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| 49 | Appearance matters more than you give it credit for. | Lifestyle | IncognitoBudz | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 04:58 PM |
| 36 | You'll never know never | Fundamentals | IncognitoBudz | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 07:39 PM |
| 26 | I did a thing | Field Report | IncognitoBudz | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 02:48 AM |
| 17 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs? | Conversation | IncognitoBudz | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Stand on business | Conversation | IncognitoBudz | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Store clerk advice? / checkout girls.. | Fundamentals | IncognitoBudz | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 08:03 PM |
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| 2 | How to text with a girl that doesn't ask you any questions?This is your world they are playing in act like it. Mystique is only created through absence work on your charm skill. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 04:01 PM |
| 3 | How to text with a girl that doesn't ask you any questions?You don't less is more. You learn this with age as you progress as a person and realise everybody has their own life's to live. I send a few reels a few DMS if they go unanswered or the energy is not what I want I'll just drop the convo and maybe reengage later if I'm feeling it or they will usually send something later on. The key is to act unbothered and semi uninterested. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if a girl didn’t like you or if she only wanted one night?I find it confusing do i take it as im attractive or as im just fuckable? Noticed alot more women doing this with me .. unsure how to feel | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 12:20 AM |
| 12 | Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss youGut feeling usually never lies , our bodys have evolved over hundreds of thousands of years to understand mating signals and energy. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 04:35 PM |
| 13 | Hard to get laidx10 if you look for shallow people you will find millions in the clubs and bars. Sure sometimes you'll find a rare apple but in reality the rare apples flock to their hobbies and favourite activity's. Think concerts for artists you actually enjoy, classes for X Y Z or even volunteering I guess. If you want to get laid clubs are fine , if you want to find a girlfriend look at yourself and think would I even date me? If answer is no keep working on yourself for yourself by embracing new experience… | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Gonna try and approach again today.People can read fear and happiness. If you seem like a happy go lucky person it shows and others will want to get to know you on the other if you seem miserable and act like you're doing door to door sales it will just sink you deeper down the rabbit hole of loneliness. My two cents | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I think I need to give up on datingI think giving up caring for the result is better than giving up the whole process but that's my two cents. Talking to women is a bit like the gym, sets and reps. You eventually have gained so much muscle(charisma and charm) that you can attract effortlessly by being comfortable with yourself completely. It all starts with you. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 04:46 PM |
| 2 | I think I need to give up on datingIf you give up all that means is the guys who didn't will snag up the girl you wanted, you will regret it. You seem well put together and that must of required persistence so give this that same persistence you showed to other areas of your life/self. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Short (150cm - 5') manI never told him to be real, I told him I was just telling him the truth that height does matter to an extent. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Short (150cm - 5') manYou can but it will be alot harder just being real. Height is definitely an advantage that you will have to make up elsewhere, but it’s not the be all end all. There are women that do not care but they’re usually rarer than a unicorn and taken. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Why am I able to flirt effortlessly while being drunk but not when sober?Cali Sober but it needs to be only that, mixing it with nicotine just makes you an anxious wreck | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:22 PM |
| 84 | Where to find “good girls”Gotta make the moves g , you won’t find a spot or a place. To find a rare bird you gotta be a rare bird. Easiest would be school campus / Uni or work and after activities, easy doesn’t mean good though. Keep stacking your values and once you feel like you want to make the move do it. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Appearance matters more than you give it credit for.or you can be muscular well groomed and well dressed. anybody can gain muscle mass saying you don't need to just puts you below others who will go that extra mile idk. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Appearance matters more than you give it credit for.That's a fun saying | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Why am I so attracted to the “easy” girls?I don't think you understand my point. It is a breath of fresh air to see a women express herself through the way she dresses rather than her body. Women's body women's choice but I've always liked the quirky gyals so maybe that's just me lol. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 02:54 AM |
| 42 | Why am I so attracted to the “easy” girls?Yess exactly this, like when a women dresses well without having to show her body i just double take look them up and down and smile. Smthing diff | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls?Think Jason Statham | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls?It’s like putting on a suit of armour, you have to become the suit watch the guy ritchie video on this. Only issue is its so exhausting, don’t need to be asshole just refine the suit to your character and act in 100% certainty with aura. Easier said than done. | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | I did a thingSoo it's whenever I get past the small talk , it doesn't mean that I think I'm bothersome it just means I value my energy and if it is not wanted here then that's parts of the game. It's usually if they're doing something before hand but in reality you can always use it, I've used that same line in relationships before. It's about posing a close ended question, nobody will say "yes you're" unless they're a total bitch or dick. If they don't want to play tango for whatever reason they might follo… | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:53 PM |
| 2 | I did a thingOthers were there , she had headphones in dancing away 😂 I wanted to stay longer but you gotta leave some mystery. Give or take like 5-10 min convo maybe? | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You Keep Putting Women on a Pedestal—And How to Stop So Attraction Happens Naturally"Break ups happen because the connection had run out of its course. Many people erroneously think that relationships are meant to last together but that’s just wishful thinking. It’s like wishing for world peace, sure very noble very nice dream to have, but the reality is there will always be conflicts one way or another. Relationships are not meant to make them last they are meant to make you grow you as a person. We often think that if a marriage ends it’s a failure, but in reality its true me… | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You Keep Putting Women on a Pedestal—And How to Stop So Attraction Happens NaturallyEvolution is the only way I see it now a constant state of change such is the world all fleeting and here one second gone the next. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | The Real Reason You Keep Putting Women on a Pedestal—And How to Stop So Attraction Happens Naturally"Instead, rejection should be seen as a lack of connection, which is normal, rather than a measurement of your worthiness as a man. She is not rejecting you because you are unworthy or undesirable for women like her, she is just letting you know that her emotions don’t align with yours. That you guys are on different wave lengths and just doesn’t feel a spark because she doesn’t relate to you, in an emotional, sexual and romantic way." ^ Gold | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:10 AM |
| 3 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?You are not god, who gave you the power or such wisdom to judge others? | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:06 AM |
| 3 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?The promiscuous belong with each other, I'm almost mid 20s now and only slept with four women and I wish I could undo it all for my future wife. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?This is good advice. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 02:56 AM |
| 14 | I’m dying aloneGotta keep trying mate. Game is rough but success is found in persistence. | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | what is the ideal physique for attracting women?The one that yaps a lot, serious answer compression shirts. I've had a few women I was dating comment on the gym shark black compression shirt and how it does things to them, I'd say the perfect physique is lumber jack build. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Stand on businessNever said I was rude to anybody? Is it rude to choose myself and act with confidence? | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn game/flirty fun on the flyWriting down small details is criminal but thank you general. 🫶 As a women once told me “women love details”. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 04:40 AM |
| 2 | What is the gym equivalent for females?Change gyms,, my main gym has this issue. Switched to this one in a slightly nicer area with nicer people((I'm kind of attractive i'd give myself a 7, i have quite a decently built physique which definitely adds point + height on my side. Noticed way more women checking me out and not being afraid of eye contact/ looking my way so I guess it depends on the place and the experiences they've had within that area. | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Realisation that girls actually want me to approach them most of the time.Most girls said the same amen | /r/seduction | 31/01/25 12:50 AM |
| 74 | Seriously…🤦🏽♂️Don’t lose your frame just because you want to get a dateA man with self-worth doesn’t let a woman dictate the frame. He stays playful and teases her about it, making it clear that he’s assessing her just as much, if not more, than she’s assessing him. ^ | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 04:21 PM |
| 3 | If you could summarize in a phrase the right mindset in dating success, what would it be?Works surprisingly well, being a little slower moving but charming is OP. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You UnstoppableYou’ll see others struggling to cope with rejection from a crush or a job loss, and it won’t faze you. This ability to persist - no matter what - becomes your superpower. It’s like a muscle you’ve trained to the highest degree. And once it’s developed, you can apply it to any area of your life. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | At the gym it’s happened twice now a girl and me look at each other a lot for multiple days I sense she might be single and seeking attention or something but don’t approach her then weeks later she shows up with a boyfriend probably a guy that approached her at the gymTake the shot or somebody else will. Hustlenomics 101 Next game you got to shoot to score. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | I’m tired of taking LsBe yourself brother, ignore the noise. Just be a regular person. When I was myself and just didn't care I got the most chances and success, when I've cared and been in this weird mindset it has thrown me off. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | getting rejected on all approaches i made yetThe game reward those that do not fold. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 01:36 PM |
| 30 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.Woah that hit , "you see women as tools of self-affirmation to measure your own worth based on their acceptance or rejection of you." So basic and yet such an underrated fundamental. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | How to approach a girl at work in this acenario+++++++ Honestly unless they're a really cool down to earth person the juice is not always worth the squeeze. | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 11:17 AM |
| 5 | Fundamentals: Uncomfortable Truths on what makes a woman want to settle downUncomfortable truth what makes a women want to settle down; the exact same thing most guys want. Company, love , peace | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 04:32 AM |
| 11 | What healthy and uplifting advice do you have for a soon to be 22 year old virgin?It's like riding a bike, you eventually just learn and do it. You may not always want to ride the bike and can start at any time you want. Courtship and sexual encounters is just a game , practice makes perfect. After a while you just discover what ticks and what women you gravitate too. ((hint; you usually have less choice in picking who you like than you think)). | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Does love still exist or is it all a game?Love is an emotion a fleeting feeling that we capture and share. Respect however and admiration for somebody is longer lasting. You require both in tandem to make it truly work IMO | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 10:40 AM |
| 7 | Gym game?Candid chance encounter, I love it! This is women coded. Most people don’t want forced interactions they want to be swooned over through charisma and excitement. Tug the thread and then play it cool as a cucumber and act like you didn’t even do anything. Then proceed again with that same thing over and over till they’re hooked on you like a drug. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Is too much fun a turn off?I thought the other guy was good.. this guy cooks. You’ve just explained the story of my life, it’s like they press the buttons slowly and subtly constantly to change your character before you know it you’re sipping soy latte. The less you conform and remain in your original frame the more fun they have? | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How to ask girls what they want from me without directly asking?Yupp | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 04:51 AM |
| 0 | When a woman gives you that "I’m interested, but I’m not gonna make it obvious" vibe... is it working?There's a fine line you're right! Too much and you're seen as open, loose and easy. ((I've had these girls try it with me, they could be drop dead gorgeous and I think my response would still be "meh". Most of them are in relationships now from what I see, sometimes I think that could be me but I don't settle and I hope my future wife does the same. Then there's the charismatic bunch, I think a good way is to add plausible deniability((shoot some jokes out and see how they stick)). Girls I like … | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | How do i approach girls at the gym ?She has to be into you bro otherwise the interaction will be awkward ICL. I've been on both ends, approached got shut down nicely and left it. Been approached by a few women now that I was not interested in and it's kind of annoying when they come up and you already know what game they're playing like I'm here to train and go home bro. Just say hi , something so simple as I just wanted to say hello "nice comment" have a nice day! The main priority should be starting something organically and mak… | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 03:21 AM |
| 20 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?Abundance, there's more women just around the corner son. Don't get stuck on the one when there's women who'll treat you far better, don't accept shitty treatment from anybody. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | How many of you fake being into things like astrology and tarot cards to get laid?Fake? What in the taurus rising pisces moon and venus sun ?? 7/:00 I had a date with an astro girl once, talked about astro signs and how she’s into tarot too. I joke about it, she goes everythings set in place when i ask her for more details. She goes like the road we’re walking it’s meant to be, i go what if we turn this way? She laughs and goes but we’re going this way , i go but what about that way? 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to and bond with women in a non-romantic way especially in social settings (college, gym etc) as I do with men?You’re not wrong it is a dance of push and pull. Most guys go too warm and get hit with the frost bite once they can’t cool it off. Then again drunk people will just hook up , rather than play the game biology takes over . | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Why am i still striking out?Just make them laugh dawg. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Should I have made a move?When this happens and a women seems unapproachabls and i find her attractive ill do it anyway. You find her beautiful go tell her bro :) The first step is to just act, it doesn’t have to be perfect. If you click you click, if it fails then you can walk away knowing you had the confidence and balls to say something. If you can compliment one dime, you can do this many more times with maximum confidence. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Being called sweet a death sentence?My favourite is when they go „fuck you” in a flirty manner, i chuck that frisbee back with a „ i know you’d love to”. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 07:19 AM |
| 6 | Anything work if a woman matches with you online dating then doesn't respond or vanishes?Yeah find a new one 😂 , keep it moving only way | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Should Autistic Men Not Even Try?Women have a thing called emotions buddy. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I can’t force things. Feel like a lot of us van relate.I'm from the UK lad it's tough most women are scared and rightfully so thinking that our own police are endangering them too with some of the scum bags in the news. Your job is just to make them feel comfy, its a slow burn but it's better to keep trying than to give up and remain alone. Keep pushing! | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Should Autistic Men Not Even Try?I'm autistic? Had a girl approach me at the gym an hour ago for a plate it wasn't about the plate there's like 20 of the exact one. Autism has nothing to do with it, if you're semi attractive and have a fit athletic body the cards will stack in your favour sooner or later. The first step is treating women as people, regular people. Act as if they're guys if it helps you. The second is going out of your own way to compliment or start conversations with people, male or female it works all the same… | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 11:06 PM |
| 2 | I can’t force things. Feel like a lot of us van relate.He's right every-time I've seen a women with lust or sex in my mind, it's gone left. Most times I approached indifferent it ended up in scenarios I didn't see coming. All about building up mystery and allure. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I can’t force things. Feel like a lot of us van relate.It's just vibe you got to chill it out at the start and make it very casual, talk about your favourite snack , food the weather or who knows what else. Then you ease into joking , followed by joking is flirting and that's when you make or break. I've used this on a few ladies, and I'm pretty confident in saying that this works for men or women. Max Charm stat lads | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 03:04 PM |
| 3 | How to get more girls and NOT be content with waiting to get luckyIt's just volume really, if you put yourself in social situations and constantly say hello and put yourself out there a few hundred times. A few simple interactions a day and you'll know what to look for in women that are interested in you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?Can confirm I am those men, I didn't even know that the shoes thing was a compliment. Until the women is physically trying to beat me up I'm not aware of any attraction, I think I've pissed off a few because they always like trying to poke the bear. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 02:46 PM |
| 2 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?No drama, sexual connection you're already ahead of most in your logic which most good men will respect highly. Just go the extra little step in your interactions with people you find attractive, give them a green light of sort and make it fun. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 02:42 PM |
| 2 | The "I Accidentally Dropped An Item" Test?If i catch a women glancing in my direction multiple times this is a fun one 😂 squats guys | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:22 AM |
| -4 | What’s your best day game tips?Do you want a trophy? The fact is he’s right you can be broke under a bridge smoking meth and still have a girlfriend if you deploy abundance mindset. Most homeless do have romance alas , sounds like your problem is in your head you cannot be a “pick me” as a guy it’s just counter intuitive. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 05:19 AM |
| 24 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Maybe act less tense and try to have a better time in the moment? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?Chemistry is a big one , I’ve mostly only pulled or had eastern european girls interested because that’s where I’m from.. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 04:53 AM |
| 6 | How do you respond to rejection texts?perfect mate very mature | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I find best location around me for a day game?Uni Campus , shopping centre. Shared activity's! Anywhere your in a shared space and can make some small talk is a good start. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | You'll never know neverYep. Most of the people I know who have good relationships almost never stopped pursuing their SO. It's just how the game is you gotta keep it pushing respectfully and maturely. Nobody owes us anything we owe it to ourselves! | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:23 PM |
| 11 | How do you respond to rejection texts?If a woman does not want to engage with you for whatever reason and you get shut down completely, you leave it alone. Never chase , attract! | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:18 PM |
| 18 | How do you respond to rejection texts?Delete, next. You approached, they declined. You respect it and let them hit you up if they ever want to. Example; Had a girl I met off FB, texted each other quite frequently for a week. Met up after she was going a bit cold, the date went okay we talked had a nice walk. I ultimately unfollowed her because I didn't see it going anywhere, guess who I run into at the car show. Yeah its her and her friends, so i tag along walk around for a bit with them hit the show. Then a few weeks later, at 2am … | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?Didn't lose my V card till I was 17 mate. At 17 you're just starting to begin to develop a sense of style and a personality. Keep at this and then when the baddies come thru practice makes perfect young man. You can't get the lambo without going through a few broken down corollas. Not to say that Toyotas can't be reliable but you'll eventually realize all the qualities that make a lamborghini a lamborghini. Smell good, dress up a little in something that fits you, be a respectful gentlemen alway… | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 03:21 PM |
| 2 | You'll never know neverLast line hits hard. Keep trying the deck is stacked against us. We have to compete against anxiety, women being fearful of men, and most importantly our sense of self. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Bros Assemble‼️All starts with being friendly and putting yourself out there for interactions. All starts with you. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?I'd rather go clubbing than dating online. I don't have the time nor patience for that. | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?Ya just getting out in that scene | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?You right, guess it's just going through the motions of going solo and making myself comfortable/ confident on my own. I've always just viewed such connections as shallow so I was put off but it's a good social opportunity for my autistic ass. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?Very composed, thank you! | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?tattoos are a sign? LMAO if anything that's a ++ | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?NOT WRONG mate, still my autistic ass somehow pulls confusingly. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?< 3 Thank you for the report soldier! I just eye so many decent girls but I'm not one to approach unless they pick my eye so to speak but I know that looks don't always translate to amazing compatibility. Maybe I look for that spark way too much and for them to impress me in some way or other? | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Can you actually find good quality women at bars/clubs?You got the nail on the head mate, how do I filter? and remain composed? It's so easy to go through your eyes and just go yep. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Stop gatekeeping game.The problem is these guys are too anxious to go up to anybody because of their upbringing/conditioning amongst other things. So whilst Jamal may not identify as a women yet, if you imagine all women are just dudes or gender neutral it becomes the same thing. All you do is spice up the humour elevate it and tease. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Trying to improve after I realized I've been falling into the same cycle over and over.Ehhh she probably likes the situation enough if she returned. Ex probably failed in some way, she used you as a rebound and placeholder meaning her attention wasn't on him causing him to return. GAME IS GAME , happened to me., You don't really want these types of women bro, if they can jump ship to ship so fast then they're pirates. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Trying to improve after I realized I've been falling into the same cycle over and over.< 3 Lots of love big dawg! This sub has helped me understand things about myself I didn't even know. I placed so little value on myself that I would put any women who gave me an ounce of affection on the highest pedestal above any other. It's not there fault they're just as hard wired as us. It's a blessing if anything to have your time back, it means you can dedicate yourself to the hunt and being a leader and we both know how that opens up the waterfall. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Girls know what you are doing and it's fine.Pulling women is like dangling a 20$ note on a fishing line. Every now and then you gotta tug, you can't let them get the 20$ otherwise they cannot and will not want something they already have. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Whats your approach?Introduction, friendly become Jack Black comedy level. Detach for a bit go back for more banter. = PROFIT??? You just act like they don't exist until you want them to then light up their world and leave to do your thing. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet at places I'm not shitting where I eatLet the rumours spread king. You'd be surprised how well having one women multiplies into more options. They start wondering what you're about. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet at places I'm not shitting where I eatI love this sub man it's like putting puzzle pieces together from kings of game. You're 100% right familiarity breeds contempt so if we go for the unfamiliar we create more +++ | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Stop beating around the bush for that kissYou're overrating most guys. Most guys are awkward and anxious, I've had women gagging after 2 hrs. But you're so right that ruthless confidence is powerful. Anytime I've pulled to think of it I had ruthless IDGAF confidence. IDGAF Confidence and being playful go so fucking far. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | No Seduction!I pulled this move last year, i leaned in to kiss her. made eye contact leaned back leaned in again. locked eyes again and made out. Speaking faxx, most guys get the baddie then stumble because they move 200bpm. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Self hate/trauma issues and companionshipI struggle with this. You don't feel adequate because you're still a young dude finding his way. You want all your cards to be stacked in your favour, you want to be able to provide and feel masculine. Sometimes that can be done by something as little as buying a friend a meal or giving a homeless person some food/money. It sounds like you want something genuine, it can only be gained by being a genuine person. Think why would a quality women want a man who does drugs and is not mentally stable.… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | How to transfer to a relationship?You need to find a women who also wants a relationship. Not everybody wants something serious, some just want a release. True love is the highest form of friendship. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys keep going?Not everybody is built of the same cloth as you. Honour and respect is something which has been ripped apart by society. I'm not really shocked that most guys are now virgins and unable to speak to women. I'd say fuck off the dating apps , thousands of options at a finger swipe no good for you. Approach organically, make friends smile be happy fake it if you need to. Introduce yourself to people :) Not everybody is for you. I still struggle coming to grips with the fact that not everybody is for… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Sacrifice dates for piercing and tattoos?Women with tatts are generally a lot nicer and self aware too. They usually put more meaning in their ink than guys do. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Sacrifice dates for piercing and tattoos?I also love it because if somebody cares about some ink on my flesh and it's a deal breaker then they are definitely not the person I want and are saving me time. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Sacrifice dates for piercing and tattoos?If anything my forearm piece gets me more glances up and down. Yes some people will not like it but the ones that do will really like it because you're showing your authentic self. There's women that lust over tattooed gym guys like they're at a buffet, there's also ones that hate tattoos. Why care about others opinions it's your body! | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Anyone with Coffee shop game ?Coffee-shop game? I don't have any games but I heard PS2 is good mate. The thing with games is you can play them all on the same console usually. ( any where) I don't understand why guys think in there head that a woman will be more receptive at a coffee shop than a gym or even a morgue? People have met in all sorts of places, there's widows that have been ran through after that casket has closed. Attraction humor and confidence. Smell good , look good, be good! If I catch a women's eye I'll app… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 10:56 PM |
| 6 | Sexual tensionFlirtation and teasing. Make a women feel child-like and that lock unlocks real fast. Keep them guessing! | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?Goal here lads is to instill familiarity thru constant exposure. You sub-conciously kill two birds with one stone, on one hand you take her off the pedestal as you now get constant interaction and on the next you are now 2 steps ahead of other dudes because you planted the seed of being a friendly and confident individual. Most women have guys hit on them 24/7 , you can win a number or IG over but you don't really know this person yet. You are the prize gentlemen, approach doesn't equate to you … | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?Not sure all women would agree with you. I've had more women approach me than I've approached at the gym. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Should I approach women at my gym?You can but make it friendly and light hearted. I don't ask for numbers or socials in general anymore, I just have a nice interaction wish them a great day and move. If it's mutual energy then you can move forward to showing your interest. You can look just don't follow them around like a lost puppy, it's weird and I've seen women feel so uncomfortable. I've had multiple approach me just by being open and happy/ confident in myself. Guys saying don't?? At most I've been slightly annoyed by women… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach women at my gym?Well put g, you either rapport build through positive light hearted interactions or go full steam. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How do I move to this girl!?Pro tip; Never DM a women you can approach in person it just shows lack of initiative. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Stone face when talking to women I approach ?I'm with the social momentum guy on this one, not every interaction will turn into you dating or courting somebody and that is fine. If you can have a good time by yourself with men and women, then people will just naturally gravitate towards you. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Women says I’m attractive, but I just don’t turn them on. Any tips on how fix this?Grow a beard and stache, wear darker clothing. make eye contact but walk around like you own the place and don't know they exist. act in abundance and it shall be given in a matter of time. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 07:40 PM |
| 3 | How to make women lust after you?he cooked the fucking buffet | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 07:38 PM |
| 3 | i look good and got a good physique but still no communication skills which is a huge drawbackThe physical only gets you so far before you need to RPE 10 that voice box till failure. Just think of women as men that want to laugh a-lot if you can make them laugh it's a very good sign. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone here been approached by an older woman/milf?Ughh yeah at the gym, a few times. Whenever I used to work, I always get one or two. Being well built/tall is an advantage, rock a beard and be open. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 11:16 AM |
| 0 | Store clerk advice? / checkout girls..Sure but when they speak my own language in a foreign country and giggle to themselves yeahh | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find single girls?I love reddit, mindset super boom. Talking to women is easy for me but the looking for a sexual partner part fucks me sideways, lets see how we roll. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find single girls?AHAHAHAH , truth. They turn single real fast when you walk in buff with confidence and charisma/ humour to light up a room on fire. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern datingWhenever I was detached I got the best interactions you're right.. it seems counter intuitive but keeping it short and sweet is top | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Emotional availability and starting to lose faith in women and modern datingThis guy fucks.. You've just clicked a switch off in my brain. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 08:49 PM |
| 4 | I get tons of attention from women but when i open my mouth i see all the attraction goes to the window.bro cooked | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:29 AM |
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