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I think it's one of the more immoral yet socially acceptable practices that men get away with. They'll tell you anything to have sex with you then straight up ghost your ass. One of the reasons I'm traumatized by handsome/jacked men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 04:34 PM
1

Is it a little weird that he chose her big day to propose? Do we know if he proposed after or before her event?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:27 AM
2

Literally people say "stay humble" to women all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:04 PM
5

Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:38 PM
7

I'm sure he wasn't born this way. He willingly chose this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:34 PM
20

And their reasoning for wanting kids is because they want their "bloodline" to continue on. Meanwhile their noble legacy is eating taco bell in a dark room while texting 'wyd' to every girl in their contacts list at midnight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:30 PM
4

If you put up boundaries it upsets them and leads them to punish you in subtle ways like ignoring you, canceling plans etc.. They may not say it outright what you did, and they will 100% try to make it about something else. But it's a mind game to "train" "tame" or "teach" you to behave how he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:32 PM
2

Bruh both of them are sexy AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:29 PM
49

Oop! This is like a wet dream haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:26 PM
5

Dude what? She's trying to prove she loves you because she's hoping you'll treat her right. Biggest time waste of anyone's life is to try and dance like a monkey for scrotes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:14 AM
0

Hmm, if it's a birth defect why do we need sperm to reproduce? Im genuinely asking not being sarcastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:33 PM
13

I find it interesting we have lost the art* Pick meism is at an all time high right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:47 AM
4

Especially if he's passionate about his job even when it doesn't pay the best. I really couldn't care less. Living an overly luxurious lifestyle isn't all that high on my priority list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:58 AM
6

I like that I try to be a better person and try to reflect and I am always willing to admit when I'm wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:55 AM
28

I love how bored she looks at the beginning lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:07 AM
17

I'll be watching Hulu and end up seeing 5 erectile disfunction commercials in one sitting. Its that common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:42 PM
3

I wonder if he's lvm or hvm 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:26 PM
6

I needed this so badly. Thank you for posting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:04 AM
11

U.K. scrotes use terms like: gash, minge, or clunge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:01 AM
5

I found out a guy i was friends with was a strip club frequenter. I made the mistake of thinking he would understand when I told him we are not romantically compatible (he was asking me if I was interested in him.) Big mistake. He was super offended and thought I was being unfair and basically yelled at me over my standards. What a fucking idiot.... he thinks adding abuse to the list is going to change my mind. Anyways I'll never tell a scrote the truth about why we aren't going anywhere ever ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:58 PM
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The point may be lost on others especially scrotes. Basically she's not saying to rely on a man for these things, but at the very least don't waste time crying over some idiot who can't do shit for you anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:32 PM
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The fact that he's still her boyfriend says so much about how little pride or dignity she has ): I would've split so quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:23 PM
2

I'm so conflicted on this... on one hand women have been bullied so much for their appearance and age. But we should rise and be better than men and their disgusting unforgivable behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:21 PM
10

While we are here, I'm kinda tired of seeing posts where the sole purpose is to show how amazing and luxurious some influencers lifestyle is and then slap some "I'm happier single" over it. Like we get it, you can afford expensive clothes, make up, plastic surgery, travel, etc. What does this have to do with FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:13 PM
48

"McDonald's it is" In one breath and then "why can't I get laid" in the next breath LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:58 AM
1

She just kept going, she never ran out of disgusting situations to describe. The time she took to write this should have been more than enough time to realize she needs to get out of that relationship lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:39 PM
9

Uhm, men are so desperate for sex that they literally would actually fuck their cousins. They don't have any moral compass whatsoever. People on reddit hate women so much, and these holier than thou responses reflect that. I also would like to add that these people fail to understand the big picture here. This isn't about communication at this point. This is part of the eternal vetting process. If a man behaves this way, there is no fixing him. There is only moving the fuck on. I will never wear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:57 PM
23

Well said. We want sex too (sadly men suck at it) Men like the instant gratification of getting sex with minimal effort. And they'll keep using her up until they get bored or she develops stronger feelings. Their intention was never to nurture her emotionally, but they conveniently won't be honest about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:06 PM
2

Yeah it's really weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:09 AM
1

Why Men Love Bitches addresses this. Never ever be in a position where sex is on the table because he will feel teased and it will make him bitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:13 PM
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Yeah, it's really obvious that agenda is pushed in marketing. Women are targeted for their looks relentlessly. Men get to be the dumb grill masters who nap on the couch and have no idea what's going on in their family's lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:03 PM
7

I want this tattooed 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:18 PM
5

How could you be this much of a clown? How can you be this much of a doormat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:23 PM
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I was referring to their flippant comment that "money is something HV people should have"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:39 PM
2

Not accepting abuse really pisses them off lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:21 AM
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Poor girl, she's in a bad place emotionally. I've been there before. She wants to live forever in that hotel room so she can stay in a moment where she actually felt wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:59 AM
5

I guess you just use HV in reference to men that you would be dating, not humans in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:08 PM
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I disagree, money doesn't determine whether you're HV or LV. For example, a man with no money isn't a biggie to me as long as he doesn't try to date me (that would be some fucking audacity) but human beings have low points in their lives and we shouldn't judge them based on something as oppressive and toxic as money. We live in a world where people are oppressed and discriminated against for things they can't control like gender and skin tone, where the system is designed to keep poor people poo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:39 PM
10

At least be literate when trying to be deep. Can't even spell out "you" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:32 PM
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Agreed! But there's still a lot of focus being placed on how a woman is dressing, and how much money she puts into her appearance. I get it appearance is important, of course it is, I'm just not sure it's such a great thing to push people on, considering it's still male pandering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:08 PM
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Eeeewww. The word microwave alone is just an instant turn off. At least use a mini oven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:37 PM
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Here's a thought, dump his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:36 PM
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This made me feel really good.. thank you so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:15 AM
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Trust me he got blocked.... I also kinda wished I had the opportunity to pay for myself because I would rather him not think that I used him for a meal. It isn't about the 18 bucks for either of us, it's about the principle. For him, he was obviously miffed cause he didn't find me worth it. For me, I don't deserve to have someone turn their back to me to watch TV while we are on a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:38 AM
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Sometimes those beauty standards trickle and leak into FDS discussions and posts and it really bugs me. I get it, we should be working out and eating right (which I definitely try to do and my body reflects it) but it feels extremely exclusive to place so much value on our appearance :/ some people have real issues and don't have the time or money to have perfect bodies or perfectly manicured and groomed appearances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:04 AM
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I would buy a giant print of this if I could haha. I am a Crush fiend... I think the crushing phase is my favorite part of a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:03 PM
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People are very quick to argue my FDS views. Even women! I never argue about it, I just let them think what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:51 PM
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Checking in! I went to dinner with a guy and everything was going well until .... The server was very flustered and rushed the whole time. When it was time for the check he dumped it on my date, and didn't really give us a choice. The guy felt pressured to pay for my $18 plate of food and he had a split second of hesitation before he reached for his wallet. I always come prepared to pay for myself. I never hint or imply or ask a man to pay. But he seemed reluctant as he reached for his card. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:12 PM
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Not even surprised that scrotes would take offense to a pretty accessory! Such losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:42 AM
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Just felt like dropping in to get this off my chest. A scrote told me about his affinity for going to strip clubs and basically helped me vet him out completely. I rarely am spoonfed the red flag, usually when things get a bit deeper I have to dig it out or investigate but nope. He handed me the much needed knowledge on a silver platter. Bye bye Scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:36 AM
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The funny part, is they're excusing men for "not being involved." Part of being a woman is being expected to do things with no excuses whatsoever. This person would not be excusing women for despicable behavior, so why men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:40 AM
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Thank you needed this today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:07 AM
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Hmm, what about if someone enjoyed being tickled? Idk, maybe that qualifies as harmless but I am more than happy to stand corrected haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:07 AM
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You bet he does lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:51 PM
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Hardest pill to swallow for me is that I will never find a man who meets all my criteria and I will have to either be single or settle. We have to somehow find a man who we are not only physically attracted to, but who also doesn't watch porn and actually is high value and brings something to the table. I really think believing a man like that exists is just like believing in the tooth fairy. Men have no reason not to watch porn these days literally not one. And if they do, it's probably because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:15 PM
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I hope that guy noticed her today since that's what seems to be the goal here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:24 AM
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If she had a cleaning fetish and this is how she gets off then good for her? But if not wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:26 AM
1

The first commenter hit the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:44 AM
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If anyone has seen that Aziz Ansari clip where he talks about texting back and forth and suddenly when he invites her for Pizza on Tuesday she never replies again. A scrote sent that clip to me after asking me to "get drinks or go for a walk." I had just ignored it and he sends me that little butthurt clip. One of the more hilarious interactions I've had. I still giggle when I remember it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:16 AM
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Same thing with Game of Thrones. Any scrote that loves that stupid porno fest is an automatic no for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:11 AM
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Its truly sickening. It gave me such a complex. Believeing that I am nothing if I am not the picture perfect image of beauty I am very glad FDS exists or I may have never escaped that poisonous self destructive mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:12 AM
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It ended so abruptly and their love story is so drab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:50 AM
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Wtf did I just watch lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:21 AM
11

He knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:39 AM
3

nO kiNK sHaMInG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:37 AM
6

My pick me friends are okay with so much disgusting behavior Their LVM get away with literal cheating. When they initially get upset, the LVM claims they were never officially dating in the first place. Works every time, like a charm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:22 PM
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Lmao. Forget trying to get laid with her. Instead, use her to help you get laid with other women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:35 AM
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I told my mom that I don't think there's a man out there ready for my high standards. She agreed. I said it made me kinda happy, knowing I can stop looking. No more searching or wondering. She said "There's a man out there for you. ...He's being trained by another woman, right now as we speak." I told her that my days of training men are over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:28 AM
6

Getting older used to terrify me. It still does, but fds has helped me heal so much from this. It helped me worry less about our sick society's opinion of me and more about how I can make myself happy in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:18 PM
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I wonder if this would just make them piss outside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:36 AM
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This is the comment I came here looking for. The entire dating process for LV scrotes consists of bringing us down to their level as much as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:36 AM
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I don't even need a tall guy. Just a dude in my league with a sense of hygiene and self care is fine for me appearance wise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:17 AM
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Back when I was a pick me I asked a guy to slap me during sex. He just about took my jaw off. I never asked a man to slap me ever again. I didn't think he would brutalize me that way, I thought it was going to be a playful slap. I blame myself for involving myself in it, but also him for being a piece of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:03 AM
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Shes brainwashed ):
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:19 AM
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Imagine the scrote-panic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:48 AM
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He must watch a lot of porn! She's got time on her hands to be making this video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:26 PM
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I tell her about FDS quite often and she's supportive and she listens. But she's 50 and really stubborn/stuck in her ways. I will send her this quiz. ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:03 PM
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I know that's why I mentioned it was free for them to play pool haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:02 PM
46

The book Why men Love Bitches teaches you how to work smarter not harder when it comes to dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:16 AM
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I found a "good man" once. Then found out he was a porn addict. Trust issues have followed me since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:01 AM
11

She's accepted in her Pick-Me circle! They have jackets now and won't hesitate to reassure her that everything's okay and that this is normal!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:56 PM
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It took me a minute to realize that even though I found FDS, I was still a Pick-Me. I mentioned before - I thought I was recovered, but Pick-Meism does not change overnight. It's a hard pill to swallow for sure. I'm sure people are offended by it, based on your edit. But this should be in the handbook.... I think we all get excited when we find FDS for the first time. It's normal. I saw someone getting massly downvoted because they gently reminded someone that buying flowers for you does not equ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:33 PM
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Some men think the female orgasm is a myth. I think HVM are a myth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:28 PM
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I started off my FDS journey wishing to find a HVM. The more I tried the more I realized how much fun it is to be alone. (And how gross the dating pool is right now.) No worrying, no monitoring, no competing, no wishing, no hoping. I am the HVM in my life now. I know exactly what gifts I like and how to treat myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:53 PM
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This 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:18 AM
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Facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:37 PM
10

I'm considering changing my #
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:53 AM
2

Agree! Celibacy feels good! My sex life is now me, some organic lube and my discreet sex toys 😇☺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:19 AM
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When a low value man buys you a meal, he is betting on getting something in return. Sex or blowjob or at least being able to make out with you or feel you up. So when he doesn't get what he wants, (Aka a prostitute who only cost him $15-30 bucks) it sends him. He doesn't want her company. He wants her to feel pressured into giving him something he wants. So when he's denied he needs a way to place the blame on her instead of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:09 AM
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Imagine how flaky and dry this man is haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:49 PM
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Aw thanks. This made me feel really nice (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:24 PM
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Yeah don't be happy for us or anything as we conquer a history full of oppression and abuse. Its all about you, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:37 PM
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I'm not bi enough 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:29 PM
6

I love this. Her make up is also on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:28 PM
3

We're looking at you, Jack from The Titanic. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:19 PM
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Their penis is supposed to be enough for us. And their mere presence (sometimes lack thereof. But their rent-free presence in your mind should be enough too.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:10 AM
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They'll stay long enough to get laid. Then when it's ring time all his effort will be gone like a hot fart in the wind. I love the Pick-Me chasing validation from an E-Scrote in the last pick. I personally would not want a ring which was created from unethical practices... but I'd be happy with something ethically sourced and still beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:04 AM
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I like how he formulates a scenario to fit his broke ass scrote-agenda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:43 AM
6

Terrifying. I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:40 AM
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My girlfriends always ignore me completely if I mention anything remotely within FDS values. They're really confident and secure in their pickme-ism though. So they make me feel like an alien with 5 heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:08 PM
2

Lmao he brought you to his game night and called it a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:04 PM
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Anyone know any good books which cover how to not be attracted to men? I'm not even being sarcastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:58 PM
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Except the fact that the baby is being raised by an actual clown.... wouldn't be surprised if this genius spent that 125% on matching shoes to go with every single one of his button ups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:48 PM
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I did a little light research on this. The lady and all those commenters are so dumb. The title of her post was similar to: "My bf has been feeding me slugs, I don't know how to forgive him." Uhm, how about don't forgive him? A lot of the comments seem to jump to: "He is not psychologically well." Before telling her to leave him. Who cares if he's well or not? Is there a term for a bootlicker but for men? I know men have "simps." But these people are seriously man-simps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:03 AM
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I mean this is comedy gold. This guy is a fucking joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:18 AM
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Also, a lot of these things I knew but didn't know how to employ them gracefully!! So helpful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:19 PM
7

I'm reading Why Men Love Bitches and some parts of it just make me wish I wasn't attracted to men at all. But other parts remind me of why I am attracted to men at the same time. It is such a good read.... also... this book is literally like magic. It already has given me so much more confidence in my interactions with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:46 PM
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Never 👏 Again 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:31 AM
1

She sounds like quite the clock puncher! Don't you love when your mental health is treated like an obstacle between some scum bag and their paycheck and luxurious lifestyle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:17 AM
5

I honestly think this is one of their favorite parts of dating, to see how much they can antagonize their ex through letters, emails, texts, voice-mail etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:33 AM
17

The little zoom on the stray q tip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:15 AM
14

Still catching feelings inappropriately for men who haven't invested or proved themselves. I'm good at unsticking myself, but unbeknownst to them I still secretly hurt over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:53 AM
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He is so cringe for that. Honestly, the fact that he's so riled by your silence just means you got the job done right and in the most graceful way possible. Go you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:28 PM
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I got the book Why men love bitches and I'm already loving it. Holy shit. So good. Thank you for uplifting me with this recommendation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:51 PM
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I'm a true crime dabbler and I'll be damned if I meet my end at the hands of some demonic scrote. I'm staying inside. Day or night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:11 PM
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I feel like I should get those today. I knew I woke up early for a reason. Is there any triggering content in them? I'm going to try and get to Barnes and noble before work ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:43 PM
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Here I am wanting to see love in someone's eyes and still giving myself shit for not being enough. More guys say and think this than we probably think, too.. Bill Burr casually jokes about physical abuse and men fucking love that SOB.. At least this gives me some perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:05 PM
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I am a pick me. I thought I was recovered but I'm still a pick me. I'll admit it. But I'm here instead of somewhere I shouldn't be. I'm not giving up on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:36 AM
12

There is nothing hotter than a good personality and a sense of humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:22 AM
9

I mean, it can be hot if it happens just once. You could interpret it as a compliment especially if he normally doesn't cum too quickly. It's not sexy if it's every single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:37 AM
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It's pretty telling that a man uses the size of a womans tits or ass to determine whether he wants to be with her. It just shows how focused they are on what happens to their penises next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:22 AM
6

Ok but is that a booger in his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:06 AM
4

Dude! That really is sweet.... awwww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:35 PM
1

Hell yeah it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:26 PM
28

I feel called out AF but thanks sis <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:53 PM
5

The world is indeed dangerous for women. The men who want to ignore this fact in an attempt to maintain "equality" are not worth investing your feelings in. In fact reading this post unlocked that understanding within me. It makes me more aware of the fact that the chances of me finding "the one" are getting slimmer. However, I can get more satisfaction lying safely and cozily in my bed, using my imagination to dream up my own perfect love story. That is still better than being abused or dreadfu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:46 AM
13

So true. I have had so many men develop intense crushes on me. To the point where their everyday words become poetry. The fucking millisecond that I show him that I like him back, he immediately loses interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:28 AM
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I know this is the truth. I'm such a hopeless romantic though but I'll never go back to settling for less than FDS standards. I'm considering trying to date women but I don't want to waste anyones time......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:11 AM
2

Ugh yes! This guy I was talking to was looking good at 26 years old until he sent me a selfie on snapchat. Looked 5 years older and had gained more weight. Talk about a bamboozle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:05 AM
15

Is anyone else struggling with feelings of hopeful romance but unable to find anyone because of their high standards? I just want to be hugged so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:02 AM
1

Sex is like an addiction for me. I haven't had sex in months, and I'm actively trying. I just got some new luxury sex toys in an attempt to bribe myself to stay celibate. They're set to arrive today. Yay! (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:01 PM
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I'm checking in again! Posting here has been helping me avoid romantic tragedy and heartbreak so I hope no one minds! I'm socially active in a group which has really fun game nights of about 10 people at a time. Theres a man who plays with us, and me and him have a certain chemistry. Recently he's made it clear that he has a crush on me and I feel the same. It was one of those slow-developing attractions. Staying up late and playing games, inadvertently learning about how his mind works, and his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:39 AM
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This made my ovaries shrivel up. They no longer exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:18 AM
78

My cousin had children with a man who cheated on her. She lost it on him and ended up in jail. Now they're back together. The fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:14 AM
5

I love a happy ending!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:37 PM
45

Some cats can be a little more sparing with their asshole cleanings. I have two cats, one always keeps their asshole spotless. My other cat is a little more relaxed on his cleaning ritual if you know what I mean. I'm still proud of them both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 11:13 PM
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FDS gave me the courage to be proud of how vanilla my sexual preferences are. And I won't hesitate to call myself "super vanilla."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:58 PM
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Damn it happened to you too?? Yeah, it's almost like they want to be able to blackmail us with ugly photos. Amazingly, they've probably done this to women multiple times and they've seen our reactions to it and double down because they like to establish their sadistic behavior to test our boundaries. "If you aren't putting up with my BS and abuse, I don't want you anyways." - Scrote Brain Their vetting process is to see who's going to be a doormat for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:40 PM
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I feel like this comment is problematic but I'm willing to be corrected if I am wrong. It feels like she's on this pedestal for her looks and her wealth, and you're saying that there's not a man out there who could match her value. FDS isn't about man-hating or implying men "are the lesser sex" it's about weeding out the LV ones for your own personal growth, benefit, and safety. FDS is not about putting ALL men down as a whole. So why couldn't someone match her value...? Do you not have the same…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:03 AM
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Lmao I love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 10:33 PM
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Was talking to a guy who seemed invested, sweet, and highly interested in me. We'd been sending video chats back and forth and I sent him one of me talking and he took some screenshots. He then showed me the screenshots and I asked him to delete them because I thought they were ugly. He said "No.... they're not that bad. Plus, these are the only pictures I have of you." I told him "that is a terrible reason not to delete them." I already knew I was going to block him by this point. He said "Not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:43 PM
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Am I the only one who sees these vids of men defending FDS values and thinks: Watch him ask his next target on a walking date and be shocked if she expects him to buy her dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:00 PM
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Say one thing about how women deserve more or deserve respect and people begin to clutch their pearls and cover their mouths. Woman have been shamed for not being doormats for men. And of course, Men want our role. They want to be the nurtured, delicate flowers who's needs must be attended to at all times. So of course they're going to try and repress our feelings of empowerment and self-love. Do not let them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:32 PM
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How the fuck is she still with him!? She's just as much of a clown as he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:26 PM
8

Also, block unless he's been vetted and you're in a committed relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:24 PM
13

They love talking to us like we're dogs meant to obey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:23 PM
21

I'm actually surprised the girl showed up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:43 AM
24

I hope she says it's 3 months but in reality it's 6 months... I would hate for scrotes to find out this knowledge and try to skate by her vetting process just for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:39 AM
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I've had guys make fun of me for my moans during sex. Degrading and hurtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:35 AM
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She must really not want kids to be that careful. It's smart of her to inspect them so she can make sure that she doesn't need to run to get a Plan B. Either it's herself being meticulous (for good reason) OR he isn't trustworthy enough for her to relax and cuddle after sex. Bad vibes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:02 AM
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If she was the star of a TV show I'd watch it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:54 PM
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Pick-Me Mental Gymnastics sucks that way. Hope this girl found herself instead of a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:20 AM
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I needed this post. This post drove me to block a scrote that I was on the fence about blocking. Thanks for calling it what it is! It's a form of abuse and control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:28 AM
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That is so helpful actually. I struggle a lot with social anxiety. This idea speaks to me and it's quite refreshing. From now on, I shall De-select idiots and assholes forever more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:38 AM
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They have a strict system that they follow because they need a way to get laid somehow. So they shoot their shot LONG after the relationship (platonic or not) is over. Constantly, and repeatedly. I have had the same scrote for over 8 years who has kept my number, and somehow continues to find me even after I changed my number. He's never shy either. Comes right out and tells me "IT'S SEAN REMEMBER?" Like please leave me the eff alone. I have changed my number. I am not fucking interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:20 AM
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I can't barely LOOK at a "dad-bod." First time I truly looked at one of my ex's naked I was so overcome with regret and shame. That is how digusted I was. He looked really good in a pair of jeans and a sweater, like sexy. He must have figured out how to flatter his body cause he looked SO GOOD in clothes. Like booty, arms, thighs, everything. Also, he couldn't maintain an erection I'm guessing from a combination of his poor diet, lack of exercise, and porn addiction (which he vehemently denied.)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:21 PM
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You'll be better off without him... I recommend investing in some nice sex toys. He is replaceable, your sanity and mental health is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:08 PM
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"Don't match if you're not going to write back" is a caption commonly found underneath a selfie with a terrible angle, terrible lighting, and 9/10 he didn't even bother grooming the pubes under his chin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:54 PM
18

Wow, a debunked Havard study that was created in male favor? I literally can die happy now. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:56 PM
40

This dude had these big muscles. He was super aggressive. He asked me if I wanted to "come over and watch a movie" within the first 4 messages. I told him that he could take his silicone muscles and rapey date ideas elsewhere then blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:44 AM
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After everything I've been through for and with men, I dislike them so much. To my very core. I've been exploring OLD a little bit these days. Here are some findings: - While some men appear to have everything you could want (their carefully crafted profiles are just a disguise to how disgusting they are) don't worry they will 100% blow their cover within the first few interactions. - Contacting you is free of charge. So these LV groundhogs like to tunnel their way over to you, and pop their hea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:58 AM
6

Finally someone said it. I don't care how true or accurate whatever this random scrote is saying on Tik Tok or Twitter. His face doesn't belong here....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:29 PM
6

"I will brag about you to my friends if you cook for me." Profiles that focus on how "successful and independent you are as a woman." When I see this, I feel they are implying that most women out here are leeches. How TF can we leech off you? You don't have shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:13 PM
3

Misogyny is so deeply rooted into humanity. In just the last year, I've seen a handful of these posts where women are put down, insulted, and harassed while pregnant or having a baby. And not by random strangers, but their own husbands or boyfriends. Whether it's a joke or not, the fact that you would joke about this during a priceless, sentimental, irreplaceable moment is just despicable. I hope this woman found her self worth and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:33 PM
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I recently quit alcohol (over a month sober!) and I can't help but notice how idiotic men act when they're drunk. So glad I quit. They are just to cringe. I don't see myself dating men who drink anymore... Just more opportunities for me to become an unwilling babysitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:44 PM
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Mysogny runs so deep in the blood of society that women standing up for themselves is shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:58 AM
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They're talking about these violent murderers as if they're cranky babies who just need mama's milk. The brainwashing is strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:15 AM
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Exactly true. I was naive and hurt by men, used for sex and then abandoned emotionally after they tricked me into letting them use me up. All I had in me was love. I was a young hopeful girl full of compassion and empathy. Now I'm scarred, traumatized and "used."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:45 AM
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Men are the ones with ridiculous standards... and their standards are things we can't even control like our butts, our tits, our faces, our skin color, etc....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:03 AM
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Being single is indeed freeing and healing. When I am in a relationship (and it was often with a LV POS before I found FDS) I tend to get hurt easily and be sensitive about their inevitable negligence. I can also be jealous because they tend to surround themselves with pornographic forms of entertainment in every section of their lives. Music, TV, movies, and of course porn itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:42 PM
3

I need something that is super quiet (since I do not live alone) and preferably rumbly instead of buzzy. I'm afraid of spending money on anything without solid recommendations. I know the hitachi is probably one of the loudest out there. I also spent $79 on a toy and loved it but it stopped working within 2 weeks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:57 PM
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It's a literal nest. He refers to it as a nest. I wouldn't be surprised if he secretly lays eggs. Next thing you know she'll be refusing to cook his freshly laid eggs and he'll be offended by that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:22 PM
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I'm here for it girl. Keep those standards high as fuck! 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:44 PM
5

This is the damage of the male gaze and pornography. Pornography for men exists everywhere, even outside of porn itself. I felt this exact same way for so long. When I'm no longer a "fuckable" woman I lose my worth. It is terrible and traumatizing what we are put through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:51 PM
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Honestly I'm still over here wondering if a man who is willing to treat me with basic respect actually exists! The bar is underground for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:26 AM
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Its all thanks to FDS girl. And I'm sorry you were treated that way. You sound very kind and sweet, all you did was try your best and that scrote treated you like shit. Fuck him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:59 AM
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Its so rich everytime the comments use such precious words in the defense of these scrotes. "Vulnerable" "Delicate" like he is some fragile flower. The guy hid his fart addiction from his intimate partner until they got engaged. Farts. From the ass. On his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:13 PM
2

They know it's wrong, but they don't care because you are not worth it to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:09 PM
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My post got a little popular and therefore snagged a couple of prickly scrotes who made their way into my DMs. They were basically mad that I had canceled a date because I felt disrespected. Why do they feel the need to make my business their business anyways? It's like some universal scrote code. Try to break down as much women as possible so that men can get their way easier and effortlessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:32 PM
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The only thing is he said he was taking me to one of the nicest places in town, so I didn't want to show up underdressed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:06 PM
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I really appreciate that you took the time to validate my decision. It means so much to me. I think in the past I would have probably ignored these and glossed over them, thinking that once I "prove myself" that he would be kinder to me. So glad I am no longer in that easily manipulated mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:53 PM
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Yes, it's about the gut feeling (: If he's unwilling to compliment my appearance this early Im not going to waste my time hoping one day he will lol. Asking me if I'm "worthy" of something was also degrading. Just not very romantic at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:25 PM
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We exchanged selfies thru snapchat to verify that we are not catfishing (my idea) and he didn't compliment my appearance which was on point. I like memes. So we are exchanging some memes and he jokingly asks if I'm "worthy" of seeing his collection of memes. This is where I knew it was time to ghost. In hindsight, both of those flags are fucking glaring. I think mini was an understatement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:01 AM
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That's great advice lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:42 AM
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This is how you feel about a man right before he shows you what a real dick he is lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:35 AM
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I would rather be single my entire life than be with someone like him. No idea how she puts up with him fawning over other women. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:50 AM
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I had an angry scrote crying in my DM because their feelings got hurt over me saying women deserve respect. Lv scrotes always have to immediately try and make it about them lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:42 PM
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The way she articulated this was beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:21 AM
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The best part is men aren't nearly this seductive. They're mostly creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:49 AM
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I love this! But even if he was a lawyer and she was a sandwich, she still deserves respect. We need to be inclusive of every woman and not place her own personal value on her career, but on the caliber of her soul. Just my opinion sorry I know no one asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:30 AM
1

Those are so fun! Congrats! Can't wait to see the wedding flowers (:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:17 AM
1

Omg no. But that is vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:35 PM
2

😂 I immediately thought of boogers. Boogers on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:44 PM
5

He had me reeled in a little bit with his kind words and philosophical chit-chat. But this is such a turn off. Ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:01 PM
2

Went to a male gyno once and only once. I was in shambles. The man has a very uncaring brisk attitude. He takes one look at my vagina and proclaims confidently "you have a yeast infection." Didn't even swab me or anything. I paid 150 dollars for a grown man to look at my vagina and do nothing. I had to go to another doctor and she properly diagnosed and treated me for BV. She actually swabbed me and did her job. To this day I really wish that man the worst in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:49 AM
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When dealing with an ex, I felt angry as well.. Lately, I try to look at the men in my life as neutral entities and keep LVM/NVM out of my life entirely. If you let them in your lives and give them attention, your anger will just grow. In my experience, the longer you spend away from it, the better it gets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 09:42 AM
2

If anyone outside of this abusive relationship were to confront him about this, he would probably say: "We're not actually together, we just live together and she got pregnant."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:45 AM
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This is your brain on Patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:11 AM
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I discovered FDS by accident and I am greeted with nothing but pure facts. The memes are hilariously true, and the posts are on point. Toxic men are scared of FDS because their own love lives are built on lies and manipulation! Built on women giving him the benefit of the doubt and ignoring red flags. They're probably thinking: What will happen if a Pick-Me girl wises up? What happens if she is finally done worshipping the ground that he walks on? When she stops accepting his mediocre, sadistic …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:51 AM
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They attempt to gaslight the public to turn them against FDS because they're scared women may actually believe they have worth outside of the disgusting ways we are treated. They don't want us to believe that we deserve more. It is so sad. I felt like I never had a chance because of the abuse I faced as a woman. But I still have hope for young women in this world to be able to overcome cultural misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:39 PM
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