This is a lot more powerful than it seems and has been my secret for recent successes. Time to put on your Philosophy cap on for a big brain post.

I always tell myself this when I doubt myself:

Prove it.

"She'll reject me, surely"

Prove it.

"I'll never run a marathon that's impossible"

Prove it.

"There's no way I could start a business, it would never work"

Prove it.

Much like Shroedingers Cat, you never know the outcome until you look, it exists in a state of superposition until you take a peak and find out what the result is.

Same is true for life, women, everything. You have no idea what the outcome will be because to you, the result is in a state of superposition until you take action and discover what it is. Sure it's possible that it will be a bad outcome but you can't confirm that until you find out, so it's also possible it's a good outcome.

Imagine a coin that is constantly in flight until the instant you take action, then it lands and you discover whether it's heads or tails. If you had bet on either one would you be guarenteed to win or lose? no.

So when you say something like, "She'd never date me", that is actually false.

Only when you go for the kiss, will you know if you could have gone for the kiss.

So every time you start doubting yourself about something, I want you to think of this post and these words.

Prove it.