IntelligentVariety64 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	I feel like I can't be happy single 6 months out	IntelligentVariety64	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/22 02:24 PM
7	can I get child support?	IntelligentVariety64	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/22 05:56 AM
3	Epo filed against me	IntelligentVariety64	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/21 01:22 AM
1	Gathering evidence, need advice on how to get video	IntelligentVariety64	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/22 03:45 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Emotional/Verbal Abuse and Custody (Texas) Hey I went through it and came out with full custody so I'd love to help you. PM me if you have questions. My wife went off the deep end mental health wise and then left me to move in with a married couple to be their mistress. She was trying to move our kid into that situation and was incredibly neglectful and had rage outbursts directed at our toddler. So from the very beginning I fought for the visitation to be supervised, but eventually she got unsupervised but with stipulation that she can'…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/22 05:47 PM
3	Gathering evidence, need advice on how to get video It's just a brick in the wall of the main case I'm going to make against her, she's violating the custody agreement and im trying to get evidence wherever possible. I'm not worried about money spent. My goal is to get full custody if possible, but as much as I can get is the goal. She's an abuser and bad for our child so I'm trying to minimize the damage my child will go through with her bullshit. Our custody hearing is soon, so I've been preparing to drop the evidence and the full story on that…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/03/22 03:10 PM
1	Things women do/say during divorce. It's unbelievably common among women mostly, and yes it's very messed up. The affair partners were mutual friends too.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/22 12:27 PM
4	What is controlling? Is it controlling for you to want a partner with common sense? Nope Is it controlling to demand your partner do something? Possibly, depends on what it is and the reason. But the main thing is, you can't change anyone who does not want to change on any level. That means you simply need to vet partners well enough that they match your desires rather than trying to change them (cus you can't)	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/22 03:28 AM
3	Things women do/say during divorce. Her: I just need to be alone for a while. Her: literally jumps into a relationship the same day we separated It seems like hypocrisy to us because we are on the other side of it, but what it really is is an elaborate lie. They may or may not be doing it consciously, but it's a lie to save face. Like in my example, why would she ever tell me, someone she obviously hates and abuses, that she left me to pursue a relationship with her affair partners? It'd make her look horrible and it would make me…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/22 01:45 AM
2	I feel like I can't be happy single 6 months out I'm actually happy most of the time by myself and prefer to be by myself, my issue is that my physical needs aren't being met. No amount of loving myself will fill the need for physical connection and sex.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/22 06:12 PM
2	I feel like I can't be happy single 6 months out I don't want pay for sex, honestly that would destroy my self esteem. I have considered doing little trips to more urban places to try the hookup scene.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/22 04:30 PM
2	A little shallow ik but it sucks even more when your wife was a hot piece of ass Everyone makes mistakes man, I wasn't the best husband either, I should have helped more with our son despite me being the breadwinner, and I didn't spend time with her like I should have. I wish I could go back and take her out for picnics and late night walks instead of choosing to play video games instead, hindsight is 20/20 and I just have to accept it's too late, but I've learned a lesson. Youre right, when someone you love leaves you it makes your remorse for your mistakes hurt 100x more. …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 09:55 PM
3	A little shallow ik but it sucks even more when your wife was a hot piece of ass Hey man sounds like you're close to where I'm at right now. I got a new job, make more money than ever, everything's good except I'm lonely af. However, I have made an effort to talk to women and let me tell you dude it's been a huge confidence booster, you should really try it! You will be rejected, but not by everyone. You will find that woman who wants to go on a date, then go from there, and you will be filled with confidence. I live in a rural area and there's no bars/clubs that anyone actu…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 04:41 PM
2	A little shallow ik but it sucks even more when your wife was a hot piece of ass I know your pain brother, my wife was the perfect woman for me physically, breathtakingly hot. I just don't find anyone else comparable, but then again I was with her for 9 years so it's expected that I'd become super attached. Lack of sex has been a huge issue for me after divorce because I have a high sex drive and I was having sex at least twice a week while with her, now I haven't had sex in months. I've had women say they want to have sex with me after a couple dates but for one reason or a…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 04:30 PM
2	The D Day of divorce. How did it go down for you? Yup somehow their shitty decisions and unhappiness with themselves is your fault... Fuck that! I see right through it, glad you have the same attitude!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 03:53 AM
2	The D Day of divorce. How did it go down for you? She had been having verbal abuse blowups with our son and I threatened to divorce if it didn't stop. After that she completely checked out emotionally and wasn't paying any attention to our son (she was a full time sahm). A week later I tell her again she's been neglecting our son despite me helping her more than ever, then she just says "I haven't loved you for a long time and I can't handle being a mom anymore. Being a mom was the worst mistake I ever made." I told her if that's true then she …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 02:30 AM
10	Hate women after divorce There are great women and there are shitty women, just like there are great men and shitty men. Most people of both genders make shitty partners, let's be honest most people in general are selfish and will hurt others for their own gain. In America the legal system favors women, if men were favored the majority would be just as selfish and shitty. Hate bad women, not all women.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/22 02:21 AM
1	How much custody should i get? She is the one who decides if it will be amicable, you fight for what you want and she can fight for what she wants. If she throws a tantrum so be it, she isn't your problem anymore. The only person whose actions/feelings you can control are your own, she is your enemy now whether you like it or not. Once custody is set in stone it's near impossible to change, so fight for what you want now not later! also a big consideration: you seem to think if you give her full custody her mom will mostly be…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/22 12:41 PM
1	Did you want the house? Why not? As long as you've replaced all reminders of the ex I don't see why thatd be an issue.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/22 07:05 PM