| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Unsuccessful Date | Field Report | Inside-Respond-7442 | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:29 PM |
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| 1 | Unsuccessful DateYou'd want to actually find out whether the woman has a high level of attraction to you before trying that, though. Most men don't have women with a high level of attraction, unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 05:38 PM |
| 1 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]IDK man, there's a 5'11 guy I know and everyone mocks him for his height. They call him "big boy", "little man", etc. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateIt more comes down to how attractive she finds you. "And guys, for some reason are masters at creating the most banal and uneventful dates because yall care about creating the cheapest and most low effort dates on your end. (Not cuz im trying to make yall feel bad cuz I get it. You are paying and planning and it can become tiresome) but then for us yall all end up on the same page ablut what a low effort, just getting to know you, cheap date is. Therefore all of you, loke 90% of yall end up taki… | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateSilence your insolence. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DatePlenty of dates go well, too. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateSilence your insolence. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateIDK man. I remember a friend of mine saying that if you get rejected then you should just KYS or give up. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateIDK man. I remember a friend of mine saying that if you get rejected then you should just KYS or give up. | /r/seduction | 03/01/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateWhat would a therapist do? She rejected me and I had to live with that. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateThen why did women tell me that I am a "friendly vibe" or that I "didn't possess a spark/connection" following dates in the past? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateHow? So I should have taken her to some silly meal when I had food at home? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateWhy? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateThey indicate trends. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateI didn't waste anyone's time other than my own. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateDo not speak to me in that insolent tone. Your attitude and mindset barely matter on dates anyway. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateNo, because she replied to something else. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateWhy would I smile at someone? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateDidn't have a choice. What other reasons could there be? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateNot really. I was quite sweaty and didn't find her very attractive. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | My first cold approach (20M, college)Because I've been rejected in the past. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateHow did it happen to you? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateA woman literally left our date after a few minutes in August and blocked me after. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateA woman literally left after a few minutes of us meeting in August and blocked me. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateWhy would I take her to a meal? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:17 PM |
| -1 | Unsuccessful DateWhy would I do that? What do I get? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Unsuccessful DateI don't think this one was particularly attracted anyway as she didn't answer my question as to whether she got back okay that I sent two days later. She did say that I seemed very disappointed when we met and I didn't really look at her, though. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateBut women have told me that I didn't have a "spark/romantic connection" following dates. They are saying they want future dates to fail. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:10 PM |
| -1 | Unsuccessful DateBut I've had unsuccessful dates in the past so why would this be different? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Unsuccessful DateWhy? I knew it wouldn't work out and so it happened. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:03 PM |
| 1 | My first cold approach (20M, college)Good for you. But I don't even approach as I know it won't work out and will be a failure. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:55 PM |
| -2 | Unsuccessful DateWhy? Because I don't want to do a food date and pay for her meal? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:53 PM |
| -3 | Unsuccessful DateWhy would I go to eat on a first date? I could have gone to a supermarket and bought her back I guess. But a restaurant? No fucking way. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:49 PM |
| -1 | Unsuccessful DateI have had unsuccessful dates in the past so I knew it wouldn't work out. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Unsuccessful DateBecause I have had unsuccessful dates in the past. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:47 PM |
| -2 | Unsuccessful DateWhy would I eat food with her at a restaurant or similar? | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:47 PM |
| -8 | Unsuccessful DateWhere and why would I get food with her? Other than inviting her to mine. "Why did you go in already negative? She travelled a distance to see you… You need to fix that before you go on dates in the future." Because I've had unsuccessful dates in the past. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:44 PM |
| -10 | Unsuccessful DateNothing else to do. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:39 PM |
| 1 | 20+ Hinge dates , 0 second dates [ SF ]A lot of women on Hinge are pretty delusional. I wouldn't worry too much. | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?That's not altering my body's literal capabilities, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulShow me where I'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulIn the UK and the US. Women also consider any man approaching them as harassment. Hence why women say they don't want to be approached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?I use a condom. If she gets pregnant then I need to bear the consequences. There are no alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?Because I don't believe in altering my body's natural capabilities. I don't see any reason to take birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulFor what bit? Look at the MeToo movement and on here. Women continuously say that they don't want to be harassed (i.e. approached or spoken to by men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulIf women are going to get you thrown into prison just for looking at them or talking to them, then yes you have every reason to be scared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Male spaces are infected with the “Men are victims” complex.No different to feminism then... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulIt wouldn't make a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulNo, it's the truth. Millions of men are thrown into prison each year for talking to women. Women overwhelmingly do not want to be approached by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 06:50 PM |
| 10 | Is dating in Europe via dating apps better for men?Women in the UK are completely delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 07:08 AM |
| 3 | Dating Apps Sound Dreadful"If it’s the latter, what are you so scared of? Women are simply people. They are not going to get you thrown in prison for talking to them." Yes they will. Women want to humiliate men and get the ego boost out of some simp approaching them for validation. That is why they tell men that they didn't feel a "spark/connection" following a date. They want him dead. Just avoid them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 07:01 AM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.Do you believe that "game" exists and men should read both Robert Greene and Mark Manson to get any woman they want? I'm willing to be proven wrong, I just refuse to believe that "confidence" is the most important thing and matters more than looks. If a woman rejects me, do you honestly expect me to believe that it's down to my confidence? Women make up their minds about you within a few milliseconds. If I "shoot my shot" and get turned down, it had nothing to do with my "confidence", mindset or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulBoth have about as much likelihood as having a positive experience approaching a woman in a romantic or social setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill."Duh! Of course, when you are not attractive to women you like, then you need to learn what you need to change in order to become attractive for them. That can be done by books way better than by social media and "red pill creator content"." You either have it or you don't. Behaviour barely matters as women judge you on your looks. Imagine being so pathetic that you think buying some books will make you attractive to women "Most men are in committed romantic relationships with women. 70% of men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulMovie and dinner? Women will see you as a corny clown and rightfully so. Apps are absolutely fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Fix your Incel mindset before you go and seduce/harass womenYour mindset makes very little difference. | /r/seduction | 25/11/25 02:02 PM |
| -1 | Dating Apps Sound DreadfulTbf the fear of thrown in jail for talking to women is a legit concern in many places. It can certainly happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.But why would I read a book from people who don't know anything about dating/sexual dynamics? Mark Manson has never had success with women, whilst Glenn Geher has never had success either due to his disgusting looks. Why take advice from guys who can't even get any? What sense does that make? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:40 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill."Are you red pilled or nah? Those books are just red pill knowledge. They are not dating coaches." It's really not complicated. She either finds you attractive or she doesn't. If you need to put in effort or "read books", then she's not attracted. "Successful = getting what they want. Be that a healthy romantic relationship, or satisfying sexual encounters with people they desire. How do you get female friends? You seem to be one of the hopeless kind of men. Autistic? Bullied in school? What did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:30 PM |
| 0 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.Yes, it is. Women view men who approach them as desperate losers. Game doesn't exist. You are literally telling the woman that she is above you and that you are unlovable by approaching her. If she were attracted to you then she would approach YOU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 05:31 PM |
| 0 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.Approaching is by definition simping. It puts the woman on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Are male virginity stats true?Yet you're the troll who thinks that most men don't struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Are male virginity stats true?No, this actually happened. People do stuff like this to try and prevent men from shooting their shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Are male virginity stats true?A place where common decency is a thing. If a man is rejected by a woman, then he has lost at life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Are male virginity stats true?I remember this guy who got rejected at a bar. Everyone laughed at him for months. They would pelt him with banana peels, eggs, apples, etc. and call him a loser. He was harassed for ages. He eventually had a mental breakdown from the trauma and bullying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.Also, I looked at "art of seduction Oxford handbook of human mating Geher and Kaufman" and it's 150 fucking quid! I could get a decent brass for that. There's no need to overcomplicate things. The woman either finds you attractive or she doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.I mean, women should be attracted to you without having to learn these nonsense books lol. If you need to go to a dating coach, then LOL. Would you say that "game" is a real thing? "And having an active social life with romantically and sexually successful friends of both sexes" Define successful. How do you even get female friends? All women can be sexually successful without any effort. "Build your self-confidence as a priority, with the help of your friends." Why is this important in your opi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?Most men are unlovable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.It's worth telling men that the woman they are with isn't special and is replaceable and so should treat her that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.Out of interest, what would you say is a good source of advice for men when it comes to dating women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 03:08 PM |
| 0 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.Men shouldn't approach, though. It just makes you look desperate and the woman automatically knows she's above you. You are simping by putting her on a pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are using condoms?Sometimes. I should be using them more, admittedly. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:23 PM |
| 0 | How to look more sexually appealing as a woman.Men typically have very low standards. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:11 PM |
| 0 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.Women view men who approach them as desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 02:06 PM |
| 3 | is there a solution to this duality?Typical shaming with no real solution. Why should men approach women? For what purpose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:08 PM |
| 2 | is there a solution to this duality?The fact that women are even complaining that men aren't approaching them is absolutely hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 10:17 AM |
| – | In what situations would you classify a man as a "beta"?If he gets bossed around by his wife/gf, is a cuck, can't fight, physically and mentally weak, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths.Men generally shouldn't approach as it just ruins the market. The woman perceives you as a desperate loser if you approach her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Biggest reason men are mad at women? Miserable paths.Why should men approach women, though? Why is it an issue if fewer guys approach women, particularly if women don't want men approaching them at all? You talk as if being confident would make a difference. By actively approaching her, you are really putting yourself in a submissive position and telling her that she's above you. She will see you as desperate. If anything it's a good thing that fewer men approach and that women complain about it as it means that women are gaining less power. Unfor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:19 AM |
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