That girl or guy giving you puppy dog eyes or good convo, you can never know.

I've had the best flirtation sessions with taken women, on the other hand most of the women I've gone further with romantically or sexually I could never tell.

They give prime IDGAF energy, all you can do is mirror and make your interest known the likelihood is this person isn't picking up on your signals either.

If they seem like they're hiding something or awkward it's usually a tell tale sign, if they seem unapproachable or if you get customer support responses with little to no enthusiasm its a no.

The game is hard for us guys, because we're always expected to make the move but if you see a dime just say hello! even if it's awkward you may just make her day.

Thinking back though the women who were super down for me played it cool as a cucumber trying to sus me out almost.

If you just act like life is a massive social party you win!

I can bet my money on it that most people have never been approached by anybody male or female, it takes fucking balls to go fuck this I'm a bit bored lets try to meet people and make friends.

I'm not anything special but the candid IDGAF attitude is the most attractive thing a man or women can show.

Guess what I'm trying to say is who knows who you'll meet? you might make an amazing friend and that's totally fine because guess what she can also have some single friends :))

In essence just be a nice sweet individual who others wonder about and want to be around.

I'm slightly autistic, I dance at the gym make myself look completely deranged yet I always have somebody approach me every few sessions usually guys but my social batteries love it nevertheless.

To the young g's get out of your head, I just flow I don't make game like the others do I just look for genuine human connection. Think that dime could have a terrible personality or not be to your taste, they have to prove themselves to you if you are socially capable all that's left is to be social.

I had a girl at the gym, I found attractive. She gave that IDGAF energy to the maximum, couple sessions later she was trying to get my number(i had a ldr) at the time which wasn't going too well but I was extremely loyal so I gave her my number but didn't answer.

She spammed my phone with snarky responses like "oh guess you don't want to talk to me" and "how's things with your girl". I ignored it. She ended up getting quite pissed off and avoiding me all together from trying to greet me and engage every session.

Summary; Hot and cold is the tactic they use so we reverse it into our favour acting in a state of indifference. The only way to tell is to engage touch barrier but that's risky for most, if you engage touch and she lingers in it then those gates are as open as they can get.

TLDR; If you can get it fun and flirty with some excuse for touch you've won. Throw your balls at the wall and make them stick. I usually do this by trying to get their attention (poke or tap lightly) *warning* this is the make or break. if she's apprehensive or looks disgusted, get out if she's open and joking/ light hearted you've just done a move.

What usually happens after, is the women will engage in touch attempting to mirror you if not you got your answer.

Be nice and nice things will happen to you if you work on your own growth/sense of self.