Hi guys,

tl;dr: In the US, specifically in NY, is there something I should do in my first seconds of approaching white girls as a Latino?

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Background: I've done a lot of approaches and most don't go past the opener. I look heavily like a latino and I like white girls in their 20s. I always go direct, mostly stopping girls while they walk.

Thinking about it, I remembered that a wing, who is black, told me that for him it makes a big difference to hold his hands like a "good boy" (as in this picture) while delivering his opener. In that moment I didn't pay attention because of all the "alpha male posture" they always recommend.

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It's a definite possibility that this is bullshit and the problem is just me, but I figured there could be something.

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To summarise, any body language techniques that would increase my chances of buying the first few seconds of girls' attention?

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