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| 29 | Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority?What women say and do are completelly opposite things Sure they want committment but also enjoy the freedom of getting dicked down by a guy she lusts for while on the look out for mr.perfect bf material. This is also why women have no issue hooking up with obvious man-whores. Cause they are looking for committment but also want some trial phase with attractive men. | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 01:44 PM |
| 1 | To those who managed to date one with 10/10 looks..In general difficult in terms of personality. Feels a lot like another work you have to invest time and attention into | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 05:46 PM |
| 3 | How to balance between girls and having a lifeIts better to build yourself | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Some guysThats very simple, if a woman wants to have sex with you will likely succeed. If she is not interested, then no amount of effort will work. Its not about the effort, its simply how attractive you are to her. Thats why improving your looks, sense of style, maybe broadening amount of women you casually meet, contact instruments you use or venues you go to is more important than whatever pick up b.s you work on. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:27 PM |
| 16 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?From my expierence its women and not the technique. If she likes you she wouldn't care much if you waddle like an awkward pengiun. If she has no interest no amount of effort likely be successfull or at best will invoke half baked interest | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:02 PM |
| 21 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?Certainly most long term relationships arise from some third party in common, be it common friends, same subject in college, social activity and on | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 08:00 PM |
| -3 | What is a Theory you have about seduction that you know is true but just can't prove?Lets disturb random women who may or may not be single, looking for fun or just minding her own business in hopes of taking one of them home with 12 step technique. In general life taught me to be vary of people who seem to be hellbent on one thing that "works" | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereLast resort a lot of guys seem to be butthurt about | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 07:44 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereFor me apps helps to root out the ones who do have interest. All the girls I matched with were either eager or super into meeting in person. Sure some women are just for attention, but its not so different from real life I think. Some women are extra friendly with zero interests while others are interested but likely may not let you know in person etc. Also it removes social factors like friends and simps that would otherwise be present in social occassions. Besides I don't think you can show of… | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 07:10 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereI mean profile and match is just a start. How you chat and engage can be monumental | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 07:05 PM |
| -2 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereSeems like an ego issue | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How did you go from zero to hero on seduction?Prioritizing myself | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 04:40 AM |
| 2 | What principle or belief do you always rely on?Mastery of your own inner world is more important than what reactions women may give to you. | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightI guess the women I saw are also paid actors | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 07:48 AM |
| 1 | You gotta realize that women have varying interestsNot really | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightI mean for sure, going out especially if you are with your bros or to events that you enjoy is better. The women I met are largely the ones who are in closest vicinity. I had hooked up with 3 and casually met with few. Quality wise the ones who I met are pretty attractive. My time constraint and distance keeps me limited so suffice to say that I am not certainly performing at my optimal. And since I am in active sexual relationship with one my efforts were more half assed assessments than actual… | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done right29, 12.3% body fat. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:42 PM |
| -5 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightImprove your appearance, style etc? | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | You gotta realize that women have varying interests168cm | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightAgree, for me its ultimatelly time management helper I also had the fortune of meeting pretty decent girl's through it. So all in all usefull alternative | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:22 PM |
| -4 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightSo your solution is to discourage others from utilizing something cause it didn't work for others? I got sh.t results in clubs cause I move like a log, should I also whine about clubbing? | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightI mean if you are good at and have time for physical approaches seems good. I'm not denying that you should physically approach. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightEhh.. it highly depends on how attractive you are yourself and kind of a mixed bag. Also women have surprisingly niche interests. A guy is a god's abomination for one woman can be the hottest guy to walk on earth for another. And the interest is not exclusive to her attractiveness. From my experience women tend to select men kinda how people select ice cream flavours. Some factors like being lean, well groomed stylish etc. are overall preferred of course. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:41 PM |
| -14 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightTrue too | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:33 PM |
| -27 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightYou can use temporary boosts to your surrounding area which makes it easier. Also don't swipe the ones you only like. My first mistake was using the free range and swiping on only the really good looking ones. Later I prioritized to just swipe on everyone without even bothering to read the profiles and taking a deeper look. Logic being finding the ones interested in me first and working out on from that point. This means sure that you'll match with pretty mediocre ones a lot, but also some good … | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightSeems like the hate is there | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:23 PM |
| 10 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightFor me the dating apps skip the whole finding out if someone is single or not, if she has interest or not, if she is willing to meet or not alltogether. Also just chatting with girls kinda help with understanding what works and what doesn't. Not to mention how time saving it can be, you have your phone everywhere, might as well rizz someone without physically wasting your time for it. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?Depends on how attractive you are and under what bracket you fit in If you are something casual for her - honesty works If she sees or wants something more serious with you, or may exercise that though - "yeah, I'm just currently focusing on my own stuff, open about dating but not totally obsessed with you r.n so that you would be clear about my condition and don't get hurt because of it" - gets you fumbled. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?Dilemma is not having the opportunity, but rather how easy it is to fumble it if you are too honest or show concerns for something other than your own pleasure | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?Difference between showing interest and showing relationship dynamic I would assume. Being honest about having an interest to a girl you meet at some club to take her home vs being honest about you not being fully committed yet to someone already does have interest in you would say | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:50 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?For starters, that was not my first intention more like one thing escalating to other until she was super comfortable around me. Also "acting" until now for me felt bad if it means that someone do grow attatched or hurt because of it. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:46 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?I guess some want exactly that | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?Yeah, I met a girl made out at my apartment and during the process let her know that I am not into serious relationship right now. So that she would not be heartbroken if things may not work out. So that night we just snuggled and made out. Of course few days later she do hook up with a guy that who is "serious". | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of Meditation when it comes to datingI kept talking about Vipassana and tried to teach. Apparently a guy who would rather meditate with you than screw you is also a plus | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Stimulating a women mindI play truth or dare | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Do women instictively know when you have options?I shouldn't be too fixated on their relationship goals. Some say they look for something serious yet get into the bedrooms of the guys they met very same evening. Others want just hook ups but cling on to you like a drowning person. | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 09:28 AM |
| 3 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.Trust me there are | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 06:37 AM |
| 6 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.Yup, though more of friends with benefits | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 11:21 PM |
| 8 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.Thats the hard part. In my case just going to event where people would share my interest/cultural aspects and online dating kinda helped | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 10:34 PM |
| 72 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.Women have different tastes. Hardest part is meeting ones interested in your category. Also embrace positive aspects of yourself while also working on lacking aspects. Its better to be best version of yourself than second hand version of someone else. Speaking as a nerdy short Asian guy seeing a taller girl who is specificially into Asian guys. | /r/seduction | 20/01/26 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Suit yourself, I also delete my own posts there | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Have you ever wondered that from thousands of women if you can't get few dozen geniune human beings liking you, that might be a you problem? | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?You know you can give a try yourself | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Dude, like I said I don't care, I just went for the numbers. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Hard to tell, I just didn't care that much who I swiped right. Just took a boost for a week and kept swiping right to all. Reasoning being its better for them to have more interest than I do. Also I'm below 12% body fat, so just having most of my pictures being barechested helped | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Do women instictively know when you have options?With their own Instas? | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:51 PM |
| 14 | Do women instictively know when you have options?I got my phone blown by nortifications and message requests while with a girl I was hooking up. She seems to be eager to meet me more than before now | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Do women instictively know when you have options?I would beg to differ | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:49 PM |
| 7 | Do women instictively know when you have options?Thats also surprising me | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:48 PM |
| 53 | Do women instictively know when you have options?I kinda accepted that most cases nothing will happen and if does, then I should not dwell on it. Oddly helps | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 11:28 PM |
| 3 | What are some subtle ways you can come off as needy without realizing it?People pleasing or trying to be helpfull, considerate etc. when not requested. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What’s the smoothest way to invite her back to your place?Pretended that I was really sick and might see the lord soon. Did some melodrama here and there and set my phone on airplane mode. An hour later hear the bang on my door. A dick move for sure, but worked tho | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 01:01 PM |
| -1 | Reflecting on men who's lives are ruined because of a womanYeah, its not easy to just ghost someone when she lives and pays half of your rent. Not that I couldn't pay it on my own, just was financially drained all the time | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 05:31 PM |
| -3 | Reflecting on men who's lives are ruined because of a womanShe activelly refused to break up. After 2 years I was already done with her. And kept asking for a break up, she would promise to change, treat me better and all. Also I'm a student joggling part time jobs and degree program, so my relationship with her was not that much of a concern compared to my immediate needs. Its just the life I had and I had to focus on more concerning of my issues | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Reflecting on men who's lives are ruined because of a womanMy ex only gave me a really nice handmade gift at my first birthday with her and made sure to celebrate it. The next birthdays were all just me begging her to order some food for me at chill at home. Cause thats was the extend of effort she could go for me. No handmade cute gifts, no letters and only presents when I requested. No calls to my friends for a surprise bday party, no trip to random event booked in secret. Nothing In fact she actively sabotaged, planned a concert event with her gf or … | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Role playing in the bedroom kinda screws up your perception of womenAlso prob why guys who can fight or can be really mean when aggressive tend to be more attractive to women. Then again women also confuse height with stength and fighting. Ironically biggest cowards I know were really tall guys | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 05:05 PM |
| -5 | Role playing in the bedroom kinda screws up your perception of womenI mean I don't want to be punched by a random baddie, get spit in my face and shackled on my way to grab a lunch. Then again would not be complaining if it did happen | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Role playing in the bedroom kinda screws up your perception of womenLol I hooked up one time with a girl who seemed to dislike men a lot. Basically she went on and off about how some guys at college made her uncomfortable, said something to her in a sexual manner or touched her inappropriatelly and so on. Whole time she expresses how she does not like to be objectified and intentionally dyed hair black and wears baggy clothes and all. Fast forward to her suggesting me to buy some condoms on our way back to the dormitory | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 04:57 PM |
| 48 | Role playing in the bedroom kinda screws up your perception of womenIts like its not the action but the guy that is behind it that matters. | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 03:16 PM |
| 52 | Reflecting on men who's lives are ruined because of a womanFrom my experience its really scary how women can emulate your interests and personality when they desire you. Nice guys called out a lot but no one mentions just how much of a "nice girl" women can be when they are highly interested in you. Its a slow and methodical process that deprives you of your personal liberty and slowly makes you emotionally attatched. Ironically being a dick and entertaining multiple women is the antidote | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationErm no... men do not seek validation for their romantic choice. And yes men do think for themselves in most cases | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationSure2 | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | The theory on "Non-neediness" in practiceI would say having your focus on something third. A lot of non-needy guys are like that cause they would be focusing on more concerning issues they are having, maybe a goal or just something other than approaching a girl. I mean sure, meeting someone, approaching them and getting to know them is great and all, but also its not your main objective in whatever social situation. Approaching a girl and getting potentially rejected or not would seem trivial if you got fired that day and trying to blo… | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationMaybe sabotage their meet ups by planning something on those days. If she keeps choosing her friends over you, then its a really bad news | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationI would say distance them in a subtle way | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 04:47 PM |
| 21 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationYou'll notice a lot how their moral compass and decision making is based on validation and not whats right or good | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 08:11 AM |
| 6 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationBack to the kitchen with you | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 12:00 AM |
| 63 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationYeah...according to women a well paid software developer who sits home all day is someone with less validation than a dj who gets to shine for few months. And not because he is great or anything, simply other people say it | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 11:48 PM |
| 17 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationA man's decision is not based on validation. No man pursues a girl cause other men want her and surround her, if anything its a turn off. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationIt doesn't matter Its a status symbol a person notices first in you. Its like wearing a nice suit and asking people for directions vs being dressed like a homeless guy and doing the same thing. Except you can't alter ir | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationTheir decision making largely run on social validations and less on rational thinking | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 11:42 PM |
| 107 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationThe rationality behind is that a woman would rather get mauled by a bear rather than be with a man no other women wants. You can't imagine just how much "I can change him" attitude women have towards guys with clear red flags if he is desirable by other women. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 11:40 PM |
| 42 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationNope, but you can observe it a lot A lot of times couple have fights or break ups whenever their gf's friends or new social circle dislike the guy. From my experience also, whenever third party person either respected me or seemed to like me my ex's interest or attitude towards me changed for the better. You can see the change even with same people on different social occassions. My ex's bestie hated my guts, long time female friend of mine came to visit. She started immediatelly being hostile t… | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | The quickest way to success with women is...Also if you are drunk enough I guess. Then again, if she's not at least moderatelly attractive you are not that committed to woeing her anyway. | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 10:17 PM |
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