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Go scorched earth after the judge signs off.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/26 05:37 PM
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When I saw that she became emotionless and only saw me as a provider/roommate. She pulled away for 6 months before she left me and I just let her go. We fucked a few times - It was great, but didn't help me at all. I filed because of her treatment and threats to take the kids. That's when I started to hate her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 03:23 PM
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I'm not in a communal state. Also, I have no savings - 401k - equity in home. Guess that comes with covering everything. I do have VA disability which can't be split; however, it is income.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 02:44 PM
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Gluck brother. I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s a dude on the side. Sounds like she will 100% use the dog against you. I hope that’s the case because once I stopped worry about the marriage - my parenting skills excelled!
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:32 PM
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I’m afraid that will happen as well. Hopefully it’s genuine, if she remained engaged during the separated (she initiated) I wouldn’t even care. However, dropping her pack for 4 months is ridiculous.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 01:09 AM
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That or her single mom friend group. She has an attorney, if they knew what I possess. She’d tell her to settle down. Idk I pay all her bills and she lost jobs (plural) recently. Don’t want to screw myself by not paying. However, I was broke for understandable reasons, now she’s using AI to send me inaccurate “gotcha” moments.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 12:36 AM
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Let’s say she fights the good fight. Right now i have enough to likely give me everything i want. 6 months later nothing is as prevalent.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 12:32 AM
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Will do! How’s does 500+ in alcohol spent in 3 months sound? Lol
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 09:31 PM
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Yes
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 09:29 PM
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I’m sure she has the figure already. She knows my income. She responded with lawyer pretty late. She’ll need a good reason to retract a sworn response no? If she had evidence she’d call it out I’d assume.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 09:25 PM
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I'll have recordings for mine when they're old enough
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:50 PM
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Sending a message.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:45 PM
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I already have everything I need tbh. Every claim is backed by patterns. I'll continue to get more with her temperament.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:44 PM
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She can't, there's a standing order. That's why I filed vs. waiting.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:43 PM
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Cruelty and Intoxication. She denied those 2 and didn't make a counterclaim against me. She could have if she felt I did anything.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/26 08:29 PM
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In my time in the Marine Corps, we were told someone's always watching. Conduct yourself as such.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 03:41 PM
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Lucky me, I'm in a one-consent state. In theory, her records (if any) aren't admissible - but if presented it can still influence the results.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 03:39 PM
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Dude, I was called pathetic man and husband. I paid for all of the bills. Since being separated (She initiated), I filed. Over the last 12 weekends (Friday-Sunday), she has been away a total of 22 nights out of 36. She's taken the kids out a handful of times and I have recordings of her bitching about my sweet innocent kids.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 03:32 PM
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Dude if she caught it on recording once she can easily frame it as your typical behavior. At this point all she has to do is wait it out and she'll be primary over the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 03:06 PM
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Dude if she's recording and presents it, you're done for... My wife left me and I filed - I've been recording the behavior you're describing, and my attorney says it's horrible. Also, mentioned the judge in our district doesn't fuck with that.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 03:04 PM
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Better to be exhausted now and have my children - I go to the gym at 4am just to be home for the kids in the evening.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 01:56 PM
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In theory, but most men don't put up the fight. As women assume they'll get it - men assume it's a lost battle. I started documenting and I served her for cruel treatment and habitual intoxication 2 months into separation. (She left me but wanted to reap the benefits until she felt comfortable filing)
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 01:38 PM
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I hope it gets better brother! Also, look into modest means, I got a lawyer for 900 on retainer and 150 a hr. Sometimes you have to let go and cover yourself. Not of the kids but put yourself in a position to get what you need. I know money is tight, but do you have family nearby? Move in with them and penny pinch.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 01:35 PM
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Did you do anything wrong? What kind of evidence did you provide? Was it strong? I have hours of audio documenting behavioral issues including alienation, gatekeeping, coercive statements (such as threatening to take the kids if I don’t agree to her terms), repeated suicide threats, and episodes of mocking or blasting the children. I also have recordings where she accuses me of financial or mental abuse but cannot provide reasons when asked. In addition, I maintain detailed logs showing she leav…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 01:33 PM
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Dude I’m exhausted… I’m drained… don’t want to lose any edge.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 11:49 PM
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It’s exhausting, she told me she was done but wanted to reap the benefits as my wife. She wanted to finish school and I pay for everything while she find a job. I was going to do it originally, but she kept threatening to take our kids to the other side of the country. I lawyered up and filed. I document everything - what I do for kids - housing - her behavior. I went full gray rock - she started having sex again with me but wouldn’t reconcile. Now, I’m still filing and documenting. Sex was a gr…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 12:37 AM
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Dawg you better document everything. Every time she leaves and comes back - things you do in her absence. She will weaponize herself as the primary parent. You steadfast and remain the father. Thank me later.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 11:19 PM
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Never admit fault to avoid confrontation. Also, ask her what’s so serious, if she doesn’t give an explanation let her argue amongst herself.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 11:16 PM
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Dude stop counting - she enjoys you being ruffled. Go on with your life. If you feel you must address, it and leave it alone. Counting 4 calls for 261 mins sounds a bit ridiculous. What will your attorney do with that information? Likely nothing. In Georgia, it's a no-fault state and wouldn't help. My STBXW is always in our old room and on the phone. IDGAF, I document it as I get home from work and I'm responsible for the kids from 6PM onward (Keep in mind they are in school). On the weekends, s…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 03:30 PM
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OG Triple Triple here.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 11:47 PM
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lol yea dude. “I would never do this to you” “My family isn’t in this state” “I didn’t feel special” You’re the only family I have here. If the roles were reversed I’d never do that. Now she calls me a roommate and threatens to take my kids to Cali from Ga. Weird creatures. Hopefully, I can find a down to earth woman in a church with morals and character.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 11:46 PM
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Delusional. Plus the crap afterwards..... If you could hear my recordings...
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 08:35 PM
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Not trying to give real advice here, but I’m curious: how many kids are involved, how many bedrooms did you have, and were the kids interacting appropriately before you got married? There’s a good chance the two of you may have trauma‑bonded without realizing it. I’m all for blended families, but most people are working with a three‑bedroom home, and in that setup it’s hard to imagine the transition going smoothly. I’m not trying to rub anything in — I’m just saying that even if the two of you t…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 06:13 PM
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I haven’t done anything to my STBX. She pushed hard to get a job — something she resisted at first — and now that she has one, she knows she can’t quit without risking being imputed or looking unstable. Even so, she still threatens to take the kids to California whenever she spirals. Once she calms down, she walks it back, but you never really know what her actual intent is. The original plan was simple: split custody 50/50, let her finish her degree this year, get a job, and then find a local a…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 05:14 PM
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I felt that way initially. I started spending more time with kids and working out. I started to feel great, and my relationship with my kids and myself has improved! I even dabble with some other women here and there. She sees me doing great and spirals every couple of weeks. It's a great feeling considering she's left me. Give her the gray rock treatment. Additionally, I record every time she's spiraling. Giving me more ammo for the trial. I have an Apple Watch and there's a one-press record fu…
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 05:05 PM
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Mine was pissed I didn't plan or do anything for her. She left me a week prior.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 04:56 PM
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Dude, my attorney is drafting and should be ready tomorrow to get her served soon. Thanks for the continuous support.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 08:22 PM
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ABC — Always Be Closing. I love that scene. That’s a smart strategy, and I’ll talk it over with my attorney. Setting up mediation and a trial date ahead of time will either make her pump the brakes or commit to moving forward. I like that approach. I know I’m overthinking this divorce. I’ve seen a lot of guys get screwed, and I don’t want to be one of them.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 08:07 PM
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I don’t want her to fall behind on bills and have it look bad on me. Covering April probably doesn’t benefit me financially, but it avoids the appearance that I suddenly pulled support in a way that could be viewed as retaliatory. Whether she actually finishes school this year is unknown, so I’m not basing anything on that. How long is the timeline in Georgia typically? Will it likely get dragged out to next year?
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 05:11 PM
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Sending you a message
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 07:29 PM
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How so I'm in Georgia?
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 07:23 PM
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Sounds like my STBXW - Women are lost in today's society.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 03:24 PM
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Well my credit is jacked up and I have no assets. I have good income but still have the burden of paying for EVERYTHING. This attorney is one of three dedicated to the Atlanta Bar. She works for them under her own firm. She does specialize in family law as well. If I use modest means I can confidently afford to go to trial.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 02:40 PM
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Noted, I am concerned, she had a job making 45k last year plus a business that generated money during warmer weather (swim lessons) and worked under the table as swim instructor. She was miserable at her job which strained the marriage we agreed she should quit last June/July. She did however, continue lessons and working under the table. Now we agreed she needs to work but refuses anything under 45k. Her experience in very niche and particular despite manager experience. Think I’ll get boned?
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 03:38 PM
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Are you in Georgia? Does 50/50 justify no CS? What helped you pay no CS/alimony My ole lady is unemployed by choice she’s only applying for jobs she has no business getting. She hasn’t hit the year mark I just filed.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 09:42 PM
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Did you get your desired outcome?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 09:25 PM
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Do you know of modest means by the way?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 09:14 PM
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6/9 You’re the MVP you commented on my initial post.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 09:06 PM
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Give em hell.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 08:16 PM
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As a dad thats my favorite place. You'll find me in the meat section. Good luck to you as well!
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 08:16 PM
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I've heard good things about Paulding . They are more conservative and don't necessarily favor women, but who knows? 3 judges total, 1 being a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 07:45 PM
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And Paulding? lol
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 07:02 PM
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The kids are in a great school and one child has an IEP (receiving needed support). I just signed my son up for football (Will be his 3rd season) and I'm coaching this year. Seems like a no-brainer, the judge should dismiss it.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 05:31 PM
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Mine did and also wanted to find herself and seena therapist. I'm all about Christ, but the signs pointed towards divorce. She said I had nothing to worry about, but 2 months later she split from me. I called it, and she gaslit me when I brought it up.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 05:17 PM
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I appreciate the kind words. She wouldn't leave without the kids. I hope everything moves in your favor or already has.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 05:10 PM
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Even though we’re separated, she still talks to me like we’re supposed to be “friends,” but it’s really about keeping control. When I don’t agree with her or I push back, she switches to lines like “this is why we didn’t work” or “I can’t do this,” and the cycle repeats. It’s all about maintaining influence. She got angry when she found me on a dating app, even though she’s the one who left. I’m not even trying to hook up — I just need people to talk to. But the moment she realized I was moving …
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 03:45 PM
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I thought it was my fault too. Now that we are separated, I’ve realized she’s done nothing but control me. She was so good that I now think I’m a bad person. In fact my family and peer group think I’m great. People say I’ve the best partner they’ve seen (involvement wise). In the grand scheme of things. Don’t let her convince you you were the problem
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 09:25 PM
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Thanks for the sources! Really good stuff in there. Initially, I wanted to be conservative. Now, I’ll be filing next week!
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/26 02:40 AM
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Filing next week! I’m glad it worked in your favor, sorry you had to go through that!
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/26 02:38 AM
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Yea very unfortunate considering I never wanted any of this anyways.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/26 02:37 AM
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It went great! Thanks so much for your advice. They essentially said it’s clear cut. I’ll be filing next week! Such a relief!
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/26 01:57 AM
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Thanks for sharing. I'm going to retain someone ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 08:00 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I have a consultation in a couple of hours!
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 07:14 PM
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The thing is, I don't want her to lose parental rights or "go to war". I don't think she'll do it, but more so, she's pressing me to allow the move, which won't happen.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 07:00 PM
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Yes, I have a local family within 15 mins. Additionally, I can take my children full-time; it wouldn't change anything. Kids are in school, no issues there. I have a consult set up later today. Thanks for your advice.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 06:58 PM
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My main concern is money... Additionally, I'll imagine she'll lawyer up and her attorney will make me fund it? I pay for everything as is already.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/26 06:52 PM
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