I have had almost a year of celibacy. (Yes, male lurkers: I had opportunities to have sex, but refused.)

While I may be entering a relationship somewhat soon (with a woman), it is nice to feel in control of my body, to touch it when I want to, and to not have others try to force me to do things with my body I don’t want to do.

It is also a nice exercise in mindfulness, self-control, and self-love. I feel a lot more centered and feel like my body is mine.

Sometimes there's power in celibacy!