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| 314 | I don't know how i could have expected anything different from the new Matrix movie. | General | Input_output_error | /r/MensRights | 23/12/21 11:51 AM |
| 63 | Not all men are sick raving sexual predators! (but according to the comments its okay to assume and judge every man for being a pervert) | Social Issues | Input_output_error | /r/MensRights | 12/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 34 | Is 'the death grip' a side effect of circumcision? | Intactivism | Input_output_error | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 06:49 AM |
| 18 | Violence by proxy. | General | Input_output_error | /r/MensRights | 24/05/20 09:10 AM |
| 11 | Women writing men.. | General | Input_output_error | /r/MensRights | 16/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What wave of feminism is this? | Feminism | Input_output_error | /r/MensRights | 25/10/20 08:13 AM |
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| 18 | In Defense of Gen Z MenIt is not that you're wrong, it is just that I do not believe that a coherent message does anything in a world that is dominated by soundbites. The attention span of the average voter isn't as great as their indoctrination of the US propaganda. It isn't really their fault either as everyone is bombarded all day with random crap and useless shit. With today's targeted spam and the hellscape that is earth at this time has made it become easy to trigger most of the population. Combine this with the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/07/26 01:41 PM |
| 8 | The r/comics subreddit is moderated by radical feminists who claim that misandry only exists in theory, as does racism towards white people. It got me banned."only men are responsible for the behavior of bad men because they'll listen to them but they won't listen to women." I believe some women can say this and it is absolutely true that men don't want to listen to them. The problem is just that it isn't that 'men' don't listen to what women have to say, it is about men not wanting to listen to what she has to say. I mean, i know a few of them that i seriously do not listen to, at the same time there are also some men as well that i won't ever liste… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/06/26 07:43 AM |
| 42 | Both the "Red Pill" and "Progressive" narratives about men are wrong. Here is a structural analysis of why men are opting out.What do you guys think of this framework? Is looking at this as a "cost vs. benefit" equation more useful than the current culture war narratives? Not really, from what i'm reading here the only difference between the structure you've chosen and the Red pill is that you choose not to lay the blame where it lies. All you need to do for it to be the exact same argument is to ask the question of how exactly these 3 points came to be. As to point one For most of human history, the male social contra… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/06/26 05:56 PM |
| 14 | As a curious outsider, I have 10 questions for MRAs.It isn't so much women that "oppress" men, it is more that women often do not care about any problems men face because of their gender. Neither, we live in an oligarchy. Yes, because misandry can be openly displayed without any repercussions. Equality It isn't a matter of supporting it or not it is a matter of facing reality. As long as people go to war there will be drafts regardless of what anyone thinks about it. The problem i have with the draft is that it isn't applied equal when it comes t… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/26 10:19 AM |
| 4 | SoCal college bans men from gym areas to make women, non-binary students more comfortableYou're not wrong either, the thing is just that the image that is being painted here is that somehow there needs to be a 'safe place where there won't be any men'. It is just downright demonizing regardless of the space and time allocated to it. The only thing this will do is put more tension on the group dynamics. There isn't another group of people that can be treated like this without serious out lash. Just imagine someone wanting to have a room where there aren't any Jews allowed or women, d… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/26 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that feminism might be useful in certain societal context?Feminism is a field trying to understand how men being in power for generations has affected society And immediately you bring it back to 'men', again it isn't about men it is about power. Who are you to dictate what factors of power are of interest? The topic is about feminism. So I'm looking to explain to you what feminist thought actually generally says about what patriarchy is. It is about how feminism keeps missing the ball and keep harrowing about men. I'm not interested in talking about q… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/04/26 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that feminism might be useful in certain societal context?Feminists are just saying that that exclusive position of power has been largely held by men for many, many generations, which has allowed a bunch of things that favour men and harm women to come about through the power they've had to shape society. This right here is the problem you keep "missing", this isn't about 'men' but about 'power'. The fact that feminist keep harrowing on about 'men' is the problem here. The term you're looking for is 'oligarchy', a few people in power that shape societ… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/04/26 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that feminism might be useful in certain societal context?I mean feminism isn't a monolith but that is not an accurate portrayal of how patriarchy is conceptualised. It's not the Illuminati. It's a structure, where powerful men people have more influence to shift in lots of ways big and small, either laws, or through little decisions and influences that affect what cultural ideas get accepted, norms and behaviours that protect their priviledge and keep others in their place. People with less power interact with that culture and reinforce it, or enforce… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/26 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?Plan b doesnt cause abortions, it prevents pregnancies from starting. And abortion pills are only effective within the first 12 weeks. Like i said, while technically not the same thing it is just a pil. If a woman is 6 months pregnant and the father changes his mind, should she be forced to get an abortion? Like i said, where is the women's responsibility in all this? A woman that is pregnant for 6 months without noticing anything is doing something wrong. And what is it with moving the goalpost… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 09:34 AM |
| 7 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?There are still other abortion medications besides the plan b pil like Mifepristone, while technically not the same thing it is still just a pill. So, yes i believe women should be held responsible for their own bodies. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 09:25 AM |
| 11 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?Well yes, if the man doesn't consent to parenthood i don't think a 'plan B' is that much to ask for. If she is grownup enough to have sex with people she should also be responsible for her own body. Nobody is forcing her to have an abortion, she chose to have sex with someone who she knew didn't want to have a child with her at that time. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 09:17 AM |
| 12 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?Fairly simple, both parents want to have this child together or there won't be a child. Because, if we truly want what is best for the child then wouldn't that mean two loving parents that want them to be in this world and care for them? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 09:09 AM |
| 7 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?having equal reproductive rights is complicated. you say that either consenting to sex is constenting to parenthood or it isn't. but only women can become pregnant and this can come with health and mental complications, even in a easier or more by the book pregnancy. By this same logic it is only men that can become a parent against their wil, this too comes with its own sets of mental and health complications. Why is it okay for men to have to go through these difficulties against their wil? If… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 09:07 AM |
| 14 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?If consenting to sex is consenting to parenthood then i guess there is no need for abortions? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 08:50 AM |
| 39 | Is anti-abortion sentiment driven by anti-feminism pushback?The problem that i have with abortion is the fact that men don't get to have that option. In a perfect world no one should become a parent against their wishes and children should be welcomed by both parents. It isn't about being anti feminist, it is about reproductive rights that men simply do not have. If having sex is the same as consenting to parenthood then abortions shouldn't be needed unless it is life threatening. We all know that this isn't the case as abortions are a thing. So the choi… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/26 06:56 AM |
| 45 | Do you think that feminism might be useful in certain societal context?No, it can not work because the premise that it is set on is faulty. The whole patriarchy theory is build upon the idea that men have all the power and they collude to keep women suppressed. This whole idea is bonkers because they assume that all men are equably powerful and that is not the case. Most men are powerless in comparison to the women of the upper echelon and it is not even close. And the idea that men are somehow in collusion to somehow 'ban women' from higher positions is ludicrous.… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/26 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Misandrist, Condescending UK Ad Campaign Gets even more ridiculousYou're right, often opinions say more about the person having them than it does of the person it is about. That being said, if you yourself gave a shit about it it shouldn't be hard to understand that some people still do give shits about that. So when it is your partner that gives a shit then you should give at least a little shit about it too. This isn't about what others might think, it is about what your partner perceives. I think the add is referring to this, not just this, but this as well… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/26 09:57 AM |
| 6 | Misandrist, Condescending UK Ad Campaign Gets even more ridiculousIf my partner has an opinion on my outfit being daggy/ not formally appropriate for an event- how is that protective ? Do you want to have a mother in law that doesn't think you're good enough for their child? Do you want your extended family or people at a workplace to think of you as someone to avoid? That is what they are protecting you from. Family and co-workers aren't people that you hand pick, they are people you have to deal with. When it comes to their family or their workplace they wil… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/26 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Bodily functions are no excuse for misandryDo we have to support our spouses? Of course we do! But that doesn't mean that acting out these hormonal problems is acceptable in any way, shape or form. Having a stressful, bad day at work isn't the same as having problems regulating the resulting feelings that they bring to the surface. Voicing out frustrations is absolutely a must in every relation, acting them out isn't. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/26 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Bodily functions are no excuse for misandryLike yes- we have a responsibility to work on it, try to understand triggers etc, and minimise the fall out- but often its’ really fucking hard. I kind of equate it to the idea behind “drunk words are sober thoughts”. I’m not making the problems up in these times- I’m just not supressing them like I used to. Yes.. Regulating emotions is hard, we all have to do this. What's the big deal? I mean, yea shit is frustrating but that isn't an excuse to act like an asshole. But like every situation and … | /r/MensRights | 20/02/26 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Men currently have no reproductive rights once a pregnancy happens — and that’s a problemANYTHING we can do to maximise the chances of a child having an engaged father must be done. This includes forcing fathers to pay for children they have sired. So, does this ANYTHING of you also include women not being able to get that child? I mean, you're holding someone responsible for a choice that they didn't make. Either having sex is consenting to parenthood or it isn't, can't have it both ways. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/26 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Men currently have no reproductive rights once a pregnancy happens — and that’s a problemYea, the problem is just that i don't think that having a child as a single mom is what is actually best for that child. Better would be adoption from birth of a couple (regardless of what mixing) that wants but can't have their own child. Plenty of fucked up children in the system, most of them are there because they have been ruined by the bad decisions of their single mom. If they'd truly did what is best for that child they would take it away and give it to a couple that wants a child but ca… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/26 03:06 PM |
| 7 | Feminism doesn't apply intersectionality correctly when it comes to menThe problem as i see it isn't as much the people of the internet, but rather how patients turnt the tool into a weapon. It went from, as a tool for a therapist to remind them about the struggles a person might have had into the (often imagined) struggle being used as weapon in order to demand sympathy. It has become something of a sexist/racist ideal by their mere usage of gender and race. There is no actual way to invoke someones race or sex as having inherently more problems without being raci… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/26 12:41 PM |
| 1 | "What about the men" doesn't work when it's a national law or general policy.The big problem with DEI is that no matter the mental gymnastics, it is racist/sexist at its core. There is just no way to advantage or disadvantage a group based on either race or sex without it being racist/sexist in nature, this seems very obvious but apparently it isn't. We should want less racism and sexism, not more and certainly not institutionalized forms of either of them. There is no way to fight racism or sexism by introducing more racism or sexism, it just makes shit worse. That does… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/25 09:10 AM |
| 24 | How do you respond to being called "incel", "misogynist" or any other shaming buzzword to the same tune?How would you respond to being called those things? Oh, just stop being so femotional. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/25 02:10 PM |
| 6 | Misogynic content regularly gets more upvotes than downvotes on this sub. What does it say about this sub and the men's rights movement?Yes MRA is, but the reality is that the misogyne here is much milder than the misandry all over Reddit in general. If i had to get pissed off at all of that it'd be a full time job. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/25 11:49 AM |
| 6 | Why "The Patriarchy" Is Actually a Gynocentric Oligarchyhttps://www.who.int/publications/i/item/practice-manual-for-establishing-and-maintaining-surveillance-systems-for-suicide-attempts-and-self-harm 2.4.7.1 'Basic statistical analyses' Gives the statistical analyses of how they get their numbers | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/10/25 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Why "The Patriarchy" Is Actually a Gynocentric OligarchyAlso, looking at just attempts can be somewhat misleading because a single person who attempts multiple times but isn’t fully committed will be counted as multiple attempts. It is much worse than that, it isn't just suicide attempts that get logged as such, they put ALL forms of self harm under this same statistic. The percentage of patients that harm themselves are overwhelmingly female. Self harm is also something that comes back in times of severe stress. This inflates the attempted suicide s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/10/25 11:17 AM |
| 10 | Misogynic content regularly gets more upvotes than downvotes on this sub. What does it say about this sub and the men's rights movement?That's the defence you give the general public? Yes, the MR sub upvotes misogynistic content, but it's pretty mild? And how has that been working for you? Yes, i do and it works wonders. Just like i let mild misandry slide, i wouldn't have a life if i didn't. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/25 10:43 AM |
| 9 | Misogynic content regularly gets more upvotes than downvotes on this sub. What does it say about this sub and the men's rights movement?An example from a couple of days back, a post seriously suggesting that men are better at any hobby and discipline than women was upvoted and allowed by mods (removed now): Oh the horror, how could the world still be turning with such cruelty in it... But on a more serious note, this seems pretty mild. I mean, it isn't as if they're advocating for violence or harm upon anyone. If these are the kinds of misogyne that you're mad about you might not want to look into what feminists are spewing. Lik… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/25 09:23 AM |
| 53 | I am a former misandrist, please read this to educate yourself on misandryYou're partially right, the problem with men getting rid of social barriers is that 'men' as a group aren't listened to. You can have a single woman complain about something and society will listen to her, you can have a group of men complain about something and society will scuff at them. The moment a man raises concerns about their treatment they're bullied into accepting their plight. Feminists are the worst offenders in this, in their minds no man can get harassed by a woman so in their mind… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Obama talking about boys problems, immediatly divert it to the effect on womenPerks like not having to register for the draft in order to be able to vote, reproductive rights, everything chivalrously (so no exceptions for being a woman), access to homeless shelters and other exclusively female governmental programs, being a default parent, knowing that your offspring is really your offspring, giving up female only spaces just like the men had to give up theirs. I could go on, but i think you get the jest. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/25 07:49 AM |
| 7 | How the right is actually hurting men more than the left.Yes, i agree Trump is an ass but that is completely missing the point. Being in politics makes you corrupt as per default, there is no other way of getting to the top in politics than through some form of corruption, specially so in the US. I'd say that being a positive influence for the community and trying to uphold some value's should be the bare minimum from every politician. I know this isn't the case, but that is what they're there to do. That one group does the bare minimum doesn't make t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/25 12:34 PM |
| -2 | How the right is actually hurting men more than the left.Then just maybe he should have written that? Or you know, pick someone else but Trump for his example. I don't believe that there are many if any politicians that aren't in politics for selfish reasons even when their platform runs on social equality, all of them are only focused on their particular interests.. That is politics in a nutshell, everyone is in it for their own gain. That isn't to say that i don't prefer one way over the other, but you have to understand that politics runs on corrup… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/25 08:15 AM |
| 17 | How the right is actually hurting men more than the left.Even Trump, known as quite the womanizer is actually one of those: "protect women and children" type of people. He is extremely keen on sending men out to carry out military duties internationally (wasting billions and lives). Trump really isn't all that keen on protecting anyone, it's the opposite even, he doesn't care about anyone but himself. Yes, he sends men to their deaths and doesn't care much for them in general, but that doesn't mean that he protects children. If he really was about tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/08/25 07:33 AM |
| 8 | Obama talking about boys problems, immediatly divert it to the effect on womenSo, when men don't feel as if they count it is a bad thing but the moment 'men' do what feminism has been doing for over a centurie about women feeling this way it isn't a good thing... Feminism and their patriarchy have done nothing but complaining about what they perceive 'men' to do, but that somehow is is 'enlightened' for some strange unexplained reason. The thing that truly scares feminism is actual gender equality, the moment that men want some of the perks that women have enjoyed they're… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/25 08:00 AM |
| 17 | Australian woman calls for restrictions on all men working in child care, to protect children from sexual assaultSo yes, there are woman who are above 6 feet tall, but for every women there are 145 men. It's kind of similar for when we look at child sexual abusers. I'd suspect that the percentage of female is higher, but the ratio in the best could be around 10 males to 1 female. This is bullshit, sorry but it is. There are a lot of female sexual abusers that go under the radar because of the fact that they're women and supposedly are incapable of rape or abusing someone sexually. But that is besides the p… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/25 09:09 AM |
| 8 | Reproductive RightsRight, and women have to option to not get pregnant, so why are there abortions? | /r/MensRights | 24/06/25 06:58 AM |
| 14 | Reproductive RightsMen can also give children up for adoption and can also use safe havens/safe surrender sites. No they can't, or at least not without the consent of the mother, this consent doesn't go both ways, so this is false. Literally the ONLY place women have options that men don't is the part of the process that applies only to them and doesn't apply to men, the actually bearing the pregnancy part. But that's not really the law making it that way, that's just mother nature. Right, by this logic men should… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/25 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement?Good question, lotionized seems all fancy, but you can't flush them. I would like to flush them.. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Serious: Why do you think people on reddit (and the real world) are so disgusted by the MensRights subreddit/movement?Now, hear me out. What if Andrew Tate's face was printed on these asswipes, would you use them? | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communitiesRight.. It's so important to call out those very few but not the majority of the other side.. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communitiesYea no, none of this makes "men's far-rights" not an attempt to set a tone. If they'd called feminist "feminazi's" everyone and their granny would be up in arms. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/25 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Women who hate men: a comparative analysis across extremist Reddit communitiessimply to give context No it is simply to build a narrative. Just because it is said once doesn't mean it isn't misandrist. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/25 01:17 PM |
| 19 | The reason why I think pro-male ideologies failSorry, but i really can't see anything 'patriarchal' about it, he is a stupid ass hat, but i fail to see how that is patriarchal? His demeanor is highly masculine for sure, but that doesn't what he does patriarchal, it makes him an ass hat. Patriarchy theory is as mythical as unicorns and dragons, to use their lingo just is not very constructive. Most of the feminist lingo are terms coined to demonize men in general, things like toxic masculinity or mansplaining shouldn't be used at all. Words l… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/25 11:54 AM |
| 23 | The reason why I think pro-male ideologies failThere are some pro-patriarchy movements for sure, but those only favour the men at the very top while crushing everybody else in different degrees of awfulness. What are these 'pro-patriarchy movements'? Do you mean religions? Religions can be patriarchal but are mostly hierarchical in nature. I really can not think of a single pro-patriarchy anything, even the monarchy hasn't been patriarchal for a long time. Hierarchical structures aren't the same thing as patriarchal structures even if femini… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/25 11:27 AM |
| 2 | "Time for ‘shock therapy’ — how to get our 7 million dropout men back to work"Bai lan! | /r/MensRights | 11/04/25 12:52 PM |
| -1 | Denmark Moves to Women’s Mandatory Military Service Sooner Than Expected ━ The European ConservativeRight, because everyone just goes along with the madness of the US invading Greenland? If you really believe that the US is willing to start a nuclear war over this then i have a bridge to sell you. | /r/MensRights | 03/04/25 12:24 PM |
| 0 | Denmark Moves to Women’s Mandatory Military Service Sooner Than Expected ━ The European ConservativeIn case of Denmark, are there a lot of people who would like to fight US over Greenland? There aren't many people on this earth that would like to fight anyone, the only people that 'like' to fight are the zealots. So no, no one would like to fight the US, but that doesn't imply that the other countries of NATO won't defend Greenland. There isn't a choice when you're the ones being attacked. Do you think that Ukraine should just roll over and let themselves be conquered by Russia? Ukraine didn't… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/25 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Male privilege explained - a rebuttalI get the AOCs and Marjorie Taylor Greenes of the world are maybe who come to mind by virtue of being some of the loudest voices.. but for every one of those there's probably five like Betty McCollum you've likely never heard of. The fact that no one know Betty McCollum but everyone knows at least Marjorie Taylor Greenes but likely other radical women from either the right or left. My point still stands though, if women feel that they're under represented then they should do better! I would assu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 11:19 PM |
| 15 | Male privilege explained - a rebuttalWomen aren't more members of government for the same reason women's sports don't make as much as men's sports. Women don't support Women. This isn't true, it isn't the support that is the problem, it's their politics that very few can get behind. Just have a look at the women who are in politics, they're almost always polarizing regardless of their side. The ones on the left often go all in against the mythical patriarchy and the ones on the right are full blown MAGA idiots. There is very little… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?You didn't answer my question, you're talking about people wanting children, i'm talking about people that do not want children. This isn't about shaming people that do want children, it is about shaming the people that don't want children. Like you've said, we can't prevent all suffering. But it seems to me that this suffering very much can be prevented, so why not do it? How is it not okay to prevent a life from sprouting but at the same time perfectly fine for children to grow up in unloving … | /r/MensRights | 13/02/25 10:35 AM |
| 14 | What’s your opinion on baby trap?it is what it is and it’s sexual assault when they lie about BC , tamper with condoms as they have taken consent away You've spelled rape wrong, stealthing is considered to be rape it shouldn't matter who does the stealthing. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 11:33 AM |
| 9 | What’s your opinion on baby trap?I mean, sure the man wouldn't be responsible for the child, but that wouldn't make him 'not a father'. You see, whenever a woman gives a child up for foster care (that's the thing that comes closest to it) it seems perfectly normal for them to still call themselves a mother. No one bats an eye if they still feel an emotional connection to their child. I count myself among those people, it isn't weird at all to wonder what has become of offspring that you had to let go of for whatever the reason.… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/25 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?If he doesn't know, he won't be there. The woman is under no obligation to inform the fater of anything. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?I think a baby appearing in the hatch combined with a woman wailing about how someone stole her baby is a dead giveaway that she didn't want the baby to end up there. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?But that isn't how reality works though, the reality is that when a man would do this without the woman's consent it would be seen as kidnapping. A woman doesn't even have to inform the father to be that he is going to be a father at all, so there isn't anything preventing her to not tell the father. And even if she told the father there is very little he can do to claim the child at all. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?I would ask of you what would be the bigger injustice, having children grow up under tragic circumstances, unloved, not cared for and with little to no chance of an actual life. Or them not having to go through that? I have seen a lot of parents that simply are incapable of raising children for a variety of reasons. Some might not have the means, some aren't responsible or both, there are 'accidents' by people that really didn't care but went through the motion, etc etc.. There are a lot of reas… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/25 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?What do you think will happen to a women when she, without the fathers consent, drops the child off in a responsible manner in a safe haven? Now what do you think will happen to a man if he, without the mothers consent, drops the child off in a responsible manner in a safe haven? Do you think these two cases would be treated exactly the same way? I don't believe that to be the case. The father will never be able to drop his child off at a safe haven without the mothers consent while the mother c… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/25 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?It’s not a legal double standard, though, it’s a biological one. There would be a legal double standard if we tried to legislate the biological reality away somehow. Yea no, a double standard implies that two similar things are treated differently, as the difference is biological they aren't similar things. Thus, there are no double standard when the rules different for two different parties in order to maintain equality. What you're saying basically advocates for abolishing women's sports, phys… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?Condom use is never 100% and having a vasectomy... really?? I dont think that a young man that wants a family later in life should have to undergo this. By the time they're ready for it it probably can't be undone anymore. And you can never be 100% sure about what someone else wants when that point actually arrives. All your points sound an awful lot like anti abortion rhetoric, i mean.. Why should there be abortions if she could have had safe sex? If she didn't want to have any children why did… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/25 12:27 PM |
| 6 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?But wouldn't a paper abortion completely take any responsibility away from men while still making women at least choose about literal life and death for the child? What responsibility do you mean exactly? It doesn't take away the responsibility that men have towards children that they wanted to have. Having a child is 100% a choice in the modern western world, there are so many ways to prevent or end pregnancies that there are no women forced into parenthood. Why can't men have this same right? … | /r/MensRights | 01/02/25 12:10 PM |
| 2 | "Just be sad with me"Everyone needs to be heard every now and then and that is perfectly fine. Feeling the need to be heard doesn't in any way imply that you understand what the actual solutions are. Sure, no wants to hear the platitudes and they do more harm than good. However, 'processing our negative emotions' is very much figuring out what the solutions are and steps too take to negate your emotional distress. The problem is reacting on emotions versus acting on your emotions. Imagine two naked people that step … | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 11:09 AM |
| – | I was scammed and I thought I began a relationshipI told her I’ll give up my religion if that helps. My dude, i can't say that i'm a fan of any organized religion. But never, ever deny yourself. If you have faith in this, then that is perfectly okay and anyone you date should be 100% okay with that. There are things you can change about yourself in order to progress a relationship. Making sure the lid is down is one thing, giving up on your faith is on a whole other level. Like you've said, yea it is sort of on you for being desperate, but i do… | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/12/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | The left approach to losing male voters is to explain how their cause is wrong.Right, abortions should be heavily restricted (with medically necessary exceptions to preserve the life of the mother) because nobody should need anybody's consent for existing. Not right, abortions are needed because people that don't want children have no business raising them. They shouldn't be killed just because they are unwanted. And once they are born, they still deserve to be cared for like any other child, without discrimination. An early termination of pregnancy is in no way, shape or … | /r/MensRights | 17/12/24 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Shame on the men exploiting Lily PhillipsDon't give them the clicks, archived link | /r/MensRights | 16/12/24 11:55 AM |
| 5 | The left approach to losing male voters is to explain how their cause is wrong.Yea that is the thing, if having sex is the same thing as consenting to parenthood then there wouldn't be any need for abortions. Children should only be born to parents that chose to have them, that is what is best for the child. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/24 09:25 AM |
| 15 | DID I JUST GET RED PILLED?Build health men's community and spaces. Be strict about anti bigotry in those spaces as currently most visible men's spaces are dominated and characterized by that. The problem is that most male spaces get closed down as soon as they get any attention. The bigotry part is just wild, honestly, would you say the same about any female spaces? Most visible women's spaces are riddled with misandry, but no one seems to care about that!? When critiquing Feminism, include also praise for feminism as ot… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/24 01:02 PM |
| 23 | DID I JUST GET RED PILLED?Infact, us conceeding to this nerrative that feminists are somehow having this zero sum game approach, is just what the rightwing wants. So 'the right' wants us to embrace the narrative of 'the left'? I'm sorry but that doesn't make any sense. It is the feminist that made this into a zero sum game. The red pill movement has a preciselly zero sum game approach, and for years they have used this nerrative that " oh no, its woman who want a zero sum game", The fact is that a lot of these things are… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/12/24 12:55 PM |
| 6 | What has this world come to?First off all, yea no, it's not 'men' who do the majority of horrible things. Maybe we should advocate for women to listen instead of being victims of their gender. Are there men that do horrible things, oh yes, but there are just as many, if not more, women who are equally horrible. The big problem is that they're not held accountable most of the time. If anything, women are the ones to care for mens feeling more than anyone else. LOL, no they really don't. Sometimes, when you dig to the bottom… | /r/MensRights | 12/12/24 11:48 AM |
| 2 | What has this world come to?How about raising awareness? It seems to be all the rage and the only way to incite change. But every time someone speaks up about issues that men face there is some clown asking what the solutions are. You know what? The only thing men are left with is just simply not to engage. The Chinese have this thing called 'bai lan' which means 'let it rot'. It is a 'movement' in China that chose not to participate, not to engage with society and just let everything go to shit. Why bother to play a game … | /r/MensRights | 12/12/24 09:26 AM |
| 19 | “Women Deserve Women’s Only Spaces”Right, right, leave the other things out there and focus on what went wrong at the boy scouts. Let me guess, 'that's just men's fault', am i right... /sigh So, now i will give you some things that happen in the real world in the mean time... Men’s gymnastics club forced out of home gym The University’s Planning, Space and Real Estate (PRSE) service surveyed the team’s home on the third floor of Cooke Hall after several organizations requested to use the space, according to Regent Mary Turner Reg… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 04:29 PM |
| 39 | “Women Deserve Women’s Only Spaces”There is more in life than the gym. Things like male only clubs are verboten, it has come to a point where even a boy's choir was deemed 'sexist' for not allowing girls to join. There isn't such a thing as the 'boy scouts' anymore, just the scouts and the girl scouts. One is open to everyone while the other isn't, guess what's what.. Yea, i know, women want to avoid men looking at them sexually. But you see, every now and then men just want to avoid all women, but we're not allowed. Men can't ha… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/24 03:23 PM |
| 36 | Check out r/twoXchromosomes it's misandrist as fuckI bet her work space is like 'Yay, Karen forgot to force her Santa crap on us this year'. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 27/11/24 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Disparities in what are construed 'attacks on" people by gender. "Attacks On Women Surge In Social Media"; in actuality, pro-lifer rhetoric surges, but this is considered 'an attack on women', meanwhile, #killallmen, #itsallmen, and #ichoosebear isnt considered an attack on men.If your premise is that people shouldn't have sex unless they're willing to be parents, you're living in a parallel universe where that is considered "left wing". That is as religious/right wing as you can get. That isn't my premise, that is feminism's premise towards men. The only thing that i'm doing is saying that if this is okay for men then why isn't it okay for women? As feminism is supposedly left wing how can it be right wing when their own standards are applied to women? I'm finding it … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Disparities in what are construed 'attacks on" people by gender. "Attacks On Women Surge In Social Media"; in actuality, pro-lifer rhetoric surges, but this is considered 'an attack on women', meanwhile, #killallmen, #itsallmen, and #ichoosebear isnt considered an attack on men.My apologies, I'm only responding to the parts that I can make sense of. You seem to be the only one here that isn't able to make sense of the words i wrote. It must be a you thing as the words aren't overly complicated or anything. Or is it that you just can not imagine that someone finally says the quiet part out loud? So unless people are willing to be parents, they shouldn't have sex? Well, yes. This seems very biology 101, if someone doesn't want to become a parent they shouldn't have sex. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Disparities in what are construed 'attacks on" people by gender. "Attacks On Women Surge In Social Media"; in actuality, pro-lifer rhetoric surges, but this is considered 'an attack on women', meanwhile, #killallmen, #itsallmen, and #ichoosebear isnt considered an attack on men.Subtext, reading between the lines, veiled threats, you understand these right? Trump never told his supporters to storm the capitol building, he just said that the election was rigged, and that "If you don't fight like hell, you're not going to have a country anymore." Sure, feelings can make people do stupid stuff and that is exactly the reason why rules like these should not be determined by them. Good ole tit-for-tat, that usually works out great for everyone. If you can't beat them, join th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/24 10:28 AM |
| 10 | Disparities in what are construed 'attacks on" people by gender. "Attacks On Women Surge In Social Media"; in actuality, pro-lifer rhetoric surges, but this is considered 'an attack on women', meanwhile, #killallmen, #itsallmen, and #ichoosebear isnt considered an attack on men.Of course, just as easily that your personal belief - that it isn't an attack against women - doesn't mean that it isn't. Who's better positioned to make that call? So this is determined by feelings, not facts? I'm sorry, but feelings shouldn't enter this discussion. Anyone can feel everything because of anything. Because if you can summarily dismiss the female POV, they can do the same to us. I think you have got it the wrong way around, because women have been/are dismissing the male point of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/11/24 09:10 AM |
| 1 | If men acted like women, how much should we be upset over bodily autonomy?Yes we do, that is my point. You say that it isn't unconditional, but under what conditions do you think it would be a good thing to revoke support? My conditions are equality and nothing less, then it is up to them how they want to proceed. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/24 12:27 PM |
| 2 | If men acted like women, how much should we be upset over bodily autonomy?Where feminists go wrong is that the empathy many men extend to them is seldom returned. They legitimately don't give a shit. This is why a lot of young men eventually become so apathetic towards women's issues. Well, doesn't that mean that our empathy doesn't go a long way? Only when the empathy is returned will it go a long way. Sure, men won't die because of a miscarriage just like women have a 0% chance of dying from circumcision or die while drafted. That doesn't mean that men can't become … | /r/MensRights | 11/11/24 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Feminists would rather watch the world burn than even consider toning down their rhetoric towards young menSo, i have no skin in this game, i'm not an American so this is a perspective from the outside from someone that despises Trump. Firstly, why do you think that these people all voted for Trump instead of voted against Harris? I've heard so much these last few weeks about voting against Trump and not so much to vote for Harris. It seems to me that basing a campaign to run for president on 'that other guy is terrible' while being not much better themselves isn't going to end well. Then there is th… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/24 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone tell me where they get into this concept that fathers don't want children's custody?To be fair, there are guys out there that just walk away and never look back. Those are the guys that get the spotlight. While this is true, the thing that often doesn't get mentioned is that often these dads really didn't want to be a dad in the first place. But when their fling got pregnant they didn't have a choice on the matter and 'needed to step up' because they had sex. I really can't fault these men for running. Sure there are assholes everywhere and some really do run from a commitment … | /r/MensRights | 11/11/24 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Predicate Coalition Building On The Left, Rather Than Categorical And IntersectionalI think there is too much weight put on the race part instead of the problem part. Of course is it useful to know what problems are common in different groups. People in a certain community might face a certain problem more often, but that doesn't mean that others can't share in their plights. When a problem is detected that severely impacts one group then every other group should be checked for those same problems too. Understanding a problem really isn't that hard, all that is needed is that p… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Predicate Coalition Building On The Left, Rather Than Categorical And IntersectionalRather than dividing people up by identity The problem with identity politics is that it is inherently racist/sexist. There simply isn't a way to group people into their race or sex and make any meaningful none racist/sexist insights about the group other than generic medical differences. Looking at someones identity through a lenze of 'identity politics' strips them from their identity. They are no longer seen as the person that they are but rather as a bunch of random facts that they had littl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/24 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Female academics suggest low risk prostate cancer should not be called cancer, because men are too stupid to cope.So, i'm the one with the strawman here? lol You don't even seem to read what i wrote and go on some tangent about treatment. I never said anything about the treatment, i was going on about the benefits of calling a cancer not a cancer. It is about framing! You're totally right! So when someone who clearly doesn't understand prostate cancer goes and makes a title going "Female academics suggest low risk prostate cancer should not be called cancer, because men are too stupid to cope" - those of us… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Female academics suggest low risk prostate cancer should not be called cancer, because men are too stupid to cope.Right... The scientifically based fact that 'cancer sounds sooo scary', so yea if you think something like that is a scientifically based fact then we're wasting our time here. Again, this isn't about the treatment, it is about the framing. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/24 06:29 AM |
| 7 | Female academics suggest low risk prostate cancer should not be called cancer, because men are too stupid to cope.Oh we have. PSA blood tests have been used for 20+ years to detect prostate cancer and within the past 2-3 years insurance companies are paying for prostate MRI's to better tell if PSA's elevated due to cancer or benign growth. Our treatment paradigm for prostate cancer has immensely changed in the past 10 years, away from treating low risk grade group 1 cancer really. Yes medicine gets better in time, who would have thought.. That doesn't mean that it has been anywhere near enough. MRI's have b… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 07:03 PM |
| 19 | Female academics suggest low risk prostate cancer should not be called cancer, because men are too stupid to cope.Listen, you can wail all you like but this right here absolutely is a feminist agenda. Please tell me what the benefits are of reclassifying a cancer to be 'not a cancer'? And yes, i did read your other comment, but nothing in there says anything about why it would be better not to call it a cancer while it very much is a cancer? The very fact that so many men suffer from this should be an indicator that there needs to be much more research into this and more action that needs to be done into th… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 09:51 AM |
| 9 | Progressive values on masculinity are the new “shackles” placed on menI agree with you, therapy can be amazing. The problem is just that there are very few therapist, regardless of gender, that are capable of providing actual therapy for men in general. It also really depends on what your personal issues are, some things get much better response than others. Things like <insert phobia> are often very well received, but if it is men struggling with things like social issues or confidence they're often referred too their bootstraps. It isn't that female therapist ar… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/24 10:19 AM |
| 8 | Stumbled upon some "Feminist" scientific studies published in "Women's Psychology" journals, claiming that women experience PTSD from everyday "Sexism". They even promote such narrative on the "Feminist" subreddit as well, could somebody such assertions?Honestly, it wouldn't surprise me that some women actually do have PTSD from "everyday sexism". Severe stress can lead to PTSD, i believe everyone can get behind that statement. And i do believe that some women may experience stress because of perceived sexism. There is really no need for this to be actual real sexism, they only need to perceive it as such. As some women perceive everything as being sexist, i'm sure they can give themselves PTSD with such an attitude to life. It is the narrative… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Aussie woman hits man, gets hit back - Australian media doesn't even acknowledge she hit himRight, i'm the one getting it wrong, not everyone else that downvoted that comment of yours. I just said what the guy did was inappropriate and annoying and he started it. The thing you are not getting here is that he didn't start anything. Would you say the same thing if a woman is being annoying and a guy smacks her? Would you still be, well, it's not okay to hit someone but well, she started it.. I bet you won't, and if you do, you'd still be just as wrong. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/24 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Aussie woman hits man, gets hit back - Australian media doesn't even acknowledge she hit himYes, revert to personal attacks, that will surely convince me... All what you're saying is that you have to place the onus on men. Did she 'pay' for it though? Not as much as this man did.. So, yea, he was annoying, but, again, that is no reason for violence. No, i have no pent up anger, but if i had it would be okay to hit you in the face right? Surely me having this pent up anger is an excuse for hitting you in the face?! You seem to think it was important when that woman hit this guy for havi… | /r/MensRights | 15/10/24 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Aussie woman hits man, gets hit back - Australian media doesn't even acknowledge she hit himIt really doesn't matter what the guy did, no amount of 'pent up anger' or being 'confronted' in public is going excuse violence. And to answer your question, sports events are always full of people waving scarfs in peoples faces. And, yes, you are excusing violence by saying that she must have had 'pent up anger' from 'similar experiences'. You assuming that shit is very much trying to excuse that outburst of hers by downplaying that behavior. So yes, it does mean that the guy is innocent. He d… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/24 05:45 PM |
| 9 | My very recent experience with Feminism as a "former male" (MtF, Trans)It's "funny" how feminists often screech about bigotry while they're the biggest bigots out there. They're a gender based religion and as every other religion they're very dogmatic about their beliefs. What these people do not seem to understand that dogmatic believes are inherently bigoted in nature. The cognitive dissonance is real.. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/10/24 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Aussie woman hits man, gets hit back - Australian media doesn't even acknowledge she hit himI assume the woman must have experienced something similar a lot and had some pent up anger. So what? She gets to hit people because she has 'some pent up anger'!? Do you really believe that this is an appropriate thing to say to say in any other situation? I agree with you that woman was the first one to start a physical confrontation but the guy is clearly the one to start the confrontation. And what is your point? That it is okay to use violence when you've got some 'pent up anger' and you ge… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/24 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Men’s Opinions on Feminism?Honestly, i don't believe so. There are some perks that women have that they do not want to lose, but in my opinion should. It would make the world a better place, but it won't make women very happy. Well, i do believe that there is a religion that is called feminism. But i can not say that i can agree on most of the things that they say. I do understand the different denominations, but that really doesn't matter as the core belief is the same, 'the patriarchy' is something i really do not belie… | /r/MensRights | 13/10/24 09:26 PM |
| 19 | Empathy for women, prison for men — The Centre for Male PsychologySo your stance is that people that pay a hitman to order a murder aren't responsible for the murder that they ordered? | /r/MensRights | 01/10/24 05:51 AM |
| 4 | Can someone explain to me if androcentrism actually exists?I wouldn't say that men get more rights and privileges in those countries but rather different rights and privileges. Where men get things like being the voice of the family and may hold any occupation, the women get things like being provided for and not having to share their income with the family. They aren't exactly equal, the thing is just that they both are oppressed in different ways. Are the women oppressed because they can't vote? Or are the men the ones who are oppressed because they a… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 28/09/24 10:39 AM |
| 2 | UP Woman Jailed For Exact Period Man She Falsely Accused Of GeRape ServedJust to clarify I am definitely agreeing false accusations should be punished, but if someone makes a valid accusation against someone who then gets away with it I can't imagine any moral reason for them to uphold the same potential sentence. Just like all other accusations, they need to be proven false. So yes, that something isn't proven to be true doesn't imply that has to be false. You're making the same assumption that feminist make about the rape statistics, just the other way around. Femi… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 04:11 PM |
| 22 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want the child, "he shouldn't have had sex"?Bodily autonomy is a sham, my body my choice is a nice idea but when it comes to sperm the whole idea suddenly goes out off the window. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 07:11 AM |
| 27 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want the child, "he shouldn't have had sex"?Yea no, it isn't a double standard it isn't even about the sex of the person, it is about the person. I know a few men that will run to the doctor with just about anything too, they too get ignored by the doctors. It's nothing more then the boy who cried wolf, if you're going to pester the doctors with every little booboo they won't take you seriously when there's something really wrong. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 07:09 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want the child, "he shouldn't have had sex"?I just think that it makes sense to knee cap men to prevent them from impregnating half the town and skipping, leaving behind 85% of the new generation to become criminals. You do realize that women have a choice to bring the baby to terms or not, right? Why are you hell bend on holding men responsible for the choices of these women? | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 07:03 AM |
| 9 | Why is it that when a man doesn't want the child, "he shouldn't have had sex"?I believe that this is the only way to go and I can spin this whatever way the feminist want. If it's bodily autonomy? Well then, it's the man's sperm and she can't use it for procreation unless he consented to it. The man can't be held responsible for the choices the woman makes with her body. Women should be held responsible for their bodies and its functions. What is best for the child? One of the main thing that is best for the child is having two loving parents in a stable home. So why can'… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/24 06:58 AM |
| 7 | UP Woman Jailed For Exact Period Man She Falsely Accused Of GeRape ServedI understand the sentiment of "false accusers should get the same sentence as those they've accused", but there are a lot of high profile people who get away with sexual assault solely due to their connections and ability to afford higher tier representation. So if i get this right, because there are certain rich people that can get away with sexual assault because they're rich, false accusers shouldn't get punished!? I'm sorry but that is balderdash. It isn't just rich men that can and do get a… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/24 12:48 PM |
| 9 | Why don't we see Paper Abortion posts in this sub?That really depends on the country that your in and as long as such a test isn't mandatory it will throw shade on the relation of every man that opted for one. In France it is against the law to have a paternity test done. While they do have the right to a paper abortion, they do not have the right to check if the child is theirs before making the decision. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 06:57 AM |
| 10 | Why don't we see Paper Abortion posts in this sub?So finding the balance between essentially enslaving men and essentially enslaving women is a tough rope to walk. It really isn't that hard, the only problem is that people don't want to hear the elephant in the room. No one should become a biological parent against their wishes, this solves everything. All that is needed for this to happen is for women to seek out willing partners to start a family with, just like men have to. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/24 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Women have problems. Men are problems.He’s saying “come on get over having to gestate. Monkeys do it without complaining.” Like women owe him free labour by default. I think you misunderstand him, he isn't saying that women owe him free labour, but he's saying that it is biology. He's saying that if women truly want to be a parent then having to go through labour isn't exactly something they can skip. It sucks for them, but that doesn't mean that men have to bend over backwards because they 'owe' their spouse for that. It's arguing … | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Women have problems. Men are problems.Who has the attitude here? I have to agree with the other guy, that would be you. I’m very eager to provide for my wife in return for her birthing my children. I'm not sure what you mean by 'to provide for my wife' here, but i'm pretty sure that you're not using that term correctly. Yes, you'll have 'to provide' your wife with something before she can start with the whole birthing part. That is biology, not some inherent deal that has been struck between men and women in general. Since you guys … | /r/MensRights | 29/08/24 11:15 AM |
| 6 | In a complicated discussion about medical examinations, a man shares his history and is immediately sexualized.Firstly the woman at the top has every right to choose a woman for an intimate procedure and no it's not discrimination at all. No, it isn't discrimination, but it's stupid none the less. These people are professionals and while i'm sure that inappropriate stuff happens, it has very little to do with the sex of the medical worker. The very unprofessional stance of some nurses and female doctors that i have seen are equally bad as some of the male doctors and staff, if not worse. The thing that s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/24 07:40 AM |
| 7 | In Ukraine, men are dying & women are getting manicured. Only one of these events matterNo, this is not a 'pro Russian' sub, that people point out wrongs in a democracy just isn't the same as pointing out similar things in a dictatorship. You can't seriously equate those two things. I'm not discounting that people were displaced by the war, but like you said, being displaced isn't the same thing as being killed our maimed and has nowhere near the same impact. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/24 01:31 PM |
| 9 | In Ukraine, men are dying & women are getting manicured. Only one of these events matterMultiple things can be true at the same time. The fact that there is a need for conscription doesn't mean that it is not morally reprehensible to only conscript men and force them to lay down their lives. This very much makes this a men's rights issue, regardless of the country who's doing the conscripting. That Ukraine gets more flak over this is only logical, no one in their right minds is going to think that Russia isn't the big baddie here. They are conscripting men and using them as cannon … | /r/MensRights | 16/08/24 09:39 AM |
| 2 | I had a conversation with a feminist female therapist about men's rights. Here's what happenedShe was clearly holding it in, but she had a look on her face that seemed to express revulsion, like she had already entitled herself to moral superiority, and the way she looked at me was literally like: "I'm gonna give this jerk a lesson now". I kept my cool because I figured out she had caught a wrong impression and invited her to join us. And we started talking. The only reason that this ended well is because of you, not her. She was overly combattieve and stuck her nose somewhere it didn't … | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 06:58 AM |
| 1 | What issues does each gender actually face depending on their gender?I'd be so much more helpful if you'd go and tell this to feminist. Yes, we should be concerned with the very real consequences of misogyny, but we should be much more concerned with the equally real consequences of misandry. It really rubs me the wrong way to see posts like these every other week while i have never seen posts of feminist doing something similar. Not even to speak of actually speaking up about the rampant misandry. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/24 07:48 PM |
| -1 | What issues does each gender actually face depending on their gender?Again with the personal attacks, just give a rebuttal instead of ad hominem's. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | What issues does each gender actually face depending on their gender?\Gestures broadly at... uhh... religion* I think 'religion' is a very accurate description of the feminist movement. But that isn't really the point of contention here. We can have one post where we acknowledge the other side exists. Sure, but then you'd have to bring up actual examples other than the ones that you've brought up so far. Like the whole thing about doctors not listening is ludicrous, they listen, but these people gets to hear this multiple times a day. It has nothing to do with ho… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/24 03:39 PM |
| 12 | What issues does each gender actually face depending on their gender?there isn't much social or cultural support for male victims of sexual and domestic violence they simply blame women and feminism for their problems No, it isn't women that get blamed, it is feminism and for very good reasons. The Duluth model didn't just fall out off a clear blue sky, this was invented and implemented by feminism. The problem isn't the MRA pointing out how feminism has done them harm, the problem is feminism not wanting to correct their "mistake". Edit: So tell me, how am i wro… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/24 09:15 AM |
| 14 | What issues does each gender actually face depending on their gender?Plenty of men have gender essentialist views The problem is that feminists try to frame it as if because those things happen in some places sometimes that they happen everywhere all the time, and try to frame other issues as gendered that aren't. Yea no, it isn't 'men' that hold the gender essentialist views here. If there is one specific group that upholds gender essentialist views it is feminism. While there are plenty of men that hold essentialist views on women, they haven't made a religion … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/24 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Gladiators vs witch burningI am unsure whether these two things can be compared at all, as both are based on a completely different foundation. I think a direct comparison isn't possible indeed, but that doesn't mean that there aren't any similarities. The big similarity is that a whole bunch of 'innocent' people died for crappy reasons. What we therefore can do is compare how these deaths are perceived right now. The one thing that to me sticks out like sour thumb is that only the gladiators get contextualized in terms o… | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 11:32 AM |
| 4 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?Well, it is a push for 'color blindness' as race has nothing to do with the subjects at hand. CRT grew out of a black man's frustration with the racial biases in the juridical system. And that is exactly why we need more 'color blindness', when a system isn't 'color blind' it isn't going to be fixed with more racism. Fighting racism with even more racism isn't going to help anyone or solve anything. Calling out racism isn't racist, but dragging racism into everything is just as racist as the rac… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 05:05 PM |
| 29 | Has something drastic happened to Menslib?Menslib has trouble handling criticism of feminism and this sub has trouble with being constructive. I just want a place where guys can say "Feminists and feminism have failed men in multiple ways, but I think there are good ideas from them that we can use to change how society sees us and how we see ourselves." The elephant in the room is that there isn't a constructive dialog to be had with anyone who believes in feminism's rhetoric. A belief that is founded in the idea that men are responsibl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 11:06 AM |
| 8 | Two samples about how men are seen as a threat just by talking to women.That's one way to look at it, another way is that if you sit next to someone and they have their laptop open and about, it's not exactly weird that you see some big ass meme on a screen. The other case is him making a 2 meter 'dash', that isn't exactly weird either in front of an apartment building. Look, sure OP isn't exactly going about it the right way. But that doesn't mean that he should be met with scorn. You make it sound as if having seen someones laptop in a very public setting can only… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/24 07:24 PM |
| 33 | The whole comics situation is overblown, in my opinionShe then posted the comic "Defensive" a few days ago, which is about a woman's experience of receiving sexual harassment from a young age and when a normal, innocent man attempts to talk to her, she lashes out at the man due to past traumas. This, right here, this is the trauma dump. Someone making a post online about their rape and how it affected them in their lives isn't a trauma dump. If you don't want to read it then don't, but don't go around complaining that they opened up about their abu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 9 | In what ways do you approve of advancing feminism, and what ways do you refuse to have a part?Well, the Duluth model was feminism's answer on to how deal with domestic violence. Totally one sided with men being the baddies. If we have feminism determining bodily autonomy then it won't regard male bodily autonomy as equal to female bodily autonomy. I do not want any gender based party to determine what bodily autonomy looks like for both genders. If you do not understand a point someone is making you can simply ask for clarification. If you have a problem with one of my answers, feel free… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/07/24 01:03 PM |
| 11 | In what ways do you approve of advancing feminism, and what ways do you refuse to have a part?There is not a single point of feminism that i support, this is a movement/religion of hate that should die a quick death. In my view there isn't a single point of feminism that is worth keeping. There are a few things that feminism champions that should be kept, but non of these things are actually there because of feminism, so i won't count those as this we should keep from feminism. Things like universal surfrage isn't a thing because of feminism even if they claim it is. Let me go through th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/07/24 07:24 AM |
| 1 | I feels inferior..Fitting in isn't about what you like or dislike, it is about how you act and present yourself. Try to find things that you have in common instead of focusing on the things that set you apart. Why do you fear what society will think about you? Society will have its judgement regardless of what you do or say, so why worry about it? The only thing that you can control is who you are, and ultimately that is the only thing that really matters. Treat everyone just as you like to be treated, and treat … | /r/MenSupportMen | 06/07/24 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Poster's Total Failure To Create List Of "Examples Of Male Privilege In Everyday Life"I again agree with you and think it’s ridiculous you are getting down voted for a post that’s accurate. Just because that poster may have said something that is true doesn't mean that the rest of the post had anything useful to say. The whole 'social privilege' route is a red herring as it clearly wasn't what is discussed, it was about laws. Another thing to keep in mind is that this is a international forum, OP was right in saying: Precisely. At least in western nations, only women have privile… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 09:55 AM |
| 5 | What's the deal with r/menslib?So a condom breaks through no fault of either party and results in a pregnancy, if the pregnant woman does not want an abortion, for whatever reason. The guy can just be - well that's your choice and thus entirely your problem? Both parties are responsible and neither at fault. Yea no, if such a thing as abortion wasn't a thing you'd have a point. But, as abortions is very much a thing that makes this child a choice, her choice. A man shouldn't be held responsible for the choices of the women th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/07/24 12:28 PM |
| 12 | What's the deal with r/menslib?If i understand your position right you are concerned about how well the child will do if the father doesn't supply financial aid towards its upbringing. If the well being of the child is priority number one then the only way to go is to grant equal actual abortion rights to both parents. That would be the thing that is in the best interest of the child. One of the best indicators of how well a child will do later on in life is if the child has one or two loving parents. Children of broken homes… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 14 | Masculinity isn't inherently evil, nor is it the root cause of men's (or society's) problems.I think there is some legitimacy in this feminist theory; a society like Russia is unquestionable patriarchal, and with Putin at the head of the hierarchical food chain, he has sent thousands of helpless men to die in a useless war. Putin represents an extreme example of a patriarchal order of toxic masculinity; however, his existence is by no means a justifier for an unrestrained attack on masculinity. I personally think feminism brings many good aspects to society, that is if we’re considering… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/24 11:48 AM |
| 11 | Male violence and female fearThere is a difference between being sympathetic to someone who is traumatized and validating the feelings/fears of such a traumatized person. Being sympathetic is helpful but validating them does nothing but feed the trauma. To me being sympathetic to someone who is traumatized means that you can understand that they may feel overwhelmed. You can help them overcome those feelings, but as soon as you validate these feelings there is no incentive for them to change anything about those feelings. V… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/06/24 07:07 AM |
| – | My “psychiatrist” may be untrustworthyMate i'm not trying to argue, i'm merely trying to point out how important talking to someone is. That talking might not be your thing, sure, but that is no reason to put it the way you did. Don't try to be sarcastic on the internet as it really doesn't translate well, specially not on a support page. | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/05/24 12:37 PM |
| – | My “psychiatrist” may be untrustworthyhow can someone that isn’t me, know how to fix what’s in my head”. I mean, that sounds like a question to me, but that's besides the point. You make it seem as if the whole thing is a sham and that isn't the case. I understand that it's not needed for everyone but if you need to take medications to make you feel sort of alright then a shrink isn't a bad idea. Yes it is expensive, everything is. If i have to choose between having to pay for a lifetime of medications that wrecks my health in multi… | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/05/24 11:57 AM |
| – | My “psychiatrist” may be untrustworthyI too saw a psychiatrist, for me I find other peoples opinion of how to fix me to be a load of BS, and “how can someone that isn’t me, know how to fix what’s in my head”. Is this a real question? I mean, of course if you're only subjected to the usual platitudes then i would agree. But a therapist worth their salt wouldn't really give you their opinion but rather let you make your own conclusions through introspection. It's not something that everyone needs, but therapy really does help if you'r… | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/05/24 10:53 AM |
| 15 | Is male suicide the iceberg of men's issues?You're sort of right, yes.. That is what they're there for.. The thing is just that this hospitalization should be a last resort. And while you could very well argue that this is exactly what it is used for at this time. The problem is that in 99.9% of the cases should never have come to this point in the first place. Most of the suicidal men can be helped if only they have someone that they feel that truly cares. It really doesn't have to be that much, just someone that genuinely takes an inter… | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 08:32 PM |
| 2 | According to your country's law system, is paternity subordinated to the man's consent to reproduction or sex? Let's post evidence in the comments for every countryUnfortunately due to biology a man consent will always be consent to fatherhood. I really don't agree with this statement. This way of thinking is rooted in societal laws/rules/norms, not in biology. There is no biological reason as to why a man consenting to sex is the same as him consenting to parenthood. That something can happen doesn't mean that when it happens to them that they consented to this happening. If that was the case then there wouldn't be such a thing as abortions in the first p… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 03:37 PM |
| 7 | A simple summary of the whole man vs bear debate.Well that’s a bit of a straw man argument. No, it really isn't. The chances of you getting into a fatal car accident are three times more likely than you getting raped/murdered by some random guy. So any person that believes that 'men' are so dangerous shouldn't go out of the house and drive as driving is far more dangerous. and yeah the idea of a car crash or whatever is scary but there’s plenty of steps I can take to reduce my risk, ect. Just like you can take plenty of steps to ensure that yo… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 10:37 AM |
| 11 | Man Bear MegathreadWhile I think that sex/gender is categorically different from race, you're asking the wrong person, because I think that it's completely normal and rational to have bias based on your personal experiences towards any group of person. If you really believe this then why do you say this?: This whole entire forum is an 'us versus them' forum. 90%+ of you guys believe that attacking feminism is the most important thing for the men's rights movement. So why isn't it okay then for men to have serous g… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/24 03:07 PM |
| 6 | Bear vs Man is Actually Perpetrating False AccusationsThat doesn't make sense as you'd be about 3 times more likely to be killed by driving a car. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Bear vs Man is Actually Perpetrating False AccusationsI can believe that on a single encounter, most bears wouldnt attack, so the 1 in 2 mil chance could be possible. Depends on the bear, a black bear would be pretty safe. A polar bear though, that would be a 1/2 if you're lucky. The whole things just doesn't add up. By their logic they'd never drive a car as 12.9/100k die yearly on traffic accidents in the USA. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Bear vs Man is Actually Perpetrating False AccusationsThere’s a roughly 3.83/100k chance of being raped by a stranger. There’s a 1/2.1 million chance of being attacked by a bear. Yea no, you can't use numbers like that. There are far more encounters with strange men then there are with bears. If you'd equalize the number of encounters of bears and men then the numbers would be very different and they would actually represent the truth. I mean, by this same logic you'd rather encounter a man and a bear in a forest then drive a car as 12.9/100k die y… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn't intersectionality theory able to explain the disadvantage of men?The problematic part of intersectionality is that it is inherently racist and sexist. The whole thing relies on making grievous generalizations about race and sex under the guise of 'privilege'. That isn't to say that there aren't privileged people and under privileged people, but their race and sex have very little to do with it. Intersectionality could be helpful if the focus lied on personal circumstances instead of peoples race, sex or other inherent traits. Things like their family situatio… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/24 10:54 AM |
| 22 | Teacher was arrested on charges of grooming and aggravated sexual assault of a child. She reportedly bought boys vaping accessories, got them intoxicated and then had sex with them. It is believed there could be up to 12 victims, all male.I'd rather lay the focus condemning the people who are raping these children instead of those indoctrinated by those people who are raping children. It isn't these indoctrinated men that believe this kid was 'lucky' that hold the societal power needed to change this. I mean, if feminist want to teach boys 'not to rape' then maybe, just maybe they should start teaching this by not raping boys. If you teach these boys that raping them is just fine then how the hell are they supposed to learn to re… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/24 08:32 AM |
| 20 | Radfems cheering on Daniel Sloss and his internalised misandry againWomen try to explain why we feel that way That to me is a big waving red flag. It doesn't matter what I or anyone else does, that will not change the way that she feels. The only one who can do anything about that feeling of hers is she her self. No one but her is responsible for her own feelings and she needs to keep them in check. She's the bully who screams at the actual victim:"Look what you made me do". | /r/EverydayMisandry | 19/04/24 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Frustrated father/fianceFeeling frustrated about this situation is only natural my friend. Having a child is stressful even when everything goes perfectly as planned. Being the sole provider while having a wife who suffers from PPD brings a whole other level of stress to the equation. A child brings new, stressful priorities with it and that is going to take its tole for a while. But, it is very important for the both of you to have moments to relax and wind down. You don't need some vacation or anything like that, wha… | /r/MenSupportMen | 16/04/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | AZ just made abortion illegalbut were forced to dump into her. Clearly you have no idea how sex works. But, sure bud climaxing is now consent to fatherhood. Be sure to tell this to women about motherhood. It's a very good reason to ban abortions? right!? /s | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | AZ just made abortion illegalIn terms of the safe haven drop off, you would still have the right to claim the child you just need to proof that you are a fit parent and proof you are the parent. That is only if you know you are becoming a father, there is nothing compelling the woman to inform the 'dad to be'. No woman will tell the father about the child they're going to give up, at least it is exceedingly rare. The morning after pill is a pill non the less, not some invasive surgery. It is her body and she should be respo… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 12:50 PM |
| 3 | AZ just made abortion illegalThe Safe Haven makes things a little more complicated because she could drop it off anonymously but generally if you were aware she did that you could get the child back pretty easily. No, the safehaven law makes this whole point of the fathers consent in this moot. There is no obligation what so ever for the woman to inform the man on her pregnancy. In terms of abortion, I don’t think you should be able to mandate a medical procedure on anyone for any reason. I could see an argument for negatin… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 09:03 AM |
| 1 | AZ just made abortion illegalThey don’t have all the options concerning their body anymore. And how’s that your business anyway? It’s not your body. And your point is? What it is of mens business? You know, the fact that they don't have a choice. Either both get to have a choice or neither should. You do have full control over your body and, again, this isn’t about men’s bodies and their rights but about women’s bodies and their rights. No i do not, i do not have any say on what happens with my sperm. My sperm should mean m… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 08:43 AM |
| 3 | AZ just made abortion illegalMen do have reproductive rights. Where it concerns the men’s body, you have them all at your disposal, condoms, abstinence, vasectomy (and I hope some day birth control for the male body). And now women have those exact same options, if it's good enough for men, why isn't this good enough for women? What you’re saying is that you want to have a say in another person’s body and if you don’t, screw them, let them have babies they don’t want, babies they can’t take care of, babies that’ll kill them… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 05:41 AM |
| 21 | Feminist 'justifying' misandryr/menkampf | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/04/24 08:14 AM |
| 20 | What will you guys definere as toxic masculinity?I can only give you the definition of 'toxic masculinity': A nonsensical word used by feminist to marginalize men by categorizing 'unwanted behavior' as masculinity. Toxic masculinity doesn't exist, more often then not these behaviors have nothing to do with masculinity or men in general. You may say 'chivalry' or benevolent sexism, but i would argue that these things are gender roles that men are expected to adhere to. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 11:15 AM |
| 1 | My experience as a man going to therapyTherapy is there to help you discover how to deal with the problems that you are running into. Therapists can't outright tell you what to do, that is just not how therapy works. You have to come to the conclusions yourself, they're merely there to put a mirror in front of you. Most of them suck ass and can't hold a mirror up if their lives depended on it. But that doesn't mean that the concept of therapy isn't sound or doesn't work. All personal problems people have boil down to not adequately b… | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 08:40 PM |
| 8 | My experience as a man going to therapyI do understand the frustration, i've gone through my fair share of therapists as well. It's hard to find that one therapist that you can actually vent with. The last good one i had was this gay guy, he really helped me through some shit. The problem with therapy isn't so much the therapy it self, more often than not it is the therapists that are the problem. Hitting a gym can help you put your mind into a different mindset for sure, but it doesn't make the underlying problems you face go away. … | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 09:35 AM |
| 10 | My experience as a man going to therapyYou're not there to validate the feelings or world view of your therapist, they're there to help you overcome the problems that you face in life. When they're not being helpful just tell them that you feel that they are unequipped to help you in your progress and look for a new therapist. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 08:16 AM |
| 6 | What's your position on mental health advices from women?Like yea, sort off?! But it's a bit of a platitude, yes, women are very much capable of being emotional supportive. That doesn't mean that most of them actually are emotionally supportive. Especially when it comes to certain subjects. They may not experience everything we do, but no one can experience your reality. Euhm, sure? That doesn't mean that there aren't experiences that men go through that women simply can not understand. There are experiences that are very gender specific and while som… | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/03/24 10:57 PM |
| 20 | Spanish soldiers change gender to gain benefits intended for womenGuy is trolling the system There really isn't any trolling going on, he doesn't do this for shits and giggles. He gets more pay, more privacy, better pension, got a relaxation on grooming standards, better shot at promotions and he gets to have a shot at shared custody of his kid. It is pretty insane that all he had to do is be a woman in order to gain all these privileges. That isn't trolling, that is using a fucked up system in order to gain equal treatment. The only thing that is trolling her… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 02:07 PM |
| 22 | I guess I’m not a woman then?Oh absolutely, it's fucked up from all sides. I think a rather big difference though is that being told that someone is scary doesn't scar you nearly as much as being told that you're the scary one. | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/03/24 02:30 PM |
| 74 | I guess I’m not a woman then?People who spout this always have a hard time understanding the difference between 'being scared' and 'being in danger'. It really baffles me that these people do not understand that their emotions and feelings are a them problem. It isn't the fault of these 'men' that she doesn't feel safe. It is her own mind that has these fucked up idea's of what these men could do to her that makes her feel that way. 'Men' aren't responsible for her fantasies, all those fucked up things she's thinking is 100… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 03/03/24 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Hard evidence of hypergamy. "Women find 80% of men unattractive, says crazy study."Political ideologies and corporations aren't the ones who are doing it, it is women who are doing this. So yea, we can and should blame this on the people who are doing this. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Hard evidence of hypergamy. "Women find 80% of men unattractive, says crazy study."what I meant to say was: it's true that many women make bad choices and that society is too lenient on them, but if we are to imply that they're not equiped to chose the right men and that something should be done about it, I think we should first stop to consider whether we're saying this because we care about their wellbeing and the betterment of society or because we harbour feelings of resentment towards them. This isn't an either/or thing, they can both hold true at the same time. These iss… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 05:23 AM |
| 24 | Is "The Future Is Female" Hate Speech?People of both sexes have been exploited based on their sex for a long time, and women do currently have a foothold on power and society that they didn't previously have. Here's the thing, you're right in saying that women currently have a foothold on power and society that they didn't previously had. The problem with this statement is though that it implies that 'men' had this power all along, and that simply isn't true. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/02/24 08:38 AM |
| 19 | So I went to Ask Feminists… It wasn’t that badI had to be extremely patient and generous, often unreasonably so, just to have them sincerely consider what I’m saying and my point of view and had to deal with the usual misandry but Ig I’m saying that obviously it’s still insanely flawed but not hopeless? How is this 'not that bad'? Do you really believe that they considered anything you had to say in a sincere way? I mean, how sincere could they have been? What you did here is like asking a Christian to consider Hari Krishna to be their lord… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/02/24 12:09 PM |
| 5 | Five Reasons Why Legal Prostitution Will Improve Gender RelationsMen advocating for legalization of female prostitution is not a MRA concern and it looks pretty bad... Why? Why is it bad for the MRA to say that women should be free to become prostitutes if they want to be? There are differences between the sexes when it comes to romance. This isn't even just about us humans, this is something that we see all across the animal kingdom. There has been so much research animal mating rituals, every animal has their own way of doing things. Every species "wants" t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 6 | I’m sick of toxic feminismSo what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum are the true feminist, and the feminists actually responsible for changing the laws, writing the academic theory, teaching the courses, influencing the public policies, and the massive, well-funded feminist organizations with thousands and thousands of members all of whom call themselves feminists... they are not "real feminists". That's not just "no true Scotsman". That's delusional self deception. Listen, if y… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/24 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Are there any fellas who have been catcalled?The first thing you need to do before anyone can really answer this question is to define what you mean with 'catcalling'. If you just mean that some random girl says something to you or do mean girls whistling to guys that walk by? Yea, those things happen, but not as often as they happen to women. The thing is just that men more often get negative reactions out of nowhere then they get compliments. Now i can hear you think 'catcalling isn't a compliment!', but that is only true if you hear don… | /r/EverydayMisandry | 05/02/24 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Victim of pedophilia being charged for rape. 15 yo boy w/ 21 yo womanYou're being pedantic, that's it. You're not wrong, but you're laying the focus on the least important thing of the OP. Complaining about what they're exactly called doesn't really add anything of value to the story. It only serves to sideline the real issue of this boy being raped. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/24 09:26 AM |
| 62 | Would I be losing female privileges? What types of female privileges would I be losing?? (FTM Trans Male)And, would you be okay if everyone saw you as a predator per default while not being able to get any support? | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 06:53 PM |
| 3 | "Consenting to sex isn't Consenting to Parenthood"Good parents are those who have chosen to become one. It’s one of the many reasons why I consider myself “pro choice”, because the more autonomous and free the parents, the happier and healthier their children usually are. You're absolutely right in this, good parents are parents who have chosen to become one. But why would this make you 'pro choice'? Even if a father could 'opt out' of parenthood in a legal matter, they would still be a dad. The kid is still there, a part of you that runs aroun… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Debunking "Systemic Misandry"? - Dr. Taylor's 37 Questions ChallengeI'm not going to click that link but i'll answer the 5 that you posted. First of all, that is a fucked up question. Firstly, the number she quoted are from a notoriously infamous "study" that asked like 20 people on one campus some very leading question. If I was to apply the same standards as that "study" i could honestly answer that it would be pretty much at least every western country that i have visited or lived in. Yea.. Let me answer by this with, well if she can name a single western cou… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/24 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Ecosexual doctor thinks it's cute when 5 year old sings along to Taylor Swift lyrics "fuck the patriarchy" in front of 70k fansNo, they're a different branch. These ecosexuals have a stick up their ass. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | It pisses me off when feminists put down men.A child is born, they get the man's last name. Why so? Why is the other side of the family ignored or the last name left to die? The kids got the fathers last name because women can have multiple baby-daddies, it's really that simple. It would be clear who their mothers where as the kids are being raised by their mothers. Fathers would be out working if the kids where lucky, their dads could have been dying in some shit hole for some lord's or lady's pet peeves just as easily. It wasn't the mom'… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 08:15 AM |
| 3 | It pisses me off when feminists put down men."Imagine your baking a cake, you have all the ingredients, all the utensils, and the oven, but you forgot oil. So you go over to your neighbor, Dave's house, and you borrow his oil. And you make the cake, put it in the oven, and sit by and tend to it. It comes out, and your proud of it. When you show it off, everyone says 'wow, Dave's cake is so good.' But why is it Dave's cake when I baked it?" Imagine that you're hungry, so you go to a vendor machine. You put some cash in it, push a few button… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 07:34 AM |
| 11 | Quick debate:Here's the thing, if the police isn't held responsible for not acting in a situation because of fear for their own health and safety, then how can we hold random people responsible for doing the same thing? | /r/MensRights | 13/12/23 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Question for Men about Men's Rights - What do you wish women, feminists or others that don't support men's rights, understood about you?The following is a very informed and highly reusable comment by Karen Straughan in response to a feminist who thinks the many blatant sexists among feminists aren't real feminists: So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum are the true feminist, and the feminists actually responsible for changing the laws, writing the academic theory, teaching the courses, influencing the public policies, and the massive, well-funded feminist organizations with thousa… | /r/MensRights | 08/12/23 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Question for Men about Men's Rights - What do you wish women, feminists or others that don't support men's rights, understood about you?Have you ever heard the slogan 'the future is female'? It's a "nice" short soundbite that has been raging since its conception decades ago. I think you can see how even this short soundbite is dismissive of boys. But if you go beyond the surface level you'll find that this soundbite comes from a very dark point of view. How men should only makeup about 10% of the population in order to build their 'ideal world'. Sally Miller Gearhart is an awful excuse for a human being yet this phrase is still … | /r/MensRights | 08/12/23 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Progressive media in Czechia: Women Fighting for Ukraine Given Men's Underwear, Oversized Uniforms, and Sometimes Facing SexismThey should, as should the men. The thing is just that the men out fighting that war aren't getting the equipment they need either. You know, there is a war on and not everything will be perfect. They aren't really complaining about it as their complaints about much worse things (like being drafted or not being allowed to flee) are met with indifference at best and hostility at worst. 'Persecution complexes' are only a thing when there isn't a persecution but people are bitching about it anyway.… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/23 07:00 AM |
| 0 | Just saw a post on the Predaddit sub about a guy who is bemoaning not being able to escape being a father when the mother refuses an abortion. It bothers me that men get shredded to pieces for that thought while women receive support since it's "her choice".EDIT: I expressed this poorly—my point is that considering whether sex is or isn't consent to the biological reality of parenthood ignores all the intervening steps along the way. Having sex creates a risk of pregnancy whether we want it to or not, and at that point, allowing a man to exercise a right to "refuse consent to being a biological father" means allowing a woman to be forcibly subjected to a violation of her bodily autonomy without her consent. I think I've spilled a lot more ink on th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Just saw a post on the Predaddit sub about a guy who is bemoaning not being able to escape being a father when the mother refuses an abortion. It bothers me that men get shredded to pieces for that thought while women receive support since it's "her choice".No, it is not moot. Yes it is. If having sex is consenting to parenthood then the point is moot. If it isn't then men don't consent to parenthood by having sex either. They absolutely are! Legally and morally, sperm is treated as all these interests tied up in it AND MORE. But different, competing interests arise once that sperm has fertilized an egg in a uterus. Yet no one asked his permission to do that, you're totally missing the point here. There is no reason that her interests should trump … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Just saw a post on the Predaddit sub about a guy who is bemoaning not being able to escape being a father when the mother refuses an abortion. It bothers me that men get shredded to pieces for that thought while women receive support since it's "her choice".The relevant question at that point is whether she can be forced to CONTINUE being pregnant. That is just as moot if having sex is the same as consenting to parenthood as is the case with men. Otherwise, you still don't get "dibs", but not because of bodily autonomy. It becomes a much simpler proprietary interest at that point, with some privacy interests bundled in as well. Right, but none of these simpler proprietary interests or privacy interests are applied with sperm because of what reasons… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Just saw a post on the Predaddit sub about a guy who is bemoaning not being able to escape being a father when the mother refuses an abortion. It bothers me that men get shredded to pieces for that thought while women receive support since it's "her choice".I entirely agree... but once that sperm has been used, the right to control how sperm can be used is moot and certainly doesn't allow you to run roughshod over the other rights and interests that are created at that point. Yea no, this sounds an awful lot like, :"Of course I don't want to force women into becoming pregnant. But after she had sex that point becomes moot as she chose to have sex and everyone knows you can become pregnant from having sex." No, you do not have bodily autonomy intere… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Just saw a post on the Predaddit sub about a guy who is bemoaning not being able to escape being a father when the mother refuses an abortion. It bothers me that men get shredded to pieces for that thought while women receive support since it's "her choice".Yes, that is exactly what should happen. If 'my body my choice' is the mantra then man has just as much a say about the faith of the zygote as the woman does. While it is resides in the woman's body, it isn't just made out of the woman's body. It's the man's sperm so it should be 100% his choice on how, when and by whom that sperm can be used for procreation. If having sex is the same as giving consent to parenthood then i really don't see any need for abortions in the first place. Only if we wa… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 10:20 AM |
| 6 | Just saw a post on the Predaddit sub about a guy who is bemoaning not being able to escape being a father when the mother refuses an abortion. It bothers me that men get shredded to pieces for that thought while women receive support since it's "her choice".So how about this, both parents should have a 100% say on becoming a parent or not. This way the parents will always 100% choose to have the child and be responsible for it its well being. Relationships can end even with the best of intentions, but once you've chosen to become a parent you need to step up regardless of how the relation with the other parent is. Right now there are far too many men 'forced' into parenthood. While the vast majority of them won't ever say this out loud, they know t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 09:55 AM |
| 0 | I think feminists complain about problems women deal with that don't exist or are exaggerated. Here's the real issues that women actually face, and feminists reinforce them:Lol, yea no. First off all, i didn't assume anything, you're English is just atrocious and i fixed that. Secondly, i don't need a lecture of someone who beliefs in fairytales. Thirdly: You answer yes to a non yes or no question I answered. Like i told you, your premise was wrong. Fourthly, you not liking an answer doesn't make it wrong. So no, i don't need to try anything again. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/23 06:15 AM |
| 1 | I think feminists complain about problems women deal with that don't exist or are exaggerated. Here's the real issues that women actually face, and feminists reinforce them:Okay, i'll bite.. I did answer your question on a very basic level. I think you meant to say:"You basically didn't answer my question", these two things have a different meanings. This might sound condescending (that means patronizing), but i thought that someone that sites 'English 101' should have understood this. Now that's sorted i will explain the meaning of my previous posts to you. I think i can not be much more clear on what i do not like about it. As i've stated two times before, i do n… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 08:59 AM |
| 4 | I think feminists complain about problems women deal with that don't exist or are exaggerated. Here's the real issues that women actually face, and feminists reinforce them:What exactly is your issue here? The use of fear to gather followers. Is it about feminism or is it about religion? Yes. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 02:33 PM |
| 11 | I think feminists complain about problems women deal with that don't exist or are exaggerated. Here's the real issues that women actually face, and feminists reinforce them:Feminism is just like every other religion, it all is based on fears. Religions push their fears about the afterlife or your soul, feminism uses the fear that women aren't equal to men. This fear is used to excuse their actions and beliefs, because, they believe they're being the righteous ones. Just like every other religion feminism is pushing their own set of value's. They have rules that determine if you're a good or a bad person. Just like every other religion feminist 'cancel' people when … | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 11:04 AM |
| 14 | Is this sub becoming more infested with feminists?Ps. I have a social work background and am currently studying a dual bachelor of sociology and psychology and have previously half completed my political science and gender studies dual degree so these are not just my personal opinions they come from a diversely educated perspective and years of hearing others life experiences. Law and behold, talk about them and they will come. You're right, these aren't your personal opinions, they've been force fed to you by years of indoctrination. You have … | /r/MensRights | 08/10/23 06:01 AM |
| 5 | Revisting: Women's Only Buses and Trains in Places Like Malaysia, Japan, India, etc.If it's NOT a male thing, is it rather that the culture makes it MUCH easier for predators to feel compelled to do what they want because they know punishment isn't imminent, including social punishment? So then... it's NOT that men as a whole can't control their urges, but rather, predators (of which are overwhelmingly male for some reason...) who are already F*CKED in the head have no fear of letting their predatory urges get the better of them when they're packed like sardines against women. … | /r/MensRights | 07/10/23 07:17 AM |
| 0 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendThis isn't just about masturbating before you see her, if not masturbating makes the whole process more difficult then you shouldn't stop doing that. I'm more saying that it is one of the tools available to encourage an orgasm happening during sex more easily. It is perfectly fine to finish yourself off if you feel the need to do that. What i'm trying to say is that the act of having sex shouldn't be about you finishing or not but rather about you and your partner having an intimate moment. If y… | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/23 09:34 AM |
| 48 | I can't enjoy vaginal sex with my girlfriendThe whole 'death choke' thing is mostly bullshit, you don't desensitise your dick by jerking too much. You do have to keep in mind that men can't cum as often as women can, so it might be wise not to jerk off before you go and see her. Jerking off releases tension and that is a great feeling and all, but building up that tension can be fun too. But this really doesn't seem like it being the thing that is bothering you as you seem to be able to finish yourself with little problem. One tip i do ha… | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/09/23 09:45 AM |
| 3 | Response to an argument against misandryMisandry gets men sexually assaulted, raped and killed just as much as misogyny does to women, the only difference is how they care to look at it. For sexual assault just have to look at how a lot of women wouldn't have a second thought on groping men's chest, bum or genitals. Have a look on how male strippers are treated versus female strippers. As for rape, any woman can rape any man they please if they happen to find them sleeping. I can't be the only man who has woken up to his girlfriend ri… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 08:29 AM |
| 27 | bad fathersBy making fatherhood 100% a choice. | /r/MensRights | 23/09/23 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Guilty until proven innocent: Russell Brand removed from PR firm and talent agency websites after accusationsIn this case, there is at least one incident, according to the article, that the act in question was reported to police the same day. While I do think we should always be skeptical of claims unsupported by evidence, this does not appear to be the case here. So if i report something today and bitch about it a decade later my report is automagically 100% unequivocally the truth? Someone reporting something to the police is in no way evidence of the reported thing happening. So being skeptical a ab… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/23 09:46 AM |
| 2 | I personally havent watched the barbie movie, so I might not be the right person to point this out but do you guys believe the barbie movie is fair towards both genders?That’s not the point!?? How is it not the point? Abortion is supposed to be a protected right for women, or biologically human female, and in all time it should be a choice, especially since sometimes, due to complications, an abortion is needed to save the woman’s life If it can be a choice for her that is a protected right, why don't men get to have this same protected right and choice? Are you seriously saying women shouldn’t have this right protected because it doesn’t include men!? Yes?… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/23 11:01 AM |
| 14 | About the ongoing stereotype that ALL men are a risk to women and childrenMen being perceived to always be predators IS a problem. How do you think that this problem should be solved? It is not as if 'men can do better' on this one. It doesn't matter how well behaved, groomed or polite a man is, if a women deems him a predator there's nothing he can do about it. Children miss out on positive male role models, and relationships. Men miss out on positive relationships. Even women miss out on positive relationships whether they fear every man or not, because men are av… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/23 08:45 AM |
| 32 | "Men have abused women for eons"No, not even by a long shot. Imagine that a king had to invent their own religion in order to be able to divorce. Granted, the guy inventing this religion wasn't really a nice guy, but that's really besides the point. Most men weren't a king and couldn't invent their own religion in order to divorce their spouse. Often feminist keep going on how 'women couldn't have a banking account'. This is just false, single women could have their own banking account, but, as soon as they'd marry they wouldn… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/08/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How Is Society Structured Solely For Men?Of course you're welcome here, everyone is! It is just that we often get people here with these 'women have it worse' idea's that are really not that hard to deconstruct. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 08:20 PM |
| 5 | How Is Society Structured Solely For Men?However, women are raped by men at higher rates than men are raped by women. It happens for sure, and the numbers are higher than previous years and you have to take under reporting into account as well. But plain and simple, women are raped at higher rates. As for false accusations, men are more likely to be raped than to be falsely accused of it. And then: I also sympathize with you about false accusations. My brother was a “weird kid” in school and a girl accused him. It was literally impos… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Taylor Swift thinks its okay to stigmatise half the human population. Yes, sexism is always wrong.I'm sorry but this is nitpicking, i fully agree with the other poster, men (as a group) haven't done anything to women(as a group) throughout history. Yes, people have done shitty things throughout history, both men and women. I don't think anyone can disagree with that. But they're talking about power-structures not individuals. She's talking out off her ass. She's takes something like a religion and blames 'men' for it. People like her are just not able to view history through an historically … | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Woman says society giving female predators a pass is misogyny. Any counter arguments?She's basically saying our patriarchal society sees women as lesser (as objects) and less capable than men which is sexist against women. That's why society sees women as less capable of being a predator. So female predators are also seen as less dangerous. It all stems from misogyny. This makes no sense at all. First off all, society doesn't view women as 'lesser'. There is only one way that women are considered less capable and that is in strength. This has nothing to do with society being mis… | /r/MensRights | 05/08/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get out of a baby trapYou do realize that this only applies to people who adopt a child willingly, right? Informed consent is a thing you know. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/23 07:04 AM |
| 169 | A PM I got after making a post in a personal finance sub about how to save and survive after a huge property tax increase and increase in child supportReport them and forget about it, some people are just assholes. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/23 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Sick of it allMy man, i understand you feel like shit, that's totally normal. Anyone who's gone through a breakup will feel shitty, but it's not worth to get acute lead poisoning from this. This is probably a communication breakdown with the two of you not attributing the same meaning to what it means to be a 'feminist'. For you it is all the nastyness that is feminism, for her it (probably) means that you support equal rights. Establish a base line, what does being a 'feminist' mean? If you're able to determ… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 10:02 PM |
| 39 | Why is there such a miscommunication between men and women?But then I go to a women’s subreddit page and the first post I see is about a woman who was raped in the Navy by a guy also in the Navy alongside her and was never given the support in regards to dealing with her rapist or her PTSD that followed and it’s easy to understand where the woman’s frustration comes from. It is just as obvious for men who visit a men's rights page when the first post they see is about a woman completely destroying his life. Taking their kids away from them, ruin them fi… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/23 08:05 AM |
| 18 | Could you be friends with a feminist who is not misandrist?What does any of this have to do with respecting each other? Words have a meaning, why is it disrespectful to label something correctly? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/23 10:01 AM |
| 31 | Could you be friends with a feminist who is not misandrist?I can identify as a unicorn, that doesn't make me one. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/23 07:58 AM |
| 38 | Could you be friends with a feminist who is not misandrist?If they believe those points they wouldn't be a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/23 07:50 AM |
| 19 | Breaking news: “We got are we dating the same guy” Chicago and Boston taken downI didn't downvote you, but i can try to explain the downvotes. There aren't any redeeming factors about this facebook page, all that it does is give some women that hold a grudge, yet another, platform to shit on men. If there was a way to do it that could objectively let people know who has physically harmed someone, I think it would be fair. Here's the thing, you seem to draw a line here for physical abuse and how it would be okay to let people know this. You know as well as i do that most of … | /r/MensRights | 30/05/23 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Does Female Privilege Exist?Whenever someone says mansplaining unironically i tell them to stop being so femotional. It works like a charm! | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Where is the privilege?I know it can be fun, but more often then not it's counter productive on the grand scheme of things. First of all you give them a platform to spout their nonsense. This is never a good thing, most people are morons that have a very hard time discerning what is and isn't fiction. And secondly, you can't argue against zealots. It's like playing chess with a pigeon. It doesn't matter to the pigeon if it loses, it will strut over the board shitting all over it like it won anyway. All you do is attra… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Where is the privilege?I'd argue that stupid people think the world is flat and are looking into that as well. The same thing that always happens to these flat-earthers happens to the feminist believing in the wage gap as well. The data that they collect themselves is pointing to them being wrong, but they still keep saying the their mantra. The moment you entertain their idea of a wage gap you've lost the discussion. The only reasonable answer to such things are to completely ignore someone wailing on about the 'wage… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Where is the privilege?This is not a problem with a clear solution, one infringes women’s personal freedom, the other promotes injustice and sets women up to fail in these roles which leads to the nurturing of sexist stereotyping. There really isn't a problem or a point that needs to be disputed. The only problem here is a major misrepresentation of statistics by people with an agenda. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/23 01:30 PM |
| -7 | Every feminist becomes Ben Shapiro when the topic is menYea no, being dependent on someone else to feed you just isn't the same as your own body not being able to sustain being alive. Religious zealotry just isn't a good enough reason to keep destroying peoples lives. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 09:15 PM |
| -6 | Every feminist becomes Ben Shapiro when the topic is menI strongly disagree, they aren't children yet, they are lumps of cells that can't live on their own. Comparing the two like that is a strawman. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 08:38 PM |
| -2 | Every feminist becomes Ben Shapiro when the topic is menYou're right, the "pro life" is more consistent than the "pro choice", but they're both misnomers. The "pro life" have very little to do with being pro life and the "pro choice" have just as little to do with having a choice. If we are really going to go with 'What is best for the child.' then the only realistic way to go here is 100% choice for everyone that can have a choice. If the child isn't wanted by one of the parents then it shouldn't be born. There are far too many people on this earth … | /r/MensRights | 14/05/23 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Death penalty vs gofundmeSo he got a shitty defense attorney It wouldn't have mattered, that's my entire point. It's very likely that he does have some mental illness as sane people generally won't do such things. 'Normal' assholes don't go around strangling their kids, it takes a special kind of perverted mind to do this. Are you seriously willing to argue that completely normal, sane people can just snap like that and strangle their child? Hell no. Just like it’s not okay for a woman to murder her children either. S… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/23 01:33 PM |
| 6 | Death penalty vs gofundmeJean Charles did not have any mental illness to blame as far as I can find. As far as i know they didn't look for one. The main thing here is that there are no excuses made for the men like there are for the women. Isolated or not, those kids did die all the same. Now let me ask you, if postpartum depression is somehow a "good" excuse for murdering once children. Would it be okay for a man to murder his children if they're unwanted by him? Both states can make people feel equally erratic, yet on… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/23 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Men, put the toilet seat down after yourself – leaving it up is sexistIt isn't a problem because the moment you can smell the shit you've taken, there are poop particles present. That is the reason why you smell it, you smell poop because of the poop particles that you inhale. Yea, i know its gross and we shouldn't think about it too much, but that is exactly what smelling poop is. The problem isn't a hard flush, it is the fact that poop is warm and warm air rises. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/23 01:02 AM |
| 8 | My boyfriend's cancer was ruining my mental health so I left himhttps://www.deseret.com/2015/8/4/20569426/study-that-found-husbands-prone-to-leave-sick-wives-was-flawed-researchers-say | /r/MensRights | 22/04/23 06:21 AM |
| 21 | Being born as a male is a privilege?Then do exactly the same, do not agree with any of her toxic bullshit and keep calmly repeating your point of view. It is either that or completely refrain from talking about it. If you just sit there taking shit you're going to grow resentful, you don't want to have that happen. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/23 07:04 AM |
| 9 | Being born as a male is a privilege?Have you expressed to her how this makes you feel? | /r/MensRights | 21/04/23 06:40 AM |
| 71 | Being born as a male is a privilege?What are your thoughts? Get some friends that aren't so toxic. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/23 05:12 AM |
| 2 | I'm no longer accepting cis as a word meaning the opposite of trans. I am a typical male, not a cis male. Trans people don't get to call "typicals" some word [cis] that died in Latin 1500 years ago, for this application.Besides, no one is telling you to say that you are right handed, but you would still say that you are right handed nonetheless, right? Nothing is an infringement on free speech unless it is enforced my law. No one is forcing anyone to say if they are cisgender. It seems very clear to me that the comparison made wasn't about what is or isn't asked of right handed people. It was, very clearly, about how a minority shouldn't be able to dictate how the majority should act. The infringement on speech… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | What are your views on abortion?I know you know what I'm talking about, just be upfront and disagree with me rather than play dumb as if that somehow means that I'm the one being ridiculous. Well, you're being ridiculous as they aren't children yet. I copied and pasted your comment, how is that a misquote? I didn't even take you out of context. Yea no, you copy and pasted some of what i said and left the last bit out. Yea, that right there is a missquote. I don't really agree with your use of the term "child," but that's just … | /r/MensRights | 14/04/23 06:34 AM |
| 3 | What are your views on abortion?The one's that live anyway, who cares about the externalities? What costs? Well that's your point out the window. Only if you miss quote and not mention the abortions. Abortions are justified by the invention of abortion then? That's a bit circular. That is not what i said by any means, i said that pregnancies can be canceled with an abortion. It doesn't justify anything, it merely points out the possibility. Fine, consent to sex isn't consent to parenthood. So legally abandon the kids or adopt … | /r/MensRights | 12/04/23 12:58 PM |
| 4 | What are your views on abortion?I have an opinion that isn't on the menu, I want abortion to be accessible for everyone. I know this isn't something that is cheered on here, but in my opinion it is the only way to go. It gives everyone the choice to become a parent or not AND it gives children the best possible start in life. On the physical side of things, this could very well fall under bodily autonomy. Having sex isn't the same as consenting to the use of your sperm for procreation. Yes, I'm very well aware that pregnancy i… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/23 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Men should have equal access to abortionIf bodily autonomy is truly important regardless of gender then shouldn't men have the ultimate say on when their sperm is used for procreation!? It is their body, but they do not get a choice on when they want to become a parent. I know this is a somewhat radical view, but, I do believe it is a very defensible position. Pregnancy isn't a disease or illness, it is our biological way of reproducing. Reproduction is one of the big questions that every person should have complete agency over, as, i… | /r/MensRights | 10/04/23 09:54 AM |
| -6 | NBC reports “gunMAN” instead of gunperson after school shooting of preschoolers was done by a female shooter. NBC thinks it’s okay to assume gender when it comes to males and shootings.I hope this one has a better reason then "I don't like Mondays". I hate when they go 'It's always the men' while at least most of these men had somewhat of a reason. Some got shunned, some got picked on, but the vast majority of them had a better reason then 'I don't like Mondays'. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I asked this question on another subreddit, but I would like to ask here as well. What’s the equivalent of giving flowers/jewelry/clothes to girls is to men?If you're dad is into the health journey thing then maybe something to help him with that. I could imagine something like a smartwatch that tracks his health and activity could be a nice gift. It is functional jewelry that can be very handy, specially if your parents are getting older. Some of them have a 'fall sensor' that can detect and send a message to a designated person if the person that wears the watch falls. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/23 11:07 AM |
| 36 | MPs have approved plans to make street sexual harassment a crime carrying jail sentences of up to two years. Catcalling, following someone or blocking their path will become an offence in England and Wales under a bill backed by the British governmentLet that sink in for a moment, they are making it a criminal offense for you to have other people have have certain negative feelings about you. If someone feels threatened by you because you happen to walk to your home it could be considered a criminal offense. There is no need for interaction between the two of you, there is no need for you to do anything besides existing for it to be a criminal offense. | /r/MensRights | 24/03/23 05:38 PM |
| 58 | MPs have approved plans to make street sexual harassment a crime carrying jail sentences of up to two years. Catcalling, following someone or blocking their path will become an offence in England and Wales under a bill backed by the British governmentThey’re basically criminalizing the intent of the person, not the action. It is much, much worse. They're not criminalizing intent, they're criminalizing what someone thinks another persons intent is. There is absolutely no need for the victims of this law to intent to do anything, someone else imagining their intent seems to be enough. What they are criminalizing is the negative feelings other people may feel about you. Let that sink in for a moment, they are making it a criminal offense for yo… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/23 05:37 PM |
| 2 | I've become pro-life because pro-choicers are hypocrites.WTF are you on about??? I have not given up on anything, i''m just saying that the current route of society won't allow something like that to happen, ever. The whole point here is equality, either both parties have the same rights or no parties can have a certain right. And if it's as bleak and hopeless as you say, then the person you impregnated's right to choose is the closest thing you'll ever get to one. I don't think that's worth throwing away. This is ludicrous. Yea, it is very worth it t… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 09:41 AM |
| 1 | I've become pro-life because pro-choicers are hypocrites.I didn't say that it did, again, i'm merely saying that I should have the ultimate say on how my sperm is used. The point of talking was hypocrisy, and im saying that if it is all about my body my choice then why don't men have this right with their sperm? No matter what we do we won't get anywhere close to getting such a right, so why should we support others to have such rights? Edit. Look, the whole point is that things should be equal one way or another. I'd love for both men and women to ha… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 09:21 AM |
| 2 | I've become pro-life because pro-choicers are hypocrites.We as a collective society decide, but this doesn't happen in a vacuum. Society is often steered into directions by groups of people like feminists. Things aren't as black and white as you want them to be. I'd love for it to be like that, but it simply isn't. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 09:17 AM |
| 1 | I've become pro-life because pro-choicers are hypocrites.There is a big difference between how rights are supposed to work and how the world works. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 08:49 AM |
| 2 | I've become pro-life because pro-choicers are hypocrites.I didn't say that, i'm merely saying that if it is all about my body my choice then i should be able to have the ULTIMATE say on what happens with my sperm. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 08:47 AM |
| 0 | I've become pro-life because pro-choicers are hypocrites.Going along with the status quo isn't going to help him either. The more people wanting rights the easier it will become to get said rights. There is a reason why taking someone down with you often works wonders. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 07:21 AM |
| 0 | I've become pro-life because pro-choicers are hypocrites.Okay, then how about, 'My sperm, my choice.'? Why is it that men don't get a say in how their sperm gets used? Why is it that a man's sperm can be used against their explicit wishes for procreation? If it really is about bodily autonomy then men should be able to choose if their sperm gets used for procreation or not. If this isn't the case then the whole bodily autonomy argument falls flat and can be ignored as far as im concerned. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 07:17 AM |
| -1 | Struggling to Connect with Others: Navigating the Challenge of Feeling MisunderstoodYou might not intend to be dismissive or hurtful, but that doesn't mean that you aren't being dismissive or hurtful. Let's take you're own example For example, my wife recently mentioned that she was interested in pursuing graphic design as a career. I gently suggested that while it could be a great hobby, she might want to consider the potential impact of AI on the job market. I never intended to be hurtful or dismissive, but she took it as a personal attack. I can understand your wife feeling … | /r/MensRights | 22/03/23 09:17 AM |
| 2 | I hate that there is little to no body-positivity for menOne of my favorite ones to use is, 'There is no need to get all femotional about it', and watch them go nuclear. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 11:23 AM |
| 5 | My partner was called a Misogynist at work on Friday...Make this make sense. Penis envy. /s Seriously though, it is impossible to 'win' with this sort of people. No matter what you do, they will find something to complain about. If they want to have their Dr title added, they need to bring it up with the people responsible for that. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/23 10:35 AM |
| 8 | Why does The Left Keep Missing This About The Male Loneliness Problem?I've come across countless posts from men who are kind, compassionate, and genuinely good people that struggle with dating AND friends. Meanwhile I see guys in person that are truly deplorable with large friend groups and relationships. The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence. You most not confuse what you would deem a friendship with what some 'deplorable' people deem a friendship. Some people have a large amount of people that they know/interact with on very shallow terms… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/03/23 09:53 AM |
| 16 | How do you feel about when every time males suicide rate is brought up, feminist counter it by saying female "attempt" suicide rate is higher?It is, as usual, nothing more then cherry-picking and not understanding the difference between self harm and suicide. The numbers that are so often sited are the numbers of self-harm not for suicide attempts. These numbers are all forms of self harm combined regardless of the severity. This inflates the numbers drastically as self-harm is especially prevalent in adolescent women. When the time between episodes is long enough it will be seen as a new attempt and will be registered as such. This i… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/23 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Just looking for supportIt is a good thing to express your feelings and emotions to your significant other. The problem most often is just that most people (not just women) aren't able to express them in a constructive way. There is a difference between acknowledging your feelings and emotions and understanding where they come from and just acting on your emotions. Too often people think that simply stating what they feel somehow excuses their behaviour. Your SO telling you that they behaved the way they did because of… | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/02/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Gendered Definitions Are Still BadThat's the thing thoug, they haven't. "Gender" as a refeence to sex in its social aspect has been used as a word since around the 60's in academia, much later in general society. Before that it was a grammatical term unrelated to sex. Academics created the term "gender" as we know it today precisely to refer to the social construct around sex. A quick glance at Wikipedia will confirm that. https://www.etymonline.com/search?q=gender This would disagree with with gender as a reference to 'sex'. 17… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/23 07:36 PM |
| 32 | [Essay] Progressives/feminists are bad at talking about men’s issuesIn the last century an ideology known as feminism emerged and rooted itself in progressive circles. Their initial concerns were legitimate; women couldn’t vote, own property, or divorce, among other things. The ideology achieved many victories, both legislative and social. Today, feminism is more popular than ever, garnering support from celebrities and multinational organizations like the United Nations. It’s taught in many schools as part of their mandatory curriculum, it’s widely supported am… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/23 06:59 PM |
| 3 | The black pill destroyed my confidence and I want to tips to get outThere are a few misconceptions you seem to have, first and foremost you seem to have the idea that men and women try to get 'the best that they can get'. What exactly is the 'best' thing you can get? To me the best thing anyone can get is being happy. Happy with the company that im enjoying and being happy with what im doing in general. Find things that make you happy and go from there. Self confidence comes with feeling good about yourself. It doesn't matter why you feel good about yourself, wh… | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/02/23 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Gendered Definitions Are Still BadWould you say that human beings can see? Would you say that human beings can walk? Would you say that human beings have a tongue? Would you say that a human being has 10 fingers? would you say that a human being has 10 toe's? Would you say that human beings have two arms? If you answer any of these questions with 'yes' then why are there children born who can't see or walk? Why are there babies born without 10 fingers and toe's? Birth defects happen, that doesn't mean that humans aren't bi-paddl… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Gendered Definitions Are Still Bad"gender is a social construct" does not mean (by those who understand what they are saying) that biology is to be ignored. It just aknowledges that there is a degree of subjectivity in words such as "men" an "women". The problem is that they've picked an already existing term 'gender' and tried to change its meaning. There is no degree of subjectivity about what 'men' or 'women' means or is. The subjectivity that you're talking about are gender-norms and not 'gender' in of its own. How we view m… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/23 10:19 AM |
| 2 | in relation to race and gender for men-alternative perspectiveDo you really think that there aren't any amateur Sunday league's where white people can't join? It goes both ways.. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/02/23 06:54 AM |
| 3 | in relation to race and gender for men-alternative perspectiveI am British Indian. This makes sense why I mention later. Saw a post on here about how woke idiots perpetuate ideas about white men. Basically in short white men bad. I totally get how this is alienating-I am a man after all. But then I saw a claim that there are a lack of spaces for white men that accept them but my issue with that is-really I just think there is a lack of spaces for men generally. With all of this i can wholeheartedly agree, yes there is a sentiment against white men going on… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/02/23 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.It is good to hear that the situation regarding the new kid isn't as dire as i read into it. From what i'm reading here you're doing a great job juggling everything. I understand that the father of the new child is not happy with all this, but he must be able to understand that you're not happy with any of this either!? I mean, sure i can understand him being miffed, but ignoring you while you are going through this just ain't right either. It is important to acknowledge how he feels about all o… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 07:11 PM |
| 6 | You guys helped me a lot last time I asked about "arguments against gender pay gap" for my class. Now I'm back for arguments that The Patriarchy doesn't exist.There is no way to disprove something that does not exist. So it isn't up to you to disprove the patriarchy, it is up to them to prove that there is one. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.I've been reading this comment chain and i do feel for you and your situation. I do feel however that you do not exactly understand where everyone here is coming from. From the perspective of men there is very little say we have over the entire process of becoming a parent. Men very often get told that them having sex is them consenting to parenthood while at the same time this is never the case for women. Yes, i said never even when i know you are pregnant against your will and will most likely… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/23 09:00 AM |
| 49 | I’m a women that’s an avid supporter of men’s rights.. but some discussion here is concerning…The patriarchy, as described by feminism, has never existed. I can not prove that something that didn't exist didn't exist, because there simply isn't any evidence for it not existing. It isn't up to me to disprove that there isn't a patriarchy, it is up to feminist to prove that there is one. And this is something that they have never been able to do. There has never been some grand collusion of men trying to keep women down. Things like suffrage are taken completely out of context in order to … | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 11:17 AM |
| 70 | I’m a women that’s an avid supporter of men’s rights.. but some discussion here is concerning…There is a big difference between this sub and feminism, this sub doesn't have a dogma like feminism does. The main thing all branches of feminism have is the patriarchy theory, all of their nonsense is derived from this single unfalsifiable "fact". There aren't different branches of feminism, there are just different people who are willing to go along to certain degree's. Generalizations are bad, but saying that feminist believe something isn't a generalization if it is part of the feminist can… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 10:46 AM |
| 136 | I’m a women that’s an avid supporter of men’s rights.. but some discussion here is concerning…I'm not going to claim that there aren't any posts here that are generalizing women, but they are rather tame and rare and not upvoted to 2k+. If this is compared to something like 2XC you'll find posts that are truly misandrist and are highly upvoted and cheered on. You'd have been better off making a post like this on there before posting here. Now they won't let you any more because you've posted on this sub. Ironic, isn't it? This is one of the very few subreddits where men are able to vent … | /r/MensRights | 09/02/23 09:47 AM |
| 4 | I've always had anger issues since I was a kid and I don't know what to do about it anymore.Feelings are a bitch, they're often so strong that they overwhelm us but at the same time they're vague enough for us not to be able to understand why we feel the way we do. A good place to start is to try and understand what exactly you're feeling. I mean, sure, getting pissed off is the end result, but what triggers that? Why is it that you feel the need to become angry? These aren't fun or easy questions, they're fucked up. It isn't easy to look honestly at yourself and make changes happen ou… | /r/MenSupportMen | 08/02/23 07:01 PM |
| 2 | UK: Church of England considers alternatives to calling God ‘he’.Based on some narrow anthropological definitions we DO live in patriarchal society. God is "he", group of people are "guys", the "humankind" has the "man" at its core. Sorry, but i really think this is an idiotic take. Even IF this had any merit in etymological sense (it doesn't) it would still be kind of nonsensical to attribute it to 'patriarchy'. It is almost comical how much weight is attributed to the word 'man' while completely ignoring that woMAN has the word 'man' in it just as well. Thi… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/23 12:37 PM |
| 9 | Personal Feminism vs Institutional Feminism - the source of the problem?By that do mean we don't live in a patriarchy anymore? Or that the patriarchy never existed? Who's we? American citizens? Everyone in the world? What do you mean with 'the patriarchy'? The patriarchy in its original meaning: inheritance going to the eldest male? Or the aberration as described by feminism? The world has never lived in a patriarchy as described by feminism. Have you read Engels and/or Lenin? The fight against capitalism has exactly jack all to do with 'patriarchy'. Kidnapping some… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/23 07:42 PM |
| 9 | Personal Feminism vs Institutional Feminism - the source of the problem?And some of us struggle more under the capitalist patriarchal system than others. No one has ever been able to prove to me that we live in a patriarchy because we don't live in a patriarchy. I'm not "enabling" anybody. I'm organized in my country's socialist party. I often advocate against their performative militancy. I'm doing my part. But you are enabling them, you fly under the same banner. They bind your voice to theirs and use it to further their agenda. I don't like this argument. I could… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/23 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Personal Feminism vs Institutional Feminism - the source of the problem?So let me try and do a recap here, because I have a very hard time understanding this. You understand that feminism ever since it's inception and certain feminist don't represent women's needs but instead only the needs of wealthy women. And you still call yourself a feminist? Do you realize that people like you are the ones that enable these feminists that do not represent women's needs? You have to realize that feminism very much is a monolith, the difference between people is how far individu… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/23 11:26 AM |
| 9 | Personal Feminism vs Institutional Feminism - the source of the problem?Differentiating individual (or what you call personal) feminism and institutional feminism. I'm always happy to point out that most of my friends and my therapist all call themselves feminists. That's because they genuinely believe in equality. They're good people. I think a different distinction should be made. In my opinion there isn't such a thing as 'personal' feminism and institutional feminism. There is just feminism and how far people are willing to go along with it. By calling it 'person… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/23 11:06 AM |
| 17 | What are your opinions on powerful men being the main instigators of false accusations?The quote "But many, perhaps most, wrongful convictions of rape result from false accusations levied against men by other men: by cops and prosecutors, overwhelmingly male, intent on pinning an actual rape on the wrong suspect." This is just a wilfully obtuse person victim blaming men for being wrongfully accused. What ever these 'other men' do is irrelevant, even if it was 'other men' (it is not, there are a lot of female police officers and prosecutors) they are merely following guidelines the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/23 09:47 AM |
| 18 | Vaush’s commentary on men’s issues: “How The Left Made Andrew Tats Popular”As far as I can tell, “feminism” means so many different things, ranging from genuine equality to outright misandry, that I can barely even understand it as a coherent concept. When one word can be construed in so many different ways it loses all meaning. The reason you can barely understand it as a coherent concept is because you're trying to find coherency where there is none to be found. 'Feminism' isn't a coherent concept, if it were coherent no one would ever pay much attention to it as it … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/23 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Man legally changes gender to win custody of his daughters: Now I am also a mother (news story from Ecuador)But im still allowed to be mad at the 1% who plays into propaganda and misinformation spreading it further to deligitimize my fight for literal basic human rights. Are you suggesting that this man shouldn't have gotten the right to get custody of his child? (i understand that this isn't the case, but hear me out) You're allowed to get mad that this person had to use this particular system in order to get his basic rights. But that isn't the fault of that person. You're allowed to get mad that th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/01/23 02:29 PM |
| 3 | The 'Go King' movementWhen you visit a sub/post via a 'np' link any up/down votes you make aren't counted. This is a simple meassure to show that there is no intent of brigading the linked sub which is important because brigading is against reddit's site wide rules and could get our entire sub banned. I think this rule is rather stupid in my opinion. I mean, Reddit has this feature that allows us to cross link to other subs. Why make this possible if it is against Reddit's terms of service? This sub gets heavily brig… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | In a few days I have to say my last goodbye to my uncle. I lost what little faith I had left in karma.They say that expecting something in return for being nice doesnt mean youre actually nice and i think that bullshit. Nobody deserves to sit there amd blindly serve someone and get nothing in return. The healthiest relationships are mutual ones. If you expect something in return then it does mean that you're not just being nice. But that doesn't mean that you have to sit there and blindly serve someone either. Like i said, you have to ensure your own needs are met before you can think of helping… | /r/MenSupportMen | 24/12/22 02:51 PM |
| 31 | I'm tired of being accused of "mansplaining" in school and in publicWhen someone tels you to stop 'mansplaining' you simply reply with 'there is no need to get all femotional about it'. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | In a few days I have to say my last goodbye to my uncle. I lost what little faith I had left in karma.My man, life isn't fair and rarely people get what they deserve. I understand these feelings that you have all too well. I lost a dear uncle too not too long ago, it truly sucks, specially during the holidays. I'm still in the process of clearing his home, it breaks my heart every time i'm there. There might not be much the doctors can do for him, but, you can still be there for him. I know this shit is scary as fuck and no one wants to be there, but you aren't there for you, you're there for hi… | /r/MenSupportMen | 24/12/22 12:14 PM |
| 4 | The misleading notion that men consider themselves "main characters" and expect the world to cater to themNot "berserk". That implies some kind of sudden loss of self-control, going into a frenzied rage. That's not what happens in these unfortunate events. These are almost always planned in cold blood. I disagree, going 'berserk' is that something 'snaps'. Going beyond a point of caring one way or another, and just sending it. It is a loss of self control, but, not in an in the moment thing. I'd argue that it's even worse as 'just' going berserk and losing it. Women do it less often (not counting ha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/22 10:01 PM |
| 6 | The misleading notion that men consider themselves "main characters" and expect the world to cater to themI don't think you fully understand what they are saying. It is not that they believe that they are 'less valuable', but that biological imperatives like these will have cultural representation of these biological imperatives. In other words, our biology, in part, explains why there are certain gender roles within cultures that are there to maximize survival rate. While some gender roles certainly are purely cultural there are other roles that are similar in all cultures. Someone is going to have… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/22 11:28 AM |
| 18 | The misleading notion that men consider themselves "main characters" and expect the world to cater to themThe thing is, I don't think the idea is entirely wrong. I do believe that there is something in the male psyche, and especially the young male psyche, that puts a man into a warrior mode when an existential threat is detected. Sure, the idea that a man can go berserk because of a perceived existential threat isn't all that wild. It is just that the theory espoused by the 'aggrieved entitlement' doesn't address the elephant in the room.. What does push these young men to perceive something as an … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I am tired of having these thoughts bottled up and I want to let them out...So, i'm going to kick this open door in and say, damn my friend, you seem very frustrated. I would be lying if i said that i can understand you and your frustrations. I can imagine that being in your situation sucks, but i can not truly understand what you are going through. No one but you can do that. But something that i do understand is the feeling of being frustrated by things that are out of my control. This is where i want to lay the focus of my message to you. I have been frustrated about… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/22 10:21 PM |
| 0 | CNN analyst says ban on men under 25 owning firearms ‘will limit the number of mass killings’First off, this is kind of a misrepresentation of what they said. Yes, it is a quote, but, i'd say it is out of context. This was about gun control in general, not about specifically targeting men. That doesn't make these suggestions of her 'not stupid' though, trying to age restrict guns in the US is just never going to work. There really is no way to restrict goods or services to some people while those same goods and services are legal and easily attainable to other people. The sheer amount o… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Feminism helped you in any way directly or indirectly? In my case it did story belowAnd your point is? This doesn't benefit men, this was of benefit to a man. And how exactly is it a benefit for the man while it is seen as oppression to women? It is either one or the other.. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 01:47 PM |
| 5 | What logical fallacy is this?It is projecting, they're simply projecting their own bad behaviour onto you. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Feminism helped you in any way directly or indirectly? In my case it did story belowBut, men still die more in wars because gender norms still dictate that only men can be soldiers. Yes, there are women in the armed forces, but they aren't send to the front and certainly not in the numbers that men are. It is still only the men who are getting drafted, so, no help from feminism here. It is still men who are forced into the most dangerous jobs, because feminism hasn't addressed the male gender norm of having to provide. Men are still not encouraged to open up about their feeling… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Feminism helped you in any way directly or indirectly? In my case it did story belowHow does breaking female gender norms benefit men? It isn't as if the male gender norms are being abolished by feminism, so how does this help the men? | /r/MensRights | 25/11/22 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Maajid Nawaz: Male circumcision consent. I did not expect him to be against it and my respect for him just skyrocketed.It is incredible how these people manage to be this oblivious of their own hypocrisy. None of them actually addressed the point he brought up, they could only manage to bring up strawmen arguments. Only the black woman sort of had the inkling that only being against mutilating one genders genitals is, you know, kind of evil. But that inkling was sadly short lived. Good on this guy for doing the research and standing his ground instead of mindlessly going along with this barbaric practise. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/22 03:20 PM |
| 7 | I wish there was more respectful discussion online.Are there that many kinds of feminism? Or is it a vague description by design? If there are that many forms of feminism why aren't these forms properly named like every other miniscule thing in feminism? Isn't it strange that they have a word for men who spread their legs while sitting, but not for defining their own system of beliefs? I say it is vague by design, it is a no true Scotsmen fallacy, but they don't seem to be very bothered by that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/22 09:28 AM |
| 12 | I wish there was more respectful discussion online.I fear that in the near future it will be impossible to have a respectful, rational conversation with someone that holds a different opinion. I fully agree, the thing is just, it isn't the 'anti side' that makes this impossible. Yea, i know, the feminist side will say the same. But here is the thing, the 'anti side' can back their claims up while the feminist side often (i'd like to say always as i've never seen it not happen, but i have not spoken to all of them) just end up spewing personal at… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/11/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”/Yes dear... | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”No, im not going to argue against someone who doesn't understand what they are saying. You're fighting your own logic and blame me for it. My dad always told me to not argue with stupid people, they'll drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience. So yea, not going to argue against you. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/22 05:25 AM |
| 2 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”/Yes Dear.... | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Sperm, that was put inside the female during consensual intercourse, no longer has anything to do with the bodily autonomy of the man. It’s a bodily substance. Someone stealing your piss from the loo isn’t a breach of your bodily autonomy… it would just be a weird thing to do. Right, just like it isn't a breach of bodily autonomy to force a woman through a pregnancy. She had intercourse, she got pregnant. That is literally what you're telling me, just reversed the roles. So yea, it is anti abort… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 02:22 PM |
| 5 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”I do believe in bodily autonomy. I believe in not forcing women to carry a foetus they don’t want, or forcing women to have abortions for a foetus they do want. Ah the old, "Bodily autonomy for me, but not for thee". That is not believing in bodily autonomy, that is believing that some people deserve special consideration over others. Men not having a say in what happens to a woman’s body is not them missing out on bodily autonomy. Again, it has nothing to do what she can or can not do with her … | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 12:41 PM |
| 3 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Just because they helped create it, doesn’t mean they should be able to dictate what happens to another persons body in any shape or form, including pregnant or abortion. This isn't about what a woman can or can't do with her body, it is what a woman can and can not do with someone else their sperm. Just because she had sex doesn't mean that she can use his sperm as she pleases. That is stripping the woman of the choice of what happens to the thing that is growing in her own body. Like you said,… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/22 07:29 AM |
| 6 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”You say that, and yet I see many articles here complaining about men not having sex as much as they did 10 years ago, and men not having relationships. This number would dwindle right down if every single woman decided on this moment to no longer have sex with a man unless they wanted to have a child with them as an outcome of the intercourse. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. I never suggested this to be the case. I suggest that EVERYONE should have EQUAL access to abortion. This would i… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 3 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”In no way could anyone, or should anyone - force women a human being to have a child unwanted. There i fixed it for you. Instead of equaling the field by removing womens options, why not add options to the mens side? Because a paper abortion doesn't actually solve anything. Yes, the man isn't responsible for the child, but there is still a child running around. You might not think that it is a big deal that a child of yours that you have no contact with is running around, but i would. A paper ab… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 01:11 PM |
| 7 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”So you agree that men should have equally unrestricted access to abortion just like women? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 09:07 AM |
| 16 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”So just like it restricts men from expressing their sexuality. Yay equality!? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 05:53 AM |
| 14 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”Well it does take two to tango, so men are equally responsible for unwanted pregnancies - with the exception of sexual violence. Sorry, but that just doesn't make any sense. Men aren't responsible for what happens with a woman's body. If they are responsible they also get to say how the situation is going to be resolved. Holding someone responsible for the actions of other people is just fundamentally wrong. However, the decision of what happens to these pregnancies will always be that of the wo… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/22 05:43 AM |
| 19 | Isn’t it Ironic. Alanis Morissette Skipped Rock And Roll Hall of Fame Ceremony Due to ‘Overarching Anti-Woman Sentiment’….in Tribute to a Woman.Maybe, just maybe, she had the average experience anyone in that position goes through!? Do you really believe that all these things don't happen to male artists? The industry is fucked up, that is nothing new, it has nothing to do with her being a woman. There are countless male artists that got fucked over badly because some other mother fucker saw a chance to do so. They didn't get fucked over because they're males, they got fucked over because someone else saw a chance to do so. Why would it… | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 10:01 PM |
| 154 | ‘Men Are 100% Responsible for Unwanted Pregnancies. Feminism new salvo in the spirit of equality. Fellas, “Ejaculate Responsibly”If men are responsible for unwanted pregnancies would that not also imply that men are responsible for making the decision what happens to these pregnancies? I don't know, but to me it sounds an awful lot like 'Look what you made me do.' | /r/MensRights | 08/11/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | California professor erupts on Christians, Whites, & Men: "They will cause a civil war"You just moved the goalposts there. No, i did not. Genocide is the killing of a people from gens/gentis race or people andcaedo/caedere kill. It is not a question of what the actual number is. Of course it is a question of how many, if you where to have a car accident and accidentally kill the last member of a race would that mean you've committed genocide? And besides that, how exactly are these explores responsible for spreading a disease without them being aware of it? Those people in Tasmani… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/22 09:44 PM |
| 2 | California professor erupts on Christians, Whites, & Men: "They will cause a civil war"Is the damage done approximately the same in proportion to the numbers? or is it and absolute amount of damage that is being compared. It is neither, it is about the capacity to do it. Capacity in both having the means to do it and having the will to do it. There isn't such a thing as a 'race' of humans that is somehow less violent as any other 'race' or ethnicity. genocides committed by Tasmanian Aborigines: 0, genocides committed against them: 1 Genocides committed by native Haitians: 0, genoc… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Gentlemen, we have a request for collaboration from #Feminism to deal with: the #OrgasmGap Men-Women 90%-30%. Your collaboration and help is requested :) How's that for a change? :)First of all, isn't it strange that now our help is wanted but when we speak up at other times we are dismissed for voicing our opinions or needs? But that is besides the point of this threat i guess. Anyway, there is no 'easy fix' for this. In order to have a good sex life you have to discuss it with your partner. Voice your likes and your dislikes and be willing to explore with your partner what works for the two of you. As with everything in a relationship, if you are not happy with it you ha… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/22 11:05 AM |
| -1 | transandrophobia, misandry against trans men, and finding joy in positive masculinity as a young trans boyI sometimes use mascara to add fake fluff to my face and my sibling says I look like a pedophile or something. I just want to feel like myself. I'm not going to pretend to know what it is like to be transgender, because i really don't. But wanting to feel like myself is something that i do understand. Let me start of by saying you are allowed to feel like yourself, do not let anyone tell you anything different. You are allowed to feel and be yourself, if people can not live with the person that … | /r/EverydayMisandry | 01/11/22 11:32 AM |
| 2 | How would "consent to carry my child" play out realistically?It is the ultimate bodily autonomy, and in my opinion, the only way to structure our reproduction. Becoming a parent is one of the most life changing events a human can experience. While the male and female experience of gestation and birth are profoundly different, the impact that the child has on their lives is not. No one should be forced into parenthood against their wishes. Like it or not, but children need two parents. I don't really care what combination of genders, but there need to be t… | /r/MensRights | 01/11/22 10:04 AM |
| 8 | I just came from r/MensRightsMaybe it was always like that, but I've noticed recently it has become a sort of circlejerk for conservative misogynists. I came to the sub because of the toll on my mental health from the rampant use of misandry I have experienced since covid began. I not only faced racial discrimination because of being asian, but also a lot of misandry. I don't mean to share my story, that's not the point, but I went there because I wanted some validation from other people, and it concerns me that someone who… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/22 10:30 AM |
| 11 | We need to talk about this.Yea no, while there is a higher successful reversal rate when the procedure is preformed in 10 years it isn't 80% by a long shot. These numbers are WITHin 10 years, not in 10 years. The difference is that the former is 10 years while the latter also contains everything in between. After 10 years the success rate plummets drastically to as low as 30% or under. The percentages cited for these reversals are always intentionally vaguely stated as 'between 30% and 90%' with a whole list stating how d… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.That you cant read isn't my fault. You keep saying deranged stuff, so seek some help, it isn't worth it being as hateful as you are. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.Yes it does matter, your whole statement is that somehow rules didn’t apply to them. So it does matter who they were. Or, you know, those weren't the rules.. I‘m much better at this then you, as you can’t even separate Henry the 8th from Richard Worsley. No, you really aren't, you're grasping at straws and fallacies. And this is what you said and what I commented on… „It means that it would not have mattered if the person telling the doctor that he should wash his hands was a man. The doctor wou… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.You talk for several comments about the female settlers…,who where those? Where did they come from? They came from Europe and who exactly they were really doesn't enter into it. I didn’t say this women where physicians but you said that if a man, of their same standing, had told them, they would although not have listened…….dementia, or what is it with you? Did your mom drop you when you were little or something?? To quote myself... No, it wasn't about the women, it was a problem with stubbornne… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.Women where not responsible because they where not seen as a full person. Bullshit. Who where those women? Who were those men? So why did you say Richard Worsley did that? He had nothing to do with the founding of the Church of England….confused much? The fuck are you on about? The only thing confusing here is you. Why do you think there is the religion of the church of England? For shits and giggles? Yeah, I believe nothing happened to those men. LOL, what is it like living in lala land? If mal… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.Even if marriage would have been the norm, what has that to do with men being a full persons and women not? That there isn't another option as far as responsibility is concerned. Again, it wasn't that women weren't full persons, it was that women weren't fully responsible for their actions. You have a board nailed to your forehead, haven’t you? If you need the permission of your father your choice is none. Women did, men did not. But of course, if factors like money/land/inheritance don’t play a… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.It was not one or the other….men where seen as full persons, while women where not. It was the norm, marriage was the norm. Of course you had more freedom about who to marry, when money/land/inheritance/titles didn’t play a role. Not as long as it was parents that arranged marriages By the time people really could choose it was still preferred to marry so there would be a child that would care for you and your spouse when your getting old. The normal rule was that women had no right to their own… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.I much rather like to be a person in front of the law and everyone else. Me too, but that wasn't an option at that time, its one or the other. The poor people? Those guys had the most freedom regarding marriage….if there is no wealth to be kept in the family, then it doesn’t much matter who you marry. Still those women needed their father to marry them, while the men could do that on their own thanks to their penis. Right, the poor people had the most freedom in marriage. You're deluded if you t… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Help this feminist understand.Yeah, the flipside of the woman not being her own person in front of the law, is that she is not a person the law would hold responsible……crazy. So not being held responsible for your crimes is a bad thing? Personally id much rather not be held accountable for crimes as opposed to being held accountable for someone else their crimes. I never said men had free rain but they for sure had more rain then women. At least the where an actual party in it. Yea no, men really didn't have any more say abo… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/22 10:29 AM |
| 4 | Help this feminist understand.For the longest time, women where not even a party in their own marriage contracts. The contracts where literally made about them, not with them. Did all men have free choice of their wife’s? No and I never said that. But they where at least an actual party in the contract. That does not change that women had exactly zero control over who to marry. Again, all of this applies to men as well. That 'contract' that you are on about only stipulates the man because he is held responsible for everythin… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/22 10:38 AM |
| 15 | Help this feminist understand.Euhm everything that's under 'I'm not OP' How did women control sex and childbirth in the past? Women couldn’t choose who to marry, it was chosen for them. Once married they couldn’t deny sex…..with what kind of control did that leave them? Women couldn't chose, but neither could men. Marriage wasn't about love, it was about securing their futures. Of course they could deny their man sex, just like men could deny women sex. It is just that if you did you could be deemed 'unfit' for marriage and … | /r/MensRights | 05/10/22 08:28 PM |
| 8 | attack misandry not feminism for strategyThe big one we should focus on is misandry not feminism. The problem is that most of the misandry of society comes directly from feminist dogma. The moment that you point out misandry you have to point to where it originates from, if that isn't done it looks as if you're just being unstable and see misandry everywhere. Misogyny has had unbelievably good success as a buzzword. Everyday misogyny casual etc. We can do same with misandry. And it needs to happen because it is every single day (in the… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 09:08 AM |
| 14 | Scrolled through r/MensLib and its disappointing.I think one of the better descriptions of that sub is 'feminist larping men's rights'. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 10 | Toxic femininity?They have it, but just don't call it 'toxic femininity' but 'internalized misogyny', it's batshit crazy of course, but that has never stopped feminism before. | /r/MensRights | 29/09/22 12:49 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on the Iranian protests?Not everything is up for democratic election of course, but the laws of a country are. Strangely enough, a lot of their population does support these laws, so who are we to tell them it is not okay? | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 12:32 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on the Iranian protests?But don't they have the freedom of expression? If more than half of the people of a country want these rules, isn't that them exercising their right to self determination? Don't get me wrong, im happy that i don't live in a country where half of the people think this is a good idea. But that doesn't mean that the people in Iran have to agree with me. Religion is a strange thing, people do weird shit in the name of religion. It doesn't matter religion, from the Abrahamic religions to Zoroastriani… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the Iranian protests?This one is a real hot iron, as a westerner there really is no way to give a good answer to this. Ultimately it is a question of cultural value's that are polar opposites of each other. As someone who value's self determination i would say that i believe people should be able to wear whatever the fuck they like. The problem is just that if i truly believe in peoples self determination then i should also accept that not everyone will come to conclusions that i approve of. I can voice my opinion o… | /r/MensRights | 24/09/22 09:52 AM |
| 5 | Purity of privilegeYou are conflating 'privilege' with 'status quo', those are not the same thing. Being part of a majority comes with certain advantages, but these advantages aren't privileges. If 95% of the population has an advantage over a select few then you can't really call it a 'privilege'. Someone may be disadvantaged because they're not part of a certain group, but that doesn't make the people who are part of that group privileged. All your "privileges" come down to not being part of the largest groups o… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/22 05:21 PM |
| 11 | Biden administration guts due process protections for students accused of sexual misconduct; "Under new regulations, Title IX investigators can deny students access to the evidence against them"I get told that I am full of shit, ignoring their lived expirence, maybe guys need to be taken down a peg because they got a free ride anyway. I am being a sexist pig trying to minimise what they see as the issue. The cognitive dissonance is real.. Maybe they need to listen to your lived experience and these women need to be taken down a peg because of the free rides they're getting. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/22 09:46 AM |
| 15 | what are your thoughts on people saying feminism benefits men?However, feminism is not a unified group. Not all think the same way. This is a no true Scotsman. No group thinks exactly the same about everything, that doesn't mean that they don't have a dogma that is central to their system of beliefs. You can't call yourself a Christian if you don't believe in Christ. In the case of feminism this is 'the patriarchy theory', if people claim to be a feminist they have to believe in this paradigm. If they don't believe in this patriarchy then they aren't femin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/09/22 10:34 PM |
| 13 | Did we just see rape in HOD?My interpretation of the scene is that Criston Cole was conflicted not because he wasn’t sure if he wanted to have sex, but because he felt reticent about breaking his vows, specially with the future queen. I'm sorry, but that doesn't make sense. Not wanting to break a vow with sex is him not wanting sex. If anything it makes it worse, she didn't respect his physical boundaries and she didn't care about his feelings as he clearly didn't want to break his vow. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/09/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Is 'the death grip' a side effect of circumcision?I agree, but i couldn't make a poll on this sub. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 08:04 AM |
| 6 | Is 'the death grip' a side effect of circumcision?From what i understand it is gripping the penis very hard during masturbation. This then may cause loss in sensitivity to the point where they aren't able to finish during regular sex. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/22 07:45 AM |
| 21 | Key facts about suicide according to the UN. Guess which key fact they refuse to acknowledge?Where does the report mention women? I can't see them discussed anywhere in the linked report? You're right, they don't name them explicitly, but they do give strong hints towards women. Suicide rates are also high amongst vulnerable groups who experience discrimination Guess what the WHO groups women under? (I'm not saying that suicide in men isn't an issue or that WHO may have a gender bias elsewhere, but this article doesn't appear to have an explict bias) Men make up the vast majority of sui… | /r/MensRights | 14/09/22 08:15 AM |
| 13 | New docu-series on Teacher abuse that leaves something outThe red pill documentary was specifically about male issues. Didn't touch on female issues at all. Was that sexist? What are you trying to say here? That boy's aren't groomed? Making a documentary about male issues that does not include female issues just isn't the same as making a documentary about an issue that is shared between the sexes and not including one of the sexes as victims. Writing a documentary about how something affects women only or men only is fine. No reason to be upset about … | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Are there any resources for how to help child cope with his mother losing custody? I recently got full custody of my son and I’m having a hard time explaining why things happened the way they did while not going into detail. His mom has some significant mental health and substance abuse issues. ThxHonestly, there really isn't much to say if you don't give us at the very least the age of the child. Other important things to include would be things like contact with the mothers family. Not a detailed account or anything, but more a general idea. Age is the most important thing though, as, what may well be the best solution for a 3 or 4 year old child might be the worst choice if they're a few years older. There is no single right answer to your question, it all depends on the age and unders… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/22 10:37 AM |
| 60 | I need help.Show him a video of a circumcision on a baby, i don't think anyone would agree to that after seeing that shit. Make sure to have one with audio, the sound is not something you want to hear. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/09/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think most women are hostile about manly traits but seem to be attracted to them?That you were part of the community doesn't discard that it is about the realization. You people building a 'community' around it is a whole other thing.\ So feminism isn't represented at all levels in our society? So no feminist speakers, no feminist "studies". Must be a wonderful world you live in. Mean while in the real world male domestic violence victims are still arrested because of feminism that isn't represented in our society. No, i don't know that. I'm sorry to burst your bubble but i … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think most women are hostile about manly traits but seem to be attracted to them?No, that is the feminist interpretation of what red pill is, not what it actually is. Like i said, red pill is the realisation that feminism isn't what it says it is. WTF are you on about. This has nothing to do with anything that i have said, i never claimed that male and female sexual imperatives are at odds. I am talking about bout the current social climate that is fully controlled by feminist dogma. You are fighting windmills here. Again, nothing to do with what i've said, why do you reply … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/22 11:55 AM |
| 9 | Why do you think most women are hostile about manly traits but seem to be attracted to them?They don't, that is more how feminism views them, but that isn't what 'The red pill' is about. The red pill is a reference to the movie 'The matrix'. In this movie the main character has the choice between two pills a blue and a red one. If they take the blue pill they go back to their world of fantasy. But if they take the red pill they will see the world for what it truly is. The red pill is realizing that feminism isn't the altruistic organization of gender equality that it says that it is. S… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/22 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think most women are hostile about manly traits but seem to be attracted to them?I’ve noticed this common trend, and to be honest, it’s one the few things Red Pill ideology, as toxic as it is, seems to have tapped into properly. Many women, even emotionally mature women, are attracted to the traits in men they condemn. I really don't understand what you find 'toxic' about the 'red pill' ideology. By what you are writing it seems to me that you are one of the 'red pill' people. I mean, For context... about toxic men. This whole part is basically describing what 'the red pill'… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/09/22 08:19 AM |
| 22 | "As a female..."I think she has trouble focusing, the point she was trying to make was rather long and not all that great. Maybe she should seek some help, you know, people who can help her learn to focus and concentrate. I'm sure there are some wonderful quiet camps that can help her with her concentration problems, a concentrationcamp if you will. Maybe it will calm her down a bit. /s | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 3 | So asking for a paternity test is wrongJust imagine the fury.. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 10:11 AM |
| 6 | UK: Middle-aged 'Sugar Daddy', 50, is cleared of raping 14-year-old internet date after judge ruled the girl 'told so many lies' the trial could not continueHonestly, beyond the lives of the accused that false allegations ruin, there is also the damage done to the real victims of rape who have that much harder of a time getting justice in the face of false allegations. To take a page from feminist dogma 'it's women who do this to other women'. I think that in this single occasion this rhetoric has some actual merit to it. We can't see how big of a problem rape is in society because we have to wade through a sea of false rape accusations. Because the… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | So asking for a paternity test is wrongIf these tests are standard mandatory tests there wouldn't be any reason to be mad or it being a deal breaker. They're just throwing a fit. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 09:27 AM |
| 3 | So asking for a paternity test is wrongHow is it 'dangerous to women' to swab an infants cheek? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 08:51 AM |
| 7 | So asking for a paternity test is wrongIt’s certainly not going to be well received by most women. Some due to guilty conscience, others because it will be seen as an accusation. If it is the law to take a standard test then they have no reason to feel miffed about it. That is exactly why it should be a standard test. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 06:24 AM |
| 10 | So asking for a paternity test is wrongHowever, I've had a family member do it, and I've heard numerous stories online, about men requesting paternity tests on their teenagers, and then dropping out of the kids' lives when it comes back that they're not theirs, and I just can't grasp that. Why is this so hard to understand? Do you really expect men that have been lied to for decades can just ignore everything and continue to go on like nothing has happened? Sure, ensure you don't have to pay child support in the divorce but like... T… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 06:20 AM |
| 12 | So asking for a paternity test is wrongCheaters have tells. If we are alert to red flags hopefully you can catch them cheating and get a paternity test. I'm sorry, but no thanks. There is no need to be alert for red flags if this test was just a standard test done on every baby. I'm just saying asking for a paternity test and your partner has never given you reason to suspect cheating is asking for trouble and will cause consequences you didn't intend. Again, that is exactly why it should be a standard test done the moment they are b… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 06:01 AM |
| 6 | How would you respond to this comment on right of Parenthood?They want to have their cake and eat it. No, the right to abort is the right to not be pregnant. If she aborts, there is no resulting child needing support. That is not the same as relinquishing the responsibility of financially supporting a born child. This is just being intellectually dishonest at best, the right to abort most definitely includes the right to not become a parent. If people are pushing for something like this i just go in full swing with the 'There is no need for abortions, if … | /r/MensRights | 30/08/22 08:24 AM |
| 10 | Men think boys are to hurt their daughters. And you expect women to trust you?This has nothing to do with men being cruel to women, this is about their children growing up and them wanting to protect their kids. What you are hearing is their fear, nothing more. It's just a begging but i want to attract your attention to the fact that men, you, suspect boys to be a threat to girls. So do you believe that girls are a threat to boys as well? My mother has warned me of bad women more than once, and she is a woman! Does that mean that all girls are a threat to boys? | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 01:06 PM |
| 4 | Links on Women's Violence Against MenI think the one that started the violence should be punished the harshest regardless of how minor this violence is. The moment someone gets physical they've lost all right to bitch about getting their ass handed to them. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Links on Women's Violence Against MenNo, you don't seem to understand, the Duluth model ensures that the police doesn't have to investigate as it blames men as per default. It doesn't matter if the women doesn't have a mark on her and the man is bleeding from the hole that still holds a knife with her finger prints on it. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Links on Women's Violence Against MenI think the main reason male on female violence is focused on more is because back in the 1900s it wasn’t seen as much of an issue in a domestic setting. Kind of a way for women to be progressive Well, the problem with this is that it is 2022 and female on male violence is still seen as a non issue. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 07:46 AM |
| 3 | No way she is seriousIt is even 'worse' then that, the so called 'morning wood' is part of the male sleep-cycle. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 5 | semi-feminist madly in love with a LWMA memberThe problem is that you can't make things equal by only working on one side of the problem. By just changing things on one side we ignore the problems that other side may have, if we don't take those into account there will never be equality. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/22 02:25 PM |
| 11 | semi-feminist madly in love with a LWMA memberYou're missing the point, again. Men and women have different gender roles in society. These gender roles come with perks and cons. Feminism only works towards getting all the perks that men have, but excuse themselves from the cons of men and not want to share their own perks with men. To put in terms of your faulty example. An organization that only focuses on cats while cats, generally speaking, have a great life are a shitty organisation if they don't give a fuck about all the dying dogs on … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/22 02:18 PM |
| 13 | semi-feminist madly in love with a LWMA memberHmmm... would there be a difference between the rights of disabled and abled people? Your comparison is so far off it isn't funny. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/22 01:44 PM |
| 20 | semi-feminist madly in love with a LWMA memberfeminism does strive for an egalitarian world and feminism isn't supposed to represent men issues Are mutually exclusive, only one of these can be true. If feminism strives for an egalitarian world then feminism must also represent men's issues. If feminism doesn't represent men's issues then it doesn't strive for egalitarianism, but for supremacy. The only way it wouldn't be supremacy is if men already had all the perks and rights that women have, and that is clearly not the case. overall there… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/08/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Women hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the U.S.Well, yes, it isn't rocket science.. 36.3x1=36.3 41x1.12=45.92 This means that men on average as a group worked ~10 hours a week more as women as a group. So that is almost a third more hours worked a week on average. So that right there is your 30% more in taxes paid. Edit, aah sorry i see my math mistake now, it is women who pay 30% of the taxes and men 70%. But the numbers above are still valid. But that still makes men work far more hours and the majority of this goes straight into the tax d… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Women hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the U.S."According to U.S. census data, men spend an average of 41.0 hours per week at their jobs, while women work an average of 36.3 hours per week" Of the working people, the fact that there are more working men than there are women compounds on these numbers. If 5 women work 36.3 hours on average and 10 man work an average of 41 hours it is still the men who work much more, make more hours and thus pay more tax. So this is nothing but statistic bullshittery. "The [Resolution] Foundation says that wo… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Women hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the U.S.You're quite quick to dismiss some really good points the other commenter made, and I'm not sure why? Because they weren't any good points made, im not sure how you can think that any of these points had merit. In the US, men work about 4hrs more per week than women on average. In the UK that narrows to only a 1hr difference. This really isn't significant enough to account for a 70% gap in taxes payed. You're going to need to quote sources on that. http://empathygap.uk/?p=2010#_Toc498701818 This… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Women hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the U.S.Not talking about this program specifically, im talking about all other programs. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:55 AM |
| 5 | Women hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the U.S.Or it feeds into the observation that women just don't want to work full time. Even single women often do not work full time if their income can make that happen. The same goes for single men, they're often still picking up more work even if they don't actually need the money. Why would anyone work in the dirty sectors if they don't pay well? The problem with the 'women heavy' sectors is often that they just don't generate the money to maintain higher pay. These numbers aren't taken into account… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:46 AM |
| 14 | Women hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the U.S.Not as pedantic as the exclusion of men in nearly all programs that are set up to help people. Yet this never seems to be a problem. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:14 AM |
| 22 | Women hold nearly two-thirds of the outstanding student debt in the U.S.Which begs the question as to why? Men work more hours. It could suggest that single income households are still a widespread thing in the US (which in itself is kind of jarring). I don't know about the US, but were i live in Europe that is certainly not the case. The only way to live of a single wage is by either having a very good job or have one person work all day and night. It happens, but it isn't common. It also imply that men on average earn, in general, more money (so to pay a higher su… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:05 AM |
| 19 | What happened to feminism? Why is now favoritism, instead of equality?It isn't that it's favouritism now, it is just that only now you've started to recognize the favouritism. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | What are the reasons/causes of gender education gap?r/mensrightslinks | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/08/22 11:35 AM |
| 4 | Telling a feminist the truth.How do you expect anyone up take you seriously after the hate you just spewed yourself? Hate? The only thing i hate upon is a religion, a religion that hates people for who they are. In my book that isn't hate. Yes the patriarchy is a real thing. It still does exist in places around the world. No it's not a conspiracy. No, it really isn't, the whole list you're rambling about has nothing to do with 'patriarchy' The problem is that the definition many people think of when they hear 'patriarchy' i… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 05:31 AM |
| 14 | Telling a feminist the truth.Do you see the problem with what you're saying? By simply switching men to women everything in your argument equally applies to both sides - and if you don't believe this then go spend some time with feminists and you'll soon hear it. Yea no, you can't switch this because there isn't such a thing as a patriarchy while feminism very much does exist. My argument is about the fact that the religion of feminism hinges on on there being a patriarchy. There isn't a patriarchy, there isn't some grand c… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 08:12 PM |
| 14 | Telling a feminist the truth.Which is why trying to claim 'all feminists' doesn't do anything to shed light on the true problem and instead just adds fuel into the fire of hatred against another. It does shine a light on the real problem, feminism is the real problem. All of feminism's idea's stem from the faulty assumption of ''the patriarchy'. I have heard many descriptions of what this 'patriarchy' is supposed to be, none of them involved the actual definition of a patriarchy nor did any of these descriptions had anythin… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 8 | What should I say?Tell her to stop being so femotional. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/08/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | This is getting a lot of media coverage: "Briton Asher-Smith calls for more research into how periods affect performance" "I feel like if it was a men's issue there would be a million different ways to combat things." I'm not convinced at all: lots of men's issues are ignored to some extent.Look, you are right to say that women can't compete because of their gender. But why is it unfair when the someone that can't compete because of biology are women? Men are told over and over again that life isn't fair and biology isn't fair when reproduction is discussed. Im not saying it is a good argument, but it is always brought up so if it is a good argument then it should be a good arguement now, right? | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 11:21 AM |
| 10 | "Male doctors murder women!"They don't, because then it would become clear you're right. This is just another cherry picked "study" that doesn't include things like how much of a survival rate the patient had. What it comes down to is that female surgeons often refuse to do surgery if the surgery is risky. The male surgeons don't have this problem and would take on more risky surgeries. Those will result in higher mortality rate but they'll also give them a fighting chance. So their chances of survival are bigger as well. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/08/22 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Straight/cisgenderIt’s not entirely without merit as an analytical tool but it’s a very, very flimsy method on which to construct our ENTIRE model of social analysis. The problem with intersectionality is that it is inherently sexist and racist. Assigning things like privilege upon people because of their skin color is no different as believing someone is a criminal because of their skin color. If intersectionality is truly used as analytical tool then things like 'gender' or 'skin color' would hardly matter in t… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Boris Johnson was forced to resign for same thing but all I see now is people praising her.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bgq4fw6o8Gc | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Boris Johnson was forced to resign for same thing but all I see now is people praising her.But you shouldn't discount people just by their age. I think this is a very strange concept to hold onto, we discount people because of their age every day and for good reason. We discount older people in sports because of their lack of physical prowess. We discount younger people for jobs because they simply haven't been able to get the experience needed to be able to do particular jobs. I think 34-35 years is really pushing it for a job like PM. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 11:45 AM |
| 14 | The Gendered Suicide Paradox is MeaninglessI think my point about what meaning has been gleamed (acquired capacity for suicide, access to lethality) was meant to be a very superficial concession. In prevention work, we focus a lot on access to means (example; someone with a balcony planning to jump, get them to lock the door, wrap key in tinfoil, put it at back of the freezer and go into another room). The reason for this is that the decision to suicide often precedes the act of suicide by mere minutes, and slowing down access to preferr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | ah, feminismIf that were the case then wouldn't the 'real' feminist stop such misandry? Why doesn't feminism do more to battle against this form of inequality? The reason we have things like the Duluth model is because feminism is inherently misandrist in nature. It believes that there is some fantastical 'patriarchy' that empowers all men. It doesn't exist, it has never existed and yet they are hell bend on fighting it. I don't know any other way of explaining this behavior other then blatant misandry. Fig… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | ah, feminismI'm sorry, but that just isn't true. Either, you, a commenter on the internet is the 'true' feminist or all the feminist 'scholars' that make up feminist dogma are the 'true' feminist. Feminism has never been about equality as this need for equality always seems to flow unidirectional. I have never seen large feminist campaigns to address men falling behind in schools for example or any campaign that empowers men in any way. Feminism is responsible for the 'Duluth model', a model that ensures th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 11:05 AM |
| 61 | The Gendered Suicide Paradox is MeaninglessThere is a point to be made about increased access to lethal means and the acquired capacity for suicide (frequently maligned as toxic masculinity), and these are useful insights that can inform intervention across the gender spectrum. However, access to lethal means does not explain the gender gap, as the ratio holds across cultures where firearms are relatively inaccessible. Is there really a point to be made though? From where im standing this point reeks of victim blaming and is only as prev… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/08/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | ah, feminismIm not even anti feminist- im a girl myself and support equality between all genders- That kind of makes you and anti feminist as feminism doesn't support equality between all genders. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Should financial abortion be a thing ?Sure, but equal rights means women should have equal rights to bodily autonomy as men. So you want to force women to go through pregnancy? If you give women the same bodily autonomy as men you'd end up forcing women into continuing their pregnancy as men don't have any form of bodily autonomy in this regard. If you want men to have the same bodily autonomy as women have then men should be able to force an actual abortion. His sperm his choice so women can't use a man's sperm for procreation agai… | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 15 | I saw this on r/AskFeminists. Can y’all help me debunk this?https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/practice-manual-for-establishing-and-maintaining-surveillance-systems-for-suicide-attempts-and-self-harm Here you go, note that: The annual incidence rate per 100 000 population should be calculatedfor the total population, for the male and female populations separately, and for subgroups by age and sex, based on the number of persons who presented to hospital following a suicide attempt or self-harm in each calendar year. It is suggested that crude and ag… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 03:01 PM |
| 50 | I saw this on r/AskFeminists. Can y’all help me debunk this?There is a third explanation that i believe is the correct one. Feminist fudged the numbers and counted all self harm as suicide attempts. If this was done because of malice or incompetence i don't know, but the stats that are used for this argument does view all cases of self harm as an attempted suicide. | /r/MensRights | 08/08/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyIm not going to continue with this, like i said, there are far worse things that need attention. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/08/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyHowever, societal values do change over time, and those values end up influencing law. 50 years ago homosexuality was largely illegal. Societal values changed, and then so too did the laws. Of course societies change, that was never up for debate, what is up for debate is how it is changed and by what value's. You can't force anyone's beliefs. You can through force of law, enforce behaviours and actions. That has always been the case. Yes, you can force things through law, that was never up for … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyWhether they do or don't take to contacting and targetting me directly, is all irrelevant to the idea of what is or isn't considered offensive to either the individual, or in a legal sense. The two are separate things. As you say, an American or British fundamentalist Christian may take offense to gay marriage. Doesn't matter if they do, the society they're in legally allows it. So if a gay person gets married, they can be upset. They don't have legal recourse to prevent it. That same individual… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/08/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyIt's always OK to demand people to change their values (given the contextual format of how those demands are made). We do it all the time, and societal values change all the time. Making a demand on its own doesn't by default define what we do or don't do in response to it. Societally we decide what values we wish to share (or not). Someone can "demand" I don't wear socks on Wednesdays. I don't care. I'll ignore it. Someone else may demand an end to insider trading from politicians. And I'll say… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyWhilst you maintain it's not any sort of issue, other people, particularly recipients who don't want them, maintain otherwise. For reasons that have been explained elsewhere in this thread. There is no such a right as 'the right not to be offended', people offend other people all day every day. As long as these acts that are deemed offensive aren't criminal then there is no problem. Given such, it seems reasonable to ask before sending. You seem to take issue with this idea. I take issue with th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/08/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyI believe this is where we differ. It definitely is not mostly limited to dating sites. It kind of happens everywhere. It doesn't change the fact that it is a none issue, they can block people. If what these people are doing is to be considered criminal then they can always file a report. And I already addressed this: No you didn't, you merely repeated the same old thing. And you skipped the part about simply verifying before sending. If you maintain it's not a huge deal in the first place, then… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyIf it's truly the case that you are of the understanding that this isn't limited to dating sites in the first place then, why specifically bring those up to focus on when nobody else was? Because it is none issue, it is mostly limited to these dating sites. That it may happen outside them too doesn't make that the standards. And, again, they can block them if they're not interested. See the problem? You say it's not about dating sites and then keep focussing just on them. Yes i see the problem, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/08/22 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Generalizing FeministsI think the definition of feminism differs from person to person, as to me I define it as equity for genders, instead of equally for women. This is exactly the problem, the definition of feminism doesn't change from person to person. Feminism hinges on 'the patriarchy' theory, what this 'patriarchy' is no one can tell you, but they're sure that it's done just to hate on women. With Don Quixote esque they're fighting these windmills completely oblivious of the fact that all they're doing is fight… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 20 | Generalizing FeministsThe MRA doesn't have a religion like feminism has, there are no weird theories that blame everything on women. There is a difference between a group perpetuating something and a person perpetuating something. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Friend Refuses to Listen to Male ArtistsWhen they start complaining about how they hate some male artist again tell them to stop being so femotional. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyYou seem to presume that sending explicit pictures to random women is only standard on dating sites. I can assure you, that is completely untrue. And even on the presumption that it is, that still doesn't make it right. No, i don't. Just because you don't quote that bit of what i wrote doesn't mean that it isn't there. Yes, if men just get a number and start sending dick pic's i'd agree that it would be harassing if they'd keep sending them. However, if a woman goes on some dating site to get la… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/07/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyYou're missing the point, it isn't about my sister being afraid of spiders. It is about it not being the fault of these spiders. People don't choose their feelings, yet they are the only ones responsible for their feelings. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/07/22 04:11 AM |
| -2 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyPeople have a right to exist without shit they don't want being forced into their space, be it physical or digital. This is you, so no, that isn't a strawman i put up, this is a quote. Happening across a sub you don't like (because it came up in your feed or a search or whatever) is not the same as something being sent to you directly. What happend to being able to exist without having shit they don't want being forced into their space? Is my feed not my space? Going on the internet, you accept … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?So if abortion were outlawed, and both men and women had the same lack of rights to an abortion, then this measure would seem reasonable to you? Reasonable, yes. Preferable, no. I can't think of any way to find people having equal rights unreasonable. That doesn't mean that we should aim for the lowest point, but that is what is happening im afraid. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 12:21 PM |
| 0 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?All these things are done for the mother, not the child. If it truly is about the child these things would all be mandatory, they aren't they are all optional. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guySo then the question is of degree, not of if the action itself is bad and should be dissuaded. Would that be correct? That's the big question that no one can answer because it is subjective. The thing that one person finds acceptable the other finds abhorrent, who is correct? I'm afraid I'm not following this one. I don't see how it relates to subscribing to OnlyFans. How do you think these girls get their followers? Advertisement they do is the same as dick pics, the main difference is that the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 12:13 PM |
| 2 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?Your point? It is still done for the mother who wants a healthy child, she does this all by choice. Before the birth the child is hardly taken into consideration, it is about the wishes of the mom. If she doesn't want it to be born it won't be, if she wants it to be born it will be. All the care she receives is still care for her and her wishes and not that of the baby. If it truly was about the child these ultrasounds wouldn't be optional but mandatory. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 11:56 AM |
| -1 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyAre we talking about the existence of something, or them going out of their way to place themselves in your life? Why does this matter? The argument was that people have the right to exist without being confronted with things they didn't approve of. I think most of the crap thrown around on TwoX is vapid and often hurtful. But I don't care, they can stay in their corner and say whatever the hell they want. And if I venture into there I accept I'm going to see their arguments. If it was just 'a c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyIf we're talking from a purely legal perspective, flashing and indecent exposure are also illegal. To clarify your stance before we can really continue, do you believe that sending unsolicited explicit pictures to women should not be warranted under this or a similar category? No, indecent exposure and flashing are done in a public setting, receiving something digital just isn't the same as experiencing them in real life. If unsolicited explicit pictures are warranted under this category then on… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 07:11 AM |
| 4 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyPeople have a right to exist without shit they don't want being forced into their space, be it physical or digital. I'm sorry but people don't have this right, it wouldn't be a good right either. Everyone is different, things that one person wants is offending or unwanted by someone else. If I have a right to exist without having shit that I don't want shoved in my face why is r/TwoXChromosomes still a thing? They offend me, isn't that enough for it to be banned from existing? I'm not saying tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Why are unsolicited dick picks seen as such a big deal? Perspective of a not 100% straight guyYes, some people experience feelings of discomfort, disgust, or even fear in response to particular stimuli that may seem disproportionate to others who do not share those feelings. This is a problem for these people, a problem only they themselves can solve and it shouldn't be made into a problem of other people. My sister, for example, has an uncontrollable fear of spiders, does this mean we should exterminate all spiders? Or isn't it the spiders fault that she fears them? Anything can cause a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/07/22 06:37 AM |
| 3 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?It takes two to make a child, both parties responsible should have to pay for the costs. It only takes one to decide if there will be a child or not. If it is a decision of both parents both should be on the hook, but for as long as the man doesn't have a say he shouldn't be held responsible. Having a child is 100% a choice of the mother, she doesn't have to have a child, she choose to have a child. She has a plethora of ways to wave responsibility for the child, she doesn't even need to inform … | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 06:10 AM |
| 0 | [USA] What do you think about the Unborn Child Support Act?Those aren't for the baby, they are for the mom. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/22 05:58 AM |
| 6 | Abortion for menSo it isn't about bodily autonomy then. Either bodily autonomy is there for everyone or it isn't a thing at all. Look, it shouldn't be too much to ask of women to find willing partners to procreate with. | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 08:54 AM |
| 8 | Abortion for menSo, my sperm my choice!? If the man didn't consent to his sperm being used for procreation he should be able to force an abortion? | /r/MensRights | 25/07/22 06:42 AM |
| 294 | Bad therapist?File a complaint and seek another therapist. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/22 11:41 AM |
| 4 | Someone who posted in 'support' of us has completely changed their mindI think it's one of the best movies ever made. Brave sir Robin! lol | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 09:30 AM |
| 6 | Someone who posted in 'support' of us has completely changed their mindhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7qT-C-0ajI It's from the Holy Grail xD | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Someone who posted in 'support' of us has completely changed their mindOh queen, eh, very nice. An' how'd you get that, eh? By exploitin' the workers -- by angin' on to outdated imperialist dogma which perpetuates the economic an' social differences in our society! If there's ever going to be any progress.. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 09:14 AM |
| 5 | Is it possible that a lot of people on this sub have an exaggerated perception of feminism?However, sometimes I get the impression that many people on this sub assume that feminists think a certain way when they do not. For example, most feminists I have spoken to would absolutely be in favour of equal rights in family courts, support male SA/domestic abuse victims and do not hate men. The problem with feminism is that it is a religion. It doesn't matter if someone doesn't believe every tenant of their religion, their support is enough to enforce these tenants anyway. The entire basis… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Equality feels like oppression?Damn, that was a good burn on the end there. I don't like you at all but I'll admit a good burn even if it's pointed at me. Well played. Well, i have to say i am surprised that you take it that well, good on you! No, it isn't. It's in regards to giving up when faced with unwanted parenthood. Although it doesn't suit my existence, I can't say they'd be wrong to have aborted me. I'm super fucking glad they didn't in hindsight but it would have been reasonable to do. So, if your mom had not seen a … | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Equality feels like oppression?Why would there only be laws that negate the biological advantage of men? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Equality feels like oppression?So men killing themselves aren't victims now?! I don't glorify giving up, i just do not ignore their hopelessness. I too am still here, i didn't give up either, but that doesn't give me the right to shit on the people who didn't have the will to go on anymore. Giving up is a choice, but that choice becomes a lot easier when the deck is stacked against you. Is that really up for you to decide? You act as if these people are killing themselves for shits and giggles. New's flash, they're not. No on… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Equality feels like oppression?Right, because cheating on someone and becoming a parent against your wishes are totally the same thing. While it is shitty to cheat it is in no way as life changing as parenthood. Men killing themselves because they see no other way out because of the circumstances that society puts them in is on society, not on them. What you are doing here is victim blaming, you are blaming these men for seeing no way out. You can try to be "funny" about it with 'testicular cancer', but, your not. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Equality feels like oppression?But if a man decides to kill himself in relation to a pregnancy, it isn't the pregnancy that is killing him but his inability to reconcile emotions within himself in regards to the pregnancy and in the woman's case it is the actual pregnancy. So the reason he kills himself isn't the reason he kills himself... It is the pregnancy that kills him, without it he wouldn't have killed himself. You really want to compare that to the number of truck drivers who die each year? Well, yes, accoording to th… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 06:43 PM |
| 11 | Equality feels like oppression?Yes, it is absurd to say that it is just as lethal, it is more lethal for men. No, men can't die from the pregnancy it self. But there are plenty of men who have killed themselves because they saw no way out. Men who didn't want to become a parent and really can't pay child support end up in prison. Guess how those people often end up? Now please tell me how getting pregnant is going to send you to jail. And yes, this is one of the instances where men have it way worse than women. Men have no sa… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Equality feels like oppression?No, that is not what i am saying AT ALL. I was asked how other biological advantages have been negated by laws/rules. I give you examples of how it works, and now you start accusing me of somehow wanting this to stop this happening. I never said that having the same fitness requirements for both men and women isn't equality nor have i said i am against them. I merely pointed out how these rules negate the biological advantage men had. This is exactly what you asked me to explain. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Equality feels like oppression?The fitness requirements, the amount of miles they have to be able to run, the amount of weight they have to carry, pushup's the whole thing. If the requirements are the same then either women won't be able to meet the standards or men will have it rather easy to meet the standaard. But this would not really matter as these standaards are set in order to be able to accomplish the job. The fact that there is a physical requirement that women can pass basically nullifies any advantage men had in t… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Equality feels like oppression?All sporting leagues, fitness admission for certain jobs (life guards, fire fighters etc.), the general idea that 'might makes right' doesn't apply to our society anymore. Then there are things like an employer not being able to fire someone because they are pregnant, and the general quota's for women in higher positions. These are just from the top of my head, there are more. The point is that men and women are biologically different, that is why there are rules in place that ensures more equal… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 08:53 AM |
| 8 | Equality feels like oppression?The problem has never been 'equality' in of its own, it has always been how this 'equality' is defined. Whenever feminism is bitching about 'equality' they are proposing equality of outcome and not equal rights or equal chances. This sort of 'equality' certainly is oppressing, but this is when feminist fall back on this 'if equality feels like oppression..'. It this context the saying is nothing more than a red herring. But when ever feminist are called upon to fight for something like equal rep… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 08:16 AM |
| 195 | Equality feels like oppression?Like everything else in Feminism, it is 100% projection. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 06:00 AM |
| 12 | So there is a poor soul trying to talk to feminist in twoxchromosomes. He's trying to create a sub where discussion between genders can be regulated. He's finding we're a lot nicer than expected.I am trying to create a sub that is heavily modded, and has the options to speak out and ask the other gender about their issues and problems, with the idea that talking with and understanding people gets a point across much better than labeling them inept. It would be great if that could succeed, but the harsh reality is that this is simply impossible. It has been tried multiple times and it always ends exactly the same way. First everyone is welcome to discuss, when things get heated feminist … | /r/MensRights | 10/07/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Abortion/men’s choiceWhere to start with this trainwrak.. No matter how you spin it, after 6 months the only real excuse for an abortion is the mothers health. I'm in no way against abortions, but after 6 months the fetus is very close to be 'viable' if not 'viable' already. (viable as in able to live outside of the womb) If there is a line to be drawn with abortions i believe it should be right there. I personally told him I didn’t mind if he didn’t want to be in the baby’s life if he wasn’t ready and maybe if one … | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Shoo | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?There is no other way to understand them as sexists, that you can't understand that is totally on you, not me. Go and be sexist somewhere else. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Go and troll somewhere else. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Yea no, you just have shown your own sexist beliefs. At this point i can no longer view you as discussing in good faith. You're trolling. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/22 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?There are far less male whores, that is a fact. I fully agree that my statement isn't 'just a statement', but yours isn't either. Just like my 'statement' implied things, so does yours. Yours implies that it is mens own fault that they are victims, because they've made those rules. There is no other way to interpret that 'statement' of yours. If you can't understand this after such a blatantly obvious example then i really don't know what to tell you. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?Hahaha, no it isn't different, it is exactly the same thing. I too stated it without any emotion behind it. It isn't intended to be rude, it is just a factual statement, just like yours. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?I didn't say that you literally said this, i said that your words imply this. 'But it's always the women who whore themselves out.' Is this also 'just a statement' that 'doesn't have intent'? It has just as much to do with the discussion at hand as your statement, and it is equally truthful. So is this a valid rebuttal? | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?What does 'men making this system' have to do with anything? These mythical 'men' aren't the ones who are suffering from it, so what does it have to do with the suffering of current men? Not only do you imply with your statement that it is somehow the fault of men that they are in this situation. It also implies that these men who made this system somehow made these system to make things better for all men. So no, it isn't 'just a statement', and it certainly has intent behind it. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?It would mean that the fire truck is red. What does, 'but it is men who made the system you are talking about' mean? What do you mean to say with that? | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?There is no such thing. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Name single right men have that women don't?And what exactly does that statement mean? | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | So feminism "was originally about equality"? (the support of equality can only be of equality for all, and support of equality for all is called humanism, not group-ism, such as femin-ism, group-ism being the road to chauvinism: if rights of only one group are supported they are called privileges)Women becoming responsible for their part in the household and having freedom economically gave men more freedom to not have to carry the wait of two people so much. This is very debatable, the pressure on men to provide has not really changed with the ability of women to provide for themselves. Men are still the ones who are expected to pay for things like dates. Women on average work far less hours as men do, while women are on average the largest spenders. The ability to provide isn't the sam… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Name single right men have that women don't?Men made the system you’re talking about. Then what is this? It seems to me that this blames 'men' for 'the system'. If it isn't justifying it then why did you say this? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Name single right men have that women don't?What does it exactly matter that it was 'men' who made these systems? Are you seriously justifying their suffering because 'men'!? You do realize that this doesn't make any sense, right??? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Name single right men have that women don't?It is awful that a man has to pay child support in a situation where he is raped. Horrible. But that’s not a reproductive right. How is this not a reproductive right? They are forced to reproduce against their will and have to pay to support it. The man does have a say in wether or not he wants a child ofc! Butthat’s when you think about how not just the man but the woman got into asituation where one wants a kid and one doesn’t. The problem with this statement is that it goes both ways. If it i… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Name single right men have that women don't?No, because once it leaves the body it's no longer a part of the body right? So bodily autonomy doesn't apply Yea no, you can't run up to someone who just lost a finger, pick it up and call 'dibs'. Just because it isn't attached to your body doesn't make it any less part of you. With sperm it is even more grievous as it can be used by someone else to procreate and your still responsible for that. Even if your not responsible for the child then there is still a child of yours running around again… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 11:23 AM |
| 3 | Name single right men have that women don't?However only the woman can carry and give birth so woman's abortion rights is a gender issue. You're correct only the woman can carry and give birth and that makes this a gendered issue. The problem however is how this particular issue is handled versus all other of these gendered issues. In all situations were there is an unequal situation due to biological reasons we uplift the less fortunate side up. But when it concerns anything that has to do with our reproduction this precedence goes out t… | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 09:33 AM |
| 4 | Name single right men have that women don't?We finally legalised abortion in 2018, which is a good thing, now women finally have bodily autonomy while men have always had it. So men get to have a say on how their sperm is used? Men can't get neonatal circumcisions in Ireland? Men can't be conscripted in Ireland? It seems to me that men are the only ones who never had bodily autonomy. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Here is an example based on the recent decisions about abortion in the USA.Yea i get it, OP doesn't get the 'now we're equal' thing though. OP is comparing apples to oranges here, in his comment the rich kid isn't working against the poor kid to become rich as well. This is however exactly what is happening in the abortion 'debate'. Most people here aren't saying that they're happy that man and women are equal again, they're just pointing out now that we're equal again. And IF women want to have access to abortions we should ensure that men get these same rights. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Democrats Are Freaking Out Because A "Woman's Right To Choose" Is In Jeopardy...I just don't see how the step back in women's rights is going to actually be positioned as a step forward for reducing circumcisions around the globe. ? I never suggested it would, my sperm my choice means more abortions. I'm by no means against them, but i would like to be the one with the final saying on how my sperm is used. Circumcision is a bodily autonomy problem too, that should be a thing of the past with bodily autonomy as well. | /r/MensRights | 06/07/22 03:39 AM |
| 9 | Democrats Are Freaking Out Because A "Woman's Right To Choose" Is In Jeopardy...This isn't the time for silly whataboutism. Im sorry, but it really is time for whataboutism. It's the time to stand up for women's bodily autonomy and ask them to do the same for us when the time comes. Yea no, this is why we need whataboutism now, because, what about men's bodily autonomy?!? What about men's reproductive rights? I'm not saying i agree with OP here, but i surely do not agree with your stance either. If women are able to get parental rights through bodily autonomy then so should… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/22 06:54 PM |
| 10 | Abortions - never a fight of men against women, never a fight to control women's bodiesI agree he made some shitty arguments, but i can't say that i can agree with yours either. The people who have and will be affected. Look at the age of women effected by the lack of abortions. Can you find me a single man who is currently that age who has been drafted? Theoretical vs real risks. It's something like 1 in 4 women who will have abortions. There hasn't been a draft in 50 years. While it is possible that it could happen, warfare has changed greatly so its quite unlikely. If you've go… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/22 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Abortions - never a fight of men against women, never a fight to control women's bodiesAccording to your logic, doctors in red states are free to do abortions - but their choice will have consequences. Yes, that is exactly how choices work. Driving is a privilege only because there is a law that prohibits you from driving without a licence. According to your logic abortion is not a right but a privilege since there is a law prohibiting it.\ Apples aren't oranges, so you can't compare them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Abortions - never a fight of men against women, never a fight to control women's bodiesThat is a slippery slope. How "free" are they not to wear a mask if you exclude them from public transport, hospitals or buying food? No it isn't, choices have consequences. You are right, it is a different kind of right but the principle is the same principle. Also, driving isn't a privilege, but I agree that it was controlled for so long that it is often confused with privilege. No, it isn't even remotely the same principle. One is about being able to own a weapon and the other is about having… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Abortions - never a fight of men against women, never a fight to control women's bodiesUnless you support anti-maskers, right to carry automatic assault rifles and the freedom to drink&drive you do not support 'my body my choice'. That is not how any of this works im afraid. There is no need for me to support anti-maskers and anti-vax or agree with them in order for me to support their right to choose. They may choose not to wear a mask as long as they also accept the repercussions that come with them not wearing a mask. Shops may bar them from their facility and people may decide… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 26 | Abortions - never a fight of men against women, never a fight to control women's bodiesWhy then exactly are you pro choice? I believe that 'my body my choice' can be a great argument, but only if this involves everyone and not just women. The problem i keep seeing is that all centered around the woman's body. Normally when society is confronted with biologically rooted problems we uplift the weaker less capable people to the level of the people fortunate enough to not need this uplifting. We as a society make sure that everyone has equal access to all public services and utilities… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/07/22 10:21 AM |
| 27 | Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic?Talking about women here ofc. Think it's not about women, it's about feminist. Met plenty of reasonable women, have never met a reasonable feminist. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/22 08:19 PM |
| 17 | Great... now male's MRA don't want to talk with me because they see me as a woman nowSure i agree, but then feminist would have to include equal male reproductive rights and privileges. If that isn't on the table then they aren't working towards a better future for all, but just for some. And i have not seen any of these people demanding the help of men for any of this. It is not the men that want this race to the bottom. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/22 11:40 AM |
| 33 | Great... now male's MRA don't want to talk with me because they see me as a woman nowYou've nailed it, there is a reason why these men react the way they do. You reap what you sow, if feminism would function like its tekst book definition dictates this never would have happened. But feminism has about as much to do with the definition of feminism as it does with African swallow's. I don't even think this is about 'payback', i think it is pure unadulterated apathy. For their entire lives men have been told that they don't deserve a say in their own reproductive rights other then … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/06/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | A more nuanced poll on abortionI mean, is the child getting a child? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 04:37 AM |
| 10 | A more nuanced poll on abortionI'm pro choice for all parties involved, everyone should have the choice to become a parent or not. Children should not be born to unwilling parents. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.That it hasn't changed much doesn't mean that it shouldn't change. As long as women aren't drafted men will be put into dangerous positions needlessly. You don't need anything really special in order to be a grunt. The draft shouldn't be used in occasions were the dear life of everyone doesn't depend on it. And when this occasion does arise i see no reason why to not include women into this. Basic training is basic training, and you might be able to make some roles specialized. We are 'living in… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.I do not think that the draft in of it self is the problem. Of course the regular army should be voluntary, but you can't completely abolish the draft. There will always be situations were everyone is called upon to help. The problem is how it is used and when, by including women into the draft it is far less likely for it to be employed. For example, i don't believe Ukraine would have employed the measures that it has if women would have fallen under these same restrictions. Men are often seen … | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.Conscription and travel bans are not one and the same. They aren't the same, but they are equally sexist and bound by rules. Drafting in peace time is one problem. Drafting under martial law another. And getting drafted because your country is invading is a third. I'm not sure we can understand how to fix issues that we don't understand how to differentiate between. By identifying and fixing the thing they all have in common. The common denominator here is that they are sexist in nature, that is… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.It is a good comparison, there really is no need to have this discussion T martial law, as no one here bothered to check that the law passed was about leaving the country not joining the war effort. Those men are not forced to fight, only to stay within the country's borders. No, it is about conscription and not martial law. Those men couldn't leave if there wasn't martial law either as they would have been conscripted just as much. Granted, the others that wouldn't get conscripted won't have to… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Nobody ever cares about "my body my choice" when the bodies belong to MEN.Martial law actions are not equivalent to drafting. Drafting is done in swizerland and the last war they joined was in the 1800. The argument wasn't about marshal law, it was about drafting. By being drafted you lose your bodily autonomy. I really fail to see how the frequency of something happening matters to this discussion. If the frequency of something happening really is some sort of an argument then why do we have things like abortion anyway? Most women don't need to have one their entire … | /r/MensRights | 25/06/22 07:02 AM |
| 14 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseEvery dude bringing up their right to choose are missing the fact that abortion bans mean you have no out if you get a woman pregnant. There is no choice for either of you except maybe adoption. No they aren't missing that fact, as it changes nothing for men. Men don't get to chose anyway, so why should they fight for something that they are denied? You should want abortion rights as much as women. Or you're stuck with a baby and a baby mama for 18 years or more. The problem with this idea is th… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 04:09 PM |
| 18 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Like, I'm the kind of feminist who believes that women clearly have fewer societal rights than men because, duh, we couldn't even vote up until 100 years ago and still get paid less than men. These are some remarkable claims you make here, claims that aren't supported by reality. Women are paid just as much and in some instances even more than men. The wage gap has been disproved over and over again, the gap disappears the moment we take things like hours worked and such in consideration. I alwa… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 08:51 AM |
| 5 | Seeking insight from former feminist men or women on this site. How do feminists deny the massive number of facts showing men are disadvantaged?While i understand the reasoning, i believe you give current feminist too much slack. Also didn't really have cause to question it, until the rhetoric started ramping up and up, feminism seemed more and more anti-men, and I started to realise the problems I had (but which feminists claimed I didn't, and they didn't care to listen), and that women seemed to be doing pretty well in society - sometimes better than men. This anti male rhetoric isn't something that has developed recently, it is just … | /r/MensRights | 22/06/22 08:24 AM |
| 14 | So...this got taken down over in Menslib for "not being related to men's issues."Why am I saying all this? I think that the reason talking about men's problems is so scrutinized is not just because it is affiliated with toxic groups like mensrights, incel, etc, but also that they were mainly the ones talking about certain male issues. The problem was that it wasn't in good faith and as a result, numerous men (including myself) were caught up in that whole reactionary sphere for a while. In my past, the main people that would bring up things like male victims and how society … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/06/22 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on this?Honestly, i don't give a fuck anymore, if they feel the need to fear me then that is on them, not me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/22 04:54 AM |
| 35 | To the feminist at work. And in all other parts of my life.How are women expected to use their bodies to 'get a man'? Sexuality might be the easiest way to 'get a man', but it isn't the only way to peak the interest of a man. Why do you think that sex is the only viable way for a woman to get a man interested? | /r/MensRights | 19/06/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?Yea, it's maddening. I just can't be arsed anymore. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?This is on topic. There is a compounding problem going on here, it isn't just explaining morning boners. It is about understanding your place in society as a certain sex, the living experience of men versus women is very different. Just have a look at the experiences that trans males go through. This is just but one of the problems that all add up, on their own they might be things that one can overcome, but when all added up they become insurmountable rather quickly. Boys often don't have suppo… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?No it isn't, you can't change the machine without changing the story, you can change the candy with anything else without changing the story. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?Again, the story isn't about candy, it is about a brother that shared his candy with his sister. Just like my story was about a machine, and not about the candy. The candy in both stories can be replaced with many other things without changing the story. So the story isn't about candy. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 08:44 AM |
| 0 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?You didn't answer my question, do you believe that it fathers can help daughters with 'girl problems' just as well as mothers can? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?In both stories the brother and sister don’t matter at all, it’s the lollipops that do matter. That is not how stories work.. It’s totally irrelevant who you give the lollipops to or if you lose them or if you eat 3 at Halloween … the question is how many have you left. Yes, that is the point of the lesson, but that isn't what is discussed here. The question was how can you ask a question that engages one but not the other. In that matter it is relevant how you pose the question. In your story t… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?Again, the story isn't about the lolly pop, it is a story about a brother sharing candy with his sister. Your claim is similar to claiming that a story about a brother and a sister that work in a lolly pop factory is a story about relations. The machine they work on can make 100 lolly pop's an hour, the machine broke down for half an hour, how many lolly pop's did the brother and sister make? Is this a story about a brother and sister to you? Or is this story about a machine? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 07:34 AM |
| 0 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?Serious question: do you believe that there is no difference for a girl between being raised by a single father or by a single mother? Do you believe that a single father could have the same understanding as a single mother when it comes to 'female problems'. If your answer is that a single father could never understand these 'female problems' like a single mother could, why do you think that this would be different for a single mother with a son and his 'male problems'? | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?The story isn't about the lollypop, the story is about the boy giving something to his sister. That is about relationships, not about the lollypop. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?that boys will not be engaged because lollipops don’t interest them enough? No, im saying boys won't be engaged because it is a story about people and interactions between them. Boys are more interested in objects/things were girls are more interested in people/relationships. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?Like i said, this is a very basic example. What im trying to say here is that the wording matters. How you tell the story about those apples and sweets is what matters. If you have a story about dividing sweets and apples you're already are explaining it in a way that girls will be engaged in more. Because it is a 'people based' story instead of something more abstract. If that story about apples was how a machine could pick them or something like that you'll engage more boys. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?Okay, so this will be a very basic thing, but i do think it paints a picture of how this works. Lets say we need to explain subtraction to a bunch of kids. Normally this would be done through a story, the subject of this story will be detrimental for whom you will engage. If i tell a story about 10 dolls and a tea circle chances that the girls will be engaged are fairly high but the boys won't be. But if i tell a similar story about race cars and a race it will be much more engaging to the boys … | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:47 AM |
| 9 | Why are men failing in school and why do these men always blame society for everything?Based on my experiences, I have met an insane amount of my male classmates who keep bringing up the same issue on how they are doing poorly in school because of the way schools were made to go against men in addition to society trying to butcher them everywhere they go.I am a man myself in high school and I am sitting at a mid 90's average, and what I do not understand is why my male peers keep saying this to cover for their own failures instead of accepting that they must take responsibility fo… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Gender experts finally admit the obvious: "toxic masculinity" is harmful languageSure, but that isn't really that high of a bar to pass. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, Men's rights=incelYou could say that, and would be equally incorrect as all the other things you have said. | /r/MensRights | 14/06/22 09:39 AM |
| 41 | Gender experts finally admit the obvious: "toxic masculinity" is harmful languageShave my legs and call me Grandma. I mean, who would have thought that accusing young boys of being toxic because they're boys could mess with their heads!? Surely this deserves a Nobel-prize or two./s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/06/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.A straw man is an attempt of a rebuttal of an argument that was never made. Close, but no cigar. A strawman is a misrepresentation of an argument and make a rebuttal to that argument. The argument is made, it is just that you made it yourself. Your stupid fucking ass makes the argument that if some itching can not survive on its own with out outside dependcy then it is not autonomous. Oh lol, 'my stupid ass' did not make that argument, my 'ass' made the argument that if something isn't viable of… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.As i thought, you don't understand what a strawman is. No, you can't, you're grasping at the straws of your man. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 02:43 PM |
| 0 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.You don't even know what a straw man is? No, you're not 'extending my logic'. Me:These cells can't live on their own. You:My kid would die too if i don't take care of him... That is not 'extending my logic' that is making a strawman. Can you, that is a waste of space, can your cells live on there own if I threw you into a jungle. Ow triggered again. You have some really wild fantasies about throwing me into the jungle, don't you! If you argument is, autonomous is being able to live by your self … | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 02:33 PM |
| 0 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.Your literally going in circles, but I don’t expect anything else from a baby murder advocate. Oh lol, let me guess, Ya'll Qaida, right!? Lol bAbY mUrDeR aDvOcAtE, and you call me 'triggered'. A baby can’t live by itself so you say it doesn’t have bodily autonomy. Yes, because that is what it means to be autonomous, by your self, alone, without help or influence. But as I said before more can a 5 year old child, not can someone who is seriously disabled and not can the elderly. But that is argui… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 02:19 PM |
| 0 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.“Okay, you asked for it” haha sounds like some trying to act tough behind a screen lol. You asked for something stupid, and you got something stupid. I didn't think this was a very hard thing to understand, i guess i was wrong. “The baby gets bodily autonomy right outside the womb. So the only thing that determines if a baby has bodily autonomy is location? Haha how stupid is that bro common. If it’s a living thing and is a spectate human it deserves the same rights as us, in womb or not, regard… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 01:52 PM |
| 0 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.Okay, you asked for it. Yes, the baby gets bodily autonomy, right outside of the womb. There, everyone has bodily autonomy. Happy? Now you got an answer that was just as stupid and correct as your question. The baby isn’t a bunch of cells for the entire duration of the pregnancy. They are still unable to be autonomous without dying, they got their autonomy. Furthermore, how can a bunch of cells possess a body? ??? Stop smoking that stuff. Your just triggered because you think it’s a women’s righ… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 01:31 PM |
| 0 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.Oh lol, yea, sure, im triggered by someone trying to derail the discussion because they're triggered about some cells. No, cells don't have bodily autonomy for the simple reason that they don't poses one yet, they aren't baby's yet. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 0 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.We are talking about parenthood, not about some cells being a human being or not. Those are two very different subjects and you have done nothing but trying to muddy the waters. If you want to discuss your pet peevee you can make your own thread. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.Is the baby becoming a parent? | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 01:37 PM |
| 9 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.The only way to have this problem go away is to give everyone bodily autonomy. No one should be forced into parenthood, everyone should have 100% choice in the matter. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 07:55 AM |
| 6 | I have always made this a comment but I feel I need to state it in its own post regarding abortion rights.If it is 'their body, their choice' then it's also their responsibility. Right now we hold men responsible for the choices women make. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like the hardest thing to get people to admit is that men can have unique experiences due to their maleness?Depends on your perception. No, it really doesn't. Racism, as it is known in the West, is explicitly created to be anti-black misandry; before the Trans-atlantic Slave Trade, discrimination was based on your nationality or religion, not ethnicity. No, racism has a definition, and what you are talking about isn't it. Racism is the act of having preconceived judgements of people purely based 'race' or skin-color. That the feminist-industrial-complex has tried to make this about black people, reall… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/22 02:29 PM |
| 6 | Why does it seem like the hardest thing to get people to admit is that men can have unique experiences due to their maleness?It's especially frustrating because if you ask me, there's definitely a point to be made that society generally has put the needs and comfort of white men above many other groups. No, there really isn't. You could say that all societies did their best to put the needs of their own society above those of others societies. Guess what, all societies of earth have done this for as long as mankind has roamed this planet. We're still doing it to this very day, we are justifying wars left and right to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/22 11:48 AM |
| 15 | One of the most telling criticism of Men’s Rights Activists is when they are called Incels. So sex has nothing to do with gender rights unless it’s a man advocating for his legal rights. Then it’s down to the fact he can’t get laid.Reading this i have this double feeling. I mean, i do understand the frustration getting the better of you. I'm in no way a saint and i let the frustration get to me too sometimes. (just look at me ranting right here, lol)Everyone gets frustrated sometimes and more often than not we unload this frustration upon someone else. Those men who you accuse of having nothing then hatred and disregard for women are also frustrated. But instead of getting their frustrations validated they get called incel… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsibleSo are you against abortions? I mean if having sex is the same as consenting to parenthood we don't need abortions, right!? | /r/MensRights | 02/06/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | The abortion issueWhen did women get a vote on this issue? The last time they voted. And when did anyone care about their opinion? Are you kidding me? Women are the only gender that get to speak to important legislative institutes about their personal woe's If reading quotes from angry feminists is making you want all women to suffer, it's time to take a step back from the internet. Maybe it is time for these angry feminist to take a step back from the internet? It isn't like they are helping their case now is it… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/22 10:39 AM |
| 1 | The abortion issueGiving rights to one person but not to another isn't evil? | /r/MensRights | 02/06/22 10:29 AM |
| 62 | An open invitation for a roundtable to the feminists of redditBefore you do anything go and read the 'feminismuncensored' sub, their idea was to debate feminism without the usual censoring of opposing opinions. It didn't work out for them, feminist didn't want to debate anything so they left on mass, the ones that stayed where the really bad ones. The ones that did want to discuss feminism uncensored were the anti-feminist, the MRA's and egalitarians, they stayed. So the sub started to censor dissent so the feminist would return to 'debate' again. It just … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 08:45 AM |
| 11 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsibleMy dad fears flying and believes the thing will crash, that doesnt mean that someone prevents him from flying. The choice of abortion doesn't go away just because someone isn't okay with it. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 11:32 AM |
| 14 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsibleBut that doesn’t change the fact that there are still a lot of fathers who abandon their children and in that case it’s not the mother who is to blame. If this is a fact you should have no problem showing the numbers of this. I don't know them either, but i don't think that the majority of fatherless children are fatherless because dad just 'ran off'. I think the vast majority of fatherless children are fatherless because dad didn't really want to become a dad. They might give it a go for the ch… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 11:23 AM |
| 11 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsibleRight, it isn't the fault of the person who unilaterally decided that there should be a child knowing full well that there would only be one parent. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 11:11 AM |
| 28 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsibleHow about not wanting kids in the first place? Or not wanting kids with that person, not wanting kids at this time. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 09:44 AM |
| 29 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsible'Refuse' is such a weird way of saying that they didn't have a say in the matter. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 09:32 AM |
| 19 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsibleI am going to go with deadbeat men who have opted out and had no role in raising their child. Okay, so you're going to blame the one person who didn't have a say in it, interesting. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 09:31 AM |
| 45 | Women initiate close to 80% of all divorces and family break ups - Men most responsibleI’m kinda jealous at the mental gymnastics some people are able to perform to blame women for the fact that 98% of school shooters are men. The post OP is about the lack of father figures of these shooters, not about the shooters themselves. Now tell me, who is to blame for this lack of father figures? All these 'deadbeat' men, or the fact that these women got babies with men who didn't want them? I think the mental gymnastics needed to blame this on men is impressive. It wasn't the men who rais… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 08:56 AM |
| 6 | It’s “my body my choice” until it’s sending young men to die in warsWhen sperm leaves your body, correct. It's no longer part of your body. And for some weird reason this is only the case for sperm. You can't run up to someone who has just lost a finger, pick it up and claim 'dibs'. I really don't understand how you jump from that to women getting consent to continue a pregnancy. Because the men didn't consent to the pregnancy. His sperm, his choice. The stakes are higher for the state, and in turn the greater population. And why should the men give a shit? It i… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 08:43 AM |
| 6 | It’s “my body my choice” until it’s sending young men to die in warsSo imo the topic of abortion would impact at maximum 2 people. Potential mother, and perhaps emotionally the potential father. My body my choice plays out. I guess sperm isn't part of a man's body? If abortions are granted on the grounds of bodily autonomy then sperm is part of the male body. That would mean that a woman would need to get consent before she can continue with her pregnancy. With the draft the stakes are higher. If it no longer becomes mandatory to sign up. Almost nobody will. F… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/22 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Why are women objectified in your opinion?To be fair to the Bonobo, their economy is fruit based, but give them time, they'll get there. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/05/22 08:43 AM |
| 85 | Why are women objectified in your opinion?People objectify everyone and everything. This isn't just something men do to women. Women do it to men too, men do it to other men just like women do it to other women. This doesn't have anything to do with 'the patriarchy', this is about how we as human being function. We are sexual creatures not much better than Bonobo apes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/22 09:31 PM |
| 8 | The shared history and values of the women's movement and the men's movementsMany similarities can be found between the men's movement of today, and the women's movement from that time period. I'm sorry, but, other than 'it was done by people' i fail to see any overlap between the two movements. In the first paragraph you point out how the 'men's liberation' movement of the later part of the 20th century was called this because they believed that women's liberation was already a fact. That means that the second wave that you address in the second paragraph was already fi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/22 05:09 PM |
| 7 | The shared history and values of the women's movement and the men's movementsIs it The-Crow, they-Crow or a third option? I think it is a bastardization of Dutch with English as 'De' means as much as 'the' in English and does not sound very different. It's more of a 'duh' sound, but shorter. The Dutch word for 'crow' is 'kraai' so that isn't something that translates well into English. Keeping the 'de' in front of Crow makes it look all fancypancy, i think that is why they did it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/22 04:28 PM |
| 11 | How are subreddits hating (and advocating violence on) men even allowed?Legally there aren't "protected groups" but protected characteristics. The law doesn't ban discrimination against men or women, it bans discrimination on the grounds of sex. If this was truly the case then there wouldn't be things like hiring quota's in diversity. It is simply impossible to have a quota for women in higher positions without not hiring men who were perfectly capable of that same job. That is direct discrimination based on someones sex that, in some cases, was mandated by governme… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 05:19 PM |
| 15 | How are subreddits hating (and advocating violence on) men even allowed?Legally, protected groups are protected from things like employment discrimination, it has nothing to do with postings to forums like reddit and facebook. And what is your point? This doesn't make these groups any less racist or sexist. Now if reddit or facebook were to engage in employment discrimination against a protected class, then there are grounds for a civil lawsuit. Right.. The point you are missing here is that people who aren't in these protected groups won't have grounds for a civil … | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 04:52 PM |
| 31 | How are subreddits hating (and advocating violence on) men even allowed?I think the problem is the whole idea of 'protected groups', it is inherently sexist and racist as the qualifiers of these groups are race and sex. Those protected groups aren't needed as they already fall under the umbrella of these already existing protections. The point of these 'protected groups' isn't to protect them against anything, they are made so they can 'uplift' these groups. That all sounds nice and dandy, but in practice this just means blatant discrimination against the 'none prot… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 81 | How are subreddits hating (and advocating violence on) men even allowed?That is the whole thing with 'protected groups' it leaves the others without protection. It is goto move feminism has for justifying their sexism and racism. | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Radicalizing Young MenThe problem is that this is increasingly conflated with an assumption that anyone of that point of view is also into critical theory, modern social justice and uncritical acceptance of the divisive rhetoric that results, which is... not something we can really have a sensible discussion about because I don't see how there's any argument for it at all. You're absolutely right on this, i think it is a way to create partisanism for groups. In a similar way people on the left often like to paint eve… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Radicalizing Young Men- I think there's a serviceable argument that CRT actually is a very, very right wing point of view - This isn't so much a 'left-right' thing, but more liberal-authoritarian thing. It's about sorting people into a hierarchy; it's about placing value on people based on their inalienable characteristics. The big problem with CRT is that it is inherently racist. There is no way to divide people by race, attribute different value's to these races and not be racist. It doesn't matter how much they cl… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/22 09:27 AM |
| 27 | Why is r/askfeminists so intellectually dishonest?If they were intellectually honest then the whole feminist narrative would come crashing down. It almost seems that whenever there is a question asked of feminism, they have some mystical feminist ritual that comes up with a convoluted way of saying something incredibly stupid. This 'answer' is then echoed for a month or two and then it has become canon. A large majority of the feminist will be completely ignorant as to why this is the answer to the question. But that doesn't matter as apparentl… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/05/22 06:29 PM |
| 11 | I thought that we weren’t supposed to blame a group for the actions of a small fraction within that group?'I don't like Monday's' This is what Brenda Ann Spencer told the police when they asked her why she started to shoot up an elementary school. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/22 09:03 AM |
| 3 | "No Uterus, No Opinion!" - but former FEMALE president reintroduced mandatory military service for men.Men get to chose if they donate their sperm or not, usually. By having or not having sex. Women get to chose if they have a baby by having sex. So this is just nothing more then anti abortion rhetoric. Yes, but women have more choices than men, nature isn't fair, but that's not reason to demand women carry all babies to term or die trying. No they don't, preformed abortions aren't natural. If nature not being fair is no reason to force women to carry pregnancies then i see no reason to force men… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 07:44 AM |
| 3 | "No Uterus, No Opinion!" - but former FEMALE president reintroduced mandatory military service for men.Women don't deny men any choices over thier own bodies mate. Men are doing that to women. LOL. So are you saying that men get to choose when their sperm is used to procreate? Because that is not the case. And no, 'men' aren't denying women the choice over their body. They made the choice to have sex, remember? You are the one that keeps pointing that out. We all play by the same rules, they've been the same since the inception of life, they won't change now no matter how much your rage. Nature i… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 07:22 AM |
| 4 | "No Uterus, No Opinion!" - but former FEMALE president reintroduced mandatory military service for men.No, that doesn't mean you can deny women a choice because you don't have one. That's not how reality works. Right, so it isn't okay for me to deny women a choice, but it is okay for women to deny men a choice. Sexist much? Both need to play by the same rules, if that is not the case then we can make up rules how ever we like them. This includes denying women a choice that we are denied. I'm 100% for bodily autonomy, abortions are fine with me, except for non medical need late stage abortions, th… | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 07:13 AM |
| 5 | "No Uterus, No Opinion!" - but former FEMALE president reintroduced mandatory military service for men.Your choice, incase you're too stupified, is to NOT HAVE ANY SEX. In case your too stupid, this goes for women too, so that means no abortions are needed, no? Or at the very least vet your partners and don't stick it in crazy women. And women can't do this? Men have been practising this for millennia. It's not a new concept, it's the ONLY choice you have on the matter, I suggest you exercise it. Again, this goes for women too, why are you so against abortions? | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 07:03 AM |
| 3 | "No Uterus, No Opinion!" - but former FEMALE president reintroduced mandatory military service for men.You realise no one is making you have sex Okay, so no abortions needed. and there is as yet no means to undo the sex act... There is, but you were just explaining how that isn't needed. You have a choice. No i really do not. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 06:57 AM |
| 3 | "No Uterus, No Opinion!" - but former FEMALE president reintroduced mandatory military service for men.Bodily autonomy is something we all need to get behind. Sure, i'll get behind bodily autonomy when it becomes 'My sperm, my choice'. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/22 06:52 AM |
| 3 | Isn't it frustrating that people who are more likely to acknowledge issues that men face (including double standards) are anti-SJW/conservative types?A few of them are, most of them are not. Most of them just want to have equality, they feel that if they have to be forced into parenthood, why not women too? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/05/22 03:51 AM |
| 6 | The reduction of the pro-life argument to "controlling women's bodies"You seem to think women are abandoning their kids in droves. 80% of single parent households are mothers. No, i never said anything even remotely like that, what i did say is that women have options to negate becoming a parent. What do you think happens when the women doesn't want to become a parent? That is why 80% of the single parents are women. Over half haven’t been paid child support. Source is needed for such a claim, and even if you manage to get a proper source on that it doesn't really… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/05/22 07:42 PM |
| 5 | The reduction of the pro-life argument to "controlling women's bodies"If men don't lack reproductive rights then you should have no problems with women getting similar reproductive rights, no? You know there is a difference between getting impregnated and finding a partner willing to have children with you, right!? It seems like you do not understand what 'consent' means. Children are naturally the direct result of sex and no method of contraceptives is 100% so yes, you consent to the risk of parenthood when you do the thing that makes babies, no? So women don't n… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/05/22 09:45 AM |
| 7 | The reduction of the pro-life argument to "controlling women's bodies"If you believe that having sex is the same as consenting to parenthood then i guess you are against abortions? And no, men do not have the option to just 'walk away'. Tell me, why do you have so much problems with men getting reproductive rights? What is so horrible about women having to find willing partners to procreate with? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/05/22 09:02 AM |
| 10 | We're equal but also we demand unique privileges*each month | /r/MensRights | 10/05/22 04:55 AM |
| 10 | The reduction of the pro-life argument to "controlling women's bodies"I believe the problem is 'equality' as no matter the grounds on which the abortion rights are granted, the moment we would apply these same reasons to men their whole argument falls apart. Like you have said, if the right to abortions are granted because no one should be forced into parenthood then men shouldn't be forced into it either. But if the right to abortions are granted because of bodily autonomy they are in for a surprise once this is granted to men too. That would mean that women woul… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/22 11:07 AM |
| 24 | "I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." (OP: called the draft)Maybe you are ignorant on the subject? There are different forms of both MGM and FGM. Some forms of FGM are worse then circumcision while others are similar and others still are less invasive then a circumcision, yet these are still illegal. If you want to compare the worst forms of genital mutilation on both sides then the complete removal of both scrotum and penis is the worst form. So no, FGM is by no means the female equivalent of 'getting your tip cut off', not even close. Ultimately none o… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Men are forced into parenthood all the timeI don't think avoiding parenthood is necessarily the main reason why women want access to safe abortion. Sure, that's part of the argument. But a bigger part of it imo is the desire not to be pregnant. Im not seeing that back in the numbers, the biggest factors by far seem to be that having a child would uproot their life. After that are the 'i can't afford a child' and 'relationship problems'. The argument of they just don't want to be pregnant really isn't even classified as a reason unless yo… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/22 08:41 AM |
| 1 | I need to vent about the abortion thing. Men haven't had abortive rights this entire time, but NOW everyone panics?Right now there is a chance to not get fucked over by the state on child support. This right here is the problematic bit. You want the MRA to be pro abortion just to have a chance of not getting fucked over. Why should the MRA fight for a low chance? Why should they not fight for equal rights? In my opinion no one should have to become a parent if they don't explicitly want to become a parent. I have nothing against abortions, in fact, i believe that it should be a right for everyone. Yes, yes, … | /r/MensRights | 04/05/22 02:19 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeNo you can't, condoms fail, pretty simple concept. Stop having children, they can't live on fallacies you know. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 02:07 PM |
| 26 | I need to vent about the abortion thing. Men haven't had abortive rights this entire time, but NOW everyone panics?Jup, i've just been called all kinds of nasty shit for wanting equal reproductive rights in this very sub. As long as men don't get full control on when their sperm is used for procreation there really is little to discuss as far as im concerned. I have nothing against abortions, but if having sex is consenting to parenthood for men i see no reason not to hold women to this same standard. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 02:03 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeNo you can't control becoming a parent with wearing a condom. Again, please do not have more children, they deserve better. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeOh with the name calling again... I pity your child, you should not be a parent. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeOkay, I get what you’re worried about now, took a while cause it’s the dumbest fucking argument in the world and only a true idiot could come up with this but here’s why a woman can use your sperm what’s you willing donate into her vagina. If you willing shoot your sperm into a woman and it fertilizes an egg, that is no longer your sperm. If this is such a dumb argument why are you so fussed about no abortion? Did the woman not willingly receive the man's sperm? She willingly had her egg fertili… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeWe’re talking about abortions rights, this is forcing them to be partnered with someone they don’t want a child with? Men who are not willing to become a parent are often forced into parenthood. What the fuck are you talking about women finding willing parters? Men have no say in them becoming a parent or not, so they do not have the same rights as women. This is about the right to dictate decisions about your own body lmao you’re fucking lost dude. Good luck with that persecution fetish of your… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 12:47 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeHonestly have no ducking clue what you’re talking about with this partner thing. This is about rights to privacy and autonomy over your body ya weirdo. I know you aren't smart, but you can't be this stupid. Yes, it is about bodily autonomy, and how men have never had it. So again, why can't men decide when they become a parent? Why is it too much to ask of women to find a willing partner? | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeOkay... So how about you telling me why it is too much to ask women to find willing partners to have children with, man have to. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 12:29 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeYour birth control that you’ve chosen to wear fails and you want the kid? The fuck are on about, you must be high. and you’ve obviously never broken a condom, you can feel that shit right away, pull out put on a new one champ. Right.. Must have never happened to me.. You know that is not an argument, right?? As far as ripping on ya for wanting to be persecuted so badly, yeah I’ll stop, it’s obviously a fetish of yours. And again with the insults, you haven't made a comment without.. tough guy, l… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeAs an adult with a child, I wouldn’t want to have children with someone Ididn’t know completely. My wife and had conversations as to when we’dhave to children and decided when we’d have one together. If you’re outrandomly fucking and the person you’re fucking gets pregnant, sorry bud,that’s the difference in anatomy. Not your choice what medicaldecisions someone else makes. Oh right, it's always this 'randomly fucking'.. Couldn't possibly be that condoms break, right? And difference in anatomy!?… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 12:08 PM |
| 3 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeWhat have you been smoking? She made the choice to have sex, she shouldn't have the ability to have an abortion. That is your logic here, not mine. All i did is reverse the genders and voila... Your just a sexist who doesn't have an argument so you revert back to insults, not an unseen behavior of feminist. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 12:04 PM |
| 4 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeCareful and don't cut yourself on that edge... But, women have the pill, so no need for abortions, right!? Idiot.. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 11:35 AM |
| 5 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeNo, it would give man agency over their own body. Going on insulting people isn't really a good way of convincing someone. Now tell me, why is it too much to ask of women to find a willing partner to have kids with. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 11:34 AM |
| 5 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeBecause men have physical differences that make it so they usually invest less into a child, the cost of a baby is usually more on the women (physically, mentally, and even financially) That is why women have more reproductive rights then men, since they just need them more. What kind of sexist bullshit is this? None of this has anything to do with having rights. Men have always died in wars dangerous jobs and what not, should men have more say on what is happening politically? That is what you … | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 05:50 AM |
| 7 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeSeriously? Yes, or are you saying men have an equal say in when they get to become a parent? You think that women being forced to give birth is "more equal" then when women ACTUALLY HAD THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE WHAT IS IN THEIR F*CKING BODY? Here is the thing, men are always told that if they didn't want to become a parent then they shouldn't have had sex. So either give men equal rights, or, get the same rights as men. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 05:42 AM |
| 7 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeNone of this is about rights, all you did is sum up some physical differences. Yes, men and women are different, men do not get pregnant. But men also do not have bodily autonomy, they do not have a say if their sperm is used to procreate. Men generally speaking are on the hook for the children that they fathered, but they don't get a say in when this is happening. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 05:39 AM |
| 11 | In a move that will increase gender equality by providing women with the same post-fertilization reproductive rights as men, Supreme Court is poised to overturn Roe V. WadeIn terms of reproductive rights men and women are different and can’t be treated equally. Yea no, men and women might be different but that is no reason to not treat them unequally. Our society has made numerous laws to ensure equal treatment under law. Tell me, why is it that we can't give men the same reproductive rights as women? We have lowered standards for women to be able to join things like the fire department. There are rules that ensure women get jobs in just about every sector that th… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, Men's rights=incelInstead of feeling sorry for me do yourself a favor and educate yourself and stop believing in fairy tales. | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, Men's rights=incelYou are so completely ignorant. You wold rather hate women than face the facts. Oh the irony, calling someone 'completely ignorant' only to equate women with feminist. They aren't the same thing.. There is actually a definition for feminists, and what does it matter if it was made up by scholars, basically everything has been this is no exception. Are you high? I didn't say that the definition was made up by scholars, i said that scholars are the one who define feminism through their work. It is… | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Jodie Marsh tells GB News she’s ‘grossed out’ by men watching porn at workWhat does this mean? 'This' is a pronoun that is used to refer to a person, thing present, nearby or just mentioned. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/22 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Jodie Marsh tells GB News she’s ‘grossed out’ by men watching porn at workOdd that so many workplaces provide free coffee though. You're missing the point. Anything that you can't do without for a few hours is an issue. Just because it is something that is socially acceptable doesn't make it 'not an issue'. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Jodie Marsh tells GB News she’s ‘grossed out’ by men watching porn at workShe's right. If you can't get through the day at work without drinking coffee you have an issue too. The same can be said for just about everything. While i don't think that watching porn at work is a good idea, i really don't give a single shit about what someone watches at work. As long as they don't rub one out who gives a shit? | /r/MensRights | 29/04/22 04:50 AM |
| 16 | The Pervasiveness of The Feminist MessageOf course it could be a more recent thing, but so far it hasn't been displayed in my refresher courses. For example I recently did one on suicide. The stat "men die more, women attempt more" was brought up, but the latter wasn't used to downplay the former, as it is on social media I believe bringing up this statistic in of its own is downplaying the severity of male suicide, the whole 'women attempt more' isn't true. This statistic that is often sited is from a study that counted all forms of s… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/04/22 11:14 AM |
| 2 | It is never "mansplaining" to correct or criticize feminist women when they discuss: men.https://www.researchgate.net/publication/261543769_References_Examining_Assaults_by_Women_on_Their_Spouses_or_Male_Partners_An_Updated_Annotated_Bibliography | /r/MensRights | 27/04/22 11:49 AM |
| 3 | It is never "mansplaining" to correct or criticize feminist women when they discuss: men.It does mean something, it means that they don't mind to victim blame men for being assaulted. | /r/MensRights | 27/04/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | We can be betterYou: Lets try to ignore the hate. Then you again... Nope, im gonna give anybody that attacks me their own medicine. So we should ignore hate from feminism, but when someone hates on you for supporting feminism all of a sudden it perfectly fair to attack them back? What happened to your 'lets ignore the hate'? Does that only apply to others?? | /r/MensRights | 27/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 5 | We can do bettererBUT.... BUT. Why are you guys so hateful? Yes feminists have their spaces on reddit. Yes they have more rights even on reddit. But you know what, who fucking cares? I sure don't. Let's forget about equality. Let's improve instead upon vague and abstracts concepts, like "communication" and "community". Let the feminists hate men, we don't have to fight back. Just bury your head in the sand and all will be well. We are betterer than them You seem to be answering your own question here. Hating on f… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Norwegian government to establish committee for men to look at the equality challenges they face in societyI need to go to bed so this will be my last reply. Thanks for a good discussion though. Yea, was fun, good night! I know and agree that psychology and counseling has historically been catered better towards women. Feminism has however made it far far worse than it has ever been and has pushed it all the way up to the current mess. They aren't without fault here. Understanding male psychology better through research isn't wrong, gaining better understanding is never wrong. The problems begin the … | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Norwegian government to establish committee for men to look at the equality challenges they face in societyOK, well we agree. I also don't think that introducing policies for women has had no negative effects on men. It seems there's space to move and help in both directions. We agree that things do not happen in a vacuum. But this is really besides my point. The point im making is that this is inherently the case because we made groups that had nothing to do with the problem at hand. There is no way to not say anything that isn't generalizing if you make groups as large as man and woman. As we all k… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 11:10 AM |
| 7 | Norwegian government to establish committee for men to look at the equality challenges they face in societyOf course. No approach is perfect. I already conceded that. I'm not saying that it isn't perfect, im saying that we waste help on people that don't need it while we ignore people who do need help in this approach. The resources we have aren't infinite, we should not waste them like this in my opinion. It seems like your issue is with me using the word "gendered". It does not have to imply any inherent problem with men. It can just mean that we've identified that men - as a group - are not suffic… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Norwegian government to establish committee for men to look at the equality challenges they face in societySuicide rates have gone up and down for different groups throughouthistory, sometimes even for reasons that seem counterintuitive, but the current disparity is clearly a gendered disparity. Recognising that is not a bad thing. Ignoring it, I think, is. There is a difference between ignoring something and tailoring towards something, in between there are a lot of unused options. Is it okay to recognize huge disparities? Of course it is, it is even a good thing to try and reduce these disparities … | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 09:54 AM |
| 25 | Norwegian government to establish committee for men to look at the equality challenges they face in societyI'm not exactly sold on that if im honest. There is a fine line between merely uplifting one group and shitting on their polar opposite. Instead of laying focus on their gender why not lay focus at the person? Everyone needs some sort of support sometimes, everyone needs encouragement sometimes. I believe that a much better way of giving these needs to everyone is by individual help where it is needed instead of generic programs. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Apparently, Men's rights=incelIf they support things such as this 'Duluth model' then they aren't in line with typical feminist beliefs. That is a no true Scotsman fallacy. Like i said, it is not up to you or me to decide what feminism entails, this is done by feminist "scholars". These "scholars" came up with this ridiculous model because they believe in the magical patriarchy. Feminism is about achieving equal rights, not putting men down. Feminism has as much to do with equality as the platypus has to do with climate chan… | /r/MensRights | 25/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 4 | GeNdEr EqUaLiTyBut the at the time 11 year old boy is a minor. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/22 08:47 AM |
| 12 | What’s the difference between a feminist and Mens Rights activist? What do you personally think about feminism?It should be if their goal is equality.. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Staring in London: Is this an issue of Men’s Rights? Please come give your opinions! [Try 2]Right, because i can proof that this cop was discriminating me, as i can proof that someone was creeping me out. That is never going to end well for me. And no, that wasn't an input output error, you say that it's not the right you're talking about, but it is very much the right you're talking about. You're basically deciding when it's okay for someone to look and when it is not. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Staring in London: Is this an issue of Men’s Rights? Please come give your opinions! [Try 2]What you are talking about is a 'right not to be creeped out' and it is horrible. Being 'creeped out' is a feeling that is 100% subjective as the times when it is objectively creepy it is already illegal by law. This law gives ammo to Karen's, the only thing that they need to do is claim that they felt 'creeped out' and, tadaaa now she's a victim. Do you really believe that any cop would take the side of a male against a female in something that involves people being 'creeped out' or harassed? T… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 09:37 PM |
| 11 | Staring in London: Is this an issue of Men’s Rights? Please come give your opinions! [Try 2]No, there is no such thing as a 'right not to be creeped out'. Something being harassing or something being flirting or someone being socially awkward is a fine line and 99% subjective. If 1% abuse it the system will be gridlocked within a month. Someone looking at me that i don't like!? Report them! Just look at all the Karen video's and tell me why they should be given ammo. If merely looking at someone is enough for harassment then there is no stopping them. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Staring in London: Is this an issue of Men’s Rights? Please come give your opinions! [Try 2]Those are a real minority, and even it really depends on who is looking at them. If it is a person that they deem 'unworthy' im pretty sure they'll object being looked at. The law is part of the system and the system is part of the law, a law can be written well but if the system doesn't support it there might as well be no law about it. They are in public, there is no such right to privacy if you are in a public space. Person A can step up and leave if they don't like it, they don't get to deci… | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 07:43 PM |
| 9 | Staring in London: Is this an issue of Men’s Rights? Please come give your opinions! [Try 2]It definitely seems right to me that if you are staring at someone in a creepy way, you should be punished/warned to stop. So you think it is reasonable to punish someone for being perceived as 'creepy'? This goes beyond 'slippery slope' right into 'mount Everest covered in green soap' territory. This is something that can not be policed as this would effectively punish someone for being socially awkward\inept men while at the same time socially awkward/inept women would accuse everyone looking … | /r/MensRights | 18/04/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Equity vs Equality in the Abortion DebateNo, sperm is part of a man's body and the egg is part of a woman's body. When they combine it becomes it's own entity that lives inside a body. Both man and women should have the ultimate say on if and when their genetic material is used to procreate. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | False accusations also include false accusations of sexism.That was not really what the other posters are on about. Of course learning a second language means you can communicate with others. But, the things that i learned from speaking other languages go far beyond just communicating. Different languages have different idea's and concepts that really can't be translated. This makes you look at things differently in, unexpected ways. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Equity vs Equality in the Abortion DebateSomething no longer being attached onto my body doesn't make it 'not part of my body'. If someone loses a finger you can't pick it up and call 'dibs' just because its no longer attached to that other person. It is still their finger. A fetus isn't part of a woman's body, it grows inside them, it is a parasite for intent and purpose. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Equity vs Equality in the Abortion DebateSo effectively they do not have control over their sperm. I do not think that having to surgically alter yourself in a way that is often irreversible and condoms that fail have anything to do with bodily autonomy in the way that women do have. My sperm is part of my body, but it can be used without my consent to conceive a child. To me this means that men simply do not have bodily autonomy. | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Equity vs Equality in the Abortion DebateThe whole bodily autonomy thing seems all great, until you ask why sperm isn't considered to be part of a man's body. And if it is part of his body, why doesn't he get to decide on when it is used for reproduction. | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 13 | False accusations also include false accusations of sexism.My personal favorite is that somehow high-rise buildings are representations of a phallus. In their minds they think it is perfectly reasonable to assume that things like the usage and costs of these living spaces or the cost of ground at these building locations have nothing to do with it. It is all about big dicks.. You'd almost think they never overcame their penis envy. This is what feminism does, they have some unholy idea about something. There is no need for this idea to have any basis in… | /r/MensRights | 14/04/22 10:19 AM |
| 11 | Meet Fatima Benomar, the feminist who think grid girls are sexist but happily goes to male strip club to grope themI agree totally. The only thing I could say to counter that - it's almost a shame that men aren't given similar opportunities. Eg. A kiss to the girls in women's contents ha. The funny thing is that women do get kissed when congratulated with a sports win, but somehow that isn't considered a prize. Culture can be so weird sometimes. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/22 02:32 PM |
| 16 | Meet Fatima Benomar, the feminist who think grid girls are sexist but happily goes to male strip club to grope themHowever! I can also kinda of see her point. I don't agree with it, but I understand it. A kiss at the end of a victory is different to going to a strip club. I don't think her objecting to one and not the other is a double standard. The problem i have with this point of view is that it is only the OP of the article and the feminist who are angered by this who think of that kiss at the end of a victory is somehow their prize. The grid girls did not kiss the winner, they were only there to keep up… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/22 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Here is a post I found on a feminist subreddit and I want to know what you guys think! (I copied the text, link to post in comments)I would say, 'Close, but no cigar'. The intention is good, but it's completely tone deaf of the underlying problem that is feminism. There are some point in here that are completely incompatible but in their minds it somehow isn't problematic. While you can technically trace the men's rights movement all the way back to the 19th century, and arguably even before then, the modern men's movement is said to have been revived sometime during the later half of the 20th century. During this period it … | /r/MensRights | 06/04/22 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Apparently, Men's rights=incelbut I don’t know anymore I think you know, but i understand it is hard to step away from their cult. If you want equality between the sexes you can always call yourself egalitarian, this to me is about equality and not so much a one sided view. | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Apparently, Men's rights=incelYou might have good intentions with your perceived version of what feminism is, but that isn't feminism. Supporting women's rights isn't the same thing as supporting feminism no matter how much feminism likes to spout this. You or I do not get to decide what it means to be a feminist, this job lies solely in the hands of feminist "scholars". These "scholars" have decided that feminism at its core is about how men hate women and how men are the reason for all woe's that this earth has. The femini… | /r/MensRights | 04/04/22 01:26 PM |
| 5 | My thoughts on this sub as a feministBecause with the privilege of being perceived as the strong, untouchable unemotional one also come disadvantages that ARE talked about here. This isn't a privilege, being perceived as 'strong' only means you get to do the heavy lifting. I have never in my life been seen as 'untouchable' in the way that you suggest. And i don't think any man thinks of himself as 'unemotional', this is the view that women have of men. To me this whole thing reeks of projection, the idea that men can't get hurt isn… | /r/MensRights | 03/04/22 07:38 PM |
| 9 | My thoughts on this sub as a feministHowever, I don’t really like the fact that when (most of) y’all talk about your own issues, it’s in comparison to women’s. As if it was some type on competition on who has it worse. Or maybe it’s about who is given the most importance. I think that’s pretty unnecessary, and sometimes it almost feels belittling (but of course, that’s my subjective opinion and maybe that’s just me. It’s also irrelevant since it adds nothing to the argument). First thing that comes to mind is how feminism has made … | /r/MensRights | 03/04/22 06:39 PM |
| 21 | Found this crossposted to Imgur - thoughts? (A post from a trans person on now being male)Dangerous situations? Do you really believe that women are in actual danger every time they step out of their home? Do you realize that the risk of you getting hurt are far greater every time you step into your car than the risk of a random man attacking you? It's not rocket science, treat someone like shit and don't care for their existence and at some point they won't care about you and your feelings anymore either. Before you go into the 'i never did anything wrong to that creep' let me stop … | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 131 | Found this crossposted to Imgur - thoughts? (A post from a trans person on now being male)The cognitive dissonance is real. First they complain about how men are socially starved then they complain how it is needed for women to have this armor on to dissuade 'creepy men'. I really wonder how they can't put 2 and 2 together. I mean, is it really that hard to understand that men who are starved for attention will do anything to get said attention? I can't help but feel that if they'd treated men as normal human's they'd wouldn't encounter a fraction of the creeps that they do right now… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 06:40 AM |
| 2 | some points for those who complain that this sub rejects feminismOh so you've never even seen the discussions I'm talking about?! No, sigh, i've clicked that link, but i have not learned it by heart nor am i planning to. All i remember is you plastering the same bullshit you do now. You weren't making fun of what I said, you called me a feminist and accused me of being one to "get picked". It's slander and it is ad hominem Yes, that was after your first batch of ad hominem's. But, i'm done with you, this leads to nothing. You just keep on blaming everyone e… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 07:01 AM |
| 2 | some points for those who complain that this sub rejects feminismRight, it is my fault that you lost your patience... And it is the subs fault for piling on you when you say something stupid. I wasn't the one starting the ad hominems here, you are. I have zero interests to go through your post history, if you want to say something to me then you may do so directly. Anything other than that will be ignored. You can't go around demanding of people to read your history because you don't care enough about the debate to actually debate. Right now the only thing yo… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 06:13 AM |
| 2 | some points for those who complain that this sub rejects feminismYes, keep going with your false equivalences, it looks really good on you. And then again with the ad hominem, do you really believe that people will take you seriously like this? It is no wonder people piled on you when you act like this. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 05:48 AM |
| 10 | My mum bought this the other dayGo and stand REALLY close to the toilet and piss all over it. If she asked what is up with that tell her that apparently yours is longer than you thought. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | some points for those who complain that this sub rejects feminismNot what I said. Yes you did Is that you argument for everything?! I've been here for a couple of weeks and I've been told that a millions times. That illustrates exactly my point. People in this sub are reactionaries and everything is seen through the lens of feminism. It doesn't matter if people are assholes, or ignorant, or argue in bad faith or are simply wrong. All that matters is this point of immense pride that "aT lEaSt PeOpLe HeRe ArE nOt BaNnEd LiKe In ThE fEmInIsT sUb". See I can also… | /r/MensRights | 31/03/22 05:12 AM |
| 12 | some points for those who complain that this sub rejects feminismI argued against the hatred and constant bashing which in my perspective misses the point of a men's movement, diminishes men's issues to a reaction against feminist, and gives the movement a bad name. This is a red herring, calling out misandry doesn't diminish men's issues, it calls them out. If one organization happens to be very misandrist it needs to be called out. I advise anyone reading this not to do that. Dissent in this sub is not welcome. I was dogpiled for not even disagreeing with t… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 07:32 AM |
| 3 | Will Smith is more broken than we thought. He Smacks Chris Rock on Stage at Oscars, Screams ‘Keep My Wife’s Name Out Ya F*cking Mouth!’ Over a joke.We’ll that’s between them and it’s their relationship. People on the outside have no business to pass judgement on their marriage. They raised kids, have been through a lot together and it’s more complicated than the public sees. If he was Joe Schmoe you'd have a point, these people have become very rich off their personal lives being the business of the rest of the world. I don't care how you feel about someone, as long as they aren't getting physical you have no right to get physical with them… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/22 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Will Smith is more broken than we thought. He Smacks Chris Rock on Stage at Oscars, Screams ‘Keep My Wife’s Name Out Ya F*cking Mouth!’ Over a joke.I guess when becoming a vessel of God When did Will get molested by a priest? /s | /r/MensRights | 28/03/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Coun. David Kirton suggested to council that for far too long, males have had a distinct advantage by having a urinal, so removing it will make things fair for everyone. So presumably men can wait in long lines at our new arena just like females will.Feminist isn't the same as women, you can't use them interchangeably hing any improvement for women’s rights. When feelings do not reflect reality then it is time to reevaluate your feelings. I would go as far to say feminism is basically a substitute word for woman’s rights? Nope, not even close, it is a religion. I’m not that close to feminist circles but every post or article I’ve seen on more general news sites etc are actually very reasonable and are also looking to improve rights for men (… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/22 06:40 AM |
| 10 | Russian soldiers (men) admitted that they were forced to fight in warSadly people often have little choice in the matter. Many young man see the army as their only way to get out of the miserable situation that they are in. It aren't the rich young men who are fighting wars outside of their own country. Who in their right minds would volunteer to invade some other country if they didn't have to? Abolishing the draft was for the large part a good thing, but, it also had a few downsides. Rich kids don't have to go to war only poor folk, this leaves rich warmongers … | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Wikipedia is promoting Women's History Month by asking editors to "close the gender gap" by writing female biographies. Their reasoning? "Wikipedia hosts 1.7 million biographies. Not even 20% of those are about women. If Wikipedia wants to become the sum of human knowledge, this needs to change."I didn't say that he did nothing worse, i said it marked an absolute low point in history, and that it does. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 01:28 PM |
| 10 | Wikipedia is promoting Women's History Month by asking editors to "close the gender gap" by writing female biographies. Their reasoning? "Wikipedia hosts 1.7 million biographies. Not even 20% of those are about women. If Wikipedia wants to become the sum of human knowledge, this needs to change."That is not what i asked, i asked what it would add over other more valid information. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Wikipedia is promoting Women's History Month by asking editors to "close the gender gap" by writing female biographies. Their reasoning? "Wikipedia hosts 1.7 million biographies. Not even 20% of those are about women. If Wikipedia wants to become the sum of human knowledge, this needs to change."Are you suggesting that covfefe didn't mark an absolute low point in history? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 01:14 PM |
| 12 | Wikipedia is promoting Women's History Month by asking editors to "close the gender gap" by writing female biographies. Their reasoning? "Wikipedia hosts 1.7 million biographies. Not even 20% of those are about women. If Wikipedia wants to become the sum of human knowledge, this needs to change."What does it add? Why should Jane get her own wiki page that no one will ever look upon while there is information out there that is useful and not on wiki? What does Jane's story add to society or history? Why put Jane's story there instead of useful information? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 01:14 PM |
| 10 | Wikipedia is promoting Women's History Month by asking editors to "close the gender gap" by writing female biographies. Their reasoning? "Wikipedia hosts 1.7 million biographies. Not even 20% of those are about women. If Wikipedia wants to become the sum of human knowledge, this needs to change."The fact that you think inventing things or fighting wars was more important than raising children or running households is why you think women contributed less. You forgot a few words, contributed less to human society history. And yes, it seems rather obvious that an invention of something or a war that was fought contributes more to history then running households and raising children. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 01:02 PM |
| 80 | Apparently men don't deserved love and women don't have too high standartsNot just that, imagine men expecting to be loved for who they are. Can't have that of course./s | /r/MensRights | 03/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 19 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.These kinds of assessments are so lazy and devoid of reason that it just feels like content farming at this point, with an attempt to center the queer narrative suffering from masculinity when it has very little to do with this topic. I have a really hard time to apply Hanlon's Razor to this if im honest, it almost feels like malice to me. The way they framed this whole thing is just pushing the narrative of 'men bad'. The whole thing is just pointing towards masculinity as the defining factor t… | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 147 | Instead of actually addressing the gender gap in education, this article blames men for it and tells them if they just acted more like gay men or women, the gap would be solved.As adults, gay men also outperform women, likely because they often work exceedingly hard to compensate for not meeting masculine expectations, according to Mittleman. That work can “lead to a measurable boost,” he wrote. So according to this idiot gay men outperform women because they're compensating. Is it me or does this reek of projection!? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 09:10 AM |
| 4 | All the gender earnings gap proves is women avoid higher paying but dirty, stressful and very dangerous jobs. If you want more money you can find it in these jobs.https://www.researchgate.net/publication/51166621_Reframing_sexual_differentiation_of_the_brain Is this the one? | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsCould one not just say gynocentrism is natural and there is nothing one can do to make men worth more in people's eyes? Gynocentrism is a natural phenomena and there isn't much we can do to against this. However, that doesn't mean that there can't be laws that ensure equal treatment. If we applied your logic to other another natural difference there wouldn't be anything wrong with men beating women as men have a natural physical advantage. Just because something is 'natural' doesn't make it eith… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Biological Essentialism And Men's RightsSomething being 'nature' or not doesn't seem to stop feminism from creating rules to mitigate these natural differences. It doesn't matter if something is a natural or a cultural difference between the sexes, the fact is that there is a difference and it needs to be addressed. Either we can fix these differences between the sexes or we can't, if we can't then there are a lot of laws that need to be repealed a.s.a.p. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 06:39 AM |
| 3 | What do I do when I call someone out for stereotyping men and then they say “I didn’t say ALL men”Indeed, humor is the best way to go, but lets be honest. People who are suggesting that Santa is trash really aren't worth debating. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 12:18 PM |
| 7 | Idk where else to post this so…Honestly, i can't tell you this and i do not believe anyone can. It could be either, it could be both or it could be something else all together. There is simply no way for us to tell, maybe you could bring this up with other housemates? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 10:33 AM |
| 8 | Feminists argue that police don't do anything about rape but in reality this is much more true for other crimes. It's not peculiar to rape.There is absolutely no reason for many of these questions. They have absolutely nothing to do with the assault. No reason to question the accuser? What should we do, just believe them? Do you think the way you act has nothing to do with how people perceive you? You would never ask someone that was car jacked wtf they were wearing. You would not ask a man went he was out at night. Are you really surprised that different situations will prompt different questions? I can understand the drugs an… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 09:46 AM |
| 11 | My sister just brought up the “Women can say they hate men, but men cannot say they hate women. It is objectively different” argument.Jeez, y'all need to learn to use the word 'pseudo-feminists'. Most of the women who claim to be feminists are actually pseudo-feminists. The actual feminists don't accept these bitches in our community. I'm sorry but, who are you to declare what feminism is and isn't? Are you the one who writes the feminist cannon? You claim to be the 'true' feminist while the man haters are 'pseudo' feminist. I'm afraid you have this backwards, you are the 'pseudo' feminist if you believe that; Feminism is abou… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 10:03 AM |
| 0 | Toddler disabled and blind after mum left him in 37C car for 5hrs to play slotsMentally handicapped is very strong wording, truly mentally handicapped people can not be responsible parents. Not being the sharpest tool in the box doesn't make one mentally handicapped. Besides, the judge remarked something like her being perfectly aware that what she did was wrong from the get-go. She tried to lie to the police because she knew what she did was wrong. Mentally handicapped is only a defense when they don't understand what they did was wrong. It's less that she has a low IQ bu… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 11:43 AM |
| 63 | Toddler disabled and blind after mum left him in 37C car for 5hrs to play slotsJudge Hample took into account that Millar was a first-time mum who struggled with parenthood as she experienced postnatal depression and had a lower than average IQ of between 69-72. And then her defense, sure her defense won't throw her under the buss, but.. Millar's defence said she had been overwhelmed by the demands of motherhood and felt unsupported by her husband. She sure as hell tried to shift the blame here, it didn't work as well as she wanted, as somehow i do not believe she thinks t… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Ex-girlfriend pregnant - Advice?There is no way that would fly in my country, if something like that came out that judge would have been disbarred. It's bizarre how fucked up things got across the pond. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Ex-girlfriend pregnant - Advice?That's just evil, what did your lawyer have to say about this? I can't imagine a judge staying on after saying something like this. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 06:27 PM |
| 12 | Ex-girlfriend pregnant - Advice?I'd recommend 50-50 custody. If she is mentally unstable then go for full custody. (Unlikely you will get it anyways.)...Even in 50-50 custody, you might have to pay CS (but lesser amount depending in her income).. I'd say the best thing to do is go for full custody no matter what, getting full custody is always better then getting 50-50. Having to deal for 18 years with an ex who did something like this to you isn't going to be fun. Having a child 50% of the time versus 100% of the time doesn't… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Women's attitudes 40 years were dramatically different, and this is why there weren't as many men's right's problemsSome of you seem to believe that the solution to Men's Rights is to pass more laws to protect men. or allow men to fight back in the same way. I personally don't agree. I think the solution to Men's Rights is to stop teaching women to hate on men. If we can't do that, then our society will collapse into terrorism, revolution, and warfare. You are equating women with feminism, 'women', as a group, aren't the baddies here. Your anger should solely be directed at feminism. It is feminism that teach… | /r/MensRights | 06/02/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond when women say men created the patriarchy?I don't know why you pretend the glass ceiling isn't real. Because 'the glass ceiling' doesn't exist. If these women would work the same hours with the same dedication as their male counterparts they wouldn't have these problems. What this comes down to is exactly the same as the 'pay gap', it comes down to the choices women make, that is this so called 'glass ceiling'. Men's Rights activism does not entail opposing Women's Equality. No, it doesn't, but these rules aren't about equality they are… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 06:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I respond when women say men created the patriarchy?It's just that men tend to have fewer obstacles in the way of achieving power than women. Yea no, your going to need to quote sources for that. The fact that there are more men in places of power doesn't mean that these men had fewer obstacles. Correlation doesn't imply causation. If anything, women have fewer obstacles in their way to obtain higher positions of power. It is even set in law in the form of affirmative action. Are you not able to understand that there are shades of grey in between… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I respond when women say men created the patriarchy?Just because some women are in positions of power doesn't mean there aren't obstacles in the way of achieving that power. And men don't have obstacles in their way to achieve any form of power? Of course people are going to have obstacles they have to overcome when they lust for power. It's not as if random people just land on the top of organizations. All of the people on the top will have had to sacrifice in other parts of their lives to get there. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Any opinions on the Sarah Everard incident last year in the UK?No, they weren't. They said it was gendered in terms of who is committing it. That's just plain statistics, it does not imply we "should" be looking at it as a gendered problem. Yea no, they implied that, just look at their other posts. I didn't have a problem with that, I simply gave an answer to the question. To what question exactly? As this poster didn't go wild with any statistic. The problem is that you jump from simple facts to value judgments. Right, it's a me problem... People don't bri… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Any opinions on the Sarah Everard incident last year in the UK?I said that we shouldn't have different rules, so we need to fight those rules that are different. And that is exactly what is pointed out by the other poster with the '90% of terrorism' thing. The environmentalwasteoftime poster was implying that it should be looked at as gendered. We can. I don't think it's very helpful, but if you want, you can point out the statistics, and if the statistics are true, I'll support you. No, it isn't very helpful, that is exactly why the poster you replied to p… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Any opinions on the Sarah Everard incident last year in the UK?It doesn't imply that we should have different rules for them. Then why do we have different rules for male murderers versus female murderers? Male murderers get higher sentences, how is this possible if there aren't different rules applied to both parties? It simply is true that there are more male murderers as female. And the poster you're addressing didn't say such a thing, that was someone else. This poster only asked a very good question, if we can gender murder why can't we do something si… | /r/MensRights | 30/01/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Should businesses be allowed to deny access to menI don't get what is hard about this, even private entities have to uphold the law. The law states that you can't be discriminated against based on your sex. The whole debate about 'safety' is a red herring. First and foremost, the whole "debate" presumes that women are somehow in danger any time they see a man. This premise is ridiculously sexist and it has no basis in reality. Secondly this whole "debate" somehow seems to think that we have some sort of 'right to feel safe'. There is no such th… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/22 12:35 PM |
| 11 | UK: Male pride could be causing older women to miss out on IVF, experts warn. OP: As always, the male haters blame men for every issue.Sigh. Literally everyone knows you can't force people to do IVf against their will. No, they can't, but they can try to shame them into it, that is what this 'article' was all about. They weren't complaining about the other 60% of the reasons of these couples who didn't want to go through with it. Only the 40% of the couples, the 40% who had men refusing the treatment. But if your need to feel attacked by this article means you need you need to feel that's what women want... I guess that's fine.… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 18 | UK: Male pride could be causing older women to miss out on IVF, experts warn. OP: As always, the male haters blame men for every issue.No, that isn't what this article is about. It is about women that want to go the IVF route but, some of these men don't. You don't seem to understand that it is their right to opt out of this. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 11:07 AM |
| 19 | UK: Male pride could be causing older women to miss out on IVF, experts warn. OP: As always, the male haters blame men for every issue.No one wants to force men to do anything. Just seek IVF sooner if you as a couple decide that's what you want to do. Right, they don't want to force men to have IVF, but, they'll have to do it sooner. The whole point here is that the couple decided against IVF, as one of that couple doesn't want IVF. Waiting 7 years and then going for IVF has bad results. If you're going, go after 2. Stop trying to find a way yo male yourself a victim because they discussed that men can be resistant. These men d… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 10:58 AM |
| 24 | UK: Male pride could be causing older women to miss out on IVF, experts warn. OP: As always, the male haters blame men for every issue.Yea, but forcing someone to go through IVF against their wishes, what ever the reason, is just as wrong. I know what the article is about, and it was sexist as fuck. If they wanted to convince any man into going the IVF route they did an awful job. You're not going to remove any stigma by shaming men, but somehow i don't believe that removing this stigma was really what this opinion piece aimed at achieving. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 10:45 AM |
| 28 | UK: Male pride could be causing older women to miss out on IVF, experts warn. OP: As always, the male haters blame men for every issue.What happened to 'his body his choice'? If you want a 'yikes', then i suggest you look there first. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 10:37 AM |
| 9 | My most direct experiences with misandry were when I had cancerOr a particularly frustrating situation have been women telling me that it’s really not that bad, because breast cancer kills women every day. I still have no idea what that means. I'll tell you what it means, it means that these people are a bunch of cunts. Anyone that tells you something like this should be told that they are a complete waste of life. That shit pisses me off to no end, you simply do not go around telling cancer patients that what they have isn't all that bad. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 11 | Some retorts to common feminist accusations and talking pointsAs soon as someone starts to argue about anything feminist my usual rebuttal is:"There is no need to get all femotional about it." It works well against 'mansplaining', 'toxicmasculinity' or really any form of their red-haring of their choosing. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/22 09:49 AM |
| 7 | Road side assistance is sexist. Her car broke down & AA said they can't prioritise lone women as 'it's equality'Oh, well i thought that was covered by ethnicity :P But still, those hair colors are a very good indicator. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/22 05:05 PM |
| 13 | Road side assistance is sexist. Her car broke down & AA said they can't prioritise lone women as 'it's equality'Female feminists on the other hand, are all different sizes, colors, races, ethnicities, and now even different genders, that hail from all over modern societies that fight for "Equal Rights", which we all know is a smoke screen for special treatment because of "feelings" or some crap like that. Those colors are the thing that always seem a dead giveaway. Green hair, blue hair, grey (painted) hair, hair with glitters, purple hair the list goes on and on! | /r/MensRights | 21/01/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How has feminism helped men?But let's look at some ways it has helped men. Okay, im listening... It brought the issue of gender roles into discussion. Sure it was focused on women, but even looking at gender roles was a hurdle Feminism passed. So, feminism 'helped' men by focusing on gender roles that were shitty for women while ignoring the shitty gender roles of men? I would not call this 'helping'. Many civil rights laws were passed regarding the equal treatment of men and women (i.e. title ix). While they may be biased… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Comically cruelPretending that men and women aren't sexuallly turned on or off by very specific, if subjective, things is to deny the reality of our humanity. I am happily married. Is my wife the most beautiful woman in the world? Objectively perhaps not. She is quite beautiful, but she isn't a supermodel or anything. I have found things that turn her on and do them. She returns the favor. We have to live with the other sex. This means adapting to each others particular quirks. Yes, people have sexual preferen… | /r/MensRights | 12/01/22 06:04 AM |
| 3 | A high school football star had a rape charge against him dropped after a sixteen-year-old girl confessed that the rape never happened. He spent six years falsely imprisoned and broke down when the case was moved to be dismissed.Im sorry, but that is a stupid argument that doesn't reflect what you have linked. This 'not thinking of the consequences' only goes so far as consequences for others, they seem very aware of other consequences to themselves in the opinion piece you've linked. If there was an actual punishment for doing this they might think twice before making false accusations. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | I need an example of a woman systemically oppressing men. It could also be a group of women or a women lead/centered/dominated organization/grouo oppressing men or discriminating against them.Male Genital Mutilation | /r/MensRights | 09/01/22 06:44 AM |
| 23 | The Motte and Bailey of "The Patriarchy"."Patriarchy is a system in which men have all the power, women have none of the power, and men use their power (as a class) to oppress women (as a class)" This definition is a train wreck, firstly, if men had all the power and used it to oppress women the patriarchy would be no longer the moment one woman got some power. Secondly, the onus is on the party making a claim, so, they'd have to prove that men as a class use this 'power' to oppress women. By this definition of theirs there's never bee… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/22 02:27 AM |
| 57 | Posted about a qualm I had with a really good series i rewatched. Got this piece of shit saying stuff like this, accusing me of being a rape apologist! Nice one Reddit 👍"Actual rape" is with you for life, And unwanted children aren't? Do you really believe that men who have been used for their sperm aren't haunted by this for life? | /r/MensRights | 01/01/22 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances.My position is that most of them probably believe in general that they're doing good; some of them seem to accept that there are some downsides but that the people affected are acceptable battle casualties, but I think most of them believe it wholeheartedly. I disagree, they believe that what they are doing is a good thing for women. I do not believe that there is any way to frame 'acceptable battle casualties' in any other way then malicious. That they don't view it as such isn't an excuse, if … | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances.This is a semantic argument. In my view, and in common definitions ofmalice, there must be a deliberate intent to do harm. If someone doesnot believe what they're doing is harmful then that person cannot beaccused of malice, and since we can't prove someone else's beliefs, wecan't conclusively accuse any feminist of being malicious. To me this screams of an 'opt out' to me, when you hold strictly to a definition like this then nothing can be malicious, as you can never prove anyone's beliefs. Th… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances.Yes, I'm aware. The distinction I'm trying to get at here is that mostof them genuinely believe that what they're doing is good, right andmorally upstanding. Malice, I think, implies a revenge motive, and whilethere's some of that going on, I don't think most of society believesor supports it. The problem here i believe is that you are trying to separate the feminist who make doctrine and the feminist who simply support them. While the latter might not be acting in malice, the former most certai… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 7 | Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances.Sorry, but when it concerns feminism i tend to attribute things to malice because i have never been wrong by doing so. This is the group of people that introduced the Duluth model, the 'patriarchy', mansplaining, manspreading, quota's for women in high positions, Kill All Men and many, many more actions that deliberately undermine or even punish men. This isn't just about parliamentary discussions, there is a feminist lobby miles wide that does nothing but try to influence the law. Like it or no… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Usage of the term 'feminist' or 'feminism' for females that support equalityI said it was about equality for women. They didn't care about men...They still don't... I think what the other poster means is that calling something equality doesn't make it equality. Removing laws that are biased against women doesn't mean that removing these laws is equalizing anything. The only thing removing such law does is making something easier for women. For example, women getting an 'equal vote' wasn't really equal. Women were exempt from being drafted while a man's ability to vote d… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 09:59 AM |
| 57 | Argument of male circumcisionShe got vocally angry that because women around the world suffer the horrible atrocities of female circumcision, it’s dumb for society to care and prioritize campaigning against male circumcision in America. So, she can't care about what is done to men in her country because there are women in other countries suffering? I would tell her to go pack her bags and go fix these issue's all around the world. You'll stay and try to solve the suffering of men in your country. The cognitive dissonance is… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 09:40 AM |
| 11 | Teen boys are being made to think they cannot be raped under any circumstances.Wrong as that is, I should point out that women can be (and have been) convicted of very serious sexual assault in circumstances which you or I might reasonably describe as rape, which carries much the same penalties and stigma, so it isn't as if that mistake of legal wording is necessarily allowing anyone off the hook. Something having a similar punishment doesn't mean that they bare a similar stigma. Sexual assault isn't nearly as frowned upon as rape is and it really doesn't bare a similar st… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 09:17 AM |
| 4 | The fact that the words "mansplaining" and "manspreading" makes me wanna drink cyanideIn my opinion the best thing to do when someone uses the term 'mansplaining' is to remain very calm and say, 'Yes, yes, i know, there is no need to get all femotional about it.' | /r/MensRights | 24/12/21 07:18 AM |
| 6 | I don't know how i could have expected anything different from the new Matrix movie.Why are you avoiding the question? Tell me, how is having to change the gender of the hero not being overly obsessed with gender? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/21 03:05 PM |
| 11 | I don't know how i could have expected anything different from the new Matrix movie.Gee, you sure know how to twist everything into your own narrative.. No, i didn't say that a woman becoming the hero isn't okay with me, nice interjecting of you there.... There is a big difference between 'the woman becoming the hero' and 'completely and utterly neutering a hero so the woman can become the hero'. Seems like a bit of an overreaction to be so obsessed with gender that only neo can be the hero of those movies or else the franchise is ruined. Right, but it is not an obsession with … | /r/MensRights | 23/12/21 01:25 PM |
| 0 | "Father with no criminal record gets a “Lifetime Restraining Order” [to be within 100 yards of] his 3-year-old son!" "D’Souza said he was given this death sentence because he spoke out against the family court corruption on social media"You're fighting as an individual, this needs to happen as a movement. Not one family but several. The first feminists were laughed at too now look at that movement. The fact that feminism has become as big as it is and a similar male movement will never get traction like that is because of the same reason. Men, generally speaking, don't have biases against women or for men whereas women, generally speaking, do have a bias against men and tend to have a bias for women. Men's rights movement can n… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | France rejects Woke-ismOf course it is not the answer to all woe's or anything like that, but it isn't just for American men not to be saddled with the wrong kid either. If you go into the commitment of raising a child you should know if the kid is yours or not. There are a lot of men out there who wouldn't think twice about stepping up for their own kid, but not for someone else their kids. This would take all concerns away as per default. I really can not see anything wrong with mandatory paternity testing at birth.… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | France rejects Woke-ismHowever, if we decide that it should be a choice for women then it should also be a choice for men. That is the point im making, as right now parenthood is 100% a choice for women in the western world. And it should be a choice and not something you have to deal with. Becoming a parent is one of the most impactful decisions a person can make in their lives. Nothing good can come from being forced into it, the parents have their lives destroyed and the children have parents who resent them. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | France rejects Woke-ismExcept for married dudes who realized 5 years too late that they were cuckold. I'll take that anytime against a system where any woman can declare you as a dad and thus indeed in such system you'd better have paternity test at your discretion. This is the crutch of the whole thing isn't it!? I mean, you are right, all things considered it is very much a better deal then the men in the US get. But, it still entraps men who think that they 'do the right thing' by raising someone else their child. … | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | France rejects Woke-ismThe increase of sex slavery is a result of the failure of legislation and current regulations not being enforced. It has very little to do with the legalization it self. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Women Objectifying Men, Society Objectifying Men.But what if I do not care for person as personality, because I do not like a person's personality? Or do not want to know personality? Also, using others to your benifit and theirs expend is wrong (using others to mutual benefit is not wrong though), you still can't force people to like other people if you don't. And that is exactly why objectification is wrong. So it all boils down to demanding from people to de sort of nice to each other. Wich is ridiculous. No, it boils down to treating peopl… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 11:46 AM |
| 4 | Women Objectifying Men, Society Objectifying Men.Sure, when you see someone on the street you judge them by their looks as you don't know them. That happens instinctively and you are right that this doesn't matter. The problem with objectification comes from when you do know or should know someone's personality but don't care for it in favor of caring only for their looks, wealth or insert any other favorable trait. They no longer see a person in front of them, but rather a good looking piece of meat or a walking wallet. Also, there is such a … | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Opinions appreciated; gender and sexGender, the ideas we have about men and women, is sometimes very relevant. I don't think 'gender' can be identified as 'the idea's we have about men and women'. The idea's we have about men and women are more gender-roles. As i understand gender it means so much as 'the sex you like to represent as'. The two terms used to be used interchangeably, but because of trans people it was changed to accommodate them. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Remember the time when HuffPost editor Emily McCombs Tweeted She Wants To “Kill All Men”. Wait …what patriarchy??How can it not be? Again, i'll take domestic violence as an example. If there is any kind of support for male victims of domestic violence the money that is needed to fund this support has to come from somewhere. There are funds available for victims of domestic violence, but they are now solely going towards women's shelters/prevention. The money can only be spend once, and i really do not think that this budget is simply doubled now that there are men in need. That is but one side of the story… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Remember the time when HuffPost editor Emily McCombs Tweeted She Wants To “Kill All Men”. Wait …what patriarchy??A program that supports men for X topic takes away from a program that supports women for the same topic? Yes, that is the nature of duality. Let's say you are right. I'm hearing you say that women are being prioritized at the expense of men. Yes. Is that equality? No, hence the problems we are having. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Remember the time when HuffPost editor Emily McCombs Tweeted She Wants To “Kill All Men”. Wait …what patriarchy??I agree, some rights are unbalanced and are difficult to balance. But I don't think your example is a fair one to use in discussing what I'm saying. It is by far one of the most difficult topics to discuss as far as equal rights between genders. It isn't just the example i gave, it is just one. It really isn't a hard or difficult topic in my opinion, the only thing that makes it 'difficult' is that women would have to lose some of their privilege in this regard. I'm talking about the way women r… | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 02:27 PM |
| 8 | A Reddit post about FGM being practiced today gets garners Platform-wide outrage about how FGM is inhuman, so why is it that MGM is still being widely practiced to this day and none of those people find it wrong?I think it has to do with severity. No, that isn't it. The only reason FGM is seen as more severe is because of cherry picking. The absolute worst form of FGM is put next to the least invasive form of MGM in order to make it look as if one thing is worse than the other. You're right though, it shouldn't matter what is worse, cutting parts of baby genitals is just sick no matter to whom it is done. | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Remember the time when HuffPost editor Emily McCombs Tweeted She Wants To “Kill All Men”. Wait …what patriarchy??There's a definite difference between feminism and radical feminism. Yes, there is, radical feminist believe in 'the patriarchy' and traditional feminist do not. I am not, by any means, saying take away what women have or don't give them more. I'm just saying I wish men had more support. It's not a comparison for me. Idgaf about what women have in comparison to what men have. I want men to be supported for their needs more than they are right now. This is a nice thought, but, in reality a lot … | /r/MensRights | 06/12/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | More and More Women Are Paying Alimony to Failure-to-Launch Ex-Husbands. And They’re Really, Really Not Happy About It. | Corrected headline: Women experience gender equality and they hate it. It fills them with rage & they're very vocal about that. Hopefully this will lead to alimony reform.Well, it was a clear case of r/whoosh to be honest.. u/istira_balegina as i've read that, was saying that all the misandrist points in that article are talking points for men's rights. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this."Agreed, lawnmowers have existed for a pretty long time now./s | /r/MensRights | 05/12/21 10:27 AM |
| 5 | Woman sues doctor for "allowing her to be born."Take this out of men's rights right now. Give one good reason why. That woman has good reason for that, No, she really doesn't. That doctor did nothing wrong and shouldn't be held responsible for the failings of a mother. Michael De Navarro QC, for the doctor, denied liability, suggesting that Caroline might already have been pregnant when she went to see Dr Mitchell. He told the judge that Dr Mitchell claimed to have given “reasonable advice” about the desirability of folic acid supplements bei… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/21 11:48 AM |
| 6 | More suicide exist in men not because they don’t ask for help, but because not enough help exists.I would say to them that it is an extremely toxic position to take. No one expects feminists to solve the problems men face, but, the very least they can do is be an ally and advocate for them. At this point in time feminist often even advocate against proposed solutions to problems that males face. If the men's rights movement would do something similar they would, rightfully so, be called out for their misogyny. I believe the best argument is that i want my partner and children who do not shar… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/21 09:48 AM |
| 6 | "Men should pay child support no matter what" says oblivious reddit usersWhat I'm saying is that any man can say it was not with consent even if it's a one-night stand or you're married to the chick. And i'm saying that they can't. It's going to be hard to claim that a 5 year old child wasn't wanted. If you don't want the child that doesn't stop your responsibility to forfeit that child when it comes to money. Of course it does when it wasn't wanted to begin with. It was 100% a choice of the women to have the child, a guy she has fucked once doesn't have to pay up fo… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 8 | "Men should pay child support no matter what" says oblivious reddit usersBut if you use that then any man can say it was an accident. Of course not, women can't 'abort' 12 year olds either. This is about people who had a one night stand or women getting pregnant without their spouses consent. You actually take a chance anytime you stick your whatever and whatever. People don't understand the concept of it doesn't matter if it's an accident or not it's not about you anymore. It's not about her anymore it's about the child. No, i don't take a chance as it isn't a chanc… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 5 | "Men should pay child support no matter what" says oblivious reddit usersI could only agree with this if the child was wanted and planned. If you and your partner planned to become parents and things don't work out then child support is a must. However, when the man never wanted the child in the first place and it was just an accident then i don't believe men should be on the hook for child support. People shouldn't be able to dodge their responsibilities towards the children they agreed on having. But that doesn't mean they shouldn't get a say at all. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/21 09:20 PM |
| 5 | I am not having my baby circumcisedFirst of all, awesome choice! Secondly, when your mother tries to press you again just tell her that since you've never seen her make any sin offerings, never lights the altar while she's supposed to do that every day, not clean the altar daily, has walked outside the cities boundaries on sabbath she has no right to comment on your sons reproductive organs appearance. If she keeps pressing tell her that you think that her obsession with how your sons dick looks is rather concerning. | /r/MensRights | 25/11/21 06:37 PM |
| 20 | what is the most sexist things against men no one cares about or aknowledgesGood to know that we no longer have need for abortions! /s If wearing a condom was 100% safe then you would have a point, but, it isn't. | /r/MensRights | 23/11/21 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Mensrights seen as red flagExcept most of men issues like homelessness, work related deaths, war related deaths and the draft, suicides and pressure to success existed long before feminism were even a thing. I never said that they aren't? Like i said, some of the problems men face are directly caused by feminism, not all of them. However, issues like projects to get people out off homelessness are often solely there for women. This is because of the lobbying that feminism has done. Of course there are some men issues caus… | /r/MensRights | 22/11/21 12:33 PM |
| 4 | Mensrights seen as red flagI don't know if you realize, but blaming feminism of all the evils that face men is exactly what feminist do when blame all men or "patriarchy" for their issues. That mindset will lead to nowhere and it's what truly polarizes society. Except feminism is directly responsible for some of the evils that men face and feminism, unlike 'the patriarchy', exists and is very real. Saying that feminism is responsible for the lack of male DV shelters because they are lobbying against them is very different… | /r/MensRights | 22/11/21 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Mensrights seen as red flagWell to be honest many post here are far more focused on complain about the shortcomings of modern feminism that on throw light on men issues or propose something reasonable to solve those problems. So that conclusion is understandable. I think you are not seeing the correlations between these 'shortcomings' of feminism and the issues that men face. Things like men having nowhere to go when they are a victim of domestic violence or the negative view of men in current society are directly caused … | /r/MensRights | 22/11/21 10:18 AM |
| 12 | Rant/Opinion: Advocators of Mens Rights very often engage in gender battle instead of creating awareness about Mens RightsSo the 'women most affected' shit is just something we have to take? No thank you very much. If the shit is already burning like that, it's best to add some oil and burn the shit out of it. Sexual harassment is a very big thing for men, it is just that no one gives a shit about it. Just like women killing themselves is a big problem too, but people do care about that one. Even more than men killing themselves in greater numbers. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 02:32 PM |
| 14 | Rant/Opinion: Advocators of Mens Rights very often engage in gender battle instead of creating awareness about Mens RightsPeople need to realize that comparing problems women face (for being a woman) with the problems men face (for being a man) is like comparing sun and torch. The comparison itself is inappropriate. You're right, men have it much MUCH worse than women in our current society. All men need to accept this fact first that "In general, women face a lot more serious problems than men. No they don't, because its simply not true. And we acknowledge the in general systematic exploitation of women. We strong… | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 01:13 PM |
| 9 | Further confirmation from toxic women that they get the final say in whether their child lives or dies, and that men are just "sperm donors".and in that case bodily autonomy is a very powerful argument to place the final decision on the woman. Hard disagree on this, if you want to place bodily autonomy on a pedestal then we should have a look at male bodily autonomy too. As long as that doesn't happen the whole bOdIlY aUtOnOmY argument isn't worth anything and can be dismissed as far as im concerned. For good or bad, those are the rules of the game. Once the pregnancy happens the decision is out of the men's hands. Stating the rules … | /r/MensRights | 21/11/21 12:38 PM |
| 32 | Mansplaining 101Just tell that coworker that she shouldn't get so 'femotional' about 'mensplaining'. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/21 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Bio mom reaches out, now my anxiety is through the roofFirst of all, im sorry what you are going through. It must be very stressful to have your family uprooted like this. I do not live in the US, so i don't know exactly how things work in the US, but there are a few things you can do. Document everything. Take a screenshot of every thing she sends you through social media and save every e-mail, voicemail or bit of mail she sends you. Even if it turns out it isn't useful for court, you will always have a record that you can show to your son at a lat… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 11:17 AM |
| 9 | Attitudes towards male vs female sexual predatorsI don’t have much of a problem with this because he pretty much deserves it. Sure, he's an asshole, but did he really deserved to get beaten up? If you do believe its okay for him to get beaten up, is it okay to beat up a women doing something similar? I'm not suggesting that everyone should be able to grope each other, but that doesn't mean we should cheer on corporal punishment. Get security involved or the cops or what ever, but beating someone's ass, on stage none the less, isn't really a go… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 10:48 AM |
| 19 | Apparently, two wrongs make a right when the woke crowd combines sexism and racism to target specifically white men.Are you suggesting you'd only need to be not racist when you're in an anti racism sub? Here i was thinking that racism should not be condoned anywhere. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Men in your 30's, How would you perceive a divorced woman in her late 40's who is your boss that keeps fawning over you physically and verbally after 2 months ?I believe you might have misread the post. He said he was interested, but then she cut everything off. She shouldn't have done it even if she were interested, but if she is doing that and isn't interested it's even worse imo. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellSo you are willing to let raped women die because of DIY abortions instead of giving men the right to abort their children!? | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys consider yourself anti feminist?Right, and the democratic republic of North Korea totally is a democratic country, as the definition of democracy is well defined by our dictionaries. /s You dont get to decide what a word means and people who claim to be feminists who want supremacy are not true feminists, just like the incel I saw on a MRA page last week advocating for "enslaving the femoid whores" isn't the stance of a real MRA But you do??? You are the one who gets to claim what feminism is?? Look, a movement like feminism i… | /r/MensRights | 22/10/21 06:06 AM |
| 11 | IL Lawmaker Advocating for Castration and Tax on Males.no more knocking someone up accidentally while having a drunk one…. And no more children when a container fails.. | /r/MensRights | 20/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are most likely to kill their children than men.You are absolutely correct with everything you've said, however i do believe you're not addressing the actual point. I do not believe that the poster you reacted to actually believes we should 'teach women not to murder their kids'. I believe this to be a sarcastic comment pointing to the frequently used tropes like 'teach boys not to rape'. Using statistics in the manner demonstrated by the poster above is something that feminist "scholars" do a lot in order to paint their narrative. I believe … | /r/MensRights | 18/10/21 10:39 AM |
| 2 | VERY Interesting CMV Post on Men's Rights/Paper Abortions. Worth a read imo.....CMV is a sham, you aren't supposed to defend your position and have to change your view, that is, when it is about topics like these. The 'discussion' there wasn't all that great either, i couldn't spot a single argument that wasn't outright misandrist. Bodily autonomy doesn't seem to apply to men's bodies and their consent isn't needed when procreation is concerned. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/21 09:06 AM |
| 92 | Stealthing is now illegal in California. However, women can still poke holes in condoms or lie about using birth control with no legal repercussions.Wait.. say what!?!??? That seems like an awfully stupid thing to do, what was the reason for this? Did it happen to be "Because i got dropped on my head 'a few to many times' as a baby."? I mean, i really can't think of a single reason as to why this would be considered a 'good' thing. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims?It’s obvious the murder rate between men and women aren’t symmetrical. No one is claiming they aren't, but that doesn't make murder a 'gendered' thing. I think the infliction of violence is a public health problem for both the perpetrator and the victim Especially when gun violence is involved. We can’t address it unless we can clearly name it. I agree that the infliction of violence is a public health problem for both the perpetrator and the victim, regardless of their gender. Gun violence real… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims?By doing what? | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims?Things get heated, that is why i always think long and hard before i say something stupid. There is nothing wrong with saying something that is provoking, but you'll have to live with the consequences. But i'll say it again, why do you think that women 'feel' that violence against them is gendered? To me seems so far detached from reality that it isn't funny, and all that while painting 'men' with a very broad brush as somehow perpetrators of this 'gendered violence'. Domestic violence isn't a g… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims?Then why are you talking about 'men'? And not 'shitty men' or something like that. You are excusing women's fear for 'men', so that is all men, not just some of them. If men were to take up this kind of logic they'd should all be fearful of their wives murdering their children, as women kill their children far more often than men do. And it is a bullshit take, as, just like with men, there are not many women who kill their children. That one does it more than others is really besides the point. … | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims?Compare the statistics of men who kill women and women who kill men. Enough said. Right, those victims don't matter... Like i said women can wonder why the fuck it is. Just like men can wonder about the gendered shit they wonder about here. If there is a person you meet who is shitty, you've probably met a shitty person. If everyone you meet is shitty, good chance you're the shitty person. Now maybe it is time to think why all man are shitty.. There aren’t any colder facts than homicide rates. Y… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 11:23 AM |
| 5 | Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims?Women aren’t stupid at all. We don’t go through life fooled by our feelings. Yea, nice strawman, didn't say any of that, i merely pointed out how 'feelings' often get used as absolute truths. Who cares if two lesbians are knocking each other around? You seem to be missing the point, most of the time it is women who are the aggressors. This is mostly because of the idiotic idea that men shouldn't hit women. While it is very true that men shouldn't hit women, it is a misnomer because no one should… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Why is "but men are the majority of perpetrators" brought up when talking about male victims?Because women feel there is a gendered aspect I believe this is the real problem at hand, feelings that are viewed as an absolute truth while having very little to no basis in reality. Something that has been pointed out numerous times in this sub, the most violent relationships out there are lesbian couples. This isn't very strange when we look at the total numbers, most nonreciprocal domestic violence is perpetrated by women. Feelings are all nice and dandy, but they shouldn't be used like thi… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 08:28 AM |
| 5 | Florida teacher charged with raping her 15 year old student reveals that she's pregnantI think a much better question would be 'Should a known child rapist be the main caregiver to a child'. Of course should the child be taken care of, but why oh why does this child have to be taken care of by a child molester? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/10/21 10:36 AM |
| 7 | Florida teacher charged with raping her 15 year old student reveals that she's pregnantReality is even worse, apparently what is best for this child is to be cared for by a child rapist... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/10/21 10:34 AM |
| 22 | Is there anyway we could just focus on issues and not say anything about feminism?You did immediately attack feminism as those things are feminist things. The problem is that people see feminism as something good and that is exactly what needs to change. The problem is feminism, people who are unwilling to look at exactly that already drank the koolaid and aren't the neutral people you believe them to be. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 12:25 PM |
| 27 | Is there anyway we could just focus on issues and not say anything about feminism?I said the same thing as you and didn't mention feminism at all. Not mentioning the word feminism doesn't mean that you didn't mention them.. You mentioned NOW, they are feminist, you mentioned them. Same goes for the duluth model, you can ignore that its feminist rhetoric, but that doesn't make it 'not feminist'. Blaming those responsible is a very good thing to do, i don't see any problem with that. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 12:02 PM |
| 18 | Is there anyway we could just focus on issues and not say anything about feminism?You've been schooled on this several times, but you've made it clear you don't understand what you're talking about (or are gaslighting) and are quite happy with that. Yea, i've noticed too, now they've deleted their account. I guess we'll see a new one popping up soon that's spouting the same bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 09:02 AM |
| 94 | Is there anyway we could just focus on issues and not say anything about feminism?I see many posts on here just ranting about feminism and how it's causing problems for society instead of coming up with actual ways to get our issues seen and understood. Part of the reason people are against the MRM it's seen as anti-woman because somehow in the hive mind of society being anti-feminist equates to anti-woman You have answered your own question here, i believe it is just that you do not like the answer. It is fairly simple even, the issue we have is that society equates anti-fem… | /r/MensRights | 07/10/21 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Women earn less because they choose the wrong degrees, study finds.Isn't that obvious!? Just look at the male versus female dominated fields and how much wealth those fields produce and how dangerous/filthy these fields are. Being a first or second grade teacher just doesn't pay the same as someone who works on an oil rig for obvious reasons. The fields chosen by women often just aren't something that pay very well because they aren't very profitable. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Had a long debate with someone. Basically, it was about whether or not violent and sexual crimes are male issues. Any other arguments as to why that is/isn't the case?Gendering a problem is sexist and toxic, anyone who wants to have such a 'debate' isn't worth debating. Gendering a problem isn't about discussing a problem, it is about who to blame for said problem. By acknowledging the premise that there is such a thing as a 'gendered problem' you've already lost the discussion. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 11:19 AM |
| 13 | Why do men not care about male genital mutilation?Because where is the proof of significant negative impact? I'm pretty sure that 'chance of dying' is considered to be a negative impact. Not to mention the countless number of botched circumcisions, it really isn't that uncommon for these mutilations not to go according to plan. While i agree that society as a whole doesn't really care for men or their well being, that doesn't mean that we just lie down and take it. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 09:23 AM |
| 6 | A real men’s right movementMost MRA’s disagree or outright hate feminist, but I feel they’ve been very successful in establishing a female identity that even none feminist defines themselves by. And how do you think feminist have been able to establish this identity? The only reason feminism has been able to do this is because we live in a gynocentric world. Men can't do this, because, whenever men raise concerns they are laughed at as 'women have it worse'. You can't change the perception of men for as long as feminist d… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/21 04:36 AM |
| 11 | hey guys!! I would like to ask for your opinion on this situation since I'm always questioning myself and I'm too upset by this that I can not process it well. if this does not belongs here just let me know I'll take it down(context on first coment)No, im not inferring that you think men are to blame, im saying that toxic masculinity as a concept is entirely flawed and not a thing. 'Toxic masculinity' is something feminist have thought up in order to beat men down. What i am talking about isn't 'toxic masculinity' in any way, shape or form. Men not being able to show their emotions is because of the severe backlash they get for doing so. And again, it aren't 'other men' who shame them into not sharing their emotions. By calling it 'toxic m… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 09:14 AM |
| 21 | hey guys!! I would like to ask for your opinion on this situation since I'm always questioning myself and I'm too upset by this that I can not process it well. if this does not belongs here just let me know I'll take it down(context on first coment)Yea, no. As other here have pointed out, tOxIC mAsCuLiNiTy is a bullshit concept. It blames men for things that are done to them. Things like blaming men for not being able to talk about their emotions, it aren't men who weaponize these emotions. In all my life i have never had a man tell me that my emotions weren't valid but women sure as hell have. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/21 06:15 AM |
| 17 | Evidence that MRA is not a hate group.You can't really prove that something doesn't happen, what you can do is ask them to proof that MRA is a hate group. If they think that this is an 'opt out' ask if they can prove that the great spaghetti monster doesn't exist. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.You are ignoring, I am telling you that you are wrong in saying that women should impose their will upon men. You don't understand bodily autonomy, parts of someones body somehow aren't part of their body anymore and things that aren't part of a body suddenly are part of it. So yea, i really don't see any reason to continue this as you clearly do not wish to discuss anything but rather throw platitudes around. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.No, you didn't pointed out shit, i didn't 'abandon' anything but as no decent points are brought up i can't do anything but repeating too, it is useless. I'm no more cherry picking than any of you, im not 'denying' any trauma that women may have, sure they can have trauma. But at the same time you do ignore similar trauma men may have and think that everything is solved with a paper abortion. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.Your case is 'simple' because there is no reasoning behind it, that is why i called it feminist. I understand your point, and i disagree, i have shown you why but you keep ignoring the points that are made and brush everything off with fallacies. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.No men don't, sperm is still part of a man's body and it can be used without their consent to procreate, we've been over this. An aborted pregnancy doesn't have nearly as much of an impact on someone's life as having a child does. If she doesn't want to have an abortion she shouldn't have had sex. Finding willing partners to have children with shouldn't be this controversial. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 12:23 PM |
| 0 | I asked 15 women and 15 men what their thoughts on the father, or whoever will be forced to take responsibility for the child also having the ability to make the woman get an abortion, here were their responsesAt that point if you don't want to give away sperm why are you having sex? So consenting to sex is the same as consenting to parenthood now is it!? That would mean abortions aren't needed right!? The potion mixing that creates the baby is happening INSIDE the woman's body. Past the initial fertilisation this has little to do with the man. That it is inside of her body doesn't negate the fact that it has everything to do with a man. He is still responsible for it yet he doesn't get any way out. D… | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.Yea, the us vs them is a feminist thing, you're going against male rights so that makes you a feminist. Then the 'incel' is also very much an feminist thing to say, so yea, go feminist somewhere else. Btw, starting to throw ad hominems clearly shows your inability to defend your case. The only thing you have done is spout feminist bullcrap about bodily autonomy while not wanting to grant men the same thing. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 08:48 AM |
| 0 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.Go and feminist somewhere else. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/21 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.Because it is not your body, so not your choice simple. Nor is it her body, it is a fetus or are you saying that viruses are part of her body too? Your mental gymnastics are incredible, things that belong to someones body somehow aren't part of their bodies, but things that aren't part of their bodies suddenly are part of it? You are making some huge mental leaps here and missing the key point. Nope, there is no 'key point', there is just feminist indoctrination that somehow men's bodies can't h… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.Men should never have the right to chose if a woman keeps a baby or not Because, reasons?? Just stating something doesn't make it so. You clearly are either not understanding my comments or intentionally misrepresenting them because your interpretations are so far it's laughable. I understand you very well, you do not seem to understand basic bodily autonomy, that is not my fault. Consenting to sex isn't the same as consenting to parenthood, if it was there wouldn't have been any need for aborti… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | I asked 15 women and 15 men what their thoughts on the father, or whoever will be forced to take responsibility for the child also having the ability to make the woman get an abortion, here were their responsesWhy can't a man have agency over his own body? It is his sperm so it should be his choice!? | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.I am pointing out the ridiculousness of your statement. No, you're making a ridiculous statement. Sperm is not your body, once it is ejaculated. Neither is your pinky when it's cut off, it is a ridiculous to suggest that a man's sperm is no longer of him once he ejaculated. He still remains on the hook for what is done with it, but he doesn't get a choice on how it is used. Women should have the right to abortion without the fathers consent. And, another strawman, i never said that they couldn't… | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.That i a mighty fine strawman of you. You do realize that you can't make kids from skin or hair, right?? It isn't about a woman's body, it is about how a man's sperm is used against his wishes. Bodily autonomy should go both ways, and right now men don't have it. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 11 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.No longer part of his body!? It is still his fucking genetic material that gets used without his consent. He is still responsible for what happens with it. If someone loses a finger you can't just pick it up, shove it up your ass and claim 'finders keepers'. Condoms can fail, sperm jacking isn't illegal, men simply do not have bodily autonomy. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 11:16 AM |
| 10 | Why should we care about feminists' reproductive rights when men have none? Even worse, feminists bitterly oppose men gaining _any_ reproductive rights, let alone equal rights. Screw them.So why don't men get a say what happens with their sperm? Its part of their body but can be used without their consent to make a baby. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellIf the man didn't consent to reproduction and neither did the woman, then no, it's not an example of rape, it's an example of an accidental pregnancy. Otherwise, the man would also constitute as a rapist for impregnating the woman against her consent, despite the impregnation was unintentional. You don't want to call it a rape, but it is. That an impregnation happened accidental doesn't mean that the remainder of the pregnancy is accidental. So can the man. No he can't. The man has the option to… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellA woman choosing to carry an unintended pregnancy to term isn't an example of stealthing, neither is it an example of rape. Stating something stupid doesn't make it so, it is a sexual act that he didn't agree to, so yea, it is rape. Neither did she consent to being impregnated. And she can choose to opt out of it. Could you please quote me where I explicitly state that a man who ejaculates consents to parenthood? I have, multiple times even, you keep saying it. To put it clearly, I do not think … | /r/MensRights | 13/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellNo I didn't, I was drawing a parallel between your irrational and baseless claims. Sigh, yes you did. You said that stealthing is rape, stealthing is a man removing the condom in order to impregnate the woman against her wishes. And i even agree with that. Unfortunately, the woman is just as unaware as the man that conception occurred. And how is her unawareness relevant to him consenting? Again, he did not consent to that. I'm not arguing that the man consents to parenthood. I'm arguing that th… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellClaiming that the woman is using the man's sperm without his consent is just as futile as me claiming that the man is impregnating the woman without her consent. Funny, in the previous post you called it rape when a man impregnated a woman without her consent. Both of them were and are unaware that engaging in a sexual activity will result in an unwanted pregnancy, especially when using contraceptives. I would say that using contraceptives would certainly imply that the man didn't give his conse… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellThat's the point; no one is consenting to parenthood. It's an unwanted pregnancy by both the man and the woman. Therefore it's disingenuous to claim the woman is "stealing" the man's sperm. Condoms are 98% effective, which is significantly more effective than other forms of birth control, such as the pill. If you use the pull-out method, then that's your own irresponsibility. Again, the only one who is talking about 'stealing sperm' is you, so you are, again, fighting a strawman. And you still d… | /r/MensRights | 12/09/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellAgain, how is a woman stealing a man's sperm when he consensually ejaculates inside of her? So, having an orgasm is now consenting to parenthood? Do you think women shouldn't be able to get an abortion if they had an orgasm during sex? And it is pretty disingenuous to argue that the man ejaculates inside of her, condoms do not always work and even pre-cum can impregnate a woman. Condoms are only ineffective if they break, otherwise it's disingenuous to argue that women who become accidentally pr… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellSo abortions aren't needed? I mean, if she didn't want to get pregnant she shouldn't have had sex, right!? Condoms don't work 100%, vasectomies aren't a real option either as men shouldn't have to become infertile in order to have a one night stand. Just because they don't want a family right now doesn't mean that they don't want one in the future or with another person. Pregnancies can be unwanted by one of the two persons, if it is unwanted by the man but wanted by the woman he has no choice b… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/21 07:54 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellBut she can. I agree that both men and women should double up on contraception to avoid unwanted pregnancies. But that doesn't negate the fact that women can use a man's sperm without the consent of the man of whom the sperm belongs to. Consenting to sex isn't the same as consenting to parenthood. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/21 07:32 AM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts of Jordan Peterson?Find me proof of him actually demanding legal rights for men or pointing out anti male bias / pro female bias in the punishment system in a negative light if at all. If he's such an mra, then it shouldn't be difficult for you to find at least one example of him engaging in men's rights activism. That seems like an arbitrary demand seeing as Jordan Peterson isn't a man's rights activist nor did he ever claimed to be one. That he underpins certain topics that resonate with the men's rights activis… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/21 06:24 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts of Jordan Peterson?(Flak means when the plane was getting hit by anti-aircraft fire) Flak is a German acronym that stands for Flugzeug abwerh kanone. It translates into something like airplane defense cannon. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 1 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellDo you think that consenting to sex equals consenting to become a parent? | /r/MensRights | 07/09/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellBut how come a woman can use part of a man's body without their consent? Look, if you want bodily autonomy to be a thing then men need to have bodily autonomy too. Sperm is part of a male body, as long as women can use it to induce a pregnancy without the man's consent then men do not have bodily autonomy. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/21 09:43 PM |
| 5 | The abortion argument and why it affects men as wellThe big problem that i have with abortions is the one sided nature of them. It gives women 100% control over our reproduction, and that has to stop. There are only two ways of keeping things fair, either both men and women have reproductive rights, or neither of them should have reproductive rights. At this time it is only women who have reproductive rights and men have none. If we treated women like we treat men in regards to reproductive rights than there would be no need for abortions. Just l… | /r/MensRights | 06/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementBut you guys can absolutely identify with how hard it is to be consistently in control, and outside of feminism, I really do believe that being angry, as a woman, is not acceptable. For a man, it seems like it’s acceptable with other men, maybe? I have one woman I can vent frustration to. Even on places like r/women, if you go there and speak from a frustrated standpoint, you will not receive compassion from most of the community. (I haven’t done it, but I’m slammed other women for doing it) Bei… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementHi there, sorry it took me some time to get back at this. I'm happy to reply, it is just that life tends to have other things in store for me too. I'll try my best to get through your points and questions from my point of view. In my mind, we can shortcut all of these “limbic system struggles” by simply not using the emotions consistently for every argument. I wholeheartedly agree with you on this, it is just that it is much easier to stimulate someone emotionally than it is to stimulate someone… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 3 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementI typed more, but it was too much, i'll have to do it again later i guess. Reddit wouldn't let me copy pasta it to another tab for some reason.. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/21 11:50 AM |
| 3 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementI also think your .... We at least didn’t have them in Saturday morning cartoons. No im pretty spot on i believe, i can remember in the 1980's the Saturday morning cartoons featured 'batgirl' and 'She-ra' and more specifically targeting girls. I'm not one bit surprised by your timeline though, what you are describing is just how it is setup. In grade school you'll have 'anti-female' 'cultural opinions'. These aren't cultural opinions but rather biology, i'd bet that most of these things are rela… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/21 11:48 AM |
| 4 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementTrying to learn about your world though, and what you’re going through, is supremely difficult when I have to try to weed out the truth from the rhetoric, or worse, step back and dial down my emotions because my self-preservation circuits are flipped by the misogyny that feels like a threat to me personally - even though it is an expression of pain. You guys are asking for a very high level of emotional intelligence here that is hard for me to meet, and I feel like this is something my sex often… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/21 08:48 AM |
| 3 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementFirst things first, thank you for keeping things civil too, we are here to discuss issue's that men face but i do understand that this can be touchy feely subject. On a side note, it will take some time for me to answer all of this as i'll have to do some other things in between answering these. As adults, we’re supposed to exercise critical thinking over subconscious impressions, and I genuinely believe most adults do. The reason people don’t hear from them quite as much is because they (A) don… | /r/MensRights | 04/09/21 07:36 AM |
| 5 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementWe are not largely ruled by emotions, and in fact, the degree of emotional extremism you see today is fairly new. It is also associated with undereducated opinions, because educated people are able to recognize rhetoric and fallacies, avoid them, and use them to their advantage. No, the idea that people think is fairly new, emotion has always ruled our comings and goings. They are preyed on by commercials, politicians and people who want to make a buck. That is why we smell pleasant things in gr… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 7 | A request to the voices of the MRA movementWhen you let the facts speak for themselves, in the context of not being emotional, people generally run out of steam when they realize they’re just beating their head against a wall. That would only work if humans were a logical being driven by reason instead of emotions. Humans aren't logical beings, we're emotional beings. Logical reasoning can help in some cases, but more often than not it are the emotional arguments that reign supreme. Just look at the whole Texas debacle right now... I'm n… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/21 08:24 AM |
| 91 | PSA: how I respond when my SO accuses me of "mansplaining"Tell her that there is no need to get all femotional about it.. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/21 11:11 AM |
| 5 | Opinions on the "I hate men" book?It is part of 'the future is female', and that is no satire. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/21 09:05 AM |
| 6 | As a woman, I'm tired of people always thinking we are so oppressed and downtrodden.I'm sure I will be downvoted, but I think it is more nuanced than this. 'Nuanced'? I really fail to see the 'nuance' in this. However, I'm proud of how he does turn around and try to give opportunities to people of color and women--both still a significant minority in the finance world. He tries to give internships to men who attend his alma mater and were in his hyper bro fraternity, but also asserts that there should be examples of high earning individuals in the investment world that can br… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/21 07:35 AM |
| 7 | As a woman, I'm tired of people always thinking we are so oppressed and downtrodden.They'll say anything, if it suits them they'll claim the earth is flat. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson "Men are Dying and Breaking Themselves in Half"It was the premise of the post i commented on, so yea, it was about the risks of pregnancy. No one is forcing women to be pregnant either. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 1 | 97% of All Women…Oh absolutely, im merely pointing out that sample size doesn't tell the whole story. Often these kinds of questionnaires are only done by people who feel connected to the subject. And more often then not these questionnaires are linked in places like the 2-x sub here on reddit or a local equivalent. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 11:50 AM |
| 3 | 97% of All Women…1000 is a pretty good sample size. That really depends on how they got these 1000 samples. If it is randomized people filling in some form they've got send to them then it is a good sample size. If these samples all are member of FDS or on some school campus then it really isn't. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Two Comments regarding Male Genital Mutilation (MGM)This isn't about morality, it should be, but it isn't. As long as they think that these 'studies' have merit they'll continue to parrot those lies. As long as people believe these 'studies' they'll use them to justify circumcisions. By only condemning the practice and ignoring the studies we give them validation. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Two Comments regarding Male Genital Mutilation (MGM)I'm not saying that these studies have any merit, i'm saying that all opposition stems from these studies. It is their ammo, if we don't debunk these studies they will only spread this misinformation for longer. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Two Comments regarding Male Genital Mutilation (MGM)I disagree, there is no need to separate these as it remains MGM. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson "Men are Dying and Breaking Themselves in Half"The discussion was about risks taken, not about something everyone in a certain gender can do. Don't move the goalpost. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/21 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Two Comments regarding Male Genital Mutilation (MGM)To me circumcision = MGM, there really isn't a difference.That some people are willing to undergo it out of free will really doesn't enter into it. You're right in saying that words mold how we think about it, so it might be best to only call it MGM then(than? im always confused about that). All pro-MGM arguments are based on these 'studies', there is really no way to ignore them as then there isn't anything to discuss. These people believe these 'studies', it is up to people like us to point ou… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/21 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Two Comments regarding Male Genital Mutilation (MGM)As for point one, what is or isn't mutilation isn't defined by ones willingness to undergo a procedure. If a mountain climber gets frostbite on their tows and they need to be amputated doesn't mean that their foot isn't mutilated. As for the second point, you're right that circumcision and sexual competency shouldn't be an argument. It is just that only pro MGM people tend to use it as some sort of justification to what is done to them. Firstly, if someones parents are thinking about their child… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson "Men are Dying and Breaking Themselves in Half"Now lets take the average truck driver, lets even be amicable and say that he only 8 drives hours a day at 60 mph 5 days a week. That is 480 miles a day, that means that he has about two times the risk of dying every month over a pregnancy that takes 9 month. No pregnancies aren't a walk in the park by any stretch, but it is hardly dangerous. If it were there wouldn't be any truck drivers, or at least no old ones. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/21 07:47 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on when people say “if you get offended by ‘men are trash’ we’re talking about you”Muffcabbage, that is seriously what im thinking when i hear someone say that. But on a more serious note, these people are just clueless and it is best to just ignore them. They are the feminist version of christian 'preachers' yelling 'REPENT!' on a sidewalk. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Female perspective: Jake Davison, incel culture & mental health accessThen why is the exact same phenomena for women called 'internalized misogyny' and not 'toxic femininity'? 'Toxic masculinity' is nothing but a dogwhistle, if it was about how men are pressured into certain behavior it would have been called 'internalized misandry' just like the female version. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Female perspective: Jake Davison, incel culture & mental health accessYes, that is the textbook definition, but it doesn't work that way and it is unnecessarily demonizing masculinity. For women this same phenomena is called 'internalized misogyny' and not 'toxic femininity'. Like i said, if you're going to make a theory about how orphans have it harder in life your not going to call it 'theory of the useless people'. Feminist arguing textbook definitions of their hate religion is like calling North Korea 'democratic' as they are called the Democratic Republic of … | /r/MensRights | 16/08/21 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Female perspective: Jake Davison, incel culture & mental health accessWhat you describe is the textbook definition of 'toxic masculinity', but that isn't what it is. Why call something toxic masculinity if it is to describe negative gender stereotypes of both the sexes? Doesn't it seem at least strange to you how this is framed within feminist theory? Calling every negative gender stereotype toxic masculinity they basically are saying that everything masculine is toxic. I'm truly sorry for this, i really do not mean to offend, but i really can not understand how t… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/21 07:05 PM |
| 6 | Female perspective: Jake Davison, incel culture & mental health accessI think young men are placed under an extreme amount of pressure to express masculinity through toxic means (violence, sexual dominance) but what happens if men don’t want to subscribe to this? I believe that what you are describing is not the problem but rather the outcome of the problem. The underlying problem, i believe, is that feminism doesn't understand what masculinity is and therefore labels everything masculine as 'toxic' and everything toxic as 'masculine'. By first labeling masculine … | /r/MensRights | 15/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 3 | about against hate subreddits postsI've seen hundreds of posts in this bloody sub. and they somehow find the perfect sexist comment/post to post in that sub. They've found the post because they were probably the ones who posted it. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 3 | This might end up as an unpopular opinion, but this sub is degrading at it makes me sad.That are a lot of baseless assumptions you make there that only shows your ignorance on the subject at hand. 'Men' didn't hold the majority of power, it were nobles who held power. These nobles consisted of both men and women and all of them held more power than everyone else. This 'power' wasn't only passed unto men, if that were the case there wouldn't have been a queen Elizabeth, let alone a second one. Then another big problem with this idea of yours is that you somehow assume that 'men' cou… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/21 12:39 PM |
| 12 | This might end up as an unpopular opinion, but this sub is degrading at it makes me sad.How was there a patriarchy? How was society ruled by men for men? The thing that feminist describe as being the patriarchy just never existed. Yes, there was a paternal inheritance structure, but if that is all that the patriarchy is or does then there really is no need to talk about it in every other sentence. Now with this inheritance structure also came a hell of a lot of responsibilities, but you'll never hear a feminist talking about those. The whole patriarchy theory is bullshit. Again, th… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/21 10:25 AM |
| 8 | This might end up as an unpopular opinion, but this sub is degrading at it makes me sad.The problem is just that if we do not point out the hypocrisy and true nature of feminism then the war is already lost. How people define feminism is the problem here, i agree, but i strongly disagree on how to solve this problem. We can not operate within the structure that they have set up as this structure is made to shit on men. The only thing we can do is calmly call out their bullshit until they lose their cool and start to fling insults (you are against women's rights, you just hate women… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/21 08:59 AM |
| 15 | This might end up as an unpopular opinion, but this sub is degrading at it makes me sad.I believe that posts like this one are MUCH more harmful to the community than a post railing against feminism, and here is why. Here you are, basically blaming 'us' for having emotions and expressing them. You have the gall to call out the mIsOgyNiStIc content here, but have a problem with this sub calling out the ever growing misandry that feminism throws at us both on Reddit and in real life. You do not get to hide behind the 'this is not the definition of feminism as described in the diction… | /r/MensRights | 08/08/21 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Radicalizing the romanceless. How feminist shaming is pushing hurting lonely men into radicalization.you have to wonder if they actually care about these problems, or if they're making them worse. Not really, it is a feature not a bug. If there aren't any 'incels' or 'mIsoGiNisTs' that they can rally against they cease to be relevant. They create them so they can point at them and say 'See how bad they are!?!!11'. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] People Who Think Men Are The More Privileged Gender, Why? What Privileges Do They Have?No they aren't really gender neutral, a women can give her unwanted baby up at a safe haven with no problems, men can't. The problem is a bit biological in nature as a women isn't forced in anyway to inform the father of her child that he is becoming a father. So she can just not tell the dad and give the baby up. Safe haven law is only 'gender neutral' when both the parents want to give it up or if the mother wants to give it up. If it is just the dad who wants to give the child up then it is i… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Christine Overall: Men should pay child support even if they were deceived into fatherhood because "it is this hard for women"They do feel empathy, just not as much as normal people. Psychopaths are born like that, they don't know any better. Sociopath generally do not plan that because they still aren't that fucked up. They understand the right from wrong thing, they can feel remorse, it is just not very prevalent. Conscience isn't some sort of switch that is either on or off, it is a spectrum. The lower they are in this spectrum the more likely it becomes that they start to plan it, as they simply can't give a shit. … | /r/MensRights | 26/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Christine Overall: Men should pay child support even if they were deceived into fatherhood because "it is this hard for women"Yes, that is true, the reason behind this phenomena is that psychopaths do not feel remorse. Not having any sense of remorse allows them to plan shit that people with a conscience would not. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/21 12:41 PM |
| 5 | Christine Overall: Men should pay child support even if they were deceived into fatherhood because "it is this hard for women"I think all this would be resolved if we had a right to bodily sovereignty including tissues (ie no-one can use our body or its tissues without specific consent). It is downright weird that men do not have bodily autonomy when it comes to their sperm. Just because it left the man's body doesn't mean that you can do with it as you please. I mean, just imagine someone losing an arm in a accident, someone else runs towards the accident only to pick up the arm and yell 'Finders keepers!!'. That woul… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/21 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Christine Overall: Men should pay child support even if they were deceived into fatherhood because "it is this hard for women"Not really, the difference between the two is having a conscience or not. Psychopaths don't have a conscience where as sociopaths do have some conscience and can feel remorse. I'm not sure if feminism has the ability to feel remorse, but most feminist do feel remorse. Just not about the shit they are doing to men. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to be male?I think it’s possible that men have it harder without this being the intention of women or women’s rights groups. Possible, yes. Likely, not really. Feminism has never really cared about the burdens that they place upon men. This doesn't make it any better in my opinion, them simply not caring about the consequences their ideals have on the other sex. Also, unlike religions or political parties, there is no central authority on feminism so there are lots of different kinds of feminism. That isn'… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/21 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Historical discrimination: How female vs male suffragists were treated (with references)Why this isn't on the top of the sub right now i really do not understand. Well written and documented, great job! | /r/MensRights | 17/07/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Some women just refuse to take responsibility. For what really is a shared responsibilityAnd there isn't a law that regulates male sperm, women who get hold of sperm can use it without the consent of the man that it belongs to. There really doesn't need to be a law in place to limit male bodily autonomy, the lack of laws does that plenty. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/21 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Some women just refuse to take responsibility. For what really is a shared responsibilityYet repeatedly panels of male only politicians have made decisions regulating women’s bodies. That’s fact. How is having no access to an abortion regulating women's bodies? It's not as if these laws force these women to become pregnant or to have sex. Why is it the go to answer to men objecting to fatherhood that they shouldn't have had sex? If this is this is the go to answer for men then i see no reason why to have this same thing hold true for women. Now, if you really are so fund of bodily a… | /r/MensRights | 14/07/21 09:46 AM |
| 3 | Oklahoma "accidentally" cancels feminism. "The new law prohibits public school teachers of grades K-12 from teaching eight different concepts about race, including that an individual, by virtue of his or race or sex, is inherently racist, sexist or oppressive, whether consciously or unconsciously."Sorry, i stopped dead when you said everyone was mistreated equally in the past. If this is the general sentiment of the the subreddit then you are far too gone to convince of any sanity. Right, right, everyone must be 'far gone' because they do not believe in your apex fallacies. Thats saying the quiet part out loud. Yes, the quiet part of what history actually was like. I guess to you dying in wars at the whim of your lord or having to do backbreaking work as a peasant was a privilege. People … | /r/MensRights | 13/07/21 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Oklahoma "accidentally" cancels feminism. "The new law prohibits public school teachers of grades K-12 from teaching eight different concepts about race, including that an individual, by virtue of his or race or sex, is inherently racist, sexist or oppressive, whether consciously or unconsciously."You can not deny that minorities and women have been mistreated in the past. Yea of course minorities and women have been mistreated, just like majorities and men. Everyone got mistreated equally in the past, sure a merchant wouldn't have it as rough as a peasant, but that isn't about race or gender that is about class. The point of these lessons is to explain why the world is the way it is today. That makes it an important segment of a history class. Any boy who feels at fault for the fight for… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/21 06:00 PM |
| 32 | UK: BBC drive to promote women turns off men: More than 25% of male viewers feel corporation 'no longer reflects' them.One of the biggest problems that i have noticed these past few years is the ideologically driven crap that is woven into every movie or tv show. All men are depicted as either absolutely useless or downright evil. Have you seen Black Widow? It's absolute garbage, the 'strong women' vibe is just killing any chance of it being remotely enjoyable to watch. It isn't because a woman plays the lead or is the hero of the story, but rather on how utterly stupid all male roles in that movie are. This gar… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Do female brains actually "mature earlier?"Yes and no, it really depends on what is viewed as being 'matured' combined with a bit of cultural bias. Ultimately i would say that men and women mature around the same age at around 25. What i'm talking about is the maturing of our brains, although a lot of our brains are developed at age of 18 they are not fully matured yet (about half way at 18 for the prefrontal cortex). This often results in young people taking greater risks, young people having difficulties with impulse control, planning,… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.Oh fuck me i said the wrong word, now you surely can't possibly understand what i meant. And, right, i must be drunk, oooh good one, now how about you letting your brain do some work and give me an honest answer? | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.So you want me to draw stupid conclusions because you learned that people tend to like people who they share commonalities with? Yea, not going to happen, just because people like other similar people doesn't mean that men discriminate against women in finance. These people aren't some feminist activist group drinking tea and brainstorming their next way to help their fellow women, these are business people. But you seem to keep forgetting that.. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.Yea no, it is a scientific fact that humans tend to group up with others of similar background. That is not exclusive to men, try again. tHeY aRn'T cOmPUteRs!!11 No they aren't computers, yet what they do is try to get as much money from their investments. This is bordering on conspiracy theory here. If men are such sexist bastards that they refuse to finance women's initiatives you would think that women with a bias would fund women much, much more than a measly 200%. If men don't finance women… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.I was right! You are incapable of giving an honest question. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 03:49 PM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.No, you haven't proven shit, the only thing that article might show is that less funding goes to women held initiatives, but not why. That is not proving a bias, you need to prove that it is because they are women that they receive less funding. So come one and prove me that these people don't want to make money because they need to fund women in order to do so. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 10:35 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.No, i'm looking to get an honest answer out of you, but i don't think that is going to happen. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 10:33 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.What do you think? | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 10:17 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.So you want me to prove a negative... That is not how things work, first you go and prove that there is gender bias in finance. There isn't all they want to do is make as much money as possible. Businesses that operate like that do not exist for a long time. If you think that people do not want to invest and make good money because it is an idea of a woman then i don't know what to tell you. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 10:16 AM |
| 4 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.The same reasons as why men are perceived as 'creeps' for 'babysitting' their own children. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 09:59 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.LOL, you mean that 'bold claim' of finances not caring about gender!? They are in financing, they care about money, they could not care less about gender. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 09:55 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.We’ve already established that gender biases exist when positions of power are dominated by one gender. Yea no, you've done no such thing. Since finance is a male-dominated field, men are going to have an inherent advantage over women when it comes to securing funding. Only if you assume that these people act in the same way as feminist do and care about gender, guess what, they don't. So it is just a bunch of drivel. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 09:30 AM |
| 4 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.There is though. We have proof. No, you don't. This isn’t true. We have proof. No, you don't. This is untrue. We have proof. No, you don't. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 09:27 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.So now women not being as capable as men in networking is a bias towards men? And it doesn't address what i said in any way. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 07:55 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.Are you suggesting that a CEO of a random company holds the same influence over children as teacher!? That is pretty insane. Then, CEO's do not favor genders, the only thing they favor is money. That is why they are CEO, they are not in the business of handing out favors to men because they are men. They are solely in the business to make as much money as they possibly can. Being a CEO of a company has absolutely nothing to do with gender. There isn't a bias towards men, it is just that more men… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 07:43 AM |
| 3 | The gender education gap. For every one $1 dollar spent on a woman in college only 0.86 cents were spent on men.Likewise, I would not doubt a male bias in a system where most people in power were men. That just isn't the case, name one such bias where men influence a system that ensures their field remains male dominated. I can't think of one. You might find one where men are predominantly the ones in power, but they do not undermine women getting in those fields. Systems are rarely bias towards men, it's rather that often systems prefer traditional masculine 'features'. One masculine 'feature' for exampl… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/21 07:24 AM |
| 6 | Misrepresenting men's worries about not being able to defend themselve against an abusive women into : men just want to hit womenYea, they get so femotional about it.. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?Right, then we come back to the, it is her body so her responsibility. There isn't going to be any child if the women doesn't want there to be one. So there is absolutely no reason at all to not give men the right to opt out of children when they get someone pregnant. No one is arguing that the men should get to walk out when they feel like it after 'trying it for a while' or that men can walk out of planned a parenthood. But men should be able to decide for themselves if they want to become a p… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?No, i think it is because i only want children that i chose to have. Why on earth would i, or anyone else for that matter, want to have children running around who's lives they are not part of? Children aren't pet's or something you have for shits and giggles, when you have a child it is normal to want to have them in your life. Having a child with a one night stand isn't really going to help when you want to build a future with someone you actually love. So there are plenty of reasons why someo… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 03:35 PM |
| 11 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?My issue is the idea of men being able to walk away with zero responsibility creates an imbalance in the other direction. Essentially all of the responsibility would be on a woman to use birth control and all of the responsibility after sex would be on a woman. And what is wrong with this? Isn't her body her responsibility? Now don't get me wrong, i would still use condoms even if men could opt out. Generally speaking men don't want to have small armies of children running around, at least i hav… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?But I also believe in bodily autonomy which I hope you do as well. No you don't, at least, you don't believe in bodily autonomy for men. Sperm is still a part of a males body, why can't women find wiling partners to have children with? | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 02:46 PM |
| 15 | Why does pro choice go right out the window when it revolves around men or children?Does that mean you're against abortions too? | /r/MensRights | 30/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 9 | Female MRAs:You are very dumb if you believe there is a winner and loser in a discussion. Does this mean that you believe that there is no such thing as 'right' or 'wrong'? Some positions are indefensible, most discussions are about these indefensible things. When people are entrenched in their position but realize that their position is no longer a valid one, they'll start to fling insults. The moment someone starts to throw insults in a discussion they 'lost' for all intense and purpose. A discussion is s… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 18 | "Female strippers have their rules so follow them" and "Everything is allowed with male strippers"You forgot the 'bEcAusE meN aRe sTrOngER' Its such a stupid take, we don't live in a world were we use physical force and if we do use force then there are enough force multipliers to render that physical strength advantage moot. These people act as if men can't use words and will use physical force at every occasion they get. Just imagine one of these male strippers just slapping the living daylight out of one of these handsy women, they'd probably call the police on him. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Wow this sub seems to hate everyoneLike yeah that guy in North Carolina shouldn't have to pay for the child support for his sperm-donated offspring, but this isn't a wide spread issue and I don't see how shitting on women and/or feminists helps him. You seem to be equating women with feminist, that is wrong. Women is a sex and feminist is a religion/social movement. People pointing out the evil of feminism doesn't mean that they are talking about women. I see a lot of complaining about feminism in this sub and the vast majority o… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 10:52 AM |
| 5 | Wow this sub seems to hate everyoneSexual assault or harassment is a very strange statistic, literally everyone i know has been sexually harassed or assaulted. It really doesn't matter if you as man or woman, everyone has had these experiences. It is just that most of the population really isn't too bothered with it. Rape is something else though, i don't think that the 90% number quoted by the other guy is correct. But do believe that the number is very high as there has been a flood of false rape allegations over the last years… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 10:17 AM |
| 36 | A 17 year old boy committed sucide after fake rape allegationsWhy is imprisonment and ostracization always have to be worsee than rape? Because ostracizing someone completely and utterly ruins someones life, and this is done in the arena of public opinion without any form of rules or justice. The problem is that even when it has been proven that a woman lied about a rape, and im not talking about not having enough evidence, but actual honest to god proof of his innocence, his life will be destroyed without any hope of it ever going away. Just google Emma S… | /r/MensRights | 20/06/21 07:22 PM |
| 12 | Feminists can't decide if they should continue hating men after they opt to be called womenHOURS BEFORE Jo Phoenix, a professor of criminology at Britain’s Open University, was due to give a talk at Essex University about placing transgender women in women’s prisons, students threatened to barricade the hall. They complained that Ms Phoenix was a “transphobe” likely to engage in “hate speech”. A flyer with an image of a gun and text reading “shut the fuck up, TERF” (trans-exclusionary radical feminist, a slur) was circulating. The university told Ms Phoenix it was postponing the event… | /r/MensRights | 16/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Suicide attempts by teen girls spiked during COVID-19 pandemic: CDC - The spike of successful suicides by teen boys unimportantComparing the 2 increases this is a more girl problem than guys problem tho, it makes sense to put the focus on the girls, on many others articles I would have complained but I have nothing aganist this one Basic math would prove your wrong, 1 in 5 suicides is a woman. If this number grows by 50% that would make it 3 in 10. That leaves us with 4 more boys dying by suicide without even including their 3% raise. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/21 07:17 AM |
| 14 | Just a reminder that men make up ~80% of suicides. And there's a mental health crisis among men. but I guess the 1244+ people that upvoted this "aren't real feminists"Yea no, this isn't that kind of 'joking' this is more like the Kill All Men 'joke'. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/21 08:53 AM |
| 17 | About the term "real feminist".The following is a very informed and highly reusable comment by KarenStraughan in response to a feminist who thinks the many blatant sexistsamong feminists aren't real feminists: So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum are the true feminist, and the feminists actually responsible for changing the laws, writing the academic theory, teaching the courses, influencing the public policies, and the massive,well-funded feminist organizations with thousands… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/21 08:34 AM |
| 13 | Lily Ridgeway found not guilty of murder over stabbing death of Jason Adams at Raymond Terrace - jury couldn’t rule out the possibility of victim “walking himself onto the knife”And how would that exactly work!? Walking into someone doesn't produce the force needed to stab someone to death. I think it is very reasonable to assume that someone would stop walking into a knife the moment they feel it entering their body, self preservation is still a thing. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/21 08:24 AM |
| 27 | Dear femcels, men wanting equal rights doesn't equal misogyny. Please stop disguising yourselves and making people fighting for things different than yours the bad guys, thanks.They’re literally describing themselves. The men’s rights movement is just anti-feminist movement using men’s issues primarily to invalidate feminism." is valid criticism, there are definitely people here who do what they accuse feminism of doing. How is this a valid point? It is not as if feminism isn't responsible for a lot of flak that men face in this day of age. If feminism wasn't as hateful as it is then it would have been a valid point. Feminism should be invalidated as feminism has no va… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Margot Robbie won The Wolf of Wall Street role after awkward audition momentYes, dear..... Be sure to keep up the fallacies and insults, as they sure seem to suit you very well. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/21 10:01 AM |
| 0 | Margot Robbie won The Wolf of Wall Street role after awkward audition momentBla bla bla, yes, go and be a misandrist and unimaginative hack. Its no wonder you've never gotten beyond the point of semi-professional in acting. Do the world a favor and stop. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Margot Robbie won The Wolf of Wall Street role after awkward audition momentRight, because ad hominem really work well for you, don't they. But hey, if you want to perpetuate the normalization of violence against men, you do you. But that doesn't make you 'artistic' or 'realistic' the only thing it makes you is an unimaginative hack. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Margot Robbie won The Wolf of Wall Street role after awkward audition momentWho said we're embracing it? You did by having it be part of your routine, you are doing nothing but perpetuating the sexist falsehood that it is okay to hit a man. I'm saying it's just a fact of reality and that's why art follows life. It's called Mimesis and it's an idea as far back as Plato. Sure, there are arguments for anti-mimesis, but I'd argue that art mostly reflects life, while only a small minority of life reflects art. Again, art almost never follows reality, i have never heard music… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Margot Robbie won The Wolf of Wall Street role after awkward audition momentNot all art reflects life, not by a long shot. One point of art can be that it reflect life, but that doesn't mean that all art reflects life. I would even argue that most art doesn't reflect life. Often art reflects our desires or even just our imagination. I mean... sure, we can ask those types of questions, but with your intentions, they're fruitless. My intentions are pointing out the raging sexism against men in acting, you might find it fruitless, but that doesn't mean that it isn't needed… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Margot Robbie won The Wolf of Wall Street role after awkward audition momentI get your intention, but it's misplaced here. It really isn't, flipping genders often makes ingrained sexism stick out like s sore thumb. Their given circumstances includes their relationship and character traits. You cannot just flip a written story and ask what would happen. You're asking a non-question, because that situation doesn't exist. This is ignoring the obvious, that these circumstances that they are given are okay because of the idea that 'women can't hurt men'. If the roles were re… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 10:27 AM |
| 18 | A revealing article in Psychology Today entitled When Male Rape Victims Are Accountable for Child Support. I hope members and moderators of reddits who treat MensRights as "anti" and prevent people from coming by banning for participation, read this, to understand that this is a human rights forum.The shear ignorance here is staggering.. Just because as a woman you can't think of HOW a woman could rape a man it obviously can't happen? So nowhere in her mind is there the situation that a woman could drug a man and have sex with him while unconscious? Or how about a woman holding a gun to his head or a knife to his throat? Can't possibly happen can it? Women would NEVER do something like that would they? They don't even need to threaten or drug the man, all she needs to do is wake up before… | /r/MensRights | 29/05/21 08:40 AM |
| 1 | The pro-choice crowd "suddenly" becomes anti-choice the second anyone dares try to advocate for the male right to choose (to not pay child support)No it is not, it is a strawman that you are trying to build. Are you saying that sperm isn't part of a male body? Yes, it is impossible as sperm is part of a male body, men do not get to decide if their sperm is used for procreation or not. Ergo, no bodily autonomy. Your conclusion is bonkers and nothing more than a strawman, again, sperm is part of a male body yet they do not get to decide in its use for procreation. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice crowd "suddenly" becomes anti-choice the second anyone dares try to advocate for the male right to choose (to not pay child support)Can you read?? That isn't even close to what i said.. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice crowd "suddenly" becomes anti-choice the second anyone dares try to advocate for the male right to choose (to not pay child support)How can a man prevent a pregnancy after intercourse? They can't (with current laws), but that doesn't mean in any way that they consented to parenthood. This is the whole premise i started out with, that men do not have control over when their seed is used for procreation. The seed of a man is still very much part of him, if you would try to use someones bodily fluids or parts besides semen, they will put you in jail. But for some magic reason this isn't the case with semen and only with semen. … | /r/MensRights | 26/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice crowd "suddenly" becomes anti-choice the second anyone dares try to advocate for the male right to choose (to not pay child support)No, that's not how that works. Everyone can have bodily autonomy, and no one gets to control anyone else's bodies. Yea, i'd like that too, but that is not going to happen as this is impossible. Either men get control of whom can use their sperm to procreate or they can not. Yes they do. What they don't have is equal rights. Different topics. No, men do not have bodily autonomy, or are you suggesting that a women can not use a man's sperm to reproduce against the man's wishes?? | /r/MensRights | 26/05/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | The pro-choice crowd "suddenly" becomes anti-choice the second anyone dares try to advocate for the male right to choose (to not pay child support)And how would you suggest we'd do that? If one of the parties has bodily autonomy in reproduction we have to limit the other party in their bodily autonomy. Either the men gets to decide if their sperm is used or they don't. (of course, a woman should not be forced into parenthood either, a man should never be able to force a women to have his offspring either) When a man gets to decide we'd impair a women's bodily autonomy the moment she gets pregnant against his wishes. If the man doesn't get … | /r/MensRights | 26/05/21 04:34 AM |
| 9 | The pro-choice crowd "suddenly" becomes anti-choice the second anyone dares try to advocate for the male right to choose (to not pay child support)The argument is "I own my body, not anyone else. No one can use it without my consent. I make the decisions and those choices belong to me, not the government or anyone else." And that argument only holds true for women, men do not get this bodily autonomy as their sperm can be used against their will. The defense of 'but it left his body' is really ludicrous as this only seems to hold true when we talk about male sperm. If you were to try and obtain any other bodily part or fluid against the wi… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/21 08:35 AM |
| 2 | She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink - A Long AnalysisThanks for all the fish! Great that you have the place you've always wanted! Getting to decorate a space that you like to spend time in is the best. Mine is my music space, there i can totally emerge myself with my hobby. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 5 | She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink - A Long Analysisbut now I’m wondering if insisting upon a color scheme is sexist. Is that a deal breaker for men? Curious for the male take on this issue. No, its not sexist to want a color scheme in your kitchen. Personally i could not care less about color schemes in a kitchen as long as it is functional. I'm sure that there are men who are into decorating and color schemes and such, but i can't say that i know any. Sure, the men i know that have to pick something would pick a color they'd like. But when the … | /r/MensRights | 13/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 4 | The reasons why arguing with a feminist is a waste of time.No, they didn't, neither men or women held financial, political or military power. If anything it was women who held those powers as queen Wilhelmina reigned at that time. Clearly when there is a man on top then all this power goes to all men, so having a queen on top means that all women held all the power, right!? Some wealthy people held power, everyone else was considered nothing more then garbage. Your whole premise is build upon an apex fallacy. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 10:46 AM |
| 6 | The reasons why arguing with a feminist is a waste of time.But in 1887 the Netherlands didn't have census suffrage but had the so called 'Caoutchouc-artikel', this arikel prohibited women from voting by law, before that it wasn't prohibited that is why Alleta Jacobs was able to apply. You were talking about times of census suffrage so that is what i talked about. But even in those times it was still one vote per family, male children of parents who could vote didn't get those same rights until they qualified themselves. It might have become somewhat eas… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 10:26 AM |
| 5 | The reasons why arguing with a feminist is a waste of time.But during times of census suffrage (wealthy) men were in power. It wasn't men who were privileged, it was wealthy people, be it man or woman. They got one vote for every family that had to be cast by the head of said wealthy family who where men. That doesn't make men privileged or women under privileged as most people were unable to vote regardless of their gender. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 10:02 AM |
| 3 | The reasons why arguing with a feminist is a waste of time.1983 Alleta Jacobs That was 1883 not 1983, you know, before suffrage of either man or women. So yea, it wasn't even two years. And on the 12 of December 1917 only men got suffrage women were only able to be elected, but could not vote. This was corrected, again on 27th of September 1919. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 09:49 AM |
| 2 | The reasons why arguing with a feminist is a waste of time.I didn't have to, it is pretty common knowledge taught in history class. Or at least it was taught when i went to school. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 09:02 AM |
| 6 | The reasons why arguing with a feminist is a waste of time.No, it wasn't even two years. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 08:35 AM |
| 10 | The reasons why arguing with a feminist is a waste of time.And there was a crazy time women weren't allowed to vote. So the men were indeed privileged that they could have political power. So the whole not even two years of women not being able to vote is your basis for the claim that women were being oppressed? Because on the 12th of December 1917 the Dutch men got their voting rights and the Dutch women got it on the 27th of September 1919. So do you really believe that women not being able to partake in one single election is enough of a basis to cla… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 08:35 AM |
| 2 | To the “feminists” on this sub.....I think we shouldn't really look at how groups or people want to profile themselves but rather judge them on their actions. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | To the “feminists” on this sub.....Isn't there that whole "no true scotsman" logical fallacy? If a feminist labels themselves as such, but supports and spreads misandrist messages, then, by definition, she does not follow the political ideology. However, as I'm sure you know, that doesn't stop them from self-labeling as feminists. The thing is just that the no true Scotsman fallacy concerning feminism is the other way around. To quote Karen Straughan on this exact point. So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a user… | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Mens rights vs hating womenSo were would you suggest they'd go for such a discussion but here? But even that is besides the point if im honest. Men's rights isn't just about men's rights, just like feminism isn't just about women's rights. There is nothing wrong with men's rights addressing social issue's that men face in the society. To me they are very much trying to discourage discussions about the social issues that men face. Ultimately it really shouldn't matter to anyone what againsthatesubreddit or or whatever it's… | /r/MensRights | 10/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 4 | I require some critical feedback please.First and foremost, OP, write your kids letters. I mean, don't send them cuz they are still babies and your ex wife will certainly dispose of them, but still. Write them. Absolutely this! The only thing i would like to add is to make it digital. Make an email account and send the letters to that account. When the time is right he can simply give them the account information and they can read everything. I know that actual written letters are better, but it is hard to keep track of these letters … | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 11:13 AM |
| 7 | What the actual fuck?I don’t know if feminism makes it so men get abused, but they don’t highlight it when they talk about abuse. I'm not sure what to tell you if you believe that feminism hasn't laid down the foundation of male abuse in our current society. There are laws made in ways to explicitly deny males being a victim of female perpetrators, like the rape laws. Feminism has ensured that men don't have a fair chance when it comes to things like parental rights or even reproductive rights. That being said men’s… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 09:04 AM |
| 5 | What's the divide between feminism and men's rights?But theres definitely a significant amount of feminists who are anti men. I think we need to be better than them and not stoop to their level of hate. There is a big difference between hating a political supremacist movement and hating a gender for whom they are. Someone being against feminism doesn't mean that they are against women's rights in any way shape or form, nor that they hate women for some reason. So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum ar… | /r/MensRights | 07/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 84 | 2 days ago, during children's day, a plan of radical feminist teacher's group, in South Korea, to brainwash children into the ideology was revealed. Of these plans included measures to get anti-feminist kids systematically bullied by their peers.not ideological brainwashing. And then they proceed to list their ideological brainwashing tactics, seems they do not understand what 'ideological brainwashing' means. During "education" don't let kids talk or have debate (Get them to accept the information for what it is) I mean, in what world would this not be described as ideological brainwashing? | /r/MensRights | 07/05/21 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Illegal opinionIt are these past times that are used as 'proof' of the patriarchy and the idea that 'all men are rapist' and all the 'KAM' nonsense. I have never seen any place were it is 'acceptable' to rape women, very few places practice genital mutilation though, specially compared to male genital mutilation. On the other hand i do have seen many cases of 'teacher and boy had sexual relations' or other bullshit of how men can not be raped even coded into law. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Illegal opinionGenital mutilation is an accepted practice on males (not on women though), even in 'the west', so i wouldn't say women are mutilated. At best it would be 'people are being mutilated'. As for 'being used' i can not think of a single country that doesn't use their men for their labor. Not just by their spouses, but by their government as well. I'm not saying its all sunshine for women everywhere, but on average they get the better deal no matter the society. One of the most universal gender roles … | /r/MensRights | 06/05/21 08:52 AM |
| 4 | Illegal opinionThe thing is that in those same cultures men have it awful too. That isn't even to say that their cultures are shitty, but more that they live in an under developed country or one that has been plundered for years on end. Living in a makeshift tent in a desert somewhere isn't really good for anyone regardless of their gender. It is just that we never hear about the hardships men face in these countries as our empathy still very much goes 'women and children first'. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/21 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Accused of MansplainingTell them to stop being so femotional about it, if they get mad and say that 'femotional' isn't a thing, remind them that 'mansplaining' isn't a thing either. | /r/MensRights | 05/05/21 04:30 AM |
| 8 | Levi's posted about sexual assault on Instagram and I was a little surprised when I saw this. Especially on a page as big as Levi's. Thoughts?Ah like that, yea, they are the last ones who should play the moral card. But i do rather see it done like this, the Gillette one was much worse. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 07:06 AM |
| 18 | Levi's posted about sexual assault on Instagram and I was a little surprised when I saw this. Especially on a page as big as Levi's. Thoughts?I think you misunderstood him, i believe he is pointing at Gillette who made commercials bashing men. It's kind of rare for a company to put men in a positive light. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Called incel for advocating men's rightsI really like the 'Oh, just stop being so femotional'. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/21 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Why do women only have a say in abortion/child support?When do men get to decide how their sperm is used? | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | NYC will stop criminalizing prostitution. Wait, did I say prostitution? I meant they'll stop criminalizing female prostitutes. Men who solicit are still criminals. Thanks NYC! 👍I think that it is you that has missed the point. Everyone needs protecting, we should not make any rules that give anyone unneeded power over anyone else, not the workers not the John's. But besides that, who do you think is going to report shady shit if not for the John's? And do you think these John's will say anything if they are at risk of losing their livelihood, freedom or maybe their marriage? Just because you've never met a man who thought it was okay to harm sex workers doesn't mean th… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 12:03 PM |
| 0 | NYC will stop criminalizing prostitution. Wait, did I say prostitution? I meant they'll stop criminalizing female prostitutes. Men who solicit are still criminals. Thanks NYC! 👍Its designed to make life safer for sex workers. But it does the exact opposite while making it even more unsafe for their clients. If the clients of the sex worker are illegal they won't go to the police when they see something that should be reported. They won't risk their livelihood by reporting suspect sex trafficking, and i really can't blame them for that. The trafficked workers themselves won't go to the police as their pimps often make sure to threaten them and their families. The client… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 10:55 AM |
| 7 | NYC will stop criminalizing prostitution. Wait, did I say prostitution? I meant they'll stop criminalizing female prostitutes. Men who solicit are still criminals. Thanks NYC! 👍It is straight up stupid if you ask me. They gave more power to the pimps by making it legal and illegal for John's, the police will first have to prove that someone is being forced into the sex work before they can take action. The men that need reporting won't be reported by forced sex workers anyway and the normal Johns are now susceptible to blackmail by the none forced sexworkers. And they really don't need to keep soliciting prostitution illegal in order to make sex trafficing illegal, its… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 10:15 AM |
| 37 | Hating men is “a source of joy,” feminist saysMust be penis envy.. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 12 | Reddit supports misandry, but claims liberals are a marginalized groupHow Reddit treats liberals has nothing to do with being a man. You're right, but how Reddit treats liberals has a relation to how Reddit treats men. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 5 | I find it so insanely frustrating to hear women say "That's not real feminism"Mainly, because I want to find a reasonable, not angry way to dispute this point with feminists without bringing attention to #notallmen. Because that seems to immediately discredit me in even more reasonable feminist circles. I hate to be the one to tell you, but there isn't such a thing as 'reasonable' feminist. People that drank the feminist Kool-aid are beyond a point of reasonable discussion. All of them believe in the mythical 'patriarchy' that is there to keep women down. Nothing is ever … | /r/MensRights | 13/04/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | When a woman is pregnant, she gets a way out but the men does not even get a say! And then the man ends up on the hook for childsupport, should she choose to keep it!!!!!Demand a paternity test! | /r/MensRights | 11/04/21 09:05 AM |
| 3 | When a woman is pregnant, she gets a way out but the men does not even get a say! And then the man ends up on the hook for childsupport, should she choose to keep it!!!!!And how often did these men consent to having their sperm used in such a manner? Why doesn't seed fall under bodily autonomy? I think that is the real question. | /r/MensRights | 11/04/21 09:04 AM |
| 2 | I just got told by a fellow man and his girlfriend that men can't be oppressed and that the world we live in is shaped by men's eyes.No problem, i was just a bit confused. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 3 | I just got told by a fellow man and his girlfriend that men can't be oppressed and that the world we live in is shaped by men's eyes.I'm not sure if you replied to the wrong post or are agreeing with me, but i agree. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/21 09:39 AM |
| 2 | I just got told by a fellow man and his girlfriend that men can't be oppressed and that the world we live in is shaped by men's eyes.The patriarchy that feminists think of is utter codswallop but there was a dictionary defined patriarchal society not that long ago. But that is the version of 'patriarchy' that they use, and even if we were to go with the Oxford definition we still wouldn't live in a patriarchy. The thing that strikes me most though is the fact that even if 'men' hold 'predominant power' in a social organization they still do not hold as much power as a random Karen mom. For example, girls are now allowed into … | /r/MensRights | 10/04/21 09:22 AM |
| 2 | I just got told by a fellow man and his girlfriend that men can't be oppressed and that the world we live in is shaped by men's eyes.And there’s a difference between being liberal and being progressive/woke/left. Aren't they all different things!? Being on 'the left' doesn't imply that they have to be 'woke' or 'progressive'. The woke group is a very specific group of people, to equate them with 'the left' is like saying that everyone on 'the right' are bible thumping morons. Being 'progressive' means that they want to change things, depending on the subject everyone wants something progressed so the word doesn't really mean … | /r/MensRights | 10/04/21 07:59 AM |
| 23 | I just got told by a fellow man and his girlfriend that men can't be oppressed and that the world we live in is shaped by men's eyes.If 'feeling equal' involves blaming it on men, then yea i do feel threatened by that because it is a threat to me. This isn't about my 'insecurities' this is about actual threat of not being taken away by the police for getting abused. But why are you 'attacking' me, and not one of the points i made. Do you feel my perceived 'insecurities' have anything to do with the Duluth model? As for the patriarchy, yes it is purely fictional. I have never seen or heard of any club of men conspiring against… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 27 | I just got told by a fellow man and his girlfriend that men can't be oppressed and that the world we live in is shaped by men's eyes.Yes, it is most definitely not true that 'men' control 'everything', the whole notion of the patriarchy theory is nothing but a fairy tale. There really isn't any grand conspiracy against women, there never was. Just because someone 'feels' that the rules have been made purposefully stacked against them doesn't mean that they are. In stark contrast however are the rules that are currently made that are purposefully discriminating against men by a group lobbying for these rules. Feminism is doing… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 07:50 PM |
| 33 | I just got told by a fellow man and his girlfriend that men can't be oppressed and that the world we live in is shaped by men's eyes.I think that is a very big leap of faith you're taking here. And even if that is what they meant to say, it doesn't make it much better. Not considering someone oppressed solely because they happen to have the same sexual organs as some backwards bastard three centuries ago that thought up some currently inappropriate rule, seems kind of harsh, to put it mildly. Make no mistake, this is their justification to shit on men, because the people who have written the rules three centuries ago where me… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 20 | As A Group Can We PLEASE Stop Mischaracterizing Feminists?The following is a very informed and highly reusable comment by Karen Straughan in response to a feminist who thinks the many blatant sexists among feminists aren't real feminists: So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum are the true feminist, and the feminists actually responsible for changing the laws, writing the academic theory, teaching the courses, influencing the public policies, and the massive, well-funded feminist organizations with thousand… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 6 | Is trying to hit gender hiring quotas not considered discrimination?All forms of affirmative action are inherently sexist/racist, but for some reason our society seems to think its the best thing since sliced bread. Affirmative action was created in order to make things 'more inclusive' but as with everything else in this world it somehow does the exact opposite of what it is supposed to do. What people often seem to forget is that in every zero sum situation it is impossible to give someone a leg up without discriminating against the remainder of the group. Whe… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Men's say for their child if their mother wants an abortion.A woman can't use her body to reproduce without the male sperm. So what makes you think that a woman could use a man's sperm without his consent. So again, this whole rant of yours is about female bodily autonomy not about the male bodily autonomy. That sperm contribution is often done against his direct consent, but that somehow doesn't seem to bother you. You are ignoring that this sperm is part of that males body, him not consenting in its use should be the end of it. A woman has control abou… | /r/MensRights | 22/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Men's say for their child if their mother wants an abortion.Because only females can have abortions, males can’t, it’s just how unique biological differences are a necessary part of this issue Men should have their opinions heard, I’m just explaining that it being a 50/50 (in turn leaving the ultimate decision also up to the guy) is unreasonable, because of how the man doesn’t deal with the process of being pregnant. He can control an aspect of the woman’s bodily autonomy when that isn’t the case for the woman. The sex and parenthood are mutual yes, the … | /r/MensRights | 22/03/21 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Men's say for their child if their mother wants an abortion.My main argument was regarding how no third party should have the right to force or deny someone the right to an abortion If no third party should have the right to force or deny someone the right to an abortion, then why don't the men have any say? It may not be there body, but its definitely their child. 'Their body their choice' really doesn't hold any water, they had the choice, it is called 'having sex'. As long as we hold men to that standard i really see no reason why we cant hold women t… | /r/MensRights | 21/03/21 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Which men are perpetrating violence against women that makes them scared to go out at night?I'm pretty sure its the boogeyman. | /r/MensRights | 17/03/21 06:34 AM |
| 0 | A Potential Theory For The Male Curfew/Fear of MenNo there really isn't, and their dogma proves it. Do you really think feminism would have come up with shit like affirmative action if they where 'white supremacists'? | /r/MensRights | 14/03/21 06:56 AM |
| 1 | A Potential Theory For The Male Curfew/Fear of MenNo, feminism isn't some white supremacy group, if they where they wouldn't have such a hate boner for white males. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/21 06:51 AM |
| 12 | How do you counter sexist terms like 'mansplaining', 'manterupting' and 'manspreading'?I tell them to stop being so Femotional about it. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Women's safety & the impact on menI'm a woman. Women are scared to go out at alone at night, and I promise you this fear is based on very real experiences and is very rational. Being afraid to go out alone at night isn't based on anything rational, it is based on you being taught that men are dangerous and that all of them are out to get you. The western world has never been more safe than it is right now and men really aren't all out to get you. Blaming all men for something that one person did is just sexist and not really any… | /r/MensRights | 12/03/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?Seek professional help, for your life and language skills. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?Go seek professional help, you need it. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/21 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?You should really seek professional help, don't tell them you are gay though, they might kill you for that in your lovely multicultural country. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?You're so dumb , I ain't American , I ain't European , I'm Asian my man. And an immigrant on top of that too. Right, call me dumb, that will surely sway me... But you're an immigrant so you believe that the rest of Europe should just cater to you and your culture? Don't think that is going happen, specially with that attitude. Also you're so dumb , you do realize that assmilation causes more crime as even you said that they're embracing said country's culture. What a strawman you try to pull her… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?Yea, do delete it. I guess self reflection is too much to ask for.. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?No. You're basically pinning the blame on immigrants even when its non-sensical. Yes! There is nothing nonsensical about blaming people for their refusal to assimilate. How are Second generation immigrants more "trapped" than first-generation immigrants? Because they are trapped between two cultures, their parents culture and the culture they see outside of their homes. Also what about the third generation immigrants? You do realize that they've assimalted more and this assmilation causes more c… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?Why should they adapt to European customs? Because they live there!? Because when they do , when they "assmilate" they commit more crime. And when did anyone but you said anything about crime? That second generation immigrants are often more criminal isn't really up for debate, it is a well known phenomena. That isn't because they have assimilated but rather because they didn't fully assimilate and are often trapped between two cultures. Also multiculturalism is a thing , I don't really see … | /r/MensRights | 10/03/21 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?How is this a reply to what the other poster said? The other poster is commenting on preferential treatment of immigrants by the government and the unwillingness of immigrants to adept to (local) European customs, not about their crime rate. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/21 10:02 AM |
| 3 | Because it got removed from tooafraidtoask I am posting it here since it feels like the only place left to go: Are men, especially white, actually more privileged than women and minorities in this modern social climate?You won't solve them by attacking white people. But this doesn't come close to how the nazis treated the Jews. Granted, the feminazi's aren't rounding up men, but they certainly do blame (white) men for all the woe's on earth. Just like the Nazi's blamed everything bad on the Jews. The problem with racial issue's is identity politics. Identity politics ensures that everything must be viewed through a lens of race, and looking at everything through a lens of race makes one a racist. But somehow t… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/21 09:52 AM |
| 1 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.You're missing the entire pregnancy - You want the man both to have agency over his own body (whether or not/ where he ejaculates) AND over hers. Again, im not 'missing' anything, the thing you are missing is consent of the man. No one forces a women into pregnancy and therefore parenthood, but men are forced into parenthood on a daily basis. You are arguing aginst something that i did not say, please stop that. You are the one arguing that a woman doesn't need consent to use a man's sperm, so a… | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.I would like you to provide a source that indicates marital 'rape' of a husband is not illegal. You do know that is not how the law works, right?? There is no way to provide a source on something that is not illegal, just like you will not find any source that will tell you it is not illegal to say 'hello' to someone. But when grown women can rape children and rake them up for child support when they are 18, just imagine what a wife can do to their husband.. I pointed out there were exceptions. … | /r/MensRights | 01/03/21 07:17 AM |
| 1 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.You say it is not unfair that women have the burden of carrying the child - but that men should have the same choices. So when you have the option of carrying a child (or not) then I agree - it will be your choice to make. But for now - carrying the child is a woman's burden. The choice that men aren't given is the option to not become a parent. Again, the question is:"Why is it too much to ask of women to find willing partners to reproduce with?" So that's the unfair trade-off. The woman is the… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.Please hit enter every now and then, it makes it much more readable. You say it makes more sense for a child to have a father's name for the sake of tracing lineage (and that women may have had multiple partners). I'm not seeing how taking the father's name helps this. Not only that, but especially before DNA testing etc there was really no way to 'prove' who the father of a child was, but we could always be sure of the mother. It has been a well known fact that long before we knew what geneti… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/21 02:34 PM |
| 40 | New Report: Women Apply to Fewer Jobs Than Men, But Are More Likely to Get HiredI see. So when your narrative is destroyed you move the goalpost. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/21 12:56 PM |
| 47 | New Report: Women Apply to Fewer Jobs Than Men, But Are More Likely to Get HiredAre you suggesting that today's society is the same as society a 100 years ago? Do you think that all things that are currently an advantage had the same advantages back then? And most importantly, do you think that working women are taking care of their men the in a similar fashion as men cared for women a 100 years ago? So the answer is:"No". The fact that men had to work to provide for their families a century ago doesn't mean that they had it easier in any shape or form. They only thing they… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/21 12:35 PM |
| 113 | Feminist in a science sub-reddit claims that men are physically bigger and stronger than women because 'of an innate desire to rape' !But one woman is claiming that men are bigger and stronger because 'of an innate (inborn) desire to rape (women)'. This makes absolutely no sense. So, would they also suggest that women don't grow bigger because they want to get rapped? That would be the reverse of this coin, right? I wouldn't know where to begin when someone says something like that, to frame evolution like that only shows their lack of understanding of the subject. If they really want to know what evolutionary rape would look … | /r/MensRights | 25/02/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | To those in this subreddit who are both men's rights advocates and feminists: I'd love to know more!This should explain it: https://www.thoughtco.com/what-is-radical-feminism-3528997 Well, not entirely. The problem i have with that is that even the none extreme feminist still explain everything away with the patriarchy. And i have never seen anything that would suggest that we live in one, to me they are both radical. It almost seems as if the big difference between 'radical' and 'normal' feminism is the fact that the radicals would act more on their beliefs. Sure, the radicals might be the ha… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 3 | To those in this subreddit who are both men's rights advocates and feminists: I'd love to know more!What are the inherent differences between the genders, then? Are you talking about assigned sex, or gender identity? And where do non binary, transgender, and intersexual people fit into all of this? There are many inherent differences between the genders/sexes, not all of t hem are a 100% for everyone, but generally speaking they hold true. Testosterone and estrogen have very different effect on our bodies. This leads to both physical and mental changes relative to each other. This has its impa… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/21 09:54 AM |
| 6 | To those in this subreddit who are both men's rights advocates and feminists: I'd love to know more!I think that's more of a definition of radical feminism and most of the mainstream forms of feminism. So how can these feminist factions be considered 'radical' if they are the main stream? Doesn't that make feminism in of its own radical!? The big problem with feminism is that it is basically a religion, they believe that we live in a patriarchy. Because of this belief they lobby for rules to be implemented that would go against this so called 'patriarchy'. The problem is just that we don't liv… | /r/MensRights | 23/02/21 08:21 AM |
| 8 | How do men fare in Europe?I think it might be even worse in France, isn't it illegal to preform a paternity test in France? I'm not dead sure as im not from France, but i do recall reading about something like that. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.I think there is no other way to call that if im honest. You blame someone who is taken advantage off for being taken advantage off, how is that not victim blaming?etter than men. We will never clearly never agree about what constitutes a patriarchy so I'm going to stop having that conversation. Can you at least explain to me why then, in your view, women and children take men's names? Why was the man was considered the head of the household? Why could men rape their wives? Why couldn't women, a… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.I get the impression you don't know what the word 'patriarchy' means and are just reacting to the sound of the word (masculine) and the fact that it has negative connotations. Assuming someone doesn't know what a word means seems a silly defense here as it is painfully obvious what a patriarchy is, and that we do not live in one. Its not a reaction to a sound, it is a reaction to a meaning. The 'patriarchy theory' as used by by feminism is nothing but a fantasy that has not ever existed. Its bas… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/21 03:02 PM |
| 2 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.You just wrote that men built society whilst trying to deny the existence of patriarchy. Do you not see the conflict there? Nope, because men didn't build society for men, they build it for everyone, so no, it is not a patriarchy if it is made for everyone to enjoy. The definition of 'rape' requires penetration. And that is problematic as they get charged with the broader 'sexual assault' This has nowhere the same social stigma as rape has. And that one country does it this way doesn't mean that… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.Because it was men that died in the wars, it was men that build society, it was men that earned the money, it was man that needed to take care of their families, it was men that where responsible for the actions of their wives, it was men that had no rights on the money earned by their wives eventhough he wives could very much claim their earnings. Why is male rape still not a thing? Why don't males have any reproductive rights in this day of age? How on earth can we live in a patriarchy where e… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.Right, its a victim narrative.. LOL The duluth model isn't imaginary, and it's thought of by women, feminists. But all you can do is victim blame and make ad hominems against me, nothing new though, expected from feminists. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.you literally believe feminists want to kill most men? LOL! you are a conspiracy theorist, but unable to recognize that you have been brainwashed. No, that is you making a strawman argument, i said, just google 'the future is female', it is exactly what i said it is. suicide isn’t women’s nor feminists fault. And another strawman! I said that the problems men have with the high suicide rate isn't because of 'our self defeating attitude'. I'm guessing your next 'answer' is another strawman, you s… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | As someone who has seen both sides of the fence, men really have it rough right now.do you guys ever think to yourselves, maybe this all is a self defeating attitude you carry that becomes a self fullfilling prophecy. Not really, as i see no way to realistically believe that my 'self defeating attitude' is to blame for statistics such as suicide, money allocated for male domestic violence survivors or the insane way fathers are treated in court. My self defeating attitude isn't to blame for my complete lack of reproductive rights either nor is it to blame for the double standar… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Not all men are sick raving sexual predators! (but according to the comments its okay to assume and judge every man for being a pervert)A real doozy... you have privilege because you’re a male, And a sentence later... who is saying all men are inherently entitled? eeeuuuhrmmm.. I don't know but.. aren't privileged people entitled to these privileges? If they aren't entitled to these privileges then how are they privileged? I mean, that is pretty much the definition of being privileged, being entitled to things. Isn't it strange how men are "privileged", but somehow these same privileged men aren't entitled to the things that the… | /r/MensRights | 12/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 5 | How would you guys respond?The privilege here isn't that a women has a better chance of becoming a millionaire through marriage, the privilege is that there is this system in place that allows themone, view that fact as an unfortunate leftover from the old times when women were basically property to their husbands. I don't think it's a good thing for women to have to marry rich to be rich. We should be rich off our own damn hard work. When was this mythical time of men 'owning' their women? I have never heard of any perio… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/21 07:56 AM |
| 6 | How would you guys respond?But the other poster isn't saying that all women are millionaires, he is saying that if you divide the millionaires by sex and look at how they got their money you'll notice that of all these people women got their fortune more often through being married. The thing that all women are privileged to is the system that gave some of these women their riches. That not all women become millionaires through this system doesn't mean that this system of getting money from their spouse isn't in place for… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/21 06:47 AM |
| 8 | This site not only shows the race but the large gender split in police brutality in AmericaWhen 10 in 100.000 people have covid19 it's seen as troublesome (rightfully so), but somehow these numbers are acceptable? What a strange world we live in.. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/21 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Exiting the argumentAt the same time, I recognise I'm never going to change this woman's mind. It feels like arguing with a devoutly religious person. Her arguments are not based on rationality, reason or logic so responding with those things is pointless and I don't want to be responsible for her monopolising the committee's time with her multi-minute diatribes. You don't have to change this woman's mind, you need to talk to other members of this committee. You want her to go on one of her rants, as those perfectl… | /r/MensRights | 01/02/21 07:57 AM |
| 2 | If feminists can use animals as proof of sexism why can't we?That's what you get when you trick men into eating strange apples. /s | /r/MensRights | 31/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Directors, diversity, and sexismI expect some would have responded saying that now I know what it has been like for those that weren't white, male, educated, or straight and we're rejected previously. Yes, some people are racist but that is no reason to become a racist ourselves. These people claiming nonsense like this are no better than the KKK or other racist institutions, the only thing different here is the flavor. These people see racism in everything because they are the ones that are being racist. Thinking that black p… | /r/MensRights | 31/01/21 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Black men matterThe big problem i have with intersectionality is that it is inherently racist no matter how you cut it. It all comes down to racial profiling, but because they think that they are the 'good guys' its somehow okay to be racist. Most of the difficulty that black men face have very little to do with the fact that they are black, the reasons they get in trouble is poverty and them being male. These are the things that are the root of their problems. Because of poverty they'll have much less access t… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | I didn't know these people really existedFor clarity (and hear me out on this), the background to this is we're union members in an industry where the work is publicly seen as desirable. More desirable than it is, really, but that's another story. Almost everyone is self-employed on short-term contracts of a few days to a few months. Hiring is largely based on who's buddies with who. This leads to under-capable people being there simply because they're someone's kid or buddy. I have no problem with the idea that there is ample room for… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/21 10:24 AM |
| 3 | I didn't know these people really existed I'm a very low-level volunteer in a professional organisation which has an overwhelmingly male membership, probably to an extent that, I agree, we should do something about. What exactly is the problem with an overwhelmingly male membership of volunteers? What do they want to do? Ban male volunteers? Force female volunteers? They should be happy that there are people that are willing to volunteer their time, regardless of their sex or skin color. Even if we where talking about paid work then i… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Toxic masculinity ruining men’s mental health. Sexual assault on men is serious too.What you are describing is a gender-role it has nothing to do with masculinity or it being toxic. It is not just men that drive other men into this, it is society as a whole that pushes men into this. I would even argue that it is more the women who force men into these positions. It is not other men that expect men to be strong for their partners, things like this are expected by women of men. 'Toxic masculinity' is a misnomer constructed in order to hide the expectations and preconceived notio… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/21 11:58 AM |
| 59 | Only female students can apply for one of the highest paying job offers in my college.Fun fact, the writers of Futurama had a combined 50 years of Harvard University between them. | /r/MensRights | 19/01/21 07:55 AM |
| 29 | Why is it that so many young girls (and boys) acknowledge feminism is bad, yet say it's ok for men and boys to be mistreated because "we've done it for thousands of years"top 5% men. And the top 5% women, its not as if a queen or highborn woman would not fill a roll of oppressor in those days. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Twox once again defending and this case doubling down on their bigotry.Jesus, you are just a well of hilariously stupid comments. Because calling your bullshit out is hilarious?! You made an assumption about me, I proved it wrong, and made reference to the assumption you made. That's not a victim complex, what drugs are you on? I did not assume anything, im merely calling you out on your bullshit. You saying one thing doesn't erase all the other weird stuff. You are still defending this OP and her sexist shit. Like i said people have a very good reason to doubt wha… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Twox once again defending and this case doubling down on their bigotry.But that doesn't fit into your idea of who I am, does it? Oh look, a victim complex too, who would've thought.. If you don't want people to have such weird idea's about who you are then you should try to not say stupid stuff like: Again, I've already made the point that part of what makes that racist is that those activities aren't linked to blackness directly. Sexism is very much linked to what sex you are. And beyond tweets from idiots, I can't say I've ever experienced racism at the hands o… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/21 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Twox once again defending and this case doubling down on their bigotry.But the majority of whites are criminals in the US. So the majority of whites are criminal? Right.. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Twox once again defending and this case doubling down on their bigotry.Nothing in that post was about men being men. The only one you could slightly argue was about men being men, was the "confronting toxic masculinity" one, and even then, only if you misunderstand and think that term means "it's toxic to be masculine" which it doesn't. It was only about hating men for being men, not that the complains she had were typical of men but rather that she complained about men in general. "tOxiC to be maScuLIne" are just buzz words that have no real meaning other then wha… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Twox once again defending and this case doubling down on their bigotry.So it is okay for white people to say:"Too many black people are criminals"? Do white people have every right to say this? As you know, that this shit does happen.. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Twox once again defending and this case doubling down on their bigotry.Firstly, shitty people doing shitty things is a gendered issue when people do shitty things on the basis of gender. They didn't gender it, it already was gendered. And this is exactly what all the ruckus is about, the whole post is shitty towards men for being men. They were the one gendering it, because they wanted it to be about gender. And I honestly don't know what you mean by "sexist belittlement". I can only speak for myself I suppose, but I didn't feel even slightly belittled. I very much… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/21 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Next time a feminist claims "we see men as predators because of patriarchy, not feminism" send them this.That is why i said that it isn't about being dangerous or not, it is about provoking. It's not about 'suggestive clothing' but rather being provocative. Poking a bee's nest is downright stupid and no one in their right mind would blame those bee's for stinging. But somehow people seem to think that people can't be provoked, and that's just plainly wrong. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/21 08:12 AM |
| 3 | Next time a feminist claims "we see men as predators because of patriarchy, not feminism" send them this.People are scared of sharks because they are dangerous if provoked. If people would just be chill and not provoke sharks there would hardly be a reason to fear them. I do not believe that the problem is the shark being dangerous, the bigger problem is people provoking it. The same thing holds true for all humans, if unprovoked they are generally speaking harmless. But provoke a human, no matter their gender, and you can have a shit storm raining on you in no time. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 24 | Next time a feminist claims "we see men as predators because of patriarchy, not feminism" send them this.The idea of telling anyone to take responsibility for your race/religion/etc. Is not acceptable. It is for people who believe in identity politics, the mental gymnastics are absolutely crazy. they believe that being a racist is bad, and according to them, somehow everyone they see are racist. But somehow they have this deluded idea that them classifying everyone by race and gender isn't racist or sexist.. Identity politics is a blight on society. | /r/MensRights | 16/01/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Reproductive rightsThis is impossible when they disagree. If one wants an abortion and the other doesn't then they can't compromise! One of them gets their way and the other doesn't there is no equal choice available. Thats why i said there is two ways of doing it, either you can force someone into parenthood or you can't. There will always be someone who doesn't get what they want, i see no reason why it always has to be the man who draws the short straw. No. Removing a condom is a sexual encounter that wasnt agr… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Reproductive rightsSo you think it's better to remove her choice than remove his choice. Nope, i think its better to give both an equal choice. The financial liability of 18 years is covered by the paper abortion idea. Only partially, like i stated there is more then money it is also responsibility in general and the fact that there is a child of yours running around without your consent. There is a difference between removing a condom during sex when that was not what was agreed and having sex without a condom/ t… | /r/MensRights | 11/01/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Reproductive rightsForcing her to carry a pregnancy if the man wants her to is taking away her choice though? Ultimately if the two disagree one of them will 'not have a choice' in being overruled by the other. Of the two I think the woman has the stronger case seeing as she is the one who is pregnant. As i've said its not my favorite option by a country mile, but it isn't nearly as bad as forcing someone into paying for 18 years. That's being melodramatic. Assuming the sex was consensual then it is not rape. Taki… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Reproductive rightsIt's taking away the womans bodily autonomy in order to give the man autonomy over his sperm.. Its not taking away a womans bodily autonomy to a point where she doesn't have a choice, unlike the situation we now have where the man doesn't have any choice. Frankly once the man has had sex from a biological perspective his input is done. In an ideal world the parents will agree to abort or continue. When there is a disagreement the woman should imo have the final say as it's her body the fetus is … | /r/MensRights | 10/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Reproductive rightsI'm not saying that 2 is my favorite one, but these are the only two options that are somewhat fair. Circumstances aren't fair because the rules we have made up aren't fair, it isn't unrealistic to change them. Right now men do not have any reproductive rights, and male bodily autonomy is pretty much none existent regarding this subject too. You are right in saying that it is the woman who gets pregnant, but the only way she can get pregnant is when she gets sperm donated from a man. I do not be… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Reproductive rightsIt is the same conversation, reproductive rights are intertwined. The problem as i see it is the lack of bodily autonomy of men and their sperm. A man's sperm can be used for impregnation without their consent. The way i see it there are two 'fair' ways of doing things. We uphold everyone's bodily autonomy, but this means that a men could force an abortion. If having children is supposed to be a choice and having sex isn't the same as wanting children then a man should be able to object to the u… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/21 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Mother who tried to drown her newborn baby in McDonald's toilet avoids jailPsychological state is absolutely taken into account during criminal investigation. Not really they take mental capacity in account not psychological state. Your mental capacity might be compromised because of your psychological state, but they aren't the same thing. A person can still have the mental capacity to understand that what they are doing is wrong while having a compromised psychological state. But a person can't have their mental capacity compromised to a degree that they couldn't hel… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/21 02:41 PM |
| 11 | Mother who tried to drown her newborn baby in McDonald's toilet avoids jailWhy would they take her psychological state into account? We do not take psychological state into account with any other crime. Sure, there is mental capacity that is taken into account but not psychological state. If psychological state was deemed a reasonable defense then we should have much less harsh sentences all around. I do not believe that there is any murder committed by someone in a healthy mental state nor is any crime committed by a drug addict done in a healthy mental state. There a… | /r/MensRights | 08/01/21 10:10 AM |
| 61 | "I'm good at playing a convincing villainous character"- Amber Heard. Yeah, no shit.Her playing a good person would be acting, her playing a villainous character shouldn't be considered 'acting' for her. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/21 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Every time I see a woman instructing me how to think or speak about gender I immediately think sociopath or ultimately feminist.I don't see any reason to use female as a noun. I do not see any reason not to use female as a noun either. Sometimes the words 'male' and 'female' are just more appropriate to use then the other options. "4 of my coworkers are men and 5 of my coworkers are women" just doesn't sound as good as "I have 4 male and 5 female coworkers". | /r/MensRights | 04/01/21 08:54 AM |
| 8 | My opinions on feminism/men’s rights etc;Why isn't it acceptable to be anti feminist when feminism is an ideology based on hate filled rhetoric? How is it possible to point out feminist flaws when doing so is described as being "anti-women"? Being anti feminist has nothing to do with being against equality between the sexes or being against women. Firstly because feminism has nothing to do with equality between the sexes and secondly because feminism actively hinders all forms of mens rights gatherings or concerns. No one here wants a … | /r/MensRights | 31/12/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | "Feminist next door" with nearly 300K twitter followers -infecting the mind of hundreds of thousand impressionable young people no doubt with her bitter bile.I don't think that splitting up gay's into groups is very helpful, to me it sounds an awful lot like gate keeping. Like you said, we can't look inside someones head so assuming that one gay is different to another seems unreasonable to me. If homosexuality was 100% genetic then the twin studies would not have shown that only 85% of their twins are gay. Them being identical twins means that their genetic information is similar, so if being gay is 100% genetic then these twins should all be gay an… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/20 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Can we start using the term fake feminist for people who are out to seek anti-equality against men?There are real feminists who are fighting for real issues all over the world, they deserve the right to be acknowledged. There aren't feminist who are fighting for real issues all over the world, that some of them might do something every now and then doesn't mean they deserve praise. I've seen you bring up SA and how this women got jail for wanting a passport among other things. The fact that you have to go to SA in order to make some sort of case really shows how little women around the world … | /r/MensRights | 29/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 3 | "Feminist next door" with nearly 300K twitter followers -infecting the mind of hundreds of thousand impressionable young people no doubt with her bitter bile.But that doesn't really show that homosexuality is purely genetic in nature, it is an indication that homosexuality can be genetic in nature. That there is a genetic component doesn't necessarily mean that there has to be a genetic component in all cases. Human beings are very impressionable and our environment does a lot to shape who we are and what we like. It isn't unthinkable that some outside sources could have an influence on some peoples sexual preferences. Sexuality is a big part of huma… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/20 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Is the phrase "toxic masculinity" sexist?We probably disagree on the definition of sexism. I think a person is sexist if they think people are of different worth or should be treated differently because of their sex. Being wrong on a factual question doesn't make a person sexist. Being wrong on a factual question doesn't make a person sexist, believing that men are oppressors is sexist. As feminist dogma states that men oppress women they are sexist as they believe that men are different and are treated differently. Feminism has been t… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/20 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Discussion with my friend about self-defenseMy friend continued arguing that since men are stronger they should learn restraint instead of being aggressive because one day my brother in an act of self defense might kill someone and so to avoid that he should restrain himself. So, she is sort of right. I mean, men are stronger on average and we need to be able to learn restraint in order not to do stupid stuff. BUT, this girl being pushed also has to learn that if she gets physical that she'll lose when the guy she got physical with return… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 4 | Why male circumcision should be delayedRight, just like removing your arms will also prevent you from breaking them. But that really doesn't matter as cleaning yourself should be done regardless. I don't know wtf you are talking about but i have never in my life had any problems with bacteria collecting there. If your hygiene is really that bad for this to happen you'd be smelling weeks prior to that. Why would anyone put maggot inside their skin, or their on their penis? Do you stick maggots up your butt-hole every other week? And i… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Self awareness of individual activistsThat is not true, in 1776 some man got the right to vote, this was coupled to property, in reality very few people could actually vote. The first female voters in the US are about 1870 iirc, some states allowed for everyone to vote (mind you just white people), some only allowed men to vote and in some only land owners could vote. Male only votes were often limited to males that did military service and was seen as a reward for their service. Only in 1918 could all men vote in the US, right alon… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 01:10 PM |
| 5 | Self awareness of individual activistsThis isn’t a woman’s hate group, this is a men’s rights page, bashing feminism constantly is not advocating men’s rights. Firstly, bashing or rather calling out feminism isn't the same as 'hating women'. Not all women are feminist and not all feminist are women, this seems very obvious to me. Secondly, feminism deserves every ounce of flak it gets, its a conspiracy cult that is taken seriously by the powers that be. Thirdly, this 'bashing' of feminism consists of pointing out blatant inconsidera… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/20 12:44 PM |
| 2 | A response to the feminist critics of the male psychology network (good article in general about mens issues)I generally do agree with this but, Another comment made by the opponents of a Male Psychology Section is that a feminist approach to masculinity will help men more, and therefore the Male Psychology Section is not needed. This really isn't something that warrants any rebuttal. First they will have to show that the "feminist approach" to masculinity will help men at all, let alone more. The "feminist approach" is a 'nice way' of saying 'It's man's fault", feminist often hail their dogma as 'an e… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/20 12:23 PM |
| 3 | How can we make circumcision illegal?FGM became a problem in the UK because it was women that were targeted, as the MGM problem is much larger then the FGM problem ever was. It is just that MGM isn't seen as a problem as it is done to males. It didn't matter that FGM wasn't done by white Brits, it still got banned even though it was only practiced by minorities. The backlash they fear most is the religious ones, not only is the debate something they rather not have (can cost them money), but they fear terrorist actions as well. I'm… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/20 11:21 AM |
| 3 | How can we make circumcision illegal?Oh, i do agree with you that there will be a backlash, but im saying that they'll lose, at least in western society. There just isn't any justification for this practice, it violates bodily autonomy in the name of someone else their religion. The problem is just that politicians fear the back lash of the by you mentioned people, but the politicians also know that when it gets to court there can only be one outcome. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/20 11:03 AM |
| 9 | How can we make circumcision illegal?That is not what was asked, what is asked is why this only applies to boys and not girls. FGM is done on religious grounds as well, yet this is (rightfully so) prohibited by law. Your freedom ends where someone else their freedoms begin, bodily autonomy is one of these freedoms. This is the freedom that prohibits FGM, yet this somehow doesn't prohibit MGM. If you put a law into place that specifically targets a religious practice that harms others then there is a precedent to abolish this religi… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/20 10:55 AM |
| 3 | How can we make circumcision illegal?You are right, there will be a religious backlash, but they don't have any grounds to stand on in my opinion. They'll argue about rights and how their religion has customs and yadda yadda, the thing is just that their child has rights too, and by performing a circumcision they are actively violating his rights. You can not wield your rights over another human being, if they believe that they should be circumcised they should feel free to do so once they are off age. Religious freedom is about be… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/20 10:48 AM |
| 13 | This isn’t about rights but a question about circumcisingIt is frowned upon when it is not medically necessary. Having your genitals cut when you are born for no other reason then culture or religion is straight up abuse. I've heard many excuses from seemingly magical protection against STD's (it doesn't protect against STD's, the study that claimed this is still cited while it has been shown that the study was flawed from the core) to blatantly claiming that 'it looks better'... Just imagine the outcry there would be if a man would claim that 'scarre… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/20 11:11 AM |
| 17 | "A White Privilege List Applied to Gender" - why are feminists so oblivious to this and push or deny these prejudices? Toxic feminism.Racist articles are stupid, who would have thought... Saying "white people are privileged" is just as racist as saying "black people are criminals". The whole "white privilege" is exactly the same as "male privilege", neither of these things grand any privilege. If you really want to debunk 'critical race theory' then all you have to do is look at the law, both being a male and being white are groups that you are legally allowed to discriminate against. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/20 04:24 AM |
| 9 | Apparently we should only teach men to not rape, and men can’t argue with women until they have the fear of walking home alone at night, despite the fact we are more likely to be murdered'Do not argue with stupid people, they'll drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.' | /r/MensRights | 10/12/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Should men have a say in abortionControversially, I question whether bodily automony is an absolute right. Exactly! This is the right question to ask! And to add to this comment, where is the male bodily autonomy when concerning pregnancy and rape? Somehow it is okay to use a males sperm to become pregnant against the mans wishes. The reason sited is always "because its not part of his body anymore". Well then, i would like to see someone running away with a finger tip that used to belong to someone else and can be reattached. … | /r/MensRights | 09/12/20 06:47 AM |
| 4 | Should men have a say in abortionI agree completely, but pointing out that there are situations where men's rights to bodily autonomy get violated does not mean we should also deny women that right. Two wrongs don't make a right. It seems to me that bodily autonomy isn't really that highly regarded when it is seemingly okay to not honor male bodily autonomy. I'm vigorously opposed to infant male circumcision, and educated my wife on the subject prior to the birth of our son, who remains intact until and unless he decides to m… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/20 06:20 AM |
| 2 | UK: Eton parents fear their children are being 'indoctrinated' by a 'woke political agenda' at the exclusive school - with one young pupil left asking 'is it okay to be a boy and like rugby?' after lesson on 'toxic masculinity'I really don't think feminism is causing homelessness though. Feminism is actively trying to shut down male domestic violence shelters. There are men that got homeless because of the severe lack of help available to men in domestic violence situations. I would argue that feminism is causing these men to be homeless. Then there is the problem of feminism actively protesting getting homeless men the help that they need because there are still homeless women. Like, for example, the idea that the ma… | /r/MensRights | 08/12/20 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Time's Up charities set up by celebrities as part of Me Too movement spent $1.4m on salaries, $157k on conferences at luxury resorts and and just $312k helping victims of sexual harassmentYes, and it is problematic, generally speaking the accused isn't the one damaging the companies image. It is the accuser that is doing that, the company should go after them and not the accused. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 10:01 AM |
| 6 | Time's Up charities set up by celebrities as part of Me Too movement spent $1.4m on salaries, $157k on conferences at luxury resorts and and just $312k helping victims of sexual harassmentHe isn't the one bringing detrimental publicity to that school, the one sending him away is. If the school wants to take action against someone for bringing detrimental publicity to that school it should be action taken against the people making the fuss. He wasn't the one saying something 'tremendously racist' or anything like that, that some hardcore feminist aren't happy with it doesn't suddenly make it sexist or racist or demeaning to minority groups or anything like that. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/20 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Thanks for being good sportsIt’s centered around the female being IN WHAT SENSE. In EVERY sense. Why is it believed that a woman can’t be an abuser. Who said that women can’t abuse men and what is their reasoning? Feminist do because of biology. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/20 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Thanks for being good sportsAs i've said, because our society is centered around female well being. This pretty much rules out the patriarchy theory. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/20 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Thanks for being good sportsBecause our society is female centric, our society protects women whenever they feel they have a grievance. That doesn't sound like something a patriarchy would do, does it? | /r/MensRights | 27/11/20 06:31 AM |
| 9 | Equality of norms for achievement: What happens if men's norms don't keep up?To some extent, I think norms in the past have not supported women's achievement and advocacy for equality had merit. When was this, the neolithic age? No really, this narrative really pisses me off and i think im going into rant mode to tell everyone why. First and foremost it is a biological thing, throughout history it has been men who made things happen. This isn't because men were somehow 'better', but because men had to do it. Men were the ones that had to provide because the women were ve… | /r/MensRights | 25/11/20 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Female coworkers wanting to make men’s bathroom coed for their convenienceShitty tip, get soap that looks like jizz, tell all male coworkers to spray the seat and stall with said soap. Be sure to reapply the soap when you cleaned it off for use. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/20 09:13 AM |
| 3 | This image posted as "wholesome af" on imgur. Its about murdering men.The comparison isn't in the actions that occurred at the time. It's the fact that in both instances, how we talk about it today, we'd be glorifying the slaughter of men. I'm not sure your personal views on the subject, but I don't think the average soldier deserved to die - lots of (imo) innocent men were slaughtered during any given war. But you can't compare how we react to it today without comparing the actions that occurred during that time. The reason we react the way we do is because of th… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/20 08:39 AM |
| 3 | This image posted as "wholesome af" on imgur. Its about murdering men.I agree that war stories are not wholesome - however, growing up there were many men who had served in various wars, were willing to talk about it and around remembrance day people would listen to their stories - my question was if people responding to this positively and considering it whole is misandry. First, im not downvoting you, don't know who is.. I'm sorry but that is a stupid question, how would it be misandrist? There just isn't a comparison to be made between the two no matter how har… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/20 07:24 AM |
| 5 | This image posted as "wholesome af" on imgur. Its about murdering men.Yes, I'm comparing one situation where "murdering men is wholesome to talk about" because a soldier did it to "murdering men is terrible and misandrist to talk about" because domestic abuse victims did it. I'm not comparing the actions, I'm comparing how we, today, are discussing it. OP said murder is never justified. Well, that's probably not true. Its not 'wholesome' for a veteran to talk about their kills either, most of them still don't want to talk about it because they are still fucked up … | /r/MensRights | 19/11/20 06:34 AM |
| 4 | This image posted as "wholesome af" on imgur. Its about murdering men.Are you seriously trying to compare a war veteran killing in wartime to someone murdering their spouse? Just a FYI, men during that time couldn't divorce either, should they be excused for murdering their wives? Its not as if it was only the men who abused their spouses, women are just as bad in DV situations. And of all the choices you've brought forth, the 'killing your husband' trope is the worst one of them all. If you don't want to be in a situation you leave, you don't go around killing th… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | What's your opinions on the stuff that these people said about sexism against men?"If men have always been valued less, suffrage would never have had to happen. Historically, they had greater pay, the right to vote, the right to work as a parent, the right to own property, the right to get a loan. In the West, women were prohibited from fighting on the front line until relatively recently. You can't compare male to female here because women were prohibited from doing the role anyway." Yes, this is a lie. Men didn't had the right to vote, some man did but only when they had a … | /r/MensRights | 16/11/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | The Vice Presidency is being handed to Kamala Harris for being a womanWhen it's justified by biology: e.g. taxpayer funded routine prostate checks for men, breast scans for women, higher pension ages for women because of their longer life expectancy and need to put in more years to pay into the system to compensate for taking time out in mid-career, bias towards men in training courses that cost the taxpayer large sums of money (e.g. medicine) because men are more likely to justify the expense by working their entire careers as doctors, when one sex only needs pro… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/20 09:06 AM |
| 7 | Views on feminismDo you self-identify as a feminist? No How do you define feminism? A female lobbying group that is funded and supported by government. How do you view feminists? The ones that want equality are misguided as feminism isn't about equality. The ones that spout feminist theory i view as delusional as these theories are mostly angry manhating rants that have nothing to do with reality. Do you perceive conflict between feminism and heterosexual relationships (romance and sex)? Not so much a confli… | /r/MensRights | 11/11/20 08:12 PM |
| 0 | What my boyfriend thinks about MRM.Government intervention is fine, government intervention based on a racial theory is not. | /r/MensRights | 10/11/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | What my boyfriend thinks about MRM.It is short term across generations. But that doesn't make it short term for the people who have to live with it. By those standards slavery can be considered short term too. I mean, this makes it legal to discriminate on sex and race, but somehow its magically not sexist or racist because the people who feel this way dont find it sexist and racist. Let’s say we have a deficiency of men in the nursing industry (we do). It will take 20 years for the percentage of men in nursing to rise by only 5%… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/20 08:52 AM |
| 1 | What my boyfriend thinks about MRM.Which civil rights in particular? I believe in building disadvantaged groups to a position of social, professional and political equality, even if that requires short term disadvantage to previously privileged people. It’s short term pain for long term gain. There is no such thing as a "short term disadvantage" when we are talking about social, professional and political equality. People just have this one life, it might be "short" on historical levels but people can't get a do over when they ar… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/20 07:15 AM |
| -1 | Petition to have Amber Heard removed as the L'Oreal SpokespersonFirst off a general note to all the subs regulars, stop downvoting comments like these! You might not agree with them, but there is no need to downvote people that want to engage this sub in civil discussion. I believe that there are basically two different kinds of feminists, there are the 'true feminist' and there are the 'feminists by association'. The 'true feminists' are the ones that hate men, subscribe to the patriarchy theory and are generally speaking not very nice people. The 'feminist… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 6 | Women's Groups Push To Keep Domestic Violence Exclusive To WomenGoing by this logic there should be no consequences for murdering someone, because it really doesn't happen that often. Come to think of it, rape doesn't happen that often either. Just look at the number of consensual sexual intercourse a day versus the number of rapes... That isn't really logic, everyone knows it, but somehow these feminist think its a perfectly good reason to deny men basic human female rights. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/20 07:50 AM |
| 229 | Men afraid of women at workSo. How would you approach that problem (men silently ignoring women, because they are afraid)? Men can't really approach that problem any other way then ignoring women silently. Its a damned if you do and damned if you don't kind of thing. While im very aware that feminism is about women's issues, the thing is just that when we are talking 'about equality between the sexes' then that is somehow the thing that feminism stands for. Feminism doesn't champion equality between the sexes, it wants ev… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/20 11:33 AM |
| 4 | After four years of a custody dispute the (psychologist) mother loses custody to the father. Mother, 7-year-old twin daughters found dead in Whatcom County double murder-suicideThat.. That is just mind boggling.. That part about 'strong objectivity' is downright scary misandrist. If im understanding their point they are saying that being objective is hard as there always is a bias. I mean, sure, but their conclusion about the bias is just bonkers.. They basically say that their bias is somehow a good thing because it strengthens their beliefs and therefore its somehow 'more true' then 'men's' goal to have research be as neutral as possible. Granted, the other links are… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/20 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Don’t ask working-class boys to apologise for ‘white privilege’, experts warnOne of their tactics was their "reefer madness" campaign, that was based on racial tensions of the time.about having racist reasons to make pot ilegal) That is a half truth. I'm sure there were some people who wanted it abolished because of racial reasons, but the driving force was the cotton industry. Hemp fibers are far more superior then cotton fibers. They are more easy to grow, they are stronger and more durable, the only thing that cotton has over hemp is the way it can be processed. Becau… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/20 08:17 AM |
| 4 | How do I as a woman, go about protecting my rights in a way that doesn’t also oppress men?Well for one I'm taxed for pads and tampons even though it's not my choice to have a period. Men are taxed for shaving products, something they have to use far more often then women have to use pads or tampons. Its not a man's choice either to have a beard. The point im making is that everyone has to pay tax over hygiene products, exempting just female products would be sexist. So instead of campaigning for female hygiene products to be exempt of tax, you could argue for all hygiene products to … | /r/MensRights | 16/10/20 08:47 AM |
| 3 | About false accusations, and "innocent until proven guilty", if there was an actual victim who came out to say someone assaulted them, why should we still prefer to believe a possible rapist than someone who most likely did get assaulted?I agree that the way to go is to punish false rape claims, the thing is just that there needs to be evidence. A lack of evidence for rape doesn't mean that its a false accusation just like it doesn't mean that a lack of evidence means that it was rape. The whole nature of rape makes it a hard crime, usually sex happens with just two people this makes it hard to determine what actually happened. I think a good option would be that proven false rape claims should have the same punishment as the ra… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 3 | About false accusations, and "innocent until proven guilty", if there was an actual victim who came out to say someone assaulted them, why should we still prefer to believe a possible rapist than someone who most likely did get assaulted?This is my plea: stop politicizing rape that doesn't affect you. I really do understand that rape victims are the ones that draw the short straw in all of this. The thing is just that its not only the rape victims that draw the short straw in this, it is all men too that draw the short straw. The problem to males isn't as much the politicizing of rape that is the problem, it is the weaponizing of rape that is the problem. This makes it that most rape cases affect men personally. Rape is often de… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 08:37 AM |
| 5 | How Feminism Ruins MoviesDon't forget dr. Who, they straight up murdered that one. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/20 12:19 PM |
| 29 | This article says that misandry and misogyny should be treated differently when it comes to hate crimesIsn't it strange how feminist have no problem to blame the victims when the victims are male. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.Well I don’t think anyone denies it has benefits I do! It has no benefits at all, lets be honest, easier hygiene isn't a thing. You'll still have to wash yourself and its not as if that second of pulling back the foreskin makes things that much easier. It doesn't protect you against STD's, the "study" that is cited has been debunked over and over again. They actually gave condoms to the people they cut and instructed them on how to use them turning the "study" effectively moot as they didn't pro… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 10:59 AM |
| 3 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.I'm not the one taking things out off context, you are.. but I don't want this to be a source of contention that she'll resent me for. Screw that. Let her be resentful, if the child was a daughter, she would be appalled if you said you wanted her clitoral hood removed. This is what was said, and you come in with: “Let her be resentful” have you ever lived with a woman that resents you? This sounds like the opinion of someone who is not married. You are talking down on him like he is some kind … | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 10:11 AM |
| 2 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.We all know more than a few men who may smell of B.O. on the regular or don't probably keep even dental hygene up to snuff. And i know just as many women who have exactly the same hygiene standards, on that notion, would you say FGM should be reinstated? | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 09:53 AM |
| 15 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.Exactly, in my whole life i have never felt the need to chop off part of my penis. It seems odd at the very least that others would have a problem with not cutting off part off their own penis. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 09:48 AM |
| 8 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.Are you serious??? You know around a 100 babies die each year from MGM, so that seems like a big health issue to me. Then there are numerous instances where there are complications during surgery, sometimes babies even get their penis amputated by accident. Cutting into a perfectly fine baby is never without risks. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 09:40 AM |
| 2 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.No no and no. You go re read OP's fucking statement. My wife has always believed that circumcision is healthy and hygienic. When I said otherwise, she backed her argument based on some random articles that she read. She couldn't remember which ones they were or how to find them so I haven't read them. This right here SCREAMS red flag, if some women's magazine that she can't even remember is worth more to her then her husbands wishes to not mutilate their baby then pissing her off is his last con… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 09:34 AM |
| 2 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.“Let her be resentful” have you ever lived with a woman that resents you? If this isn't eluding to that then i don't know what is. You realize the point I’m making is that it’s not a realistic scenario for this to not be discussed prior to getting married or having a kid. Do you realize that the point the other poster was making was that the wife being resentful isn't that big of a deal if it means that his son is still in tact. And no, most people do not discuss genital mutilation before they g… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 09:18 AM |
| 2 | I need help convincing my wife not to get my son circumcised.So to you its better to mutilate your child's genitals then it is to piss off your wife? There isn't a third option here. Some hills are worth dying on, your child's bodily integrity should be one of them. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/20 09:03 AM |
| 36 | Alice Coffin, french feminist assumes her misandry and considers that "it's not enough to help each other, we need to eliminate them (men)".Just a thought, if she doesn't want to make use of the things that men have made then i would suggest she refrain herself from using the internet and everything that is used to write. She should really stop reading books, not use stores and not live in a modern home. When cooking she would do well to not use modern kitchen appliances and only use a campfire, that is, only if she is able to make fire without modern tools like a lighter or matches. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/20 11:58 AM |
| 8 | False Rape Accusations (Men)This was brought up and I were told that approximately 2-3% of rape is false and confirmed false. However, I thought this was a false statistic. The devil is in the details, what they are saying is true, but a half truth. What they are saying with this statement is that of the 100% of the rape cases they came across there where only 2 to 3 % of the cases were proven to be false claims. But of this same 100% of cases you'll only end up with 5% conviction rate, these are cases proven to be correct… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/20 09:07 AM |
| 7 | I'm not very good at articulating myself against this slander against this community, so I'm going to just put this here.Well, i haven't seen any books from MRA's that are saying that being shitty to women is okay. Have seen plenty of feminist books that say that being shitty to men is okay. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 11 | I'm not very good at articulating myself against this slander against this community, so I'm going to just put this here.When a few people of a whole movement are shitty people then you can say those people aren't part of X movement. When half of the movement is shitty and is writing books about how its okay to be shitty against group X, then saying 'those people aren't part of our movement' is a no true Scotsmen fallacy. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/20 08:59 AM |
| 5 | I just found out a woman can cheat on you, tell you a child is yours when it's not and then keep you on the hook for 18 years of support even after you prove the child is not yours.Family courts are courts of equity and if the biological father is not produced, the courts may completely overlook your victimization because the court is focused on the best interest of the child. The problem is that they aren't focused on 'the best interests of the child' they are focused on the best interest of the mother. It really isn't in the best interest for the child to have a father that doesn't care about them and actually resents them for excising. And can you really blame the fathe… | /r/MensRights | 21/09/20 09:27 AM |
| 2 | I am a man therefore I am a criminal.Please remove your email address, even though this sub is relatively safe, you shouldn't post personal information like that on reddit, ever. | /r/MensRights | 18/09/20 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Examples of the media characterizing deaths of women as more severe than men?Some of them yes, but a lot of them have been killed. To quote a bit from my linked article On February 25, between 40 and 59 children were killed by the fundamentalist militant group. Early that morning, Boko Haram terrorists attacked a boarding school and shot many of children, aged 11 to 18, while they slept. Some of the students were gunned down as they attempted to flee. Others had their throats slit. In some buildings, Boko Haram militants locked the doors and set the building alight. The … | /r/MensRights | 18/09/20 04:23 AM |
| 17 | Examples of the media characterizing deaths of women as more severe than men?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chibok_schoolgirls_kidnapping#Events_in_2014 The 'bring our girls back home' campaign from 2016, what is never really told is that before this happened they first targeted boys. These boys weren't kidnapped, they couldn't return home as they were dead. https://www.mediaite.com/online/why-did-kidnapping-girls-but-not-burning-boys-alive-wake-media-up-to-boko-haram/ This is what happened to the boys, but there was no outrage, no nothing. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/20 01:20 PM |
| 11 | Guy is asshole for not wanting child when gf said she would abort itThe best argument against this is, 'then there is no need for abortions to be a thing'. Clearly if a woman doesn't want to have a child she shouldn't have sex. It is not something i subscribe to, but, if this is how these people want to play it then they are either sexist for not wanting men to have a financial abortion or they are the sexist for not wanting women to have access to abortions. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | My friend is being 'cancelled' for something his accuser admits didn't happen. I've been pretty close with this guy for years and this all seems completely crazy.I’ll say this again. Being impartial applies to both/every party. Victims need to be heard and the accused needs to be treated exactly like that, which is ACCUSED. Very different from being proven guilty. The problem lies with the pitchfork mob mentality where the accused isn’t treated fairly, neither in court nor the court of public opinion. Yea, being impartial applies to both/every party. What is very damning though is the fact that this women got out the pitchfork. If she truly thought this … | /r/MensRights | 15/09/20 08:36 AM |
| 2 | australian feminist accidentally admits workplaces and universities are anti-male in australiaIts the same thing no matter where you look, women will only do the harsher jobs if there really is nothing else for them to do. It is a form of protectionism that we can not seem to get rid off. | /r/MensRights | 14/09/20 11:49 AM |
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