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| 213 | Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of youBeing friends with a delusional pickme is a liability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 45 | My current bf told me he uses asmr to j##k off. Is that weird??honestly think it's weirder and more creepy- the performers aren't there trying to entice and here he is whacking off to them. nasty. | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 12 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!PickMe's posting their L's | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 139 | One of the worst things your potential partner can do is exploit vulnerable women because peen. It does not matter if he checks all the other boxes, if he's done this he's ZVMI don’t have a tried and true method; this was pre-FDS so I know for at least one of the men, it came up during a “what’s the craziest sex thing you’ve ever done”-type conversation. He was so proud of himself 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 322 | One of the worst things your potential partner can do is exploit vulnerable women because peen. It does not matter if he checks all the other boxes, if he's done this he's ZVMI’ve had several men admit to this in the past and it grossed me out SO much. These mfs were getting girls off CRAIGSLIST. That’s prime trafficking ground. I couldn’t ghost them fast enough. A man who thinks a woman can be bought and sold is NOT safe to be around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 15 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.The way pick-me’s are so quick to pimp out their friends 🤢🤮 this is why you can’t be friends with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:07 PM |
| 28 | I feel…asexual?I feel the absolute same 😌at this point any potential suitor is gonna have to compete with my peace and quiet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 51 | Older queens if you woke up as a 20 year old again, what would you have done differently?I wouldn’t have been in a serious monogamous relationship at any point. I let it influence where I lived (we shacked up), where I worked (because again, we shacked up and I artificially narrowed my pool of potential workplaces) and how much time I spent on personal development (trying to prove myself as “wife material”). If there’s ANY piece of advice I’d give younger ladies dipping their toes into FDS, it’s that. Your 20s is when you create the habits that will blossom in your 30s. If you stunt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 9 | JOHN MEEHAN FROM "DIRTY JOHN" WAS A HOBOSEXUAL. So many people hate FDS because we warn women about hobosexuals. Women have every right to protect ourselves from men who want to use and exploit us.Loser dudes can get all the love they want from their mama's! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:56 AM |
| 8 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Thanks for such a great post, op! We have some very savvy ladies here and I love that for us 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:45 PM |
| 54 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Don’t forget to look at Twitter likes/follows- they allow full xxx content unlike Instagram, so you might get a deeper look at what pornsick shit he might be into | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:25 PM |
| 35 | A regular customer at my place of work gave me an extravagant gift. I can’t and don’t want to date him. How do I handle this?Intense and manic…please take this seriously, you yourself used these descriptors. Intense, manic men turn into stalkers turn into murderers. Decline the gift, tell your management and have the client handed off to a male counterpart. Disengagement is key. | /r/askFDS | 06/06/21 12:29 AM |
| 13 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?She can have all the crusty nasty sperm she wants. I’ll be over here keeping my life together happily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:33 PM |
| 9 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menRemind yourself that no attention is better than attention contingent on you bending to someone else’s will (and betraying your own wants and standards!). Is this a good source of attention? I think you already know! You got this girl 🙌🏾 | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 03:41 PM |
| 20 | HVM are always HVM, even if they’re your ExHVM or not, if we are not together anymore, I don’t want or need you in my life. The chapter closed, farewell, goodbye, dead to me. Normalize closing chapters in your life and KEEPING them closed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 42 | I love Reductress. They cover a range of topics, I just grabbed ones I thought you all would like. 👏Every time!! It’s like clockwork. Instead of developing actual personalities and sense of humor, they memorized Judd Apatow movies 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:58 AM |
| 67 | I love Reductress. They cover a range of topics, I just grabbed ones I thought you all would like. 👏soooo many guys get by just quoting The Office and other dumbass bro movies that were popular when they were 17. like no Greg, I haven't watched Stepbrothers in 10 years, what the fuck are you referencing?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:37 AM |
| 34 | My husband has admitted to watching porn again and I have no idea what to do about it.You're married to a loser and only prolonging your own suffering. Your kids are small now but soon they'll be smart enough to pick up on the tension. | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 193 | Luxury home in Montreal owned by Pornhub exec burned down in apparent arsonHe should give blowjobs to pay for the repairs 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 09:37 PM |
| 21 | The phrase "SWERF" is corporate propaganda. The porn industry is attempting to shield itself from scrutiny by hiding behind the very laborers that they exploit. Sex workers are a class of oppressed, marginalized, exploited workers, not human meat shields for protecting industrial interests.It’s mind boggling. They wanna abolish markets...unless it’s the market where they can get T&A. Somehow that one is totally ok!🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:04 AM |
| 122 | The phrase "SWERF" is corporate propaganda. The porn industry is attempting to shield itself from scrutiny by hiding behind the very laborers that they exploit. Sex workers are a class of oppressed, marginalized, exploited workers, not human meat shields for protecting industrial interests.In some of the leftist circles I dabble in, you can say “work is exploitative” and everyone will cheer in agreement, talking about anti union movements, bad business practices and how capitalism is killing us all etc. Throw in “sex” in front of work and suddenly it’s liberating, empowering and above criticism. When you say “well then doesn’t that apply to SW too?”, you’re told that ~wELL aCKshUaLLy, aLL wOrK is DEgraDiNg~ as if that’s 1) 100% true and 2) applicable to the same degree. An annoyin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 11 | AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5?They hate us for not being pickme doormats 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 23 | How to answer “what brings you to this app?”I brush it off with a joke. I say I lost my glasses and (app) is the only place I haven’t looked. If they can’t take a joke, they’re not for me. I know what I’m there for and that’s enough for me 🤣 | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 19 | Am I being ghosted?If he wanted to talk to you, he would. Is there a 1% chance he got hit by a truck on his way to apologize and declare his love for you? Sure. But that’s probably not what happened. | /r/askFDS | 08/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 26 | Creepy guy I ghosted, never dated, still mad months later 😂Lmfao this email is so pathetic. I wouldn’t even fart in this idiot’s direction! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 14 | When asked about cookingI tell the truth: I hate doing it so I don’t do it much. That’s always killed the conversation for me. Even during my pick me era when I shacked up with a boyfriend, I hardly ever cooked. He could afford take out and restaurants for us every night. | /r/askFDS | 07/04/21 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Wisedom required - lot of green flags but...Long distance relationships only let you see a very limited scope of what someone is like and quite frankly don’t seem worth the work | /r/askFDS | 06/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 15 | Why we don’t do clapbacksWonderful post, OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:07 AM |
| 61 | Is this shallow?Reframe "is it shallow?" to "why am I programmed to question my own expectations?". He's not a bad person for being a teacher, the same way you're not a bad person for pursuing your lucrative career path. They're just incompatible. What you're doing is not setting yourself up for disappointment and contempt for a man you *knew* from the get-go wasn't a great choice for you. He's shown what he values; yours don't line up. You're both better off meeting people who share your individual work ethics… | /r/askFDS | 01/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateI bet he thought he was going to get some crazy hiking sex and when that didn’t happen, he came to complain. STOP GOING ON HIKE DATES. I can’t think of anything more dangerous: -bad cell reception -far from others who could help -dangerous landscape that could be used against you. What if you turn down a Scrote on a hike date and he literally pushes you off a cliff?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:04 PM |
| 12 | I want to break up with my boyfriend because of pornProud of you for ending things. It never gets better- the only option really is to just walk away! | /r/askFDS | 17/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 15 | Vibrator recommendations?I adore my Le Wand | /r/askFDS | 15/03/21 01:07 AM |
| 69 | Boyfriend suddenly making 0 effort for sex?You address it by breaking up with him. Why does everything need to be investigated? This man, to your face, acknowledges he does not even care to try to please you sexually. Where are the redeeming qualities here? I don't see any | /r/askFDS | 11/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 34 | Guy records a disturbing, upsetting conversation between him and his exasperated mother after she finds a tiger plushie he modified with a fleshlight. He refuses to go on family trip unless he can bring it with him.It’s ok to kink shame and this is exactly why 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:24 AM |
| 37 | Why do they call FDS female incels?Dick is abundant and low value. At this point, I value my peace more than I value dating for the sake of dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:36 AM |
| 10 | Do LV men change?Maybe, but probably not. I certainly have no intention or interest in sticking around to see if it happens 🤣 | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Can a guy who treats his romantic interests like a queen but treats women he's not interested in like they're nothing be HVM?Sounds like a misogynist buttering up someone he can use and abuse. | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 08:15 PM |
| 13 | Is this a red flag?If a guy at the bus stop did the same thing, how would you feel? Cashier at the grocery store? | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 09:28 PM |
| 23 | It's been 4.5 years and he can't give me any timeline for marriage/an engagement. What should I do?Break up. You’re already 85% to forever girlfriend but you can still get out of it! | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 09:21 PM |
| 7 | the double standards 🤦🏻♀️I see how my father TO THIS DAY won't even get up to get his own plate of food- my little old mom has to go get it for him and i'm like wowowowow I am so happy I'm single, I was not born to be Mrs. So-and-So making dinner day in, day out til I die. Noooope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 6 | I made a post about hating my course work and after a short convo about it I get a willy pic. Usually I block/delete this behavior but I just couldn't this time!1,000,000 dollars says this guy’s actual pervy kink is being told off after sending a dick pic. This is a thing and exactly why block/delete is the go-to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 17 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?Block and Delete is spreading...it’s the new gospel hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 32 | Man sleeps with over 400 women and it broke his sexuality. I think it’s not just porn that’s the problem...The amount of crotch rot this dude must have...holy shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Not even if Dean provided me with everything I've ever dreamed of in life.omg. some pickmes are truly beyond help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 42 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.There was an incident with his ex wife where a gun was pulled; I believe they tried to spin it like he was only pointing it at himself. It’s deranged behavior for anyone, but especially to pull a gun on the mother of your children. He’s sick. story in people from 2016 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:53 PM |
| 159 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.It’s so creepy (but not shocking) to me how he married a younger clone of his ex wife 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 55 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.For anyone curious about the actual tattoo- yes, it’s as gross and cringe as you think!! Yes Sir Mr ElMoussa 🤮🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 8 | What’s the right response to a dick pic that you didn’t really ask for?Block him. This man would flash his penis in a shopping mall if he could. There is something pathologically wrong with someone who displays their genitals at someone else unprompted and not consensually. | /r/askFDS | 09/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 22 | I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year.You are not married. He gets no say. That’s it. That’s the post. | /r/askFDS | 03/02/21 08:53 PM |
| 74 | Can we all stop caring if a woman hits the wall or notYup. It’s an extremely pick me trait to be like I’m 45 and still sooooo hot. Like...ok? And? Lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:57 PM |
| 20 | The men (and women) in the comments are LOSING IT 😂my fave line is the reminder that they " can be kicked out as easily as you can be let in". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:32 AM |
| 49 | Let’s be clear: your standards are not negotiable!Yuuup!! It’s like, sir get your dusty ass outta my face and find a pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:33 PM |
| 3 | One of the three jewellery pieces I bought myself for Christmas. I am also selling the gifts my NV ex bought me so I can put the money towards something I actually like. I will put my comment in the thread belowThis is so pretty 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | i don’t know what to do anymoreI know it feels like your world is caving in; but you have a WHOLE LIFE ahead of you. Keep your head up, babe! Now is the time to live for yourself, explore new hobbies, foster your friendships, etc. | /r/askFDS | 27/12/20 09:37 PM |
| 9 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Thank you mods!! 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:02 PM |
| 13 | When FDS gives you a signLmfao!!! The universe was looking out for you today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Would you consider this a red flag?He’s essentially saying that it’s a pain in the ass to think about how to woo you. He’s saying you’re not worth the effort for dates; if you want them, YOU plan them. Tf?! No way. I’d rather stay home than go out with a man who thinks spending time with me is a chore. | /r/askFDS | 01/12/20 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Is this a deal breaker? How do I proceed? Or do I not proceed?Six weeks is absolutely too soon! That said, he responded in a great way, quickly and with apology. I would continue on, but keep note of how he responds to future hiccups. Most people can play nice a few times; that doesn’t mean they’re of good character though! | /r/askFDS | 09/11/20 04:26 PM |
| 18 | It's astounding how many LVM expect all of this without investing in a ring 💍Uh oh did my ex just enter the chat? 🤣 I hope any former forever-gfs turned FDS queens have an amazing day today. We’ve come a long way, ladies!!💪🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 15 | I lost faith in men. How to get it back?First off stop swimming in the cesspool. Next, why tf give faith to them, sight unseen? Trust and respect is earned by their actions. They’re all suspicious until they prove themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:21 PM |
| 272 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansOF is weird and creepy already. It’s even weirder and creepy to sign up to your friends account to “support”. Why does his support have to involve her pussy pics and his dick getting hard to them? Wtf kinda boundary crossing shit is that. She gonna do a live show next time they hang or what? 😠😤good job tossing the trash out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:18 PM |
| 54 | Joining FDS, I found it a bit weird that men couldn't comment. Joining r/TwoXChromosomes, I realised how fucking good the rule isHad to leave 2x after the millionth “I’m a single dad how do I explain periods?!” Pick up a fucking book, chad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Are men only as faithful as their options? How can we as FDS women avoid this?That friend of yours...trash. I would reevaluate why he’s in your orbit. Men like that hang out with other LVM. | /r/askFDS | 27/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 34 | Man proposes to girlfriend of 45 years on flight...And they’ll divorce in three years 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 34 | Where being a pick me will get you.We’re calling women coerced into sex “pick me’s” now? What the hell happened to this place 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 5 | For those not actively dating for a HVM, this is basically it. Once you love yourself, other people are just an option, not a necessity. And this is the best feeling of all.Exactly this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 04:25 AM |
| 102 | Entitled scrotesKobe- cheater at best, rapist at worse. His wife? A pickme with a price tag on her dignity. Bill Cosby- actual literal serial rapist. His wife? A pickme who victim blames. Neither of those women should be celebrated, praised or held as an example to follow. Of course a LVM is gonna put them on a pedestal 🤣like no thanks babe I have self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:46 PM |
| 35 | Just saw this on PPD and it honestly scares me that probably most men think this way. This whole thread is grossMaybe, juuuuust maybe, women would be more open to new things if these LVM weren’t asking to light us on fire and throw us in front of a train in the name of kink. How come it’s never “I want to try this new thing to make you orgasm more easily, babe”? It’s always “need to put you in a bear trap, I can’t cum any other way”. FOH! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:42 PM |
| 38 | Boy bye.Love doesn’t make you blind to noticing other attractive people out in the world but for the love of god...KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. The fuck?! Pornsick fucks think they gotta announce their boners 24/7 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Never give men your passwords & always change them after a breakup. NVM will go to any lengths to get revenge. What can we do to help keep women safe?Password managers, ladies. Phone locked too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:14 PM |
| 9 | Don’t post screenshots of texts to men UNLESS...Agreed. Get a journal or yell into your pillow lmfao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 140 | Men only bringing the audacity, yet again, to the table!A lot of men are mad at the fact there are women who are perfectly fine being outside the norm of acceptable beauty standard; same reason they hate girls with blue hair or ones that don’t shave. They really can’t take the fact their lust isn’t a motivator for us 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 65 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸Also a left. I don’t date single fathers; I don’t want kids. My thinking is this: if he gives me all the time and attention I want, he’s not gonna have time for his kids and I don’t respect deadbeats. If he’s a good father, he won’t have adequate time to be with me and I wish him well (far away from me!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Found out I’m pregnant last nightWishing you a happy healthy pregnancy!! 💜💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 21 | Got downvoted by scrotes for offering advice to a woman who drove halfway to meet a LVM who turned up 30mins late to a coffee date while holding a tea he made at home...Exactly this. I am not captain save-a-pickme! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 11 | Insecure about my ageAny man who wouldn’t want to date you for being 30 is not a man you should want to date. If your fertility is a concern, it’s on you to look into egg freezing etc. Don’t settle for any chump because you feel some arbitrary clock is running out. I for once absolutely love being in my early 30s. No kids, established in my career, collecting my bag. What’s not to love about that?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 10 | In Memoriam 💔😢💔so bummed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:12 PM |
| 16 | Lying Awake At Night After Getting Played for the 12th Time Thinking Maybe Those FDS Bitches Are RightWhat matters is you’re here now!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 23 | He’s at the top 10% on the income bracket, I am no where near that... help, please.I think a month in is way too soon to know if he truly likes you for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 8 | Woman marries the father of her child after he promises to stop paying for Onlyfans, but guess how that goes!Some women would really rather have a man- any man- than be alone. It’s hard for me to wrap my mind around this and be sympathetic. get that shit annulled and GTFO!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 29 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!🤣 if only they followed through! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 33 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!Totally agree!! If a man mentions he looks up to any (or all) of the below, RUNNNNNNN! Jordan Peterson Elon Musk Joe Rogan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 5 | I’m always the second choice and I’m sick of it + proof that if a man wants you, they’ll make it clear immediatelyMy heart hurts for you because I’ve been there too multiple times 😔proud of you for taking the L with dignity and not trying to convince this bozo that you’re the one he should be asking out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 53 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!I had an ex who was an academic who did this; I literally had to be like “I am not your student and I do not need your feedback” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 65 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!Right?! As if “I was jUsT KIddINg” is an acceptable apology. 😫 trash!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 5 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳If JP had kept his room cleaner, maybe he wouldn’t have ended up in a medical induced coma in Russia!! He’s a fuck clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:22 PM |
| 127 | We all know why.This pic just called me old and uptight for not sending a picture of my literal butthole over Snapchat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:14 AM |
| 9 | You owe it to yourself, sis🙌🏽This is very much a “John Tucker Must Die” situation and I’m here for it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 6 | American dating style?I don’t date multiple men at once and certainly not in a pandemic. Just don’t be a thirsty dummy getting too attached 🥱 keep them at a distance and keep your own life going before you call him your boyfriend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:28 PM |
| 37 | How do you tell if a guy is boring or if you're just so used to toxicity in relationships that healthy feels boring?Switch your framing. Is he boring (unintelligent, no hobbies, a bad conversationalist) or is he stable (reliable, emotionally available, drama free)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 18 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"99.9% of the guys in a FWB situation aren’t even good at the FRIENDS part, much less the benefits!! In my younger, more easily manipulated days, I had several of these fuckbuddy situations. Was just playing myself!!! It’s a fools errand tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:37 PM |
| 63 | Don’t settle, you’re doing just fine.I wish that was true! She actually bankrolled her brother’s defense, bail, etc source | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 250 | Don’t settle, you’re doing just fine.Imagine marrying and procreating with a man who can’t drop your kids off at school...because he’s a fucking SEX OFFENDER!! 🤢🤢 Nicki belongs in the PickMe hall of fame. I pray she wakes tf up before her husband turns his attention towards that child. I’m disgusted even having to consider that. You read about moms who cover and blame their daughters for “being fast” when their POS stepdad abuses them. Who is that type of mother? Women like Nicki Minaj. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend was gone for a week, came home and was surprised with thisOk this is too cute 🥺I love that he worked in your love of variegated plants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 35 | This one goes out to all the Kinkmeisha’s lurking. We’re here when you’re ready.Omfg that is some straight up serial killer shit 🤬🤬it’s scary how many of these whack jobs are out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 64 | LVM can’t dress himself for his own wedding 🤦🏽♀️The fact she’s so accomplished and pretty and still marrying this ugly old racist is just so sad. There’s younger hotter rich guys right? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 103 | LVM can’t dress himself for his own wedding 🤦🏽♀️He was 32 when she was born 😫🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:22 PM |
| 166 | LVM can’t dress himself for his own wedding 🤦🏽♀️Pictured here is the creator of Dilbert (in his 60s), marrying a 31-year old in his undershirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:24 PM |
| 16 | Give him a heart attackI agree with the other commenter; condoms, stds, testing and general sexual health topics should be discussed before things get hot and heavy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:35 AM |
| 31 | NVM upset because I wouldn’t come over and fuck after the first date.Just the one pic. I’m on mobile if that matters! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:13 AM |
| 13 | An apology two years later from the guy who secretly took photos of me in the shower WITHOUT my knowledge for an entire YEAR simply because I refused to send him nudes. Does his apology acknowledge that? Nope.Absolutely disgusting. Hope you’re in a better space now, OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:12 AM |
| 318 | NVM upset because I wouldn’t come over and fuck after the first date.Lmfaoo the butthurt If it didn’t make a difference to him, he would have happily continued to woo and get to know you at YOUR pace. Total clown shit!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:11 AM |
| 4 | I smell a separation.1000000% Look at their fkn bio for crying out loud. Replies like a man too. You can tell in the writing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 4 | I smell a separation.I’m thinking so 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 4 | I smell a separation.We are very pro therapy here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 61 | Hope they get picked!In my area, Bumble is for the creeps with masters degrees; the rest stick to tinder. OLD is trash no matter the app 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 5 | If you’re this bitter, it might be best to just remove yourself from the dating pool.Can’t imagine why no one wants to marry this winner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Start treating men the same way companies treat their employeesThis post should be required reading. Wonderful thoughts, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:21 PM |
| 30 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅Ok but it’s actually so hard to have sex with someone this tall 😩 Source: an ex was a college basketball player. 6’7. I’m 5’0 LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:25 AM |
| 36 | Why do they compare FDS to other hateful subs?Because a woman who doesn’t need anything from anyone is triggering to little bitch boys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 11 | Share your CRAZIEST "hoover" / re-contact attempts?I have an ex who sends me groveling emails around Christmas asking for forgiveness. Going on two years of it. Pathetic little gap toothed bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:23 PM |
| 86 | The chances that a man will propose drop by 50% after 18 months of a relationshipAbsolutely true as a former 4year “forever gf”. He married the next girl 13 months in. When they know they know. I’m just thankful I’m not the one married to a balding alcoholic 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:16 PM |
| 98 | Drive 30.6 miles for a guy? Nope.“You should come down here” is code for: I have no car I’m too broke for an Uber No thanks!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 74 | I hope she gets picked. Also, getting in a car with a stranger on the first date... Couldn't be me 🤡🤡🤡Dying at “wedding on top, janitor on bottom” because you’re absolutely spot on 🤣🤣it’s SO bizarre and fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:42 PM |
| 134 | Can we talk about how literal (ex)porn icon hates porn industry? Mia Khalifa on TikTok :)Not only that but she was top five on Pornhub for years after she quit. Her content generated money for them and she didn’t see a dime. It’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 37 | A man on my social media?! In this economy?!This is my strategy too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 10:56 PM |
| 28 | Advice/thoughts on the 90 days before sex rule?For the longest time I thought “there’s no way a guy will wait for sex. No way!!” But then I decided to let one know...nah...sex is for men worthy of becoming my boyfriend. You’re a man I’ve gone on a few dates with. I don’t know if I like you enough to keep seeing you so why would I sleep with you? I expected him to tell me to fuck off. Nooooope. He waited patiently and ate my pussy like I asked. If he likes you, he can wait 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | In your opinion, CAN and SHOULD a friend with benefits ever become a boyfriend?This is a set up for you to get your feelings hurt pure and simple. If he had wanted to be your boyfriend before, he would have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 37 | Queens what are your feelings regarding being childfreeThere’s not a man alive I trust enough to not leave me with the burden of raising a child alone because he thinks it’s too difficult. You can break up but if you have a kid with a shitty man...he’s never out of your life. Even if he’s a bum who taps out at birth; he could come back years later and fuck shit up. Nooooope. I don’t mind kids. I’m happy to be an auntie instead lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 11 | Relationship advice succesfully pressured this woman into doing a sex act she hates with her entitled, predatory boyfriend. There are no words to describe how sad, sick and disgusted this makes me.Never share your history because even if it’s TWO, there’s always gonna be some fuckhead shaming you for tOo MaNY boDIeS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 268 | This is the type of husband I want to marry.🥺🥺i love when a man is openly and loudly proud of the women in his life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:54 AM |
| 74 | Jeff Bezos only follows one person on twitter, his ex-wife who does not follow him backJeff Bezos can eat a dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:02 PM |
| 7 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”The small dick energy is coming off of him so much I can feel it from here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Shit like this is such a slap in the face for those of us who dated a toxic man for YEARS, gave him the world, got attached, and never changed a thing.If you care about what your bum bitch ex “glowed up” to, you need therapy. Plus do we really think these tigers change their stripes? Nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Not here for almost relationships or situationships🙅I truly don’t think so. I’m very clear up front about not dating a bunch because simply- I don’t find a lot of men who are both attractive (to me) and interesting. He knew me taking the time to even get to know him was big. If he’d tried to string me along and dangle a “maybe one day” then yeah, I’d say he would be trying to be sneaky. He never did. I respected his self awareness, mostly because I’ve been there myself- dating around, liking a few guys and not wanting to dive into exclusivity wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:52 PM |
| 119 | Not here for almost relationships or situationships🙅Exactly this!! Last year I was dating a guy and had been very clear I’m slow to hop into bed and that it requires exclusivity. We went out a few times and he dropped the “not ready for a relationship” line and that he respected my goals and limits and didn’t want to waste my time by only offering me a ~casual~ thing. Did it sting? Yeah, I liked him and wanted to date. BUT I did not stick around and try to convince him. Why would I want someone who isn’t on the same page? Why would I settle for l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | How many other NVM phrases can you think of ?Any man who says he wants a “low maintenance” girl. I am not a fucking Honda Civic!!! I am a person and my needs are important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:30 PM |
| 24 | This girl got the average pick me girls so on point. I even cringed.🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 02:13 AM |
| 24 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄i just see a whole lot of badass cuties who love themselves and don't take shit from LVM. cuties, every single one!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:59 PM |
| 5 | Today marks one year since Kendrick Castillo bravely gave his life to save others in the Stem shooting. Stem students came to my school to evacuate and hold a vigil. Don't let his name be forgotten, he went above and beyond when he was needed.What a brave, selfless young man. RIP Kendrick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:49 PM |
| 248 | Mixed signals = no.Every time you chase scraps of attention, your self esteem rots just a little bit more. Stay woke 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:00 PM |
| 14 | I feel like this is supposed to scare us? Hmm nope if I have a kick ass group of girlfriends and no man when I die that's a-okay with me! 👌I see at least one homeowner with life long friends. Cute plants too. Goals tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 9 | I’m Not Having Sex Until I Love YouI feel like this writer took this out of my brain. I love my solo sex life tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:31 PM |
| 17 | So what do you ladies think of women who don't want children?I’m one of them ☺️I love connecting with others who share the opinion. I don’t hate kids but I know myself and that I would hate parenting. I feel like if we had more people being honest with themselves and their partners about the topic, we’d have less unloved kids in broken homes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 15 | Abusive LVM with no job who cheated while woman was pregnant RAPES her and gets her pregnant again. Calls it "non consensual" DAILY REMINDER NOT TO TAKE SHIT FROM MENThis is why we need safe and legal access to reproductive healthcare. You shouldn’t have to stay with an abusive fuck because you lack resources. Breaks my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 19 | This is why LVM don’t get dates. Pathetic.This is my strategy too. Idgaf over a picture like if it doesn’t include something substantive. Read my bio and pick something to talk about! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:24 AM |
| 12 | Why FDS incites male rage.They’re really out here like we’re the UBER Eats of Pussy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:50 AM |
| 33 | Guy I’m dating said something sus, don’t know how to respondIt’s more suspect he’s a full grown man dating someone still college aged. Seven years is not a bid deal at 40 and 47, but SO MUCH happens between 21 and 28. It’s a mountain of differences. College, getting started on careers, moving out from roommates/parents and onto your own, and so on. I bet girls his age think it’s a liability he’s 28 and still trying to be make it as a comedian. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 12:57 AM |
| 19 | In 2020, the pickmes are... uh, I guess bragging about how their husbands never wear their wedding bands?Good lord 🤣🤣🤣 is the next step holding her husbands dick and guiding it inside the ~bff~ ?!? What a clown 😫😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Would you date a boring man? Does a boring man = LVM?Why would I waste my one precious life on anyone I didn’t find interesting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Accurate.Wouldn’t put it past him!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:31 AM |
| 47 | Accurate.Last guy who wanted to keep it casual texted me one day- he’d seen on my ig story I was out at a restaurant celebrating my new job. He said he was in the area...for a date...and he didn’t wanna make it weird in case we ran into each other. I told him (in a very NON casual way) to go fuck those girls and himself because I’m too good to be pussy on rotation. NEXT, BITCH! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 16 | I want him for one night. Is that so bad?Idk if you’re ready for FDS, sis. I don’t see an ounce of HV from either of y’all. Do what you want but don’t pretend it’s getting you any closer to your goals. Short term “pleasure” (you think a dude gives a fuck if his one night stand cums? PLEASE!! 🤣) vs long term self respect. What are you really after? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | All the relationship subs are FULL of these types!!Same thing happened to me. It’s super hurtful; but we’re glad you’re here so that never happens again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 10 | Just Called Out a Group of LVMproud of you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:44 AM |
| 4 | Oh no, no thank you 🤮In dog years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Oh no, no thank you 🤮Only thing I wanna call this disgusting beast is a personal trainer and a waxer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 31 | A small sign of a HVMThis is so sweet; I love how you had no idea until now! Says a lot about him to just DO the kind thing instead of making a show of it and making you feel indebted to him somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 27 | Squirtmeisha: Used on/off in FWB for four years, dumps LVM, lets him back in a year later.Anyone else consider it a red flag when a man expresses interest in getting you to squirt? To me it says pornsick and unaware of physiology | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | The Benefits of Sex Toys Compared to Men: How Vibrators Can Replace Men.my womanizer changed my life!!! Everyone I’ve recommended it to has liked it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 7 | Can we talk about STDs for a second?Condoms don’t prevent every STD, you’re aware of that right? Skin to skin ones like herpes don’t give a fuck about condoms (and that’s why they’re so prevalent!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:29 PM |
| 13 | Can we talk about STDs for a second?On the flip side I’ve had sex with [x] and I’ve never once had an STD. It’s about safety practices and nothing else. I can’t tell you how many girls with 2-3 partners STILL catch shit because their boyfriends are nasty cheaters. The only 100% way to prevent STDs is no sexual contact. Eliminate the stigma and get your meds. You’ll be ok. Regular testing no matter what or how long you and your partner have been together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 9 | guys are learning astrology to try to get laidOH MY GOD. What a lead up. Trash dudes barely surprise me anymore but this one...WOW. A new form of nasty 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 07:51 PM |
| 42 | Stay picky, ladies!What language? My mom taught me it in Spanish :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:35 PM |
| 17 | Pervert harasses server at HIS WEDDING VENUE and his Pickmeisha bride is defending him1000% right. This bitch is twisted! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:34 PM |
| 276 | Stay picky, ladies!Better to be alone than in bad company 💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 36 | Where do you meet men?Don’t “act” high value- actually be high value. Be a woman of integrity, self sufficiency and have your own life. When you’re being fulfilled by your friendships, family, hobbies, work, etc, you’re MUCH less likely to try and seek your fulfillment via some dude’s approval. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Guy wants to skip GF’s dad’s funeral for his best friends wedding and he’s wondering if he’s in the wrong 🤮🤮It’s SICK!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:24 PM |
| 16 | Guy wants to skip GF’s dad’s funeral for his best friends wedding and he’s wondering if he’s in the wrong 🤮🤮Here’s the whole post WIBTA if is miss my GF's father's funeral to attend my best friend's wedding? Throwaway because a few of the people involved are on here. I'll try to keep this short and sweet. So my best friend since childhood is getting married on Saturday. The wedding will be in our hometown, about 4.5 hours from where I currently live. I have tomorrow off and was planning on leaving early in the morning with my GF of 2 years to be home for the rehearsal dinner. I am the best man. My GF'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 17 | This is wrong in so many waysHe can’t even find his own sex workers?? She’s gotta find someone to suck HIS dick? And SHE is the one paying?!LMFAOOOOOO. Throw him and this Pickmeisha away. There’s no hope for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 42 | OP (25F) dates old, post wall male (40M), is SHOCKED at his low-libido & unfulfilling, lackluster sex, feels insecure with lack of sexual foreplay. There's NO BENEFIT to dating someone much much older... and let this be a DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!Imagine spending your early 20s dealing with a loser almost twice your age with saggy balls, limp dick and no effort. Honey it’s time to get a vibrator and some self esteem!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 25 | And PUA think women need to give men tests to work out if they are useless. Life is the test.Lots of drive thru food! He’s lucky to have had that 20s metabolism at the time because he ate like the pig he was 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 07:52 AM |
| 44 | And PUA think women need to give men tests to work out if they are useless. Life is the test.I had to teach an ex how to make kraft Mac and cheese. He was 26. Idk how these idiots survived infancy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 06:02 AM |
| 18 | We don’t date based on potential. Who is he TODAY, sis?I love that 🙌🏽 it’s so true!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 11:21 PM |
| 11 | Red flags on tinderI thought op was posting about stuff she found in bios? I could be wrong though; but yeah, anyone that opens with “wanna smoke?” Is inherently low value because they’re rushing to meet, didn’t even bother to make conversation etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:37 PM |
| 21 | Red flags on tinderI definitely see your point! I think location also plays a big role- I’m in a state where medical and recreational weed are legal. I mean there’s even cannabis cafes 😂 so the culture here is a lot more permissive and since there’s not the threat of legal ramifications, it ends up being discussed much more openly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:35 PM |
| 14 | Red flags on tinderWhat’s wrong with 420 friendly? 1) some of us are too 2) wouldn’t those who aren’t prefer to know up front? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Is anyone else watching the Bachelor? 🙄Ugh so tacky. Kissing and telling is such a low value behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 44 | This is why we don't get involved with cops.Terrifying. I won’t date military (active duty or vets) or men into hunting either. No fucking way am I delivering myself to be murdered by a gun!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:43 AM |
| 8 | Beware of bearded men: exhibit 268How to tell a guy is hot: see him with no hat, sunglasses or beard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Is anyone else watching the Bachelor? 🙄I got that vibe from Mike too! I feel like he hooks you in with the smile and little moments of charm but just the fact he’s attention seeking enough to go on the show and then be messy about going out with Demi Lovato...not a good look! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:58 PM |
| 29 | Pickme’s at it again with their nonsenseI’d rather fuck a cactus than handover MY money to some bum so he can pretend it’s HIS 🤣 I bet this chick pays for his phone (where he’s hitting up other girls) and lets the loser drive her car | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:43 PM |
| 25 | Radical Change: Woman should ONLY accept casual sex from decent men who make them orgasm every time.Me share my body with a man who I like but somehow don’t like enough to date? For what? This is still a form of accepting less than what we want (a relationship with a HVM) and what we deserve (satisfying sex with someone who isn’t gonna bail when he meets someone he respects enough to be official with) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Is anyone else watching the Bachelor? 🙄He seems like a nice enough guy. He dated Gigi Hadid for a few weeks and never once ~spilled tea~ during or after their fling. I think that’s a good quality since most men would probably LOVE to yap about how they bagged a super model. Yesterday’s episode was so good!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 13 | Daily reminder to NEVER TELL MEN ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY. They can and will hold it over your head, even if they seem fine with it at first. Don’t fall into this all too common trap.Any man asking you for a “body count” number is not a man who needs to be in or around you. What matters is who I’m sleeping with NOW. My past made me who I am and whoever wants to start digging around in it can go fuck themselves. I’m in my early 30s dude, assume I’ve had sex enough to know what I do and don’t like. That’s it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 59 | Is anyone else watching the Bachelor? 🙄I love this messy ass show 🤣 it’s a masterclass in what not to do as a HVW: if I have to compete for a man’s affection and attention, I don’t fucking want it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:42 PM |
| 54 | Really pause and think if it’s even worth arguing about #kickhimout2020This is...something else. No one, not Meghan, not anyone here, is beholden to an emotionally abusive family member because he threw some money at her education. This mentality is why women get stuck in friendships and relationships that don’t serve them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:53 PM |
| 49 | SeXuAl eMpOwErmeNt vs Sexual Empowerment, and why this sub does not support BDSM, Abuse Kink, and Performative SexualityTHANK YOU!!! Getting pissed on and choked is not and will never be empowering. Anyone who deludes themselves into thinking it is needs a reality check. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 10 | Annnnd I'm spiraling. Help me get a grip!Why are you having sleepovers with this loser? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 06:32 PM |
| 44 | This was on the Front Page. This is what a HVM looks like. This is someone who really values his partner.I read they were apart for ten years after high school, reconnected and started dating again in the more recent past | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 01:13 AM |
| 164 | This was on the Front Page. This is what a HVM looks like. This is someone who really values his partner.It took him six months to animate & he paid for people to fill in the theater so it wouldn’t be obvious their friends and family were there too. This wasn’t just a proposal; it was a whole damn labor of love. I adore it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 11:39 PM |
| 35 | Beat it, loserI love the dating horror stories that account posts 🤣 so many LVM walking around like they’re worth a damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 66 | Men who stick around and take you on fun and lavish experiences, but still don’t want a relationship?This sounds like you’re trying to convince yourself to settle for crumbs. Don’t you deserve fun experiences and someone who is proudly and reliably your partner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:11 PM |
| 4 | The "2 numbers a week" challenge: Has anyone tried it?Because I don’t believe they have women’s best interests at heart. Why would he, when he benefits from male privilege? Interpersonal relationships are one thing; of course a HVM can and have your best interests at heart. This advice coming from a father or brother? I love it. A man making money from a book telling women how to conduct themselves? I’m not into it 🤷🏽♀️ I wouldn’t hire a male dating coach either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | The "2 numbers a week" challenge: Has anyone tried it?I don’t take advice from males on how to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 17 | Mans was homeless and refused to call the girl he was with his girlfriendI couldn’t get past the fourth line of this loser’s incessant whining. Can’t imagine why no one would want to help such a character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:24 PM |
| 31 | No sex until 10k ?This is some troll shit for fucking real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 44 | Losing friends while enforcing boundaries?“Friends” mad about boundaries are users, losers and abusers mad they lost access to a resource. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:20 PM |
| 5 | [update] Something I've noticed about HVM...We really need to separate out this sugar daddy shit. Get your bag sis but don’t confuse sugaring and/or sex work with dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:17 PM |
| 124 | You are under ZERO obligation to be the “cool girlfriend”She’s getting paid back for her Pickmeisha ways, that’s for sure 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:34 PM |
| 153 | You are under ZERO obligation to be the “cool girlfriend”Honestly I won’t even tell men I date about my interest in women. That’s for me and me alone. The times I’ve mentioned it, dudes take it as “I love threeways! that’s all you’ll be having with me!!” which could not be further from the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Pickmeisha gets owned! [From r/technicallythetruth]Never ever changing my name, the fuck?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 12 | LVM be like.. 🤣That account is a great source of laughs at the expense of LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 08:38 PM |
| 8 | Did one of you ladies do this? 🤣Lmfaoooo I got a guy to give himself a toothpaste unicorn horn once. Hahahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Philosophy on men for 2020 & beyondTHIS RIGHT HERE 🙌🏽🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:55 AM |
| 26 | How to avoid becoming a starter wife?Then I’m sure you’re well aware how many of your male classmates have more brains for structural analysis than they do for treating women respectfully | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:25 PM |
| 44 | How to avoid becoming a starter wife?Special warning to those dating men in professional school: you might already be the starter relationship and not know it. You don’t even need to be the wife! With the new titles comes new opportunities and that cute lil nerd you waited on through engineering school is now making 6 figures and being told he walks on water. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 26 | Sometimes you just have to laugh at the blatent AUDACITYSo he’s a liar and he stinks like shit 🤣 NEXT BITCH!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 05:12 PM |
| 6 | This is awesome. How can we make this an actual thing?It makes me so happy when women look out for other women like this. Thanks OP!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:51 PM |
| 6 | His profile said he was 40 (too bad he was very good looking)Would have unmatched for “impress”. It’s impressed, dumbass. They can’t do anything right 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 16 | ''Women lose value once they turn 30'' --menIt’s a cope for ugly men, simple as that. Good looking people and people who take care of themselves will look years younger ALWAYS. Half of these fuckers haven’t had a full hairline since Obama’s first term. The opinions of ugly men will never concern me 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:42 PM |
| 5 | LVM won’t even SHOWER when his gf begs him to. Can we send some self esteem for this poor girl?Nah this isn’t me, just an example of male depravity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:17 AM |
| 8 | Thoughts on waiting until marriageAbsolutely the hell not. You wait until you’ve determined you feel safe, cherished and respected. You wait til you’re acknowledged as someone important in his life (as in, we don’t let ourselves be side chicks, dirty little secrets or any variation of this low value shit). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 11:31 PM |
| 36 | LVM won’t even SHOWER when his gf begs him to. Can we send some self esteem for this poor girl?Honestly same 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | If You Are Not A MAJOR Feature On His Social Media, It’s a GIANT Red Flag 🚩. HVM Always Posts Pictures of His Woman MORE Often Than She Does of Him. He Proudly Shows Her Off to the World and Wants Everyone to Know He’s TAKEN. If He Never Posts Any Pictures of You, You’re Unknowingly Single. Sorry.Preaching the good word with this 🙌🏽🙌🏽 love that you included so many examples, OP. Great post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:56 PM |
| 19 | Do HVM and/or HVM post those long essay I love my gf/bf/wife/husband instagram/social media captions ?HVM don’t need to be performative in their affections. Is he flexing what a good guy he is for YOUR benefit or for the benefit of another girl watching? Don’t trust these cornballs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:54 PM |
| 28 | If you are single and childfree, don't date single fathersDating single dads while knowing I absolutely can’t stand kids was one of my biggest Pickmeisha behaviors. Shut it down, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: your exes aren't your friends.This right here! If they were meant to be in your life, they wouldn’t be an ex. Happy people don’t break up. Keep it moving!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 05:37 PM |
| 3 | “You’ll never find a man who meets your standards”So sorry for your loss, sis💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:26 PM |
| 47 | Wouldn’t a HVM understand FDS and why we are hesitant to trust most men?Can confirm. Have told several men up front we won’t be sleeping together until after we’re tested and committed and the ONLY ones who have had an issue have been the ones who are trash. The ones who said “agreed, absolutely, let me call my doctor this week” were all HVM who respected my requirements and never pushed things to get more physical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:13 AM |
| 54 | “You’ll never find a man who meets your standards”My mom raised me to believe “mejor sola que mal accompañada” which means “better alone than in bad company” and this applies SO much. I like me just fine. I’m not willing to lower myself to keep someone’s interest. They can keep it moving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:10 AM |
| 305 | Made me chuckle. Accurate!Cats clean their own assholes though 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 9 | Instagram sharing some solid ideas this morning..My peace of mind ALONE >>>> being in a foreign place with some random man just to finesse. The real HVW approach is having your bag and not needing a dime from anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 07:08 PM |
| 22 | Boyfriend doesn’t introduce me to anyoneHe is embarrassed by the idea of being romantically linked to you. Why are you not blocking deleting and calling your friends for support?! Don’t you want someone who loves you SO much that they’re excited to introduce you to the other important people in their lives? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 06:58 PM |
| 50 | Make it make sense 🙃LVM will risk STDs rawdogging girls off tinder but think holding hands is “too personal, we just met” 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 05:09 PM |
| 18 | Woman quits Olympic sport for her shit husband, 10 years later he tells her she got fat and he isn’t attracted anymore in the most soul-destroying way possible. DO NOT GIVE UP WHAT YOU LOVE AND TAKE NO SHIT; they will NOT appreciate it anyway! 😡😡Engaged for 8 years 🤣🤣🤣I’m wheezing!! I haven’t had one job last 8 years 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 10:11 PM |
| 90 | Next up on “Why I treat everyone like shit and make poor life decisions...fatherless men”If you’re a deadbeat dad, you’re an automatic LVM, I don’t give a flying fuck how you treat anyone else in your life. Shitty parents are the worst of the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 10:24 PM |
| 27 | Always told men won't want to date a woman with a catDogs are goofy and love everyone. They aren’t always the best with boundaries. Notice how in pop culture it’s always “good boy”. Cats set their own boundaries for how and when they want affection. Is it any wonder cats have been associated with a stereotype about the haggard old cat lady? It’s misogyny if you dive a little deeper into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:24 PM |
| 32 | Woman proposes to her boyfriend live on television whilst he is at work. He accepts, but is clearly very uncomfortable.OH MY GOD!!! He looked like he just caught a whiff of dog shit when he accepted with a flat “...yeah..” This woman had no self respect. I wonder how long that marriage lasted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 44 | LVM explains why he orbits while having a conversation with himself🤢🤢🤢🤢and you know he’s doing this to a handful of other women he’s already fucked over | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:17 PM |
| 43 | Pickmes are willing to ruin their credit for a manI saw this earlier and gasped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 17 | Should I start dating or keep focusing on my education and careerYour schooling/career and self improvement should always come first. When you can be self sufficient, it’s gonna be a lot harder for some bum mf to pull the wool over your eyes because you depend on him for your rent, Bill money etc. That said, date. But never date anyone that stands in the way of your self improvement. You want to be cherished and supported, not dragged down by a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:57 PM |
| 11 | Reminder never to accept anything less than protected sex, and whyDisgusting. Condoms ALWAYS!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 87 | Make no mistake. Indecision (about being in a relationship with you) IS a decision.In this picture: my dumbass circa 2014 🤢😖🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:53 PM |
| 4 | I am so happy I went to the gymLove seeing posts like this 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 17 | Pickmeishas think we’re missing out on something 😂😂😂 I’m praying for them 🙏😔 this ain’t it sis 😫👆Amazing experiences= car dates, “dates” that consist of Uber eats (that he will Venmo request for) and watching him play Xbox HARD PASS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:53 AM |
| 15 | How do you improve yourself as a HVW?Be interesting. Have more to talk about than the latest Kardashian fiasco. Do you have hobbies? Cool. Do those AND find some new ones! Do you like to draw? Why not keep it artsy but now...paint! (Just an example but you catch my drift) Have passions. What are your convictions? How do you put them into practice? If you’re an animal lover, take it a step further and go volunteer. IMO a big part of being a HVW is knowing what your strengths are (and playing to them) while knowing your blind spots (… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | A message I received and its owner bahahahaLOL I got the same one a few days ago! Answer: I’m 5’0 so pretty much any adult man is taller than me. Give me that 5’8 cutie and pass along the tall one to a friend 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Y’all this bio. The fact we have men like this raising little girls makes me sick. Joke or not, absolutely inappropriate and disgusting. Minors in dating profiles are bad enough but this, JUST NO.Nothing dries me up like a bio with showing a child and making a pedo joke. To me it’s one of those “hehe just kidding...unless ya gonna do it?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:34 AM |
| 25 | Remember: If he's scared of talking to you because he heard some 'rumors' he ain't the one, Kanye West knew Kim Kardashian had a sex tape and still married her!Yuuuup! They’ve all proudly been side chicks AND they’re still so nasty they take back cheaters!! All the money in the world and not a lick of self respect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 12:01 AM |
| 56 | Remember: If he's scared of talking to you because he heard some 'rumors' he ain't the one, Kanye West knew Kim Kardashian had a sex tape and still married her!No one in that family knows a high value man. They’re the epitome of pick mes. Money truly can’t buy class! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:45 PM |
| 66 | When is it okay to "kink-shame"? Why do guys insist that these are normal desires to have?I will happily kinkshame any mf who tries to hinder my breathing, hit me in the face or piss on me. Wtf?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 10:31 PM |
| 49 | Has anyone else noticed that in more politically conservative areas...There’s men who won’t wash their asshole in the shower because they think touching it (with soap and a washcloth!!) is considered gay. It boggles the kind how people that stupid and dirty made it past infancy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Persuade me why "going Dutch" is a bad idea for women, according to this subreddit.Good lord, if what we talk about doesn’t resonate with you THEN GO ELSEWHERE. You come into our space and we’re the ones who have to convince you? Bitch please 😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:33 PM |
| 9 | What's another way to say you are divorcing your husband?Getting a bunion removed 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 22 | Downgrade MY lifestyle to suit a man’s inability to keep up monetarily? Thank u, next..Lots of loser men in that thread YIKES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 06:30 PM |
| 52 | Now that I feel confident enough to date, I don’t want to 😂I’ve been feeling the same. Once you stop being desperate for scraps, it’s a peace of mind like no other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 02:32 AM |
| 32 | Guy on OLD asked if I was trans ?I’d block him so fucking fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 01:19 AM |
| 8 | Wise words from NickiShe’s just like cardi- a pick me rapping about being a bad bitch yet she’s shacking up with a convicted rapist. Idk how more low value you can get! Make it make sense!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Can someone tell me why my user flair is “At-Risk Pick Me Youth”?The flair isn’t anything personal- I think a lot of posters here readily admit their pickmeisha pasts and people are generally cool about it- talking about leveling up etc. if the flair hurts your feelings, this place may just not be for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 12:50 AM |
| 60 | Man threatens to murder his own sister if she grows up to be promiscuous. THIS IS WHY YOU DONT TELL MEN JACKSHIT ABOUT YOUR SEXUAL HISTORY.This is sick. I wouldn’t be surprised if the next step is only HE can have her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:09 AM |
| 22 | Addressing the Myth: Unattractive men make better partners than attractive guysUpward and onward queen!! 😁make future you proud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 01:38 AM |
| 78 | Ladies, what to do when a man reveals a micropenis?If penetrative sex is important to you, then you’ll have to be honest with yourself. You deserve a satisfying sex life. You deserve a partner who can make that happen and he needs someone ok with his limitations. If you’re not a fan of PIV (and some aren’t) then can this person please you in the other ways you want? There’s a million ways to be sexually active. For some it might not be a deal breaker. For me personally, it would be a huge hindrance and I couldn’t date someone with a small dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 06:49 PM |
| 59 | Pickmeisha Sends Bouquet of Roses to Workplace of a Guy Who’s Unsure About Dating Her. Includes Note Saying He’s “Worth Waiting For” 🤢Oh my goddddddd 😩😩what a loser. He’s been stringing her along for nine months! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 12 | My first FDS inspired clap back. How did I do?He’s gonna ditch you for football your whole damn life, ditch him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 07:46 PM |
| 20 | Abused girl upset about turning 18 because she can’t be “jailbait” anymore. Has extreme age anxiety because of pedophiles and teen porn. Depraved Males in the comments try to tell her women peak at 20.That read more like a pervy ass fantasy IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 07:45 PM |
| 27 | Side Chick Cautionary Tales: Sidechick gets pregnant, has miscarriage. Sidechick is mad he just wants to walk away from the whole situation and wants to know if she should tell his fiancée before they get marriedZero sympathy for side chicks. If you don’t respect yourself, why tf would I respect you?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 17 | New here, and I need help..He’s ruined your life enough. You can still come back from this, but you gotta lose the dead weight. Time to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 05:42 PM |
| 18 | Showed this sub to a male friend - that went wellMy male friend was the one who linked me here lmao! He said it sounded like a lot of what I post on Instagram and that I’d fit right in😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:41 PM |
| 26 | Cardi B Gave Her CHEATING HUSBAND $500,000 in Cash for His Birthday.Bad enough to be a pickmeisha, take back a cheater, pay for a bum mf’s entire existence...but she has a CHILD.. on top of that- they’re public figures!! This is on the internet. I couldn’t respect either of my parents if I grew up to read about them doing this shit. She’s trash, he’s trash and I hope their daughter has some good influences in her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:12 PM |
| 15 | Broke up with him last nightProud of you for putting yourself first 🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Maybe, we’ll live long enough to see a change.Yup! Let the kiddos play with what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:08 PM |
| 22 | Woman proposes to her boyfriend and encourages more to test the waters!I literally would rather die alone than propose. Am I gonna have to wipe his ass too?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 09:05 AM |
| 12 | So I posted this and my ex “liked” it and immediately sent me a cute text and selfie. He hasn’t been in touch in over a month. We were together 7-8 years, he put off marriage forever, he told me he wasn’t in love with me last Valentine’s Day. How do I respond? Or do I?Block without hesitation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 08:58 AM |
| 18 | Male wanted to try “nonmonogamy” with his girlfriend then flips out at her when she shows interest in another guy. They’re always mad when “nonmonogamy” isn’t exclusively in their favor. 🙄Hahaha he got cucked and she got fucked! Love to see it happen 🤣🤣🤣 dudes think they’ll end up with a harem of thots when really...women usually have better luck dating around anyway, so they’re almost always more successful at the open thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Thought bumble would be a better alternative than tinder but never mindBumble is trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 02:21 PM |
| 8 | Man (25) strings forever GF (25) along in 10 year relationship, develops "infatuation" for another woman (25), who has a boyfriend... admits he's seeking "excitement", having good & bad motives....He probably thought she’d be like “omg yay let’s have a threeway babe!!!! In fact let’s get you a whole harem!!” Fucking clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/19 02:19 PM |
| 40 | Strategic help for attending the symphony soloI actually disagree- to me it shows a lack of confidence and self esteem to stay home missing out instead of going to things you want to do alone. I would just stay off my phone (it isolates you) and work the room. You’ll look great and you’ll exude confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 06:02 PM |
| 19 | OP dates man who has GF, accepts side chick treatment, "loves" him,. Dude's GF finds out, files restraining order, and he begs OP not to tell GF the truth. OP deals with fallout.... car damage.... court. LADIES, NEVER DATE AN UNAVAILABLE MAN, AND DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO BULLSHIT FROM THESE MEN!I don’t feel sorry for side chicks. The fuck you thought you were signing up for?! Let this be a lesson and step your pussy up. Imagine knowingly being a dirty little secret?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Women who cheatYou’re completely right 😥this ones been hard for me to completely kick (as in, I won’t lie if asked but I don’t mention it) and I needed this reminder. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 01:53 AM |
| 16 | Interesting that this man is having a common female problem, what do you guys think in terms of him owing her anything?I feel like everyone else did too because I see him being called HVM and I’m like bitch whooooo?? This right here is an ~UwU sensitive fuckboy~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 18 | Interesting that this man is having a common female problem, what do you guys think in terms of him owing her anything?I’m referring to his last paragraph. He doesn’t know if he wants to be friends or hook up or ghost her. He also talks about how women fall for him by mistaking his friendliness and get sooooo sad when he leaves. Idk it just read very self congratulatory to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 08:17 PM |
| 46 | Questioning myself regarding texting...Ok sis take a breath!! All you need to focus on is: if he wants to, he will. This applies to texting, taking you out, calling etc. You do not go chasing and begging for scraps of attention and affection, alright? You don’t call into question your very core because some random dude isn’t texting back fast enough. You don’t adjust your standards to meet a man’s low efforts. Stop that right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 38 | Low effort dates?Happy hour is low effort, you really can’t buy me a full priced drink after two months?! Fuck outta here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:17 PM |
| 15 | Interesting that this man is having a common female problem, what do you guys think in terms of him owing her anything?He honestly sounds like kind of a bitch. High value individuals are direct with their intentions-he doesn’t even seem to know what his really entail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 16 | Promising Young WomanIt makes my skin crawl to see Seth Cohen play a creep but omg this looks SO good. Brining my little sister to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 10 | When a man asks for a date and you gotta assess the specific day he asked for 😒They don’t. It’s more about not being asked last minute, asked out on car dates etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 04:29 PM |
| 33 | Women who cheatCheaters are low value. Building a relationship with another person before breaking up with your current partner is low value. Being open about dating multiple people pre-exclusivity is key. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 04:26 PM |
| 17 | Ladies, I need your judgement free help!Let’s see, he: -knows you’re attached, keeps pursuing you anyway (he doesn’t respect monogamy. You think he’ll respect the confines of his own relationship if you were to date?! Aw that’s cute) -thought your first sexual encounter should be in a car in a random parking lot (like a streetwalker?! This is some clown shit) He’s low value af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/19 01:02 AM |
| 17 | This guy kissed me but he warned me he has a complicated thing going on-do I even text backYou’re better than being some dumbass dude’s drunk make out. If he liked you, he certainly wouldn’t be entertaining someone else’s affections. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 06:59 PM |
| 15 | Men who often travel to South East Asia - red flag?OP are you yourself Asian? He might already be dipping into the fetish with you. I wouldn’t trust it tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 06:02 PM |
| 53 | We used to be good friends, now he's just a horndog.Why are you two years into entertaining a clown?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Need help with dating a guy that's "too interesting"This entire thing is really well said 🙌🏽🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 06:24 PM |
| 65 | Need help with dating a guy that's "too interesting"This sounds like low self esteem on your end, sis. Why are you comparing a seemingly quality person to the chumps you put up with in the past? Where are the things that make you interesting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 06:02 PM |
| 23 | The fact that I'm still having these conversations with my girlfriends in the year of our lord 2019 is a fucking nightmare. You don't owe ANYBODY, ANYTHING. You NEVER have sex out of pity or obligation or coersion. I don't care if he gave you a kidney, you say thanks and keep trucking. The fuck.Your friend is lucky to have you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 06:54 AM |
| 12 | FDS works!Well done queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Imagine bragging about how you settled?!? I cannotThey’re five years in and not married. It’s not gonna happen 😶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 12:28 AM |
| 31 | I get texts saying they enjoyed their time with me after the date is over: but not asking for a second dateBabe, if he enjoyed your date so much, he’d ask for another one. Point blank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Can Someone Break Down The Psychology of a 26 year old woman who would date a man in his 50s? Because I’m thinking Scammer, severe emotional problems, or full blown Psycho.Geriatric fathers cause a host of issues in babies and seeking out some guy in his 50s to have a baby with is...certainly something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 04:37 PM |
| 10 | Can Someone Break Down The Psychology of a 26 year old woman who would date a man in his 50s? Because I’m thinking Scammer, severe emotional problems, or full blown Psycho.I’ll fuck men in their 50s when I’m in my 50s and not a moment sooner. Even the fittest most active 50 year old is still 50 years old and I am not going anywhere near saggy balls and gray pubes while I’m still at my physical peak | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/19 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Thoughts on only counting men who've given you an orgasm toward your n-countIf we only had sex once and it was bad...you’re not counted 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 10:11 PM |
| 12 | Where is the lie?!It kills me when they try negotiating. It’s always trading one turd for another 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Where is the lie?!Truly a needle in the haystack 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 26 | Another silly girl contributing to free emotional labour for a man child.I drift between wanting to rescue girls like this and wanting to point and laugh. It’s so ridiculous. She should spend the cash on therapy for herself and work through why she’s so insistent on fixing a man who probably doesn’t even know her fkn middle name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 14 | Women who do have fwbs, how do you navigate that?I used to pick FWBs that had one giant dealbreaker flaw so I wouldn’t get attached. One guy was cute, bomb sex...he was also dumb as rocks, was completely my opposite politically, wanted to be a dad some day- all things that just didn’t jive with me. I know the general consensus is not too pro casual sex here but when I do engage in it, I like to keep it with men I don’t consider husband material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:14 AM |
| 29 | Can we just talk about the nerve of some guys on Tinder?Boy if you don’t put those fkn teeth away 😒nasty little chump | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Highly recommended reading, even if you haven't experienced physical or emotional abuse at the hands of a man. Here's a free PDF.Thank you for this OP!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 04:56 PM |
| 9 | "Friends with benefits" benefit men only.This is a masterpiece 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/19 07:39 PM |
| 18 | Those Who Don't Want A Relationship But Want to Benefit From MenI don’t waste time on unimportant men, point blank. I’m not going out falsely stroking an ego so I can get a meal out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 10:44 PM |
| 28 | Does this sub supports female red pill theory?Red pill is for corny pick me chicks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/19 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Losing interest in the guy I'm dating because he used to be a hoeHe wants you to move in? Where’s your engagement ring? Bigger red flag imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 13 | New to this sub and need encouragement.You deserve someone excited to talk to you, make plans with you, etc. You don’t wanna be the person someone has to convince themselves to like. Keep on working on yourself, fulfilling your goals etc. he’s the one auditioning for a space in YOUR life 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/19 12:10 AM |
| 19 | Text or No?I can’t imagine wanting to say happy birthday to someone who has ignored me for a month. I’d instead reach out to a friend who was actually happy to hear from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Alt account: sticky situation needing advice. Guy and I reconnected and are unhappy with our partners in a great way.In what world is a loser who whines about his wife to his potential mistress appealing? Am I taking crazy pills? He’s low value and your pick me is showing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:38 PM |
| 23 | How to test an ex who comes back regretting?I stopped reading at the subject line. I don’t make the same mistake twice. Exes stay exes, zero exceptions. Happy functional relationships don’t result from revisiting the past. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 10:31 PM |
| 25 | Don't marry a dude with a small dick who doesn't satisfy you sexually or you might end up like this woman in 10 yearsShe settled for a little dick knowing it wasn’t for her. I don’t feel sympathy for women who lap for scraps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Its actually good things like this happen to you can weed them out after only 1 messageHe thought that was a high compliment 😂😂😂🥴🥴shoot him into the sun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/19 01:02 AM |
| 14 | FDS GUIDE. Non-mainstream opinions and strategies held by this sub.Love this 🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:27 PM |
| 38 | Just discovered FDS, realizing I unwittingly went on a couch date.. Thoughts??There’s a difference between the “come over and chill” and “hang out for a bit after a long day out”. I think it’s a plus he didn’t snuggle up or do anything sleazy. I just wouldn’t make a habit of it so early on (to me that’s more of a relationship activity) and I definitely wouldn’t accept any invites to come straight to his house to hang. What you did sounds reasonable enough (except I wouldn’t go on anything outdoorsy with him alone that’s unsafe tbh) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:17 PM |
| 32 | Ladies, a word of cautionOk girl this must be church because you’re out here spreading the GOSPEL🙌🏽🙌🏽 I agree with a lot of what you’re saying here. I’ve always had an argumentative streak in me (it makes me money so it can’t be that bad LOL) and would constantly fall for the tricks employed by the fuckboy trying to work his magic, or the MADMOID™️ in a comment section trying to get a rise out of me. I would go in guns blazing, full of facts and logic and still come out looking like a damn fool- even apologizing like I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else think that shows like the Bachelor are absolutely disgusting?I love seeing pick me’s fall on their face only to realize dude wasn’t all that so in a way, this show is perfect for that. No one is actually there for love, just to gain Instagram followers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 08:03 PM |
| 9 | I(21F) can't decide if my bf(28M) is showing red flags or if I'm being too insecureSis, I would write you a whole paragraph but lemme sum it up: He’s dating you because you, as a young woman of 21, don’t have the same life experience and you’re easy to manipulate. Women his own age smell his bs from a mile away. Stop wasting your fun years on this moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Man rejected by 30 year old and later trying to save face by only saying he dates 27 and under. Ladies, keep rejecting LMV men!If you have all that money shut up and buy a house LOSER 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Is Dating a Never Married, No Children Man With a Vasectomy a Red Flag?You can’t really do that. You deserve someone who looks at you and thinks “wow!”, not someone who has to be convinced you’re worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 08:57 PM |
| 17 | A few weeks into “hey stranger” season 💁♀️Disgusting. I’m so sorry that idiot came back into your orbit, sis. Hope you’re in a better place now 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/19 12:40 AM |
| 35 | A few weeks into “hey stranger” season 💁♀️Mercury retrograde x holidays = double intensity fuckboy tactics deployed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:57 PM |
| 15 | A few weeks into “hey stranger” season 💁♀️Omg lmao the audacity of these men 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 119 | A few weeks into “hey stranger” season 💁♀️Lmfao my ex pulled this shit on me LAST CHRISTMAS. Dude you cheated, married my replacement and you’re still trynna wish me a merry Christmas? We hadn’t talked in two years at that point. Only gift I want is to hear he got hit by a train 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 10:46 PM |
| 33 | Is Dating a Never Married, No Children Man With a Vasectomy a Red Flag?Also if he wanted to take you on a date he would, not pussyfoot around with this “come if you want” crap. That’s a bigger red flag imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 09:35 PM |
| 39 | Is Dating a Never Married, No Children Man With a Vasectomy a Red Flag?If he was 55 and never married, I’d worry. Early 30s and never married is my personal standard. I don’t want anyone with the baggage of a divorce hanging over their head, and I especially don’t want a dude who married his high school sweetheart at 21 and is now 33, comes with a kid or two and doesn’t know where the fuck the clit is because he and the ex never had sex. I’d LOVE to meet a man who had a vasectomy, as to me it signifies he’s that serious about no children; I’m the same way. I would … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 09:32 PM |
| 14 | Not mine but it’s got the right Queen energy 🙌lowercase c looking dick 🤣💀 I love whoever this is, she’s hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:47 PM |
| 42 | Finally some truth from the BibleDamn guess my ex finally got his bitch ass book published 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:10 PM |
| 51 | Man confesses that he knows after 2 months of dating that his GF isn't wife material. Men know, ladies! They know if they're going to wife you or not, and they know it fast. Don't let them string you along. If he's "not that into you", BLOCK HIM!As a former “ok for now, but I’d never marry her” girl, I wanna shake all these girls around me waiting around for some bum like I did. If he knows he knows. You cannot convince someone to love you the same way you love them. If love isn’t freely given then you’re begging for scraps and you’re gonna get hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If a guy exposes you to danger in some way - say by bringing you around his misogynist, hateful, friends - he’s human garbage, right?Ok so his friends are trash and he’s the garbage man. You wanna date the garbage man sis?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/19 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Should I let guys know how single I am?Tell him “one less” and block his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 11:35 PM |
| 14 | What is your opinion on cheating?I can barely stand one man, imagine hearing two bore me with their idiocy? No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/19 11:33 PM |
| 22 | How would I as a lesbian use this subKeeping standards high and not settling for less than what you want are pretty universal lessons that anyone can absorb. As for FDS in a lesbian context, idk. I’d venture to guess most lesbian relationships are inherently more egalitarian given that one person hasn’t been bombarded and encouraged to align with toxic masculinity their whole life...but I could be totally wrong lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/19 06:01 PM |
| 19 | For those of you who are still using dating apps, specifically Bumble, avoid any man that has “not sure yet” listed as what he’s looking for.Bingo!! It’s to give hope so they can take sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:56 PM |
| 13 | Wow you're really selling it to me Dan. I suggest a gym membership and grammar lessons33, chubby, probably broke from a divorce and can’t type to save his life. Too bad this mf already poisoned the gene pool 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:33 PM |
| 19 | "how do I walk on eggshells better? How can I be better at being abused?". You can't. Abuse is abuse. Leave before he kills you, sisThe amount of “maybe he had a bad day at work” is astounding. I’m sure when he escalates to beating the shit out of her or their kid, they’ll pity HIM for having such a stressful job and chastise her for not being ~understanding~ enough. People are sick, get me off this fkn ride 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 03:29 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel about an ex’s friend asking for your #? Looking for help on navigating the situationI’d date outside the circle. Even in the best case scenario - this dude is amazing, fulfills all your requirements...he’s still friends with your ex. Same circle. I’d never trust that loyalty and then you have ex at your wedding, your baby shower, holiday parties etc. not worth it IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:08 PM |
| 28 | Retarded Limp-Dick Incels Talk About How They’re Going to Start a Gender War and Put Women in “Breeding Pens” Over the Existence of This Sub🤣🤣🤣how are they gonna breed me when their cocks don’t work?! Lmfaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | The lies men tell women about 'the wall': Phoebe Cates in her 50's, Julie Andrew's in her 80's and Marlon Brando (the ultimate Chad) in his 80's.Men age like an egg salad sandwich left in a hot car 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:44 PM |
| 12 | I met a HVM, but he has completely opposite political beliefs than me. Is this do-able?I’d never consider a man with opposite politics beliefs “high value” lmfao. Dick that supports babies in cages and taking away reproductive choice is NOT dick I want near me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 02:15 PM |
| 62 | How FDS Women Sleep at NightThe “missed call from Pizza Hut” sent me to the grave 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 02:07 PM |
| 4 | He just doesn’t get it.They don’t LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 02:05 PM |
| 11 | Single Queens only - if you are 27 or older, what is your living situation?I live with my sister and mom. I don’t bring guys over but I wouldn’t bring anyone over unless we were official and on the path to engagement. Otherwise you have zero business meeting my mom 😂 I am upfront about it and not once has it ever caused an issue. It probably also helps I have solid job, pay all my own bills etc. there’s living in mom’s basement off her dime, and then there’s me, who basically is only ever home to sleep, shower and eat. I contribute to expenses, work a lot, go out with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 11:03 PM |
| 86 | Reminder that these are the Red Pill "alphas" RP-Women call "captains"Lmfao not one of these mfs is fit to suck the lint out of my bellybutton | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 10:17 PM |
| 9 | Should I be seeing a guy that I don’t see long term with?Why do you need a placeholder, sis? If long term is what you want, why isn’t your focus on that vs wasting time, fomenting feelings and being kinda meh about someone? Don’t you deserve the best? This isn’t it. Let him go. you will not meet yours wasting time on meh men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 08:36 PM |
| 37 | Buzzfeed Manages To Find The Only 14 Women On All of Earth That Are “Unfazed” By A MicropenisImagine taking 100% of male bullshit but only getting 25% dick. Couldn’t be me 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 07:16 AM |
| 52 | Don't settle for a man who sells himself short. Don't be a woman who sells herself short.I can’t believe “car dates” are a thing. Like, people are straight eating Taco Bell in some chump’s 2003 Corolla and calling it a date 😂 I’d rather fling myself into traffic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/19 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Thanks to TRP and FDS, I deleted all of my OLD profilesDeleted my bumble yesterday, everyone was ugly and boring 😂 standing with you sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Gen Z ladies making us proud 🥺🥺You’re welcome! Thanks for finding the link :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 05:10 AM |
| 43 | Gen Z ladies making us proud 🥺🥺I’m like this close to making a tiktok just to watch these | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Scheduling dates with a terrible schedule please help!!You’re welcome and good luck 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Scheduling dates with a terrible schedule please help!!I would do something like: I can do Wednesday at 8 or Sunday at noon (Fill in your own time obvs). That way you’re not throwing a “free all day hehe” as if you’re a bum bitch. Tangentially, I’ve never had much success making it work when schedules are so wildly different. Thinking long term, how is that going to affect time together, sex life, travel, children etc. I saw it happen in my own household (night shift dad, 9-5 mom) and it’s not a schedule I’d want to emulate in my own relationship. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 11:06 PM |
| 9 | Boundaries, Boundaries, BoundariesDon’t feel dumb! Dumb would be going back to an unsafe situation. Read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. We need situational awareness and this man has already shown you that he thinks your boundaries are for him to push on. The book talks about signs of violence and touches on how women have been socialized to play nice and not hurt feelings, much to our own detriment. If you get a creepy vibe from someone, go with your gut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 07:07 PM |
| 9 | Boundaries, Boundaries, BoundariesSis, I would really caution you against another meeting with a man who isn’t respecting your bodily autonomy and sexual boundaries. Full stop, you’re putting yourself in danger. I’m scared for you. What if next time he doesn’t stop? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 39 | If he says he doesnt want a relationship, the "with you" is silentLove this advice. If I may add to it: And don’t you dare settle for being “friends” with a man who strung you along then rejected you, unless you want to be friends with a fuck boy. he’ll try to fuck you as a friend and you’ll eventually get hurt all over again when your friend meets a woman he actually wants to date for real. Not worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Queens don’t make excuses for guys who don’t step up and that’s that!Pushing 40 and wants to creampie his mom. Yikes. Pointy looking cock too. Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Queens don’t make excuses for guys who don’t step up and that’s that!Go post asking for more incest role play, mommy fucker 😂😂dumbass cuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Queens don’t make excuses for guys who don’t step up and that’s that!She does!! Love her stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 08:09 PM |
| 19 | MRW moids brigade this subMoid tears make me cum 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 05:17 PM |
| 4 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateRight, I accounted for big deal life situations with my example. Of course life can and will get in the way and make school difficult. Not everyone will do things on the same timeline. However I’m here addressing that OP said he stuck around for football; so yeah, OPs dude is a loser for sticking around undergrad as long as he has. I’m not sure what else to call a 27 year old man chasing undergrad ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Social Media TaggingIf my boyfriend cared about his ex and her reaction to an Instagram tag...he would no longer be my boyfriend. You’ve got a few options and none are good for you: - he’s trying to seem available just in case they get back together (her cheating is irrelevant- we all know folks who go back to people who are no good for them) - he’s trying to seem available to others - you’re not someone he’s proud to be seen with- he thinks you’re “off” and doesn’t want to be associated with you - you’re dating a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 06:44 PM |
| 8 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a date27 and still in undergrad? LOSER. This isn’t even one of those “I was helping my dying grandma while going to community college so I had a late start in getting my degree” situations. How can you not finish even a simple degree in 7 years? Omfg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 11 | When you do sleep with men, look for these things!I’ll wait for sex if you’re someone I want to date. If you’re hot and very obviously not husband material, I’m getting laid a few times then blocking your ass. Keep it moving! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 05:32 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone else noticed that men will tell you exactly who they are, early on?Sis what’s the point in asking numbers?! You’re literally just opening up the possibility of being asked yourself. You’re going in with low quality questions for these people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 05:15 PM |
| 54 | Why should we even bother dating men?Those ladies are goals! Imagine how tidy and pleasant and serene that place must be 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 03:06 PM |
| 41 | Why should we even bother dating men?Omg this reminds me of a time on a first date where I laughed at a guy for implying he was some sort of genius. I laughed and said “you? Smarter than me? I don’t think so champ”and this mf starts weeping in the middle of a fucking brewery He was shocked when I wouldn’t agree to a second date 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 03:05 PM |
| 2 | I know you’re staring at that phone, sis, trynna come back with something snappy to make him come around. Put it down!!I said this to another poster and I think it applies to your question: I can see your concern- I love transparency and sharing my feelings; you can’t get what you want if you’re too afraid to speak up for it. All that said- I think of this advice when I’ve said my peace, set my expectations and then these dummies are STILL trying to clown me. I’m not in the business of arguing with men who want to be obtuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/19 05:32 AM |
| 3 | My (17) first timeIt’s all about trial and error. Toys, hands, techniques etc! Be sensual, get comfortable with yourself naked etc. I really think the better sexual relationship we have with ourselves, the better sex we will have with partners. I don’t just poke my clit for 30 secs and call it a day, so I wouldn’t let a partner do the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 11:03 PM |
| 10 | My (17) first timeStuff I wish I’d been told at 19 (when I lost my virginity), here for you to do with it what you will: sexual safety is key- yea, even above protecting your ego. You can heal from heartbreak, but you can’t un-catch something that may mess with your long term health and fertility. Consistent testing and Condoms every time. I know too many people now in their 30s having cervical cancer scares because of HPV they weren’t aware they had. if he rawdogs YOU, he’s doing it with everyone else. don’t cha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 10:46 PM |
| 14 | I know you’re staring at that phone, sis, trynna come back with something snappy to make him come around. Put it down!!Yuppppp! If they wanna argue, they can pay for my time. Billing rate of $550/hour like a fancy lawyer 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 08:15 PM |
| 30 | I know you’re staring at that phone, sis, trynna come back with something snappy to make him come around. Put it down!!I can see your concern- I love transparency and sharing my feelings; you can’t get what you want if you’re too afraid to speak up for it. All that said- I think of this advice when I’ve said my peace, set my expectations and then these dummies are STILL trying to clown me. I’m not in the business of arguing with men who want to be obtuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 07:10 PM |
| 48 | He would be ready for a relationship with someone he thought he couldn’t replace. Don’t settle for half-relationships and non-committal man-boysKeep reminding myself of this when my clown ass gets lonely and horny and wants to reach out and be “friends” with a man who did exactly this to me. He wanted to keep things casual and THANK GOD I never slept with him. I’d be a fool to set myself up for rejection AGAIN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/19 05:02 AM |
| 15 | Had a great first date yesterday! Untill he wanted to split the bill.THIS!!! Avoid cheap weak men at all costs OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | A Good Man Is Getting Even Harder to FindThis is painfully true. I’m not even particularly advanced in my education (bachelors and state certs related to my career) and in my area the majority of men on apps maaaaybe did a year or two of community college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 06:59 PM |
| 12 | Why it's not a good idea to just have any man's child. VET them, and use protection!I can’t respect women this dumb. Like yes let me keep a strangers baby?! I’m so sad knowing there’s girls out there running around ruining their lives like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 06:46 PM |
| 19 | Giving your number to men on apps?Absolutely the fuck not! You don’t get my number til there is a first date. Bumble allows for video call and chat. You literally don’t even have to give these jabronis a number til you’re engaged 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Pedos on Tinder? This is a picture of a child hence the blurred face, but what do you ladies think of men who post suspect pictures with children that CLEARLY are not there’s. He only had this and one other pic of himself. This is sus to me. Maybe I’m paranoid idk. Single moms weigh in also.I don’t date men with children so pics like these are an autoswipe. Babies I don’t care but why the fuck is your niece sitting like that on you? Creepy uncle alert | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Cut him off or clear it up?If he wanted to actually date you, he would. Dump his loser ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/19 09:50 PM |
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