Hey, normal guys and ourselves before game got laid the so called "normal" way.

Which is basically not looking for women, but still getting laid in social circles and similar, women often dropping hints at you etc.

Most guys are social and do activities which other women also do.

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Normal guys don't try very hard but still get laid, and when you learn game you try hard with no results.

It's like social circle is easy and everyone can do it. But its very much down to luck, you can go years without any action at all with this approach.

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But why do game "appear" to be harder than getting lucky in a social circle?

I guess it is cause women are attracted more over time, and the ability to attract quickly is an art that needs to reach a certain level.

Also buy doing game, you walk a thin line cause she can't know that she can just have you. To do that there has to be teasing, negging etc, getting her to qualify. Techniques are not a must ofc, there's inner game etc.

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But main reason why game is hard:

1.To attract and get her curious in a short time requires certain things that you have to learn or be a complete natural since women get attracted over time.

  1. In a social circle you don't give away and power like when approaching (The fact that you are approaching and laying intent".

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When saying that you give power away, I mean of course that you reclaim some of it in the interaction, that is game and have to be perfected.