So this was my ballsiest approach (headphones in) she was dancing at the gym. I just started dancing as-well because I find it fun.

Saw this cute asian girl in the corner, eyed her a few times think she eyed me but then stopped looking at me. I walked past her about to approach but she had headphones in, I pussied out then I thought not today fucker not today.

I went back towards her with her headphones in gestured for her to take them off, complimented her dancing and made some small talk she said she hasn't seen me in this gym before I said i go to different ones etc.

Asked for a number got the gram, she told me she lives across the road as she's a uni student. Im going to follow her back tmrw and drop something funny or teasing see if it leads to a fun interaction.

Headphones don't matter after all , just be warm and smile.

When I stop smoking weed I can socialize with ease, whenever I'm high I feel like I'm confident but infact I'm probably coming across as a mess.

Also another thing I've begun to realize is I've started incorporating the " am i bothering you?" line. It leaves them in full control to end the interaction but in reality you are in control as you're the one who proposed it and can keep your sanity/avoid mind games. I've also stopped complimenting physical attributes, I now focus on what they're doing or some funny assumption about them((works but make it basic)) this gives you an opener to flirt and tease with ease. If you shoot the "you're beautiful" you are out of cards already.

Overall I'm starting to think about seduction differently from the wise words of the OG users here. Keep them guessing forever.

The game never stops it only grows in difficulty as we go on, lets make some friends ;)