What are some underrated qualities a guy can have that can be absolutelly magnetic?

NodsAndNuance · 2026-01-10T20:20:52+00:00

Having a contradictory personality: hobbies that don’t usually go together, ability to hold opposing worldview and perspectives at the same, being able to switch between fun, carefree, goofy, funny to depth, vulnerable, and focused.

jsbach123 · 2026-01-10T20:50:40+00:00

Being modest.

You never brag about something. It's more impressive when she finds out on her own.

For example, you don't tell her that you're good on the piano. Instead, when you're out on a date and there's a public piano, you just start playing.

StarshipLyssa2002 · 2026-01-10T23:22:16+00:00

The way they smell. As in, what scent of cologne or shampoo etc. they give off. It’s such a simple thing but smelling good beyond just smelling clean is incredibly underrated

karl_ae · 2026-01-10T22:02:27+00:00

There are some superficial things, like the way you dress, the parfume that you use, the number of languages you speak. This kind of things might turn some heads towards your direction. Good conversation starters.

And then there are more subtle but impactful things. The way you hold eye contact, how you speak, and especially how you articulate your point. How you interact with other poeple and how other people react to your presence. Your posture, the way you walk.

People put too much emphasis on what to say, but it's all about how you communicate your story.

Fnstyle · 2026-01-11T11:55:29+00:00

Perfume! Ive lost count on how many times i turned around when a guy with good perfume scent walked past me. The urge to stop them and ask tho.. but im shy!😂

SinSlayer · 2026-01-10T21:52:05+00:00

Calm

Cakehair · 2026-01-11T03:44:53+00:00

Intelligent, well spoken, good conversationalist, curious, and funny. Also nice arms ;)

pickupmid123 · 2026-01-10T22:14:56+00:00

A sense of purpose and direction. If you’re working on building something in life, and you’re passionate about it, that’s magnetic. Too many men are content to waste their lives away playing video games and then wondering why no one wants them.

Shoddy-Lingonberry-4 · 2026-01-10T20:02:57+00:00

Bodygame, 15% body fat or a bit lower. Face, jawline looks way more attractive.

Plus confidence, posture make a huge difference.

MendoPunk707 · 2026-01-12T07:22:50+00:00

Secure masculinity. There is nothing less attractive than a man who's insecure in his masculinity; and nothing more attractive than a man who is secure.

Acrobatic-Show3732 · 2026-01-10T19:58:52+00:00

ABS

Meaning, an automated Breaking system. If he has a car thats a pretty cool flex ;)

jocelmania · 2026-01-11T04:08:33+00:00

A functioning brain equipped with intellect and basic critical thinking skills.

Happyseducer · 2026-01-11T21:16:44+00:00

Being a good public speaker - SO powerful. It carries over to so many situations as well.

( great answers here btw I am happy to see some good stuff in here)

pferden · 2026-01-11T09:47:48+00:00

Playing videogames

Matter_Still · 2026-01-11T02:14:33+00:00

“Absolutely” magnetic? Like at all times and all places with all women?

Perhaps you should lower the bar a bit and ask, “How can I become a captivating conversationalist?” or “How can I become uncommonly charming?”

“Absolutely” magnetic? Casanova wasn’t.

Who convinced you such a thing was even possible? Even Hollywood’s greatest Lothario, Warren Beatty didn’t win them all.

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2026-01-12T03:02:14+00:00

Listen. The magic is in the details you can retain and recall.

JamesH000007 · 2026-01-10T19:48:51+00:00

Confidence

ThemeAppropriate575 · 2026-01-10T22:15:07+00:00

Bad boy

Alex-Zaander · 2026-01-10T20:33:58+00:00

Height 😊

Title	What are some underrated qualities a guy can have that can be absolutelly magnetic?
Author	IndividualPlay5178
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Date	January 10, 2026 7:46 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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