We all know that you can get any type of girl from cold approach. A usual mistake that beginners make are that they slut shame women and think that only "sluts" go out and that it's only slutty women that you can get from pickup.
Of course those are excuses and has no connection to reality.
However..
I started approaching again during corona and got laid a few times, mostly with exchange students.
One of the girls even said that she was a "Daddy's girl" and missed home and everything.
The girls I get from pickup, stars shine in their eyes, and it goes very smoothly. They are fun, we have fun. But they often seem to have some kind of issue. Like homesickness, life stress.
In my experience, I still haven't been able to form a meaningfull relationship from "game" a.k.a cold approaching.
Of course I only know that it's a matter of time before I meet a more grounded girl, improve even further and have a great approach.
But it does seem to me that a lot of girls you get this way are a little bit broken, or just want a man quickly to comfort them.
I will of course keep going, but I will also look at alternatives.
I have been thinking of something I call "semi cold approach". It's a middle ground between social circle and raw cold approaching.
For example taking acting/art classes, meeting a lot of women naturally, and most importantly, meeting women naturally when we both are SOBER. Forming more of a connection before getting laid.
Of course moving the interraction fast but a bit slower.
Something like this could be good to try to find a girl to form a relationship with.
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