| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 28 | Men who are into younger women age gapThey peg you? | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 09:55 AM |
| 113 | This subreddit is full of creeps90% of the users in this sub are dudes who aren't getting laid. 9% grifters trying to sell their "coaching services." | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 01:22 PM |
| 13 | How much the game changes for short guys, when they gain muscles?Those who say it doesn't help just want to believe it doesn't, because they don't want to go to the gym. Of course, if you're muscular and insecure, the insecurity repels women. Working out does two things: improves your confidence, and your physical appearance. More energy in the bedroom as well. Anyone who says it doesn't help doesn't know what they're talking about. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone think the "nice guy syndrome" thing is total bsYou don't seem to understand what a "nice guy" and a "good guy" are. So my conclusion is girls don't really care about the difference of a good man and a nice guy. Your conclusion is incorrect. Ask a bunch of girls to explain to you the difference between a "nice guy" a "good guy." Then ask them if they would ever date/have sex with a "nice guy" long-term, rather than the "good guy." Bring popcorn. (If you can't ask this to a bunch of girls, you're probably not in a position to give an authorita… | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Stupid simple natural seduction method that no one talks aboutKind of bad advice. Kind of creepy. To get a girlfriend, fine. If you genuinely like the hobby, you might end up burning through girls, and also losing the group. As soon as you have sex with one of the girls, others will eventually know (she will talk, or how you interact with her). If you have sex with more than one, there will be jealousy and they'll turn against you, and your reputation will suffer. No one talks about it because it's a shit tactic. 😂 | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 08:16 AM |
| 36 | How to introduce (the good type of) handjobs?If she doesnt wanna give you a blowjob or handjob You didn't read the post. I said I don't want a handjob if she offers it. This girl is simply not sexually attracted to you. Most girls don't want to fuck all the time. Stress from work, being sleepy, menstrual cycle, life. If she offers a blowjob instead of sex, all good. I'm probably going to get downvoted for this, but your "she's not attracted to you, get another girl, she should be begging to suck your dick all the time" just sounds like fak… | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Buzz off. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Want to date models. If you haven't dated models, specifically asked not to know your opinion. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Nothing to do with insecurity, you idiot. I don't like eating pussy of which 100+ random guys fucked raw/came in. If you like eating filthy pussy, eat as much filthy pussy and cum as you want. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks for the input. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks for the female input. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Didn't ask for unsolicited advice. Mainly for health reasons, and I enjoy eating pussy. But you do you, muffincakes. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Wow, thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?I also think similarly in regards to dating/sex. Don't know why you're getting downvoted so much (maybe because of the many OF mentions). | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:23 AM |
| 6 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?You don't have experience with models and highly attractive women. How the fuck would you know? | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?I like eating pussy. My health is also very important to me. Condoms offer complete protection only against HIV. Some strains of HPV literally give women cervical cancer. I don't want to be a carrier. Personal choice. If the girl isn't committed to safe sex, then you should be concerned. Well, yeah, if you'd have sex more than a few times, or attractive girls (your comment gives the impression like you haven't), you'd know someone with a high or even moderate body count has had unprotected sex m… | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks. Username checks out. Man for the topic. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:58 AM |
| -1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?I'll do and think how I want, thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks. What would you say some of these factors would be? | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Stripper friend being offered hundreds or thousands over and over again, and sticking to her principles and remaining faithful is pretty crazy. That takes a lot of self-control. Thanks for the input. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks. Good points. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?No limit is definitely a factor. I'd say it depends on the person, if they go for "I have no limit, I'll fuck whoever and whenever," or "I have no limit, I'll be more picky." | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Thanks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?My question was about models and highly attractive women. Yeah, you do need to know and have experiences with similar people to know such very personal details. Otherwise, it's just a guess. And no, models aren't "exactly the same." Contradictorily, right after, you say "everyone is different." 😅 | /r/seduction | 30/09/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do women ignore me after a one-night standSex was bad on your part? | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 12:12 PM |
| 1 | The whole dating system penalises men so much. My god!!!Stfu. And I'm an artist. I paint 100,000 pictures a day (with AI). All me. 😂 | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 01:53 AM |
| 7 | The whole dating system penalises men so much. My god!!!That is 100% written by AI. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Insecure betas (personal/work environments)That's not at all what I asked about. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Some women & dating secrets by OG PUA95% of this post is bullshit. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Insecure betas (personal/work environments)I know how to write and use punctuation. It's not difficult. Two people in 5 minutes. Does AI use "WTF" and talk about betas? No, it doesn't. Second part sounds like trying to be fake and appease to pressure/intimidation. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Insecure betas (personal/work environments)Wtf are you talking about? I didn't use AI. I know how to write. Based on your post history, you're a weird ass troll. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Insecure betas (personal/work environments)Huh? | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 05:04 AM |
| -3 | It's mind-blowing the amount of double standards many women have—solutions?😳 | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Online dating is bsThis. Waaaay too much investment before meeting her, OP. Low-time/risk/energy investment before you meet and get to know her. Before that, she's just pixels on your phone. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 07:42 AM |
| 1 | HSV (herpes)Sample size of one (and a few people). Plus, that some people with a small body count have HSV says nothing about the prevalence of it in a population. The statistic is that around 67% people have it. Your barstool math is garbage, but you don't seem to realize it. You are really clueless how statistics work. Plus, you can barely string a correct sentence together. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 05:07 AM |
| 2 | YSK: Unmatch girls on Tinder a bit after you have their contact details or go on a dateI mean, when you break things off. If you're still matched, they can abuse the Report function. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | HSV (herpes)You said the % for herpes is inflated: now eliminate anyone married/not available, not cute, not single, annoying, fat...etc..... Your "re-adjustment" of the prevalence of herpes is one-sided. You only talk about old/unattractive people, married, etc. You don't take into consideration that anyone who has had sex with 10-40+ people, or is sexually active, the prevalence of that population will probably be 70% or higher. If you don't take into consideration both sides, your "re-adjustment" is nons… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | HSV (herpes)It's probably low for unattractive people. Sure. You didn't say how it's probably extremely high for people who have slept with 20-40+ people. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | HSV (herpes)They don't test for HSV, because 70% of people have it. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:27 AM |
| 3 | YSK: Unmatch girls on Tinder a bit after you have their contact details or go on a dateAngry girls definitely use the Report function. Tinder doesn't tell you when someone has done that. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:21 AM |
| 1 | YSK: Unmatch girls on Tinder a bit after you have their contact details or go on a dateWtf. You don't "owe a conversation" to someone to unmatch them a hook-up app. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons why you shouldn't feel bad about dating apps and should approach in real lifeAnd? | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexBye loser ✌🏻 | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 03:08 PM |
| 0 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexYeah, and it doesn't stay that way, does it? Bye bye loser... | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexThanks for saying what my relationship is. She said herself we're not a couple. Do you want to correct her as well? Being a boyfriend implies many things, and responsibilities, like having to meet friends and family, and much more. Which I don't have to do. You can deny an exclusive FWB exists all you want, though. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 12:57 PM |
| 11 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexBecause this sub is 80% filled with virgins and simps, just arguing together, to feel like they're "accomplishing" something, when they're scared to just talk to a girl, so they don't. 5% is grifters selling products/coaching. And 5% is people actually getting laid. Other 10% is AI bots. (Downvote me all you want, it's still true.) | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexI agree. I still wrap it during her supposed ovulation cycle. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 11:33 AM |
| -17 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexYou're assuming a lot based on very little. And being a clueless condescending know-it-all at the same time. She knows I'm moving to a different city in some months. Starting an official relationship makes no sense, which she said so herself. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 11:32 AM |
| -30 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexKind of. It's a level below. Much more casual. No meeting parents, obligated outings, fewer expectations, those kinds of things. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 09:49 AM |
| 15 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexWorking two jobs, plus graduate studies. Agree with you about condoms, but that's an advantage of an exclusive relationship. On pill and both tested, so it's clean and safe. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 06:19 AM |
| 21 | Exclusive with a good FWB, but not high enough frequency of sexOn the 💊, tested, and skin-to-skin. Plus, I have a crazy schedule right now. Don't want a girlfriend, though. Good type of setup for my current circumstances. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Going to the gym is a game-changerIncrease in muscle, but especially testosterone (and confidence). It shows in your body language (why guys also respond to it). Regarding your question, in psychology, there are two main approaches to reducing fear: Massive exposure Progressive exposure The first one can backfire for some people. It can also work and result in very quick progress. Second one is usually effective for most people. Maybe start approaching so-so girls and build up from there. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 06:04 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons why you shouldn't feel bad about dating apps and should approach in real lifeHow do you know that? | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 04:36 AM |
| 4 | Is Studying 'Game' While in a Relationship a Form of Cheating?Some of the worst advice on here comes from those selling PUA products. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 04:36 AM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons why you shouldn't feel bad about dating apps and should approach in real lifePulled out receipts, now all the naysayers are quiet, haha | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Boats, Planes, & Surfboards: How Do YOU Navigate the Ocean of Dating?How the heck did this post get 534 upvotes in just a few hours? And only 20 comments (most of them being the OP)? | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Instagram—how to avoid similar issues?What do you mean "follow baddies"? I'm talking about chatting up lots of attractive girls, resulting in too many attractive girls that I follow/following me. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Instagram—how to avoid similar issues?Following girls I approach. Why would I follow a bunch of OF girls? 😅 | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Instagram—how to avoid similar issues?What's your usual reply when they ask you for your Instagram? | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Instagram—how to avoid similar issues?I haven't encountered anything as crazy as I described, but girls losing their shit when breaking things off is pretty common. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Everything (and I do mean everything) you need to know about how to approach womenOr they wouldn't approach at all. 😜 | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Everything (and I do mean everything) you need to know about how to approach womenI think it depends on how attractive the guy is. And maybe not a full jump in front, but slightly get in the way. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | How To Learn Pickup - A Roadmap That Illuminates The Road Ahead.Yeah, and he's 53. He has maybe 10-15 years left of life in him before he clocks out. How many thousands of hours did he waste doing those 10,000 approaches? | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How To Learn Pickup - A Roadmap That Illuminates The Road Ahead.I'm not talking about you. FFS. I'm talking about how your "advice" is false and also how it's received. Your whole narrative of doing 4,000-8,000 approaches is completely pointless and misleading to most reading your post. It's the old grinding PUA mindset used to sell bootcamps. but it works just well for other people. No, it doesn't. Barely anyone is doing 4,000-8,000 approaches. If they are, they have no life, and are burning through girls. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How To Learn Pickup - A Roadmap That Illuminates The Road Ahead.is banking the most money for his future and his retirement. Someone who is doing 8,000 approaches has no life. He's definitely not banking money. You are spending more effort creating a rotation I literally told you I'm not rotating girls. Seriously, for someone who has done 8,000 approaches, you're not that good at conversation. I would appreciate it more if you have told me the concrete method of what you're talking about so I can replicate your method I told you already. How have you done 8,… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?Huh? Mind writing sentences that are grammatically correct? Or that aren't off-topic while you're at it. | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 03:47 AM |
| 2 | How To Learn Pickup - A Roadmap That Illuminates The Road Ahead.You say I'm a beginner because I haven't approached 4,000 women. Yet I get laid multiple times a week. Not new girls every week either. Quality, not quantity. Here's the thing: someone who is approaching 8,000 girls is barely getting laid in contrast to the time and energy he invested. He isn't banking money for his future and his retirement. And probably doesn't have much going on in his life, other than hitting on thousands of chicks. A PUA brainwashed guy who hasn't anything tangible to base … | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 07:37 PM |
| 3 | How To Learn Pickup - A Roadmap That Illuminates The Road Ahead.I don't go to clubs. I meet girls in real life. When I text girls, I'm not one guy out of 40 that approached her. She also remembers me, because she wasn't dancing or getting drunk with her friends. So my sex to approach ratio is in the low double digits, rather than 1:100 or 1:400 like you seem to be suggesting. And I don't need 100 dead end phone numbers in my phone to make me feel like a PUA either. What you're doing is definitely not like quality German engineering. If someone is talking to … | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 01:27 PM |
| 3 | How To Learn Pickup - A Roadmap That Illuminates The Road Ahead.If you have to do 4,000 approaches, you're doing something seriously wrong. Even 1,000 approaches. Are you not getting numbers and dates out of those approaches? Someone who works on improving their life and themselves—and is actually is going on dates and spending time with women—will not have to do 1,000 approaches. Approaches are mostly your inner self shining through. If you're not personally attractive, have nothing going on in your life, skinny and dress like shit, no amount of fine-tuning… | /r/seduction | 05/04/25 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?More related to inner game, down-to-earth solid advice. Confidence, honesty, etc. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 10:36 PM |
| 5 | What can we learn from the latest Caroline Winkler videoAI slop? | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 12:12 AM |
| 6 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?People don't want communities to turn into self-promotional circlejerks. | /r/seduction | 01/04/25 11:53 PM |
| 16 | Most guys don't believe in seduction, and this puts you ahead of them all!A lot of the advice on here is so cringe and try-hard. | /r/seduction | 31/03/25 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive womenNo, I think we just have similar ways of thinking and approach to dating. We were the only two opposing the ideas in the "you have to stop everything in your life and do thousands of approaches to make it with girls" thread. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | If you don't make this a lifestyle you'll never succeedYou're assuming a lot. And by the way, what's up with all the bolded dashes to separate almost every sentence of your comments? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 01:50 PM |
| 0 | If you don't make this a lifestyle you'll never succeedI'm sure the guys doing 10,000 approaches aren't enjoying the "thrill of the chase," like you say. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive womenInteresting. I'm having serious difficulty in that area. Mind saying how you usually end things with a girl, that isn't being an asshole, like you mentioned? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 01:34 PM |
| 0 | If you don't make this a lifestyle you'll never succeed"Ideologies." Ha. If you've got your shit together, and are confident, you don't need to practice approaching 10,000 women. You practice on the girls you're sleeping with. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive womenAnd since I’m not an asshole when it ends, they always come back making the options at any point 200-300. This is what I want to know. How do you end things amicably, which results in them coming back? | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Why I stopped approaching women. And how that gave me relationships as well as unlimited access to attractive womenReads awfully similar to the comment I made an hour before your post, OP. Haha. Good stuff. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 01:02 PM |
| 4 | If you don't make this a lifestyle you'll never succeedYeah, the old PUA lifestyle and "bootcamp" mindset, to get dudes with no social life to get riled up, and thinking it's all about approaches, so that they hand over a bunch of cash. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 11:51 AM |
| 6 | If you don't make this a lifestyle you'll never succeedComplete nonsense. You're making it into this huge thing. You think you need to do a 1,000 approaches to "progress." However: - Dealing with your inner shit - Building a solid life for yourself (decent place to live, hobbies, a social life) - Working out, basic hygiene, good clothes - Having good friends - Having basic confidence And also approaching girls you see during your day-to-day life, or when out with friends (which you say this is a "half measure" that doesn't work)... ...would be 10 ti… | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on dating coaches.Yawn. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 07:56 AM |
| 0 | Opinions on dating coaches."Other coaches shaved YEARS off of my learning curve in a single night of working with them." Complete BS. | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Opinions on dating coaches."Shaved YEARS off of my learning curve" BS copywriting. If you're rich, a coach is a good investment. If not, it's a waste of money. Rather than working 100 hours for a few hours with a "coach," spend that time approaching girls and going on dates. 100x better | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 06:00 AM |
| 2 | What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results?1 is complete nonsense. So is 2. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 07:26 AM |
| 1 | What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results?"Use an AI to improve your social skills." FFS, just talk to people. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 07:11 AM |
| 3 | What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results?Gotta be good in bed for a start. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 07:09 AM |
| 4 | What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results?Exactly the type of reply I was looking for. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Women have become the bane of my existenceMakes sense. Enjoyed the conversation. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Women have become the bane of my existenceYeah, even extremely hot girls with uninteresting personalities I lose attraction. They need to have both. However, wondering if a guy would be both interested in you physically, as a person, is attractive/well put together, but due to working 70 hours a week isn't interested in a serious relationship—how would you view such a man approaching you (say you're single)? | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Women have become the bane of my existenceThanks for the comment. Enjoyed reading it. Question: how would you view a guy who's both physically attracted to you, and also attracted to you as a person/your personality, but not interested in a long-term serious relationship? Say handsome, funny, well put together, but works 70 hours a week (and you're single, for the sake of the question)? | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you hit on girls that work in service ?That it's human-to-human interaction doesn't make it not fake. They're talking to you because they have to, technically, at the risk of losing their job if they don't. They're doing it for their job, for money, and like you said, being nice for more money, as tips. So if you flirt with someone working with the public, their reactions are very likely not genuine. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Do you hit on girls that work in service ?"Help build confidence and you'll get practice." They're working. Give them a break. Plus, if you need to practice with people who are paid to talk and be nice to you, it's fake/forced interactions. EDIT: I guess some who like to "practice on" service workers don't like what I said. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 09:54 AM |
| 27 | Do you hit on girls that work in service ?Plus, they probably get hit on 10-100 times per day, every single day. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 04:18 AM |
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