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| -1 | Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity?Sure you ain't lying about that? | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Am I a "lost cause" ?Idk if anyone's still reading this,and if you are,thank you, now,here's another article from the den of the feminazi she devil: http://pandagon.net/index.php/site/comments/some-advice-for-the-person-who-didnt-ask-for-it Now,I have to admit,I relate to that notion of being bothered by someone's,ok,some girl your seeings,past sexual exploits,and yes,you should be able to know and ask about it and judge her on it. I mean why not? Bitches judge dudes on pettier things. I mean,how many times do you s… | /r/seduction | 21/01/12 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Am I a "lost cause" ?Even though I loathe this site,the she hag feminazi devil who runs it,and the people on there,this post uh,seems rather interesting,including some of the comments: http://pandagon.net/index.php/site/comments/caitlin-flanagan-exposes-herself-on-the-radio I can't copy and paste the parts I want to,it highlights the whole thing,but read through it and I will point out what stands out. Comments #54 and #56 are the two that got to me so to say. | /r/seduction | 20/01/12 08:22 AM |
| 1 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.Mmm,not quite my problem,but I know what you mean. I mean,I have some serious self esteem problems. I feel,and have felt like,for a long time,or long periods of time,no one wants to be with me or be with me,and I know what they say about being happy with yourself first and learning to be alone,but when you're not even happy with that,what are you to do? It's like how the first guy at the top here describes: http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/talking-to-strangers/talking-to-strangers-san-luis-obispo-c… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 07:37 AM |
| 1 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.I know. I said what I said out of anger. Sometimes when reading such things,I get angry. You put it like that,and it makes me realize maybe I have been putting my sense of happyness into/onto others for a long time now. Know what I mean? Or I just haven't learned how to handle it. I mean,I've felt this way a long time,and it's like I have no control over it. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Am I a "lost cause" ?Also,I spend way too much time online instead of doing anything productive. Last night? at least 5 hours,today,probably so far a total of seven,this is beginning to interfere,not that there hasn't been problems before,with me getting shit done. I mean,fuck. Well,I think everything I've posted here speaks for it's self,unlike this guy,I read something like this,I say to myself,that's what I want or who I want to be,I'm not,and confused on how to get there so to say,the whole thing on value,all of… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 05:06 AM |
| 2 | I am Warlizard, AMAA. I had sex with somewhere between 75-90 women by having fun and enjoying my life. Frogma asked me if I'd drop by and talk to you guys.Why? Why is desperation,even if you feel it just a little bit,such a put off? Meanwhile,these bitches go out and fuck everyone else,but don't even give you a shot. I know I sound bitter when I write this,cause I am. Lot of reasons. I don't desperatley want to be with someone,but I want to be with someone,doesn't everyone? Good point about not making someone a priority only when you're an alternative. | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Am I a "lost cause" ?There's also this,on here,I read shit like this,both this part and the whole thread,and like,I get more frustrated as I can best put it,for a number of reasons. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/olvro/i_am_warlizard_amaa_i_had_sex_with_somewhere/c3ica8f?context=3 | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Am I a "lost cause" ?I have a great sense of humour. I don't work out as much as I should,I've put on some weight over the holidays,and I'm looking to lose it. I maintain hygiene,wear proper fitting clothes,and have been able to maintain it,with alot or little $$$. Living at home is/has been a big part of this. I should also mention I don't have a job now,I'm not nor are they very religous. I can't afford to be kicked out now,but I tell yah,I should have moved out long ago. I admit that. Part 4 I'm kind of drawing a… | /r/seduction | 19/01/12 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Am I a "lost cause" ?I actually didn't get your well thought out response. I didn't mean anything I said,and I'm not like how I am in real life like I am on here,I'm on here to vent and all. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Am I a "lost cause" ?I'm not black,you're a racist,why do you care what I say?,get aids and die so I can laugh,if you have nothing nice to say,don't say anything at all,so what if I hate,I don't hate,you're just an asshole,fuck you. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 09:29 AM |
| 0 | Am I a "lost cause" ?who are you again? you're a faggot loser,not me. I didn't ask for your advice. | /r/seduction | 18/01/12 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Occupy Romance?This is a great idea if you ask me. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/11 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Luck is an AttitudeBecause it's all a trick to try and get people to buy there shit. | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Luck is an AttitudeI get it,it makes sense to me, I still hate it and stupid alcohol commercials like this. Maybe it's cause I've stopped drinking,maybe I am smarter than some people, but I hate ads like this, and sometimes hate even more the people who fall for and get sucked into this type of shit. If anything, doesn't alcohol have the opposite effect of this, depending on the person, I mean, instead of having a fun night full of wonderment, instead,people get too drunk,angry,liquid confidence,which as we all kn… | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Question(s)What about say,physically? I ask this cause this issue sort of came up between me and the gf earlier,there has also been some problems/concerns..... Here's what I mean: Well,it's late and I'm dead tired and can't think straight. I've been going through alot the past day,relationship concerns. It's been slightly stressful for me. This isn't what I wanted to talk about right now though. | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Is finding girls via online a bad thing?My two cents/concerns: I've had more success with online than in real life, which believe, I am aware of the downside of that. I met the current girl I am seeing online,and it's been great so far. I would say over the years,online has/had become a crutch/habit. Why? Lot of reasons I guess. I thought it would be easier, but like he says here: "Just one thing - online cannot replace real-life interaction! Use it in addition to what you do in real life, not as an excuse to stay home (e.g. "Nah, I d… | /r/seduction | 17/11/11 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Is finding girls via online a bad thing?My two cents/concerns: I've had more success with online than in real life, which believe, I am aware of the downside of that. I met the current girl I am seeing online,and it's been great so far. I would say over the years,online has/had become a crutch/habit. Why? Lot of reasons I guess. I thought it would be easier, but like he says here: "Just one thing - online cannot replace real-life interaction! Use it in addition to what you do in real life, not as an excuse to stay home (e.g. "Nah, I d… | /r/seduction | 17/11/11 09:45 PM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Fuck you "them" what now? Go ahead and make some fake "troll" accounts, you're the one who will be failing. | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 05:45 PM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....It's official, I've spent too much damned time on here. It's starting to influence/sense warp my sense of reality. I'm also going to try and start less threads on here. I'm trying to feel better, I really am, but when you come across something like this, and this is what happens, I read something like this, and my self esteem takes a huge dive, this has been a problem for a long time: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/kb1xp/sent_my_girlfriend_her_first_care_package_hope/ The little s.o.b who … | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 06:21 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....My conceptions are based on what I see in front of me, not what I might see in front of me. Well, with a name like haterzgonehate,and not knowning your race,I mean, I'm guessing you're just another white boy wannabe. Don't you even see by using the name haterzgonehate, you're giving them recognition? | /r/seduction | 30/09/11 04:34 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Are you m or f? Just curious. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 08:14 PM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....I'm not angry and not taking it personally. I just wanted to make it clear I don't or did buy into the disney thing. Ok ok,hicks was a bad word to use,sorry and I didn't mean anything by it. I mean it jokingly. I'm trying to chin up and enjoy things. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 08:13 PM |
| 0 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Ok so you are white then? Cause you're response was definitley more white sounding than your name suggests. I told myself I have a wonderful sense of humour and have been able to make plenty of people laugh countless times. Ladies of high standard? Like your crack whore mother and sister? To each there own. Ethnicity has to do with,well alot sometimes. Esp if you're just another wannabe wigger ass white boy,which you seem to be. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 08:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?"I said the same as you in terms of how the friend was acting. The friend's a fuckin idiot (possibly purposefully being demeaning), but your goal in the interaction is to score with the girl. Even if that's not your goal, the friend was being stupid, and by having a good frame, you could "overcome" that." I agree, I really do, just I think sometimes you gotta speak up and say something. "In a lot of situations, that basically means you should either ignore the friend or agree and amplify. In thi… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 06:29 PM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Well, my opinion was pretty much already informed, I just wanted to hear what any/everyone else had to say. I will check that forum,thank you. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Well, how are they theoretical and not realistic? I do have experience with it, someone,esp a friend? I mean, why would a friend of all people do that?, like deliberatley humiliates you, why not stand up for yourself? I know what you're thinking. You're thinking don't react cause then you get pulled in and it's this little war of words and all that. I understand, but that usually only happens when said person responding has no sense of self control or self awareness. Perhaps I wasn't clear enoug… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Will do thank you. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:35 PM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Thank you for the heads up. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Well, I'm already feeling "forever alone", anyone who constantly humiliates isn't a friend, well, if it ruins your chances with her forever,clearly it wasn't worth being with someone who likes seeing you humiliated. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:25 PM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....what would be? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:23 PM |
| 0 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....I have a wonderful sense of humour. You obviously don't know me. And, are you white? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:23 PM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....I know it doesn't just happen, and I am trying to figure out how to make it happen. Also, I don't have some sort of disney based fantasy, I have my own goals. I guess I feel I've wanted a family and such cause I've felt the way I have for a long time. And I see it happening more and more around me. "The friends I have that do have kids are relatively less educated and wealthy than those who have put off marriage for later. " Hicks or something? "Personally, I think there is more to life than hav… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 06:47 AM |
| 0 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Well, what is chemistry to you exactly? I mean, I look at everyone else, esp some of the people in the r/gonewild section, posting pics of themselves having sex, the whole sex section, and uh, what am I/have I been doing wrong? Is it me? Is it them? Is it cause, well, and this is obvious, I don't go out enough or am not social enough, or just,something about me as a person? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:49 AM |
| 0 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Also, do I need to just mentally relax and try to just get laid more? Like how so many others have by like age 21, like this guy for example it sounds like: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/ktesv/never_been_with_a_virgin_any_tips_m21/ I mean, says it all :"I have never been with a virgin, but have slept with a pretty decent number of ladies" How do I be that guy? And I can't help but ask myself, why wasn't I like that before? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 05:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Well, I would say that's where good judgement comes in. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 04:26 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Well,that's what I've always wanted. And would like to have it now,asap in a way. I mean, I would like to be/have been with someone for a year now. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 04:23 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Yeah. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 04:23 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Well I need the money obviously, so that's a goal. But it just seems so many other people are ahead of me and I'm behind and it's overwhelming to me. I'm just really lonely. "You have plenty of time to meet her and have kids, be patient. Hold out and learn about yourself and the world, eventually when you mee, you will know and it will click. As a male, you can find a young thing who is plenty fertile because men go longer than women in terms of reproduction anyhow. And to boot, since you were p… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 04:22 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Good point | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Exactly, that's what I mean. Don't take shit from those who would otherwise intentionally humiliate you. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?huh? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 03:28 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Well, that's where we differ I suppose, I want to throw my whole heart into things and with people, I really do, but am hesitant due to past bad experiences and trust issues. That is probably the underlying thing as to why I have had the issues I've had. Or maybe it comes from getting older and learning and being more cautious about such things. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 03:27 AM |
| 0 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?No no no, it wasn't his brother who humiliated him, it was the family friend, and in that case, I wouldn't say that's a good call, but in some situations, it is. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 03:17 AM |
| 0 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Haha, well, that was an example to demonstrate my point. But I mean, imagine if we hadn't reacted cause we were so worried about ol Adolf interupting out frame, different story it would be wouldn't it? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 03:13 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Well, what for you is uncompatible/good/great/amazing etc? I would say I am a bit jaded for some reasons, but I know what I want/deserve. True,learning how to treat others properly so you can keep them is important,and vice versa, that you are treated right. I have some trust issues though, but I try to treat others right. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 03:09 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out....."I know a tonne of guys, and half married in their 20s, and the other half didn't. It's no big deal. You'd be best looking for official statistics if you really cared though." Well, I guess I just want to be with someone. Not desperatley, well, maybe a little bit, that's all. "I've met a lot of girls over the past decade which were an okay match, but only a very, very few that were a GREAT match and worth marrying. Like the one I'm with now ;-)" Good for you, I'm glad to hear I really am. "Most … | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 02:41 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....Mmm,maybe I will look into the navy. Ah yes! I should have recognized the name. I've read 200+ page books haha, I just get overwhelmed cause I have alot of books. Leaves you for something "better" ? Should we really be giving them that sort of credit? But I get what you're saying. Great Gatsby is one of those classics I haven't read yet, I know, I know...... | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Yup,exactly. But, I would say there are exceptions,cause it is possible said person is trying to help the person out. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 02:37 AM |
| -5 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Nope.....why you worried about my age? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 02:33 AM |
| 1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....I have thought at times about maybe joining the miliatry, it's an option. Military,Navy,Airforce,army maybe, I mean, money,pay for school,good uniform. They like a guy in uniform :-), so that's a possibility. Just saying. "But to answer your question, given the option and the right girl (fuck you, Daisy Buchanan) I would get married and have kids, and I'm 22. As long as I was 100% on the girl, and I had the money to provide, that is definitely my life goal. I hope it doesn't happen until i'm at … | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 02:02 AM |
| -1 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out....."Um, lets see, one is in a relationship and her daughters about 4 now, but she doesn't talk to the father, one has two kids in grammar school and also doesn't talk to the father, one is married but hates it, but she loves her three kids and is staying with the father for them, and one see's his kid who is about 9 every few weeks, his ex is crazy and lied about using the pill to get pregnant to try and make him marry her. They're all relatively happy." Really? I mean, good for them, and I mean th… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 01:58 AM |
| 0 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?"I agree with ineedhelp. With your friend sarah its one thing, but anytime a guy puts you down in front of a girl, its to establish dominance" Yup,exactly, and once it's happened to you once before,you know the signs and won't stand for it. But I mean, there is a difference between someone kidding around and someone trying to humiliate/dominate you. "Ive seen verbal abuse eat away at people and cause more harm than physical abuse." True, but I also think it's important to grow a thick skin. "1. … | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 01:53 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?"Again, I disagree. His response should not be valid enough for you to tell him to stop, because it is insignificant to you. You are only validating him and saying his statement as weight by fighting it. You stand up for things that actually matter, in this example he does not matter nor does what he says matters. You only fight for things that are worth fighting for." Well, I would say standing up for yourself is something worth fighting for. I mean, I agree you should know when to ignore such … | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 01:42 AM |
| 0 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Thats your call I guess, but there are other options. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 01:01 AM |
| -3 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Well, if you can't tell, not my problem. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 01:01 AM |
| 0 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out....."I know a few people who had kids when they were 16 and 17." And where are they now? The parents, and the kids. "I think you're expecting too much of what kind of happiness you'll get from marriage and kids. You just have to get out more, date and experiment." Perhaps. I see it as both a goal, and a way to fix some things. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 12:45 AM |
| -1 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Really? Or are you just saying that? | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 12:44 AM |
| 0 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?That was just one example of what you could do. It also depends on the person, and how much they may be trying to humiliate you. I mean, what's better, a physical fight over it, or an equally if not more humiliating tease. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 12:43 AM |
| -4 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?No. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Yeah, Hannity isn't the best. I just threw him in there. I don't know, O'reilly's pimp hand is strong and he def takes no shit from anyone, I also don't think he's worried about making himself look bad. "A better example is O'Reilly when he's on someone else's show. He's been on Letterman and Colbert and held his own both times. They were trying to get him to break down and either apologize or throw a hissy fit. He did neither. Instead, he just smiled and deflected the questions. That's frame co… | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 12:42 AM |
| -1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Ah, haha, I don't have herpes, I meant that as an example. | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 12:40 AM |
| -9 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Takes one to know one. If you can't take or tell a joke, you suck and need to get the fuck out! | /r/seduction | 29/09/11 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?Oh come on, the action of said person to elicit such a reaction is what cause the person to react to the person being a creep or not, I just gave a few really good examples of creepy things that elicit such reactions. I mean, that's a pretty standard definition of creepy I just gave. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?Well, creepy is a general thing yes? The persons attitude or how they come off or there behaviors or actions. For example, say someone who always makes rape or animal abuse jokes, someone who stands behind girls and makes blank stares at them,someone who gets a little too close a little too soon and gives off a rapisty vibe,someone who acts like a 5 year old when they are between the ages of 21 and up,etc. I mean, better? | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 11:21 PM |
| 0 | This might not be the best place to ask this and it might seem odd, but just hear me out.....You know 16 year olds with kids? Or the kids are in the 16-30 age group? I wouldn't get married or sleep or have unprotected sex with them unless I knew them 100%, I know that. I want that, the financial stability, the having lived with them and known them for a few years and all of that. And obviously, you have to know yourself enough right? Something I struggle with. But I could have that all now, like that guy or anyone else, and it's like, why don't I? I know love is hard work, and I want to… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 11:15 PM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?Well, true, but I mean, sometimes you can clearly see it when it's there. I mean, is a person percieved as "Creepy", as we are discussing, not someone in need of help? | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 11:08 PM |
| -1 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?"First, I recognize you from other thread, can I just suggest you aren't at proper level right now to appreciate this advise? You are coming from a really bad place with this advice to humiliate someone and it won't be attractive." I appreciate it, I'm just saying you should stand up for yourself and tell people to cut that shit out. "Second, there is a difference between reacting and being phased. You can hold your frame and still react to other people, but they are living in your reality not t… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 11:08 PM |
| -3 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Oh ok just checking. Good good. Glad to see someone appreciates my humour around here!!! | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:59 PM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?I know what you're saying. It's like a feed them to the wolves thing right? Let em fend for them selves right? I agree with that method/idea, but just like I mean uh, help if you can? Like let said person creep em out first,learn what not to do and such right? | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:48 PM |
| -8 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Even nuns? Or the pope? Or priests? Muslim Fundamentalists? The asexual? | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:46 PM |
| -9 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Go up from behind and pinch her ass and try to jam your finger up her butt. If she laughs with ditz like flattery,she's dtf!!! Any other reaction,esp an ass whupping, well,she was not dtf. Hah! Let's keep this joke going!!! | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:45 PM |
| -4 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Ask her if it's ok to slip something in her drink, if she laughs with amusement at your witty quip,she's dtf!!! If she throws it in your face and calls you expletives and/or maces you, she was not dtf. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:44 PM |
| -5 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Lmao, well, not that you got maced, that sucks, why may I ask?, but I did mean that as a joke. Don't go around grabbing girls crotches or trying to pull there pants down unless they say it's ok. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?Degrading how? Did the person in question say they feel it's degrading? I would imagine someone who has help with that would be more than greatful,unless they're a totally unappreciative asshole,usually you can figure that out by talking to them. Sure there's stuff you need to figure out on your own, but we all had someone show us how to do certain things to begin with yes? | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:42 PM |
| 16 | Best ways to tell a chick is friendly vs. wants to sleep with you?Well, reach for her crotch and try to take her pants off and see how she replies, if she laughs, she's dtf, if you get maced, she was not dtf. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:32 PM |
| -9 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Fuck all that. I say, say something even more humiliating to make them look awkward and put them on the spot. "Nothing my friends say can phase me when I'm out, my reality is stronger than theirs." Uh,what? Are you/we meaning all of us not human? I know what you mean when you say that, but things people say and do do phase us, I mean, I believe in being thick skinned and all of that, but if you don't react, how are you going to stand up for yourself? esp when so many seem to espouse such a take … | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:30 PM |
| -3 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Make fun of and humiliate them back!!! Like if Sarah does that again, bring up the time she drunkenly gave her equally as drunk cousin a blowjob at a party one time or something!!!! Call the family friend out for his small dick and his little herpes problem!!! That'll shut em up!!!! | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:23 PM |
| 2 | How do I handle situations where a friend tells the cute girl I'm talking to, right in front of me, that I think they're really cute?Well, stop telling her you think these other girls are cute. She obviously uses that to embarass you in front of them, so either tell her to cut the shit, or dump her ass,well, she's your friend, so cut her out until she stops it, and/or find someone who won't do that. A good "wingwoman" as it's called yes? No offense, but that family friend was a dick. I mean, I don't know what's worse, and now I shouldn't be one to talk in some ways, but I am only trying to help here, and that is A) That you a… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop or ignore it...."I don't mean to sound like a dick, but if you're jealous of guys being able to accomplish stuff like that, why do you turn around and bash them for it?" Be a dick, I don't care. I won't take it personally. I am being kind of a dick, so I can't really complain. Bash? Why? Number of reasons, and cause I can. Yeah well, see, I tend to not like jocks, atheletes yes,, jocks no. Funny, cause I can't say I had the jock problem in high school, but I just don't like the type of person. See, I want to be… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop or ignore it....Yeah, that's where I've struggled, the shit happens when you don't care, cause I've always thought you need to have your shit together, which is ironic, cause I don't, and I don't want to just say "fuck it", cause I think that's a bad attitude. No, I don't care about every little thing or person and I'm not trying to "Save" anyone, or be the romantic pleaser, no no, I know better than that. I'm not trying to or believe in being the "nice guy". It's not about what women want to me, which is a who… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 07:28 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop or ignore it....I'm not happy with who or what I am cause I've always set high goals for me and knew/know I can do better. And to just say fuck it, which might help in some ways, just, I can't do that. I've thought about going to a pro, I don't have the money for that now,but it's an option. "Just forget all the romantic issues for the moment." I can't, cause that's what I want. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop or ignore it...."Dude I lost my virginity at 17 and that was through sheer luck. It wasn't really till college that I started having real sexual experience, and now I'm in a better spot than pretty much everyone I know. Who cares what other people experienced?" Well, see, I didn't get to go to college and be in a better spot, so that's always bothered me. "First, you gotta fix your mindset. Sex isn't gonna validate you. If you're looking for validation from sex, you're gonna be depressed and negative whenever y… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop or ignore it....Then what's the issue? I know what part of it is: I don't like and am not happy with myself or my current situation, so I take it out on others at times like on here. I worry certain things will be used against me, and you have to not be perfect, but up to a certain standard I would say, and not feeling like that, causes some sort of inferiority complex I think, so it tends to lead to bitterness,anger,etc. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop or ignore it....You're right, and I've been doing this for along time now. But I can't shut up about it and for some reason even I don't know why, I haven't taken action. This is not the first time I've done something like this, gone online and vented/bitched about these things. I might be bitter and all that, but I only let this stuff out or talk about it online. It's not like I go around in public spewing it out. Part of it's also, how do I say this?, not wanting to be a sucker either. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop or ignore it....That's part of what I'm in therapy for. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 05:54 PM |
| 0 | I can't stop or ignore it....Yeah but, it will fullfill my needs. A need that's gone on unfullfilled for too long now. Yeah but they were able/are able to get sex sooner/better and had the whole "game" figured out, and here I am struggling. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 07:56 AM |
| 0 | I can't stop or ignore it....This feeling has been here for as long as I can remember, and it's not going away anytime soon. This is why I used to drink so much, to be able to take my mind off of things even if for a little while. "Everyone's life follows a different path" And what's that supposed to mean? What kind of placebo feel good shit is that? Oh yeah. We all follow a different path. Oh yeah, everyone else gets the life they want and I'm left sitting in the dust with my hand down my pants. "There will always be someo… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 07:35 AM |
| 0 | I can't stop or ignore it....Yeah well, why didn't I meet anyone young and dumb driven by hormones who wanted to fuck me then? I'm still hurt by that. I don't think I could be with someone who was like that then or now either. Was she in that group? Did she provide you with the same sort of thing? I mean, fuck! Who does that? I wanted to vent and let out my miserableness and bitterness. Or am I just crazy? Holding onto some sort of "pain"? Am I sexually repressed? I mean, it's been a LONG time since I've had sex, and nothin… | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?It's still superficialness, and people give into it too easily. Who cares what girls like? It's about what you like. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 03:54 AM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?Looking good is better and will help, I agree. But all this emphasis put on such a thing makes me roll my eyes. Any girl,or guy even but vice versa, who puts so much emphasis on physical attraction I'm not going to waste my time with and she can go and get abused by the juice head d-bag she's seeing,not my problem. Perhaps it should be more a non-factor. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 03:53 AM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?I know it sounds like I'm whining, that doesn't bother me. Ugly guy? Never been called ugly, so I can't say that's the reason why. I don't feel anyone is attacking me, I'm just making my points that's all. | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?I hear what you're saying, but they shouldn't be doing it in the first place. I mean, even taking the high road has its limits I think. Well, when does it go from shrugging it off to you standing up for yourself cause this person keeps pushing it? | /r/seduction | 28/09/11 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?GOOMBA LOVE!!!!!! | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Just Be Yourself: The Worst Dating Advice Known To ManWell, when you're adapting or changing to different ideas or situations, are you cause you want too, or cause someone is telling you too or cause it's the status quo? And what are these situations? | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:39 PM |
| -2 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?Fuck that other guy. It ain't his buisness. See, if someone did that to me, I'd lose my shit for them sticking there nose in my buisness. If she's not your friend/relative/sister/s.o/gf/wife etc, mind your own fucking buisness,seriously. I mean, if someone did that to me, I'd plan on trying to figure out to get back at and severely humiliate them. I dress well and all, lost alot of weight, don't really belive in a "poker face", and while this contradicts what I just said, not letting shit get to… | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:22 PM |
| -2 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?Maybe the girls are dumb? I don't give a fuck how "good looking" you are or might think you are, if you're a creepy prick/asshole/s.o.b/ etc, I'm calling you out for it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:20 PM |
| -2 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?So you gave into superficial judging of clothes? Not that I'm against dressing up well, I clean up well when the time calls for, but let's cut the petty bullshit. We're not in middle school anymore kids. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:19 PM |
| -1 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?So then why not help a guy out instead of labeling him a creep? | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:18 PM |
| -5 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?If you're naieve enough to base your trust of someone on there looks alone, and you get screwed over for it in some way, then you deserved it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it hard for good looking guys to be creepy?This is total shit if you ask me. Look, I'm not going to say any one should be made to do anything they don't want, but this whole good looking guys are less creepy/can get away with more than "not so good looking guys" is shit and needs to end and people who do or believe in this sort of thing need to grow the fuck up and stop perpetuating this. Yeah, girls who spout that shit are the ones who suck off every other asshole, and then when her tits start to sag and she ain't so good looking, oh! n… | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 10:14 PM |
| 1 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer."As far as standing out with online dating always use a really unique subject line ie how dare you. Cute girls im sure get a zillion messages most using the standard subject line." I read there profile, find something to talk to or ask them about, and that seems to work and be a good starter. "You always want to open with some kind of funny tease, one liner, etc. If you make a girl laugh you will very often get a msg back. I dont really like messaging either, limit it to 4-5 before going for the… | /r/seduction | 27/09/11 03:50 PM |
| 1 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer.I've been using okcupid, I tried Plenty Of Fish, but I like okcupid.com more. What to you is the "pedestal problem"? How would you describe it? "Subject: how dare you View my profile without saying hi" Wow, I don't think I've heard of anyone getting a response like that on okcupid, me or anyone else. "The whole key is to standout, and show her you're not like everyone else. When you have something easy/free like pof why not use it. If nothing else you can work on your text game, even though I ag… | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 11:21 PM |
| 1 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer.Hmm. Can't say I've suffered from oneitis. Crushes? Sure, but it's just, I know there's more than one, but I still just want to find one, make sense? Well, I pretty much do believe in one girl at a time, I'm not too crazy about dating multiple people at once, both for you and whoever you might be seeing. Guess I do have a more "traditional" view of things. Yeah, I have the "harem" fantasy, but that can bite you in the ass as well right? Maybe I haven't been making my own time valuable to myself. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 09:54 PM |
| 1 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer.Hmm. Can't say I've suffered from oneitis. Crushes? Sure, but it's just, I know there's more than one, but I still just want to find one, make sense? Well, I pretty much do believe in one girl at a time, I'm not too crazy about dating multiple people at once, both for you and whoever you might be seeing. Guess I do have a more "traditional" view of things. Yeah, I have the "harem" fantasy, but that can bite you in the ass as well right? Maybe I haven't been making my own time valuable to myself. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 09:53 PM |
| 1 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer.I've heard that before. You find "the one" or someone when you aren't actively looking. Cause you aren't trying so hard etc, and it's not like I try too hard, it's just, uh,nothings happened in a long time. I don't want to add unnecessary pressure, but I do have certain beliefs. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What's worse???I'll try. Yeah. I've needed success for a long time, why has it evaded me all this time? "Nothing will change if you don't work at it." See, I read something like that and ask myself, "why the fuck didn't I work at it sooner? Why did I let this grow into a problem?" Is it possible I have some sort of inferiority complex? | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else who could or would describe themselves as a "late bloomer", I hate that term I really do.....It does help. I am caught up in things being outcome dependent for a number of reasons. Not just women/dating, but other big things overall. If there was someone I didn't like for whatever reason, and I only have a few specifics, I wouldn't be them. My problem has been getting out there and finding and being with someone and all that, and when that doesn't happen for a long time, you start to worry. How much exposure is enough? I mean today, I went for a long walk and was out for like 3 hours, I… | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???That's exactly it. I have been in my head too long over all of this, and I have a hard time trying to get out. Meds help, but even those can only do so much. How do I fix those inner game problems? | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 04:27 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???I'm 26. I know you're trying to help, I'm just very frustrated that's all. I mean, I guess this is stubbornness or something, but I've heard all of what you've just said, and it's not that I think it isn't good advice, it's just, I want to be able to do all of that successfully, I know how too, but it feels like I should be doing it more, but can't cause of a lack of things in my own life. I never learned how to hit on girls, and just, I worry about creeping them out at times as well. I mean, it… | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else who could or would describe themselves as a "late bloomer", I hate that term I really do.....See, I guess I am too outcome dependent in a way. It comes from a feeling of a lack of accomplishment for a long time I guess. It comes from wanting to have all your ducks lined up straight so to say, and it feels like they aren't, so you get frustrated. "I went for what I want and didn't care about what would happen or what has happened in the past." Yeah, I'm trying to go for what I want, but nothings really solidified. Well, my past is/has been another story. I guess I'm nervous out of feelin… | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???I don't know too many couples, so that's not a problem. But I see them. I'm never really in the mood to "sarge", like I want to, but I just can't get in the mood for some reason. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???"Besides, your testosterone (that is linked to aggressiveness, looking for a partner outside or simply be outgoing) lowers a lot with frequent compulsive masturbation." Yeah, that concerns me. I really am trying to look at it less. I tend to do it out of boredom more than anything. I mean, if I'm like out or with people, or have something to do, it's not so likely to happen. I mean, fuck, I hate to think this was or has been caused by looking at too much porn over the years and all time wasted d… | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What's worse???I'm in therapy. We're working on finding ways of moving forward. Why am I self isolated? I don't know, it just became a habit, I got used to it, and it feels like it's defined me. No, I don't want to be like this,you're right, but it keeps happening. I know it's easier to change than I realize, or is it?, and if I wanted to change so badly, wouldn't I have already? I mean, I get up, and unless I have something specific to do, or money to go out, I tend to just lounge about. That's not life. That… | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:44 PM |
| 1 | What's worse???Yeah well, even that's not an option. I guess I haven't been more specific. See, things like pre-gaming and going out with friends and all that, isn't an option for me now as it hasn't been in a while cause, while, I tend to be self isolated as I can best put it. Yeah. I do try to do other things to stop feeling that. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.O Brother Where Art Thou? Is actually probably a good basis to start with. Not literally, but the events that happen in that story could echo or reflect ours. It's about these 3 escaped convicts played by George Clooney, John Tuturro, and Timothy Bottoms who escape from a chain gang during the depression, and go on this whacky adventure with all sorts of happenings. Part of the story is a run in with the klan. Check it out and see if you can come up with any ideas. Yeah! Maybe the first sidekick… | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What's worse???Well,could be any. I mean, this was a concern for me when I was 16-17, probably worse than now. I'm 26, so let's say 21-25. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Don't chase women, they'll chase you [...] they're like horses in a pastures sometimes, you walk into a pasture... and they'll come over and investigate... - Morgan FreemanThat hasn't happened to me,but it's happened before. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Don't chase women, they'll chase you [...] they're like horses in a pastures sometimes, you walk into a pasture... and they'll come over and investigate... - Morgan FreemanDon't get me wrong, I love Morgan Freeman and think he really is an amazing actor and have enjoyed many of his roles and movies, esp Unforgiven, but I cracked up when he said " I am not a real big skirt chaser." Lmao, just something in the way he says it. Another thing: While I pretty much agree with everything he says in the video, there are some parts where I've seen the contrary true, esp the part about respect. I mean, if it's true, then why do so many girls seem to get with guys/assholes wh… | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Don't chase women, they'll chase you [...] they're like horses in a pastures sometimes, you walk into a pasture... and they'll come over and investigate... - Morgan FreemanTrue, don't chase or come off as needy. I don't think I do, but I do feel needy at times, but I'm good at controlling it. I'm no master at this stuff, just saying what happens. But, I still got some stuff to figure out and just get out more. But all in all, I am a romantic and do just want to meet that one girl. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:52 AM |
| 1 | What's worse???Well, they tend to keep popping up, those feelings that is. Esp when you aren't moving forward as much as you'd like too. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Don't chase women, they'll chase you [...] they're like horses in a pastures sometimes, you walk into a pasture... and they'll come over and investigate... - Morgan Freeman"If a girl was rude to you in a bar, there's no reason to disrespect women in general, maybe that girl thought that you were only interested in having sex and nothing more. Nobody likes to be used that way right?" Um, what? That happens all the time. I mean, go and read the r/sex or gonewild sections, cause plenty of that seems to be going on. I mean, isn't there a reason why ONS's exist or girls who just blow random guys at parties? I'm not trying to be a dick or anything, just I've seen eviden… | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Don't chase women, they'll chase you [...] they're like horses in a pastures sometimes, you walk into a pasture... and they'll come over and investigate... - Morgan FreemanYeah,drooling, not cool, but I'm sure there's got to be that one guy that works for. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:24 AM |
| 5 | Don't chase women, they'll chase you [...] they're like horses in a pastures sometimes, you walk into a pasture... and they'll come over and investigate... - Morgan Freemanthis is all well and good and I agree, but what about when they aren't chasing you at all? I mean, we aren't all rockstars and movies stars, but we still have needs damnit. | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Fuck Neil Strauss, I hear he's a con artist, but he's written some interesting stuff I suppose. I mean, there's some good ideas you got, and I think we can work alot of if not all of it in, just some directions I don't want to go that's all. And I don't want to be like, one dimensional stereotypical as I do it multi dimensionally satirical. Hmm, Idk. I'll have to think on the sidekicks idea. Well, when he escapes from the Klan, he holes up with the redneck mountain men mutli racial militia. Yes.… | /r/seduction | 25/09/11 12:19 AM |
| 1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONEYeah, I'd just beat the shit out of the person who did that and take the money for myself, and make sure they get sent to prison for life. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Whoa,whoa,whoa! Hold on there! I'm not really trying to stereotype anyone, poke fun at various things yes, but stereotype? No.... I'm not looking to make this into some sort of anti-U.S diatribe thing. Just a goofy spoof sort of thing. Apparently, our creative intents are VERY different. You've got some good ideas in the second part. Yes a televangelist carried around on a throne I like, Hanging the fonz though?? Mmmmmmmm........No. That's not quite the direction I was hoping for. Really? A fox … | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 10:10 PM |
| 1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONEWell, I replied to him with, well, I'd bit the shit out of the person offering the money and take the money myself. Cause if they're going to go around asking someone to do something fucked up like that for money, I don't see how it's somehow less moral or something for me to beat the shit out of them and take the money. Sure there are worse ways, but that was the example I was given. What are some worse ways you think? | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:04 PM |
| 1 | So, and this is to work out some frustrations, based on what I've said so far, what should I do?Can't right now. No money,so no membership. I do have home equipment though,I know I should do that more. I have been losing alot of weight recently through watching what I eat,fasting,and drinking alot of water. I need something that's going to be more long term fullfilling, like a relationship. Cause the computer is starting to reach it's limits I feel. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Oh, the zombie bigfoots don't need mountains or forests to hide, I mean they use them to there advantage, but they can turn invisible as well!!!! Yeah. At first he's this more straight laced "square", but by the end he's more Hunter S esque party animal. Nah. Nothing suicidal or depressing. Crazy,fucked up,unpredictable etc, but nothing depressing. Hmm,something involving the Klan yes. Hey! Maybe the Klan can be conspiring with the U.F.O's and bigfoot zombies! Actually, our guy eventually teams … | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 04:55 PM |
| 1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONEOh yeah no shit. You should do that with everyone. I do. It comes off the wrong way at times as being a bit dickish, and I don't mean to be rude or disrespectful, just hey, you asked me, I'm telling you,I mean, I always give the raised eyebrow(s) of shock or disaproval when someone says something that just makes you "Wtf?!?!?!" Or just know when to say no. Like for example, when your friend says he'd have sex with Casey Anthony for 5 million dollars, well, there's really no other way to react is… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 06:14 AM |
| 1 | I just want to be noticed (I'm 17)Yeah. That's a problem I've had in some ways for a while too. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 06:03 AM |
| 1 | I just want to be noticed (I'm 17)Some of this is how I've felt alot of the time. | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 06:02 AM |
| 1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONESo basically, don't appease her, but respect her reasonable boundaries yes? | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:58 AM |
| 1 | It seems like RESPECT = FRIEND ZONEWhy is or would "Respect" be repulsive to her? | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:57 AM |
| 2 | A newbie's note on Abundance Mentality. Life changer.What about not having oneitis, but still wanting/looking for the one? I mean, I'm not stressing over that one girl or girls, for many reasons, usually cause one isn't there, but I want to meet that one, am I making sense? | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Mississippi it is then. Oh it is a lovely area I know. But, I would like to move it to other rural states/areas if possible. But Mississippi's a good starting point. Yeah. Travelling writer/journalist is a good start. Scratch that Ira Glass comparison from before, cause that guy is fucking boring!!!! Acquired taste to say the least. Idk how you feel about Garrison Keilor, I mean, at least he's entertaining and has his moments, so I figure start him off as a Garrison Keilor,mmm bit of a Hemingway… | /r/seduction | 24/09/11 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.It's not like I went into cowboys and aliens expecting the godfather or anything. I thought it seemed like a cool idea, and I love westerns and sci fi,so I was at least expecting an exciting action adventure genre mashup. It has some interesting elements, but overall, it's all sorts of, well,boring. I mean, for a project described as John Ford meets Steven Spielberg,it has nothing if very little similar to those two. If you want to see some great sci-fi/western mashups, check out The Adventures … | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Neither. Why wake up in the Aizona Desert? Are we really going to rip off the opening of the half assed cowboys and aliens? Call from Washington? Mmm, again, that's a little too soon for this. This is the story of an ordinary man in the midst of an extraordinary situation. A regular guy thrown into the midst of an event beyond fathomable proportions. It would take place obviously,in the south. Georgia,Alabama,Oklahoma,North/South Carolina,Texas!,etc, one or hey, why not all those states? It woul… | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Sure we can write a book about this. Hell, let's start a blog. But, Iraq? WMD's? Framing Saddam and his crew? Nah. That's going too far too soon. Maybe later on down the line. I'd also like to keep it in set region. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Well,yeah. Bambi got his ass shot up a few times. But hey, in the war for freedom, you can't cry over a few collateral cassualties. It wasn't just bambi, but also Yanks, Commies,Fascists,Illegal Immigrants of all backgrounds, bankers, and of course, u.f.os and big foot zombies. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 05:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at women. Help?Bingo | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 04:28 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at women. Help?You do control what gets served: You don't have to eat it, and eat something better/healthier instead. Good on cutting the sweets and junk food. I still have some every once in a great while, just not on a regular basis. Drink diet soda, it's much better for you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Haha thanks. I do have my moments, and have a creative imagination. Well, it all started with me joining the redneck hillbilly good ol boys all american militia, protecting our great nation from all threats far and wide. These guys would get fucked up by drinking the hallucinogenic moonshine, and just shooting the fuck out of whatever they thought looked funny. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I was kidding about the short being creepy thing. Just my sarcasm. I would say that's been a problem: Not being aggressive enough. I mean, It's either cause of depression, or I look at too much porn/masturbate too much. I've been trying to curb that. I've heard/known about the downside of that. And I do just tend to overanalyze. It's a habit that formed. Yeah,I don't have my own place, and I was never really into the taking drunk girls back. Part of it being when I did drink, I got WWWAAAAYYYY t… | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Oh, it's got tits of course,and then some....... Tits,guns,weed,hallucinogenic moonshine,captain america,batman, death metal,taking animals,jesus,zeus,ganesh!,thor,muhamed,and other guest diety cameos,rambo,robocop,dracula,kenny g! he's more death metal than you might realize, eastern european troops still loyal to the communist cause vs the valiant forces of American Democracy And Freedom, all that and then some! Plus u.f.o's, and zombie big foots. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Really? Well, lemme tell you about the time I fought off the u.f.o's and army of zombie bigfoots. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?"If I was you, I wouldn't even worry about seduction and pick up at this point. Unlike some people who can pick up girls with nothing else going on in their lives, most guys need a sense of purpose to feel accomplished and confident. I know I did because when I was unemployed and living at home I was the most depressed and bored person on the face of the planet. Now that I've moved out and got a job, my confidence and sense of self sky rocketed. Now I just need to get the technical parts of pick… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I have been. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?Yeah. That's pretty much it. It sometimes feels worse than just boredom. It's this all consuming emptiness and loneliness, and things aren't going to get better. How am I in real life? Well, I'll try to describe this as best I can: I still live at home. My days are spent waking up usually between 11 am and 1 pm, and sometimes, while trying not to at the same time, spending copious amounts of time on the computer. This an issue that's come up in therapy, and I'm workng on spending less time on it… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.That's where I get frustrated. I tend to be able to do more when I have something to do or a focus to my day, like work. But outside of that, I have a hard time motivating myself. And I've been feeling the burn of that for a long time. I keep looking back and saying, Why didn't I do something sooner? It's that feeling that's screwing with me.' I know. I'm holding onto something and it's holding me back. I'm not moving forward fast enough,and it's this weird conflict. What can I do? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:42 PM |
| 0 | The first guys here story, where he talks about holiday in Italy.....I've tried to get over it. But every day is the same. I mean, I always thought something would happen and I'd get my chance, didn't happen that way. So instead of all that, I'm instead filled with resentment and anger. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:36 PM |
| 2 | I would say I have compensation issues/ a great sense that something has been missing in my life for a long timeThat's been hard to do because there's been no major moving away from it. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:Well, I get distracted sometimes. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?I try to/need to read both for the same reasons. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I just chose it? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Why do you think I chose it? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:I don't feel threatened at all. Just I call b.s when I see it. I'm not really into pua anything all that much, I just find some of it interesting/useful. I mean, I don't make lists of what I think people should or are supposed to be like. Well, we all have a general idea of that, but know what I'm saying? And it's not that we feel we couldn't achieve that, we just wouldn't want someone giving us a mandated list. I mean, how would you feel if a man gave you a list? Ok then. The guys you know, the… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:I wasn't a baby about it. I broke it down and rather intelligently dissected all the parts and pointed out the b.s. And argued some good points. :-P | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:??????????? So I win or something? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:Yup, I'm convinced: They did this as a goof to see how we would react. That, or someone is "testing" us. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:You're a chick right? Huh. Why do I get the feeling you did this as a joke/to be a pain in the ass/to see how people would react? And why do you care what we think? If you want that guy, go out and get him. Fuck do I care what you do? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:Yeah. Pretty much what I said. I mean, this list may or may not be you being your best self, this is what someone else thinks your best self should be. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:53 AM |
| -1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:True. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:50 AM |
| -1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:Well, then perhaps some people shouldn't be online. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:So then you admit, if something terrible like that did happen, you would just sit there and say shit happens? And you talk about being a man? I mean, you're the one who posted the thing with the whole part about being empathetic. Yeah. You REALLY hold yourself to that standard. I mean, if you're going to post something like that and then get butt hurt that someone asks to see if you hold yourself to the same standard(s), then maybe you shouldn't post things like that. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:I'm not being disagreeable for the sake of it. This is another one of those magical lists someone comes out with in which they expect there ideal partner or everyone else to aspire too. Things which some of those people may not want to do. People do have a choice in things. Like I said, they're are some good ideas and qualities there, but most people would scoff at the idea of some list of rules and aspirations they all must aspire too and follow and be. I mean, esp the part of knowing what some… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:Stoic? So no emotion at all? So when something bad happens, you're supposed to just be ready to spring into action? Not that I think those are bad qualities, but how many action movies have you seen? I did what now? So those who emotionally reacted to 9/11 and other such tragedies are "emotional people who overreact"? And how are we supposed to react? I mean, isn't part of this whole pua thing the willingness to emote? Emote what exactly? Well, there's reasonable and unreasonable overreaction. Y… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:42 AM |
| -1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:Not me. It's the internet of all places!!! Why take it seriously?? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:What difference does it matter? If someone came to you, guy or girl, and gave you a list of what they expect not just you, but everyone to be, you'd follow that list verbatim? You'd hold yourself to every standard and rule on that list? Tell me, how do you feel about religion? So saying fuck it and go fuck yourself and standing up for yourself is now seen as being a whiny little bitch? Hmm,Ok. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:Whining? Really? I wouldn't call it that. I mean, this is the list that says for men to be "An intuitive mind. A conceptual thinker, but one who doesn't have his head in the clouds all the time." I mean, if not taking everything at face value on that list and actually questioning it is called whining, well, I fear for the future of people. Also, whining is just used by someone who can't think of an intelligent comeback and actual debate, so you just attempt to invalidate what I say. That's like … | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:I don't downvote anything. I mean, do we really care that much about an internet post of all things? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:My ego really isn't that fragile. It's just why would you let anyone tell you what to do. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:An actual man? Well, most people would scoff at the idea of someone else telling them how to be an "Actual man", esp when it's someone else's list of expectations. Not that I think there aren't good ideas or qualities on there, but if someone hands you an unrealistic list of what they expect you to be, that's them trying to walk all over you or tell you what to do. Now who's the real man, the one who jumps through the hoops, or the one who has the guts to walk and say fuck this, I'm not putting … | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:29 AM |
| -1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:How about not holding people up to unrealistic ideals? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Hmm,true. I do have some issues with resentment. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Confused about what to do I guess. Well, it's my own lack of effort. I just idk,not sure I guess. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:"Educated, but more importantly, experienced. The kind of man who's been around the world" Well, I think travelling is great and all, but I mean, where's the bar set for how much travelling is enough? I mean, I don't on a regular basis, I'd like to, but I don't want the amount of traveling I may or not have done to be a determining factor in such things. "who's seen and done it all but who doesn't ever use his experiences as a means of defining who he is." Well, most people would say there exper… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:I pretty much agree. While these are definitley good qualities, this is just more of some ladies dream guy list. I mean, aren't we supossed to not appeasing to those who want us to be what they think we should be? It's not it's unrealistic, it's that it's not everyone has or necessarily aspires to have these qualities, and if they don't, it really shouldn't be held against them. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.See, I hear all this stuff, and i gets me confused. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 04:44 AM |
| 0 | Men, you should aspire to be this kind of guy:This is all well and good, but there are exceptions as well if you ask me. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 04:35 AM |
| 4 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Yeah but, you don't ever feel a need to set em right either? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 04:34 AM |
| 8 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Why let anyone,or any chick for that matter, feel like they have the world on a silver platter? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:35 AM |
| 0 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Well, and maybe I'm wrong on this, but don't you not want to give them the satisfaction of feeling they have the world/you by the nutsack? I mean, I don't care how hot you are, if I need to tell you to go fuck yourself I will. That hasn't happened yet, but if I need to put my foot down, then so be it. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:34 AM |
| 2 | I would say I have compensation issues/ a great sense that something has been missing in my life for a long timeThat's quite the dillemma isn't it? Esp when it's been such a deep seated,long term feeling. I mean, what causes that, and how do you snap out of it? I mean, is it just find that one thing or things you feel really good about doing? Is it finding the right people? Is it figuring out how to be happy no matter what? And behind in what ways? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:31 AM |
| 1 | I would say I have compensation issues/ a great sense that something has been missing in my life for a long timeI'm not as bad as I used to be as taking it out on those around me like I used too. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?Ok. Is it cause you feel tend to be bored with yourself? I mean, while I think being passionate is obviously a good thing, I don't want to be what I refer to as "the smiling dope", no offense. I mean, what sounds like is missing? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at women. Help?Like I said, check with a doctor. I'm no medical expert, just saying what worked for me. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I've been going to a therapist for a while now. It's helped,but I mean, I'm still like,constantly single/lonely, and yet there's people on here posting there naked/sex pictures. Well, I mean, the first girl I had sex with I met online, and I was so determined to get laid, what happened? I mean, I tend to over use the computer as well. I mean, it's come up in therapy a few times. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?I do enjoy and am into things I'm passionate about, so like, where's the missing link? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at women. Help?All I can say is, drinking alot of water and fasting from time to time worked for me. I did make dietary changes as well. I'm just saying, it worked for me. Like I said, ask a doctor first. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.I know. But, idk, for some reason, it just doesn't work for me or isn't there it feels like. I mean, I use the internet and have had some success, but it often feels like a crutch. And I want to be better naturally and over come a lot of this and feel better about myself. This is some deep seated stuff. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?I mean, I find those type of women very attractive, but it's not like I'd limit myself to just those type. I would say I def find a wide range of women attractive. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?I mean, I find those type of women very attractive, but it's not like I'd limit myself to just those type. I would say I def find a wide range of women attractive. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:44 AM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....I have this whole thing about not being a follower. It's an identity thing. Several people have noticed this and praised me for it. I intentionally don't follow trends,and think people who judge others on that, I hate them. I have lots of interests, some similar to what you listed,esp traveling. I just find myself being bored more than anything. Maybe I'm too overwhelmed. I am starting a class tomorrow actually. I try to read more. I mean, I don't know what it is. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:42 AM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....I don't know why I asked those questions when I know the answer(s). I have had/have several goals and passions. They are ones I've had for a long time. But for many reasons, aren't happening fast enough. Money is one of them. I need money. It is important to me. Oh and I can be VERY enthusiastic. I don't know. Do I not show it right/enough? Too shy even? Or only amongst people I know/am comfortable with? Yeah. True on the convo part. I guess it's just my own nervousness/anxities. The superficial… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.True. See, I get into this anxious/insecure thing in my head when I read things like or this or similar things. I mean, it's just not or hasn't really been part of my regular routine. And for someone who's talked so much about wanting this, you'd think I'd be into it more. But no. I keep doing the same routine over and over. Only going out when I have money or something to do. Also, I can't do nightclubs. It's not fun for me. I don't know if it's cause I stopped drinking, or the environment of t… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:18 AM |
| -2 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks."The thing is, not to be an arrogant dick, but I'm a pretty good-looking guy. And only 25. Not Brad Pitt of course, but not bad. And tall. So if someone were going to automatically seem creepy, it would probably be someone short/ugly/old/badly dressed." Oh yeah. Anyone who's any one of those thins must be a creep right? That's just my sarcasm. Yeah. All short guys are creepy right? "Why such negative reactions sometimes? Because I'm super fucking aggressive and go after every (decent looking) ch… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:14 AM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here...."Re: fashion and women - it's not superficial to be attracted to someone who dresses well. Women are most attracted to success (I didn't say money), and clothes are a quick filter on that. Like I said, you don't have to dress like you work on Wall Street, just dress like you give a shit what you look like." Define success. What type of it? I do dress well I would say, but feel I am above being judged on what I wear. I mean, it's easy for me to not do it, why shouldn't it be easy for everyone els… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Read my worst rejection stories and then realize that rejection doesn't matter, folks.Do you think the rejections come from the way you come off? I'm not trying to diss you or be a jerk or anything, but do rejections become more frequent in the way you come off? Because you just say or do something that doesn't sit right, or comes off as well,creepy? Not that I think you should have to walk around on eggshells, but the whole think before you speak sort of thing? I mean, I know I need to get out more and get over such things. But I want things to go smooth/right as well. Is that s… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here...."I've also become more adventurous and more interesting. A big part of this is just adopting a more interesting lifestyle, which leads to more opportunities to meet women and more interesting things to talk about when you do." What do you think I've long wanted to do/have? What do you think has long been this sort of struggle for me? Like a more interesting lifestyle being? See, I've always had this, as best I can put it, stubbornness, that started sometime around back in high school, in that,mm… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:50 AM |
| 2 | I'm terrible at women. Help?I wish someone told me this stuff when I was his age. I went through almost the exact same thing, to which is still a problem in many ways. Wished I had improved instead of falling more and more into depression/self loathing etc. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at women. Help?How about we work to try and to roll back the influence of pop culture crap in society/on people. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I'm terrible at women. Help?Well,all I can say is, start with trying to lose weight, I ve lost alot of weight recently, and it's helped and it feels really good. It's pretty easy to do. Stop drinking alcohol if you do. I drank alot around your age, and I'm not trying to tell you what to do or stunt any sort of life experience, but I'll tell you: It puts on alot of weight fast. Cut out almost all junk food. It's easier than you think and just takes some self control. Every once in a great while, I'll have some pizza or donu… | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?Yeah, I have the same problem, and get so hard on for myself for letting it be a problem. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?Yeah. I agree. Don't let the number of how many people someone else on facebook has effect you. As a matter of fact, I stopped using facebook, not for that reason, but I started to suffer from the whole everyone else is doing better/must be more happier than me, and I stopped using it,and haven't looked back and it's been a benefit. So I would try not to focus on that too much. I am going through a similar thing as well as the OP here. I mean, I'm not working, well, I am about to start a course … | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?What sort of unrealistic expectations are those? I'm just curious. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Those of You Who are Struggling: What's Your Biggest "I Can't Do it Because..." Story?Mine would be: I still live at home I'm not working I'm not in school Little to no social outlets or opportunities, adding to a constantly increased sense of isolation, and just not being able to get past that. Sense of inexperience and inadequacy And the judgment(s)/shallowness/and superficialness of people. Yeah. Oh and feeling behind others when I should be more ahead. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....Also, while this has some good advice, http://www.practicalpickup.com/shut-up-and-dress-well , there's some stuff that makes me roll my eyes as well. And here's the thing, while this site offers some good advice, several of which I've heard before, http://www.practicalpickup.com/ , I've heard from several people not to get too into this sort of thing. I have a tendency to get too in my head over these things, it's a waste of time,etc. Any feedback on that? | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I stop acting needy and scaring them off?I'm trying too. | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....I do like brushing my teeth, that's rather important. Don't go after girls who do like fashion? I see what you're saying, but they're the materialistic ones and not me. I mean, if it's easy for to me not give a shit, I don't see why it's so hard for anyone else. I agree about dressing well,that's a good skill to have. It's the constant judging and overanalyzing and the idea of always wearing the "right" thing that's always gotten to me,and how people can be so easily well,manipulated, into think… | /r/seduction | 21/09/11 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I stop acting needy and scaring them off?I'm 26, and I hear what you're saying. I have a good graps on my morals/values I would say. And I know what I want for job,career,wealth,love,and I try not to focus on material things too much. Are there things I like and would like to have? Yes of course, but I really try not to focus on things like that, and tend to roll my eyes at people who are so into and focused on such things. Not roll them in front of them,but you know what I mean. I'm trying to figure out a plan on how to get there, but… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 11:29 PM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....Basics? I don't know about that. I'm not working, I still live at home,and haven't had sex in a long time, which or may or may not bother me more than it should. Idk, I don't like the idea of asking people for fashion advice. I boil it down to,and just hear me out, I don't like being told what to do, I really don't care about fashion, not that I dress like a slob, but the whole obsession over it has always bugged me and come off as really superficial. I just don't care. Sure I like nice clothes,… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why can't I stop acting needy and scaring them off?Yeah see,I want/have wanted all of what you just described for the longest time. I have felt if I had that,I would be ahead,and feel more complete. You know who you are? Yeah,see,I struggle with that as well. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....My weight is pretty good. I've lost alot lately. I was at 230,and I'm down to 176,I want to get down to 160 and see if I am happy with that. Maybe even 150 if so. Don't worry, I won't go anorexic haha. I am in ok shape,and people have notice the weight loss, I do feel pretty good about that. Just average is fine? Mmm,I can think of alot of arguments against that. Not fighting with you, but I can't help but feel just being average isn't enough so to say. Style of dress? Well, I rarely if ever wea… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 04:51 PM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....The meds have greatly helped. A little while back,I switched over to ones that last for 24 hours, and it's been really good. Well,we've tried developing coping skills,and there somewhat working. I don't know if it would be best to see where the feelings of worthlessness come from, not that it's a bad idea, but with where it seems to be heading, that seems to be something we're not trying to get into and more so move into something positive. Yeah. Like I said,we've started these coping skills,loo… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....Yes I am. I am going tomorow actually. I have been going for a while. It's definitley helped,and going on the meds,anti depressants,but there's still alot unresolved as I can best put it for now. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I stop acting needy and scaring them off?I struggle with both of those. | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Why can't I stop acting needy and scaring them off?Slightly Off Topic,well not really, just relating to my own feelings, I feel needy,but I don't act needy. I am actually a pretty patient person. Now is that good? Or not bad,but I do need to maybe be not non-patient,but perhaps more up front,let's go,etc? Not just with women/dating/sex etc,but in general as well? | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I figured I might as well post here....The Suckage and the growth go hand in hand, I like that. I really do. Interesting way to describe depression as well. A belief like? What could it be? Oh yeah,the relationship that's not working is that I still live at home,and haven't moved out and beyond all that yet,while everyone is already has,and it's kind of been driving me crazy moreso now even more than before. That is one of my goals I want to accomplish, and even once I do, it might take a while to get over the baggage so to say. My h… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 12:31 AM |
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