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I messaged you :)
/r/RedPillWives08/04/24 04:36 PM
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Thankyou ! A book I would also recommend is unconditional parenting by Alfie kohn
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 12:48 PM
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Yes men are financially more successful, but fertility wise, at 30 it’ll start to go down.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 10:08 AM
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Exactly! Men and women have a similar ‘expiry date’ when it comes to fertility, all this cope of ‘they never hit the wall’ men don’t have an obvious wall like women do, but as you said, their semen is useless after age 30 and the likelyhood of diseases is higher. I want kids at 26-29, it’s better to have them in my mid to late 20s vs early 30s and that’s why the option of a man in his 30s is gross to me
/r/ExRedPill10/03/24 07:10 PM
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how’s it cope? you’re coping thinking you can have healthy, functional babies at 40 xD clown
/r/ExRedPill10/03/24 07:07 PM
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Yes it is, and is there any advice?
/r/RedPillWives17/02/24 05:21 PM
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I definitely won’t block him and yes I’m not doing anything. Not even a letter or anything, I don’t want to look crazy at all
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 06:48 PM
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Thankyou, I know about the no contact strategy and that’s what I’m doing rn
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 06:29 PM
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How much space do I give him? And a 100% I won’t contact his family again
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 05:05 PM
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You’re right I can’t but he hasn’t come forward and told me anything
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 04:25 PM
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I done everything I can, I edited the post, if there’s anything missing I’ll add it
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 04:21 PM
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I wrote the post here and I’ve edited it
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 04:20 PM
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He knows 100% I love him and I hope he does, he talks so much about paying but I don’t care so much, he wants to do more for me.. but I don’t understand if he loves me why does he want to pay? I love him so so much and want us to fix our problems and be together.
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 04:15 PM
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I updated the post with relevant info but where is the submission box?
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 04:14 PM
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Sorry how do I do all of this and what is the submission box?
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 04:10 PM
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I’ve always said I don’t need him to provide for me at all, as much as I try to convince him but he wants to be the man so bad, but then all of this? It hurts me so much. I love him.. when do i reach out? Will he reach out?
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 03:50 PM
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20 and 21
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 02:50 PM
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Yes he lives with parents and I’m sure his father would know, I don’t think there was a family emergency. And yes I haven’t contacted him for since the day before yesterday, I’ve been staying strictly NC and wow yeah that’s so much pain.
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 01:54 PM
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He doesn’t have a good relationship with his dad unfortunately…
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 01:21 PM
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He doesn’t have a mental illness and yes we setup to come at 1pm outside where he lives and I came earlier but waited patiently and called him then I broke down and cried because I thought we were going to meet and no communication, no texts, no nothing and he didn’t text me the day before. Yes it hurt me so so much. And his dad told me when I eventually got myself together to knock the door and we spoke, he was nice to me I never mentioned anything about our relationship but made it clear I was…
/r/RedPillWives16/02/24 01:21 PM
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Thankyou! I got access to the book, I will be reading all of this and I’ll attempt to not be pushy. From here on out, thankyou, I’ll definitely use this to learn and I’ll try to motivate myself. 100% you’re right, he’s already doing a lot for me and I just need patience and understanding I just won’t bring up what he did.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:28 AM
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I can’t get a hold of it but she sounds like me and I’m willing to read it more!
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:23 AM
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And where do I find this book from Laura Doyle? Sorry it’s so late for me right now
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:12 AM
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Well the emergency would be something like I may need to contact him, incase I’m coming since I don’t even know if he has his phone on for that, I may have surprises for him, a situation such as his bday… idk haha
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:08 AM
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Yes of course I will spend time with myself and learn to love myself and things, I just don’t want this to go on forever
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 02:07 AM
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Sure, so your advice is leave him be, don’t be pushy and just be as submissive as I can be?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 01:45 AM
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I also am worried as his phone is also always being shut off, he says it’s for his focus as he doesn’t have the best focus with his phone but it concerns me as there could be emergencies. I’m sorry if I’m sounding selfish.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 01:43 AM
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So even tho we aren’t able to see eachother much, you’re saying I should leave it and let him come to me even if that’ll be as little as it can be? What’s your honest suggestion I should do?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 01:39 AM
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No I understand what you’re saying, I just want to fix this situation and for us to be inseparable, absolutely I want to fix this situation too but he won’t accept any money from me as he feels he’s the man and should be the one providing for me
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 01:35 AM
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You’re absolutely right but we also dont meet much in person and I personally can’t afford it as his neighborhood is safer than mines. I miss him a lot and would give anything for things to fix up. And no I’m not trying to be selfish i just want him to talk to me and atleast for us to bond, it’s nothing negative I’m asking for.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 01:28 AM
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No I don’t have BPD
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 01:10 AM
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I do agree with you and well I can explain the context here: ever since we became broke and had to go back to our home country, we’ve been struggling so much, I had to go back and live with my horrid parents he had to go back and live with his family, of course he doesn’t want to be there permanently but it worries me a lot as we haven’t been meeting as often and I want things to change badly. My clinginess is very bad as we don’t even see eachother much in person and just when he only sends me …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:51 AM
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Hey, I do agree with you, and well I’m trying to do my own thing but it’s frustrating because we are barely spending time in person either, it’s been two weeks since I’ve seen him (if I see him tomorrow), he always promises we’ll meet soon and to be patient but I just don’t know how long this can last?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:39 AM
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Also seeing him a lot for me isn’t feesible right now, I really cant be asked. Because I have to take transport and where I live it’s expensive I’d be spending 30 usd and also we both don’t live in the best neighborhoods, his is better than mines but still, I’d be open to this suggestion but right now I need communication. And I also am not making much money right now so it’s affecting me
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:34 AM
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We can see eachother on a regular basis as we do live closeby but he always uses the excuse of being busy, but this time he says I can come for Valentine’s Day and I’m meeting his mom on the 25th, so I’m trying not to fuck anything up as anything ticks him off these days (atleast that’s how I feel)
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:31 AM
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I’m not trying to be like that at all, I want him to enjoy wanting to text me and I’m not trying to come off strong by any means. It’s just today he didn’t text me at all and it’s causing me some concern, of course my expectation is that he works but it’s getting so emotionally painful that working and developing his skills etc is something he cannot balance with giving me time, and we’re barely meeting in person either; if I could see him every week or similarly to you, I’d understand but this …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:25 AM
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Of course but we are barely meeting irl and it’s not even twice every other week, I’m also nervous what if he doesn’t text me on Valentine’s Day knowing that he had agreed I’m supposed to come at 1pm tomorrow. I’m deeply saddened, I just want more time with my man, even if we meet every week and the online communication was similar I wouldn’t mind. I’m just worrying a lot.. I understand what you’re saying, but what do I do if tomorrow I don’t even get a good morning message similarly to today?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:14 AM
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We barely see eachother in person yep, and that’s why I want more time on the phone but soon I will be discussing with him about me potentially going over to where he lives and meeting maybe twice a week, it might help balance out the online communication that’s little and meeting him irl. But yes we’re not meeting much and it’s causing me a lot of problems. I’m meeting him tomorrow so 100% I’ll be discussing that. If we met often irl, I don’t think I’d be picky about our time online as much.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:05 AM
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So what do I do whilst I submit? I just am anxious what if I keep agreeing to all of this and nothing changes, I just want more time and we’re barely seeing eachother irl besides tomorrow and the 25th.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 11:59 PM
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How much time do you spend with your husband? And do you think if a man isn’t spending much time with you whilst balancing work and priorities that he may have little interest in you?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 11:58 PM
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I’m sorry and yes I’m focusing on trying to enjoy things with him 100% I just feel so shit because I’m not getting enough affection and love. Although it’s a difficult time and he’s very cryptic about what he’s doing for the rest of the day. I just hope his interest for me isn’t gone, I love this man so much and I want this dynamic to change so bad.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 11:52 PM
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I understand what you’re saying, sure we don’t have to talk two hours everyday but he seems so busy, for example he’ll message everyday but then he’s gone today without a single call or message and I’m worrying a lot. I just feel like if you’re busy you’re making some time for the other person, even an hour I find is reasonable. But he’s so obsessed with making money, it’s becoming toxic to me personally because I want him to find a healthy balance between me and work. I’m sorry but yes I’m bein…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 11:46 PM
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Thankyou, it’s just I’ve been emotional because all I got before yesterday were two messages and yes I know he’s trying to turn our life around but I really want time with him. I know to him he sees it as a reward but it’s making me anxious as though I’m doing something wrong, I’m being clingy but I love this man so much and want us to speak longer. Even if it’s text, he doesn’t text me those days when he can’t call, but I’d rather he text.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 11:45 PM
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