"Work on yourself"

Ashido_Komaki · 2021-04-01T10:23:00+00:00

You have to go out in the field and meet different women till you find the right one. Working on yourself is the 1st step now you have to go out your comfort zone, I'm currently working on this step.

Fickle_Staff2247 · 2021-04-01T15:36:38+00:00

Work on yourself cause of YOU big dog, not anybody else. At the end of the day you are what’s most important and you should be doing all of these things to impress yourself! With that being said, of course if you throw the cold shoulder on women and neglect them, things won’t come your way as easily. The whole “being cold” towards women is overrated. If you act like you don’t give a shit what someone has to say or offer then of course they won’t come your way. Be easy going and be fun, but that also doesn’t mean sell yourself short and beg for attention/ act like you have no options. Be interesting. As far as social media dating goes, I’ve had MUCH more success on bumble than tinder, and I heard hinge is a good one too. (Met my current gf on bumble). Stay positive bud

davidstjarna · 2021-04-01T17:57:07+00:00

Don’t think about what you have as if your a bank or a list of positive character traits that you show your life coach. Just be fun and entertain the bitch, aside from that work on yourself all you want — there’s a reason successful people rely on escorts. Women don’t want them because they’re not fun people. Guys with nothing going for them can get bad bitches though—they know how to be funny and entertaining.

raccLunatics · 2021-04-02T05:13:52+00:00

I know you’ve been working on yourself but have you just enjoyed life? Doing the things you love not thinking about women ,it’s hard but I’m telling you that’s what you got to be doing the things you love hang out with the people you love if it’s only one person or even if it’s your dog your time will come when it’s off your mind

LakersAreTerrible25 · 2021-04-02T05:37:47+00:00

Working on yourself alone won't inherently get you more girls. Although I'm a fairly good looking guy at 6'5 with good facial and hair genetics, I get my no more girls now that I have money than I did when I was broke living with my mother (probably less to be honest). Looks don't really matter either, but my point being that actually being around enough women is the only way to get them. Quality girls don't do online dating anymore, so in person is the only way now

Shadow__Account · 2021-04-01T11:22:27+00:00

So you don’t understand what working on yourself means, it is not all the external things you are clearly working on, which are also important, its the internal work that you are clearly avoiding. So yeah “work on yourself”

kettlebell_workout · 2021-04-01T10:21:51+00:00

I neglected women for 2 years, just working on myself, and guess what, I got laid ZERO times during those 2 years.

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Chunka23 · 2021-04-01T15:13:15+00:00

I wonder what you actually look like? A lot of guys feel like they look good and they look average. Send me a picture if your okay with that.

Maybe you aren’t being direct enough? A lot of my friends have success because they are very direct, I am not so I am lagging behind.

Also why can’t you use tinder? Where are you located?

I carried myself well for years and I’ve had a girl come up to me each year showing very high interest.

frau_lucas · 2021-04-01T09:56:12+00:00

Maybe your problem is liking Jordan Peterson

sangresangria13 · 2021-04-01T09:58:26+00:00

Maybe you need to practice your flirting technique, your approach to women that you are interested in and expand the scope of the type of woman that you are looking for.

juansolo_32222 · 2021-04-01T13:30:56+00:00

What are you conversation like when you talk to a female? Don’t try to hard be yourself an let her do most of the talking 🤝

AruiMD · 2021-04-02T06:22:53+00:00

FU, u work on yourself.

(April fools)

Suprr_slurppy · 2021-04-02T07:20:03+00:00

my problem is being tall, because i know girls like tall guys and i kinda have a problem with that

melancholy_coffee · 2021-04-02T08:24:36+00:00

Well, you miss understood the whole work on yourself thing, yes hte focus is on improving your situation but capitalizing on the opportunities that come your way.

Title	"Work on yourself"
Author	davidstjarna
Upvotes	12
Comments	36
Date	April 1, 2021 9:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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