is there a solution to this duality?

I was scrolling through reddit, and I began to realize, in Gen Z both young men and women are struggling to form actual relationships but are facing very different problems in doing so.

With cold approaches being dead (which is a good thing, as no more cold approaches makes for a safer society and less creeps), the cesspool that is dating apps (never under any circumstances go on a dating app), and an overall antisocial generation Z, there are basically no ways for young people to meet others and find a partner.

And the way it is effecting men and women is very different in my observation.

Young men express that they don't know where to organically meet other young women and are unwilling to cold approach because that method as mentioned earlier is long gone, and for good reason. Even in the rare event that they organically meet a girl they like, they have no real way of initiating anything.

Young women on the other hand, express that they are unwilling to initiate or approach to any degree, and despite the clear evidence that guys no longer approach, they complain that young men won't approach them. Now this isn't all young women but it was enough for me to notice this pattern. And above all, there is still the antisocial generation problem that is plaguing young ladies in this generation as well. Everyone is so glued to their phones and ear buds and there are no ways to organically meet people anymore. It seems like gen z doesn't want to talk to people anymore.

So on one end you have the men who can't express interest, and on the other end you have women who won't express interest because they are waiting for someone to express interest in them.

And both young men and women are victims of the antisocial generation so there is no socializing and as a result no organic way of everything just falling into place.

Now I understand what I said does not apply to all young men and all young women, but I have noticed this pattern in both, and felt it was worthy of noting. Obviously there are many exceptions to this, but I am simply sharing a recurring pattern I have seen in both young men and young women, both online and my irl experiences/obersvations as an individual from generation Z.

but the question here is, what is the solution to this duality, because both ends of this are faced with 2 very different problems both causing the same consequence.