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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Can't get over how dumb I am in natural situationsHehe yeah.. unfortuneatley. Since I didn't claim this great opportunity, I gotta hit the streets and hit around 20-30 approaches to find a hot YES girl again. Life certainly deals it's lessons in the toughest ways | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | What's missing?Not bad advice but I dont think it's a nice guy issue. I'm more "bad" at night time, I calibrate well. Atleast here daygame isn't as normal as in the US so you can't go all in bad boy during the day. I haven't tried setting and exact date. Always good with new ideas to try. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 10:25 AM |
| 3 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isYeah that it is true. I try to work on it as well always catching a new guy at work for a drink, doing dance classes etc. Just said my passion above all else. Im just fucking tired of adapting my life 24/7 so that women will find me pleasing. I know being socially isolated and only doing game isn't that great. So ofc I get some new friends as well. Just don't give a fuck anymore. Constantly adapting yourself to find a woman | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isI spend little time on it since I want to work fully on my hobby/passion | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 08:56 PM |
| 4 | It's crazy how important social circle and status isIt's hard to find people of higher status aka good looking women etc on these kinds of meetups. Doesn't seem to be an easy way to hang with the cool kids. Now I actually prefer hanging with more introverted, even a bit nerdy people. But it yields me zero women | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Questioning the "stop" approachI wasn't talking nightgame here Anyway, I know American bars are quite nice with pool tables and overall social envoirment. But Bars is a no no where I live atleast, it's like resturants with the possibility of ordering drinks, everyone there with there friends, very hard | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Women who choose Beta guys2 weeks ago with a girl who had boyfriend | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Women who choose Beta guysI have game and self control. Got laid 2 weeks ago. And I admit I did the bad thing here, but this was the first time this happend in months. Now I'm calm and focused on my path again. It's just pathetic to look at others. I made one rage post ok | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Women who choose Beta guysGot laid 2 weeks ago with a girl that has a boyfriend, nice try bro. Calling other "incels" is the epithome of insecurity. I have never called someone that | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | When you meet the woman this is "just right".I'm not sucessfull in terms of finding love and I'm certainly no 1000 lays PuA either. Trying to find a solid GF from this. What did it for me was when I threw game out of the window. But you can't start with that. Then you have steps ingrained in your head and you can actually focus on the girl, conversation and connection and go with the flow. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 06:03 PM |
| -6 | When you meet the woman this is "just right".Slut shame much? 2 connecting souls meet and boyfriend is 10000 miles away | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Women who choose Beta guysWasn't upset with him at all really. Just drunk and frustrated about my life. Work your ass off => get dissappointed And everyone else is so happy. But its a primal instinct that needs to be ignored I ignore it 90 % of the time anyway | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 0 | Women who choose Beta guysThat's not true, that's not my issue, but nice analysis. I only get aggressive cause I have bad luck. And sometimes I let the aggression win. Not being able to find love, makes me agressive. But I know its only my primal ape brain, and normally I dont listen to it | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Women who choose Beta guysI agree with this, the only "nice" comment here | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Women who choose Beta guysYeah very beta to work 24/7 on myself | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Women who choose Beta guys1 inch? Since you went as low as 1 inch I guess you got 4 inches. Pathetic american mixed white boy Im a pure bred germanic Swede with a 7 inch | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Women who choose Beta guysYeah sure, got laid yesterday with a girl I cold approached on a bus had a boyfriend too | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Women who choose Beta guysI don't jerk off I dont do that | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Women who choose Beta guysDream on, the beta got scared AF | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 1 | It's all about the menstrual cycleThis is greatly explained but old information for me. I had 5 numbers from daygame at the same time and 1 from Tinder. 3 very strong numbers. Ofc I didn't care then, but all 6 of them flaked and I am left with nothing. Since Tinder sucks here, all I have is game. And even getting a single one takes a massive effort. I work hard in weekdays, work training and passion/hobby So I go the whole weekend to meet women, which I do, get 4-5 numbers. But I got one lay the whole summer. Abundance really is… | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | It's all about the menstrual cycleBut how do we improve as guys then? Sure, you can't get them all but this is too much of a pattern for me to ignore | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | It's all about the menstrual cycleEasy way to view it but we should always look for improvements. But if someone lacks core then yeah, they should focus on that. We really need to get them when they are horny that's it. Never postpone dates that's just the worst idea. Maybe for a funeral. Sure it's high value but you lose the girl when she is not horny, they make a decision to not fuck you, and that decision is 99 % of the times PERMANENT | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 1 | It's all about the menstrual cycleIt just feels like a pattern. Girls really wanting to see you after a great interraction and all of a sudden no more. I actually have a busy life and I had to postpone dates a few times. I will for sure never do that again | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 09:17 AM |
| 0 | It's all about the menstrual cycleI don't think so. They can withdraw interest all off a sudden. That behaviour is different, when they give you the number and text you a little while just so that you won't feel bad they think. You dont spend time with investing texts making plans and then withdraw it. It's certainly something pshycological going on | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Something is missing in my soul. Inner game.Not bad, but motivation is certainly a sticking point. I feel like a lot of things really are meaningless. What is my passion? Music. Do I have to produce a great album in order to be LOVED by women? Do I have to workout more? I feel like these things are kinda pointless introverted hobbies I am doing. Instead whole life should be around building social status. Life stress and weak social status prevent me from actually doing what I love which is music. Instead im doing dancing and other stuff… | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls outside of game seems hard.Yeah I could but I dont enjoy it I dont wanna learn it So its yet another way of finding chicks | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 02:15 PM |
| 0 | Getting girls outside of game seems hard.You are right but its just too much at the moment I train 5 days a week, have a pretty demanding job and I try to meet a girl. Im 28 and have never been happy with my "love life". I never got to keep a girl I liked for very long, and girls who wanted me where not attractive to me. I gotta fix that before 30 and Im gettign CLOSE now with game. Thats the hardest part when you are almost there | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls outside of game seems hard.Nah, can't sit around and nerd on my hobby whilst im not getting laid. I enjoy working on myself, I only enjoy being on a mission and approaching and approaching. It's fun to do a hobby if you got a hot girlfriend. No girl is magically gonna show up when I do my hobby. I get your point but I have other priorities in life. Right now my hobby is actually approaching I enjoy it | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Two solid numbers stopped replyingYeah but when she writes you a thesis and then suddenly stops shit test I guess cause now she back at it with the wall of texts | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Two solid numbers stopped replyingWell put. Let say you start adding a few slick push pulls to your game. Will that be the difference between make or break? Probably not But if we beast 24/7 on absolutley everything, that will make a difference with a lot of girls For me that is game, improve in every area and not only game or one specific element of game | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Two solid numbers stopped replyingI don't I used to roll that way. And of course it settles the deal and we close as fast as possible as we want without messing around with texts. All I'm saying is that although game is worldwide, USA is not the whole world and this shit is nowhere near as acceptable here as in the US. On top of that im a pretty big intimdating guy I dont know man but my flake percantage went from 80 % to 50 % by doing this. What you can is to actually text a bit, and then still go for the night date just ignori… | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youVery good text and spot on. Also who feels needy when they go out? I feel powerful and I have a lot of fun. Approaches in unconventional places are not just going to "happen". You need to force yourself. Then its get easier ofc. OP's text is more relevant to social circles/parties and other natural situations. Of course cold approach is not "optimal". I mean even if you have great game it's not the best way to meet a women. But the advantage is that you can play the numbers game. Hit a certain l… | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youI disagree. To actually approach someone you need some kind of agenda. What is said is very true for parties / natural social envoirments, just talk to everybody. However if you actually gonna approach, you need to push yourself a little bit. Im talking weird places like train stations etc. Is this optimal? No. But you are actually going to do it this way. The important thing is to be curious about her , who is she, and not see her as a target but a unique individual you would like to meet. … | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youYeah don't listen to this theory toddler. They are trying to spot everything and point out theory everywhere. I can't imagine someone being needy when talking to a girl. The only times I feel needy are when I am home alone in my apartment. Outside I feel great especially when talking to women. "But oh then women are making u feel great and thats wrong". Haha theory toddlers. Yeez | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youNo, sitting at home that is when you are needy. Who tf is needy when u are out talking to women? You focus way too much on theory rather then your own experiences. Talking to women you want to talk to is not needy. Its not women, its the goal of achieving a goal worth achieving which is meeting a lovley woman to share your life with | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youAgreed. Some concepts here are correct ofc but what the hell. Don't overcomplicate things, have fun, talk to everyone but you gotta push yourself, not to "approach" but to actually talk to a lot of women You can never be optimal anyway. "Girls can sense this and that". Yeah yeah some bs there. There is some truth to it but if you have fun , are relaxed and courious, those are great energies too | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Getting Feedback From Women Instead Of Trying To Get Them To Like YouThis is great stuff but I have a question. I have sometimes felt like I've become like an orbiter after I had sex with women. Like, I dont call/text them too soon after we met, but maybe i'm too fast arranging another meet. Of course you need to contact her at some point after you met and had sex, but maybe just keep it cool and let her come to you a a bit / be busy Maybe not suggest another meet until a week has past or something. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself"True but being socially savvy etc high value is kinda easy for everyone to work towards, we all have it in us. It just depends on how socially conditioned you are. But yeah, I was so cool with the last chick I was with, but then I got to clingy and ofc she slipped away. You need to maintain this frame , its not done after 1 night together. Then women form some kind of emotional bond and then men can become lazy, become fat and she will still stay with him. But they have this fickleness. I … | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself"I live in Sweden which is a bit of a nightmare. The dating scene here sucks and making friends is also hard. Ofc it works here its just not like in the US where I can get tons of Tinder matches and girls are super social and outgoing here it really is HARD mode. Directness is good, but if there is no smoothness in the intent, it easily leads to instant rejections. "Hey though you were cute" is the worst "good option" so to speak | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself"Yeah I agree with you, this was just a shoutout to everyone who says "just work on yourself and dont look for women" | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself"I don't since I meditate. I don't judge myself and try to change how I feel. I dont fight my brain and try to judge myself for wanting women and shame myself | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself"I don't I just said that to show YOU guys that I got my life together and there is really nothing more I can do "working on myself" apart from MEETING women ofc | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:48 AM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself"bumble is even more dead where I live. Sorry but tinder is all about location It just doesnt work where I live. but I will use it on vacation ofc cause I get loads of matches going abroad | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself"I get loads of tinder matches in other european cities, but tinder is just dead in the city where I live | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 09:46 AM |
| 1 | No success with Raw Cold ApproachingI like what you are saying but this: " You need to let her pass, and then run and stop in front of her. " Dude WHAT? Let her pass and then run doesn't sound good nah and a lot of PUA's reccomend a slight side approach. Sure, I go with the front approach but I don't let her pass. Never ever have I seen anyone recommend letting a girl pass and then running after her? Great text but what was that bro? | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 10:44 AM |
| 3 | "Work on yourself"Yeah I'm doing that right now and I know that it's a number game. It's just the raw cold approaches are difficult. Natural situations are the best. A Tinder date is just so easy, shame I can't get them. Getting to sit down with a women is really easy for me | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 10:42 AM |
| 3 | "Work on yourself"What? I just said that "stop looking" doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | "Work on yourself"It goes very well in dates and natural situations. But I get into these very rarely since Tinder doesn't work too good. Most opportunities are hard cold approaches and they are very difficult | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | "Work on yourself"Haha I don't. Just remember him talking about the clean organized apartment thing. I do it cause I have mild OCD | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Women make your life 'better', not 'good'I've done exactly those things, career money, fit working out and also picked up my hobby. But my whole life is working on myself ALONE. Of course this is not the answer to keep going this way and ignore the women part of my life. Im not mad that Im not with the woman of my dreams. I'm mad that I am not even meeting and connecting with chicks right now | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 09:48 AM |
| 4 | Women make your life 'better', not 'good'I don't know, I got money in the bank, apartment career health everything sorted, working hard working out. But I struggle to come in contact with women and it gets very lonley. My life is very structured but it's lonley as fuck without a woman. I'm a man in my best years. I'm tired of hearing this work on yourself, I do it everyday and everything is going very well except for women. I don't meet any women naturally, when I do it usually goes well, but meeting women is so damn hard. Tinder doesn… | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 09:47 AM |
| 1 | No success with Raw Cold ApproachingBut in the night life and on buses train where it's more natural to make contact it actually works. Friend of similar physical attractiveness has had good sucess, such a shame I never go by bus/train. Like, if you get into a situation where its not batshit crazy to talk to her, you don't need to throw intent right away and u can actually make a conversation But the actual raw cold approaching stopping girls is hard | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Without cold approaching, I would be an incelMalmö Sweden | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Downside of raw game / cold approachVery good point, I thought about that too. | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Being a nice guy is all about being feminine.I don't want them as friends and I'm always sincere But women I talk to who I am not interested in, I never befriend them. Not that I would want but Its just an observation | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Being a nice guy is all about being feminine.Lol nice looking for validation | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Being a nice guy is all about being feminine.You look like a total nerd man A good advice if you are going to call people "dork weasels" perhaps dont upload a dork weasel picture of yourself on the internet And oh my god you are talking about SpaceX and shit as well.. I can't.. I just can't | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 09:26 AM |
| 2 | How normal guys get laidWell sitting on your ass doing nothing will atleast do nothing for you. You think too far ahead. Actually talking to women alliviates depression. Having women interested in him ? Wtf? To have that you actually need huge social circles and be an extremley social person. Pickup is the only thing that really work for introverted guys since we dont have big social circles. I think doing hardcore pickup just to get some girls will help a lot. And and the same time building something up, like becomi… | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How normal guys get laidI don't focus on that. Just talking to women. But I can't meet women cause I don't have a social circle or feminine interest. What I do is workout at home and play music and with my band. The only way for me too meet a woman is to approach a stranger. I just cant have a social circle | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 12:19 PM |
| 2 | How normal guys get laidFine but this was not about being attractive. You guys focus way too much on the attraction part. What I meant was more the process. Pickup is hard, but having a huge social circle is easy, just for the fact that you meet a lot of women. Does that make sense. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 12:17 PM |
| 0 | Is it time to go more agressive/persistantI meant more when they say I have a boyfriend beacause they wanna get out of the situation or didn't get a strong enough vibe from you. Perhaps you can bring it back with agression | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | "Small" city gameYeah but what I meant is that i am experienced enough to not seem like a creep, also well dressed and a 7 in terms of looks/height The 120k city I live in is very close, like 5 miles from the 350k city, with small towns all around shouldnt be that easy to ruin my reputation right | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | "Small" city gameI am not afraid of embaressment, I practiced in London Im just afraid to be framed as some guy that mass approach since that isnt too socially acceptable here | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 07:25 PM |
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