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14

He repeatedly raped a 9/10 year old CHILD. But apparently we’re supposed to say that’s totally okay for the sake of political correctness. Well, I’m not going to. Fuck Mohammed, he’s a piece of shit pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:40 PM
5

I’ll pass, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:10 PM
4

Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:37 PM
12

“Feeling guilty” doesn’t mean much if they’re still watching it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:07 PM
4

When I was 15/16 I worked at Taco Bell and had neon red hair (had neon red hair as an adult as well, until I had a job where I couldn’t; it looks fab on on me). Anyway I had some 20 something came through the drive through and ask me if “the carpet matched the drapes” and I asked him point blank what that was supposed to mean and he got visibly uncomfortable and dropped the subject.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 06:00 PM
6

My fiancé chewed when we first met. He’d been doing it like 20 years. I told him I thought it was disgusting and he quit, immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:53 PM
3

I briefly dated a guy like this before I started seeing my now fiancé. Wish I’d had FDS back then, it would have saved me heartache and wasted time. We’d only been one one date and he saw I was still active on the OLD we’d matched on and lost his shit on me. (Even though he was clearly still on there since he saw my profile was recently active). Pulled that whole “I don’t want you to be my girlfriend but I don’t want you seeing anyone else either” bullshit. Actually straight up told me “that pus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:37 PM
9

Some of the best films in existence. Grave of the Fireflies remains the most emotionally draining, soul-wrenching film I’ve ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:44 PM
30

Not to mention virtually every Studio Ghibli movie. Some of the best female characters around, plus amazing animation and fantastic story lines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:56 PM
43

“HAHA HE’S TRYING TO DROWN HER HOW ADORABLE!” Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:19 PM
2

It’s supposed to be red pill and blue pill debate but it’s mostly red pill assholes. Probably because blue killers actually have lives lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:56 PM
1

There’s a lot of middle ground between “hating” an ex and trashing them and simply not maintaining contact with them, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:19 PM
34

Mmhm...I’d looove to see what all the “men” commenting look like...my guess? Middle-aged, obese, balding, neck beards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:23 PM
15

Whoever is showing off her tits online shouldn’t be doing that. Otherwise you ladies are gorgeous, not sure what their point is supposed be, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:10 PM
7

If it’s a joke it’s not a very good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:08 PM
6

It’s definitely frustrating. Women’s sexual abuse is often downplayed and dismissed. Think of female teachers sexually abusing male students; people don’t take it seriously like they do if it’s a male offender. And the (usually male) child victim is expected to embrace it and want it, regardless of how young he is. They should absolutely be arrested and prosecuted to the full extent of the law. My oldest daughter is 18 and the thought of what these women were subjecting their children to with th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:49 PM
11

She steadfastly dedicated 11 years of her life to him. He couldn’t even handle being there for her in her time of need for two months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:12 PM
6

I grew up being abused by my father and I’m 37 and still struggle with apologizing for everything. Just the other day I apologized to my fiancé for sneezing and he’s like “honey...you do not need to apologize to me because you sneezed.” Conditioning is hard to break out of. It’s good to see people breaking out of that, especially father/daughter (girls seem so much more likely to be conditioned to take the blame for everything).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:56 PM
12

Agreed. We’re both gamers and we game together most of the time. If he’s on by himself he drops immediately if I need him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:30 PM
9

It’s depressing how often women offer their children up to sexual predators so they can get sex/money/attention/drugs. It happens more than people want to realize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:28 PM
34

I like how basically all the comments on the OP are blaming the creators. “Well they only did it because they told them not to!” AYFKM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:20 PM
20

Unless you have kids together, exes should stay in the past imo. I’m not sure what the official FDS stance is on whether or not it’s an official LVM trait, but it’s a personal dealbreaker for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:12 PM
65

Terry Crews is one of my personal heroes. That man gets it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:55 PM
3

Daamn, get it girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:59 PM
3

What a beautiful couple. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:57 PM
2

It depends on the state. I live in Indiana an inheritance is considered marital property here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:51 PM
9

Uh, no. You are not “overreacting” about your boyfriend hitting on a TEN YEAR OLD CHILD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:47 PM
4

Holy fucking shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:46 PM
16

Grats on being a complete loser, I guess? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:42 PM
12

I think he meant she was expecting a 5 karat ring. She got one the was basically 4.5 karats (2.5 in the middle and 1 karat on each side). So she got a $40,000 4.5 karat ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:14 PM
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“He talks about other women he had sex with in detail...” That alone shows he’s a LVM and not worth your time. It’s disgusting, and it’s incredibly disrespectful not just of you, but of the women he’s talking about. Dump, block, move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:55 PM
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I do with my fiancé, the only person I’ve experienced it with. It’s hard to describe, honestly. But I feel secure, confident, safe, adored, respected, wanted, etc. I’ve never questioned his love for me, he shows me every day not just in what he says but how he acts and treats me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 12:49 PM
15

Seems like satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:43 PM
36

Wooooooow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:30 PM
31

“But he’s hot and rich!” Okay, still not a HVM, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:09 PM
3

Definitely watch it, it’s wonderful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 12:06 PM
27

Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:25 PM
5

I’m heavily tattooed and have a few piercings, I’m generally not really in to facial piercings on men though for some reason. Love tattoos though, sexy af to me. (Well GOOD tattoos, I should say, lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:48 PM
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The difference is that as a woman, you typically have the option of abortion. As a male, he should be well aware that that decision is 100% out of his hands, and taken the appropriate precautions. He failed to do that. He not only failed to do that, he continued having unprotected sex with a woman that he claims has a serious mental illness and that he says he wanted to break up with. He did not get “tricked.” He intentionally had unprotected sex with a mentally ill woman (which frankly begs the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:36 PM
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If he didn’t want a kid, he should have used a condom/gotten a vasectomy. If she’s as “crazy” as he claims, why the hell was he still fucking her and trusting her wrt birth control? He “wanted to leave her” but just couldn’t stop himself from having unprotected sex with her? Passssssss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:54 PM
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Can you even imagine if he lost his balls to testicular cancer, and her response was to tell him his body was now revolting and spent all her time watching “big ball” porn? He’d curl up in a ball and fucking DIE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:09 PM
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Right? Even more depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:03 PM
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Ohhhh, this motherfucker... “She's not going to divorce me. She's never going to find someone who will be able to handle her the way I do. This is a temporary situation and she'll be happy enough once my work picks up again.” Yeah, my ex-husband always told me I could never leave him because no one but him would ever be able to love me or “put up with your shit.” EX husband. Who could not believe it when I actually filed for divorce and went through with it. This fucker is in for a rude awakenin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:02 PM
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If a man is going to hit you, statistically the abuse is most likely to start while you’re pregnant. This is a depressingly predictable situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:14 PM
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Omg this comment wtffffffff- “Not being in remission after 2 years from surgery is a very serious problem. He needs to understand that. That being said, some of the comments around here are idiotic. This din't "just" happen. 2 years is a very long time. Relationships have this magical thing where they're about both people. You are in a very bad position and he seems to be supporting you through it, but it isn't unreasonable for him to want to have his needs met too especially after 2 years. Rela…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 02:40 PM
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A man who’s truly HV will never become a “degrading dick” regardless of what the woman he’s seeing says or does. Even if her behavior is atrocious, he’ll address it and deal with it like an adult. Your ex was LV, emotionally abusive and manipulative. His new gf is very likely being treated the same, despite what their Instagram life looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:57 PM
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My ex husband and I were in Chicago once and I went to give a homeless man some money and he literally grabbed the money out of my hand started yelling at me right in front of the guy “what the fuck are you doing? Don’t give him any of MY fucking money!” (I was a stay at home mom, he never let me forget that EVERYTHING was “his”). I grabbed it back and gave it to the man and apologized. The kicker? He himself was homeless when i met him and survived off panhandling (I was 16; he was 20). That wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:30 PM
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Every time I see a man in another sub knock FDS, I check their post history. Without fail, every single time their history is full of porn and misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:02 PM
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Totally with you on the instinct to protect. My ex-husband absolutely did not, there were several instances in our 15 year marriage where there was some type of incident in public where I had to deal with it while he cowered in the background. Even things like when a fucking bat was in the house, I had to capture it while he screamed and hid. He was a pussy but loved to act like a big tough guy. My fiancé otoh I don’t doubt for a moment that that man would take a bullet for me and kids without a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:59 PM
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I may have teared up reading that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:54 PM
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Sounds like my ex-husband. Not surprisingly, his life completely fell apart after I finally left his worthless, childish ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:53 PM
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This is from the handbook- https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/d22vzv/given_that_the_risks_of_sex_are_way_higher_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:25 PM
16

Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:35 AM
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I really don’t care, either. I’m 5’7” and my ex husband of 15 years was 5’6”. The first two guys I dated after my divorce were 5’7 and 5’6. My fiancé is 6’1” and I won’t lie, i like that he’s taller than me, but that isn’t why I fell in love with him. At all. But a lot of shorter guys have a chip on their shoulder and that’s what turned me off, not their actual height. “Little guy syndrome” is obnoxious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:38 PM
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For some reason short guys always seem to be the pickiest. Projection and insecurity I guess. Also, at least half the time the guy who says “no fat chicks!” is obese himself. Reminds me of the Simpson’s episode where homer criticizes marge’s weight (under the guise of “telling it like it is”) and she’s like “shut up, you’re the fattest person in the family.” And he’s all wounded; “you don’t have to tell it like it is!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:26 PM
10

I believe it, I was a gym rat and most of the guys were like this, huge, toned upper body, scrawny little chicken legs. They literally could not keep up with me and my girlfriend if we pulled them in on a leg day. We’d be doing 650lbs+ on the leg press and they could barely get through 500.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:04 PM
10

Like a typical guy, he skips leg day, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:01 PM
8

Perfect example of how hitting the gym does not automatically make you attractive. No workout makes up for an ugly face and soul, honey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:00 PM
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Haha! Reminds me of two stories- at a steak house with my ex husband. Waiter hands us the drinks menu and looks at me and says “this section has the girl drinks” (and it was literally titled “girly drinks”). I said “thanks, but I’ll have glenlivet 18, neat.” Out a fancy local place for Valentine’s Day with my fiancé- whoever brought the food wasn’t the waitress that took the order. So they automatically give me the seafood pasta and him MY medium rare porterhouse. I was just like “honey, that st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:41 PM
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Men are so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:17 PM
8

Exactly. My fiancé is the same. I enjoy cooking and I’m good at it so I do the bulk of cooking. But when he makes dinner, he either makes something simple (burritos, steaks or hamburgers on the grill etc) or he looks up a recipe and follows the directions. Like any normally functioning adult should be capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:28 PM
8

My ex-husband always whined about me “nagging.” But if I didn’t “nag” it never got done, and then it was MY fault because “well you didn’t remind me!” There’s no way to “win” they just want to not do it, have you say nothing, and then do it for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:19 PM
21

“Age player” ie pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:49 AM
68

Absolutely not. It’s not only disrespectful of you and your relationship with him, it’s disrespectful of the woman he’s leering at. LVM trait 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 12:41 AM
9

Yes, we’re doing great! He lives in another state now and has minimal contact with the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:22 PM
3

Thank you all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:20 PM
2

She’s fucking tiny to begin with, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:46 PM
237

I convinced my ex husband to sell his handgun to buy weed before I filed for divorced because I was afraid he’d kill us all when I told him (he’d been knowingly overdrafting our account to buy weed for over a year and he’d threatened to kill me and the kids multiple times).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:54 PM
10

I was consistently horrified by the number of men on OLD who had to a of pictures and identifying information of their children on their profile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:41 PM
50

She had another post recently about how he berates her for having had sex with other men before meeting him, calling her a “cum guzzler” and “just a mouth to be used and abused” “nothing but a dick sucker” etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:45 PM
21

Damn that actually made me tear up. She looks so completely broken and defeated :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:02 PM
8

Victim blaming, minimizing, whining about how meeeeaaaannnnn it is that they face repercussions, “ride or die” pickmeishas, porn addicts...exactly what I expected. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:14 PM
196

This is so heartbreaking. I feel so terrible for her and for her baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:50 PM
2

I was seriously crying I was laughing so hard!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:42 PM
9

It was a post in AITA. They have a bot that automatically reposts the OP as a comment in case the original is deleted. OP was deleted while I was reading, so I grabbed a screenshot of the bot copy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:02 PM
5

It was! It got deleted though so I just grabbed the screenshot of the bot copy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:00 PM
5

Someone linked to a Jezebel article about that one up thread! Some men can’t comprehend that there are men who are genuinely attracted to larger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:59 PM
3

AITA boy backs up the OP with a copy in the comments in case it gets deleted and that’s the default color. It got deleted while I was reading through so I had to screenshot the copy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:56 PM
4

Sorry that link was supposed to go up thread! This one got deleted but all the comments told him it was his own fault and to quit whining, basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:55 PM
7

It got deleted but the comments were all “uH YTA, you asked for this, can’t be mad she’s doing better than you!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:54 PM
104

“If you really loved him, you’d let him fuck other women!” Uh. No. Nooope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:31 PM
99

EXACTLY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:29 PM
3

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.opposingviews.com/.amp/category/judge-hands-down-historic-ruling-threesome-custody-case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:23 PM
297

When I was on OLD (now engaged) I had “no bisexual men and no ‘open relationships’” in my main profile. (Nothing personally against bi men, I just didn’t want a monogamous relationship with one). The bi men never contacted/swiped me, the “open relationship” fuckers still tried. And they were alllll so unappealing and trashy. Gag. Ignored/blocked immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:11 PM
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This reminds me of a news story I read about a husband and wife who brought their neighbor into a “throuple.” He had a kid with one of them (I think the girlfriend but I’m not sure). At any rate at one point the ladies decided they didn’t want him around anymore, lol. It made the news because he took them to court trying to say that the non biological mother shouldn’t have any rights to the mutual child. The judge told him that they had the kid as a “throuple” and it had been raised with all thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:01 PM
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“Haven’t found anything that excites me” IE none of the nubile young 20 somethings want anything to do with a fat, balding, middle aged man with no money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:54 PM
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Thank you! I don’t message them either, and never visit their subs. No point, I have better things to do with my time. That was the first and only message from an incel I’ve gotten since posting here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:41 PM
5

Awfully presumptuous of you sir, when you’re clearly no more than a 2/10...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:38 PM
8

So I had to go off the app to do this...change it to only users who are “whitelisted” can message? Hopefully that’s correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:37 PM
10

Why does that not surprise me? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:36 PM
15

I’m relatively new to reddit, I didn’t even know I could do that! I’ll look in to it now. As far as I’m concerned no one needs to message me directly, for any reason. If you can’t respond to me in a sub, you don’t need to. I’m 100% not here for DMs of any kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:25 PM
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He’s a member of MGTOW...yet obsessed with spending his “valuable time” Messaging women on subs who don’t gaf about him lol. Go “your own way” for real, darling. I’ve never once felt the need to message an incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:33 PM
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I fucking full on raged when she started spilling all this. It was promoted by him “catching” her eating a fun size snickers bar. He went on a 30 minute rant degrading her for how “disgusting” and “repulsive” she is because she’s held on to 8 whole pounds of weight after having three kids in less than four years...she’s like 4’10 and went from 90 pounds to 98 pounds. She has a few stretch-marks and a little loose skin on her tummy. And she is absolutely drop-dead gorgeous, strikingly beautiful, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:15 PM
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Misogynist, 5’10, dirtstache. What a winner. This is the same guy who will gain 50 pounds while his wife is pregnant and then refuse to touch her because she went from a size 4 to a 6 and has some stretch marks. (Literally basing that remark off someone I know irl).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:24 PM
152

So basically he groomed her from the time she was 5 years old, very likely started having sexual contact with her while she was a minor, married her as soon as she turned 18, and then had her start pumping out babies one after another. Pretty disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:23 PM
59

Right?? I have zero desire to make my fiancé my “sub.” I just won’t tolerate him actively lusting after other women. Not. The. Same. Thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:23 PM
6

You said he’s romantically interested, you aren’t. So either tell him “I’m not romantically interested but fine with being friends” or quit talking to him. What exactly are you needing advice on outside of that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:57 PM
5

If you’re not interested why are you talking to him??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:49 PM
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Stoya: “If she wants someone who saves his orgasms for her, she might be happier with a partner who shares her views, or a submissive who wants to allow her complete control of their sexual desires.” Oh fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 05:48 PM
2

Nah don’t even bother saying anything. Just block. He knows he’s a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:18 PM
3

This was a recipe for disaster. A child is something like 40 times more likely to be abused by mom’s boyfriend than their biological father. And there were three boyfriends in the fucked up “relationship.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:15 PM
21

It wasn’t a miscarriage, their daughter was stillborn. It’s not uncommon for couples to split up after losing a child. That kind of grief is consuming. He didn’t dump her, they broke up. There’s a difference and I’ve never read anything that would even begin to suggest that he just callously dumped her. They remained good friends up until her death, visited their daughter’s grave together. They had met for coffee the day before she died, actually, iirc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:01 PM
27

I feel like I need a bath now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:11 PM
1

Ah okay, that makes sense. I was very confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 03:10 PM
20

Oh, honey. No self-respecting woman wants a pornsick, limpdick loser in the first place. Byyyeeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:54 PM
13

Why on earth would it be disgusting if it was their mutual child??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:51 PM
14

So empowering! Much feminism! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:52 PM
9

We’re engaged and have been together 3.5 years. He respects my intelligence and values my opinion. He always comes to me with questions about current events and other topics because he genuinely wants to know my thoughts. He’s not intimidated by my mind in the least, unlike literally every single LVM I’ve ever been with (including my ex husband). In fact it’s one of the main things he “brags” about regarding me. He’s never raised his voice to me. He’s never spoken disrespectfully to me in any wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:15 PM
1

I love that I’m intelligent and always curious and eager to expand my knowledge and deepen my understanding of topics of interest to me. I love that I’m not afraid to try new things (like different hobbies). Even if I ultimately decide it’s not for me, I appreciate the learning experience and never view it as wasted time. I love that I embrace getting older (38 this year). I feel like I know myself now in ways I never really could when I was younger. I’m genuinely looking forward to getting olde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:06 PM
4

“You should have dressed like a wanna be porn star!” Wow I can’t imagine why she didn’t swoon over that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:08 PM
1

Good job, Lizzy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:07 PM
3

I think it’s also worse because it’s not “obvious” porn. Even many pornsick losers on some level can comprehend why their SO doesn’t want them watching full on porn. But with instagram it’s “but it’s just a model! She’s not even naked! What’s the big deal??” I think it’s more insidious than actual porn in many ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:53 PM
4

Men- “how dare this woman who doesn’t even know me take basic safety precautions! She should just KNOW that I’m a nice guy, I said I was after all! NOT ALL MEN!” Also men- “oh, you got ‘date raped’? Well, what were you wearing? Did you lead him on? Why’d you’d meet him in that area of town? Did you even look through his social media? Did you even do a background check? Why’d you put yourself in a potentially dangerous situation? What did you expect?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:44 PM
35

Never heard of that, I’ll have to check it out. I remember reading and article on “sexual strangulation” where interviewers questioned a man who said he choked his female partner at her request, even though he didn’t like it. After their questioning, he actually bothered to ask her about it; turns out she didn’t actually like it either, she only said she did because she expected it was something he would want. So they were both doing something dangerous that neither actually enjoyed all because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:53 PM
33

Don’t underestimate how sneaky men can be when it comes to their porn. I’m a blunt person, I would just tell him point blank “I am not okay with you watching porn and masturbating when I’m right here and I love you and want to have sex with you. I feel neglected and like it’s hurting our sex life because you’re choosing that over me.” Set clear boundaries and expectations and demand that he meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:26 PM
119

Strangulation is one of the top ways men KILL intimate partners. It’s disgusting that this has been reframed as some sort of “harmless kink.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:15 PM
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First of all, large age gap. That’s always an issue, whether you want to hear it or not. Especially at your age; 19 vs 28 is an enormous difference. You’re “at odds sexually” because he’s pornsick. He can’t get off without porn. That’s evident by the fact that he can’t even get a blowjob from his 19yo wife without watching porn. He wanted to put it on because he can’t get it up without it. He can’t perform or get off without it (or without imagining it). Your weight and general attractiveness ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:11 PM
26

Good grief. She’s only 17 and from her comments she sounds like she has depression, at the very least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 11:22 PM
3

I speak up about porn all over this place, some handmaiden sent me a PM the other day to let me know that “there’s no misogyny in porn.” Pickmeisha blocked me before I could tell her to visit the subreddits you mentioned, among others. No misogyny in prom? there’s literally a misogyny fetish porn sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:55 PM
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But we’re the “hate sub” because we don’t tolerate that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:21 PM
8

They seem to be the worst in my experience. They think liking abortion somehow makes them amazing and above reproach. My ex husband is like this, he loves to talk about how “bro choice” he is yet he’s the same POS that spent YEARS coercing me into sex I clearly didn’t want (like I’m literally stiff as a board with my teeth clenched hissing at him “hurry up and get the fuck off of me”) daily calling me bitch, nag, slut, cunt, etc. Stalking me, threatening to kill me, getting physical with me...bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:23 PM
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Absolutely. I spent 15 years being my ex husbands mommy and that shit gets old fast. His life literally fell apart after I left him because he had no idea how to be an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:04 PM
7

I mean, good for that priest, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:51 PM
14

Unless they have kids together, exes need to stay in the past. It’s inappropriate for her to be initiating private messages with a man in a relationship imo. Personally I’d ask him to block. Why should it cause tension? If you asking him to cut communications with an ex causes tension between the two of you, that’s a red flag to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:20 PM
24

She’s probably getting a bit old for the “sugar baby” thing too. They usually seem to like them as close to their teens as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:34 PM
8

I posted this as part of a comment in response to someone asking what it looks like when a HVM loves you, I think it’s relevant to this so I’m going to repost it; “Discusses issues/disagreements that come up with the intention of addressing and resolving them and avoiding the same issue in the future, not just trying to “win” and prove he’s right, or just say what he thinks I want to hear to end the conversation. Never raises his voice to me.” We’ve been together for coming up on four years and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:31 PM
15

100% Quit making excuses for poor behavior, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:08 PM
6

This, absolutely. I notice men I find attractive. I do NOT stare, leer, or let my thoughts run away with how “hot” they are. And let’s be real, most men who are “just admiring” are doing the latter. I don’t expect my fiancé not to notice if a woman is attractive. I DO expect him to exercise self control and not use it as an excuse to leer or linger on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 09:07 PM
50

GROSS. And he’s proud enough of this to put it in his dating profile? Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:13 PM
1

Thank you! Even though I’m engaged I decided to join this sub after lurking for awhile because it’s so refreshing to see women who know that you can have high standards for your partner and relationship and have a man who meets and exceeds them. Not because he’s “forced” but because he wants to or that’s just how he is. Like I’ve never had to tell him “don’t raise your voice at me” he just never has because that’s not the type of man he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:52 AM
3

Oh yes, the absolutely are! And all four of them, including my 18yo, adore my fiancé and have a great relationship with him. Just makes it all that much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 11:43 AM
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My ex husband repeatedly told me through our marriage that I couldn’t leave him because no one else would ever love me or “put up with my shit.” He also always said that all the issues on our marriage (including him being alcoholic) were my fault and that even if left I would still be miserable and I’d ruin any relationship I had. I finally took my kids and left his worthless ass after 15 years and guess what? I’m engaged and have spent the last 3.5 years in a very healthy, happy, and stable rel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:05 PM
11

Genuinely enjoys spending time with me, always prioritizes me in how he spends his time outside of work, excited to come home and and be with me. Respects my mind and intelligence, ie initiates conversations on a topic because he’s genuinely interested in my thoughts and opinions, asks me about issues/topics he knows I’m well versed on that he doesn’t know much about, expresses genuine interest in things he knows I like even when it isn’t something that’s necessarily interesting to him. Discusse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 09:11 AM
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They aren’t doing the abusing, but they are actively condoning and promoting it. Yes, the actual abuser carries the greater weight of the blame, but all the lib fems on the side lines telling women that they should want to be choked, punched, slapped, spit on, and otherwise degraded share at least some of the blame. Because if you don’t, you’re a “boring vanilla prude who hates sex” and no man will ever want you. (And god knows that’s the litmus test for a woman’s worth, right?) It’s not an indi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:34 PM
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Translation “hurting you turns me on.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:28 PM
8

She’s struggling to breathe, she’s saying no, stop, she says flat out IT HURTS and half the comments are still saying they’re “just playing” and “she wants it.” This is how fucked up porn makes people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:35 PM
4

It sounds like he had a breeder fetish, actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:19 PM
1

Well now I feel like puking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:08 PM
1

I’m actually more interested in what their idea of a “loser” is. Because given the red pill thing, I suspect it’s something like a man who’s not only faithful, but actually loves and respects his SO and views and treats her as an actual equal, not a servant and a sex toy that should feel grateful for whatever scraps of attention he throws her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:42 PM
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