| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Not sure what to do? | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 01:53 AM | |
| 2 | I have no urge to "game?" | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 07:57 PM | |
| 1 | Trying to find articles on something | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 06:19 PM | |
| 1 | Chatting up a lifeguard? | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 09:36 PM | |
| 1 | How to make something more out of this work-based friendship? | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 06:07 AM | |
| 1 | How to implement techniques? | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 04:45 AM | |
| 1 | Logistics for a fitness girl | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 06:30 PM | |
| 0 | Confused on body language | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 20/07/16 08:53 PM | |
| 0 | I did it? | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 12:23 AM | |
| 0 | How would you go about talking to girls at a swimming pool in your neighborhood? | ImBadWithGrils | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 03:51 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Cold approached a girl with her friend at a library today- no regretsGood on her for even texting him too! | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Asking waitress/cashier out."would you like to grab _____ after you're off some time?" | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 10:36 PM |
| 1 | How would you respond to a sudden “Let’s have sex”My username should be ImBadAtOpening because after that it all comes together. This sub is simple. You see a girl you like? Tell her you like her, and if she likes you there are 2 options: 1: No. You got rejected, that's one more under your belt. Big deal, next girl. 2: Yes. Congratulations, you're now available to proceed to a date and getting to know her. Continue as you feel necessary | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 12:12 AM |
| 2 | How to talk to anybody (mindset)Laz is backkkkk | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 01:56 AM |
| 43 | How would you respond to a sudden “Let’s have sex”Setup a date and time. How hard could that be | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Is my ex testing me again?Don't wonder, ignore it | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Low social media follower count, how to improve?Social media ain't shit. Be an interesting person and you'll get more attention | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 04:57 PM |
| 57 | Is she taking a long time to respond? If so, do thisIf she doesn't respond, go do something productive | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 01:11 PM |
| 3 | I'm always acting how I "should" but not how I "want to" and it's keeping me single and depressed.Try thinking that you "should" act how "you want." | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 12:54 PM |
| 5 | If this subreddit was about cyclingYou forgot, "YO, was geht ab?" | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 02:41 PM |
| 16 | [Question] With a girl you’ve been involved with previously...I see no reason not to? Meet up in person and gauge what she's going for, or ask her flat out and go from there | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | STOTD - Is that your phone?Yes. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What is an absolute deal-breaker in the women you date?Do you let them know about the three strikes? I'm trying to actually implement that into my life, but I also need to actually talk to girls to use it | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What is an absolute deal-breaker in the women you date?Smoking, period. Excessively using alcohol. General carelessness about themselves (not exercising/eating poorly) | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | What questions do you have about attracting women?How do you effectively talk to girl at the gym? This is one of those "grey areas" but I want to make it work | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 01:16 PM |
| 4 | Every girl I run into in college is taken or uninterested in me, and I have no idea how to change it.You just wrote what I'm feeling without realizing I'm doing it. I don't think it's a bad thing but I've spent more time in the gym, at work and in class or on homework than I have with friends. Haven't hung out with anyone seriously in a week or two | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 02:08 AM |
| 2 | What advice do you have for a 21 year old female virgin?I'm a 20 year old guy in community college, only had one girlfriend. We have the same thoughts as you do at some point, just remember that if you are a cute guy, TALK TO HIM. He'll either be taken but you can be friends and network to his friends, or he's single and you take that from there | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 02:12 PM |
| 21 | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a tool/u/SnapSocialGuru will tell you you've got a skewed view. Talk to him | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Virgin and havnt left the house in 2 years because of my looks...advice to improve?Dude you're fine | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Logistics for a fitness girlGood point | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Logistics for a fitness girlI've always thought the gym was "me time" for everyone and usually to heir on side of caution and avoid it | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 07:27 PM |
| -4 | What are some funny ways to insinuate sex through text?Keep it vague and make her think about sex. Or go all out and say something like "hey my gynecologist buddy showed me a few tricks, wanna see them?" However that might be too much | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts about "Models", by Mark Manson?I just finished NO More Mr. Nice Guy and now I am RE-reading Models. Good combination, it's definitely a book about owning yourself instead of pick up | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | She keeps texting but flakes datesNext | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Trying to find articles on somethingI did, it was a comment in a thread and I don't even remember the name of the thread | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Losing my virginity didn't make me hate myself any less...Don't measure improvement in miles. Each step is an improvement | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Back up Todd's Channel if you like his videosFuck RSD. To see many reasons why you should hate RSD as well as who to look u to now, buy my program "The Unleashed." You can even make monthly payments! (This is sarcasm) | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 01:08 AM |
| 14 | [FR] Sex with a cute girl at the second dateAmerican resident giving my view: I have WhatsApp so I can message friends in other countries mostly | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Nobody Owes You AnythingDo you have a podcast yet?? | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Are you "ready" for sex?Benefits of living at home include help with cleaning. Downside is someone is always home and I can't get a girl in private | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What is more personal: Facebook or Snapchat?You're probably close. Texting will be a thing for stuff outside of dating for sure, but because of you I try to post 3-4 quality snaps to my story a day | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 03:45 PM |
| 2 | What is more personal: Facebook or Snapchat?Snapchat. I've become a fan of /u/SnapSocialGuru over the last month or so. Snapchat is a great tool. Post stories daily, and reply to stories as well to stay "in" people's lives. Facebook is cool and all but I fucking hate it. It's not nearly as useful at creating connection | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Best non-needy/butt hurt response to...Just drop her entirely. It's easier and shows abundance, right? | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Any savvy Snapchat users out there?/u/SnapSocialGuru I think | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Being good looking Vs. Being rich Vs. having good game, which is better?I don't club or bar so my view is definitely different | /r/seduction | 06/11/17 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Being good looking Vs. Being rich Vs. having good game, which is better?Yeah I don't worry about that shit. If she likes me for being myself, cool. If not, cool | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Being good looking Vs. Being rich Vs. having good game, which is better?To add to that, fuck "game." Just be a cool person with good values and you'll live happily | /r/seduction | 05/11/17 03:16 PM |
| 0 | Girl that I really want says she will only have sex with me if I bang her friend first, how should I approach this?Free 3 way man.. doesn't even need to be explained IMO. Let the friend get her fix of you, and you get to fuck 2 girls at the same time | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Girl that I really want says she will only have sex with me if I bang her friend first, how should I approach this?3 way. Come on man this is a once in a lifetime opportunity | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Focus On The Skill, Not The Women.RSD Max comes to mind. The dude is always on Instagram stories talking about hustling and shit. We get it, you're an entrepreneur | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Confidence Comes From CompetenceThis is exactly why I don't support READ programs. The free videos are even a bit shitty sometimes. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | The Secret To Talking ForeverI really don't want to be that asshole, but you posted the exact same video (I can tell by the thumbnail) a few hours before this, then deleted it and posted this title. Give it a rest already man | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who finds quality girls to be so damn rare?This makes me realize I should have talked to the super cutie at the gym this morning. First time ever seeing her, she seems to fit what I'm looking for because she lifts. Next time | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 03:52 PM |
| 6 | A List of Approach InvitationsI just don't look at anyone on purpose lmao, if I do make eye contact with a girl I try and smirk but usually just have a dead stare because I'm zoned out | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 07:16 PM |
| 7 | A List of Approach InvitationsI'm a guy and I wear sunglasses so I don't squint or have my pupils dilate when I go in a building | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Watch How I React To Getting Rejected Countless Times - Infield BreakdownIt is the same guy. He followed me on Instagram at one point and I blocked it | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 01:32 AM |
| 3 | What are the most useful takeaways from the book “Model” by Mark Manson? If there’s already a post here regarding the same topic then I would really appreciate if someone can link me to it..https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3gco5l/50_takeaways_from_models/ Literally uses the same word in the title as you. Search it up | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on how to become a well-spoken,smart and attractive manI love seeing welding mentioned any where as a welding student. Learn something with your hands that not everyone can do. Easy way to distinguish yourself | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 06:44 PM |
| 8 | Forget She Ever Existed – The Ultimate Breakup GuideI would not. My ex broke up with me, and she's been cold any time she sees me in public (like at school). She came in to where I work to mail a text book back and had a small conversation but was noticably off with it. This was last month. We split in May. Now when I see her pulling in to school, I giggle like a damn child because I find her attitude towards me hilarious | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:06 PM |
| 6 | I feel like being successful with girls has too much work involved for me.That's where you shoot yourself in the foot. No offense to you, or him, but FUCK WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE. FUCK WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE. That's harsh right? Im not 100% banging girls every day, but I moved past the entire "looks" debate. Read Models by Mark Manson if you can. He makes an analogy that is something like "you could be the juiciest, most ripe peach in the store and she could like pears more." If the girl doesn't like you because of the way you look, fuck her (literally if you manage that). I'm… | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Approached a 18 year old girlBut are you 18 or older? | /r/seduction | 06/10/17 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What is your current sticking point and what are you doing to work on it?Seriously lol. I go all out "let's hangout" for a few days then fizzle out | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What is your current sticking point and what are you doing to work on it?I just love getting to know new people in quick bursts.. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 02:27 AM |
| 5 | What is your current sticking point and what are you doing to work on it?I get a bit too attached too quick. I just really like talking to new people | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys... my girlfriend just found my copy of The Art of Seduction and she took it from me. How fucked am I?If you know she's going to do mind games, show dominance and NOT play them. If you feel she's being like that, ignore it. There are so many things you can do instead of trying to get the book back | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Approach a Girl In Class?She doesn't really effect my life but my point is (I didn't explain earlier) I'm 90% sure she goes out of her way to come to the store I work at. Maybe not, but there are things closer to where she lives. I don't get it but oh well, I'm alive | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Approach a Girl In Class?"create distance" means to you know, stay away right? There are other options for her to shop at if she wants distance | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Approach a Girl In Class?She has 3 other grocery store options not including Walmart or Target. She can get her distance with out coming to the place she knows I work at. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Approach a Girl In Class?I just kinda seem uninterested when I talk even though I love talking and learning more about people | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Approach a Girl In Class?I'm a different type of person. She came in yesterday and I saw and her and started smiling and laughing to myself, she didn't even look at me (her face always seems scorn when she's around me now). I have the understanding that either one of us had things that made the relationship not work, and it's done. I don't think she is quite there yet even though I did nothing to her | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Approach a Girl In Class?20, the reason I ask is because I'm going to talk to a girl in a class of mine as well. I dated a girl I worked with. It was great until she said it wasn't working and had 3-4 weeks left before changing jobs. That didn't go well, but it wasn't awful. We have an understanding that we both need $ so at work, we worked. She still comes in occasionally and gets stuff but never even looks at me, I think it's hilarious. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Approach a Girl In Class?I don't get this mindset sometimes. "Approach everyone but not at work, class, on a train, in a bus, at church etc" Maybe I'm missing a point? | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Approach a Girl In Class?I need to work on my conversational ability a bit I suppose | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 12:10 PM |
| 25 | Approach a Girl In Class?It's a fuckin college class. He'll be fine | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 12:09 PM |
| 2 | hey boys, sent my buddy some dating advice earlier -- figured it might help some of you out tooProfile pic? | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Eye contact with women I passDepends on if they look at me back | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Eye contact with women I passSmile a bit. I'm working on the same thing. Just a good smirk as you imagine her naked or something | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 03:23 PM |
| 1 | It feels oddThat's how I do it. My issue is I never feel like approaching which bugs me but whatever | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Aesthetics - Should we train to be bulky or lean?I'm 5'11. 155lbs. I'm a twig but hitting the gym and running (apparently a bad combo but fuck it). I'm now seeing definition in my arms and stomach, as well as back and calves. I've only done 3 gym sessions so far but it's making me sore in the best way | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How were your first approaches?I have done it twice, both times the girl seemed neutral but slightly positive, even if she had a boyfriend. However just today I told a guy I liked his shoes and we talked all the way to our cars, never met before. I need to try more girls in cold approach I'm just "in my head" too much | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I hate small talk, it isn't my strength. How do I avoid it and play to my strengths?I work retail and hate small talk, but recently began screening people and having pretty good small talk with them during my interactions. Ask them a few more specific questions about their life and pick a topic | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on asking out lifeguard..Bring up her school/career plans and then drop the program you're doing in there. That would be a relatability thing | /r/seduction | 10/08/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | I have no urge to "game?"I don't want to go to the doctor or therapist because: A: My mom (I live at home for convenience) would dismiss me even mentioning depression, or hormonal issues etc. B: I don't see the point in it if I can find the problem myself | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I have no urge to "game?"What interests me? Self improvement and unlocking potential in myself, and other people. It's currently hypocritical because I hold myself back. Just today at Target I saw a girl that I found attractive, but decided not to talk to her because I couldn't think of a reason to. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 08:58 PM |
| 2 | I have no urge to "game?"I'm just worried about it being a hormonal issue really.. I check girls out and definitely think about sex with them but I don't vividly imagine it | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I have no urge to "game?"Had one girlfriend in November, broke up May 1. Started running, and soon lifting. Just focusing time and energy into making my life better. I guess that doesn't require girls, so good? | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 04:29 PM |
| 3 | I have no urge to "game?"Not going to lie, I'm not entirely sure I even needed to make this whole post. I'm more worried about the chance of Low-T or bad libido because I can't even (unless I try and focus hard) imagine a girl naked on public (like in Models), I talked to a very attractive girl today and I was just neutral the entire time. I'm concerned because it could be a hormonal thing, or it could be because I broke a streak and fapped yesterday | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you short guys (~5' 6") gain the confidence to talk to girls when there's so many taller and more qualified guys? I feel SO discouragedIt's okay, he commented on my thread too acting as if I'm entirely incapable of talking to a girl. He sounds like the opposite of white-knight-y himself, "I'm talking to girls so everyone should and if they don't they aren't a man! They are a pussy/bitch/etc!" | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I have no urge to "game?"I'm aware it's a numbers thing, I just feel like it should be worrying about having fun with my life instead of focusing strictly on pickup | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I have no urge to "game?"I'm reading the advice, my original post was supposed to be asking if it's "okay" for a 20y/o guy to not want to always seek out a women | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I have no urge to "game?""I don't know what I want" means I'm still finding how I want to live life as I go, I'm only 20. I'm not making excuses, I just genuinely don't feel like approaching women. I have a different mindset about it, which isn't the best but I'm working on changing it. I'm straight, get horny from girls, but just don't feel like it's worth the effort right now | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I have no urge to "game?"Never drank or done drugs, homemade porn (if I do), I run every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday morning, bodyweight fitness and soon a gym.. I'm not gay or bi, I'm definitely attracted to women. I just don't feel the urge to talk to them and go through the process, because I don't know what I want from myself even | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 11:45 PM |
| 2 | I have no urge to "game?"I've been examining my habits and all, I just don't feel the need to pickup a girl.. I have the idea that if I meet one and we hit off, we date but I don't go chasing it | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Two things that helped me be attractive to women. Examples included.Do you look random guys in the eye when you walk past in a store and smile? I've had people to that to me but they are employees | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?I do smile and stuff when I talk and it mixes a bit of throat in. That's fine right? Just talking from my chest is extremely basic | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How to be a "cute" guy and seduce?I get monotone when I speak from the chest.. Am I supposed to use the chest as the main source, or only? | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 12:26 PM |
| 1 | People of r/seduction who were once bad with girls and are now drowning in pussy, what did you do to get to where you are today?Which part? | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | People of r/seduction who were once bad with girls and are now drowning in pussy, what did you do to get to where you are today?I can do it and still be horny because I tell myself it's a waste of time and I'd rather have a real girl. (note, I still rarely approach so I'm not a guru) | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 10:50 AM |
| 7 | People of r/seduction who were once bad with girls and are now drowning in pussy, what did you do to get to where you are today?NoFap is stupid in my experience. Becoming self aware of the fact that fapping is a time waste and an instant gratification, with no emotion in it makes me more likely to approach a girl than avoiding it all together | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Chatting up a lifeguard?The fake drowning part is absolutely an inspiration | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Chatting up a lifeguard?I have no problem talking to them, I just don't want to distract from their job because of the nature of it | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Randomly approaching girls at (places like) a coffee shop?"I found your ID on the ground." Hand her a dime | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it a good thing to not really have a type that your attracted to, more of it's random of who you like?No. Having a type closes you off to so many possibilities it's crazy almost. I'm working on it now, but talk to everyone and anyone. You'll start seeing certain things you like, that a lot of people share | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Is it common to have a slip of speech with a tiny stutter when nervous and approaching?I slur random sounds as filler because I talk fast. I'm working on slowing down lol | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you know what you're doing wrong when talking to girls etc?The sub is more leaning to improving yourself and getting girls as a result | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I know she's ready to make out?Figured. I'd prefer not to date anyone I work with (part time grocery store) but it's the only place I've met someone I liked as much as I liked her. And it worked until I got a bit concerned but what ever, I'm happy | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you know what you're doing wrong when talking to girls etc?There is no "game" the way I saw it. It's just expressing your interest in the girl and either getting somewhere, or moving on. I don't agree entirely with the whole "move on and don't talk to them" that I've seen. Female friends are a great social circle expansion | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you know what you're doing wrong when talking to girls etc?You don't IMO. If they seem uninterested then you should move on, until one is interested and wants to be around you. That's just what I picked up reading in here | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 06:01 PM |
| 5 | How do I know she's ready to make out?Depends on the job. Part time or permanent etc. I dated a girl from work and it was great until we split and she had 4 weeks left and didn't even look at me once unless I said something to hee | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach according to "Models" by Mark Manson?I've had 2 very cute life guards eyeing me up, and I also ran past a cute girl. All I can say is "hi" lol | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Where to practice Social Anxiety?Become a cashier for a bit. It'll make it seem like nothing | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 05:07 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach according to "Models" by Mark Manson?Now my issue is I don't approach yet. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 04:57 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach according to "Models" by Mark Manson?As I took it, do whatever. Just approach with intention and it shows. If she doesn't like your intentions, she rejects and you move on. Right? | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | This sub's toxic mentality of "taking action"Are we talking pick up theory, or self improvement theory? I'm a firm believer in that chasing girls when you aren't comfortable with yourself is stupid. Establish yourself, then go for girls. Maybe they'll come to you too | /r/seduction | 01/07/17 04:57 PM |
| 2 | This sub's toxic mentality of "taking action"Possibly unpopular opinion: Fuck the theory. If you don't click with the girl from being yourself and nothing more than yourself, she's not meant for you | /r/seduction | 01/07/17 04:10 PM |
| 3 | What frustrates you?Have you read Models? | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Why am I not interested by most of the girls I meet?NoFap doesn't raise my drive that much... If anything I just get more mellow about being horny | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How to implement techniques?Noted, but how do I act on the principles then? Trying to figure out how to keep it non-interview-y | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Making statements in texts backfired for the first timeHave you read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck? I think in chapter 7 or 8 he talks about time in Russia, and how flat out honesty everyone was there. Didn't like something you did? They'd tell you. It might be a European thing | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Making statements in texts backfired for the first timeHave you read The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck? I think in chapter 7 or 8 he talks about time in Russia, and how flat out honesty everyone was there. Didn't like something you did? They'd tell you. It might be a European thing | /r/seduction | 17/06/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wing man - Kansas CityYou've got about 7 years on me ll | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wing man - Kansas CityHow old are you? I'm vaguely in the area | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Is waiting to have sex until marriage a waste of time in life?Probably both | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Is waiting to have sex until marriage a waste of time in life?Yeah but I don't see it as being worth it after the last month we were together. It's seriously nothing to me though | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Is waiting to have sex until marriage a waste of time in life?Maaaaan. I got dumped 2 weeks ago to this day and I think I'm over it now (not sure if that's good or not). Both of us were virigns and I brought condoms over one day and we started making out, and she pulled away and sighed and said "I can't stop thinking that there's condoms right there but I have to go to class in an hour" and that was that. It was awkward, unenthusiastic and quick, but it didn't change anything about my life or me as a person, and she said the same | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Is waiting to have sex until marriage a waste of time in life?19, lost Virginity in like January, broke up 2 weeks ago. Not a big deal, the last, 4 months feel like waste more than anything | /r/seduction | 15/05/17 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Give her spaceWow this is similar to what I'm dealing with minus her being sick. (Shout out to college finals) | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 04:31 PM |
| 2 | A social media investment I made in college that paid off massively after graduation.I knew I'd see you here :) | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do?Well that's the odd thing because we've talked about it and neither of us really want a "relationship." We just like each other and that's that | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 11:19 AM |
| 1 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laidSame. I just can't have a not boring text flow | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laidLink? | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 03:40 AM |
| 3 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laidI have to disagree with the in person vs texting a bit, not only body position but also tone and facial expressions too. As well as being able to lightly kino if needed but regardless my texting sucks | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 07:06 PM |
| 4 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laidYeah that would take some work. Texting is my weakest part (not saying I'm an in field pro though) | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 06:27 PM |
| 12 | "We're not having sex" and how her saying that got me laidHave you ever had difficulty getting a second date if you don't escalate initially? | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 04:27 PM |
| 6 | I work at Pandora and girls are all around me, I need to improve my game and ask one of them out, any help?I'm genuinely interested by the escalation there | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Fear of losing a girl after making a move?I'm not very good at seduction but I do know, that you can't be afraid to lose one. Literally a "fuck it" attitude and it's just one girl | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Is anybody else just not bothered?Kinda? I've never even kissed a girl but there's one at work who I'm into but I don't even feel like asking her out. We're gonna go see Christmas lights after Thanksgiving but outside of that, I'm not sure where I want it to go | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Handsomeness Hacks: 52 ways to look more attractive fastI don't wear deodorant, it clashes with my Cologne too much. Just antiperspirant with almost no scent | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Handsomeness Hacks: 52 ways to look more attractive fastAntiperspirant, does that count as a no-no? I can sweat while driving my car with the AC on full blast. Probably a nervous sweat but still it helps | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to make something more out of this work-based friendship?I'm 19 and don't drink any way but that's a solid idea | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 04:30 PM |
| 2 | You aren't bothering anyone when you approach and here's whyThanks for thanking him | /r/seduction | 05/11/16 08:01 PM |
| -1 | Is going to parties the best way to meet someone?What city? Go to a mall, or popular area for people your age. Fuck parties IMO, it's not worth the effort to find ones that are single (and possibly sober enough I actually be into you, not just drunk) | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 12:31 AM |
| 10 | It's Saturday of Halloween weekend, which means it's the best night of the year. Don't stay in. Go out solo if you must.Don't change who you are just to fit in for one or two nights out of the year. If you want to be a party-goer, go to parties. If you're not into it, find friends that are similar and you can chill with on nights when others party | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 05:13 AM |
| 3 | It's Saturday of Halloween weekend, which means it's the best night of the year. Don't stay in. Go out solo if you must.Lameboiiiss we out here | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 04:35 AM |
| 5 | It's Saturday of Halloween weekend, which means it's the best night of the year. Don't stay in. Go out solo if you must.Tfw I don't drink or really party | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 04:30 AM |
| 20 | I fucking did it. I'm the man. I finally had sex.Jerking it is okay in moderation. Don't let it consume your free time though | /r/seduction | 16/10/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Dance Guide for Todays Most Popular MusicWatch "MVS Francis" Holy hell was I an inspired middle school kid | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Dance Guide for Todays Most Popular MusicMelbourne Shuffle?? | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 11:38 AM |
| 2 | What has been your biggest regret(s) during your seduction journey?That's what I'm partially struggling with, a friend of mine wants me to "break out of my shell" and talk to women or climb buildings and take photos with him at night etc. It's just not my life style to do THAT much stuff. I skateboard, work, class, occasionally video games | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Where would you spend two weeks in Europe?Wow I just realised how bad that messed up | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Where would you spend two weeks in Europe?Drive for a few hours and you can be in a new country, if you wake up early enough you could spend the day there then drive back | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Where would you spend two weeks in Europe?Well yes but 3 hours driving makes a day trip. | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Pick up at Community College?Start talking to anyone. And everyone you think of talking to. Just talk and open people up. If they're anything like me, they have a resting bitch face and just want to go to class. But I enjoy talking to people | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 09:17 PM |
| -2 | Where would you spend two weeks in Europe?Vienna is a wicked cool city, spent a day there. Unfortunately didn't get to practice Deutsch. Budapest is a very good city for young people too if you find English speakers, the language is a mess IMO Edit: cities aren't countries | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I did it?Didn't consider it, just adding it in for detail lol. That would be way too quick | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 05:02 AM |
| 1 | I did it?Not even interested in. I challenged myself to talk to any one any where after going on a rant last night about a girl from work who's not worth my time. That's a different story, but it made me realize how easy it is just to talk to people. Next I'll add kino since it will most likely be a girl I'm interested in | /r/seduction | 14/08/16 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Whiten your teethOh I'm not. I'm still annoyed (4-5 years later) that they blamed me for not wearing a retainer when they fucked it up initially | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Whiten your teethI had braces for all of middle school. They ended up NOT correcting my lower front 2 teeth, which are slightly out of line, molding the retainer off of the still messed up teeth. Weeks later, I get blamed for not wearing the retainer. | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 04:08 AM |
| 18 | When a girl says, "you have nice eyes"Thank you You don't have to be slick at every chance | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Confused on body languageSo her legs crossed was probably her being comfortable. Good. Next time I see her it will be winter and she'll be staying at a host family house, but she might get a chance to sleep at my house. Hell yes. | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Picking up girls in Eastern EuropeDepends on if you speak the same language, past that it shouldn't matter | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Picking up girls in Eastern EuropeI'm here now. Hungarian girls are beautiful | /r/seduction | 17/07/16 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How I gained confidenceHow would I (18/m) start going to the gym? I have literally NO clue how to do anything there, but I've been doing push-ups and crunches in my room | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I have nothing to offer, and so I don't bother asking girls out.I'm in the same boat about not asking girls out, but because I don't have any purpose for it myself. Im still finding myself and becoming a better person | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Snapchat game?And that's my issue lol, she's a co-worker that gossips. I'm probably better off not talking to her past work | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat game?There's one I want to establish something decent with and her mom likes me, her dad manages a side department St he store we work at.. and the other, I honestly just want to fuckbuddy with, but she always goes to the Snapchat type chat shit when I try anything | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat game?Even if they're 18 and I might see them or their parents at work? Serious part of the whole thing | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Snapchat game?? | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat game?I've tried before and the 2 I tried on were a little weary.. i think I said something along the line of "thats what I'm talking about" etc | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Snapchat game?And that's putitng them into a mood or? | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 03:59 AM |
| 6 | Snapchat game?The girl I am thinking of probably wouldn't take it well, but I wouldn't mind practice, you fucking hound (like that?) | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Snapchat game?What do you mean by Commanding nature? | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 03:16 AM |
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