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| 1 | I have a serious question to ask - Is Life Just Boring?Well for me, coding is the only way I can provide some value so I stick to it since I don't have a life anyway. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | I have a serious question to ask - Is Life Just Boring?It's a whole lot better than mine. I sleep and work (70+ hours) for majority of the day. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | POV:- You are here because you don't have good genetics.Is it even worth to try if you are below 5? | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | If you're having trouble, don't be afraid to read a book on seduction!!Gyms have been closed here for me to start working out properly. I have been doing few workouts at home but not sure if it's making any difference yet. Also not sure if working out will help if I don't even have an attractive face. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | If you're having trouble, don't be afraid to read a book on seduction!!Easier said than done. I lucked out at being an attractive dude so I feel like women will find me creepy even if I was initiating a convo. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | If you're having trouble, don't be afraid to read a book on seduction!!That's a great reminder. I just fail to take action because I fear I might not be enough. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | If you're having trouble, don't be afraid to read a book on seduction!!I've read the theory but am pathetic at taking action 😭 | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 02:59 AM |
| 2 | What’s stopping a person from becoming super fucking confident ?Always not being good enough. | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do you get nervous of talking to girls, especially pretty ones? I’ll explainI always thought it was the opposite? It's hard not to put her on a pedestal, got any tips on letting go of the expectations? | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The Reason You Value Dating Coaches More Than You Value Yourself.Why is it so hard to put yourself on the pedestal?? | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 04:13 AM |
| 1 | To people who feel like past traumatic experiences are holding them backBut does accepting it ever make it easier to not get anxious or let that event define your thoughts? | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 3 | A YouTuber that gave me hopeJust looked him up, he definitely looks way above average in terms of looks. | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | To people who feel like past traumatic experiences are holding them backI still struggle with acceptance, how do you get past this? | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Questions to ask yourselves and solving them. Part 2If you are of the opposite sex, would you date yourselves? What if the answer to this question is no? | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is necessary but not sufficientI've been reading alot lately. Trying to consume as much as possible. I do sort of have no life at the moment because I wasn't good enough to out myself out there, which I'm trying to work on. I just hope it isn't too late by the time I'm in a decent place with self improvement. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Confidence is necessary but not sufficientI understand that but I don't even know where to begin. I've watched lots of videos on it but can't seem to apply to practice. When I see others conversing, they are soo smooth, never running out of things to day, cracking jokes at the right time, making others laugh, being charismatic but for me...I go completely blank, pretty much go into interview mode. Maybe not learning this at a younger age makes it extremely hard to learn now. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is necessary but not sufficientHow do you not.be a boring person? I feel like communication (often monotone) makes me a boring person, which breaks my confidence. Most can speak so fluently. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | You can't become good at seduction (or anything) by reading about it online. You have to try it, fail, then learn from your failures.Your mind is very good at convincing you to put things off (e.g. "don't ask people out, you're fat/ugly/balding/awkward, wait until you've fixed those things before you ask someone out".) It doesn't feel good to put yourself out there until you're your best self, but you have to do it because the way to become your best self by necessity involves putting yourself out there. Don't you need to be WELL-rounded to even get any kind of success? | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Things you can do to become more attractiveSome people are so good with speech, vocal tonality it amazes me how natural it is for them. Wish I had such superpower. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Being a passive person will get you absolutely nowhereHow does one develop quick quick wit and humor? I feel like I suck with words and have 0 clue on how to evoke such reactions. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Curious, how exactly does one create "desire" in man/woman? | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Advice To Become More ConfidentAbsolutely, dead on! I've never been the type of person that was confident, shy, afraid of speaking in general. I'm finally starting to see change in myself, stepping outside my comfort zone, it's translating into other areas of my life too. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Advice To Become More ConfidentHonestly, it was the best decision ever made. I struggle with SA and public speaking, it's slowly making me confident and improving my speaking skills. Since I am new to TM, I can't exactly compare it to the physical session but with the online one, the agenda is mostly the same, 1-2 speakers, then table topics improv, evaluation, ah counter, timer report, etc. I found the group via meetup. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Advice To Become More ConfidentYep, I joined toastmaster this year | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 12:25 PM |
| 76 | If you are having trouble, here is a test to see where you need to improve.Yikes, I need to improve in all of these. Thanks for the list though. | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | What activities/hobbies have you started during Covid, that made you meet new women?Commenting for answers 😁 | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Advice To Become More ConfidentToastmaster online is still a viable option | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Experience is Key!How do people get time to go out for cold approach besides work? I assume it works best for those living in a highly senses city? | /r/seduction | 05/02/21 03:31 AM |
| 0 | How I got the most out JanuaryHow's was the Obama's monolithic autobiography? | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Dating/Relationship Tips!Thanks for your reply. What advice(s) would you give to someone who is completely inexperienced when it comes to dating and looking to get started? | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating/Relationship Tips!How do you determine your value as a male in dating market? | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 01:05 PM |
| 4 | You will meet many women in your life, and the only women that should ever matter to you are the ones who would prefer that you do exactly as you pleased.That was a interesting clip. Thanks for sharing. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Visualization and/or Lists for an Ideal WomanVisualization is a very powerful tool for sure | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How normal guys get laidI'm a curious person and always willing to try anything new. Let's assume the existing social circle isn't too big, what would be the next best option? | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 01:21 AM |
| 350 | Advice from my grandmaBest wishes to your grandma for the fight with covid, hope she makes a speedy recovery. My prayers are with her! | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 12:57 AM |
| 7 | Where are you guys meeting girls at theses days?of course you can! We all can. Humans have the power to change so be the change. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 11:00 PM |
| 28 | Where are you guys meeting girls at theses days?Cheer up man! Stop saying those things to yourself. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | 25M I am going to lose my virginity this week to an escorthttps://reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/l9ro45/25m_went_to_the_escort_she_turnt_out_to_be_a/ there is an update to it lol | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 4 | 25M I am going to lose my virginity this week to an escortLet us know how it goes/how you feel afterwards. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | The reason that HUMOR is super attractiveSorry for being a pessimistic person today. You are right, wishing won't make it come true. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 10:27 PM |
| 5 | The reason that HUMOR is super attractiveBy some I was referring to myself. Yes, I am a good example of unfunny and wish I wasn't. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 09:50 PM |
| 8 | The reason that HUMOR is super attractiveI did join toastmaster that has little bit of improv. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 07:22 PM |
| -4 | The reason that HUMOR is super attractiveI guess some are bound to be unfunny 🥺 | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 84 | The reason that HUMOR is super attractiveHow do you develop a sense of humor if you aren't a funny person? | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.ha I wish! They recently imposed travel ban from Canada. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 12:53 AM |
| 1 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.I need to fix myself up before I can attempt approaches. It's great that you are receiving positive responses, keep it up! | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 11:21 PM |
| 7 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.I'm optimistic so I have hopes. I trust our world's scientists. May not be this year or next but it will settle. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 03:56 AM |
| 4 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.Are you referring to pandemic or the approach? | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 10 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.All the best of luck! | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 12:19 AM |
| 758 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.Here take my upvote for inspiration. Can't wait to approach once pandemic settles. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | How normal guys get laidThank you for the recommendation. It's something I've never thought of doing, maybe it's time for me to step out of my comfort zone and give it a try. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | I managed to let go of the desperationlol it seems like I have written this post. I've been learning to stop caring and focus on my personal development. So far so good, I'm slowly starting to have a positive outcome from this experience. Good luck with your endeavours. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How normal guys get laidWhat kind of social activities do you recommend to expand social circles and meet people? | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Everything is speculative until you take actionThis is a good mindset to have, thanks for sharing and reminding me. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | We could all do with a little motivation. What are your success stories so far?I see, thank you for sharing! | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | We could all do with a little motivation. What are your success stories so far?Agreed, I was just asking out of curiosity as I don't have experience with these type of acts. I was just looking for practical examples, that's all. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | We could all do with a little motivation. What are your success stories so far?Are you able to share what the opener was? | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 17 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”Are there any practical examples? | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | What's that motivational story of yours, to push those of us who chicken out when approaching girls?Commenting to see the answers. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Stop worrying about being creepyThanks, I guess there is still hope for me. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Stop worrying about being creepyThanks for your reply. I've never actually put myself out there with the fear of not being attractive enough so I don't know my where I stand on the scale. I've always believed I fall below average range. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Stop worrying about being creepyAny specific type of therapy? | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Stop worrying about being creepySounds terrifying 🥺 | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Stop worrying about being creepyOh of course, I won't be picking it for the sole reason of meeting women. I do genuinely want to learn and be good at the hobby/skill with the added bonus of meeting people. Thank you once again! | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Stop worrying about being creepyThank you for taking your time to share your ideas. I already have diet discipline down, lost 70 lbs since 2020 and finally entered a healthy range. I just need to stick to a workout routine (though gyms are closed right now). What kind of hobbies can you suggest that involves interaction with people and curate better socialization skills? All my hobbies are isolated that I do by myself at home. | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Stop worrying about being creepyThanks for taking your time to reply. Appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Stop worrying about being creepyThank you very much for the list. Can this compensate for having below average face? | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Stop worrying about being creepyWish I could lol | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Stop worrying about being creepyGenuinely curious on how to stop being ugly? | /r/seduction | 26/01/21 12:46 AM |
| 25 | Stop worrying about being creepyI've heard/read that it can be creepy if you aren't as attractive. How true is this myth? | /r/seduction | 25/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Nervous Around Girls?Thanks for the link, I will check it out. | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Nervous Around Girls?What about even before talking to a girl? | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Nervous Around Girls?Wouldn't being nervous make you look less confident? | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Your race has little to nothing to do with your success with women.This gives me hope being an Indian myself. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I have to improve myself to the point where I am fit and attractive before I can start looking for someone. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What do you actually want from your dating/sex life?Now that I think about it, you maybe right. When is the right time then? | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you actually want from your dating/sex life?Thank you for the assurance. I guess I always had a high expectations of what I need to fix within myself before even attempting to put myself out there. | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you actually want from your dating/sex life?I would describe myself as easygoing, diligent, savvy, compassionate, polite, honest, disciplined. Isn't humorous and charismatic required to attract someone? | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you actually want from your dating/sex life?I don't know, haven't been around women much or at all, never had female friends. Gyms are closed at the moment but I have started bodyweight workouts after losing 65 lbs in 2020. Planning on going next 6 months in hardcode mode and see where it leads me. I know this is something only I can conquer but it gets overwhelming when not knowing how and where to start. I'm also focusing on improving my communication skills, being more charismatic and sense of humor. | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 0 | What do you actually want from your dating/sex life?I don't know if I would want to bother them with it, some of them are married or in long term relationship, busy with their own lives. Why would they want to get out of their way to help a complete noob? My mentality of not being good enough, not being fit enough, not being a high value man or even manly enough to approach someone. At this point in life, I feel like I bring nothing to the table. So until I achieve something in life, I have to wait it out. | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 2 | What do you actually want from your dating/sex life?My own mentality and inexperienced brain combined with not fit enough which I am trying to change this year. Plus I'm 27 surrounded by people that are ready highly experienced. So I am just digesting all the content at the moment. | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 27 | A big misconception a lot of guys have about their looksThis gives me hope at 27. Thanks for the post OP. | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 10:45 PM |
| 91 | [deleted by user]Going to be a long time for me to change before I take any action from this sub but 2021 is all about self investment. Time to crush the year. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 06:08 PM |
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