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Excellent post. A great reminder of things I internalized at some point but always need refreshing.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/23 04:15 PM
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If you're taking up a hobby to meet a women, you're already in her frame. Ask yourself instead: what hobbies do men do, that I'd enjoy, and that women just so happen to also do to be around In my experience, improve is a sausage fest
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:28 PM
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Could you give examples of low competition environments?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:45 PM
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I'll try that, there's nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:56 PM
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Latino
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:27 PM
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Props to you for bringing that up. I think it's a major factor, but I honestly don't like brown girls....
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:26 PM
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I'm 30.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:25 PM
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I don't know, I was just eyeballing it. From the following chart, I'd say I consider fat from 35% body fat. https://www.healthstatus.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/body-fat-percentage-women-1.jpg
/r/askTRP23/03/20 07:24 PM
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If you mean they were using old pics or something like that, yes, you are right.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:32 AM
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I think you need to be in the top 3% of looks, not 10-15%. The reasoning: 70% of the users are male and, from the 30% female users, only 4% are attractive. Just found this link that explained it in 2017 with real data. My feel is that every year gets worse, so in 2020 it should be more drastic.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:41 PM
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Exactly, I matched with zero out of the 9 I thought were ok hahaha
/r/askTRP22/03/20 09:32 PM
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I sent you a chat request
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:24 AM
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For real. I don't know if he's being serious or not.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:26 PM
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Honestly, I don't know if you are trolling or being honest. Think about it, how do you learn a skill? I like boxing, so I paid for classes to learn from a pro, is it desperate? I wanted to play an instrument, so I paid a pro to teach me, is this desperate? ​ In my opinion, dating is WAY more complicated than playing an instrument, so you need even more help. You have no idea how many blind spots I have with my technique and how many things my teacher picks up on that I never knew I was doing wro…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:26 PM
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That's very brief. Are you also brown and 5/10 face wise? It would be very inspiring for me to have someone say "behold! I'm just like you and look at the plates I spin". Thank you for responding ;)
/r/askTRP13/03/20 05:20 PM
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So, did you do it? If so, report back ;)
/r/askTRP13/03/20 04:20 PM
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Would you mind sharing your stats?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 02:29 PM
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You've done it yourself?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:42 PM
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I used to do a lot of things that led to meeting women for a year and a half. Afterwards, I stopped doing them in favour of the activities I mentioned because I felt it was a better use of my time.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:36 PM
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I do have several missions and I work on them every day.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:32 PM
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Thanks for your comment. I actually started doing that last week. I've been trying to talk to everyone, but it's only been a week so it's too soon to say if it works for me.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:30 PM
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I am, I have published and shit. I'm kind of an expert in my field.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:26 PM
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Thanks for the comment bro. I think I've seen something similar, so there may be something to what you say.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:25 PM
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Oh, I have been rejected thousands of times. I don't care about being rejected per se, I got desensitized long ago, I care about my time and how it feels like I was just wasting it by approaching hot girls
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:22 PM
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Yes, I like white girls
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:13 PM
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I know the answer to your second question. I've done more than one thousand approaches in NYC and several 7+ girls have told me that I was the 3rd, 4th, n-th guy to approach them that day, so a low estimate is that a 7+ gets approached twice a day. At night it's just crazy, a 7+ at a crowded bar may get approached every 5-10 minutes.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 07:33 PM
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Congrats. I'm very curious, where did ou approach (bar/street/etc)? And in which city?
/r/seduction06/08/19 04:12 PM
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4-5 months. I don't know what's your standard for "looking like you lift"; I can but do my best, bodybuilding is my priority one.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 07:51 PM
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You are actually some guy who is afraid of approaching any girl at all and made this post to see what kind of reaction it would get to p I am not afraid of approaching. Again, I've done it many times. I think you don't want to believe my statistics because they somehow offend your beliefs. Finally, I made this post because what I've been reading about TRP resonates with me and I had already internalised some of it, therefore I wanted to know what's the stand in the community about daygame.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:49 PM
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Latino
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:37 PM
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No, I literally approached that many girls. In other words, walked over and tried to have a conversation with them.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:21 PM
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Yes to looking decent and lifting (I listed that in my characteristics). I usually approach white (not necessarily blond) thin girls under 30.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:12 PM
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I started with the videos from Tom Torero, then tried a bunch of different things (Krauser, Roosh, and just winging it).
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:09 PM
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I'm curious to know which part of that sentence triggered your response.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:07 PM
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Latino. I look "indigenous"
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:05 PM
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I got numbers, but they ghosted. I have the details for this year. Since January it's been 1253 approaches and 47 number closes.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:04 PM
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Meaning what? nightgame? I guess I don't know what is the next playground
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:01 PM
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Yes, I got numbers, but they led nowhere
/r/askTRP25/07/19 07:01 PM
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I go to the gym religiously and eat properly
/r/seduction17/07/19 01:04 PM
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What bars are you going to in NYC? I've never been to a bar with more girls than guys. I would really appreciate the info.
/r/seduction15/07/19 01:06 PM
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I wouldn't say "right after college", but I agree with you overall. Whenever I go to a social event, which I enjoy more than bars or clubs, there are at most 2-3 hot girls, so I've observed the same thing you describe.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:18 PM
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I understand that, it happens to me too. My opinion is that having a break once in a while helps a lot, but you have to be proactive. For example, if you go to an event you enjoy, you have to remind yourself that you are there to have a good time and not for the girls. Because you and I have the cold approach mentality, we would naturally start checking out the girls and thinking "wow, she's cute, maybe I can approach her in this way", but that defeats the purpose, we went to the event to take a…
/r/seduction21/06/19 01:19 PM
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I'm sorry, but I don't understand the main point of your message or if you disagree with my answer in some sense.
/r/seduction20/06/19 03:00 PM
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Great question. Hopefully someone will give a better answer, but I do the following. I go to an event "just for me". E.g., a dance class where I focus only on learning the moves and don't care about talking to the girls, or I'll go to a museum/gallery where I care about the exhibits. I do have to make a conscious effort of thinking "I'm here to have a good time, I don't care about girls today" though. ​ Hitting the gym also helps, but not that much.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:45 PM
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Same here, it's happened to me thrice already in NY. It never happened in other cities I've lived in though.
/r/seduction19/06/19 08:06 PM
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I'm of the opinion that the dating apps revolution killed the PUA industry
/r/seduction18/06/19 01:11 PM
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I don't know if there is a new edition, but, last time I read it, I felt it was a tad outdated. Just to give examples: - He discusses mainly phone game (instead of texting). -He also mentions stuff like picking her up at her place, who does that any more? It would be a creep move to ask a girl for her home address.
/r/seduction18/06/19 01:04 PM
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What if I have no idea what looks good? Your answer assumes I'm proficient at this stuff.
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:40 PM
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I think this is as close as we can get to the true answer
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:16 PM
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Is "I have a boyfriend" not good enough? that's a solid way out. The fake number can backfire: some guys would text you right there "so you have my number", then it would be super awkward for her.
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:23 PM
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I feel you. I have one buddy who likes to call, and I love the guy, but it annoys me so much when he calls me, every time I think "just text me, bro, I'm busy doing shit". ​ Maybe it is a guy thing and girls like getting calls?
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:19 PM
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95% chance she's attracted, now go for the kiss. It could be she's socially awkward and doesn't know how to let go of your hand, that's the 5% chance.
/r/seduction12/06/19 01:23 PM
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The lesson I draw from this is "don't try pick-up stuff at work". Most books would actually warn you (I know Mystery does) against trying this stuff in your social circle.
/r/seduction06/06/19 08:27 PM
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This is true. I remember two "social experiments" where super handsome guys tried all the things that would be considered creepy and nothing bad happened, girls were still into them.
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:39 PM
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I agree about taking the demographics into account, but the gender ratio alone is not a good metric. For example, in NYC there are more women... statistically. I've never been to a bar/event/social gathering and seen a favourable male-female ratio (not even in dance classes!), and I'm out a lot. On the contrary, the competition in NYC is the fiercest I've experienced in all the cities I've lived in.
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:15 PM
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No one?
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:57 AM
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If she didn’t tell you about something in person, then you don’t know it. You can use social media to get some insights into a girl, but ideally don’t spend too much time “following” chicks that you barely know. " If she didn’t tell you about something in person, then you don’t know it. You can use social media to get some insights into a girl, but ideally don’t spend too much time “following” chicks that you barely know. "
/r/seduction01/11/18 01:37 PM
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That's false. When people are rotating it would be VERY rude not to dance with somebody
/r/seduction01/11/18 12:34 PM
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That is specific for online dating. I think this post is geared towards cold approaching
/r/seduction01/11/18 12:25 PM
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I think this has the potential of being a great post. Can you give examples of "random opener" and "say something intelligent"?
/r/seduction31/10/18 01:01 PM
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There is indeed a pattern for online dating. I don't do online dating myself, hence I don't have personal insights, but I have seen fascinating data on this. ​ For example, you can find a post with data from okcupid in this link. As expected, the most attractive are whites, but everybody does better within their own ethnicity. ​
/r/seduction29/10/18 02:44 AM
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Mark Manson Thanks! Will check it out.
/r/seduction26/10/18 03:29 PM
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Models is by which author?
/r/seduction26/10/18 12:51 PM
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It could be approach anxiety, but not necessarily. If you see a girl and you think "it's highly likely I won't like her", it's mostly based on prejudices, BUT these tend to be true in average. Since what we do is a numbers game, I think that going for your type will have higher average returns. ​ For example, I won't talk to a girl if she is wearing way too much makeup. I think she will be too superficial and I won't enjoy her conversation. I could be wrong in some cases, but it does make sense …
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:12 PM
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I do consider the distance. I think I square quickly, mostly following this guide. When I open I deliver a compliment of the form "I just wanted to say that you look very stylish" (again, following the previous guide). Thanks for trying to help me ;)
/r/seduction17/10/18 02:50 PM
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I dress pretty well, I often get compliments about my clothes.
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:17 AM
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Style already gave an answer to this. The only thing a confident man would do in that situation is smile and say "thank you".
/r/seduction14/10/18 05:38 PM
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I don't agree with some of the points. Specially with 1: using daygame as an excuse not to do nightgame. His main reason is that there are hotter girls at night. Girls need to go out during the day too... They have jobs, run errands and have to walk down the street to meet their friends. Specially if you are in a big city, there will be busy streets filled with good looking girls. I have no idea what he's talking about.
/r/seduction11/10/18 01:35 PM
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If there is a way of getting the results and having fun while doing it, why not? I doubt that monotonously hitting the machines is the only way of getting fit.
/r/seduction01/10/18 01:56 PM
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I am also looking for a wing :)
/r/seduction28/09/18 05:11 PM
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