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| 14 | How to breakup with LTR with Borderline Personality Disorder? (BPD)I’m a lawyer but this isn’t legal advice. If you want to break the lease w no legal repercussions take a look at your states statutes. Ny for example allows a tenant to break a lease w I think 15 days notice statutorily if you can provide a police report to the land lord about the domestic violence. Talk to the LL first though since if they can accomadate you. Bc there may be repurcussions for your BPD Gf after you file that report. Whether it’s against her or she does something to you. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Hadn't seen plate in 5 months, we were hooking up before that. After seeing her for the first time I was of course expecting sex. She then tells me were just friends. I get annoyed and tell her fine we won't have sex tonight but keep asking her what changed that were now just friendsBro, come on this is easy. Hit the sidebar. She’s hitting the wall, wants to lockdown a provider and is a born again virgin. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you sacrifice lifting for BJJ or martial arts?You’re just looking for an excuse. Do one in the morning and one in the evening. Suck it up. Doms subsides. Clearly you haven’t been working out long enough. I lift Monday, Wednesday and Friday morning. Bjj in the evening 3-4x a week AND do striking Tuesday and Thursday morning. Stop searching for an excuse. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Fwb disrespected me, but we've got stuff arrangedFirst. You set boundaries in your head you don’t tell her in some cases you can imply boundaries e.g., my gf would never do what x did. Second. When boundaries are crossed you don’t talk about them. You respond by withdrawing attention and time, demoting, or dumping and going about normally. Frame. Third. For the trip go. Do what you want to do. Don’t talk about this friend thing. If yo want to go do something and she doesn’t want to, do it on your own. She wants to fuck; fuck. Flirt w other wom… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I stand my ground when presented with Conflict?I had this problem. Go read “No More Mr. Nice Guy”. It’s ok to say no. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are some women so comfortable physically abusing guys?No. The policy may require them to arrest someone on a domestic violence call if they have probable cause a felony or misdemeanor occurred but does not mandate the arrest of the male. You’ll more likely encounter cops who believe the woman over you resulting in your arrest. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Combining lifting and Combat SportsYes. Train smart, eat and rest. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Combining lifting and Combat SportsDefinitely doable. Just be smart w your routine. Rest and eat. I lift in the morning 3x/wk and do bjj in the evening 4x/wk (was mma before I moved). Bjj is on lifting days at least twice for me. Rest when you need too, take care of injuries when they happen, but don’t let it become an excuse not to go. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Long time member, still heartbrokenYou're trying to use TRP to fulfill you blue pill dreams. Let go. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 03:20 AM |
| 6 | Asia Argento, vocal Metoo activist and Harvey Weinstein accuser, paid $380,000 settlement in 2013 to underage actor she had sex withAnyone see Asia’s follow up? https://variety.com/2018/film/news/asia-argento-denies-sexual-assault-jimmy-bennett-1202911438/ She’s blaming the dead ex-bf Bourdain. Dude can’t even defend himself. The hamster is running lightning quick to find an exit hatch. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Gf went to a festival in another country didn’t hear from her all dayThanks. And it was the former, apparently a mandatory event. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:19 PM |
| 18 | Gf went to a festival in another country didn’t hear from her all dayMy estrogen is through the roof. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Gf went to a festival in another country didn’t hear from her all dayI’m not going to make an impulse decision. I don’t think it’s the itis bc that’s what brought me here in the first place. I am emotionally invested, sure she’s been great otherwise for the past year. I have no problem walking away should something have had happened. Will I ever know, who knows? But mere suspicion and disapproving behavior doesn’t cause an automatic next for me. She’s been otherwise great, is way more invested in me, was a virigin, conservative and religious upbringing—not your t… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 05:12 PM |
| 3 | I don't understand how to assert boundaries with womenNever give her an ultimatum. It comes from a position of weakness. It shows you care more than she does. Go talk to other girls. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 04:05 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand how to assert boundaries with womenYou have to establish boundaries early on in the relationship: implicitly through conversation as some of the other posters have said. I like to keep them to myself. If she crosses a minor one, I withdraw. If she crosses a major one, I next. No need for her to know what yours are. Women aren't stupid, they know what is right and what isn't right in a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 03:55 AM |
| 0 | TRP and the gymThe problem with this is that you’re placing value on others opinions. It’s to build self confidence, discipline, health, etc—all things to benefit you. You workout for you and no one else. If the end result is an Adonis physique that by the mere glance garners respect from men and wet pussy from women then so be it. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 10:04 PM |
| 3 | First gf dumped me then slept with another guy the next nightI banged the best friend of the girl who led me here. It was well after the revenge fantasies so it was just another pussy. You won’t care after sometime. Don’t cave and text her, it gets easier and you stop caring al together. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 08:21 PM |
| 5 | What We Could Learn from JuniorFuck you chelsea boots are great. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | For the RPers who do jiu jitsu. How the hell do you manage to lift and train?I’d add smart programming and training. Full body 3 days a week in the morning. Bjj 3-5 a week depending on how I feel in the evening. Take light days when you need it. Don’t have to go 150% everyday for everything. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Need help with LTR and her emotionsYa I track it and I act accordingly. I think I am being sweet but maybe I am not. The day she accused me of not being sweet I had texted her earlier that day and said I was gonna come over, I missed her. I was sweet even when I saw her. I don’t know if I’m not being sweet enough when she’s on her cycle or maybe she just wants me to put her on a pedestal which I won’t do. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Need help with LTR and her emotionsThat’s the approach I take. But she’ll say are you just gonna be quiet right now or are you not gonna say anything? Then I fall into her frame | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | So how do you come up with a workout/lifting routine or plan?Check out this post of mine for some basics. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5tnboq/lifting_programming_fundamentals/ | /r/askTRP | 03/06/18 10:54 PM |
| 18 | Sudden breakup, complete 180. Did I just meet my first BPD girl?He’s got the itis, avoid even plate status with this damaged woman. So many other women out there. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 05:05 PM |
| 4 | blue beta bitch seeks a Morpheus to red pill his sexualityAnything to give em excuse. “Have you eaten yet?” “I’m about to cook a snack at my place, join me.” That’s what you should do. Don’t feel any pressure to entertain her. She can gtfo if she doesn’t like being there. It’s like training a wild horse, get it comfortable with your touch. You can’t jump on its back right at the start. Start with non-intimate areas like the upper back and gradually work your way to more intimate areas like down to the lower back. Make any excuse to touch her: tell her … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Rant. Being more physicalWhat are the other two? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 06:38 PM |
| 12 | Broke up with a gf of 2 months because she went for a walk with another guy, whom she has known for 4-6 weeks only. Did I do the right thing?I’ve done it through stories and rarely explicitly state them. If you state then out right there is a possibility she hides it from you bc she knows it’s a line not to be crossed | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Water fasting for High SMVJust intermittent fast. I think it's something like .3 grams of water are stored for every .1g of glycogen stored. Preface a fast with 7 days of keto to deplete glycogen. Thereafter just intermittent fast as the glycogen stores resupppied during feeding will be deleted during the fast. You'd have to overeat a couple of days to get bloated. I train 2x a day and have plenty of energy. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Friend found out that the girl shes dating has a past of sugar dating.She was an escort. I would even argue hard next: sounds like oneitisi is creeping up on your friend for an ex-prostitute. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | If a girl asks me out to a specific event, should I insist she pay for it?If it's a show you would go to on your own with others or something you're interested feel free to pay your own way. If it's something you'd never do otherwise, she can pay or find someone else. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 01:02 AM |
| 7 | Suggest 2nd date at my place or go out somewhere first?And cock | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 12:14 AM |
| 2 | my chaddly, good looking friends are dating hot but short girls.. everyone of them.. is there any change in gaming tall (170cm+) hot girls..?I would think otherwise as the fashion world has idealized tall and slender. Hell women buy high heels to be taller (to also shape that ass). but see https://www.news-medical.net/news/20140211/Study-examines-height-preferences-in-romantic-coupling.aspx | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Lacking comfort or is she insane?Spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Lacking comfort or is she insane?Spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with gf to stick to my guns. Feels like mistakeAgreed he overreacted but why even bring it up? He can just fog her if she does. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Broke up with gf to stick to my guns. Feels like mistakeDon't do this. You'll fall into her frame even more. You definitely let your insecurities get the best of you here. No going back on that. It'd be best to move on but if you're gonna give it a go treat it as a soft next. Don't fucking articulate your boundaries, keep them to yourself. If she crosses them, you dump her. If she knows then, she'll just hide shit from you. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What is the best response to another man physically hitting on your girlfriend?Smarty pants reread that paragraph. You miss the point. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the best response to another man physically hitting on your girlfriend?I'm assuming Jen was not a LTR? I think this situation is different considering it involved a LTR. There are limits to aloofness. I'm sure she wants to feel safe and protected when with you. You can absolutely gauge the quality of your girl based on how she reacts to such situations but intervening can also be telling. If you interevene in a situation that you think is inappropriate but she was ok with... then you have your answer. I'm sure you know but your battery definition is going to vary s… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Got her number Friday. Text her for date tonight?Bro you're a guy living life you don't have free Saturday nights for girls you met at a bar the night before. Likely she's got plans too. Text her to set something up for a Sunday or early next week. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | "It's not for a lack of feelings for you, I just got out of a bad relationship and I want to be single"I agree. There is an opportunity here but it doesn't make his interpretation inaccurate. I would say it is actually beneficial in moving forward with this interaction because he has recognized what she truly means. He, therefore, can minimize investment to the extreme and prepare to move on or completely forego it all together. Like we both said, he should throw something out there and if she doesn't bite move on. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 04:14 PM |
| 5 | "It's not for a lack of feelings for you, I just got out of a bad relationship and I want to be single"Why? I think his interpretation is pretty accurate. She says she wants to be single but won't meet up with him. Actions over words. But I agree he should handle as you suggested. Keep it no pressure and fun, i.e., just trying to get a drink and have a good time. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Looking for professional/hobby advice from older genI am partially conflicted on whether I should focus on my career now for the late game or the gym while I have my youth. I am going have to do some introspection and decide what I want. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Looking for professional/hobby advice from older genSome good info here. Thanks. I'm in NY. Not really looking to relocate as I prefer this city and and all my friends and fam are here. That's one thing I haven't really been making time for: networking and building a book of business as it would take away from the gym. I have to sit down and see what I want to make my mission the gym while I'm young or my career. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Looking for professional/hobby advice from older genInsurance. Looking to get into tax or corporate. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 05:09 PM |
| 4 | How to assess correctly that a woman perceive you higher or lower SMV ?I've had it go both ways. Smokes who cut down on the bullshit and smokes who step up the bullshit almost as if testing to see you're really at the SMV they perceive you to be at. For example, I opened a chick who was with her friend on the street of NYC and shit tests were relentless that night. Found out later she thought I was incredibly hot even though I perceived the girl to be about my equal on the SMV scale based solely on looks. Then I've had smokes be so interested they are relentless ab… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Should I engage any further with this girl?Why did you ask her if you could come over? That probably dried her up like the dry valleys of anartica. I'll be there at 8:30 with wine/beer/skittles. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 08:49 PM |
| 2 | MMA Recommendations?By not being a bitch. I lift 3 days in the am and am at my mma gym 5 days a week in the evening. And I'm a fucking lawyer. If it's important, you'll make the time. If not, you'll make excuses. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 08:41 PM |
| 4 | LTR found messages of me saying I would cheat on her. What to do?If she's really that upset by it she'll improve to keep you around but most likely she is just trying to pull you into her frame. This is where you man up. She either improves or you kick her ass to the curb (obviously don't tell her this). Don't take her shit and start apologizing. Be ready to walk. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | One meal a day and building musclesOne meal a day is fine--it's what I do. Google fasting and its benefits. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Dilemma. Fun vs Girl.Confused. If that's what you prefer, how is it an issue needed to be resolved? Just include them in the fun. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 06:23 PM |
| 42 | My GF Wants To Pick Up An Assistant/Escort Gig For A Weekend And I'm Not OK With It. How To Deal With This?My man this is simple. That is not okay and she shouldn't have to be told that is not okay. She knows. Tell her to have fun and dump her. Period. Don't ltr whores. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Going on holiday in 12 hours - I posted a topless selfie and my LTR went off on me. How do I deal with this?Fog her. "I see why you feel that way babe." | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I want to be married within 2 years (23 f). Men how do I do it? Sick of useless female advice.Pics. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 03:43 PM |
| 13 | First night lay with tinder girl bails on our 2nd date, doesn't ghost, gives a (shitty) excuse and asks to reschedule ?"Np let's do Sunday at X". If she ghosts/flakes again, next her. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 03:05 PM |
| 2 | What are some things you've done to "mold" your LTR?This guy believes in unicorns. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | How to estimate self SMV?Eh really depends on how good your pictures are. Best way to tell is the women who date/fuck you. If you only date and pull 6s and below, you're prob a 6 or 7 at best. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 03:25 PM |
| 3 | LTR wants me to talk about work problemsYou can talk about what's going on but just make it clear you are handling it. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 01:56 PM |
| 2 | GF acting distant. What is the best option?Control your urges to ask her what's going on. It won't help. Apply dread, be busy. Prepare for it to be over. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:45 PM |
| 10 | [TEXT] "I thought you would ask if I want to" Is silence the best answer?Ignore and ask for address or AA. "Ah I forgot to ask your highness for permission please don't lop off my head." | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there any reason not to do steroids?I just finished my first cycle of Test P. A simple beginner cycle. I was concerned with the sides but it turned out unwarranted with the proper precautions (e.g., benzoyl peroxide for the acne). I got leaner and stronger on a moderate dose of Test P only. I am doing a second cycle after PCT and some time off. I don't regret it. Don't do them if you're under 25. Finish developing. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | "You're so weird."I've been getting this from one of the girls I'm plating and was gonna ask for the womanese translation. I treat it as a normal shit test. I smirk and ignore but have AAd on occasion. It might be similar to the "I can't figure you out" statement (indicating you're doing well). But who knows. If you're still banging, don't worry too much about it. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 08:02 PM |
| 3 | How To Prevent Flakes?I second this. I do this as well. Me - Hey let's get drinks Friday night at 10. Her - Sure Me - I'll let you know where a little later this week. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:15 PM |
| 5 | How well did I handle this shit test? Any advice?This is an ltr not a plate. Why soft next, and such a long one at that, for something so minor? Wouldn't AA be better to dismiss comletely: "aw baby you're so cute when you get jealous I know you love me since you're stalking my facebook." Don't even entertain it. Change subjects after--can't wait for shark week, etc. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 01:58 PM |
| 3 | SMV. Tips.After 6 years.Pic, you gorilla. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Bloodwork [Low T; Low Free T] Meaningless During Cut?Higher levels of T increase your metabolism. So if you're cutting, higher levels would be beneficial. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you not pay on a date?You have a few options but all circumstantial. You can just say let's split it when the check comes. You can do as another user said: I'll get this you get dessert or x activity after. You can reframe it as: I invited you out so I'll take care of it. You can put her on the spot: do you need me to get this? Elequence will keep the interaction in your frame. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | What's the move?That's what I did. Maybe she'll answer in about 3 weeks. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What's the move?That's the way I was leaning. If she responds great, and if not, on to the next. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What's the move?Agreed but on flip side I was on her mind as evidenced by the text. Who knows for what reason though--maybe shes bored, chad won't answer etc. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 12:14 AM |
| 2 | What do you answer when a girl calls you cute/hot?This. A simple thanks is all you need. It's being assertive. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 08:12 PM |
| 26 | GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history withWould you want to spend another 4 years with a girl who doesn't respect you? You'll find another great girl. Don't be influenced by scarcity. Also don't be fooled by the sunken cost fallacy. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 04:44 PM |
| 37 | GF invited to go camping with a couple and a guy she has a history with"Hey babe, I can't make it for the trip are you going to go?" "No" No issue "Yes" "Do you think it's appropriate to go with someone you have history with while we are in a relationship?" "It's not. you're right I won't go" No issue "Babe you can trust me blah blah blah" "Ok" Hard next. "You can't control me blah blah" "You're free to do what you want" (I wouldn't mention anything about consequences or the result of her decision) Hard next. If she goes, it's clear she lacks respect for you and th… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right decision with this girl (walked away)Ghost her. I was in a similar scenario. Had a plate I had hooked up with on a Saturday night who happened to be going out to a bar with a mutual friend Sunday night to which I was also going. The implication was I would take her home. I had just fucked her the night before and that Sunday morning. Anyway, I get to the venue and she was had invited one of her own plates there. I did not care she was hooking up others I had 0 emotional investment in her, but no less thought it disrespectful. I enj… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Repairing attraction with a girl? Does it ever work, How to behave if it does?Come back when she does. What's the point of wasting time on this unlikely uncertainty. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Will guys be intimidated to date me later if I don't settle and marry young?Avoid the needy. That's just me--this sub has made me real cynical and I wouldn't have it any other way. It's not that I wouldn't believe a girl prefers icecream over poppin bottles, but it would take time watching her actions. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Will guys be intimidated to date me later if I don't settle and marry young?I dated a girl like that--she'd rather walk away than get hurt. She had some deeper issues. Maybe take a real good look in the mirror to see if what you're claiming is really true (you're ok being alone). There will always be a guy desperate enough to date you; but, whether it's the guy you want, who knows. Depends on the guy. Me personally, I'd take it as you riding the cock carousel for all those years, plop you in the fuck only category, and write you off as any possible LTR. So not necessari… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/17 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Q about liftsYou can do 3 sets of 8 for those lifts orany variation of a higher rep scheme (5x10, 3x12, etc.). They're supplements to the main lifts. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 03:13 PM |
| 0 | my hot girlfriend is insanely insecure about her looks... could she be BPD?Sounds like body dysmorphic disorder. That's some serious self-loathing. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 12:40 AM |
| 6 | Girl says "drunk kiss" was one time thing and won't happen again.Disqualify her. "Thank god worst kiss ever." | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Gf acting distant and weird. Confront or ignore?Ignore and instill some dread. Flirt w other girls. May be something bigger at play causing her change. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone ever had their testosterone checked?I've gotten it checked. At 28, I was outside the range on the high end but don't exhibit a lot of those qualities associated with high testosterone (e.g., my rational mind controls my aggressive responses). As for what to look for, you can find that stuff on the internet. For example, your levels of free testosterone are more important when considering gym gainz. Most steroid users get their test checked so you can prob find some info on those forums/sites. As for the test itself your doc can do… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | The prevalence of broscience and pseudoscience in this communityI think you should preface with your qualifications interpreting scientific studies. Would increase credibility. Nonetheless, glad to see some science. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/17 01:19 PM |
| 6 | Male sexual needs = female commitment needsSource for them having greater sexual needs? I don't disagree that women are sexual and have sexual needs but your comment directly contravenes this post by Tomassi: https://www.google.com/amp/s/therationalmale.com/2011/10/04/women-sex/amp/ Take it as you will. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Tax Lawyer here - What is a Trust?Good post man. Trusts are a useful tool in the kit. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What to do after Stronglifts 5x5?He should continue to build a foundation with SLs before doing this. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 01:18 AM |
| 1 | What to do after Stronglifts 5x5?Use the below chart. Don't consider an intermediate program until you're closer to the intermediate numbers on the chart. Also, take a look at my post on lifting fundamentals. http://www.exrx.net/Testing/WeightLifting/StrengthStandards.html | /r/askTRP | 26/03/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What to do after Stronglifts 5x5?Stick with 5x5 and keep eating. You can definitely get your numbers higher before you switch to an intermediate program. Try the GOMAD diet to help with the weight gain before doing any gainers. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Shit or comfort test, or combination thereofIt's funny you bring up the the Brad test. Don't remember how it came up but she did tell me how she'd jump on Bieber's dick without a second thought. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit or comfort test, or combination thereofI've read what I could about comfort tests but the way you put it clicks in my head. I see why this wouldn't be one with that definition. Her I'm not a slut response is what threw me off. I remember reading somewhere that when they use I or me in their test it's more likely a comfort test but I couldn't find the post or comment to confirm. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Lifting: Programming FundamentalsI'm not familiar with the program so I can't really say. But if the program calls for progress (increasing weights) workout to workout then it's probably a novice program. If it's week to week more likely an intermediate program. Also, if your numbers aren't near the intermediate numbers on the source there's a very good chance you'll continue to see rapid progression. The only issue is whether the routine maximizes the novices ability to rapidly recover (novices should be able to increase weigh… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Lifting: Programming FundamentalsYou make a valid point. For example in the novice programs bench press is alternated with presses on a weekly basis. You'll bench Monday and Friday, and Press on Wednesday on week 1 (workout A) and on week you'll press on Monday and Friday, and Bench on Wednesday (workout B). The same can be done on novice and intermediate programs as well, e.g., The Texas Method also alternates presses like that. In addition, it alternates pulls form the ground--heavy deads on Monday and lighter but more explos… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Lifting: Programming FundamentalsNot an injury from squatting, but I do have a tight groin which gets aggravated if I do begin to overtrain. So I try to stay conscious of that. A light week of squatting usually does the trick though. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Lifting: Programming FundamentalsAgree. Supplements are exactly that, a supplement to your diet. Abs are made in the kitchen. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Lifting: Programming FundamentalsCheck out the book Starting Strength, there is a chapter on the squat. For the normal stance, heels should be about shoulder width and toes pointed out at about 30 degrees. Most people usually have to narrow a stance. "Excessive width tightens the hips at the bottom, and excessive narrowness prevents adductor stretch and causes the quads to jam against the belly in heavier trainees, both of which prevent proper depth." Page 13, Starting Strength, 2nd Edition. Your ideal form is ultimately going … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 11:10 PM |
| 14 | Lifting: Programming FundamentalsAlthough I don't mention it above, Rest can be too long if your muscles actually cool down and are no longer primed for a work set. I agree, a novice will see better progress on a full body workout (although a novice will see progress on any type really). Stronglifts and starting strength are both full body. On your third point, those repetition schemes have different goals--3x8 is more hypertrophy and 8x3 is strength training. It also depends on your level of experience. For example, 3 sets of … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Lifting: Programming FundamentalsStart with stronglifts or another novice program to build back up to where you were. If you jump right in with an intermediate program where your old numbers were at or close to it, there will be a greater risk of injury. You also won't be able to lift the same weights you use to, and using an intermediate program to get back to that point will be slower than a novice program. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/17 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Disrespect from LTR, ghosted her, guidance for future steps is appreciatedI think the best route would to just act normal once the program is done (don't do anything nice though, like take her out to dinner after). With your actions, she'll know what she did wrong. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been the chad she brunch swung to? If so what's your story?Can confirm. Happened twice (before TRP). Both branch swung to me and both branch swung from me. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 11:42 PM |
| 36 | Approach Anxiety: Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady"There’s a girl who wants to meet me." Love this line. Puts you in a great mindset, i.e., the prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/17 08:30 PM |
| 8 | How would you respond to "do you just want sex" text?I got this same exact text after hanging out w a girl for the first time. "Are you just trying to fuck" I responded "if you make a good sandwich I might keep you around" "Hahaha I can do that" I slept with her the next time we hung out and still sleeping with her. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 02:44 PM |
| 2 | How to shutdown bitches at school nagging for your homework?"I won't give you the answers but I'll come over tonight for a little one on one study time." Make sure you're studying the body though (escalate). | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Question regarding my workout routineRead Practical Programming by Riptoe and Kilgore. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 09:58 PM |
| 9 | Girlfriend texting another guySimilar story: My ex went out drinking one night, came over after and passed out. I was trying to fall asleep and heard her phone go off. I check and it's a text from a random number saying "get home safe" or some bs. Shortly after, she branch swung. She's entertaining the possibility by not shutting him down. Keep that in mind. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What is oneitis?The exact words that left my mouth... then I read your comment. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on moving forward with two girlsI agree and especially after she said she was pretty free lol. I'll take a look thanks. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on moving forward with two girlsThat's what I was thinking. I just didn't want to come off as needy or thirsty. How do you suggest I approach it w girl b since I left the ball in her court? "Hey how's Friday looking for you?" Or something to that extent? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on moving forward with two girlsMy priority is to pay down my student debt and to travel with the extra money. Girls are maybe 4th on my list and it hasn't been an issue with them yet. Would I be more successful with girls moving out? Yes. Do I want to move out? Yes. Can I afford it? Yes but with a tighter budget and less financial freedom. I'm thinking for the long run and don't want pussy chasing to make my life decisions. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Serial daters: what's TRPs take on these women?I really meant as women who jump from one relationship to the next. Serial-monogamists? May be a better term. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Opportunity to juiceThe standard I'm referring to is relative strength not absolute strength as you are referring to. Take a look here to see what I mean. http://bachperformance.com/the-secret-of-absolute-and-relative-strength-for-athletes/ For me, I am no power lifter and have no interest in back squatting 400 lbs at 250 and looking like a house. Relative strength is much more important to me as I practice a couple different martial arts (judo and Jeet Kune do). Note: you're right leverage is definitely a factor t… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Opportunity to juicelol my dude, what are you talking about? Clearly, you're uninformed. For my body weight to lifting weight ratio, I am very strong. For example, you're benching 1.43 x your body weight and I'm benching 1.54 x my body weight. Same thing with squats: you're squatting 1.79 x your body weight and I'm at 1.74 (for reps) (300x1x5 just today). Can't get an accurate picture of strength without recognizing body weight. The 250lb guy back squatting 400lbs is weaker than the 150lb guy back squatting 400lbs.… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/16 12:47 AM |
| 47 | Got called a bunch of racial slurs today...Look up to see whether your state has a "castle doctrine" and then just shoot. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Castle_doctrine | /r/askTRP | 30/12/16 11:38 PM |
| 7 | It blows my mind that this is legal and women get away with it.Best response to the inevitable resulting shit tests after even mentioning it? "Omg you don't trust me" "Wtf is wrong w you" "I can't believe I married/dating/love someone like you" Etc etc Bitch if you got nothing to hide it's nbd. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 05:30 PM |
| 5 | It blows my mind that this is legal and women get away with it.Being a lawyer and having some idea of it, yes. In my state the standard is "best interest of the child." So if a man makes himself out to be a father figure, the state will impose those duties on him. Sucks. Even if you're dating a woman and you become part of that child's life for a couple years who sees you as such, the mother might be able to get child support from you. This is a quick run down and more is involved in determining but keep it in mind. Family law varies by state. Good luck. P.… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | When she's being passive aggressive, call her out on itWhat if the situation isn't so black and white (or maybe I am just not experienced enough to see it as such)? For example, girl asks you out for lunch but you reschedule to drinks that evening because you have shit to do. She then never answers your reschedule. This would be the bad. You react appropriately with silence. Two days later after silence on both ends she asks you out to lunch again. Do you agree to go/reschedule or continue to punish with silence. This would be the good. So do you no… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Opportunity to juiceInteresting point on the risk and reward. I didn't consider that. To answer the why, it's because I think I'm nearing my limits. There is no point to take steroids as a beginner or moderate lifter as gains and progress are made pretty rapidly on a linear progression routine. As gains have decreased quite a bit as an advanced lifter, it is unlikely I would be able to put on 10lbs of muscle and the corresponding strength. Would probably take a years, if possible. And because I've always had little… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 07:59 PM |
| -1 | Opportunity to juiceSomeone's angry. Breathe friend, everything will be ok. A simple "could you specify/clarify the substance" would have been sufficient. But you're right, I should have specified: since it's my first cycle , it's Test only. Also, the specific substance isn't necessary to discuss the self-improvement aspect of TRP and taking performance enhancing drugs. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/16 07:51 PM |
| 11 | Get A Mentor - How I met Mr. RPA 52 year old Italian guy getting first night lays in a prude and socially repressed country is playing the game on hard mode. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/16 06:55 PM |
| 1 | RP psychologists in NYC/Queens/Brooklyn/LI areaMaybe I wasn't clear. I was asking how to find a RP psychologist that has experience in treating individuals with issues stemming from a bad relationship--not how to find a relationship. I have been sleeping around but it only helps that night/in the moment. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/16 11:35 PM |
| 26 | HOW TO GET LAID LIKE A WARLORD: 37 Rules of Approaching Model-Tier GirlsGreat post but one question. Why persist so much with one woman who puts on such a strong front? Why not just cut your loss (time and opportunity) and find another girl who might be more interested? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 01:59 AM |
| 1 | "All the vacation pics weirded me out"Yeah, because soon after that she told me she started seeing someone and that was the reason why -- the pics weirded her out. I think it was just a bs excuse. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I post a picture of myself, & if so, how do I do it?Gave me a great giggle. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/16 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Intermittent Fasting – The Optimal Method For Fat Loss?Been doing it for a few years, and like OP said, I enjoy it for the psychological benefit. I stuff my face at night and feel no remorse while losing/maintaining. Also, I think it's important to note that in the beginning you will feel hungry, but this will subside in time. The hunger is controlled by a hormone called ghrelin and is released based on your regular eating pattern. After a while of skipping breakfast and lunch you won't release the hormone or less amounts of it and thus won't be hun… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/16 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Telling a girl what plans areI agree, which is why I decided to reschedule. Also, I should have mentioned this girl is an old fwb who hit me back up recently. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Telling a girl what plans areThanks for the comments - I see where I went wrong. Where do I go from here to set up future plans? Do I use and outcome independent response such as "I'm going to X tonight for X, join me" and then leave the staying over out of it? But'll it be in my town, so it'd be interesting to see f she'll make the round trip. Also, do I mention anything about agreeing to ask her next time -- my feeling is to not bring it up again and just show her through action? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/16 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Is there any actual evidence of girls cheating during bachelorette parties?I second this. Best friend (natural alpha) was a male stripper for a couple years in a big city. One thing he told me is that if your fiancé has a male stripper at her bachelorette party, do not marry her--they always do something they're not suppose to. Witness statements are real evidence albeit not the best, but the best you're probably going to get. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Going to VegasInteresting, thanks for the heads up. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/16 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Did I handle this right?Thanks for the replies. I'll keep all this in mind next time I encounter this scenario. Gonna opt for sticking around and responding with amused mastery. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 12:00 AM |
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