actually think this (no diss) any day of their lives. Just weird/alien to me (yes I'm a nerd I think, and defs long before it became cool. Socially unaware for the longest time).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:49 AM
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Yassss 💪 I sued my dad for support later on. The fker - sitting on half a million and simply out of greed and selfishness didn't want to pay. The male judge just said to him: "Men like you are wasting my time and give my sex a bad reputation. Good day." Minus the MONTHS of lawyers, letters and bs prior, the actual hearing was done within 15 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:49 AM
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I want every woman to have a mom like this. ❤️ She drives me up a wall sometimes but I can't believe what she's achieved. Pure savage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:45 AM
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Yea we respect her so much. Damn what a beast she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:44 AM
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I will!! Haha, I always have told her how much my friends, etc. respect and adore her for what she achieved. ❤️ She's my everything and I'm hers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:44 AM
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You are a ROCKSTAR. 🙌 You got this sis!! Love to hear comments like these, fuck abusers. I'm sure you're a stellar mom and leading example and role model to your daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:42 AM
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Pedestalizing women is one of the absolute HALLMARKS of narcissist men - that's why they get so vindictive, depraved and evil when being told "No". Because in their minds they placed you on that throne, idealized you. Rejection hurts less if it comes from people we don't care all that crazy much about to begin with ? Madonna/whore complex, basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:39 AM
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W E I R D no ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:55 AM
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Horrendous. The only thing I can think of it to outsmart this piece of trash. Definitely record whenever he's around. Try to install cameras in the home. Take photos and videos. Of the violence and also of how he commits adultery with that other married woman. Get as much proof as you can. Change your locks if you can. Get one or two dogs if you can, train them to be at least guard dogs who don't fear strangers but bark at them and are not distracted by food. Play along for a while, then yes. Dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:38 AM
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Quote from a -2 LVM 2 days ago: "Women treat each other worse than men treat each other." D O U B T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:25 AM
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😌 aNd evEn iF, sHeS nOt aTtrActiVe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:22 AM
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Empowering. The true liberation of iNdiViduAL eXpReShiON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:07 PM
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My first thought. Also if this is not fraud: 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:26 PM
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Apparently when I was four and fed up with her getting to decide everything, I told her: "You are not the queen around here 😤." She said: "Yesss I am my love 😘." The next day I came home from kindergarten with a selfmade paper crown. 👸 LEARNING FROM THE BEST. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:14 PM
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This sounds like me a lot. Lone wolf/introvert. Not depressed. Not desperate. Just. Ha. I love my peace and quiet. 😌😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:01 PM
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Hey that's fair. I didn't date at all until 26, and Idk. I'm just different it seems, in terms of saying No pretty directly. I feel... I had a enough situations where this got rather ugly but idc... I still just say it. Nnnoooopeee. My dude. Just no. 🙅‍♀️🖐🚷😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:59 PM
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👆👆 Plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:33 PM
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Hey fair call. Totally. They do know. It's definitely a message. Absolutely. And yea, again: if she doesn't like it, she should just carry on with her day. That's what I'd probably do. 🤷‍♀️ Not out of spite or grudge, just because... you know, hustle ? Life is short, and it's busy. I would have "blown" it with a handful of Brad Pitt's of this world ? Eh. Dunno. Don't care. No man interrupts my tranquilidad 😌🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:31 PM
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Can not confirm this, unfortunately. He was very respectful of my me-time. But still turned out to be a narc. Oof, and what a vicious one. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:26 PM
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This so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:22 PM
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What the ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:21 PM
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In general, who you decide to associate with, no ? Job, friends, coworkers, hobbies (teamsports), spouse. Even your bank or other service providers. Who do you want to give your money ? Getting married per se is a pretty secondary decision to make for me personally - I could die happily without ever having carried that title. But yes, from the viewpoint of "Who do I allow to come THIS close into my life ?". Sleep on it 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:20 PM
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More infos needed/depends on the situation I'd say ? I switch my phone off for days at a time. And in general can have very antisocial phases, being entirely under the radar for weeks or even months. But yea, everybody is allowed to drop me, no grudges (I'm serious - people who don't know me think I'm pissed off or passive aggressive, when I just really don't care too much ? I reject people often and say No a lot because I need me time, so I'm not mad when others reject me. Anybody else here lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:11 PM
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Okay I read again and somehow didn't process she insisted on taking her car (yes, it was a LONG week). My bad. And yeah Okay I see now as to why you missed it. Nah, that was good you didn't wake her up hey. I totally would have done the same - c'mon, how cringey would that be ? Totally would have grit my teeth too, and yeah - learned from this overall. She evidently has big boundary issues - first and foremost with herself. That's what we need to keep in mind, always, when dealing with people wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:04 AM
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Not in my country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:49 PM
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The burn. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:06 AM
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Can't you just hear it ? Internalized what she was called, taught and manipulated with to be kept under control. She will wake up one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:05 AM
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This. She's been abused heavily, and is neck deep in pickme/trauma bonding/denial behavior of grieving. Facing her reality is too much just yet. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:04 AM
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Also: WHY is there no other option for men ? But 10 different ones for women. Coincidence ? I think the fuck not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:02 AM
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The insurance thing is valid. I don't let people drive my car for exactly that reason. Leaving at 2PM - hoooo boi, do I cut parents like that out of my life. Just not compatible. Enough friends with and without children left who don't dawdle around forever. The rest was a bit hard to follow - did you miss the meteor shower because you left so late, or ..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:59 AM
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Can you call a spade a spade ? "Adult industry" is used too much by porn defenders who want to paint it "legit" or okay in some way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:15 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:09 AM
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What we all knew all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:04 AM
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I can't dm you but I feel a sister in your comments so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:00 AM
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Simply this. In public spaces, best thing is to cause a scene. Make people notice. Pull all the attention to these pathetic little dipshits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:56 AM
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what ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:59 PM
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HIGHLY overdue knowledge to be spread. Please try to post in the sub helping victims of narc abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:20 PM
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🙏 here just for these two comments. Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:17 PM
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Absolute golden. Your wording is on point sis. This should be pinned/added to the handbook. Just a sidenote that on okcupid you can change location to wherever, for free. The again, it's the same company that's behind Tinder. Plus OLD is stil OLD. Same same but same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:09 PM
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Could a troll have made this up ? Possible. Could a man have written this ? Possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:58 AM
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Whoops lmfao. Fixed it. Thanks for pointing it out. My personal pet peeve is "gaslighted". It's "gaslit".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:55 AM
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Absolutely. If women don't watch out men will 100% twist and abuse and bullshit the narrative. "Hey, you always wanted equality no ?! Well, men hit each other. [the equivalence would be WOMEN hitting each other, but again, LVM do not think rationally and simply want to gaslight you]. And didn't you want the career?! Then deal with the stress now, I don't want to hear about it" In fact, they are doing it already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:54 AM
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🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 Men would marry money if they coul- Oh wait. They ARE "married to their jobs". In the thousands. Men are pussydiggers, youthdiggers, free labor diggers, gold diggers, lifediggers. Whatever you offer, they will want more. If you don't stand up for yourself, they will take it. Assaulting/abusing/coercing women physically has become illegal -> let's manipulate them into being subservient, AKA assault/abuse/coerce them mentally/emotionally -> they are starting to see through the bs -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:29 AM
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My proposal here was real. We got along well and eventually it became clear what he was after. No man is nicer than the man who hasn't fucked/used you yet. 🙂 Bet he regrets it now. 💁‍♀️💁‍♀️💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:55 AM
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Just lol. Now I'm the one that's lying And I don't feel bad about it That's exactly what you get Stop interrupting my grinding (you're interrupting my grinding) Had someone who tried something similar with me not too long ago. I looked after everything but paid myself what was lowballed grossly before. No sex obvs (the thought of it... wtf). 0 shame. Stop trying to fuck women over. Stop playing dumb. You wouldn't dare to fuck over your homebois like this, why ? Because they'd beat you to pulp fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:44 AM
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Shark eyes is all I can say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:19 AM
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👆 Her insecurity issues came from your lying issues. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:26 PM
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First and second slide juxtaposed, my bad. What a manipulative little asshole 🙂🙂🙂 Another manifesto essaying away me, me, me. And just the way details are twisted every so slightly towards his favor rang a coupla bells with me and another (probably narc-experienced) woman in the comments section.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:07 PM
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This is years old ? Pickmes gonna stay pickmes. 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:31 PM
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Can't comment them publicly, they get shadowbanned by incelgram often enough as is. Male lurkers would head over there and harass the queens to no end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:35 PM
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incelgram account, exposing men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:33 PM
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EXTREMELY UNDERRATED COMMENT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:43 PM
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What's worse, looking jealous or crazy, jealous and crazy. Or like, being walked all over lately, I'd rather be crazy. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:41 PM
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M O O D™️ Am I the only one here who stops reading at the titles !? 👀😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:40 PM
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Glass ceiling, hu. Why am I so not surprised by this 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:37 PM
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Thanks for pointing this out. I wasn't aware. Reminder to fact check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:51 AM
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A man declaring exclusivity/officiality could be a narc who's perfected the lovebombing. Not entertaining other women, again: they are clever little manipulators, happy to "commit" for months before eventually seeking new supply behind your back. If you are inexperienced with narcs, you're in for a ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:00 AM
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I'm so angry your supposed "father" is putting you through this. And that your mother is doing nothing. Nauseating read. I am shocked. There is 0 shame in doing a degree at 30, after having worked 5+ or so years SOMEWHERE for money (seriously, could be a secretary for a dentist, idc), and having focused on therapy with a specialist. PLEASE GET OUT. Like, YESTERDAY. Sort your priorities. Safety for body and mind > money to survive by yourself > higher education. That's the correct order. In cases…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:55 AM
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Who (heavily) fails to raise these people ? 🙄 PS: you know the boomer account right ? And the bio account ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:41 AM
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The wave of nice guys who are calling themselves "kiNd" now has already started rolling in. Together with "woke feminist". Still ghosting, still abusing, still wanking to porn, of course. Beam me up softboi. After that also won't get them laid ? -> "I'm a miSaNdriSt. mEn AinT sHit, LaDiEs." ☕️ one year from now. Anyone wanna bet against it ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:21 PM
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Your first paragraph: VERY high. Qeueing up with your friends, and bringing mine, too. Happened to us. High libido, HBC killed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:57 PM
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As I said 4 times in the last 24hrs now: No. I am white. I have no idea. I mentioned women in general, and going off accounts of black friends I asked about this specifically. I will remove my comments here. OP can go to Berlin or London and find out herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:45 PM
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I'm aware I sound like the biggest pretense, like I specifically said. I was going to ask OP what can be done, in her opinion, by white women to improve the situation for black women, and so that OP feels more that I have my eyes wide open, and far from blissful ignorance/unaware of my own white privilege. OP please share. This is a heartfelt issue of mine, and many of my white friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:07 PM
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Classic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:01 PM
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And even that strong voice can be a blatant lie 🤷‍♀️ USE. YOUR. GUTS. KEEP. VETTING. TRUST. BUT. VERIFY. Those three. Listen, observe, verify. Rinse, repeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:59 PM
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Again, you need German to understand the sources I used. It's also the system that is wrong. The debate has been going on for decades. Many Police and other legal enforcement workers/crime investigators have demanded more extensive rights for prevention, investigation, conviction and post-conviction, over and over and over again. Yes, I'm suggesting you do it yourself because you're the one who's interested. That's what I normally do when I'm curious about something. I run a Google search. If yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:32 PM
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I am not your personal Google-ator. I said for a start, implying you can work your way from there. Do you speak German ? Look it up yourself. The numbers are there. "No" judge hu ? Not a single one ? Do YOU have sources to support THIS number ? Weird how news break regularly about how previously convicted sex offenders struck AGAIN. How pedophiles are often on police records already. These attacks in an overwhelming majority of cases happen with "announcement", ie. police have these men on their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 01:41 PM
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It's so clear he manipulated the therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:22 PM
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It will die out fast when women stop putting up with this crap. My mom was sooooo confused by the term too. She just sat there: "Hu ? If you are "friends" with a person and you are intimate with them... that's called a relationship in my books. What's this nonsense ?" I shot her the Bingo hand pistols across the room. I've witnessed late 20s single mothers and even 30 year olds being in these sort of "connections". Yes, they get ghosted, dumped via text, and I don't want to know what they got ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:43 AM
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Then they sound the same and I might stand corrected. Self defense here is a joke. If someone trespasses MY property unauthorized I want to be able to shoot them. 🤷‍♀️ what's this person's business on other people's property ? NONE. Legit not a single reason for you to come here without my permission. Your last paragraph 🎯 this is exactly why I brought up the situation in Germany and England because OP said "I can't wait to get out of here" (the U.S.) and named Berlin and London, of all places. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:26 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_imprisonment_in_Germany http://www.internetratgeber-recht.de/frameset.htm?http://www.internetratgeber-recht.de/deutsches_recht/english/german_criminal_law.htm https://wikimili.com/en/Life_imprisonment_in_Germany for a start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:18 AM
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The core and heart of narcissism are: entitlement/feeling deserving/special plus insecurity (big ego, small confidence - how couldn't it when you're sense of entitlement is not explainable, as you weren't praised for hard work/effort but randomly?) I've seen this pattern somewhere before...... hmmm [insert Batman scratching chin GIF]. 🧐🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:13 AM
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Install anti-lever locks on all windows. Get a well trained dog. Attend at least 5 self defense classes somewhere, for the absolute basics (mostly mental/confidence).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:10 AM
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Slamming pickmeishas and thirstbois since 2005™️. They always come crawling back later to apologize and mumble "oknahyeahyouwererightuhm". Enough HVP, men and women alike, in my life who love my huge heart and kindness, and know that I'm the most understanding and imperfect person. Sexism, racism, narcissism, misogyny, disrespect, cheating, objectifying any living being don't fly. Certain people only understand the language of consequences. If me contributing to ending this bullshit makes me a K…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:05 AM
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The prison guard was right, and this is what is being practiced. After a max of 15-25 years, murderers are being set free again. (Child) rapists ? 10-15 years max. For the first 5 years a tiny minority has to go to therapy, do community work and such. Reality and majority of cases ? 5-10 years, parole. No further questions asked. => "Life long" is NOT "life long", German law coddles pedophiles, rapists and assaulters like no other developed country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:50 AM
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Just posted in a FLUS thread regarding race. Malcolm X is all I can say. The most disrespected, exploited, assaulted, unprotected, outcast human being not only in the U.S. but worldwide is: The Black Woman. I can barely write down my thoughts without feeling like the biggest pretense because the reality is simply that by no means I can begin to imagine what it must be like. Even if my best friend from Kindergarten days had not been black, my awareness for black women has been there for so long n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:31 AM
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In Western Europe, and misogyny and harassment is globally the same everywhere. BUT if no-one ever says anything, things never change. Got CATCALLED by a security guard in front of a big supermarkt chain last year. YES. Eyefucked and slimey-hit on "please madam" upon entrance, catcalled upon leaving the store. Made the biggest scene, I yelled him down in front of everybody. Called the manager. Filed a written report with the chain as a whole. Dude claimed of course he didn't do anything - was sm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:57 AM
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Ah, yes. Men who project. Unheard of. Defs gonna stay the cool auntie to all my friends' children. Love them, they love me. And at the end of a day or even a week of babysitting, I can hand them back. Win/win/win. 🧚‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:45 AM
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I'd laugh if I wasn't speechless about the accuracy of this. How the fuck are men. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:38 AM
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Every letter of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:37 AM
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This to a mfing T. Trust. your. guts. I'd love to meet the man you met in college 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:57 AM
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Your last paragraph SENT ME TO THE FLOOR. Rest is so god damn accurate. 👌🎯 boom. I love this sub so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:17 PM
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LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK ffs. Head -> wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:05 PM
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mUh pEniS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:57 PM
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ok take my upvote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:26 PM
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They still don't get it. We 🥲 are NOT 🥲 I repeat, NOT ❗️❗️❗️🥲 trying to convince 🥲 anyone 🥲 to marry us 🥲. We hustle in our lanes and if you want to join that lane then bring at a car (good character) at the very least to drive over here, and we have no beef. If you don't wanna join, stay in your lane. Also good. You do you, and such. Just don't try to slow us down in our lane. Match, or pull us further. But don't slow us down. 🤷‍♀️ simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:14 PM
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Simply your second paragraph. Anyone ? 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:05 PM
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😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I am DEAD At the stage where I want a "all time best of" post of all the epic burn pure savage comments like this one. Mods? 🥲🙏 PS: did not read the post, just the headline. More comments like this one, please. 😌👌 help a sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:01 PM
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Best revenge is your paper. 😌💅 But yea totally hearing you btw 😭💀⚰️😩👌 drags here are their own damn savage stratosphere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:56 PM
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I remember these two movies coming out too, and they pushed this trend MASSIVELY. I was in my second ltr at that time and witnessed hell breaking lose around me, just like in my teens, I sat back and thought: I am not "missing out" the slightest bit. 💀 Every man who dared to suggest this once I was single again got the block and delete right then and there, on- and offline. fweNds wiF bEnEfiTs is the single dumbest dating trend of my generation. It is literal horseshit. I can not believe it ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:51 PM
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🎯🎯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:15 PM
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The term is only a tiny bit overused, what's mostly happening imho is that a) people have access to educational resources so much more than 10-20 years ago (hello internet) and b) a generation of permissive pushover parents created a generation of - you guessed it - narcissist AS FUCK children
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:13 PM
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To a mfing T sis. Especially that last sentence 💪 and the best part is, other instances of global resistance worldwide have already formed. Birth rates going down in developed countries worldwide. Women outperforming men at uni worldwide. The future is feminine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:51 PM
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He's a narc who mentally abused the fuck out of her. This is exactly their self-centered, manipulative as HELL, one-sided way to express themselves. It is so evident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:39 PM
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Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:35 PM
14

Major rape and murder vibes. Proper socio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:33 PM
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They understand. They just neg, manipulate, intimidate and harass until she gives in. A terrible day to have eyes btw 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:32 PM
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DARVOing their way out of everything. Classic. Take a good note for yourself ladies. Then line up your ducks silently in the background, and leave without a further word. NC, block, delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:29 PM
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me2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:17 PM
4

⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:14 PM
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God damn that last sentence is the final nail in the coffin of "poor me". Someone else here just pointed out he's most likely a narc, and now I can't unsee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:10 PM
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Someone else here just pointed out that he most likely is a narc. In that case her 7 years with him were HELL. I mean HELL hell. Dante's inferno hell. Fuck he would have manipulated/gaslit her so hard. How did I not think of this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:09 PM
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Okey sis now we're talking. You're saying something. 😨 Hoooooo boi, if he is and she stayed with him for 7 years ..... DAMN. He would have abused her to oblivion 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:06 PM
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Has that, out of pure coincidence, started to happen around the time Ze Red Pill flooded this website ? A totally unrelated question, of course....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:12 PM
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The kind of pure savage energy I come here for. 😭😩💀⚰️👌👌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:08 PM
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😭💀⚰️ SAVAGE af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:02 PM
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💯💯💯 Sis here SPITTING the facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:59 PM
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Uhm, also now she's addicted too, btw. Imagine. "Wanna try crack with me ? It's legit not as bad as everyone says. And it's hella fun." Well done, mate. Having an addiction on the back of objectified women is not enough, he has to drag his wife down into the abyss on top. Man deserves a medal. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:23 PM
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ON POINT. Damn this is well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:17 PM
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Update: I commented how his wife tolerated 200 times of what I would have tolerated, and it's to 0 surprise she resents him after not enforcing healthy boundaries for YEARS. His response, of course (poof, surprise 🎪🤹‍♀️🥁): "yEaH yoUrE riGhT I shOuLd hAvE eNfoRceD mY bOunDaRieS betTer." 🏆🥇🎗🌟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:12 AM
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Your last paragraph sent me. And your username, too. 💀😭⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:05 AM
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I hear you so loud and clear. Look at this level of mental gymnastics. A whole god damn ESSAY on how it was this, or that, the kids, the business, lazyness... ALL factors that yes, put a strain on the healthiest of relationships. Hmmmmmmm, so what was different here, I wonder? Wake 💁‍♀️ the fuck 💁‍♀️ up. Brick -> his head. Well done, mate. You're a rock star. Throw away EVERYTHING millions of men can only DREAM about. What her, the kids and maybe he himself to a certain extent worked for, for ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:58 AM
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🎯🎯🎯 I have texts from self aware asshole men admitting specifically to the Harem entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:26 AM
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So much to unpack here. Men are referred to as "men" while women are referred to as "females". 🤡 Like SO many of my sisters here I am and doing ALL of what he lists, literally every single thing. From picking a "undesirable" short man with a small pee pee (idgaf about looks be a fken good person with hygiene and income to cover your monthly expenses, is that so hard to understand?) to being young/fertile, friendly, fit, groomed, adventurous in the bedroom. Fat bank account on top, educated, well…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:53 AM
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Exactly this. So again -> lights are on, nobody's home. The only way I can spot with 99% accuracy at this point is because of extensive people experience, normal/healthy and mentally disturbed ones. Other 1% is listening, people tell on themselves. They always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:45 AM
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Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:32 AM
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Oof 🎯🎯🎯 "GEE HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW THAT cheating is a hard boundary for you ? We never eXpLiciTlY talked about it you know? You never coMmuNiCaTed iT. I'm nOt a miNdReaDeR. YouRe sO sEnSitiVe, iT mEanT noThiNg." blaaaaaaaahhhh. I laugh at their piss-poor attempts of gaslighting so hard at this stage. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:54 AM
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"There are probably many late 20s women who want kids." Yep, but at 27 he wants the super young 23-year-old, of course. 😂 If he could find a 17-year-old with enough eMoTiOnAL mAtuRiTy he would go for her. Male entitlement 101. "I don't want to be an old dad" "my biological clock is ticking" ➡️ "I want the dad TITLE in my 30s and 40s, because my social status and my literal monetary income at work increases MASSIVELY when people know I am in a (on paper) "committed" relationship with a kid involv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:46 AM
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feeling versus doing/acting. Totally Okay to feel that way. Just don't act on crass feelings like loneliness (also not euphoria, these feelings blindsight us). This WILL lead to making poor decisions for yourself. That's why meditation is so powerful. It creates the headspace to allow ourselves to let these feelings crash in, and observe them. Give them room to let them be. Completely free from judgement. Like a cloud in the sky passing by. Sometimes it's blackgrey and enormous and carries rain …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:29 AM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 You're doing the EXACT right thing. Youth in women is so abnormally pedestalized, it's insane. So USE it, to make money. Be RUTHLESS. I personally was happily taken from 16-24, I did not "miss out" one damn thing. I could have focused on my school, uni and the paper more but it all worked out. Lesson learnt. LVM are furious that more and more teenagers and 20-sth women are leaving the dating pool. You are a predator's favorite target.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:20 AM
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lul the projection. Can't you hear it ? "failed relationship" this is their biggest concern. Like, their ex was incompatible, or annoying, or maybe she even cheated (or obviously didn't put up with their bullshit). All of which, to the fragile male ego, are enough to hurt their little fee fees for the rest of their lives 💔 and to go beserk on women. When for women it's "dealing with trauma" from those who cheated, gaslit, lied, hid, manipulated, raped, assaulted.... AND YET we come out stronger,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:35 AM
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Yeah but they always want a cOnNeCShiON 💕 aka talk about themselves, and have us laugh at their dumb jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:26 AM
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Money comes back, lifetime doesn't. Don't even try to waste mine. I take that shit personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:24 AM
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I found one whose eyes were smiling, especially in the beginning, still turned out to be a full blown covert narc. Again, lights were on. Bright and shiny. But behind those lights is nothing. Impossible for me to describe it in another way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:29 PM
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THIS to a T. North of the alps here, marriage is highly respected but without the social pressure of the U.S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:02 PM
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I am hearing these responses over and over and over again when I drop that phrase. The accounts are ALWAYS the same. What you just said about his eyes lighting up during narc rage moments - sameee. Fucking YIKES. There is a script to Narcs & Socios, and their eyeballs are the cover of this book, already open for you to start reading. And they can't hide it. They can only count on the illiterate/inexperienced. I've dated 2 of them, plus 1 housemate, plus ran into 2 proper socios unfortunately. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:00 PM
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EYES. the lights are on but nobody's home. Take a gooood, deep look into them. You'll see it. -> Narc/Socio Otherwise just the obvious ones everybody else is also mentioning, like for example: sportscar owner. 3/3 were complete douches and yes, had small pee pees and big fee fees hurt sooo easily 💔 dumped them within 3-6 months. inconsistency without communicating it -> control, breadcrumbing. The other end, texting every day but in quantity over quality generic, empty "Good morning 😊😊😊" texts -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:28 PM
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Case closed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:05 PM
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😭💀⚰️ RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:02 PM
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This catcaller wanks into his sock. 💁‍♀️ A bit deeper: Composure is a matter of power. People who feel the need to proactively bully, harass, and attack others with like, 0 reason, give up that composure. They have no power in their lives. None. It's an overcompensation method, for exactly this powerlessness they feel they have. Pretty pitiful, hu ? 🤷‍♀️ You think YOU have anxiety ? Check out those dudes. The big spider is more, SO much more, afraid of you than you are of it. The dog that aggres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:57 PM
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🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:23 PM
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💀🎯😆😆😆 savage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:58 PM
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Yay, more waste created by humans. Because there is not already enough plastic, waste and garbage in our oceans, mountains and forests. You think you own whatever land you land on. The earth is just a dead thing you can claim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:53 PM
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The van hobo is the least of the problems that sub has. Quick glance today: "Dude called and checked in on me after exchanging phone numbers, I am not used to this amount of attention 🤡 [YES, she literally wrote this!!!]. Then cancelled on me without explanation for a date at 7.30pm the same day. I even offered 🤡 to drive into his neighborhood 🤡 and pick him up 🤡. Next day he pretended nothing happened. 🤡 Am I crazy? 🤡" Yes, sis. You are pickmeisha batshit crazy. 🌼😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:28 PM
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Making an app that rates women based on how hot they are - then bans them when they begin to make monetary gains because of that, or expose predators/pedophiles? Yes, Mark Zuckerberg, I'm looking at you. Thanks for nothing, insta.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:21 PM
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Shamelessly still trying to connect audiences to increase the global resistance. Two feminist incelgram accounts I'd dm out to whoever is interested (no public post because of male lurkers - both accounts get shadowbanned often enough as is). One exposes predatory/pedophilic boomer men trying to match women half their age, the other slams misogynists in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:09 PM
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💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:28 AM
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It's gaslighting. They won't help you either way, just trying to manipulate women into submission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:20 AM
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Another MA sister here, backing this up to every letter. OP check out self defense sub. Also this specific video on YouTube is sooooooooooo spot on: https://youtu.be/VvmG3-lPk3w YouTube more "Self defense women". Get GOOD training with that pepper spray so it can NOT be wrung out of your hands and used against you. I want to repeat: Your biggest defense is your confidence together with your vigilance. Yes, enough psychos still target me for example. 5'5, 65kg, fit/leanish but meaty/muscly, turns…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:18 AM
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I was gonna say. Face filters maybe are the least of our concerns here. Oh, to be a man and having THIS as your biggest problem. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:31 AM
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💪💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:27 AM
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Yes it only happens once in a blue moon and secondly it would have to be a gay guy who's on average twice their size&height and gives off massive creep/rapey vibes of overall sexual aggression and eyefucks, catcalls and genderslurs you left right and center. Or the longterm (gay) "friend" who makes his move the moment they're vulnerable. Then gets angry and pissy when they don't comply to the point of revenge, stalking, and other methods of intimidation & negging. The gay employer who tries to e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:25 AM
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Threw these numbers around every time I saw that dumbass bs about "half my age minus 7" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Shut them right up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:54 PM
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You're so awesome for pointing out his good qualities in a fair judgement. Missing the good times, at the same time, is a classic moment of trauma bond catching you right off guard. It is, I have no doubt, one of the absolute strongest traumas out there. Exactly because of these situations. It is for the best you left. Let go, sis. Let go. 🖤 We got you here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:47 PM
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Normal backlash when the biggest bucks on this planet is threatened. On we carry with our days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:54 PM
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This is exactly what I was afraid will happen. On that same note: once FDS and no bs feminism spreads more and these losers are dried of female attention and access to us, this is what they will resort to. Force, violence, and intimidation to reverse the societal processes of balance of the sexes. Prepare accordingly. Mentally, emotionally, financially, physically. The ray of hope is that more men will also support feminism as time goes on, though. Keep it up. Btw this: "Bystanders eventually tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:52 PM
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Wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:29 PM
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I don't care about my personal account but I will be responsible for the sub's sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:29 PM
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This man was emotionally cheating on me via messenger, and otherwise turned out to be active EVERY damn day on both messenger and fb. Again, this piece of gaslighting was the least offensive one. Idc whether you need to pull out your ICQ number to take down your "Single" status, HVM don't even need to be asked to do it. They just do it. All by themselves. Loud and proud show around their woman. And certainly don't fucking debate it, and take weeks to take it down. It should have been my final wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:04 PM
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This guy's life starter, during and finish pack: huR hUr wOmEn hUr huR yoUrE alL fAt n UgLy Wow, unheard of. 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:26 PM
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How can you legit be this shit dumpsterfire of a human being and look into the mirror brushing your teeth every morning ? How ? 😐🤷‍♀️ Anyone ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:02 PM
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Still single on fb "I never use fb, I don't even know how to change this" And this is the least offensive gaslighting I was served with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:41 PM
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Why did I know just from the title I want a TL;DR because it's just gonna be a lot of words for: misogyny™️. WWWOOWWWWW. Unexpected. 🤯 Because instead of FINALLY AND FOR ONCE stepping up their game and matching women at at least 1/3 of how to be a good person, they turn to porn and wanking into their socks, cause pee pees = holy. Sacred. They MUST be kept wet. No matter what. Meanwhile women ? Mowing through biology, primal instincts, evolutionary and societal hurdles all at once. 💁‍♀️ Women ain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:08 PM
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Or laugh at them... ? I don't even do it on purpose, enough verbal diarrhea comes out of their mouths that I laugh with a mindset of "🤦‍♀️ damn. You dumb. Like, DUMB dumb." I laugh as a coping mechanism because otherwise the dumbass shit they say would be too depressing when you think about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:01 AM
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Yesss same hahaha. Best is with a delay. . "What?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:35 AM
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I'm so sorry, I've been there. So many times. The sheer terror and anxiety can not be overestimated. Cortisol levels through the fucking roof. And men just can't understand. This exact feeling. They simply can't. Same way I can never be able to understand how it feels to a black person. THATS WHY I offer them so much empathy and support. Men, with sexism, meanwhile: "ThAts tHe oNe iN a miLLiOn cAsEs yOuRe piCkinG." NO YOU FUCKWIT. It is systemic, systematic, daily and nightly. Stop gaslighting A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:20 AM
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It does 😂 ah. Hilarious. Left on read forever works perfectly on- AND offline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:14 AM
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It's also more specifically used in correlation to women ageing, because, well, ageism exists. No matter what a woman does, how good she is, she will hit the glass ceiling overall by around 40 years of age (in my country), whereas men overall hit it by 50, if at all. AND THATS WHY -> DO NOT DATE in your teens and twenties. Make money, BIG money, retire early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:05 AM
13

Exactly this. Look at those two 🤡 and their cute little attempt to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:03 AM
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Same here, word is spreading like a damn wild 🔥 Prepare everyone, for angry incels to double down on their hate, manipulation tactics and violence. Be extremely mindful about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:59 AM
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Cognitive Scientist, seconding this post so heavily. Plus we are currently debunking so much of the supposed "Cognitive decline". It's insane how overall wrong this perception is. AND TO OP: LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK. 👍👍 YES. THIS IS EXACTLY WHY MEN argue "the wall". EXACTLY this. I'm 31 and get taken for 22-25 every damn day by both sexes. Everyone always says: "But when you started talking I realized you must be more mature." It's been like this my entire life (got asked for ID routinely un…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:57 AM
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I was assuming the upper one was a man. Either way, I like the burn 🔥 Who tf posts something this low iq/embarrassing on Twitter ? Cringe fest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:50 AM
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Especially your 4th paragraph. Exactly that. To a T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:46 AM
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It doesn't feel good at all. I hate being this nasty, and it is still terrifying and I don't want to give bullies and losers ANY of my attention. I do it because I know exactly how bullies see "ignoring" as an invite: "Perfect. She's too intimidated, I can take it further". Or: "Wow, she allows this ? She wants it." I do it because often enough, the alternative is even worse. Not to feel great about myself, this is pure self defense. Never great at all, having to do it. I've done this over and o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:35 AM
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Doing this and it's pretty chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:28 PM
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Ah, yes. Self proclaimed "aLpHa males 😎💪 leg day gents!!! leg day." Cute. 100% chance of closet homosexuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:26 PM
9

Oh Erika.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:22 PM
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Yea true he can, and everything you've mentioned are possibilities. I'd erase any, though. Also again, with regards to, for example, a later case of stalking where a shark lawyer could at least try to argue "Why do you accept money from someone like that?", playing really dirty in front of court. Who knows whether he'll succeed but he will try. Also the whole "cashiers check" - there's probably a loophole there that he is trying to exploit. Whether it is to claim the money back, or get her priva…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:17 PM
2

Thank you 🖤 and same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:51 PM
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You are arguing from the pov of emotionally healthy people. Sociopaths aren't. They are emotionally disturbed in a very very specific way that obsesses over proving how everyone is as fucked up as they themselves are, at the very core. Her cashing it then not responding to him will give his sociopath "logic" a REASON to harass her. => "I KNEW IT. Bitch's a greedy, dumb gOLd DiGgEr. I wOuLd hAvE LeFt hEr aLoNe bUt nOw sHe aSkeD fOr iT." THIS is exactly how sociopaths minds work. They think of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:45 PM
1

A private investigator finds everybody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:30 PM
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From someone who got ghosted during abortion after stealth removal, I am so so so so so fucking sorry you were put through this. How are people like him still around. My fucking god. So glad you survived. Love to you sis. 🖤 jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:13 PM
1

Yea dm me if you want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:05 PM
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Definitely the best move is to walk away. Again, I am not doing this out of pettyness, not because I enjoy it (not at all). I am doing this because these loons need to be stopped/slowed down. It is ABSOLUTE PARAMOUNT that a narc doesn't even SUSPECT it was you (and their paranoia is strongggggg). Taking them out requires the utmost safety and security, I cannot stress this enough. You need to know what you're doing, and every detail needs to align.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:37 PM
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Yes agreeing wholeheartedly with every word. Complete spoofing/phishing attack (yes this also happens offline). Please be safe OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:33 PM
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I can vouch for it, from personal experience with attackers, pedophiles and all sorts of harassment since age 7 (I'm 31 now). I'm a Cognitive Scientist, 5+ years of experience in self defense classes I took or seminars I attended next to Jiu Jitsu training. I have read about every book and article there is about this and related subjects, watched every YouTube or TV video, interviews, podcasts with police and law enforcement workers next to forensics, psychologists and security staff. Also years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:31 PM
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iTs nOt tHat bAd woMeN aRe pLaYinG tHe VicTiM 🤡🤡🤡 Sick of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:13 PM
1

Yes, you're totally right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:31 PM
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I am not liking this. I can't come up with a counter-argument off the bat rn but my alarm bells are ON.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:19 PM
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Yes! He will. And he will stalk her even more. OP I edited my original comment. Do not cash that check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:17 PM
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I never even thought about the private investigator. Which is highly likely for someone who is this harrassive and stalke-y that he messages your mom when he sees he's no longer blocked. THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING. This letter is purely written so he can paint himself as the good guy. DO NOT cash that check. That will paint you as "Well she wasn't scared enough to take my money" by him and a sharkey lawyer who's buddy-buddy with a judge or prosecutor. Sorry I know this is super upsetting. But I'm b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:13 PM
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Good. What a fucking creep that he found you because she changed it in the first place ? Be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:52 PM
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I understand. Surprised myself but now I know. Entirely up to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:28 PM
5

Not off the bat, good question. I'll come back to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:22 PM
10

I'm so sorry that happened omfg... I can't imagine the torture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:19 PM
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SAME and same. 🤡 PsYcHoAnAlYsiS the holy grail. Nothing can touch the sacred game of eternal asking "So, what kind of a person was your mother?" to delay any accountability and change of behavior indefinitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:18 PM
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OOF the accuracy of this. Amen sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:14 PM
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It's not my problem as a woman that men are angry over other men treating them like shit. Teach your homies to be less competetive, don't direct your pent up pressure towards me. 🖕😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:08 PM
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Please make sure your mother is also safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:34 PM
10

I'm aware of all of this. At the same time every now and then I make their usual manipulative life of admiration and enabling hard. Very hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:33 PM
6

They always throw their hissy fits. Every. time. Men and their cute little narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:57 PM
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Jezus fucking Christ. Thanks for the reminder why I need to continue to take out Narcs by exposing and outsmarting them. I don't enjoy this burden but these people need to be stopped (and preferably wiped out entirely but I'll focus on what I can contribute). u/The_Pyramidion is also so spot on. OP that photo is sickening to my stomach. I know these eyes. Ladies watch out for the eyes. The lights are on but nobody's home. Once you start to see it, you can't unsee it. AND it's something psychos, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:53 PM
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❗️EDIT: After hearing about the possibility of him finding you via a private investigator I change my opinion entirely: DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT cash that check. Don't touch it. Go to the police and possibly a lawyer with that letter immediately. You are being stalked and he is setting up a pretty heinous trap for you.❗️ The only comment needed. Make absolutely sure (get legal help) that he cannot find your address or elsehow come back into your life if you cash this. I cannot stress this enough…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:48 PM
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The reason people victim shame is because they simply can not admit to themselves how random these attacks are - that would mean to admit their own exposure/vulnerability. It's easier to say "Pick better" and make it the victim's fault, therewith implying: "I AM picking better, so this won't ever happen to me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:48 AM
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What, you're trying to say black women are anything more than sexual fetishes ? I'm fucking so infuriated for my beautiful colored sisters out there. Racism on top of sexism, I can't begin to imagine what it must feel like. Let's not go there, it's honestly too triggering of a subject for me (thank you, also on behalf of my black sisters, for pointing it out though).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:29 AM
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My bad, edited the post. Ofc there were some around, Lauryn Hill probably the most famous one ? But the ratio is so tiny. And I think this is definitely due to the fact that we live in a society that doesn't allow women to be angry, and you need a bitta anger for rap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:12 AM
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Exactly this. Why are there so substantially less female rappers around compared to male rappers (no, Nicki Minaj is not good, her rapping is shit) ? Because we don't allow women to be angry. An emotion rapping hugely capitalizes on. I've personally never been the crying female, but angry for a response to attempts of abuse (at myself or others). Received backlash without ends but I came out every time because I didn't bow down. They did. You want me to be nice ? Earn it. Sweet, gentle, warm ? E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:35 AM
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Ah, yes. A narc who doesn't take No for an answer. These cute little freaks and their fragile egos. Weird that it's mostly men who are narcissists. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:19 AM
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Confront him next time. With the most unbothered face, stare him down. Say nothing. Just stare. Hold the gaze. Do NOT look away. If he doesn't look away (sassy) a short clear but calm: "Yea, you. Stop eyefucking me." loud enough so that the people nearby hear you. That they look over, all attention on you and on him. He will break his disgusting staring, and maybe even go "pff" or "Eyefucking? You have issues" blabla. Then you say: "Yes. Don't gawg at me like that. Look away." Shut him down. Sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:15 AM
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"Academical elitism" my god the projection. I met maybe 6 people in total in my life who thought they were "better" than "the working class". Everybody else literally doesn't think about this, ever. They don't care. Meanwhile I have met dozens of people while I was working service and manual labor jobs who shat on "these elitists" every morning they clocked in. It was their favorite topic to ramble and rag on about. How arrogant they are, lofty in their supposed bubble, how different from "us re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:24 PM
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Wow just wow. This sounds so similar to the bs I read on the marriage and relationship subs. Vom. I've been to two pretty shit ones, and ended up working through my phobia and other issues by myself. I've become pretty confident in choosing my other doctors, though. Thinking about doing a handful of sessions this year, defs gonna be just as picky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:15 PM
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🎯💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:57 PM
84

This so much. I used to pedestalize therapists so much - then I realized they're just people, and can have the same bias and lack of experience as almost any of us. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:56 PM
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Soooooooooooo good. Stand tall, stand loud. Be safe. Assert that NO. I can hear it in her voice, I don't want to know what happened here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:46 PM
73

Never been more relieved FDS exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:19 PM
83

It's the opposite nowadays. LVM entitledness wants the successful career woman to "pull her weight" financially, stay in tip top shape and groomed WHILE doing the majority of the household chores, emotional labor, pornstar sex AND childcare: "YOU wanted the baby, I never said I would" (they did ofc but just twist it after the fact - hello cheating during or shortly after pregnancy, or hello wanting the dad title but not the parenting). Meanwhile they are just some guy who exists and makes money.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:15 PM
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This is my favorite advice on this sub so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:52 PM
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Dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:17 PM
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Twinsies. I was taken from 16-24 in two ltr that just happened. Two HVM absolutely, but I ended up mentally outgrowing them both. Now at 31 and I "dated" 4 men each for 6 months after my ltr, otherwise focused on myself SO hard - the "best" one was still such a NVM. Oof. My sort-of pickme phase if it ever existed. I was so onto something in my teens and early twenties - especially taking absolutely zero shit from men (I got bullied in school by them and pickmes so hard for not playing fucking ba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:05 PM
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Yessss, decided this last year for me. Already looked up clinics to work with. I'm Western European so Spain is a good option, and I believe it is also legal in Sweden, Denmark, The Netherlands and Switzerland. Congrats also on your awesome Level Up! I'm in a similar situation and not gonna lie - life's good. No PhD though, I salute you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:30 PM
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🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:07 PM
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Omg yesssss sister. To a T. To the very last line. I was put through this for the fucking last time last year. I DID notice the Red Flags this time, I remember exactly the moment I was like "Waitaminute....!!" but couldn't move out immediately due to Covid and other circumstances (dumb af, I know) and wanted to find out the details. I didn't want to find out the details. Omg 💀💀💀 RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:08 PM
120

The dictionary entry for the expression "Not the brightest candle on the cake" has his picture next to it. 🎂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:58 AM
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To a T 🎯🎯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:48 AM
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They will find out eventually. Once - WHOOPS - the cLeAr rULeS get broken/exploited/loopholed we're here for them with the alternative :) u/HappyNovel beat me to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:46 AM
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Tag yourselves I'm "SICK of men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:18 AM
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Whoa this so hard. Sis. A thousand times THIS. Just because you could doesn't mean you should. I - like so many others here - have the power to rob men so easily. 3-6 months dating and I know exactly where to find and how to get things. I could so easily fuck them over, so many of them. If I was enough of a garbage person I'd be close to half a million now. I simply decide not to. Zero lying to myself while being shady af, exploiting and loopholing the "grey areas". None. Meanwhile men calling t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:39 AM
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First of all: This sub is against polygamy. Period. If your personal views are different on this that's cool for you but we won't change our opinions here on this no matter what you say. And no, we don't want to discuss it. We simply don't want to. WHY we are against it IS, in fact, being discussed in the handbook. Feel free to rip it apart in any other sub or post, ban us all from participating there if you like. All within your individual rights to freely express your opinion. There's a place …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:38 AM
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🎯🎯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:52 AM
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More than happy to give you a more elaborate argumentation on why, where and how exactly a woman exudes Low Value behavior, refuting her central points, next time I see it. I'll tag you, so you get a chance to counter argue if you so wish. That's what happens here often, anyways. What's your point ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:51 AM
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This must be a troll..... Right? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:48 AM
6

LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:43 AM
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I know exactly what you mean. 🎯 After a short while they start using her first name aswell, though. But yeah the "my friend" and any vagueness for that matter is SUCH a dead giveaway. Trickle-truthing/lying by ommission. Ooooooof. Listen to your intuition, ladies, and brain ON. Naivë glasses OFF. Mental gymnastics just to not be one of the "evil misandrists" is a false sense of reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:39 AM
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The most underrated comment of this entire sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:39 AM
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Every. time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:32 AM
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Absolutely, and the main reason we like to have a man around is because then we're being left alone by harassing assholes SO. MUCH. MORE. It speaks volumes when women decide it's safer to be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:31 AM
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Yup, done with that by now. ✨😌 Don't like it ? Go find someone else then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:09 AM
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Such an odd horse. 🐎 Alone ≠ lonely. As always, the projection is strong in that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:12 PM
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Vanilla all the way from now on. I didn't even allow much degradation/power play. The "roughest" sex I had was fast and doggystyle, no hairpulling or any of that disgusting shit, absolutely no anal cause YUCKKK. My vagina makes Windows shutdown noise, it's beyond me how anybody puts anything into the hole they poop with. But when you discover they WISH you had gone much further (and exactly HOW much further) -> 🤮🤮🤮 There is no "a little" or in between for degrading women. It is NOT just a fantas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:39 PM
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Not even a guilty look. And how about places he travelled to - OH. After months you find out he went to ALL those places with the fRiEnD. Too weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:26 PM
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Wrong in the second line. We claim we want to date High Value Men, or none at all. And have the term defined elaborately for everyone to look up. TL;DR ? Be a good person who doesn't degrade women sexually or emotionally/mentally. [insert shocked Pikachu face GIF]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:44 PM
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Also cause men throw photos they had taken of just themselves onto their profiles and at you, and "forget" to mention they actually went there with their ex or a fuckbuddy/female fRiEnD, all the time. 💁‍♂️💁‍♂️💁‍♂️💁‍♂️💁‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:58 PM
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Exactly this. And that's exactly why I stay entirely out and away from the public where men can prey, plus being the most ruthless, coldest ice queen to men. Nice for what ? Earn my nice. Otherwise fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:41 PM
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🥂 Word has spread already. Feminism in society can not be stopped or reversed. It can't even be slowed down. We're a Hydra. Ban FDS on Reddit, 3 alternatives coming up. Healing is never linear, it's cyclical. Set backs are part of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:25 PM
168

Exactly this. Sex is so secondary. It's our warm energy they are craving. CuDdLeS. Mommy. Men go crazy without feminine warmth surrounding them. They simply lose it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:21 PM
58

From growing up with brothers who were taught to aim at age 8 by our mother (and enough boys of friends who did the same): By teenagehood this is absolutely done on purpose/pure refusal to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:17 PM
14

I love the emoji the most. Okay incel 🤗😘☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:59 PM
120

Me every time someone brought up the word KiNk after my teenage years: 😴😴😴 Wow, you're so wiLd and cRazY. tHe foRbiDden anD sEcReT iS sO eXxiTinG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:57 PM
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M O O D 😌🥱 for the longest time. Mommy was emotionally absent/overly dominant/neglected you so you developed a degradation fetish against women ? Unheard of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:56 PM
14

Low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:53 PM
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The kind of energy I want. I want to send this woman money. "Be a bitch about it" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. His feelings got hurt. 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:13 AM
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First two ltr bf's didn't watch it and were actually completely appalled by it. Both my brothers hold the same views, as do my two closest male friends. Current bf is the same. Angry incels can say they're all lying, I know they're not. So, yes. There are enough men out there who downright hate it, for all the right reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:09 AM
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Sis won genetic skin lottery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:02 AM
256

Imagine a man wrote this. Overwhelming advice: "DO NOT GET MARRIED OR HAVE KIDS. Get a young woman but never marry, stay in an open relationship so you can bang as many 19-year-olds as possible."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:24 PM
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Yuckkkkkkkk the cHad vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:20 PM
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it's a jOkEeeE yOu nEeD tO rElAxXx. Word of FDS, and word of Peddit's "hiring" strategies have spread more than enough. A ban here won't hurt anybody. Alternatives to this porn infested shitfest are already in the making.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:48 PM
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No more comments needed. If we have to think in these objectifying categories of a numbered scale ranking fuckability, I won't ever be a 10 and have 0 problems with that. So far, whenever I wanted the man, I got him. Most of the time I simply don't want to cause 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:46 PM
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[insert Star Wars meme] It's a trap. Also: No. The pickme AP's of my ex had this mindset. I simply don't associate with LVP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:16 PM
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💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:05 PM
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Literally the 6-year-olds throwing their tantrum over the check out candy bars. How do you not feel like a total pedo dating LVM ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:49 PM
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A lot to unpack here. ​ I'll go ahead and start with the deadest eyes over past trauma, hurt and betrayal I've seen in a long time. Whew. ​ The lights are on but nobody's home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:31 PM
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The men that are attracted to cray-cray because they themselves are cray-cray are not good men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:27 PM
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Also just want to point out: ​ "Deadly" problem. ​ Ladies, it is DEADLY. FATAL. LETHAL. TERRIFYING omfgggggggg. PLEASE PANIC NOW. 😱 ​ Ps: women are drama. ​ 😌🌼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:26 PM
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😭😂👌 Thanks, I thought that. On we carry with our day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:03 PM
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iTs soOoooOO uNfAiRrrrr 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:00 PM
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I read it. If I am being attacked, like this guy in OP, I defend myself. One way or another. If I'm being attacked on the streets or at bars, I defend myself. This is not about getting back at people. It's about saving my life from either physically or monetarily getting ruined from LVM like this stalker loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:56 AM
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Same. Me and my salary and investments are gonna cry now :( His point is projection. Men age just as much as women do. And they and their little egos can't handle that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:53 AM
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They love drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:50 AM
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THISSSSSSS. I fucking need to make a post about this (Jiu Jitsu fighter - self defense all the way. Dogs who bark don't bite. Call their fucking bluffs. DONT ignore, counter with 300% aggression and fight back IMMEDIATELY. Ignoring is weakness in the eyes of a bully).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:13 AM
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⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:11 AM
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Super glad to hear this. @OP WELL FUCKING DONE. I love this sub so much, and posts like these are the reason why. You smart smart smart ladies. 😁😁😁👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:09 AM
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Same. Also will enforce WFH, stay out of the public eye as much as possible, and tell people to fucking keep their distance. Not much is going to change for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:06 AM
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To a T. Including the salute to OP 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:03 AM
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Yup, and how she's rationalizing in that post -> still perfectly manipulated. She will get swapped for a new sextoy soon, if he hasn't cheated on her already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:00 AM
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Literally. TL;DR anyone ? I didn't understand one word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:57 AM
4

Wtf is this shit ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:56 AM
7

Pathetic. Just pathetic. Pick up your son at 8pm on the other end of town and SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU LIL BITCH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:53 AM
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A terrible day to have eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:48 AM
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I agree with the title, and overall the sentiment. Massively. But not the part of "step on EVERY man you meet", just for the sake of it. I step on them iff (if and only if) they try to step into my way. Try to slow me down, interrupt, distract, or stop me entirely, or to lead me somewhere else (I don't want to go there, fuck off), ESPECIALLY when I smell purpose or intention to throw me back to get ahead yourself -> I will mow right through you. If you get hurt because you didn't step out of my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:43 AM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:30 AM
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It's always the others :( I'm so unlucky !! What do I do ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:29 AM
3

That's 100% what he meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:28 AM
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😂😂😂 they project so hard hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:24 AM
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Translation: I am horny and want to fuck, but have no options. Anyone ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:18 AM
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STD, of course. You know. fRieNdS wiTh bEnEFitS.............
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:17 AM
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They absolutely get off on getting away with it. Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:09 AM
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This should have the mUh, peNiS flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:58 PM
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Because people are, in fact, objects. ​ Women are the less valuable objects. Always. ​ Winning at life, these RedPillers. Clearly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:57 PM
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ikr... chaD vibes hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:55 PM
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Doormatmommybangmaidtherapistprostitute. ​ For free. ​ Well, I give you existing in return. ​ Deal ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:54 PM
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I see no lies. ​ Men LOVE the limbo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:50 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:13 PM
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Wholesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:10 PM
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💯 Also go to restaurants where they know you, and you trust them. Agree on handsigns, so they can help you out of trouble if needed. Security, online and offline, is most effective when layered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:07 PM
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I prefer a "eyes wide open" mindset for myself, next to shock, disbelief and empathy for those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:07 PM
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Absolutely never take back cheaters. I am so sorry that happened to you. Also OP. Please reach out via dm if you need ANYTHING at all. Thanks for sharing. Super brave of you. The pain must be deafening rn. 🖤 sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:01 PM
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This is gold. OP, definitely never ignore. That's an invite to these lowlives. So sorry that happened to you. Not the least bit surprised at this point. wOmEN hAvE iT sO eAsY 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:59 PM
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Wow. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:55 PM
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From someone who finally had the beautiful chance to date a military worker I can 100% assure you that your first two sentences are correct. ​ Yes, engineering and math are downright excruciating brain muscle work for people who were accepted by the military (especially the army). ​ This charity is not necessarily known for taking in the brightest candles of the logic cake, is what I'm trying to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:14 PM
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Then slap em with a "k".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:09 PM
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Also notice that this "friends" in friends with benefits it's always us towards them and not the opposite. They can use us as emotional dumping ground but if we treat them as friends and try to have them as support or people to talk to about our issues, suddenly we're "too much drama/too much work". ​ Of course it is a one-way-street, exactly in the way you just described. That's another thing right there - the absolutely disgusting inflation of the word "friend" for acquaintance. Irritates the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:36 PM
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The kind of energy I want from my sisters. Men need to stfu and listen to their own verbal diarrhea for one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:31 PM
14

He just wants to fuck and is horny. Period. And shows perfectly to what lengths men go in terms of mental gymnastics to make it dEep and tHouGhTfuL. Someone else here commented already: that's a lotta words to say "I'm desperate". Which couldn't be closer to the truth here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:29 PM
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💯💯💯 I just had a shower thought what men MEAN when they say "Women have it easy in dating", which is exactly this: "Women WOULD have it easy, if they were as ruthless (and depraved) as men." Do with this what you like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:25 PM
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SAME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:09 PM
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Defs smells like incel troll trying to make women look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:44 PM
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I used to game and draw anime, and I got downvoted here before aswell - never took offense. I expressed my opinion, others expressed theirs by downvoting it. All part of it. This sub transparently communicates the clearest ideology that's behind it, most importantly: 0 objectification of women. The problem here is not anime, it's the sexualized part of minors or barely legal young women, of anime. Call that "it's become hivemind", in that case this sub always has been a hivemind I suppose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:57 AM
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100% accurate translation of his fucking trashtalk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:46 AM
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The fact he needs to specifically mention that it doesn't apply to him -> telling on himself big time that it applies to him, massively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:49 AM
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Count me in. Also ask for money/give your bank account when they ask for pics or social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:47 AM
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That's exactly fucking right. Man. I remember the first time I heard this word. I laughed so hard and just said "What the fuck new kool kids slang shit is that ?" Friends with benefits. I can't. lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:46 AM
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Literally this. STOP. FEEDING. THE. TROLL. Slap em with a "k", then report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:48 AM
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I was being sarcastic. It is a pattern all over Reddit because.... it's Reddit. Peddit, in fact. Dive into anything 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:38 AM
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🤣🖤 meant zero diss to you sis, just to his entitled ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:12 AM
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Free bangmaidmommytherapist is the term you are looking for, I believe. Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:06 AM
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💯💯💯 It's getting old at this stage. "I don't want you - WAIT, no, you're with someone else? No! Come back."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:03 AM
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😂 I fucking can't. Hahahahaha ​ Imagine this was your son. Oh dear lord, I'd want to vanish off the face of the earth so quickly. Take this idiot with me, too. Save everybody else the pain. Dante's second circle of hell has a place for these losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:50 AM
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Nice. Well done raising your son! My brothers would have said the same, easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:46 AM
2

Yesss, same!! I'm so proud of your mom, too <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:27 AM
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Thanks for proving yet again how men stop growing beyond the age of 8 years. ​ This looks exactly like my brothers toy cars when we were kids. Minus the hypersexualized "gIRLs", ie. sexualized underage/minors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:24 AM
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"I feel weird advocating for murder" ​ The longest time I felt like this and hey, you know what - guess it'll never be morally "correct". It just won't be. ​ I can live with that. ​ I am 99% with everything you said here. Most specifically with that last bit: "you know that dude is gonna murder her the second he gets free." We all just know that's gonna happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:18 AM
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Same. Never ever did it. 0 interest. Ripping apart thirstbois and their fucking audacity since 2015 (two ltr before that, happily off the market since age 16). Don't come to me with this bullshit. What the fuck. ​ fRienDs wiTh bEnEfiTs - BENEFICIAL TO WHOM ?! Why is the sex the benefit, not the friendship ? You are "friends" with someone you are also having sex with ? That is called a relationship you fucking morons. No ? So you're telling me you sleep around with people you don't call "friends"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:12 AM
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Ikr. That's how I'm sitting here. What the actual fucking fuck ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:06 AM
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Me2 sis. ​ I fucking can't believe how shit is served on a golden platter to men. I fucking can't believe it. Look at this. Look at the god damn comments. Shit like this, and NO ONE, not ONE FUCKING SINGLE PERSON in the room, gets up and tells this guy "Ehhhh.... BUDDY, your head's not right !". ​ Meanwhile, women: workoutlookgoodmakemoneyexcelinacademiacarrybabiesbirththemtooandraisethememotionalandphysicallabortwiceashardbeingperfecthumanbeings - Society: You're not enough. 🖐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:05 AM
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tHis mIgHt sOuNd sTrAnGe 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:21 AM
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💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:18 AM
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ikr Plus, banning women off incelgram when they dare make monetary gains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:16 AM
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Let's try to assume how their marriage is going......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:15 AM
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FUCKING YIKES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:14 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:12 AM
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I don't even understand your question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:12 AM
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My mind rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:11 AM
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😭⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:09 AM
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💯😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:06 AM
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Couldnt upvote fast enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:03 AM
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PREACH SIS 🙌 2 ltr from 16-19 and 20-25. Obviously I did it wrong with those too, because, ya know, I sHoULd eNjOy mY yoUnG sInGLe yEaRs. Those same men of course scream that absolutely disgusting gendered slur at women who DO stay single in their teens and 20s. Can't win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:02 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:58 AM
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This, and also: Being white and male and of US citizenship, my life is truly hard ! 🤡 eVeRybOdY ELSE ... * deepest jealousy *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:57 AM
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I personally specifically mentioned the fathers. So I do hold them accountable. But yes, I also hold mothers accountable. Men are useless either way, plus when the baby daddy withdraws that can not be an excuse for the mother to not parent properly. It sucks, it's unfair but that child needs to be raised with boundaries by someone. PS gotta love that username 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:53 AM
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Ok stop now. I have papers to procrastinate on. 😭💀 Edit: I am googling puppies atm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:05 PM
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Men ain't shit without women 😂😂😂 hahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:03 PM
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💀😭👌 Edit: okay username topped it off. I'm dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:49 PM
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Whoa haha samee. Hoooly moley, cussing out ? He'd wear a slap bracelet from me. u/Unfit_Needleworker I was spat into my face once by a 5-year-old (YES) who didn't want to clean up his mess when I told him to (was babysitting a group of neighbors kids). Slapped him down like a dunny lid before the little shit could blink. Mom heard the story, looked at him: "Well deserved.", made him apologize, apologized in front of him to me right after, then sent him to his room. Grounded, no TV for 5 days. Pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:47 PM
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Head cinema is strong with you. Following. 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:31 PM
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You worry me. Another one, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:30 PM
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Honestly same. My mom takes 0 fucking bullshit. Raise our voice/being complete shits/feisty/sassy/lying/tantrum/cussing... ? Ouf. The slaps we got... down like a dunny lid 🥲 Not many but the few we received were 100% well deserved. We learnt fast 😭 We love and respect her so much. She went through hell as a child, and overcame it all. Absolute lioness of a woman. I'm super mega proud of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:28 PM
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Just puked in my mouth a lil'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:16 PM
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The content I come here for. Next level. BE good and DO good. They are not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:16 PM
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My mother's, with some improvements here and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:20 PM
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That zoom court case 💀💀💀 still haunts me. How is there no immediate death penalty for assaulters like this piece of shit garbage human being? Over and over and over and over and over again these losers prove that they are simply not fit to participate in human society. Like, not with the least and absolute minimum amount of decency. Why are we enabling them ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:04 PM
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WeRe jUsT rOomMatEs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:59 PM
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I love this sub so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:57 PM
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Food aside, this was just an example for how to avoid coddling - my main point. Also still not an excuse to throw food around/throw a tantrum. Like u/notbasic4karen said. It's obviously good that we've ditched the parenting mistakes of the past but I'm seeing a swing simply into the far other extreme: wayyyyy too much diScUsSinG, debating, giVinG a cHoiCe - these concepts are often argued by parents who are simply: weak. Unconditional love ≠ unconditional tolerance. That was the main point here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:56 AM
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Enough narcs see right through this and come up with weaknesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:14 AM
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Beat me to it. Another 1k for the username. Those 2, together with that title = dead 😭💀✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:10 AM
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We're understanding each other 100%. Our mom would tolerate enough debating. And again, always let us know "I am angry at what you DO, not at who you ARE. You CAN be better, if you want to. Here's how." Tantrums and throwing food around ? Instant dismissal, all options to coMmuNicAtE immediately closed. "Go to your room. We're done here. I don't talk to you at all when you are being this irrational", sometimes a good slap in the face when we were absolutely maxing out the asshole behavior despit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:49 AM
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The direction is the right one 👍 Deciding "over" your children is not authoritative. It's taking off the burden of having to decide. Children without direction = children under immense mental stress. I personally still find your example too much of discussion and explanation, though, especially for a 2 year old. "Eat your noodles. Period. If not, then don't. Your decision. Go to bed hungry [teaching a lesson in simple consequences]. Absolutely do not knock food off the table and don't snarl at m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:45 AM
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Yep, and it's their pickme mothers who coddled their little bubba boys (instead of truly loving them unconditionally by saying "I love you and always will but I am also saying NO to this specific behavior.") that started this shit. "mY cHiLd aLwAyS gEtS tO dECidE. wE diScUsS tHinGs. tHis iS nOt tHe auThoRitAriAn 1950s aNymOre. Ps hE woULd NEVER dO tHat. nOt MY sOn. OtHeR sOns yes. BUt nOt miNe. hE iS sPeCiAL." Add in a LV father "soN yoU mUsT bE aLpHa. YoU muSt bE bRaVe." and voilá. A generation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:07 AM
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Cher in 1990: "Men aren't a necessity." Female interviewer: "Did you mean that to sound angry and bitter?" FDS in 2020: "Men aren't a necessity. PS fuck you for objectifying women. #toomanymen, you are part of the problem." Pickmes&incels: "So angry and bitter." A pattern. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:53 AM
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wE woULd eNjOY tHaT aTtEnTiOn. Okay my dudes. You will be walking wallets from now on. Can you imagine those dollars in my account ?! 🤤🤤🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:37 AM
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biTteR and mEaN ! 🤓☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:03 AM
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First of all: your feeling is right. Moneywise you are investing more than he is, and one-sidedness is the doom of all relationships (more on this precise point in a bit). Please hold yourself accountable here and reflect on things like boundaries and people pleasing. In general: Could he send you handwritten letters without any of you getting into serious trouble ? Drop off the occasional inexpensive gift/handcraft at your doorstep ? Call your parents to let them know he's serious about you ? A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:58 AM
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So toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:30 AM
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It's gotten old at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:36 AM
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From the perspective of someone who dated another military worker who would shit on his female co-worker EXACTLY in this kind of way ("She gets puppy treatment and still performs so bad") without ends: I ended up speaking to the woman to verify some of his narratives on how situations supposedly went down to prove how bad she was (because I asked him for evidence, ofc). She was ofc pretty upset he would shit on her behind her back like this as he had always been so nice and lovely at work to her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:34 AM
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CODDLING. The keyword that makes narcissists. Not loving. Coddling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:23 AM
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tHeY aRe eNjOyInG iT !!!!!!!!!!! Just because YOU don't - rAaAhHh. Dead at OP. 💀 why are we recently discussing absurdities like "its eugenics when I don't get laid" and "porn is like romcoms" ? That shit doesn't deserve to be on FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:19 AM
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L M A O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:13 AM
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Exactly this. It's 20 minutes for me but it's pretty clear how I get there....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:07 AM
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coMmuNiCatE. ​ 30 fucking kilos in 24 months. I have hypothyroidism and the slowest metabolism and I wonder: ​ How ? ​ OP please reach out to her via dm and tell her she's not a shallow bitch. He's so fat she can't ride him anymore 💀 fml
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:00 PM
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Wondering the same.... wtf is going on ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:11 PM
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I'm just trying to get my head around the fact that anyone argues "eugenics" when I turn them down for sex. ​ Am I dreaming ? Is a dream self typing this comment ? wtf is going on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:10 PM
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It's not just you. Dumb as hell. ​ Never did it, never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:36 PM
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THISSSSSSSSSS. ​ Why is the concept of videocalling not getting through to people ? How fast is everyone jumping into dates ? ​ I take my sweet time texting and videocalling a man to decide whether he is worth more of my time and can ask me out. Then the first date is mostly a proper dinner from 6pm-8pm (I go to bed at 9pm, I get up at 5.30am to work out) or a proper brunch/lunch date on a weekend. ​ I have about 1-2 of those proper dates every month. Some months none at all and last year I had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:34 PM
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Sis here SPITTING the facts today. Ladies you are strong, smart and beautiful. Men ain't shit, especially without you and your attention for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:25 PM
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PERFECT. 👌👌👌 EXACTLY this is the difference between unconditional love and unconditional tolerance. Unconditional love is absolutely not afraid to say "No" to certain behavior. That's what makes it unconditional. "I love you as a person, my child, my pet and that will never change. But I do not tolerate this specific act/behavior.You will stop it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:02 PM
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Thanks for your sympathy. I'm annoyed it happened but Okay and glad I woke up eventually. Better late than never. Trust me, though. More and more women are waking up and refusing hormonal birth control. We are leaping forwards these days. The trend can not be stopped. But yes, wholeheartedly agreeing. It's just such a pattern of overall accessing women. Women speaking up against 7 pregnancies in marriage -> here's birth control -> Men still getting sex and raping their own wives if necessary and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:57 PM
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Thank you for your comment. I want to reassure you you will probably be fine, though. I forked money out to have all sorts of hormonal and blood values getting tested. I am Okay thus far. Could be different for you but fingers crossed it's not. "Where were all those gynecologists" toasting with their pharma buddies to fat provisions for having sold as many of their BC products as possible 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:36 PM
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This 100% happened to me. Met him while on HBC, was attracted enough for the first 2 years. But it faded in a sneaky process over the course of the third year, together with my whole libido (I normally have very high libido like so many women I know). Moody, depressed, poor sleep, weight gain, hair thinning, no more attraction and libido.... The whole show. Then finally dumped that shit down the toilet. Hooo boi did I wake up. Wow. My energy came back. Within 3-6 months my sleep improved so dram…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:30 PM
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The only comment I came here for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:18 AM
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⬆️ Propaganda post, "mAdE hEr" to get the talks going just right. Rather transparent attempt. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:26 AM
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My personal love is unconditional. My tolerance is absolutely not. Otherwise same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:23 AM
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⬆️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:20 AM
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I'm that friend. The insecurities I'm being hit with are pretty hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:18 AM
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It's simply this. If you want me to be your therapist payment is cash and upfront. 300/hr. A true CoNnEcTiON. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:11 AM
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🧚‍♀️✨ bibidi babidi block. Soo chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:39 AM
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Hey little sis 🖤 just a big virtual hug to you. You are way way way wayyyy to young to having had to face and see all of this. Christ. Your first paragraph burnt me. You are an absolute amazon of your age group and generation. I can't imagine what it's like growing up with this level of sexual violence against women being everywhere, readily accessible for everyone. And I salute you for standing up against what is considered "normal" and "okay" by too many of your peers. Always come here for sup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:29 PM
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"I had read about FDS in a Wall Street Journal" is my favorite part of this post. 😌💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:23 PM
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Your family got me 💀💀💀 I remember your post and thought wtf. Wholeheartedly embracing this mood rn: 👁👄👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:20 PM
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Well you are being very smart about it. Asking myself such a question would not have occurred to me back then, I was entirely blind and naive to it all tbh (because I just always got excluded/bullied/ignored). You know what to expect I guess. I ended up doing martial arts, self defense and fighting. That gave me the tools I needed to navigate this new... life I guess. You do you sis X best to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:14 PM
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Yes, I said that. No logical reasoning will make him change his views. I personally don't like being interrupted or mocked, it's a pet peeve of mine because enough attackers (physical and emotional) in my life have done it. It's never a sign of strength in debate and I prefer people who don't do it. Gail convinced me with her arguments, of course. Especially the part about "weight of evidence". As a fellow scientist this part resonated most with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:09 PM
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Wholeheartedly agreeing with you that overall and in general it is a HUGE problem that women are taught to be "nice", well, the problem being that "nice" is being misused for "silent and smiling under all circumstances". I very recently gave a FLUS member rather extensive advice to be way less "nice" as that would make her anger go away. It worked wonders for me. Some extremer cases of male sexual aggression on the streets and in bars ? Defending myself with absolutely everything I have, zero he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:04 PM
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👆👆 Yes you clown, and exactly this kind of gaslighting got you back onto the streets where clowns who play with matches belong. Now go and jump through the hoop of fire you incited. 👸🔥🎭 C'mon. Off you go. You wanted to so bad. Me and all the other WOMEN are gonna watch. 🏰💅😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:18 PM
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yesallwomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:43 PM
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L M F A O No wonder the angry wall of text. A whole lotta words for "I'm desperate".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:41 PM
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Ok take my upvote. 😆💀👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:34 PM
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Sis you got it exactly right imo. To a T. I am the chubby one with a big butt and breasts who ended up becoming fit and muscular purely for mental and physical health and just passion about being an athlete and for the sports I do. And how much of a stress reliever they are for me. Apparently I'm "hot" now. I keep getting told in a nicer way by my male acquaintances plus tall handsome men notice me.. whatevs. The exponential spike in male sexual aggression completely overwhelmed me, to the point…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:29 PM
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Oof the accuracy of this. 🎯 I mentally outgrew my first two HV boyfriends OP. And back then was sooooo terrified of being alone. 25 and I felt like a child. I judged my self so hard, too. Leaving someone you love is one of the most painful fken things in life. Directly followed by taking a good hard look in the mirror. And yet: both don't hurt as much as staying with someone who can't grow with you would. You got this sis. 🖤 lots and lots of love for you. Your future self in 10 years will look b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:06 PM
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I hate the porn industry a lot, trust me. While I also doubt the effectiveness of mockery in changing someone's opinion. This guy will walk out "See! She had to interrupt me/shut me down entirely. She's simply a fascist" etc. on top of thinking her cause is wrong, and be double reinforced in his views that feminists are the enemy. Unfair ? Yes. Not saying that any rational arguing would have changed his views (they wouldn't have) but at least he wouldn't be able to ride the "She was rude" wave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:58 PM
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Composure is a matter of power We're gonna agree to disagree here. I personally try to break exactly those kind of cycles, and again while I understand she's just human after all, with such strong arguments she didn't even need employ these verbal domination tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:51 PM
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Case closed. No other comment needed here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:59 PM
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Totally with you. Again and at the same time wary of what the FDS post from like a month ago pointed out about this. I can definitely see a trend where people render "boyfriend/girlfriend" as a somehow noncommitted/immature relationship per se. So they use "partner" instead. And that's a mindset I am challenging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:02 PM
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It's a shame how she sabotages her moral high ground and her razor sharp arguments by repeatedly interrupting people and mocking them. Yes people defending the porn industry are infuriating, but when someone (anyone) does that to me I instantly dismiss them from a conversation. I won't be interrupted or mocked with snarly side comments. We disagree on things in a mature way and with the minimum of respect. No nonsense, yes. But you can do that more calmly than she did in some moments here. I kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:54 PM
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"It's time you sit him down and share with him what you know" Yeah so he can learn to hide & lie better next time. Convenient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:46 PM
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Incelgram. Imagine if women did this to men. Just imagine. No woman on this earth would come up with this shit. Why would we ? It's fucking sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:42 PM
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Probs part of it yea (and obvs problematic for all its own reasons). I honestly think it's as simple as she has not understood why these terms came into fashion to begin with (lgbtq movement/gender neutrality). And I'd agree with the post that was made about "partner" here not too long ago: She'd probably argue the classic "wELl cAusE boYfRiEnDs aRe fOr tEenaGerS" aka she thinks "boyfriend/girlfriend" is too immature to say -> internalized shame over not being married with a husband at 30+ years…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:29 PM
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Same here. They are all the same. Eh, not my problem. Got myself a girthy HVM after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:15 AM
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It wouldn't have but the overuse of the word "partner" was discussed on FDS not too long ago. ​ When really it's simply: my boyfriend/girlfriend. ​ People are trying to be progressive or fancy for all the wrong reasons (age and insecurities over not being married yet, mostly). WeLl MY boYfRieNd iS cAlLeD mY pArtNer yA kNow ? ​ Shut up. He's your boyfriend. Stop trying to make a frog for a zebra. Frogs are frogs and zebras are zebras.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:05 AM
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Twins (except mine doesn't do a phd). Remained friends all this time. 4 years now. ​ Since I've levelled up from FDS my perspective on him has changed, though. He's definitely pretty good but then again the bar is in hell for men. We are thinking of meeting up later this year but I have to let him know about how some of my views changed. He can decide what to make out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:10 AM
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Reddit men love getting their egos stroked. ​ Fixed that for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:04 AM
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My porn sick ex went both way. First three months it was normal sex, no issues. Then a month or two of him taking way too long to cum. After that it went all the way downhill, he was not able to maintain an erection at all. ​ lol, they are all the same. ​ Recently had the pleasure with a porn sick emotionally bankrupt loser for the first time. Exactly this pattern. I stayed for 6 months, when I saw the Red Flags around month 2. Lessons, plural, learnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:03 AM
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Both. ​ The classic is: wanna come within 2 minutes (cause PMO doesnt take longer), THEN really struggling to stay hard and/or come AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:01 AM
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From someone who's dumped the biggest porn sick, gaming and gambling addicted loser a while ago - I can confirm 100%. Red Flag parade, dumpsterfire person. All exes crazy, still in touch with his fRiEndS and fuckbuddies (I was lied to and gaslit into 3025 about this, ofc), and the nastiest divorce at 26, after a total of two years together (his longest relationship). ​ At 34 years old. ​ My level up from this relationship was into another solar system. The last nudge I needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:57 AM
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no lies here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:50 AM
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pArtNer ​ When he's just a bf. ​ Love the special twist how tHeY (he) took the tRusT bReAcH at the swimming pool as a way to gaslight her that this was the problem. When really: He just doesn't want to deal with the breast cancer of his girlfriend. ​ Dump via text, to finish the circus. Why are men ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:29 AM
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This. Also: fds is working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:24 AM
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Karma swiftly took care of the mf'er 😌 It was the final nudge I needed. The last bit to finally wake up. Now I'm wide awake. And healed entirely btw. All good ✌️ best to you and the bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:08 PM
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Plot twist: she does, actually. Perfect kindchenschema face. I used to draw photorealism with an obsession as a teen. Proportions, golden ratio - the whole show. She soooo gorgeous 😍 look at that skin. Proportions just beautiful. Cutest nose, high cheekbones. Genetic lottery, not fair haha. Meanwhile just some guy on Reddit who doesnt get laid: yOu sO aVeRagE. fAt. uGly.... 🥱 Never heard those ones one before ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:05 PM
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nOt aLL mEn, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:52 PM
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Sooo much love strength and health your way sis. You're a beast, as is your boyfriend! I knew what I had to do last year when I had my first heavy surgery and with complications, and my then BF basically ghosted me during that time, and I later found out he was OF COURSE cheating on me. 😌 Meanwhile my best friend who's not even in the country checked in with me daily, for weeks on end. Dumped the jackass, fingers crossed for travel bans being lifted later this year ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:50 PM
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Well said. OP I did the same not too long ago. Sending you lotta love you savage. 😇 Hell has a special place for narcs and so has Karma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:42 PM
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Humans who think they are being logical. Sorry in the names of all machines. Sigh. Yes, his wife might be "Okay" with it (we can doubt she actually is, but let's assume to play this out). Ok. Her absolute personal decision. He personally might be "Okay" with Onlyfans. Porn is still objectifying women. Hence whoever consumes objectifies women. That makes them objectifiers of a fellow human being, due to their sex. That is sexism. Onlyfans is still objectifying women. Hence ... you know where I'm …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:37 PM
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"back massages" That's what she's supposed to give him. S U R E
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:33 PM
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Iowa ahead of their times. I mean it's only 2021, right ? Wait, are you saying.... w-women can be autonomous human beings and not objects to be decided over ...?! WOW 💫✨ 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:30 PM
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Chances are, there have been other fRiEnDs this entire year... :/ I didn't believe those cases until I recently experienced one of them myself. Sorry for your friend. That shit hurts right where it should. The club nobody wants to be a part of. But yeah the fact he lied to her face about it/gaslit her jUsT fRiEnds -> I'd let him stay until Sunday tbh. Then block & delete on Monday. No muss no fuss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:01 PM
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Ah yes. The man, the myth, the legend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:53 PM
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100% how I view myself, how I approach OLD, and what my experiences are. I thought for so long I didn't date enough (I don't; life's too busy). Turns out, the more time I spend on it, the more LV people I meet. Back to business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:32 PM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:30 PM
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BOSS MOVE. Pregnant, I can't imagine. Fken proud of your strength, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:29 PM
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Nothing to add. Exactly what I've been told by every man in my life I talked to about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:28 AM
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Pure projection. THEY can't love themselves the way they are. In fact, they fucking hate their own true selves. Shame until oblivion. Women not loving them the way they are ? In their head, entirely. I dated "uggos" a coupla times now I guess (I've been told how I always date "below" my league, apparently, and these guys always told me how they get mocked "Does she know she's totally out of your league?" - I genuinely just don't find looks all too important. I'm aware of them but eh. Character s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:06 AM
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No he absolutely would not. u/purasangria is spot on. Women will always remain non-humans to them, and objects, true. But the most goodlooking ones are be the most valuable objects to possess, simple as that. ​ He asks you, specifically, because he thinks he can get away with it with you, specifically (does not mean that you ARE less valuable than JLo but he sees it that way. The trick is to not let it get to your confidence).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:44 AM
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I was gonna say... Yawn Men and their cute little bullet point lists. 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:09 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:13 AM
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It is gaslighting 300%. ​ The first verse in the narcissist's prayer: ​ "I didn't say that/that didn't happen". ​ It goes on with: "Well if I did/if it did it wasn't serious/that big of a deal" "Well if it is then that's you being sensitive" "Well if you're not sensitive then you deserved it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:10 PM
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This. 100% guilty by complicity. ​ I wanted to add THIS: ​ "Edit: Changed sexual abuse to sexual assault" ​ is SOOOO important. ​ Human beings can not be "used" to begin with. Therein, they can not be "abused" or "misused". The correct terms are sexual or emotional attack/assault. ​ Manipulating, lying (including by omission), cheating, gaslighting, threatening, coercing, taking advantage of, doing anything below a clear, consensual and resounding "Yes", emotionally or physically, is attack or a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:58 PM
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We totally did this in my second ltr (5.5 years) and ended up sleeping in the same bed every night, but everyone felt they could bring and decorate their personal items in the appartment. Personal space and all. Tremendously important overall, especially when arguing and wanting to retreat. Best practice imo, if I ever cohabit again I will keep it this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:29 PM
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"One of the biggest lies society is trying to push onto women is that unattractive scrotes automatically come with a decent personality!" ​ THE ACCURACY HURTS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:17 PM
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